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The 29 truths article is spot on. You don’t get traction because you’re not feeding the Chad fantasy. My experience is youre dead nuts on what it means to be a modern player with a bit of age on him. Can you write up or point me in the right direction for what appropriate club etiquette is. I’ve got a few available within about an hour, one I’ve heard talked of in decent regard. I’ve held off paying the single male premium. Winter is making me stir crazy so I’ve been giving membership serious co…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/19 02:09 AM
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I’m mixed on law 38. Blending in is useful to a point. Eventually you have to decide if you’re in the middle of the herd or the front. Once you go up front blending in no longer is an option. That’s when you realize not everyone is gonna like you & thats ok. I like myself so cool. That said on most contentious topics I bow out of the conversation vs putting out my true thoughts. It’s not worth the effort or arguments. I get my jabs in subtly. The play here if you want to switch social circles is…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 12:42 AM
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I used the blame taking in corp life today. Proceeded to get past the bs and on to resolving the issue vs fingerpointing away a meeting. Powerful stuff actually
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 11:32 PM
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Your writing implies you think you’re now better than other people. While that certainly may be the case it’s not helpful to have this internal condescension poisoning your wellbeing. Focus on your inner game. Get to the point where you can know yes I am better than others without being a douche about it. You’ll have to hold the conflicting ideas of yes I’m better than others & no one really matters in your head. You might be hot shit yet you just aren’t a big deal in the grand scheme of things.…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 11:24 PM
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pleasure of a womans true submission Once you taste that sweet drug you can never go back.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/19 01:24 PM
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Why are you restricting LTR to monogamy?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/19 07:59 PM
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Whats your body count dude
/r/TheRedPill04/01/19 07:57 PM
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Here’s the answer She wants to be on the winning team. The best player just got sent to the minors
/r/askTRP04/01/19 05:10 PM
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Dale carnegie is useful for general social skills. Realize it’s BP oriented. Doesn’t mean you cannot apply what is useful. Making friends and picking up gals are two separate skill sets. They overlap some but they are polar opposites in other aspects. In a non-sexual setting, building consensus can be an effective strategy. In a sexual situation you’re not going to convince a girl with words to bang you that wasn’t already into you. No desire is negotiated. See the difference?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/19 04:06 AM
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Overall its nitpicking. Look at the pareto here. Related- for night game walk in with a half-smile or a smirk, something that shows you’re happy and fun. If you obviously wanted to go for it and chickened out yes you just stepped on your dick. I have locked eyes on a gal on entrance, did the shoulder pat thing to get past her for a drink & crowd working to later open her. Usually something simple like hey I saw you on my way in whats up. The delay builds up some excitement & mystery.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/19 03:32 AM
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Bang isn’t horrible. Worth picking up, pay roosh if you pirate it first. Haven’t read the others Bang taught me: “Can I use your restroom?” and the esp game. Tell them to pick a number between 1-10, they usually pick 7. I said no fucking way when I read that. Lo & behold its a safe enough bet to pick 7. Humans are weird.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/19 03:25 AM
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Your title doesn’t match your body. Your metaphors are bad, especially the weightlifting. Lifting through legit pain is a great way to end up with a lifetime ticket to snap city. That said this feels like you’re trying to force it. Like the whole essay was a buildup to your paragraph bagging on betas. Most of the traits you present as laudable are really taking on the master’s chains willingly. Still makes you a slave if you put them on yourself. Do not agree that I am subservient to my mission.…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/19 02:33 AM
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My man that is a shit metaphor. You don’t just throw a random bait in the middle of the lake and hope any old fish will come by. You hunt the type of fish you want to catch. You find predator fish like bass in the weeds and lilies and use lures or baits that mimic their prey. You hunt for scavenger type fish with bottom set baits and what they prefer to eat. So yes you do specialize your strategy to the type of fish you want to catch. Fishing is a meta skill that encompasses many unique speciali…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 02:40 PM
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The sidebar doesn't focus enough on certain key concepts, which is why newbies read it and still feel lost and confused. I view it as survival of the fittest and/or the motivated rise to the top. TRP is a drive to action. Lift, game, win (eventually)
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 12:12 AM
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This is not a controversy. OP is simply incorrect. We as a community don’t need to decide anything. We as a community share what has worked for us. Men swapping notes & connecting dots. You as a consumer of TRP have to put the tools presented to you to the test. You can pick and choose the ones that suit you. You get a bit of guidance and direction, then you go try the tools in the real world and decide. As you gain experience you’ll understand the nuances. As you gain experience you will learn …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 11:18 PM
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It’s faster and far more productive to find a woman who is into you vs the effort it takes to get a fencesitter on your side. That’s why you polarize quickly to determine where the interaction stands. It’s a two way street: I’m testing her, she’s testing me. Now both of us would prefer that the other passes, we hit it off & have a great time. The reality is that doesn’t always happen and definitely wont happen 100% of the time. So if there’s clear disinterest you’re just not her cup of tea for g…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 10:49 PM
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You’ve nailed a draft in my folder: the pursuit of perfection is the ultimate buffer Here’s the punchline: you are good enough for any woman merely by existing as a man. we complement each other, it’s what we were made for. if you find fault in yourself that stops you from taking action, then remove the roadblock that stops you from taking action. In other words, any action that moves the ball towards the goal is a positive action. Any action that does not move the ball is a negative action. Exa…
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:53 AM
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Anyone is capable. Most are unwilling to actually put up the effort. Age is not entirely relevant. It is easier for me to envision a long term goal as an older man than in my youth. I’d say that’s in favor of older men making a drastic change. I lost a bunch of weight in my early 30s. I was freshly single and got myself down from 36” pants to 32”. Eventually got in a relationship and fell into the fat boring beta family routine. At the end of that relationship in late 2016 I had a select few pai…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 02:15 PM
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You gotta get out on your own. You’ll never be an established man until you do. You have some things going for you that you haven’t even considered. You don’t have kids and very little ties. That means you can move just about anywhere to leverage your skill set where the income vs COL is more favorable. Most of your arguments/problems while valid can be solved by coming at them from a different angle. No housing available? Move somewhere with plenty of housing.. so on and so forth. Think about w…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 01:42 PM
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stay in your lane man. the reality is you guys are an affair to each other. you need to establish your personal boundary here and get your head on straight. that’s completely separate from the family that you each have. idk if you got kids or a decent wife in the mix. It’s possible but highly unlikely you’ve had an affair for 5 years without your wife knowing. If your wife has chosen to cast a blind eye that means you’ve won her over to accepting her role beneath you. As a late 30s guy the only …
/r/askTRP30/12/18 01:13 PM
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Idgaf who she has. Her problem not mine I know I’m not hers, it’s just her turn with me Stop with the faggot bs take back your life
/r/TheRedPill28/12/18 09:57 PM
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You wont find “friends” in a bar. You can create a social network that is useful for a number of reasons. You have to get yourself out there tho, chat up the dude besides you, make jokes playing pool, etc. Build up some social credit then start leveraging it for better returns. tldr: go talk to people (anywhere) & make human connections
/r/TheRedPill28/12/18 09:34 PM
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downvoted by poor saps who haven’t had a gal let loose with them. Gals do love sex more than us. We get a one & done. I can put them in endless orgasm state till my forearms give out. Who has more fun?
/r/TheRedPill28/12/18 09:29 PM
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I suggest you extend this thinking to the next step. It’s not (implied fake) game vs high value. Its external validation vs internal validation. External validation will always be appreciated and desired. If that’s your only source of validation then that’s when you get needy/unattractive and all the other bad things we advise to avoid. When you have a foundation of internal validation, any external validation becomes icing on the cake or just a nice little bonus to your day. You studied pua gam…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/18 05:51 PM
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Pfft escalate if you want, you’d be surprised how many taken chicks just want a good dicking. Taken chicks are normally less drama if you can handle it morally. If you cannot, then don’t bother. Otherwise it’s shooting fish in a barrel. Edit: IDGAF what your moral standing is here. Just let it go not worth discussing the morality of the situation. Only matters if this falls within your personal code.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 04:55 PM
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You’re doing this wrong. Try this Stare into her eyes with strength. In a deep commanding voice tell her cum for me cum for me now. Helps if you got a free hand pinning/holding her down Yes I’m fully aware that sounds autistic af written out in words outside of the sex act. If that is highly incongruent with you it wont work. If you use your strength and dominance it fits right into the moment. If you’re fingerblasting a gal you should feel her contract when she cums. Try tickling her cervix whe…
/r/askTRP23/12/18 02:41 AM
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now is the time for male tampons to really make a splash You sir are a gentleman, a scholar & a genius. now to figure out what I do with tacticalsuppository.com Or I just spent $13 for a joke. Tots worth it
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 08:16 PM
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The last paragraph strikes true from the personal experience of the ups and downs of my life. I can’t say when the flip happened. One day I just realized that I had my mental origin mostly in place. I don’t believe in absolutes as in rarely do I think I’m right, just less wrong than I was previously. There’s a certain grateful humility that comes from abundance. That last sentence sounds like a dumb minions meme from fb taken at face value #blessed. What it means is I’m extremely happy to be ali…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 07:26 PM
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You’re a binary sperg moron. I point that out in the hopes you’ll take notice & listen to the message to grow yourself. If not fuck it come work for me I can use a couple more solid drones Ain’t got jack shit to do with political parties. Conservatives are the people who want to do nothing more than follow the ruts in the road just like their dad. Progressives are the ones who say kick the whole fucking cart over. Red pill says hey lets find another way to get there fuck those guys and their mes…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 12:53 AM
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Dating apps value engagement over connecting you with a human. Their goal is to get you to swipe every day. They are working against you. That’s what keeps you coming back every day. To get into a somewhat even playing field you have to “boost” for real dollars. Now you’ve met the app’s goal of revenue. You can take the $30/mo tinder gold fee and pay it for real entertainment in a bar tab with social opportunities and have much greater results.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 12:32 AM
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Up against what? All the chicks that can’t find a man in the real? What kind of prize is that.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 12:24 AM
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Your point will be missed by the young and childless At the end of the day you must lead your family. The state has a gun to your head. Doesn’t mean you get a free pass on being a bitch. Leaders are respected whether you’re still together or not. Its a risk minimization strategy.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 12:04 AM
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don’t change I’d phrase that as dont degrade
/r/TheRedPill21/12/18 11:58 PM
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A smart hunter brings bear spray to bear country. Game is your offensive tool to combat feminine wiles. Any defense will be overrun by a dedicated aggressor given enough time. Defending will always result in a loss in this arena. So decide: are you a winner or a loser
/r/TheRedPill21/12/18 10:52 PM
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Do you choose to be prey or predator
/r/TheRedPill21/12/18 11:13 AM
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Going completely off topic from mermaids. I’m middle management. When I first got into these kinds of roles I was used to direct straighttalk as the typical form of communication. I got spanked more than once thinking that I could go on with business as usual. No sir you’re now playing a new game. You’ll get schooled very quicklike what powertalk in practice actually looks like. It’s fascinating to watch and horrible to be defenseless against it. You get thrown in & you better swim real quick cu…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 05:13 PM
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http://archive.is/ZlUPA At best hes a stepping stone out of the deep abyss. Their suffering is not your problem. Your suffering is
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 02:53 AM
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Why eat a smaller piece when you can have a bigger pie
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 12:59 AM
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Nah rapes not the right word here
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 04:07 AM
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Go slumming or harpooning. Sometimes it does help to just masturbate in a vag Go out & about with the intention of having fun and forget about everything else but that. Chat dudes up, lowkey hit on a bartender, throw some darts w/ever. Abundance is a state of mind. It’s like something flips in your brain. Abundance tells me I may or may not have a ton of gals right now. I know if I put in the effort within a month I can get back to 2-3 solid plates/fwbs maybe even a decent dating chick in there.…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 04:02 AM
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So let me get this straight You were banging a chick that had to get lit up drunk to have sex with you Said chick was horrible in bed Eventually chick finds a guy to marry All Women Are Like That cuz this broken drunk chick got married? Are you mad she dumped you? Connect the dots for me, I don’t see where you’re going here. Regarding point 1, what does that say about you and your value system? Edit: fr man no shit tests no posturing. I’m asking you straight up.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 03:14 AM
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First time I got a gal (post divorce) to bring me food & fuck me I thought damn my summon pussy spell has really leveled up. I like this
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 01:30 AM
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Auvergnat answered well. I’ll add this: You can maintain eye contact to show your engagement without having to say a lot of words. Not creepy staring, break off and look around at times. However you don’t actually have to say a lot. She’ll take over with some typically inane chattiness. You can either springboard from that or let her run free for a bit to be silent & mysterious.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 12:53 AM
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Old CH is a goldmine. I can click through the related articles like nobody’s business. Always find a little gem buried in there. Read this article and figured to give it a shot. Quick FR: I misread a situation this afternoon. Sent pushan birthday cat (he’s adorable look at him) to a comfort test. I do not recommend that. Or try it yourself and see. Seems like it could work in the right situation. I like weird gifs as responses so stills could be a bit dated these days.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 12:43 AM
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This is worthy of field testing. The holidays are near as well. Perfect timing. I’m not saying you should tell me all you know but if I wanted to learn more where would I go?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 12:26 AM
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👎👍🤔😏👊🤘🙄 I stick with these basics. That’s my frequently used ones. Personalize to yourself. Don’t overuse them, they lose meaning. Better to leave a bit of mystery behind your meaning. I use smirky guy when it need to made clear the difference between straight up asshole response and softening it a bit with the smirk. I never use lol and very rarely use a haha. It’s like if they can’t take a joke then fuck em. I see guys using lol as a way of waffling like a bitch. Contrived lol example Youre ki…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 05:45 PM
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Used to try all kinds of canned shit when I was getting my sea legs. Now it’s just a half smirk and a hey or hello. Maybe a situational thing like if we’re in line together. Helps that I’m now mostly happy in my skin and my eyes have a happy fun twinkle in them. I’ve gotten past the tryhard into my natural funloving asshole self. Less is more. Judge the response levels, chitchat a bit then decide to keep going or eject. You pick up on gauging interest rather quickly actually. It’s just a girl at…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 05:32 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/9ttrANK.jpg Works on mods as well. Gaming dudes is less fun than gals. Still fun
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 05:24 PM
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It’s not such a bad life. Its certainly better than the alternatives I’ve tried.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 02:02 AM
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If you have to ask if it’s a problem it likely is
/r/askTRP18/12/18 01:51 AM
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Cool take on weiland. The excerpt did not make it clear where he was tied into it. I saw STP twice this year. New guy is good. Daaaaamn good. Still it felt like a stellar cover band. A tribute band you’d say. Excerpt does not so the article justice.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 02:07 AM
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Turn your phone down out of arms reach when you’re focused on something. The new iphone screen time summary is shocking & disgusting. holy fuck it helped to get those numbers in front of my face. I’ve gotten rid of most wasters. Reddit survived the purge so far. It’s gotta go before long.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 07:58 PM
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Go say hello & then talk to the girls who respond well. Exit from the gals who don’t. Yes it’s stupid obvious b/c that’s how you tell who is into you.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 06:12 AM
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escalate off the app to number & date close within 3-8 messages. Have conversations in person where you can lead and control a real convo. Youre just a buzz on her phone till then.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 06:02 AM
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My cockskin gets sore if I pull a 3-4 session nite these days. Gotta imagine its the same for the gals. Never seen a woman wince in a bad way tho. I’m not yuuuuuuge yet well above average. Seems like you’re seeing shit that ain’t there. I’ve seen some shit on here. This ones a weird question tbfh
/r/askTRP15/12/18 05:30 AM
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You get a gift horse. Instead of riding it & putting it to use you decide to look in its mouth to bitch about it. Speaking of mouths hows those fucked up teeth working out I’m american therefore anglo so we have the same stupid nicety rules. You can follow these social rules with a spine. You don’t have to get upset when someone else doesn’t follow the expected rules. Fuck it and fuck them. Straight talk time: Its rn 3am give or take uk time. Youre on reddit talking about a stupid situation you …
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:29 AM
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Trying to start shit = dudes shit testing you 99% of the time. Yeah yeah some guys are just douche assholes don’t go off on a worthless tangent. Some times its bs AMOG you gotta shut down. Either way you’re getting tested. So decide to pass or fail going forward from this experience. To spell it out this is the human version of rams butting heads. Except we really can’t just punch each other any more. That said you literally walked through their established territory. Wouldn’t you defend your ow…
/r/askTRP15/12/18 01:24 AM
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I’ve lived with my daughter long enough to take her off a pedestal. Doesn’t mean I don’t love her to end and back & all that sappy shit. Does mean I know she’s a fucked up human like all of us.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 01:09 AM
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Move out and cut off all contact period. If that means a complete social media wipe and/or any other form of traceability, it’s best in the long run. It’s one of those questions that is very easy to answer from the outside looking in yet impossible to answer from the inside looking out.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/18 12:47 AM
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Excellent writeup. A follow up post idea would be defeating logical fallacies used against you.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 11:41 PM
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If nothing matters I get to pick what matters vs If everything matters then nothing matters Or some other jack handey bs that made way more sense on the shrooms
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 04:38 AM
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Google the form vids by mark rippetoe. Get the starting strength book and read the deads section. Alan thrall has a good vid on 5 cues for deadlift. Go to stronglifts.com and read/review the videos there. The critical part is bracing your spine using your air and core. Beyond that it’s not a hard lift technically speaking. Its a half squat and a hip hinge. It’s no more dangerous performed decently than squatting.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 11:51 PM
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There’s a whole section on rape fantasy. It’s common amongst women. I’m loosely into the kink scene, it’s common and actually acted there as well. There was a woman who shared about her violent rape at knifepoint and how much she loved and hated it. Consent isn’t necessary when the woman judges the man to be sex-worthy.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 05:20 PM
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Trade your problems for better problems
/r/askTRP12/12/18 06:34 AM
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this is the correct answer to the statement above I’m not hers it’s just her turn
/r/askTRP12/12/18 06:32 AM
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The burden of proof is on you to demonstrate to the dear reader the flaw(s) in OPs argument How many teachers did you fuck in high school
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 12:54 AM
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non-monogamy is hard That’s the unstated truth to spinning plates and fucking around. I’ve traded one set of problems for an arguably better set of problems. I’m getting laid so there’s that. I’d say the goal of life is to keep getting better problems to deal with.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 12:43 AM
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dont waste your time gossiping
/r/TheRedPill11/12/18 03:14 AM
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The man in question chose to ally with the feminine. He is therefore subject to the feminine rules of hierarchy and power struggle. This is standard female power play within their hierarchies. Masculinity does not belong inside the feminine social power structure. TL;DR: play stupid games, win stupid prizes. I’m a white collar middle manager for a large manufacturing operation. I’m quite often on the floor for my role, I’m not the ivory tower guy at the corp office. The relationships I need to b…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/18 02:54 AM
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Seed or provisioning the seed. To be clear, the married women I’ve been with do appreciate their husbands. It’s just no longer intensely sexual. The golden rule is never talk shit about the BB even if she does.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 08:25 PM
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We’re dealing with pure conjecture here. You cannot apply today’s state of affairs (support rape, etc) to the future paradigm. There should be a fair split of providing the resources for the child regardless. https://www.custodyxchange.com/maps/dads-custody-time-2018.php As with anything on the internet take it with a grain of salt. Interestingly enough tradcon states are the ones most resistant to this change. We are organically heading to this state of affairs. That’s promising for the state o…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 11:54 PM
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In the future, the distinction between LTR and marriage will further vanish While its impossible to predict the future, I theorize that a medium term partnership of 3-5 years followed by separation and 50/50 split custody will become the new normal for having children. I’m experiencing that setup now. It works great provided you can get along and coparent. Ex’s new guy is putting in half the effort to raise my kid. Provided he’s mostly following effective child rearing strategies then this is a …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 07:46 PM
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Its a different world these days due to the green revolution and the ability to extract nitrogen cheaply from the air. Food and basic survival is no longer the primary driving concern of the individual’s efforts. We are now in a surplus consumer society whereas the old ways were set up for a scarce producer society. We’re less than a century into this brave new world. We haven’t figured it out yet. The real question is why do we really want to continue following the old ways. HSP answered your s…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 05:30 PM
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You’ve touched on a number of key points. SMV is raw attractiveness grossly oversimplified into one sentence. RMV, relationship market value, is the value a person contributes to a relationship. You can be high in one and not the other. TRP doesn’t talk a lot about RMV because relationships are generally frowned upon particularly for the beginner. You are correct that these are separate yet interrelated. TRP as a sub is effectively the missing tutorial level to life. It tells you that you were l…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 05:08 PM
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First question I ask you: you think or you know from personal experience? Its a great question. You’ve framed it differently compared to my original response. There’s a nuance between dehumanizing a person and recognizing a person is below your station. Lets have a quick thought experiment. You see a subjectively attractive man chatting up and leaving with a chubby ugly gal from a bar. What do you think of this situation as you watch it unfold. A man’s SMV is objectively determined by who he is …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 09:04 AM
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The entire point of society is to get people to do things they don’t really want to do because it’s in the group’s interest over the individual’s interest. Destitution is a big stick. When children were property of men by default, a divorce resulted in a woman getting kicked to the curb with nothing and no source of income.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 05:16 AM
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u/redpillschool meta question: Are the preferred responses on reddit or trp.red? My gut says trp.red
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 05:00 AM
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Is it oppression when I don’t let my kids eat nothing but candy and chocolate all day?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 04:58 AM
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Social and religious pressures were designed to keep female hypergamy in check. Biological pressures due to lack of birth control also contributed. Interestingly enough, go back to birth/marriage rolls in times before birth control was available. Youll see how often the two coincidentally line up. Its not that premarital sex was not occurring. Its more that you shouldered your load possibly with a little “encouragement” a la shotgun wedding once you knocked up the gal. We’re still as a society o…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 04:48 AM
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In regards to the gender/culture war, how do we reconcile the fact that, simply put, I really enjoy women and like them to be a part of my life. That flies exactly in the face of withdrawing males completely as the counter strategy. In fact, as more males check out, being checked in would become a greater personal advantage. That strategy would be effective however I cannot envision that it could be actually applied.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/18 09:53 PM
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The simple fact that you replied shows how much you actually care. You don’t build your alpha street cred being a tryhard douche. You’re presenting yourself as a blustery fool. Saying that to you attacks your ego. The test is whether you can get past the ego hit and listen. I suggest you read up on powertalk and communication again. You can use your words and communication skills more effectively than what you’re presenting. You’re leaking all over the place man. The issue is not banging sluts. …
/r/TheRedPill08/12/18 09:41 PM
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go to r-brogress and make your own decision. beyond that your question is simply retarded unless youre chasing some vicarious living through others success
/r/askTRP08/12/18 03:00 AM
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Frankly even telling the story from your side you show signs that you’re underperforming. You gave no reason for being late to this meeting. Showing up 45 minutes late to a meeting is inexcusable and unprofessional. No wonder your boss is mad about that. Bring your performance up to acceptable levels or get fired for incompetence.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 02:12 AM
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Nah, sluts are pretty much just warm holes for you to fuck. I'm not really sure what other value they bring to the table There is a cost to this dehumanizing. If you associate and get intimate with someone you do not value, then you will place yourself as an equal to the unvalued person. In other words, banging sluts and also lowkey hating them will eat at your soul.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/18 01:01 AM
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Got my junk grabbed when we were making out. Logistics sucked so no pull that night. Stepped on my dick on the follow up. Ultimately did not smash. Life goes on
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 10:41 PM
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Shes a slut yet youd write up a FR if you smashed
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 05:31 PM
1

My man thats not even a cursory superficial understanding Google for these, they’re easily attainable and easier to digest. Pook can be highly metaphorical, that’s good for critical thinking and comprehension - book of pook - red pill handbook go into u/sadomasochrist post history for high beta game post, basically male serial monogamy
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:22 AM
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Muscle is actually built when you rest. Lifting provides the stressor that causes your body to adapt to the strain you are putting it under. Make sure your nutrition and sleep is on point to maximize your gains. None of these are unattainable by anyone without a bit of effort Physical aspects - posture - wardrobe - haircut that suits your face - contacts if you wear glasses Mental aspects - verbal judo strength - social grace/skills - leadership - confidence (test your capability, that’s how you…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 09:26 PM
3

Huge difference between a player who hung up his spurs vs the sour grapes guy. MGTOW is corrupted
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 08:54 PM
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Teasing/negging appropriately should be one of the core foundations of your game toolbox. It forces the gal to qualify herself and chase you. Here’s a practical example. I eat lunch quite often at the same place. One of the waitstaff is a sexy gal, obviously knows she’s sexy and works it to her benefit. She will wear strange hats and odd makeup at times. I teased her about not getting the memo for stupid hats or some shit, just a random passing comment I made to amuse myself. Over a year later a…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 02:51 PM
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I question your premise that men held themselves to a better standard. I could agree that societal and social pressures punished transgressors harder in the past. There’s a large gulf between not breaking the rules and harsh consequences for breaking the rules. You’re building your argument on a shaky foundation.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 02:29 PM
1

You took one sentence and ignored the rest. Pareto means some parts of your effort give huge ROI and then the ROI progressively dwindles with subsequent potential tasks/efforts. Apply your efforts where they get the most results. That leaves you with more effort to apply elsewhere. Lets take an rpg for example. You could theoretically grind to level cap killing slimes in noob field. You could also grind in a level appropriate area for faster results than noob slimes. Now let’s say in noob field …
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:07 PM
1

This is a bigger fetish than people let on. Im not gonna complain
/r/askTRP05/12/18 06:41 PM
11

Solid point on the age ranges. At the end of the day play by your own rules or dont play.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 05:50 AM
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Takeaway here is don’t fall for betabait Single moms are still gals. They respond to AF like the other vag people. Only free every other weekend is a blessing in itself. I am the guy they have fun with and make it clear they should keep looking for a provider. Theyll polarize to that idea quickly.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 04:54 AM
3

google pua breaking rapport
/r/askTRP04/12/18 09:53 PM
2

R asktrp
/r/TheRedPill04/12/18 09:51 PM
0

Pareto always applies If you’re asking this question, you haven’t gotten all the low hanging fruit. Get those first then you’ll quickly realize after that you’re hitting diminishing returns. At that point decide whether to keep investing specifically in that or to apply that effort into something else. Phrased differently: I’ve gotten really good at layups. Do I keep improving my layup technique from master to grandmaster level or do I put some time into my free throw. That said, stop & fucking …
/r/askTRP04/12/18 04:05 AM
1

12 weeks of solid effort in either program will give you a foundation of strength that you can leverage into whatever full goal you have. In that respect, the programs meet their goals of being a beginner program. SL 5x5 can be learned by a beginner solely from internet research. No trainer necessary Starting strength is a good program as well. The technical requirements of the snatch makes that a hard lift to learn on your own. I could not recommend that lift to a noob without a trainer. I’ve b…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:08 AM
1

Free app tells you exactly what to lift. Tells you exactly what your warmups sets are. You literally only have to execute, zero thinking whatsoever
/r/askTRP04/12/18 02:54 AM
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It looks like sickness plain & simple You wanna go talk to the gal hacking up a lung or the one that looks vibrant & full of life
/r/askTRP04/12/18 02:50 AM
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Ride the tiger - Julius Evola That’s what was recommended to me I’ve been slowly working through the book. I cannot comprehend the work while I’m stoned. Means I’m half on the fence between giving a fuck & letting it ride and saying fuck it all staying stoned nearly all the damn time. At the same spot really, completely bored with basic bitches. No answers here just commiseration.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 02:44 AM
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You’re not wrong in your premise you just read the article headline and went running off from there. The article and headline states Americans think 23% of the American population is gay. Self reported numbers are holding steady at ~4%. Its the gap between 4% actual and 23% perception that is being brought to light here.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 10:37 PM
2

I had 80% of a draft written up on how to finger blast a gal. The squirting guide is everything I was writing and more. What’s old is new and new is old.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 10:25 PM
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Yes diet is always critically important. Food is fuel. Your body cannot build muscle effectively without the right input. That’s grossly oversimplified especially for a noob but just run with it and pound it in your head. Nutrition is as equally important as the lifts themselves. They depend on each other. SL 5x5- run it for 12 weeks then decide whether to stay on it or transition to a hypertrophy program if getting big is all you want. Its a solid beginner program and you’ll progress on it well…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 09:17 PM
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Stronglifts 5x5 Starting Strength program Google “beginner weightlifting programs”. Google form videos to watch and review. Video your own form for review. Consistency yields results. Pick a program (any program) and stick with it. Fucking around does not yield results. Also google fuckarounditis You’ll have to lift for about 6 weeks before you really notice the beginning of your changes then the feedback loop starts.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/18 09:06 PM
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Look around objectively at your competition. Its pathetic. 1 year is doable. Im close to 2yrs in by now. Lost 80lbs the first year while lifting, replaced with lean mass and low bf%. My arms are veiny af now I love it.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/18 04:03 PM
0

Going from 0 to 1 is exponentially harder than going from 1-10 in practically all areas of life. Successful application of TRP is no different. Once you get that first taste of success youre hooked.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/18 03:57 PM
1

A major component of the growth process is analyzing to determine what applies to your situation and how you can leverage that for your benefit. Critical thinking is not exactly taught well in modern education from the US perspective, so you are in fact gaining a useful skill that applies to all areas of your life. You can choose to skip the sidebar at your own risk. If you do decide to skip it, your results will be exactly the effort you have put in.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/18 03:53 PM
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You’re overthinking this shit by far. Shes horny & thinks youre hot. She wants the d dude. Fuck her if you want or exit the situation by not responding. Women get horny. Women love to fuck. Take em off the pedestal, they’re just a human with a vag
/r/askTRP30/11/18 10:56 AM
2

Dominance in sex god method is an umbrella term. Within dominance you have consent, force, dominance, submission, humiliation, sadism & masochism. A women is going to spike different areas within dominance based on her sexual makeup. For example I’ve had women that want to be choked and forced yet not humiliated. You need to calibrate with your needs and her needs. I suggest reading/listening to my secret garden to further understand the breakdowns of female fantasy. Stealing this line from else…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 03:07 AM
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Compound exercises work multiple muscle groups at the same time. You use your arms for every exercise in SL. You don’t need to isolate them with curls. You gain functional strength and subsequent mass in them from simply being used in every exercise.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:40 PM
1

brah do you even internet. cmon now Always support the author where applicable! These are real people. google <book title> download or <book title> <format> download
/r/TheRedPill19/11/18 09:21 PM
1

A divorce will change the fixed overhead of the original family into 2 sets of fixed overhead for each household. The variable overhead of adding a kid(s) to the household is actually rather negligible compared to the fixed overhead of the household. With the above premise, the man typically gets double dipped and has to pay all his overhead plus a share of the ex-wife’s overhead due to child support coming from the man. The 50/50 custody agreement without support is about as fair as it’s going …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/18 09:03 PM
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In this case there’s an assumption from the beginning that it’s “better” to be in a monogamous (dove-dove) relationship, perhaps because this is the western ideal. But why? Shooting off on a related tangent- I’m firmly convinced we are in the process of the paradigm shift in family makeup as we speak. We are transitioning out of the TMM (traditional monogamous marriage) model in favor of a co-parenting 50/50 visitation split model. I am about 2 years into the second version of raising a family a…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/18 02:38 PM
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My man there’s always a complementary kink out there. You just haven’t found it yet. Femdom is definitely a thing for sub men. Surprised you are not aware to be honest. Get on fetlife and look for local switches or fem doms. Find the local adult bookstores and get involved in your local kink/BSDM scene. You can find a lady to give you what you want.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 08:20 PM
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true love does not exist, only in blue pill fantasy and romance novels. The honeymoon phase of attraction wears off after 6-18 months. After that love in the sense of a lasting marriage is more rational with an emotional element. Its a partnership to raise the kids at that point. That’s when the bonds are built in the daily struggles big and small. There’s love in there in a sense but nothing like the romcom bs you see on tv. You are correct in that you did not stave off her hypergamy effectivel…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 08:08 PM
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tf are you trying to say man You want insight into women’s fantasies then just pick up my secret garden from audible. They’re darker than most people think.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 05:53 PM
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Women are governed by hypergamy the same way that men are governed by polygamy. Underlying biological desires will always be there; However, you can avoid acting on them with rationality and the right incentives. (The problem for tradcons is the incentives to stay faithful in traditional monogamous marriage are no longer present. The woman won’t end up financially destitute and the social stigma for divorce/infidelity is no longer socially enforced). What Pook is saying is this: it’s not the goo…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 05:47 PM
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If I could go back in time I would tell myself one thing: Treat women as sexual creatures. My relationships now are so much better just allowing women’s sexuality to be free in my presence. Everyone is happier. I initially signal acceptance of their sexuality by talking about fantasies. I share some of my fantasies and have her share some of hers. I escalate into the darker stuff on my end, then they tend to open up about their darker stuff. We are all a bit twisted we just don’t open up for fea…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 03:09 PM
1

Fuck the haters. Welcome to tinder, where you say well fuck it I’m already here let’s see how this plays out. Congrats on the W. My advice is don’t slot yourself into the “only less attractive women want me” spot in your head. That can happen from slumming. Build on your success
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 05:05 PM
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Its easy to apply it to everyday life. In fact you were actually told the story that encompasses the underlying moral of TRP at a young age. What story is this you ask. I will tell you: The emperor’s new clothes Question everything. Don’t believe what you’re told at face value. Truly understand incentives in an objective manner. Watch for overt and subtle manipulations. Don’t take this too far to paralyzing paranoia, counterbalance that with you’re not paranoid when they are after you. Its a bal…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 04:57 PM
2

I tell women I have kids. Also tell them I’m not looking for a stepmom. Having kids hasn’t hurt my short term prospects beyond the added logistics like can’t see you it’s my kids week. I find it helps enforce a separation between my social and family life which is very good in my book.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 02:03 PM
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This is why I don’t get invited to meetings You did not answer the question. A plan has action items and how to implement said action items. You outlined the bullets and neglected the how. There is nothing actionable in your statements. Therefore you just have some pie in the sky pipe dream. When people use the royal we it means “you guys figure out the details”. Then when nothing gets done you get to pipe up and say “weeellll guys this is what I said we needed to do. Why didn’t you do any of it…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 09:31 PM
1

One of the major issues here TRP wise is that men and women have become divisive rather than cooperative. Nationalist, communitarian sentiment is how we return to cooperative gender roles and proper masculine authority. What is your proposal to execute this idea.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 08:20 PM
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My bench has always lagged behind my other lifts. Never really understood why. My top lifts are 340 1x5 dl, 310 1x3 squat, 165 1x5 bench. 5-10 160. I’m running maintenance lifts now at 3 plates pull, 2 plates squat, 1 plate bench. I’ll add in the dips to see if that help.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 02:12 PM
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How does the camp that supports ending the decline propose to do such a thing Excessive individualism and egotism were the core American values
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 02:02 PM
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Stick to 2-3 drinks a night. Drink a ton of water. I drink whiskey neat and a glass of water. I always have at least a water. Weird not to have a drink of some sort in a bar. More than that and you’re too drunk to socialize well.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 12:57 AM
2

First off: my first professional boss told me when I had to go eat crow for a fuckup: nebder if you’re not making an occasional mistake you’re not working hard enough for me. That changed my perspective and gave me freedom from fear of fuck ups. Specifically remove the words “I’m sorry” from your vocabulary. Use the statement “I apologize for x” in its place. When I fuck up the conversation from my end goes something like I apologize for X. I realize why my error was wrong. I will do Y going for…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 03:43 PM
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Your question is shit. What’s the best way to fix a broken car? How tf should I know without finding the problem. Too vague to be useful. What’s your goal here. Why exactly do you feel responsible to be captain save a bro. Typically there’s a specific shortcoming that needs addressed. Is the dude a pansy “nice guy”, is he a flop with women, did he suffer from a bad breakup, is he a waste of potential. Tailor the action to the situation.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 03:35 PM
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Maybe he would be pissed. Maybe he’d think your boss is skimming a bit but still producing for the owner and company, so he helped himself to a bit of unauthorized bonus so fucking what. Maybe the juice is worth the squeeze. Maybe the owner just dgaf while he’s got a thing generating enough cash to keep him living the high life. You don’t need 8 figures for financial freedom, you need enough to be comfortable. You are greatly risking getting blackballed from your industry. The industry I am in i…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 02:25 AM
2

Are you speaking to the data or the editorialized article? I’m referring to the language used in the editorial, not the abstract of the study.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 08:11 PM
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Exercising correctly is good. I’ve seen plenty of people in the gym that are moments away from snap city. Add in all the misinformation, fitness industry garbage & broscience and you can very well “exercise” and be worse off for it.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 07:54 PM
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Was hoping an academic would translate those bits for me. I don’t have a statistics background. Also did the article reference the binge drinking bullet again? I did not see it myself only once as the bullet. The article/editorial leaves a bad taste in my mouth. It felt low key shaming. When anything pings my emotions I question it. Is it possible I’m forcing connections to fit the FI narrative? Maybe Maybe not. The article leaves me feeling like it has presented a false dichotomy: no exercise o…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 07:48 PM
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Deal with it if it comes up. Laugh it off and say yep that’s my ex if you cross paths. No upsides to telling new girl Up front.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 05:39 PM
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Didn’t say how big the operation was. Hard to imagine a situation where an owner involved in daily operations and the finances would be unaware of this going on, particularly forged accounts. It takes a few minutes of looking over payables to question why you’re cutting checks for invoices you don’t recognize. Tread lightly here. If your intentions are pure then play dumb and just say hey I found this stuff that looks odd to me. Can you also look into it. If your intentions are vengeful against …
/r/askTRP09/11/18 05:37 PM
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Its great for the individual. Its terrible for western society. The foundation of being a man is being physically strong.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 04:42 PM
7

Its better to cancel/don’t go to a social event than it is to phone it in halfass. If you’re not up to snuff, then bow out. On the work front I suggest finding the low/no value things that you do and ruthlessly cutting them out. That’s the only way to regain your time.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 01:44 PM
2

Bro I’m 5-10 160 somewhere at 10-13%bf. Decent musculature. If you got 80lbs on me you gotta be massive. I started at 240 as a fatfuck. I’d assume you’re over genetic max. Did you/Are you still cycling? That’ll change the numbers quite a bit. Cutting sucks. Winter bulk and cut off an extra fluff in February for the summer time. I’ll always stay lean at the expense of getting much bigger. I am still gaining somewhat leangains style but its no longer intentional. I eat around maintenance and still…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 08:21 PM
7

I don't think there such things as "signals" that I'm sending which indicate that I'm gay. Sometimes, I can't even tell when someone is gay. Bro I wasn’t calling you gay or giving you shit. Don’t be defensive. Pure straight talk here. Its not uncommon at all for straight men to be hit on by gay men. Gay men have the same rules such that they have to escalate to determine attraction. They are men. Gaydar is absolutely a thing. Same as picking up on the subtle cues on how a woman broadcasts her in…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 08:09 PM
3

Max out everything under your control. Clothing and physical appearance via working out. Posture, eye contact and nonverbal communication also tie in. Only upsides, no downsides. When you’re there you will know. You’re not there yet as the other commentor stated.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 05:49 PM
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The better question to ask yourself is why you pinged his gaydar so hard. If that’s not your intent find out what signals you’re sending out and stop them. Gay dudes have to take chances and put themselves far out there for their own numbers game. Way more heteroflexible “straight” men out there than most are willing to admit.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 05:42 PM
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What works for the fit regulars absolutely will not work for the noob 2 months into a gym routine. Rules are rules for a reason. Follow them until it becomes very clear that you don’t need to follow this specific rule. That said, don’t shit where you eat at your place of employment is a 100% no excuses never break this hard rule. (I will agree service work like restaurants are exempt, that is the only caveat)
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 05:23 PM
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The man is responsible for all outcomes in a relationship. He failed bitch mgmt. Yes bloopie programming sets you up for failure. That does not change his responsibility. You don’t get mad at a lion eating a gazelle. You don’t get mad at a woman being a woman. Own your shit as everything that happens to a man is his responsibility to resolve.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 02:02 PM
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A woman lays it out realtalk style and you shit on her for it. She’s got the balls to put her name and photo next to her words, which are highly controversial in upside down clown world. Her words are the simple truth: there is no relationship without attraction. Unplugging, taking the pill, wtfever you call it means viewing the world as it truly is, not as what you were spoonfed to believe. This woman unplugged and has a better life for it plain and simple. My experience is that her analysis is…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/18 11:36 PM
3

Found the white knight. So many weasel words and assumptions in this comment. Its an exercise to the reader to pick them out.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/18 05:36 PM
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I was thinking destroy your dick decembwr was where we were gonna get out our edicks and compare made up lay counts for the month. So disappointed. I have yet to pull the mystical threefer in one night. I pulled a twofer a few weekends back that destroyed my dick. Had to lotion up my shit it was so raw. I won’t even wait till December to destroy my shit in honor of the poor sacks that aren’t getting theirs this month.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 04:55 PM
3

I checked out some of Yuri Bezmenov. That is heavy shit right there. TRP as a sub is effectively dead with the quarantine. The benefit of being on reddit was easily bringing in fresh blood organically from the reddit user base. That’s no longer viable. The community may be able to transition to trp-red. It won’t be quite the same as reddit in gaining traction.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 04:41 PM
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Weed absolutely destroys my frame. I’m a quick witted sharp tongued man, when I smoke weed I have the social sophistication of a slack jawed dullard. It also takes my balls away so I don’t say anything near the risque things I say when I’m not stoned. I don’t smoke weed before I want to be social unless it’s an established gal who also smokes with me.
/r/seduction05/11/18 01:39 PM
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Its right in front of us. Very few are noticing the destruction of this once great empire. I talk with men and women and you get a lot of I just don’t understand politics but they can tell me all about dancing with the stars or this is us. I sound like a gd conspiracy nut nowadays. I question myself. Am I nuts? Am I reading to deeply into coincidence and happenstance. Do I need some sort of bogeyman to set up as my nemesis? Is it just coming out in the open enough to start connecting dots? I kno…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 01:47 AM
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Why not lead by example if you want to keep politics out of the sub. Your comment is clearly leftwing narrative manipulation. NPC#113578332257 says ORANGE MAN BAD
/r/TheRedPill04/11/18 10:41 PM
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I am a functional alcoholic/weed smoker. I’ve tried just about every drug available in my youth except for meth and heroine, those two are guaranteed life destruction. The severity of my substance use comes and goes. The obvious solution for our personality type is to stop completely which would be my (hypocritical) advice to you. I have to put rules in place to address my substance use. I don’t have more than 3 drinks at a bar. I don’t smoke weed before going to work. I have some controls over …
/r/askTRP04/11/18 08:02 PM
2

Sounds like you’re getting your shit together and you had a fun night hanging out. Introspection is good but don’t cross the line to pointless overthinking. Done is done ya know, plus you do get some wiggle room for the occasional fuckup. I personally have a no lies policy towards women. I don’t go full disclosure on them either. I have occasionally had to say don’t ask questions you don’t want answered and then change the subject. Hard to say if the weed thing was a shit test or even a comfort …
/r/askTRP04/11/18 06:42 PM
2

Solid answer. Well said. OP does need to identify his motives here. The I do not shit where I eat buffer generally means I want to fuck the girls but I’m lying to myself about it. Men are protectors. It is one of our innate roles. Protect where appropriate but do not let your protection instincts be leveraged against you. It boils down to am I protecting because I need to protect my loved ones or am I trying to score brownie points.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 06:10 PM
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You currently lack the understanding of context. Get laid like a warlord is about approaching top tier women. You tailor the strategy to the situation. When I go slumming for lower tier women I don’t have to try hard, just make them know im dtf and work out the logistics. When I go after higher tier women, I have to put in more effort. Context of the situation changes how I go about it. Granted, I don’t have to try very hard with lower tier women because I’ve executed the advice given by trp: gr…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 05:51 PM
3

humorous to me that you chose your trp alt to virtue signal the trp core message
/r/askTRP04/11/18 04:28 PM
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I am not religious. Christian RP is a thing. Google for dalrock’s blog on wordpress. I enjoy dalrock for dalrocks sake, applying his writings where they make sense to me. TRP’s core message is view human nature as it truly is, not as what you were brainwashed that it is. Sexual strategy is amoral. You decide whether it can jive with your faith.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 03:28 AM
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You skipped over even addressing C where hubby is too busy doing choreplay to notice. Benevolent sexism is hot to a woman. They want to be treated like a woman from a dominating man. Dominant doesn’t mean tyrant, it means the person wearing the pants in the relationship. If you don’t put them on she will see them sitting on the floor and put them on.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/18 01:46 AM
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Without any further context of the situation, that does sound like a creepy af thing to say to a restaurant service worker. You can talk mad shit to bar service staff but not restaurant service. The managers job is to protect his staff from creepy fuckers. At face value it sounds like you’re asking one girl to pass your “Do you like me circle yes or no” 2nd grade loveletter to another girl to get nudes out of her.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 01:26 AM
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TRP has stages of progress. The initial hard and fast rules are for the man that just unplugged and is still breaking free of all the societal programming forced on his mind. “Text for logistics only”, “Dont pay any money on a date” etc. Those are field tested bits of wisdom and advice gained from the collective years of game study and note swapping. These are binary rules that the emerging bloop sperg needs to navigate the true social environment we all live in. You outgrow these base rules onc…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 11:43 AM
1

I have deeply enjoyed your writings. I have to chunk it up because I always end up with more rabbit holes for my mind and questions than answers, which is an excellent form of communication in my opinion. Thought provoking is a somewhat overused compliment yet it is the best way to describe your work. Well done. I sincerely hope you can get paid well for your contributions. I am no longer a target demographic so I likely won’t be giving you money. However I can appreciate the value you offer to …
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 11:14 AM
1

Text this: Hey I’m doing <fun thing you like> at <time & place>. Come join me If you get a specific reschedule offer like “I can’t today, let’s do Tuesday”, then go with that. Means she’s legit got something then. If you get a wishywashy response she’s most likely lost interest. If you get a positive response say cool see ya then & then go radio silent until the date You pick a fun thing you like so that if she flakes you go on with your life having fun. I personally like to shoot pool, check ou…
/r/askTRP02/11/18 12:57 PM
1

shh dont pull back the curtain
/r/askTRP02/11/18 02:16 AM
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She wants to hang out & fuck. Fuck her good but don’t wife her up. Chicks needs a post breakup bang to make themselves feel good again like they can get male attention. She’s throwing herself at you man. Pick up your balls and get the shit done.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 02:01 AM
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dancing is just moving to the music. Its a physical expression of the music. You don’t have to be good (tho it helps if you are) you simply have to be having fun smiling and enjoying yourself. Move all your joints so you don’t look like a robot. Hips, shoulders, elbows. I work in subtle hip thrusts in my moves personally however that’s congruent with always expressing my sexuality. Club/hip hop music is always 4/4 time. In lifting terms, each set has 4 reps. You can mix and match sets to make yo…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 04:17 PM
7

Fascinating article that explains how we got here in a relatively easy to read manner.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 09:54 AM
2

It is what it is. Sometimes you get the long end, sometimes you get the short end. Its much better to be a player than a slut. Don’t get into situations where you have to take the short end.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 01:06 AM
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Frame is your innate self value plus how you project your will upon the world. Extending that thought, Frame is your ability to controls other people’s versions of their subjective reality. Frame is the control over perception. That sounds like esoteric mumbojumbo until it just clicks and you go well no shit duh. Google rollo frame to read the rollo article. Its a good starting point. Google rollo iron rules as well and the 16 commandments of poon. Edit: as others have stated, OP demonstrated ze…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 12:58 AM
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Women don’t give a flying fuck what the AF does for a living, only the BB. I don’t give 2 shits what my plates do for a living beyond making some conversation. They don’t ask me about my work beyond the once where I play it off. You’ll be better served by not projecting male desires onto females.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 09:18 PM
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I plan to vagabond till I establish a foreign home base. I’ll still retain my US citizenship. Europe may be cucked but it’s still a fascinating place rich with history and tradition. Worth visiting and passing through. Yes eyeing SE Asia and the bigger cities in South America.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 01:02 PM
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You’re not wrong. Only worth the effort if you’re stuck in a marriage. You could put much less effort into a new gal and get better results.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/18 11:23 PM
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comment of the week material
/r/TheRedPill30/10/18 11:17 PM
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The Overton window is closing significantly. Its happening in front of our eyes. I’m trying to gauge where the rightwing is telling the truth and where they’re distorting the truth for their own purposes. It would be naive to say only one side manipulates the narrative. Is there a separation between the SJW culture war and the current liberal attack on speech all over the internet. Are these two faces of the same enemy or two separate enemies. There is a lot going on right under the surface. I d…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/18 04:34 PM
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My comment was hasty. I set the wrong tone in my reply. I forget that until you have the lightbulb moment where all the different concepts required to unplug click and come together, then you are kinda lost and foundering trying to make sense of it all. This breakdown is useful for the man at that stage where he’s still connecting the dots in his mind. Solid post and writing. Kudos belong where they are deserved.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/18 03:34 PM
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Following the car analogy- I wear a seatbelt. I drive defensively with awareness of my surroundings. I don’t drive when I’m drunk. These are all sensible precautions that address the inherent dangers of putting yourself in a 1 ton metal box going 60-70 MPH. I have only ever stopped myself from driving when I’m drunk or too tired to drive effectively. Get your morning after text for piece of mind. Its a sensible precaution much like a seatbelt. Better to have it & not need it than the other way a…
/r/askTRP27/10/18 06:51 PM
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*#metoo has given plenty of men the perfect opportunity to sidestep addressing their shortcomings because every gal you fuck is now “a ticking timebomb of false rape charges” according to their excuses and rationalizations. Its just sour grapes like many of the self proclaimed mgtow losers. It’s actually quite brilliant from the female imperative’s perspective. Millions of losers that the FI wanted out of the short term SMP have effectively self selected themselves out of the SMP thanks to the p…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/18 06:44 PM
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You wrote a long post confirming one of the tenets of game. Assume she’s attracted to you and escalate to confirm. I’d rather get the cheek going in for a kiss than go home wondering if she would have kissed me.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/18 06:22 PM
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No you’re not going to find another subreddit similar to the TRP sub that the reddit admin team allows to survive uncensored. The good news is that the manosphere predates the TRP sub. It’s still alive and well. Google rollo tomassi blog then follow the links for others there. Chateau Heartiste is another founding manosphere blog. Its better if you go deeper into the archives for game and red pill type writings. The illimitableman is another great one. CH is very rightwing now that gets consider…
/r/askTRP27/10/18 06:07 PM
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Do you drive a car? You’re more likely to die in a car crash than get metoo’d or false rape claims. Better let your fear of fiery car crash death keep you from ever leveraging the utility of the car. Humans are notoriously horrible at assessing future risk. If you buy into the metoo bs you’ve been manipulated by the media, liberals, toxic feminists and the female imperative. You are playing their game and allowing them to win. The morning after follow up is primarily strategy for game cementing …
/r/askTRP27/10/18 05:50 PM
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Bullshit response. Self defeatism personified. Edit: Your perspective is wrong. You compare yourself to the pool of available options. You’re not competing against the entire subset of 3.5 billion men in the world. You’re competing against the guys immediately available to the gal in question. Be the big fish in the little pond. End edit- Provided you have a skinny fat base, 6 months of putting in real effort on a full body compound focused program like stronglifts will put you in the 20 percent…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 01:29 PM
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Look we do and do not live in a sexual harassment witchhunt world. The same as we do and do not live in a car crash world. Wear a seatbelt and minimize your risks. Your solution to exit this profitable relationship would be leaving your car in the driveway and taking off the rims for good measure. Take whatever feelings you have for this gal aside and it’s just some dumb girl talking about her crotch. Big fucking deal. No where near worth bailing out of the top team. You need to learn how to nav…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 03:03 AM
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Women are sexual creatures. Their literal purpose is to procreate and continue the species. They love sex and all things related to sex. They will blab nonstop about it given the chance. Be an awesome nonjudgmental man and these conversations become normal and frankly they get old. I don’t know what kind of job you have. If this is a professional gig then I would not engage in this conversation. A throwaway job like restaurant/service/retail then go ham and have fun.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 10:40 PM
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Only thing stopping you from being a 20%er is that bullshit attitude
/r/askTRP23/10/18 10:16 PM
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nah the homoerotica ain’t quite there yet
/r/askTRP16/10/18 01:58 PM
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There’s lots of male hamsters in here. “Power lifter” build is not optimized for attraction. Cutting sucks but its worth it. Of course I did a bulk last winter to get where I am now, I won’t ever go on a major bulk again. Really depends what your goal is here. Do you want to compete in powerlifting or physique competitions? Are you simply trying to have the strong sexy look? Define your goals then you can decide your plan, they all have different strategies. I’ve been fat, power lifter build and…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 11:55 PM
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Its possible to have friendly cordial intergender relationships. There is always a level of attraction between the two, often heavily imbalanced on one side. Its possible to maintain this relationship and set aside the potential sexual benefits in favor of other benefits like connections, social benefits, etc. I have a few female friends and quite a few female acquaintances. I have thought about fucking every one of them, even the unattractive ones. Some I may pursue if opportunity presents itse…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 10:57 PM
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Dude you overthink this shit. She either wants to hang with YOU doing whatever you decide or she doesn’t want to hang with you. The activity is a pretense for the social interaction, nothing more. To answer your question: “Let’s grab a coffee and check out downtown/this cool park/this shopping center/etc”
/r/askTRP10/10/18 01:33 PM
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Its perfectly fine to like the girls you bang man. You should like them. We are not emotionless drones. We just don’t express those emotions in the bad/needy/turnoff way. You just don’t want to be needy af ab it. Frankly man that sounds like an excuse to not take action. Move on if you want. Your lesson here is the pain of regret due to inaction. No digs there file it away as what happens when you want something but don’t see it through. Its an important lesson we all must learn.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 02:41 PM
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Make a sock on the door agreement with your dormies. They have the same issue you do needing moments of privacy. Go to her dorm. Bang her in the park. Ask around the other guys what they do for this situation. Where there’s a Will there’s a way.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 02:34 PM
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Men are defined by action not regrets Pull the trigger man
/r/askTRP03/10/18 12:38 AM
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Yes Not fucking her
/r/askTRP03/10/18 12:35 AM
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For “not being new” you still have your head up your ass. Everything you say is a contradiction. Your oneitis is not his plate but it’s his girl? Your boy is your friend but he doesn’t respect you. Both parties are fucking around but you bring up they’re not exclusive. You say your boy doesn’t respect you, but you’re seeking approval to give him respect. You say he doesn’t respect you but he’s got your back. Your hope is that if you show respect he will return that same respect. This is the very…
/r/askTRP02/10/18 10:04 AM
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Women are effectively an infinite resource Sex gets boring and managing bitches is a pain in the ass Revenge fantasies are unfulfilling even when you get your revenge
/r/askTRP02/10/18 02:59 AM
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Jim is shit testing you. You are failing if you think he’s bigdicking you. The girl here is irrelevant to the problem at hand: you. No more mr nice guy is a good start. Your social programming to be “nice” is not sitting right with your male instincts to go after the girl you want. NMMNG will help you learn how to stick up for yourself and to break habits of expected reciprocations for your own “good” deeds. Grow a backbone. You’ll be thankful you did when the world stops walking over you. There…
/r/askTRP02/10/18 02:49 AM
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youre going down boyfriend path. that’s your goal stick with it. You still need to fuck her. Sex is a fundamental way for humans to share emotions. Also read & apply sex god method, google for it. YOU MUST DO THIS IF YOU WANT A HAPPY AND HEALTHY SEX LIFE.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 02:35 AM
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Look through the asktrp recent history. trp sub is quarantined. There’s posts detailing how to get in and save your saved posts
/r/askTRP02/10/18 01:31 AM
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I’m close to where you are stats wise excluding the IG follow count. Good looking face and a shirtless selfie worth putting on tinder. My tinder in theory should be blowing up. I’m in a smallish market tinder barely gets me anything unless I open up the range to the cities 40mi away. Then it goes nuts but I ain’t driving an hr for a tinderella. In person will always trump online. Online is a supplement to everything else, just a way to spend some toilet time.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 04:11 PM
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NO As an adult and a parent, children have no place getting involved into adult problems. Children are often ill-equipped to handle the gray areas and/or understand the shit sandwiches that often come with parenting. OP clearly is operating from a lack of information or he wouldn’t ask strangers on the internet for advice for a family problem. For all any of us know, OPs mom is a hotwife or in a relationship where the male likes to share her. You really want to have that conversation with your m…
/r/askTRP01/10/18 04:01 PM
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Your real challenge here is you are stuck in your head. You’re gonna have to take some lumps and realize that life goes on even when it doesn’t pan out how you wanted it to. To answer the question, you can put yourself in situations where the type of gals you like congregate. Most of us have a “type” of girl we want. You’re outdoorsy, so some thoughts are like hiking meetups or something similar. If you like playing sports, then co-ed leagues. Identify where your target tends to go or do, then p…
/r/askTRP30/09/18 02:49 PM
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Rollo dalrock and chateau heartiste are still alive & well. The manosphere takes a lump from this reddit shutdown but it’s no big deal in the grand scheme. Life goes on my friend. More importantly do no mr nice guy, read up and EXECUTE improving on social dynamics if that’s your weak point and make yourself awesome. Life finds a way
/r/askTRP29/09/18 11:28 PM
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Dude I’d love to hear the bullshit reason why you can follow a gal on IG but you cannot go talk to her in person. Youre making stupid excuses man. You want the girl, go say hello and see how it plays out from there. Beyond that your IG bs is the definition of play stupid games win stupid prizes.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 11:20 PM
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When I invite a gal for drinks, I say “first round is on me. Whatcha drinking” Sets the expectation that she’s buying the rest of her drinks. In reality how it normally plays out is that she picks up second round. After that it’s fair game. I tend to not have more than 3 if I’m working on seduction. I get sloppy after 4+ drinks. Buy a girl a drink because you want to. Its a gift nothing more. Don’t buy a girl a drink to buy her affection or attention, that just doesn’t work. Don’t buy a girl a d…
/r/askTRP29/09/18 10:51 PM
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A snapshot of the top 50-100 posts of all times and their comment strings would be valuable. That would not change.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 09:08 PM
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Recommend seeding it as a torrent How one goes about that, I have no idea
/r/askTRP29/09/18 07:51 PM
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Take it a bit further and you’re into jerkboy game. My usual banter drops in quite a few zings & subtle negs without being intentional per se. I’m a smart ass. Its congruent. They eat up the emotion spikes. I also give genuine compliments when they’re appropriate on choices like cool shirt, etc. Balances it out a bit. I’ve had gals bring up silly shit I said years ago that wasn’t an intentional neg or dig on my part but it was one that fucked up their hamsters. Crazy shit man.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 04:07 PM
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wear seasonal clothes that fit. slim fit is always your friend. If you can’t do slim fit lose weight. youre overthinking this. We cant tell you what your personal style is. Think the actual name is a henley? Long sleeve flannels that are sized correctly will display your upper body gains. tight is always better than loose.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 04:01 PM
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Male/female shit tests (fitness tests is the proper name, “giving you shit” is where the shit test name comes from) are different in nature. They are similar yet they’re handled differently. You can agree & amplify just about any female shit test you receive. With men you generally pressure flip or flat out disregard that they have authority to test you. My disregard is just a flat stare typically. Google illimitable man shit test for a great article on handling the receiving end of shit tests. …
/r/askTRP29/09/18 02:24 AM
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Confidence results from overcoming obstacles. Test yourself by both failing and succeeding in other areas. The confidence will carry over. Confidence is the root of frame. Frame is a major component of attraction. Your personality is fluid not static. You can overcome it. I did. Kept trying, failing, fucking up hard, getting some wins in as well. Eventually it all just kinda gels and you’re different than you were before. Hard to explain yet that’s the gist of it. Now I shit talk to my hearts co…
/r/askTRP29/09/18 01:09 AM
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You my friend hit the genetic lottery. Good aesthetics and nice proportions there. Put on a bit of sexy muscle and you’ll slay on physical looks alone. You’re in a great spot if you eat well and put in the work under the iron. Now I highly recommend getting your face off a trp related sub
/r/askTRP29/09/18 12:54 AM
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There’s a genetic element plus faces have different shapes. I have strong cheekbones which help give that look. Took me un-fattying myself to realize it. Regardless of the face you have, leaning out will optimize it. Idk my bf% estimate 11-13%. I have a 2 pack up top. I carry a bit of fat in the lower back spare tire. Fat guy remnants cuz I haven’t bit the bullet for the cardio to get that last bit off. 6’ 153 sounds like you need to put on some mass my man
/r/askTRP29/09/18 12:45 AM
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Solid feedback. My youngest will be old enough in a few years for me to start vagabonding. I’ll pick the place after I experience it a bit.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 08:30 PM
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The west is drowning. I’m not going down with it. I suggest reading 4hr work week to start your path. Plenty of good entrepreneurial resources on reddit
/r/askTRP28/09/18 04:51 PM
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My long term plan is to continue to develop my location independent income in $USD and move to South America. Earning dollars that translate amazingly well to the local currency means I don’t have to earn anywhere near American wages to live a good life.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 04:40 PM
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Lean must be stressed here. Lean & buff is better than chunky & buff like a bulk phase. Women react way better at 5-10 160-165ish vs my last bulk up to 180-185ish. Face gains are amazing when you lean out. Get that chiseled/sunken cheek look. Muscle wise, you only need about 6 months of solid work on a program to get “sexy” muscles.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 04:35 PM
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I’ve checked out the irc channel. It was dead when I went there. Its also not 1998. Wonder if mIRC is still a thing.. Main problem with irc is that it broadcasts your IP number, therefore you are easily doxxed & identified. You can run through a proxy to obfuscate your ip. Again not 1998 so I don’t have the lists of open proxies I used to have. Privacy will be the first & foremost concern for a savvy trp consumer.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 04:22 PM
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That ship has sailed
/r/askTRP28/09/18 02:53 AM
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The silver lining for myself was that it was time to let go of the trp sub. Its time to stop hanging out in the locker room.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 02:50 AM
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Faster to go look than type out that question
/r/askTRP27/09/18 11:45 PM
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Score the trunk and the branches die. Energy efficient
/r/askTRP27/09/18 10:39 PM
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My world my rules. Frame in a soundbite.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 04:06 PM
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They can fall in your lap. The sexier you are the more opportunities will present themselves. You just cannot count on it. Its a fortunate happenstance when it does. Ultimately men must seek out what they desire. The rest is on you man. Gotta get past that block in your head. You get past it by fucking up and realizing hey I’m still alive, the suns still gonna come up tomorrow and really nothing bad actually happened beyond a minor blow to the ego. I made it past it myself and I have a hard time…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 04:01 PM
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0 to 1 is the hardest. 2-100 are way easier. You get from 0 to 1 by making mistakes, blowing out sets, fucking up layups & slam dunks and otherwise TALKING TO WOMEN with the intent of fucking them. You actually have to talk to women and take some Ls man. They don’t just fall in your lap. If your only goal RIGHT NOW is to bang bitches then tipsy gals in the bar love jerkboy muscle guys. I have experience there. Have some fun getting your dick wet till you realize it’s great and all but there’s al…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 11:34 PM
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Keyword: judicious. Texting is for spiking emotions. make her laugh, make her feel naughty, make her feel sexy, make fun of her, make her pissed if you can enjoy that shit. Dont share your life story or any other dumb shit. If you can’t do that then stick to logistics only
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 11:10 PM
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I recommend looking in the mirror and questioning why you place zero value on your personal time and presence. Are you worth nothing? Are you so completely noninteresting that your very presence is irrelevant? Are you actually worthwhile yet giving away all you have for nothing? Honestly ask and answer those questions. Your life may improve for it.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 10:32 PM
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I enjoy social interactions. I freely give compliments when they’re deserved. My enjoyment is what I get from the interaction. OP makes a good post for the spergs to have a simple hard&fast rule to latch on to. Real life gets some nuance added to it.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 10:24 PM
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Great advice for before nailing down the relationship. You can open that up a bit after you’ve fucked her twice. Second fuck makes her a lot more committed to ongoing fucks. Only fucked once could be hamstered as the ol weeeell it was just a onetime thing.. once you get the first fuck, the clock is ticking on that second fuck to nail down the sexual ties between the two of you. You can use judicious texting & sexting to stir lust and emotions on someone who’s already bought what you’re selling. …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 10:19 PM
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This was a lot of fun to read. My best hello to balls deep timeframe is 3 hours from a gal I sat next to in a restaurant bar with zero intentions of gaming at the time. I have some room to improve clearly. These days I’m a good looking, muscular average height guy. The door to this world opens once you put a reasonable amount of effort into being attractive. This stuff happens and it ain’t just “letters to penthouse” bs (the original FR). 2 years ago fat bloopie no frame&game having nebder would…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 04:10 PM
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Hey OP- Sleep patterns - pre industrial revolution If you hadn’t thrown in the unsubstantiated garbage about HGH timing, then you would have been fine. It’s certainly true that your gains come during rest. The lifting session is the trigger that tells your body to adapt. The actual adaptation is made while resting after the trigger. Just say hey shut off your screens to improve your sleep and gains. The 8 hours of sleep in a row per night is a relatively recent phenomenon in human sleep patterns…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 01:53 PM
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If a 4yr old girl said you had a big nose and funny shoes, are you going to get butthurt & defensive or are you gonna laugh with her and make a fun joke out of it.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 11:02 PM
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Solid feedback. JP was a useful stepping stone along my personal path. Didn’t take long to put 2 & 2 together that he’s pushing tradcon hard when I listened to his work. I enjoyed his biblical series and maps of meaning podcasts. That material is from before he caught the attention of the world when he pushed back on pronouns. I don’t feel that work has the same agenda now that he’s becoming something like an anti-feminism figurehead in the public spotlight.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 04:33 PM
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totally alpha to call your girlfriend a plate on asktrp
/r/askTRP20/09/18 03:55 PM
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Those are two separate issues. Unsure where you are in life. If you’re younger, I’m sure you can think of many times you went against your parents and it turned out how they said. I distinctly remember in my my mid 20s thinking fuuuuuuck most of the things my parents said was legit and good advice. You only have so much control over your children. At the end of the day they are humans with free will. All you can do is give them reasonably solid decision making systems.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 08:13 PM
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Is it worth getting the book for the parenting part alone?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 03:41 PM
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This is advice for staying in your comfort zone. Read & apply sex god method. Women love dirty talk in the act. Its not simply the words it’s the emotion behind them.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 12:46 PM
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Read & apply sex god method. The 4 pillars are DEVI: dominance, emotion, variety and immersion. You incorporate those elements in your dick game and she will cum. My paraphrasing is a poor substitute for the book. Make her cum and she comes back again & again. Plus there’s the heady power that comes from making a gal cum basically on command that I can’t put in words better than that. My preference is that sex should be fun for everyone. That’s the whole fucking point of it.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 12:42 PM
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read sex god method & apply it
/r/askTRP19/09/18 04:59 AM
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They love to be dominated and used like objects, especially if they have emotional issues. I’ve been divorced for a while now. I can do a more objective postmortem on the whole thing. Shitty sex certainly played a part in the failure. I treated my ex like a dainty little princess in bed and always wanted to “make love” to her. I was literally doing a disservice to her sexuality. Females are made to submit and be dominated. She dropped the not so subtle hints about it, but I didn’t change my dick…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 04:43 PM
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She fantasizes about your dick. You sit and go ooooh man I really want a handjob today? Up your dick game don’t work around it. have more sex youll last longer Google for the book sex god method Apply what youve learned So there might be a part of you that still thinks gals don’t like being called dirty little sluts. Gotta calibrate here obviously yet yes they fucking love being owned by their man
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:10 PM
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It will pass. Then you understand better and love them again for what they are. Anger is useful as a motivator. Dont let anger run your life. Don’t take the anecdotes posted to trp completely to heart. Yes some people are shit yet that doesnt mean they’re all shit.
/r/askTRP15/09/18 09:11 PM
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skipped over macros. Not counting those weirdo keto folks you need to get a good balance of macros. Higher protein percentage is preferred. Thanks to shitty science pushed on people there is a fear of fat. Fat is an essential macro. Read an American food label for twinkies. It says something like 220 cal/serving 20 cals from fat and obfuscates the 30g of sugar accounting for 120 cals of the serving. Twinkie is clearly junk food but sugar is in EVERYTHING in a box or a bag. Learn to read food lab…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 09:53 PM
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Don’t hide your name. Are you ashamed of yourself? Do you not take pride in who and what you are? How do you expect them creep your social media & friend you if they dont know your name.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 09:44 PM
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the voice of reason appears
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 09:42 PM
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Blackdragon 2 date method. Date 1 is time limited to about an hour. You kino & send out sexual EFAs to set the sexual tone. Date 2 is to an isolated venue like one of your houses for cooking dinner or watching a movie. Effective if you set it up from the start. Its not a difficulty it’s a time/investment saver. First date bombs youre down an hour plus maybe a cup of coffee. Big deal tf is that chemical influence garbage stop spergin out man
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 09:40 PM
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Sometimes you turn off the game & innuendos and just chat. I like to talk about something they do or get them talking about something they like. Show some genuine human connection. Goldilocks that shit not too much not too little. Then pivot back into fuckboy attraction building give her both worlds for the emotional ride. I was overcompensating into asshole territory and having similar results. Just takes a bit of human connection to dial it back just enough to keep em hooked.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 11:04 PM
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SL 5x5 is good enough. Its structured for the beginner, you only have to execute the plan laid out for you. You can take it straight into Madcow 5x5 for an intermediate program after you graduate linear progression. That’s gonna be around 100-120kg on the squat most likely. You’ll switch to 3x5 when you can’t complete your 5th set consistently. Youll learn to love the squat you’ll be doing a lot of them. You’re likely not breaking parallel on your squat. Have someone video you and check your for…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 10:19 PM
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Pick up the bar Pick up 10kg Pick up 20kg There’s enough difference to tell what your bar weighs
/r/askTRP11/09/18 10:03 PM
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Good stuff man. You will get better & It gets easier. Eventually you stop even getting surprised at the shit that comes out of your mouth on auto pilot. I like the bite me move I’m stealing it. She was holding your arm cuz she liked you and/or what you were doing. Was not pushing you away a hard no is rather clear man. Wasn’t clear in the FR that you went for her pussy. She was encouraging you by holding your arm. It was ripe for the taking if you did not. You’re at her home. You can ask the tri…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 09:49 PM
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I have sex in public & public-y places quite often still. Had the cops roll up on me twice in the last year. Its always an interesting conversation. I enjoy the thrill of being in public yet that’s a personal choice. I’ve talked my way out of both times and get em laughing by the end of it. Real beauty of this post is the pedestal bait. Not quite as polarizing as a whisper JBP dig, but it sure brought em out of the woodwork.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 04:33 PM
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6/10 needs more piledriving in strangers vans
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 12:07 AM
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Other guy is doing me a favor. He takes care of all the bs I don’t wanna deal with. I get the good stuff. Why bite the hand that feeds you. Don’t be other guy
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 08:04 PM
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If only I found my soul mate
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 06:21 PM
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Not convinced the Female Imperative is a conscious choice or any type of conspiracy program. I don’t believe there’s a misandrist Illuminati somewhere setting up the long term plan for da wimminz. Yes there are strong individual players/pockets of power yet women face a challenge cooperating in general. Powerful women even more so. I don’t agree that women “come together” by choice only by happenstance. Its just kinda what they do writ large. Have you ever watched a women beta-ize a man she’s go…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 04:22 PM
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We know the competition. Many of us were in a bad spot. Makes it easy to stay out of there. It’s nothing new what these gals said, it’s good to hear it from the horses mouth. I don’t disagree with their reasonings. I know how much off a turnoff a needy overcommitted person is. I know I don’t want to go slumming for my girls. Its a fairly rational decision on their parts. Go forth & slay my friend. Its out there for the taking.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 04:14 PM
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Eh maybe. I’m much happier being off the leash. I was never made to be domesticated. I gave it a shot in 2 different long LTRs. It just doesn’t work for me.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 04:05 PM
1

Add cockiness to your funny. OG PUA DeAngelo spearheaded cocky/funny. He’s worth checking out google dangelo cocky funny.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 02:46 PM
1

They love it Hold one hand tight on the side of her neck. Youre not crushing windpipes or pinching arteries there. You ARE giving her the feel of being choked. Use your thumb to push up under her chin for bonus points
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 12:35 AM
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There’s another perspective. Don’t wait till you make it to start trying The women I fucked & gamed when I was losing weight make me shudder now. I harpooned some landwhales and snagged enough 4s to last a lifetime. I was still fucking & sharpening the saw. Wouldn’t do it again, glad I did it.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 11:34 PM
1

thin enough on the crown that you can see scalp when you shouldnt. Could’ve went with minoxidil but said fuck it it is what it is. I’m old enough that balding isnt a huge strike against me. Got some silverfox in my beard that works in my favor. If you have very short/shaved hair up top you gotta have a beard that’s my main advice here.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 04:41 PM
2

I was clean shaved for a long time. Went to a music festival and didn’t shave for about 4-5 days. I found the short look is way better on me thanks to my laziness at the time. Who knew I keep my head trimmed to the 2nd setting on my beard trimmer. The beard is the 1st setting so its marginally shorter. Have to maintain every 3-4 days or for the weekend if I’m going out. Beard is full facial with shaved cheeks up top to make a neat line. Its a great masculine look. Get complimented quite often on…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 04:29 PM
41

Wing for your bro & get the 7.5 when he pulls the 9. Cooperation can get you further than competition with your boy.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 04:22 PM
1

I don’t find it off putting. I have varied tastes so I’m not your best sounding board. It doesn’t matter what I find I didn’t match with her. Your hookup your call. That’s what I’m getting at. You do you man.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 12:59 AM
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I’d want to hear the rest of that story personally. Likely highly anti-climactic. Girls can bleed during sex Are you looking for approval for unmatching here? Do whatever you want man. Youre not feeling a gal try the next.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 12:03 AM
4

We could write a bot that automatically posts this to every new asktrp thread and basically consider r-asktrp solved
/r/askTRP27/08/18 10:36 PM
2

You missed the part that was important. Cocky & funny
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 10:11 PM
1

5-9 means 6’ on tinder They never know
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 10:02 PM
2

I enjoy it more. I bet you will as well
/r/TheRedPill25/08/18 12:16 AM
1

Most everything ab unplugging is straightforward & easy to understand. Frame is the hardest concept to grasp by far. Its esoteric & intangible. Its self confidence and how you make your will & personality the dominant reality of the groups shared perception. Like a carrier group is a projection of US strength, frame is the projection of your personal strength. Interpersonal Reality is subjective as much as objective. That doesn’t make sense until you can start imposing your will successfully on …
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 11:54 PM
3

Theres a catchy quote ab not living life on the sidelines. Applies here
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 11:41 PM
2

You’re over thinking this man. Make a plan, stick with it. Obvious course corrections should be made but in general stick to the plan. Anecdote: I’m on my 3rd student who has seen my physical change and wants to “learn how to gym” I start em low to ramp up. After 3-4 weeks they generally think they can deadlift way more than what that session has laid out for them. I let them attempt the pull & fail. After that fail they stop second guessing the program and progression. Make the plan and execute…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 04:46 PM
3

Hey man if you’re trying to change too much at once you’ll fail every time. Make a series of incremental changes over time as you absorb each change into your daily life. Its compound interest. I’ve used the rule of 2 to great success. Pick no more than 2 things to work on. Get one dialed in and then add another. Humans suck at multitasking. Anyone who say they multitask generally means someone who doesn’t finish shit or does a terrible quarter asss job on all their tasks.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 09:25 AM
2

You’ve spent 2 yrs transforming your life & following trp fundamentals? If that were the case you’d be too busy to worry about postings in a subreddit. You want to larp then continue wasting your one life whining about ultimately irrelevant shit. TRP exists to transform a man into a viable player in the SMP, no more no less. If you haven’t accomplished that in 2yrs then you don’t have what it takes to get it done.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:41 PM
1

Power pose. Superman that shit Try it youre welcome
/r/askTRP19/08/18 06:26 PM
1

Unclear why you’re downvoted thats useful info. Caveat being anal results in microtears for both parties. Ends up being blood to blood hence the high transmission rate of HIV in the gay male population. Wrap it up especially if you’re fucking ass.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 04:13 PM
1

Did you knowTM that there is a fetish called sounding I believe. There are specific metal instruments designed to be inserted into your urethra for pleasure. I’ve seen it done. Dude seemed to really get into it. Hard pass no thanks.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:57 PM
2

Getting cheeked only really sucks the first time. Now I say cool now I know and move on
/r/askTRP16/08/18 11:35 PM
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https://markmanson.net/std-guide That link should be in the sidebar Get tested every 6 months or if you have suspicions of symptoms. Wrap it up. Be aware and minimize risks. Don’t let fear run your life. Bacterial STI can be treated with antibiotics. Annoying but not a big deal in the grand scheme. HIV would suck to pay out for the drugs. It doesn’t kill you anymore it seems. This is the major one to worry about. Unprotected anal (male or female) is the biggest transmission risk sexually. Shooti…
/r/askTRP16/08/18 04:27 PM
1

You can easily sub in little bitch for cuck. Anymore it rarely means dudes getting literally cuckolded unless it’s specifically addressing the bull-hotwife-cuckold fetish. Of all the hills to die on why are you picking this one?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 04:09 PM
4

TV turned him into a bitch. Language is fluid get over it.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 12:34 PM
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Entertainment that engages your mind and imagination. Its an mentally active hobby. Consuming TV is passive and typically low mental engagement. Training you to be a sheeple.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 12:33 PM
3

r-hotwife
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 11:39 PM
2

Solid message. Be a selfish “asshole” in general. Choose to be kind when it suits you and meets your own internal criteria. It’s perfectly acceptable to be kind of your own choosing. The difference between kindness & nice guy syndrome is expected reciprocation. The nice guy thinks I do X so the recipient does Y in return. Fuck covert contracts. You want to do something kind, generous, loving or what have you, then you do you if thats your choice. You cannot hold an expectation that your favors w…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 01:08 PM
2

I’ll claim no experience in startup world. My frame of reference is established corporateland. If it makes sense to pick up some work & get paid at the buyout then go for it. Your words are in English but they don’t make sense to me. Read it as when the startup is procured, you potentially get a title & salary bump for your sweat equity. You want to read the gervais principle if you’re working for the man. Applies to every organization I’ve had the displeasure of being a part of.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 08:43 PM
2

Write a 1 Use an eraser Replace with 2 Mystery solved scoob Snark aside, my productivity maybe takes a hit but I’m not in favor of micromanaging myself. I’m too much grasshopper and not enough ant to really give a fuck. Maybe the ants get something out of this. The grasshoppers are lazy enough to find the most effective way to get it done and never think about it again.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 04:46 PM
1

More responsibility without pay? Great deal for your boss. Shitty deal for you. Google the gervais principle, you’re in the loser category. Aim to be the sociopath. Good for a one-off, don’t make it a habit or next month you’ll post to asktrp my boss works me to bone and doesn’t appreciate me. Fuck no he doesn’t you offered up a bad deal and he gladly took it. PS Were hiring I’ll put in a word for ya.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 04:39 PM
1

Again I get what you’re saying, I don’t fully agree. Different strategies work for different men. You’re going straight to absurd reductions to make your point. Sending 1 text calling someone out for flaking is far from wasting time. You’re down the 30 seconds it takes to tap it out then its a soft next a flake deserves. I’m clearly not in favor of writing out some 10 page dissertation explaining how she’s a horrible person for breaking her word and spending the next 6 months pining over what co…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 12:54 PM
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I get what you’re saying. I don’t fully agree as its situational. Depending where the man is in his journey makes a huge difference here. Billy beta just starting to reform himself has no business dealing with flakey chicks or even texting after the flake happens. A high value man can express his disapproval of someone else’s actions provided its simple direct and to the point. Its the reverse of giving a genuine compliment with no strings attached and no neediness. The compliment bears greater …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 09:40 AM
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LBG?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 10:05 PM
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It is incredibly important to call a spade a spade. The entire idea behind unplugging is to view reality as it is without bullshit rose glasses. If he truly knows how women function why would push tradcon down your throat. You want fantasyland medicate yourself with prescribed amphetamines and enjoy your vidya & netflix. Have fun marrying some broad and have her take all your shit when your fat lazy ass gets taken to the cleaners by her & the state. Go on & say I did everything I was sposed to d…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 09:58 PM
4

Brah ive come up with a number of creative solutions to my logistics problem. Cars, woods, nature trails, parking lots, family bathrooms wherever. First time I pull em to my place with lets go hang on my back porch/yard the roomies home. We come around the back way and my tent is up in the yard. Cant miss it. Well chill or drink or do whatever and then I take em outside from the porch for some dumb reason and work over to the tent. It can be as easy as standing up holding out my hand saying lets…
/r/askTRP27/07/18 04:31 AM
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welcome to my humble abode unzip the tent and show them inside. How else do you get someone inside a fucking tent. It ain’t rocket surgery man.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:44 AM
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societal reset or same ol same ol we wont see change in our lives. status quo is too strong that said look at the difference in technology in 3yr chunks. major changes occur in today vs 3yrs ago. society works similarly. just like watching your kids grow up. Theyre a few hundredths of an inch taller each day so you don’t notice. Look at beginning of school yr vs end of school yr and you see major changes. My theory is the west declines to the point where its totally irreversibly fucked in my gra…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 02:36 AM
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It’s the US now. Everyone is fat. I went on a school trip with ~20 kids & ~15 adults. I was the only thin adult. One other woman was in her early 50s and she was what I’d call 50s thin. Only slightly overweight but looked like a human woman still. Only maybe 5-7 of the kids I’d call thin. They’re 3-6 graders for reference. The fatty waves will continue to crash down. There is little care for being attractive anymore. Why bother when theyll fuck you anyway. That’s what we have to work with.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 12:36 AM
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Do you really think we believe the classic woke up in an icebath story that happened to a “friend” You’re a pussy & you chickened out. You came here for other pussies to tell you that you made the right call. Edit: to be fair, learn why you gave up an easy lay for a gal who invited you over and address that. Seems like youre not confident in yourself as to why a gal would want to just fuck you. Guess what gals like to fuck too. Give em the d man. Give em all the fingers. Put it in their butt. Fu…
/r/askTRP27/07/18 12:26 AM
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To pile on here, one of my gals comes to my house and fucks me in a tent on demand. I have shit logistics so a tent is what I got rn. She loves every minute of it. A woman that wants to fuck you will crawl thru broken glass to fuck you on a cot. Paraphrased from Rollo.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 11:52 PM
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There’s a couple ways to look at this. To directly answer your question, use subtle negs and light gaslighting to poke and gently irritate her insecurities then make her feel like she is somewhat lesser but you still allow her to be in your life. This makes you the both the irritant and the salve for her insecurities and you’re emotionally addicting her to your frame of acceptance. Make her feel like you’re the only one who could ever accept her for how broken she is. The other approach is that …
/r/askTRP21/07/18 12:39 PM
2

She wants the d. Gonna give it to her? I’d say “Great plan hon gimme a few” and head over
/r/askTRP21/07/18 01:10 AM
1

Thanks man sounds like your cycle went well. Makes sense as long as you’re not over genetic max you wouldn’t magically lose shit as long as you’re eating for it.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 12:54 AM
1

How long have you been off cycle now I look similar to your natty pic. Bout 2-3% more bf and smaller pecs. Your post cycle is about where I want to be. Welcome to the beard show my man
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 10:57 PM
2

The smarter & experienced ones know that the hot guy is looking for an easy bang. Cliche cuz its true. I am a freak into less normal shit like biting dominance blah blah. I can pick up on other deviants by talking to them and feeling them out. I go for freaks > looks. Its worth it to me to feel out all the ladies. I’d rather have crazy freaky sex with an average girl than vanilla sex with a smokeshow. If you’re not as deviant as myself then I’d def go for hot over average. Hot girls are generall…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 08:24 PM
1

Hey bro are you sized right for the condoms. Never had one leak out since I got the right size. Try on diff brands and try diff sizes till you get what works. Sounds like you were seeing pussy juice not cum tbh
/r/askTRP20/07/18 08:14 PM
2

I don’t have symptoms I’m sure I’d test positive. My ex wife had cold sores on her mouth. My true body count is lost in the annals of time. I estimate 100-110 when I try to pin it down. Condoms only protect the covered skin from hsv (cold sores/herpes) & hpv (genital warts) given those numbers I’ve fucked gals with herpes without a doubt. Doesn’t always transfer but the numbers are something like 1 in 5 adults and I also read that women in their 40s have a 50% infection rate among the general po…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 08:09 PM
1

welcome to ~80% of the human population infected with hsv. Its just a somewhat embarrassing skin condition
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:57 PM
6

I’m an 8. Some females tell me I’m a 9. Chiseled face often comes up. Women are happy to see me. Average girls get smiley and nervous around me. I’m a down to earth fun teasing and joking guy so I can break through that shit and set them at ease. “You made me feel so comfortable youre so real blah blah blah” in our post fucking pillow talk I work to get a bit of comfort and build rapport quickly. They are not incorrect that I’m often talking to them to feel out an easy lay opportunity or if shes…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:49 PM
6

Your MO is to ask a bunch of stupid questions on the ask subs. You have maintained your consistency. Halo effect is hardwired. You ain’t changing it snowflake
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:43 PM
6

same as it means when any tinderella wants to hang out. Pound it if you dont have hangups on being the other guy. Just stay in your lane and life is good. All the sex none of the relationship work.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:35 PM
3

It is easier. Practice being more social in everyday life like grocery store, coffeehouse, etc. That will show sober you that you don’t need drinks to chat ppl up. I have a 3 drink limit when I’m sarging. My game is to see who is gonna buy #3 for me. It’s a fun game.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:35 PM
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Earning your seat at the table is a given. Get your shit in order w/ all the trp basics & you’ll get IOIs. Thats not game Knowing to recognize when a gal wants you & having the balls to act on it is game. Thats the challenge for ppl who just sat down at the table.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 04:07 AM
1

Lets say I ran a basic noob cycle of test e and an oral kickstart. Once I cycled off realistically how much of the juiced gains are lost and how quickly. Everyone is different yadda yadda. Could I see something like gain 15lbs lbm on cycle lose 5lbs lbm after cycle to net 10lbs I’m almost at my ideal target of 10-11% bf. Have enough muscle to look muscly without being over the top. Working on the last mile to fully expose my abs. 5-10 12-13% bf ~165lbs. 315 DL 305 squat 145 bench lifting about 1…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 03:57 AM
3

Agreed its a quick conversation. Be upfront and don’t lead people on. Its fucking rude. For me it’s I’m not looking for a stepmom and don’t want to be a stepdad. Then I add I enjoy your company and don’t want that to change. That’s it expectations are set. Heading off the sperg army The dating pool in the late 30s has a large amount of moms in it. It is what it is when I go older vs younger.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 04:01 PM
2

The youth are fully exposed to the modern world. It’s a choice to join the church when they’re an adult. Plenty of jerkovers choose not to join who were born Amish. All youth spend their time outside the church & possibly the community in their mid-late teens on their rite of passage. Amish rumspringa throw the best parties you dont even know. Amish use modern technology for business all day long. It’s their home life that’s limited. They’re just people that drive a horse & buggy instead of a ca…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 01:36 PM
1

stronglifts.com - start there for lifting MyFitnessPal - get your diet in order & track your cals If you stopped with those two you’d be just fine. Pareto principle applies here. Don’t worry about minuscule shit. Those two things get you off to the start you need. In a 6-9 months review your program and decide where to go with it. you’ll know a bit more and can make a better decision then. Lift heavy. Eat big to get big. Then next Jan-Feb start losing excess fat for your summer body. Its not nea…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 10:29 PM
1

Why do you put the oxygen on the adult first?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 09:59 PM
16

Skinnyfat. Shit job. Defensive rationalizations. Get your house in order. Bitches will come knocking afterwards
/r/askTRP17/07/18 05:44 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with him He can be a useful stepping stone. Exactly like TRP as a sub is only a stepping stone. Question everything you’ll make it thru
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 05:17 AM
3

My man did you read what you wrote. Wrong on so many levels. A two parent household with a bullshit relationship is worse than shared custody. Your children are fully aware of the bs, maybe not the specifics but they definitely pick up on the vibe/mood/emotional aura of the household. It bleeds into all interactions. Last year of my marriage was garbage for everyone in the house. It’s not a healthy environment for children to grow up in. Do you think a man that puts up with that kind of relation…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 12:52 PM
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Raising his child is his responsibility. Teaching his child that a sexless disrespectful relationship is the proper and correct role model for intersexual relationships is a serious disservice to his child.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 02:47 PM
1

I went thru this similar thought process. My conclusion: since nothing matters I have the power to decide what matters to me. It’s liberating really. If everything is a lie, then you can create your own mental reality. God gave humanity an external focal point. God is dead means man must now determine his own focal point. So that’s on you to decide. This is why mission is so important. We’re no longer handed the easy out of religion to give us guidance and leadership. We must guide and lead ours…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 12:46 PM
2

Your point of origin isn’t helping you from my perspective. It’s about being a sociable man for me, less about opening a gal to hit on her. I went the “talk to everyone” route vs the spam approach route. It just flipped in my head one day that gals are just people and most of them are happy or neutral that I come up and talk to them. I open people just to chitchat now. Granted I did that a lot where I just started chatting up randos everywhere. Some of it is inane bs, some of it is genuine compl…
/r/askTRP10/07/18 01:03 PM
2

It could go anywhere so you let her show her hand. Then you can decide where to take it. I would expect hitting on chicks badly would be terrible for your driver rating. You could also find a few random dtf gals. Life is interesting. The “why” she says it could be anything so it’s less worth considering. The how to deal with the situation correctly is actionable.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 02:59 AM
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Who tf really knows why. It doesn’t matter Acknowledge her statement with “Yeah cool” and leave it at that. If she’s going somewhere she’ll follow up. If not who cares about a random girl.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 02:50 AM
1

Guess what hot guys get more leeway. I’ve still fucked up plenty. Even with outcome independence there’s gonna be fuckups that sting more than others. Its worth it. It’s part of the process man. Just go talk to them. Hell talk to everyone instead of the rote bs we always parrot back and forth. Also you’re now experiencing the halo effect.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 02:41 AM
2

Prescription seems accurate so far. Thank you. This book has challenged me. I can’t read it when I’m stoned for damn sure. I can follow along marginally better if I’ve had a whiskey or two. Funny how the different substances alter your ability to think and comprehend in different ways. I can’t read more than a chapter at once without stopping to deeply think about it. Usually have to read the chapter twice to gain more than the surface understanding of the message. This is not a book that I’ll r…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 09:00 PM
2

You make up your own mind based off executing the suggestions you get. Try the differing strategies and compare the results. There’s no single perfect strategy here. The most important thing in these is sending out your Early Frame Announcements that show you’re a sexual man. That’s as simple as working in innuendo, sexualizing the convo (which can be as easy as a well timed ‘that’s what she said’) holding sexy eye contact and/or giving her the appreciative once over when you see her. Women love…
/r/askTRP08/07/18 04:15 PM
2

Fair enough rebuttal. I would go for a 18-20yr old living on campus. I wouldn’t go for 18-21 still living at home unless there was a very high level of discretion involved. Even then I’d think long and hard.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 03:47 PM
3

Brah you’ve made it clear in this comment thread that YOU do not find it acceptable to go for younger. That’s your call to make. However don’t force your fears and insecurities on everyone else as if they’re dogma. High value attractive men are orders of magnitude less likely to get the creep label. Fat neckbeards are a diff story. I sometimes catch superficial shit for being with younger but overall it improves my standing because an older guy like me has a pretty young thing that wants to hang…
/r/askTRP07/07/18 03:29 PM
11

Its almost like there’s a specific article dealing with getting strangers pregnant in the sidebar that addresses this exact issue
/r/askTRP07/07/18 03:18 PM
2

Act like a king to be treated like a king - aka tech n9ne fuck errrbody but me Avoid the unhappy or unlucky - theyre psychic vampires that will bleed you dry Never outshine the master - very important in Corpland. Make your boss look good. In turn your boss will shine the spotlight on you as it makes him look good to have competent reports
/r/askTRP07/07/18 03:15 PM
3

There’s not a one size fits all solution here. Increasing your value is an effective solution. I get tested much less and much differently as a 165lb visibly muscular welldressed man vs the 240lb slob I was a few years ago. I’m given a baseline level of respect due to my appearance and frame now that automatically ranks me higher in the hierarchy. Men shit test to establish the social hierarchy, you know cuz its not appropriate to hurl fists in polite society. Pressure flip and amused mastery ar…
/r/askTRP07/07/18 02:53 PM
1

If you had the personal combat skills required to defend yourself, you wouldn’t ask this question. Take up a combat sport of your choosing. Deescalate or remove yourself from the situation. Street fights are bad all around. You can fuck someone up or get fucked up badly and quickly. There’s the legal aspect of dealing with battery charges. All downsides, no upsides.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 02:50 PM
2

Mark Manson STD guide
/r/askTRP06/07/18 08:09 PM
1

Brah if thats you then that really sucks. I’m not in any position to offer advice if you’re there. Life can be really fucking fun without women in it they just add to the charm.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 08:02 PM
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trinary girls I would fuck girls I would fuck but dont want anyone to know girls I aint gonna fuck
/r/askTRP06/07/18 07:15 PM
3

You confirmed my call on the excuses. Do it or don’t. That’s on you. That comes from within. No raa raaa bs from me is going to make up your mind for you. For your sake I hope you make the best out of the one life you get.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 05:13 PM
13

You’re right genetics set the ceiling. If you’re not at or working towards your ceiling, then nobody cares if you don’t. You max what you have to work with. If you’ve given up, no one has any pity or sympathy for you. You’re literally disposable at the point because you do not value yourself. Why should I value you when you don’t. If you’re legit Quasimodo then you’ll have to adopt a different strategy like high beta and serial monogamy. You’ll still get better results maximizing what you can co…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 01:30 PM
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What’s your point here. You’re not wrong, you just don’t add anything. Your status and looks are entirely within your control. You’re not going to change your genetics but you can control your appearance. Do that and women are genuinely happy for your presence the same way we light up when a sexy 6+ comes around.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 12:12 PM
2

Brah I still remember my second grade “do you like me check yes or no” note. Spoiler- she checked no
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 01:44 PM
2

I’m late 30s so I relate. My current stable is two single moms in mltrs and a low 30s never married no kids gal who rates high on the hot/crazy scale. We’re functional alcoholics so we are both the best and worst thing for each other. Good times party girl meets fun bar guy, drama and hilarity ensues. POF is trash tier yet it’s single mom heaven. My profile is a couple decent pics, some fun DHV that invites them along for the ride and closes with “I’m not looking for a stepmom or looking to be a…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 01:03 PM
2

You’re only confirming that your excuses are weak. Why are you telling them what you do for a living? I spend other people’s money and solve problems. That canned response then I redirect the convo away from my profession. I have to give em some comfort eventually and that’s when I talk about my work. Till then your work is only good for slotting you into provider.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 12:48 PM
1

Goddamn your beautiful ruskie mind. Fucking goddamn it. I was enjoying my hedonism. Why are you ruining my nice things. Over 9 months since I wrote out my main mission and halfassed worked on it here and there. Put it all down in a moment to get laid or keep the funnel going. I read this garbage last night and it rattles around in my brain all day. Fuck you that’s my head. So today I pushed 2 through the funnel to see where that falls out. They will or they won’t. Either way not worth the amount…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 08:57 PM
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To be clear, she was hired when she’s less competent than the males yet she’s slaying it with clients. I assume client relations was the role she was hired for. That appears to be competence to me in a soft skills role. Sounds like your hiring manager knew what the fuck was up. Maybe it’s halo effect or just maybe your hiring manager has enough sense to understand reality. You don’t have to be urmagerd super red level 9000 alpha to know that attractive women influence males. Why do you think Chi…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 03:58 AM
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spergs in a nutshell. fuck em The message will hit the right targets. Looking back I can always see my willful ignorance on the relationships that didn’t work out. It’s a good lesson if you can get the emotions out of the way.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 12:48 PM
2

Congrats on the pull. That’s my age range so I’m like mana from the heavens to them compared to the other schlubs. I bought my first drink Saturday night and different women bought the rest. No pulls just drinks. Had to beat one off with a stick. You should be more direct the older they get. Lean in to their ear and say I want you tonight. Best effect is during or right after dancing.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 08:15 PM
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You can move and deal with all that You can learn to suck it up and deal with it. Life sucks Pick one
/r/askTRP26/06/18 03:22 AM
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Dropped a mltr cuz her almost 18yr old boy was taking too much to me plus the bitch started dropping love bombs. I gave him advice and helped him out where I could but I’m not signing up to unfuck 18 years. He was actually a built young man taking lifting classes as a senior. He was so fucking needy. Can only say shut up snowflake and sack up buttercup so many times. It’s gonna be rough for the next round of kids
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 12:03 AM
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I don’t slot myself into PUA yet I’m a fun friendly guy who does well enough with the ladies. Everyone has a unique story. I love meeting new people. I find even fleeting connections are memorable and interesting. The thrill of the hunt is as enjoyable as the bang if it gets to that point. It’s a mental battle of sorts and I love to win plus she’s happy when I win. win/win all around Maybe that’ll change someday. For now I don’t see that changing.
/r/seduction24/06/18 06:10 PM
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I have a personal rule of never lying to women. I can give partial truths or evade answering yet I never outright lie in a way that I have to remember and uphold the lie. Not worth the mental effort to me. No idea the severity of what you lied about. You have two choices here: go 100% shaggy it wasn’t me deny deny deny or own your shit and fess up. If it’s severe you likely tanked the relationship. Once someone shows me a likelihood of lying I’ll never trust em the same after.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:05 PM
2

Dude that bitch just wants to bang. Send her sexy pics and bang. Or don’t if you don’t think she’s hot. You’re overthinking this shit.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 05:56 PM
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Drinking is borrowing tomorrow’s happiness. Minimizing would stop that. Do it for your mental health. Any extra gainz are a nice side benefit. I drink and smoke. I’m much more productive towards my mission when I drink/smoke less. Easier to get shit done when you’re not bleh with a hangover.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 04:21 PM
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Getting a number can means she’s interested or she’s not interested but doesn’t want to deal with rejecting you in person. Some dudes fly off the rails when rejected in person. So they give the number and don’t answer. Escalate to a kiss to find out if she’s into you. That’s more clear than a number close.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:36 PM
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Skimmed post history and saw the shit about your nutsack biking experience with your age and details. Caught college not the 28 part. Your brains as grown as it’s gonna get my man. I made assumptions on incorrect information. My daughter is a fucking bitch to get up in the morning (X) when she doesn’t get the right sleep (Y). Managing Y means I don’t deal with X. I could let her sleep whenever and deal with the ruckus every morning. Fuck that. Bitches love drama and will fight, argue and do dumb…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 12:11 AM
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It came up later. She was gauging my discretion levels to see if I was going to spout off that I was fucking her. Our circles overlap.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 11:52 PM
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My man you’re not wrong in your core message of actions over words yet you’re just repeating TRP 101 because you now have some actual experience with TRP success. You can expand your line of thinking to the next level and add notes that other men will find useful. Your post did spark some interesting conversations so it has value. I found your attack on the commentor that sparked my response in poor taste and small minded. It showed unwillingness to think and analyze to me. Your perspective come…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 11:40 PM
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Rollo - War Brides
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 10:44 PM
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They simply dont look good. Not form fitting and are boxy on the legs with the extra pockets. Why you gonna squat 3 plates if you ain’t gonna show off the goods. Handy if you’re hiking or actually utilizing the pockets. Otherwise they signal idgaf what I look like. Taken the right way that can be sexy but you better pull it off with your face and physique. In most cases it falls under the “old married dude who stopped caring a long time” look. Usually paired with a fat wife with world class rbf …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 10:22 PM
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Take that chip off your shoulder internet tough guy You don’t want an echo chamber. You want a place where men can swap notes. Commentor you’re attacking raises valid lines of thought. Social programming is insidious and seeps into every human being. Women are fed all kinds of shit from society like girl power, equality, wait to have kids now when you can do it later then society neglects to forewarn of the major upcoming splat yadda yadda. It goes against their nature and they have trouble reco…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 06:19 PM
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You’ll get there with more social experience. A conversation is fluid and dynamic so giving hard and fast rules is counterproductive. What you’re looking for are pivot points in the convo. The tone, context and/or demeanor will subtly shift. A recent example is I was bantering with a gal I knew somewhat from running in similar circles. She was a looker and used to having men fawn over her. I played cocky jerkboy getting called out for it and she’s having fun with it. She pivots to something like…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 04:00 PM
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If you go quick the first time, chill a bit then go again. Takes me 15-20 minutes for round 2. Young bucks can cut that rest time down. If she doesn’t do what you want find another one of the 3.5 billion that will do what you want. These are not mutually exclusive paths to take.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 03:15 PM
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You’re starting to get the high level view of the game. It is all just a game. Play to win and play to have fun. Once you start getting the hang of it you’ll enjoy strong clever opponents. Her submission is much more gratifying when you beat her fair and square and she knows it. You must realize that she wants you to win if she feels any level of attraction to you. Mind you not everyone will be attracted to you as well. You’ll learn to recognize when to nope out. The next phase is realizing “eve…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 03:03 PM
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I make sure to be on friendly charming terms with at least a few of the HR gals. Id drop this into casual conversation with an HR gal vs making a formal report in my situation with connections. They all gossip like magpies so everyone in HR will informally know the scoop. Formal HR is never your friend. Their main role is to protect the company from its employees. Their secondary role is what everyone else thinks HR does.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 12:23 AM
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Piling on to your comment Fully agree women love them. Guys ask me about them as well. That said, get the art for your own reasons with its own story. Don’t get inked only cuz the ladies like it. Fully agree on the placement advice. I have a forearm sleeve. Latin saying in a decent font from wrist to just above the elbow. Looks fine to me in biz casual for work. Covered up in a suit. Doesn’t look out of place to me with rolled sleeves or a polo. Imagine I do get judged for it. It hasn’t stopped …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 11:21 PM
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Keep wearing them -Mr steal your girl
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 10:58 PM
1

Starburst Man has deposed Skittles Man
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 07:34 PM
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Good writeup. Solid advice for a professional clean look. I’ll add personal style isn’t one size fits all. You gotta fit it to you. I can pull off a cutoff shirt and chucks or oxfords and button ups. I fit my clothes to my intended atmosphere. I’m not prettyboying it up to throw horns at a metal show. I’m not wearing a cutoff unless I’m hitting a dive or other super casual event. Use some sense here.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 05:56 PM
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You’ve done a lot of shit getting your life together. No one is discounting that. That interaction was just a girl that wasn’t into you. It happens all the time. It was pretty boring to read frankly. I’d nope out of that convo in her shoes. Maybe you won’t be super alpha banging left and right. You can look up sadomasochrist post on high betas. Basically date till it comes time to commit then decide if you ghost or invest. There’s more to it and worth checking out. 3-4s May be a low starting poi…
/r/askTRP22/06/18 01:02 PM
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Your reading skills need brushed up. Nobody said otherguy accidentally smashed exfiance. OP knows otherguy and exfiance banged in his gut. He came here for tough love from people that have zero emotional investment in the situation. He knows what to do simply needs some support and reaffirmation cuz he’s in a shit place.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 02:20 AM
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pfft straight
/r/askTRP22/06/18 01:30 AM
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Brah engaged gals want to get in “one last fling” before settling down. shooting fish in a barrel.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 01:22 AM
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What’s stopping you from having friends? A solid social life is part of being a well rounded man. Monk mode doesn’t mean solitary confinement my man.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 12:55 AM
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Why eat small slices when you can make a bigger pie
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 11:52 PM
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I can only advise from my mental origin. I’ve worked my way up out the hole I put myself in so I know it’s feasible for me. I’m also a nihilistic hedonist so that taints my worldview. The nihilism gives me the go ahead to do whatever because nothing really matters in the end. I’m gonna be dead in a hole somewhere eventually so fuck it why not. What I’m picking up is excuses and reasons why not. You should find motivating reasons to do it. Make a game out of it. I generally limit myself to 3 drin…
/r/askTRP21/06/18 11:36 PM
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It comes off bad because it’s disingenuous. Gotta be congruent with yourself. Tough love time, sounds like you’re stuck in fat guy thinking mode and it’s your confidence that needs work. Test yourself and your competence in other ways than women. Take up a sport or a martial art or go balls to the wall on a hobby you love. Do something that reinforces that your an awesome mfer. It makes you a well rounded person and gives you something to chat about with people with passion. People eat up passio…
/r/askTRP21/06/18 10:08 PM
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This point is worth explicitly stating for guys who aren’t at this point. Act like a king to be treated like a king is both one of the best laws and one of the easiest to put into practice.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 12:50 PM
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First off hope this account is a total throwaway. You need to use an account scrubber plug-in that overwrites your reddit comments then delete the account. Never post face shots on reddit let alone a TRP linked sub It’s only a matter of time till you get doxxed. If I cared I’m sure a few reverse image searches would tell me exactly who you are. You’re too fat in your last picture. Lose weight. Your facial aesthetics were much better when you were leaner. You’re not gonna lose much if any muscle …
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:58 AM
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you don’t make sure of that. you control your sperm with a vasectomy or by wrapping it up. end of story
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:07 AM
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Personal anecdote time. Better to find out right now if it’s in the air vs after 13 months like I did after a questionable pregnancy from a ONS. Get a 13 month old identified as your child and you just wont bond the same way if you were there for those 13 months. It’s like someone else’s toddler is handed to you and you can’t give them back. I don’t love that child like I do the ones I raised from birth. Make the right call and force the situation.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:04 AM
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I love this approach. I forced myself out of my self imposed “antisocial” behaviors using the talk to anyone captive approach like checkout lines, service staff, etc then stepped it up to giving genuine compliments to people. “Hey man great pulls there” after you see someone shred some deads. “Oh that shirt is awesome” when you see someone walking by. It’s just giving people a taste of my inner monologue. It went over well when I was still in the neutral dude category. Now I have the practice to…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 11:33 PM
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Agree fully. Compliment choices, not physical beauty. I get called handsome, hot, wtfever enough now to grasp why it’s the worst thing in the world to say. Low effort on the person who tells it to you. It’s a legit turnoff. You simply don’t appreciate it after the first couple times.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 11:14 PM
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The goal here is to spread beauty into the world. An ulterior motive will show in your demeanor. You can and should freely share your value with the world particularly when it costs you nothing to do so.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 11:10 PM
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You wouldn’t poke through her shit if you were at her place alone? Cmon I’m at least checking the medicine cabinet, the fridge and the state of her cabinets. That tells me enough.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 01:16 AM
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It’s life, of course anything is possible. Bloopie nebder wasn’t stupid, just misguided. I had leverage and used it. I presented a win/win and she agreed. Wimminz aren’t all complete idiots. People regardless of dicks vs vags can see where their self interest lies, you just gotta give them an easy path to take.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 12:51 AM
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My state does offer this. Assume the others will as well. You can self file for divorce, follow the basic forms and write up some required documents on asset distribution and custody agreement. It’s not black magic and you can figure it out with the instructions and some internet research. Most lawyers won’t allow this to happen. They get paid to appear in court and pad your case’s billable hours. It’s almost like they have this incentive to drag things out and bicker over petty shit to keep the…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 12:27 AM
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How would you go about finding this mentor? Talk to the old guy with the hug traps and shoulders in gym is my thinking.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 11:27 PM
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Now that you got your justice/revenge porn wankery out of the way.. I survived divorce in 2017 rather well. Gotta go without lawyers. I got paid, got 50/50 custody and no support. I lost my house and that work there. Overall I got a payout, transferred the household debt to her and moved out. A fresh start in your late 30s isn’t so bad in retrospect. I had to fight off a couple stabs from her on the support and custody. It required not backing down. I had some thrumbscrews to gently twist and th…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 10:30 PM
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Presentation over words. I’ve told bitches to gtfo out of my bar and banged em shortly after. Read up on powertalk. Trump is a perfect case study regardless whether you agree or not. Fucker is crazy like a fox.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 10:15 PM
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He has autism. The others are relatively normal and worth investment.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 08:12 PM
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I love two of my kids with all my heart and would do anything in my power for them. The third kid I really could care less about if you can handle the honest answer. Yes you love each of your kids differently so if you thought your parents loved someone else more you were probably right. I wouldn’t have them now if I knew what it fully entailed. I’m a selfish asshole and they make me give up time I could spend elsewhere
/r/askTRP15/06/18 11:08 PM
1

I’m at least ten times the average then. Another study showed male mean count at 6 and median count at 10 For lifetime partner count.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 04:02 PM
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To be clear, women do appreciate the dadbod. It signals male removal from the smp and typically the dadbod owner is great at provisioning. It’s a neat little betabux package. They’re not lying when they say they like dadbods. I like free ATMs myself so I can’t hate em for it. They just don’t find it sexy.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 10:23 PM
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You’re better off going tighter than looser. This is the key and deserves highlights. I wear smalls and people can see my upper body, abs lines and male v shape through my clothes and they can also see that I have a bit of love handle left. The small love handle is way better than wearing a boxy shirt to hide a handle. That just makes me look like every other doof of a man that can’t dress himself. 5-9 or 5-10, 163-166 I’m 6’ on dating profiles all day long and no one has called me on it. They c…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 10:14 PM
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I’m on my 4th wardrobe flip. Clothing size is critical. I look great in a small and baggy & boxy in a medium I’m at the point where I can now start getting my clothes tailored on the aftermarket. Bonus points there
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 04:11 PM
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There’s a downvote here for some reason. It is this simple.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 04:09 PM
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You can do whatever you want to do. You simply have to deal with the consequences.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 11:44 PM
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First fuck? Gotta toss em some comfort like we’re having a great time together. Make it a we thing Once you get the second fuck in they’re hooked and you can play it cooler
/r/askTRP10/06/18 11:31 PM
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Managing bitches in the main sub sidebar
/r/askTRP10/06/18 11:28 PM
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Lets skip the posturing on both sides. We can do this all day right. We agree that trp faces a dire challenge in its current incarnation. Greatness never waits for permission. I’m sure if you have the chops and ability to build the platform and are willing to gift the codebase, then it would be put to use. Aside: that’s awesome that you’re living the location independent dream my man
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 02:20 PM
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Thanks for volunteering. When does this new platform go live
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 04:15 AM
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Time is by far the most valuable resource The sub founder and many senior ECs are software engineers. There is a backup plan when this sub gets banned.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 08:36 PM
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Anything is possible in software given unlimited resources Whos paying for it?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 03:52 PM
1

Go read the guide. There’s a method to the madness
/r/askTRP09/06/18 03:38 PM
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The u/omlala guide on using dating sites in the sidebar lays this out. It’s effective as it stands, you can customize to fit yourself once you get some experience. Read the article. I’m not paraphrasing it. Edit: I never answer unknown numbers now that cells are free game for telemarketers. *67 is blocking caller id right? I don’t recommend that
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:43 AM
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Is your nutrition, sleep and stress levels dialed in? Alcohol kept to a reasonable level? Lifting is the stimulus. The actual growth happens when youre resting. You can overtrain when you don’t allow rest and recovery time
/r/askTRP09/06/18 01:50 AM
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Madcow 5x5 plus curls on bench day and pull-ups on DL day was what I went to after SL. That’s another viable option
/r/askTRP09/06/18 01:47 AM
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If you can get 50/50 custody then it’s not as bad as you think. My youngest is almost 6, was a little more than 4 when I moved out. That’s past the point where the critical socializing for children happens in the 2-3 age range. It still sucks.. just sucks way less than every other weekend. As you said, better to be a strong role model a portion of the time instead of being a weak role model all the time. I love 50/50 now. I get my life and I get my family life.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 01:44 AM
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Is it anger or jealousy? That 15 years of female prime SMV has to be a helluva drug. The wall crash has to be indescribably horrible as evidenced by the original article.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 12:50 PM
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Chaperoned a school trip for 3-6 graders. A couple of the 5-6 grade girls were plotting and taking insta casuals. Got that term wrong but they’re posed pics intended to look spur of the moment. These are kids from the gifted/talented programs. 99% percentile on standardized testing type kids. Their intelligence is staggering. I’m not a stupid man myself as I was high 90s percentile back in the day. These kids have the smarts to make the world eat out of their hands. My daughter is still a vidya …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 11:10 AM
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My state has age gap provisions for 14-15yr olds. Free and clear after 16. OP didn’t state exactly which social work he is involved in. Court mandated programs will definitely fall under positions of authority. My roomie is a social worker for 2 voluntary programs: in school youth and out of school youth. Youth defined as 16-24yrs old. At 25 they get slotted into adult programs. This case is voluntary employment programs that help people get education, employment and other benefits to aid gainin…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 01:15 PM
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Votes mean nothing in this sub. Votes and comments are literally the blind leading the blind. It’s the same as asking women how to get women by using beta upvotes to determine what is appropriate TRP content. That also implies my comment is suspect and rightly so. Unplugging means question everything. Anecdote time: I asked a stupid question once. What books teach you to be social. Answer: no books teach you, being social teaches you to be social. Got promptly and correctly smacked around for th…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 04:12 PM
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There are multiple solutions for the individual. This is not a societal problem. 240->165. I get both sides of the situation. One solution is to make sex purely transactional as this commentor has chosen. Cut straight to buying it and worry about other shit. Alternative solution is to play the game to win. The rules are you have to be hot. Now you have an upper limit ceiling based on your genetics on where you can go with this, yet you can easily bump yourself up 2-3 points on the scale by being…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 01:15 PM
2

The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. I don’t read that as a discussion of masturbatory self improvement. Don’t put the cart before the horse. Getting your dick wet is the goal. If you follow TRP’s suggestions for improvement, it turns out you become a well rounded man in the process. That said, don’t forget or downplay that the entire point of TRP is to fuck willing females. Also turns out after you start fucking regularly, it…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 04:25 PM
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amogging in a nutshell. Nothing worth getting myself bent out of shape over.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 03:59 PM
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I wouldn’t phrase it as an epidemic as OP alluded to, yet its a workable strategy for the toolbox for dealing with lesser men. I opened a set of dudes the other day on a patio at a venue. Jumped in the convo with something that amused me, then said hey I’m nebder who are you all. Bro tried to amog me saying he was my daddy, I gave him the scoff and flat stare till I got the nah man just playing. You’re all tryna be respectful & shit and I’m disrespecting you. Silence and eye contact are incredib…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 01:33 PM
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I suggest you review the difference between legality and professional ethics. First situation is illegal, the rest are unethical. Quick litmus test is “can the client switch providers voluntarily?” If you want to be successful navigating this fucked up world we live in, then you better understand nuances of the rules.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 04:49 PM
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Anger is useful as a motivator. Its terrible for critical thinking. Its highly probable the males were over the age of consent, which is 16 in my state. Gals didnt break the law, they broke work policies for banging these guys. Getting fired is the appropriate recourse. What that means is I can bang a 16 yr old without legal consequences yet if I get nudes I have child porn. Exemplifies what happens when arbitrary lines in the sand intersect.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 06:40 PM
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mental masturbation or buzzfeed quiz. cant decide exactly where I slot this garbage into. Test yourself in the real world
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 06:24 PM
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Water fast means no food, only water. Generally in 24hr segments. You go about doing it by not eating. Losing weight is calorie intake control plain and simple. Eat less than your TDEE and you lose weight. Water fasting isn’t a magic pill or some bs detox system, it’s another way to manage calorie intake. The gist of the post was OP was a lean badass mofo and you don’t understand the benefits of leaning out till you do it. OP stated most of us are fat and saying you’re a “power lifter” build is …
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 06:27 PM
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U/stacysmomlovesme May have killed his account Gist of the post is you’re all a bunch of fat fucks. No excuses, lose weight. I looked ok in clothes at 195. I look amazing at 164.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 05:27 PM
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Luck had nothing to do with it. You impressed a work colleague in the past and he recalled your work. People who say someone else is “lucky” really mean that the namecalling person does not realize the effort the “lucky” guy put in to get where he is. Just another hamstering. Luck is the result of hard work and preparation with a tiny element of fortunate events thrown in. You have to have your shit in place to take advantage of the fortunate circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 04:24 PM
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Expected black jesus to be pinned when I checked in today. This ones damn good as well. The self aware can take a strong message from this. It took the waterfastTM posts to make me get off my ass and cut like a mofo
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 04:19 PM
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I suggest cut then leangains. In retrospect that’s what I should have done. I cut from 230 to 175 last summer dirty bulked back to 195 till February now I’m cutting again at 164 this morning. Likely be done with my cut around July. I’m 5-10. Being lean has more advantages to me than being 18-20% bf. I looked good in clothes and pudgy naked. Rather look awesome naked and wear clothes that highlight my leanness like tanks or cutoffs. You’re gonna get noobgains on a cut then you’ll bulk well on lea…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 03:48 PM
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Great shit sado I need to let this roll around in my head before commenting beyond the attaboy
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 03:31 PM
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My man I’m almost 40. Graying on the chin. I hang out with early 20s all the time. Some are into it, some are not. You’re the problem here if you fear or give off a pedo vibe, not the young ladies. Die it, shave it or fucking own it. I earned my silverfox and I’ll rock it out. I catch occasional shit from people, but most know me as a funloving young spirit so it’s in tune with who I am to hang with younger people without being a fucking creep. Social calibration blah blah blah. You build that u…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 04:15 PM
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The basic rules of social media always apply. This does not tailor your social media for “girls”, it tailors your social media for public consumption by anyone. No sad/sappy shit ever No lamenting life’s ills No highlighting your weaknesses No drama in public No excessive postings or fluff postings just to post Rarely if ever post your children if you have them. They’re not baubles for likes. Post yourself doing fun cool shit Get tagged in fun shit and activities Post your accomplishments in a h…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 03:45 PM
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Finger, moon, whatever. Pick what you wanna look at. I found trp for the same reasons as every other loser here. I was successful in loser hospital that I stopped hating women for being women the same way that I stopped hating rain for being wet or the sun for being hot. What’s your story crab friend
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 02:37 AM
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Nah bro OP cited articles to further his agenda, which is hosting affiliate links for people to purchase the book he’s paraphrasing and “excerpting”. This is buzzfeed clickbait. As a self-identified mgtow, I’d expect you to be aware of your own anti-female tendencies. You bought it hook line & sinker. Help another man generate cash if you want provided you know what you’re getting into. I cooperate when it’s in my interest or when why the hell not. It’s not up for debate that single women cause …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 02:09 AM
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Your reading comprehension would be more highlighted by quoting exactly where I said America is a fucked up ball of awesome. Better than other choices is more than good enough for me and the time I have here. I base my decisions off the reality of the world. Go to dong guan or shenzhen and tour any chinese factory and tell me that better than other countries is not perfectly valid. That’s the call I make, you make your own. Take this on as your cross if you decide. I assume you’re a younger man.…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 09:55 PM
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Fallacy or not, write up the field report of moving to whatever shithole you want if you got the guts to vote with your feet. If you got some cash stockpiled and no serious ties, you could really make it work at the right destination. My CBA keeps me living here in the extremely imperfect yet really fucking awesome US of A until I finish my parenting. Then it’s on to my 3rd world exit strategy.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 09:25 PM
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Follow a comment thread. OP was whining about paying taxes equals being married. The irony is juicy that OP is purportedly a man playing the victim card about women. Muh taxes are going to all the sloots! You can replace spending on women with military spending, foreign aid or whatever gets a person in a tizzy about how the collective taxes are spent by the govt. It’s not about women, it’s anti-tax with women being the convenient scapegoat that aligns with the TRP narrative for the ones still an…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 08:03 PM
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It must be effective lifting I’ve watched a 16 yr old kid not make any progress over about 8 months thanks to fuckarounditis. He’s there before I am, still there when I leave. Doing all kinds of weird shit. In that time I put damn near 200lbs on my squat. Winners gonna win, losers gonna make excuses. It’s not rocket science. Track your nutrition, follow a basic beginner lifting program and get sleep.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 06:57 PM
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Unfortunately for myself, I did not check your post history before commenting. I would’ve saved myself a few thought cycles. Have a great day man
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 06:32 PM
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Fake news Link some papers in OP and spout of whatever garbage you want in the comments. Effective emotional strategy since you’ve provided bona fides for the gullible. You can take this to CH or set Fox News as your stretch goal. One should question why OP has chosen to honor the start of summer by regurgitating well known material. Lighten up, enjoy being alive even if you’re paying for sloots & single moms.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 06:29 PM
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citation needed There was always someone helping the destitute. Typically the local community or church. We are a relatively altruistic species when it doesn’t take too much away from us to help out. We are slightly less promiscuous than the much vaunted glorious 50s that tradcons trot out as some utopian goal. Let that one roll around in your head a bit.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 06:14 PM
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Sounds more like an anti tax rant than a oh the wimminz wealth transfer rant. I view it as a cost of doing business for being American. For all it’s warts, good ol USA is still the finest place in the world to live and raise a family - decline and all other things considered.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 06:09 PM
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My man you did a shit job at it then. No worries, live & learn. You set the time limit during the date setup. Hey lets grab coffee tues at 630. I have about an hour free. You verbally banter and sexualize the convo when appropriate. Open with a hug to get the kino rolling. When it gets to be time to go make plans to isolate at yours or her place for the second date. Easy peasy smash from there. Logistics is what gets a man laid.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 01:09 AM
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Fully agree to kiss on a normal date. You don’t wait for the end either. Just do it when you want to. They’ll cheek you if they’re not down, then you know. Or you’re kissing her, awesome. Either way are good outcomes. Alternative 2 date strategy: This works differently. First date is a time limited to about an hour. Simple setting, coffee or park or something lowkey. Get to know each other, flirt & banter, kino but not over the top. Setup a second cozy date at your/her place for cooking dinner/w…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 09:45 PM
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Welcome to the rest of your life son. It keeps getting better provided you keep putting in the work. Women open up to the guys who get it. They’re brutal savage and there’s a certain level of logic to their actions. It was eye opening and interesting at first. Now I can pretty much predict where the conversation will go when we get into that kinda shit.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 04:00 PM
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Only caveat here is basic bitch ugly girls without value. If they have value then add them to your orbit. One of my less attractive friends is heavy into rock/metal and knows all the cool shit happening. She’s fun awesome and amazing to hang with.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 02:07 PM
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There’s more than one world out there. If you base your worldview from the extreme anecdotes from this sub, you’ll get a warped perspective. It’s fucked up don’t get me wrong. It’s not all fucked up everywhere. Course my perspective also comes from a conservative midwest upbringing.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 01:52 PM
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You expressed my sentiments well. Owe you a drink now, let’s go with a coffee someday. I can blow off damn near all bloop shit by now. This threads comments irked me enough to call out the bs. Most days I check the feed and go ‘garbage.. more garbage.. even more garbage’ this post made me say oh yes this will be fun after I read the post.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 05:05 AM
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Betas/losers/wtfever you call them aren’t stupid. 99.however many 9’s% won’t do a god damn thing about it beyond writing a fucking letter in this case. Why kill a man and ruin the rest of your life because your wife is a slut? I go after (tends to be they hit on me) an attached gal and consider the risk of getting gutstabbed as a calculated risk. Not much different than getting in your car and saying I need to go to work yet there’s a minute possibility I could die in a flaming fireball of a car…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 04:33 AM
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One of my married gals regularly pays for hotels with her cash. Pulled out of her the other day right when her hubby phoned her up to see when she’d be home. Tells him she’s running behind and will be home soon with her ass hanging out of my car. Which man would you want to be.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 04:06 AM
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Thats a lot of bullshit words. I gave up trying to sort them out Make your own code of conduct. Live your life. Do wtfever, nobody really cares. Don’t go around looking for approval for it. Don’t say I don’t fuck attached girls ... when you couldn’t to begin with. Conflict avoidance is a symptom of lack of personal strength. Once you get stronger, you will realize that you’re at the point where you have to fight to keep moving things forward.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 03:51 AM
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You’ve missed the forest for the trees. Everyone else playing along must realize there comes a time when breaking the rules is better than following the rules. We have to play the same game, the rules are yours to make. You only need to deal with consequences if you get caught. I appreciate the lemmings like you that get butthurt but dont actually do anything when I take advantage of them. Your ideals can only be enforced when there is the threat of state violence to make someone like me questio…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 03:38 AM
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I see you dodging my rebuttal and points by attacking my knowledge of philosophy. I would expect to have my statements attacked if this were a logical argument. I’m open to discussing my statements. I have zero further time for rebutting fallacies. Try again or nah, no worries from me either way.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 04:48 PM
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Your idealism is endearing, yet it will do nothing for you but break your heart for the rest of your life. A man must decide for himself what code of ethics to follow because that’s what he has objectively chosen to follow. You should not take a set of morals and life rules that are handed to you without scrutinizing them and asking yourself why the nebulous “others” want you to follow these rules. You bike metaphor is shit. People are not property. Your metaphor removes any agency from the woma…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 04:25 PM
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You’re allowing a literally crazy woman to get the best of you. These are the questions that you need to answer: Is your time so valueless that you would write this post which offers no real insight or actionable advice, just a highlight reel of dumb antics? What does allowing a crazy frame trump your own say for yourself? Is that the man you want to be?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 02:02 AM
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sounds like my kinda gal
/r/askTRP21/05/18 01:34 PM
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Uncle V quoted talking you into a rimjob somewhere. It was glorious yes. Welcome to kinksville perv. FYI the kinky women are universally broken in some way. They’re fun yet watch for it.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 11:51 AM
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The anger is feedback that you’ve presented a pisspoor post. You have also declined to address any of the points I raised. You’re using emotion “wha wha why is everyone so mad at me” instead of using logical debate and argument to further your statement. Present a counterpoint that supports you, not your fee fees.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 11:16 PM
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Cucks are my favorite target. I’m learning to id them in public. Scored my first bull session from a live interaction in a bar about a month ago. Before that it was all meeting cucks on the internet. I don’t want cucks to go away. I’m providing them a service they appreciate and admire. First time a man tells you thanks for boning his wife is an eye opening experience. I said hey no problem man cuz my brain locked up. What do you say to that besides you’re welcome. r-hotwife will open your eyes.…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 11:12 PM
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You think your statement is true or you have data to back up your claims. Which one should you pick if you want to be taken seriously. Your premise is entirely wrong. I can afford lots of things. That doesn’t mean I will actually buy it. I can afford to have another kid. I don’t want to for the money or the time investment. I’m sick of raising kids. They’re great, I love the shit out of them. I wouldn’t want to do it again. Doesn’t take a genius to figure out kids are a drag if you’re not alread…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 10:33 PM
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Gym and combat sports. In your mind you know you’re weak. Don’t be weak and the rest flows through your being and presentation. The other things you want will follow naturally.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:42 PM
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You read something that piqued your interest. Now go try it for yourself. I prefer attached gals. Less drama and some other dude handles the shit I don’t want to do. Escalate and isolate and see what happens.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:11 AM
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irrelevant
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:46 PM
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Doesn’t mrp have you make an action stay/go plan and face this contingency? I’m not fully into the ins & outs of mrp but a 4 year veteran shouldnt be asking these questions if you weren’t LARPing the whole time. Sucks you’re in the situation. I’ll give you that.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 10:51 PM
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Reading comprehension isn’t your strong point
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 09:21 PM
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Hows that bucket treating ya. Want out? Learn to create instead of destroy. OP may have mistaken the total gains. OP did not mistake the effects of accomplishing a total transformation. How much of a difference does the physical weight of the muscle make in the scope of the story?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 09:49 PM
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Life isn’t black or white. Stop forcing it. Alpha/beta are shorthand for men with those traits primarily. Everyone has a mix. Strong alphas still follow when appropriate. Your reasoning extends out to “There can be only one president, therefore the rest of the executive office staff are all beta schlubs. “ that’s just not the case and shows that you have a small amount of real world experience (which is not an insult to you). This is highly evident in a typical corporate setting. Your VPs and C …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 09:20 PM
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Here’s a couple things I picked up. Dance to upbeat music to get yourself feeling good and loosened up. Get your energy ready always smile when you enter the venue locate any regulars you know asap and stop by to say hi and make smalltalk. It shows youre not a pariah simply alone
/r/seduction29/04/18 07:59 PM
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Whichever ones I fabricate in my mind to make me go ok gdit I’ll go talk to her Eye contact is a giveaway. If she breaks downwards she’s submitting
/r/askTRP29/04/18 07:54 PM
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You’d be a perfect fit for CH
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 05:30 PM
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We all fight our instincts to mesh into society. I certainly don’t act on many base instincts that would be viewed very unfavorably by society. The issue with your statement is that society no longer supports the consequences of breaking the social conditioning of monogamous commitment. No social censure for divorce or unfaithfulness (which may not have prevented the unfaithfulness, but it did keep it out of the social spotlight). Providing a woman half a man’s earnings in reward for her breakin…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 02:32 PM
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I reinforced your answer brah
/r/askTRP28/04/18 03:11 PM
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Men lead. We lead the convo but let them do the talking. You keep pointing the convo down paths that keep the interaction going. A little bit of that and she’s starting to think wow this guy totally gets me. Change your questions into statements. Look into cold reading. It’s fine to get a cold read wrong, they’ll correct you and keep talking about themselves. Do you like to sing vs I bet you’re a karaoke queen Do you like dogs vs hmmm you look like a dogmom. Tell me about your fur babies. Conver…
/r/askTRP28/04/18 02:26 PM
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This statement that can only be fully understood by experiencing it. I’m 5-10. My winter bulk peaked at 195. I’m 174 now. Night and day difference in my face. Protruding cheekbones, hollow cheeks, no facial puffiness. I also got contacts to show my face better. I would get looks at 195 entering a venue. Now I get stares. That’s a humblebrag and a wtf why are these people staring at me all rolled together. I’m thick so it took me a minute to realize I’m hot that’s why they’re staring at me. Now t…
/r/askTRP28/04/18 01:23 PM
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Yes jesus freaks put out to guys that are hot and sexy, then ask for forgiveness. Religion is the ultimate way to absolve guilt and responsibility for your actions. No hookups God is important to me Looking for something real Those are all female loser dude screening methods. You can break through them with SMV and frame. I swipe right automatically on no hookups. Means she’s done it before.. past behavior is the best indicator of future behavior. It’s a low effort opportunity to add a gal to th…
/r/askTRP28/04/18 01:05 PM
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This is THE answer for beginners
/r/askTRP28/04/18 12:37 PM
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You have successfully demonstrated one of the game foundations. Peacocking: anything out of the ordinary that gives people an excuse to talk to you. Keep doing you man
/r/askTRP28/04/18 12:25 PM
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This better be your free teaser ebook or self published so you can get some return on your efforts.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 11:42 PM
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It’s a fucking cliche but time heals it man. It will pass when you are ready to let it go. I remember one commute home specifically thinking wow I haven’t even thought about my ex today till now. Before that there was that nasty ball of emotions that would never quite leave me. That day was the turning point for me. Think it was 6-7 months after separation. My divorce was finalized quickly, about 5 months all told so it was much faster than most. Eventually you come full circle and love women ag…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 11:06 PM
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Good shit sado On one hand it does still make a part of me sad or disappointed that that’s how it is. On the other hand it is what it is and I must make the best of it. As a rational actor, I will perpetuate the decline because that is my best interest for my children. it’s my duty to my son to teach him that marriage is a suckers game. It’s my duty to my daughter to teach her she better bring shit to the table or she’s gonna get pumped and dumped till she’s past her prime. I’ll also teach her h…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 10:55 PM
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Fuck n chuck
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 09:59 PM
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You sound bitter and/or gloating man. We’re crushing it now, no need to be a sore winner. I’m late 30s and 1.5yrs after my divorce I look goddamn good for a man my age. Definitely top 20% for my age range. Guys our age don’t need to be built like the hulk. Just need visible pecs in a shirt and a flat stomach. Gotta have your fashion style (that doesn’t make you look like a doof single dad) but that should go without saying if you’re working on yourself. I have had enjoyable times and great sex w…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 09:58 PM
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Straight down the urethra is what he’s dancing around here. It’s uncomfortable to say the least. It’s like the gym. Sucks doing it, glad you did it when you’re done.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 09:07 PM
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By giving less fucks Very few things are worth caring a whole lot about
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:13 PM
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It’s not overlooked. It’s left to personal discretion. See u/whisper post on sperg like typing or alpha sperg lists or some shit like that. You don’t wait for someone to give you approval that it’s “alpha” to be kind, caring or considerate of others. Unplugging means taking a healthy objective look at you morals, ethics and motivations without the social programming filters that have been forced onto you. Then you decide what kind of person you want to be. I prefer to be kind when I can. It come…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 10:29 PM
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If you take the time to learn the lifts properly it's unlikely you'll suffer from any kind of permanent injury. Late 30s checking in. Week 7 of wrist tendinitis, so I’m out of the gym. Good news is that my wrist is definitely better than it was. I’m waiting 3 more weeks to see how it feels before I put it under load again. Ego lifting trying to break a plateau on supinated dumbbell curls is what I traced it back to. I knew in my head I needed to keep locked wrists but obviously didn’t execute tr…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 10:07 PM
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You are wrong. That’s holding a stoic expression at best. Rollo has a great explanation https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/12/frame/
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 05:49 AM
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Abundance means your sexual options are not tied to a singular woman. That removes any pussy power she can try to hold over you. You’ve effectively taken away the only power a woman has over a man, her access to pussy. That’s the ‘book’ definition of abundance in TRP terms. I gave you more of an applied example of abundance.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 09:56 PM
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The anger is the result of ego deaths and deprogramming the blue pill that has been subtly laid into your psychological programming. For example, treating a woman as an equal is crammed down your throat by society and media. When you actually treat a woman as an equal ina romantic relationship, then she loses attraction and leaves. That doesn’t add up in bloopie world. You do everything “right” and still lose the game. Doesn’t add up, so it makes you angry. If you can deprogram before getting bu…
/r/askTRP15/04/18 08:47 PM
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It’s not literal. It means immerse yourself in other women to take the sting off the singular woman. Here’s an example of abundance. Last night a prospect from my long social circle game was going to stop over. She got a traffic stop on the way over and said fuck it and went home after the stop. nbd another plate had reached out to me earlier that day, so I went and saw her instead. Yes I would have liked to seen my social circle prospect yet shit happens in life. Abundance means I have women av…
/r/askTRP15/04/18 08:02 PM
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Youre so cute pumpkin
/r/askTRP13/04/18 07:20 PM
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You heard this or experienced it? Get a high school love. She’ll probably cheat on you. You’ll probably cheat on her. It’s a rite of passage and a great learning experience. Be your own man. Don’t ask strangers if you should get a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 04:49 PM
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Why wouldn’t we want women to feel sexually empowered? It’s not the chaste gal that you go balls deep on the second date. The people that latch on to this post are the ones jealous that women are not having validational sex with them.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 02:31 PM
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Whether I want to fuck a woman I see has never been a hard question to answer for me
/r/askTRP24/03/18 06:19 PM
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All those things you said are buffers. Go read that article. Ask yourself “Do I want to have sexual relations with this woman” if yes, talking to her is the critical step 1. You’re free to change your mind at any time and so is she. There is no relationship without intimacy period. Talk to everyone more. Checkout lines, random person near the bus stop, cashiers and service people. Just talk and bs to get comfortable to social situations. Simplistically, Game boils down to being socially savvy en…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 05:38 PM
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Not quite FR worthy yet noteworthy to me. Set a new record on timeframe for married woman from hello to shoving my cock down her throat. Right at the 2 hour mark. Took an open seat next to a gal at the local brewery with zero intentions to game her. 2 hours later I’m facefucking her. My automatic game and frame have greatly improved over these last 15 months. She was turning and bumped me (female opener), gave her some playful shit for it and then I’m in like flynn. Isolated to smoke a bowl and …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 02:38 PM
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good bot
/r/askTRP19/03/18 09:22 PM
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Sidenote: At this moment I'm wondering how so many men can be good at video games but not transfer this tenacious skillset to worthwhile things. Most men are content enough not to change. The pain of change must outweigh the pain of staying the same for real change to occur. It’s definitely possible. I did that exact same thing.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 10:46 PM
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https://dalrock.wordpress.com/ Read dalrock for a christian RP perspective. The Bible is highly RP in that it calls the truth of human nature the truth. There’s an rpchristian sub I think. Poke around in the sidebar for the sub link.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 05:59 PM
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Http://www.blackdragonblog.com Go to blackdragons blog and buy his book unchained male. Has a great section on determining your code of conduct and mission. The book is $9.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 05:48 PM
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If your boss puts that project on your plate at that time, then do it. If you’re worried about understated requirements then notify your boss of your concerns if you get the project. Anxiety is fear of the future. You’re worried about shit that may not come to pass. Why waste cycles on bullshit.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 04:56 PM
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Your boss has already addressed the situation by putting your priorities on your main project. If you’re approached again on the side project by the other manager, say “I’d love to help, however I’ve been directed to work on the main project. I’ll speak with my boss about my priorities on this other project. You could also talk to <your boss’s name> about working your project in” Your boss is there to handle this shit. He already did. Who gives a fuck what other people talk about two cubes over.…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 04:50 PM
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The easy and correct thing to say is find cool things you enjoy doing to channel your energy into. Play the guitar, go hiking or snowboarding, grow a garden, build cool models or woodworking, create that website you always dreamed about, whatever it is that you’re passionate about and can lose yourself into it. Preferably it adds value to your life. Still need to do some mindless downtime on occasion just to unwind. I like netflix stand up specials personally. I get it. It’s rough. We persevere …
/r/askTRP10/02/18 02:44 AM
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Suffer the ego deaths that go along with true change. Or stay the same and LARP at changing yourself. Find flesh and blood friends that share common interests. We are social animals. Introversion doesn’t mean antisocial. I’m introverted and have tricks to psych up my energy to socialize. Nofap is a cult mentality. NoPorn is legit, rubbing one out on occasion is cool. Sex is better. People are depressed when their life sucks. Make your life not suck.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 02:04 AM
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You want what you can’t have (oneitis) Everything new becomes the same old (losing interest) You looked the gift horse in the mouth. You made her perfection in your mind when she’s just another human who shits and has bad breath when she doesn’t brush her teeth. (Her insecurity) The honeymoon phase is a rush of chemicals in your brain for 6-18 months to elicit pair bonding for child rearing. It doesn’t last forever. Wasn’t clear if this is an exclusive girlfriend or a plate in the harem. It’s yo…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 01:50 AM
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http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2015/04/09/a-love-letter-to-conservatives/ Be leery of the drowning. They will gladly drag you down.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 02:31 PM
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frame is directly related to your own personal value and belief system Do you need a book to tell you what your beliefs and values are? You don’t need a book. You need to keep testing yourself and see what you’re made of. Read the iron rules of tomassi #1 referenced in the post. Frame is the hardest rp concept to grasp. Another way to look at it is that frame is your force of will that you project upon the world.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 11:03 PM
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Google beginner weightlifting programs, pick one and stick with it. You don’t know enough to build your own effective program. I went with StrongLifts. Uses linear progression compounds to hit all the muscle groups. Squat, deads and bench should be the focus now. You can do a bodybuilding split after you have a foundation of strength. I’m doing madcow 5x5 now after I graduated StrongLifts. Similar program to StrongLifts with varied weights (medium/light/heavy days), so my practice and proficienc…
/r/askTRP07/02/18 02:08 AM
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It was a fun read and a welcome change to the typical styles you brought up. Good points at the end and good discussion from the post. Write more, it won’t go unappreciated.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 01:21 AM
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I report bad shit. Enough reports and automod steps in, saves the human mods the hassle. Edit: the reddit app lets you pick the broken rule to further help the mods Shoulda piledrived that report button in the back of some dudes van. Losing your edge man
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 01:05 AM
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Why do we want to stop it? Hypergamy is best for the species as a whole. Naive on the individual level. How bout every other man except me stops banging attached gals. The demand won’t go away. Do you see the problem here?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 07:58 AM
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Women aren’t gonna hand you a business card that says “you sir are a stud and I want to be in your life” You’re gonna say something to her off the cuff like hey just got free for drinks and she’ll say cool be there in a few. That’s fuck yes from her end by making you the priority.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 12:19 AM
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If it’s not my cock it’ll be someone else’s. Maybe I’ll get gutstabbed someday. That day is not today.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 11:54 PM
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I have an large wrist to elbow forearm tattoo. Gals ask me about it, especially when I wear long sleeves and it barely peeks out at the top of my wrist. Hell men ask me or compliment it as well. Peacocking is anything out of the ordinary that makes you stand out and gives women a chance to ask about it. Could be as simple as wearing a Santa hat around Christmas or whatever. Your call if you wanna paint your nails and go all mystery level extreme. Try out some peacocking and see what happens. Don…
/r/askTRP03/02/18 08:25 PM
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Red pill theory provides a true understanding of intersexual dynamics. TRP as a community and some parts of the manosphere give you a foundational blueprint of possible tools to maximize your edge exploiting these intersexual dynamics. Take as little or as much as you want from the toolbox. The best metaphor I’ve come across is that TRP is a buffet. What does that mean in practice is a logical follow up. While you’re not a special snowflake per se, every man is a unique individual with his own s…
/r/askTRP03/02/18 02:28 PM
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Check out “The Hustler” with Paul Newman for a movie when men were still men. Modern media pushes the bloop agenda and reinforces societal programming.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 10:40 AM
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50/50 custody is the best of both worlds. I love my kids. I love my time to do what I want. I’ve achieved reproductive success so I’ve fulfilled that biological need and I get to create a meaningful life as well. I racked up a decent body count in my early 20s. Some natural red skills counterbalanced by plenty of blue thoughts and societal programming that caused me to choose to settle down. The archetype of my settling down story is the same as everyone else’s that ends up here, some details ar…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 10:19 AM
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Weight loss is based on calories in vs calories out. Track your calories with MyFitnessPal and eat under your TDEE. Exercise makes you healthy and build muscle. Fat loss come from diet. You cannot outtrain a bad diet. You’ve gone overboard on whatever you’re describing about women. Yes, AWALT. No, you’re unlikely to get accused unless you’re either a man with resources to strongarm or a total fucking creep. The way you phrased yourself a few times in your question leads me to believe you have an…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 05:30 PM
2

Mexico is not in South America. Your geography needs work or your original question needs phrased better.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 02:03 PM
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“Hey <name/nickname>. had fun hanging out last night” Don’t overthink this shit man
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 02:37 AM
2

Then you know that’s a different type of love song. You know what to do man.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 01:30 AM
0

Pork tenderloin & center cut boneless pork chops are relatively inexpensive. Low-fat ground beef is another choice to mix it up. Top sirloin is also relatively inexpensive if you get a full cut.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 01:18 AM
2

Dig deep in the wayback machine for country western stuff like Cash, Jennings, haggard, Williams/ Williams jr or whatever. Some select Toby Keith. Before country went weird sappy pop/country.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 01:12 AM
3

You need the alpha stone from the grassy cave to trigger the final evolution
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 01:03 AM
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My rule is never lie to women. They’re much better than you are at it. Also never outright tell them there’s other women. It’s not like they don’t know, you simply don’t want to say it in manspeak. My goto is Nah can’t then, how about Thursday
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 12:40 AM
1

You’re getting the long soft next. Don’t not wish her the best or any of that shit. Just say cool, see you around or something light like that. She’ll be back later.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 12:15 AM
2

TRP makes alpha 1.0. Alpha 1.0 build themselves into Alpha 2.0.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 11:44 PM
3

So we find new ways (return to the old ways?) of raising our children? That’s really what I’m taking away from this. I’m navigating post-divorce life. Coparenting is working out mostly well. My youngest has blossomed and is doing well for himself. He made it through the crucial 0-4 years in a nuclear family to be mostly socialized correctly. After that point it appears to be much less critical provided he’s getting masculine and feminine parental love. The old model is broken. The new model coul…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 04:15 AM
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https://markmanson.net/std-guide Get through the first outbreak and you probably won’t have to deal with it again.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 10:48 PM
2

I’m late 30s. I don’t look it. I take a few years off my online profiles. When my age comes up in person I make them guess it and play hot or cold. They guess the age they want me to be, so age really doesn’t matter
/r/askTRP28/01/18 04:00 PM
3

Can one of you beautiful bastard put the Cyrillic tag in a comment so I can copy it from mobile.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 06:43 PM
5

Shaving your head opens the demographic of gals really into bald guys yet doesn’t close the door on the rest. Prepare your head to be randomly assaulted in a way that weirds you the fuck out at first. Now I roll with it. It’s the I’m balding but holding on to it look that’s terrible. I saw pics of myself and it was bad. I get it man. I had my last hoora before I shaved it. It is what it is.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 03:42 AM
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What percentage of females in these studies go for the non-dominant males?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 03:36 AM
2

You accept reality and suffer through your ego deaths, then move on to the new you. It is what it is.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 02:26 AM
2

Her hamster is a minor problem to me now. Makes her feel better, cool deal.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/18 05:07 PM
1

That’s a lot of words to completely miss the point. Can’t save the men that don’t want to be saved. Can’t change men that don’t want to change.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 05:02 PM
5

I inadvertently followed the majority of this advice. It was highly confrontational at first, then after a few frame battles it was established that I was no longer the guy who’d happily let her dump on me anymore. Things (un)surprisingly got better, more civil and more productive after I established my “new” frame. We agreed no lawyers and negotiated an asset split after a few rounds. I ended up with no debt, my car and a modest chunk of her retirement for my cash&prizes. I lost my house and in…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/18 04:55 PM
4

Captain save-a-bro on a global scale then? If it doesn’t work at a micro level, why would it work at a macro level.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 01:49 PM
3

Man read your question again. Is this a question a man with an abundance mindset would ask? I certainly wouldn’t solicit prostitution under a form of social media that was directly tied to my real identity. If you feel the need to solicit, make a Craigslist post stating that you’re “generous” or contact women looking for “roses”. If tinder isn’t working, go meet people in person. Men typically put off a much better presence in reality compared to online.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 10:31 AM
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I always go “first rounds on me” when I get drinks with a gal. Guess what about 2/3s of the time the gal picks up the rest of the tab, usually 2-4 more rounds. All that time and effort I put into myself must be paying off. Stop projecting.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 03:28 AM
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#1 downfall to my game: too much booze I go alone but I’m on a first name basis with most of the regulars in my 3-4 primary venues. I don’t care for being responsible for other drunkos.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 04:55 PM
2

The same is said about and done by mexicans here. You can drive thru residential areas and find the mexican house because there’s 6-8 cars stacked in the driveway. Can you really fault these people for wanting a better life for themselves and making an effort to take care of their families? I do the same thing to take care of mine. It’s a human drive to provide for our loved ones. I’m anti-muslim immigration. They don’t integrate into western society. Most other peoples integrate (even when segr…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 01:48 PM
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Replace polish with mexican for the american trope. Almost all the mexicans I’ve worked with in different manufacturing operations have all busted their ass and done shit jobs whites wouldn’t want. They’re taking jobs whites only wanted as a last resort. They’re hungry. Low skilled whites aren’t. I’m a white blue collar guy gone white collar. I’m down in the trenches. I see this shit every day.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 04:05 AM
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That is eye opening for damn sure. Deserves a post of it own. I count 3 different solid cases of oneitis in my past. I’ve never searched for them on fb years after the fact. I did some snooping early on yet never after I let go. I do randomly wonder what/how they’re doing every so often. I actually hope they’re doing well in their lives.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 03:42 AM
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Google for the convict conditioning book if body weight is your plan. It’ll have progression to deal with starting at bw. That deals with your beginner struggles part. Better to go to a gym and run a beginner program. StrongLifts is a decent start. Starting strength is another.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 06:39 PM
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Do you even internet bro Google <book name> <format> download God helps those who help themselves
/r/askTRP21/01/18 06:34 PM
1

Start freelancing and build a reputation. Get paid western wages in a low cost of living country. Live like a king for half the work. Re: salary, ask for more than youll accept so there’s negotiation room. If you ask exactly what you want, the counter will be lower. Be honest with your recruiter, they get paid for hires so they’re motivated to get you hired.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 05:25 PM
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The headspace app is a good start to guided meditation
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 09:20 PM
1

Outcome independence. You’re scared of getting rejected again. I get that, yet now it’s time to get past that. Go talk to her simply to enjoy yourself. Get blown out a time or two and you’ll be back in the swing in no time. Hi is the best opener invented. Follow by what’s your name or whatcha drinking tonight. Keep it simple man, it’s just talking.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 04:55 PM
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Build up your kink network. It’s long game and social circle game. It’s not so much night/insta-hookup game, though that can happen in the right place and time. Learn peoples kinks and help them connect with their complementary kinksters. You’ll get the favor returned in time. Here’s the deal: a lot of kinksters are broken in some or many ways. I’m sane, stable, attractive and put together outside of scenes and that makes me generally an exception. That’s where your cringy assessment comes from,…
/r/askTRP20/01/18 03:45 PM
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Sounds like you don’t have a mission. Men need to have a plan, when we drift we feel listless and fucked up, which you’re calling depression. Go to http://www.blackdragonblog.com and follow the link to black dragons the unchained male book. There’s a whole section on effectively determining your code, mission and goals. Get that shit in place and your decisions become very much easier “does x fit into my mission/goals/code?” Peterson said men are pack animals and beasts of burden. Fuck that stru…
/r/askTRP20/01/18 02:48 PM
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Ditch the revenge porn fantasies man. You’re wasting way too much of your precious time on this. Be polite professional and charming with them. Say your hellos, schmooze and small talk for a bit, then go socialize elsewhere. Why is this so complicated? The way you wrote this makes you sounds like a vengeful little bitch man. Why are you letting these monkeys have an impact on your life?
/r/askTRP20/01/18 02:33 PM
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How much are you exercising? That broke my lethargy after my divorce and finally got me to stop thinking about it. Then around 6 months after the separation (2 months after lifting regularly) I distinctly remember one day driving going huh I’m not thinking about my ex. She was a constant buzz in my head for a long time. Focus on yourself. Exercise/lift and get your mind out of its self inflicted prison.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 01:42 PM
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Do you want to see her? Text her and set it up. You’re overthinking this shit
/r/askTRP20/01/18 06:56 AM
3

Are you a true Dom or just looking to get laid? May be better off going to nearby dungeons/clubs if you’re truly a capital D Dom. My assessment: Fet is not worth the hassle for straight doms. I’ll go to a few munches/sloshes just to get out and about. The girls know they’re in demand, so they lap that shit up. I go out simply to chat and ask people about the shit they do. Straight doms are oversupplied to the demand. Fet gives dudes free reign to let their thirst run wild. It’s sad to look at. I…
/r/askTRP20/01/18 03:36 AM
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People are never gonna let go of the debunked vaccine-autism study. Same difference.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 10:10 PM
1

Your program is behind a paywall. The program is less important than your consistency with it. I’d personally rather hit the different muscle groups with primarily with compounds compared to multiple isolations. I isolate for curls only. That’s my preference, again provided you’re consistent with your program it will work for you. SL did well for me and it was mostly simple. That’s why I recommend it, you’re probably past it being useful if you’re 6+ months in. Your challenge will be nutrition. …
/r/askTRP18/01/18 10:34 PM
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6 months of lifting will put you in the top 10-20% on the street and the bottom 25% in the gym. I spend ~6 hrs/week in the gym and ~162 hours/week outside the gym. The bar is that low on the street
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 05:18 PM
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Approach: talk to everyone, cashiers, old ladies, random dudes at the bar. That helped me plus getting rejected some. I still get rejected, it just sucks less now. Gotta do it to get better at it.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 01:58 PM
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Approach: talk to everyone, cashiers, old ladies, random dudes at the bar. That helped me plus getting rejected some. I still get rejected, it just sucks less now. Gotta do it to get better at it.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 01:58 PM
2

Budget in some downtime and you should be good. Don’t forget to socialize, doesn’t need to be picking up chicks could be hanging with your boys. Watch yourself for feeling overwhelmed or burnt out. If you get that feeling dial things back a little. It’s a marathon not a sprint and it’s better to do a few things well instead of 10 things halfass. My downtime is reward for achieving a target. I need to work on X then I get Y.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 01:55 PM
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Okc occasionally has the freaks I get into. Had some luck there. POF is where single moms with 5 kids demand their knight in shining armor, that amuses me. Tinder doesn’t have enough local talent, should reset my account but meh. Night game is fun plus booze. Fresh faces and some regulars. Can’t go wrong.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 06:17 AM
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That’s thirst not hunger. Women are bombarded by thirsty unattractive men. Hunger is a solid eyefuck. 98% of the time it shuts them down on the spot unless you catch the odd horny lonely gal at the exact right moment. Even then it’s not a guarantee until you’re naked with her. “Come over and have some fireball w/ me” is way better than “hurr durr lets fuck”
/r/askTRP18/01/18 05:13 AM
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Actions speak louder than words. My local online market is small. My same day bangs are from chicks with profiles that say “no hookups” but every picture is her tits hanging out. You connect the dots.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 05:06 AM
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Logistics and everything else are a man’s responsibility. Her job is only to hang out and have fun and possibly hook up. If you pick her up from her place, when you go to drop her off you can pull the classic “can I use your bathroom?” as a failsafe way to get in her house. Escalate from there.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 04:59 AM
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A man would say first meetup with multiple stops, first date. That’s clearly fucking logical. A woman is not a man. I didn’t make up the rules, I just play the game. Plausible deniability is extremely important beyond words I can express if your goal is the bang. Try it yourself on some dates. Say “so let’s get outta here and go to my place and fuck” vs “hey I wanna show you my fishtank. Let’s go check it out”. Men communicate overtly (let’s fuck) vs women covertly (come see my fish conveniently…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 04:44 AM
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Venue switch means go somewhere else. For whatever fucked up reason, changing locations makes it a second date for the gal. Breaks down the I’m not fucking on the first date barrier because clearly you went to second place so it’s no longer a first date now. Don’t ask me man, it just is. You can add 2b, get drinks and loosen up after said fun activity. 1&2 are right. For 3, have something interesting at your place. Work your something interesting into the conversation in passing but don’t focus …
/r/askTRP18/01/18 04:23 AM
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Solid strategy, logistics are on point. I got bored with quick pulls and started doing shit for my own entertainment. God damn if I’m lucky to break 100 bowling, have fun doing it. My leads start from night game typically. Tinder/online is not favorable in my area.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 04:10 AM
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5-10 135 is scrawny, not skinny. If you want to put on weight, you need to pack in the calories. GOMAD, mass gainers, something. Are you tracking your nutrition input? Google calorie dense foods. Milk, choc milk, cheese, avocado, whey supplements. 500ml/16oz whole milk & two scoops of whey is ~800 calories and 75g protein. I’m 5-10 190ish and my tire is getting more spare than I like. I’m starting my cut 6 weeks earlier than planned. Eat motherfucker. Workout plan: google intermediate weightlift…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 03:52 AM
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I watched a video of Alan thrall eating 10k calories in day. Fucking mesmerizing. OP needs more calories
/r/askTRP18/01/18 03:43 AM
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Bowling, mini golf, arcades, dancing, rock walls, park walks, playgrounds. Doesn’t matter as long as it’s an active date. First dates should almost never start with passive activities likes drinks or coffee. You venue switch to there. (My only first passive dates are coffee/drinks from online, gotta show you’re not a weirdo and build a touch of comfort. I work to venue switch after I catch some interest) Setup the pull by dropping in something interesting at your house. Fish tank, wall art, pull…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 03:35 AM
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You care an awful lot about some dude you haven’t met. Save your projecting and worry about yourself. The plugged in are your enemy. Fuck it man. Not your circus, not your monkeys.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 03:22 AM
1

Or they kill the good bacteria and fuck up your homeostasis. More bacteria in you than human cells.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 03:16 AM
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Young ones are for teasing and fucking. Older ones are for holding a legit conversation before the fucking. It’s a buffet where I can pick what fits my mood. Life is good.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 02:06 AM
1

One of the local hot popular girls was on one of the commercials. Caused a local stir for a bit. Good news is nearing 40 as a man does not suck
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 01:41 AM
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Don’t hamster your oneitis as law 2. Delete her from your phone and move on with your life. There’s your learning experience Have you fucked her?
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 01:24 AM
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Here I go being the welllll akshuallllly douche Muscle is denser than fat. 1lb is 1lb. 1lb of fat takes up more volume than 1lb of muscle. https://goo.gl/images/YYiFP4
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 12:34 AM
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On one hand, it’s the parable of the ant and the grasshopper. Yes, they’re having short term fun. In 5-8 years when they’re doing menial shit work and your personal development is paying off is when you would get to gloat except at that point you won’t give a fuck about gloating. On the other hand, you’re likely to crash and burn yourself out. Your ambition is good yet it needs tempered. You got too much on your plate at once. Follow the rule of 2 where you focus on no more than two activities u…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 12:24 AM
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If I invite the woman somewhere to an active date like bowling, then I pay. It’s low cost and I prefer to pay because that’s what I want to do. I could care less if that little bit of spending is viewed as a provider quality. We all have a mix and the rest of the night with teasing, banter and kino makes it pretty clear I’m not just some nice guy schlub trying to buy my way into her pants. If I invite a woman out to drinks, I say first rounds on me and order the drinks. I’ve only had a few gals …
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 12:06 AM
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Good shit tri Here’s a spotify album with pussycat song and other good shit. https://open.spotify.com/album/0m6hIdlZUMZ8zRw1zzHfVy?si=H_iAt-YtQkK8XhSy1OWAyw
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 05:17 PM
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I disagree, going out is meant to be fun. I’ll agree that’s the safe route. Fortune favors the bold. I’m not socially inept plus it’s easy (for me) to establish a lighthearted fun-loving persona without being the jester. Those are the guys other people want to have fun with. I’ve been that solo serious guy sitting at the bar, it’s boring as shit. Nobody hangs with debbie downer given a choice.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 04:25 PM
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A red pill man is always aware of what’s happening around the world. Nah, I quit the national/world news. Only pay some attention to local news and maybe some state level news. Can’t control any of it so what’s in it for me to keep up? I’ll gloss over some weekly summaries yet I haven’t missed anything that truly impacts my life. The only news worth following is your industry news if you’re still working corporate. That has an impact on your professional life.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 01:53 PM
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This ones more lighthearted. What are some fun innuendo-filled karaoke songs worth mastering? The two that jump out to me are below. fuck her gently by Tenacious D why don’t we get drunk and screw by Jimmy Buffett
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 01:46 PM
1

I sometimes worry that bite marks will well bite me in the ass. I’m not a target per se. I both get a thrill and a jolt of worry when I get the “you left marks lol” texts
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 12:52 AM
2

How about you step up and police it yourself. Own your shit and take responsibility for a place you like. No one here owes you anything. Be grateful for what you get for free here. I’ll belittle blackpill mgtow and appreciate true mgtow. I’m getting more mgtow myself as time passes.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 12:13 AM
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The whole world is a silverback ape to them (including the women) In person it’s the total package. The slouch, the forward neck, the lean in constantly, the goofy smile, the lack of conviction. It’s the eyes in the picture. They look dead inside particularly the dude in the top row left of the purple headed fuck.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 11:57 PM
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Pussy eating faggots downvoted this. Mouths are for sucking cock, not licking twats. Your mouth is better served biting her than licking her clit. Use your fingers if you want to stimulate her outside PIV.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 04:50 AM
1

Your whole comment could’ve been “read SGM and execute” Got a gal that keeps texting me about how I’m the only one that hurts her like she wants. Tells me she’s normally dominant in bed and she loves how I take control of her. Our kinks complement but I don’t like her that much. That’s what sucks about kinky girls, they’re usually broken. The unicorn hunt continues.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 04:42 AM
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Or you will be putting out a masculine sexual hunger (not thirst) vibe that women pick up on leading to your confirmation bias. Women are masters at reading all the subtle cues you’ll give off. It’s better not to fap excessively. It’s not the act of no masturbation itself. It’s the stored and excess sexual energy that you’re expressing that leads to more opportunities. Gender polarity is increased.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 11:53 PM
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Interesting tactics. Carrot/stick are most useful mixed together judiciously.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 07:41 PM
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No weaving it back. Simply tell her “wear something <your favorite color> for me” She wants you to take charge. Do it man, you’re the leader and the prize.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 03:09 PM
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We agree, gamification can be highly effective for online systems. I either didn’t express my true point clearly or we’re on a bad tangent. This sticky is an extension of the other sticky, building tribes. An online tribe is a shallow substitute for meatspace. Granted, an online tribe is better than no tribe. Ideally, you’ll leverage the online tribe to convert it to a meatspace tribe. That’s what I’m getting at here. My mind is thinking of a meatspace networking system as the true end goal here…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 02:59 PM
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Meh, it’s about building tribes in meatspace. Do you want someone to hang with only because that person wants a badge/status on a mostly anonymous website? The person that is motivated by that badge wouldn’t likely be a person worth knowing. Priorities are all fucked there. The person worth knowing has plenty of shit going on and is paying an opportunity cost to share their time/wisdom/value.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 02:20 PM
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Going back to rian’s statement, it’s simple supply and demand. Plenty of people want to get what you’re asking for, very few are actually worth giving what you ask for. Even friendships have a transactional nature to them. Naive idealism. I don’t say that harshly.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 02:09 PM
2

I like the idea of sarging meetups. Competitive/cooperative group sport
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 12:19 AM
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Ideas are based on merit, not tits. Cough it up and keep the tits part to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 12:17 AM
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I was looking for this one. There should be a potential monetary incentive in some of these situations. The real trick is how to do it without making it slimy. Every system will get gamed quickly. Most of us are not stupid men. The next best solution then is to completely keep monetization out of it. Now your back to the motivation problem. I donate my time and discussion here because I get knowledge, ideas and some entertainment in return.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 12:09 AM
1

You’re damn right my r-selection is showing. The entire purpose of TRP is learning how to be r-selective. Hence plate theory. Master r-selection, then decide if k-selection is worth pursuing for yourself. If you gave that as your premise, I could agree with you. You gave a bunch of bullshit hamster buffers to skip the plate theory stage of your journey. I suppose volcel is a sexual strategy. You can only truly say you’re voluntarily celibate if you have sex readily available to turn down. Anythi…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 02:26 PM
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Fuck this. Your buffers are showing. I’m not bothering to pick this apart piece by piece. Dafuq? Sex has no long term reward? Satisfaction is not a reward according to you? Tell that to the true incel (not the bitter hostile incel we know and love) who’s not getting laid. Sex has value end stop. Only once you’re abundant in sex can you decide whether you can live without it. Math may be better for some provided they’re actually getting laid enough to make a real decision here. Saying you don’t w…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 06:31 AM
1

Have you looked at the Bible? The men before us have figured this shit out already. We are the results of millennia of winners. Let’s not take their wisdom for granted.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 05:59 AM
1

That’s exactly the logic why you should stop hating them. Or go mgtow. Idgaf
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 03:11 AM
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You’ve potentially graduated StrongLifts. Eventually you need to switch to 3x5 and you’re at that level. After that, you also hit a point where you’re squatting so much every session you don’t have energy for the rest of the lifts. My OHP and bench were the first to stall on SL. Squat and DL haven’t stalled yet on any program. I’m ~8 months into lifting. Google intermediate weightlifting programs and pick the one that suits you. SL was my starter program, so I went with madcow 5x5. I use this ap…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 01:17 AM
2

Why do you think this is a binary choice. Met a woman recently out with some friends. On our date I said I love going out with them. It’s the cougar, the gay guy and whatever stereotype I am. She said well you’re the fun guy. That’s what I’m shooting for.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 01:01 AM
1

Look at that, we made him butthurt enough to delete his comment. Back on point, good writeup man. Getting that first win under your belt gives you the whoa this shit is real feeling. Go forth and slay my friend. I’m older myself and I like to keep a range of women in age. Young ones are for banging and older ones 38+ are for actually having an adult conversation with. Their LMR/ASD after they’ve “given up” is lower in my experience. It’s the 30-33splat year olds that are not worth any effort. Th…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 02:19 PM
0

Old enough to realize that spelling are and you take minimal effort that results in not looking like a tool.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 05:22 AM
1

Set new goals that are only accountable to yourself. It’s the journey, not the destination
/r/askTRP09/01/18 05:04 AM
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Yes you’re sister is awalt. She’s also your sister man. Different type of relationship. She’s family (assuming here you guys get along and are bonded). Women aren’t necessarily evil by intention any more than a rattlesnake is evil. Some crazy women and men are out there, yes. They’re generally the exception. Fucking sack up and ask her what’s the deal with setting me up with your friend. You’ll have somewhere to start for us to decipher. Learn from others. Learn from yourself. You don’t have eno…
/r/askTRP09/01/18 04:19 AM
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Here’s a thought: ask her. Likely won’t get a straight answer but you can get an idea. Maybe she wanted to toss her friend a quick bone Other than that, why do you care?
/r/askTRP09/01/18 03:56 AM
3

Even lifting can be sniffing the finger. Heretic! I sit here and ponder for a moment how you fully connect the dots and finish what I was thinking. Respect is earned.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 03:49 AM
5

I do me. You do you. obligatory no homo
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 11:06 PM
7

Means nothing to you, everything to me. Rolled off my tongue better than I am distilled sex. It’s a cue. Same as squat cues like pin your elbows to your sides or keep the bar in the slot.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 10:34 PM
1

80% of the men who do not build themselves in the best version they can be Fixed that for you. Take your MGTOW ball and go home.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 09:59 PM
13

Chad is a caricature. It’s a relative concept. You can be one gals Chad but not a different gal. Girls can be like lifting. Start low and work your way up. Work on your game and frame on some of the wallflowers or the chubby 4-5s. Experience is the best teacher of social interactions. Don’t go into landwhale territory for your self respect and social image. Serial monogamy may be your thing. That’s an acceptable strategy. My man, you are facing your own self-limiting beliefs in yourself. Objecti…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 08:20 PM
18

Quick look at your history. Your challenge is that you haven’t internalized that you are the fucking prize. Your worried about making impressions when you should be worried about dicking her good for your personal pleasure and she gets to come along for the ride. 12 different sources won’t help you. Action is what you need, not 17 different minutely different books. Look at yourself in the mirror. Look deep in your eyes and say I’m an amazing badass motherfucker. People fight to get me in their …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 07:16 PM
16

Why are you fighting the resource given to you. You also learn from yourself. Do the shit you always wanted to do, but we’re too afraid of upsetting or offending your “special pure princess” partner.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 06:54 PM
2

jfc man, thanks for adding some mirth and merriment to my Sunday morning. I chuckled and giggled like a fucking schoolgirl. I’ve fucked up plenty. My biggest advice from personal experience is that too much alcohol ruins your social calibration. I got cheeked when I went for a kiss not too long ago. I thought I swatted down the “I’m seeing someone” test, got her number and then went for the kiss. She was not having any part of that. Really I was drunk and she gave me her number to get me off her…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 05:40 PM
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Women enjoy getting fucked hard by the man they find attractive at the moment. Don’t confuse dutysex with desired sex. You’re correct that dutysex is a bargaining chip. I did my time in a low sex marriage. I’d get “lucky” during ovulation. Here’s the rub, she was getting laid a helluva lot more during our marriage than I was. My actions (weight gain, shit frame, vidya) led to me being unattractive to her. I don’t hold that against her, that’s all on me. Fast forward to now, skinny and sexy me ge…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 04:21 PM
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Good analysis OP. I’m old school and would rather have a quick chat on the phone to build comfort compared to texting. Sometimes you gotta text a little bit. Your goal should be to continually drive to your objective if you do need to text. Close on the date as quickly as possible then GTFO. Emoji: I use thumbs up/down as a single emoji response. I very rarely end with the smirk face to soften a particularly asshole thing I text. Questions: Do you like dogs? -> I bet you’re a dog person. This is…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 03:42 PM
7

No, wrong attitude man. You have the responsibility to analyze the content. The mods will help curate, but ultimately the buck stops with you. Ignoring shit posts will destroy the community. Whisper is teaching an extremely important lesson here. How to critically think and determine value vs upvotes. You really want to learn heavy shit? Go into whisper’s post and comment history. Prepare your mind for the knowledge bombs. These boys need guidance and direction. Useless advice will leave the stu…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 03:00 PM
2

Men and women have the same set of low level sensory skills. What’s your point?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 02:29 PM
3

Read here: http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2012/07/29/the-three-types-of-women/ Basically, you have dominant, submissive and independent types of women. You’re describing the independent type. Fun gals to hang out with, definitely the epitome of “she’s not yours, just your turn”
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 02:24 PM
3

She broke his frame the moment he paid any attention to the stupid shit she was saying.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 03:45 AM
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If you’ve been reading for months, you should know we all have effectively the same story that led us here: “female didn’t act how I was taught she would act. Female hurt me. I’m so fucking confused.” My friend, you’re not a special snowflake. Your pain is real to you. It sucks to you. The rest of us went through similar shit. Guess what, we don’t care for your pain. We may or may not still care about the personal pain that got us here. Shut up and start lifting.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 03:16 AM
1

Google “beginner weightlifting programs” and pick one. People way more experienced than you or I crafted these programs. Use their knowledge and experience. If you don’t want to think about it, www.stronglifts.com and run that program. You need a foundation of strength before you worry about splits and isolations. I recommend SL because it’s learning 5 separate exercises. You really need to get form dialed in for the big 3: low bar back squats, deadlift and bench. StrongLifts has an free app, $1…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 02:12 AM
2

Tell your spouse to put their money into the Roth 401k option at work. That way when the payout comes in the divorce, the other spouse gets untaxed money. Source: ex paid me off primarily with Roth 401k funds, no tax burden to me. I was taxed on the portion of the traditional 401k payout.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 01:56 AM
2

Blackdragon has a book called the unchained man for $9. There is a fantastic section on crafting your code and mission that is worth the cost of the book alone. That helped provide the clarity and direction that I needed to get my foundational mission in place. http://www.blackdragonblog.com and the link to it will be right there. Edit: book link http://www.alphamalebook.com/
/r/askTRP06/01/18 04:21 PM
2

I started lifting because I wanted to be sexy naked. Now I lift because I want to know what I’m capable of.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 10:40 PM
2

Keeping your mouth shut when you have no experience is also a highly rational choice. Do you give people advice how to be a beekeeper if you’ve never done it before? That would be really fucking weird man. Shitting where you eat: I don’t recommend it. High risk/little reward. If you’re gonna do it, well OP presented some valid strategy to decrease risk. Fucking married women: I recommend it if it falls within your ethics. If it doesn’t, then move on to single women. Women are very rarely truly “…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 07:58 PM
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I appreciated the gal had the balls to go after what she wanted. Take note fuckers. Rejection is better than regret I got cheeked a few weeks back. Thought I blew through the “I’m seeing someone” properly, got her number and then went for the kiss. She turned her head. Well fuck now I know, she is either really seeing someone or simply doesn’t want to see me. Sun still came up, I’m still breathing.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 05:40 PM
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Good for you, you special snowflake. Do you feel better anonymously telling everyone you don’t fuck married gals? Do you feel better giving advice on a subject matter you have zero experience on? You’re moralizing, virtue signaling and talking out your ass. The perfect trifecta. Being the best you can be is called being a man. That’s not TRP. Read the top of the sidebar. Comprehend the sexual strategy part. That’s TRP. You can have whatever ethics or morals you decide for yourself. That’s your p…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 05:19 PM
2

How many married women have you fucked?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 04:06 AM
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Author’s homepage Hey bro, you forgot to fix your home page. Better fix that shit. Where’s my free ebook? Your message resonates with the weak willed. They will be perfect sheep to meet your 2018 monetization goals. Best of luck to you my man.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 02:37 AM
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100% agree. The first thing I do when I see new faces at one of my goto venues is chat them up and make myself known as the happy friendly fun guy. It’s next to zero effort for amazing returns. The social proof is real when you bring a woman to your bar and the bartender has your drink ready and shoots the shit with you while you’re getting around to sit down.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 01:09 AM
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I’ll add to chat up the staff and squeeze out some details on their lives. Then ask them about said details at a later date. Sounds obvious to write it out, yet you people amaze me sometimes. Keep in mind that service staff see hundreds of people. The guy that asks about their cat is the one that sticks out.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 12:09 AM
2

Looks like r-sst was banned. What are the alternatives? PM if necessary
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 01:59 PM
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Rollo’s SMV and the aging process It’s age shaming and women protecting the herd. Maybe some crab bucket tossed in. Women inherently know that young gals tend to go for older guys. They did it when they were young themselves. My mid-40s female roommate sometimes makes offhand comments to me like oh yeah that’s where you go to get the young ones. I say shit like I know, they’re hot. It’s my time to shine. She’ll roll her eyes or laugh and we’ll talk about other shit. Why care? You can firmly and …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 01:57 PM
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If we awaken the sheep, then it’s no longer so easy for me to be a lion. Just the other day I overheard a bunch of dudes in a mixed group talking about how cosmo said dad bods were sexy to women. Why would I want that to go away now that I’ve fixed myself? The same bitches will go yeah dad bods are hot in that group and then tell me how they love it when I fuck em in the ass. Dad bod hubs isn’t fucking her ass. I didn’t fuck my starfish dutysex wife in the ass and I caught her in bs where she ga…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 04:54 AM
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The implied threat of public shaming helped me get 50/50 custody in my divorce
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 04:06 AM
2

Put up or shut up my friend.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 01:51 AM
1

I’ll translate to practical terms for you. From winter 2015 to New Year’s Day 2017, I put in 2500+ hours on my main and easily 300-400 hours on my two alts in destiny. On the low end 3700 hours of vidya not counting anything else I played on the side. Come some life altering events, I dropped vidya completely. After a number of months, I can enjoy some civ, save it and come back to it a few weeks later. Hardest part is remembering what I was working towards at the time. I enjoy it, I’m not a sla…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 01:49 AM
1

Source? Lots of weasel words in there. Same source as whatever fake news antivaxxers or flatearthers pick? Just make up words on the internet that pull the heartstrings. Clearly makes it true.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 01:38 AM
1

Your buffers are showing. You framed yourself. Now you can decide to attack me or you can think about what I say. Your life, your call. Idgaf. Everything you see here that has value (lift, build true power, meditate, etc) is furthering the purpose of sticking your penis into wet willing vagina. Enjoy your tantric solo jerkoff or get with the program.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 01:33 AM
2

ONS definitely lose their luster after a dozen times. Some kind of relationship is much more rewarding. I love getting laid. It’s a helluva lot more fun once you get the calibration dialed in. My favorite question after a few prerequisite fucks and then a night at drinks is “so tell me what your deepest darkest fantasy is” then just stare at them till they crack. Then live it out. Source: 70+ body count estimate
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 01:25 AM
1

This is a fantastic distillation of parenting wisdom. Well done my friend.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/18 01:05 AM
3

My friend, you’re either in the wrong place or your self-awareness needs visited. You know how I know you’re gay is a great example of a ball busting roast session. Friendly jabs and fun shit talking. Male shit tests are not always that overt. Sometimes it’s as simple as questioning your opinions or competence and seeing if you crack/fold/change your mind or if you stick up for yourself. I have to know if you’re a man that cracks or stands up because that’s how I know who I can count on. I gain …
/r/askTRP01/01/18 07:44 PM
1

There is zero barrier to entry on POF. It’s always going to be the worst of the worst. OKC is where the freaks go. They’re my peeps.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 05:59 PM
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Female pop singers give women a chance to live vicariously through the music and commonly hand out typical female themes. Ariana’s “side to side” and Rihanna’s “birthday cake” and “red lipstick” show you that women love to get fucked hard. Taylor’s “wildest dreams” is about getting alpha widowed. “Bad Things” by machine gun kelly and camila cabello is about a woman falling for alpha fucks. It’s all in plain sight. You just gotta see what’s in front of your face.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 05:52 PM
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You’re arguing like a woman by changing the subject matter. Challenges and unhealthy behaviors are clearly separate items. Stay on target. Roasting/bantering/ball busting is how men test each other. It comes in many forms and it’s up to you to recognize it. You can hamster it away and say it’s beneath you. In reality, he who doesn’t play this game automatically loses by default. I don’t like to lose.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 05:10 PM
3

So go with the flow and just be yourself? My friend, avoiding things that challenge you is not solid advice for growth.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 04:30 PM
2

Beat me to it. Never ask women if they want to go out. Tell them when and where. Force the issue or deal with all this unnecessary bs that OP is facing.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 10:27 PM
2

real love “Real love” or “modern love” is relatively new as a concept, maybe 4-500 years old. It is too broad, Love is nuanced. Love is literally a hormonal chemical reaction in your brain. It’s the “honeymoon phase” in a relationship. It’s used to kick off biological pair bonding for child rearing. You can have your Love, but you cannot expect it to last forever. All things must pass. The Greeks had 4 words for Love paraphrased as affection, friendship, eros (lust), charity. That covers the det…
/r/askTRP31/12/17 10:15 PM
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Couple things to unpack here man. Boyfriend test: you cannot outwardly react to this one. It doesn’t phase you or you lose. Some responses “I didn’t ask you about your problems”, then launch straight back into what you were doing. Or playfully say “me too. They should hang out some time” and keep going. You gotta brush this off and keep going because this bf is hypothetical unless he’s sitting beside her. If you’re better than the bf, it’s just a minor speed bump. She’s transferring the responsi…
/r/askTRP31/12/17 09:52 PM
3

It’s innate to having a vagina. I have an 11yr old daughter that I coparent. Smart as shit, 99th percentile on standardized tests for what they’re worth. She turns immediately to tears, manipulation and full on breakdowns when she doesn’t get her way. It worked for years, so it’s an effective strategy on her end. My challenge is that her mother buys into this behavior. I did as well for a number of years, now I don’t. She doesn’t pull the shit on me nearly as much for the last year since I’ve wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/17 09:25 AM
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Says the man who’s never needed to get a woman out of his life
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 08:12 AM
1

please share us how a red pilled society would look like or even better you’re society. Share with us how a yellow sky would be better than the blue sky. Pointless mental masturbation question at best. Unplugging starts with understanding realistic female behavior and then using that knowledge to reach your goals of getting laid. It follows that you start to unplug from all aspects of the bs forced down your throat from before the moment you started having cognitive thought. Then you use that fu…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 07:35 AM
1

You’re partially correct. Consistency is important. Lift heavy. Your heavy is different than mine and different from the guy who’s lifted for 20 years. Nothing beats the feeling of lifting as heavy as you can today (based on your program). Why take twice as long to do something? Do you fuck around in all aspects of your life?
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 06:37 AM
1

Dafuq man. I started SL at 135 1x5 for my DL. SL jumps you up 10lbs/wk till you hit 2 plates. That means I beat your PR in 3 weeks. You got 15 yrs on me, so you got T and youthful recovery in your corner. I pull 300 now after 8 months of SL with time off/deloading a few different times. Either your form is completely fucked or you’re not pushing your envelope. Deads are supposed to wipe you out without hurting yourself. There’s an Alan thrall youtube vid about 5 steps for setting up for deads. T…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 05:59 AM
2

Be who you are and accept it. It’s pretty fucking simple man. The confusion comes from society’s expectations. Fuck that. You wanna split a bitch in half, fucking go for it. You wanna rail out some dude, fucking go for it. You want some dude to bang you senseless, fucking go for it. You don’t have to pick only one of those choices. Being congruent in yourself is the first step to happiness. That’s not some motivational fb meme. You do you man, fuck it.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 01:53 AM
3

Yes, everyone has different tastes. Your 5 is my 9 and my 9 is your 5.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 01:00 AM
3

From lifting or grindr? Fuck whoever you want as long as it’s not cutting into gym time.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 12:19 AM
2

I’m a parent. Kids are a net decrease in your overall happiness. They’re a pain in the ass, require constant attention for the first 12 months of their life and they limit a huge number of your options. That said, they are really fucking awesome. Nothing compares to the pure joy and wonder a 5yr old boy can add to your life. It’s a tradeoff. I have 50/50 custody nowadays so I get my cake and eat it too. I’m setting them up to get to 18/early adult then I can get back to doing all the shit I want…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 11:22 PM
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My man, they’re your family. You didn’t get to pick them and you’re stuck with them. I’m sure they’ve supported and helped you in their own way over the years. Amused mastery helps. You don’t get mad at a child for their nonsensical views of the world, you either laugh with them and set them straight or just ignore them. Law 38 always applies.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 09:08 PM
8

My friend, women should change to suit you vs you learning how to handle women? Tell me which one you have control over.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 09:05 PM
1

Have your fun. Enjoy yourself and hone your skills. be forewarned that the CNA is what low value, no motivation women end up doing. It’s easy as shit to get the certification and the work is easy but shitty (literally sometimes). If they’re progressing past CNA, cool. If they’re career CNA then they have no drive whatsoever. Be fun and playful, fuck them if you want but don’t commit. They’re looking for the easy wagon to hitch up to.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 04:05 AM
1

Never be angry, never be shaken or upset. Don’t lose your cool. The words aren’t always completely important, the delivery is important. Shit tests are verbal war. You get better with practice. Having worked in restaurants myself, you’re in the perfect proving grounds. They’re the only place where I could understand bending the “don’t shit where you eat” rule. Everybody’s fucking everybody. Can’t give you specifics. Conversation is fluid and dynamic. There’s common shit test answers like “I’m se…
/r/askTRP26/12/17 03:56 AM
5

Explain why? You’re trading a fantasy (porn) for reality. Be the dude fucking the gal, don’t watch a dude fuck a gal. Eventually you won’t even want to jerk off once a week when you’re getting laid 2-4 times a week. I still edge occasionally in the shower. Gotta make sure the machine is in good order.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 03:43 AM
1

Why do you care about our opinions? Do you have your own opinions? That’s the settle down and start a family type. Great if that’s your goals. If not, you’re simply wasting your time and her time. Her clock is ticking, yours isn’t. I’m a fuckboy now. I have my kids, so I’m set there. I avoid that type of gal unless I can set myself up as the side piece while she continues her hunt for a partner/provider.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 11:33 PM
2

StrongLifts 5x5 for your program. You only have to learn 5 exercises total. Read starting strength 3rd ed. For form. It’s fantastically detailed and important to get your head wrapped around it. Watch mark rippetoe form videos on YouTube for more form work. Form is critical. I practiced the motions at home and when I could to help follow up on my reading and watching. You’re stronger than you think you are. You can handle the bar at a minimum. Then you keep adapting and putting on more weight to…
/r/askTRP25/12/17 07:13 PM
13

This is the answer plus a bonus excellent follow up. Merry Christmas
/r/askTRP25/12/17 03:11 PM
2

Yes, I’ll punch down if the drought lasts too long. I do it outside of my normal locations. I don’t want that shit coming back on me. Negative preselection.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 02:11 AM
6

By the time you get older, you’ve cut most of the useless people out of your life. No one has shit on me for my progress over the last year.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 08:01 PM
1

Fancy-dancy words for kinesthetics You can recognize the feel of a good squat vs one that doesn’t break parallel.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 05:37 PM
2

I love ariana grande, rihanna, kesha, demi lovato, ellie goulding, selena gomez, nicki minaj and some taylor. Katie and kanye doing ET is a fucking amazing song. They’re an outpouring of feminine sexual energy. I soak that shit up. I was showing my pop playlist to a gal I pulled last weekend. She’s all this is great stuff.. only one problem, where’s ed sheeran. I said he’s a whiny little bitch, I don’t listen to him.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 03:31 AM
10

OP, you’re gossiping. Don’t you have a mission to fulfill?
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 03:19 AM
1

Divorce was the single best and most influential event in my life. I enjoy the irony. Life is funny.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 09:11 PM
1

Yes, unchained man.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 08:29 PM
1

You cannot always control what happens to you. You can always control your reaction to what life throws your way. If you allow yourself to fall victim to shaming tactics, then that’s your fault. If you allow shitty criticism to shape your future instead of making your own choices, then that’s your fault. Shit happens. You can go oooh woe is poor poor me. It’s the fault of <insert whatever bullshit excuse you want here>. Life is so unfair! Alternatively, you can go man that’s some serious bullshi…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 07:42 PM
1

Have you considered that your reasoning that normal human social interactions being weird af is why you’re lacking in the social skills department? How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie is right up your alley man. Highly recommend it.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 06:19 PM
5

Hey man, sounds like you went through some bullshit. You can consider it being forged by fire or you can go down the woe is me path. My mother and father divorced when I was 4 or 5, somewhere in there. Later on in life, found out from my dad’s brother that my dad, an OTR trucker, came home to find my mom fucking someone else in his bed. She doesn’t explicitly know I know. Why bring up the past, it doesn’t matter now. My mom loves me and did the best she could for me. My dad never recovered after…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 05:38 PM
3

You have great perspective man. I can easily say it’s a lot more fun when the world is yours. Every aspect of life is better.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 04:38 PM
3

girls night out by rollo You freaked out man. Why so much guy drama. Your description sounds more like an LDR than an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 02:52 PM
3

Acronym for all women are like that. It’s the same concept as the firearms safety rule all guns are loaded.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 02:45 PM
1

The first step to being more social is captive audiences. I started with the script below. I do it every time and try to get them to smile at me. I’m standing in line to check out. I read the persons name tag while I wait. I get to my turn and say Hi name, hows your day/night really going. I turn that into a few moments of friendly banter and smiles. That greased my wheels to start talking to other people. Now I can say whatever ludicrous shit pops in my head without thinking about it.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 04:07 AM
6

I will teach you to be rich is a good baseline for financial intelligence. The Dave Ramsey stuff isn’t terrible. Good for penny pincher tightwads. Edit: his advice on debt is spot on for consumers. Debt is a tool for the advanced. You get more money by making your pie bigger than by eating smaller slices. That means you can save $4/day skipping lattes. Or you can make $20/day more, have a latte and still be $16 ahead. Start there then come back with more advanced questions
/r/askTRP23/12/17 03:41 AM
3

Expected something like this sloot came up to wash my windows, heard my badass Denver rendition and started slobbing me leaning in the window. So disappointed
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 02:36 AM
4

What you call fruitless adversity, the rest of us call shit tests.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 02:04 AM
1

It’s a way to live vicariously. Also explains some of the PUA roots. Interesting but not necessary. The ESP game trick is pretty cool. Tell them pick a number from 1-10, they pick 7 most of the time. You say hmmmmm you’re thinking 7. If they did pick 7 they’ll wanna know how you figured it out. If they say no i didn’t pick 7, you can dig on them why they changed their number. Good times either way.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 12:44 AM
3

Random strangers on the internet always give the best parenting advice.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 12:12 AM
3

What are your lifts in the big 3? Lifting heavy makes me a righteous badass. That confidence flows into my being. You cannot adopt Chads mindset. You craft your mindset into being Chad. Chad is merely a caricature. Be irrationally confident, have decent social skills and calibration, some verbal wit and the guts to say the shit out loud that pops in your head. Don’t be afraid to be touchy and then be touchier than what you feel comfortable doing. (Obviously don’t grab a titty in public, calibrat…
/r/askTRP22/12/17 12:11 AM
2

Be helpful and put your stats and goals in the question. I lost 65lbs this year. Slow and steady does win the race. It’s fast at first then it tapers off. That’s the fucking grind right there. If you’re not playin for next years body, don’t fucking bother. You won’t stick with it then go looking for some magic cleanse that “loses 20lbs in 2 weeks”. A year from now you’re just as fucked as you are now, because you didn’t listen and you think this is some overnight shit. If you’re serious, then co…
/r/askTRP21/12/17 11:51 PM
1

Dieting isn’t terribly hard. It’s a series of making good choices. MyFitnessPal does the work for you. You only have to tell it what you ate and not to lie. Once you see those numbers go in, it’s a helluva lot harder to lie to yourself. The answer is do both.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 11:07 PM
3

Get outta here with your facts and data Sign on bonuses for production work are the highest I’ve ever seen.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 10:54 PM
3

What about going to a local gym and saying hey I want a part time job. Google convict conditioning and follow that body weight plan. Or keep making excuses. Idgaf
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 03:02 AM
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Here’s my favorite anecdote from online dating. My local online market is small. If I log in to POF every day, I get just about the same gals in different order. I see a cute local gal on POF, send my standard open. Got nothing in return. About a week or so later, I see her at the end of the bar when I walk in. I get the appraising look from her. Look back till she breaks and head on over to grab a stool. Recognized her, meh not worth it, rather just watch the game. Later that week run into the …
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 02:11 AM
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Get a side hustle doing anything. Anytime fitness is $15/mo in my area. You can’t find some tasks to regularly earn $15/mo? I’d pay someone $5/week to take my trash to the curb for me. Be creative. Go on the trip. Experiences are priceless.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 01:07 AM
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Everyone is exposed to HSV1. Downside is nobody wants to make out with someone with an active cold sore. nbd any other time. I don’t get them, my ex-wife did. It appeared to suck, so I empathize with that man. My body count is very high. Cold sores only came up if they were active. Usually some like it looks like you’re getting a cold sore or her griping about it. I’m lucky enough not to show symptoms, have to assume I’m a carrier by now. The likelihood of passing HSV1 to a genital infection is …
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 01:01 AM
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Just curious, why are you against dating? I find them fun and enjoyable. At some point I work in something to set the non-monogamous dating expectation. Office party was a commitment test, good job deflecting that one. Fun and low cost enjoyable shit to do is my key. Bowling, live music, shooting pool, etc. don’t go out to $100/plate restaurants or whatever.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 12:38 AM
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Dude, you talk shit about minor/medium shit and agree on the heavy shit. If your dog died, you don’t want your bro saying well fuck there’s another dog at the pound, stop being a whiny bitch. It’s your fucking dog man, the situation deserves some respect. I am an emotional empathetic human being. Now if the thot fucks up an easy pool shot, I’m going 100% on her. Dgaf if I’m doing shitty and have no right to talk shit. That miss is on her, not me. That sucks on the ssri bit. Don’t wait to get out…
/r/askTRP20/12/17 03:15 AM
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Bro, I skipped most of your wall of text. Idgaf what happened, all that matters is you control your life going forward. Get models and mystery method. Meld the two techniques. I’m more of a build yourself up guy yet mystery method offers some solid openers and scripts to get yourself going. Now go talk to women in the right atmosphere. You’re gonna lose some, you’re gonna win some. Go forth and win as much as you can. Life is awesome. Women are awesome. Smile and enjoy what we were given.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 03:04 AM
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You missed my point. Nah I’m a contentious shittalking asshole primarily. That’s how I spike emotions. There’s a time and place to be agreeable to build comfort and show I’m a human being. Makes a good counterpoint. Go out and try mirroring and report back to us your results. Way more useful than armchair quarterbacking behind a computer. You might even get laid from it.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 02:56 AM
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Have you tried it
/r/askTRP20/12/17 02:37 AM
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Rule #2 cannot be stressed enough
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 01:28 AM
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Bullshit advice on cologne. Expensive only in the sense that it’s a one time buy that lasts a long time. Find the scent that works for you and own it. Or don’t and let me have the gals that say ooooooh you smell goooood.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 04:46 AM
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HR suggests, hiring managers approve the hire.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 04:01 AM
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CRISPR RadioLab is really fucking cool. There’s a follow up you wanna check out too. It’s radiolab, so put on your liberal-leaning skepticism hat on. I’m nearing 40. Pulled a 22 last Friday. It ain’t so bad being an old guy.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 03:45 AM
3

Sweet child, your response speaks for itself.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 03:36 AM
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Part of the grassroots pushback must come from humor. Mini-FR time: I’ve been establishing myself at a new venue as the fun guy who gets it. I was shooting pool and running lowkey married game on the bartender shooting with me. Shooting the shit, having fun, working on setting up a married plate (who the fuck would allow their wife to bartend? I’m not a guydrama lay down the law type of dude, but that’s beyond ludicrous for a profession for your wife. Might as well let her be a pornstar) I have …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 02:52 AM
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The real problem with fat chicks is that you just can’t fuck em right.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 01:34 AM
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The foundational premise of your theory is that women must no longer be inferior. What’s the motivation for a woman to not be “inferior”? Human nature and polygamous male nature must also be suppressed to enact your theory. Prisoners dilemma also applies here. You’re putting your trust in every male to be a good actor. The bad actors are going to clean up. Every man is clearly not a strong masculine presence. The cultural and legal pressures are gone to cultivate steady lifelong relationships. H…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 12:36 AM
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Building a solid social network (not Facebook friend counts) is never a wasted time. This is coming from a long time lone wolf changing his game.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 01:49 PM
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You don’t deserve the downvotes. The old stuff was often based on existing fables. They do have great moral fabric and were great useful stories. Where would the turning point be? Little mermaid still had a strong male hero and a submissive female. Maybe Pocahontas in 95? Definitely the following Mulan and emporers new groove in the late 90s. Went downhill from there.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 01:17 AM
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Alcoholic beverages play a huge part in human development. It’s theorized that agriculture was started to make it easier to brew grain based alcohols. We take clean potable water for granted now. It’s really a modern technology to have access to uncontaminated water in abundance. It become commonplace in the 20th century in America. Before easy access to tap/potable water, the majority of drinks were alcohol based because they didn’t spoil. Kids drank watered wine with dinner because it was safe…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 12:20 AM
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Dunno how old you are. You can try the minoxidil facial thing if you’re past patchy ass high school years.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 08:24 PM
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Excessive jargon. Beginners also read as a substitute for action. Balance the two. Read, act, evaluate, adjust, repeat. Now go forth, lift and practice your social skills. Slay that pussy my man.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 05:10 PM
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Your message is good to always be the biggest badass you can imagine, then continue expanding your imagination beyond that once you get there. Always be improving. Game is the set of behaviors and social skills used to attract members of the opposite sex. Everyone has game. Not everyone’s game is as effective as others. Taken out of context, your message could be to skip the foundations and fundamentals of your personal game and eventually you’ll magically gain magnetism. In actuality, you gain …
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 03:43 PM
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I found that it opened up the demographic of women who love shaved heads and didn’t close the demographic of women who don’t absolutely love shaved heads. I haven’t found a woman yet who tells me I refuse to interact with shaved head guys. All upsides, no obvious downsides. You want a beard to counteract the shaved head. I keep mine short and trim my upper cheeks so it’s a symmetrical straight line. It’s a combination of these two styles below. https://www.gillettearabia.com/en/shaving-tips/faci…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 01:31 PM
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Holy shit. I didn’t realize the means and medians for “normal” men were that low. No wonder dudes are so fucking thirsty. The study source was ~650 men, so that’s a large enough cross-section to draw some conclusions. Eye opening stuff. You can take asshole game too far is my caveat. It’s gotta be congruent and not overdone. It works boys, don’t be scared to call her out or give her shit. Shit tests work both ways.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 01:21 PM
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I’ll expand on your comment. Wikipedia is a terrible source. It’s useful to look for the cited sources, and anything beyond that must be taken with a high level of skepticism. Phytoestrogens occur naturally in a number of different plants. Relatively small or normal consumption is not likely to cause your body an issue. It’s the overload of soy that causes the issue. Estrogen, in the right quantity, is necessary for a man. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3074428/ My TL;DR for that s…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 02:47 AM
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The feminists decided they would put hops in beer a few decades ago? A new addition to the basic beer recipe that dates for centuries? Cmon man, think for yourself. That said, I completely stopped drinking beer when I started cutting. Whiskey/rocks and a glass of water is where it’s at. I drink my stepdads home brews when I socialize over there. I guess that makes me a fucking hipster.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 01:03 AM
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Why the fuck do you care why married men let themselves go? Mental masturbation
/r/askTRP16/12/17 11:40 PM
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Check your employee handbook for its harassment policy. Be armed with that knowledge before you talk to HR. It is 100% correct to speak to your direct supervisor first. He is know aware of the situation. You’ve put his skin in the game according to the EEOC guidelines. “Blind eye” is a big deal in these guidelines. Make sure you follow up your discussion with HR with the classic “Per our discussion, blah blah blah” email so it’s now in writing on the company system. Print a hard copy (do not for…
/r/askTRP16/12/17 10:51 PM
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There’s a lot to unpack here man. You’re not escalating. Therefore you’re not signaling your intent. You’re getting friendzoned. It’s rarely worth the effort to escape the friendzone if you allowed yourself to end up there. Seriously wtf are you doing man? 3 meetups, no kiss? 2 meetups, no touching? You’re shooting yourself in the foot and these girls are correct in thinking that you’re sending off platonic signals. Don’t wait till the end of the date to kiss her. You kiss her when you want to a…
/r/askTRP16/12/17 10:14 PM
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Exactly man, ain’t knocking your accomplishments. I was pointing out to the idiot commenter that you “used” people and were “used” by people, often for mutual benefit, to advance your own agenda. There’s always an exchange of some sorts.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 04:56 PM
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Be careful as many people like to use others of self profit... Especially the young superficial ones OP’s whole post is how he profited from new found connections. You give to get.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 04:34 PM
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MRP is a better resource for red LTRs. Go there. Dread is what you’re looking for. Sounds like you need to revisit your priorities. A man needs a baseline financial foundation for himself.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 04:21 PM
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My man, there’s a lot of self-limiting words in here. Your inner game is holding you back. DYEL bro? Lifting heavy makes me a righteous badass. That confidence shines through to everything in my life. Do you have the full hunger and drive to reinvent yourself? Are you simply going through the motions and halfassing shit?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 04:12 PM
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Men want kids as well. Nothing in this world worth having comes without a price. She’ll love you in her way. Being the center of a woman’s world is one of the best experiences you can have. It won’t last forever, yet it’s amazing while it’s on.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 03:54 PM
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I’ve had more interesting and fun sex in the last 6 months than the last two years of my failed marriage. It started here. It’s literally the guide to success. I got to lifting (hit 300 squats 3x5 with good form today), I got to socializing more, I got to sarging and even started getting results from sarging. I got around in my early 20s well enough, but 15 years of LTRs, marriage and providing had me losing my edge. Get off your ass and put in the work. It pays off in due time. I know personall…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 11:38 PM
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Your life, your call man. Don’t shit where you eat is a primary rule for a reason. Don’t fuck with your money. Do you think it’s a good idea to be sexual with women in the workplace in the middle of the #metoo shitstorm? To answer your question, always have a few irons in the fire. Beta orbiting is providing their validation without getting anything in return. You can socialize without orbiting. Chat them up and light game them to keep the interest at a simmer.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 01:56 PM
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Read up on shit tests. You lose when it gets you upset.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 11:38 PM
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Become the man you are. Fuck everything else. Start lifting today. The iron never lies.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 11:16 PM
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You can do whatever the fuck you want without requiring validation from internet strangers
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 11:14 PM
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Based on the words you picked, sounds like you’re trying to show off to fit in. Don’t be the jester. Be fun and amused. Work on speaking from your balls and raising your volume. That means you don’t have to constantly blather, yet when you do speak people take notice.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 11:12 PM
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https://www.bodybuilding.com/content/ask-the-science-chick-is-the-anabolic-window-real.html The anabolic window is debated. My thinking is why not get something post workout if it hits my macros and targets. My cutting post workout is a scoop of whey in water. My bulking post workout is a pint of whole milk and a peanut putter snickers. Both give me a protein/carb boost in easily digestible form. Creatine and maybe glutamine are likely in your pre-workout.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 05:37 PM
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You’re not entirely wrong. I always had a babyface, now i don’t look almost 40. My face looks experienced, not old even with some graying patches in the beard. Got lucky there, I smoke and drink like a fish. Those two behaviors will fuck up most people. I am disciplined now. Lost a ton of weight and look much better. Paid for that with stretch marks and persistent fat deposits in the handles and belly. Damn good but not killer is where I am especially given the competition these days. My flaws a…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 04:06 AM
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There are many different factors that depend on the foundation you’re building on. Get your nutrition on point. That’s your foundation for everything. It’s a marathon, not a sprint. Generally, you’ll see results in the mirror in a month. Your close family and friends will see changes in 2 months. The rest of the world will notice changes in 3 months.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 03:14 AM
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Where to start: StrongLifts 5x5 for your program and Mark Rippetoe form videos on YouTube. You can also hire a personal trainer to help you start if you have the cash flow. I assume college gyms would have access to personal trainers if you ask around if that’s your age. My numbers are about 3x yours (my numbers are relatively low, less than a year in), and I have the mass to show that strength. I’m no Arnold in his heyday. I am obviously fit. Do you realize that many studies are done on college…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 02:05 AM
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PR = personal record. What are your lifts? What makes it bad science to ask 18-22 yr old woman to rate 18-22 yr old men?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 01:23 AM
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What’s your PRs man? Anecdotally, women don’t grow up. Ran into a group over the weekend, got to talking to this late 40s cougar in it. She was aged yet still sexy and attractive. Somewhat recently divorced and going through a version of “finding herself”. Read that as letting her sexuality free after suppressing it for marriage. She was showing me pics of some of the guys she was banging, and they were all hot body men. I helped her name her newest toy peppermint. It was pink and white. Being a…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 01:10 AM
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Wanna know a secret? 5-10 185 nearing 40. Not having a gut alone puts you in the top 25%. Having visible pecs and shoulders/traps bumps you into the top 15%. Now your only competition is those very few other guys in the gym at your age range. I’m likely 18% bf. I still carry a bit of lovehandle and just a bit of bellybutton fat naked. I’m thin enough to see my abs lines, but not cut enough to see my abs definition. I look thin and strong in shirts. Obviously pick the shirts that are tight across…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 12:59 AM
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My man, you’re saying the same thing as the person brought in to critique the article. You’re connecting dots that aren’t there attempting to attribute them to men and denigrate women at the same time. Attraction is a biological function and you backfill (hamster) any other qualities the person has as part of what makes them attractive. The cute guy is funny, the funny guy isn’t always cute. Yes there are variations within specifics of attraction. The baselines are the same. T&A for dudes, stren…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 12:33 AM
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I made myself into a lone wolf. I had a lifelong self limiting belief that I was antisocial and unsociable. That means I never really developed a solid crew or group. I’ve gotten past that shit. People are awesome to hang around. I chat up just about anybody when I can. Checkout lines, guys at dinner if I’m eating at a bar type setting, you name it. I make a game of getting people to smile in my interaction. It’s fun. I have one close lifelong friend and family that I can relax and just hang wit…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:43 PM
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You posted a few minutes ago. Get of reddit. Go to the gym right now. The endorphins will help you feel better. The self validation of a good workout will help center your mind. You’ve earned a lesson here once the emotion subsides. Stop comparing yourself to others. You control yourself and that’s all you control. Make yourself the best version of you possible.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 11:02 PM
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Gdit tri. Every fucking time. Being honest and telling no lies are far from the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 02:52 AM
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Not a sneakerhead. You do you man.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 04:05 PM
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I haven’t decided if you’re a troll or you haven’t grasped the fundamental theories. I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt that you’re still wrapping your head around these concepts. As it stands, you are twisting my words to suit your agenda. I present my rebuttal. Men are biologically polygamous, which is a fundamental of unplugging: plate theory. Our strategy is shoot far and wide. Cheating can be a natural extension of that strategy. Choosing to stay monogamous is a conscious choice by both…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 02:08 PM
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You’re showing extremist interpretations. Life is not simply black and white. What’s best for the individual is not not always best for the group. Unplugged men are a minuscule drop in the bucket. It’s the theatre fire scenario. I’m alone in a theatre on fire, it’s best to make a mad dash for the door. Now get a large enough group, it’s better to calmly file out the door to minimize injuries to the overall group from fire and trampling. Plenty of miserable bloops to carry on society for us. I co…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 05:23 AM
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Shoes are underlooked by men and one of the first things women notice. Great call on shoes. I wore 11’s. Dropped 65 lbs and now I wear 10s. I had fat boxy feet. Now they’re only boxy feet. YMMV.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 11:55 PM
2

JBY is the goal. You simply have to continually build yourself into the most powerful version of yourself that you can imagine.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 03:41 AM
2

I did not propose anything. I made my estimation of the events that will cause this shitstorm to finally blow over. I was true bloopie during the 2016 election. I thought the grab her by the pussy remark was the nail in the coffin for trump. Turns out that is a highly effective metaphor if you stop and think he doesn’t mean literally grab a handful of clam. Trump blew through that shit and won the election. Funny how perspectives change with knowledge and experience. I don’t follow current news …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 01:41 AM
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“I’ll handle it” is the natural follow up. Well stated. Great post OP.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 07:01 PM
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At the end of the day, if it’s not working for you then don’t bother unless you’re using your experiences as learning tools to keep progressing. Don’t bang your head against the wall if you’re not getting something out of it. How do you dress? What is the style that works for you?How do you look? Are you obviously muscular? How do you project your personality? What kind of vibe do you give off? Are you at the point where you can objectively introspect? All this ties together into the version of …
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 12:08 AM
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I’m a libertarian at best who can hold multiple views in my head at once. Political discussion beyond the local level isn’t any better than wrestling a pig. Interesting link. Find it on audible for me. I have my credit for the month. The book is highly lauded by the extreme right. Hard to cite it as an unbiased source. Im not in disagreement that the soviets won the espionage game in the Cold War.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 10:31 PM
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I judiciously use my most powerful tool: walking away. “Hey it was great meeting you. I had fun. I don’t think we’re going the same way in life right now” Phrase it the right way to walk away clean without leaving her butthurt about it. Campground rule is important and there’s no upside to being malicious. There is still a shit show, don’t get me wrong. There are definitely provider hunters. Matty is right that these types of women feel it’s their due because they have popped out kids to have a …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 05:54 PM
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The shit will continue until a powerful enough man gets accused and says fuck this, I ain’t rolling over. He’ll call it out for how ludicrous it is and the winds will fall out of the sails. It’s how McCarthyism was finally killed. We should relearn the lessons of the past.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 04:24 PM
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This is great beginner level advice. A lot of it is true. A truly single mom has to be the mom and the dad. They’re forced to take on masculine roles. Therefore they often have a tight frame. If their frame is steel then they have a deep desire to let it all down and just be that little girl for once. I’ve dated women from low 20s to mid 50s. The older ones usually have better conversations yet I can game and tease them and they still respond just like the young gals. It was eye opening when I f…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 01:39 PM
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The rational male was the first. It’s heavier on theory and things make more sense as you actually experience it. I identified with a lot of it on the first go through. I still play that audiobook on occasion on my commute. Book of pook is more like a series of fables where some of the morals are hard to understand at first. The writing is top notch and captivating. By now I’ve read a lot of books. At first simply reading made me feel like I was progressing. I was in a sense. Killing my ego to r…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 03:11 AM
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Sure, I’ll fix it for you. women like to fuck attractive men Your fault if you’re not attractive.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 02:13 AM
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You’re not wrong. Who the fuck cares when she’s replaceable.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 01:51 AM
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Newsflash: Women like to fuck. Next up, an in depth report on just how much greener the grass is on the other side.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 11:57 PM
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Yeah they’re out to get fucked, especially if it’s a group of two gals. A “duh” would be appropriate. Have you been paying attention in class? I’ll help you out here no low value man is safe Solution: Be valuable. Be strong. Be abundant. Live a rich and full life. Second red book I read was book of pook. I thought no fucking way this shit is real. The progression then goes huh maybe pook was on to something. Then it goes fucking A man, this is fucking awesome. Then you go ok, now what..
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 11:51 PM
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I closed a profile with “no fat chicks”. I’d get messages from angry women. I have done my share to contribute to the “all men on online dating are asshole pigs” stereotype. You’re welcome fuckers.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 06:41 PM
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Seeing as TRP is actually a data-driven study of male sexual strategies, what are the hard statistics on men ruined by false allegations? There’s anecdotes of men that got fucked over badly. I’m not in disagreement with that. I am in disagreement with an argument similar to this one plane crashed out of the millions of flights, flying is the most dangerous form of travel.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 02:39 PM
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Define your code of conduct, your goals and your mission. Now you have something to test against. Does X progress toward my goals? Is Y congruent with my code. Is Z part of my mission?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 11:42 PM
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I work in I’m not looking for a stepmom at this point in my life. I keep my family life and social life separate. If they come over it’s obvious there’s kids in the house. My roommate and I have a sock on the door agreement for planned invites. I don’t bring rando ONS back to my house. It’s her place or the car or nothing. I talk about my kids just enough to show I’m human. It builds comfort and rapport. Usually a funny story about something that also shows I’m a good dad. Not excessively, you s…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 02:06 PM
2

Tell me what the man’s deadlift PR is. We’ll go from there.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 10:37 AM
3

Ethnicities don’t matter. We’re all fucking human. Thanks to my line of work, I’ve interacted with just about whatever different skin color or whatever human there is. There are quirks but that’s arguing the exception. Body language is universal. You don’t get to claim that special snowflake status based on whoever your parents were. I’ll go back to my original point. You have rbf. Again I’ll state this isn’t some stupid bs facebook meme. Let the joy of life wash through you. Half-smile when thi…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 04:54 AM
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I shave my head so I can disqualify that portion. Hair or not is quite irrelevant. We’re talking about your face. It’s the crinkles between your eyebrows and the forehead scrunch. I personally have lines on my face from them. The challenge I faced myself was that I always had “stern” or “focused” face by default. Having a great time in my mind... still looked like I was pissed. Have your friends take some discrete pics of you. Obviously it can’t be when you’re noticing them. Compare the timestam…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 04:01 AM
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No, you have male rbf. What follows is not some inspiring bs. Be happy and turn your frown to a smile or neutral face. It’s likely scrunchy forehead. Relax your face and be joyful in life. Nobody wants to talk to grumpy fuckers.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 03:04 AM
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This isn’t really red pill, this is simply being a caring person. The two can coexist done correctly. Get her something unique/interesting in something’s she’s passionate about. My ex was crafty. I’d find interesting patterns on Etsy and buy them to have her make them for me. If she’s a basic bitch with no interests then buy an experience out of the ordinary. Pedicures or whatever.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 02:29 AM
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Guess what, it is your fault. Be the man or be the bitch. I lost the woman whom I loved more than any other person in the world. More than my kids. More than our shared child. More than my mother. Is it her fault she branch swung when I gained 60lbs, drank way too much and played vidya whenever I could get some “free” time, relinquished the control and forced her to take the leadership reigns? That loss turned me into who I am today. Own your mistakes or blame your shortcomings on the nebulous “…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 01:44 AM
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I used the system to my advantage. No support, 50/50 custody and I got a payout in return for her getting the house. We agreed no lawyers and I wrote up the paperwork. We negotiated and came to an agreement. I did consult with attorneys a few times to make sure my ducks were in a row. Put language in the custody agreement that’s highly favorable to me if I ever need to invoke it. Fuck I even got the judge to grant a waiver for the required co-parenting class. All told I put up 300-400 in fees an…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 01:18 AM
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For the love of god or whatever you hold holy, never in your life qualify a statement with Im sorry but Instant disqualification of your thoughts or opinions from anyone who hears that. If you can’t even put your own weight behind your words, why would any one else.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 04:57 PM
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Fuck that, I’m going for Stephen King. I did learn that I should stick to my standard writing style. Your criticism is approved.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 02:09 PM
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I damn well hope the spergs identify with this most upvoted comment. I enjoy being in the top 1-3 physical shape in damn near all situations. The rub is that I’m not nearly jacked as OP. I’m not even a fucking year in. 5-10 185. That’s how low the bar is. Fuck em, makes my life easier when they don’t try.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 02:00 PM
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woman has sex on a date. OP calls her a whore. The entire purpose of dating is to vet the other person for sexual and relationship potential. That’s the same as saying my car went faster when I stepped on the gas, so clearly there’s something wrong with my car. You have some madonna/whore complex to work through here man. Women are distilled sexuality. Embrace it and love them for what they are.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 04:14 PM
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I’d extend that and say men need systems. I was at a point in my life where I wanted it laid out to me. To get better relations with women, start with these tasks and absorb this knowledge. TRP gave me the guide. Ok, now I have tasks and goals handed to me and I simply have to execute. I can handle that. My theory/criticism is that the TRP system is currently incomplete. TRP teaches life transformation as a man’s most effective sexual strategy, but it doesn’t offer guidance on what to do after y…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 03:06 PM
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You’re expecting women to think like men. This one tipped her hand early, you should be grateful. Very few can think more than 2 days in the future. They want to cash in on the cow, not raise the calf. Graduate and slay.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 01:43 AM
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Ended up fucking an mltr, no big deal. I’m as hard on myself as I need to be and no more. A fuckup is a better learning experience than a success provided I don’t keep making the same mistakes. Also learned that a girl stepping on you can be both an IoI and a shit test rolled into one. Obviously gotta read the situation. In this case, there was plenty of room and it wasn’t a oh oops sorry bout that.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 01:26 AM
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I’ll write up my full FR this evening. Blew a set last Saturday because I didn’t push the attack harder. Had a great IoI, she literally sat beside me and leaned into me after some banter and bs while we were both waiting to go on the pool table. I did lose her for being a social retard that effectively rejected her because I didn’t escalate on her advances. Part of me was thinking she’s already showing this level of interest and I can slowplay this one. I’m thinking that was a buffer on my end r…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 01:54 PM
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Do you realize it would have been faster for you to type “indicator of interest” in google than to write this comment?
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 01:44 PM
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Check out stickk.com. You set a goal, pay cash and have a 3rd party objectively determine if you hit your goal. You get your money back if you meet your goal or lose it if you don’t. That’s a lot more powerful than simple words of encouragement or discouragement. Your idea isn’t new. Most ideas aren’t. However I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt that you have the potential to execute the idea better than anyone else has before. There were plenty of search engines before google came around, th…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 12:43 AM
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No, it’s not a self improvement sub. It’s an action oriented improvement sub. I blew a set last night that should’ve been a done deal in retrospect after I reviewed it today. I’ll take my L and reflect on my fuckup and take better actions next time. Self improvement is mental masturbation. Reading about improving triggers the same emotional response as actually doing it. That leads to not actually improving because it FEELZ like improvement when nothing has actually changed. Case in point, it to…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 12:06 AM
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If this is legit, you’ll have better luck with this on the redpillwomen sub. I’m glad the rest of the men are zero competition. Obligatory tits or gtfo.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 04:13 PM
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What do you want to know? Outpatient procedure, took maybe an hour. Drove myself home from it. Balls were sore for a day or so. I was painting a room the next day. Had to jerk off and get checked for sperm a few weeks later. You gotta shave your balls beforehand. Doc didn’t approve of my shave job so he had to dry shave me. That’s what I really remember. I thought Jesus everyone’s a fucking critic. No big deal.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 01:58 AM
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I don’t have acne issues on my face. Do have some bacne. I’m going to address that with an actual back scrubber since that gets neglected. Getting an spf moisturizer and going from there. I do get dry flaky skin around my eyebrows that’s pretty gnarly. Want that to stop. I’m getting older and want my babyface to do me well as long as it can. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 01:59 PM
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I am all for my son, and will do damn near anything for him. But moving out there is not a good idea on any level. I was operating on the assumption you wanted to be a major part of his life. Your responses make it clear that your child is not the biggest priority in your life. I’m not judging you, that’s your choice to make. I made a similar choice myself. You do have to accept that these choices have consequences. You’re conceding a damn near all of your input into the child’s life if you’re n…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 10:43 AM
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This is more of a request than a question. Can someone with skincare experience write up a guide or tips and tricks. You google this kind of stuff and it’s very hard to tell what’s effective vs what’s trying to sell you something.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 02:11 PM
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Ive been on both sides of this. Had a stepdaughter with my ex and my ex branch swung before we divorced. I met up with the dude for a man to man. I told him you’re going to be an influence in my sons life. I have an obligation to ensure my child’s safety and future. I take this responsibility very seriously. I made no overt threats, simply stated my obligations. He checked out and turns out he’s a decent enough guy. Your situation may be different. My stepdaughter’s father consistently talked sh…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 02:04 PM
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You mean capitalist countries with socialist policies?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 03:14 AM
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I’ll agree that plenty of upstanding and quality people exist. How does that relate to male sexual strategy? This is a great troll. I’m amused and impressed. Hats off to you milady.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 03:01 AM
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I wondered about that. Cheating in an open relationship? Must’ve broken their poly ground rules. Never say never, can’t think of when I’d ever explicitly join a poly relationship. “I’m seeing other people. You can too” works well enough.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 12:44 AM
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I ended up writing an essay. You must have struck a chord. The TRP sub tells you lift and game. That’s the kickstart the demographic who end up here needs to get off their ass. Realistically, that’s only the basic beginner stuff. The next and most important step is develop your mission, your reason for being so to speak. That gets glossed over as it’s not as glamorous to talk about as the first two. Health, sex and finances are not the end game. It’s the foundation of the you that you want to be…
/r/askTRP28/11/17 11:52 PM
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Once net neutrality gets killed, the problem will be be further exaggerated. Advertising/media will be shuffling people towards their goals and information will no longer be free. I’m not a doom and gloom guy. This is scary shit even for me.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 04:54 PM
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That’s always the answer. Chick may be the best lay you’ve had, doesn’t mean you won’t find another with her level of sexual prowess. If nothing else, cut this chick out of your life. Sounds like a drama magnet. If it’s real deal poly, that adds an extra wrinkle. Doesn’t sound like full honesty/disclosure on her end. I’d want nothing to do with that.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 04:49 PM
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My market is similar to the commenter with the 15k city. I followed the Blackdragon guides, see those for more details. I hit online dating hard for a bit. I’d have to reach farther out and travel. I’d send 60-80 message blasts every 3-4 days and filter back through them. Estimate a 5-7% response rate. Not worth the effort, not worth the time, not worth the driving. I stopped online. I get opened about once a week, never been anyone I would open. I swipe through tinder every few days when I shit…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 01:56 PM
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Look into omlala’s guide in this sidebar and Blackdragon’s guide for online markets. Google Blackdragon blog for that. Sounds like you’re not putting out enough numbers to cover the expected response rates.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 04:37 AM
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Don’t thank me, I actually gave you the burden of responsibility. I merely pointed you in the right direction. You now have the responsibility to determine your own life and execute it.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 08:00 PM
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There is a plate in front of me. It has a hotdog, a hamburger and a tenderloin. I eat all three and enjoy the tenderloin the best. I decide it’s tenderloins and only tenderloins from here on out. I’ll ignore the fact that the table has what appears to be an endless amount of other plates I could sample. Nope, my mind is set. I’m a tenderloin only guy now. You’re also engaging in nuclear level guy-drama. Of all the wasteful things you could do with your time, that’s beyond the end of the scale. I…
/r/askTRP26/11/17 07:35 PM
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You’re overthinking this shit. Why not have your cake and eat it too? You’re forcing your decision into a binary choice. You don’t have to go out every night. You don’t have to stay out all night if you go out. You can get extra rest during the morning after. Getting the full amount of sleep is important, so ensure your morning schedule allows you to sleep fully after a night out. Don’t party till 3 then have a 7am class. College is an alternate reality bubble that forces young adults together w…
/r/askTRP26/11/17 07:07 PM
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I’m not convinced feminism has a master plan to swap men and women between the home and workplace. Women can’t think past two days from now. However the financial impact on single mothers is worse than you stated. The wealth redistribution is not enough to cover the missing parent. http://www3.uakron.edu/schulze/401/readings/singleparfam.htm Single mothers plus the state do not replace the income level of two parent households. 60% of female head households are considered impoverished. 66% of bl…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 04:14 AM
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My first thought was no way, man. you’re full of shit. You are correct. Here you go. That’s a gender research institute article and the first hit on google. The article is interesting. Per this article, gender quota boards have both “better discussions” and “more productive conversations”. That’s the same thing twice, so the article is saying they talk more now. The same article goes on to state that 9 of the largest 126 Norwegian companies have a female CEO. That’s 7% if you’re keeping track. I…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 02:26 AM
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To paraphrase the original post, all doors were opened and women were even pushed towards the newly opened doors with money and social programs, yet women continued to select traditional female jobs when every barrier was removed. It’s like bringing your kids to the best buffet in Vegas, but they still only get mac&cheese and hot dogs that you could’ve thrown together at home. Thanksgiving parents can relate.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 11:19 PM
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Guys end up here when they were the world that was burnt down. Become the phoenix.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 09:07 PM
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Can you clarify this for me. There are legally codified gender only jobs in Norway? Is there a listing of these Norwegian male and female jobs? Can I get onto their version of Indeed or job boards and see how it’s broken down to these gendered positions? Anecdote: I know a guy that has considerable years of HSE (Health, safety, environment) experience who got shuffled into HR from a restructure. He was beyond miserable and found a new job in HSE because he was the only man in HR. I personally wo…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 08:23 PM
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Duh You pulled them back to your house, so theyre dtf. Then they see you’re doing well. I’m surprised you don’t hear the kaching in their mind out loud. That gal thinks she’s finally found her golden goose. She ain’t gonna fuck that up.
/r/askTRP25/11/17 03:24 AM
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Your title and body don’t line up man. What’s the question here? There’s fresh meat available every weekend even in my limited market. I’m at a disadvantage vs the very large markets, yet there’s some new gals all the time plus the regulars. The regulars vouch for me so I have that going for me. Try a new watering hole and new people. You’ll get a blank slate.
/r/askTRP25/11/17 12:50 AM
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Link to the study
/r/askTRP25/11/17 12:42 AM
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You’re recomping. You’re tracking the wrong metric if you’re only worried about scale weight. Also track your mirror look and your bf%. Muscle is 18% more dense than fat. That means 1kg of fat takes up more space than 1kg of muscle. Your scale weight is staying the same because fat is going away and being replaced by muscle. You look better but stay the same weight. Eat more if you want more mass. Calories in/Calories out will always apply. 100g protein is not enough. 500ml whole milk and two sc…
/r/askTRP25/11/17 12:41 AM
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That’s a deceptively hard question. Great question to ask. Frame is the hardest concept to grasp. It’s used as shorthand to cover a lot of ideas. It gets tossed around a lot yet it’s a nebulous idea. It’s similar to the Supreme Court ruling: I can’t define pornography, but I know it when I see it. From the TRP sidebar glossary. Frame: the context in which something is perceived. My frame is the subjective version of reality that I project and accept that drives others perceptions of me. Isn’t th…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 10:39 PM
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That’s the myspace pose. Old as the internet. There’s no full body shot for a reason. Look around the shoulders and upper arms. You can tell.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 10:07 PM
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You need to understand that lifting is a marathon not a sprint. You’ll see changes in a month. Your close friends and family will see changes in two months. The world will notice in three months. There is no ASAP here. Don’t be the never skip leg day meme. You’ll look freaky strange with a muscular upper body and matchstick legs. I get compliments on my legs in Levi’s. Your legs are what drive your body, you want strong legs. There’s a biological and biomechanical reason your upper legs are the …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 07:01 PM
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Ass, gas or grass with raised eyebrows and/or a small smirk works in some situations. I leave off the nobody rides for free, it’s implied.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 05:48 PM
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You’re lacking confidence. It’s projecting into your stance and walk. Google power poses for your hands and standing then google posture correction. I don’t have to Superman any more daily, I do when I have something like a presentation or a meeting leading to give that extra boost to myself. Hands should be loose and relaxed at your side as an extension of your shoulders being in the correct position or on your hips. Hiding your hands is a mark of insecurity and submission in body language, so …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 05:44 PM
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One example is far from a relevant sample size to offer anything useful. You cherrypicked something that puts you in a positive light in regards to where you posted. You haven’t convinced me you’re not after “oh look how my ex-woman was and look how I put her in her place” I could make a new account and copy/paste your post and spin it on 2xc and show how the mean misogynist man ignored my apology. I’d get the same thread you did with the difference being the gals calling out how much of an assh…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 04:29 AM
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OP, I find this post odd. You’ve thought quite a bit about an interaction from a month ago. It was important enough to you to repost it from a new account. I can’t tell if this post is a hunt for validation or if you actually want an opinion. You have crossposted to TRP and MGTOW. Posting to those two subs will net you reiterations of the male equivalent to “you go, girl!” and various forms of “oh the stupid-evil wymminz finally getting what they deserve”. There is a familial impact to your acti…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 01:02 AM
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I’m about to graduate SL5x5 after 6-7 months. It does take time if you’re doing full rests. That’s 15 rests, so 45 minutes of rest alone not counting warmups. I blow through my warmups as quick as I can and take the full 3 minutes between last warmup and first work set. I get back under the bar as quick as it takes me to load the weights for warmups. If this bothers your body, then continue to rest longer during warmups. You’re new, listen to your body. Here’s some advice I got a while back, I’m…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/17 09:32 PM
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Main sub, click the 3 dots, pick community info You can add “/about” to the full URL to the main sub and get there
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 08:02 PM
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You’re too spread out so you’re just doing a shit job at a bunch of things. Your efforts need focused. Focus on no more than 2 things at one time. When you convert one of these things to an automatic discipline item (gym routine on autopilot, meal prep Sunday on lockdown, etc) then add in a new item.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 07:57 PM
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If you feel less about yourself, they already won. Your first problem is yourself and your frame. Male shit tests are fun and it’s how we test each other since you know fighting is discouraged nowadays. Start giving your own shit tests and see how people fight back at them. There are common themes in the test/response dance that you can use yourself. Dish it back. This is verbal war. Verbal sparring is acquired through experience. You can watch comics dish it back to the audience to get an idea,…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 06:01 PM
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Pretty sure black dragon had a section on starting families in this day and age in his book and I skipped that part. Tried to dig it up in my collection and couldn’t find it. He’s a big proponent of multiple open relationships, so it would fall under your goals. Black dragon is one of the few manosphere blogs I regularly follow. Good advice and content. You can find the link to his book on his blog here: blackdragonblog.com The book is $9 (2 lattes on the latte scale). I found it useful and I re…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 05:08 PM
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The next bullet is that there’s no alphas at work any more. OP says be a mindless drone then complains that there’s no rockstars. It’s the same narrative as “where have all the real men gone?”
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 02:39 PM
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borderline personality disorder
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 01:21 PM
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Are you a manager/supervisor? No? Then you don’t have to worry about this shit. Protect yourself and don’t shit where you eat. End of story. The answer to why is once you have this information, you’re deeply involved in the situation. Are you going down because Creepy Dave in engineering is making one of the women who work for you uncomfortable or presents an “unsafe work environment”? Fuck Creepy Dave, he’s not worth falling on your sword for. It’s beyond misandry, misogyny and gender wars at t…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 03:36 AM
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Great line. Make it up or borrow it? I’m borrowing it now.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 12:40 AM
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Fake news has infiltrated TRP. Why bother with facts when you can make emotionally charged generic statements and prey on fear to get a rise out of people. Yes, there’s a witch hunt going on now amongst the elite. Yes, it makes sense to not to do obviously stupid shit that doesn’t belong in a professional environment. This is an antagonist male equivalent to “rape culture”. Completely unfounded in objective reality. Wear a body cam and violate your company’s no recording rules for immediate term…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 10:01 PM
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Your company is going to have a harassment policy mandated by Equal employment opportunity. It’s in that handbook you didn’t read and you signed paperwork saying you received it when you were hired. Get your handbook and know your policy. HR or your manager can get you a copy if you don’t have it anymore. If you’re in a supervisor role, you must kick up any reports of harassment up the chain following the specific harassment complaint procedures in the handbook. “Turning a blind eye” is essentia…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 07:47 PM
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If your healthy food does not taste good, then you haven’t used enough spices or seasoning, especially salt. Provided you’re not using a sugar based dry rub, there’s next to no added calories from spice if you’re on a cut and it’s hella easier to eat a lot of tasty food if you’re on a bulk. Every man should know the basics of cooking and seasoning at a minimum. I don’t need to explain the taste difference between a properly seasoned and cooked piece of meat vs a bland over-cooked piece. If you d…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 02:47 PM
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Hit up my ex-wife’s other dude and arranged a face to face. Wanted the cold hard truth confirmed and maybe closure. There was anger at him yet mostly directed at her. In the end, I confirmed what I already knew and it didn’t change anything. I did leave shaking the guys hand thinking that bitch is your problem now. Best part was he told the ex-wife that we were going to talk. Her hamster went into nuclear hyperdrive. “What are you doing. I am not ok with this” she says among other choice tidbits…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 12:09 AM
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I started typing minoxidil and the second google autocomplete was minoxidil beard. God helps those who helps themselves.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 11:28 PM
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Bullshit response. You’re mixing adult male-female relationships with a parent-child-sibling relationships. Why should he take on these roles? For his brother. OP is now the elder male of the bloodline. He steps up to care for his blood. That means leading, talking to and coaching little bro on the reality of the situation. Like it or not, firstborn get that responsibility. New guy has been around long enough not be a stranger. OP has very little power to change that situation. OP also must unde…
/r/askTRP20/11/17 04:14 AM
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A number exchange is not a contract to swap bodily fluids. No upside to the gal for causing a confrontation about it. She can literally ignore/block it and the problem goes away. As to why the gals changed their minds, who cares. Two is not statistically unlikely. 5+ in a short time span is a trend that you should analyze what you’re doing wrong.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 09:35 PM
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This is the answer. Women don’t like confrontation. The easiest path for them is to give out their number then blow you off when you text or call them.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 03:34 PM
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Black Dragon blog’s author published a book with an extensive section on defining your code of conduct and mission. It’s $9 and worth it for that section alone. http://www.alphamalebook.com/ http://www.blackdragonblog.com/
/r/askTRP19/11/17 03:30 PM
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Report and move on. Incels refugees seem to think trp is in alignment with them. I love fucking women and I fucking love women.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 12:14 AM
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It’s jargon for getting together with people. A munch is a meetup with food. Usually a private room so you don’t have to worry about offending the vanilla just wanting some dinner and not having to overhear shit like proper butt plug use getting tossed around. A slosh is a meetup over drinks. Booze is involved so they’re a little looser and sometimes you can take the party to a private residence and get right to business. A meetup is just that, a get together in a public setting or a private res…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 11:06 PM
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There’s a mix of dudes. Most aren’t jacked. I treat it as a social mixer and not like a bar meat market deal. You want to meet the men as well as the women then play it like social circle game from there. It’s more of building up your social network and getting to know the marketplace and who’s into what. I’m not in stuff like diapers but if I meet X who is and Y who also is, then I can help form a connection. You’ll get the favor returned to you as well. Be honest about what you’re into or will…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 10:09 PM
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I can speak to my experience on fetlife. It’s not a dating site per se. It’s facebook for kinksters. There are classifieds and personals groups that you can post to and follow. My local market is relatively small but I have two larger markets within reasonable driving distance. Mainly what you want to do is find the local munches and meetups and meet people in person. Kinks are so diverse that you really need to find the person you click with and as with all things a man will tend to do much bet…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 09:21 PM
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Moms are full of red pill truths. She’s one of the only women that you can mostly trust to have your interests in mind. It’s one more way for her to care for her babies. My favorite from my mom was “if they don’t help you pay your bills then fuck em.” A few months after my divorce I was sitting with my mom at a family thing and she says so you seeing anybody? I said there’s a couple gals, nothing too serious. She says ahh a fuckbuddy’s all you need anyway. I laugh and reply I’ll drink to that, m…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 09:09 PM
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It's why I believe that getting laid many times has to do with a huge number of variables that are out of your control. Who knows. Maybe she stubbed her toe in the bathroom and nows she’s pissed. Maybe her frienemy Suzie saw her making out with you and started talking mad shit to the rest of her crew. Maybe she got a text from her mom that her cat puked on the floor. Maybe Chad sent her a dick pic and you got bumped to backup plan. Outcome independence is the only way to handle this. You can do …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 08:50 PM
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Thanks for the heads up. I’ve lost a ton of weight over the last year and eat mostly clean nowadays. Literally in the best shape of my life. Im eating a little dirtier now that I’m on a bulk so time will tell over this winter what impact that has. I considered keto yet I didn’t go down that path. Flares are down a bit and overall they’ve gone down as I get older. I’ll get a very bad one every 4-6 months and some minor ones here and there. Hard to say if it’s because I’m overall healthier or if I…
/r/askTRP18/11/17 05:19 PM
2

TL;DR- it sucks. It’s your cross to bear. It’s not a dealbreaker. It’s as bad as you yourself make it. A man typically gets one free pass from women for genetic shit he cannot control in my experience. Hey man. Guess what. I’m thinking I have the same condition you do. I went to a dermatologist in my late teens and got diagnosed with a skin condition that was two words and chronic and no way out of it beyond surgical removal of the symptoms. I call them abscesses instead of boils. Painful as shi…
/r/askTRP18/11/17 06:24 AM
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It’s not simply that rape is illegal. That’s just human morals codified. Rape is the second cardinal sin behind murder because it removes female sexual selection agency. I don’t get into the hand-wavy neo shit on this topic, yet rape is an affront to natural law. On an individual level female sexual selection is brutal and painful, however it continues to advance the species as a whole and improves the next generation just a tiny bit by selecting for the best available genetics. Thank fucking na…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 02:28 PM
2

Thanks for the suggestion. I didn’t find this one on the iPhone store. It’s a mess of garbage on there for weight training apps.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 02:16 PM
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PM weed destroys my frame. I become so withdrawn I can’t see shit around me. If I smoke too much too often my (female, not banging) roommate will hit me with “are you mad at me what’s wrong” after a few days. I love smoking weed. I have to decide between being social or being stoned.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 04:41 AM
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My friend, I understand your sentiment. The issue is not getting under the iron. I can spend my cognitive processing doing barbell math in my head and writing down my sets in my trusty notebook or I can have a sweet app do the math for me, layout a decent warmup set routine before my work sets and set me up to where what I have to do is execute. A decent app is a tool to meet my goals. I can drive in a screw by hand yet a screw gun makes that task easier, faster and more consistent.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 04:09 AM
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Easiest way is visit the sub on a computer or desktop mode on a mobile. It’s literally the huge info dump in a bar on the right side. Hence sidebar. On the official reddit iPhone app, go to the main sub and click the three dots in the upper right and pick the community info option. I’d assume it’s similar for android. That’s the sidebar for mobile format.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 01:33 AM
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1% improvement daily and reap the benefits of compound interest. You cannot change everything overnight and expect it to be maintainable. Rule of two: you can have many goals but you can only actively work towards no more than two at once. Multitasking just means you’re doing a halfass job at a bunch of things. There are some personalities that can effectively multitask. Those people are not the ones asking this type of question. I read this somewhere. I’m not as visual so I didn’t use it yet it…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 01:23 AM
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Good luck man. I’m in no position to offer specific advice on Turkish high school game. Use the time to gain experience in LTRs and identify your boundaries and the flaws in people that you’re willing to accept and the flaws that you cannot accept.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 06:01 PM
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Plate then promote to LTR if she earns it. You’re setting yourself up for oneitis if you’re only going for one of them. Why don’t you put yourself into position to spin them? Trying to get your blue pill fantasy with red pill tactics is a recipe for disaster. Edit: tell her “I’m doing <fun thing> at <date and time>. Join me” to ask her out. It’s up to you to hold frame there on out. That answers your direct question.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 05:53 PM
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Google “rollo creep” or “rational male creep” Here’s a link to the first one from googling rollo creep https://therationalmale.com/2017/11/09/the-creep-part-1/
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 05:48 PM
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What good lifting iPhone or web apps are available that you would recommend? I’m moving away from StrongLifts soon. That app was pretty damn good and worth the $10 I paid for it. It has spoiled me.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 05:44 PM
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I don’t dream about not jerking off because I get laid enough not to worry about it. You don’t have pussy on a pedestal, you have not touching your penis on a pedestal. The barrier to pussy is low. YOU are holding yourself back. You wanna be asexual then you do you. If that’s who you are own it. An asexual man wouldn’t be proud of not spanking the monkey. You’re welcome when what I wrote sinks in.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 03:24 AM
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I got some koolaid. It’s tasty and you’re thirsty. I know you want it. If he stopped jerking it daily 5 months ago and replaced it with a normal fap every week or so as he stated, then he’s good to go. I agree that cutting extremely down on porn and jerking it if you’re doing it multiple times a day is good advice. Don’t replace a fap addiction with a nofap addiction. Don’t confuse normal awkward experiences when you’re sexually inexperienced with dick problems from over jerking it. OP went thro…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 02:58 AM
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Bonus question: what’s your PRs? Are you talking in terms of lifting? or life? TRP rule zero: get your ass under the iron. That’s what gets it done around here man. One of the biggest side benefits to being in your line of work is access to the trainers that know the programs and the medications to do a total transformation a la Chris Pratt from chunky parks&rec to guardians of the galaxy scrub down scene. I’m not to that jacked level yet I did the no more fatass part to looking damn good and he…
/r/askTRP15/11/17 12:45 AM
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Bonus question: what’s your PRs? Are you talking in terms of lifting? or life? TRP rule zero: get your ass under the iron. That’s what gets it done around here man. One of the biggest side benefits to being in your line of work is access to the trainers that know the programs and the medications to do a total transformation a la Chris Pratt from chunky parks&rec to guardians of the galaxy scrub down scene. I’m not to that jacked level yet I did the no more fatass part to looking damn good and he…
/r/askTRP15/11/17 12:41 AM
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I’m extremely comfortable with the idea that in the grand scheme of things I don’t matter. This is one of the key lines of thought that I want to convey to my son as he grows older. This doesn’t mean that I don’t value or care for myself, it simply means that I’ll make the best life I can within the system I was born into knowing that a year after I’m gone then very few people will notice or care. You’re in a position of potential influence. Without going into doxxing details, have you exercised…
/r/askTRP15/11/17 12:11 AM
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Expand on frame in visual arts for us that aren’t familiar with visual arts.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 03:42 AM
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Blah blah blah excuses excuses blah blah blah I lost a ton of weight. Stretch marks everywhere. You know what makes stretch marks look good? Muscles underneath them. Fuck it it’s part of me. I have some kind of scarring skin condition since late puberty. Acne sometimes goes sideways between pores and it sometimes results in abscesses. Abscess pockmarks all over my thighs and ass. Fuck it it’s part of me. I was self conscious about the condition as a teenager then I found out that it didn’t stop …
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 11:06 PM
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You’re mixing close bonded friends with random asshats. Are you gonna sit on your deathbed saying “I’m glad I didn’t fuck up” or “man that shit didn’t always work out but I’m glad I went for it”? Your life, your call.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 11:14 PM
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I mentally replace alpha with lover/sexuality and beta with provider. They’re two different sets of traits. Maximizing your attractiveness to females typically improves your life in general. Better pay, better physique, cool social hobbies or good logistics to name a few improve your life first and foremost. That does not put you in the female frame. It’s maximizing your returns on life with the side benefit being the women are more into you for having your shit together. Looks-maxing is highly …
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 05:21 PM
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I put 2500 hours into destiny over 18 months or so. There’s about 2000 hours in a year working 9-5 as a reference point. Imagine what I could have done with all those man-hours. Stop gaming for long enough to reset your brain and dopamine receptors. I stopped at the beginning of the year. A month or so after that I didn’t want to game anymore. I found fun and interesting things to do with my time. I made real progress in the meat world. Virtual progress on a toon doesn’t translate to anything be…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 10:57 PM
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Solid advice for op. Your life is in your hands. You have the power and responsibility to take what you want from the world. No one will give it to you. I did 4-5 weeks of therapy right after my separation. Continue if therapy provides value and actionable goals and plans, otherwise you’re going through motions with no purpose simply because that’s what you did last week. Jb- I think it would be best to have a purpose and direction to head, or else you're just going to be treading water forever.…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 10:32 PM
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Interesting follow up essay. That one sounds useful. Some women around 35+ have realized they’re not gonna get what they want and given up the bloopie dream. These ones are ok with getting back on the carousel. You can get a feel for women with this attitude. They’re fun. It’s the provider hunters that you gotta watch out for.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 08:55 PM
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Your essay was written well. However, the wall isn’t a new concept. Ultimately, I cannot determine what the point is that you’re making. What actions do you propose should be taken here? If you add in how to handle/bang a leftover then there’s much more value here.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 03:58 PM
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No more mr nice guy
/r/askTRP21/10/17 12:48 PM
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Others answered with the stock advice for oneitis. It’s stock because it’s legit. I don’t have any ethical or moral qualms with doing your step-sister. The problem is that anytime you shit where you eat, the real cost is that you have given up your ability to walk away and remove yourself from the situation. That’s the best trump card you will ever hold.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 12:35 PM
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This all reads like a weak excuse and a series of buffers to protect your ego. If you’re not enjoying them after some tests and banter then walk away. Some people you just won’t get on with. However you sound like you have some kind of unicorn expectation that you’re using to give yourself an excuse not to escalate. “Oh no she’s not a stellar example of the pinnacle of female perfection so I can’t have anything to do with her” You’re a virgin. Get that first notch out of the way so you realize t…
/r/askTRP21/10/17 12:08 PM
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If you’re meeting next week, then you have time to find and read the book “sex god method”. You won’t be able to fully internalize it in that time frame but you can start on the basics and understand DEVI (dominance, emotions, variety, immersion). Don’t worry too much about your cock. It’s one piece of the overall experience you’re giving to a woman. A bigger cock gives you bonus points into dominance but you can make up for that with your words, tone and actions. Most men typically only have po…
/r/askTRP21/10/17 11:46 AM
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I don’t disagree with your response. I’ll touch on a related point. Something like 80% of the adult population has or has had a form of hpv. Until the vaccines start making progress through the young adults then this trend will continue. For men it’s mainly a skin condition. It’s the women it potentially seriously hurts with cancer. It’s a numbers game. You fuck a lot of different women and statistically you’re gonna end up with hpv. Condoms aren’t effective for stopping hpv transmission for the…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 05:51 PM
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Bench has been a challenge on getting form dialed in and my numbers reflect that. I hurt my shoulder relatively early on (flared elbows, fixed that) and deloaded when that was better. Recently found out my grip width was a bit too narrow and hitting the triceps more than the chest. I was failing the final sets with the narrow grip so I wasn’t progressing as quickly as squats and DL. Widened up my grip some and lo and behold I can hit all my sets again and feel it in my chest where it belongs. I …
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 01:19 PM
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For now. StrongLifts has you squat every session and DL every other. Over two weeks I’ll add 30 to my squat and 15 to my dead. Eventually squat overtakes deads at that rate.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 09:36 AM
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Hobbies: try the “throw a bunch of shit at the wall and see what sticks” method. Just now, I googled “cool hobbies” and got plenty to look over. Try the ones that interest you and see what fits you. Girls: Assume attraction and go for it. Ask her out, go for the kiss or whatever. Get rejected some and you’ll see that you don’t catch fire and die. Not saying it doesn’t suck because you’ll have your ego involved in there. A man goes for what he wants. He doesn’t always get it yet he makes an effor…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 12:47 AM
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Turn that around. Get the best out of your mind while your body is on autopilot. My round trip commute is about 75 minutes. I listen to audiobooks and podcasts. Spotify when my mind needs a rest.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 04:17 PM
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I’m 5-10, 175-180lbs. I’ve lost a lot of weight this year. I’m lifting since May with a few stretches of time off. Im at 305 squat, 290 DL and 145 bench for reps on SL3x5. All that lifting was done on a caloric deficit. I could lose 10 more lbs to be shredded. However, We’re coming up on winter. My plan is to put that last bit of weight loss on hold and bulk till March 1. Cut from March to summer. My question is lose the last bit of weight or bulk through winter. Also bulking has some psychologi…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 01:55 PM
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You could ponder this further and ask if feminism is the result of technology. You know when tech hit the points of making subsistence farming/living obsolete, then you have a little free time to start worrying about shit like equality and all the rest. Before that you don’t much if you’re starving and barely eking out an existence. At the end of the day I care about the causal relationships much less than when I first found trp. It is what it is and I’ll bend the rules that are in play now to m…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 05:02 PM
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the average man would be hustled out of a ton of money for nothing. Willingly hustled out of that money no less. I used to have a buddy I’d go drinking and fucking around with. He had the hots for a bartender at one of the local chain restaurants. Bartender used to be a stripper at the local club. Made plans for all of us to go there after her shift one night. She talked up the owners and went on stage. My buddy tossed her $160 in $20s and she did not even take any clothes off. I was stunned by …
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 04:30 PM
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I’ve taken this to the point where I never say “I’m sorry”. I go with “I apologize for x. I’ve learned y from this situation.” The second sentence shows that you recognize the error and will prevent it in the future. A related word trick is to not apologize but to thank the person for a good quality in dealing with your mistakes. That would be something like “thank you for your patience” instead of “I’m sorry I was running behind” or “thank you for the clarification” instead of “I’m sorry. I com…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 08:57 PM
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Influence is a game changer. Halfway through it now and I can see it all over the place.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 04:41 PM
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If you want to raise a family, it should be for life. Why? Because that’s how they did it yesterday? Do you have a better reason than that? Today’s problems require today’s solutions, not yesterday’s.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 10:27 PM
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I don’t agree with the false dichotomy that you are presenting. Lifelong exclusivity or societal collapse are the only outcomes we face? Humanity has made it through all kinds of disruptive changes and we’re still here. There are plenty of ways to effectively raise children, which are the foundation of society. The classic nuclear family is the best option given the society we had until now. That does not mean it’s the only option. 50/50 custody is anecdotally awesome speaking for myself. The de…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 10:21 PM
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The end of the lifelong exclusive relationship happened a long time ago. Society hasn’t caught up and still tells you that’s the goal. It will eventually shift in the same way that we don’t have work till you get your pension jobs anymore in the US. Both of those changed in maybe the 80s. The job one was easy for society to swallow and openly adapt by the 90s. The relationship change is still a situation where reality and society’s expectations are at odds. Divorce rates of 70% are the reality. …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 07:16 PM
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How much are you trying to change at once? My rule of thumb is focusing on no more than 2 things at one time. I had focused on lifting and diet initially. Once those became ingrained and automatic discipline items, then I added in morning meditation and improving my sleep habits. I’ve got that down as an automatic now so I’m working more on my side-gigs and side hustles like getting back up to speed on web development and things like that. Also working more on game/socializing evenings when it d…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 04:01 PM
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Happiness isn’t the right word to quantify how I feel about my kids. I have more fun on an off week working on my projects or fucking around in a bar. I feel more accomplished and effective on my kid weeks doing the regular boring parent shit. I need both. I can’t value one higher than the other. I cannot agree that kids make me happier. I can agree that they make my life better.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 12:54 AM
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When I read that the highest cause of death for that demographic is suicide, It tells me that humanity has advanced to the point where the only truly dangerous things left that we face are our own internal demons. We’re no longer prey animals and workplace/environment safety has reached the point where it’s extremely unlikely to result in death. Medicine, while imperfect, is treating injuries that would’ve killed us 50-70 years ago. It’s interesting but I see this as a highlight of how far we’ve…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 03:13 PM
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He’s grown immensely since we separated in January. He was 4.5 years old when I left. It’s a combination of his age and he’s in a much better emotional environment. Everyone that knows him has told me how much better he’s doing. He’s more outgoing, happy, social and more playful. My daughter from a different relationship also has done much better out of that old environment. There was some transition time. I got great questions like when are you coming back to my house and why is NewGuy always a…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 01:48 AM
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50/50 custody and a decent friendly relationship with the other parent. My ex pushed back on the 50/50 split especially right before the papers were signed. Convinced her to try it out (by writing it into the custody agreement). 6 months later guess who’s telling me how great things are working out this way and how many people are jealous of our situation.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 10:40 PM
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I don’t disagree. I would have been better off keeping my mouth shut than posting that comment. So much nuance and bro science pitfalls to watch for when it comes to fitness. I’m not qualified to offer lifting advice beyond sharing what worked for me which doesn’t necessarily mean that will work for you. I was getting higher in weight when I switched to 3x5 and I do 5+ on the final set to push myself.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 12:54 PM
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This is a little off-topic, yet I was in a similar spot. I was given advice to go 3x5 instead of 5x5 as a noob. I’m doing SL3x5. I was complaining that I kept going 5/5/5/5/(not 5) on my OHP. Switched to 3x5 and continued to make consistent increases every session. OHP still continues to typically be something like hit 5/5/5 then a 5lb increase that leads to a 5/4/2-3 the first session then a 5/5/5 after that first failure. 3x5 is enough to trigger adaptation reactions for my body as a beginner.…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 11:02 PM
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Write out your personal code of conduct. These are your personal rules for yourself. These can be all over the place like I won’t conduct unethical business or won’t pursue overweight women or I want to give back to my community. This is your behavioral foundation for what you find acceptable for yourself. Write out the lifestyle you want to have. No judgments on yourself if you want to do something like watch Netflix and smoke weed all day. It’s what you want just gotta figure out how to get th…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 04:47 PM
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Lifting is pushed because you get obvious physical appearance improvements AND it sets the stage for making lasting habits through discipline where the payoff is not immediate. It’s that second part that you’re missing. Most of us are so used to instant gratification that we are lacking the capacity for long term goals. You have a discipline problem. You solve this problem by making yourself do something until it becomes an ingrained habit. Motivation is an emotion and it doesn’t last. I’ll skip…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 04:34 PM
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Had a girl reach her hand up my shorts and grab ahold of my cock at the bar last weekend. Shits real. Reality can be more fucked up than my fantasies ever were.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 10:32 PM
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Listen to your gut man. It's all the proof you need. I knew shit wasn't copacetic at the end of my marriage and hamstered myself into believing everything was ok. I pieced shit together after the fact and laughed at myself (eventually after the anger faded) for my rationalizations. All you've taught her is that she needs to be sneakier to fuck around on you without rocking the boat. You've also taught her that you're so invested in her that you're willing to disrespect yourself in favor of her. …
/r/askTRP18/09/17 11:09 PM
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Dominance, emotions, variety, immersion These are the pillars of the sex god method. You should read this book if you don't know what that means.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 08:08 PM
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It's hard to describe conversation tactics. Every situation is unique and it's a flow state thing. Here's some rough ideas. You have to flesh them out yourself with practice. You can practice this with friends and family. I try to keep things positive, light and fun. You typically don't want to get into deep philosophy or heavy shit like that at first. That's for later on when you have a recurring relationship or friendship. Open with something you did or you love, then pivot it over to them "Oh…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 11:25 PM
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For the record, and as boldly as I can put this, if you are Red Pill aware man and still believe you are a victim of some sort because of your previous Blue Pill indenturement to pedestalizing women or the Feminine Imperative, you are only a victim of your own lack of vision. Red Pill awareness has set you free – free from the blur and distraction that a feminine-primary social order would pull over your eyes, free from the delusional Blue Pill hopes that are only greater shackles for a man, and…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 10:50 PM
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Take what you can get from the sub and ignore the anger. Those are typically men that have had their worldview destroyed. That leaves you a little upset and adrift to say the least. Most people cycle through that and then you have the next crop of freshly angry guys behind them. For conversation, I find ways to get people talking about themselves without getting too interview-y about it. Then I let them rattle on forever and I chime in with jokes or teases and that's gone over well enough. Threa…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 06:25 PM
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I'm a little fuzzy on what concern trolling actually is. Not sure if this is. My question is why does a good article by Rollo only get 40 odd upvotes and basically fall off the front page? The section on red pill "victims" is worth the read alone.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 04:49 PM
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TRM is worth reading period. Especially if you're new. It's the foundation you will build upon. I'll share what I've learned in pursuit of game. I wanted to find the perfect manual that would lay it all out for me. That doesn't and cannot exist. Every man is different and it's a personal path. You'll end up reading some of this and some of that and developing your own style. HERE'S THE MOST IMPORTANT THING. GET OUT AND TALK TO PEOPLE. GAME IS KNOWING THE SEDUCTION BITS AND BEING COMFORTABLE IN S…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 04:38 PM
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why wouldnt you replace blue pill with red pill? A healthy skepticism is always a good thing in your toolbox. Question everything. Don't be a red lemming blindly following what others say trying to be an imaginary alpha in your mind. A lemming is a lemming regardless of the color. Draw your own conclusions based on an evidence and fact based approach. Reals before feels man. The idea is don't trade one ideology for another. Don't make TRP an ideology as that's not what it is. Make an assessment …
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 09:22 PM
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Nice distillation of wisdom. The overall takeaway for me here is that you don't replace the blue pill ideology/fantasy with the red pill ideology. TRP/manosphere is a set of tools to increase your chances of being successful with women and life. Don't simply continue being an ideologue with a changed ideology. Question everything whether is red, blue or in between. Not too far fetched from my 8 months experience in the manosphere. Need to stress the vitriol avoidance portion. Use your anger as t…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 04:38 PM
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Try magnums. It's a big difference.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 04:05 AM
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A positive and enjoyable social interaction is providing value. The words you say are less relevant. Laugh, joke, tease and keep it light and fun. Lead the convo by asking questions that get the other person talking about them self. You should enjoy the conversation yourself. That makes the whole thing fun and enjoyable for everyone. Maybe you close maybe you don't. Doesn't matter if you had fun chatting. Every time you chat someone up you get better at it and gain frame control. The only way to…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 02:29 AM
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There's 3.5 billion women in the world. Why would I spend my time on a woman that is willing to blow me off? I treat a flake as a soft hard next. I don't block her but I won't contact her again. If she reaches out to me after flaking then I play it by ear leaning towards not seeing her. If she reschedules beforehand for a seemingly legit reason then I allow one preemptive reschedule. The second reschedule is a soft hard next. I don't spend much time trying to convince neutral women to be into me…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 04:09 PM
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These look awesome. Have to find a space to set up. I'll try them Saturday as that's my next row day.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 01:08 PM
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I make arrangements where I'm doing something I like as the date. I wait 15 minutes and then go on doing what I wanted to do. That makes it no great loss if she flakes. I don't text if they're late. What are you going to say? "Hey just wanted to confirm that you're blowing me off" if she doesn't show, she either isn't into me or her life is such a mess that she cannot track or keep her appointments. Blowing me off tells me she wasn't a good fit for me. That's as good an outcome as any.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 05:22 PM
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Bent over barbell rows are giving me issues. I am having challenges holding a tight lower back as the weight increases. Is there an alternative row that accomplishes similar results or do I keep at the bent over row and continue to improve the form? Edit: Thanks for the responses. Lots of good stuff here. My row is about 50% of my DL/squat weights and I can hold a tight back on those as my form is closer to correct on those exercises. My row is about 75% body weight as I've deloaded trying to fi…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 01:23 PM
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I get it. You want to help your bro. You cannot help him until he wants help. You would have to destroy his worldview to get through to him. It's unlikely hat he's at a point where he can accept that. That's a personal quest. If he gets to that point on his own you can help guide him. Every man has his own version of game. Never criticize another mans game unless he is asking for it. They will not listen before they're ready. I've tried to help a friend and also randomly gently criticized a beta…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 03:23 PM
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People at work treat me much better at 185 with muscle definition compared to the 240lb slob version of me. I take less bs from people and am more willing to call it out when I see it. Makes meetings more fun for me. TRP provides a rough outline to improve your life if you put in the work.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 04:02 PM
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Less cardio bunnies concentrated in one place. I don't hit on women in the gym yet I appreciate the scenery.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 11:20 PM
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You cannot force anyone to live up to your ideal moral standards. This notion of "instilling proper values on all women" is naive at best and tyrannical at worst. You're judging a man who you don't even know based on the word of his woman. Said woman is clearly hamstering up excuses to get some strange. That hardly puts her in a position to be a character witness for the person that she's about to do dirty.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 05:01 PM
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You are correct that the end will not likely be tomorrow. However, that is not the point at hand. Lets make a couple suppositions to make the time scale clear. Humans as we are now are about 250000 years old as a species. Agriculture and therefore civilization is about 8000-10000 years old. That means 96% of our existence was hunter/gatherer wild living that required a much different set of behaviors and instincts to thrive in. The extremely major change to our pattern of life is so new that we …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 06:37 PM
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Civilization is imposed upon the natural world. If the apocalypse comes tomorrow, the "douchebags" are going to do the best in it. Agriculture and civilization are still new in the grand scheme of things. A species doesn't change overnight.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 04:47 PM
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You can look into the book convict conditioning. It's a progressive body weight program. You'll need a pull-up bar for a doorway if you don't have a playground or place to do pull-ups easily. They're 15-40 from a quick search. Earn your money or ask your parents what you need to do to get them to buy it for you. Earning something is always worth more than something given to you man.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 02:52 PM
2

Sidebar on desktop mode has you covered. Acronyms would be a helpful high level start.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 01:14 PM
2

What's the cost of living differential between the 65k and 100k locations? Is the raise actually a raise, or are you ending up paying more for the same stuff. You're young, unattached and in demand for your profession. I'd take the chance. You can get another job if the contract doesn't pan out. You won't necessarily get another chance to take a gig and move like this. To me, I'd regret passing up an opportunity and taking the safe route.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 09:02 PM
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Was he a drunk doof or was he slighting you. Drunks I handle with amusement. They make me laugh. If he was messing with you then keep making up more absurd names every time. "I'm dumbledore atticus, I believe that we've met already."
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 08:56 PM
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Paul Newman in the hustler is another great masculine example. I love that movie.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 01:42 PM
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I squat and bench my kids. (They eat that shit up) Haven't tried to OHP them yet. Humans are squirmy and hard to grip. It's an impressive feat.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 01:09 PM
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It's nice to have a starters guide. I had to piece my own together from the various readings I did here and elsewhere. Being a logical man, it makes sense for me to start with do X, Y, Z get results. I wanted to take that too far and follow a script. It's not that simple upon reflection. There's a time for theory and preparation then it's on to action. Nothing beats experience gained from putting yourself out there. You can jerk yourself off with all these ideas of plans and groundwork but at th…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 12:55 PM
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Just got done with Jack Donovan's "The Way of Men". Striking book. It put my finger on something that always bothered me and I could never figure out what or why. I don't have a gang. I don't have a crew that I regularly hang out and do shit with. I haven't had a gang since high school. The rest of my crew broke bad and I broke neutral and went mostly clean in my mid 20s. Those fuckers are all in prison now. Working on rebuilding my gang now. I started hanging with an old friend. This will take …
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 09:57 PM
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Your frame is lacking. Either the chip on your shoulder is projecting or you're overcompensating for past behavior. Complaining about a drink being empty for 5 whole minutes or a mistake on the bill is whiny entitled bitch behavior and that needs worked on. Are you going to let something that minor rattle your cage? That's your loss of frame right there. If you get bad service, complain professionally to management and tip appropriately. The other choice is don't go there again. You don't need T…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 09:43 PM
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Guys have to work hard because the supply over saturates the demand. Decent looking women have a stable of men chasing her. You have to out compete the opposition to win. Basic economics. Learn the basics of game and find your style. Models by mark manson was a decent starting point for me. I'm in the improve your personal value camp to get women.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 01:02 PM
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I did a stint in service. In a lot of places, servers are making $2/hr plus tips. Local labor laws may vary. There's shit going on behind the curtain and the reason you have to wait is typically not because you have a shitstain server, tho shitty servers do exist. Have some patience and empathy for your fellow human beings working what can be a shit job. I tip 20% as a baseline because the math is easy. Drop a zero and multiply by 2. It can go up or down depending on the service. Bringing it bac…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 12:55 PM
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As a former baby face, you will appreciate this in 20 years. Use posture and demeanor to counteract the face if necessary.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 12:45 PM
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I don't talk much about my kids. I'm not looking for a stepmom. If I'm asked I answer yes I have kids. If I'm pressed more I say "I take care of my kids. My dad time and my social time are separate. I rarely socialize my childrens week" If it's still a problem then they can fuck off as we wouldn't get along anyway.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 07:46 PM
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You're providing value to others by genuinely smiling and wishing them well and chitchatting. It's what you give, not what you get.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 06:02 PM
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Anger is a good motivator to start on yourself. If you had bad luck with women, then understand it was your fault and that can be changed. After you work through it you regain love for women in a different way. I feel an apathy now on all the feminism hating. Sometimes it makes me laugh and mostly I just worry about something I CAN control.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 06:01 PM
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Means what it says man. Trying to guard your partner from getting poached. https://www.google.com/amp/s/therationalmale.com/2012/11/01/mate-guarding/amp/
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 04:27 AM
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That's the challenge with OP's line of thinking. Life is broken down to multiple local hierarchies within an overarching hierarchy. I don't have to be the best of the world, I simply have to be the among the best of my local hierarchy. That's the idea behind finding your niche. Big fish in a little pond vs little fish in a big pond comes to mind.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 10:22 AM
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I can understand your argument better. Still not particularly sure I agree with it. Whatever that's cool. We can agree to disagree. My understanding was that marriage came about to ensure that your life's work was passed on to your genetic offspring. Seeing that neither of us can go back in time to confirm, we'll have to roll with what we know of socioeconomic changes of 8000 years ago when we transitioned to agriculture. I have a white collar job now. I've worked blue collar jobs. At every poin…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 01:01 AM
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So eventually men grouped up and made rules to oppress women so a higher percentage of guys could get laid. Wait what? Men came together to come up with Game with the increases in communication technology. I'm not oppressing a woman by becoming more physically and socially attractive and having fun with her when I chat her up. She's subjectively having a better time with me than billy beta stammering around and making her feel awkward for having to reject or friendzone him. I've gotten shit like…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 12:05 AM
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My guess is the body shaper shit you have the luxury to enjoy if you see 3am infomercials.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 11:22 PM
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Best fucking title of the year. Gotta admit the ass biting is hilarious. You got a top shelf story worth more than the bang. You could've pushed through the LMR if you were a little more on point. Booze and lack of sleep, especially combined, fucks me up too. Shit happens. She wanted to be dominated hard with the 50 shades and the you're so bad shit. SGM tip: personalize dirty dominant talk. You're my dirty girl or you're my little slut NOT you're a dirty slut. They lap that shit up but they get…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 11:20 PM
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Check out black dragon in the link in the other comment. I'm late 30s and divorced. I'm cool with life as it is now. I enjoy MLTRs, which is a fancy way of saying women you date repeatedly and do kinda boyfriendy shit with along with sex. Plates are sex only or something simple like drinks then sex. I enjoy the connection with an MLTR as long as you follow the rule of the worst number of women is one. I also tell them early on that it's cool if they're seeing other people. They are often hanging…
/r/askTRP05/08/17 08:46 PM
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It's been a while since I owned my shit. I've gone into a coast and I don't like that. Time to get back in gear. Good Joined the 700 club in the big 3 for work sets. 285 squat, 275 DL, 140 bench Reworked my resume as I had a slow work week I'm at the point where I can turn down sex when plates hit me up social skills have improved drastically. I'm opening tables and talking to randos and having fun doing it. Never considered myself to be able to do that. Fuck my old self-limiting beliefs Bad nut…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 01:25 PM
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Can we save them? Do we want to save them? How do you identify the people that can be saved? TRP gave me a chance at a better life for a small overall cost. I simply had to put in the work. I feel obliged to at least try to help people that were similar to me in return for what I was given freely. Part of me wants to say fuck you man be miserable if you want because the answers are in front of you.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 12:40 PM
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Your story is correct, but your analogy isn't perfect for the situation at hand. It's setting up an all or nothing false dichotomy. The false dichotomy is the real problem I'm seeing with this wave of "looks are the only thing" posts. Extending your analogy, Guy B is still going to be a monster in his weight class after 8 years of training, regardless of the fact that he lost to guy A. He will be successful within his area. He's not going to win the heavyweight class but he can definitely beat t…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 12:22 PM
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It is fucked up compared to what I wanted to believe speaking for myself. The thing is that once you know the rules, then you can really start playing the game. How to attract women: build yourself into being a valuable man.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 06:37 AM
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I rely on the belief that being a unique individual is enough to succeed. That's a bullshit rationalization to allow yourself not to become the best man you could be. It's clearly not working out for you, otherwise you wouldn't be asking strangers on the internet for advice. Get in the gym man. Do your research with starting strength by reading and watching the YouTube form videos. Follow a program either SS (starting strength) LP beginner or SL5x5 (StrongLifts 5x5. you only need 3x5 to start, g…
/r/askTRP05/08/17 06:28 AM
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It's time for action my friend. My answers are less important than you finding these answers out yourself.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 05:07 PM
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Yes, hold her hand, walk in front with my hand behind my back holding hers and guide her to where we're going. Bars are crowded so I weave us through the crowd. It is also a chivalry thing where you look out for the woman. That's part of my style. Kino is touch. All appropriate touching is good. Don't sit down shake her hand and grab her tits obviously. If my ultimate goal is to be fully intimate with her, then I need to start down that road quickly. Friendzone clock is ticking. I either get rej…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 11:32 PM
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And race or any other genetic bullshit you want to throw out there. So fucking what. Excel in what you can control. Some people ARE born lucky. Some people aren't. You play the hand you get.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 10:51 PM
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I disagree with your premise that it's only facial looks. That's a cop-out man. Men control their own destiny. So fuck right off with your excuses. Might as well say just be yourself and it will all work out. Also tighten that up instead of rambling all over the place. I'm wordy but you took it over the top. Here's the rules 1. Be attractive 2. Don't be unattractive Man's attractiveness is determined by facial looks, body (lifting/fitness), grooming, fashion, body language, posture, being put to…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 08:49 PM
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Leading is what it says. Being in charge, making decisions and taking the lead. Women want to be lead. For example, if I need a drink then I'll stand up, hold out my hand and say come with me, I need a drink. Gets kino in, shows I take charge of her and primes her to follow my instructions.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 08:20 PM
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Sounds like the "I'm too good for them" buffer so you don't get rejected. Or your "standards are unattainable" buffer which is the same as the previous phrased differently. If she falls in the "would fuck" category it's on you to make a move. You say you wouldn't resist her making a move which implies you do want escalation. You're just not willing to put yourself out there to face rejection.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 09:55 AM
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I'm late 30s. 42+ women can be fun so do not discount them. Don't limit yourself by saying you're useless. Older women still simply want to hang out and have fun. Take them on adventures and enjoy their company. The girl in them doesn't go away any more than the boy in us goes away. Bonus is that the conversation tends to be more enjoyable to me. I enjoy the spectrum of women. They all have different qualities I appreciate.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 12:07 AM
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Going back to the first chick feeling you up, if she falls in the "would fuck" category then go for it. Monk mode is great. You're seeing improvements noticed by other people, which is fucking great. Pussy is better for confidence. The thing is once you get some pussy then it's not a big deal. Fuck your excuses and buffers. Baby birds gotta fly man. Total 180 on my part once the situation became more clear. Just fucking go for it dude. She says no then you know yourself that you went for it. Doe…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 10:40 PM
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You are highly inquisitive. I'll answer this in the context of my tentative plan for what you quoted. This shows what I found most useful from the sidebar. It's all worth reading and then re-reading as you start putting this stuff into your life. It doesn't always make sense the first pass. The rational male is the foundation that everything builds upon. I plan to give him this book with the sex talk. I lost my virginity at a young age and just winged it. I'm. It particularly concerned about the…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 10:03 PM
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I get you man. My younger days in a restaurant were fun. Everybody was fucking everybody. The best thing was new women cycled in on a weekly basis and servers drop their panties with little encouragement. The drama was endless. I was young enough to handle the drama then but you lose patience for that shit. Practically everything that was said would have been harassment. The chicks said the ugly guys were creepy and the cute guys they laughed off for the same shit. Definitely no shitting in a "r…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 09:02 PM
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I want her to be feminine and have enough backbone that life doesn't roll her over. Show her that you have to bring value to get value and that life doesn't hand you anything without a price eventually. Provided she gets the feminine part right and I get the masculine example right, then she can use my example of what to look for in a man. Her femininity will draw in masculinity. My worst dates are when I realize the woman has too many masculine traits. Maybe she's a manager or in situations whe…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 07:59 PM
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You're not getting a "fuck yeah" from this girl. She'd be there if she wanted to continue the relationship. You already got the L man. Take it gracefully. Don't make an ultimatum, they're for pussies. Move on with your life. Sounds like you're in a great spot for a fresh start man.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 07:25 PM
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OP made it seem as if he was considering to Chad up to the female boss. That's not a good idea at all.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 07:17 PM
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She has at best until 25-27 to get a good man provided she wants to settle down and raise a family. That she has to bring something to the table if she wants a decent thing with a man. Teach her that she can 100% go down the hookup life if she wants but she doesn't get the time back. If that's what she picks, so be it. The wall is a real thing. I don't want to see her splat. She will be a woman. I can show her what a man looks like now that I'm not the bloop I was. She can use that to help her i…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 07:12 PM
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Fucked up can perfectly describe reality
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 06:58 PM
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We both drew up an asset division proposal and negotiated. She wanted to keep the house. I got my share of the asset split from a QDRO from her retirement account, so I guess in her eyes it wasn't that she wrote me a check. Who knows wasn't arguing about that. Honestly that part of it went over mostly smoothly with some relatively minor squabbles. I conceded some small things to win the big picture. You gotta let people feel like they win in a negotiation. I pulled some shit on her (48 laws appl…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 06:43 PM
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shouldn't stop or change your behavior. I don't agree. You should adjust your behavior at work. You should be polite but firm, likable and good company with small talk and tame/less risqué jokes. You should be on a first name basis with as many people as you can be. If you're waiting for a meeting to start, chat up the people around you. You employ the ask about them strategy to get people talking and you keep your business private and somewhat vague. Game sheila at the bar. Be professional, cou…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 05:49 PM
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You passed the female test and failed the workplace test. Better solution is deflect and defuse this situation. Friend zone the chick that's feeling you up. Never shit where you eat. If you can't take that advice and run with it, then experience it firsthand and see how it works out for you. You do not want extra drama added to your workplace. This is where you earn your livelihood. Edit: To be fully clear, what you said was also sexual harassment in the workplace. All it takes for sexual harass…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 04:37 PM
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Great eye opening article if your eyes still had scales. The system is rigged. You have to know the system going into the game. Marriage (explicitly a mother-father home) is still the best option for raising children. I survived divorce better than most. 50/50 custody, no support and I got a payout. Key point here is no lawyers were involved. I drew up the papers and was mostly transparent with her. Some negotiating on the asset transfer yet it was reasonable enough. She wanted a no-fuss branch …
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 04:21 PM
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Jordan Peterson is a wise and deeply insightful man. That doesn't mean he's correct on everything. He could very well be right that casual sex can damage a person, but I'm wondering what phase of life he was referring to. I'm past child-bearing years and am into child-rearing years. My need to deeply pair-bond is not and will not be present in my life. I'm coming around to the black dragon style of relationships. I've been dating a few women and I genuinely like and appreciate them. Doing semi-b…
/r/askTRP02/08/17 03:56 PM
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This article is worthless drivel. This is the male version of feminist (meninist?) propaganda and false reality. There's some seriously incorrect conclusions drawn here between correlation and causation. Women find strong, powerful men attractive. These particular strong, powerful men have chosen an antisocial life of crime and risen in that hierarchy. Provided these men had the same strong, powerful personality and applied themselves in a non-antisocial manner, then they would still get the wom…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 01:09 PM
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Marriage (pair-bonding) is for raising children. Once the child comes in the picture, the parents are secondary to the child for the first 4-5 years of its life at a minimum. Those years are critical. That time frame is when a child is cute and adorable before their faces change. There's a biological reason for that look and we instinctually protect cute face kids. After those early years, the child can roll with life and has a reasonable chance for survival. So we're made to pair-bond until the…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 05:03 AM
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Stole home base in little league in a championship game to tie. Fucked with the lefty pitcher long enough that he thought I was full of shit. I was a fat Nintendo kid but gdit I loved my baseball. He turns his back to saddle up and I book it. Coach is yelling no no no when I take off, crowd erupts and I made it. Our slugger homered for the win in the next inning. Childhood glory for all of us. Definitely a highlight of my childhood.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 11:41 PM
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Reality kicks in when they realize NO ONE wants a mid-30's woman with three kids, financial problems, and entitlement issues. Welcome to online dating. Makes me chuckle. "Must be a standup man for my 5 kids." Yeah sign me right up for that.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 06:34 PM
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Yes, looks matter. Who in their right mind thinks they don't? Fuck, someone tells me "she's got a great personality" then I know exactly where that's headed. Her being awesome rarely pushes me over from "would not fuck" to "would fuck" ratings. Men are lucky that "looks" encompasses more than just their face. It's face, body, wardrobe, body language and presentation. Looks gets your foot in the door. Game/personality/frame seals the deal. What is the purpose of this post?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 01:00 PM
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It's too subjective to make objective. Your 6 is my 9 and vice versa. Yes I love the classic beautiful girl that's slender with hourglass and appropriate tits and ass. I also think big titty chubby girls are sexy as hell. Love watching them bounce around as I plow them. Also like the stick thin A cup gals. I can appreciate the beauty or sexiness of damn near any woman that's not a land whale. It's a 3 point scale for men 1. Would fuck 2. God no would not fuck 3. How drunk am I and/or do my frien…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 12:50 PM
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Anyone who argues that gender is a social construct has little concern over facts or reality
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 12:07 AM
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Are you juiced? If you're not, then how can you speak for juiced dudes? Your comment adds no value.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 03:02 AM
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Until the prefrontal cortex is fully developed, then you are not a fully developed human being. That's at about ~25 or so. Before then you should learn what you can from the people who have survived. At a basic level, if I said don't eat that plant it will kill you. Would you think well I'll eat it and see what happens or should you value my wisdom and knowledge. Anecdotally I can tell you that it was around 25 that I started thinking well shit that advice my parents gave me actually was a prett…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 02:42 AM
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View yourself as a valuable man. Because you have value, you can share your value with others. You are the man that validates others, you do not seek their validation. Your validation comes from yourself. The social thing was very hard for me. It was weird and well outside my norm. I was worried that I was going to fuck up and look stupid and also that I would be bothering other people. I had to push myself and just take my chances. Some bad, mostly good outcomes from talking to people. You will…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 01:51 AM
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Google it man. Google the title and add download or free download to the end. Is this your first day on the internet? If you find it useful it's good to support the author.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 12:31 AM
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Hey man what's up I'm <name>. Shake his hand properly. Hey <his name> tell me about the cool stuff/shit you do. Curse when appropriate but don't drop curse words too often. It can be viewed as low status or low class. You do this first before even thinking about the women of the group
/r/askTRP30/07/17 01:41 AM
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I'm relaxing for the late afternoon waiting for the nightlife to pick up. What's your excuse for giving a fuck about this pointless debate. Don't you have better things to do on a Saturday
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 11:12 PM
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I get it. I was in a bad spot and it sucked. That was my empathy, now I'm going to tell your self limiting beliefs to fuck right off. Choose the life you want and make it. I'm gonna have to shave my head soon. I'm going thin on top and I'm rocking a short spiky look with a fade. Within the year I'll get to the point where I say f this and shave it. If you have the bald on top thing with hair around the sides and back then f that shave it all. Own it man. It's all you can do. Plenty of sexy bald …
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 10:14 PM
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Put the book in front of the power button on your console such that you have to physically move it to turn on your system.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 06:47 PM
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Two or more girls is the right number. One is a bad number. Two girls is the beginning of abundance. Roll with it man. It'll gel man. Read sex god method for the sexual anxiety. Let yourself go and embrace your animal side. They'll eat that shit up. I love telling women to come and having them come on demand practically.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 06:19 PM
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The problem with "should have" is that it's not based on reality. We (the collective we of humanity) should have done lots of things differently, but we didn't and we have what we have. Not disagreeing with your sentiments on separation. It's simply not possible at this stage of the game.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 04:56 PM
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The state does not appreciate challenges to its power. I'd also state that not dying is the top item on my daily to-do list. I've managed that one every day for quite a while now.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 04:53 PM
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You've come to a realization. What's your next step?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 03:51 PM
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This is quite the rabbit hole we could go down. As an outsider looking in, I would think your relationship with god has zero bearing on your relationship with the state. When the church and state intertwine politically is when that relationship becomes muddied. If a person draws power from that relationship, then they will be invested to keep the status quo. The church has historically been a political power as much or more than a place of worship. The Catholic Church's power has waned, but in i…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 02:31 PM
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As an atheist who appreciates the Bible, isn't it possible to marry before god without getting the state involved?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 12:40 PM
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Taking this a step further, if you bitterly believe that all women are terrible specimens of AWALT, then you will attract and screen for women that fit your beliefs and continue your negative interactions with women. You won't make it out of your downward spiral. AWALT is a universal truth. Its also highly situational. It's similar to understanding that every man, myself included, is fully capable of murder. It's highly unlikely that I'm actually going to do that unless I'm put in an extreme sit…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 01:04 PM
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Anecdotally can't say it hurts. I feed noon-8. Most days that becomes a 1-130 breaking fast. Some fasted Saturday and/or Sunday. One benefit is feeling signals from your body (hunger) and learning how to address/ignore them. It may be that I'm able to leverage that experience to improving my social skills as I feel nervous or scared yet I still act on what I want to do. That may be a reach but discipline in one form won't hurt you. I've plateaued in the low 180s scale weight at 5-10. I'm targeti…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 12:16 AM
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Yes, talk to people. Talk to everyone you can. See if you can get a smile or a laugh out of them. You've provided value and you exercised your social muscle. Gotta do this without any ulterior motives or you set off bullshit detectors.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 04:20 PM
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Congrats on questioning the world around you. Just make sure you don't lose your mind, like a lot of people do once they go down the rabbit hole. Jordan Peterson's analogy of going through the underworld/hell/chaos or surviving getting swallowed by the whale always struck me particularly hard for this sentiment. It resonated because it put into words how I felt. Gotta hit the absolute bottom before you climb back up. Provided you survive, you're a much better man for facing the underworld. Face …
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 01:07 PM
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I do not agree. At best, I'd say that women are more predisposed to loving their children. Plenty of horror stories (that are typically extreme outliers and not completely indicative of general behavior) of shit moms get posted on here. Plenty of personal anecdotal experience of moms not doing right by their kids. They do love to spout off about how much they love their kids, but their actions show to what degree they love their kids. Unconditional love for your children whether male or female i…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 10:18 PM
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I don't think you have kids. No, parents don't automatically love their children unconditionally. I have 3. The first one was an oh shit oops when I was very young from a STR. Long story short, paternity wasn't established until 13 months after birth. I more or less bailed on this child. Many years later I'm a bigger part of their life, but most of it was me handing over support and walking away. "Man up" and "Do the right thing" typically apply to taking care of other men's kids (aside: fuck th…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 12:44 PM
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I had the folliculitis scare also. That shits real man. One of the quickest times I made it in to see the doc when I thought something was wrong.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 11:05 AM
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It's possible to get at the sidebar on mobile. It's not in your face the same way as the desktop. If you're on a mobile browser like chrome, at the top of the sub there's a link called "about this community". That's the sidebar. On the official Reddit app for iPhone, go to the sub view and tap the 3 dots at the top and pick community info.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 01:04 PM
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Are you lifting at all? Start if you're not. It's the long game, so the sooner you start the better. I do SL5x5. Was advised that 3x5 is enough volume for beginners to keep progressing. Only switched to 3x5 for 2 days so far but I am progressing on 3x5. Sample size is too small to really make an experienced statement on the 3x5 vs 5x5. Starting strength has you do work sets of 3x5 so I'm gonna roll with it and see what happens. I got noob gains as a beginner even on a cut. Weight keeps getting h…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 07:01 PM
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Got the order wrong. Get new girls will lead to not thinking about her
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 05:02 PM
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Did my own research and started working out my style. This worked for me last night. My goal was some initial rapport so I could move on to a follow up call the next day to set up a meet. Don't be needy (basic rule of all interactions). In texting that means don't answer faster than her response. Don't write out walls of text. Don't write out longer responses than her. Typical rule of least investment applies. Make statements. avoid/minimize questions. don't answer questions that can be avoided.…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 01:02 PM
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Is there a "text game for dummies". I don't text often but are there tried and true basics beyond 3:2 and match their response times. Especially when I've number closed without a lot of interaction. Have a hard time starting that initial rapport before I work to get them on the phone to date close.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 06:35 PM
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That's a buffer and not the right question either. Don't pigeonhole yourself into a single interest. As a previous commenter stated, the opportunities and possibilities are endless. Try new shit until you find something else that catches your fancy. Meetup answers your question directly. Build your social life and try new things.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 12:57 PM
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Dude I've done sl 5x5 and went from 135 squat to 250 today in 11 weeks. DL went from 135 to 255 last Friday. Bench was 125 today. Seems off that your bench is that high and everything else isn't. What the fuck are you doing in a year? Stop with the fuckarounditis in the gym. I've been cutting the whole fucking time so don't feed me that line of boohoo shit. I'm 20 years older than you and an inch taller than you and maybe 13lbs heavier and still cutting. You should have the T and the youth to be…
/r/askTRP18/07/17 05:13 AM
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You've self limited yourself into thinking that your text game is strong and your face game is weak. Texting gives you the time to think of the best answer if you're following the 2:3 rule and the waiting game. You need to practice coming up with those witty texts on the fly in person. I'm the other way. I do better with face game than I do text game. I can think on my feet and say random shit yet my text game needs work. I drive the interaction from texting to a phone call and close there. Then…
/r/askTRP18/07/17 04:11 AM
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Yet effective
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:44 AM
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I did a Meetup over the weekend. About 15 people of a diverse age group. Didn't know a single one of them. You know what, most people can be pretty interesting if you actually talk to them. I use the Carnegie method of continuing to ask about them. Makes me likable and a great conversationalist and saves me the hassle of talking about myself. Ultimately it was a bunch of people getting together to do cool shit with somewhat strangers. They're probably a little lonely like me. There's still a par…
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:35 AM
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You shouldn't agree without thinking it through. TV is bad, end stop. The same way that alcohol is bad, end stop. Teetotaling is bad too, so you must strike the healthy balance of partaking in vice and managing it. I will agree that there are diamonds in the rough. Enjoy the diamonds if they fit into your life but understand that video entertainment (tv, movies, video games) is created to mold you into a servile being. OP commentors argument is stating that you can find a small amount of excepti…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 12:59 AM
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Here's the rub. Before agriculture, our ancestors were most likely the winner males. Obviously agriculture changed the dynamics, but that shits only so recent on the long view. TLDR we come from winners. Make your ancestors proud
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 02:18 AM
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I always thought that was called occams razor as an aside. They're different concepts apparently. Which theories? Hypergamy? Hypergamy isn't stupid. It's a highly effective strategy. Hypergamy is the foundation of TRP theory. I'm interested in this line of thinking. I want you to expand on it. Edit: I will agree that lesser evils can easily be attributed to hanlons razor. Greater evils like betrayal, murder and true rape cannot be attributed to hanlons razor.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 01:21 AM
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It's always the journey. Remember the last time you had a big goal? You're working away at it thinking shit is great I'm getting there. then you finally get there. You go aww fuck yeah I'm awesome. Shortly after that you go ok now what. It's always the journey.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 01:10 AM
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5-10 185lb guessing in the 20-22% bf range based on picture comparison. Was a fat fuck and I'm down 55ish lbs so I carry a bit of belly fat and love handles still. Still working towards 15% bf which I estimate to be around 175 scale weight. I'll get bf checked once the mirror tells me I'm getting closer. Mirror tells me too much fat still. Go 3x5 across the board while I'm still progressing 5lbs/session in my 5x5 lifts or 3x5 only in OHP? Sets 4&5 haven't been worse than 1-3 excluding my OHP. 4-…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 02:39 PM
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I'm 11 weeks into SL5x5. It's a great intro program. Spend the $10 on the app if you're going this route. Barbell math simplicity alone is worth it. The app means you don't have to think excessively, only have to execute. I'm getting my noob gains. People notice. I switched to maintenance calories for the first month or so to help my body adjust to the added stress, but now I'm back to deficit calories to get my bf down to where I truly want to be. I've yet to fail a squat or DL set, so my stren…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 01:13 PM
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I was unaware of alttrp and any explicit suppression of the idea of the masculine bisexual. I understand the decision as the idea of the masculine bisexual simply paints another target on the back of trp. It's not an extra front worth fighting in comparison to the truly terrifying issues men face in this era.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 01:11 PM
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I haven't read Donovan's book yet. It's on my list. Did you know he's homosexual? I will disagree with your statement that men in general find ways to improve themselves. Most do not. Some step up to the plate. Most hope someone else steps up.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 04:42 AM
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Women will always rate higher than men. Men are expendable as any man can come in a pussy. Women continue the species. Basic biology man. That means a man has to make himself top 20% to be fully viable on the smp. You decide if you want to be the first choice or the fallback if Chad got taken out of the chicks options.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 03:51 AM
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Ultimately it boils down to not being needy. Be a man. That's attractive.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 03:39 AM
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I like to fuck women. I like to fuck men. I have zero desire to be fucked by a man. My motivation is that I enjoy sticking my cock into tight holes. Roman society stated that the man who penetrated was not less of a man regardless of which hole he was fucking. The fuckees were observed to be feminine regardless of their actual sex therefore less valuable to society. This was all well before feminism/bp ruined modern society. How do you reconcile my statement of male primate sexuality with the st…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 02:44 AM
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I picked up a bible after getting into Peterson. Not religious at all but I have become intrigued with the stories and mythology. I enjoy his work on chaos and order. It's expressing something I could feel and intuit but never put my finger on.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 04:20 PM
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