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if she looks down when you both catch eyes the second time, go over and say hi. if she looks sideways or up, abort. try it. it's opening women on easy mode.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 03:46 PM
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i guess you didn't get the memo about not shitting where you eat enjoy the consequences
/r/askTRP02/12/20 07:23 PM
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there is always room for breaking the rules. sure, send her the pic, but, don't get into a long text discussion afterwards.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 07:20 PM
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i wouldn't. personally, i would forget on purpose, and when she brings it up, make fun of her
/r/askTRP02/12/20 06:49 PM
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if you were busy with your mission, this wouldn't be an issue. enjoy your time with her--you're her rebound.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 06:46 PM
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because all the successful dudes want to marry a crazy bitch
/r/askTRP02/12/20 06:38 PM
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this
/r/askTRP23/11/20 09:38 PM
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cheers man!
/r/askTRP23/11/20 09:35 PM
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good idea, but i am already busy working, and don't need to do shitty work on top of my decent career. i have often gone on walks and bike rides alone, and just said, i am going to take care of something, etc. cheers
/r/askTRP20/11/20 09:35 AM
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soft next is good. i'd wait until she pings you first. and, when she reaches out again, pretend the whole thing never happened.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 09:31 AM
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my ltr doesn't do sleep overs. the end she will come back with, what does that mean? are you forbidding me from going? "no, i'm just telling you the facts, my woman doesn't do sleep overs" soft or hard next depending on her repsonse, after her initial "tantrum", which you should, of course, ignore completely.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 09:27 AM
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sounds like you are totally in her frame. sure, be caring/give comfort when warranted, but don't supplicate. as far as UTIs. she should piss soon after you have sex, every time. drs. also recommend peeing before and after, but i find that a bit too much and not practical. soon after sex works well.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 09:24 AM
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a few things that might help you. make the conversation more interesting. call her out on things you don't agree with. if she says she loves a certain type of music, or band, etc, and you think it's shit, make fun of her and tell her she has horrible taste in music... you need to stand your ground on this though. smile, poke her on the arm while making fun of her (lots of kino, start slow and increase). push her away and tell her she's a nerd. be playful. if she calls you on it, DO NOT back down…
/r/askTRP20/11/20 09:13 AM
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for some reason, benny hill comes to mind. yeah, i realize that this ages me, but, i am what i am. either way, good advice. find a reason to approach wherever you are. cheer!
/r/askTRP10/10/20 04:03 PM
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i personally think it's better to start night game a bit earlier. why do you want choice of all the drunk ones that didn't find anyone yet? go out a few hours earlier, warm up, get into a good head space, and pick them while there's still the good ones to pick. then, bring them home and fuck them, and be asleep before you usually would.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 04:01 PM
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you have to train her. it's called conditioning in psychology. and it's simple. every time she brings up a topic you don't like, give it about 30 seconds to a minute, and they say, hey, i gotta go feed my snake, or whatever, and go. talk to you later... she will eventually realize what she shouldn't talk about. even better, praise her for the things she does that you like.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 03:55 PM
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fuck no, and i'm 50! if she was a 8+/10, i might consider it if i was desperate... but, there are few if any 8s at that age, and, i wouldn't ever want to be desperate.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 07:57 AM
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dude, you saw a woman, and she turned you on. why not just say hi when a women does anything like this and find out for sure, rather than asking questions like this here? if you think she was, sure, she was. approach. if you are not sure, so what, approach. if you see what you like, approach...
/r/askTRP08/10/20 07:52 AM
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he's right you know... why even go there.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 11:24 AM
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ask yourself, is what if, really worth it. yeah, it probably isn't. stop rationalizing.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 11:20 AM
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"that's a bit too expensive babe"... "but you can take me to the french rivera instead" or similar.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 08:51 AM
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thanks
/r/askMRP25/09/20 02:45 PM
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i can handle a bit of dread. i don't really think it is intentional which is why i am questioning it here. thanks.
/r/askMRP25/09/20 12:34 PM
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thanks. i understand
/r/askMRP25/09/20 12:33 PM
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thanks for the good advice.
/r/askMRP25/09/20 12:32 PM
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she's 30, i'm over 50. thanks. that's what i was thinking...
/r/askMRP25/09/20 11:08 AM
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i would withdraw more attention from her when she acts up. your mission, and not appeasing her, should be your priority. man up is right, just not the way she means.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 07:04 AM
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situation sounds a bit strange. when she invited me over to cuddle, my go to line here would have been, "ok, but we're definitely not going to have sex!" then i would have escalated, and fucked her.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 06:40 AM
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sounds like scarcity is getting the better of you. pretend you have many plates and can get many more, and with that mindset, act. cheers
/r/askTRP22/09/20 11:08 AM
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well, it is totally legal in the country i live in... doesn't change all the much aside from the thought that i could go fuck a hot chick from a line up if my date i had didn't want to. do i? nah. can i, yes. but then again, so can most of you. it's just not legal. speeding isn't legal either though.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 09:56 AM
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gut feelings are often, very often, spot on. with that said, they normally lead you to see truth (or deception) where you didn't see it originally. so, if you're not actually finding tell tale signs after this gut attack, it might just be due to anxiety. first off, get your anxiety in check. figure out why you feel this way. you wrote that you're cool with ending it at any time, but this anxiety says otherwise. and then, if it's bothering you so much, dig a bit and see what you find. you might n…
/r/askTRP22/09/20 08:45 AM
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great advice
/r/askTRP22/09/20 08:06 AM
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this is it. however, she may actually be a "good" girl... so, you should only commit to what you want to. plate more women and move to easy mode.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 01:49 PM
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i read until "there's this One girl"... and thought, !side bar material! with that said, there's some good info here. l also that this is more for the redpill channel. cheers man.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 09:47 AM
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great point. i agree, thanks.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 05:01 PM
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you never give 100% to a woman. you give 100%+ to your life's mission and if she is worthy, you allow her to join you on the journey. How can you give 100% in a ltr when the thought that if hard times come she might run?
/r/askTRP07/09/20 11:06 AM
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sadly, to some extent, THIS
/r/askTRP07/09/20 11:03 AM
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yeah, my thoughts too. thanks for the perspective.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 08:16 AM
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decided already that i will definitely not go. i have shit to do, and she would anyway be busy most of the time with the conference. but, keeping frame and stoicism is right on. thanks.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 08:16 AM
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thanks man. yeah, this is basically what i was thinking but just wanted some perspective. much appreciated
/r/askTRP04/09/20 08:14 AM
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as mentioned in my OP, I am definitely not going... also said that i definitely would not mate guard, but i would not do this anyway, which is why i told her that she should go when she said she could cancel the trip. thanks though.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 08:13 AM
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yeah, this is what i was thinking too. thanks man
/r/askTRP03/09/20 10:26 AM
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actions are much louder than words. especially in a situation like this. it's a fine line you would have to walk to make this not look fake. instead, why not have a lot of chicks that want you, and this will show without need to make hints.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 08:56 AM
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this advice is solid
/r/askTRP31/08/20 03:17 AM
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as a 50 year old dude, i can say, something is not right. my fav plate just left. we fucked about 7 times since friday night (it's sunday now). i came every time. she came at least 3 times as much... if she's hot and kinky and turns you on, you should be able to fuck her at least twice twice a day if not much more at the age of 21. maybe the chicks you're fucking aren't right for you?
/r/askTRP31/08/20 03:14 AM
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yep. in most if not all of the many LTRs i've had. ok, all... not proud of it, but it is what it is, and most likely, the chick also did, so i 've got that going for me.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 08:11 PM
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spot on awesome advice. listen to this
/r/askTRP30/08/20 07:55 PM
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glad you're enjoying yourself, but as a 50 year old guy, there is no way i want a 50 year old woman, or a 40 year old woman, and hell the fuck no to a 60+ year old woman... but, to each his own. cheers man.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/20 11:35 PM
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16/8 intermittent fasting along with calorie deficit and working out three times a week. down about 12 pounds in 2 months and see the gains as well. i want to take a few more pounds off (or get the body fat down a bit more) and then i will up the calories a bit to neutral.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 08:54 AM
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only you can decide how much is too much. no one woman will ever check all the boxes you are looking for--she would be a unicorn if she did. so, you just need to decide how many and which boxes you need to have checked off for you to keep her around.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 08:39 AM
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never ask if she has a boyfriend. never.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 09:30 PM
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often short girls like to get pounded through the mattress i've found this to be true as well
/r/TheRedPill27/07/20 09:03 PM
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she lost interest, for whatever reason. forget about the stupid, fucking book and keep your pride by not continuing to contact this chick. if anything, she can mail it to you.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 08:26 PM
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i personally don't get the whole nofap thing. when i am getting enough sex, i rarely fap. if i haven't gotten laid in more than a few days, i rub one out. the more i fuck, the less i fap.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 08:21 PM
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if you mean roissy's page, yes, it was a while ago...
/r/askTRP27/07/20 08:17 PM
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did you have a plan set out in your head, or where you just saying go this way for the hell of it? when i take a girl out, i make it clear: meet me here (spot i choose) and be prepared for a spontaneous, blah blah. if they need something specific, i'll mention it. like, if it's a long walk, comfortable walking shoes, etc... then they follow my lead the whole way. something to think about for next time. if she was just being a bitch, you did the right thing. hard to say with the info. you told.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 08:06 PM
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you're overthinking it. contact her again when you want to. ignore the rest. ad don't act butthurt. still, you need more plates because you seem to have oneitis for a chick that hasn't even fucked you yet.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 05:34 PM
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A. Save that text in case she “feels weird” abt fucking you in a couple of weeks. B... yeah, this, very much
/r/askTRP26/07/20 04:55 PM
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you said way too much. i personally would have just replied, " i had a great time" not anything butt hurt, like what you said about "a shame you couldn't come over..." that's just fucking sad. leave her guessing. and then, don't write her for at least a few days, preferably until she writes you again. get more chicks and you won't be waiting around for one like this... ...I come back with I enjoyed your company too, but it’s a shame you you couldn’t come over bc I wanted to spend more time with …
/r/askTRP26/07/20 04:51 PM
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i agree and have seen this many times in my own interactions. if you wait too long, the attraction is gone.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 04:16 PM
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i'm 50 and have no problem bedding woman from about 27-36 (i don't want older than that). i'm tall and have all my hair and am in decent shape. i also have a great back story with what i have accomplished. and no, i'm not rich, but i have a rich life. i think i could get younger women, but don't meet many younger than that age range. optimism also helps.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 01:48 PM
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are you assuming the ones that didn't tell you anything, or told you they didn't have any ONSs are telling the truth?
/r/askTRP24/07/20 12:57 PM
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with the whole me too shit, and even before that, i would send out a simple text the next day, like "was lots of fun" or "had a great time" just so she doesn't get any buyer's remorse and decide she didn't want it, after the fact... also save the texts. it may be shitty, but much better than a rape charge. just sayin'
/r/askTRP23/07/20 08:50 AM
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why a tripod? i would leave that out. it's forced. you never met her before but already want to take pics with her? and, carry it around. no dude. just go on a walk, be playful. have a seat on a bench and get a bit closer and have fun.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 08:45 AM
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a lot of women lie by omission, and, think doing so isn't a lie. and then, there are a whole bunch of other strange rationalizations they have to make them not feel guilty about lying. they will never admit this to you though. this also leads into trickle truth witch is a large topic of it's own, but also interesting to see in action.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 08:35 AM
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she knows you have them and she isn't bothered, then you also shouldn't be. i have a drawer at my place for all the shit that women leave behind. earrings, cigarette lighters, underwear... if i find something, i just throw it in the drawer. if they ask me about something, i point them to the drawer. if they ask about all the other things, i just say it's the lost and found bin.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 07:49 AM
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most definitely. red pill has been a necessity for at least the past 50 years. i can look back on past mistakes i made 25 years ago and know with certainty that red pill knowledge would have been great to have.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 07:42 AM
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thanks for the cool walk down memory lane. i'm referring to the comments. it's a damn shame that roissy's web site (heartiste) is long gone, and went almost completely political before it did. and roosh recently has made some strange posts as of late... mystery was also a pioneer... good times.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 09:34 PM
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whatever age you give up, that's when. still going strong and i'm old.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:14 PM
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good post. i'm not a friend of the friend's zone, and haven't been for a long, long time. when i was young and dumb, i succumbed to this bullshit, but learned quickly--luckily. after a couple of lessons, i learned to say something along the lines of, it's been fun, but i have enough friends (said with a smirk, and not butt hurt)... you get to a point though, when this just doesn't happen anymore. you just don't get friend zoned. hard to explain, but it all comes down to your attitude, and that y…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 11:11 PM
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agree and amplify, ignore, or pressure flip would have been my go to here
/r/TheRedPill13/01/20 10:52 PM
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dude wat? i think you're lost.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 10:50 PM
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would be much worse if you would compare their lame excuses to what the OP actually went through.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 10:48 PM
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really glad to hear you found a place and some work. may each day be better than the last. great work pushing though!
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 10:45 PM
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I enjoy Uncle Vasily's work, because he's an older guy who lives a life that seems compatible with what and where I would like to be in a few decades. thanks for your contributions. i hear you, but am already at this older stage. uncle vasily helped me to realize that finding and bedding hot and much younger women wasn't a rarity, it prevented me from creating limiting beliefs. cheers to both of you.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 10:40 PM
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consider she may not be totally honest with you. AWALT... No masturbation, no porn, no fantasies. Only kissing, no touching, sleepovers ect. no masturbation? really? that sounds like a unicorn if i ever "saw" one.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:46 PM
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i would be a lot more concerned about shitting where i eat
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:43 PM
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not my thing, and you might want to rethink keeping this plate. however, it is an invitation into a new scene that might, at the least, be an interesting, one time, life experience. give it a go, if you feel up for it. the other comments are spot on about the rules. also, be ready for her to fuck some random guy in front of you.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:40 PM
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plates break. sometimes in twos and threes. on the other side, sometimes, you find new plates in the same magnitude. don't get down. take a step back and look at your mission, then move forward. good luck.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:37 PM
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if you knew she was already riding high on the CC, you should never have fucked her raw... aside from a paternity suit, there's lots of nasty shit she could give you.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:32 PM
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„We have a boyfriend“ don't worry, i'm not jealous or just ignore and continue to talk to them. either way, you did well. don't listen to your bro.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:26 PM
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broken English? really? she speaks Slovenian, English, French, Serbian, and German. How many languages can you speak?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/20 11:22 PM
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trump is the troll king, and i mean that in a great way. you seem to have obama, who actually used the irs politically, and trump, confused.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/20 11:18 PM
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it's probably a lot easier to be alpha when you have your secret service detail surrounding you, and ready to take anything that comes your way. with that said, even though i really don't like obama at all, he handled that well.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/20 11:16 PM
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ok, if your last name is something like lipshits, then i can agree. but this is the exception, and not the norm.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:09 PM
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don't mention it, don't make a big deal of it and you're fine. i wouldn't have brought it up again, afterwards, but, whatever, not so terrible. it happens. hold frame
/r/askTRP31/12/19 12:52 AM
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this. absolutely this. i want to puke now
/r/askTRP30/12/19 01:19 PM
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get married and things will get even worse... much worse.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 10:27 AM
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if he is really a psychopath, and i don't doubt you, he has no empathy. in other words, he doesn't give a fuck whatsoever. not giving a fuck is a good trait to have (in red pill terms), minus all that other psycho-baggage. look up dark triad to try to understand this more.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 10:25 PM
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great advice
/r/askTRP29/12/19 10:16 PM
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it doesn't matter if she knows or not. if your sick with oneitis, you're sick... ask her in person what? out for a drinK? again, i would recommend a text with what i said above. no pressure on her.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 10:13 PM
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sounds like this chick was a bit bored and sent a ping out to all her potential orbiters. you were/are on that list. i wouldn't put much into her at all, especially since you even admitted to your oneitis with her. if you must, hit her up with one text, and one text only. something like, "i'm going for a drink tonight (or tomorrow...) at 7pm at irish pub Mcwhatevers. join me." and see how she responds. if it is anything less than a "yes", or "tonight isn't good, what about tomorrow instead", for…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 10:03 PM
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you're too invested. you need to not give a fuck with the 9s+ just like you do with the 5s... yes, i't both, ego and lack of abundance. if you had 100s of 9s and 10s wanting to fuck you, you wouldn't give a shit about the few that rejected you.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 09:41 PM
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barry, there are so many great htings to live for, even if they aren't apparent right now. first off, i would suggest you finding someone to talk to. if you don't have a friend (as you mentioned in your post) then find a professional. it really helps to bounce ideas and thoughts and feelings off someone that will not judge you. i know, i've been there. then, i would also look into taking a few vitamins. magnesium for starters has been shown in many studies to do much better than anti depressants…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 09:36 PM
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i can understand the conquest feeling you are experiencing, however, i've found, especially in the first few months, sex gets better and better (with the same partner). you start to understand and work together better. maybe you should look inside a bit as to why you are feeling this way. i'm not going to make a remote diagnoses, and i don't have the credentials to even begin to do so if you were in front of me, but i think you are searching for something that only you can answer. in the mean ti…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 09:28 PM
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poor schmuck
/r/askTRP29/12/19 07:16 PM
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sure, go ahead and profess your love to her. at least you'll find out that the advice given so far (next/move on/forget her) is spot on. this would be a bit of a turbo kick in the head to wake you up--seems you might need it to fight this nasty case of oneitis
/r/askTRP29/12/19 06:47 PM
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my personally set limit is 3 plates. usually, one of the group is the "nobody else is available and i want to fuck" plate. the other two are more on heavy rotation. with that said, it is a lot of work if you are seeing them once or twice a week each (you shouldn't be seeing them more than twice a week--once a week is best). you have to set priorities. fuck, just keeping up with having clean sheets becomes a job in itself. after a while, i started not to give a shit about dirty sheets either. als…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 04:48 PM
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check out an rbnb next time. if you're in a new place to meet chicks "because clubs in your homecountry suck", then you have to have some place to bring them back to. i personally don't like to fuck in a club toilet. sure, it's fun once or twice, just to check it off the bucket list, but it isn't at all comfortable.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 04:37 PM
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i avoid online dating completely (i'm old school, cold approach). my experience comes from my photography background. i would mention to a friend (or wing man even better) that you should help each other out. cheers
/r/askTRP29/12/19 04:20 PM
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dude, you have a lot to learn. what if she is lying, and then you make her pregnant? what if she is being honest and then tries to say it's your kid. these days, depending on where you are, she might be able to hook you, and you might not even be allowed to get a paternity test (see france...) and, if she is lying, she's nuts, you you should never stick your dick in crazy. i mean, really, i feel like i'm wasting my time here if you cannot grasp why this is a fucking horrible idea. good luck. see…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 03:58 PM
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if you don't want a real photographer, that can help you with a lot of this, and you don't want a friend helping, then you at least need to look at lighting and get a tripod of some sort. best cheap lighting would be to go near a large window. try some shots there. also, what you can do is see what made the previous shots you have good. everyone has a better side(face pointing more in one direction), so see which side you favor and try shots like that. also see what else made those photos good. …
/r/askTRP29/12/19 03:54 PM
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a few fucks is never even close to being worth 18 years of child support. i don't care how horny you are. her telling you this is a giant red flag--regardless of if she is being honest about it or not.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 03:48 PM
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i may be old, but i'm still slaying chicks in their low 20s. so, there's that. take with it what you will. text for logistics only is a long time red pill rule. there is a reason for it. you don't want to become here emotional tampon. and as mentioned, while some guys are texting her short novels, and begging for nudes, i'm fucking her.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 03:38 PM
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dude, are you trolling? i really hope you are. run the fuck away. do not even meet up with her. do we really have to tell you this?
/r/askTRP29/12/19 03:36 PM
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I mean you don't get to be called Coach Red Pill unless you're somebody i don't know this guy, but, didn't he give himself this name? so your assumption is a bit weak. same thing as here on reddit, we can give ourselves any name we want. or am i missing something.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 03:35 PM
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text for logistics while you're trying to get her to send nude pics, "we're" fucking her.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 03:30 PM
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Also i dont feel any need to insult him or explain myself yet, you both insulted him and now explained yourself
/r/askTRP29/12/19 03:27 PM
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i didn't read far into your post, but saw this. “hey how are u, I saw you over there with your friend and didn’t wanna bother you”. never assume you are bothering her. you are a prize and will brighten up her day. it is a really bad attitude to have, and say. also, if they are together, i think you are better off approaching them together. engaging both of them. this will help you, and prevent the other one from cock-blocking you. otherwise, don't stair or lurk a long time before going to talk t…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 01:33 PM
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i'll admit, being older, i have not found the need for snapchat. with that said, i have always found that kissing a woman in a club erased the sexual tension and made the chance of fucking her much less, especially if you kissed her and weren't able to isolate that night. to explain, when i say kissing, i mean heavy making out (tongue...) what i find, for me, better is to kino up a storm, keep the tension high, and maybe just give a small, and very short kiss on the lips, just to show your inter…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 12:59 PM
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why do you feel the need to call him a retard? does this make you feel superior? why not instead explain your reasoning (even though i have a feeling many here might disagree) instead of just an ad hominem attack (aka.: something one does when they have no real argument) you're new here it seems. notice rule number three on the top of the side bar.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 12:47 PM
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I do like the girl and will be lying if I say that I don't give a fuck about her. so, you caught a case of oneitis, and you're wondering what to do about it? it even lists this at the top of the side bar FAQ: There's this one girl... i would say a good dose of "a few new plates" might help out. AWALT. she's telling you what she thinks you want to hear. ignore what she says and watch what she does. whatever the case, she doesn't sound like anything more than plate material. good luck
/r/askTRP29/12/19 12:44 PM
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even worse are the outrageously pathetic dudes that change their name to the woman's... seen this a few times now, and i can't help but feeling sadness mixed with disgust for the poor moron who would even consider changing their name for a chick. it's like a giant times square billboard that flashes: "let the cuckolding begin!"
/r/askTRP29/12/19 12:38 PM
2

i like to grab a little bit of ass when i'm hugging a chick i want to fuck. if she doesn't pull away, i'm in. with that said, dude, you need to spend less time thinking about hugs and start thinking about fucks
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:28 PM
4

+1 if you can't rip off the band aid, this is the next best thing
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:24 PM
2

play a game in your head: something like, what would brad pitt do now (or whatever famous movie star/rock star guy you want to use), if she did this... then do that. add: oh, and don't fuck fatties. you'll only feel worse in the morning.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:21 PM
1

file this under red pill problems... if you want to fuck her, go out with her, or invite her to yours and fuck her. then, you have more of a chance keeping her in your plate rotation. 2 plates (you said you have two) aren't that many... if you wait, you will likely end up missing out on the chance.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:47 PM
3

dude, what? if you want to fuck this chick, fuck her. if you don't, don't. you're making this into a lot more than it should be.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:33 PM
1

PUA suggest that you should touch the girl, and kiss her at the end ah, no. by the end, you should be done fucking her. you should definitely not be waiting until the end to kiss her. ramp up the kino and the push pull the whole time. sometimes i even fuck the girl directly on first date by just asking her at the end of the drink "Are you busy after ?" if she say no, i propose her to come at my basement this is strange. why ask if she's busy. just lead her to your place and tell her you want to …
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:29 PM
5

did someone say Freudian slip?
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:26 PM
3

dude, you're the one writing an novella about some girl. even from the side bar, the first post is entitled, "there's this one girl" and it's about oneitis. for not caring, you seem to care a lot.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:22 PM
1

i haven't had a tv in over a decade. best decision i ever made. i don't miss it at all. it's anyway filled with propaganda bullshit and ads. ain't nobody got time for that.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:16 PM
1

she's pulling this shit because you are weak. i looked at your posting history and seems you have been bitching about this same chick for more than a month now. the answers are here and in the side bar. you're just not ready to swallow the pill yet. good luck
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:18 AM
1

"always keep two in the kitty." roissy aka heartiste if you actually read all of the side bar, and understood it, you wouldn't be asking this question. do you want help, or do you want to be a little bitch?
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:14 AM
2

who gives a fuck what she does. if you're not contacting her, and she contacts you to tell you that she's breaking up with you, ignore it and move on. don't be a little bitch and feel smug by ending it with her "first". instead, spend much less energy and just don't give a fuck. and, as i already mentioned, go spin some new plates. you obviously don't have any. you have a lot of work to do. i would start with the side bar.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:10 AM
6

i would wait until she contacted me. if she waits too long, she lost me. either way, i'd be looking for new plates to spin and working on me, and not waiting around. DO NOT CONTACT HER! that's only rewarding/condoning her shitty behavior.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:01 AM
5

she's just being a chick and testing you. ignore her for a while--until she gets back to you. when she does, don't admit being wrong about anything (because you weren't and you should not apologize).
/r/askTRP28/12/19 02:47 AM
18

a couple months to a year + depends on both you and the plate
/r/askTRP28/12/19 02:24 AM
2

you're one of her plates, congrats!
/r/askTRP26/12/19 01:46 PM
1

thanks for this. i enjoy these posts and hearing about the people behind them.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 03:28 PM
14

great job op. we're rooting for you. stay committed--do not for one second consider taking that slut back. you will get many that tell you that you should try to rectify this. stupid shit like, pair counseling, and friends that say she deserves another chance. fuck all of them--she doesn't deserve shit.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 10:44 PM
2

stop looking for reasons not to do so. you need to end this now
/r/askTRP22/12/19 12:19 PM
1

ask her for your ball sack back, and then ghost her. did she decide you were girlfriend/boyfriend (ltr) and tell you this? sure sounds that way. men are in charge of the relationship and this is one you should have stayed away from, from the start. she was a plate, at best. and personally, i would never have plated a chick that was into prostitution... i get that you're worried about her well being, but you should be more worried about your own. end this shit show and start working on you and yo…
/r/askTRP22/12/19 12:17 PM
3

the last thing you want to be is an emotional tampon. girls don't fuck their emotional tampons (also known as gay best friends). this shit has got to stop, immediately.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 12:12 PM
6

mix them up with hostels. you can meet a lot of great people while in a hostel. you can meet cool chicks there, and then decide to spend some time with them in an rbnb or a pension in between. i tended to go to hostels, meet a chick or two, travel alone with them for a week or so staying in a pension or rbnb, having lots of fucking fun, then heading off on my own way again, to start the process over again.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 12:10 PM
9

i traveled alone extensively and it was the greatest, and probably best decision i have ever made... you can learn so much more about yourself and life, and will meet many more people when you are alone, as opposed to traveling with a friend--especially one that makes shitty decisions. sure, a friend acts as a crutch in the beginning, when you are scared, then holds you back... throw that crutch away and go for it. you won't regret it.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 12:06 PM
2

why don't you try to use this free time at work to find your REAL mission in life. for me, doing something that i value would easily be worth half the pay.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 12:02 PM
3

awalt. well, all women have the propensity to cheat, but not all of them do. in this case, she showed you she is one that will act on this propensity. thank her (silently) for showing you who she is, and keep her at plate status. she is not worthy of anything higher than that.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 11:59 AM
8

all good except i can't understand your problem with the bartender. it's her job to sell drinks. she shouldn't mediate who the drink is intended for. otherwise, i might even have thanked the guy for the drink on my way out.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 11:53 AM
9

i always have to laugh when dudes wait until you go for a piss in order to TRY to jump on the chick you're obviously with.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 11:48 AM
21

this is spot on
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:26 PM
1

i thought the joke was: "can't live with them, can't live with them"
/r/askTRP21/12/19 04:03 PM
35

yeah, i get it, you're hurt. but don't be a fucking pussy about it. how could you possibly want to forgive this slutty whore? leave her at the isle? dude, cancel the wedding immediately and start working on you. if you even so much as go on a date with this chick again, you're just a sad, helpless cuck.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:45 PM
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on what planet do you live on where cheating on you two months before your wedding and worship the ground you walk on coexist? dude, are you trolling us? seriously, going ahead with this wedding would be the biggest mistake of your life.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:41 PM
5

how can you possibly say that you're red pilled, your fiance cheated, and you're still considering marrying her? that's not red pill man, that's just pathetic.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:38 PM
3

the chick has to be the one to find the second chick. this is the best way to go about it. that is all
/r/askTRP20/12/19 12:24 AM
2

sounds like there is more to this. she is withholding sex, when before, it wasn't a problem. my attitude, in this situation would be, i only date women that i fuck. you don't need to tell her this, but you need to act on it.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 12:17 AM
3

great words of wisdom . very well written. i'm sure all of us could have used, and/or will need these reminders sometime. cheers, op
/r/TheRedPill20/12/19 12:06 AM
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don't shit where you work don't shit where you work and, in case the above doesn't spell it out or you, maybe she just likes the attention and drama and will go tell her boyfriend how you are all over her at work.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 09:57 AM
1

totally ignore the whole thing. forget about. you should anyway ignore most, if not all of what women say, and watch what they do.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 09:53 AM
2

dude, why are you wasting your time on an old plate that fattened up? if you want to keep spinning her, then do so. if not, move on and find better plates.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 11:40 PM
1

you need to work on your self esteem and your own value. if you're that great, why would she want someone else? if she does cheat, then later bitch.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 11:38 PM
2

dude what? what's the point of being on dating apps if you don't want to get them out IRL? the only way to go about meeting them and fucking them (you do want to fuck them,right?) is to exchange numbers and set up a meet up. the sooner you get off the app, and on the phone, the sooner you meet and fuck.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 11:35 PM
2

this sounds familiar. did you post something like this before? her sister isn't a unicorn. with that said, if you really want to stir the shit, hit her sister up for a drink and see where it goes.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 11:33 PM
1

in that case, try to play it cool. don't smother her the whole time. have a good time and play it by ear. make sure to talk to other friends and flirt a bit too. a little dread helps in bed.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 11:30 PM
1

you don't respond to this at all. nothing. ignore and wait. she will probably hit you up again later and pretend it never happened.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 11:25 PM
1

this
/r/askTRP18/12/19 11:23 PM
2

she's a plate. get new ones and forget her. don't call or write her anymore. you can ping her again in a few weeks if you haven't heard anything, but basically, the plate broke. get some new ones and focus on the other ones you're spinning. you do have other plates, right?
/r/askTRP18/12/19 11:22 PM
1

interesting that you already are expecting trouble. why? did she already give you trouble in these situations before? if she rejects you when you approach her, walk away and never look back on your way to hook up with another chick. either way, be open to talking and flirting with other chicks--especially so if she is flirting with other guys. whatever you do, DO NOT MATEGUARD! go with the intention of having fun. fuck her when you see her earlier in the day and don't be a pussy by telling her a…
/r/askTRP18/12/19 11:18 PM
3

same as my reply above: have you noticed that the chicks that usually approach you are the biggest sluts, and nothing more than plate material at best? this has been my experience. sure, it's great when pussy walks up to you and jumps in your lap, but i've found the ones worth keeping to be the ones i sought out and took. just curious.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 05:39 PM
3

have you noticed that the chicks that usually approach you are the biggest sluts, and nothing more than plate material at best? this has been my experience. sure, it's great when pussy walks up to you and jumps in your lap, but i've found the ones worth keeping to be the ones i sought out and took. just curious.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 05:38 PM
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sure man, if that works for you, great. i personally avoid any approaching at the gym. the gym i go to doesn't really attract many women and i like it that way. at the gym, i'm working. also, this was meant for people that are having problems talking to women when approaching. i don't do any online dating and the main way i meet women that i want to is from cold approaches. whatever works. cheers
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 05:27 PM
4

"thanks but i already have enough friends" or ignore and soft next
/r/askTRP18/12/19 04:48 PM
1

why did you get her anything? your time should be the gift. if she had gotten you something, you could have improvised and said, i didn't get you anything, but here, have the rest of my apple. not really, but, yeah, really.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 04:47 PM
23

you sure do reply a lot for a guy that doesn't give a fuck
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 03:46 PM
10

ok, sure. apply not giving a fuck while cold approaching women with an example. a NGAF cold approach seems to me like an oxymoron, but if you can do it, let's hear how.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 03:42 PM
8

yeah sure, crazy uncle. nympho ex stalker, whatever--i was making the examples up as i went along, just as i do when i'm in these situations. you can say anything you want. the point still is to have fun and be different than all the rest.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 03:38 PM
7

thanks. was meant for night game but some things can be adapted
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 03:36 PM
8

i don't give a fuck. again, as stated, this was meant to help guys that have problems figuring out what to say to women, freeze up, or don't approach at all because of this... but, if you can just stand at the bar and have all the women drop their panties by winking at them, more power to you.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 03:35 PM
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maybe you missed the whole section entitled: Some things to look out for that mentioned a lot of this, specifically. a lot of guys have problems knowing what to say and freeze up, or don't approach at all.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 03:34 PM
7

you try to tone it down with compliments? why are you giving her compliments? did she do something to deserve one? so your basically being a needy, beta creep, and then wondering why women are repulsed. read "no more mr. nice guy", and the side bar. you obviously haven't read either.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 10:22 AM
7

why would you give her all control in the interaction? why not instead say, give me your number, and then text her when you want to?
/r/askTRP18/12/19 10:19 AM
1

forgiveness, in itself, isn't bad. however, forgiving the same person for the same thing over and over again is downright idiotic.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 10:32 PM
1

date enough women, and you realize, they are all a lot alike. i still love pussy, i just learned not to deal with bullshit.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 10:28 PM
1

either ignore entirely or say something like "been busy babe, cool you've been thinking of me". personally, i would tend to ignore and not reinforce such behavior
/r/askTRP17/12/19 10:25 PM
1

sounds like you need to work on yourself a bit more.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 10:22 PM
1

lelo hex condoms hmmm. haven't heard of them. and, despite using condoms, i hate them. thanks op. will have to check them out.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 09:56 PM
1

funny you should ask, because, since we last met, i entered seminary school and took an oath of celibacy. maybe you can get me to break my oath... have fun, agree and amplify. use humor to avoid answering and let her hamster answer for you. with that said, are you sure she isn't pregnant and wants you to take care of her and the little one? be careful when a chick pops up and wants you to fuck her without birth control
/r/askTRP17/12/19 09:51 PM
3

only you can decide. if you didn't feel it, for whatever reason, you're right. don't think too much about it. just know, if you continue on your red pill journey, she won't be the last married chick with kids that wants to fuck.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 09:40 PM
1

funny that i got down voted for this, when, it seems to have "rung" true for you. i don't think you should have texted her after trying to call. for now, wait a couple days (2-3). if you haven't heard from her by then, you can think about texting her about meeting up. for example, "i'm headed out to bar name, tomorrow night. you should come too." or similar. but then, no more text until she replies. and, only if she says yes, or offers an alternative, proceed. good luck
/r/askTRP17/12/19 09:19 PM
2

depends on how you left off and how old she is. if she is younger <26, i would text. younger chicks are a bit weirded out by calls with "new" people. i don't get it, but that's the way it is.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 07:09 PM
2

what country is she from op? depending on where could increase the likelihood of my theory--that she might be scamming you for money. maybe a quick one off abortion payoff. maybe she will go for the longer term monthly baby daddy jackpot. the whole things sounds fishy, but, we also don't know enough of the details. with that said, if it is true, her knowing your cell phone number could be all that she needs to find you, especially in today's #metobullshit world. so, just be careful and don't eve…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 01:35 AM
3

great points. and, just look at the feminist government in swedistan and see what that got them
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 01:09 AM
4

good work op. i would tell her to meet you at your place next time to cook a meal together, or something similar. good luck
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 06:39 PM
1

then take a hint from roissy's commandments of poon and hit her back once for every three times she hits you up. invest less than she is, while showing some interest, just less than she is.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:32 PM
3

you're already putting her on a pedestal and haven't even had the date yet, let alone fucked her. don't do that. treat her like the fatties you said you have no problem getting. if you can do that, you might do well.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:28 PM
3

my experience is that girls with tats are much more slutty. good for an easy lay or a plate. i personally wouldn't want more, because i find them cheap looking on a woman. the smoking grass depends on the chick and who and where she's smoking with. either way, fine for a plate.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:26 PM
4

hit her up after your back from your holiday with a time and place. ignore her until then. if it works, great. if not, next.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:23 PM
1

maybe you have to vary your strategy a bit. are you always approaching in a similar way and in similar places? what about social circle? friend's parties and get togethers are a lot easier to meet women at than clubs (or bars--not totally clear from your op). also, maybe approach women at different times of the day, rather than just in the evening while out. either way, keep up the work and you should see it paying off. good luck
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:19 PM
20

this seems like a chick thing to do. why do you have to be so dramatic about it? write to people or don't write to them. don't make a big deal about it.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:46 PM
2

"no thanks." next
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:43 PM
1

if that's your reality, that's your reality. i know for a fact 7+ (you said 7-15 a year) is attainable. you still have to put in a lot of work, and approach a lot, but it can be done. maybe it also depends on where you are. a big city has a lot more opportunity than a small town.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:42 PM
1

edit: replied in the wrong place...
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:42 PM
4

never ask a woman what's wrong on a date. assume she is having a good time and wants to fuck you. asking what's wrong is very beta. next. why dwell on this. find more chicks. in the future, after about 45 minutes to an hour, switch venues. go to a new place. it helps keeping things interesting. on the way to the next place, kino, and tease, and be a fun person to be with. edit/add: i usually go to two or three places before bringing her back to my place. i don't tell her where we are going, i ju…
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:36 PM
2

maybe not most men, but some men can easily keep up those numbers with a little effort. 80/20...
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:33 PM
0

come on op. you've posted multiple times about this LTR and it seems like you know it's over, yet, you keep coming here and hoping we will tell you to stay in this broken LTR. get out. not worth it. pack her things, leave them next to the door, and tell her the relationship is over. do not tell her why, or give any big explanation--simply say, "it isn't working for me anymore"--the end.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:23 PM
1

yuck. i'm over 40 and i don't even want to think about fucking a 40 year old. and, do you really want to go there, with your mom's friend? this post feels a bit trollesque.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 10:55 AM
2

what does this even mean? "no you do" what?
/r/askTRP06/12/19 10:50 AM
1

yes, especially if you have feelings for her! the sooner you fuck her the better, regardless of what you want out of it. i know it's cliche, but you really should read the sidebar. it sounds like you already have oneitis for a chick you haven't even kissed yet.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 10:47 AM
2

i can totally understand how you feel op. the thing is, you have to look out for your well being. and, her in your life doesn't seem like it would be at all good for you. yeah, it's tough to push a woman away that cares for you, especially in a situation like this. but, your only other option is to give in and be unhappy for the duration. when these are your options, you need to look out for yourself first. you better believe that she would pick her own happiness over you without even batting an…
/r/askTRP06/12/19 10:45 AM
1

have you actually spoken to her yet? why don't you, if you haven't yet, you may find that she is nothing like you fantasized her to be. or, you might decide she's worth investing a little game on. edit/add: abut two years ago, i met a woman at a party and was infatuated with her body and the idea of fucking her. i had an ltr at the time. there were many IOIs there and i correctly assumed she was down for some fun. after i fucked her, i realized she wasn't so special at all. wasn't bad, but the c…
/r/askTRP06/12/19 10:37 AM
1

unless, for some reason, you want to fuck her again, keep ghosting. why should you give a shit what she wants?
/r/askTRP06/12/19 10:32 AM
1

not all women cheat, but all women have the propensity to cheat. AWALT
/r/askTRP01/12/19 12:44 AM
2

it sounds like you are wasting way too much time on someone that you never had anything with, who also has a boyfriend. and, you're trying to please her and care about her moods. why? instead, go out and meet other plates! forget this chick. while you're out adding more plates to your roster, she might hit you up. if not, you've got other plates.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 11:42 AM
1

since you remove the original post, it's kind of hard to remember all the details now. up to you, but you have much work to do. as other mentioned, the side bar would help you, a lot
/r/askTRP29/11/19 01:03 AM
1

next. that's all that really matters.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:58 PM
1

at best, she should be a plate--at best. you shouldn't be LTRing this chick that wants to go fuck other guys and have you beta boy, at home waiting to give her a kiss when she comes home from getting ass fucked and he finishes in her mouth.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:33 PM
1

don't be cap'n save a hoe. sounds like a lot of trouble to me. i would hard next her and find more plates. seems to me that you are acting like her emotional tampon, beta best friend (that she fucked once). and, your friend even tells you she's a hoe, and you take her out to a movie? should have just took her home. but now, knowing what you do, get away.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:29 PM
1

sounds like more drama than i would want to deal with, regardless of how great the sex might have been. and she signs off with fuck you? sounds like she might be crazy... i would hard next and stay ghosted, if i were you. good luck.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:24 PM
1

sounds like a major shit test and manipulation attempt. some dread is in order. get to work. how old is she op? is she headed for the wall?
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:16 PM
3

it's called, spinning plateS, as in, more than one. you just need to get more plates and this wouldn't bother you.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:14 PM
3

don't follow. don't like anything. just keep gaming her
/r/askTRP28/11/19 06:10 PM
1

don't fight a war you're not involved in, especially when you have no chance at winning. instead, why not just show up ext time with a hot young 20something and enjoy
/r/askTRP28/11/19 05:44 PM
1

hit the gym and lift. you obviously aren't
/r/askTRP28/11/19 05:41 PM
1

"drinks on thursday at bar x at 8pm"
/r/askTRP28/11/19 05:29 PM
2

pay for a new flight. go get a hotel somewhere in town... there are options.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 05:27 PM
2

two things stuck out like big red flags. her talking about marriage and kids before the date WTF? and, the tinder run away thing. sounds like this chick has issues. i would stay away.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 05:21 PM
5

oneitis is a bitch
/r/askTRP28/11/19 05:17 PM
3

why can't you just leave? you say you can't but, surely you can, if you really wanted to.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 05:16 PM
15

first off, do you want to fuck some worn out chick that had a few babies since you last fucked? don't you have something better going on than that? and, what the fuck is up here with the people saying you should tell the husbands? TRP is amoral. telling the husbands would serve no good purpose and may even cause shit for you. obviously the dudes are blue pill cucks. they probably wouldn't believe it, even with proof in front of their face. then they turn around and blame you. fuck no.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 05:12 PM
1

this is good advice
/r/askTRP26/11/19 12:43 PM
2

never used an online dating platform or app. and i don't want to. i do well in person and can see what i am getting (without camera tricks to mislead me) without wasting a ton of time only to find out she is fat but good at photoshop.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/19 04:36 AM
1

vit d3 is important, but needs to be taken together with K" and magnesium. otherwise d3 toxicity can occur. and it could lead to having too much calcium which can cause a heart attack. also, magnesium on its own is also great for depression. there have been studies about it being much better than SSRIs.linked two articles: http://www.nutritionalmagnesium.org/calcium-vitamin-k2-and-vitamin-d-must-be-balanced-with-magnesium/https://vitagene.com/blog/magnesium-for-depression/
/r/TheRedPill19/11/19 04:26 AM
5

hostility, defensiveness, deflection, changing the subject, blaming you... yep.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 02:49 AM
2

english isn't my forte. working on the revision. cheers
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 02:36 AM
14

hey man. thanks for your input. i did see a couple of typos and/or unclear text and i revised them. i'll have another look tomorrow (it's almost 5 am here now). on the whole, i still think it is helpful as it stands
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 02:16 AM
20

"i'm sorry! what did i do wrong?" they know what they did...
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 01:52 AM
56

winter's coming. stock up on some nice warm plates
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 01:39 AM
1

why did you give her a hickey?
/r/askTRP01/11/19 10:42 PM
1

sounds like she testing you and you're becoming more beta along the way. look for a good mix of 80/20 alpha to beta comfort
/r/askTRP01/11/19 10:41 PM
1

don't
/r/askTRP01/11/19 10:39 PM
4

did you ever think, by ignoring her, it increased her attraction for you? keep going out and meeting chicks. if SHE pops up again, give her another chance and see what happens. (reply if she contacts you, but don't contact her)
/r/askTRP01/11/19 10:29 PM
5

i have rarely had to deal with flakes. with that said, i don't do tinder, or any online dating. i approach and meet women IRL.. the rule is, text is for logistics. and, for the most part, i adhere to this. i will throw in a few curve balls though depending on the chick and my gut feeling. example: i don't write them to see if they we are still on. i will write, something like: tonight at "matty's irish pub" at 9... or, what i used to like to do, "meet me in front of (where ever) at 8 and bring w…
/r/askTRP01/11/19 10:23 PM
2

she sounds like fun... a fun plate to fuck when you're bored. treat her as such. and plates don't get car rights--get that auto back, and pronto
/r/askTRP01/11/19 10:07 PM
1

depends on what you want. if you're going somewhere anyway, and wouldn't mind seeing her, drop her a text like "i'll be at this party. join us..." or something similar. low pressure all around. and, then, if she shows, and your hitting on other chicks, it helps either way you end up heading.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 11:10 PM
3

cold. but, with that said, you probably will start to see some familiar faces around and can use this to your advantage. and, as i already mentioned in my first post, if i met here and hit it off well previously, but couldn't bring her somewhere else (like my place) i already have a lot in common with her and continue from there.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 11:07 PM
4

acting like what? i've been really busy with... *then change the subject\* edit: didn't catch the it the first time around. if she flaked, it might be time to soft next anyway.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 11:03 PM
3

depends on what you enjoy. if you're musically inclined, i would say an instrument, especially guitar, is great.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 11:02 PM
8

i don't do tinder, or any online dating. problem i found with your post is your perception. this specifically: "Bars are cool but you won’t get what you want there without dropping clout cash." i TOTALLY disagree. bars and small clubs are my bread and butter when it comes to finding plates and fuckbuddies. and i rarely buy any of them a drink. the few exceptions are when they buy me one and i get the second. i meet them there and bounce back to my place, or get a number. i don't really use the n…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 10:55 PM
1

i was going to put something similar to this. actually, "me neither" was what i was thinking... upvoted you.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 10:46 PM
5

a funny chick that is bad in bed isn't very funny at all.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 04:29 PM
10

that makes it easy to know she's only a plate, at most
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 04:26 PM
1

a woman doesn't want a man that other women don't want. this was good, at least until you started apologizing and acting like a whiny bitch
/r/askTRP26/10/19 04:24 PM
1

you're in a ltr with a chick you're not fucking? no dude. that's not an ltr, that's a chastity belt around your balls.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 04:21 PM
1

what is the worst case scenario for you? she goes out on monday and let's some guy fuck her in the ass and cum in her mouth? yes? or could it be worse than that? do you think that will happen? if so, she shouldn't be an LTR. so, now that you took care of the worse case scenario, work from there. i wouldn't confront her at all. you'll come off as a whiny, jealous, insecure bitch. and that, will end up making your worst fears more likely in the long run. i would pretend you don't know anything and…
/r/askTRP26/10/19 04:18 PM
1

use a condom. don't do anything with her if she has big fat fucking herp blowing up her lip. but otherwise, you want to fuck her without kissing her? really? if you expect to be able to fuck her and not kiss her, you probably should just get an escort.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 04:07 PM
3

i always send a "was a lot of fun" or something similar as an insurance policy. even better when she replies. if you don't write anything after, you could set your self up for a mad woman wanting revenge, after the fact, and that's not what anyone needs...
/r/askTRP26/10/19 03:58 PM
7

i would say you need to turn up the dread and consider if these actions are ok for you in the ltr you want to be in. only you can decide that. good luck
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 11:37 AM
107

great post from a excellent member of the rp community. i have read and learned a lot from VasiliyZaitzev over the years. thank you!
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 04:11 AM
9

you sound like a chick that lost the argument
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 06:59 PM
28

talk to a lawyer. it's obvious bullshit, but a lawyer will help you with this, and this isn't something you want to fuck up. good luck
/r/askTRP25/10/19 04:54 PM
9

you're saying im still bluepilled? ok, but i dn't get your reasoning. please explain in a short and concise way. ltr engaged in behavior that i will not accept. i went cold. she asked what's up with that, and i said, very calmly, my ltr's don't do this... and i left. i don't see how this is a bluepilled mentality. if you have a better option, let me know. cheers
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 04:38 PM
1

you sound like a pussy. sorry to be honest, but, it is what it is. and, even though i didn't actually see a question in your wall of bitching and whining, i'll say this: you're a dude, and for this, be happy because you don't have to look good to pull. if you were an ugly woman, you'd be finished, but us dudes are lucky in that. own your shit. fuck, rick ocasek just passed away, if ever there was a ugly, lanky mofo, it was him, and he married a much younger, incredibly hot super model at the tim…
/r/askTRP25/10/19 03:32 PM
3

"seems like i might not be the right guy for you. you should look into a gay guy friend or two"
/r/askTRP25/10/19 03:24 PM
2

l shouldn't get mad at bitches like this, because AWALT. but, i still do. it pisses me off and i hope that bitch doesn't see a single dime.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 02:59 PM
38

i can feel you, and i know i have a hard time not exploding at times, but i tend to disagree. if you can get angry and remain calm and cool, ok. if not, and i can't really do so, than it's best not to play into the drama. they want this drama, and you getting angry feeds it. cheers
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 02:45 PM
23

great points and i agree with them all. my post could have been expanded to include some of these (or all) but it was a bit of a free form, off the cuff kind of thing. thanks.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 02:44 PM
1

ok, now i read through your op. her pedestal is higher than the washington monument! dude, chill. awalt.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 07:41 PM
1

i didn't read past your title. unicorns don't exist, hence the mythical name
/r/askTRP19/10/19 07:35 PM
8

you meeting here three nights a week (fri, sun, wed) is really a bit part of this problem. you shouldn't be meeting up with plates three times a week, because it leads to problems like this. she sounds more like your girlfriend, but you didn't realize it yet.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 08:12 PM
5

yes, true. but a change of scenery can also be good for you. and, your boss may grow tired of this yearly meeting and start thinking of how much money he can save by a new hire.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:19 PM
2

totally agree. flush the turd.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:49 PM
0

meet me at "X" on "pick a night" at "pick a time". you should join me. or, i'm going to "y" at...
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:05 AM
3

i read in the comments that you want to fuck her. so, night time is best. with that said, choose after dinner. you don't want to ask her to dinner, so just avoid that shit. pick an evening and tell her to meet you at "x" at 9pm. i would make it a thursday. weekends are too big for first dates. thursdays are good for this...
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:03 AM
1

why are you here? your karma history shows that you've done nothing for this community, yet you want our stories. what are you, a journalist for buzzfeed? thanks, but no thanks.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:00 AM
0

I ask if it’s her boyfriend she says no first mistake. always assume she's single and never ask i would forget about her. if you see her around, and are with some other chicks at the time, you might be able to turn things around, but otherwise forget it.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:57 AM
14

that all depends on how you handle yourself. of you remain aloof and fun, and red pill, and fuck her well, she will continue to want you with increasing desire. if you go blue, she will learn to detest you
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:53 AM
16

you're a man working on your mission. your woman is for when it is convenient for you and on your terms. this is red pill. give her only as much as you are willing and able to without forsaking your mission. on the contrary, if you were to fall back into your old ways, and shower her with attention, while forgoing your goals, she would be repelled...
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:49 AM
2

you want to be alone, or do you want to smash? i think the answer is pretty easy.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:47 AM
1

not great, but it's ok, but be prepared for potential blow-back since you have opened up the door to her again. she knew that she could use this to open you up again--don't forget that. if you feel the need, you can do a one off pep talk, but really, avoid this in the future. doing this only will intensify her to try more shit in the future.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:45 AM
2

who the fuck cares what anyone thinks. you're probably not going to be with her 5 years from now, so enjoy it while it lasts. keep yourself in shape. and keep your options open
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:41 AM
2

good luck. you're already ahead of most. enjoy
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:38 AM
4

don't sweat the little shit. forget it. and, as far as the big shit, it happens to all of us at one time or another. the main thing is how you deal with it. sure, we all have had stupid shit happen to us, or were even the cause of, but roll with it. play it off like it was nothing and learn to laugh at yourself (with everyone else if need be).
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:21 AM
1

welcome to life. there are plenty that will throw you under a bus to save their own ass, unfortunately. fortunately, there are also some books that can help somewhat. the 48 laws of power by r. greene is a good start.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:16 AM
2

first, read the side bar, a few times. then, get experience approaching women. then, experience spinning plates. and then, some ltr experience. after that, you'll have plenty of shit test deflection experience to report back on. see you in 3-5 years. in the mean time, agree & amplify is your friend when the shit starts flying.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:11 AM
1

first of all, how did you ask her? meet me at bar "x" this thursday at 8pm, should have been the way. if she didn't respond with a yes, or an alternative, then you should have forgotten about her. ok, maybe a second try could be excused... that's it. fuck MAYBE. aren't you worth more than that?
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:04 AM
2

she's only a plate and she wants to parade you in front of family? fuck no. that's not plate behavior
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:01 AM
2

by thick, i assume you mean fat. personally, i'm not into fat chicks. they don't get me going. in fact, they disgust me. with that said, if you like a little cushin' for the pushin', who cares what anyone else thinks. own it
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:57 PM
6

good luck dude
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:55 PM
1

my goal is to try to fuck on the first date. kino starts early on, and i work up to a kiss as quickly as possible. with that said, everything needs to be right. the location, the vibe... and, i don't go for tongue early on. just a few short sensual pecks on the lips, and then pull away. this drives her to want more. keep leading her from one venue to the next (3 or 4 in total) then to your bed. then the real kissing happens when you are at a place (like your bed or couch) where you can fuck her.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:52 PM
2

good luck man
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:48 PM
5

you sound like a 16 year old virgin. a plate and an ltr are not the same thing. and yes, if you're good, you can use an ltr for prselection, but you're not evn close to there yet. read the side bar, and be happy that a chick is fucking you on the regular. learn and better yourself. things will fall into place from there, if...
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:44 PM
5

don't read too much into that she deflected you in a different way than the others. she my have actually had a boyfriend she was happy with (at that moment). so, forget about her, have fun, and approach other chicks in the bar.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:42 PM
1

you don't have to do anything with them. just let it fade and get out there. while you're gaming chicks, meet some wing men. making giid guy friends doesn't happen over night. and it also depends on where you live. but just get out there and do shit towards your mission and meet new guys along the way. good luck
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:39 PM
1

you want us the lift the bar for you and towel off the bench too? no free rides. we're not here to hold your hand
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:37 PM
2

from personal experience, i am much more energized after the workout. anyway you can switch your schedule around and do the office work after the workout? it might help
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:34 PM
5

dude, get over it. move on. sulking about it won't get you anywhere.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:32 PM
26

Most people will lose it at some point. Get emotional, take things personally yes, and this is the quickest and most common way to lose frame
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 11:29 PM
16

yes, all good, and it seems like it worked out well for you... but i would have kept her to get free drinks, and fucked all the other chicks i brought there. once you fuck the bartender and things go sour, you might end up losing your watering hole... in other words, don't shit where you drink ;)
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 11:20 PM
2

i would go for more of a social circle game. look it up. it also depends on how large your campus is. but, if it is small to medium size, some dude hanging out on the corner trying to grab numbers from chicks won't go over well after a few weeks--at least, in my opinion. talk to lots of chicks, but don't be thirsty, and i would avoid asking for a number right away. play more a cat string deal...
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:04 PM
1

i wouldn't write her again until she at least hits you back. from there you can decide. could be she was just trying to get rid of you. forget about her in the mean time and get more plates.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 08:45 AM
1

how rich is she, and how soon after can you divorce her and take half? then weigh this against waking up to a soft 6 for that amount of time.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 08:43 AM
2

"maybe" with a smile/half smirk. it keeps them guessing. they will likely respond with a "OMG, what's that suppose to mean?" as they hit you on the arm... play with this. have fun. needless to say, this is only if you actually want to see them again. if you don't want to see them again, who cares. (if you fucked them on the first night, and don't want to see them again, you might want to be careful about this and go a different route though. for example, maybe go full fake beta, and profess your…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 08:41 AM
1

great that you're trying, but the way you're trying also matters. how are you approaching these women? give details. i say this because if you go up and approach 1000 women at your school and act like an autistic loser, you might start to get the reputation of a creep, and that's a difficult description to shake.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 08:35 AM
15

don't dwell on 2 year old shit. move on. good that you want to learn, but somehow, if this is still bothering you 2 years later, something's not right. start lifting and get rid of your dadbod, that's something you can start working on right away.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 08:32 AM
9

"i'm seeing lots of people". i always go for honesty when it comes to this question, and it serves me very well. if they give me shit about it, i don't give a fuck. most chicks dig this, even though they'll pretend to hate you for it.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 08:26 AM
3

is this rant about anything specific, because i didn't get who you're mad at? the hippie? the ex plate? the brunette that didn't fuck you even though she was so into you? the hot blonde that didn't want you? what is the moral of this story? i got nothing from it.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 08:23 AM
1

texting her, "come on over" is not neediness. texting her 10 times in a row, if she doesn't reply is
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:20 AM
2

what's worse, being a 2 pump chump, or not even getting up to bat?
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:14 AM
4

girls want mystery. why are you giving them a straight answer? that's fucking boring. tell them your studying to be an uber driver. then add that your goal is to be an uber black driver with a 4.75 rating. make up any ridiculous shit. and then have fun with it.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:08 AM
1

what was the question?
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:05 AM
1

nobody can or should tell you what YOUR goals should be
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:04 AM
1

don't get into a relationship until you're older. and then, never marry. spin plates and have fun. work on you. and, make sure you travel the world as much as possible. (my mistakes were that i had a shitty girlfriend in my late teens/early 20's and wasted a lot of time and energy on her and her bullshit. then got married to a different woman in my late 20s. divorced now, no kids, well traveled and loving life. good luck.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:01 AM
2

so, she complains about you not bending to her "needs", and you think you should just give in? obviously, she isn't fulfilling all of your needs. is she even fulfilling any of your needs, aside from some rent money? if you're bored when you're out with her, it sounds like you're not at all into her. you are getting cheaper rent out of the deal, and some average pussy. is that really worth it? maybe that's worth it for a while until you're done with school. or more likely, maybe you'd do better t…
/r/askTRP18/03/18 11:45 PM
3

i think you got lost on your way to the r/relationships reddit. no, just no.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 11:38 PM
23

i don't want to have kids of my own, so why the hell would i want to deal with someone else's
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 11:17 PM
10

you can commit and still have plenty of options available to you. my current ltr knows this and mentions it often and this keeps her in line.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 01:13 PM
5

if she ever tells you "We need a break" ... bye (then ghost completely forever)
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 01:09 PM
2

ultimatums come from a place of weakness. it is your last card to play. thing is, if you make one, you must carry through with it. sounds like this ltr is now over, and for the best for you. good luck.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 01:04 PM
2

is your plan to go through life reporting people? what the fuck. either: man up and have a talk with your manager, shut up, or get a new job. snitches get stitches
/r/askTRP16/03/18 12:03 PM
12

if your internal frame was strong enough you wouldn't be butthurt. in the mean time, fake it and work on your frame.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:55 AM
5

why bother? you have your friends. and you have pussy. enjoy
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:53 AM
5

don't dumpster dive through your old trash. throw the gift away. continue no contact.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:52 AM
5

stop trying to be their friend. asking them about skin tips? what the fuck man. you sound like their gay best friend. get a dermatologist. you're trying way too hard and it is coming across as creepy or nice guy. in fact, read, "no more mr. nice guy"
/r/askTRP16/03/18 07:17 AM
3

once again, great advice from uncle v. this was my first thought too
/r/askTRP16/03/18 07:14 AM
9

with that drivel you just spewed, there is no way you are too red pill. you aren't even a little bit. sorry, read the side bar, and wake up. there is no 10/10 woman. awalt. red pill never stops just because you found your unicorn.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 07:09 AM
2

for starters, lay off the speed.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 07:06 AM
12

women love mystery and want to win the prize, but as soon as they have won, it is no longer interesting. by you telling her you like here, you just took away all of the mystery...
/r/askTRP16/03/18 07:04 AM
3

just as there is no true get rich quick scheme, there is no become red pill over night formula. this shit is a way of life. one step at a time. continue reading the side and start reading some of the recommended books. "no more mr. nice guy" may be a good start
/r/askTRP16/03/18 07:02 AM
8

scotch
/r/askTRP16/03/18 07:00 AM
1

"i'm not boyfriend material" is probably your best answer here... but, with that said, have you met this woman IRL already? why are you wasting so much time on this back and forth chatting bullshit? texting is for logistics.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 06:59 AM
1

whatever floats your boat. personally, i wouldn't tell any women about this hobby. and, you obviously feel some thing is wrong with this, since you've posed the question here.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 06:55 AM
1

you're in her frame, not your own, and that's a terrible place to be. i would reread the side bar. you have read it a few times already, yes? and, read "no more mr. nice guy". The day she stopped texting me I freaked out and texted her in a panic, only to realize why she stopped texting me. I simply have trouble following my game plan in the beginning.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 11:49 PM
4

yep, was definitely hates you because you hid her pencil /s seriously dude?
/r/askTRP15/03/18 11:45 PM
4

you should know the side bar before asking questions like this. for example, the second post on the side bar (FAQ) titled: How to OPEN and CLOSE: Beginner's guide fuck man, how do you expect to succeed with women when you want everyone here to hold your hand.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 11:41 PM
2

tell your aunt that you rather stay home and look after all of her cats instead
/r/askTRP15/03/18 11:39 PM
2

big lack of frame control on your side it seems. i would have just laughed at her and said, "we'll see about that". you went more the butthurt route, and where did that get you? no sex that night, and probably a chick that now knows how to rattle you.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 11:36 PM
0

i think the discipline from your father, despite how hard it may have been, is still much better than if you would have been the product of a single mom. own it. discipline is good and lacking in many of today's youth. with that said, you post was much too long to read. i gave up after the first couple of paragraphs. good luck
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 11:30 PM
1

if you can't own it, yes, it won't work. but think about it: a woman clearly is interested. if you come over and show her you see that, and are direct and dominant in your approach, she will love it. that exact line works for me very well, ALMOST every time, if i read the eye contact correctly (down and away, and then she looks again)
/r/askTRP15/03/18 11:24 PM
21

whenever i hear a buddy say, i can't do that cause i'm a nice guy, i want to throw up and slap him upside the head. of course, i don't go spouting off about TRP... no chick wants a nice guy, no matter what they say.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 04:57 PM
2

good info. this has often been a big part of how i get a same night lay. isolation, getting her into your bed, and handling LMR being the other parts.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 04:55 PM
1

do you want to know that the commander leading you into a battle has insecurities? or do you want to to trust him and his experience to get you through...
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 12:02 PM
1

she was probably lining up dozens of dudes to keep her options open, and you didn't make the cut
/r/askTRP15/03/18 12:00 PM
2

what country are both of you from? i'm asking because most of the time, if you're from a rich country, and she, not so much, you're just asking to get walked all over as soon as her green card is approved.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 11:57 AM
3

wtf did i just read
/r/askTRP15/03/18 11:56 AM
1

sounds like she's not that into you. next
/r/askTRP15/03/18 11:54 AM
6

sounds like she's your ex girlfriend
/r/askTRP15/03/18 11:53 AM
24

she rattled your frame big time
/r/askTRP15/03/18 11:51 AM
5

strong eye contact, lots of kino, and dominance. have fun and wrap it up
/r/askTRP15/03/18 11:48 AM
1

a woman definitely wants uncertainties (mystery) more than some soy boy, crybaby in touch with his feelz. sorry op, i don't get what you're saying. What do you think girls want? A man with many uncertainties or one who is in contact with his nature
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 11:45 AM
2

really? i would call them out on that shit in a second. "do i look like your gay best friend?" or any number of similar responses
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 10:50 PM
1

if i see a woman looking, i will hold eye contact. if she looks down and away, i look away, and then back. if she again looks, i immediately walk over. i'll give a bit of a smile/smirk and say "hi" when she says hi, i will often just say, "i saw you noticing me..." or just start talking. it doesn't get any easier than this.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 11:45 AM
1

my bad. sounded like it from your mention about your ex bpd... but still, crazy chicks ain't worth it, and a large percentage of the sluts on tinder are crazy. ok, most chicks are somewhat crazy, but even moreso there.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:08 PM
19

fuck buddies and acquaintances, sure! friends, not so much. do you let them cry to you about the guy that pumped and dumped them while pouring them tea and giving them a shoulder to cry on? please. don't.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 10:05 PM
2

staring with your drooling mouth hung open is a one way ticket to creeptown. don't do that shit. strong eye contact followed by an immediate approach if she responds well to the eye contact (looking down, and then back at you again) is the proper way. chicks don't dig creeps.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:01 PM
1

don't ltr tinder sluts would be a great start
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:59 PM
5

for the millionth time, don't shit where you eat! and, side bar, about your oneitis "these's this one girl..."
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:56 PM
8

dude, i'm getting close to 50 and still love gaming young 20 something chicks
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:54 PM
2

ignoring her and flirting with other chicks has always been my go to in these situations. then, when she comes after you, you're in a much better position to decide what you want.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:38 PM
1

try using situational observations to break the ice until you get better. notice something, and point it out or ask her about it. it is a lot less direct and some guys find it easier to open like this. i personally am more direct. less waste of time in directness. good luck
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:35 PM
3

your first move should have been: "i'm going dancing tonight, come with" but instead you fucked up and asked what is your schedule like... if anything, just text her_ "i'm going dancing tonight. meet me at X if you want to join" and leave it at that. she could possibly agree. and for next time, hopefully you've learned.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:33 PM
3

what did they do for you to deserve your compliment? i'm guessing nothing. validating women without them deserving it is just a bad idea. why not get into conversation with them and disagree with their ideas that you don't agree with while teasing them and being a fun guy to be around. i have a feeling this way will work better for you.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:29 PM
2

sounds like good advice here
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:24 PM
3

So do I just ignore the whole thing and continue as normal next time I wanna talk? are you seriously considering talking to these bitches again? seems you are coming across as a creep. ease up in general, and pretend these two don't exist and don't phase you in the slightest. they no longer exist
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:21 PM
3

when i think back to 30 years ago, i did ok in high school, but could have done so much better. everything has improved and i no longer take any bullshit from women, regardless of how hot they might be.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:18 PM
1

forget this one and approach others, a lot more... and, dinner dates are the absolute worst.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:15 PM
2

sounds like she's not into it. wait until next week, and try one more time. if still nothing, forget her.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:12 PM
4

the worst thing you can do is fret about it and let her think you might be fretting about it. it can only get better (i hope) and she probably knows things the first time around can always be improved upon. i would wear a condom though. if she fucked you without one...
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:10 PM
1

In general her libido seems bigger than mine. and she is taking care of the problem. maybe you should be fucking her better? otherwise, i don't see the problem
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:07 PM
3

you either do or you don't. there is no try.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 02:21 AM
2

you're worse than in the friend zone, you're the gay friend.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 02:18 AM
1

why, why, why? i realize it's a joke, but think about what you're projecting here. i would just not reply. let her reopen the convo
/r/askTRP13/03/18 02:16 AM
2

What do you mean by “push pull”? i bet you could type that into the search bar here and get many answers. it's an old concept ;)
/r/askTRP13/03/18 02:12 AM
21

eye contact. if she catches your eye contact (hold her gaze) if she looks down or to the side and down, and then looks back again, immediately approach. if she looks up, she's not feeling it. this for me is the easiest way to open and can be done from across the room.
/r/seduction13/03/18 01:06 AM
2

dude, i stopped after a few paragraphs of you blaming the danish government for everything. read the side bar. stop this blaming attitude and take responsibility for yourself and where you are in life. we're not here to hold your hand and coddle you. become a novelist if you like to write so much.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 01:01 AM
2

how many women are you approaching per week? where besides the gym are you approaching? it's a numbers game and practice is the best way to get better. just start talking to women everywhere, be fun and take it from there. critiquing yourself on one single approach probably won't help much. with that said, a little push pull will go a long way.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 12:56 AM
1

how much dread? what level of dread? are you acting like a butthurt bitch when she says no, or are you then causally brushing it off and heading off to do your own thing? all these things matter and it's hard to tell without more details.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 12:52 AM
3

movie theaters are the worst dates behind dinner. maybe you should ignore her for a week or two and try the netflix and chill as someone else mentioned. how many dates has it been?
/r/askTRP13/03/18 12:49 AM
1

all women have the propensity to cheat. it doesn't mean all of them will. get a quality woman, and be a red pill man, and you bring the chances down as much as possible through your actions.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 12:38 AM
2

most hot chicks have a boyfriend. this is always and everywhere, not just in school. pretend they are all single and proceed
/r/askTRP13/03/18 12:35 AM
12

dude, she hasn't told you that she also was sucking his dick in the dj booth... that will trickle out soon enough. please do yourself a favor and next.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 12:33 AM
4

i'm an old school guy and don't have snapchat. with that said, i believe that texting is for logistics. what you're mentioning sounds like a waste of time. what is the goal here? how many women have you actually been with due to snapchat? i still think real world approach is better than any app 10 to 1, at the least.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 12:30 AM
2

i'm a direct kind of guy. for me, if she doesn't know why i'm talking to her, what's the point. i think, being direct saves you a lot of time in the long run. i'm not there to make small talk or friends.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 12:25 AM
3

diversification is the key to any good investment strategy. pick 4 to 5 sectors. choose these sectors by researching what you think will be a good investment down the road. spread out the money evenly throughout. if you want, take a small amount and buy yourself something nice, and put the rest (97%+) into investments. alternatively, you could also take a small portion of the above, and invest into yourself or your business idea, after you have a sound plan set.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 12:04 AM
2

this advice is good, but good in the way of "don't kiss a chick with a big fat herp cold sore on her lip". of course, don't do it! with that said, i guess these days, you would still have to warn some about both.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 11:33 PM
4

my favorite is: "can't live with them, can't live with them"
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 11:31 PM
3

"maybe"
/r/askTRP09/03/18 05:05 PM
1

guarantee the bullying would stop instantly by doing this. worked when i was twelve, and it should work today too. or are you just a little cuck who thinks we should talk out our problems and feelings with a bully?
/r/askTRP09/03/18 04:53 PM
12

before i read more than the title, i thought, "sounds like a russian chick"... then had to laugh. eastern european girls are much colder than you are used to. they are hot, and fuck like a dream, but cold as ice. proceed with caution and have fun oh, and you have to be very dominant with her. they like it rough and to have a man in total control.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 12:05 AM
16

when you're out of town, and nobody knows you, and it is close to closing time, and you are drunk enough, ok... but, you're going to still feel bad in the morning. pro tip: kick her out before the morning comes.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 12:01 AM
38

seems like she was flirting with you and now thinks you're gay ;p i also wouldn't have gotten her pencil, or would have gotten it and put it in my pocket.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 11:58 PM
3

run. away. fast.and next time, don't stick your dick in crazy
/r/askTRP07/03/18 10:22 PM
1

"next time you even try shit like that, you're gonna get punched in head" then, punch him in the throat next time he tries. fuck the going outside shit. it has to be immediate.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 10:17 PM
1

read the sidebar about handling shit tests. one easy way would be to agree and amplify
/r/askTRP07/03/18 10:13 PM
1

plates are once a week max, but sometimes less often. an ltr can be as many times as you want as long as you make yourself and buddies a priority too.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 10:09 PM
1

i think once a week is ok for a fling or a plate.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 10:07 PM
1

texting is only for logistics. the end.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 10:04 PM
7

if you hear from her, tell her, "too late, I made other plans. maybe next time" try again next week, and next if you don't get a yes. if you don't hear back, next.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 10:03 PM
22

good advice, but the vitamin d, especially at higher levels like 2,500-5000 iu per day, like i take, it should be taken in combination with magnesium and K2 to prevent problems... see here https://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2013/10/19/vitamin-d-vitamin-k2.aspx
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 09:50 PM
1

on top of finding out you're faking the accent, she also found the lifters in your shoes, and discovered you had eye surgery... hahahahaha
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 06:57 AM
2

5) Being at least 6 foot 5 inches being tall at 6'3" myself, i know it is an attribute. however, being at least 6'5" starts bordering on too tall... and, most of the rest of this post is just ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 06:55 AM
3

so, you're saying her new girlfriend said no to you joining in?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 10:46 PM
1

text for logistics and keep it short- busy people don't have time for text novels and emojis
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 10:20 PM
2

if that's the case, ignore her at work. don't mention anything about the text or going out again. sure, flirt with other chicks. and, don't be easy if she seems like she's coming around to you again.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 01:32 AM
1

yes, because nothing is a lot better than a cheating bitch
/r/askTRP29/12/17 01:17 AM
5

first off, don't shit where you work... now you're going to have to work with your shit...
/r/askTRP29/12/17 01:09 AM
1

didn't know that rule. i just watched episode 8 and i thought to myself, fuck that guy is total red pill--not often seen these days on tv... i think it warrants review and some here can learn from it.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 01:18 AM
2

this belongs in askTRP... i was already temporarily banned for giving advice on just such a thing...
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 01:09 AM
0

hard to tell because you didn't give enough important info. but, if your're 99 pro sure, then flake yourself, and pretend you forgot.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 12:14 AM
1

"have a good time"... and then, plan your great night out. don't look back, and don't think about it.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 11:55 PM
2

i never kiss and tell. and i never give out numbers. at the same time, the women i'm fucking or soon to fuck know, that i've fucked a lot of women.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 11:53 PM
5

most HB >7 women jump from one relationship branch to the next. it is uncommon that they are single. and, hypergamy is real. make of this what you will. with that said, i wouldn't fuck my buddy's girl because, bros before hoes...
/r/askTRP30/11/17 11:50 PM
1

i don't give a shit if my plates or chicks meet up or talk to exes... as long as i they tell me. if i caught them on the sly, that would be a different story. but i'm ok with it otherwise. that way, i know when it's time to meet up with an old fwb for a drink or two
/r/askTRP30/11/17 11:36 PM
5

it's easy to say have a strong frame, blah blah... he needs tips to get going, and this is a tool to help him get his mind straight, and get started. worked for me way back when. don't need it any more.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 01:48 AM
1

wow, the blue pill is strong here. first of all, why would youtake chicks to dinner? beta fucking behaviour. and then, why would you invest this elaborate plan into a chick you have nothing with? abundance dude. get some
/r/askTRP29/11/17 11:04 PM
1

whoreority chicks, are a no go red flag. it's king of like saying she is great! hot, beautiful, sexy, educated, and she only was arrested once for murder...
/r/askTRP29/11/17 11:01 PM
1

waiting weeks is not the right answer. if you had abundance, you wouldn't wait. get some "abundance", and then try again. then see how much easier it is not to give a shit
/r/askTRP29/11/17 10:58 PM
1

i would wait a day or two and tell write her. something silly. "so you're not bringing me with you to meet mama?" play off the response and set up another meet.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 10:53 PM
1

nope. irrational confidence kicks average joe's ass every day of the week
/r/askTRP29/11/17 10:51 PM
1

i'm not at all into online dating, but learning how to judge a photo is key. if i went on a tinder date and she showed up, i wouldn't have said, sorry, wrong dude, and ran...
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 10:47 PM
2

that right there is some funny shit!
/r/askTRP29/11/17 10:46 PM
1

did't read more than the title, and i spotted a major typo. you mean, "FORMER Potential LTR admitted she was raped after just turning 12" you're welcome
/r/askTRP29/11/17 10:43 PM
1

LOL
/r/askTRP29/11/17 10:41 PM
2

i have traveled alone in many, many countries. and, during this time, obviously, i had to go out alone. i have had some of my best nights out ever when starting out alone. it depends on this: have an excuse in your mind as to why you are alone. (i'm visiting on business and wanted to check out the night life, or my buddies wanted to go home early, and i didn't...) you can bring up this "excuse" if pressed, but that's not as important as the feeling that you get from knowing, it is ok that you ar…
/r/askTRP29/11/17 10:31 PM
1

yeah, but it isn't that simple. there are a lot more variables at play. if your woman thinks you're pretty close to the best she can get, she will not risk losing you to try to get a few inches higher up on the scale...
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 10:23 PM
1

ok, that chick was a solid, heavy, rotund 5...
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 10:17 PM
2

that chick looks like a burnt meatball... why did they choose her to be in this documentary? i couldn't watch more than a couple minutes. as soon as that first dude arrived at his "date" and didn't run, i bailed...
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 10:16 PM
1

yes, this... what i tried to say in few words in my comment...
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 10:10 PM
1

that's why i don't date, i just fuck. much easier, and no worries about me not making enough.. whatever enough is
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 10:08 PM
9

good report, i just can't understand why you would want any single moms or hb6s in this otherwise decent plate salad... just saying. to each his own.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 10:05 PM
-4

she knows a real alpha will never settle down. and, she, in the long term, wants babies. so, she enjoys the alpha pleasure until she realizes he will not take care of her, and she starts looking for a good beta that will take care of her...
/r/askTRP11/11/17 11:53 PM
3

ignore it and start looking for some plates to fill her void
/r/askTRP11/11/17 11:49 PM
1

well grow some balls. after three meetings you should have already fucked her. the longer you wait, the more your orbit around her is set. try kino. look up vin dicarlo's escalation ladder
/r/askTRP24/10/17 09:21 PM
3

go for your dreams. you can always fall back on a second choice later on. if you don't go for your dream, you'll end up regretting it
/r/askTRP24/10/17 09:17 PM
5

what the fuck is this? approach chicks that you want to fuck. the end
/r/askTRP24/10/17 09:15 PM
7

stick your dick in her mouth don't be her emotional tampon. sounds like you've been hanging around her a lot and haven't escalated at all. not good. if you've hung out with her many times and still haven't fucked her, forget her--you're in her orbit
/r/askTRP24/10/17 09:13 PM
3

like most firefighters, she's probably an adrenaline junkie which doesn't really make for great ltr material... the rest doesn't mean shit. what other red flags does she have? why not just enjoy it while looking for some plates
/r/askTRP24/10/17 09:10 PM
1

she's a plate. slow down her rotation and find better plates to take her place
/r/askTRP24/10/17 09:07 PM
1

dude, forget her. learn from this. you didn't fuck her early on and she put you in the friendzone/orbiter group. next
/r/askTRP24/10/17 09:05 PM
2

who gives a shit. if you let it bother you, then it's a problem. i'm in my my late 40s and hang with women who are 25-30ish. they don't give me shit. and if they did, i would tell them they need to learn to respect their elders as i put them over my knee for a bare ass spanking
/r/askTRP24/10/17 08:57 PM
1

i hope you made great big plans with the boys this weekend
/r/askTRP24/10/17 08:45 PM
1

does it really matter? i know and understand how you feel, but you'll never really know unless she wants you to, or you spy on her cell, which i wouldn't recommended
/r/askTRP24/10/17 01:23 AM
2

hollywood will teach you the best way to become a pussy beta fuckwad... maybe a bit better than the advice mommy gives you, but, not by much
/r/askTRP24/10/17 12:38 AM
1

work on you, and your mission (you are working on that already, right?) and proceed. forget about her in your mind, and move forward. when she returns, treat her as a special plate, and then decide if you should demote her, next her, or keep her. do not ask her if she fucked a bunch of spanish chaderos--she won't tell you and it only makes you look weak
/r/askTRP24/10/17 12:35 AM
4

to me, it sounds like you took too long to bring j home with you. yeah, it happens. as far as your text, it's not so bad... just make some plans soon (logistics only) and finish what you already should have. as far as b. who knows. if she is a real 9, she probably already forgot about it, but follow it up in a couple days with a plan, and if all goes well, add her to the plate rotation
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 12:31 AM
1

you have to assume she already did cheat and you will/would never find out about it
/r/askTRP24/10/17 12:18 AM
59

do not respond ghost how does it feel to be the gay guy best friend? remember this feeling and never repeat it. (stop being an emotional tampon...)
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:09 PM
1

assume the sale. live and learn. good luck
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:07 PM
2

ldr and 60 days = fuzzy with that said, she is away from home in a new land with lots of new chads, with hot accents at every turn... her family (and yours) has nothing to do with this,--just ask all the divorced guys with kids paying alimony... assume she will enjoy some spanish dick for the next 60 days. you should be enjoying some nice hometown pussy, too. see what happens when she comes back, and work from there. don't admit anything. and don't ask anything either
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:05 PM
2

well, the bondage part somewhat depends on your past experience with her, but otherwise, yes
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:33 PM
8

sounds like you're much too invested in her. who gives a fuck how elite she is don't put (elite athlete) pussy on a pedestal
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:30 PM
4

stop telling him. the end
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:29 PM
1

/u/VasiliyZaitzev also has some good advice if you want some bday sex (i would do this but pretend not to know it's her birthday--but i think that's what he may have meant)
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:26 PM
2

you're reading shit on here because you still do give a fuck. and while not giving a fuck has a lot to do with it, it isn't everything--red pill is more than not giving a fuck--it is not giving a fuck with options
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:25 PM
2

she wants more than you want to give. first, get your own place, so you don't have to worry about shit like this. personally, i would ghost her and pretend to forget about her birthday. she's a plate. hit her up again a few weeks after her birthday if she doesn't try to contact you before--she most likely will
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:22 PM
1

really? here, the norm is obviously that you should marry and have kids. if you want to follow this norm , then good luck
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:19 PM
1

she's a plate. treat her as such
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:17 PM
1

you're name "socialpowerplayer" doesn't suit you. who gives a fuck what anyone else thinks
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:16 PM
2

who told you that? your mom? fuck the norms. do what you want to do
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:14 PM
7

you're missing something here. you say he's not red pill, but he is obviously a natural, if not learned red pill. with that said, who cares? work on you. you seem like you might not be as red pill as you think you are--you think he is orbiting and creeping but still ends up fucking them--to many white nights and blue pills, us reds may seem creepy, because they're just jealous
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:13 PM
1

if she wouldn't have flaked, you pushed her to do so with your multiple reconfirmations. set a date, time and place at the start. don't try to reconfirm multiple times--it only makes you look like someone that expects to get flaked on...
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:08 PM
3

you think being at a TOP school matters? lol AWALT
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:05 PM
1

"yeah, you're right, it's much too soon" pause then continue to escalate 4th date, with a russian? lolololol
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:04 PM
1

problem recognized. now stop that shit
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:00 PM
2

but it also looks like you want to be spoon feed yes, this! seems like a bad trend around here lately
/r/askTRP23/10/17 09:58 PM
2

if you're using words like "verbals", then that's your problem
/r/askTRP23/10/17 09:57 PM
2

no. not here--not about red pill concepts. but, i assume, from your name, that you're a chick, so there is no point discussing this with you.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 09:54 PM
2

the correct response is OK. that's it. then, no more contact. the real question is why you keep getting dumped though?
/r/askTRP23/10/17 09:51 PM
1

you're not fucking them well enough
/r/askTRP23/10/17 09:47 PM
1

She offered to let me call her friends and verify she was never alone. lolololololololololololol. yeah, like they would tell you how many dicks she swallowed that night
/r/askTRP23/10/17 09:43 PM
1

at least she gave you an early warning to bale out. marriage is for chumps--but you should have known that already
/r/askTRP23/10/17 09:40 PM
2

Always assume that women are after your money ! You'll be right 100% of the time. being a guy with very little money, and many hot plates, i gotta say no. chicks value a hot chad that can fuck them well. unless they want a beta husband...
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 09:06 PM
1

why are you even spewing about how much you love her? talking about how much you love her..
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 08:59 PM
2

age does't matter as long as you swallow it. i did at 28... approximately 20 years later, i'm STILL lovin' it.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 08:56 PM
2

personally, i value my alone time above everything. my plates, from what i've seen, have none. alone=bad seems to be instilled into today's generation. fuck that you sheep. with that said, i want to be in control of my alone time, so solitary confinement, without sexy fuck sluts, would be hell
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 08:53 PM
9

rule #1: don't talk about fight club. sisters included talk about a lot of stuff (including trp cocepts
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 08:47 PM
1

yeah, i remember when i was 15 and took advice from my mommy... fucking ouch! thankfully, that taught me learned early enough
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 08:45 PM
3

stay gold, pony boy. stay gold
/r/askTRP09/10/17 11:05 PM
20

your belief is reality. powerful shit
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 11:01 PM
4

yes, and no. the OP is a bit all over the place, but my take... if you get to the point where you have a woman isolated, (in a club, in a bar, at a party, outside from any of the above...) she is definitely into you, and wants to find out more/test the waters. how you go from there will decide if she sleeps with you or not. if you can't get her into a one on one (isolation) she's probably not into you. obviously, if you can't get her to return your text, or even meet you out some where, she's no…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 10:58 PM
14

for your sake, i was glad to see she's now an ex-coworker
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 11:40 PM
13

i have spelled it all out for you point by point. if you still can't see it, i have nothing more to say. good luck
/r/askTRP08/10/17 03:18 PM
1

if she's just a plate, she probably wants more (comfort) and is positioning herself with shit like this. assuming you want to keep her only as a plate, don't answer with anything specific. make a joke out of it, a & a...
/r/askTRP08/10/17 12:21 PM
1

i never tell a woman how old i am. i'm much older than the women i date though, but look a lot younger. i just tell them to guess, and make a joke out of whatever they say, without ever telling them anything concrete
/r/askTRP08/10/17 12:17 PM
30

an amazing girl, a one in a kind - she's beautiful you found your precious unicorn on valentine's day--we're talking hollywood level unicorn shit here! we really started being honest with how we feel about eachother you start pouring on the beta, 'i'm going to love you foreva' crap (makes me want to vomit) Fears, and insecurities tended to arise, mainly from my side...and we talked our issues through and comforted each other... you tell her how you're a weak mangina loser that would just wither …
/r/askTRP08/10/17 12:12 PM
5

why are you allowing her to manipulate you like this? if you want to hard next her, you have to cut contact. sorry babe, this isn't working for me anymore. the end. then block her, and don't look back
/r/askTRP08/10/17 11:55 AM
32

you can either go through life with a victim mentality, blaming everyone and everything else, or take life by the balls, accept total responsibility, and kick ass. fuck that victim mentality, it's for beta losers
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 11:51 AM
12

let's say brad pitt says x, and you, thewrecker8, says the same. how many more women do you think are going to listen to brad as opposed to you? yeah, sure, we can go 'nietzsche' and assume that these women are only listening to brad because they hope to gain something (brad's attention maybe)... but if that's the case, it's still a win for the higher valued person
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 12:57 AM
6

Stick with what you're comfortable with, right? hell no, get out of your comfort zone and grow as a man. staying together in this fucked up LTR is the worst thing you can do, and the longer you do, the more time you're wasting
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 11:42 PM
5

Sorry but it's not realistic that you fucked more than one, or that they fucked more than one guy in one night. don't be sorry about calling out bullshit when you see it
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 11:36 PM
10

you and her sound like a co-dependent mess, and not at all red pill. you should have never taken her back the first time, or second, or... it's great you're trying to learn and better yourself, but at this stage of the game, you should be working on yourself, and not giving trp advice.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 11:29 PM
9

what worthless degree did you get?
/r/askTRP07/10/17 09:20 PM
2

an old friend used to keep a big metal bolt in his pocket. worked a lot better than a roll of quarters. maybe start carrying one in each pocket
/r/askTRP07/10/17 08:42 PM
3

you definitely had a major 'irish accent' advantage in NYC. i've seen that shit work magic with my own two eyes... fucking dylan, but i digress. i've been to dublin and i don't think the irish are more difficult than americans when there's no accent involved. in fact, i think they tend to be a bit easier than NYC. either way, work on you and your mission, and the rest will follow. there is no sense in bitching about the women where you are unless you're planning on changing where you are
/r/askTRP07/10/17 08:38 PM
3

and this matters now because? she's gone dude. you're turn is over
/r/askTRP07/10/17 08:33 PM
4

is this for realz? are you trolling? LDRs are doomed to fail from the start. you think she was being faithful, but she was probably fucking guys long before she dumped you. who knew you're little, precious unicorn was a giant ho? you're not only acting beta, you're acting like a gigantic pussy. have some self respect and just stop this bullshit. go work on yourself. go fuck some new women. do whatever you have to to find your balls. she told me she had slept with one new guy a week after we brok…
/r/askTRP07/10/17 08:30 PM
57

the higher you smv (or in this case, your value in general), the more people care what you have to say
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 08:11 PM
2

well, considering the fact that you don't even know or understand what cuckoldry is, as i pointed out in my other comment, i'm not going to waste any more time on you. you're either a troll or a moron.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 08:05 PM
3

cuckoldry is when you don't care if she is fucking other people, and if anything you're aroused by it. no, you're completely wrong. maybe you should look up the actual definition of cuckoldry. it is when a woman cheats on their husband and spawns a child with the other man, then tricks the husband into believing the child is his. and this is definitely even worse than 'just' being cheated on.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 08:02 PM
16

there is nothing wrong with being a father of children that aren't your own you're being sarcastic right? please tell me you're being sarcastic
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 07:58 PM
31

I finally asked her again and if she even had any idea of when she'd be available this is cringy. it reeks of passive aggressive butthurt. next time, if you don't hear back after the second time, forget her. if she comes back, think twice before you let her back in
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 03:45 PM
15

i've seen many men think they can bond more with a chick by getting emotional and talking about their feelings. just typing this makes me want to vomit. the last thing any woman wants is a weak, pathetic man that is emotional or even worse, feeling sorry for himself. the only thing this will bring is pity and disgust. oh yeah, they might tell you they want you to open up, but we all know by now not to listen to what they say...
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 12:01 AM
0

i didn't need to go through 5 stages. one awfully shitty case of my unicorn going hyper awalt was more than enough to get me to swallow the pill whole... the ones that need to go through 5 stages of misery will never truly get there
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 11:53 PM
2

nope, don't text her first until wed. if she text's you again, you can reply of course. as far as her being 20, just pick a different venue then.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 10:04 PM
3

she at least gave you an alternate. see what happens about next week. don't write her again. if you haven't heard from her about a date next weekend by wednesday evening, shoot her a text like this: "join me for drinks at x bar on friday at 8" or something similar. don't offer both nights.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 09:56 PM
1

neither. but number 2 is just terrible. if she is a good looking woman with a busy schedule, she will probably already be busy if you hit her up on friday afternoon for friday night. why not try a day or two before, and shoot for thursday instead. in that case, go with a modified number 1 oh, and your number is and for many reasons. for one thing, you're a man and you are busy and don't have time to wait around for when it suits her. if she likes you she will find an alternate time
/r/askTRP06/10/17 09:50 PM
2

tantrums tantrums? like what the fuck, dude? real men don't throw tantrums.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 09:46 PM
1

sounds like ukraine. all the women were gorgeous and all the men looked like ogres. poland had some nice looking women too. from what i saw, they like their men manly. they don't want any metrosexual beta pussy. with that said, stop worrying about the other guys and start working on you and your mission. when you're passionately pursuing your mission, the women will follow
/r/askTRP06/10/17 09:44 PM
2

are you eating well, and taking a multi vitamin and vit d? do you know if you are low in anything? as someone else mentioned it could also be a hormonal level thing and should be checked. as far as the rest. we all have bad day. we all get in a rut. you can't throw everything away at the first storm. edison made something like a 1,000 unsuccessful attempts at inventing the light bulb. after all that failure, he still pushed ahead and succeeded his way into the history books. and, that blame shit…
/r/askTRP06/10/17 09:37 PM
1

if you haven't fucked her yet, you definitely should NOT go down on her. it's a beta move. if you're fucking her already then, fine. i hope she's blowing you well too though.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 09:31 PM
2

maybe you should talk to someone, especially if you are having suicidal thoughts. when i was about your age, i spoke to a psychologist for a couple of months about the problems i was going through and it helped me immensely. another thing that i am getting is that you're stuck in your past. all the shit that happened to you (your shit family/upbringing), and it's is holding you back. you don't come out and say it directly, but i think there is a a lot of blame you're casting--maybe on your famil…
/r/askTRP06/10/17 09:23 PM
70

i thought getting laid on the first date was the whole point of tinder. good break down of your method even though i'm tinder averse. actually never even tried it--IRL or nothing for me
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 08:40 PM
2

i would never have taken a chick out to dinner on a first date anyway, but, with that said, if i had been there, i would have bailed before the food even arrived. a hb5 that thinks she's an 11
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 08:34 PM
2

only you can decide what your mission is. maybe a time out from dating to find out what it is, could be in order. maybe start by writing down some of your goals, on paper, and work from there. good luck
/r/askTRP06/10/17 09:21 AM
1

isolation and venue changes are important, but not only for the reason you mentioned. by changing venues, it gives the impression that she has experienced more with you than just one meeting, and with each venue change this increases. this is often a large key in getting her into bed on the first night
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 09:19 AM
3

well then you obviously haven't read the side bar and don't get trp. you need to make your mission in life (something that is not related to a woman) your main focus. and, your mission can't be some vague bullshit like "fulfilling career". it needs to be concrete and quantifiable. if you don't know where you are going, how do you know when you get there? when you work on your mission in life, the woman (and family) should follow.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 09:08 AM
3

"you get to cook dinner for me" this would have been a better response if it was right away though... at this point, i would just pretend to forget about the "offer" and just ask her what time you should be there. if she brings it up, then you can mention that.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 08:59 AM
1

why are you keeping this french chick around if she's only causing problems? sound like this is all on you.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 08:55 AM
3

what is your mission in life? or at least for the mid term? what are your goals? if you don't know, then there's your problem? and, your mission better not be to find a unicorn. figure your goals out and start working toward them and the rest should fall into place. good luck
/r/askTRP06/10/17 08:51 AM
2

figure out how much time you're wasting on tinder and go out and invest that time on meeting women in the real world. who wants to waste time validating ugly tinder sluts anyway
/r/askTRP06/10/17 08:47 AM
4

if she was using you as an emotional tampon, she wasn't "feeling you" in any way other than the beta/gay guy friend. if she wanted to fuck you, she wouldn't be talking any of that shit.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 10:00 PM
1

in her mind, you went from some guy she didn't care much about, to some big creep that's following her around the office. great job!
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 09:56 PM
10

i hate complainers. waste of time and energy that could instead be used on a solution. i have no patience for that bullshit. doesn't matter if it's a guy or a plate, ain't nobody got time foh dat
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 09:48 PM
3

busy busy
/r/askTRP05/10/17 09:30 PM
2

she is trapped at work. she probably has to be a bit nice to customers. she isn't shit testing him, she's shitting on him
/r/askTRP05/10/17 09:11 PM
1

fear can also be a motivator. search out and face the things you fear, and better yourself.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 12:08 PM
6

she's not interested and she's letting you down easy. next
/r/askTRP05/10/17 12:02 PM
5

go and flirt with other chicks and forget about her. she might end up coming back around, but then you can decide if you still want to pursue her, or some of the new chicks you met. never follow a chick around, especially after she blew you off.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 11:55 AM
1

well, first off, respond to her the way she is comfortable. the call got you nowhere, and the fb text got a response. she did offer you, somewhat of an alternative (next week). wait until next week and try again with a text (maybe text her phone instead of fb). use a more direct approach of "come with me to x on thursday night at 8" then go from there. most likely, she's not interested in you enough, but you can give it one more chance, before a next
/r/askTRP05/10/17 11:53 AM
6

well, do you value your job? as robert greene says in his book 48 laws of power, rule number 1: never outshine the master
/r/askTRP05/10/17 11:49 AM
3

yes, this. ancient magic
/r/askTRP05/10/17 11:46 AM
5

don't shit where you eat! how many fucking times does this need to be said? yeah, yeah, this is different because X... she can still fuck you over and get you fired
/r/askTRP05/10/17 11:42 AM
1

ouch. she doesn't want anything to do with you. the end
/r/askTRP04/10/17 11:49 PM
7

that's the only reason I'm doubting what are you doubting? you're plate broke and left your ass. next. wake the fuck up! i hope, as a med student, you end up being a much better doctor than you are at realizing that this chick left you and doesn't want you. and from the sound of it, and her red flags, you're a lot better off without her.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 11:43 PM
6

well, yes, it is that simple. in reading a bit: you met a slut, made her a plate, lied to her and said you didn't have any other plates, and now she's not fucking you, and, even worse, she cut off all contact with you. hmmmm. ok, my advice still is, next, get a new plate. i will add, you actually need to get a few new plates because only one plate isn't spinning plates
/r/askTRP04/10/17 11:38 PM
2

LDR's are bullshit. she's fucking all of lisbon. next
/r/askTRP04/10/17 11:35 PM
9

only had to read the title, and didn't read a word more. next that plate and get a new one. "Plate" won't fuck with me anymore
/r/askTRP04/10/17 11:32 PM
3

those scrolling points are annoying as fuck... with that out of the way, check out the book: "Never Split the Difference -- Negotiating as if Your Life Depended on It" by Chris Voss, former fbi hostage negotiator
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 11:30 PM
1

they were trying to get me to do something I did not want to do. It could have been something as simple as them getting mad that I didn't call them at a certain time or not wanting to give me a massage when I asked for one. That's when I usually peace out. for me, that would be a time to hold frame, say no and ignore them--not necessarily throw them out for acting like a woman
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 11:25 PM
127

don't talk about fight club!
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 11:20 PM
1

Hypergamous nature popped it's head up eventually which is when I said Peace Out technically, if her hypergamy showed itself, then you didn't necessarily end the relationship. more so, she was in the process of a branch swing, and you bailed... just sayin
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 11:14 PM
7

why are you wasting your time inviting over some chick to play video games? i'd get my t levels checked if i were you
/r/askTRP04/10/17 11:09 PM
13

i've been broke, and it never stopped my from getting laid. that shit don't matter unless you want to be a beat provider
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 11:06 PM
2

I come from a land far away from you... from the land of ice and snow, from the midnight sun where the hot springs blow? are you a viking?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 11:02 PM
19

there's a fine line between humor and clown. be witty. don't be a clown
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 10:59 PM
1

having someone that knows how to cut hair is extremely important. my plates notice when my guy is away on vacation... i go every 3 weeks, and he knows how to make my hair look its best. there are a lot of shitty hairdressers, and a lot of shitty barbers. just finding a good one can make a big difference.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 10:49 PM
-2

yes, awalt but strippers are damaged goods. it seems like you got your heart ripped out by a pro, and now went all mgtow. now you're in the anger phase, and hate all women, as it sounds to me. but what do i know... well, yeah, i know "awalt", but strippers are right up there with prostitutes (and some are one and the same) and you don't marry a hoe and try to make her a housewife... just sayin'
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 10:41 PM
1

i think a good spanking or slap would do a world of good to a lot of these kids today. served me well.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 09:02 PM
3

great job! glad you broke your cherry and had a blast. we've all been at that point, looking at the clock and finding a million reasons not to--great that you overcame it. thanks for the follow up.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 10:16 PM
1

well, that what you thought you were doing...
/r/askTRP01/10/17 09:49 AM
10

a cat tends to investigate anyone that doesn't give it attention
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 09:45 AM
21

i always have to laugh when i see guys liking and making comments on chicks social feeds, especially the "you are so beautiful/sexy/gorgeous comments. those kind of guys make it easier for the rest of us
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 11:41 PM
5

i am all for being honest with women when they ask if i am seeing others (spinning other plates), but why would you ever complain to a woman that you've never met before about other women? doesn't make sense to me. either way, next
/r/askTRP30/09/17 11:38 PM
1

that you lost all your plates (3?) around approximately the same time is probably telling. maybe you have (possibly subconsciously) changed something that they all picked up on? ok, losing one or two plates in the same week or two is one thing, but all of them. no, something's up here
/r/askTRP30/09/17 11:33 PM
1

ok, let's say you're right. if that works for you, great! but why post here about it if you have found the answer that best fits you? personally, i totally disagree, but that doesn't matter. I have found it that a girl either likes you, or doesn't... from your logic, it doesn't matter what you do then. so you can dress like a slob, be fat and smell, say creepy shit, and she will still like you? i didn't think so
/r/askTRP30/09/17 11:29 PM
1

what do I do here, because I cannot ignore her flat... ah, yes you can. get over it
/r/askTRP30/09/17 11:24 PM
1

your assumptions greatly affect your reality. why not assume all hot chicks can't wait to meet you...
/r/askTRP30/09/17 11:21 PM
3

got me. i couldn't care less.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 11:19 PM
6

i could care less
/r/askTRP30/09/17 11:17 PM
1

if most of your friends feel the same way, why does he keep getting invited? seems obvious, but get whomever is inviting him to stop that shit
/r/askTRP30/09/17 11:13 PM
2

i puled three of your quotes from three different posts of yours... but, ok, i'll bite. your original question: Is there a way to reconciling TRP theory and respecting women respect is earned, not awarded to all just because of sex... it seems that you have come here with your mind made up that trp = misogyny. you're asking us to disprove your strawman argument. why should we do so, when, under these terms, we can only seemingly lose.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 11:10 PM
8

it is not that they love being in second place, it is that they want a man that has a mission independent of them. they can in turn try to fight to win that man over, thinking they want to be the man's mission, when in reality, they would no longer respect a man that gave up their mission for a woman. you are just showing them this trait that is quite desirable.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 10:52 PM
3

i read your post and your replies here. i feel sorry for you that you had more than a plate full to deal with, but you seem to have only come here to find fault with trp. why bother then? so much of TRP mindset seems to be extremely hateful towards females. There's no doubt there's plenty of misogyny all over the TRP sub. This type of shit is the nonsense of TRP, thinking that everything fits so neatly into the box... so why come here pretending you want help while all your words only show conde…
/r/askTRP30/09/17 10:48 PM
1

then you have 70% of your answer
/r/askTRP30/09/17 10:39 PM
1

you didn't answer the most important question need to help you if you weren't able to study with her anymore, would that be a problem for you?
/r/askTRP30/09/17 01:14 PM
1

you always want to ignore bad behavior, and reward good behavior. in this case, you calling and giving comfort would be rewarding bad behavior. with that said, waiting a couple days (soft next) and then call her and invite her over for something. most importantly, you need to totally ignore and not mention her not replying. if she brings it up, don't admit anything--you've been really busy. good luck and report back
/r/askTRP30/09/17 01:12 PM
1

why not just game all chicks? i flirt with all the chicks that i interact with, not just the ones i want to fuck. it's a win win.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 11:14 AM
1

if you weren't able to study with her anymore, would that be a problem for you? if no, sure, why not. but, this may end up changing the dynamic, and if she isn't attracted to you, you may end up losing a study partner. sounds like you haven't gamed her at all though, so a little kino might help build attraction, and also gauge if she is at all attracted to you. good luck
/r/askTRP30/09/17 11:10 AM
2

there is a balance that you need to keep in an ltr. you need to show a bit of comfort to round of the alpha. too much alpha, your chick is going to assume you won't stay. too little alpha (and or too much comfort) she will start testing you and losing attraction for you. a woman will also claim they want a nice guy, and try to push you into the beta provider role. that doesn't mean she will actually want you once you fit that role. i would increase the comfort a little bit, and dial down the alp…
/r/askTRP30/09/17 11:05 AM
3

First I was DNGAF, attraction was obvious you were aloof and alpha-like and attraction ensued... Later I got a lot of hard shit tests and failed many of them you started failing the tests and attraction dropped So I decided to build some comfort. no, comfort is not for some chick you want to fuck. it is to balance out/soften your alpha ways in an LTR. she now likely sees you as a beta friend. if she were attracted to you sexually, and you teased her, she would tell you that your an asshole, whil…
/r/askTRP30/09/17 10:56 AM
1

why not invest that free time in yourself and your mission
/r/askTRP30/09/17 12:05 AM
5

congratulations! you've found THE unicorn. better marry up quick before she gets away
/r/askTRP30/09/17 12:01 AM
-2

hey that's great. next time i have a potentially serious neurological issue, i know just where to go to. fuck doctors, i'm going right to asktrp
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:57 PM
1

enjoy dude, and just own it. i had a buddy shorter than you that loved tall chicks. if you saw him out, he would act as if he was total oblivious to the height difference. follow /u/VasiliyZaitzev 's good advice if she mentions it.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:53 PM
2

go out and own it. talk to everyone, and when you're doing it right, people from earlier in the night will be your "friends" later on. if you get caught up and someone gives you shit about being alone (like some chick shit testing you) you can say your buddies went home early, and you didn't want to leave yet. being a lone wolf can be great fun
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:41 PM
-1

yes, i did feel the need because there is enough bullshit getting posted around here. i still completely fail to see how this relates to trp. enlighten me (and OP), instead of bitching about my comments.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:37 PM
4

sounds like you didn't escalate wen you should have and the window is closing or closed. being very sensitive to some stuff I say (getting insulted by light teasing) this may have been testing your frame, and it sounds like you probably caved in, and said something stupid like "only kidding" or "sorry..." tease chicks and keep your frame solid when she feigns indignation--in fact double down on that shit.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:31 PM
2

then get on up, work you yourself, follow your mission, and start living
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:26 PM
-3

This is related to situational awareness, attention to detail, etc. then why the fuck are you posting it in askTRP
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:24 PM
2

why dwell in the past? fuck that, carpe diem
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:21 PM
5

it means she should buy the first round of drinks. 5 bucks isn't a lot, but since you have nothing with this chick already (you haven't fucked her) you are really setting yourself up from the start as a beta provider, especially if you end up paying everything, all night long. be prepared for her to enjoy most of her "free night" with you and go home with someone else to fuck...
/r/askTRP29/09/17 02:52 PM
1

then you didn't get very far on the side bar. there is a giant explanation linked there https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2pb4fs/everything_you_need_to_know_about_shit_tests/
/r/askTRP29/09/17 02:45 PM
7

sure, but you can say something like, "i got the tix, first round is on you"
/r/askTRP29/09/17 02:44 PM
7

so i gather there are no other plates anymore, only her? maybe she felt the change in the dynamic with her new LTR position, and at the same time, maybe you also poured on a bit more love and cuddles than normal, so she started testing you again, to see if you are still man enough. it seems, even the old drunk dude saw you were pissy after her little drama stunt. sounds like you have to work on your frame and dread. good luck.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 10:43 AM
2

Correlation does not neccesitate causation, but I am absolutely willing to give this a good try what the fuck dude, nobody is forcing you. the pill is swallowed whole or not at all. that includes reading the sidebar in its entirety, something it doesn't seem like you've done, or else you wouldn't be asking us how to ask a chick, who's giving you IOIs, out.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 04:25 AM
10

if i were you, i would have been more concerned about where i'd picked up the nasty G... that shit doesn't just appear from a bad bowl of chowder
/r/askTRP29/09/17 03:52 AM
9

if you were neck deep in new pussy, i bet you wouldn't be thinking about her much. there's a reason roissy says to always keep two in the kitty--so you have options and aren't left with a dry spell when something like this happens. work on yourself, your hobbies, and finding new plates. good luck
/r/askTRP29/09/17 03:45 AM
1

does she need a green card?
/r/askTRP29/09/17 03:39 AM
7

7923 rejections. then you're good to go
/r/askTRP28/09/17 11:43 PM
2

i think i told you specifically not to cancel on her since you already had plans. if you canceled with a lame excuse and she called you on it. well, not much you can do to change that. hold your frame. if pressed tell her last minute change of plans. my old school friend needed advice/help/a quick fuck in the woods... dread isn't best used in the 0 to 60 format, especially if your chick isn't used to it... there are the 12 stages of dread you should follow https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/com…
/r/askTRP28/09/17 11:38 PM
1

this. i've lived in western and eastern europe, and never visited a chick's parents before fucking them. actually, i almost never meet any of their parents after fucking them either, and the one time i did, it was a coincidence. don't do it.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 11:18 PM
5

because it seems like they would like real men, not neckbearded pussies.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 11:14 PM
1

she brought up sex first, which is usually a good thing, but it also might be mixed in with a bit of ASD to filter out the tinder fuckboys. you could go a couple different ways, depending on your frame and what your most comfortable with. you have high standards way: "well, that depends on how cool you are once we meet" or flip it on her in a funny way "i never kiss on the first date" or, if you have tons of abundance, and DGAF "yep :)"
/r/askTRP28/09/17 11:11 PM
8

nope, but it would make total sense why they would then again, most women love trp type guys
/r/askTRP28/09/17 10:57 PM
1

why don't you start working on your social circle first. then, as you build it, and meet more and more people, it can be more of a natural progression along the way
/r/askTRP28/09/17 08:41 PM
5

this guy is full legit. do it and you're bound to be a golden alpha in no time
/r/askTRP28/09/17 08:39 PM
1

good luck man. and by the way, asshole isn't at all bad as far as meeting chicks is concerned. look out for you = asshole = chick crack
/r/askTRP28/09/17 08:34 PM
3

no, not annoying, that's just the way it is. if you read the sidebar, you would understand the concept of branch swinging. there are plenty of great chicks out there. while you are working on your mission and bettering yourself, you may find a few.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 08:03 PM
3

fell in love with a girl... It was really intense and I've never had an experience where I felt this connected to another human being. you got the feelz and and a bad case of oneitis told this girl we'd do long distance. don't do LDR, it's destined for failure She flew out to see me twice (on my dime) why are you beta providing for some chick. bad enough you LDR her, but if she wants to see you, see can pay for that shit We kissed, she drove me to the airport at the end of the trip, and there wa…
/r/askTRP28/09/17 08:01 PM
8

most hot chicks have a boyfriend, and are rarely single. keep that in mind
/r/askTRP28/09/17 07:53 PM
3

i would laugh at her if she tried to pull that shit, and then go from there. a rock hard frame is important though. if you are weak, she will step all over you. problem is that you arlready set the "mood". so, overcoming this will be even more difficult.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 06:38 PM
2

NMMNG no more mr nice guy is probably a good start for you ATM but be forwarned, you either swallow the pill or you don't. you can't just nibble on it. good luck
/r/askTRP28/09/17 06:35 PM
8

you have much to learn. betas suplicate. interesting guys are different. offending her mixed with teasing can do wonders if calibrated well
/r/askTRP28/09/17 06:30 PM
3

you can either ignore her, or make fun of her/tease her about her controlling ways. "we're not even dating and i already want to divorce you"
/r/askTRP28/09/17 06:28 PM
2

sure, but keep in general. a smirk while saying, "i never kiss and tell" works. and yes, trp is more about being honest and not hiding that you're seeing other women. in your case, lie away. with that said, don't bring this up unless you get asked specifically about it. and, start meeting new plates so you don't have to keep up this ruse for long. good luck
/r/askTRP28/09/17 06:25 PM
2

this sounds like a great plan
/r/askTRP28/09/17 05:12 PM
2

spinning plates implies eventually, some will fall and break. it's part of the game. enjoy them while they last and keep the pipeline full. soft next, and use the extra time to find new plates.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 04:57 PM
0

help me with some tips to stop being seen as an overly sensitive guy. stop being a pussy and people won't view you as one anymore
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:53 PM
1

how would this help you? it will, if anything, be antiproductive since now you're not taken anymore, and less of a challenge
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:52 PM
1

men's status matters as does a women's hottness. if she is a smoking waitress at a dive, nobody is going to look down on you for banging her.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:47 PM
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next, but maybe you have to ask yourself why she thinks she can or should shit test you this much. it is likely a combination of a low quality woman and your weak frame. and you nexted her, so what's the problem? just don't take her back and work on your self.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:36 PM
0

i failed to see any question here... I've been apart of the TRP community for over a year now says the guy who's sign up date says 10. apr 2017 see ya
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:31 PM
3

it's not your place to tell some chick you met three times about her personality disorder... i don't care if your carl g. jung jr., don't play psych on a chick you're trying to plate. instead, use this info you have as a reason to stay away, or a reason limit your investment in her. "in this case, then yes, run the fuck away..." don't be captain save a psycho hoe.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 10:48 AM
1

Damnnn. So what now! I offer you out on a date and sweep you off your feet? it was good except for the dynamic you're setting up. you're the prize, and she should sweep you off your feet. just sayin'. otherwise good advice but a bit more wordy than it even needs to be.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 10:24 AM
1

if you already made plans with her, stick to them. she isn't canceling plans on you, right? the problem is that women are very intuitive and she might sense that you cancelling on her is you being butthurt. however, definitely start limiting your time with her in the future until she starts being more receptive. dread is most important here.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 10:07 AM
2

your first mistake was telling her "a bunch of truths" and probably acting all butthurt. you next, you don't explain yourself. then you continue to game new chicks and collect new plates. if she happens to come back around, you can try one more time to bed her, and if not, hard next. but hopefully you have too many other women occupying your time to even consider this. and in this case, there just seems to be too many red flags. stay away
/r/askTRP28/09/17 10:01 AM
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dread. you start hanging out with your female friends while continuing on your mission. you do have a mission, right? telling her or demanding that she not see him will only make you look weak and insecure (beta). and, why not enjoy the free 'babysitting services' he is offering--gay dude orbiter being the emotional tampon and shopping companion to your chick while you go and get your stuff done. sounds like a great bonus--he deals with her bullshit, and you fuck her. win/win
/r/askTRP28/09/17 09:54 AM
1

you don't specifically tell a chick i want to make make you a plate, or a fuck buddy. you show them with your actions and how you treat them. if she is the only chick you're fucking, then she isn't really a plate. if you had other plates, this dynamic would be easier to set since you are busy and don't have time to see her more than once a week. if you start hanging out with her many times a week, and doing ltr like things, she will assume that she is your girlfriend.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 09:47 AM
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sometimes i feel like im a beta orbiter. you are How do i do this? you soft next her and go about your life. and don't go running back declaring your love when she throws you a little attention, upon seeing that you've fallen out of her orbit go get some plates and work on you
/r/askTRP28/09/17 09:39 AM
2

go, don't get high, and flirt with all the cute girls except for the birthday chick
/r/askTRP28/09/17 01:16 AM
2

if that's the case, then why would you want to spend time on a reddit that would ban you for such a thing. sounds like a win
/r/askTRP28/09/17 01:08 AM
3

follow roissy's rule of for every 3 of hers, 2 or yours. she texts you 3 times, you twice. she asks you out 3 times, you twice... it will shift the power dynamic in your plate, if it isn't too late already. also, you should have other plates. it's not spinning a plate, it's spinning plates. this will also help you to focus on one specific one less
/r/askTRP28/09/17 01:04 AM
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well, you first gave her an ultimatum "if she ever did that again she would be in serious trouble", she called you on it, and you did nothing. this was super weak (and very beta). you shouldn't have given a line in the sand if you weren't prepared to follow through. with that said, your ultimatum was weak to begin with, but either way, you should avoid ultimatums, because they come from a place of weakness or powerlessness. instead, set out boundaries and hold them. i personally would have chang…
/r/askTRP28/09/17 12:50 AM
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yes, ask her out as the other mentioned, but be prepared for her to bring up the "i thought you said we'd never work out..." where you can probably just smirk at her and plow through, or a&a, and tell her, yeah, "we definitely won't, but it might be fun to try"
/r/askTRP28/09/17 12:42 AM
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yeah, this might work, but kicking his ass would be a lot more fun, unless of course, that's the way you roll, not that there's anything wrong with that
/r/askTRP28/09/17 12:37 AM
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well, first off, stop thinking of yourself as a virgin. don't put a disclaimer on the specifics. you fucked a chick. now, you need to work on your confidence. have you read the side bar and the recommended reading, like NMMNG, etc? this would be a great start... report back and good luck
/r/askTRP28/09/17 12:31 AM
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don't shit where you eat. she was probably trying to find out if you would rat her out for stealing, and thought you might be more quiet if she flirted with you a bit.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 12:26 AM
2

that's some good shit right here
/r/askTRP27/09/17 11:33 PM
2

(we havent gotten out at all) all we do is text and sometimes video chat so you haven't actually hung with this chick before, you've only been texting and facetiming? (kinda like a side chick) if she's a side chick, that means you have a main chick that you're already fucking, yes? it's all rather confusing OP. if you have been seeing her for a few weeks and haven't fucked her yet, it doesn't sound at all sound like you just want her for sex, or else you would already be fucking her. to help, yo…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 11:26 PM
5

so she was on a 'find myself', backpacking, euro-cock carousel ride, and you sat around waiting for her?
/r/askTRP27/09/17 11:17 PM
1

wait a minute, you are fucking this chick, right? i'm confused
/r/askTRP27/09/17 11:13 PM
2

keep some wet wipes next to your bed... here, you need one of these
/r/askTRP27/09/17 11:10 PM
2

lolol
/r/askTRP27/09/17 11:09 PM
2

is there a question hidden in this mess?
/r/askTRP27/09/17 11:01 PM
2

never talk to the police. make no statements to the police UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i8z7NC5sgik
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:53 PM
3

this is flirting with the don't shit where you eat mantra, mainly because your son's involvement here. tread lightly and keep his future in mind. things could get uncomfortable...
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:40 PM
3

good read on him
/r/askTRP27/09/17 05:50 PM
6

stay strong bro, especially during the water works.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 05:49 PM
1

who's you daddy, bitch?
/r/askTRP27/09/17 05:47 PM
2

yeah, this. my immediate thought... m'lady lololol
/r/askTRP27/09/17 05:43 PM
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so are you going to let everyone emotionally blackmale you your whole life when they're sad. be a man. she'll get over it. and don't ever entertain threats of self harm--instead tell her if she says it again you'll report her to the proper medical authorities. shut that shit down. ain't nobody got time fo dat.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 05:38 PM
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if we follow your "logic", you mind as well sit at home hiding in your basement and not ever attempt anything, because one day you will die. personally, i think dying, is a lot more terminal than some chick moving on when your turn is over. i still make my mission in life my fist priority despite knowing this
/r/askTRP27/09/17 05:34 PM
2

you can get yourself a tutor and spin a few plates, and have a lot less hassle. just sayin'
/r/askTRP27/09/17 05:30 PM
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i haven't read one single good reason why you should be in an LTR with this chick. are there any, because for me, it is clearly a soft next, and/or demote to plate, at the best. your life (should) revolve around your mission, definitely not some controlling chick. it anyway sounds like you could/should be having a lot more fun spinning lots of plate and enjoy yourself now...
/r/askTRP27/09/17 05:23 PM
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do you know the side bar--> if you were in an LDR for 2+ years, chances are, you don't know it nearly well enough. go out and meet new chicks. spin a few plates, or as they say go and fuck 10 chicks, and you'll get over your ex LDR, that you probably barely saw anyway.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 05:13 PM
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nothing you can do, aside from going out and meeting new chicks. don't sit around waiting on her to reply. if she does come back, don't answer right away. if she doesn't come back to you, at most, ping her again in a few weeks. maybe 'your turn' was just two dates with this one...
/r/askTRP27/09/17 05:10 PM
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as far as specifics and symptoms, i have no idea. i would definitely NOT just go cold turkey though! a dr's supervision is extremely important with this. be careful.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:00 PM
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don't beat yourself up. changes in attitude take time. i don't think it's such a bad thing either. use it as a chance to escalate. don't turn it into a reoccuring event unless she is very receptive to your advances. see how it goes and play it from there. next time, you can play it a bit differently, instead saying, are you trying to scam your way into a lift home (with smirk)? when she agrees, imply that she can thank you by taking you for a coffee or something like that. play, tease, have fun,…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 03:57 PM
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i'm not a doctor and don't want to pretend to be one. with that said, most of what i have read and seen makes me believe ssri's are bad news 90% of the time. when i was growing up ADHD didn't exsist and we turned out more or less fine. maybe a second or third opinion might be in order with a doc that is less pill happy... good luck
/r/askTRP27/09/17 03:51 PM
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dude, i would back off a bit. the chick might just be baiting you to cause a little drama in her relationship. i would go no contact and look for other girls.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 03:48 PM
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oh don't get me wrong, her knowing or seeing other women wanting you or with you are a good thing. don't hide it.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 03:10 AM
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i wouldn't respond to her. she made you her potential back up plan. soft next. anything else you do will be showing her you don't have other options, and are just waiting to hear from her. fuck that. also, in the future, you should condense your text a bit more and add the action. the less words the better. “Let’s Kick it this weekend hmm...let’s go with Friday.” instead: "join me 8pm friday at x" then, if she doesn't say yes, or at least offer an alternative, you soft next her. don't wait aroun…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 03:07 AM
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soft next. wait until she contacts you again. don't mention anything when she does. i'm assuming you haven't told her or led her to believe that you and her are exclusive, right? at least i hope not. if women ask if i'm seeing others, i don't make a big deal about it but i don't deny it at all.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:56 AM
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this girl has already talked about previous abusive relationships and she even tried suicide one time this is supposed to weaken my argument? seriously?
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:44 AM
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you saw they were old friends, but you had no hard evidence of anything. she even told him she didn't want to see him. then, when you approached her, of course she denied everything--she could be telling the truth or lying. she would have denied it if it were true, because you had no hard proof of anything. so you gained absolutely no knowledge and now showed her that you were spying on her facebook and were jealous. and, she also knows she will have to be more sneaky next time. really, it could…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:41 AM
1

now why the hell would you want to do that beta boy?
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:29 AM
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how can i avoid giant red flag and pretend plate is actually my unicorn while claiming i don't have oneitis. and then the male hamster starts an olympic worthy sprint: no means I wish to be captain save-a-hoe or to even try and fix her It's my wish then to efficiently extract - and give - the most value, pleasant companionship and good sex out of this relationship. I also want things to end better than the beginning and for her to have some good memories about us. dude, she's a plate with a big …
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:21 AM
1

why settle for someone just to ATTEMPT revenge on someone you shouldn't care or even think about (because your ex is a cheating hoe). aside from that, your ex probably won't give a shit, and may even pity you because of it. what does this accomplish? go spin some plates and get a life rather than sulking in loneliness while planning childish revenge. or even better, work on yourself and your mission first and forget about the ex.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:14 AM
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they're cougars on the prowl
/r/askTRP27/09/17 02:05 AM
2

if you're bartending, you have an automatic reason to meet and flirt with chicks coming up for a drink. it makes your work much easier. flirt with them. tease them a bit about what they order, what they're wearing, etc. just have fun. to escalate, hopefully, you won't be behind the bar the whole night. as far as the escalation, "push pull" and "dicarlo's escalation ladder" will probably help you. search for those terms...
/r/seduction27/09/17 12:16 AM
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dust off the monopoly board and call dibs on the racecar.../s after that, decide about the drinks. a white or sparkling wine is good for chicks. have a good music set list playing when she arrives, make sure your place is reasonably clean... the rest somewhat depends on your experience with her so far. is she a tinder match, a number from a bar, a day game approach? this context will help a bit more to help you.
/r/seduction27/09/17 12:06 AM
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because i asked the magic 8-ball and it said that all signs are pointing to yes. http://www.8-ball-magic.com/ and then there's this: My problems are they I'm pretty codependent (I get lonely easily /fall into toxic and intense relationships that I don't even want to be in), I can't identify and show my emotions, and I constantly feel guilty for being myself. I read NMMR and it kind of helped, but I'm still constantly depressed and have trouble fitting in
/r/askTRP26/09/17 11:13 PM
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Should I look into going to therapy? this sounds like a very good idea
/r/askTRP26/09/17 10:42 PM
5

facepalm
/r/askTRP26/09/17 07:18 PM
7

bring her to your place and fuck her. you're welcome.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 07:14 PM
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don't pick through your garbage. cut off all contact with her. meet new plates. the end
/r/askTRP26/09/17 07:13 PM
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I saw a girl long distance i didn't have to read anymore. just don't do LDR. only exception is if they are one of many plates, and you don't have to travel. next edit/addon: that example text made me vomit. you just stop contacting. if she re-engages, you can tell her you've moved on. you're a man. closure is for pussies. she obviously met someone else and doesn't have the decency to even tell you, and you here planning on inviting her to a wedding. go meet some chicks at the wedding--a great pi…
/r/askTRP26/09/17 07:06 PM
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ask her if anal and blowjobs count
/r/askTRP26/09/17 06:43 PM
2

ok, been there pre-katrina. i'm also totally app free. i can see some vacation game possibilities in the quarter, possibly. i hooked up with a chick from gerorgia when i was there. but, like i said, it was a long time ago. all i can say is that you have plenty of potential in a place that size, so maybe you have to look about revising your tactics. new venues, different times, different methods. and what about social circle? good luck
/r/askTRP26/09/17 06:40 PM
1

not much you can do. reward good behavior (when she looks or dresses sexy), and ignore bad behavior. you can also next her. otherwise, maybe some dread would help.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 04:48 PM
3

did you recently move? i mean you say youre a chad, and have solid game but the results don't agree. maybe it is time to reflect a bit about what your doing. it's hard to help more without more info. size of city, venues, what you're doing exactly...
/r/askTRP26/09/17 04:40 PM
1

it's the man's job to make the first move. if some chick does make the first move, sure, fuck the slut... personally, i think chicks that make the first move is a bit of a red flag.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 04:37 PM
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you can't change anything now. the only thing you can change is the way you feel about/act about it. DGAF. that's all you can do. for the future, maybe you should be lifting more... don't let shit you can't change upset you.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 04:32 PM
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Now I'm just chilling and I get a text from her... It was just a smiley don't waste a text with a question that you don't take anywhere. you ask if she's at home. are you waiting for her to invite you over? be a man and instead reply with a direct meet up idea, like "i'm getting ready for some net flix. come over in 1 hour." And then proceeds to be all serious and starts giving me short responses why are you wasting time texting with her about bullshit? text is for logistics. seems like she's te…
/r/askTRP26/09/17 11:07 AM
2

"you're so sexy when you're angry." but why bring it up again after?
/r/askTRP26/09/17 10:57 AM
1

and so here is the truth. you are trying to fuck her and and are a bit butthurt she isn't more receptive. dude, don't try to "logic" chicks. don't be her emotional tampon and don't try to cheer her up- that's not your job, unless you like being some beta, white knight... why are you even wasting your time thinking about this IDK why I even try to make her feel better because whenever I try to introduce logic and explain how good she has it she won't accept it. I'm getting the feeling she likes t…
/r/askTRP26/09/17 12:27 AM
1

is she hot?
/r/askTRP26/09/17 12:09 AM
2

AWALT is not constant. meaning, a woman always can be 'that way', but doesn't have to always/constantly be that way. she has innate possibility or tendency to be "that way" at any time. some more often than others. your question is quite abstract, so i'm not sure if i got what you were looking for. please expand, if not.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 11:20 PM
1

both options have their benefits in one way of another. saving money and social plus on one side, and privacy and total independance (all decisons are your own) on the other. for me, after college, i had enough with housemates. as you get older, you tend to start needing your space more and more. early twenties is still ok to share. if you think the savings warrants the housemates, and you are good with that, do it for a while, and put that savings away or into some investments. if not, enjoy yo…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 11:14 PM
1

I was half RP at the time you started a sexless LDR, and claim to be half red pilll... no. She said her friend was forcing her to go and she even sent me pics of her outfit for approval always those damn slutty freinds... saw pictures online of her getting close with another guy in her group. I was initially upset but then I realized that guy must’ve been the “friend” that dragged her the plot thickens. the slutty friend forcing her to go clubbing was a dude. and you saw them in photos in compro…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 10:47 PM
3

sure you should have kissed her. she saw she was going to lose you and wanted get carried away in the moment (disarm her ASD)... you could have kissed her again, slowly start escalating again, and then see. if she pushed you away agan after that, you could bow out, but without being butthurt. i have the feeling she might have fucked you if you hung in there. live and learn.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 10:35 PM
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you can lead a horse to water... your friend needs to make this decision on his own. you, as a bro, have the obligation to tell him once or twice how you feel, and what you think, and then back off... you could end up losing him. it wouldn't be the first time. but if he is not receptive to what's going on (a pussy whipping has put us all in a bad place before we woke up), there isn't much you can do. you can continue to see him, and accept the way it is now, or you could move on. maybe he'll com…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 10:32 PM
1

good to hear. it also helped me out many years ago to talk shit out with one... good luck man
/r/askTRP25/09/17 09:17 PM
1

she really could be--she did say most of her past relationships were with married men...
/r/askTRP25/09/17 08:53 PM
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for me, a woman that mostly only played mistress to married guys doesn't at all sound like wife material. in fact, it negates the rest. as /u/seattleron mentioned above, at 38, she slammed up against that wall and has to put on a great show to hook some beta before it's too late. you're here asking this because you're stomach is telling you something isn't right. and we are agreeing... sounds like you're looking for one of use to give you the ok so you can shut off your intuition.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 06:32 PM
1

watch what she does, not what she says... man, i hope you have some plate options ready to spin. good luck.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 06:29 PM
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doesn't matter how. only thing that does matter is that this is a giant red flag. that she dated mostly married guys is another one, in my opinion.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 06:25 PM
1

good luck. check out escalation ladders by diCarlo. i searched for a summury that could help you here: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/
/r/askTRP25/09/17 06:18 PM
2

from your OP, it isn't at all apparent. if you expect people here to hold your hand and tell you not to be autisic when a girl says hi, then i don't know what else to tell you, other than what i wrote on my first reply
/r/askTRP25/09/17 06:07 PM
1

well, not getting wasted or too high would definitely help. there needs to be a progression of push and pull and ramping up of kino the whole time. this will get you the kiss, and this is the way you'll get her into bed.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 06:02 PM
1

you should start by reading the sidebar ->
/r/askTRP25/09/17 05:55 PM
2

TRP is not MGTOW. TRP likes to enjoy women. Oh, if you are saying you want your plate to coddle you like mommy used to do, you're not at all red pill.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 05:51 PM
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that was good old trickle truth. and the trickle has likely, only just begun. maybe he really did NEED to talk to her in person about video games--sure! or, maybe video games turned into a little hug, then a peck on the cheek, then his cock in her ass... unfortunately, the only thing you accomplished here is to make her more sneaky next time. proceed with caution, if you don't just next her. don't try to argue with logic. trust your gut.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 05:48 PM
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hahaha, a new oxymoron "Redpilled Leftest"
/r/askTRP25/09/17 05:41 PM
1

this. read it and open up new worlds
/r/askTRP25/09/17 05:04 PM
1

you were doign everything well. after she didn't offer an alternate time after the flake, i would have ghosted for a bit before asking again. you are in high demand, after all, and not waiting around for this chick you barely know. either way, take it easy and see how tuesday goes. and, strech out your time between meet ups. give her time to miss you.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 05:03 PM
2

movies are the worst first (or second, or third dates). you need to be able to interact and ramp up the kino. waiting until the end of a date and then saying some cringy "joke" like you did doesn't help your future. push and pull. ramp up the kino, then push her away. continue to do this and build tension. during a movie in a theater isn't really great for this. it also doesn't help to make you stand out from all the other beta loosers that took her to a movie or dinner, or both and bored her wh…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 04:58 PM
1

were you ramping up the kino throughout the date until you first tried to kiss her? or did you barely touch her and then jump in for the kiss? lack of kino could be your problem right there.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 04:45 PM
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sounds like you played it right. you didn't act butthurt, and left after a few tries. she might just be trying to manipulate you into a relationship. she might have an attitude adjustment if you ghost her for a bit then see.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 04:41 PM
5

NMMNG would probably help you. i get the feeling that you might be getting walked all over in many parts of your life because you've been programmed to be nice and get along with everyone rather than stand up for yourself. i'm not saying you should have fought the dude, but you didn't have to lick his balls either
/r/askTRP25/09/17 04:36 PM
3

yeah, she plated you while she hops back on the cock carousel
/r/askTRP25/09/17 11:08 AM
6

your oneitis is severe
/r/askTRP25/09/17 11:07 AM
4

well, your feeling (from your title) is spot on. your unicorn dumped you and you're wondering if you should chase her or not? please, next this bitch and read the side bar. picking up chicks and smashing isn't nearly as difficult as maintaining an LTR, and still remaining red pilled. there's a lot of material on TRP and here about LTRs. i suggest that you have a look so you're more ready next time.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 10:51 AM
1

see my reply above to this above. for a new guy with no talent, he doesn't have enough frame to do so.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 10:31 AM
3

i personally would tease her about anything and everything, but i can calibrate myself well and walk the fine line between funny and edgy and too much. here, in this case, with the clearly inexperienced OP, i think he is better to avoid teasing her personal hobby (personal or own creative hobby being the key here). he should first get comfortable with just disagreeing with a woman--something many people have trouble with since they think it is better to be in a place where "oh we have so much in…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 10:26 AM
3

first mistake: you took out a tinder slut to dinner for your first meet up. you are starting your interaction yelling "i'm mr. beta provider!" from the start. tinder meet up should be a coffee at most. (EDIT: or, what should be obvious, net flix & fuck) he comment about not sleeping with you was a major giveaway that she would have fucked you if you played your cards right. every time i have ever heard this, i have fucked the chick that night. it's her ASD (anti slut defense) spinning her hamste…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 09:23 AM
14

wow! pussified. i hope you can learn from this to stop being a giant, blue pill pussy. she has no respect for you, and frankly, you don't seem like you deserve her respect from your behavior. it is no wonder she doesn't want to fuck you more often, and actually amazing that she still fucks you once a week. as far as the money, settle that shit asap. the whole gas thing is really cringy. i would say the relationship is totally over. if you wanted to try to rekindle it, which i don't think is a go…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 02:33 AM
15

maybe she is collecting a tinder army to come see her show. don't do it. you pretty much set this on yourself by telling her you wanted to see/hear her poetry, when you didn't. if she asked you if you also liked justin beiber, would you have also agreed just to get in her pants? i hope not, because the right answer would have been that bieber sucks balls and you have no respect for her horrible taste in music, and then proceed to tease her about it (every time you see her). edit, addition, to cl…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 02:16 AM
23

bros before hoes man, bros always before hoes.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 02:11 AM
11

so you spent the past 2+ years being this chicks best gay guy friend and now wonder if you should have been her booty call? please forget about this one, read the side bar, and work on yourself...
/r/askTRP25/09/17 12:57 AM
3

well, you got me there
/r/askTRP25/09/17 12:51 AM
2

yep, the valuable points are the only reason i'm here. helping out others, as i was once helped out, has nothing to do with it. with that said, you're new here, and i thought you could also learn a bit of manners and appreciation for future interactions you might have. tell me a better way i could have done this, rather than replying to you 5 times, and then mentioning it. edit: you're probably right though as far as, i should have just kept my mouth shut about it.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 11:42 PM
1

i guess your reading comprehension could use some work, since a question, and asking for advice are not necessarily the same thing. i'm telling you that your post might be much more useful to people in TRP, and that was the main point.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 11:35 PM
2

dude, do you want me to hold your dick and stick it in her too? come on. think a bit on your own. i've given you a ton of advice here, and you want your hand held the whole way. put on your big boy pants. I don’t message her/talk to her, i only do for logistics... yet, you wrote her back when she sent you nudes. so, obviously, you didn't ghost her. of course, if you want to fuck her, and she writes you asking to meet up, then go meet her. otherwise, ghost her. i have a feeling she is just playin…
/r/askTRP24/09/17 11:32 PM
2

you start your post with: Don't want a pity party but my life was kind of shit . then proceed to write about the biggest pity extravaganza i've seen in a long while. listen, i get it, you had a hard life. boo-fucking-hoo. most of us had a hard life. and if you want to dwell on that shit, this is the wrong place. this type of mentality will only bring you lower. accept your life for what it was, and leave it at that. now use that as motivation to better yourself, rather than spewing "my life is s…
/r/askTRP24/09/17 11:18 PM
2

she's playing too many games, and you're following right into her frame. ghost her for at least a week, then try once more for a met up. enough of this bullshit.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 11:12 PM
0

If your post is not a request for advice, it will be removed and you will be banned permanently this seems like it belongs more-so on TRP as a post about shit tests.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 11:09 PM
1

finding an answer to this will somehow help you become more red pill. i didn't think so.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 11:06 PM
0

if you believed in the things you were trying to express, i don't think you would have problems explaining them.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 10:54 PM
2

wait a day, then reply: "ah that's cute, you miss me"
/r/askTRP24/09/17 10:52 PM
2

they say the best chefs are men. i tend to believe it. with that said, women tend to get wet for a man that can cook well. i'm not saying you should cook for each plate you spin--that meal must be earned, and the price is high.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 10:46 PM
2

have you already fucked her? if not, then it is probably a bad idea. if you've fucked already, enjoy the weekend.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 10:44 PM
63

if these guys are your REAL bros, and it seems like they are, all is well. now, i wouldn't recommend turning them into weekly emotional tampons, but from what you explained, they got your back. with that said, maybe you should find someone not so close to you to discuss your problems with if things are that difficult. talking with a neutral, non-biased person may help you out of your rut. we've all been down, sometimes, really deep. it is part of life. becoming a man means figuring your shit out…
/r/askTRP24/09/17 10:42 PM
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this sounds like a big manipulation play on her part. i would slow down contact, a lot. if she pushes you about why, turn it around, and tell her you are not ready for an ltr relationship--it's much too soon. i would consider cutting her off forever since this sounds like drama waiting to happen, but the rest is up to you, since i have a feeling she will pretend to accept your terms (temporarily) if that is her only option... until the next round of red flag drama flares up.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 10:36 PM
3

i think your feeling on this is correct. personally, if i got this, i would just ghost her for a bit, until she got in touch again. turn this around--if you wanted to get together with some hot chick, and she, for some reason, asks you out, would you let her choice of venue stand in your way? ...and, furthermore, she didn't give you an alternative.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 10:30 PM
1

rule number one: don't shit where you work. you should anyway expand your options much further than one chick you've known a while that might like you. get out there and approach...
/r/askTRP24/09/17 10:26 PM
2

you're analyzing this way too much. if you want to fuck them, pursue them.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 10:24 PM
7

is this a joke? do you seriously walk up and ask, are you single? please tell me you're joking... you might get better results just asking, "wanna fuck?" Usually, I just walk up to her and ask "are you single" if she says no, I walk away.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 10:18 PM
2

ghost her, completely! block her on your phone and on all social media, and don't reply at all. she dumped you. there is nothing more to do aside from working on yourself and spinning new plates. and, this belongs in askTRP... you also obviously need to read the sidebar. it doesn't matter how much you have done for a woman. bringing it up only makes you look like a butthurt loser. she's gone, your turn is finished. she finally got everything she wanted out of her career and moved to a new city. …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 08:18 PM
3

you can do a lot to improve your game. but, even at your best, you're still going to get blown out sometimes. the higher your smv, the better your game, the stronger your frame, and the bigger your social circle will all help to increase your odds. it's a game, have fun with it.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 08:16 PM
2

stay away from single moms would be my first bit of advice.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 07:13 PM
1

wow, that's about 6 weeks too long. go no contact for a couple of weeks. then give her one more chance, if that.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 07:11 PM
2

it's not your job to babysit your parents. stay away. don't give advice. get out of the house as soon as you can--you should do that anyway.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 07:08 PM
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Texts used to be for logistics, nowadays chicks turn it into "my day was so and so" whose frame are you in? in my frame, text is for logistics. you don't have to answer her "my day was" text. "gotta run, will talk to you on thursday when i see you."
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 07:04 PM
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tl;dr. but skimming through, i'd say your option about plates sounds best. get some plates spinning and enjoy. that will give you low stress, easy sex whenever you want, while you figure things out. with that said, up your game and go for the more challenging women, not the 5s and 6+s of tinder and co.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 07:00 PM
2

if that last text is from today, then you can write her back already now and say that you're busy tomorrow, but you'll be in touch next week. then, try again, one more time next week. good luck
/r/askTRP23/09/17 06:58 PM
2

yes, you could well be a third or forth option... i think you should have just said, "i'm busy tomorrow. i'll be in touch soon." not this maybe bullshit, since that isn't helping this. then, wait a week, and try again. if it continues like this though, forget her.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 06:43 PM
0

sounds like shes not interested. maybe she was, but something turned her off. maybe your instagram lost it for you? either way, maximum one more chance. you may even write that to her. "last chance. meet me for a drink tonight at..." she might respond with, "what do you mean, last chance?" if so, tell her she's lucky you're even asking twice. cocky... own it. you have nothing to lose at this point.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 06:38 PM
1

ex plate, no reply needed.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 06:33 PM
2

social circle is much better in night club situations. your horrible lines aren't doing you any favors. if you don't have any social circle, then, start building some. in the mean time, try instead to use observations--statements about the venue, surroundings, and even better statements about the woman/women. you look like your from hoboken (if you're in manhattan). this will better elicit a response. again, in a loud club, this isn't easy, but without a social circle, it will do better than tha…
/r/askTRP23/09/17 06:27 PM
3

sounds like she isn't totally invested in you yet, she may just be testing if you are worth her time to go further (fuck). i would ghost her for a bit and then try again, one more time in a week or two. if you don't fuck her by then, forget her.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 06:17 PM
5

yes, exactly--my first thought was, why is this guy texting all this bullshit back and forth? QuiteFrenchlyToasted, what has texting accomplished here? you already said you fucked her. so, what does this texting marathon gain you?
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 06:11 PM
2

why call yourself Rollo(_mayhem3)? rollo, you ain't.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 12:40 PM
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text for logistics. hit her up with a text in a day or so. "i'm about to do x. join me and bring some beer(or whatever)." if she isn't all in, or if she doesn't at least offer an alternative day/time, forget about her.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 11:49 AM
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wow, talk about a defeatist mentality. keep telling yourself that and it's clear you'll never improve.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 11:42 AM
5

shit like this makes me nauseous You might be tempted to say cut all ties, but she's a good girl with bad depression though and there's no way I'd do that. Apparently I helped her through a lot last year. We actually see the world pretty similarly and I like her as a person.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 08:08 AM
1

she realizes you're not in her orbit anymore and she is searching for validation. don't give it to her. she is anyway far away. don't waste your time on that shit. move on and find new plates. if you had other plates, you wouldn't even remember some long distance 5+ that blew you off back then... there's a lot of male hamstering going on in your op. stop to trying to rationalize bullshit. and don't try to logic a chick. especially one that blew you off (and not in a good way).
/r/askTRP07/09/17 08:03 AM
2

observe things they do and make fun of them. "seriously, you did not just..." "wow, i can't take you anywhere" lots of women, especially the more hot ones do a lot of stupid shit. just observe and then bust on them. this is important: when she plays like she's upset or said, never say, "i'm only joking" or "oh, sorry". own that shit. practice your half smile smirk.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 07:59 AM
2

she was probably only looking to fill her free time before meeting her friends. you were a time filler. not much you could have done except possibly going with her and her friends. "you're taking me with you..." if you were more fun, she may have suggested joining them. otherwise, i never give my number without getting hers. this has turned around some russians. they played the "i never give out my number game" really hard, but i never give in and give mine. they like to see you're strong and do…
/r/askTRP07/09/17 07:54 AM
1

yes, they sometimes do... however, customers at your place of employment have been known to do so even more often when you're caught shitting where you eat.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 08:05 AM
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she is a plate, so why are you even bothering to tell her things like this: I told her if she goes there don't expect to hear from me until she gets back, I'll be busy. and then, after telling her you won't respond, you do, with yes and no answers, going back on what you said. sounds like you two are a lot more than just a FWB/plate
/r/askTRP06/09/17 07:58 AM
1

i prescribe to the "text is for logistics" ideology, prevalent around here
/r/askTRP06/09/17 07:54 AM
2

"we really shouldn't be..." "you're right, we're terrible"
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 10:06 PM
14

so you didn't fuck the 7 i guess
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 10:05 PM
3

you should not be asking about what everyone else asks. job is number one that list. be different. for one, learn to make observations and statements about these observations. for example, instead of asking where they are from, say, "you don't look like you're from around here". wait for the response, and have fun with it. if she isn't from around here, she will say, yeah, i'm from bumblefuck, how did you know. proceed to make fun of her. you see how much better this is than the typical, boring …
/r/askTRP05/09/17 09:51 PM
1

no, just no! why do you feel the need to do a background check on her? are there red flags that are bothering you? if so, forget her. if you're just being paranoid for no reason, then you have bigger problems...
/r/askTRP05/09/17 09:44 PM
2

being the smarter one can often entail knowing when not to put yourself in harms way. what could you have gained by handling this any differently? nothing
/r/askTRP05/09/17 09:41 PM
1

i would pity this guy too much to be his friend. that is all
/r/askTRP05/09/17 09:36 PM
5

if she finds out this was you, you are going to be making problems for yourself... just sayin' the only ting she did wrong so far was not tell you an ex contacted her. i only tell my ltr this (that an ex contacted me) when i want to spin a little dread, or if she happens to write when my ltr is sitting next to me.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 09:34 PM
1

your mom is on a much, much higher level than your ldr, who doesn't even exist in the same reality. they both will throw guilt your way. humor your mom, and disregard the ldr. yes, you really need to end that, last week.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 09:25 PM
1

you can always hamster reasons not to get out of an ltr. always. as jerry seinfeld once said, "like a band-aid, right off!" all the rest of your rationalizing is bullshit, and in the end, you'll be happier when you finally make the cut. with that said, be a man about it and just tell her that things aren't working for you and you have decided to move out. that's it. no explanations, no bs, just end it respectfully.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 08:07 AM
4

sounds like you may have told her, inadvertently or not, that you have bad feelings about not having more money (inc. a nicer place...). you should avoid it if you have been mentioning this, and stop sending these signals. you don't want women thinking you feel inferior. and, ideally, you shouldn't feel this way, but that might take a lot more work. regardless, sounds like she is still ok, for the moment, with the way things are. you're reply is ok. i would consider just "ahhh, you miss me" inst…
/r/askTRP05/09/17 07:56 AM
2

transition out of college heaven is difficult. first, and most important is to get your own place. living at your parent's place again is probably where most of your problems are coming from.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 03:43 AM
1

sounds like you need to read the side bar. text for logistics, only is one point... seems like you realized your next mistake--if she declines and doesn't offer an alternate date, forget it... ghost. you're a busy man, with a lot going on, and you're not waiting around for some chick that has shown you nothing. you will need to fake some abundance mentality until you can actually get there. good luck
/r/askTRP05/09/17 03:39 AM
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if hot chicks you're fucking are calling you selfish, continue, you're doing it right. otherwise, depends on who's saying this. if it's chicks you're not fucking, that tell you, who cares.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 03:32 AM
7

from your comments and replies to comments, it's clear you don't belong here on TRP. if you're legit, and not trolling, you're not ready to be here. you friend-zoned yourself and your male hamstering in the comments is making me vomit in my mouth. she doesn't see you as anything sexual, and she never will. if you had a chance, you blew it. move on. unfortunately, it seems that you're not going to listen to any of the good advice you've received here. so, why not go degrade yourself even more, an…
/r/askTRP05/09/17 03:20 AM
0

this sounds a lot like another post i just replied to...
/r/askTRP02/09/17 05:42 PM
1

why did you go down on a chick before ever fucking her. wrong. very beta. that should be a prize she earns. next, and learn from this. i didn't read anything past that point.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 05:31 PM
2

why not just keep her around as a plate. no effort. it's like a dusty bottle of whisky--always good to have a few on hand for when you want a drink, and your glass is empty.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 05:29 PM
3

i can see about not kissing in public, but if you're going to fuck this chick and never kiss her, it's a bit strange. a kiss goodbye, after a late night fuck can go a long way to help ward off potential regret and legal issues that could ensue... but, whatever floats your boat man.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 05:24 PM
3

NEXT. in this case, it's over. however, in general, you can't/shouldn't stop her from an occasional GNO, you can only tell her to have a great time. rollo has written extensively on the subject. if she wants to do this every week, then she's not worth it to begin with. my chick welcomes me along to all GNOs (come by later for a drink and take me home), which don't happen very often to begin with.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 05:12 PM
1

"my ex is texting me" -- "tell him i said whatup" smirk, ignore. flirt with other chicks. i wouldn't respond now, after the fact, if she said she needed space. ghost for a while. probably forget about her permanently.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 05:04 PM
2

shit test failed, badly. if you were to have blown it off as no big deal and met with him, you could have shown your chick that you are not worried about chad because you're the best... i wouldn't have jumped to met the guy, but i would have said, "sure, why not" met the dude, shown you're not a pussy, then hit on the hot chicks in the place in front of them both.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 04:56 PM
1

you could go two ways with this. the way i would recommend is to just text the one you want and go from there. fortune favors the bold. if you want to go the safe route, text them both. but, i think this way has more potential to cause problems... do you really want to settle for the one you find less hot?
/r/askTRP02/09/17 04:50 PM
6

the white knights are even invading here. don't you have a girl to orbit?
/r/askTRP05/07/17 03:52 PM
1

you're listening to women? really? look what women do, not what they say! so, in this case, if you are really clueless, look at the style of the boyfriends/fuckbuddies of the hottest women you know. adjust to fit your own style.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 02:10 PM
1

only if you're going to be fucking her in the next hour, and it is needed to do so.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 02:06 PM
1

why are you talking to your ex?
/r/askTRP05/07/17 02:05 PM
1

moderation. enjoy and use it to get to where you want to go. you do have goals and a plan, right? drink a glass of water between each drink, and slow down with the drinks...
/r/askTRP05/07/17 02:02 PM
3

i used to wear a black pearl necklace. really. and i didn't give a single fuck what others thought. i got shit from some guys, very occasionally, but the chicks, especially the hot chicks, LOVED it. and, they opened me often because of it. in other words, who the fuck cares what anyone else thinks. do what you want and OWN IT. and stop listening to what chicks say, especially reddit femnazi chicks.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 01:51 PM
1

sounds like you are spending too much time with her. this is making her think she is your girlfriend. ease up to once or twice a week meet ups. don't feel guilty. i am always honest about this shit (other plates) which makes them work harder.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 08:26 AM
2

DO NOT GET MARRIED! you will anyway, and you will be sorry, then you can come back here and tell us all about how you got fucked.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 08:22 AM
2

did you really use the word "reproduced"? agree and amplify, but try not to make it so weird. i would have started to call her "granny" and make fun of her for being slow, etc...
/r/askTRP14/04/17 08:21 AM
8

"I actually have a boyfriend..." but her body language is still positive. you're answer to this should have been more like. "that's ok, i'm not jealous" or "i won't tell anyone"... glad to see you're working at it though. good luck
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 08:09 AM
-1

how to be a BB. so, let me get this straight: you took a chick to dinner and a movie, didn't get laid till the third date, and you're telling us this as if it's some kind of good advice?
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 08:01 AM
1

yes, you did something very wrong--you posted without reading the sidebar ---------------------------------------------->
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:34 PM
1

no. only for sex. if you live in different cities, she isn't really a decent plate.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 05:50 PM
2

never say it. if you have to because you still love the blue pill, never, ever say it first and try not to say it second, for as long as possible. chicks love this challenge.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 05:47 PM
1

i wouldn't put up with that shit. i might used amused mastery and say something like, "then it seems like a great night to go out with the boys" or something that makes it clear that you don't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 05:43 PM
1

facepalm <-me after reading this post.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 05:33 PM
2

we used to call it "hanging out". spin more plates to build more abundance. this will show if you do it right, and you will be more sought after.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 05:29 PM
1

when spinning plates, some fall along the way. especially after a while when they realize you aren't going to allow them to be anything more than a plate. this is part of the game. find a few new ones to take her place.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 05:27 PM
1

sounds like you may have waited a bit too long already. next time, try to make your intention more obvious (with kino & flirting) from the first interaction. if you want to salvage this, next time you see her, just say, "hey, you look like you might be fun to hang with. tomorrow night, drinks..." or similar. see how she reacts. again, i don't have enough info. but it is probably too little, too late. either way, game lots of other chicks and forget about her... it may work out when you start get…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 05:24 PM
1

i've always found this to be a shit test. i have gotten it at times, and ended up, at least, kissing the chick very soon after.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 05:16 PM
2

you should have seen the look on their face... priceless
/r/askTRP09/02/17 12:34 AM
3

yep. ...i used to play around and tell them to bring random things like an apple, a wooden spoon, and warm socks... when they mentioned that they brought the things i would say, "cool, thanks", and start eating the apple... when they asked about the other stuff, i would make something up. (that's for a surprise later on... or some shit). however, i don't tinder, and i had already met these women once before in person when i got their number. without having already met them, his might weird them …
/r/askTRP09/02/17 12:06 AM
3

so, you can decide between: breaking it off asap, and moving on with your life, and finding lots of other great women or, you can have her leave pretending to be faithful while you worry constantly about who she is fucking while you're at home too worried to be having any fun at all. seems like an easy choice.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 11:46 PM
2

"LOL. you obviously have me confused with someone else" or "i'm not going to ask you twice" silence and wait for it.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 11:35 PM
2

you were doing well. but never do dinner. and never a movie. and definitely not dinner and a movie. drinks. bounce from one place to another after each round, and to yours after the third place. lead don't ask. after the third round, i usually say something like: "come on, i know a great quiet place with good drinks right around the corner..."
/r/askTRP08/02/17 11:31 PM
8

good points, but also just as important is to "assume the sale" -- assume the answer will be yes when you ask, and you will see your results improve, a lot.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 07:17 PM
1

start looking for positive things that you can be grateful for. for example, you just moved to your dream city. be grateful that you got this opportunity. focus on those things, not the negative. the rest should follow if you stick with it.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 06:59 PM
3

"ah that's sweet, you miss me"
/r/askTRP08/02/17 06:56 PM
3

control issues, sounds crazy. don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 07:25 AM
2

could be a shit test, but i get the feeling, she might just be a nut--more so than "normal" women. could be a red flag. proceed with caution and don't give in to this. you're the man, and you're in control. she's welcome to join you, on your terms.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 07:11 AM
2

yes, if you want to fail the presentation
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:48 AM
4

ignore the boyfriend. hold her to paying for the meal. you can take her for a drink afterwards as a nice gesture/a thank you for the meal. she might try to get you to pay to test you. don't fall for it. when ever she brings up the boyfriend, act like you don't give a shit. or tell her that he is probably a much better boyfriend then you would ever be--you're just not boyfriend material..." push pull, kino. give her plausible deniability and see what happens. if she doesn't fuck you in a couple o…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:44 AM
0

no, play the game by your own rules. she wants to join you, and she is worthy, ok. otherwise, there is the door.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:37 AM
3

be the best you can be. know your mission and stick to it. do not let her sway you from this mission. she is welcome to join you, on your terms. if she doesn't like it, she is free to leave (or you might tell her to leave). pass her shit tests. give her comfort when she deserves it. always have other options, and the more she sees that you have other options, the better. follow the above, and you will avoid hypergamy as much as possible. sometimes it doesn't work, and it was just your turn. yeah…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:36 AM
1

I ask her if it's fine if I txt/snapchat her sometimes no, you didn't really ask her this? she blew you off, and you are trying to orbit her. please stop. forget her, find new chicks. the end.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:26 AM
1

so, just to clarify, you asked a chick you never met to marry you because she showed you her tits on facetime? yeah, good luck with that.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:14 AM
1

don't use logic on a woman. it is like a foreign language. i would just ignore her and soft next. no contact... and, yes, make other plans. and stick to them. without her. she will learn, or she will not have you.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:09 AM
1

why do you care? pick your battles. will it get you to where you want to be and is it worth it, ok. if not, who gives a fuck I'm talking about fucking hb9s REGULARLY if this is true, then i repeat, why do you care? Always win with everyone everywhere except it might cost something big. actually, this might be the only time where you really should fight to win.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:04 AM
2

typical woman shit. whenever she complains about my behavior, this is my go to. i say it with in differnce, and i mean it.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 11:59 PM
1

you asked her if you clicked? if you were near me, i would hit you on your head with your own dirty shoe. pathetic. why would you ask that? wtf? from there, it just got even more cringe worthy. if she was into to you, you're creepy texts scared her away. you need to study the side bar. i don't believe you actually have read it already. so, she keeps sending you texts, and you keep failing miserably. tell her to meet up with you again, and go from there. and stop caring about what she thinks. she…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 11:53 PM
2

i tell my ltr (at least once a week), "if you don't like it, break up with me" funny, she never does. in your case, it sounds like you should break up with her though, it if the problems outweigh the benefits.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 11:44 PM
1

a & a is always good. for this, i would respond with: "ah, that's cute, you miss me."
/r/askTRP07/02/17 11:43 PM
1

she is looking for comfort possibly, but she is a plate. she wants more. "ok, too bad. it's been fun" leave would have been my style... then i would have waited at least a day, and then finally reply that you could be bribed to visit if she cooks you a great meal. then, don't mention any of the bullshit when you see her, and just pick up where you left off. of course she will test you again, but, again, most likely it will be a comfort test because she wants more.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 11:31 PM
1

the hotter the girl, the more you have to "neg" her. the hotter she is, the more you have to show her that you are not fazed by her hotness. in this you will find your balance.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 11:24 PM
1

printout your post and tape it to your bathroom mirror, and read it every morning, and every evening. hopefully, after a few days, you will want to puke, and this will help you realize that you have to stop this shit. if not, follow the (sarcastic and funny) advice from /r/lietruth, by expressing your unending love for her, and learn.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 11:18 PM
1

lentils, beans, etc.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 10:25 PM
1

most of the time, agree annd amplify can help you pass most of these shit tests above. most importantly is not to react. IDGAF is often best. 'you just want me for my body/sex' yes, of course! when she gives you shit for this. smile, slap her on the ass, and pull her close. kiss her, then tell her, "the presents she buys you me also cool" or something similar. (the meals she cooks, the cleaning she does for you...) 'this guy was flirting with me/being creepy towards me blah blah blah' "ah, that'…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 10:20 PM
1

many of us had/have a hard life. i realize that may not help you to know, but... you cannot dwell on it. you can either use it as the fuel to better yourself in the future (positive) and excel despite your struggles, or, you can play the blame game forever, always thinking you are owed something because you had it tough. the positive way will get you far in life. i know, i was there. the negative blame game will only bring you deeper! someone in my family who still has giant problems is a prime …
/r/askTRP07/02/17 10:07 PM
4

saw below that she texted you. great. now, don't be a pussy and give in if she tells how much finding that upset her. just play it easy. if she is a plate, i assume she knows you see other chicks. this is good. i give stuff back to the wrong chick all the time. i hate them leaving shit here. makes for comedic gold: "yeah, you left this (bra, g-string, etc.) here" "ah, that's not mine!" oh, ok, change subject. she might hit you up for exclusivity. avoid that. and, depending on what she says, you …
/r/askTRP07/02/17 09:50 PM
2

this and the OP are actually for ASK trp... however, if you had an abundance of great women in your life, you wouldn't care about this one. this abundance attitude and her seeing other women wanting you would probably give you much better results all around.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 01:23 PM
1

forget about this one--DGAF and go meet 5 other women. abundance mentality. if she ends up coming back, decide if you want to give her one more chance.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 01:18 PM
1

licking "organs", marriage to the first chick that blows you, deciding you're ready to give out advice here... maybe you should change your thread title to: "top ten reasons women find me creepy". oh, and, read the side bar a few times.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 01:06 PM
1

i guess then you should avoid trying to meet younger women on social media. i never had that problem, but i am meeting and getting to know them IRL, and only after things are already going well, would i ever even consider accepting them in on social media.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 11:36 PM
1

it depends on how old you are. i'm early 40s and my ltr is 14 years younger. i can pull from 24 and up, but i don't really try younger than that for many of the reasons you already mentioned. with that said, there is a bit of room between 24 and the wall and older women. i'm not really attracted to most older women anywhere from 35 and up.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 11:04 PM
1

it isn't only psychopathy, it is the "dark triad" personality traits: narcissism, machiavellianism, and psychopathy. and, it doesn't necessarily mean that people with high amounts of these traits are necessarily alpha (even though they still can be alpha). dark triads do however tend to be of higher social status and better with women in general. much more about this here: http://illimitablemen.com/2013/11/17/understanding-the-dark-triad/
/r/askTRP09/10/16 10:16 PM
3

I just want to make it work and not risk dumping this girl. the pedestalization and oneitis is strong in this one. read what you wrote again, then try to and grow a pair. spin some dread, get working on your own life and mission. she can join you, or she can fuck off.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 08:31 PM
1

you turn into a little girlie after some mythical virgin unicorn sweats you a bit--wow, talk about no frame. maybe she met some new guy. maybe she is trying to make you jealous. maybe she is just busy, like you should be instead of worrying about shit like this. forget about the whole thing. hit up one of your plates, or work on finding another unicorn, and forget about it. i know, considering the anxiety in your OP, that won't be easy, but it's necessary. when she does come around, don't give h…
/r/askTRP09/10/16 08:24 PM
3

it is amazing how few fucks you give if one plate gets cold when you have a few hot chicks waiting to fuck at any given moment. then you end up having different problems, like if you really have to change your sheets again before the next one shows up ;) good luck
/r/askTRP09/10/16 06:36 PM
1

alpha is much more a state of mind than body type. work on building your confidence and value/status. the rest should follow. side bar is also helpful.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 06:32 PM
1

the quicker you sleep with a woman, the better. why didn't you think it was on? did you even try? maybe she thought you were a pussy becuase you didn't even try to fuck her. i would go out and meet other chicks, and maybe hit her up with a text in a few weeks, after you have more abundance. text should be simple, like: "join me for a drink at bar x at at 9 pm". if she doesn't agree or at least offer an alternate, forget her.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 06:30 PM
3

sounds like you only had two plates, and now only one. the one realized you are acting more depandant on her, and she finds it very unsexy. more plates, abundance. give the remaining plate a bit of coldness for a bit. she'll come around, or be replaced.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 06:24 PM
2

tax breaks :):):):) yeah, add those breaks up on to how much you lose after you get divorce raped. sounds like a great value. she is grabbing at straws. don't say you weren't warned.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 06:21 PM
1

groping is totally different than teasing and escaltion. kino, tease, push pull, high value frame...
/r/askTRP09/10/16 05:22 PM
0

it is our duty as men to preserve and embrace masculinity to the fullest. we must conquer the liberal SJW, politically correct bullshit aggressively in their attempts to neuter us. The Real is the true nature of things, it is unpleasant and disruptive to the status quo
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 08:46 AM
6

she's probably looking for attention, or validation. if the "join me" invite doesn't work, or at least have her offer an alternative meet up, forget her. in the mean time, get out there and have a great time meeting other chicks.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 08:33 AM
1

dude, go have a guy friend slap you in the face 10 times for being such pussy. next. no contact. no closure. to hell with that bitch. have some self respect!
/r/askTRP09/10/16 08:28 AM
3

go out and meet women. i've never used any type of online dating--it just seems like such a waste of time--doing all that work to meet someone, just to find out they are much fatter than their online photo? i much rather see a woman in person, and talk to her first for a couple minutes and then decide... much more efficient.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 08:22 AM
4

if i girl is into you, she will often come close or stay in your proximity. your reply was a bit wordy. i would have just turned around, squinted, and told her "hey, watch it punk." with a slight smile/smirk. then, turn away, and see how she reacts. tease and escalate from there.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 08:12 AM
3

when she told you she was working but didn't offer another day/option, it sounds like she's not really into you. wait a couple of days and try one more time with something like: "hey, i'm headed to 'bar/coffeshop whatever', join me"
/r/askTRP09/10/16 08:05 AM
3

Texted, no answer yet. Called, no answer. she's not into you. the end. please, for your own good and to keep some self respect, don't call or text her anymore.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 07:59 AM
1

I dumped her this June dude, what the fuck? you dumped her in june. the end.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 07:52 AM
3

you need to keep the sexual tension going until you can isolate--in a place where you can fuck. otherwise, you only validate them and eliminate all the tension, so they lose interest.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 07:47 AM
1

so you posted a pic of some homely, ugly looking white chick just so we validate you by saying you, btterblckwmn, looks better? good luck with that.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 07:41 AM
1

if, then probably around the 3 week mark, but only if you go complete no contact. look for an excuse that she uses as the reason she contacts you. things like: she had a dream something bad happened to you, or she found your old pair of gym socks that she thought you might really need, etc. from there, play it very cool, and don't fuck up and lose frame again. still, in the mean time, you should be finding lots of new plates, and hopefully not want her back.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 07:22 AM
1

yes, but she still has to know you exist, and you still have to have some game, status, and mysteriousness to you
/r/askTRP08/10/16 11:35 PM
1

i don't think "the perfect guy" has anything to do with it. personally, i would never validate any instafacebookslut. don't be like all the bluepill losers that like and comment on their narcissistic bullshit. just totally ignore it. and, if she is a total histronic/bpd chick that constantly needs to post half naked bikini pics, you might want to consider why you would want anything to do with her, other than a quick fuck...
/r/askTRP08/10/16 11:23 PM
0

it all depends on how you tell her. personally, i love to grab a woman by their hair (high on the neck, near the roots) and tell them that i like their hair. deep eye contact, and slight smirk/smile. i wouldn't recommend this though... especially, while she's at work.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 11:16 PM
1

so far so good (from the update text reply, etc). now, go complete radio silence. i have a feeling, she will come back in the next few weeks. then decide what you want.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 10:55 PM
1

way too much emotion. you should have just laughed at her, and walked away. she was probably testing you from the start. you're not her ltr, and have no reason to ask her who the other guy was. from there, it only got worse by showing her how butt hurt you were. either way, who cares about a chick that acts like this. next.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 09:06 PM
3

an LTR is fine, if that is what you want, but don't think for a second that you can then take it easy, stop gaming her, and get soft after you're in one--abundance mindset included. everything you did to get her needs to continue to keep your LTR functioning well.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 08:53 PM
2

don't make out with chicks in clubs. use kino, escalate, tease, change locations, continue teasing and escalating, then, and only when you are someplace where you can fuck her, make out with her. otherwise, you are only validating her.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 08:49 PM
1

and after bragging about some things that are genuinely interesting (I talk to a lot of celebrities) telling you to "shut up" is not usually a shit test. it is total disrespect, but it depends on context. for me, it seems that there is more to your interaction than it seems. you say she was into you most, but she fucked someone else--if she was, you blew it somewhere, and my guess would be with the bragging about celebrities you talk to. even if you didn't mean it that way, bragging, is one way …
/r/askTRP08/10/16 08:28 PM
1

sounds like you're doing alright. another cool way of handling some shit test is to flip the script. for example: what kind of girl do you think i am? i don't know, what kind of girl are you? if she tells you she's a good girl, you can smirk and make fun of her. or what ever she says, tell her that that kind of girl is totally not your type, and that this definitely won't work out... always tease and have fun with it.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 08:43 PM
2

she didn't tell you about the 8 guys that fucked her up the ass, cause that doesn't count, so she's still a virgin. chick logic
/r/askTRP05/10/16 08:25 PM
1

try it yourself. it isn't just a theory. it seems, you already proved the opposite false (you didn't take her home). if you want to get a girl away from her friends, you have to get them on your side too (game them all somewhat), and after they approve, tell them you are taking their friend to "whatever place"...
/r/askTRP04/10/16 10:22 PM
1

by kissing a woman in a club, you have validated her. the game is over and you are no longer a prize to be won. if you escalate, and kino well without kissing her, you leave her hot and wanting you more. don't kiss until you are in a place to go all the way.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 09:56 AM
7

moms and grandmas give the best dating advice! really. you're destined for alpha greatness. (this is sarcasm) don't give her any ring. tell grandma you'll hold on to it and give it when the time is right (never).
/r/askTRP03/10/16 09:50 AM
2

who gives a fuck what she thinks? you didn't want to sleep with her. the end.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 09:46 AM
1

learn not to give a fuck. easier said than done, but there is your answer.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 09:45 AM
1

he thought she would be easy. it isn't that he really wanted her. friends don't let friends fuck fat chicks. she seemed easy, willing, and fun
/r/askTRP02/10/16 01:08 PM
1

you could have replied in a number of ways to the non fatties. agree and amplify is easiest, or flip the script on her, for bonus points. so this chick you left with was fat, and getting lot's of attention, being the queen bee as you state--you fed into her need for validation. don't ever do this, especially to fat chicks.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 11:15 AM
1

i have found this to be a shit test every time.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 10:54 AM
1

if that's the way you feel, it sounds like you are doing something totally wrong.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 10:39 AM
2

you were doing so well, flirting with the other chicks when she started with her very typical girl bullshit (shit test)... but then you really lost it. learn from this, and never do it again. never show that she got to you. never profess liking or love like you did. show her you don't put up with that shit by ignoring her, and gaming other chicks (like you originally did). only reward her with your time and attention, when she deserves it. don't bother telling her anything. i would continue to g…
/r/askTRP02/10/16 10:34 AM
4

she's playing the game back. if you had abundance, you wouldn't care about this shit--you wouldn't have time to care. you are way too into this chick and basically answered your own problem: She is valuable to me as kind of a friend and career wise you already put her on a high pedestal, and she is already playing you. first, don't shit where you eat. second, you need to read up on the side bar, and then go out and meet 10 more chicks. then, when you have hopefully forgotten about her, she may c…
/r/askTRP02/10/16 10:26 AM
1

why are you paying for them at all? do you want to be seen as a beta bucks money belt? then sure, take them out to a really expensive dinner, and then go home alone, jerkoff, and cry into your pillow about how you only got a peck on the cheek. why not, instead, tell her to meet you at the place of your choice. buy the first round, if you really feel you have to, and tell her that the next one is on her. take your next drink (that she buys) at a different place. lead her, have fun on the walk the…
/r/askTRP02/10/16 10:19 AM
3

why did you even want to fuck a 'fatty boom boom' in the first place? sounds to me like you have a lot of side bar homework to do. the other chicks, assuming they were hotter, and not fat, probably stopped talking to you because they saw you kissing the fatty, and this negated any value they may have thought you had. the "girl in every city" comment sounds like a shit test that you massively failed.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 10:05 AM
1

it is only for me. i know her number.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 07:36 PM
2

from personal experience, these stats just can't be true. i was married ten years, without cheating, and am in my early 40's,and i smashed that statistic number long, long ago. (divorced for 10 years)
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 12:16 AM
2

me neither... i mostly don't tell. my current LTR knows i have fucked a lot of women, and we operate under the don't ask, don't tell principle... with that said, she knows i would never tolerate her having even more than a few past partners.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 12:12 AM
1

yes, true, but this is like the rubbing your face in shit 3 times version of what many of us went through...
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 12:09 AM
7

girl's whorecation, i think you mean
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 12:07 AM
6

There isn't anything you can do other than being a red pill man: have lots of options/abundance, spin some dread, have alpha traits. if she is going to cheat, she will cheat. why aren't you going along? did she not invlite you? if not, that isn't really a good sign.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 03:55 PM
31

yes, and that he was jealous and insecure and just couldn't handle a modern woman like me, which is why i had to break up with him...
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 02:00 PM
132

yes, and it's likely she told her boyfriend that she has only slept with two other guys before him...
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 01:56 PM
1

if you are internally red pill, you will pass shit tests naturally. internalize your shit. in the mean time, try to fake it as much as you can. always visualizing that you are the prize (with an IDGAF attitude) and acting accordingly may help in the short to mid term.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 07:20 PM
3

why do you give a shit? move forward, and forget about her. Closure is for pussies.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 07:12 PM
1

all or nothing--really high or zero? why not a relatively low number? finding a virgin as you get older is nearly impossible. and after a certain age (3o year old virgin, yeah right) may even be a red flag. but a woman with only a very low number (3 or less) is prefect, i think.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 07:09 PM
0

a billion china girls around you and you want to pick up the only two white "working" girls? when in rome, i hope you're not eating at burger king... seriously, to the chinese women, you are likely "exotic", and this adds some points for you. sounds like these white chicks are not much better than an escort (and probably making cash after hours), or at the least, working in a job like that, they are close enough. if you are dead set at only getting them, you have to treat them totally different …
/r/askTRP14/07/16 12:38 PM
3

why the fuck would you make such a stupid bet? either way, i hope she is hot, and if so, tell her she will be cooking you a great meal after you make good on your bet.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 09:49 PM
1

don't bother wasting a second of thought on someone you deem unworthy. build an abundance mentality by meeting lots of women, and then you won't care what this chick says or thinks or does. IDGAF should be your new slogan. abundance will get you there.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 09:46 PM
3

you shat were you work, and that shit is going to hit the fan and fly back in your face if you're not super careful... hate to say this, but you are a bit fucked here. if you are serious about this chick and want to make it work, remain red pill by all means. maybe read up on some marriedRP stuff to keep in shape with it all. the problem as see it is that if you tire of her, you are going to have a lot bigger burden than normal getting rid of her--people and bosses at work will look at you as th…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 09:05 PM
4

ordinarily, i wouldn't care if a chick says she has a boyfriend--it is all about the way she acts (not what she says). in this case though from my impression, it depends a bit on how you got her number--the conversation around getting it. i get the feeling, the phone number came with a "lets be friends because i have a boyfriend" feel to it. if it did, then, she's maybe she is just trying to pull you in her orbit. also, since that seems to be your feeling as well, trust your gut. otherwise, i wo…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 03:56 PM
2

going after your friend's chick, even after he moves away, is low. fuck that. have her hook you up with her friends and don't let her get away with all that other bullshit--trying to make your friend jealous.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 03:46 PM
2

no reply until you get back in town. then, logistics only.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 03:43 PM
1

"former plate" your answer is in your own post title.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 03:15 PM
1

whenever you feel his happening, walk away and start flirting with other chicks. don't act at all butt hurt, just walk away... if she is at all interested in you, she will soon find you.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 03:10 PM
1

"i don't really see what either of us have to gain by meeting again with someone else, but if needed, i'll consider it. however, my offer price remains firm." then radio silence if you don't need the job, hold out for your terms. if you inflated your original asking price a bit, consider shaving off a bit as the only concession, but use it as a reason to renegotiate in 6 months based on performance.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 10:38 AM
2

this. but just in case, for clarity: "i know" (the quote credit/citation "han solo" should definitely be left out of your response) ;)
/r/askTRP11/06/16 10:23 AM
4

probably could handle a few ways, depending your read of her: "totally, that's why i keep you around! (smirk/half smile/hold frame when she pretends to be upset)" (agree and amplify) "why in the world would you ask me that?" (pressure flip)
/r/askTRP11/06/16 10:16 AM
2

take her out and use her to meet other chicks. pick them up in front of her. enjoy the options.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 10:10 AM
1

i would stop worrying about it and just have fun. by thinking too much you are missing out. don't get me wrong, body language know-how is interesting, but work on the rest first, and this will improve over time. if you are still bent on learning, there are plenty of great books "what every body is saying" was a good one from a former fbi interrogator.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 10:08 AM
1

why do you even give a shit? she cheated on you. the end.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 10:04 AM
1

would be hard to turn this around. the cuter one wasn't into you or else she would have given you her number. nothing to lose, so, tell her, "yes, bring them along"
/r/askTRP11/06/16 10:03 AM
7

I think we all know she could do a lot better than me when she was younger. that's your problem right there. confidence. you are the prize. with self limiting beliefs like that, you're screwed, and not in a good way. edit add: it seems like you don't respect yourself much, so how do you expect her to?
/r/askTRP16/04/16 02:37 PM
1

nah, she can come come pick it up, and fuck him while she's there, and he didn't have to do anything. you want your shit, come and get it. i'm not your driver/helper/assistant...
/r/askTRP16/04/16 02:22 PM
1

Basically its the idea that every man, no matter how beta he is, will rise up and be the Alpha male, for a time... maybe every man can be alpha, but not nearly every man actually accomplishes this. it is great that you have improved yourself, but confidence should be based on internal factors, not external ones like fucking some old chick in a toilet. the internal factors are within your control as opposed the the external ones. i'd much rather be confident internally, which is forever sustainab…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 07:39 AM
3

you shit(shat) were your work. and it sounds like you're screwed now because of it. this woman likely sees you as her partner and if scorned, she will likely fuck up your career because it sounds like she can (you said she is well connected). proceed with caution. ask yourself if it is worth it. i would say, in a case like this, try to make a clean amicable break, before she finds out about other pussy. small 3rd-world town politics can get really ugly, really quickly.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 07:19 AM
7

did you even fuck this chick yet? it sounds like you haven't, and if not, why the hell would you want to go with her on some trip? sounds like she isn't really into you and you are trying to buy her compliance--paying for the room. hit that side bar again--this post reads like a blue pill beta provider tv commercial.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 07:12 AM
2

Went to Prom with a girl who I have been friends with for several years... you are so long and deep in the friend zone she doesnt even see you as having a dick. forget this one. too much work. find other chicks.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 07:04 AM
1

why are you dropping off her stuff? Why can't she come and get it? fuck that. out of context, why did you call her a slut in a text? if you are naked in bed with her, sure, tell her how she's your little slut ho, but in this texting, without more context, i don't get what you wanted to accomplish. texting is for logistics, not conversation.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 06:59 AM
3

9, even without the multiple of x2 or x3 that you will have to calculate into that number, is A LOT. wrap up tight before diving in, and don't give her anything more than plate status, cause that is the absolute most she deserves.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 05:36 PM
1

i wouldn't do that, even as a joke. because, a cool alpha wouldn't give a shit if she was his girlfriend, wife, whatever...
/r/askTRP14/04/16 03:47 PM
3

sounds like you are entering her orbit as BO2. obviously not the place to be. work on your kino and amp things up a lot. who cares about this other guy. just ignore him as far as she is concerned. in the mean time, finding another plate or two would help--you're too focused on this chick.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 04:08 AM
3

lots of good advice already, but i will add: never take her back. stay strong, and don't give her that satisfaction. good luck
/r/askTRP14/04/16 04:01 AM
4

sounds like you need some better options, and a lot more of them if this is your reply.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 08:38 PM
1

dread is best served subtly, over time. it is something she observes, like the waitress flirting with you, or the times she can't reach you. it requires work on your self, and having your goals in order, and working toward them. with that said, having sex so infrequently only 4 months into an LTR is bad news. you have a lot of work to do, but i wonder why even bother. demote her to a plate and start living again.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 08:36 PM
2

not worth it. something isn't well (likely liver related: jaundice, hep, alcoholism...) either way, it is nothing you want any part of.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 08:24 PM
3

sounds like it is time to polish up the resume and find a new job. leave on your terms--don't be bullied by bullshit. good luck
/r/askTRP13/04/16 08:20 PM
1

ask him which one of his mistresses gives the best blowjob.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 08:17 PM
1

by actually going away Most effective way to show her that I can go away...
/r/askTRP13/04/16 08:11 PM
2

that comes with confidence. when you are confident in yourself and your abilities, you just don't give a fuck what others think. lifting, learning, and finding your path will all lead to confidence. until then, fake it. this has nothing to do with fapping.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 08:57 AM
4

sounds like she was planning this for a while. hide whatever else you can asset wise. personally, i would just want what was mine, and make a clean break. otherwise, you could get a good divorce attorney and take half plus spouse support while you are still in college. what's good for the goose... after all she abandoned you.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 08:53 AM
3

stop giving a shit. you came, it felt good. wait a bit and fuck her again.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 10:26 PM
-1

agree & amplify here. "you ain't seen nothing yet"
/r/askTRP12/04/16 10:22 PM
8

bragging,try hard, wanna be... she reads it as "loser". why tell her any of this shit? jut because you are good at guitar doesn't mean you should tell her, especially in a text. your whole approach was you wanting to brag to her--don't do that, never.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 10:10 PM
3

happened to me once many years ago in a bar in in LA... i just happened to have a full pint of beer in my hand. i didn't say a word, and i calmly emptied the pint over her head... then i left. her brother saw the whole thing, and as i was leaving, he told me she deserved it.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 09:17 PM
30

ask if you can cash them in on her hot friends
/r/askTRP01/04/16 11:15 PM
1

dread works in a lot of ways, and most when it is felt, and not told...
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 10:51 PM
2

totally stolen from roissy! couldn't you give him credit, at the least?! https://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 10:43 PM
1

game, and maybe status. the rest from your list are not necessarily needed. really.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 10:38 PM
5

reply: "you love it" then, enjoy.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 10:36 PM
14

for one, do not agree with woman if you don't really agree. i love it when i can disagree, and i make fun of them if possible. "oh my fucking god, how can you like justin beiber music? i just lost all respect for you..." also, don't do any favors for a woman that doesn't deserve it. the 2 to 3 ratio written about by roissy is a great rule of thumb. only do or give 2 for her 3--this goes for texts, phone calls, almost everything. don't do anything that you don't want to do, even if a chick begs. …
/r/askTRP30/03/16 11:34 PM
2

N.E.X.T!
/r/askTRP30/03/16 11:12 PM
1

i'm around your age and i like lone wolfing it in my own city, as well as when i am traveling, when it is more of a necessity. i happen to like bars that aren't too loud best since you can talk/hear people easier. your behavior and frame will dictate how creepy or normal you appear. you need to own it. if you act and feel like it is totally normal to be out alone, then the people you interact with also will feel that way. yes, i realize it isn't always easy sometimes though. with that said, havi…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 10:58 PM
0

the "corporateland" post you linked is good, and should help you a lot already. if i remember correctly though, he recommends not even giving a range as you did... otherwise, confidence is key. with that said, also make sure to look at other factors in deciding what job to accept. there is a lot more than just $$$. vacation time, benefits, commute distance, work environment, etc. are all big factors. don't forget that when you make a decision. also, as a strategy, i would mention exactly that wh…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 10:44 PM
2

good job. enjoy the victory as one of many along your path. there will be ups and downs along it, but savor the good in order to help you push on when it gets rough.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 10:37 PM
4

avoid the problem by spinning plates: promote the ones that are worthy to higher status plate. next them as they show themselves as not being worthy.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 10:34 PM
2

sounds like you are already in way too deep. the do not get married mantra isn't only for financial reasons. you will lose your ability to easily walk away, and that takes away your power and leverage. dread is still possible, but much more difficult, especially for someone as blue pill as you seem to be. DON'T DO IT! DO NOT MARRY THIS CHICK! unfortunately, you probably won't listen to anyone telling you. you're a sucker! many of us have been there. i am divorced--and it was my initial decision …
/r/askTRP30/03/16 10:26 PM
2

could it be that you are black (and she is white) and someone said something to her about seeing you two together? just an initial thought, since your user name is "BlackMwoyo" and the overall feel I got from your post. SO, either she likes you and is just ashamed about the relationship on a racial level, or, she friend zoned you to use you for your ride... either way, i would say, next.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 09:08 AM
1

ain't nobody got time fo dat
/r/askTRP23/03/16 10:24 PM
1

"please, please" begging is a shit test. she wants to see if she can control you like a little girl controlling daddy. don't ever do something you don't want to for a chick, especially one you never fucked before. and yes, movies are horrible first dates.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 10:06 PM
3

and we all know that we should listen to what a woman says, not watch what she does... /sarcasm
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 07:06 PM
1

your age has nothing to do with it. the dread part was only if you wanted to keep her under you own terms. since you were asking trp, i gave you all the options as i saw it.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 01:18 PM
2

great job for trying. keep at it, with new chicks. forget her. lose her phone number. it gets a lot easier with time. what you actually said when you asked her for a coffee wasn't mentioned, so it is hard to assess. if you only asked her out, and she had no idea who you are (other than some guy from class), without you having created any attraction, it is very difficult to get a yes. as far as the phone number, hard to say too. sometimes it is a consolation prize--she felt bad about saying no, s…
/r/askTRP23/03/16 01:08 PM
0

so far great job. act normal when you see her. don't mention it at all. don't deny her sex (act normal). never let her think you are butt hurt about it. dread game is great if it starts becoming a habit.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 12:57 PM
1

she is a plate--you seem to have forgotten that. your frame is weak. at least, i hope, you didn't actually say any of those things. 3 she could have gotten strep from anywhere... nothing, necessarily, to do with sex.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 12:54 PM
1

borrowing from heartiste (Roissy), i think something along the lines of these replies: "lol" "bring the movies" "gay" "k" "8===D" "right" "..." bascially calling her on her bullshit with minimal effort. be ready with a follow up.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 12:49 PM
1

here is some info i posted about photographs about profile portraits on tinder. judging from your photos, i think they might help you. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/41q4te/get_great_tinder_pics/cz4aakk
/r/askTRP23/03/16 12:43 PM
4

good post. one addition as far as the affirmations part, and something that i only recently found. i'm a strong believer in affirmations for success in life. this "new" method i found expands upon the traditional type you mentioned. according to this method, we have trouble believing our affirmations when they are beyond the acceptable realm of our current view. for example, saying "I am rich", when I am, in reality, broke is difficult to accept. in other words... this, supposedly, makes it diff…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 12:29 PM
0

if you can, take out the summer and travel. i know, not a summer job, but worth every penny. don't know how old you are, but if you are on your way or in college already, go for it. would be worth much more than any other education by far.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 10:33 AM
1

sounds like your standards are too high. despite you saying that you refuse to settle, you might have to. otherwise, follow some of the other advice here--hairstyle better suited for your face, new clothing style, etc. also, concentrate on your goals...
/r/askTRP23/03/16 10:27 AM
1

this depends on: 1. who ended it 2. why it ended, and 3. if you wanted it to end or not. if you wanted to end it and there was no cheating or disrespect going on on her part, then give closure. otherwise, it depends on what you want out of it.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 10:17 AM
3

there are two different things here. i think, both based on NLP. search for "eye access cues" and that gives you a lot of info, more than you were asking about. for example: http://www.renewal.ca/nlp13.htm however, it seems like what you are specifically asking is about just initial eye contact. you should never look down (submissive). either look away to the side or up. if she looks down or to the side and away, it is a sign you should go talk to her. if she looks up, she isn't feelin' it. i wi…
/r/askTRP23/03/16 10:13 AM
1

keep the cute one around as a back up while you gather better plates. lose the fugly chick asap!
/r/askTRP23/03/16 12:35 AM
7

much more wordy, and sounds a bit try hard. no, i have never used this.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 12:02 AM
2

i had already expanded upon this in a reply above. now added it to my OP edit. again here: i only use the wink ;) (not other smiles) and only in some circumstances where a hint that i am somewhat joking is necessary. for example, if she writes something like: "So, do you want to see me again?" after fucking her the night before. answering only with "maybe"... not at all recommended.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 11:45 PM
1

that sounds like a big, red flag... proceed with caution. i assume you fucked her with a relationship question like that? if not, just next. if yes, slow things down, and carefully make your getaway (to avoid a bitter vengeance).
/r/askTRP22/03/16 11:43 PM
1

then how else would you let someone know about sarcasm or a joking tone in your text? if you have a way, i'd like to know it
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 11:32 PM
2

i have some plates that tease a bit by responding with maybe sometimes. they clearly picked it up from me though, and it was obviously only in good fun. this would be the exception to what you mean above--of course, if i texted some chick for the first time and got that, i wouldn't respond again, and would only potentially reconsider on further texts from her.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 11:04 PM
4

Give 'em the ol' "read receipt" while I'm in with another plate agree, another great hamster spinner, especially if you wait at least a day to reply
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 10:39 PM
1

patrice is awesome--thanks, i have to check this out.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 10:03 PM
11

i only use the wink ;) (not other smiles) and only in some circumstances where a hint that i am somewhat joking is necessary. for example, if she writes something like: "So, do you want to see me again?" after fucking her the night before. answering only with "maybe"... not at all recommended.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 10:02 PM
10

maybe... of course, everything in moderation.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 06:31 PM
6

yes, i agree to an certain extent, but maybe is more open to her hamster spinning, since it leaves things open. yes, k, yea, etc. all are definite and maybe is open.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 06:30 PM
1

yeah, like i thought, similar with tv... in that case, proceed with caution. make the boundaries clear from the start, and have a little bit of fun. life is too short to just work and not fuck. ;) good luck
/r/askTRP22/03/16 05:46 PM
1

not knowing about the film industry, but having some experience in tv, i understand what you're saying. go with your gut. why don't you instead invest more time in finding plates outside of your workplace? all around, much safer. (and just enjoy the flirting at work, but keep it at flirting) the whole other thing about it causing you lower confidence would be alleviated by finding outside plates, IMO...
/r/askTRP22/03/16 04:35 PM
1

probably shouldn't have told her. you wanted to rid your guilt and that meant hurting her. keep this in mind in the future. i would say there isn't much you can do. but, what's done is done. don't beat yourself up over it because that won't chage anything.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 04:16 PM
0

my favorite answer could apply here: "maybe" have fun with it. if it is a shit test, you avoid it like this, and keep things playful. you could expand to, "maybe, if you're lucky"
/r/askTRP22/03/16 04:13 PM
1

get this checked right away. my wild guess: Venous leak: "The defect lies in the drainage of the cavernosal tissue of the penis, which under normal function provides high resistance to venous blood flow from the penis during an erection, thus keeping blood 'trapped' inside the spongy chambers of the penis, to maintain an erection of adequate strength for an adequate length of time. It is get this check oput asap Venous leak: "still disputed as to what causes the excessive 'leakiness' characteris…
/r/askTRP22/03/16 04:03 PM
1

for a first date, i tell chicks to meet me at a certain time and place. someplace in public that everyone knows. like, "meet me at 8.30pm in front of the george washington statue. wear a warm jaket and gloves." then you can go to a number of things from there. the whole mysterious nature of it makes it fun. i have done this and played a game with the girl along the way--something like, tonight we are going to walk down this street and find the strangest bar(s) and have a drink there. i have also…
/r/askTRP22/03/16 03:12 PM
1

what did you say when you arranged it? 7pm is a bit early not to eat, but, with that said, dinner dates are the worst possible dates to go on. (tied for worst with going to a movie or even worse, dinner and a movie) you could write that you have an important meeting that popped up, and will only be able to meet at 8pm, and you'll eat something quick before you see her. next time, try to make it more clear.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 03:06 PM
1

sounds to me like you are still getting over oneitis with the ex, and maybe too much porn. seriously. stop that if that's the case--both ex and porn. i wonder why you are not living closer to the action? and, isn't there something going on closer to you?
/r/askTRP22/03/16 03:03 PM
6

sounds like she is starting to regret the divorce. don't take the bait. i assume it was her that wanted the divorce? either way, i would have ignored it. why let anything she says bother you? you are divorced.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 02:56 PM
13

she already blew you off "but I'm busy with work and stuff atm" i would go no contact for a couple weeks. then if you haven't heard from her, hit her up with something like "drink tonight at x..." if she doesn't respond or tells you she can't, forget her. only exception is if she offers an alternative.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 02:50 PM
1

i moved out at 17--best decision ever. obvious solution is obvious
/r/askTRP22/03/16 02:47 PM
2

feminist man boobs are not your friends.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 02:41 PM
3

with established plates, i usually just text something like: "drink tonight?" (or tomorrow night) and leave it at that. they know exactly what that means. when they reply with a "yes, where?", i just respond with "9pm my place" or whatever. depending on how many plates you have you can adjust accordingly, since some may already have plans especially when it is so spontaneous--for example, i'll text two or three plates at the same time and see who responds first, and go from there. when the rest …
/r/askTRP22/03/16 02:35 PM
1

sounds like you banged yourself a psycho. nothing to be thrilled about--be careful, save her texts (the ones proving your innocence), and proceed with lots of caution.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 02:22 PM
7

why try to salvage this obvious friend zone hell? oneitis, yes, of course, but, have some self respect and forget this one. she knows she has you wrapped around her orbit. use the experience as fuel to work on yourself in the future. good luck.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 02:15 PM
1

she is thinking of him enough reach out to him. it is obvious she would fuck him if he gave her the chance. she of course will hamster it into something else, but the outcome is the same. preceed with caution. you were warned enough times here already, and you know it in your gut, or else you wouldn't have posted this.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 02:08 PM
3

why would you want to get rid of a perfectly good plate. keep her on the side and look for new plates. it is always much easier to get new plates when you come from a place of abundance. you are much less needy that way. and that is probably your problem about going out and looking--you are giving off a needy vibe. go out looking to have fun, knowing you got a good plate whenever you want. this knowledge should help, not hinder your success.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 10:46 AM
1

i would make fun of her for being scared but do so in a joking manner (smirk), while starting to tickle her or something. if she pressed, "no really, what would you do?"in that case, i would tell her that i would scare her more (during the "scary" parts)... hold frame. laugh.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 10:41 AM
1

yes, tease the shit out of her as someone esle also said. still though, it seems that you are failing these shit tests, which is why they are increasing. the more you show beta colors, the more she will go for blood. i think you have to take a step back and look at the whole picture a bit more--by that, i mean, what other signs are you sending her that makes he keep wanting to test you.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 10:33 AM
1

you can choose to let this bitch's ghost continue to make your life miserable, or just move on. blaming her does nothing. accepting responsibility (you are responsible for yourself...) and moving on is the only path forward. hobbies, friends, life goals, etc. will all help you to focus on yourself and move forward. and, of course, new plates when you are ready. good luck.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 10:24 AM
2

an LTR requires red pill core with come blue pill comfort occasionally mixed in.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 10:15 AM
0

"haha, too bad for you that you'll never find out"
/r/askTRP22/03/16 10:12 AM
1

minimum: soft next and downgrade to fuckbuddy. she is writing her ex she misses him? WTF? get new plates going. she will fuck this guy as soon as she had a chance. EDIT: i can see where this may be headed (this is your only post here). whatever you do, do not go to your chick and tell her that you know she will fuck this guy. know it, but DO NOT TELL HER THIS!
/r/askTRP22/03/16 10:10 AM
1

she wants to make you here little beta bitch. 5 dates naked in bed and nothing? dude, nexting her was the right decision. she is only out of your league if you think she is. pedestalizing her doesn't help you at all. i assume you know she is being jetted around because she told you this? who gives a shit attitude and either or ignoring it, or A&A would have been the right response there. if you can't let it go, i would say let it chill for a few weeks, then make one last attempt. but, then, it m…
/r/askTRP22/03/16 10:06 AM
3

i would have ignored that as bull shit. chances are she would have come around when you ignored it. otherwise, maybe A&A the first text, but then would have ignored the rest. ain't nobody got time for dat
/r/askTRP22/03/16 09:52 AM
1

as the others have also said so far, you have to own up to it with no regrets. in today's bullshit politically correct world, if you show weakness you get pummeled. stand your ground (hold frame) and shine. and next that bitch--no explanation needed.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 09:49 AM
2

sounds like kindergarten is in session... cut these people out of your life (these chicks) and don't get pulled into the drama. don't give fuck. you are better than this.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 09:44 AM
1

nope. i started out as a super beta and had a chick fuck me up bad many years ago. i learned, and improved over the years (decades even). i wrote this to try to help people making what i see as mistakes. if this was real world, talking to a chick, i wouldn't have bothered, but again, my motivation is to try to help what i see as a bad trend going on here.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 01:37 AM
1

maybe i got lost along the way, but my original intention was to point out that buying a drink for a girl you never even spoke one word with is just so wrong. and, if you end up with her phone number out of it, is no reason to celebrate. the fucking women part came about as an extension of the original thought.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 01:07 AM
2

my only motivation here was to try to help out... it seems like that may be a lost cause.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 01:02 AM
1

not at all. i am saying that buying a drink for a chick you never spoke to is always a suckers bet. there is no vested interest on her part, and at the best,she will see you as a beta provider.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 12:52 AM
2

good post. many of us arrive here after a string of success with women, and wonder, what is next...
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 12:41 AM
2

seems to be a bad trend going on here.... so much for trying to fix it.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 12:28 AM
0

i wouldn't be hanging out in walmart to game chicks. if that works for you, great. either way, i'm sure you're not buying shit for them to get their number. and that's my point.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 12:27 AM
-2

i never said i fuck every chick. i even gave examples of what i do when i can't fuck a chick on the first night. read it again and maybe learn something.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 12:24 AM
-1

so, tell me, what is wrong about what i wrote? salty? ok, if that's what you think. still, buying a drink for a girl is for suckers. getting a number from doing so... have fun, if that is your game, it only makes it easier for salty guys like me.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 12:21 AM
-1

yep, butt hurt and sooooo sad that nobody likes me. sure. if you like that thought, run with it. i have nothing to prove,nothing to sell, no web site to link to. i only saw that things were going to shit around here and wanted to help. i stand by every word i wrote.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 12:14 AM
-8

i agree with what you are saying but in regards to my original post, i am discussing people doing beta things, like buying a woman a drink, and then when getting a number out of this, they are using it to justify their beta actions. this is maybe a nice ego boost in the short term, if you are not accustomed to getting numbers, but it is detrimental to long term growth.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 03:44 PM
-5

all he got was a phone number and two instagram followers. this isn't good game--not at all. many of you seem to be missing this point: will either of these chicks fuck him? 99% chance they won't. they will start hamstering in their minds that this was a beta chump move, because it was. my first comment was very direct about this, but was downgraded to hell because, it seems a lot of you forgot that a phone number means shit. this terrible game it is the opposite of red pill. maybe they'll call …
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 09:49 AM
-28

buying a drink for some chick that you never spoke to before is always a bad idea, here included. worst case, you look like a chump. best case, you look like a beta provider that doesn't have enough value or balls to talk to a girl without buying a girl something. i don't agree at all. this is not at all red pill! and what did you get out of it, aside from a potentially flakey phone number? see how that pans out for you.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 01:21 AM
3

i don't know about the tongue thing. i'd recommend forehead a bit out and chin a bit down. gets rid of the double chin and makes the jawline more pronounced.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 09:42 PM
5

both should be point away so that you are not looking into the lens. play the slight angles away from the lens, and you should soon see a side and approximate angle that works best.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 08:21 PM
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as a professional photographer, i'll add a little advice here. first off, there were studies done and women like the photos of guys not looking directly into the camera more (than when the guy looks directly into the camera). could have to do with a mysterious look about a guy who is looking away, and as we all know, women like a man of mystery. also, most people actually look better when they are slightly turned away from the lens either 1/4 or a 1/3 towards profile. also, as the OP mentioned, …
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 07:53 PM
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if you are fucking her well (and not fucking up in other areas, like being a needy, or boring), chances are she will want to keep seeing you. just something to think about.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 07:39 PM
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so you want to trust the opinion of anonomous people here instead of your doctor that you trusted to open up your ball sack? really?
/r/askTRP19/01/16 02:40 PM
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ok, it wasn't all that clear in your OP. how does this guy do with women? if i am reading this correctly, i'd say, not so well. and, this would be more of a reason i would guess he views you as a threat. still, the best way to deal with him would then be to bascially ignore him, and simply not give give a fuck. additionally, use "amused mastery" when you feel you have to give a response. expend less effort, or none at all though, and take the attitude of (showing without saying much) you're such…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 12:39 PM
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to expand on this a bit more: an alpha guy will take or get what he wants. again, don't shit where you eat, but it seems like you are going to anyway. so, i would just tell one of them after your shift, "i'm going to have a drink. come with me and if you're lucky, i'll let you buy me one"... she'll give you shit, most likely about buying you a drink, but have fun with it. if she says no, then you "don't give a fuck". another way would be as follows. you are flirting or chatting about something f…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 09:33 AM
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not giving a fuck doesn't mean not taking the lead sometimes, and telling a woman "let's go for a drink". with that said, don't shit where you eat. you'll be happier in the long term.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 09:25 AM
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"my dad said that you still owe him $50 bucks" (should have been the only response needed)
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 09:12 AM
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the problem is, people are motivated by their wants, and not their needs. it is basic sales psychology--a person buys what they want, not what they need. i'm only mentioning this because it is important to remember this when analyzing your own (or someone else's) actions.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 08:57 AM
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personally, i wouldn't put up with his shit. it could be that he is jealous of you, and/or, you are a threat to his role in the group. or, maybe you're just a loser that is fun to make fun of ;) (couldn't help that one) first, you say that they are only acquaintances. so, who gives a shit? why do you want to hang out with them then? i wouldn't waste my time hanging around with a dick, and then worrying about how to handle the situation.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 08:44 AM
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