How would you guys pass this shit test?

TheeRyanGrey · 2013-10-27T07:06:53+00:00

Nice Version: Don't invite this bitch to a poker game with a bunch of your friends

Real Talk Version: Nigga you're a beta, one of those betas who reads a bunch of online material and then tries to adapt it to the real world without understanding the concept behind it. But I'm not here to hurt, I'm here to help so let's break this down:

1.Poker game with the guys is a GUYS NIGHT. Bringing her into that environment already validates her by placing her on the same level as your friends.

2.Who bring a bitch to the poker game? That doesn't make you look socially strong, it makes you look like the bitch who brought the bitch to the poker game.

3.You're gonna prove you're the leader of the group? This is what I mean by knowing theory but not reasoning behind it. Who cares if you're the leader of the group when you've already placed her on a pedestal by inviting her. You're the leader of the group and she's the leader of you, nigga.

4.If a bitch continuously tries to make you jealous you play it off the first couple of times. If she keeps it up you tell that bitch straight up

"Listen, i'm not into that jealous shit. Take your drama elsewhere or I'm out."

Basically, if you bring this bitch to the poker game you done fucked up

anon_k · 2013-10-27T06:32:57+00:00

Flirt with your male friends and ignore her.

magicalbird · 2013-10-27T06:51:25+00:00

Thing is, she knows I'm into her

Go for another girl

nathanisfat · 2013-10-27T05:38:50+00:00

So I'm ganna invite this girl I know to a poker night with a bunch of my guy friends.

Why?

[deleted] · 2013-10-27T10:26:14+00:00

she knows I'm into her

And you haven't escalated yet? What? And your plan is to bring her to some poker night where you can again avoid escalating? Makes no sense.

BTW you should try to isolate the girl (get on your own with her, 1-on-1), not try to put her in some group environment, especially not some all man group environment. You seem to be confused about what is progress and what is not here and are taking steps backwards out of fear of rejection.

Since you actually seem to know her, instead of inviting her out in a group scenario invite her out 1-on-1. In game terms, you want a "day 2": you already have her number and she knows who you are. On the other hand if you haven't created any attraction you have to do that first, otherwise she'll turn down your invitation. I don't know enough to tell you where you are here, but if she's likely willing to go to your poker night at your request, she's also likely to go on a "date" with you (don't do movies/dinner/etc any traditional date. Walk around town with her or something).

edit: There's some game term for this, from RSD, about guys who build attraction, pass shit tests but never actually escalate and risk rejection. Whatever it is, it's a failed strategy. To OP: there is a period where a woman, sufficiently attracted to you, will want you to escalate. If you don't she'll give you more IOIs, more signs she is interested in you escalating. After the period passes though, and it can be quick, she writes you off and loses any interest. You have to strike fast: hesitation in game leads to failure, because woman want confident men who take what they want, not fearful men waiting for a woman to take the first (or all) step.

[deleted] · 2013-10-27T15:13:24+00:00

lol i fucking love you guys

Title	How would you guys pass this shit test?
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Comments	13
Date	October 27, 2013 5:21 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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