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magicalbird/r/MensRights27/10/13 08:12 PM
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Rant/Ventingmagicalbird/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 12:31 PM
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Red Pill Theorymagicalbird/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 02:57 PM
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Blue Pill Examplemagicalbird/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 08:13 PM
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Ask Red Pillmagicalbird/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 10:40 PM
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Congrats but Lol 8. Try 100. That’s when tangible results and patterns start to happen.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/23 02:50 PM
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Downvotes happen in FR because some think it’s fiction. OP is in Vegas where spur of the moment hookups happen all the time lol so it’s almost certainly legit.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/23 07:13 PM
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Of course, they probably presented an adaptive trait in some ancestral environments, otherwise they would have likely been eliminated from the gene pool. It might be related to the malaria gene where having one of the two indicators is slightly beneficial and having two indicators is bad. For example, schizophrenia affects 1% of the population consistently even though it's an awful disorder. However, having parts of it could mean more creativity? I mainly referred to online dating to state that …
/r/BlackPillScience31/08/19 07:57 PM
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The majority of this discussion comes down to the conclusion of the "trait rating studies" you linked. It stated, "Further work in the sexual marketplace could use-fully pursue interactions (statistical and social) between sellers(Dark Triad men) and buyers (women). Regarding the former, doestheir attractiveness reside in female choice, or in their capacity topersuade and manipulate? For the latter, does the appeal of DarkTriad charm extend to only a subset of women?" It might be a combination o…
/r/BlackPillScience31/08/19 08:58 AM
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but I also linked a blind-dating study with the same general conclusion, and the length of the interaction was far longer, (average of 150 minutes spent on the date). Not the best abstract. It implied that no matter the attractiveness of the male, the male subject's only care was how attractive the female was. Was the study also implying females judging the same way? Also 1966 is a very old study. I would if the measures would be similar today. intra-sexual competition among males The taller, bu…
/r/BlackPillScience31/08/19 07:48 AM
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suggest that physical attractiveness is the main determinant of attractiveness in short-term mating contexts for both sexes(at least without prior acquaintance between the parties involved). I agree. The study was 5 minutes interaction during speed dating. If you can pass a threshold for attraction and then display dark triad, you can escalate that attraction for short term mating strategies. You would need longer than 5 minutes for that. Maybe an hour. lower level of behavioral inhibition etc.,…
/r/BlackPillScience31/08/19 06:24 AM
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All of these traits are very attractive in the short term, especially for a one night stand. Borderline people give you intense love and approval on the upswing which is a turn on for the short term. Narcissistic people come off as confident which is a turn on for the short term. Antisocial people don’t care about right or wrong and do impulsive things which is a turn on for the short term.
/r/BlackPillScience31/08/19 02:22 AM
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It's a good book. I disagree with having no male friends being a red flag as long as you can maintain a backbone and stay assertive. Sure it's better to have at least one male friend but it's not a death warrant of NGS that the author states. I understand female friends will come and go as they get a significant other. Stay assertive, don't be afraid to offend.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 12:51 AM
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Life is a competition. Humans are social and in groups only because it ensured the survival of the species.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 10:07 PM
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Unless you're an omega it is worth it to try. Even a lower beta can become an upper beta by trying. This alone makes the quality of women go up.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 07:30 AM
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One of the most important RP truths is that the one that holds the power in the relationship is the one willing to walk away from it at any moment.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 07:40 AM
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A good portion of girls prefer validation over anything sexual.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 06:00 AM
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College campuses embedded into a city/town. I wouldn't go to a campus that is isolated because the geography allows it to have its own in group bias. However when a campus blends into a city/town then you can easily find a lot of college women in that city/town that you can meet with at the coffee shop near campus or some other cool hangout spot near the campus. Many references have told me NYU as an example or probably any college in NYC. Also Las Vegas because of context. Also any major city w…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 08:27 AM
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First one if she already has issues beyond repair. The temporary self esteem boost associated with the oxytocin boost. In most other cases it's the second.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 10:13 PM
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Let her bring up commitment first. When you get soft out of nowhere it looks really inconsistent, a huge turn off for girls. In a relationship a balance between maintaining frame and rewarding her for good behavior is acceptable. For plates you keep it to the sexual transaction.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 10:08 PM
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I have never read a FR that felt more like a half victory than this one. The effort this girl took was not worth the effort.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 05:30 PM
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Because it gives a SMV boost to all men. It gives a needed SMV boost to men born with below average genetics.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:57 AM
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I don't even care if you're a beta. Do not ever buy anything for a girl that isn't sleeping with you. On the other hand, I let girls buy me stuff if they want to be in my orbit.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 04:13 AM
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Then you have a mental block that no amount of text can overcome. You want the US? Then work your look to what women find attractive in the US. Lift, dress well, be confident, and actually meet women instead of whining here.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 09:19 PM
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You adapt to the way the rules are. Move if things are so terrible. Asia or India is an option. Other parts of the world are an option. The US isn't the whole world. Many exceptions of high SMV Asian and Indian men can end up with above average women of all races. Location matters as well.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:17 PM
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Asian men and Indian men start at a disadvantage. Universal traits like confidence, lifting, good fashion sense are much better things to aim for than whining on a thread. Those things override negative stereotypes.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:07 PM
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As someone who is Asian and extremely red pill this is a useless thread OP. You play to bend the rules. You can't whine and suddenly except a whole race or races to change their behaviors. You work within the system. Personally there is no brotherhood. Redpill is knowledge to use on your own. If you keep whining and not working on yourself you will lose time that you can use to become the exception. I have heard many exceptions from other brown men through building their own value instead of whi…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 07:37 PM
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It's a cost-benefit analysis. In theory any guy could get with any girl. The chances a 5'9 model looking girl with end up with an average 5'5 guy is definitely possible. If no other guys are viable options in the vicinity, his game is solid, and she is extremely horny, then it could happen. He needs way more variables to go his way. Is it worth the effort if the cute, albeit more "ordinary" 5'3 girl is in the corner without any competition for her? It all depends.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 07:14 PM
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The farther women are from their native area, the more likely everything is about looks and game.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 06:38 PM
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I already wrote in a previous post. Lots of women count themselves as "freelance" models these days. If you're below average height stick to women your height or shorter. If they don't want to date or sleep with you because you're short then find another girl.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 06:14 PM
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I know a guy like this and he actually got bored of women after around 30.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 06:09 AM
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For all the red pill talk about being past the matrix quality and quantity is up to each man. Outliers always appear due to fetishes or a girl being really horny. Shameless is also good since it turns women on and it helps relate to dark triad which is the best for one night stands. Shame is the enemy of flings.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 05:54 AM
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scrawny boozing hipster That has appeal in the right circles. However were the quality of the women you slept with worthy based on your own experience?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 04:45 PM
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Most guys have up to three plates. If they went any further keeping the management of more plates could make the cost of their time way too much over the benefit of more plates. It would become a huge time sink to keep all of that managed.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 01:44 AM
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Science finds a way to offset genetic flaws. You can engineer and modify many things and the science is already there. The worry is the split between the top 20% and others will actually be a realistic line instead of a guided guideline to how women behave because the haves and have nots will be greater in the next 50-100 years.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 07:13 AM
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You could argue that the gene pool is okay. The only illusion has been teaching our generation that being a nice guy will get you somewhere. Even unicorns hate nice guys.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 06:56 AM
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In poly circles this is actually a strategy, albeit a twisted one, because the alphas will be preoccupied and a horny girl will go down the male ranks if alphas are preoccupied. However that's like getting leftovers.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 10:49 PM
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It doesn't have to be the exact top 20% but their perceived top 20% to their tingles. A guy could be at the 30% mark and get laid if no other guy is available when the girl is horny for instance. A guy could be average at the 50% mark and keep a girl interested if his potential was through the roof. Lots of exceptions to the 20% rule but the rule is still a rule.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:38 PM
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You could always go your own way. If you decide the sexual marketplace takes too much effort create something outside the realm of women. While sex is a powerful motivator it doesn't have to be the sole reason for existence.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:09 AM
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Because every male that is highly supportive of hookup culture is a white knight or in the top 20%.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 05:57 AM
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The highest tingles for a one night stand is caveman alpha. The highest tingles in a fwb is an indifferent alpha. The highest tingles in an unicorn monogamous relationship is a mix of alpha and beta. Red Pill men can adapt to all situations.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 05:56 AM
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They are valuable to post wall (over 30 women looking for provider after the decade of fun). That's like getting leftovers. Are you cool with leftovers?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 04:36 AM
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Make people believe the only two answers to any issue is one extreme or the other when in reality the issue has a lot of ambiguity. Madonna/whore complex when in reality I've seen many women have many features of both. You decide which side you're on depending on your sexual strategy and it can work both ways. A hot girl wants to gain value from the beta so she forces the beta to pick being the beta chump with occasional sex or the beta chump that gets cheated on with the alpha. An alpha tells t…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 06:17 AM
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It's a difference between charisma game and caveman game. Both work.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 05:09 AM
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Imagine one primary plate or one primary serial monogamy relationship. All your oneitis and sexual needs is destroyed with minimal effort.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 02:37 AM
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I will always let the alpha or physically imposing male to win the battle. I will take their girl on the side while they are jerking off on their ego.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 02:28 AM
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Yeah dark triad is the best short term mating strategy. If you have narcissistic and manipulative tendencies you will go far. The psychopathy part is genetic and you must reduce empathy for short term mating strategy.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 07:27 AM
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If the SMV remains the same when she married you, you're more likely to be fine. The problem with betas who marry is that they let their SMV dip really badly and then their wife loses the tingles then cheating becomes an option.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 06:40 AM
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Even the unicorns need something to keep them on their feet and interested. Mixing up alpha traits with relationship stable traits is what works. Leading and dominance still apply to prevent the story above. The only different with unicorns is that it takes much more for them to cheat. Cheating is always an option if she could trade way up. Make sure your value is always as high as possible.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 06:25 AM
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A girl trying to hide her real identity for years then comes out as Lucifer's daughter type? I wish your soul peace bro.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 06:21 AM
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By maintaining your independence, you become the master of others The one who is willing to walk away in the relationship more easily is the one with the power in the relationship. Also the one advantage to having fewer friends is that you have way less obligations to commit to. playing people against one another, making them pursue you. People who haven't made an impression on you are like chessboard pieces. Everything can be manipulated if you're not fully invested in them.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 06:14 PM
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Never offend someone serving you food. I'm polite to even the worst waiter in the world and would voice my displeasure by leaving no tip. Imagine how easy it is for them to get revenge by spitting in your food or dropping it on the floor or doing other things to it.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 04:59 PM
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65k to an 18 year old is still a lot of money
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 03:54 PM
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Although she proclaims this, she also said she enjoys spending time with him. Today she was complaining about him The funniest part of it all? His success still wasn't good enough to be the official guy. He had to be the side guy.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 02:25 AM
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If you're in a monogamous LTR before 30, you're fucking up. If you're married, you're fucking up. Serial monogamy, open forms of monogamy, and other forms of long term relationships with an alpha still means the alpha is an alpha. If you can walk away without a dent at any time then you're already ahead of most betas.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 01:32 AM
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She tells him that he never pays attention to her and she feels unloved. He apologizes and tells her they can work it out. Failed shit test. Well after having a Halloween party at their house she has had enough. O then tells her he is sorry and wants to work it out. Failed shit test. If you continually fail shit tests from the majority of entitled women who want to always have "fun" then you're going to dry up tingles quickly.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 10:43 PM
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Honestly, if you're not an Alpha yet, then what's the point. These plates/GF's will suck your time and resources and you will never make it. Serial monogamy. A nice girlfriend on the side to give you companionship and sex for a while until one or the other gets bored. Long term relationships are fine if you don't marry the girl so you can always have the option of nexting her.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 10:38 PM
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I came from the camp that believed game trumps everything. Then I saw hotter men get with the women I attracted anyways. You're forced to become monk mode because it is the only way to become hot enough to get into the sexual marketplace. Game matters. Looks matter more.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 10:36 PM
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Abundance fixes all oneitis issues.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 05:01 PM
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The funny part is that average girls do the same thing now. Welcome to the sexual marketplace in the states. The best thing a man can do is build into a crazy high SMV and next most girls that aren't relationship material.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 05:00 PM
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If you really can't do the stoic thing, do the crazily unpredictable thing. While it'll create more drama, women tingles will usually follow because all people like unpredictability.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 08:09 PM
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Other guy planted a good enough seed into her to not cheat especially with someone that lacks the LMR busting skills. The only solution is to immensely improve SMV.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 07:32 PM
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Good points altogether. Also heard that outside NYC the east coast is particularly harsh for Asian men.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 06:36 AM
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Not only hard next but soft next. Imagine giving a day of amazing experiences then going ice cold for a few days. The moment you reply back again she's more excited.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 06:09 AM
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If you're attractive then you'll be okay. I forgot to add that if you live in a really huge city you'll be okay too because even if 1% of response rate replies back that's a lot of women.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 06:04 AM
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If possible, a low key friends with benefits could benefit you.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 06:01 AM
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OP replied to my other comment. When black, latina, and asian girls also want a white guy it's basic economics that is where all the women are going. My preference is not only white girls.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 06:00 AM
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/u/thedarkstranger reframed OP in a slightly healthier mindset. However OP is also right.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 05:29 AM
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A self-reported study (so take it with a grain of salt) of women reported what gave them the strongest orgasms. The three traits in a male were his shoulder width, his wealth, and his self confidence. As for men I'm pretty sure it has to do with the female's physical attractiveness.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 05:28 AM
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I know that feeling with approach apathy. You can pull okay girls yet laziness kicks in.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 05:25 AM
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Monk mode implies basic conversation skills and interactions with women. Add those in a couple of times a week to improve socially too.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 04:04 AM
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best learners/monkers even indulge in the struggle and become addicted to it Try being told by a personal 10 that the feelings are mutual but she is dating someone else. I didn't have the caveman skills at the time to push through. If I gain SMV at the very least I get more opportunities and more chances to pull through. Otherwise, overcoming the struggle is a bigger high than happiness itself.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 04:03 AM
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Setting them too high makes aspiring betas miss out on 5s and 6s that are trying to jump you and give you the experience for 8s and 9s. Once you have the experience it doesn't even matter if the girl is a plate or with you in a relationship (for the time being).
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 03:52 AM
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Girls in the west, especially in CA hate white men Some asian women only date white men.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 03:34 AM
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Programmer is LTR quality. Try doing Tinder.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 03:30 AM
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US men going to Thailand is playing an r-type sexual environment on a global level. Even an average beta in the US is top 20% globally.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 06:52 AM
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Ever consider being the foreign guy in Eastern Europe? Being half Asian is actually beneficial in some coastal cities of the US like Seattle where women want a whitewashed man but want to be progressive enough to be with something exotic. You give them both.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 06:52 AM
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Sex is economics. Instead of money it's all about physical traits you possess. Many are controllable and others aren't.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 06:48 AM
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If you're white you'll be fine if you lower your standards. Being non white on Tinder is a death sentence. It's nothing in real life but online dating is racist which makes sense since it's going for your visual ideal.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 12:22 AM
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Disagree because male friendships aren't always equal either. In general your few close friends (male or female) will be equal and everyone else will be unequal.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 12:57 AM
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Tinder is all about becoming top 20% looks, preferably top 10%. Be white helps. If not white, six pack helps. Otherwise meet women in person.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 12:51 AM
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I have a few times. It's a mirage. Your life mission is something you can love and it won't ever cheat on you if you put the work in.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 11:29 AM
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I'll have my mission. If you keep the mission first, you don't have to treat the women like shit. You must always dominate and keep your mission first and they will follow. Alpha can be good or bad but an alpha must always dominate.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 11:11 AM
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Definitely agree. Best thing I taught myself is to open any woman in most situations so my options will always be open mentally. Once my value is higher I'll consider open forms of monogamy.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 07:07 PM
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Serial monogamist is easy pussy. If she cheats or has red flags, you yawn and find one other girl to sleep with until she cheats or has red flags. Rinse and repeat. It's a lazier way about a similar thing. Trying to sleep with other women around that main girl is a worthy effort but I'd rather spend time doing other things (to build value to have the opportunity to do it). Being with a girl is preselection and will bring other girls around. Keep them on the radar when the main girl messes up.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 06:44 PM
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Become a serial monogamist is a solution. Never ever put your whole dependence on one particular girl.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 06:12 PM
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Also met swedes personally that told me their society has a stigma against overweight people
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 11:10 PM
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Luckily their women are still attractive because their society loves the thin look. You can do really well if you tell them feminist stuff whether or not you actually believe in it. The r-type environment doesn't run over there because most of the women are pretty. Demand is high but supply is high so you have the top 50% of the men getting 100% of the single women.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 09:56 PM
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The only thing worse than being with a NPD is being with a BPD.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 09:13 PM
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More like 10% and absolute truth.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 09:21 PM
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you're a 5'9 manlet & offend the wrong person twice your size, you're done. Therefore the best strategy for men around this height is massive charisma around women. Seduce underneath all the social status with every other attractive trait. 5'9 manlet's best tool could be isolate as fast as possible.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 04:17 AM
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You're willing to lead projects/people, you don't shy from responsibility. As a renegade alpha/sigma, I fully disagree. If you want to get top self women you'd have to play that social status game but battling AMOGs and weak men is a waste of time. Play underneath the drama.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 07:54 PM
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Pain is awesome to embrace if you use it correctly. It's like a focus that always reminds you of where you need to go by doing the work that you need to go. It's ultimate focus lies in knowing you hit rock bottom and everything else barely registers a dent. The world isn't fair so use what you know to your advantage to make it work for you by bending the rules instead of trying to play by fantasies.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 07:51 PM
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Game keeps the doors open and potentially into her bed. Mediocre looks only opens a few doors to actually game.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 05:32 AM
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Get more fit. Once the girl sees you improve there is a better chance she will get into you more. Even if she doesn't work out, you can trust your charisma to get another girl especially if you get fit.
/r/askTRP22/11/14 05:46 AM
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be guarded when it comes to intimacy. Best to talk to a bro about it that gets it. If you don't then you have other outlets like online sites. It's best to leave the skeletons in the closet to keep your SMV high to your plate, LTR, wife, etc.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 02:06 AM
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This needs to go on the sidebar. I notice that for playing the traveling side alpha fucks guy you have to do your thing usually on first meet while she is intrigued or else her rationalization hamster kicks in. Has that been your experience? Also besides hostels do you meet these girls anywhere?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 08:10 AM
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For him it changed his demeanor and showed value to the girls. An artistic hobby increases SMV on its own but it also helped give a reason for your friend to meet women. It doesn't have to be photography. As someone who writes in my free time, I frame myself in a way that seems artistic and women become interested.
/r/askTRP21/11/14 07:58 AM
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If my brain wiring was more extroverted and loved people it would be the best way to get big by knowing an ultra amount of connections. Connections is huge social status which is the number one turn on to a good portion of women.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 05:07 AM
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The best game for being about 2-3 points higher SMV in her mind too. Awesome story.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 04:49 AM
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Some girls get wet just by you being stoic and letting them talk themselves into getting into you. Of course this works best if you're already high SMV.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 05:27 PM
2

I WANT to have a woman to whom I can say "I love you" and have her love me back, unconditionally. No such thing exists where it's unconditional. However you can get close if you are very high value and go for a cute girl (not the dream models that always play games). Your immense high value will make her wet at the very site of you and madly in love with you.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 05:43 AM
5

Monk mode is a reaction to when you went hero mode it wasn't good enough. My SMV was too low to keep the gains from the action I actually took. Monk mode is raising a mediocre SMV to something sustainable to where girls will pay attention to you. DT has allure because imagine being bottom 50% your whole life. DT suddenly shows what works to seduce so many. It crushes so many that have been at the bottom for so long. Parts of DT are ways to adapt to get out of the bottom 50%. Other parts are best…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 01:46 AM
77

You can show feelings around women as long as it relates to her tingles.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 10:02 PM
3

Tingles happen with pure charisma for many girls as well. The flaw with Rollo's SMV is that it doesn't count for how much impact each trait has depending on the girl. All women ideally want charisma/game, status, looks, and money. If you have three of the four you're still good. Two of the four is a fighting chance.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 06:43 AM
4

Mark Manson: Models It's the best self improvement book with solid aspects of game.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 05:21 AM
3

Persistence works if the girl has marginal interest. Next works if the girl has no interest.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 12:13 AM
1

Great post. Do you feel people can switch between the two/three types based on particular situations?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 08:29 AM
1

Adapt and use it to your advantage. MGTOW and create something amazing outside of women. While you do these things you could run into a <5% LTR worthy girl that has had only a handful of partners. (These girls run their own version of serial monogamy game).
/r/askTRP15/11/14 12:04 PM
1

tl;dr don't get married so when the relationship goes south you're okay. Serial monogamy for LTR alpha game. Plates otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 11:52 AM
1

It changes depending on location somewhat.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 11:49 AM
1

You're either a pleasure of sex type or it comes easy to you so it became not worth it. Definitely continue your MGTOW path as I encourage it and recommend it to most. Maybe I do want the validation which is poisonous but it comes with being average. Women are like mirrors of knowing you're better than average. I'll think on this.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 11:28 AM
1

The renegade (cold approach, 1v1) method is the best for men who dislike groups. Awesome
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 04:09 AM
2

Lou Salome was a Lucifer's Daughter type. Almost all beta men fall for one of those and then either become miserable or find themselves at /r/theredpill
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 03:19 AM
1

Yes. It's when you are with a woman who you know is objectively attractive but you don't want to subjective sleep with her. At the same time I befriend anyone who sticks around and is needed in my current chapter of life. She also helps confirm red pill theory. However the majority of the time, no.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 03:17 AM
2

Fap once a week. Continue monk mode.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 03:13 AM
2

I love women. I do too but they don't love me back because I am not top 20% SMV yet. You can make shortcuts to this by making them horny or feel good. However with Tinder and other crap like that it really makes being outside of the top 20% much harder.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 03:13 AM
6

Maybe there's a certain fetishism for the idea of an affable, slightly dorky white guy as an archetype. On paper most women want Ryan Gosling archetype, beard or no beard. In person, women are more flexible because a live human being is giving them feelings and horniness. On paper they're looking for the "alpha LTR" archetype which is slightly nerdy white male. (This isn't the ONS archetype).
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 03:09 AM
11

It would be cool to have a master series post on the sidebar. Each day one law would be discussed for 48 days. As an avid fan of the book I'd add in my insight as well.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 03:06 AM
3

If you're at least average in looks it doesn't matter that much in real life. In online dating it's everything.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 10:17 PM
2

AWALT in that they want alpha traits. Some are so spoiled they want all the alpha traits and if an alpha fails are one little thing she'll sleep with him and leave. Women differ in which alpha traits they want. The lesser women who understand they're like a 6 will get a 7-8 and happily stay with the guy as long as he has alpha money or something else to make her life easy. Also she'll have a very low sex drive. The hotter women who know they're 8+ have no reason to settle until their perfect 10 …
/r/askTRP12/11/14 10:22 PM
2

It shows you have options. In OP's case he also changed pressure on him to pressure on her.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 04:24 AM
3

People only love the best they can get.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 07:39 PM
1

I agree although heavy shit tests at LMR is different compared to other women that just jumped on me because I passed so well at other stages. I'll work on it.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 07:37 PM
1

The point is even if you think she's different in reality they're all the same.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 07:36 PM
1

Different interest. But in terms of the whole red pill? AWALT
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 07:36 PM
1

Whole foods. Unicorn central. However lots of crazies central too.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 07:55 AM
1

He'll win them over. He is very stoic and honorable.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 07:54 AM
7

Do you want to be a true alpha and a leader among men? You'd need a new group anyways. Do you want to be between beta and alpha and go the sigma/renegade alpha route? (Not as good with groups of men but arguably as good or better with women). You'd need a few men on your level anyways. In both cases, don't be the bottom of the jock crowd.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 07:25 AM
6

In the bedroom, dating somebody else. I still push through but phone keeps pinging which is the guy who she is dating. Eventually she turns off the phone but the momentum is completely gone. I don't get LMR like this usually since I like going for single girls but girl led me on and the phone was almost her emotional condom. Caveman game could've pulled through here although I'm not experienced in overcoming LMR since I go for single girls and attract them to the point they jump on me.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 01:33 AM
3

I am fortunate enough to have a fuck buddy whom I can practice all this stuff on, and sadly, it works. It's just pathetic in my opinion; how easily swayed humans, and specifically girls, are manipulated by a dominant psychological power. Monk mode to become SMV so high that you don't even have to game 6s and 7s. That's the dream. Have a chance with 8s and 9s is also awesome. Monk mode is the best thing. The moment the girl tells me she has a boyfriend (that feels legit) I next. The moment the gi…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 01:07 AM
15

I recently met up with my dream girl. She is very different from many other girls, she has strange interests and fetishes and all that. However I failed a shit test and the frame went south. She still pulled shit tests on me because I didn't have a high enough SMV. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 12:54 AM
10

If you want models ask yourself is the price is worth it. Getting the six pack, the correct lifestyle to at least have access to them, passing all the shit-tests like a chessmaster, etc. If you want plates ask yourself if you can keep oneitis away and to only meet up with her once a week to sleep with her and keep it at that. You can have anything but not everything. Unless you're in the top 1% SMV then why are you reading this? I'm building my SMV to have an easy time to lay 6-7s. That's the be…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 12:52 AM
1

The renegade alpha. Look up Heartiste's post on it. You can be quiet and have an attractive life otherwise. Get your body lift, do arts/music, and talk to enough women. Notice how I didn't say talk to any bros? The Renegade alpha doesn't play by the rules of the social hierarchy.
/r/askTRP09/11/14 12:45 AM
9

Top 20 get majority of the sex. Next 20 get some sex from monogamous girlfriends or lower quality women that can't end up with a top 20. The remaining 60 get nothing.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 12:23 AM
2

I agree. Even if you're darker skinned 5'3 and not spectacular, if you lift, work on your SMV you will do much better than pouting about it on online forums. Maybe you can't get the 10s without some crazy money or crazy social status. It's okay because if you get your stuff together yu put yourself on the radar. At least you'll have a woman that's a sweet 6 or 7 instead of nothing that you could sleep with, sober at least.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 02:41 AM
2

Even betas that have good conversation skills can give validation in return for a free meal. It isn't ideal since it isn't sexual but it can happen.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 01:32 AM
1

Yes if she gives as much as you give, neither party is attracted to one another while objectively she is attractive. Good for confirming /r/theredpill truths close up.
/r/askTRP07/11/14 07:48 AM
9

The alpha trojan horse. I laughed. It's almost a masterpiece of manipulation right there. EDIT: I lost a girl because I did something that her ex did so I know this exists especially in women who keep memories well. It sucked at the time but I dodged a bullet since she got fat.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 03:05 AM
1

Girls can't get into a sexual mode logically. Go out to a bar or something less than a dinner date. Get her horny. Tell her you're going to see movies at your place once she is horny or something.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 02:58 AM
1

For example, I actually use the dandy style game on women that tend to lean more bi anyways. You still have to make very masculine moves but being a pretty boy works for some girls. So it's applicable. The "victim" types I've seen about half of them in real life so it's applicable.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 10:28 PM
1

You can still try it out by trying in cars, dressing rooms, bathrooms, and other more interesting areas.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 05:19 AM
2

For short term sexual strategy any attractive girl will do as long as you wrap it. For long term sexual strategy they could be preferred although personally would prefer a girl that does serial monogamy so she has some experience and still has a count of less than 5 or so men.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 05:09 AM
3

Art of Seduction - Robert Greene You don't have to be a hyper masculine caveman type to get with women. Although that is one really good strategy there are other sexual strategies. That book tells you the types. Tons of historical figures with success and less success in sexual strategy in the book.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 09:58 PM
2

Welcome to the post-OkCupid and Tinder world.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 07:42 PM
1

I don't think its contempt as much as it is a plan B when alpha male moves on to more attractive women. If alpha is busy then girls riding the CC accept lower alphas and upper betas. Once alpha is free girls riding the CC come running back trying their best to get with alpha exclusively. Alpha laughs.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 07:38 PM
1

Sometimes it takes one. Sometimes it takes dozens.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 02:15 AM
14

Illimitableman, I'll share with you my take on these kind of women's sexual strategy and my reaction to them. It's like if I'm playing black in chess all the time. One of my female friends has a lot of male friends. I don't orbit around her as she lives in another city and she gives me a lot of insight on these types of women only when I need an opinion. I message her once a month. These women are high sexual energy, flirting and touching is crack to them, validation is also solid, and from her …
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 12:40 AM
1

Disagree with point 5. Talk to women in your league. If they aren't up to the quality you want you go into monk mode. If they are up to your quality you want you go into monk mode and talk to them on the side as well.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 11:27 PM
1

OP, if you feel you can get women 4-6 easily if you meet enough women an occasional 8 will believe you're an 8 because she values the decent money and/or body more than the facial shape. As an ethnic minority usually I'm down a point in SMV but every once in a while a girl with a thing for [insert ethnicity here] will see me as that and bump up my SMV by 1-2 points the other way. So it's always about finding individuals that like what you offer.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 07:30 AM
1

People rationalize anything they don't want to believe in or find a way to make sure their beliefs are correct. It's a human flaw.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 06:51 PM
5

He found a sweet unicorn, so I'm really happy for my friend. Keep meeting girls because I'm a believer that unicorns are more 5-10% instead of the <1% TRP believes. However most women have been too westernized.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 06:50 PM
42

I know an alpha that gets laid a lot and is true dark triad. He has no supportive family, a mother who abused him, and an absent father. This guy gives so little fucks that it literally takes him jumping off cliffs and driving 110 mph on the road to feel anything. While it may seem exciting to some it's a tough way to live as well. Learn manipulative behavior because it is advantageous. Learn some narcissistic behavior because it can be seen as ultra confidence. Don't learn psychopathy. Instead …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 06:04 PM
7

American born Asians are fine if they keep their traditional values which she definitely does. How else would she cook and clean for him?
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 05:54 PM
2

I'm not so detailed oriented with it and every media wants to have lighter skin. If you have darker skin it's tough luck although every variable is controllable outside race and height. So lift, get an interesting fashion sense, and do cool things. Therefore you can find a niche of women that like darker skinned men for some reason. It will always be tougher but it isn't impossible. Also darker skinned men should avoid online dating since less than "ideal" looks are screened out much harder onli…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 02:59 AM
1

Above average with indian men who seemed to assimilate well into the culture. They were buff and had more of the bollywood look.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 04:14 PM
1

2 were with white females and another 2 were with mexican girls. However I would say the only way to attract white girls in the bay area is to live in SF, Oakland, or Berkeley (since so many of the out of town people think that's all it is) and attract them in a social circle.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 03:40 PM
3

Being alpha in the US makes a huge difference because it at least puts you on the radar. I knew an Indian guy who wasn't even that alpha but put in the work to meet a lot of women and got laid decently in NYC. His quality was a little above average but he found a niche to find the girls that didn't really care about race as much.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 05:11 AM
4

Cut off all people who ridicule if possible. Date and sleep with whomever you find attractive regardless of race. Even if some woman isn't your ideal type sometimes that individual can be worthy. SF is also one of the most ruthless places for any kind of relationships because of feminism, polygamy (sharing alphas), more separation between those with money and without money, out of town folks that bring more closed minded views, more men than women in the city, and other issues. However, I've see…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 05:04 AM
2

If you're improving that's the only comparison you need.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 04:27 AM
1

It doesn't matter how you meet these women as long as you meet them.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 04:01 AM
1

Recently took one last chance at some disney crap to get over point #8 just to solidify proof for myself. Obviously the girl played me the whole way through. I created that frame to ignite a crazy motivation. It's been awesome. Never ever do #3. The rest are great points.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 04:00 AM
3

An antichrist-like women that fits everything you wrote here started my journey from omega to aspiring alpha. I consider myself upper beta right now due to certain circumstances that are up to me to change. However without this evil woman I'd still be an omega/lower beta. To prove her charms I'm almost certain her lay count is 100+ men.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 03:37 AM
2

You're the reason why I posted it. This isn't a feel good post as much as it is to be okay with being lonely and living life alone.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 03:31 AM
3

SF, the dating economics are incredibly hard. You get feminism, polygamy, a more prominent top 10-20% (due to tech startups), women that are non-native (therefore being more closed-minded), and less attractive looking. All the average women think they're 10s sharing an alpha. It's a sad situation.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 09:48 PM
1

I would've been happy with an average relationship and an average life before until I personally experienced many cases of a girl I liked pick the other guy who was deemed alpha regardless of my actions. Also seeing my female friends give so much more leeway to alphas while having no attraction to betas was another reason to write this post. Red pill is about sexual strategy and I personally see everyday that average doesn't cut it anymore. You have to be special to keep a relationship nowadays.…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 02:44 PM
1

Meet more girls You will have a harder time being jealous if you have your focus on more than one girl
/r/askTRP28/10/14 07:16 AM
1

The best part of being normal and having empathy is that you default as caring about people. So you can continue to care about those who matter a lot to you and then treat everyone else like chess until they prove otherwise. You can teach yourself dark triad but you will have side effects like guilt and remorse at first.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 06:41 AM
2

Always heard that for Asians/Indians you need to be crazy dark triad. The contrast makes women hella interested.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 02:32 AM
1

Height as one variable doesn't matter. Try having two or three or four variables against what is attractive to the majority. Imagine the 5'5 skinny asian guy that has a crappy job that'll work his ass off to try hard enough to get a decent girl. That's worth this post. Imagine betas close to being an alpha like you getting there faster due to posts like mine. That's worth it too.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 11:39 PM
2

Height doesn't matter as much and it's a variable given as an example of a beta on paper striving to be an alpha by protecting that dream at any cost. Even if the whole world and sexual dynamics dictate a 5'5 guy cannot get pussy as much as a 6'0 guy he can make it to a reasonable level with ten times the determination.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 10:15 PM
2

Coming to red pill allows you to meet fellow aspiring alphas however how many do you meet in real life? It takes a while to find someone willing to talk outside the matrix.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 08:58 PM
1

It's acceptance of being lonely in parts of your life. Situational aquaintances are a part of life
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 08:53 PM
1

Those are good friends then
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 07:24 PM
3

Similar thing keep hustling
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 06:42 PM
1

It's partially a rant about how hard a good portion of red pill will have to fight just to get on a decent level compared to natural alphas. The other part is I wrote a summary of things I've personally experienced and seen.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 06:13 PM
3

Of course you do your own thing anyway. The more you do your own thing the more you'll be lonely because no one else does it. No one can relate to an aspiring alpha because most people accept you as beta or alpha. Trying to go up has a lot of resistance by people and by society (even genetics too)
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 06:00 PM
3

Good with girls and leading men are two different things. Decide if you want to do the latter because it may not be worth it
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 05:31 PM
10

Human interaction is like a game of chess. I bring value and stay loyal to all people who stick around. I am dark triad otherwise
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 05:00 PM
8

From a fellow Asian : get buff and assertive. Learn the game.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 03:38 PM
6

The example I gave can be used as motivation to work to be as alpha as possible. 6'0 models won't adapt but you gotta make the best with what you have.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 03:15 PM
8

America was amazing with liberated women offering easy sex. Like any society this applies only to the top 10-20% of men.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 12:12 PM
-1

Get the alpha look to get more options. More options means less attachment. Alpha look correlates to less attachment.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 12:09 PM
1

I wonder if it was evolutionary at all or something like depression that can be beneficial in very mild forms. Maybe a mild form of oneitis would allow a backup man to take care of a woman's alpha child back when a clan didn't care about whose kid it was.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 11:05 PM
1

I'm just asking her to be what a guy friend would be. Talk about manly things and if she needs to occasionally vent she's human then so be it. If it becomes too much you can reframe that through red pill concepts.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 06:47 PM
3

MGTOW Find what makes you passionate and go do it.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 03:33 PM
6

MGTOW Find a passion that makes you feel, like traveling or something.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 03:09 PM
3

My best friend is a female who leans towards being a bro. She isn't a 10 by any means but she's a decent 6 that could easily be the alpha girl of a lesser group. She talks sports, raves, and other things that I could share with a guy. I tell her a lot about r/theredpill and she definitely respects it. We always pay for our own things so she isn't using me for resources except to get a guy opinion on some crap that confirms /r/theredpill theory. For example she'll ask me what she needs to do to g…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 02:59 PM
1

So I am not going to get what other men have. Now what? I literally wake up feeling miserable. You're alive in an era where you're set because of work and money. Allow yourself to have a chance though. Find a cute girl that's around 5'0-5'3 in real life. Learn to talk in the day. Day time is cool because you are not being compared to taller men. The only thing you can't control is height. You can get buff and get to the optimal point in every other trait. Just go for the really shorter girls tha…
/r/askTRP25/10/14 12:00 AM
3

Caveman game needs point 9 a lot. However it isn't the only solution.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:04 PM
1

because SF brings a lot of women from the rest of the us, the ones with idealism and that idealism makes them incredibly picky too. "idealistic" mate in their minds. Maybe that's one theory. How does LA differ with this though?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:03 PM
6

I'm in the minority here and say that feminine and masculine energy don't matter as much as long as you make masculine moves at the right moment. Why do so many pretty boys get girls? They still make masculine moves.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 06:22 PM
1

Sometimes you get a hint. I'm Filipino so Americanized Filipinos that like themselves are a great target. White girls that say they're into conventions tend to be hit or miss. Same with latinas. I'm more toned and average height so I'm not going to talk to disinterested women for long that tend to be into caveman game for example.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 03:43 PM
1

Yup some girls really like that look. You have to kind of guess on day game what girls like that. I never ever day game that look like they wouldn't touch anything outside a club anyways for example.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 03:21 PM
1

mixed race is kind of vague but it's a balance. I figure to day game girls I want to just to see anyways and then day game girls hot enough that keep checking me out.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 02:41 PM
1

Day game is a definite no go. It doesn't work, you're too outside to connect with someone not in an environment where the goal is to meet people. Foreign women, European that's easier. Disagree if you know which white women will go for your look.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 02:37 PM
2

Any theories as to why it's harder in the bay? A couple of my exes that were white I had to literally meet up with around LA. I also blame it on me being in the bay area,
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 02:31 PM
1

I agree and that's why game/vibe work well but are less important than height. However depending on the girl the order depends. Imagine a college girl wanting fun. Do you think she cares about money then?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 02:26 PM
1

Top out your SMV so that race matters less even if it still will.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 02:24 PM
1

You might have more luck with foreign white women. she is one of those girls who likes your race in particular and has a fetish for it. They tend to have a fetish more often. However American white women have it as well although less so although if you approach many women you can eventually run into one. It only takes one to be in a relationship with them. As for sleeping around accept more average looking women.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 02:24 PM
2

Goes back to location. Goes back to previous poster being 6'3. I'm 5'8 and dated/slept with attractive women 5'8-5'10. The difference is you must become charismatic and find clues to the women that really prefer minorities.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 01:45 PM
1

daygame is awesome as a minority because the act itself is being different. long term frame happens because a girl would always like to say to her girlfriends oh we just happened to meet at a park etc edit: if they have wealth why don't you have a good chance?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 01:21 PM
1

Girls in NYC and SF have way too many choices and tend to be more professional and almost see men in a trait value spotlight. So I completely agree with this post.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 01:18 PM
3

No but it's <1% They are the type that want to take care of you like a mother and that also has its own problems.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 08:21 AM
2

Power vacuum is contextual power. My example is similar to OP's example in that if you are average you can only attract an average girl (with occasional exceptions). If you are average and seen with a hotter girl, then other women may rationalize why you're with her and that vacuum can make a woman's head spin to where her conclusion of you is above average.
/r/AlreadyRed12/09/14 10:54 PM
6

Machiavellianism is the easiest of the three parts of the DT to learn. Once you get the upper hand and have power to influence them (via attraction or some other reason) you really must use that vacuum to let them rationalize why they're into you. Sometimes they get themselves into bed without realizing why. Your powerful persona that initially influenced them can have even more power with that vacuum.
/r/AlreadyRed11/09/14 01:12 AM
1

Maybe they hide the AF part really well. Based on OP's experience though they tend to work well in BB systems because they have more of a motherly unified complex towards making the community happy and therefore making her partner happy. Compare to westernized women and only their own hamster matters all of the time.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 08:38 PM
8

When they're not westernized AFBB doesn't apply as well.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 04:54 AM
3

Last weekend I had a second date with a 25 year old 7.5-8 HB, call her T. Long make out, took her back to my place and escalated until I picked her up and threw her on my bed. Ran up against anti-slut defenses, but I shrugged it off with no butthurt and sent her home. Third date was sushi and drinks on a weeknight. She was still got and heavy, kissing and playing grabass. But a flat no when I invited her to my place. 3-date rule says I should cut her loose, but she's significantly hotter than my…
/r/askTRP30/08/14 06:30 AM
9

You and Softharem are both right. Some women will stay with you as long as you keep your frame one hundred percent of the time. Other women will go with whomever has the strongest frame in the moment and therefore will eventually cheat.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 11:09 PM
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Considering your knowledge of the atmosphere, do serial monogamy. Every few months decide if the relationship is going well enough to continue. If she's on IG too much then you can soft next her. If she does something you don't like you can move on to the next girl.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 06:16 PM
1

One of the comments there: It could be something called hysterical bonding. Even if you don't want him, there can be a weird territorial thing and/or a deep need to prove your worth and sexiness. The female version of conquest is to bond with an alpha even if the alpha is bonding with all sorts of women.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 01:03 PM
1

Yet, although unicorns do not exist I have recently met someone who works for my fathers restaurant. Cute 24 smart, respectful good family etc. Make a joke about sex and she finds it revolting. Hates clubbing, is void to any social media as she finds it pathetic and other very good qualities (only one serious boyfriend) very family orientated. Unicorns exist (<5%) in places outside attention whore venues like a bar or online because of their good qualities like staying loyal to one boyfriend. Si…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 12:59 PM
1

good social status Very few updates that prove you're high value by showing pictures of you going to different places and pictures of you with good looking people.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 12:47 PM
1

It sucks having to "fake" social status with words to a girl.. I have no friends, and I don't know how to go about making new ones. Join something if you want to play it the typical way.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 12:46 PM
2

Many moments of alpha frame came crashing down with one moment of vulnerable beta frame. That reminder is a reason why I will always believe in most, if not, all parts of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 05:15 PM
2

Heard similar versions of the same story from many other men. Girl changes because she meets you. Through good "game" (manipulation) you can continue to make her good because you were a grand motivation that changed her. You continue to keep her "good" by isolating her from bad influences. One day she meets her old friends, or new guy friends that bring her back to her own habits (e.g. drugs, alcohol, sex with anything that moves, etc.) and she quickly reverts back to her old ways. Unfortunately…
/r/AlreadyRed17/08/14 08:09 AM
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Fits exactly with my serial monogamy game. If a girl seems to be getting nice feelings from you and vice versa be with her for some time because it's mutually beneficial to both. Maintain frame and if she messes up in a major way then soft next. If she does it again then find another girl capable. It helps me because it's less time chasing tail and I enjoy intimacy more. You can be vulnerable if that vulnerability is consistent with positive feelings and shows strength (e.g I took a risk and fel…
/r/AlreadyRed15/08/14 02:54 AM
1

80% fundamentals The best tip I have is to go after women that you feel will have you in their bare standards. If you know you're an upper beta then you'll probably have a tough time sleeping with models regardless of how good your game is. (If your SMV is 6 and you're going for 10s then you're going to have a bad time). GLL writes in another article to stay within 1-2 points of your own SMV for better success. If you pass their physical threshold game enhances their attraction to you and keeps …
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 04:17 AM
2

Is sex with a man who is not in the top 20% that undesireable? If you're in the quadrant from 20% to 30% then she'll be fine with the sex because you're an upper beta which is probably close enough for a portion of women. If you're at around 50% then she'll have sex with you for sex and then trade up unless she finds something that makes you 20% in her mind or is about value or money game. If you're below average then it's probably not going to happen anyways.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 07:31 AM
1

Change your end goal and you don't have to worry about this.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 01:02 AM
1

Before the first time you get intimate with a girl and all the time with any girl that isn't a long term option with you, you must maintain a frame that shows you have options. Even if you don't the illusion of options will keep her more attracted than a rational voice saying you haven't gotten laid in years.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 01:00 AM
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The good looking ones are lucky enough to get some of the action. 80-20 isn't 100-0 even if they get the lesser part of the whole pie. If a woman is going on a carousel and all the alphas are being used up then you can get away with a good looking beta because it's only casual fun. It goes both ways.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 04:51 AM
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If you spin it enough, it's almost the ultimate beta philosophy, and perpetuates female entitlement and slut culture. Sexual strategy is about how to get sex. TRP is about finding what works. It doesn't matter if you want the world to stop slut culture because it won't stop for you. You have to find how to make it work for you within the new rules because that's the trend. Become the top percent, find a unicorn, MGTOW, serial monogamy, plates, etc. You get to decide what is alpha and what isn't …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 11:50 PM
2

Yes social proof with any hot female works well to overcome physical limitations somewhat.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 09:12 PM
1

Considering the landscape: If you want to sleep with a lot of women disregarding their personality then by all means become as physically hot as you can be and considering you got a date with this girl you are probably in the 20%. If you don't want to play the game MGTOW or serial monogamy game. If you're lucky with a unicorn keep her and if you're not continue the rotation once a girl does something that gives off a red flag. If you can't play the game because you're too ugly then work on yours…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 08:18 PM
1

For any short term sexual strategy it's a must that gains attention. For a longer term relationship it's preferred but more optional.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 07:30 PM
2

Once he shared his negative, vulnerable, teary-eyed feelings, she dried up +1 had this happen
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 07:28 PM
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tl;dr men become lazier because if you don't fit into the top men you become lonely and do less productive things. The football star gets more tail, than the 10 other guys on his floor. The one solution I have for that is to never be on the floor of the star unless you are the star. EDIT: If you find yourself in a situation where you can be a contextual alpha by simply being the only guy you're good too.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 07:27 PM
1

Oneitis for a girl that slept with everyone else except me cause I want just beta but an omega.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 03:49 PM
2

I was raised to be nice and treat everyone with equality. My goal in life isn't to get laid as many times as possible, but instead find one girl who's perfect for me and marry her and have a great life. Equality is good for society. Dominance creates tingles in women. These two are very different things so pick and choose when to use when to be equal (society, acts of kindness) and dominant (attraction, negotiation)
/r/askTRP15/07/14 05:11 AM
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In an ideal world everyone would want respect to cause tingles but that's not how humans are. We evolved to balance our intellect with animalistic instincts. She says it's attractive but it can be off putting and that lead to her telling me what she would change about me. It gives her the tingles but logically it sucks that something disrespectful gives her the tingles. It shouldn't matter what she thinks and it's up to you to decide if you want to play the straight up asshole game or a more cal…
/r/askTRP15/07/14 05:08 AM
2

Tinder if you don't fall in the top 20% of looks don't even bother. Real life you can get away with looking average by talking away your face.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 12:46 AM
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For online it's 100-0 looks, for bar game it's 90-10 looks, day game it's 50-50.
/r/askTRP14/07/14 09:48 PM
1

A few inches either way usually doesn't matter. If it does for one specific girl you find another girl.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 12:28 PM
1

Sexual strategy is amoral. It's up to OP to decide.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 12:26 PM
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It depends on you what you believe to be worth it. I also don't have the drive to sleep with 100+ women because I don't like that lifestyle so I do more of serial monogamy. It all depends on what your lifestyle is and what you want out of RP to help you.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 12:24 PM
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It depends on how much effort you want to put out there. I wrote on a previous post on /r/theredpill that I prefer a serial monogamy style of relationships because I enjoy the intimacy and low-effort. If the girl starts messing around then I break up with her and find another girl every 3-12 months. All men should strive for what they want and it seems that you want to get rid of being lonely so maybe serial monogamy could work for you.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 12:17 PM
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Circumstances determine how far game can add to your SMV. Game makes an above average male in looks do extremely well and spin plates easily if he chooses to especially with the ease of online dating. Game makes an average male do okay. Game makes a below average male go from nothing to an occasional ounce of luck with a 5.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 09:44 AM
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It's taboo because it's overt manipulation. It's the same way a woman that sleeps around doesn't overtly say she is sleeping around. Playing the game needs to be discreet.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 09:37 AM
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Work hard but you can frame things in a way that makes it seem more natural
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 08:48 AM
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Naturals don't understand how to explain it. Betas don't understand it at all.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 08:17 AM
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Women eat up novelty so it'll work for a little while
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 12:26 PM
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If you're ultra social in general you'll get laid more and have more friends because of the fact you're always out socializing. The bigger your circle the bigger your prospects in the circle. As for male friends they help if they at least respect redpill.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 12:15 PM
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He seems arrogant. Arrogance is now enough to become a victim of your past.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 12:01 PM
3

Don't get married. You read TRP so use that to find success in the mess of western civilization.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 03:18 AM
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Girls that I have no mutual attraction with do make great wingmen however because they don't feel threatened by other women. When you both know there is no mutual attraction you can use each other as social proof which is win win. Girls that gave me the LJBF talk always ended up being terrible wingmen. Girls that give the LJBF talk either want you as a backup or are manipulative which are bad things for a wingman.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 05:31 AM
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Female friends are some of the best wingmen. If attracted to specific female it isn't worth the time. If you're not attracted to them but know they're attractive they are legit good wingmen.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 01:36 AM
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The problem is that TRP all want a 9 or 10. You need to learn every skill in the book as well as have the right lifestyle, look, and money.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 12:45 AM
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Learn TRP to become a man hotter women would want then.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 04:17 AM
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Being a more moderate member of TRP this poster potentially got a unicorn and proof that I believe unicorns exist more than other members of TRP believe. However more unicorns exist at the 5-6 level than say model looking women.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 03:25 AM
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Social circles have a tight knit part of the group and a looser part of the group. If the guy friendzones himself that's his problem as much as it is the girl leading him on with false pretenses since he doesn't make the "best" cut. You avoid this by talking with others in the circle that legit want to be friends or dates or someone to sleep with. Mixing the friends and dates part is where the problem lies.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 10:36 PM
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I try to balance out TRP with knowing this knowledge will help me have a chance with 6s and 7s and an occasional 8 that really likes my look because I objectively consider myself a 6 right now due to average money, average looks, a disregard for social status, redeeming game. Before TRP I didn't know anything and was lower due to having no balls and no confidence to stand up for myself whatsoever.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 09:53 AM
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Men must fend for themselves since it is a double standard that is reality TRP is about reality
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 09:19 AM
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Women have the right to date only the best that they get or "alphas" as you call them. I agree. As for the "betas or rejects" if she scrapped them completely from her friend circle she would be seen as being unfair, if she doesn't she's seen as being a taunt and keeping "betas" as pets. Again a fallacious statement by RP. I disagree because you also gave only two extremes. She could just keep him around as an acquaintance saying hi and that's all so he isn't disregarded as seen by the group and …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 08:47 AM
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Based on this comment what you can do: Move to places where women look like women Work on yourself to become the top 10-20% women desire regardless of society health MGTOW Any combination of the three above
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 05:41 AM
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If people on TRP keep themselves limited to those two options then that's ridiculous. TRP is about understanding the double standards of women's actions. If she sleeps around it wouldn't be a bad thing except she sleeps with alphas and keeps beta orbiters in orbit.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 05:32 AM
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Easy solution is to work on everything you can control. In short: male 5s think they can land 7s, fail and jerk off. Female 5s think they can land 8s. Succeed occasionally. For a night. Everyone loses. Disney told everyone we could have anyone. Reality really hits hard especially for the lower value males and females. It's more like everyone could have anything if they're 8+ in SMV.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 05:23 AM
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/r/thanktrp
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 11:23 PM
7

48 laws of power should be a beginning read to guard against dark triad people.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 04:46 AM
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serial monogamy is staring you in the face and it's a nice alternative for a busy man/lazy man.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 04:38 AM
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OP makes it seem like sleeping with women is bad if it's a primary concern. Spreading your seed is sexual strategy and therefore priority number one because TRP is all about sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 04:37 AM
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Context by being good looking enough to fit the threshold, in a big "progressive" city, and using the power of reputation for you. A couple of guys I know that spin plates (I do serial monogamy so it isn't me) make it easy on themselves by getting one 7-9 sleep with them and literally bang her so well that she'll tell her friends and they all ride the alpha.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 04:34 AM
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It should be in beginning section to prevent men from dark triad women and other men. It's a great counter strategy book if you have morals.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 03:15 AM
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Find your passion. Do that passion and let it kill you. If you need more money to do that passion, save up and work anywhere towards getting the money to do that passion.
/r/askTRP24/05/14 03:03 AM
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It's one giant shit test
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 01:18 AM
2

This post is the perfect example of law 11. At this rate all the laws will have RP examples posted on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 06:38 AM
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When yours truly has been in love with a girl only for her to remember the alpha widow, you know true love is laughable. It's the kind of stuff that creates strategy to become the alpha that alpha widows because nowadays it seems like the only successful sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 08:16 PM
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Free carousel long until a true alpha comes along. Poly is a false idol since some progressives love it when in reality it let's a woman have sex at will. Some women like sleeping around; the only reason why red pill is pissed is that while she sleeps around upper betas she'll tell lower beta to keep being nice and maybe she'll give it up for him when in fact she is waiting for a true alpha to be exclusive with. If a girl stays poly and leads no one else on then I'll be okay with that. I'm prett…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 08:13 PM
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In this case the girl is working and has no way out if she isn't interested. There goes ever going in that store again. If she's interested it's up to her. An employee working and being kind for work is extremely different than someone on their own time.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 07:37 PM
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Talk for a couple of minutes if she seems interested you give your number.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 07:32 PM
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Great answer. I'll add that I'm from the US and while not as powerful as before still a developed country where you see the disparity between the have and have nots more and more every day. The ones with the money, power, and ability to take their trophy wife/mistress to a 5 star hotel and going across the street to see a homeless man without a penny shows that people will use whatever it takes to get to the top. If that means being good or evil doesn't matter because you will always believe the…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 07:09 PM
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The initial anxiety is such a big hurdle it's worth taking a few days just saying hi to all sorts of people just to get your mouth open to strangers. After you say hi to about 10-20 people then start with simple casual how are you doing conversations. Then after another 10-20 people saying how are you you start with your own conversation thread. Thread: You: "That donut looks delicious what kind is it?" Girl: "Chocolate it's decent" You: "Cool is that the best flavor of doughnuts around here?" G…
/r/askTRP19/05/14 06:26 PM
1

I don't buy anyone anything. I split the bill on everything. If I have a significant other at the current time I buy gifts in random intervals.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 06:03 PM
1

You can choose the path of an enlightened, honest man. You don't have to because other paths exist. Alphas have many paths.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 05:35 AM
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Law 38 of 48 laws of power: "Think as you like but behave like others" You have to twist things even if people dislike twisted things like this overtly these indirect forms of manipulation are needed and desired by the masses to win things like your uni.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 05:16 AM
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You have to live with your decisions. Your decisions can be used for good and/or evil from an alpha standpoint.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 12:13 AM
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Good comment and I was merely stating what TRP is about. I manipulate those who manipulate and treat better those who treat me better. At the same time you can be good and/or evil and be alpha all of the time within being good or evil.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 12:13 AM
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It was what kept me going. I think I knew deep down it wouldn't happen. I just wanted it to be true so insanely badly. Women would rather share an alpha subconsciously than be with a beta. AF;BB
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 09:03 PM
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Yeah because they suddenly got their 9 or 10. I understand it based on context though. If they go to the movies and he sleeps with her it is because she thinks of him as higher value and maybe he is a contextual college alpha and she's a 5 or 6. That's more context than any skill although some field reports try to frame it differently. If a guy goes to the nightclub writes about how women are all saying hi to him that he is a regular yet he isn't buying them drinks then it's more likely the wome…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 04:47 PM
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I agree in that access and logistics are more important than chemistry if you want to get laid. If you ask 50 and none of them lay you then you're SMV doesn't match theirs. Then you drop a point or two to find a girl you find lay-able and ask 50 more If not OP can always go MGTOW
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 05:44 AM
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I know this going to be an unpopular opinion pro-tip: never start with protecting yourself from self rejection like a beta.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 08:28 PM
1

If you dressed well, got fit, and learned how to hold conversations (especially those that make women horny by talking about sexual topics for example) you would easily have a chance with some women regardless how ugly you are. Will it ever be easier like an attractive man? No but above gives you a fighting chance. That's the best you got under bad genetic lottery unless you want to pay for plastic surgery.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 07:59 PM
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I agree to where you can aim upwards at about 2 SMV points because while all women are similar in liking all of the traits that turn them on it varies a little on which ones matter more for each girl. An 8 may like money as the number one thing and another 8 may like charisma as the number one thing. I'm probably going to do better with the latter.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 12:47 AM
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Sometimes all you can get is less due to bad genetic lottery, bad location, and other reasons.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 05:18 AM
4

Look up men going their own way. It is loosely related to trp in that they saw what the whole social dynamics were but instead decided to do their own thing. For example I decided to minimize my interactions for a minimal serial monogamist sexual strategy based on learning TRP.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 02:27 AM
8

Persistence is good if the cause is worthy and correctly done. This is neither.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 11:43 PM
7

For a one night stand sure
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 11:34 PM
4

After hundreds of interactions with women where I tried everything, these are my conclusions to help men get laid quicker since this is sexual strategy. It doesn't hurt to try on an occasional 10 that is too hot to pass up. Just know why she probably won't sleep with you but if you want to work with the chance as well as pushing your limits then that's cool. Experiences and the thrill of the hunt types can easily ignore this post because this post is to save time and help those reach pussy quick…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 09:50 PM
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No because marriage is overrated and I would never participate in an overrated ceremony of a promise that goes against human nature. Would I still have a LTR? Yes because long term mating strategy is solid for ease of access and being able to work on other things. The balance is learning enough game to get another LTR if the first one cheats.
/r/askTRP14/05/14 09:45 PM
2

So what's the point of your post? You break the stereotype while understanding it'll be harder especially if you want women outside Asians.
/r/askTRP14/05/14 09:39 PM
1

Numbers game can work but it has to be delivered correctly. Wrong median and wrong message I bet.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 09:05 PM
1

interchangeable names for the same thing
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 09:01 PM
5

The answer is cultural conditioning. Why are white women seen as the hottest? That's conditioning also
/r/askTRP14/05/14 06:08 PM
4

The renegade alpha thrives in this environment because he doesn't play with rigged rules. In isolation a renegade can do anything and seem alpha by isolating women outside the typical rules.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 06:02 PM
1

Should've added that you judge it with more neutral color scheme. Well we'll agree to disagree there. I've been doing fine with nike running shoes in the daytime
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 02:13 AM
1

I agree with almost everything. What's wrong with stylish running shoes for casual daytime though? I usually wear Nikes that look solid with fitted jeans and a shirt. Of course if you go for more than anything casual you must go boots.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 01:31 AM
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Maybe in the future as I don't enjoy social circles too much. I understand its joy and power when the moments are really fun. I have many obstacles to top pussy that I may not want to overcome consider the net benefit doesn't appeal to me either. You also have the race issue and I am non-white getting at girls outside my race and therefore you have to drop a point or two just based on that realistically. These are not limiting beliefs. These are observations seen from hundreds of personal intera…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 01:04 AM
2

I understand how it works because in groups I am usually the less alpha male and I see how women look up to that male in the group. Maybe a reason I don't do it is because I know I'm more of the lesser alpha/upper beta placement so if I isolate a girl I'm the only man and therefore alpha enough to sleep with.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 12:54 AM
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I'm a true renegade. For a few points and a slightly bigger dopamine rush in the bedroom the trade off isn't worth having to be alpha within a group. I always play the isolate a cute girl and sleep with her then be with her for 3-6 months for steady sex supply and repeat the process. You don't have to worry about AMOGs or other alphas messing with the girl usually because she's a 7. Usually girls hotter than a 7 also want men that lead a group and I don't like doing that.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 12:44 AM
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No, girls like pretty boys, women like men. Considering half the 30+ age group here wants 18 year olds you can still pull off being a pretty boy if you're alpha even if what you said is true
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 12:18 AM
1

Sexual strategy is understanding how women are to determine what you want to do with that. For /r/redpillschool being in all of his multiple plates, for other users how to add value to meet more plates, etc.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 12:16 AM
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Disagree. Women like alpha pretty boys and alpha men that look like men
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 12:12 AM
3

Around your age with a similar mindset. Worse case you can start over in your later 20s. While some men may look down upon that at least men don't really have a wall until their 40s if any at all
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 12:08 AM
4

That's good. It is never too late to change.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 12:06 AM
2

casual gaming should not be a negative attribute in my opinion. Read the second example. A guy who has more balance would have a healthier time playing some casual video games. What do you mean about the books part?
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 12:05 AM
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We are a hierarchical species. Which is why movements are overrated. Red Pill is simply knowledge. I dislike the hierarchy so understanding I may not get a hot 8 9 10 I am satisfied with my serial monogamist sexual strategy with cute 7s for example
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 12:04 AM
1

Thanks bro your response is the reason I wrote the post. Pros/cons to all sorts of lifestyles so there isn't a point to get jealous of someone similar since they live a different life with a different path.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 12:02 AM
1

OP, can you give one good example of dressing well to avoid chump filter? I noticed there wasn't an example
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 07:13 AM
1

The definition of alpha is widely different on TRP. Many men believe money is everything and some others think it's other traits. While girls are almost all the same the subtle difference is golddigger that wants money instead of girl wanting an alpha based on lifestyle. Your lifestyle sounds like it's getting to alpha even with less money.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 05:57 AM
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A rich engineer once told me "Stop fucking with five for lifers (people who will make 5 digit incomes their entire life." What a boring life outside the six figures. If his life is good outside of that though then props for looking down so hard on people.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 04:45 AM
3

Learn how women are and then decide your choice within this knowledge with spinning plates, serial monogamist, or MGTOW
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 11:20 PM
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Use feminism to become empowered Use traditional female role to be helpless victim Switch between the two depending on situation
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 10:48 AM
3

As long as they don't repeatedly make the same mistake
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 12:05 AM
3

If the girls are hot enough and young enough then I agree Just worrying all these women are 25+ and seeing the wall in near term that have already been pump n dumps
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 10:22 PM
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1) How old are you again? 2) What's your job? Oh cool, that must mean you make a lot of money! 3) Are you interested in children. Beta bux
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 10:22 PM
1

Use women's gauges to determine the alpha. It becomes too obvious when they're saying "something is there but nothing will happen" kind of female hamstering talk. Use what the boar is subconsciously into with trp knowledge to understand how that particular lion gave them the tingles.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 04:16 PM
2

A true renegade quote for all aspiring sigmas
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 08:52 AM
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Sex is the most important part in relationships. If there is no sex it is a friendship or some other form of manipulation is going on. Now what type of relationships you decide to do whether it's serial monogamy or spinning plates or multiple long term girls is up to each person based on this knowledge. I just advocate not determining your own self worth from it. An important lesson I learned was to determine your self worth by doing the best you could within your control. Some people say close …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 08:49 AM
3

it doesn't matter
/r/askTRP11/05/14 08:36 AM
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Gammas have social structure. They are jealous of alphas and have years of pent up anger for being less than them.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 08:31 AM
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For the first part you find another girl For the second part you find another girl
/r/askTRP11/05/14 08:22 AM
2

They can't until a gamma/alpha shows no game/game. Even a natural has way less tension than a gamma for example.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 08:20 AM
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I go according to Vox's http://voxday.blogspot.com/2010/05/explaining-sigma-again.html Gammas: The outsiders, the unusual ones, the unattractive, and all too often the bitter. Often intelligent, reliably unsuccessful with women, and not uncommonly all but invisible to them, the gamma alternates between placing women on pedestals and hating the entire sex mostly depending upon whether an attractive woman happened to notice his existence or not that day. Sigma: The outsiders who don't play the soc…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 08:19 AM
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Spot on If any girl I want to lay except a gf. I would do the plate thing above. If I blatantly friendzoned a girl for one of many purposes (to see what alpha is to them, for their circle) I would let her rant about it if it isn't related to another guy. If about another guy I change the topic or leave.
/r/askTRP11/05/14 08:14 AM
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Sigma is the dark rebel in the corner that gets all the women due to being mysterious. Think of Bukowski during his prime as a writer because without his writing he is a pissed off gamma but his writing was so legendary to troubled women it would melt pussy right to him and in that regard he was a sigma, aka renegade alpha as Heartiste calls it. So usually the musicians, artists, that sort of person although ordinary men can be sigma as long as they meet enough women and do something cool that m…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 07:42 AM
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Remember: A girlfriend/plate you're not fucking is JUST A FRIEND. A friend that helps me see TRP philosophy in everyday life. It isn't even a plate if you're not fucking her. A female friend is good for a few purposes like seeing what is alpha in her mind to become that alpha for girls hotter than her.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 03:41 AM
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If alpha is to beta then sigma is to gamma The problem with gamma is that even if they are going outside the realms of mass culture they do it in a repulsive manner like they were excessively bullied and messed with. You can build a niche to sigma with your handful of women and whatever art, writing, etc. you intend to do that takes up time beyond the social hierarchy. The problem is that gammas are like damaged betas because they're so pissed. I would say a portion of red pill newbies are gamma…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 03:29 AM
5

The stuff we tell ourselves to make it acceptable to sleep with someone.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 03:02 AM
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For me it's more the mouth. The butthole can be off limits to girls madly in love but less experienced. Usually though they'll go down on you no matter what.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 03:00 AM
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Worse than bluepill because their solution is based on fantasy. I mean it took generations to get over "progressive" issues like race which isn't close (even if you wanted it) to being eradicated. How long do you think it would take this egalitarianism to be accepted according to these MRAs? Their solution is how pure disney monogamy is held as the standard. It is a blatant lie based on fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 02:58 AM
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He lives at home so he could use that rent money to put into the 401k. OP is successful with women and lives at home that is a cool story.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 01:58 AM
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Be vulnerable with a spine. That's the difference.
/r/askTRP09/05/14 09:34 PM
1

I saw a post recently that warned me of never talking about deep existential stuff either.I get the idea and why it is true but... You can but you have to keep it light. Talking about the universe like a boring essay is going to make the girl leave. Talking about the universe in a dramatic, over the top way will make the girls interested. It's about how you say things
/r/askTRP09/05/14 09:33 PM
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Like anything that isn't positive, give it in very small doses if you do. "I'm having a tough time about x and I am doing what I can to fix it." is a big difference compared to "I'm having a tough time about x&y&z and feed me pity validation because I'm showing weakness, validate my hurt by making it go away pixie girl okay?" The former allows you to express yourself and maintain alpha. The latter shows beta fail.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 08:49 PM
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As someone who loves humanity a lot even considering how some are worthless piles of cells it is a powerful place to be in when you have this existential indifference to what happens to you. Seeing the sociopathic bullies beat up the nerdlings, while the attractive girls would giggle and flock to them afterwards. TRP makes you realize this applies more than high school and applies to many parts of life. After that the joy is that it's up to you You can become sociopathic to get more insecure hot…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 07:20 PM
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Hotter women are more prone to hypergamy due to being told they're beautiful their whole lives. It creates a narcissistic spoiled brat that feels like she needs more and more and more whether it is attention or dicks.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 06:32 PM
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This shit that others will fuck her after we broke up drives me crazy, I just can't imagine others fucking her...and I'm sure it will happen in at least a week since she's also a bit attracted to one of her orbiter who's a tall, good looking player. Attached. I'd sacrifice maybe one point of SMV so you can feel comfortable with yourself because chasing this SMV thing has made you so miserable. Until you become that higher SMV go for something slightly lower.
/r/askTRP09/05/14 06:13 AM
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Race doesn't matter in person. I'm non white so I can confirm that. Online it seems to matter as another layer of rationalization of why they don't message you back. Supply/demand ratio does do that.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 05:35 AM
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I agree. I find a niche at around 6.5 average where the girl is pinchy cute cheeks cute and still ridiculously good with conversation and wants to give you gifts, her love, and her good bed skills. The dopamine rush is still very solid. EDIT: I mean all that effort for alpha behaviors and looking so good that a physically hot girl that gives you the biggest dopamine rush in the bedroom is worth the tradeoff? Depends on the person.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 05:33 AM
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I enjoy female friends because they show a different perspective on life. If I befriend them I make sure they're not my type because trying to friend them is very different from trying to use TRP to get laid. I don't believe in AWALT although the majority are. So instead of rare unicorns being 95-5 or 100-0 to many in TRP I think of it as more 70-30. Of course the hotter the girl is the bigger chance her behavior will confirm TRP. TRP looks at hot women actions because they want hot women.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 05:18 AM
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Because no, this really doesn't have anything to do with race It is racial in nature due to the title and the well known stereotype that white men can take asian women so it reinforces even subconsciously that stereotype. Even if it has truth to it and TRP is about finding truth white men use it as a superiority thing. I absolutely loathe seeing any guy, particularly an asian guy (because asian culture doesn't really teach how to man up in these situations) that reinforces stereotypes of being a…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 05:17 AM
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"Only message me if you're 6 feet or taller. I am against racism but be white usually. I am against being a freeloader but make at least six figures." My opening sentence is pretty clear on how different online is from offline. Then you have bias cause online girls are the ones messed up by prior relationships, alpha widows, and just generally colder personalities so it has an exponential effect.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 05:14 AM
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Answered in "Pook" OP: “Answer this riddle, why do men who are willing to walk away turn you on?” And the woman laughs. “Didn’t everyone know this? A man that can walk away means that he has his pick of the litter and the woman can easily be replaced.
/r/askTRP09/05/14 04:35 AM
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As a fellow asian guy his character regardless of race is omega
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 03:19 AM
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Asian culture lets a lot of crap slide. Even I understand that and I'm pretty loose with letting people do what they want but this is the one thing all men of any culture needs to learn to not let slide because right now it subconsciously puts a bad name for asian men because he's not fighting for himself. Some guy messed with him and he's just putting his hands up in the air. If I were in that position I'd beat the crap out of the guy for the sake of messing with me and ditching that ugly 4 any…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 03:00 AM
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I believe you can if you present it in a manly confident way. "I'm having a tough time and I'm going to take care of it." So it shows you're still in control and dominant and being a man while at the same time saying whatever is tough.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 02:46 AM
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Intelligent young men often make the mistake of sharing existential anxiety with women. Whereas men often appreciate conversations about how the world is most likely completely fucked, and how nobody has a clue what's really going on, women find conversations of that nature utterly repulsive. I got female friends that appreciate the conversations about that whole existential anxiety. I would never ever consider doing that if I were gaming a girl TRP style though. Those friends will stay friends …
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 02:45 AM
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Interesting to see a more moderate message not be judged badly. You can be vulnerable in very small doses and also know your audience. Sweet unicorn? Be vulnerable a little bit. Crazy girlfriend that is all about trading up? You probably want to stay alpha around her almost all the time. It's up to you to decide how much physical beauty determines this vulnerability issue. Look at how he phrased that, "I can't do this alone" That puts so much pressure on the woman who obviously would want to lea…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 02:43 AM
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This is interesting because it's hard to see since it makes a big cut scene at 0:55. Something must have happened or this girl is drunk because right at 0:10 in she is putting her left hand on the white guy's lap. The asian guy is too oblivious to understand he's already done. The positioning of everyone proves he's the odd one out. Even if that guy was this girl's bf he was an obvious placeholder almost borderline friendzoned because the positioning of the girl. That girl may have also wanted t…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 02:29 AM
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You could if those girls are mere acquaintances. People sleep together at the edge of the circles.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 08:50 PM
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If we're talking purely trying to get laid, I go out alone.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 04:43 PM
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Gets off the feeling of turning down guys
/r/askTRP08/05/14 05:45 AM
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six figure income and a seven on looks can easily pull 8s with good solid game. 5'7 is a doable height especially with boots.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 04:35 AM
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Do you have even one or two friends you can use to help you socialize a little bit?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 12:24 AM
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Take up as much space as possible without losing posture. If you have a couple of buddies let the group really have huge space between the three of you because holding more territory is subconsciously more alpha.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 12:16 AM
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I want real conversations and real experiences. meet interesting people OP, while I believe in TRP philosophies for sexual strategy I will go against the grain here and say that making attractive female friends is a cool experience because you will gain social proof for other women to come by and you can use their connection to meet other cool people for real conversation and real experiences, both men and women. I live a simple life. I have five close friends, three of which are female. I use t…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 12:15 AM
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Seeing beta friends get cheated on constantly Seeing female friends constantly admiring alphas Alpha behaviors getting disinterested girls somewhat interested
/r/askTRP08/05/14 12:01 AM
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who have decided to use their pussy to get what they want instead of just fucking whomever they are attracted to. They still operate under the exact same rules of sexual attraction that every other female in the world does, they just chose to side line those feelings and instead chose to extract maximum monetary value out of their beauty. Their pussy can be dry as sandpaper but they will still do whatever it takes to get that cash. That makes a lot of sense. It's good to see you refreshed my mem…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 10:28 PM
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That's why I write posts to /r/theredpill because it opens my eyes too. I'm willing to change my views if evidence is convincing and that's a good story. That Korean dude is on the 100th percentile of manipulative so props for him as Dark Triad gets hot pussy. I'll compromise and consider that some girls do think like men and only want the best trait wise, especially online dating addicts. Those girls see men only as value and not the feelings they can build. They usually tend to be colder and d…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 08:36 AM
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Models have more choice and therefore can only be seen with the best so they only date the best. However they can be discreet and sleep with anything good enough. Maybe for other types of girls you're correct.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 08:25 AM
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to see how comfortable you are with the answers That fits in within charisma/game. This alone can override a lot of "flaws" but it cannot override all of them. You're passing shit tests by answering these questions in a comfortable way. However the quality of the answers still will determine her views of you as a potential mate based on the other 3 aspects of SMV. You can be smooth about it all you want but someone who lives with their parents talking to a girl who thinks living with their paren…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 07:56 AM
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Context is everything. Model is horny and no other guy is in sight. She'll sleep with him for a night to fulfill this horniness because he is hot enough to sleep with. Even if he would never be dating material she can get off. It's right place at right time when they're drunk they may lower the SMV threshold.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 07:51 AM
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Then decide if you want her in your life or not and go from there. As for the exam, like I said if you want the not bad life that's actually okay in my opinion. Most others in red pill would tell you to pass it already but ultimately it comes down to you.
/r/askTRP07/05/14 07:16 AM
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I got to this post late due to being on hiatus from 4 months out to a few days ago. Love this post and absolutely deserves side bar. Considering you amend your own constitution I want to bring this up: Point #4 states that race doesn't matter if you're rich. Point #14 states alpha fucks beta bucks. If you're trying to get rich then it won't matter if you're alpha enough. I don't understand how those two points go together. Also bringing up race only on a point that relates to money feels correla…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 06:48 AM
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Because I don't fucking want to. If you don't want it, then it's up to you to find out how to want it or accept what you do right now is good enough. This doesn't even relate to your wife as much as it's up to you to want it or not want it. Being mr not bad is a place many men would want to be. As for your wife if she loses interest then that's a totally separate issue although I don't fully understand what you mean in that paragraph about your wife.
/r/askTRP07/05/14 06:29 AM
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Screen for girls that give you a lot of gifts. Those are the keepers.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 04:49 AM
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Most young lads scoff when they ask me of my plans. Why has the desire for adventuring left the majority of young men? Majority of people like their little bubbles. Most people would rather have a solid career and/or a solid family instead of being able to travel more often [especially in America OP]. I've heard countless women have deadlines for career/family accomplishments. Even if some wanted to they have thousands in debt and/or a kid at a young age which hinders them. Being a part of blue …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 04:43 AM
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Make general chat about the coffee at a Starbucks for example. Daytime is easier if you do it correctly.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 10:42 PM
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Nice ones usually don't hang out where lots of people meet up. You gotta find them in more casual places during the day. The occasional 6-8 has genuine kindness and if I run into that again I'll keep her around for a long while especially if she keeps that kindness.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 04:34 AM
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I wouldn't have broken up with my unicorn ex while still learning TRP. TRP helped me become more alpha to understand everything better since I am sure I would've betaized myself out of her love if I didn't learn it but she was so addicted to me and so nice and gave me so many gifts. Other girls nowadays want you to give them everything without giving anything in return except overpriced pussy.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 03:29 AM
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Cognitive dissonance She has to talk down an alpha because she's with you. You are an alpha also but she is trying to remind her brain not to be into him by talking down about him. Of course when the alpha comes by in the moment everything changes.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 04:50 PM
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Where do you place yourself to get women?
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 06:25 AM
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Any place can help the masculine men too. At these concerts wearing tank tops is the norm and can show off abs and muscle to women to make it easier to sleep with them. Always work within the environment. That's what TRP is about. The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 06:19 AM
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tl;dr post in terms of sexual strategy is: MGTOW
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 05:57 AM
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Online dating literally gives women the power and adds +3 to their rating. Only men with this idealized look grab anything. The closer to the look the higher quality.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 06:47 AM
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And Maybe I can do better than 7's of my own ethnicity and 3s and 4s white girls. I am also brown skinned. You can do better. Offline and online for me is literally two different results. Online it's scraps and offline is more of a decent experience getting girls much more cute than online.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 10:11 PM
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I have been wondering what a women thinks if she is in a LTR with a beta male. The type of relationship where he does everything for her and she has deprived him of sex a lot goes out and has sex with alphas who do nothing for her apart from fuck them, then only to return to her loyal beta boyfriend to tell him she is not in mood. You phrased your question and detailed it in a way where only one conclusion can exist. For this beta male-woman relationship there is no appreciation. Can beta males …
/r/askTRP30/04/14 08:41 PM
1

Sometimes you do whatever it takes to advance regardless of morals
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 07:52 PM
1

Could be your area
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 07:32 PM
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chicks pick up way more on the cultural aspect They do but the race still matters quite a bit. Of course the closer you get to the preferred look the better your chances which reinforces my theory in OP
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 07:32 PM
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I have seen and been in relationships that lasted 1-2 years. If you try new things in life and in the bedroom it buys time. Understanding there is no one around forever is the biggest difference from disney crap.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 07:28 PM
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What Rowe said is legit. You gotta try new things or else you'll end up with nothing. Worse case you can quit and try something new. Sexual strategy implication: I expanded my taste in women where the only thing she needs to do is arouse my curiosity to talk to her. Once they pass that threshold some hotter girls become less hot and slightly less hotter girls beyond a tad bit hotter it all depends based on trying stuff out.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 07:13 PM
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The closer you resemble an actor the easier it is online Be grateful though since light skinned over 6'0 and athletic gives you steady 7s online. I bet if you work on game in real life 8s and the occasional 9 will come easily.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 07:07 PM
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I misread it. It's cultural the same way asian girls tend to aim for being cuter rather than bitchy hot because of the culture.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 06:46 AM
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Then she dropped this BOMB: "But if I am still single in like 10 years then I could totally see myself marrying him." The woman is using the best of the situation since the guy is jacking off to the validation he gets just by being with her
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 06:44 AM
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easier to manipulate Doable to manipulate in person
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 06:40 AM
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Totally agree
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 06:38 AM
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Being asian also I have success in real life even with being average build but once I got into the online gaming I lost a bit of confidence so hearing your example is inspiring to keep me going
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 06:22 AM
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Appreciate the social proof concept to get better success rate. Also if I want it badly enough I'll have to get more swole. This is important for a renegade like me to hear. I don't hang with groups since I usually hang with women 1 on 1 but I'll literally ask groups of women to take their pic with me for this sole reason. It'll be funny and ironically a good opener.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 05:50 AM
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How is your look then? I'm curious Swole asian or hipster asian or what? By the way the picture with other girls especially works because asian girls think more collectively like how you fit with their group
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 05:17 AM
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Oh yeah women will let a lot slide but my argument is that even on tindr they wouldn't let as much slide as in real life Face is important
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 05:17 AM
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8 at a nightclub? Going to the gym to get abs is a requirement for a nightclub
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 03:45 AM
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Tinder sucks in that regard. RP had a post the other day about someone with a pic of his six pack and had 135 matches and only about 10-15 were down to meet.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 03:03 AM
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I could see that working, what race are you? What is your age and height?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 02:52 AM
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How many are willing to meet and sleep with you?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 02:52 AM
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Suffer the pain of remorse to blow a load in a hottie
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 08:03 PM
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"Pull this off" meaning what OP did Pretty sure lots of DT people have the most friends and most groups I'm a believer that those that have DT get farther in life and these traits that go unnoticed if used strategically will bring those people the most payoff.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 08:01 PM
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It's decent although I wish I could get a girl a little quicker during the transition to a new girl
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 05:59 PM
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You're implying I will go to oneitis. I get it way less due to understanding I'm a bit codependent yet this need can be fulfilled by almost any woman. No one is that special to where if I lost them I would feel excessively sad. You enjoy the months you're with her and when it fades for whatever reason you get back into a limited game for one more girl jus to fulfill the needs.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 05:56 PM
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That's some hilarious Machiavellian stuff right there. Women aren't attracted to jerks. They are attracted to psychopaths. On a very short term mating strategy they are attracted to psychopaths. The moment they realize you're literally pulling the dark triad it starts straining all sorts of relationships including game conquests. This is why game is amazing because you meet random women they aren't associated with your main group. Imagine if you tried to pull this off with people close to you as…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 12:28 PM
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I had oneitis before and the point is to find something so passionate outside that particular girl that you can get a high feeling with that passion. Even if that passion is sleeping with other women although that's not what I do of course based on my post. If the girl is open to trying new things it'll keep her around longer for both of us. If she wants to move in you tell her that you're not the type for that. I frame it so that she knows I will be honest with her and I straight up wouldn't le…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 07:33 AM
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Knowledge of your game. Oneitis comes from believing ONE girl is special when in reality while some can be cooler than others it's mostly the same. You gotta trust your game to get another one once it expires. The magic part of it is that it's just one. If it works then you can keep it going. If it's a 2 year contract it's 2 years. If it's 3 it's 3 just know it probably isn't forever like disney says. Think of the girl like a sports team. No player plays for the team forever and only the rare pl…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 07:12 AM
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When a girl is horny enough for you your SMV doesn't really matter that much for a time between 6 weeks to 6 months which is why I wrote that time period. Therefore it's monogamous relationships with a metaphorical contract term/expiration date.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 06:17 AM
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Find a girlfriend or two that don't care. Once they hear M.A. in Psychology and Ph.D they'll get wet because they see your potential. The problem is that it will be harder to play the player life if you don't have your own place.
/r/askTRP29/04/14 05:58 AM
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Quick note is that 15/135 is about 11% serious contenders. Many girls just want cheap validation that they were flirting with hot abs. So OP is good in finding serious contenders asap.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 05:04 AM
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In person I do well with my 5'8-5'9 frame. Online it isn't worth the trouble.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 10:59 PM
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I'm a real sense like when you lead her away do you grab her hand it just ask her to come with you? Let's watch two and half men or hitch at my place or any other movie at my place If the girl is turned on enough she'll be down and if not she won't
/r/seduction23/12/13 09:38 AM
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It prevents newbies from advancing their sexual success if they keep reinforcing the complex Of course it occurs because most men want women to be sluts only for themselves
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 09:17 AM
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What do you think about the madonna vs whore complex? It seems like everyone on /r/theredpill has a huge hatred of whores when those are the ones that put out easily that makes sex easier. If you don't marry them and preferably don't LTR them what's the point of such a big complex running around on /r/theredpill that goes against making sex and therefore sexual strategy easier?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 12:20 AM
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No More Mr. Nice Guy The Way of the Superior Man 48 Laws of Power The Art of Seduction
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 11:32 AM
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in NO WAY should any of you pursue such a thing. A small bit of Dark Triad is a good thing. Brutally killing people is not a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 11:30 AM
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Is this it? Is this why we swallowed the red pill? I feel so meaningless. All I can do is see through her lies. Her drunk lies. Her lies about how she moved out west because she wanted to travel. Her lies about how she never hooks up. I honestly miss believing these lies. I miss being naive. I miss oneitis - it's less lonely than noitits. I can't feel a connection anymore. There's no magic. I'd rather stay in my basement and smoke weed than go out and fuck these girls. It's too easy. It's boring…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 11:22 AM
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how you say it matters and who says it also matters
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 06:04 PM
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sometimes this works as a turn on and other times it's just a woman being egotistical
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 06:02 PM
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yeah it helps to understand why each girl rejected you so you can pass future shit tests too
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 10:39 AM
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takes practice to get your ego immune to it
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 10:36 AM
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If you flirt with a girl and tell her you want to fuck her, you made your intentions clear - RP. If you can walk away if she declines that's more RP too
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 10:24 AM
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Some in redpill think approaching is a step towards becoming a true alpha. Some in redpill think approaching is a waste of time and you should rather build your life towards becoming a true alpha. Balance it out and do both of them. Approaching a hot stranger occasionally while living your life and building SMV works
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 07:12 PM
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And then when that one guy doesn't fall into their "code of honor" they get mad and call him a "bastard" or "Machiavellian" or whatever. Nothing like being a sigma and pissing off the alphas and betas
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 08:45 AM
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I agree with you in that game is one part of SMV that can overcome to an extent Many RPers haven't seen it Considering my SMV is probably 4-6 depending on the girl and I am not that swole but worked on my game I easily have success with 6s and 7s that like game the most and repel 6s and 7s that like swole the most.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 08:44 AM
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On the sidebar is Sexual strategy is amoral /u/redpillschool 's epic comment: My point was that sexual strategy is amoral. You might stick to your values, but those who have sex .. have sex. An alpha can be good or bad but it is only alphas that have sex. An alpha can be like Rollo a man who uses RP on his wife to keep her tingling in love with him or an alpha can use RP to fuck all sorts of women in any kind of relationship. Sexual strategy is amoral
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 07:23 PM
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Being beta has its advantages because it will repel women you are not into and won't make you register as a threat by true alphas. As for being isolated due to trying to do something unique you can balance that within a realm of others loosely associated with you. Traveling around the world and meeting others who travel around the world along the way for instance is an example.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 08:56 AM
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And it'll get you 1-2 points higher quality women alone. Even an omega can upgrade from hand to mediocre chubby girl if he has irrational confidence down
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 08:23 AM
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More on Law 18 http://48laws-of-power.blogspot.com/2011/05/law-18-do-not-build-fortresses-to.html The isolation defined in the book is the type where you cut off all social interaction. You want to be in the know and hangout with many groups through different activities. You only need to trust a few of them to share more personal information since being in many different groups can lead you to great information. If you find yourself in circles where RP is not an acceptable mindset you tone it do…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 08:10 AM
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Heartiste Commandment 11 applies to this: XI. Be irrationally self-confident No matter what your station in life, stride through the world without apology or excuse. It does not matter if objectively you are not the best man a woman can get; what matters is that you think and act like you are. Women have a dog’s instinct for uncovering weakness in men; don’t make it easy for them. Self-confidence, warranted or not, triggers submissive emotional responses in women. Irrational self-confidence will…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 08:02 AM
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If this guy didn't change one thing about his looks and went all game he could easily get 5s and the occasional 6s I will agree that is his ceiling though if he didn't change his look Looks/SMV determines the quality of pussy you get instead of the quantity. Of course below 5s you're getting into sketchy territory
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 11:48 PM
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Opposite is also true All game no looks/SMV won't work either
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 11:46 PM
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He's a fat, 40+, balding man with a sleazy grin on his face. You need to pass the threshold of SMV that these girls want and that description is obviously not passable.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 08:16 PM
2

Heartiste stated only one part of the post was April Fools
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 07:56 PM
10

eternal vigilance
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 11:24 PM
1

also a technique for magic
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 09:20 PM
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None of us consciously decides what traits attract us sexually Disagree since I expanded traits that attracted to me personally consciously. I will admit that some traits attract me more.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 09:12 PM
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Unicorn LTR traits: High sex drive low drama Minimal shit testing Gets you gifts and remembers items you want Thinks about more than just makeup Fewer sexual partners Doesn't constantly crave attention Cut ties: Inconsistency [like saying she is a good girl when she went on the carousel around the whole town] Excessive attention whore Using sex as a weapon to withhold against you
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 09:36 AM
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It's an important variable where the taller you are the more access you have to every woman shorter than you. The shorter you are the less women you have access to because you're shorter. Being 5'8-5'9 I have gotten success with women by outsmarting the taller men. If they are out of sight they are out of mind so game overrides that. I don't get 6'0 models, boo hoo. I'll gladly take the 5'7 long legged "7" on a moment of weakness from the 6' guy Game overrides height to a certain extent
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 12:22 AM
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it is incredibly fun
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 10:09 PM
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No text back for a good hour after she had initiated conversation. Then Her: Sorry I was on the phone with my best friend (: sorry I didn't respond sooner. Me: Oh was it x Her: No it was my ex, haha we're actually like best friends! Too much worthless crap here. You made a shit test happen cause you're texting her too much Ignore her text and pick her up
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 08:11 PM
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The truth hurts Carve your own path within the truth and it doesn't hurt anymore
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 09:28 PM
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In other words, female sexuality is not so much blindly promiscuous as it is pragmatic. Since the 90s the climate has changed and therefore this "pragmatic" shift has given a rise to more hookups due to the hookup culture. Work with the rules of the environment
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 07:15 PM
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I use NLP in my daily life and works well For men that get oneitis easily a penpal is actually a good strategy against it because even if it doesn't get you laid directly it can help you act more alpha with real girls especially when you're down to one or two options
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 10:35 AM
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It doesn't hurt to try again because it does fake your mind into abundance mentality and if you do travel there it's a possible lay like you said Maybe I had a weaker blue pill frame so it applies to long distance penpal things too I'll try again as it could help my text game out Nice idea
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 10:32 AM
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I'll throw in a personal tip of mine. Keep a penpal on skype or w/e. A girl in another state that's hot and keeps you as a penpal. You will both have sexual feelings for each other. You can both be 100% open with each other because it doesn't matter, you're not going to date, and you're not going to see each other in real life. This builds some INTENSE bonds between you. And you won't feel that oneitis for other girls because you'll have her. Plus it works long term, unlike plates which are more…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 08:51 AM
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If the TTP used was "fuck her regardless of husband, family, social circle, etc." then, it is an incorrect TTP. That's called short-term thinking. I stick to my values and still have sex, and I don't destroy relationships in the process. In your definition and mindset based on experience it is incorrect although for a rare dark triad person without any morals or sex addicts who unfortunately do not care about these consequential morals it is still going to happen even if many don't like it
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 08:41 AM
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On the sidebar you have the sexual strategy is amoral post from /u/redpillschool My point was that sexual strategy is amoral. You might stick to your values, but those who have sex .. have sex. That's the truth even if most men don't want to do it. You can wish things like that didn't happen but they do.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 11:33 PM
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Sexual Strategy is amoral so if it causes too much pain for you in your specific case don't do it; however others may want to use this to fuck whores and /r/theredpill is after the truth at any cost regardless of pain or lies.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 11:10 PM
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bloom seems like a beta with alpha status kerr obviously wanted the total alpha package
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 08:59 PM
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Irrational self confidence is your own construct of how you interpret truth. An example: I notice a guy who is an 8 in SMV try to charm a girl I'm also eyeing and I figure I'm a 6 in SMV Even though I know he is better SMV wise: Does he have the guts like me to make a move? Does he understand how to make stuff sexual? He seems to be talking to her too long friendzoning himself His SMV suddenly drops due to beta behaviors, he leaves, and then I swoop in with game You only need to pass a certain t…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 07:34 PM
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Irrational self confidence could be the difference when a girl picks between two men of similar SMV within 1-2 points of each other because it is another SMV trait If you only have this and are a couch sitting omega it won't do you any good
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 07:26 PM
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You raise confidence by continuing to create and meet your personal goals. Eliminate personal weakness and discipline yourself. This whole post is a great extension of Heartiste's 11th Commandment: XI. Be irrationally self-confident No matter what your station in life, stride through the world without apology or excuse. It does not matter if objectively you are not the best man a woman can get; what matters is that you think and act like you are. Women have a dog’s instinct for uncovering weakne…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 07:01 PM
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but my game is still not very strong, any advice? Go to an area you are willing to lose for a little while because you need the growing pains of awkward approaches and weird silences and girls not being into you. Once you feel confident enough you can easily talk to barista's and waitresses and if the conversation goes well give them YOUR number because it's not their ass on the line and it'll prove she's into you if she texts/calls you.
/r/askTRP30/11/13 09:45 AM
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Only if you pass a certain threshold for women If you are a lesser beta approaching and have nothing else to offer then approaching itself won't work
/r/TheRedPill30/11/13 09:41 AM
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This is a great example of how red pill does good to men around the world
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 12:33 PM
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it started out in 2010 as pure sexual strategy without morals and it was up to the user to use it for good or bad By 2013 it has become more of self improvement reddit in order to tolerate feminists and betas alike
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 08:50 PM
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I’m not a sociopath, and there’s nothing about the dating world that doesn’t seem interesting or human to me. It’s simply that life is short, and life as a 20-something with high social value is even shorter, and I intend to use it to its fullest potential. That is actually a dark triad woman proving the red pill's truths
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 07:55 PM
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More mods Don't want this to become /r/seduction 2.0
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 07:40 PM
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if all men went TRP cheap validation would be denied
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 11:58 PM
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TLDR: Nice alpha = Dark alpha > Beta Both types of alphas give women tingles
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 08:29 AM
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For you might as well open the occasional hottie while you're living your life since it won't be a time waste since it's happening as you go about your daily life. Remember it isn't a cold approach if a girl is staring at you or looks at you 3 times or flips her hair while looking at you because that's a warm approach.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 08:25 AM
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Two different types of assholes: the straight up asshole type and the amused mastery type. It isn't so much as showing masculinity energy as it is avoiding beta energy
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 06:58 PM
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I agree with the post even the most beta of men can get really horny 8s and 9s if he can find access to where all the models are
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 10:18 AM
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It's better for you because she shows her true colors fucking you and getting with a "more acceptable" beta chump when in fact he's the chump for getting into a relationship with a girl that fucks men on the side. Good next
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 10:30 PM
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Big difference between successful 20 year old and successful 30-35 year old Big difference between successful 30-35 year old and unsuccessful 30-35 year old
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 08:00 PM
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The only part relating to sexual strategy is next the bitch if she thinks you're too short and fuck a girl that thinks you're tall enough
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 08:33 AM
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Also they also tend to only want sex. I'm 20 still in University and broke. It's university which has nothing to do with height it has to do with university However I have never been with an 8+ Time to have more dark triad traits
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 08:30 AM
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Tall men use HBD to make themselves feel better
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 08:29 AM
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TLDR: money looks and status allow you access to more women initially With the women you do attract based on money looks and status that is where game comes in
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 09:23 AM
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The Art of Seduction by Green is rp because sexual strategy is amoral and goes in depth about different types of seduction and how to find the right type for you
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 07:38 AM
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context changes things
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 06:29 AM
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not chasing also eliminates all time wasting women that would have led you on
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 06:28 AM
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If men more alpha than you aren't around then you become the most alpha even if in a different place you would be lesser alpha or upper beta
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 09:26 PM
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I love evil women who are aware of it because it means they have a brain to use people for their own goals
/r/seduction17/11/13 08:50 AM
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all the alphas getting laid so the men in transition which is lesser beta read r/theredpill and write about it
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 08:33 AM
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Contextual alpha is contextual
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 08:10 AM
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You haven't seen some cosplay girls easily 6s 7s 8s and of you differentiate and break stereotype personality wise of a nerd while having a look they like
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 07:46 AM
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you can't change race so you have to make do with what you have the way I see it it's even harder for a white guy who isn't getting laid because he has nothing to blame it on whereas a non white guy can easily say oh it was cause I am this race race can create lots of reactions on itself so you can use or go against stereotypes to really create attraction to women open to it if they only want to stay in race or fuck only a specific race that's why you got to next them and go for women willing to…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 08:47 PM
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Political alignment is only a means of understanding the current system enough to build sexual strategy around it and adjust accordingly when the system changes
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 07:26 PM
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Bukowski's Women is on point with this. Girls will actually tell him how he is shitty as a lover and worse than their boyfriends at sex, as well as old & half-hard due to intoxication, but they come back again and again. Because alphas are exciting and in the article the tiny diamond in the rough was "for females casual sex is exciting due to it being spontaneous" it's literally like an act of rebellion I gotta read that book
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 08:36 AM
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At least you brought the jagermeister
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 08:32 AM
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Today I learned the media is actually the most dark triad of them all
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 08:31 AM
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When you switch the genders in a lot of current shows you get misogyny
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 08:31 AM
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"The rise of the renegade alpha" because Heartiste acknowledges the sigma and how that can be an alternate path to pussy
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 08:30 AM
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Aug 2012 called and it wants its average asian women that white betas tend to like back when this was a story a year ago
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 08:28 AM
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pussy prized itself out of all men except the uber alphas
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 07:53 PM
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Look up the dandy from the art of seduction and the renegade alpha If you produce powerful feelings [which shitty music does to teenage girls] they will associate it with the singer regardless of how girly bieber looks or whatever boy band it is and you have social proof that all her girlfriends like the same guy too
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 07:45 AM
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sloppy seconds or more
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 08:19 PM
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Dating as many men as possible to figure out that guys who kick in your car door probably aren't the marrying kind. But the sleeping around with kind
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 08:10 PM
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good to hear about boston i'll add that to my bucket list any other cities you had success?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 07:51 PM
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I pulled them from starbucks and then threesomed the one on right. You can overcome a lot when you pull in the daytime You cannot overcome that much of an attraction difference online
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 05:42 PM
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Apps like Tinder slowly create the r-type environment that feminists dream of because all it takes is the one alpha on tinder to bang one of the girls and she'll spread that guy around her group of friends With good makeup all the 5s and higher can look like 8s or higher which makes them more picky and therefore cause the top 20% of men to really have a field day with these bitches Things just got more bitter for the 80%
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 09:23 AM
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contextual alpha bartender they had a list of requirements they said and then they fuck and chase the bartender instead
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 11:53 PM
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You either have the look that'll reel them in or your don't. Most of you don't. Only comment I needed to read to prove online dating is a waste of time if you don't have that look
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 08:31 PM
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Perfect is boring is one of my favorite game related reads ever
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 08:30 PM
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If you are attractive and have game you'll do fine. If you look how okcupid girls feel what is attractive FTFY Online is a waste of time unless you have the hipster like tattoos and beards look
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 07:37 PM
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worked like a charm thanks
/r/askTRP10/11/13 06:38 PM
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RSD takes a number of sets to mess up on purpose to get into state which makes no sense even from a warming up standpoint. Do you miss shots on purpose when practicing?
/r/askTRP10/11/13 06:37 PM
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don't fucking talk to me about this unicorn you heard about from a friend of a friend. We deal in probabilities in this community, and it is highly unlikely you are going to meet an attractive woman with any sort of loyalty. Know everything has an expiration date. Did you explain it this bitterly SH to really drive it into the newbie's heads?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 05:57 PM
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next all girls who don't use protection 100% if they sleep with other guys because while most stds are curable currently it is such a ridiculous hassle
/r/askTRP10/11/13 09:21 AM
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/r/theredpill is about sexual strategy so all of those things you posted aren't really what /r/theredpill talks about. The thing to relate to all the points you made is to look deeper at the motivation behind the stories and the people. Usually it's to make you buy stuff you don't need or make you believe in things that would be nice ideally yet don't go with our human nature. Once you find out about that everything becomes different sort of like the matrix or taking the red pill.
/r/askTRP10/11/13 09:18 AM
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Monogamy is an option as long as you know everything has an expiration date
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 09:14 AM
2

beta bucks alpha fucks
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 09:09 AM
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weird most of my life. Reminds me of myself a few years ago being a gamma which is the lonesome outsider Im just not sure if it is even possible for someone in my position or if physical fitness and looking good will be enough to give me a chance. Woman seem to be very unforgiving when it comes to social awkwardness, judging from some of the attempts i have made. After learning r/seduction, r/theredpill, Heartiste game blog posts, and other resources I decided to stop giving so many fucks and we…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 11:39 PM
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If you try to repress something it comes out in a greater form
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 11:34 PM
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awwwww cuddling buddy frame makes you lose masculine dtf frame
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 08:50 AM
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Yeah it just hit me with such a shock that it was my final layer of BP coming to light
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 08:49 AM
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Men with amused mastery wouldn't care about girls that don't have the guts to break up with possessive boyfriend.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 08:48 AM
2

I don't like RSD because every freaking day Tyler starts out beta having to get into "state"
/r/askTRP09/11/13 08:42 AM
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I don't like people enough to get 100 lays a year, get enough that satisfies and knowing that you can get it then you're good
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 04:06 AM
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MGTOW doesn't have to last forever people change and grow or MGTOW can be their chance to get into tons of other great activities
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 12:10 AM
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Funny this is the one quote feminists don't use on their online profiles
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 12:09 AM
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Heartiste is actually pretty solid with his game related blog posts I ignore most of his other posts because they don't have to do with sexual strategy which is the main motive of /r/theredpill Also an underrated blog http://adarkheart.com This is a good sample of his work http://www.adarkheart.com/2013/07/30/respect-lust-love/
/r/askTRP08/11/13 11:48 PM
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yeah cause in a year I got myself from bottom of the barrel beta to upper beta at the very least and hopefully on my way to the renegade alpha path
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 11:20 PM
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Everyone has different needs from the red pill and I can greatly relate to wanting sex to be emotionally fulfilling too and it prevents you from being put into orbiter mode so it's a good mindset. I do my best to combine the renegade alpha and MGTOW together so I can relate with not being into too many ONSs
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 09:49 PM
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The amused mastery is the best part of it all because you can see everything that the girl does to mess with other men and that doesn't apply to you anymore because you passed the shit tests and shame tactics.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 08:59 PM
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Thanks bro will use for next time this happens
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 08:58 PM
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You fuck me, then I'll think about investing my feelings. Best way to look at it now I'm pretty sure much of red pillers came from a story like that and I can relate greatly.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 08:57 PM
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I agree
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 08:30 PM
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If she is starting to shame you on something that means she is thinking of you and your actions meaning she wants the D
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 07:40 PM
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Exactly I was handed a pretty beta life from genetics to behavior training. The anger made me grow my own renegade alpha path. Get an occasional lay due to rebelling and sort of MGTOW as well
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 07:30 PM
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The sidebar is there already
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 07:26 PM
3

I did also and it opened pandora's box
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 07:20 PM
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Anger is an emotion to be used for changing yourself to be as alpha as you can be
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 07:19 PM
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A women can only love the feelings that the value of a man gives to her. If she suddenly sees a man with more value she will love those feelings more and eventually will attempt to trade up.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 08:47 AM
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You reap what you sow She'll be getting on the cock carousel all right as a coping mechanism because she didn't realize she lost the number one alpha cock by getting greedy with her solipsistic hamster.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 08:34 AM
2

Sweet sweet justice
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 08:31 AM
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Solipsism strikes again The most epic reaction ever. I would buy him a 12-pack all for him.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 08:30 AM
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you're considered attractive by your target demographic One problem is that some men don't find their optimal target demographic. I hope this goes to the sidebar because here it is: The men who are usually in the 20 tend to be men who crave social stimulation and therefore always end up in highly emotional, highly social situations. Since they end up in these situations with lots of women they greatly increase their chances for getting laid by having an abundance of women around while gaining so…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 08:00 AM
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MR believes in gender equality when evolution could not have allowed that. You think men who took care of children wouldn't be murdered due to it looking weird or breaking customs? Evolution has no morals it only allows who reproduces to control offspring's tendencies.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 12:33 AM
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Ive yet to meet a woman who looked totally happy and respected being married or going out with a weak feminine man. They're always constantly bitching and testing them. I have but all of them see their boyfriends as children to take care of so the only women who go outside of it are the ones with the need to constantly be a mother figure, which is a turn off in itself too.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 12:28 AM
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this is the post where MRA and TRP differentiate themselves
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 09:29 PM
3

Nothing like okcupid or /r/gonewild to validate with 200 messages or comments that are worth nothing but feeding a girl's ego
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 09:28 PM
2

Nice to see a RP father figure so you can remember memories and imitate what he did and retraining yourself towards becoming alpha.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 08:36 AM
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I agree since I went from omega to lesser alpha/upper beta in the span of a year of working hard at /r/theredpill mindset. Outside of mandatory roles, I do not like leading men to "battle" or any sort of "task" and much prefer the renegade alpha which Heartiste puts between lesser alpha/upper beta. It's a nice fusion between a true alpha and MGTOW sort of
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 08:07 AM
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It isn't disgusting it's women playing with the rules handed to them during the internet/social media era. Free validation handed to them on the daily. The payback will be when all of them hit the wall and have nothing left to validate them.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 07:56 AM
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Exactly and lesser alphas who get some of the sex are fine in their positions because not all men can lead like true alphas.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 07:54 AM
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Of course since the alpha works within the rules. The one thing it does help with women though is those types accept that things aren't made for commitment and want to ride alpha carousel so use that to your advantage. Literally fake feminist beliefs or stay quiet about men's rights when you get into the circles. Therefore become the alpha or MGTOW
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 07:44 AM
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they're in group 1 with the uggos and fatties. they genuinely believe the delusion. Unfortunately all it takes is one alpha to drink the poly circle kool aid and it reinforces their delusion because they are fulfilled sexually and can continue on their hatred of men with free alpha dick on the side.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 07:01 AM
1

A third type happens with females where mentally I'll 6s will use feminism to make themselves deluded into thinking they are 9s
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 03:45 AM
1

Of course but any endeavor either creates groupies out of the scene or groupies out of the results like money and status.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 11:47 PM
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You can't break the rules of society and evolutionary history. You have to bend them to your favor by figuring out your niche and the type of women that fall for that type of niche. Like Heartiste says there's groupies for almost every endeavor.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 11:27 PM
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Mostly dead is endangered species. I do see a few women go with beta men with high potential instead of going around the cock carousel because they have most of the power in the dynamics already. Why not stay with above average when he's a beta chump willing to do everything for you? Life is like on auto-pilot in that instance. Unfortunately almost everyone else wants immediate gratification.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 11:11 PM
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You are only useful to them till you have narcissist supply i.e money, status etc. Once you fall ill /lose money /lose status. They move on to next narcissistic supply You are only worth the feelings you give them which narcissist people crave. Betas giving free Narcissistic supply to women really ticks me off. Whenever a woman denies me anything sexual I next her automatically.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 10:30 PM
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Evolutionary times: Women kept orbiters around to raise their kids Modern times: Women kept orbiters around to raise their ego
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 10:27 PM
2

good perspective
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 09:21 PM
2

he's in the top 20% so of course he'll be the darling of feminists Males in the top 20% can afford to be into that culture because they made it already
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 09:20 PM
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Women lost that saying somewhere and turned it into become top tier ego.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 05:16 PM
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If there is one thing I wish TRP could achieve is making woman more honest about what they want, and who they are. Not even for my own interests....but rather for the sake of the next generation of men. The secret society exists for a reason. If women were honest about what they wanted: No more blue pill friendzoned chumps that only are used to build their own self esteem and solipsism even more
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 05:15 PM
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It's empowering to her to raise her self esteem cause she got banged hard by an alpha in her post-wall days. It's an illusion of empowerment to him because he's such a nice beta chump that he'll let her get her empowerment. Remember solipsism
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 05:14 PM
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Marriage is dead. Is monogamy dead? I don't think so although it's definitely an endangered species. Work on yourself and become a top tier man and it won't matter.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 05:12 PM
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Feminist hamster is overridden when hot pornstar has progressive background yet is still alpha He has interviews all over feminist-agenda websites and they all swoon over him.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 05:11 PM
0

Whatever gets you laid gets you laid even if that means spending a fortune on a car
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 04:12 PM
3

Op needs to stop banging girls with obvious borderline personality disorder
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 04:10 PM
1

Sexual strategy is amoral is a good one which is also on the sidebar Look at the top posts from all time and the comments in them
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 09:29 AM
2

Two types of assholes The jerks that do not care what others think that makes pussy wet Flirty tone: "Oh well why don't you go ahead and seduce me to prove yourself" The jerk that is still needy because the tone will have a bitterness underneath it all which is still beta. Pissed tone: "Why don't you just seduce me then to prove yourself?" Random example I know but the tone makes all the difference.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 08:41 AM
2

M3's incel post Women in love by The Rational Male 16 Commandments of Poon by Heartiste Oh right all of them are on the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 07:50 AM
3

tldr: You can use this knowledge to really work the jealousy plot situation in game.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 09:20 PM
1

I prefer to look for the cutie 7 actually for this reason. The effort:cost ratio for a hotter girl isn't worth all the men trying to get after her.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 09:17 PM
5

she had done somethings in the past that were pretty hurtful to me usually you next the girl here
/r/seduction05/11/13 08:43 AM
1

Most importantly: women will not FORGET you. A lot of guys think they have to text the woman every day to "keep up the attraction" or so that she won't forget them or some shit. You don't have to do that. If today is Monday and you have a date planned for Friday, you don't have to text her before Friday. She will remember you. There are girls that I've met years ago that still text me occasionally even though I only met them once. If you pass all their tests because if you don't she'll forget ab…
/r/seduction05/11/13 08:32 AM
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If it happens more and more then it's bad behavior and you next her softly. Softly means that you cut off all contact for a week and it's up to her to apologize for the bad behavior or at least try to reach you. It's a take away to show that kind of behavior won't be tolerated.
/r/askTRP05/11/13 07:57 AM
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Biologically bias towards not getting into those type of fields because of evolutionary means of making each sex have specific gender roles that best fit them. Reason why /r/theredpill advocates more traditional female housework is because we have had an experiment for 50 years now where women are actually more miserable than before when given more choice about what to do. More chances to sleep around, more chances to get all the attention of men than ever before, and yet they're still more mise…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 07:51 AM
1

Money isn't the end all although it makes things a lot easier
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 07:44 AM
1

Money matters to becoming a "full alpha" because the FU money can really enhance a lot of other alpha traits.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 07:09 AM
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Even if all studies claim to place men in a better position to learn STEM fields if you can handle the same criticisms and work harder towards the same goals and execute on them I don't see any reason why a female couldn't make it.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 07:08 AM
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All sorts of girls will do this if they are attracted to you and you may feel as if that particular girl is special. If you hit the lottery and ran into a cute girl that is actually loyal and you have stayed with her in an equal relationship for 5+ years which I have seen a few times out of hundreds of couples then those men will never have to learn red pill and think the world is like disney. Usually they are men who have good potential, attractive that end up with bland looking yet cute girls.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 06:43 AM
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Cognitive dissonance because even if things are literally the opposite of the disney media nice guy stuff everyone says, it would be better to use reasoning like NAWALT to keep yourself blind to the truth.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 05:24 AM
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I disagree since Heartiste and others put Sigma in between alpha/beta so they're more of a lesser alpha with men but just as alpha with women.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 05:16 AM
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that's a game changing metaphor right there for any parts of game
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 01:01 AM
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You have made an important step to know you are addicted to getting attention from women cause you didn't get that attention from mom. Accept that it's something you will always have and abundance mentality is a good way to prevent it from becoming so terrible. Find a crazy intense hobby that makes your mind addicted to that hobby.
/r/seduction04/11/13 11:03 PM
4

Mutually the best one can get and both in a bottom of the barrel SMV. A match made in heaven.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 10:56 PM
1

Rather have some sort of shitty stimulation and sex than be alone without sex. That's how sad some people are.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 10:54 PM
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These guys don't think they can do better If you want the harsh truth maybe they can't for a good amount of years. Rather be with crazy pussy than have none at all and become an incel for 5-10 years.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 10:48 PM
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http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/10/18/the-rise-of-the-renegade-alpha/ Aka sigma, the rebellious alpha with women who doesn't play the social hierarchy game
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 07:31 PM
2

Sounds similar to Heartiste's Renegade alpha
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 06:38 PM
1

For people who are similar SMV: Game + looks > Game only > Looks only
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 07:47 AM
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Focused on School/Work/Health If you want to go MGTOW Focused on School/Work/Health/Game Fixed that to help OP if he wants to get laid
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 09:15 PM
3

Fight Club Narrator: And then, something happened. I let go. Lost in oblivion. Dark and silent and complete. I found freedom. Losing all hope was freedom.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 09:15 PM
2

I used to be bitter until I saw women start lining up for me through learning the steps to becoming an alpha Girls notice when you haven't had sex in a few years, especially when you go to a small liberal arts school and everyone knows each other. When you graduate make a new circle and things refresh and as long as you start out as alpha they won't question it.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 09:13 PM
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We aren't meeting regularly by any means, but do 30 minute phone conversations a couple times a week imply too much interest? Yes it does. FWB literally means fuck once a week and maybe hang for a meal to talk a little bit if you enjoy that but that's it. If you do want to commit to her then that's your choice although watch out for hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 08:19 PM
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Mgtow
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 04:50 PM
1

If the man always wanted to do what the girl is implying then it mutually benefits both of them. If the man wants to MGTOW then he can next her.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 09:01 AM
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Of course you need to DHV personality wise and with using your resources towards self growth. If she can't see potential or wants massive DHV then I personally next her.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 08:43 AM
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"When will you provide more resources for me"?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 08:34 AM
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"When are you going to grow up?" means "When will you be able to provide more resources for me?"
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 08:34 AM
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Even the lovely women love alphas
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 06:34 AM
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It's so ironic how they want free love and peace although only the top 20% of men are allowed.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 06:21 AM
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but then they became just really boring stories about her and her guy 'best friend' Wow, did this girl just try a jealousy plot on you? Too funny. FWB meet once a week tops or else you risk things being implied as something more because it seems like this girl is using her beta best friend as leverage to get you to commit to her.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 06:18 AM
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Best advice I got is find a place where you can bring women and actually get close and mess up a few times. If a girl really likes you she'll give you a few chances to get the sex right.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 06:16 AM
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I agree. It doesn't mean you have to use your race as your only means of overcompensating for a lack of esteem through a false narcissistic superiority complex.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 06:14 AM
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Brent Smith game is very similar in that he'll be doing cool things and it just so happens women will warm up to him and he gives them his number and invites them to hang out if they want to. Personally I need game because I don't have the patience and need to want to lead social groups.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 11:21 PM
3

You still have to get out of the house and do epic stuff to meet women.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 11:14 PM
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I believe Red Pill to be the meeting ground between Men's Rights, White Nationalism, The Dark Enlightenment/HBD, and Seduction communities. Some of these communities don't like multiculturalism and believe certain races to be better in certain things and while they have solid evidence it bleeds out in /r/theredpill as more offtopic bias towards their particular movement(s).
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 09:41 PM
3

Models by Mark Manson Also read some articles about how to get rid of shame because shame is some toxic stuff.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 09:34 PM
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We all know this and still, it's wrong to call woman a whore since she is basically selling her ass for the biggest possible price. Other RPers write about their experience in poly circles and some of these attractive women want to lock the few attractive men down which is proof of the ultimate hamster.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 08:17 PM
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She puts her sights on me and goes off, acting completely irrational. If she doesn't get her way she goes crazy. No point to have any kind of relationship with one of those anyways.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 03:13 PM
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3 proves how those who claim to be into polyamory want to bring things back to an r-type environment: Most women benefit from polygyny, while most men benefit from monogamy When there is resource inequality among men—the case in every human society—most women benefit from polygyny: women can share a wealthy man. Under monogamy, they are stuck with marrying a poorer man. The only exceptions are extremely desirable women. Under monogamy, they can monopolize the wealthiest men; under polygyny, they…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 03:01 PM
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The funny part is that since America is the model, many other countries are sort of making themselves just as fat and soft too. Look at the middle class in China that eat the same McDonald's burgers. Other countries have their own agendas that are deterrents. In the case of the right-wing Greek party, they were ousted for having supposedly racist killings. tldr: How can America get destroyed if every country destroys itself?
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 07:54 AM
2

The nuclear bomb saved us from WW3 so far due to MAD ironically.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 07:50 AM
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I feel it as well which is why I am asking about it
/r/askTRP02/11/13 05:59 AM
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HPD and NPD is pretty bad. BPD is being a metaphorical fugitive on the run 24/7 from psychosis unfortunately. Doubt it is the latter though cause the emotions aren't extreme they're more muted.
/r/askTRP02/11/13 05:59 AM
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To see how these alternative strategies might get a foothold in a population with monopolizing males, think about it this way: When females are scarce and one male may monopolize several females at once, most males won't get a chance to mate at all. A behavioral or physical variation (e.g., female impersonation, hit-and-run mating) that lets them father even a few offspring gives a big payoff in terms of genes in the next generation. And if those offspring also employ the non-traditional mating …
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 11:16 PM
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tldr: use TRP to build your social dominance and alpha traits that women pick up on subconsciously even if conscious they don't really like it
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 09:50 PM
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If you can't get an alpha to fuck, at least you want a beta to give you attention.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 09:22 PM
2

go for other girls
/r/askTRP01/11/13 09:10 PM
1

read everything on adarkheart.com
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 08:57 PM
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Looks like the feminist agenda begins in developing countries.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 08:53 PM
2

I understand but am quite neutral about HBD/The Dark Enlightenment because it doesn't really affect current sexual strategy that much
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 08:50 PM
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It doesn't have to be black and white. You can make minor beta moves and it won't affect most interactions with women especially if you're hanging out 1on1 however majority of your interaction must be alpha.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 08:50 PM
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I keep female friends close to see if TRP is correct and usually it is.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 08:49 PM
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MGTOW
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 08:48 PM
3

I may be a narcissist myself so your advice is solid from a sexual strategy is amoral point of view.
/r/askTRP01/11/13 08:38 PM
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Her emotions are more muted than someone that would have HPD. Someone with HPD would be bouncy, sexual, high energy to get that attention whereas she was someone who would try to steer conversation towards her in a more subtle manner.
/r/askTRP01/11/13 08:27 PM
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She says we she thinks we moved too fast to bf/gf after clicking from meeting online. Wants to just date instead of relationship status. I say so what, date other people? She says she can't stop me, but doesn't wasn't me too, and that she probably won't and doesn't have prospects anyway She wasn't sure about you or wanted to put you into orbiter status. She likes the attention from you only because she misses the alpha cock from her ex. She says she just got out of a fucked up relationship and d…
/r/askTRP01/11/13 06:53 PM
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She asked me if I wanted to go for a drink with her, I did, suddenly she has all the power and I don't have the balls to ask her to stay the night. I keep it at that and try to claim to myself that I'm playing it cool and patient and wait for the next chance. If you frame things in a fast seduction sort of way the move must happen that same day or else you start to lose momentum. So things hit off even better the next day, with heavier sexual tension, heavy kino to the point where me grabbing he…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 06:44 PM
4

Add two more to narcissistic rage
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 06:36 PM
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Translation: "I don't judge by looks I promise except my hamster only writes back if you are hot enough"
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 06:16 PM
3

If you use the renegade alpha approach a 5 like me can get 7s and 8s easily. I tell them I'm a writer and speak like it to prove it.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 11:42 PM
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http://www.ohe.state.mn.us/dPg.cfm?pageID=948 Age 25 and up full time workers High school 33k College 54k I will accept that you must find a major that has a lot of available jobs so you get full-time work. So you must go into college finding a niche before you start.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 11:13 PM
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Online dating since a few of my female friends in their mid 20s had success with that. For decent looking females that can quickly filter out the stupid messages and find the quality messages, it can help your love life.
/r/askTRP31/10/13 06:30 PM
3

Redheads love talking shit in a teasing way meaning you're going good.
/r/askTRP31/10/13 06:27 PM
2

Which careers demand different kinds of salary. If you want some access to women into money it is good to talk about jobs that pay well.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 06:19 PM
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http://nces.ed.gov/fastfacts/display.asp?id=77 Data with 25-34 High School Only 30k Finished College 45k Still makes a bit of a difference probably do to STEM. Either do STEM or accept 30-45k for a while if not for a good amount of your career. It is easy to live off 40k a year if you don't demand every luxury.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 06:09 PM
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Look into anchors as well. If you anchor a specific object to you then a girl will always remember you based on that item when it comes back to her conscious.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 06:56 AM
1

.5% is about 350 million people out of 7 billion people
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 11:28 PM
3

I read TRP and seduction because I love women and their presence. I get turned off by women who don't allow themselves to feel intense emotions because of certain movements that try to make people feel guilt and shame about who they are based on biology.
/r/askTRP30/10/13 11:02 PM
6

madonna/whore complex has its pros and cons. It is wise to greatly reduce the whore or non-whore thing when it comes to relationships because you'll miss out on fun experiences. The problem arises when men are pushed to marry reformed sluts which doesn't work out too well, so don't get married.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 10:18 PM
1

Contrary to popular opinion crazies are fun and should be challenged.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 08:52 PM
6

epic A+
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 08:48 PM
4

/r/theredpill is about what works. If you pull her on the first night then you decide if she is relationship material or not in each specific case. Of course never marriage.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 08:30 PM
1

Spin plates with two crazies at the same time? I'm glad you're still alive
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 06:33 PM
4

Less competition for you Male friends are for hobbies like basketball, beer, or something else
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 07:29 AM
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I'm gaming girls I'm already somewhat acquainted with. Or they're a friend of a friend, etc. It is easier. It also causes more rumors and general bad vibes once things go south. All forms of game have their pros and cons.
/r/askTRP29/10/13 11:21 PM
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If a girl cheats and tells you why they cheated instead of rationalizing their hamster then it wouldn't be as bitter. Of course it is so rare when a girl actually does that.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 10:38 PM
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I feel like I simply don't have it in me to be as commanding as is required. I may not command males or move all types of women because I don't want to. I only need to move the types of women that I am attracted to and happen to be attracted to me too. Stop all needy behavior, just stop it. Stop texting people unless it is asking them to hang out or a first introductory text. Take baby steps to leading the life you want. Tomorrow you can practice on your posture and keep your head up. The next w…
/r/askTRP29/10/13 09:52 PM
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nothing because if you give what she wants most likely she won't cheat and if she does you can find another girl wanting it anyways
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 09:45 PM
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If you give steady alpha D it is a huge deterrent.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 09:39 PM
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During my blue pill days, one of my old female friends hung out with me because she needed to confess that she blew a dude in his car and cheated on her boyfriend and needed a way to rationalize that it was okay. The boyfriend found out about it and kept her around and they're still together a few years later because she enjoys his plentiful social circle. I laugh at his blue pill nature to this day because I know deep down she wants more alpha D and she is a repeat cheater waiting to happen.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 09:34 PM
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Disagree some girls get off giving pleasure. However because of this I believe oral to be the most sacred act and therefore using this to cheat is worse than sex.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 09:31 PM
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"This is How You Become a Dark Triad Alpha In 21 Simple Steps" While half of them are good to do if you need to punish her promptly, others are plainly dark triad. 15 Read her text but respond hours later. Even if she replies immediately, do it again. It’s even better if you use WhatsApp or Facebook Messenger, so she can see that you read the text but didn’t respond. 20 Never EVER text her just to say “good morning” or “good night.” 21 If it gets to the point where she says “I love you” grin lik…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 09:28 PM
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The more alpha traits you have the more emotional she gets down there.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 09:13 PM
3

thanks
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 09:09 PM
3

You're thinking too logical. She is addicted to the feeling of manipulation and knowing she'll never fall for him.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 07:03 PM
1

Since SMV is a gradually growing process I decided to stop caring about it
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 06:54 PM
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Validation is more serotonin based if you put people as orbiters cause you get a serotonin boost when you get a message on facebook or a text. Her confession is more validation because even three guys won't be enough attention for her as she is a true energy vampire and a classic case of low self esteem.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 06:50 PM
2

As much of an energy vampire as she is she has that FWB situation because it's cheap and controllable sex from her perspective.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 06:50 PM
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Being drunk brings out all the primal circuits. It's too bad that even if she were into that sort of novelty bj play she could've roleplayed that with her boyfriend and not some random dude.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 06:39 PM
2

Going from teasing guy to nice guy and back and forth between the two can actually make some girls really chase you although it can make others lose interest.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 04:32 AM
1

Why right side? I would figure the left side is related to the feeling side of her brain.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 04:30 AM
1

"You're so mean!" Delusional confidence works so well
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 04:29 AM
2

If she doesn't hit me we aren't clicking right. I've had success with girls that didn't do this but if they hit me then it's a much more overt signal.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 04:28 AM
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You can be authentic and show your feelings with an indifferent frame. This is called amused mastery which is on the sidebar. This is a good balance between game and MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 04:25 AM
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TRP has no political affliction. Other movements are influenced by it and those movements influence TRP but remember it's on the sidebar: Sexual strategy is amoral
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 11:32 PM
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I prefer other RP writers so I skip his posts.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 11:30 PM
1

It also applies on your bed too.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 10:30 PM
2

I can't imagine making out with a girl in her house/bedroom and NOT having sex. If you're going at it in her place the 1st or 2nd day almost always the sex must happen that same day.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 10:29 PM
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punish bad behavior promptly. Girl asks me to buy her something without any reason to. I promptly say no, why don't you buy me something? Reward good behavior intermittently She buys me something. I say I might reward her with buying her something back.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 10:27 PM
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From experience I can relate so allow yourself to make some mistakes from time to time. Women usually live by their emotions in the moment so while a mistake as you put it may make you be seen less awesome in that moment, women don't really remember anything after you two leave each other's presence. What that means is that the next time you meet she'll only have a vague memory of what went on and if you were on for most of it, she'll be attracted to that part of you.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 08:36 PM
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you kept telling me that all cunts feel the same when you close your eyes and fuck. Women enjoy remembering the ones that absolutely humiliate them.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 08:03 PM
1

Younger one is classic type b personality cluster which are really unstable. Western society has made more and more women type b.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 07:59 PM
15

Betas like cypher get jealous when women like trinity don't go with them and go with men like neo if you want to use another matrix reference
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 05:08 PM
3

fit + game > kinda fit + game > fit + no game
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 09:07 AM
1

Hard boiled eggs and avocados
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 07:12 AM
6

Wealth is after all how we are perceived to be successfully. Sounds like a good time for MGTOW
/r/MensRights28/10/13 06:13 AM
11

Notice why much of advertising has a female bias to it?
/r/MensRights28/10/13 05:33 AM
2

A close friend
/r/seduction28/10/13 04:24 AM
2

I never said you have to do it at 18-22 but most people that age don't have any other alternative ideas but other paths are out there. This college thing is why I will never have children.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 02:56 AM
3

That's why community college is cool because you're usually living at home for those two years to offset some of it.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 02:30 AM
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No reading new material (reviewing old material OK) Models by Mark Manson, reducing AA, rapport/escalation/kino/close That's all you need to know Like in /r/100sets I have seen many men post there saying they will do it and they don't. Saying you can do it and pumping yourself up is good and all but what helped me was literally putting massive money on the line. I put up over a hundred dollars if I didn't make 100 approaches by a certain date.
/r/seduction28/10/13 12:05 AM
1

It's okay to be attached because it comes from genetic disposition. You have to not act upon those attached feelings by spinning the other plate[s] or finding something more important to do.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 11:42 PM
15

While you can respect decent women in real life, all that respect should be tossed aside once things go in the bedroom. The only rule in bedrooms should be safe words that imply to stop and everything else is fair game.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 11:40 PM
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My best advice for most who want to go to college is to consider alternative routes or two years of community college [1k a year] and two years of in-state public [5-7k a year] which is still hefty but reasonable compared to 50k a year private schools. I feel sorry for all the graduates who went for four years and spent thousands on debt for something they could have learned in community college. The only advantage of the dorms is pussy for the alphas which isn't worth thousands of dollars.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 11:39 PM
3

exactly why this is a good blue pill post for at least half of the tips
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 11:17 PM
6

extended to every woman so even the crazies who legit hate men?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 11:15 PM
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in context to speaking to those who claim we're into misogyny, wouldn't you know TRP actually downvotes misogynistic comments
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 10:52 PM
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welcome to TRP
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 10:47 PM
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Solid article to bring other types of people to a more reasonable voice in TRP. As a default for a layout I wouldn't want to have someone be forced to press control + so it would be better to pick a layout with a decent text size even if it doesn't look as nice.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 09:55 PM
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Besides a few okay things, if a man were to follow it word for word he would be a beta and therefore a good blue pill example
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 09:40 PM
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That 5 part letters saved my life
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 09:38 PM
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Female solipsism at its finest
/r/MensRights27/10/13 08:20 PM
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tldr: The type of women who complain about earning less than men actually earn more than men. The reason why the stats imply they earn less is because the stats that state that men earn more than women include women that are married and have children. So men and women who have equal jobs, are unmarried, and under 30, the women earn more in most major cities.
/r/MensRights27/10/13 08:12 PM
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Terrible use of money
/r/seduction27/10/13 08:04 PM
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Anything outside looking above average don't bother
/r/seduction27/10/13 08:02 PM
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Yeah seeing how a woman acts when you put your own shit test out determines if there is potential
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 07:30 PM
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tldr: The type of women who complain about earning less than men actually earn more than men. The reason why the stats imply they earn less is because the stats that state that men earn more than women include women that are married and have children. So men and women who have equal jobs, are unmarried, and under 30, the women earn more in most major cities.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 07:24 PM
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If you think women are narcissistic now, imagine how it'll be in 10 years with stuff like this
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 07:18 PM
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If your girlfriend told you to fuck other women I would be happy for you because if she goes crazy or starts hamstering you can break up with her and learn to handle different plates. One little problem though is that you're gonna marry her. She is either cheating, has a crazy masochistic fantasy, or wants you to get all that energy out. These aren't terrible in a open girlfriend/boyfriend relationship but for marriage? red flag
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 07:06 PM
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I would be glad to do that by finding some articles and we'll explore from there. The final addition to your addition is once the beta store closes down the customer goes to the dark triad alpha. That sounds so familiar it's funny.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 07:03 PM
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Thanks I mean you notice with sports teams people start saying in reference to their team "We won!"
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 06:47 PM
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Commercials are a form of manipulation. Company logos and slogans are a form of narcissism. Companies are all about the bottom line meaning a form of psychopathy. I gotta admit the cutthroat nature of companies helps with learning dark triad.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 06:42 PM
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Reddit leans towards tolerance ^unless ^they ^don't ^agree ^with ^it.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 06:22 PM
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All rebellious movements end up conforming together which is why movements are overrated. Red Pill is awesome because it isn't a movement. While some of it can be bitter it is about finding the truth.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 06:16 PM
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TIL corporations may be the most dark triad of them all
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 06:13 PM
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Even with spoilers I want to watch this movie now
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 09:20 AM
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Now, here is another fact: SCIENCE has proven that women suffer TWICE AS MUCH ANXIETY as men. It’s because of the chemicals in their brains. Think about that: twice as much! That means women get TWICE AS MUCH ONEITIS as men, and when a woman gets oneitis, its twice as bad. Oneitis isn't anxiety so that was a wrong jump in your conclusions. Men fall harder for women. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2054581/Men-quickest-say-I-love-Study-reveals-MEN-real-hopeless-romantics.html
/r/seduction27/10/13 09:05 AM
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Look into sigma
/r/seduction27/10/13 08:58 AM
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Thing is, she knows I'm into her Go for another girl
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 06:51 AM
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I am an intermediate red piller too and I couldn't have said it any better. Whatever you want to do doesn't even have to be related to what makes you money but most forms of passion will make pussy wet
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 06:23 AM
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I don't care if you're nice or you're female or you're fashion sense is out of style, if results need to be done you have to close
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 06:18 AM
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You're building a dominant frame through compliance
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 06:13 AM
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Did she get you smaller stuff leading up to that or did that just happen out of the blue?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 06:12 AM
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Yeah I consider it an investment if a girl is willing to get me something. It means she is invested and in compliance. Like anything else it won't last forever but it buys you some attraction time for other parts of game.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 06:11 AM
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Good point
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 06:09 AM
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Following a command subtly means you comply with them and therefore like them, especially if you have the choice to not follow them.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 06:09 AM
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For the newbies it is a change in frame that is an important first step to fight the indoctrination.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 05:57 AM
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Usually $5-10 meals but a few times I got $30 sweaters If they really deserved it I buy them something. I use Heartiste's commandment: For every 3 things she does for me I give back 2
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 10:27 PM
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I have seen the future of feminist women, and it isn't pretty. Become top 20% through game, working out, career Fight for scraps on crappy venues like clubs and online dating MGTOW Find the rare unicorn 7s 8s that isn't brainwashed
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 08:57 PM
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Where is the line between polite/conscientious, and completely beta? I usually split the bill. I go through the doors first but hold it for the girl following me in. I flirt and tease with girls with the occasional compliment thrown in.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 07:50 PM
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Sigma doesn't have to have an unstable and unsafe life. Sigmas are that way because they themselves are kind of unstable and dangerous which turns on the creative and wild girls. Imagine living a boring life going to school and working and then this crazy writer charismatic challenge of a guy comes around. Compare that to most betas and you are ahead of them which is all you need to be if no true alphas are around. Such a great description of sigmas because guess what? I'm a writer, not to get a…
/r/askTRP26/10/13 06:02 AM
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From Heartiste: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/10/18/the-rise-of-the-renegade-alpha/ "In equivalent CH terms, then, the Sigma Male would fall somewhere between a Greater Beta and a Lesser Alpha." I am literally at the cusp of greater beta and lesser alpha and getting over this intimidation will help me find a niche in CH's renegade alpha, aka sigma. Men like Bukowski would be betas by nature but they have a huge redeeming quality that works for some types of women like being incredibly tale…
/r/askTRP25/10/13 10:12 PM
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When girls say no shirtless mirror pics they are actually subconsciously saying no, shirtless mirror pics or at least a thin shirt to show a six pack
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 10:03 PM
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The liberals are as picky as anyone else when it comes to sexual strategy yet give a facade of equal opportunity, especially on online dating sites. I actually applaud the women who are picky and congruent with their pickiness.
/r/askTRP25/10/13 08:26 PM
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They don't understand the traits that sexually attract themselves. When an alpha gets rid of them through the pump n dump or ignores them then they curse the patriarchy and all men when in reality they're saying I hate you top 20% man who ditched me, how dare you take me off my high horse because I would get anything I wanted!
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 08:11 PM
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A+ tempting to pull off in a restaurant considering the thread about that Toronto girl getting free meals from chumps
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 11:17 AM
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Red Pill is needed to give betas a fighting chance. This is the problem about growing up on Disney and telling both men and women they can have anyone they want.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 09:40 AM
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Like the old evolutionary days where 20 percent of men get 80 percent of sex and 40 percent of men get 0 percent of sex.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 09:17 AM
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It's funny how when you give women more and more power they revert back to the r-type environment
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 09:02 AM
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Data from American colleges show 20 per cent of males - the most attractive ones - get 80 per cent of the sex, according to an analysis by Susan Walsh, a former management consultant who wrote about the issue on her dating website, hookingupsmart.com. College is an r-type environment. If you are not in the top 20 percent of males I would recommend getting a girlfriend or getting hookups with more reasonable expectations.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 09:01 AM
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Wow an awesome reply I appreciate you replying to my post I will save this. You are having a instinctive response because your body recognizes the other men as competitors who in a past time would spear you with a sharpened stick and fuck your mate. But in truth, these guys aren't pack-leaders or whatever. They are just 20 year old shitstains who watch Jersey Shore and think being loud and obnoxious will get them positive attention. They couldn't throw a proper punch if their life depended on it…
/r/askTRP25/10/13 06:34 AM
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Working on game and career means trying to turn off excess empathy because having too much empathy means caring too much about what others think when in game and your career you have to go for the action you need to take.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 06:32 AM
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In a tribal world back in the day you are correct. However in the modern world being sigma nowadays is a successful path because you don't need to be the alpha for access. However you need to be comfortable around alphas to participate in being a sigma because of their reactions when you take the 9s and 10s from their group. Your exposure therapy is a good recommendation.
/r/askTRP24/10/13 11:19 PM
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Now I know why men in Toronto hate the women there A true dark triad woman if I ever saw one
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 10:17 PM
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Here is the secret: Men who have success with feminine style game through metrosexuality tend to be more disliked by men
/r/askTRP24/10/13 09:09 PM
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A+ quality would hear again This isn't just hamster This is insane on another level hamster, aka BPD
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 08:56 PM
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What if working on game is reducing empathy to those who deserve it?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 06:30 AM
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While sexual strategy is amoral, it helps to have self improvement posts to break stereotypes. After a while you start to wonder what is fucked up and what isn't. Turning off excess empathy is a little different from complete psycho.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 06:28 AM
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My favorite story so I suppose you have empathy in the moment but don't feel responsible and let it go away once you get on with it.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 06:26 AM
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A lot of people are craving "not giving a shit" nowadays because we live in a society which rewards stepping on people to get higher up the mound and bullshitting your way to success, most people feel like their own worst enemies when they're so mentally healthy their own conscience stops them from getting the promotion or the pussy. A subconscious need to have things come out fair when all your years of your life you see alphas get all the women and the betas get blue balls. Evolution wasn't ki…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 06:25 AM
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doesn't relate it is about turning off an excess form of empathy
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 06:23 AM
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tldr: Sleep with easy women; don't marry easy women
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 09:26 PM
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All movements try to offset the shame of their own kind. Even if society tries to prevent women from ever feeling shame, everyone feels shame because of all these perceived standards that everyone puts on themselves and everyone else. If you don't make good money as a male you are deemed a failure, if you don't sleep around at all you're a prude, if you sleep around too much you're a manwhore. Shame is based on putting your self esteem on the line based on other people's perceived perceptions ba…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 07:36 PM
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don't be late is already dealing with the special mindset so it is overkill. If she continues to consider herself too special then use that as further punishment.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 08:58 AM
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Seems a little off topic but proves dark triad is the best
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 07:52 AM
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You can roll over the other males in a social circle by being the tiniest bit alpha, because a huge portion of males today (at least in universities) are complete pushovers and are very submissive. All you need is that tiny bit because compared to all men I still may be a lesser alpha or upper beta but you can still be perceived as the alpha male of the group if all the other men are totally beta.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 07:52 AM
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It would've been better if OP meant plain to below average girls because that does raise your social proof because you're a cool, sociable person. Now if we're talking legit ugly that's different. I aim for less attractive but more flirtatious 7s because it's so much fun and she's cute enough to play the whole red pill game with them. Even then all reasonable cute girls may not be isolated so much so it's best to find ways to socialize in a way that easily allows isolation.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 07:47 AM
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i can see that it's more about making a move in the moment just let it happen cause you may not get another chance at least for a long while
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 07:30 AM
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Thanks for reminding me to add another point
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 06:29 AM
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Yeah that works sometimes to make them stay which I wrote towards the end
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 06:20 AM
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In that particular case that one girl was never able to commit* No prob
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 11:22 PM
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Something alone the lines of girl never being able to commit
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 10:41 PM
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She is trying to reframe your whole relationship and your reply was solid. If you told her you want casual stuff that's the frame and everything else is her problem with her own hamster. If you didn't tell her and just let things be then eventually she'll be nexted if she doesn't want you to sleep around in the future. I wouldn't add the finished sulking part cause an alpha doesn't care. "I'll be at Atlantic Avenue, 6pm, don't be late." is all you need.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 09:17 PM
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Even if some of /r/theredpill believes in HBD you can't deny sexual strategy that works regardless of race
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 09:06 AM
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The main point of /r/theredpill is sexual strategy From another commenter on this thread: The dark enlightenment seems to try to apply the insights of biological determinism more broadly. I'm indifferent because it doesn't apply to /r/theredpill because the red pill is about biological determinism only relating to sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 09:03 AM
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For the first time in my relationship, suddenly I was readily available to spend time with her and also routinely frustrated/down on myself. Job hunting is tough on the ego. I even opened up to her about it and leaned on her for emotional support. Men can never be that vulnerable because it makes the woman lose respect. When you lose respect you lose lust and love and therefore the sex goes down.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 08:16 AM
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Women that have a bad break up want the intimacy without the commitment until they want it
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 08:13 AM
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She thought she was ready to get with another guy but she just couldn't get her ex out of her mind. I am not sure of the context but if that ex of hers was an alpha that ditched her then that could be why she was using you as a rebound.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 08:12 AM
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All online dating allows women to go on a pedestal
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 11:57 PM
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One of my friends had a picture of her with only her hair cause she was looking away from the camera and in the span of one month she had 73 messages in her inbox
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 09:17 PM
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you gotta just let betas be betas. It ultimately comes down to each person and which pill they personally want to take
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 10:23 AM
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Meet ex-girlfriend 2 years ago on dating site There is a reason they are the ex
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 08:47 AM
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Sidebar please
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 08:07 AM
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Get with enough girls to fulfill sexual needs: one decent girl or a few flings
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 04:08 AM
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You can train yourself to be more selfish and deluded in confidence; Not quite the sociopath level but more than before compared to your old self.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 04:07 AM
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tldr: Narcissistic women want even more resources for themselves
/r/TheRedPill20/10/13 11:06 PM
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From a dark triad male it is successful because you spread your own seed as much as possible From a female perspective you would want to have the most advantageous genes for survival
/r/TheRedPill20/10/13 10:46 PM
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It's called low self esteem
/r/TheRedPill20/10/13 10:29 PM
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Caveman game is the only game to run in clubs and more stimulated bars My game is more stoic charisma let the women chase you due to her uncertainty and confusion which is why I stay with house parties more chill bars and day game
/r/TheRedPill20/10/13 10:27 PM
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http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/04/26/why-are-men-with-dark-triad-personalities-so-irresistible-to-women/ Psychopathy is a measure of fearlessness, narcissism is a measure of confidence, and manipulation is a measure of how much fun you are via flirting, leading conversation to sex, charm Fearlessness, confidence, and game means women tingling
/r/TheRedPill20/10/13 10:07 PM
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World travel > rent is the best reason to stay at home You're not even there half the time!
/r/TheRedPill19/10/13 06:20 AM
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Very solid reply and yeah the plans are there to move out and there's a reasonable limit like mid 20s thanks for your insight
/r/TheRedPill19/10/13 06:19 AM
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Looks like Justin Beeber. Says the same shit to almost everyone, not genuine whatsoever, but women don't care. They just see the smile and his car as he demonstrates value by talking about college or trips around the world paid for by his parents. He's not as much of a bitch as I make him sound though, he's a good guy with a backbone, he's just naive. A classic example of contextual alpha
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 08:35 PM
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Another OP thinking that at the other side of this metaphorical pussy hill will be so much happiness when in reality only you can give yourself happiness. the sting of loneliness and isolation will drive me into exclusive relationships for the wrong reasons. Funny how the sting of my loneliness didn't affect my standards at all and made me grow as a person.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 06:21 PM
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Money is very important as is making a plan. Good to see your progress be fulfilling.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 06:06 PM
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it is seeking alpha
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 06:04 PM
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I understand now
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 06:04 PM
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Interesting being 42 puts you at being in this age range back in the 90s when anyone could've got a decent job and moved out easily.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 08:38 AM
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Which country? Yeah its good to find the ones that don't care
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 07:40 AM
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That is framed beautifully nice response
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 07:39 AM
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Nice to hear what's going on in your situation
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 07:28 AM
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I can see that and that is written as the plan. For now though how would you reply to my original question?
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 06:49 AM
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Many alphas are contextual alphas. A broke dj can still pull because the status of being a dj. I'm guessing you are self employed though which is cool.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 06:35 AM
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I remember you being really into your career so from that perspective your answer makes total sense
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 06:33 AM
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Nowadays to move out you will need 2 or more roommates, does that really give you this level of control you're talking about?
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 06:31 AM
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A very good reason
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 06:30 AM
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Interesting what are these two guys situations?
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 06:27 AM
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It's interesting based on reading female subreddits it's evenly distributed between women who don't care, women who think you're a failure, and women who allow leeway until 25
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 03:07 AM
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Based on post history it seems like you're in your latter 20s or early 30s, while I don't agree, props for doing well in the stock market
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 03:02 AM
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It all depends on the tattoo for me. If it's just flowers for flowers sake what a loss of potential.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 08:40 PM
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I agree if you're making friends or in a career. Being alpha to men and being alpha to women have overlap but have some differences.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 09:43 AM
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I'm 5'8, which isn't even that short, and I notice more stares from women if you stare back at them with the pride posture.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 09:40 AM
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Alpha for men and alpha for women, albeit overlapping, still differ which was the best point of the post. Do you think Rhett Butler in Gone with the Wind would've been an alpha for men? I doubt it although he is an alpha for women. I loved how the best movies during the forties accepted being alpha as the model. http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/11/20/great-scenes-of-game-in-the-movies/
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 09:33 AM
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Yeah those types tend to be higher in dark triad traits too
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 02:54 AM
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1 to 3 are for storytelling purposes Point 5 is more like meaning he isn't ruled by women who treat him like crap and has gotten more standards Point 7 can be interpreted he used to want just any girl like his oneitis from earlier in the story but now wants to "play himself as the devil" to find women that are more towards his standards. This ties into feminism because of this part Feminism taught me a lot throughout the 80′s and 90′s. It taught me not to question women’s sexual choices. It taug…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 10:57 PM
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The original post wasn't by Roosh. I loosely know the author online and he comes from a place of offering sex as a good thing. Most people on TRP are bitter due to something either a lack of sex due to being the stereotypical disney chump or something else. So a portion of the readers want short term mating strategies and if you have all this frustrated energy due to not having sex in years or having failed monogamous relationships you might want to find ways to actually sleep around successfull…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 08:37 PM
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Most women generally want sex with specific people TRP is about how to become those specific people. Many come here believing the disney way of things so TRP is about teaching them about evolutionary psychology and other concepts to have a good sex life. Look at how the original author got into a circle regardless of his beliefs and had sex. His knowledge of his good looks got him into a higher tier within the group. Other men use TRP to get back into the dating market after being cheated on or …
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 06:55 PM
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It can be meaningful I mean it brings pleasure to the masses. What would you want men to do that matters more ?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 06:35 PM
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Slightly more power in sex is the biggest understatement because I doubt any guy you're sleeping with goes against the grain of what the media defines as attractive to you. I'm guessing around 6 foot white male and if you fall short of that perfect male you lose out on the sex massively. If you look up studies it also says women are more miserable than before as well even with feminism. Feminists say they want equality but only respond to very selective males that have certain traits which redpi…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 10:08 AM
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Not you personally other race related RP threads
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 09:43 AM
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Even if it is upsetting, can you explain in what sort of non-feminist society has this ever not been the case? What sort of society does TRP want* exactly?* From the introduction on the sidebar: Feminism is a sexual strategy. It puts women into the best position they can find, to select mates, to determine when they want to switch mates, to locate the best dna possible, and to garner the most resources they can individually achieve. The Red Pill is men's sexual strategy. Reality is happening, an…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 09:34 AM
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The few times I dared to bring up the evils of Feminism, I was given fuck-you looks from everybody. Although most end up happy you'll notice other parts of the post stating that all men's issues were automatically shunned as if it had no standing. Men were reduced to being seen as good cock to ride on based on the post because any disagreement with feminism and you're out of the group. It gives women all the choice to dictate which men are in the group and which men are out of the group based on…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 08:50 AM
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The subtle racism that turns into racist rants saying white people are superior under the cover of HBD or racial truths; it helps that Asian incels get specific advice once in a while Being dark triad is a good thing for short term mating strategies. Being dark triad as an Asian is that much rarer
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 08:09 AM
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Your relative value is based on the value of men around you. That's true so I could change the advice to making your surroundings allow you to contextually be in the 20%
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 07:22 AM
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I know ripped asians who are beta as crap and use it as a clutch that doesn't really get it done either so learn to do both
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 05:38 AM
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Strive to become the 20% or do other hobbies that bring pussy without game like making music for instance
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 05:37 AM
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I believe you can train yourself to a degree CH believes it too http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/11/13/cultivate-your-inner-dark-triad/ Yeah put more effort and learning dark triad makes that effort more efficient. A portion of more progressive big cities have women that tend to be open to all cultures so find those
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 04:33 AM
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For the rest of the 80%: MGTOW Find the <5% of cute 7s 8s that do prefer monogamy Fight for scraps on online dating or real life Get yourself into the top 20%
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 02:41 AM
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I would say it isn't that extreme although the top 20 percent get the majority of the women. Average men are kind of set and betas get nothing.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 01:34 AM
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EDIT: Good point Problem is that they're swinging trying to capture one of the few alphas in the group into monogamy when that makes absolutely no sense from a male perspective
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 01:31 AM
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uni money doesn't matter
/r/TheRedPill14/10/13 11:12 PM
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Of course and if you're in the top 20 percent you're all set. If you're average you're kind of set EDIT: Curious about the downvote because in this particular setting it's the truth based on the post
/r/TheRedPill14/10/13 11:04 PM
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You're only good for your body parts Funny how ironic that plays out
/r/TheRedPill14/10/13 11:03 PM
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the problem with r-type environments is that it makes 3s and 4s think they're 9s
/r/TheRedPill14/10/13 11:03 PM
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What area are you from? I am pretty sure it depends on the area as well for openness to outsider's groups. I do notice the most receptive girls are in your in group but a good portion of women are neutral to out groups meaning they will give you a chance if your game is legit. Own people's group can also include subculture to downplay the race
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 02:33 AM
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As a fellow ethnic minority how would you describe in detail playing with the best you have?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 01:07 AM
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ok clarified
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 09:17 PM
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I like this advice since it has lots of variety. Thanks
/r/seduction25/06/13 06:37 AM
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That's what I needed to hear thanks
/r/seduction25/06/13 06:33 AM
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Look at this thread on the same exact topic for one example http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1gzklm/how_do_you_meet_women_after_college/capdfnv
/r/seduction25/06/13 06:29 AM
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If by older you mean over 30 then yeah that's probably strange but if you're around their age then I don't see the problem
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:28 AM
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Attitude? I am strictly asking for suggestions on how to meet women
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:26 AM
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Maybe cause society shames men unless it is situational
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:26 AM
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I agree here because at 19 SMV is more forgivable so all you have to do is look your best have decent status and talk to girls
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 07:37 AM
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You can open up with a girl you know you won't fuck. If you want to fuck the girl you cannot open up or else you turn from mysterious in command of everything alpha to beta wimp in a split second.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/13 01:17 AM
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yes read "Women in Love" on the sidebar and you will see their love is very realistic and based on opportunity meaning they are not the romantics. They are solipsistic and tend to think about how the world fits within their scheme. Men are willing to sacrifice themselves for honor whereas women are less willing to do that.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/13 07:01 AM
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With seddit having 125k readers it has become diluted with people asking about oneitis and having a responsible white knight way of going about sex. Take away the misogynistic crap from TRP and you have objective concepts.
/r/seduction18/05/13 08:59 PM
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Suppose that either he has some mental illness that makes him see extremely black and white. The Red Pill is bitter because they were beta all their lives and then their wife or girlfriend got bored and slept around. They have valid points about women in their younger 20s getting pissed off at the alphas they slept with won't stick with them when they obviously were just pumped and dumped. Since the hookup culture is getting more and more prevalent (there was a nice piece on it from the Atlantic…
/r/seduction18/05/13 08:52 PM
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All your points are correct. I know myself that not all women are like this but a solid majority in the US and other westernized countries tend to be because they get away with everything just because they are women. From personal experience I know that if you have been sold a lie for 20 30 40 years via disney then there will be bitterness once you see the innate biological wiring. If personal experience matches the theories then they seem sound. /r/seduction is good but so many white knights an…
/r/seduction18/05/13 08:32 PM
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Red Pill is about blunt truth and has no problem being out of line with what is acceptable to show that sexual strategy is amoral. If you cut through the misogyny their concepts of female solipsism http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Solipsism and the rationalization hamster due to innate biological wiring to go after alphas are mandatory to understand the sexual strategy playing field enough to decide what you want to do.
/r/seduction18/05/13 08:12 PM
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My best friend is female and while she is attractive she is not my type at all. If she was anywhere near my type and I was attracted to her in any way then I would cut it off. You cannot lust after a friend but you can objectively know she is attractive for other advantages like winging you and helping you with social proof.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 09:00 PM
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You can never change thousands of years of sexual programming in your life OP but you can bend the rules to work for you. What I really want from a woman is to be loved by her and cared for. Pursuing women, asking them on dates, driving the whole conversation, none of that really makes me feel appreciated. I feel like women are deliberately using my needs against me in order to juice me. Women like this exist contrary to what some of this subreddit will say but it is rare. I would say under 10 p…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 10:02 PM
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Shyness means total avoidance or having oneitis due to not making more choices Sigma has experiences via his mission and talking to women outside of the matrix of group dynamics
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 09:54 PM
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I am checking out of group dynamics relating to women.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 05:00 AM
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Depends on the context. A welcoming house party is fun for having fun. I don't consider this friends but like networking acquaintances to have fun with. A club or bar has so much hierarchy in itself it becomes the focal point of becoming alpha there and that has way too much effort for it to be worth it to get women in my view.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 04:52 AM
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In the same way some readers here don't want to pursue women anymore after learning about the red pill I don't want to pursue these social groups because of pathetic circlejerks within social groups. Meeting people outside of their group really brings their authentic personality forward which makes them act genuinely
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 03:53 AM
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Online world: White tall beard. All else fuck the online world
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 03:41 AM
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Still worth pursuing if you can bend the rules and find the rare diamond in the rough that doesn't have an ego the size of the continent. By bending the rules I mean find a way to stand out without breaking the rules to being an alpha.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 02:57 AM
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Maybe the examples are extreme but the main point of out of all those movie role models is that their mission was more important than any women relating back to the warrior mentality. Inner confidence and centeredness, and being comfortable in your own skin are the key elements of being successful. I agree. I replied to RedHonest about an alternative way to have these things because his post basically said if you're not outgoing you can't be alpha which is incorrect in my personal view.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 02:54 AM
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Laws 6 and 38 seem to contradict one another could anyone clarify this for me?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 11:31 PM
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OP thinks that social proof is number one out of all alpha traits. OP fails to realize that it is just like looks which is one part of the SMV.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 09:48 PM
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Check out Law 18 of the 48 Laws of Power: "Do Not Build Fortresses to Protect Yourself - Isolation is Dangerous." Considering I interact with women and people I don't think this applies. Do everything, except try to be this lone-wolf alpha who is mysterious and approaches women at bars. I don't approach at bars that is expected and routine. If I had more SMV I'd reconsider but that's not the game I'm playing. First, hello social proof. Faking social proof isn't as easy as people think, and havin…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 09:36 PM
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Sigma then You can override almost anything for some girls by relentless charisma.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 05:32 AM
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On that scale sigma may be closest although I don't really contempt women because I understand the niche type of girl I will find and attract due to my post above.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 05:13 AM
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