(Are np links allowed here because I saw an askreddit thread and one of the comments made me cringe into a raisin.)

Intro: Husband in a Polyamorous Relationship is checked into the Hospital and His WIFE Goes Out to Party. Exactly what we expected so it may be confirmation bias.

Body: He not only showed weakness by asking her to come to the hospital to visit but he let her sleep with other men. So did she want to spend the night pretending to care about her weak husband or did she want to go out on a date with her boyfriend?

Conclusion: He ended up divorcing her (very good) and then falling into a monogamous LTR (pretty good) with a single mother (bad!).