I don't get it (VENT/RANT)

Auvergnat · 2017-07-04T02:30:49+00:00

To everyone reading this: do not answer OP.

OP has not read the sidebar. He has no idea what TRP is about. He has no idea that the rules say personal questions are to go in asktrp.

OP doesn't care about the red pill. He just has a problem with one girl and thought he'd just ask anyone he could for advice, which he is likely not going to take since he doesn't know what this sub is about.

The only people who should post here are those who understand TRP and want to contribute to it. This kind of post is just noise drowning the signal, which make this sub a less attractive place for those who come to learn. Report this type of post for breaking the rules.

NeoreactionSafe · 2017-07-03T23:44:13+00:00

Both of you are young and inexperienced.

It sounds like you had moments where you were giving off masculine vibes, but then your fears took hold of you and that gave off beta male vibes.

She only knows what she feels.

You are basically better off without a brain.

Seriously.

There are guys with no brain and they do great with women because they just don't second guess themselves.

A guy with an IQ of 50 who is horny and just goes after a girl will actually create more sexual Tingles for her than the guy with a normal IQ but who is emotional and introverted.

Women want to feel you are in control and are fearless about what you are doing. Once they smell the slightest fear it triggers a reaction where they want nothing to do with you.

Whether you approach this same girl or just pick another I'd say just approach and be absolutely fearless. Not aggressive. But just indifferent to the consequences.

Be sort of reckless... think about it less... just do.

kez88 · 2017-07-03T23:30:36+00:00

Read the side bar.

She either wanted you to escalate when it was just you two, and you didn't, so she figured i'm not wasting my time. She then saw you out drunk, forgot you were a pussy, was interested again, and you STILL failed to escalate, until you 'suggested for a kiss' like a pussy, which probably grossed her out so she lost interest again.

Always be escalating, girls would almost always rather you escalate, and then she can knock you back or not, but at least you know either way where you stand. Also note, just because you were knocked back once, doesn't mean a girl won't let you escalate again later. No for girls doesn't mean no EVER, just not right now. Unless of course it's a hard forceful NO and she pushes you off etc, don't be a fucken idiot.

KirbyKobe · 2017-07-03T23:20:29+00:00

I think the first time you guys met (with your friends), she was looking for you to escalate. And since she later rejected you, I'm assuming that you didn't escalate. It doesn't seem like she is attracted to you, and you're right to move on from her. Just my 2 cents

Systemes · 2017-07-03T23:34:14+00:00

Stop looking for clues when you talk to a girl. Assume attraction then act according to your desires (escalate, lead, that's how it's done). You had your chance, it seems, but missed it. Timing is a bitch in those cases.

MattyAnon · 2017-07-04T01:43:09+00:00

First meet: You friendzoned yourself the first time. No masculine polarity / escalation / sexuality. Hence no second date.

Second meet: alcohorny, but again you failed to escalate, instead trying to manouvre the conversation round to kissing, ie asking for her permission rather than slowly and assertively taking what you want.

iwasbornred · 2017-07-03T23:45:44+00:00

Dude just grab her mouth and put your dick in it it's not hard

RelentlessRetort · 2017-07-03T23:30:38+00:00

Dude, a lot of people act touchy when drunk. You should've stopped caring as soon as you got your ass rejected.

Also, I wouldn't recommend this sub for this kind of "relationship" advice.

Daspker780 · 2017-07-04T00:23:21+00:00

Escalate, Kino, Tease the bitch, pass the shit tests, and most importantly, read the sidebar

aznredpill · 2017-07-04T04:54:44+00:00

Read the side bar you lazy piece of shit

littleblacktruck · 2017-07-04T04:55:56+00:00

Always advance/initiate physical contact. Never ask. When refused twice, abort mission... AKA, NEXT!

Title	I don't get it (VENT/RANT)
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	16
Date	July 3, 2017 11:09 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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