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I don't know what to do......

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October 28, 2014
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Title I don't know what to do......
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Upvotes 0
Comments 8
Date October 28, 2014 2:33 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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[–]yeahweewee6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

posts on trp

hasn't read a single post on the sidebar

why is anyone even giving this lazy piece of shit advice

[–]SgtTRP0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lack of situational awareness.

They get too excited that someone is talking to them, they answer.

Same thing how marketing cold calls ever work. Suddenly someone's on the phone asking you a question. Quick, answer! Go, fetch!

[–]Azothlike4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's obvious you haven't read the sidebar.

It's also obvious that you are of low-value other than your wealth, that you lack confidence, that you lack an abundance mentality, that you lack game, that you lack a sexual skillset(i.e., how to effectively escalate, overcome LMR, sex god method, etc).

Let me put it to you bluntly. You suck. She sucks. She's giving you very little and asking for a lot, and you're settling for her because A.) You haven't made yourself someone that is worth more than that, B.) You haven't learned that you're worth more than that, once you ARE worth more than that, and C.) You haven't learned how to acquire what you're worth, once you're worth it, and once you know you're worth it.

Read. The. Sidebar.

Fix your issues. Man up. Get fit. Dress well. Do what you love(culinary school is a good start).

Once that's done, talk to women. Flirt with women. Hit on women. Get numbers from women. Get experience with women(date, fuck, whatever). You will learn, once you're a worthy specimen of masculinity with experience under your belt, that there are PLENTY of other women out there a lot better than the sad little trollop currently trying to suck your money out of everything but your penis.

Stop being a sad little beta bucks, complaining that you don't know what to do and complaining about your situation, when you're posting in a subreddit full of information specifically designed to avoid your miserable little society-stimulated situation, with the cold hard truth of what it takes to fix it.

/your friendly neighborhood medication, administered only because you're in this subreddit

edit: spelling and stuff

[–]redpillsam2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

All signs point to her using you. You need to remind her that you have options, and it's her that needs to perform. Further, she's let herself be used by guys before, doesn't sound likes she's very valuable to me.

[–]dnlslm9-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't give her much. We have frugal dates like walks in the park, watching a moivie in my room, cooking a meal together (I am in culinary school), and other cheap dates.

[–]Misteralcala0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Abundance mentality. Realize that there are millions of women out there who are prettier, younger and a lot more willing to please you. All you have to do is reach out and initiate contact, and if you play the numbers game, eventually you'll be successful. What you are doing is making her out in your mind to be the only source of female companionship - but we all know that's bullshit.

She's emotionally manipulative - she's turned you into an sexless orbiter that's giving her time and attention for what? For her to accuse you of taking advantage of her? No self-respecting man would put up with that situation. If you feel you don't deserve better than guess what - you'll never get a better woman. It's all up to you.

You need to cut her out of your life and realize that you're enriching her life, and she's doing nothing to benefit you. Cut contact, don't answer her calls and put your time and energy into the types of women you deserve for yourself - you'll never be happy if you 'settle'. The problem is you. You put her on a pedestal and you treat her better than she deserves - she's a woman who doesn't think you're worth fucking. And you reward her by coming back to her. cut contact. NO MAS.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I think you should stick by her. If it goes awry, at least you have a learning experience.

Now bare in mind, I'm a stranger on the internet. I'm not rooting for your failure but I'm also not gonna tell you to dump her. You alluded that this is the only woman available to you.

Ride it out and then find out for yourself what other paths there are to take.

[–]dnlslm9-2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree with you. One of the reasons I've stuck with her is because its my first relationship and I want as much experience as possible.

I have other people interested in me but at the moment my life is a mess and once they got to know me I doubt they would date me more than a month.

And I really like her. One thing you have to understand is I don't think she's manipulative. She is just mentally unstable and inmature (schizophrenia that is treated with meds and depression).

So ya I don't know what to do because I have days where there isn't a problem and I couldn't be happier but then she has her days where she is depressed and is unhappy with life inculuding our relationship.

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