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we recognize that negative behavior in OURSELVES is the reason most of our relationships fail - we pedestalize women, supplicate too much and put their needs before our own - our own BAD behavior is the reason we don't succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 01:57 PM
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EXACTLY. Men and women have the capacity to devolve into something unpleasant and un-sexy, and it's up to US all to foster positive behavior and not reward negative behavior in our partners - men or women. AMALT and AWALT are both true. Is it wrong then, to try to find ways to protect your interests in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 01:40 PM
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There you go. Let it all out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 12:10 PM
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This goes even further by giving women SUPREME power by having men beg for sex every. Single. Step. Of. The. Way. With the threat of rape hanging over their heads, most poor fools would agree to anything if it meant they could get their dicks wet without threat of litigation and prison. MASSIVE power shift. Our freedoms are literally at stake if we allow that shit to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 07:44 AM
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Of course. That's when you point the the sign and say "READ IT!".
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 07:37 AM
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Going to jail for 20 years and being registered as a sex offender for life. You have to notify local law enforcement every time you move and many communities force you to go door to door and disclose your crimes to your neighbors. You are tagged and monitored like a zoo animal and your ability to find work and the places you can go are limited. It affects you for life - not just the duration of your sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/14 10:44 PM
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Rape hysteria is feminist tactic whereby feminists aim to simultaneously demonize and emasculate men while sexually empowering women so they can be allowed to monopolize and control the terms and conditions of sex. Feminists figure that if women can control sex, they can control men. The way to control sex is to change the power dynamic the only way feminists know how - to invade an established institution, declare themselves victims of said institution and demand broad, restructuring changes in…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/14 10:24 PM
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WELL THEN... that's just silly talk. Send him over to TRP and we'll straighten him out for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/14 08:04 PM
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You can't negotiate or deny attraction. If the traits that attracted you to that person are no longer there, or have changed, then the attraction just isn't there anymore. Concessions can be made to a certain degree, but maybe she nags him in private or treats him like shit? That, coupled with a loose vagina would be enough reason for most men to not be attracted to their spouse. Something changed to make him not want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/14 07:56 PM
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Good for you. More men need to do this.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 07:04 PM
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Not all women share the same traits, but I have personally seen confirmations of TRP representations of women in my own family and all around me. My mother was married four times and each husband was repeatedly taken to court multiple times to try and squeeze a few more cents out of them per month - she tried to get child support, spousal support, their retirement, their social security and their government checks. Two of them have died, and she went after widower's benefits even though she hadn…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/14 07:01 PM
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Is her body really the same? Or is it 40 pounds heavier with a looser vagina?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/14 06:43 PM
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Good. Remember that when you caricaturize Redpillers as angry, misogynistic men who are socially awkward. It's easy to become that which you hate - a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/14 06:37 PM
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I don't think it's paranoid if you're going to be hooking up with college girls. It's your word against hers and your word carries no weight compared to hers. This is the wave of the future - this is us reacting to the feminist rape culture.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 06:28 PM
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You don't necessarily have to disclose it if you have a sign on your house or door that says "This area is under 24/7 video surveillance." This is how stores get away with video taping everything without getting consent from every person - consent is implied because you post the sign at the door and they choose to enter of their own free will. For added measure, put a sign on your bedroom door too - laugh it off if she mentions it - but don't deny it, for legal reasons. Let her think it's a joke…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 06:26 PM
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You said so yourself - you're successful and she's a party slut. End of discussion. The fact that you feel you need to defend yourself is sad - stop it. Statements I would use for not drinking or drinking very little are: "I like to be in control of my actions." "I already drank my share when I was younger." "I did too much coke to have any alcohol tonight." Only use that last one with amused mastery if you think they will see it as a joke.
/r/askTRP14/12/14 05:54 PM
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Anything you say, do or write can be used against you or used for nefarious purposes. If you left a physical diary laying around, it would definitely be snooped. Conversely... you COULD use it as a Dark Triad tool to throw people off your scent and let them think they have inside information on you. For instance: You can plant your fake "diary" in an easy hiding space - poking out under your pillow or sticking out from on top of your refrigerator - and in it you can list your confessions of intr…
/r/askTRP14/12/14 05:46 PM
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It's always a power grab with feminists. When feminists overhear men discussing women, they are immediately threatened by the idea of men using effective RP strategies with Strong, Independent Womyn™ because their whole agenda is to drive a wedge between the sexes - they don't want men to succeed with women. THIS is the reason TRP is villainized and hated so badly - if women start getting a taste of good, hard dominant cock and men who show them the door when they start their shit, they will rea…
/r/askTRP14/12/14 05:33 PM
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Depending on the feminist, everything is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/14 10:21 AM
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Pulling back is really the only option you have at this point. If you chase, you lose - unless you want her for a LTR - then pursue her, but you clearly stated you didn't want a LTR, so yea. Pull back and find other plates if that's what you want. Pulling back may cause her to reevaluate things and come back, or it may not, but you shouldn't be that invested in her if you only consider her a plate.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 08:50 AM
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You can always sue her ass for slander or defamation of character. If she makes a scene, you have options.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 08:42 AM
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And that is a perfect illustration of AF/BB: "settling" for a good provider while "lusting after" the men whom you find attractive. Your successful, unattractive husband may love you with every fiber of his being, but you are with him for his resources and the benefits those resources provide you - not because you're attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 06:49 AM
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Beta bux are the men that women end up "settling" for. She would never have dated him in her prime and she's only with him now because her dating options have dried up and all of her friends are settling down and having kids before their eggs dry up too. To quote Louis CK "you're literally the last branch she can cling to before she hits the bottom". As a beta bux, she isn't sexually attracted to you at all. She's had threesomes with surfers on spring break and had hot, nasty sex in a bathroom s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 06:34 AM
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The best advice is to be "outcome independent", meaning have a good time regardless if things go the way you want them to or not. This also ties in to "abundance mentality" - realizing that there are many many many women out there you can date, so it's silly to get invested in one that's not willing to give you what you want - it's okay to walk if things don't work for you. Sadly, a lot of guys become jealous, possessive or tie up all of their emotions in a woman because they don't think they ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 05:47 AM
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Thanks! Remember - women are solipsistic - they will interpret any huge or sudden changes in attitude or strategy as being directed at them. Her hamster will spin while she tries to figure out "What did I do to deserve this?". They will always assume the worst and think they are in the center of things.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 05:30 AM
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Say you're not religious, or you have your own faith that you believe in strongly, and you work or go to school with a few people of a different faith than you. Some of them are very insistent and enthusiastic about you coming to church with them, because they are sure you'll have a blast! Even though they know you're perfectly happy with what you have going, on they try to cajole you and entice you to join them. Some of them are well versed in arguments about their religion because they go door…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 05:23 AM
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Redpillers realize that we are out-numbered, out-gunned and since TRP teaches us to focus on ourselves, we are not going to organize like MRAs or Feminists. We cannot fight society because Feminism has become too big to fail, but we can pick our battles and play on our own terms, or choose not to play at all (MGTOW). Feminists will say they are the perpetual victims of men and demand more rights and privileges and try to make up the rules for everybody as they see fit through legislation, social…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 04:45 AM
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Once you become a "movement" with parades and logos, you become a target. You get put on watch lists and become something tangible that can be harassed, attacked and crushed . TRP makes more sense when you fly under the radar and don't draw attention to yourself. Besides, you can't gather men to TRP until they reach that breaking point within themselves that allows them to swallow it whole. I think the thing for us to "do" is make our situations ideal for ourselves. Men are already realizing tha…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 04:13 AM
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It's a balancing act being married. One thing you cannot do is go full cocky RP if you've been beta since she's known you - that's like throwing hot water on an ice cold window - the stress of changing temperatures so fast could stress crack it. You have to ease into it and she will become suspicious about your motives and your change of strategy, so be ready to brush these off. Ideally, since you are married and you can't be a total alpha in that situation, you need to find the right ratio of a…
/r/askTRP12/12/14 03:39 AM
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Oooh. Gotcha. My bad. Carry on.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 02:46 AM
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Did you just say men have an advantage in divorce? The hell?
/r/askTRP10/12/14 01:02 AM
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That's the day the doctors are making her (him) a real, functioning woman for the first time! OP could be missing out on hot tranny vadge.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 12:42 AM
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AWALT, but by the same token, women should be given a chance to prove themselves worthy or not. In her defense, she sounds like she's actively taking your advice and trying to better herself - which is nothing but commendable. I wouldn't put all of your chips in the pot, though. Just because things are going fine doesn't mean the winds can't or won't change - and that goes for any relationship. I would continue to see how things develop, if for nothing but the curiosity - assuming all of your ne…
/r/askTRP10/12/14 12:39 AM
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Emotional cheating is knowingly, willingly and implicitly sharing romantic or sexual feelings with somebody other than your current SO. This is cheating without physical contact, and it is never done "unknowingly". Sometimes we can develop interest, feelings or sexual desire for people other than our SOs without acting on them, and that's fine. When you bring your feelings to the attention of the other person and they let it be known that the feelings are mutual, it can lead to "emotional cheati…
/r/askTRP10/12/14 12:29 AM
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You're making women out to be MUCH more than they are. Throwing them up on a pedestal is the worst thing you can do for yourself. You are going about things wrong - like a woman would. This is not meant to be condescending, it's just that you have your wires crossed (like most men nowadays) and this is what TRP is here for. Women in general get their happiness from validation and attention from those whom she deems valuable. This also feels good for men, but it's not natural to them, so men who …
/r/askTRP09/12/14 11:04 PM
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I've had the balls to post at /r/relationships a few times that rape victims are a risk to be with (because it's true), and MAN did the indignant man-hating comments come FLOODING in. Women who have been raped have serious baggage that I wouldn't even want to begin to deal with. I would end it as soon as she said the "R" word.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 10:49 PM
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This is the entire point. Men have a hard time "making it work" with women if they approach them as the open, honest 'nice guy' that women claim they want. Instead, it's better to go with what works to get what you want out of a relationship - and if that happens to be using her emotions to keep things on track instead of using your wallet - so be it. If it doesn't work for her - there's the door. Next please. Men and women have their own strategies, but male strategies are seen as deceptive and…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/14 09:36 PM
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That is why I tagged it "Blue Pill Example". This is a cautionary tale, my friend. NOT an example to live by. Everything you say is true though.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 04:06 PM
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I like hyper-Glamorous's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/14 06:04 AM
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Thanks! And I agree. It's a horrible risk and if this one falls apart some day, I'd not do it again because of the risk factors.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 06:02 AM
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Unlike many, I don't abuse the word 'harass'. I have been badgered, belittled and shamed for having posted in TRP. On completely unrelated subs my comments have sometimes been flagged with "Oh, he's just a stupid TRPer. Don't listen to him." and "You guys at TRP need to be shut down because you're all just rape-mongering misogynists!" Seriously? I just answered a question or gave advice. What does my post history, particularly regarding TRP, have to do with anything I discuss anywhere else? It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/14 05:58 AM
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Women use douchebag / creep / pervert etc. and can attack a man's masculinity without thinking much of it either, so name calling and gender bashing isn't a one-sided affair. Especially the creep shaming. That's gotten a bit out of hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/14 03:44 AM
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I have to interject and leave this piece of wisdom right here. I'll see myself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/14 02:38 AM
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Probably. But I'd take the abs and the degree in addition to the cooking skills.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 01:44 AM
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Thanks. Although it was an unintentional by-product of the whole ordeal and nothing I can take credit for directly.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 12:27 AM
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I have also been with many big girls in the past, and I can vouch for the 'tight pussy phenomenon' you speak of. My theory (which may be total horse shit) is that their body fat is compressing their vaginas from within, making them tighter.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 10:37 PM
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I don't make very much money - very little compared to my wife, so I won't be paying child support or alimony. I have people who I can turn to for shelter to help me get on my feet. I have resources to make money off the books and I am good with women, so finding a rebound GF would be a piece of cake. My money, shelter, security and intimacy needs will be met if I'm suddenly single because of divorce. I am not afraid of living a spartan lifestyle to get by - in fact I was quite adept at it befor…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 09:21 PM
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I am married and while that means compromise sometimes, it isn't the end of the world. I have kids that I adore and I wouldn't trade watching them grow up for being single again. It took over a decade to get my marriage where I am happy with it, but the hard work has paid off. Marriage is a huge gamble, make no mistake - and you never know if it will work or not. You and your spouse will mutate, change and grow into different people over time and most of the time, those new people can't coexist …
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 07:06 PM
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Well then, it sounds like an opportunity for you, doesn't it? The only thing stopping you is you.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 10:01 PM
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Buddhists say everybody has three faces: One face you show the world, the other face you show those closest to you, and the third face is your private self that only you can see. Women take this shit to a higher art form. They are the masters of deception.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 06:46 PM
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There are two types of women who you can potentially be with: Women who are attracted to your assets. These are women looking to get something out of you or use your resources. These women will treat you like a beta bux and once your assets dry up or the see a better offer, they are done with you. This isn't the kind of woman you want to be with. Women you supply with tingles. These women will be at your beck and call because you're aloof, mysterious and they desire you more than you desire them…
/r/askTRP07/12/14 05:34 PM
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A woman's value is tied up in her looks and her sexual appeal. Those things have a limited shelf life and they all know it. Women would eat babies if it could slow the aging process. Men on the other hand, build and accrue wealth and assets over time and can have their pick of women once they build enough value. Old women are undesirable, but grey-haired silver fox men look 'distinguished'. This is the one of the few double standards that still works in our favor.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 05:21 PM
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You're in a computer institute to further your career and build something for yourself. Your GF is asking you to divert attention from your future so you can concentrate on her. Doesn't that sound a bit selfish on her part? GFs come and go, and if you improve yourself and further your career, you will be able to get hotter GFs that don't try to hold you back from your goals. I'll bet you do most of her work in addition to your own work as well. If a woman feels you're becoming too good for her, …
/r/askTRP07/12/14 05:13 PM
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Women are the great pretenders. When you paint your face on every day, it's easy to become the lie. After a while, you believe it and wish others believed it as much as you.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 05:08 PM
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You're a man. Men can build empires out of nothing and change the course of history through hard work and willpower. Women just have to pretend to be sweet and innocent to hitch a ride through life. Remember who and what you are. You're the master of your own destiny. Any woman that's going to be with you is going to be arm candy at the least, and a companion at best, but if you surrender the whole damn ship over every time a woman gets in your head, you're going to have a bad time. Women should…
/r/askTRP07/12/14 05:02 PM
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There is literally nothing you had with your ex that you can't have again with another woman. The difference is, if you improve yourself and remember that you're the prize, you'll probably keep the next one around longer, assuming your needs are being met. Just because you're not in college doesn't mean you can't get out and mingle. The best way to get over a woman is to get under several more.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 04:52 PM
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Absotively! I married a white girl. Plenty of hotties here willing to give brown guys a chance.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 04:34 PM
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Women view their man's weakness as a severe flaw that will irritate them and dry them up like a twat full of hot sand. Women don't want to hear you cry about your problems. This is where bros come in. Your close male friends shouldn't judge you or berate you, but should instead let you vent and offer advice and encouragement. Every man needs close bro friends. They will be the confidants that your woman can never be.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 06:21 AM
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In High School you should just be concerned about getting those good grades and getting into college. Once you're in college, the rules will change and you will have opportunities to explore plenty of girls. If your grades are shit and school isn't your thing, have a job lined up or think about a trade school (auto mechanics, carpentry, welding etc.) to get you into a career. At your age, the girls you're going to have access to are going to be flighty little drama-prone hormonal princesses - th…
/r/askTRP07/12/14 06:12 AM
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The difference is that men can handle the loneliness and women can't. Women need the constant attention and validation. Men just need work to keep them busy. Men aren't as reliant on socialization - we are fine being on our own and we can even find comfort in solitude, instead of crushing isolation - the way a woman might. There's nothing wrong with being alone. It's even good for us men to be alone at times.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 06:00 AM
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Move to the Southwestern US! There people will just think you're Mexican! I'm Hispanic, and I have always had success with women. Technically I am brown. And this brown gets DOWN.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 05:45 AM
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Challenge accepted. I accept the right to rule. Hail me!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/14 08:38 AM
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So order diet coke in a whiskey glass. You're in a perfect place to go and practice your game.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 05:32 AM
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Of course. It's conveniently your fault. Nothing this princess has done caused you to change your mind about being with her, right? This means that when you get back, your alone time will be strictly monitored and your friends will be removed (if they haven't been already), because they are filling your head with nonsense. This is the beginnings of Gaslighting - a term for manipulating somebody into thinking they are the problem. Turning evidence around and building a case against you, when you …
/r/askTRP06/12/14 05:00 AM
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And it will only get WORSE if you continue to be with her. Once that ring is on, she will let her crazy loose full force and there's not a damn thing you can do about it. If you think breaking up pre-engagement is hard, imagine how hard it will be after marriage, when there's a lot of shitty gifts to return and legal issues to sort out. Every day with her is a day wasted, and you KNOW it.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 04:44 AM
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Love can exist, but realize that love can be withdrawn at any time if you're not on top of your game. As long as you realize it's fleeting and can end at any moment, you can enjoy it for what it is. If you tie up everything in a woman though, be prepared to lose it all. Love for your relatives and children is as solid as it will ever get.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 04:31 AM
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This. Spectre's advice is solid. You could also think of funny responses that further push your agenda: "You have no idea how much I am that type. smile and wink." "I know. I just have that warm, open face. Who knew it hid such a dark, mysterious deviant. smile and wink" "I'm actually in disguise. I lost the paparazzi two blocks back, but if they come in here looking for me, I need you to pretend to be my GF." Be witty and creative. Push those emotion buttons and keep her interested. Don't worry…
/r/askTRP06/12/14 04:26 AM
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Fitness tests are done naturally. Shit tests come from her acting out in anger or frustration and pushing your buttons. One is a child curiously testing her boundaries, making sure her partner is the real deal, the other is a child that is throwing a tantrum and needs adult intervention. They are similar except for the context and execution.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 04:08 AM
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Shit Tests - Anything a woman does that is meant to probe your weaknesses, throw you off balance and rattle your frame. Shit tests are similar to Fitness Tests, but are done consciously and with malice. Shit tests can be death by a thousand cuts - designed to wear you down, like her picking fights and purposely doing things that annoy you, or it can be a bludgeon, like her demanding that you choose between your friends or her. How you handle / deflect / diffuse her shit tests will determine how …
/r/askTRP06/12/14 04:00 AM
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There is no summit, but there are plateaus. It's a journey, not a destination. If you succumb to laziness or complacency you will fall back into beta mode. Stay vigilant, keep improving yourself and don't settle for less than you deserve.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 03:50 AM
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How many leagues is that?
/r/askTRP06/12/14 03:43 AM
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Do what I did. I decided that I would have fun with the whole approach endeavor. I was about where you are in age, I had a job and a car and that seemed to be enough for the success of other guys that had one thing that I lacked - confidence. So I decided I was tired of hanging back in the shadows and freezing up and blowing my chances like I had been up until then. I set it up like a game. Instead of trying to hookup in my little shit hole town, I went to the big city 25 miles away to practice …
/r/askTRP06/12/14 03:38 AM
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There will most likely be some backlash when you start to stand up for yourself and stop doing their bidding. "You used to do it for me!" and "What happened? We used to be such good friends!" and "What's up with you? You've changed." are things you might hear when you decide to stop being their doormat. Shame, guilt and victimization are the tools women will use to try to keep you in line if you try to get out of your little box they have neatly put you in. There is a difference between doing so…
/r/askTRP06/12/14 03:14 AM
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It's like a sixth sense for them. Women are chased as soon as they grow tits and start bleeding, so they can pick up what you're after. If you're the guy that looks fun instead of thirsty, they might give you a try. Taking care of yourself before you go does help, but a better idea would be to not put so much emphasis on sex when you approach women. Be playful and if they are receptive, then you can work on kino and physical contact. If she gobbles it up, then you can drop sexual hints and talk …
/r/askTRP06/12/14 03:03 AM
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I live in an open carry state. My sister and mother are both packing heat when they leave their houses. No way am I participating in a squirrel chase, or I might end up a dead puppy. Aside from that, I am an intimidating looking guy. But the rest sounds pretty good to me!
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 02:55 AM
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TwoX is notorious for removing and silencing anything or anybody that doesn't contribute it's voice to their "Echo Chamber of Feels". They don't care about helping women, only about looking and feeling good about themselves. Hamsters gonna hamst.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 02:37 AM
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100% this. She was quick to drop you because there are 'plenty more where he came from'. This is why you need to adopt the same attitude - she's looking out for her interests, so you have to look out for yours.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 02:33 AM
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That's some powerful shit right there. Every man can relate to this.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 07:44 PM
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It was so long ago I don't remember - and maybe I tried to forget it too.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 07:23 PM
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Thanks. It was a crazy thing, but it forced me to reevaluate myself.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 10:06 PM
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I have been shadow-banned at TwoX for a while now. I thought it would be an interesting exercise to weigh in and give some advice to the ladies there - and it was 'interesting'. Women don't like to be corrected, argued with or shown an alternate path. Women just want to be coddled and told that they are doing the 'right thing', no matter how wildly inappropriate or stupid their choices are. I was quickly outed because I didn't add my obligatory "you go, girl!" chant to the echo chamber, and I da…
/r/askTRP02/12/14 12:20 AM
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If you try to be too loving and self-sacrificial, it sounds like you're just out there to please others, at the detriment of the self. Once my needs have been met and taken care of, I could pour some love and sacrifice some resources for others whom I feel are deserving of my attentions. Too much love and self-sacrifice is the makings of a BP pleaser - somebody who puts everybody before themselves. People who are successful and generous, kind etc. are already established and have their own affai…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 12:02 AM
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This place is one of the LAST male spaces online where guys can feel free to talk about things without women or white knights getting their panties twisted in a bunch. This is the locker room where we can talk shop. This is the Old Boy's Club where we can embrace our manliness and talk about things that other subs would ban us for even mentioning. This is an important place where men can get useful real-world advice from other men who will give it to them straight.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 11:37 PM
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Don't make us go over there and pound that tuna.
/r/askTRP29/11/14 09:20 PM
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I am absolutely glad I'm a man, even though I have to work harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 09:00 PM
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That's strange. I don't feel like a hate monger.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 02:57 AM
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If we hated women, we wouldn't be trying to find the most beneficial way to interact with them. We don't expect others to agree with us, but we do wish that others were more tolerant of our views. Just because we don't hold the same views as you doesn't mean that our views deserve to be disrespected. Why are you the one who gets to claim your ideologies as pure, and ours as evil? Why can't we all just get along?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 02:56 AM
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TRP is like the salad bar: we take the knowledge from there that we can use, we internalize the useful bits and we leave the rest of it on the table. New people, trolls and guys posting in anger aren't going to be giving the best information, and the comments in their posts won't be kind to them if they are getting too far afield. I recall the post in question, but I didn't even read it myself, because the title was enough to make me gloss over it in search of more interesting topics of conversa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 02:47 AM
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Society, Feminism™ and a sea of beta men have women's backs. Women will never lack for anything, and we have all made sure of that. Who's taking care of us men? Ourselves. Women have rights and men have responsibilities. TRP is our male space to vent, strategize and compare notes with each other. This is the locker room where the weak, faint of heart, and easily offended will not fit in. We can all identify with some, if not most of these points, and we use the collective knowledge gleaned from …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 02:24 AM
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Now that you have the knowledge, you can act accordingly and do things in your favor. Soak in the knowledge, keep what speaks to you and jettison the rest. This is the cheat code for life.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 06:34 AM
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I'm of the opinion that it doesn't matter - AT ALL. Until we limit terms on congressmen and supreme court justices, the same old farts will continue to run things how they see fit. Supreme court justices and congressmen have a lifetime political career, which pretty much spits in the face of politics. The reason everybody else has limited terms is to avoid dynasties and aristocracies. If terms are limited to several years, they have just enough time to learn and do their jobs without becoming co…
/r/askTRP27/11/14 09:24 PM
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She's a woman, not a sculpture - she does not belong on a pedestal, so knock her off of it before she falls off and crushes you. AWALT means that given the right circumstances, ALL women will behave in a certain manner. If the right guy comes along or if you exhibit the wrong beta tendencies toward her often enough, she will get bored and ditch you. If Brad Pitt or the right successful man were to ask her out, she will leave you to 'trade up' to them. If the right Chad Thundercock comes on to he…
/r/askTRP27/11/14 09:19 PM
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With women like this, as with all women, you can't have expectations - because that's how you get disappointed. Enjoy the ride while it lasts, realizing that she could relapse onto the CC at any time or leave you for somebody who gives her more tingles at the drop of a hat. Use protection, have fun, but don't be surprised or disappointed if / when it ends. Just be ready to move on if you see any huge glaring red flags or signs of her behavior getting out of control. She's a drop in an endless oc…
/r/askTRP27/11/14 08:55 PM
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I experienced that in my 20s. I put a lot of pressure on myself to perform, and while I was able to fuck for a solid hour (ouch), there was no cumfetti. It took being with a girl a few times before I was comfortable enough to bust it. In my 30s, I can still marathon fuck, but I'm able to cum when I've had my fill. At least you have good dick control - see it for the asset that it is. It will correct itself as you gain confidence.
/r/askTRP26/11/14 12:25 AM
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Their douchery includes liberal doses of narcissism, which gives them the confidence to pursue and close with women - they aren't afraid to put themselves out there and they are quick to move on to the next one they see, so their success rates are higher. They just don't have two fucks to rub together, so they go for what they like and if they pursue enough, the odds are in their favor. Does this mean you have to be a douche too? No. But if you're not naturally narcissistic, you have to overcome…
/r/askTRP26/11/14 12:19 AM
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Do you want us to fuck her for you too? Be decisive. Work on your kino, keep her interest and go for the kiss midway through. Mention going home after to watch some movies and toss back some drinks and tell her she's welcome to join you if she wants. If not, then maybe next time. Be outcome independent regardless. If she says yes, be cool. If she says no, be cool. Don't let her dictate your night - have a good time regardless. In the event that shit goes down in flames you could always flirt wit…
/r/askTRP26/11/14 12:11 AM
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I'm thinking about getting a STEM career because there are no women!
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 03:33 PM
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Women showing their goodies for attention. These are low-value women who aren't worth more than a casual hookup. No self-respecting guy would want to be with a woman who posted her nudes to strangers for attention - unless he was into that sort of thing.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 08:00 AM
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I think RSD has more to offer men. Nice try, feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 07:44 AM
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I think the more important question is: "How do we teach girls to speak up for themselves and not put themselves in situations where rape is likely to occur? And if rape DOES occur, how do we teach them to ALWAYS report their attackers?" BUT OF COURSE there will be cries of "victim blaming!" and "misogyny!" if that question were EVER brought up, but I am bringing it up anyway. Any ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 07:41 AM
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Rape Culture: A feminist agenda that focuses on rape, victimization of women and demonization of men. The word 'rape' has been bastardized and marginalized to mean anything from sex a woman regrets later, to sex that is even mildly uncomfortable. Lowering and broadening the definitions of rape allows more women to feel victimized, which in turn fuels feminism and offers further proof that men need to be controlled by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 07:34 AM
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Women as a whole are far more judgmental and critical of people, and are much more likely to raise a stink about the most petty of things (Shirtgate, anyone?). Feminism is all about "Who's the Biggest Victim?" and "Who can we make an example of?". Males, as a whole, simply don't care enough about other people's status to lodge a complaint or form an opinion one way or the other - we don't give a shit - we've got better things to do. If you're a woman, your biggest competition and the subject of …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 07:26 AM
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Never start one, always finish one.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 11:46 PM
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You can only do your best, but children become their own person. My sons are very handsome, so I assume my daughter would be a heartbreaker as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/14 06:35 PM
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Ouch. You never make a woman your priority and end goal. Women are accessories - companions who are along for the ride. If you put all of your hopes, dreams and trust in a woman, you will be sorry. There are a million women out there, and you chump out for one that doesn't even want you? Wake the fuck up. Now is your time to work on you. If you work hard now, you won't have to when you're older. If you spend all your time working and making money for her, do you know what you'll be? Older, with …
/r/askTRP20/11/14 09:10 AM
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This is why male friends are better - there is a lot more respect among bros, simply because women aren't taught to respect others.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 09:03 AM
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Women - especially pretty women - are used to thirsty men showering them with compliments. If you do find the need to compliment a woman, be sincere. Don't just go kissing ass left and right. Don't do it unless you mean it.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 08:55 AM
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I will be starting a company called Rape Escape™. I will provide men on a date with a film crew to capture the entire date, from start to orgasm. I will also provide the consent paperwork for each party to sign in triplicate before and after the date. You can choose the format for the video and for a significant fee we can shoot in 3D with surround sound. If it goes good enough I might consider purchasing an IMAX camera. Wish me luck, gents!
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 08:49 AM
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Dark Triads are born, not self-made. It takes a certain personality to be able to be charming enough to enthrall others, psychopathic enough to use them for all their worth and narcissistic enough to rationalize it. This is a good thing. Most people have that little voice in the back of their heads that tell them when they are doing something morally reprehensible. Sure, you can ignore that voice for a while, but eventually it will wear on your psyche - not so with DTs, though - they have no pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/14 05:48 AM
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If I had a daughter, I'd enroll her in martial arts as soon as she could walk. I'd then instill the following knowledge into her: You can be what you want, as long as you're willing to work hard for it and not expect others to go easy on you because you're a girl. Because you're a girl, things will be handed to you and men will act the fool over you. Looks and gender privilege will only take you so far though, and they will fade as you age. Learn skills and trades that make you valuable to other…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/14 05:40 AM
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Sex is pretty much the only bargaining tool women have in a relationship. Even their companionship comes second to a good set of bros to hang out and drink beer with. This is why women think their vaginas are made of solid gold (and a lot of chumps agree with them) - take away the sex and they don't have much to offer, so they tend to put a greater importance on sex than men. The problem for them is that there's always some chick willing to undercut her and give the pussy away for cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/14 05:20 AM
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Sweden is also one of the most feminized countries in Eu. Feminism is huge there. There are a lot of rapes reported because, as /u/dencrypt has said, the definition of rape has broadened significantly, and it seems that damn near anything can be reported as rape. Feminists love to portray women as victims of men so they can further their rallying cry and demonize people with penises. It's not surprising at all that the highest number of rapes reported are from there. I'm willing to bet their div…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/14 05:14 AM
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Usually, both parties go into a ONS with the intent on sating their lust and carnal cravings, and so it's no big deal to throw on your pants and sneak out the door, never to be seen or heard from again. Sometimes people just crave a random NSA (no strings attached) fuck. Sometimes men regret it, and they move on. Sometimes women regret it too, and they too move on. Or file rape charges.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/14 05:07 AM
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My life is very uncomplicated, and that's how I prefer it. I don't really care what others identify as, since it doesn't effect me. They can be octo-sexual transgender broccoli for all I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/14 01:30 AM
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It's like walking a tight rope or climbing a mountain. You don't look down and stare at the abyss. You don't look up and feel the weight of the mountain bearing down on you. Instead, you focus on one foot in front of the other and work on one handhold at a time. You're doing awesome, and you're going about it the exact right way. You can't will success and fortune into being - it has to be fought for, earned and conquered every step of the way. Keep your goals small and manageable, but always po…
/r/askTRP19/11/14 08:04 PM
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This is why men should forge friendships with other men they can trust and hang out with. Bros don't judge, and are there to lend support. Women view male weakness with contempt. We are supposed to be their rock.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 07:56 PM
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If a woman can complain about it, she will.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 07:49 PM
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either you have a penis, or a vagina, or neither or both. Either you like men, or women, or neither, or both. Why complicate things beyond that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/14 07:27 PM
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If I identify myself as an egg salad, I still have a penis. Some guy is 'transgender'? Gay. He just considers himself a woman, but whatever. He has a dick. He's a gay guy. How hard was that? Why complicate shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/14 07:18 PM
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They either have a penis or a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/14 10:49 AM
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A shit test is anything a woman says / does that puts you on the defensive and makes you question yourself or attempts to get a reaction from you. Shit tests are designed to rattle your frame and women test us to see how we react. If we can pass her shit tests, then we are seen as confident, capable high-value men. If we fail shit tests, then we are seen as weak beta imposters.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 06:43 AM
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Sex: Men want it more than women, and women use it as a tool and a weapon more than men. Gender: Biologically, there are only two - male and female. Penis or vagina. Those are the only two I recognize unless there are extra or no genitalia. Attraction: In general, men are attracted to looks and women are attracted to status / money. Relationships: Women want to be in a relationship, men want to stay in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/14 05:17 AM
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This is what I have noticed from my own personal observations and experiences: Women are pampered and protected - they know they can manipulate others into seeing them as a weak, victimized woman, and they take full advantage of this. In today's society, women are also given free reign and encouraged to say and act however they want - no matter how disgusting or abrasive they are. What you have when you combine those two behaviors is a woman who is a manipulative bully - she gets others to see h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/14 04:48 AM
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Beta: These are men who measure their self-worth and value by how others see them. They try to accommodate others around them and even sacrifice their own comfort to make others happy. They give their resources freely in hopes of being accepted, admired and loved. They think that all of their good deeds are being noticed and that they will be reciprocated by others. Betas are pleasers who are most comfortable supporting and following others. Betas believe that because they shower women with love…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/14 04:24 AM
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It doesn't matter what you say to a woman, as long as it's done in a teasing, playful banter. If you say any of those straight-faced, you're going to crash and burn. I have a personality that can pull those off, and those are just examples of how I'd mess with her. I wouldn't recommend doing them without the IDGAF playful attitude and wicked, playful grin.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 04:05 AM
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Dread game isn't just open unabashed flirting in front of your SO - dread game can be employed in any number of ways. Dread game is simply letting your partner know that you are a prize, and that you are fully capable and willing to explore other options if your needs are not being met - if she neglects you, others are waiting to snatch you up. Dread game plays on a woman's insecurity and jealousy, and it can be used as a bludgeon or a soft whisper. Examples: It's been a week since you've had se…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/14 03:42 AM
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AWALT / AMALT = What we know of human biology, sociology and our own collective stories and personal analysis tells us that we have a general idea of what to expect from people in certain situations. We assume that the person we are interacting with falls into these basic models - more or less - and until they prove themselves different, we will engage them in the most efficient way possible according to those behavior models.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/14 03:19 AM
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The anger phase comes from knowing that women do not belong on the pedestal we've been putting them on our entire lives - as we've been told to do - and also from realizing that we were taught the exact opposite way to attract and have a relationship with a woman. Also, we learn that our failed relationships and attempts at dating were mostly due to us not being armed with the knowledge that TRP provides - WE fucked things up and WE are to blame. That's a HUGE blow to one's ego, and that hurt an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/14 03:09 AM
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"When your osteoporosis kicks in and your spine shrinks, I might actually be taller. I'll definitely still be better looking than you!"
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 06:40 PM
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Wrong. She doesn't want to be fucked by you. If you were George Clooney or Brad Pitt, she'd be all over your cock before she got through the door. She wants to go on some bullshit dates where you shower her with praise, attention and love so that later she can tell you "Hey. Listen. You're a great guy, and you'll make some girl so happy some day. But we should just be friends." DUDE. Cut your fucking losses and move the fuck on. She's not into you. If she wanted you, she'd be down for an intimat…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 05:33 PM
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You don't want threesomes with women you care about in a LTR. Threesomes will bring a lot of jealousy and insecurity to the surface. What if she wanted to be railed by you and another guy? Would that fuck with your head, or would you be cool with that? She might get the idea that it's okay to be more sexually open and try hooking up with guys. Shit can get complicated when other personalities and bodies enter the bedroom. You might discover just how strong your relationship is by doing a threeso…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 05:27 PM
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No, silly goose. Movies at YOUR PLACE, where you can set a romantic atmosphere and control the escalation. Movies at your place are the best place for a date to happen.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 05:18 PM
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Okay. Try asking her over for a movie - alone. Use flirting, kino and witty banter to try and seal the deal with her. Her reactions will tell you whether or not she's into you, but don't be disappointed if she turns you down. My money is on her not showing interest, because you're WAY too into her already.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 05:07 PM
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Being 'friends' with a girl and then expecting a relationship is the absolute wrong way to approach them. Girls who want 'guy friends' expect you to orbit and give them attention and time without them providing anything (sex). Girls are fucking BORING at that age, man! They are caught up in drama and superficial bullshit, and they all have a herd mentality - they all like the same music, the same guys and the same things. Why would you ever choose a female friend over a guy friend? Females as fr…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 04:55 PM
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Having Ass Burgers (that's what I call it) isn't a bad thing at all. It could actually be a benefit to you if you work hard and develop social skills to compliment your IDGAF attitude.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 04:36 PM
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She's probably well aware that she's the sexiest bitch you've ever seen - much sexier than you, in fact. The correct question is why would she be into you? What do you have to offer her that makes you stand out amongst the other guys thirsting after her? Why you? She already has orbiters that pamper her and give her validation and attention, so unless you can bring status, wealth or Brad Pitt good looks and confidence into her life, then don't waste your time or hers. If you try to engage her no…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 04:25 PM
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Hence the importance of IDGAF and shit-eating grin.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 03:22 PM
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Be witty and throw her negs right back to her. This comes easily for me, so right off the top of my head I would use similar examples: "Wow. Going right for the height again. Hmmmm. Do you make fun of poor people too? Do you throw pennies at them while fanning yourself with dollar bills? You're such a sweet lady - really you are. Hey! want to go stab some homeless people when I get off of work?" "Yea. I read a study that said that most women prefer tall men. Good to know that you're absolutely a…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 07:08 AM
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Abundance mentality becomes easy when you realize a few things: Use logic - if you're not butt-ugly, have a job and half a brain, you can get a woman if you put forth a little effort and be persistent. There are billions of women on the planet, and of those billions, there are millions that you could potentially date who are relatively close to you and meet your criteria. The numbers are in your favor - by a LOT. It's all in the attitude - if a woman thinks you're a man who can do better than he…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 06:50 AM
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If you feel that therapy improves you, then do it - treat it as exercise for your mind. Just remember that whatever you discuss is confidential and it's not productive to talk about it outside of your therapist's office.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 06:38 AM
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Incorrect. Anything you tell your shrink is and should be kept confidential from everybody - especially a spouse.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 06:35 AM
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It's only pussy. Half of the people on the planet have them, and NONE of them are worth losing your job over. You're welcome.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 04:47 AM
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Society at large is becoming more and more feminized, to the point that TRP and anything else that challenges or questions feminism is demonized and labeled 'taboo'. Feminism does not allow, recognize or accept any views that are not feminist - you are either with them, or you are a misogynist. We are shamed for being males, and our only salvation is through the good graces of the women who are good enough to take pity on us and set us on the path of 'manliness', where we are taught to submit fu…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 04:44 AM
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How do you feel about losing your job and possibly getting punched out? If you're cool with either or both of these things happening, and you don't really need your job anyway, then proceed. Realize the following: If they aren't legally divorced and you fuck her, you're committing adultery and there's no reason for her husband to NOT kick your ass - you're practically begging for it. If you fuck her, don't expect her to keep it a secret. If she's mad enough at her husband, you can bet your ass t…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 04:23 AM
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While posts that agree with TRP principles are nice - especially when coming from feminist clickbait sites - be wary of wolves in sheeps clothing. Feminism isn't going anywhere. They may change gears and tactics to appeal to recent 'anti-feminist' women, but at the end of the day, they are all just women trying to get as much mileage as they can from men, society and the system as a whole.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 04:03 AM
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YES! It is classic beta thinking that your time, energy, money and love can secure loyalty from a woman. Nothing can ensure loyalty from a woman, because she is a slave to her feelings and desires. She won't think twice about leaving you for Brad Pitt, no matter how good you treat her. The best you can do is keep her tingles going to the best of your ability and make yourself the most attractive of her options.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 03:57 AM
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Orbiting sucks. It's painful and it can really drain you emotionally. That's not the worst part, though. The worst part is when you realize that they know how much agony you're in, but they don't give a shit - as long as you continue to worship them from orbit. How fucked up is that? Once you're securely locked into the friendzone, there's no coming back - it's possible, but it's so much work that it's just not worth it. You have a few options: Go for it. Tell her you're interested in her sexual…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 03:27 AM
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The only way you could have come out on top with her is if she wanted to fuck you while she had a BF. That way, she would have hit you up as soon as she was single. But that's not the case - she has put you in the friendzone and has decided that's where you will stay. Getting out of the friendzone is so hard that it's not even worth attempting. Next her, go no contact and lock her out so you don't become an orbiter, since it's obvious that you have a thing for her. If she demands to know what's …
/r/askTRP18/11/14 03:07 AM
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"Hey, I'm glad you emailed me. Do you still have my grandmother's ring? I'm talking to somebody right now and she's pretty incredible. I might need that ring soon."
/r/askTRP18/11/14 02:58 AM
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Unless you are Brad Pitt or have something she wants, a woman isn't going to approach you out of the blue. If you want women, you need to work on getting them. That being said, if your main focus is women, you are going to have a bad time. Women should be the accessory to your life, not the main focus - this is how oneitis and pedestalling happens. You're gonna FINALLY find a girl to be your GF and you're going to worship her and she will take you for all you're worth and treat you like dog shit…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 02:36 AM
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She wants to 'start over'. That means she fucked a lot of guys and went about her life, but really misses the way you gave her the feels. She doesn't give a shit about what you've been up to, how much you've struggled with her or whether or not you're seeing anybody. All that matters is that now she wants your attention, and being the spoiled entitled princess she is, she just knows you'll drop whatever the fuck you've got going on to pamper her like the good 'ol days. Well, let her royal highne…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 02:23 AM
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Honor is a male construct - females don't give a shit about anything that isn't about them or doesn't effect them directly. Of course she wants you to go to school and get a lucrative career - how else can you provide her with the life she wants and buy her the shit she needs to make her girlfriends jealous? You're the captain. If you want to take a lower paying job because it's something you enjoy, then fuck it - DO it. You should not let a woman dictate the terms you live your life on. Women c…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 02:14 AM
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This video has some good info in it. It is long, and he does get off track a little bit, but there are good nuggets of info here. Watch it.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 02:19 PM
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One thing I used to tell my wife early on is "As long as you take care of my needs, I won't have to get it from anywhere else." I told her that often, and it stuck. Even when she's not 'in the mood', she does not reject my advances, because she knows I can land a hotter, younger more eager woman in the sack if I chose to.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 02:15 PM
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A woman in today's society has SO many resources and options available to her. If she's reasonably cute, she can snap her fingers and have a dozen orbiter betas do her homework, house cleaning and buy her lunch. Marriage for her is a chance for happiness, and if that fails, a payday of cash and consolation prizes - courtesy of her divorce-raped husband. What do we get? We're men. Women have rights, but men have responsibilities. Nobody cares if we make it or not - we don't have people pampering …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 01:52 PM
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What you need is to 'soft next' her. This isn't like a hard next, where you just cut contact - because as you stated, that won't work for you anyway. The soft next is a way to let a girl know in no uncertain terms that you aren't interested in her, without being a TOTAL dick. Don't volunteer any of your time, resources or attention on her - don't be her 'time ho'. Get used to telling her "No thanks", "I'm busy", "I have something else going on", "No, I'm cool" etc. If you're forced to engage in …
/r/askTRP16/11/14 11:45 AM
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Is your mother a slut? Is your sister a slut? Are your aunts and cousins sluts? No, to you they're not, and this is because you've learned to respect and love them, so you view them differently. Does that mean those women have never acted slutty? No, because they either have or they haven't had the opportunity yet. Have your feelings and attitude toward these women changed knowing this? Probably not much, if at all, right? Even though you realize that they are women and subject too female rules …
/r/askTRP15/11/14 10:41 AM
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Cancel the ticket, of course. Something came up. You have plans. Be busy. Don't take in shady homeless chicks - and you KNOW thisss, man!
/r/askTRP11/11/14 11:23 PM
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Robin Williams was marriage raped to death. Too bad the culprit was / never will be never brought to justice.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 11:21 PM
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It's a political movement. The goals of feminism are to demonize and marginalize males while promoting females under the guise of 'equality'. Feminist lobby for and see laws passed that further their agendas and anybody who disagrees with them is automatically labeled a 'misogynist' and blacklisted. Feminism is the new McCarthyism, the Fourth Reich and the herald of social collapse.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 11:12 PM
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If you fly her down on your dime, this is what's going to happen: She will immediately friendzone you, then have you take her out partying so she can hook up with some hot guys and fuck them on your couch. She will not even consider fucking you because you're "such a good friend" and she "doesn't want to ruin things". - or - She will be nice and sweet and try to get more money / resources out of you while appearing to be the type of woman you want in your life. She might even ask to say with you…
/r/askTRP11/11/14 10:50 PM
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I don't downvote people I disagree with. To clarify, you should always keep hypergamy in the back of your mind. It can go from your SO talking about a coworker to having a night out with coworkers, to catching a drink with that one particular coworker, because he's so interesting and you really should meet him - you'll like him! To her going out often, being 'busy' after work and all of a sudden, she's 'unhaaaaappy' in the relationship. Next thing you know, she's getting rides to work and moving…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 06:18 PM
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This is somebody that she expressed interest in before, according to OP. She has mentioned him 'in passing', and we all know that when subjects come up often 'in passing', they are more than just topics of conversation. He did good.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 07:42 AM
5

WOW. I finally understand that song! It's all so clear now...
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 07:39 AM
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This hurts my soul to know that there are men out there who are this feminised. I'm torn between pity and disgust and I'm really not sure if I'd rather see him come to his senses and man the fuck up or live a life of misery for his behavior. All feminists should take a really good look at this - these are the men they are popping out of molds by the millions. These will be their future men, when all the 'real' men have packed up and gone. Then, they will truly be able to cry "where have all the …
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 02:12 PM
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Seek therapy if you aren't already taking to a shrink. Take a side job, sport or hobby that lets you explore independence a bit and try to make friends. He will require a lot of patience to be with you, and you have to realize that because of your trauma, any relationships you might have will be that much more work for both of you, so you need to do your part and stick with whatever program your shrink decides to put you on.
/r/askTRP10/11/14 08:22 AM
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Respond with: "I like to be in control of my life, and alcohol makes that difficult. But don't worry, I have plenty of fun with other activities." playful wink You don't need to give a story, just a firm, if vague explanation that will make you a bit mysterious and keep her interested.
/r/askTRP10/11/14 08:13 AM
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Pay attention to how she responds, not to what she says. That being said, feminism, in it's quest to make women out as perpetual victims of the patriarchy, has created "rape culture". This is dangerous to men because nowadays, literally anything can be labeled 'rape'. Women play the 'no yes no' game for a few reasons, but mainly they do it either because they feel guilt or they don't want to be perceived as slutty, even though they are dying to be fucked. Pushing through this LMR gives her plaus…
/r/askTRP10/11/14 07:51 AM
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PUA sub would be a better place to ask that. If women are your priority, you're doing it wrong. TRP is the idea that improving yourself will net better results in many facets of life, including sex. If you want shortcuts or tips and tricks, PUA is for you.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 07:35 AM
2

Giving men the advantage of controlling reproduction? PREPOSTEROUS! Although the vasectomy has always been an option, it's invasiveness has made it an unattractive solution. Affordable male birth control would be an absolute game changer and would drum up widespread debate and controversy.
/r/askTRP10/11/14 05:10 AM
2

Give her the web address of mapquest.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 02:21 AM
2

You're human - you have feelings. One of the strengths of being a man, though, is that you can use your logic to override your emotions when they get in the way of accomplishing your goals. Women, by comparison, are ruled by emotions to the point where the world is seen through their feels. Just today, my wife was watching Oprah, and I caught a snippet of her quoting Maya Angelou: "people will forget what you say and what you do, but they will never forget how you made them feel". Now when she s…
/r/askTRP10/11/14 02:13 AM
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Your point was valid. If we weren't wanting pussy, we'd be hanging out with guy friends. It's ok to have standards and needs, and if they aren't being met, it's ok to walk. Women don't owe men sex, and men don't owe women relationships.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 01:30 AM
2

This it's why they don't bitch about most men being pilots. If the bar was lowered to include more women, the sky would literally be falling and they know it.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 01:19 AM
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At the end of your rant I imagined you dropping the mic with a THUD screeeeeeech and then fireworks shooting up into the air on either side of the stage! WHOOSH crackle crackle fizzle fizzle crackle fizzle Edit: I can can sort of get where you're going with some of that, but you can't be a slave to that anger. Sit. Have a drink. Relax and get a lap dance.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 08:55 AM
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Money, Looks, Social Proof, Personality / Attitude If you lack in any of these, you can make up for it with an overabundance of the others. You're short (looks), so focus on the other areas you can improve. If you don't make a big deal out of it, they won't either.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 02:55 AM
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I see a lot of posts where people clearly did not take the time to read sidebar materials. This is the target I was writing for.
/r/askTRP09/11/14 02:26 AM
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THAT'S the spirit!
/r/askTRP09/11/14 02:25 AM
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As for keeping her in constant dread - that will not work either. Women need tingles to feel 'love' and so there must be a mix of tingles and dread. Feed her drama craving and sprinkle it with dread. She will only stay around as long as you can hold her interest.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 01:53 AM
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You can shove my face into a bowl of dog food and tell me it's steak and lobster, but guess what? I will not eat that dog food, nor will I believe your lies, and this is what women fail to understand: attraction can't be negotiated or denied. Just because they say we should be attracted to X instead of Y doesn't mean we're gonna take their word for it. We like what we like, and they can go fuck themselves.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 01:49 AM
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This is the article with the video link that you are referring to.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 01:41 AM
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It's good to see a lady appreciate the value of this sub. Men and women are fundamentally different, and as such must be taught, handled and interacted with differently. We take the injured, angry and disgruntled men that have tried to play by society's rules and failed, and we help to show them that the key to happiness isn't by 'being yourself' - it's by self-improvement. Once you get past the anger and frustration here, you see a rare glimpse into the unfiltered male mind. I would think more …
/r/ThankTRP09/11/14 01:32 AM
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"After hearing all of that abuse you suffered, I am definitely not interested in having sex with you. Thank you for telling me all of this." And then you sit back with a smug look on your face and you watch what she does and see if she backpedals or scrambles. Then you ask her out for drinks 'as friends' and see if she gets bold. If not, move on. If yes, proceed. You have to be outcome independent with women - don't invest yourself so much that if you don't get with them it will ruin your night.…
/r/askTRP09/11/14 01:13 AM
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I agree with the others. The 'we need to talk' is her lobbing a poison grenade at you. All she has to do is let the poison do it's work, then she can walk up to you while you're having seizures in a fetal position and she can pretty much negotiate anything she wants from you or finish you off with a rock to the head - that's her thinking. She plans on those words inspiring fear and dread into you. That being said, the best reaction is a non-reaction. If she wants a break, you agree to a breakup.…
/r/askTRP09/11/14 01:08 AM
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I've never had a virgin, and I'm glad. I don't want that responsibility of being somebody's 'first'. If she's holding on to her V card because she realizes it's value, then that's her right. You would be kind of a dick if you just wanted to poach her cherry and bail, knowing it was being saved for 'that special somebody' later in her life.
/r/askTRP09/11/14 12:42 AM
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For real. I'm thinking of moving to CA to start a "Formal Consent Company". For a nominal fee, we will provide mutual consent paperwork and we will discreetly film and document sexual encounters for couples to avoid false rape charges. Imagine how many women will love the campus consent laws when they realize that if there's no camera, there's no sex. They will have to resort to fucking beta chumps that won't ask to film them and have them do consent paperwork.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 12:37 AM
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How did all that dick taste? But seriously, it sound like more trouble than it's worth to game this chick, and she's not really the prize you think she is. Who knows what her number is, let alone the circumstances that really led her to pole dancing. Red flags all over the place. There are girls out there with lower partner counts who are just as fun and attractive, without all the excess baggage. Also, she has dick flying at her from every direction, so she's a master at avoiding, deflecting an…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 12:23 AM
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This. He speaks the truth here. Older women are more apt to just cut through the red tape and have fun. They don't need all the game and pretense - you might need to do a little work so she can hamster that she's not easy, but older women tend to know what they want in terms of sex.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 12:16 AM
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Can confirm. I'm a chubby guy at 5'8" and my personality, wit and IDGAF confidence has gotten me a lot of success with the ladies in my single days. Money, Looks, Personality, Social Proof. If you lack in any of these you can make up for it with an overabundance of the others. I'm not talking 4s or 5s either, I was definitely punching above my weight, and people were flabbergasted as to how I would do it.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 12:12 AM
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Right. Because the runaway bestseller, 50 Shades of Grey was just FULL of this "can I, may I, is this OK?" bullshit consent. Don't pay attention to what women say, pay attention to what women respond to. Hell, you can even have fun with it and tease her pussy with your dick until she begs for it. That should be enough consent to please the courts. Until she changes her mind a month later and decides you raped her. And this is what we forget: everything is rape, there is no statute of limitations…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 12:07 AM
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Look at it from a logical perspective: somebody who has a high partner count is probably impulsive, easily bored and likely to move on after they have their fun with you. Women initiate 70% of divorces and with those odds, a man wants to be sure that she will stick around after the first rough patch you hit, because she will be taking half of your assets on the way out. Women with high partner counts are fun for the short-term, but smart men will avoid them in favor of less 'adventurous' women. …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 11:51 PM
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Hypergamous Power Whores. Fucking brilliant. That is an awesome metal band name!
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 11:17 PM
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The wizard? Fuck that guy and his quiddich. Voldemort RULES!
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:35 AM
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Personally, I think Bro Code is important among close male friends. This is an idea unique to males - women can have close friends, but their bonds are often superficial and most of their friends tend to be interchangeable and disposable. Women simply compete too much with each other to bond like males do - that's why a common tactic for women who are controlling is to alienate men from their bros. Respect is NOT weakness. You did good. Would you throw your friendship away over some pussy? NO. C…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:30 AM
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Interesting, if a bit over-thought. Women want what other women want - they want to be the girl that other women are jealous of. Women want to have fun and they want a man who is confident enough to let them be themselves, but strong enough to lead them. Sure, alcohol lowers libido, but what you want is to give women tingles. You want to keep her guessing, keep her excited, keep her interest piqued. When a woman has the tingles for you, her brain and hormones are pumping out a love cocktail that…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:20 AM
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TwoX disappointed me. I tried to engage them in several posts, giving advice or whatnot. Eventually, all of my posts were deleted, and I was shadow banned - my posts weren't showing up when I'd view them while logged out - probably because they went through my post history (yet women always complain that they shouldn't be judged on their pasts haha) but IDGAF. The amount of censorship, intolerance and bitterness I encountered for offering reelz over feelz was staggering. I wasn't disrespectful, …
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:07 AM
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You don't want to become the guy that has to say something to fill every silence. Think of John Wayne. He was the kind of guy who could pull off the 'man of few words' vibe, and it all boils down to confidence and body language. Stand up straight, look others in the eye and participate in conversations as needed. If you avoid conversation, have poor eye contact and body language, shrink in on yourself when around others and don't assert yourself when speaking, then yea, people will think you're …
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 05:14 AM
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Welcome, brother. This sub is amazing. There are some angry people here from time to time, but that anger comes from realizing they were using the wrong tools and strategies and their failure was their own fault. Read the sidebar materials, sift through the posts and use what speaks to you. You might not agree with everything you see here, but it's a safe place for guys to talk.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 04:55 AM
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You gotta be your own best friend. We are born into this world alone and we all die alone. As men, there is nobody to catch us when we fall and nobody cares if we rise or fall. Our destinies are forged out of hard work, determination and the accomplishment of goals. Love thyself, because you are the only one who you can truly depend on. Sink or swim.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 04:51 AM
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MAJOR SHIT TEST. Not that you did anything wrong, mind you, and you should not have to apologize. That being said, you should apologize for offending her. A little dread is a good thing, but it sounds like it might not be necessary with her, although her texts do concern me. She seemed awfully quick to threaten fucking a random guy in your bed, so you need to be extremely cautious of her. She might be an Alpha female and she might seek to beta-fy you over the course of the relationship. HOLD THA…
/r/askTRP06/11/14 11:27 PM
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Props. You weren't the usual beta pussy she's used to dealing with, so she was probably intimidated and sought easier prey. A tip next time would be to be more flirty, witty and keep her laughing and smiling. A good sense of humor is a good foil for an abundance of confidence.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 11:21 PM
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I agree that you have no room to be jealous. Jealousy is a clear sign of scarce mentality - your options for pussy are limited so you're jealously guarding your resources. Instead, you need to be out mingling, courting and slaying - learn abundance mentality. The very definition of a plate is a woman you use for sex and social proof. Sure, emotions can form, but those emotions have to be tempered by reason in order to prevent beta traits like jealousy from surfacing. At least you realize the jea…
/r/askTRP06/11/14 11:19 PM
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Why? Females are boring - they often don't have their own strong personalities and are used to blending in with the herd. They like the same guys, listen to music their friends and BFs like, and they just echo the opinions of those around them. If you're at all attracted to her, don't be friends. This is how orbiting happens - one drunken night you kiss and she stops you and insists you 'just be friends'. Orbiting - not even once. Also, women will try to get things from men just because it's in …
/r/askTRP06/11/14 11:13 PM
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I disagree with most of the guys here. Just because she identifies as a feminist doesn't mean she's tainted. DON'T argue with her. TRP teaches us that since society is hostile toward our ideas, we should instead be wolves blending in with the sheep. Agree and amplify with her rants and just smile, nod and play along - this goes for coworkers and friends too - sharing your TRP knowledge is a foolish move. Keep that shit to yourself and blend in. Don't be afraid to go to feminist rallies with her.…
/r/askTRP06/11/14 11:08 PM
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There is always another woman out there. Abundance mentality is a pillar of redpill thinking, and displaying your willingness to pack up and leave is a powerful incentive to keep women from acting like assholes with you. Sometimes you get to the point where the energy and time you invest is not worth the benefit you receive, and it's important to know when that point is and be willing to walk away.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 10:30 PM
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Yet another attempt of women telling men how they should be.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 10:25 PM
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The problem with rape it's that nowadays anything can be and is considered rape. Traditionally, rape was defined as forcibly and violently taking sex from another person, and was considered an act of violence rather than sex. Feminism seeks to portray women as victims though, and so the bar for what can now be considered rape has been lowered to include sex that was regretted later and sex that makes a woman mildly uncomfortable. Men accused of rape are guilty until proven innocent and are often…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 09:57 PM
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I was hoping nobody would notice. Shhhhhh.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 06:08 AM
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That's why you need the amused mastery + shit eating grin. If you say them with a serious or bored face, you will be seen as a huge tool. However, if you do it in a playful, teasing manner, she will feel self-conscious enough to drop it, but won't be offended enough to shut down on you.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 01:46 AM
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Amused mastery and some not-so-subtle IDGAF comments should help get your point across to her and any other women who try to use you to soak up their emotional vagina blood. These are all meant to be said with an amused look and a shit-eating grin: as they begin to tell you their man troubles "Ooooh, is it that time already? Well, it looks like it's time for me to order a drink and pretend to listen to your man problems." "Keep talking, I'm going to be on my phone but I'm hanging on every word! …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 01:40 AM
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Women don't simply want what they can't have - they want what other women want, and they can't have. In order to progress your 'experiment', you need to project what a fun guy you are and how little you care that she's not around (because other females are rubbing up on you, trying to lock you down). Simply taking away your validation is not going to motivate her to reach out to you - you were a supplicating orbiter - easily replaceable and interchangeable with all the others in her friend zone.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 12:10 AM
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Being a sex-starved thirsty beta bitch actually did help me. When sex wasn't even conceded as part of the deal, it was much easier to say no.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 08:42 PM
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Nope. I was apparently being asked to do this out of the kindness of my heart.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 08:38 PM
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Word. They saw me coming a mile away. I was a total pleaser and they smelled it on me.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 08:22 PM
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She just didn't show up for work one day. Single Mom made other ride arrangements and she quit soon after too. I was so uncomfortable I didn't ask or care. I am willing to bet she eventually got her green card from some other chump.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 08:19 PM
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The beta does not think of himself first when there are others nearby he wishes to impress.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 10:41 AM
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Slap me too please, while you're back there.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 10:38 AM
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No wonder they conveniently left that part out. The real reason I couldn't do it was because I thought that my mother would be disappointed if I married a girl I didn't love, not because I was obviously being manipulated.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 10:36 AM
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Adapt or die. If what you're doing isn't getting you where you want to be, you have to reevaluate your strategy.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 10:27 AM
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Nope. They assured me it was risk-free though.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 10:22 AM
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Amused mastery. Nod your head and smirk at them with your best 'I know you're full of shit, but I'm too good to argue with you over it' grin. Rise above it, don't get dragged into fights and state your opinions as fact. Be the serene, immovable mountain.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 10:17 AM
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I left out details in the edit I just did. It could have been worse.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 08:44 AM
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Do what makes you happy. You can't change the hand you're dealt, but you can improve your odds through hard work. What do you want to do? Take a trip to Brazil? Move out on your own? Lose weight? What will make you happy. Do what's important to you.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 08:26 AM
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Men Envisioning True Equality: META. A group of guys who can discuss TRP principles under the flag of TRUE gender equality. Do it.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 08:23 AM
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A lot of times it literally takes women shitting all over us to snap us out of our beta bitch mindsets. These lessons can't be taught - they have to be survived.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 08:18 AM
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"I Don't, like, want to go out with people from the same school because, like, things could get messy and stuff..." Is pretty much woman speak for: "I plan on being a HUGE slut. I will be fucking the jocks, the law students and possibly some hot gamer nerds. I don't want to date anybody who could find out what a huge slut I'm being while I 'find myself' and 'explore who I am'. If you were from another school, maybe. It depends on how hot you are or how rich your family is. Because I'm gonna get …
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 07:32 AM
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I think we should see if Allmenarepigs.org is taken. It will be like hiding in plain sight! They will never suspect...
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 06:26 AM
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I think this is what you're referring to.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:38 AM
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This video is just there to show how 'evil' men are by having the audacity to talk to a poor, sweet innocent victimized woman. How dare those low SMV men talk to her! Who the fuck do they think they are? This is an OUTRAGE and we need to burn patriarchy to the ground so that men won't rape women in the streets! They did catcall her, and I'm pretty sure that's rape. Or it should be, I dunno - ask a woman and she'll probably tell you it was rape.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 10:34 PM
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It kind of puts it in perspective, doesn't it? They push for commitment, initiate frequent talks (what's the deal with us anyway?), they push for the engagement and demand a rock that they can brag to their friends about and they demand a date for their 'special day'. You marry her and then her slow decline into unhaaaaaaappiness begins and by the time she's ready to jump ship with the pool boy, you've been ground down into a fat, sad little man with nothing going for him. She takes the kids and…
/r/askTRP28/10/14 05:43 AM
1

That's a commonly accepted number in many posts like this. According to this article (written by a woman), the reasons given are 'verbal abuse' and 'emotional neglect'. So if you criticize them or don't pay enough attention to them, they are entitled to fly the nest and take your kids and the nest with them. Different posts cite different reasons, but the number of divorces initiated by women seems to be anywhere between 68%-90%
/r/askTRP28/10/14 05:32 AM
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I'm a Cthulhutarian. Basically, we are paving the way for pure evil and sewing the seeds of chaos in preparation for the Galactic Dark Lord's return. We get front row seats to the end of the world before we are consumed and slowly digested in the liquid hellfire of his hallowed bowels. Hail Cthulhu!
/r/askTRP28/10/14 04:27 AM
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Argue that 70% of divorces are initiated by women, most women get custody of children in divorce. Mention that genital mutilation (circumcision) is a common practice on males, and is condemned when it is done to females. Feminism: fighting for gender equality by ensuring that one gender gets preferential treatment. The holes you can shoot in their arguments are HUGE. the wage gap is a myth - it takes the number of TOTAL men and women, adds them together, then subtracts the difference. This is AL…
/r/askTRP28/10/14 04:20 AM
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During record high gas prices, petroleum companies have record high profits - that's not a coincidence.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:05 AM
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It's not hypocrisy - you just like what you like. Similarly, if a woman is attracted to you, she's attracted to you, not you and your race. Give them the benefit of the doubt.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 03:18 AM
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I dated the rainbow of races when I was single - just not black women, but only because there were no opportunities. My wife is a blonde. Like I said, if you don't make a big deal out of your race and work on your game, they won't make a big deal of it either. It's the self-defeating attitude that kills more opportunities than anything.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 03:09 AM
1

Abundance mentality. Realize that there are millions of women out there who are prettier, younger and a lot more willing to please you. All you have to do is reach out and initiate contact, and if you play the numbers game, eventually you'll be successful. What you are doing is making her out in your mind to be the only source of female companionship - but we all know that's bullshit. She's emotionally manipulative - she's turned you into an sexless orbiter that's giving her time and attention f…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 02:57 AM
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It's just a disgusting shock-value video that forces their agenda down everybody's throat.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 02:48 AM
1

I'm just messing, and yea. I live in a neighboring state and I am Hispanic myself. I put the PANIC in Hispanic, so I know what you mean. I also know what I'm talking about when I say 'let your race work for you'. Pimp that shit out. Make it a tool instead of a crutch.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 02:31 AM
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Public snogging (Kissing and making out), gets some girls really hot. It' the thrill of being inappropriate in public and having strangers watch. Depending on what she's wearing, it can escalate to an under-the-table finger bang if you play your cards right.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 02:29 AM
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This is true. The rising gas prices can be lowered with a handful of bullets, each with the name of a Big Oil CEO on them. Terror works. It isn't the right way to do things, but when the system fails you, you run out of options and that's when desperate people come up with creative solutions.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 02:26 AM
2

There you go. Just be Mexican!
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 02:21 AM
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Dread game is the invisible axe hanging over her head that tells her that if she doesn't act right with you, then you have absolutely no problem moving on and getting with two or three other girls. Women date up - they want a man that's better than they are, and what better way to display higher status than to let them know that they're replaceable and therefore just lucky to be with you. Edit: This is a complete 180 degree turn from the socially accepted idea that men should throw themselves at…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 02:09 AM
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Be seen as this guy. Dress well, display confidence and work on your physique and women will notice. Nobody will make a big deal out of your race unless you do, and women can smell insecurity like flies sense the flyswatter - as soon as they get a whiff, they are nowhere to be found. Own it. Instead of being 'ethnic', become 'exotic'. Learn to cook Indian food that's friendly to American palettes, wear a pimp Indian pinky ring or necklace. Decorate your place in an exotic Eastern vibe that women…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 02:02 AM
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As a fellow guitar player, we know that some of the most powerful pieces of music don't even have lyrics to them. Edit: Let her provide the lyrics to your background music: "OH GOD! OH GOD! OH GOD! FUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKSHIIIIIIT! FUCK! POUND MY PUSSY! BEAT THAT FUCKING PUSSY UP! I'M YOUR DIRTY WHORE! I'M YOUR DIRTY FUCKING WHORE! FUCKMEFUCKMEFUCKMEFUCKMEFUCKME!"
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:37 AM
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We come into this world alone and we all die alone. The people we surround ourselves with while we are alive had better enrich our lives, because life is fleeting, and ain't nobody got time fo that!
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:35 AM
1

Looks, Status, Wealth, Attitude. These are the criteria that women judge us on when choosing a man. If you have a deficit in one, that can be overcome by compensating for it with an abundance of the others. It's sort of like the funny anecdote about women: Attractive, Intelligent or Emotionally Stable - Pick Two.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:29 AM
3

I replied to that thread! I want to believe it's real! I WANT TO BELIEVE!
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 11:16 PM
4

Tell your plates that if you want to fuck your friend, cool. But you won't be servicing them anymore, and STICK TO YOUR WORD. Tell your friend not to poach your hunting grounds. Tell him he's breaking bro code and that you're going to have to hook up with one of his relatives for compensation if he keeps it up.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 10:38 AM
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Tease her mercilessly: Have you already got your kids' names picked out? How about gender neutral names in case they take after him. What are you waiting for? Do you want me to just dump you already so he can swoop in and be your White Knight? I see you look at him with those 'rescue me' eyes. I was just checking out _________. She's kinda hot. Do you want to invite her and him on a double date? I can go with her and you can go with him? I wonder if he's seen you naked yet. I should give him a t…
/r/askTRP27/10/14 10:34 AM
1

Don't see it as 'lowering your standards'. Instead, think of it as 'working your way up'. Just don't get comfortable with anything less than what you want.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 06:03 AM
2

She isn't a plate - she's a girl you chat with long distance. A plate is a girl you keep on the side for your own selfish purposes (sex, social proof, financial gain), but don't commit a relationship to. You have to actually get them to accept their limited role in your life to call them a plate, otherwise they are just girls you lie to. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 05:41 AM
3

You don't forget. In fact, you remember what it was like to be that guy that never got what he wanted, and you avoid that in the future. You swallowed the bitter pill and you see confirmation all around you how TRP hits the nail on the fucking head. Internalize it, self-improve (exercise and lift) and be the best version of you that you can be. Women want to be with the fun guy that has things going for him - be that guy. Don't put women on a pedestal. Don't treat them any differently from a guy…
/r/askTRP27/10/14 05:38 AM
3

"Sup, slut? Want to hook up with me and make some regrettable decisions? I won't buy you dinner or call you back, but you will curl your toes and soak the mattress. Or you can just fuck around with these other chumps." WHO CARES? Have fun and DGAF. You're not a dancing monkey that lives to entertain women. You need to let them know that you're a fucking party train that will leave the station without them and they will get left behind and miss out if they don't take advantage of you.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 05:26 AM
2

We need to upvote this fucker to the front page. Censorship in the name of Feminism? Fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 04:33 AM
11

After the first few sentences her voice became a complete boner killer. I hope she likes cats.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 04:31 AM
1

Okay fine. You're going to need an official decoder ring and a clubhouse membership.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 01:23 AM
8

Women are on an aggressive agenda because they have a limited time table to work with, and they know it. From the time they are little girls, they have a vague idea of how they want their lives to work out - while we're playing video games, they're playing house. By the time you meet her on a date in her 20s, she already knows what type of man she'd like to have, what his salary would ideally be and she probably even has the names of your future kids picked out! By date three, she's already dood…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 07:22 AM
1

This is a major shit test. They aren't stupid. They know you're just there for the fuck, and they're fine with it - they just aren't supposed to be fine with it. They want you to basically tell them that they're not sluts. Even when your cum is still drying on their face and leaking out of their ass. Since women can't take responsibility for their actions (it's always somebody else's fault!), they instead shift the blame onto you for 'using' them. This is their hamster's way of dealing with fuck…
/r/askTRP26/10/14 07:15 AM
2

This is why women should never be your main focus in life. They are nice distractions and a good woman should be an accessory to your life - keep her as long as she works out for you. The moment her drama outweighs her benefit, you next her. The happier person in a relationship is the one who has less to lose. She was quick to fuck another dude without a second thought. Like rats on a sinking ship.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 06:48 AM
12

A&A is basically just 'one-upmanship'. You just agree with what they say, then make your own observation or comment echoing what they just said, but on a ludicrous scale (not to be confused with the rapper). You can even amplify it away from their original direction and derail their argument. Ex. Her: I think all men should be feminists! you: TOTALLY! Right? I mean, how else will men learn to stop providing for women until they let women make all the money. That would really take a lot of pressu…
/r/askTRP26/10/14 06:20 AM
1

The all-powerful pussy pass must be protected at all costs. Women are not about to give up the privilege they have built up on the bones of men they have ground under their heels. Special treatment in the name of equality. Gotta love it.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 12:30 AM
3

They recover a lot better than a man who's wife divorces him, takes half of his assets and his children and forces him to support her while she searches for a cock to ride. Women aren't the ones who have it hard - all they have to do is be pleasant and fuck us when we need it, and we'll keep them around and support them.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 12:24 AM
3

I think we all need to agree right here and now, that if the rape isn't reported to the police, it's not rape. This takes the piss out of false accusations and petty revenge tactics and makes them put up or shut up. Women should not have the luxury of declaring anything 'rape' that they wouldn't seek justice for. If she's cool with it, it wasn't rape. It was a bad decision or an unfortunate experience. REAL RAPES get reported. Everything else is bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 12:17 AM
2

I can neither confirm nor deny any of that. But I will tell you that if you are ever confronted by an angry set of hot Gypsy twins, you had better be armed and searching for an exit. I recommend a long blade made from pattern-welded hand forged Damascus steel. Expect hot sex to happen if you survive.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 11:51 PM
1

"Of course I care about you, and whether or not I decide to stay with you depends entirely on how well you treat me. I love myself."
/r/askTRP25/10/14 07:48 PM
2

Women are fucked when it comes to body image. EVERYTHING bothers them about their bodies. Society is no help either, because women are taught that they are 'perfect just the way you are' and 'if he loves you, he'll accept you just the way you are!' It's shit like that which fucks with their heads. On one hand, they want to look like the princess society tells them they are. On the other hand, they realize it's work to stay fit, and since they're so used to having everything else easy, they don't…
/r/askTRP25/10/14 07:34 PM
1

Pussy isn't all that. If you put that sort of priority on meeting women, you're going to end up going bat-shit beta over the first decent looking chick you plow. Women are a nice distraction, but they are just the accessories to your life, never the main focus. I'm writing you a prescription to watch the 1982 classic Conan the Barbarian (not the colossal piece of shit Conan the Destroyer) and to get your work out routine on track. Take that frustration out on some iron and steel.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 06:36 PM
2

"My night was great. I ended up going out with an old friend afterward." And then you say nothing else. At all. Ever. If you have nothing else going on, you have to at least keep up the illusion that you're a wild man of mystery who will be quick to pass her up for a shiny new distraction. It keeps them on their toes and makes them want to be the one that holds your attention.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 06:31 PM
2

If you're 'far removed' from the rest of the company, you could still get canned for a harassment charge if she goes Fatal Attraction on you. That being said, you miss 100% of the attempts you never make. If she's a big neon 'Please Ask Me Out' sign, then go for it, but be clear with your intentions before you make a move. Do you want to plate her or date her? Decide which and go for it. I met my wife at work, so dating coworkers isn't always a shit storm - but it can backfire on occasion.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 06:27 PM
2

When you're raised to with it, it's just how it is. Something seems wrong about it, but it's reinforced over and over again.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 06:54 PM
12

"One hour relationships! Get yer one hour relationships heeeeere!"
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 10:11 AM
18

I'm just rolling with it, going balls-to-the-wall, full speed ahead and damn the torpedoes. I even post on TwoX, and yes, Mister Alcala is my actual name. Fuck me, right? I understand the risk I run of being doxed, banned and witch-hunted, but if it comes to that I'll just open a new account and continue ahead. As for my 16k+ karma, it's just useless internet points and means jack shit. I fear no SJWs. Edit: Yes, I do post on TwoX because I think some of their posts are interesting. No, I don't …
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 04:03 AM
15

It starts from when you are a young boy on the playground: "don't hit girls!" You notice that girls are coddled and treated better. They get in trouble a lot less than rowdy boys do, so they must be better, right? It continues into adolescence. Your bodies change, and women's bodies change even more than ours - they become emotional and the mysteries of their bodies are fascinating and scary. This is when girls learn to manipulate boys and use their budding sexuality to string guys along. Their …
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 03:57 AM
3

Women are highly susceptible to social pressure. That's why a lot of women like the same music their friends like, they think the same guys are cute that their friends do, and they try to conform to whatever social situation they are in. This is why it's important to get them alone on dates - you can't compete with their friends, and if their friends don't like you, you're sunk.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 03:40 AM
1

One of two situations are happening: She wants to be 'just friends' with you. Do you feel that gravitational pull? That's her trying to make you orbit. Have you been giving her IOIs, or do you feel her giving them to you? If the answer is 'no', then you need to recognize the entrance to the Friend Zone when you see it. Next she'll be asking you to do things for her (assignments, move her furniture etc.). If you have been making flirty passes at her (and it sounds like you haven't), then she want…
/r/askTRP24/10/14 12:03 AM
2

I agree with you. That's the difference between doing it because you want to, and doing it because you feel you should.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 11:52 PM
1

This is why men need to make birth control OUR responsibility. Women have been known to 'forget' their pill, prick holes in rubbers and lie about being on birth control. Take away their option to deceive you and you will have one less worry.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 11:41 PM
2

I like money! Who doesn't like money? Welcome to Costco. I love you.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 11:30 PM
1

There is no honor among women - they see chivalry as weakness. They say they want a nice guy, but if you've read the sidebar, then you know not to pay attention to their words, but instead read their actions and gauge their reactions. Why don't women enjoy classic literature or seek to expand their minds with knowledge? Because they don't have to. In fact, most modern women feel the amount of work they should put into a relationship is minimal, at best. They feel the man should do the majority o…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 11:17 PM
3

There is only honor among men, not women. Women will step all over their best friends to get a shot at some hot alpha cock. Is that what you want to stoop to? Abundance, my friend, remember the abundance mentality. Look elsewhere. Who knows, by ignoring her and treating her like a guy, you might actually get her interest on accident. Don't poach another man's game, go out and get your own. Be a hunter, not a scavenger.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 10:55 PM
8

Using friends to do their field work is a common tactic. Every reply is weighed, measured and discussed with the herd amongst themselves - usually in the restroom when they all get up to pee together. Who cares what 'their' reasons are - I say 'their' because she's clearly a girl who can't think for herself and should be seen as more an extension of her friends. They decided you weren't worth any more time and they moved on. The good news is that frees you up to find less codependent chicks. Thi…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 10:37 PM
3

If you're not afraid to get your dick bloody, and she's fine with fucking during red tide, then go for it. One thing you should do if you're planning on LTRing her is to have some of her brand of pads / plugs on hand. Some guys would bash me for suggesting that you buy her vagina products, but it's better than cleaning her blood off of your furniture and bed. If you decide to go for sex, have lube and towels. Blood is a terrible lubricant and can actually cause friction as platelets burst and it…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 10:28 PM
2

Women are the stars in their own little soap opera dramas in life. The main character (her) gets into all these wacky predicaments from her silly co-stars and extras (everybody else), but at the end of the day, she always comes out on top and makes the right decision, even if that means the rest of the world must be wrong. After all, she's the star of her show, so she can pretty much write it as she goes along. Who cares about the details, anyway? This is pretty much how women view themselves: t…
/r/askTRP22/10/14 05:33 AM
1

If you want to crush pussy like Chad and Tyrone, then BE Chad and Tyrone for a night and see how it goes.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 05:23 AM
2

You're paying too much attention to what she says. You should have waited to see what she does. Of course she doesn't want to come off as a huge slut bomb, even though she very well might be. Her actions would have indicated your next move, depending on how she responded to your advances. Good mindset though: lesson learned.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 05:19 AM
2

Walk up to her and say: "OH MY GOD! SHUT UP! NO WAY! I was going to wear that EXACT same outfit! then transition to: "What's up, my names ______, what's your name?" then push / pull / have fun with it. "I dunno. That sounds like a made-up name to me. I'm going to be pissed if your name turns out to be Julio or Donald. Nah, you're too pretty to be a Donald, even though you dress kind of slutty. So what are you doing here?" Bam. You're witty, charming, dominant and giving her a chance to be flirty…
/r/askTRP22/10/14 05:13 AM
1

Do it. I'll give you a dollar.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 05:06 AM
8

You have to come out of the gate with your sexual intentions flowing in the wind for the world to tremble before, like the tattered war banner of a pussy-slaying shogun. You kept her interest up to a point, but then you dropped the ball. While you were fumbling for the ball, she brushed you into the 'beta orbiter' box for a test fit. She came on the date to get some action, but when you failed to escalate, she claimed to only want 'friends'. This is a clear indicator to next her and continue. If…
/r/askTRP22/10/14 04:49 AM
5

You pretty much played into her hands. Now she can sit back with a smug look on her face and tell everybody in her snottiest bitch voice what a controlling, abusive asshole you were the entire time. She might even embellish it a whole lot. You can't put the tiger back in it's cage - it's over. It already happened. Moving forward, you should apologize to him, but not necessarily her. If she continues to pop up at your social gatherings, it would be in your best interest to be cordial, but distant…
/r/askTRP22/10/14 04:41 AM
2

If it smells like tuna, make her wash it.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 04:25 AM
15

Like the late, great Patrice O'neil stated: If you want to learn how to catch more fish, you don't ask the fish. You ask the fisherman. Women will give shitty advice on dating women because they have the wrong perspective to give good advice.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:07 AM
20

Don't forget number 4: 4 If you're a college student in California, DON'T HOOK UP WITH CHICKS FROM SCHOOL - you might get a rape charge for not asking for that kiss.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:03 AM
3

If there's still time to see her in the next day or two, I'd simply message her "Meet me at _____________ at :." That's it. Give her a time and a place. If she shows up, cool. If not, that's fine too.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 08:53 AM
3

Women have rights. Men have responsibilities.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 11:05 AM
1

When you realize what that feeling of love is, you realize what dumb animals we men can be. It's a cocktail of dopamine, oxytocin and a slew of other chemicals flooding your brain with sweet love juice. When you think of her, your brain remembers that feeling it had when you were around her, and it starts a withdrawal process. That's the physical. The emotional part of it is that the withdrawal will bring depression, mood swings and just make you feel like shit. That's what 'love' is in your bra…
/r/askTRP18/10/14 10:59 PM
6

I have seen many a guy in your situation. You have your options ahead of you as to which way you decide to go. There was a guy who comes to mind that I went to H.S. with. He was a total nerd. He hung out in nerd circles, did nerd things and got zero female attraction. One summer he comes back with long hair, dressed in black, complete with Ozzy sunglasses, a pentagram necklace and black nail polish. By the end of the year, he scored a hot but sleazy GF and a gaggle of skanky goth girls who suppo…
/r/askTRP18/10/14 07:26 AM
2

That is like asking for a punch in the face and a possible beat down. Do you like getting beat down? If yes, then sure, tell the poor bastard you layed pipe to his girl. She will deny it and you'll be the asshole in the situation. You're not doing him any favors, because, as you said yourself, he's really beta. His sun rises and sets over her superficial ass, and he would rather eat a bullet than see his girl knocked off her pedestal. Let him find out on his own what she really is. It's the only…
/r/askTRP18/10/14 07:08 AM
5

Don't take TRP too literally. TRP is not a philosophy; it's a collection of observations and truths based on confirmation from men from all demographics regarding female and male sexual strategy. Some you may agree with, some not. But we can't deny the underlying truths here. *1. I've heard this referred to as "Feelz before Reelz", meaning that a women care more about how they feel than the reality of their situation. As long as you can provide a woman with 'Feelz', she will gladly step into you…
/r/askTRP18/10/14 06:44 AM
1

Posture, body language and assertiveness. When a man of few words speaks, people listen because his words are chosen carefully, well-though out and they have weight to them. He speaks in a confident manner and does not shrink in on himself or avoid eye contact. A man of few words has the air of mystery about him, not the uncomfortable slouch a shy man would have. He's at ease with himself and in his element, but chooses to speak when he needs to, not to fill in silence, agree with others or hear…
/r/askTRP18/10/14 06:15 AM
1

14yo. girls are thinking about their friend's older brothers and cute college guys that drive bitchin' cars and have big muscles. There's no way you can compete with that. To make matters worse, girls that age are just tools of social peer pressure. Even if some of them did find you attractive, their friends would tease them because you're not the guy the hive mind agrees is cute. You know how girls are: they like the same music, they think the same guys are hot and they all dress the same becau…
/r/askTRP18/10/14 06:07 AM
1

Women at that age KNOW they are expired - they are too old to have kids and the list of interested / available men is dwindling by the month. I think that if you found a woman you hit it off with that you were attracted to, she would make a fine partner, provided you don't put up with her shit and maintain the captain / first mate dynamic.
/r/askTRP18/10/14 05:53 AM
1

UTIs can take a few days to flare up, what's more, men can keep giving their partners UTIs back-to-back, because men are asymptomatic - meaning we don't show symptoms, but we can carry it. Women who are on or have taken strong / frequent antibiotics or are sick all the time are more prone to get UTIs.
/r/askTRP18/10/14 05:03 AM
1

Other than to point out the ridiculousness of it, I think I speak for most guys on this sub when I say that we really don't care about it at all. Gamers are going to buy the games that appeal to them, regardless of who made it, what scandal was involved or how many baby seals were killed in the making. Either way, we just don't care. At least I don't.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 04:27 AM
2

You don't want a threesome with a girl you care about. You want a threesome with plates or girls you don't care about on an emotional level. A LOT of relationships hit rough patches / break up after threesomes or other situations where additional people are brought into the bedroom. These types of situations cause jealousy, insecurity and trust issues. You know how women are - always comparing themselves to other women, fishing for compliments, never feeling 'pretty enough' etc. Women are threat…
/r/askTRP13/10/14 10:35 AM
1

I need to learn This song.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 03:37 AM
-2

"Did you put your big girl panties on today? I knew you had it in the bag. You're a smart cookie." This tells her that she doesn't need to seek your approval for every little thing she does and makes her feel a little silly for seeking the validation.
/r/askTRP10/10/14 08:13 AM
3

If a girl gets to know you and discovers you're friends with a bunch of other attractive guys, she pretty much feels like she hit a jackpot. She can play you against your friends, use them for tingles or even try to fuck them on the sly.
/r/askTRP10/10/14 08:10 AM
20

I took marching band in Jr. High. I had mostly female friends - all girls that I thought were attractive, but was too chicken to make a move on, so I figured I'd friend my way into their hearts - yea no. I have played guitar since I was 12, so I had some beefy hands for a kid. One day I was hanging out in the band room on lunch break and my female friends were complaining about sore muscles from marching, so I offered to massage them. By the end of the week, I had a line of girls wanting massage…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 08:03 AM
1

Don't beat yourself up for mistakes of your past. Who you were and who you're going to be are two different people. The old you was blind to the world and accepted what was pushed under his nose. The new you sees the world how it is, and once that shock wears off, you will have the cheat code to being a man, if you choose to use it.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 07:44 AM
1

Our actions, combined or individual, have NO influence on whether or not a woman becomes a slut. When she gets the craving for cock and tells herself she's entitled to some, wild motherfucking horses couldn't drag her away from some dick. She's going to fuck, and why not? If it's going to be some random guy, why not stand in line? You're taking responsibility and accountability away from women by saying it's our fault they are sluts. They are fully functional adults who can make their own life c…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 07:34 AM
2

First understand why you're nervous. This is probably for a few different reasons: Lack of confidence. You don't think you deserve to talk to pretty women, because you've been taught that women won't waste their time on a 'guy like you', and you're right, they won't be attracted to you as you are. So what you have to do is learn to be the guy they want. You came to the right sub for that. The truth is that women have a lot more insecurities than men. You think women are superior to you - that th…
/r/askTRP10/10/14 07:22 AM
2

By realizing that women are not special snowflakes and there are millions of them that you could hit it off with. If you strike out with one, there are more women out there waiting to be explored.
/r/askTRP10/10/14 06:52 AM
2

You ask yourself 'What do I gain from this experience you're offering me?' if the answer is 'nothing' or 'I stand to lose, not to gain from this', then you know that your reply to such offers would be a polite "No thank you, I'm busy."
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 05:56 PM
4

In which case, she may pass, because there are a million beta bitches who crave female attention waiting for their turn in line. But that's OK. We've got better shit to do than be her time hoe.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 05:52 PM
1

I think the movie Wanted was a really good example of BP man becoming RP.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 04:31 PM
2

It's been said that women will take the shape of the vessel they're put into. This evidence can be seen in the 'herd' behavior that women adopt within their close circle of female friends: they all like the same music, think the same guys are hot, etc. If a woman's really into you, she'll want to please you and be part of your world, and she will conform to pretty much anything that isn't strongly against her own beliefs. The trick here is to find out how to make her do these things while thinki…
/r/askTRP09/10/14 04:01 PM
1

I'm sure ONE of these guys must live near you! Anybody want to help a brother out? Anybody? You could probably have a bro do double duty to help out. But seriously, too much sex is a great problem to have.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 03:56 AM
4

She might be pregnant, or suspect that she is, but either way, this chick has "IT'S YOUR BABY!" written all over her. Tread carefully, supply YOUR OWN condoms and some spermicidal lube wouldn't hurt either. Also, dispose of your condoms. Chicks with baby rabies have been known to rob the baby batter out of used cock socks.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 06:44 PM
2

When you feel yourself getting close, just slow down and clench. You don't have to pull out or completely stop, just slow down and clench until the pressure goes away. It will 'reset' you and after you're out of the danger zone you can continue to pound away until next peak.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 09:31 AM
14

People have no power over you, except what you surrender to them. By thinking about this to the point where it bothers you, you are giving her (and him) power over you. These guys commenting on your post don't seem to be taking your feelings into consideration. Sure, they can say 'don't let it bother you' or 'just move on and bang chicks lol', but fuck them - that has got to just SUCK, and I doubt any of these guys, including me, would give zero fucks if we were in the same situation. However, t…
/r/askTRP06/10/14 09:24 AM
6

Don't let women define your role for you. Read all the sidebar material.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 06:10 AM
1

Quite simply, betas believe The Lie - which is what society tells us is how men and women are supposed to interact: Betas put women on a pedestal and treat them like princesses. Betas believe that by 'taking things slowly' and being a friend, they can advance their way into a woman's heart, building value along the way. Betas believe that their good deeds and actions towards women should be rewarded or reciprocated. "I have been the kind of man you say you want! Why can't I be your man?!" Betas …
/r/askTRP05/10/14 07:55 PM
1

Simple is best. Walk up to her and say: "Hey _______! I just wanted to apologize for being a drunken prick the other night. Sorry if I cockblocked you back there. It won't happen again." Then you walk away and put it out of your mind. That way, you've said your peace and it's up to her to stew over it or drop it. You don't really owe her an apology, but it doesn't hurt - she already thinks you're an asshole.
/r/askTRP05/10/14 07:45 PM
3

Kegels work for men too. The same muscles that stop your pee flow are the ones that keep you from spilling your load. Strengthen those muscles by squeezing and holding. If you do it right, you should feel your dick twitch and your butthole tighten (it's actually your prostrate area). Squeeze and hold, squeeze and hold. When you take a piss, try cutting off the stream, holding it, then resuming. When you have sex and feel you are close, slow down and clench that muscle until the tension goes away…
/r/askTRP05/10/14 07:39 PM
4

I agree. Silly men and their THOUGHTS!
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 11:58 PM
3

Am I the only one who read this in Toki's voice (from Deathklok)? You should just casually approach him and ask how he is, what's up and if he has anything going on next weekend. See if he wants you around or if he gives you the cold shoulder.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 11:06 PM
1

Well, obviously it's because the patriarchy has kept Strong, Independent Wymyn™ from advancing in the dentistry professions!
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 10:51 PM
13

Are you suggesting women SEW? That's either sexist or rape, I'm not sure which, so it's probably BOTH!
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 10:49 PM
18

Nobody's stated the obvious, so I will: Women's jeans don't have pockets because women prefer skin-tight pants that hug their ass and show off their curves. There would simply be outrage if "stuff" in their pockets bulged and protruded, ruining their sexy look. Many women wear pants so tight they have to lie down and wiggle them on like escaping from a straight jacket in reverse.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 10:47 PM
1

Sounds like you have a LOT of work to do on yourself. I would suggest going monk mode and cutting contact with her. She might be tempted to call you for a while 'just to see how you're doing since I haven't heard from you for a while' but don't fall for it. Ignore and keep no contact with her. She has the potential to be your oneitis kryptonite and you don't need that shit. Instead, go monk mode. Work out, make friends, socialize and just observe and learn. Reflect on your past behaviors, realiz…
/r/askTRP04/10/14 09:23 AM
1

Given his personality, would you necessarily want him to have kids? They would suffer.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 09:09 AM
4

Hamsters gonna hamst. But seriously, 'creep shaming' sucks. It's the new tool in a woman's arsenal that's meant to emasculate us and deflate our egos. Eat it and smile, then move on. Don't waste energy on cunts like that.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 08:42 AM
5

Women don't want an open book. They don't want emotionally available men. Women like for us to be their rock, and they view our weakness with contempt. The best way to be is stoic, aloof and mysterious. This is counter-intuitive to what every woman says she wants - a 'nice guy' who listens, is caring and compassionate, who is vulnerable and shares his feelings. Come on. We ALL know that shit doesn't fly in the real world - I've tried it myself and it doesn't pay to be that guy. The more you 'ope…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 08:36 AM
2

"No - in fact I'm SO not-controlling that you're free to break up with me and hang out with your mother, since she seems to think I'm so bad. Maybe then I can find a girl who appreciates me. Thanks for bringing this up! I have a lot to think about." Saying something like this will make it seem like she opened a can of worms and she will scramble the damage control to try and please you. A little bit of abundance mentality dread should straighten her up and make her not want to bring up that subj…
/r/askTRP04/10/14 08:17 AM
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Realize that NOBODY is looking out for you, but you. Your friends will let you down, your family will disappoint you and there will be no deus ex machina that will swoop in at the eleventh hour to save you from certain doom. As a man, your destiny is forged by your own hand through determination, hard work and force of will. You must do for you, because nobody cares if you sink or swim and the world will continue to spin long after you're gone. To get through this world you have to take what you…
/r/askTRP03/10/14 03:59 PM
2

So basically, men age like wine and women age like milk?
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 03:55 AM
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Remember not to act too thirsty - don't seem too eager when you go out with her. Remain calm, in control and cool. Start your escalation off SLOWLY - light kino etc. If you go straight for "You look so hot! Let's go fuck!" her pussy will dry up and she'll know you're not the real deal. Remember that you have all night, but only the patient, fun and dominant man gets what he wants. Keep escalating until she's soaked and demands you take her home and have your way with her. Lastly, never ask. Just…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:46 PM
2

That would depend on what you want. You could keep BFG as an orbiter to get baked goods, lunches and whatever you want from her, or you could sex her up if LTR wasn't that important to you, or you could simply use her for the dread and be done with her when LTR decides her friendship 'isn't what it used to be'.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:30 PM
2

It doesn't matter whether or not BFG likes you, but depends on you showing interest in her.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:24 PM
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Exactly! Women can't handle competition, especially in the form of another woman, no matter how slight. Turn her friend into competition, and the claws will come out and she will burn her to the ground to defend her prize (you).
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 08:32 AM
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It will require some acting and forced enthusiasm. But no woman wants her man gushing too much over her bestie. She will squash it.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 08:14 AM
3

People only have power over you if you allow them to. If you care about what they say or think, you give them power. Take this girl to the events and don't worry about them. Don't tell her bad things about them - this will make you look petty and weak. Just be ready to dismiss their attitudes or comments and memorize a few phrases: "Oh them? She was my ex and he was my friend." - you don't need to give too much detail. "I apologize for my friends - they get jealous when they see me with a beauti…
/r/askTRP02/10/14 08:12 AM
3

The ideal relationship is the one that works for you. Once you are confident with yourself and you don't let your relationship or your SO define who you are, there are many ways to go about things, but again, it's different for everybody. Most guys eventually learn to strike a balance between alpha and beta traits - giving and receiving - being a stone-cold cocky prick all of the time is as bad as rolling over and letting her walk all over you. Also, the different strategies one could apply are …
/r/askTRP02/10/14 07:58 AM
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If this happens again, do the exact opposite: Get in good with BFG and insist that she hang out when you and LTR should be alone together. Be BFG's most vocal cheerleader and compare her to LTR - not in a negative way toward LTR, but in ways that make BFG come out like a saint. Force yourself to text BFG and interact with her on your own time, independently of LTR Pretty much, you make BFG a point of dread. If you really want to do this, realize it's a bit on the dickish, manipulative side, but …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 07:43 AM
1

You want her back to prove to yourself that you can be better than the asshole that you were. Well, the fact that you're writing this confirms that you are better than you were. Will it erase the guilt you feel for being a shit boyfriend? No. You need to forgive yourself. Will it make her want you if you can somehow show her you're different? No. That's not how women work. Women view the world through their feelings, and the feels you gave her that last year were pretty shitty. She's moved on, a…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 06:41 AM
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The longer you keep leading her along, the worse it will be for her. Just tell her that you've found somebody else and that you're moving on. Yes, it will suck, and yes, you'll feel like a dick, and she may hate you, but do it anyway. Just be sure to get all your stuff back from her first and do it in a place where there's witnesses, in case she tries to cut you with a shank. Breaking up is never easy, but at least you've got something to fall back on. It's run it's course and it's time to move …
/r/askTRP01/10/14 04:49 AM
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'Rape Culture' shall henceforth mean the following: A culture whereby rape is trivialized, sensationalized and desensitized to the point where 'everything means rape'. Rape Culture encourages the use of false statistics and false accusations to shift power onto the 'victims' of 'rape'. Said 'victims' shall be showered with attention, support and feels, while their 'assailants' are inevitably found guilty and locked away to rot, thereby forfeiting their futures and being labeled as monsters by so…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 06:41 AM
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Doesn't matter. A crying girl's statement is worth more than any legal protection you can have drawn up.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 05:53 AM
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That's only gonna get worse as guys begin to see more of their peers' lives ruined on frivolous charges. It will come to a point where NOBODY but an 'actual' rapist is going to want to risk having casual sex with women, because all the rest of the guys are going to be scared shitless of the possible fallout.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 05:51 AM
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Sometimes you just gotta hold your breath and pound that tuna. But seriously, it could be an infection. In which case, if she doesn't get it treated, you could just be passing it back to her (guys can perpetuate a yeast infection through constant sex without showing symptoms if the girl doesn't get it treated). Some girls naturally smell a lot stronger than others, and that's just how it is, but it should never be unbearable. Girls are stinky.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 07:53 PM
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Keep reading. Once you start to see confirmation of TRP in the world around you, you will be compelled to change, because you're a fucking MAN, and that's what men do - adapt or die. Once you start to see that AWALT, you will start to change your behaviors as a means of defense and defiance, and after a while it will become second nature as you see how people operate on a deeper level.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 04:01 PM
1

After I fart I waft it up and sample the bouquet, and offer her a sniff of my manly essence. My farts are an ambrosia that gets her juices flowing and turns my wife into an insatiable sexual succubus! Or maybe not. But I don't care. I do totally waft and sniff though, because I know my manly essence is sexy. Especially after chili night.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 04:56 PM
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MARIO! QUIT SAVING THE FUCKING PRINCESS! Seriously. Afther a bazillion games, the bitch keeps just getting caught again and again and again. I'm starting to think Mario is the beta bux and Bowser is the alpha fucks.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 04:51 PM
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This is one instance where your wife needs your compassion, not anger. She sounds like a housewife who doesn't have any friends or hobbies to keep her busy. If she's at home all day with a child and daytime TV and the internet keeping her busy, she's probably just stressed and lonely. Women are in need of constant attention, whether it's from their friends, family or their men. They are just constant attention machines - no way around it. This is a peek into her mind: She doesn't feel sexy blah …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 12:42 PM
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Just like a strong man can be broken down over time into a supplicating pussy-whipped beta husband, a woman can be molded into your woman. On one extreme, I find women who agree with everything to be boring, vapid and insecure to the point being afraid of admitting to liking the wrong band. That being said, a woman who chooses to butt heads on every topic and counter every point is intolerable. The difference is that once you get to know the 'yes girl', and she becomes comfortable with you and i…
/r/askTRP18/09/14 12:02 PM
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You can't fix people. This is important to remember, because you will invariably meet sweet, attractive girls with problems. Some problems can be overcome, and some can't, but the thing to remember is this: YOUR JOB IS NOT TO FIX OTHER PEOPLE - THAT PATH LEADS TO DISAPPOINTMENT, HEARTBREAK AND RUIN. Talk to her about her issue when she's sober - don't let her sidestep, dodge or ignore the subject. Let her know that if she continues her current trajectory, you will walk away from her. And then yo…
/r/askTRP18/09/14 11:47 AM
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She might be a fun distraction or a good learning tool, but don't make her more than that - you can do better, younger and hotter.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 11:39 AM
1

Use the Brad Pitt rule: if you were Brad Pitt, she would have fucked you and your two best friends. You didn't give her enough tingles to seal the deal.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 11:37 AM
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Let's just say for a moment that people witnessed you doing that to her - you wouldn't be writing this. You'd be in jail. This is the Pussypass Gone Wild - no, not wild - FERAL. Take pictures before they fade and go into a police station and file charges. Do it for equality! Do it for FEMINISM! Edit: Seriously. Do it. Or she will continue to think this type of behavior is OK. You have a chance to make her and all her bitch friends think twice about acting like bestial cunts in the future.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 07:44 AM
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HEY! Dude. That's rape. You might want to be more sensitive to her needs. Just sayin. BAAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHA!
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 06:08 AM
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A fool fights to change the world for the better. A wise man seeks to better himself. Openly trying to battle the current state of society is a suicide mission, and will only succeed in alienating you and making life difficult. Instead, we TRPers do what we can for ourselves. Just like you can't enlighten a BP bro who isn't ready to accept TRP, you can't expect people to drop their feminist ideology for logic. We just roll with it.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 08:23 PM
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I'll see if I can get you in touch with Toki and Murderface.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 08:04 PM
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Well, you keep NC and when she finally has the nerve to try and pop back into your life, you simply say: "No thank you. You're a fucking train wreck and you need turn around, walk away and try not to spread the herpes around too much." Edit: Ouch. Herpes sucks, but it could have been SO much worse.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 04:06 PM
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This, this and this. OH. And this. ^ Women won't want to be around a defeatist who downplays his qualities. They can sense lack of confidence like fat girls can sense cheeseburgers - they can just smell it. Up your confidence. Engage in small talk with random women wherever you are. Get used to chatting them up and it will become easier. You will learn what makes them smile and what shuts them down, and you will be able to build some confidence and work on your game.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 03:59 PM
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Of course she wants you to get a job! So she can get more money out of you in the divorce. Don't get a job. The courts can't award her money that you aren't making.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 12:44 AM
2

Translation: "Yea.... I'm really just dating guys and trying to get free meals and drinks and shit. You're really nice, but I can't see you letting me take advantage of you, so that's a no-go in my book. Popular culture has told me that guys should do everything for women, so I'm just acting according to the social model I've been raised in. After all, I think I deserve a man with deep pockets whom I can sponge off of for the rest of my life. I hope you will reconsider your outrageous claims tha…
/r/askTRP14/09/14 12:39 AM
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I may get downvoted here, but as a married guy, I applaud you for being willing to take control of the wheel and steer the ship off the rocks. You married her for a reason: once she made you laugh, smile, gave you good sex and respected you as a man, a mate and a partner. Realize that now, she is a direct product of your lack of leadership. She has gotten her way for too long, and has lost all respect because of your lack of leadership. Can this be fixed? Yes. Will it be easy? Fuck no. But there…
/r/askTRP14/09/14 12:19 AM
1

Refund those tickets or take a bro or a hottie. She doesn't deserve to go.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 09:02 PM
1

Damn. I was hoping this post was about sex with a female centaur (horse woman). On the up side, you might be able to find a date at /r/clopclop!
/r/askTRP11/09/14 03:49 AM
1

I see a bromance budding! Exchange numbers, you two!
/r/askTRP11/09/14 03:42 AM
1

You can call it kink if you want. I call it Monday night.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 02:26 PM
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Dude, just wait. You have the best ahead of you, just waiting for when you cool off and accept it. That's when you realize that TRP is a fucking cheat code for society. With it, you can game any chick, be a hero to your friends and dodge bullshit like a dung-fu master. You will have X-ray vision into your daily social interactions and conversations and be able to see the fine underlying sub-strata that most people don't even realize is there. Likewise, you will be able to see early signs of rela…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 12:35 PM
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"Well, let's say for instance I tied you up, gagged you with your panties and spanked your bare ass. Are you the kind of good girl that would just hate that sort of thing?" If sex is your goal, then fucking make it about SEX. Don't be shy, don't apologize and don't be afraid to take them to some dark places. Be the mysterious stranger that holds the key to all their dark dirty fantasies.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 12:15 PM
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You post the most paranoid idea ever, then ask us not to comment on the amount of paranoia (which is off the fucking charts)? Dude. That's just NOT FAIR - so I'm gonna do it anyway. Seriously, if you're that worried about it, then you need to work on you and not have a relationship until you can find women with a high enough value that you don't need to worry about them beating your ass or fucking randoms in your bed.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 12:09 PM
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Are you kidding? She'll be getting a rich doctor husband she can beta-fy in short order! That's like winning the lottery for a woman! She'll be fine.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 07:22 AM
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I remember your original post. You have to let the anger go, accept that you fucked up, realize how you fucked up, and move on. Throw another party and invite A LOT of people. Talk to everybody, have a good time and let them all know you're king of the fucking castle. DON'T make women your priority. Once you become the cool party guy, women will want to be seen with you for social proof. Yes, you handled the whole situation like a bitch, but no worries. We all fuck up, and you're young - you're …
/r/askTRP08/09/14 07:18 AM
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THINK, YOU FOOL! If you show him TRP you won't have a rich brother in-law. But seriously, you can't force-feed TRP to those who choose to believe the blue pill lie. Maybe after a few years of him eating shit, you can pull him aside and give him some truths - maybe then he'll be more receptive.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 07:11 AM
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Whatever happens, you will be much better off than her. You have a career ahead of you, you will pick and choose among the women you date and maybe you'll find one you want to settle down with. You have TRP knowledge to not get suckered again. The ex, on the other hand, will lose value with every cock she rides. Her career will not be as good as yours because she didn't put the work into it that you have. Instead, she will settle for a beta bux as the wall approaches. Some day you might run into…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 07:06 AM
2

Has anybody mentioned holding frame yet? (kidding, but they're right.) Make your interactions sexual. Divert, decline or sexualize her attempts to hang out with you in a non-sexual manner. Don't let her move in one item at a time: "Here. You forgot your toothbrush. And your shirt. Take that shit with you. I'll keep the panties though." Keep her attraction and ramp up the sexual tension with every interaction. Your texts and conversations on the phone should be you telling her what naughty things…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 06:50 AM
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Having asshole friends is bad enough, but when drugs are involved, it only takes getting pulled over and cops finding a pill or joint in your car to put everybody in jail. That shit's on a whole new level. Again, guilt by association. If you could ride it out and play it cool until march that would be ideal, but OUCH! If you're on the lease and your friends have zero respect for property, you should hope that you get your deposit back if you're not evicted by then. Your new RP outlook should be …
/r/askTRP08/09/14 06:40 AM
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The best revenge is to live well. If you try to say or do anything in retaliation, it will just be a glaring neon sign over you that says "INSECURITY". If, on the other hand, you work on yourself, date hotties and don't give two fucks about your ex getting railed by your scumbag friends (why should you, she's a cheating slut!) then you will be the guy that has traded up and dodged a bullet. Be that guy. Not the jealous guy who gives a fuck about the nasty ex. Edit: your friends sound like asshol…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 06:07 AM
1

The friendzone is real and you have a front-row seat. You're giving away your resources for free, so of course she's taking advantage, and why shouldn't she? You think that by doing things for her, you are building attraction towards her, but in reality, you're just giving the goods away with no return on your investment. That's beta orbiter chump territory. You don't want to be there. Leave that situation, go no-contact on her (stop hanging out and don't contact her at all) and get out before y…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:57 AM
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Very well put. Because of slut-shaming, she will not be going home with you if her friends or - even worse - family are coming along. She's probably just inviting you to dangle her in front of her friends and get their opinions of you when they all get up together to go pee. If you want to fuck her, you have to get her alone. You could go, but understand sex will be off the table that night. That doesn't mean you can't have fun and toy with her, build attraction etc. too.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:51 AM
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You're on the right path. Your future seems clear, and that's a good career goal to work towards. Think of this as a blessing and consider the following scenario: You graduate and start college, happy for your future with your girl by your side. She gets upset that there are a lot of cute college girls in your class, so she starts acting out. You guys start arguing all the time and it's starting to have a negative impact on your studying. Your grades start to slip a little, and that's when she t…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 02:38 AM
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There is good news, though! There are BILLIONS of women on the planet, and MILLIONS of them are attractive and waiting to be scooped up. Go out and get your share - they won't come to you.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 02:27 AM
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Don't listen to this guy. TRP isn't about 'treating women like shit'. And women don't want an 'emotionally open' man. Women want men to be their rock. You keep your insecurities, fears and worries to yourself and use it to fuel your progress. Rejection from a woman should never lead to hate - each rejection is a victory and a reason to find a more suitable woman. Also, not all women are sluts, hoes or objects to be used by you. But neither should you allow yourself to be used by them. If you're …
/r/askTRP08/09/14 02:17 AM
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Just stick around here and read these posts. We've all been where you were - emotionally tormented and stuck in the friendzone. This doesn't happen because women are evil, it's because you simply aren't an attractive enough option to her. Even if you did improve yourself, she has already mentally put you in the friendzone, so this girl is a waste of energy and time. You give her all your energy and time, she gives you... what? Hours of talking about her shitty relationship? Do yourself a favor a…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 02:07 AM
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I keep my responses brief. "K" "No" "Yes" "luv u 2" "Ttyl"
/r/askTRP08/09/14 02:04 AM
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"Fake it til you make it" is a good way to acquire confidence. This 'false confidence' will become solidified and real once your results become more positive. TRP doesn't say you are 'above' anybody. It says 'be the best version of you that you can be'. Put your needs first, and only associate with people that enhance your life. Women are not bags of shit. Women want a confident man that can lead them and give them security. TRP teaches that mating strategies for women are much different from me…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 02:00 AM
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You are in the friend zone. To exit the friend zone, cut this girl out of your life completely. Let's just say that the happy fantasy in your head happens the way you want it to: you guys end up hooking up, have great sex and BAM! She's your GF. She jumped ship for you. Now, you're going to worry about her jumping ship for another guy, so it will wear on your mind whenever you're not with her. Is she cheating? Is she talking to other guys - maybe her ex? Work on yourself and women will want to b…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 01:44 AM
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Then keep the route. Just invite a hot female running partner to accompany you.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 01:36 AM
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Women are so used to being treated as the special snowflake that when you don't put them on a pedestal, they then try to evaluate the situation. Are you too good for them? Is she not up to your standards? Then the chase begins, but it's her chasing validation from you.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 01:24 AM
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You're on the right path. You realize it was YOU who failed to hold her attraction. She was just being a woman and acting according to her nature. Whether you admit it or not, you're running past her house because you miss her - understandable. But this isn't healthy either. Change your fucking route. Are there any sorority houses you can run by? Perhaps there's a yoga studio you can run past instead. Change your behaviors - you don't need to see her 'being happy' with another guy. Fuck her, fuc…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 12:15 AM
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This is the best response here. /u/TheReason13 gets it. By the way, once someone notices this and asks you why you've been withdrawing input/attention, what do you say? Do you tell them exactly why, just downplay it, or what? If she catches on and asks what's up with you, you tell her: "I've just been busy lately. If you want to hang out with me, you need to get back to me sooner. If not, then I can always catch up with you later." The key with the strategy he suggested is to NOT REPLY TO HER TE…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 12:08 AM
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Interesting read. In addition, I think the reason Dread Game works with keeping the mother of your children interested in you sexually is because she now has kids to look after and she doesn't want to do it alone. Nowadays, divorce is supposed to be on her terms, not yours - most divorces are initiated by the wife, after all. By using dread, you are showing her that you are still valuable in the market place and still able to get female attention, despite being married. Dread forces her to step …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 11:26 PM
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I'm not cynical at all. I understand how women think. I'm also happily married. I don't cheat on my wife and I keep her satisfied and too busy to cheat on me. And if my marriage were to explode some day, then I would be happy to jump back into the market and land another catch. It's what you make of it. If anything, your posts are just dripping with contempt for me, for whatever reason. I hope you find happiness. Edit: This subreddit clearly doesn't have your Disney-esque view of relationships. …
/r/askTRP07/09/14 11:07 PM
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I don't make grandiose statements. I make factual statements backed up by divorce rate statistics and the number of girls riding the CC out there. I agree - there are a lot of successful relationships, but not everybody uses your utopian model to keep their relationship together. 'Successful' relationships don't need to follow your ideal scenario to be successful. Some women like a man who takes control. Some men are happy giving their women free reign. It's whatever works for you.
/r/askTRP07/09/14 11:03 PM
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"I'll bet you can't even handle me, little boy!" "Sure I could. I have some rope, a leather paddle, an ostrich feather and some ice cubes back at my place. But you're probably not worth the effort" "I'll bet you have girls all over you." sniff your shirt "Really? I thought I got that smell out in the laundry!" "Tell me why you love me!" "Because you don't seek validation all the time." honk her nose. "I feel ugly." "That's OK. When you turn into a beast I'll ditch you for a hottie." "You know wh…
/r/askTRP07/09/14 10:51 PM
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Shit tests are used to poke at the chinks in your armor, rattle your frame and put you on the defensive. Men and women shit test, but women are the real masters of the art. Women use shit tests to flirt: "I'll bet you can't even handle me, little boy!" "I'll bet you have girls all over you." They also use it for attention: "Tell me why you love me!" "I feel ugly." Shit tests can be used to pick fights: "You know what you did. I shouldn't have to tell you." "Is that what you like? Fine! Go talk t…
/r/askTRP06/09/14 05:43 PM
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Just like everybody else's: partly cloudy with a chance of shit tests.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 04:41 AM
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OOOOOO! Trigger Warning! Misogynist! Patriarchal Shit-Lord! You compared Strong Independent Womyn™ to horses and THAT'S RAPE! This is why all men should be castrated! Let's all blog about this oppression!
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 04:39 AM
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After what you depicted, WHY would you still be engaged to her? Do you think things will improve or disintegrate after you're married? (hint: it won't 'improve'). It would be one thing to have a fiancee that was a little headstrong or moody, but she sounds manipulative, rude and downright disrespectful. I understand if you will call me a dick, an asshole or whatever else you want for saying that about your dear sweet fiance, but READ what you typed out, for fuck's sake! All I have to say is than…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 04:26 AM
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As a married guy here, let me shed some light on the subject: being married is just a relationship on hard mode. It takes a lot of work to keep it on the tracks, and like any relationship, TRP can help tremendously. Also, a lot of us married guys are older. We crushed our share of pussy back in our single days and we have covered a lot of ground that many of the younger guys here haven't entered yet. We are happy to answer questions and give advice to the younger RP bros - believe me, I wish I h…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 04:10 AM
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Amen. Fucking nailed it. What else is there to say? Except it is possible to revert back to a beta mindset if you're not vigilant, but fucking bravo, man.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 11:42 PM
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Your post is entitled "A simple question.", but you don't want a simple question answered. It seems to me you just want to argue. But whatever, I'll play along a bit more. What about a relationship model in which there is reciprocity between partners, but no dependency? That would be a perfect relationship, sustainable only in perfect conditions with perfect people. Unfortunately we live in the real world, and in the real world, systems break down over time, people change and shit happens.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 11:17 PM
1

I will throw in Yellowcard - Only One for my vote. That song is oneitis put to music.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 02:28 PM
1

Atta boy. Get it all out. We're here for you.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 06:33 AM
1

You're the one referring to it as 'blood sucking', not me. How are your relationships going? Anything you want to talk about here?
/r/askTRP04/09/14 05:59 AM
1

Women get security and provision from a relationship. Is it wrong to ask for something in return? Edit: Yes I am selfish. If I don't look out for myself, nobody else will. Selfishness to a certain extent is healthy. As for being a parasite, I have the choice of leaving - my fate isn't connected to my hosts. I prefer to think of myself as a symbiotic creature. Edit Edit: You seem to like to argue a lot. Instead of shooting up posts with angry criticism in an attempt to bait us into debate, you sh…
/r/askTRP04/09/14 05:39 AM
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Use the extra required length to be creative. Example: Fuck off you fucking fuck-faced fucktard! If I had the choice of sodomizing you with a rocket-propelled fire hydrant dildo packed with explosives or a giant crucible filled with molten metal and shaped like Rosie O'Donnell, I'd go with option C and commandeer an aircraft carrier full steam ahead toward your gaping pumpkin hole. I care less about you than my malformed baby which is festering inside your little sister's cancerous trash can of …
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 04:14 AM
4

You're in the wrong subreddit. Edit: Try /r/SuicideWatch
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 04:00 AM
1

Open relationships rarely work out, because jealously will ultimately begin to fester in the cracks and crevices. Threesomes are for plates and women you don't care about - not LTRs.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 03:51 AM
7

Girls that have "all male friends" also despise / are despised by other women, either because they refuse to be co-opted by the herd mentality, or because their behavior would be seen as scandalous and shame-worthy to other women. Girls who are "one of the guys" are sort of like those pretty boys who act feminine but aren't gay and have huge success with girls. They thrive on the attention and validation and are able to work the system in their favor. Instead of standing back with the girl crowd…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 02:54 AM
2

I'd still prefer to explode mutants with my shotgun whilst hauling ass in my monster truck, pulling a harem full of sexy post-apocalyptic wenches.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 10:53 PM
2

This Video has some good pointers. Pay attention.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 10:43 PM
12

Always have your own rubbers / spermicidal lube when sex is happening. Don't trust a woman to supply birth control - you may get the 'I am on the pill' lie or rubbers with holes poked in them. Birth control is your responsibility - women can't be trusted with it.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 10:41 PM
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She could file a police report. But instead she carries around a mattress and cries "woe is me!". I wouldn't date this girl for money. Nor would I want to hire her if I were a company. The way she attention whores is a HUGE red flag.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 10:38 PM
10

Live how you want, just don't openly disagree with them and downplay their criticism of your choices. If you don't make a big deal out of it, then your family and close friends shouldn't either. Besides, what grandparents could say no to grandbabies? You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 10:22 PM
6

I can't fault this logic. This is why gorgeous girls are usually dumb as a box of rocks: they have the cheat code to life and they don't need to grow a personality. As far as equality, we (should be) equal under the law (divorce rape?). It's better to say "different but equal"(mostly).
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 10:20 PM
45

/r/RedPillWomen would be the place to post this, but welcome! I can't speak for you, but as a man, we here at TRP are discouraged from talking to friends / family about the ideas expressed here. The reason is that the views here, while truthful, are counter to popular culture. Instead, we opt to "Live TRP, but not speak it". That is, live how you want to live, but as long as you don't 'name' the beast, everybody can go on pretending it's not there. It's just not a good idea to throw it in people…
/r/askTRP03/09/14 10:07 PM
2

You are demonstrating to her that she has more value than your self-esteem. By going through the hassle of trying to control her, you are accidentally putting her pussy on a pedestal. It's called Scarcity Mentality - where your behavior and mindset indicate that your options are limited, so you cling to a woman. This makes you look desperate. What you need instead is Abundance Mentality - where you demonstrate that you have other options out there and you will next her if she displeases you. You…
/r/askTRP03/09/14 09:28 PM
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When this happens, you go by yourself or you find something else to do without her. Just because she can't go out doesn't mean you can't go out. After a few times of you going out solo, showing that you're having fun alone, she will be more keen to be included in the fun.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 09:13 PM
3

This is the best simplified answer. When you can hold firm and break somebody's frame causing them to adopt and enter yours, then you will have things your way. Although it's not technically correct, I also like to think of frame as being the thing which holds you up: strong frame = not easy to manipulate or rattle; weak frame: easily shaken and torn down.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 09:09 PM
1

Women want the best relationship possible. What's so hard to understand about that?
/r/askTRP03/09/14 08:45 PM
18

You have to ghost her and this is how: Delete and block her from your social media. Lose her number, her email, don't contact her and ignore all attempts she makes to contact you. Avoid places she hangs out, distance yourself from her friends / family etc. Treat it like a death. Tell yourself she was hit by a bus, died on impact, had a closed casket funeral and allow yourself to mourn for a few days, THEN MOVE ON. To quote Ving Rhames from Pulp Fiction: "I tell you what now between me and you. T…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 08:38 PM
4

Feels before reels! I forgot the feminist mantra! Forgive me! I shall repent and watch Thelma and Louise for penance.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 08:33 PM
2

Women have WILDLY different mating strategies. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment. We want sex, they want a commitment. A man's mating strategy is to have as much value as he possibly can to attract women. A woman's mating strategy is to select the best mate for herself and her potential offspring and get him to commit to a relationship.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 08:24 PM
6

If they make a man-free zone then we are entitled to as well, citing their 'equality' as an excuse.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 08:18 PM
19

Those of use who are married have to make the best of it and learn to be captains and make her the first mate. Is it easy? No it's work. But when kids are involved it really is the best way to do things when you learn to make the marriage work for you.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 06:42 PM
13

"Nah. I wasn't invited." Don't make a big deal out of it and your friends won't either. Whatever.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 06:33 PM
5

I second this. The way you KEEP a girl is by constantly giving her tingles and by always working on improving yourself and your situation. It's when she becomes your priority that you fuck up. You're worried about losing her to the point of spying on her. This will push a woman away because she realizes she's has more value than you do. Keep the value on your end and she will want to be with you. Read the sidebar material. Work on you.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 06:31 PM
7

She's going to frat parties without you. If she was a plate, then it's whatever. If you let a potential LTR do this, you are giving her an excuse to let her hamster her slut out of it's cage. Abundance mentality. Plate her or next her, but realize college will be over soon and you need to make the most out of it. So. Much. College. Ass out there. Go tap your share.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 06:28 PM
2

CORRECT! Learning the difference is the key. It's the scorpion and the frog fable.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 06:22 PM
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This is perfect. I hope it takes off and some enterprising men mirror it with a Men's-only social media site where we can exclude women. Let them have an apoplexy over that.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 06:21 PM
7

I want to believe! But seriously, this isn't likely going to happen unless we are smacked in the face with an apocalypse that sets the world back to Mad Max territory.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 06:18 PM
1

Be social. Get out and talk to people. Learn to make small talk and keep it flowing. This video has some really good insights and tips to having conversations.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 06:16 PM
2

And OF COURSE she doesn't attempt to call her boyfriend to come get her drunken ass out of that scary situation, nor does she try to call anybody else to help her. Probably because she was so filled with dread she forgot the fact she had a cell phone, and her fingers were probably too frozen with fear to dial or text anyway.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 06:11 PM
3

Totally agree. That chick is DUMB and should in no way be a representation of the female gender.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 05:38 PM
2

Always Be Closing. You stumbled when she threw the gates open for you. You gotta be on your toes and quicker than that next time. Live and learn.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 05:32 PM
3

Upvoted for the Happy Gilmore reference and the spot-on observation. Chubbs would be proud.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 05:31 PM
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You're getting ahead of yourself and reading more into it than there is. A person's relationship to God is sacred and personal, and believe it or not, it is possible to be religious and open-minded. But again, you are veering off topic. That has nothing to do with 'What are some major flaws in TRP?'. It sounds to me like you just want to argue, and to that, I say state your points of contention and be clear about your questions.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 05:28 PM
2

Scammed out of 20K? Shit. That makes ME want to put on a wig and get in on some of that action! It's getting difficult for me to find the pity for guys like this anymore.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 05:24 PM
1

Also, because of slut shaming, most girls won't even show interest in the presence of their friends. You should still go for the number, however, and she might be down to hook up later when she's alone.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 04:48 PM
3

Atheism or religion have nothing to do with TRP. It's like arguing over which brand of toothpaste your favorite supermodel uses. Stick to the topic. Religious people can be logical, and not all atheists make logical arguments. TRP applies to men and women. Religion or lack thereof has no bearing on it's success.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 04:45 PM
1

Be friends with guys who share your interests - including women. They can be your wingman when you go out, they can teach you how to get good with local ladies and they can show you good spots to get dates.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 04:41 PM
1

When you talk to people, don't just make it about you - LISTEN to what people say and keep them talking. This is a good video on having conversation like a man and it gives very good advice on being social.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 04:39 PM
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Purging the toxins comes with realizing that women aren't BAD. They're just DIFFERENT. They don't intentionally set out to ruin a man, it happens when you don't understand how they operate, and you follow the false path that society has paved for us.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 04:37 PM
1

There are a lot of women slutting around out there, and while some of them are chronic cock-riders, most are not - they just don't have any attractive offers to keep them interested. If you demonstrate enough value and give them tingles, women will want to be with you. They will drop their plates and choose to be with you. Then it's up to you to keep the tingles coming and keep their interest up so she doesn't entertain the thought of branch swinging to greener pastures. Tinder and other social …
/r/askTRP03/09/14 04:35 PM
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Being Redpill doesn't mean being a dick. Think of the captain / first mate dynamic: sure, the captain can be an asshole to the first mate, but that wouldn't be optimal. Instead of bullying, the captain should lead by example and do what is best for the relationship, by guiding and making sure the first mate is happy to do her share. Learn how to get a woman to do things. Instead of saying "Honey, I need you to go to the store today and do some laundry" you say "What do you want to do first today…
/r/askTRP03/09/14 04:27 PM
2

You get their phone number. You meet them for a beer. You talk to them and see if they have any interests the same as you. Do you seriously not know how to make friends? TALK TO PEOPLE - men AND women. They probably see you as a pervert who only talks to women. It could be a cultural issue, and you won't know unless you make friends with them and understand their culture. If you're living abroad it's in your best interests to try and fit in.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 04:06 PM
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If that is how she operates, then I reluctantly agree that you should talk to a lawyer first. Do this on the down-low and don't give her any indication you are seeing one. Don't take their business card and don't tell anybody else about it either. Once you feel you have the information you need to reasonably protect yourself and ease your mind, THEN you talk to her and let her know you're prepared to sever. Gaslighting is THE WORST manipulation a person can use, and you have to stick to your gun…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 04:03 PM
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Yes. You are arrogant. That is not a bad thing in itself, but it does alienate you from others and it is an invisible shield that makes others not want to get to know you. If you want to be accepted socially, then you must accept others first.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 03:59 PM
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She doesn't want to get off the carousel. You are not a compelling enough reason for her to holster all the cocks she's getting from Tinder. Step back and look at her, then look at yourself. Is she really the catch you think she is? Why do you feel the least bit invested in her when she clearly has no investment in you? Sounds to me like you are too easily duped into oneitis - as many men are. The best cure for this is to have abundance mentality. Realize there are billions of women and millions…
/r/askTRP03/09/14 03:57 PM
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You sound like you need to make friends. Having a core group of male friends will ensure that you are seen as likable. As a lone wolf, you are seen as a threat to everybody's women - a peacock that is trying to draw attention to himself. Get some friends. If you are seen as somebody who's likable to men and women, you won't be seen as a bad guy. Also, having more guy friends will give you some security in case you ever need backup or advice.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 03:49 PM
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Before jumping to the lawyer, I'd give her a chance to explain herself and hopefully you have enough self-respect to be able to recognize a sinking ship and save yourself if that is in fact the case. She may just be attention seeking and giving her a chance to try and justify herself may shed some light on what's going on in her head. A marriage with a child involved is a lot more intricate and messy than a simple LTR. Sure, it's worth fighting for - to a degree, but you don't want to be the guy…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 03:44 PM
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The tenets of TRP are solid, providing that you can accept them: Be the best version of yourself that you can be. Put yourself first and you will be happier. Exercise your body and your mind. Don't let others take advantage of you. Question everything with your inherent male logic. Realize that women have their own mating strategies that are very different from a man's. Understand the laws of attraction and use them to your benefit. Accept that attraction can't be bargained or negotiated. Hold f…
/r/askTRP03/09/14 03:38 PM
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If you don't provide your woman with tingles, she will seek them out somewhere else. Are you guys fucking on the regular? If not, is it because you don't initiate or because she makes excuses? What other dynamics are coming into play? Sounds like there's a lot you're leaving out. For better answers to your questions, you should provide more info. Edit: If you don't want to give too much info, then the short answer is you need to sit down with her, tell her what you know and find out what she's n…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 03:28 PM
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At least you are being realistic about her. Sure, you could find another girl whom you think is more emotionally stable with a less-freaky sexual past, but at least you've witnessed your girl's sexual escapades and are familiar with them. "Better the devil you know than the devil you don't". What's more, this girl has seen firsthand your rise in SMV. She was there for the ride and she respects you for it - enough that she is willing to accommodate your needs. In my book, loyalty goes a long way,…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 07:20 AM
1

Then you treat it like it's no big deal and they will too. Unless you're in an isolated town with a population of 1000, there's no excuse to not go out and meet new women.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 07:08 AM
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I wouldn't risk it, personally. When dealing with women sexually you need to weigh the risk / reward ratios. There are other factors that an attached woman brings vs. unattached: If she regrets it or is using you for jealousy, her man could find out about it and you can bet all liability will be directed toward you. She was feeling weak and you took advantage of her! If word gets out, you don't want to be the guy that can't be trusted around anybody's wife / GF / sister / mother. Should this tur…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 07:02 AM
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It's a good thing there are billions of women out there and millions of them are worthy of a LTR, right? She is emotionally manipulative and you don't need that. Adopt an abundance mentality and make the breakup official and PERMANENT so you can experience the many women out there who are better options than her (literally MILLIONS).
/r/askTRP03/09/14 06:51 AM
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Women like the dominant men who can have any woman they set their sights on. So when they get those men, they go to work right away on clipping their wings so they don't fly out of the nest. Then, once they have 'tamed' them and made them into castrated betas, they lose interest in them and look for more 'alpha' men - just like you used to be before she gentled you. Don't let this happen to you. Stick to your guns, let her know that you love her and choose to be with her. Don't give in to her at…
/r/askTRP03/09/14 06:45 AM
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Check your head. You want her to see your 'transformation' in the hopes that she will desire you, and then you can diss her or try to game her. You're doing it wrong, friend. NEVER base your happiness on a woman, because you will end up unhappy every. fucking. time. Also, you should never make women your motivation because again, you will end up disappointed by them when you put them on a pedestal. You should seek to better yourself for you, and when your value and confidence are high enough, wo…
/r/askTRP03/09/14 06:33 AM
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I was sarcastically directed here after making a funny remark on a relationship post where the poster was clearly looking for some "you go girls!". This was my kind of place and the truths here were indisputable.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 06:20 AM
1

As a married man I can tell you these shit tests are her way of asserting dominance over you. Once you comply to her wishes in an attempt to placate her, you lower yourself in her eyes and she will make a play for more control. Just hold the course. If you want to go out with your buds, then DO it. Don't ask permission, just state that you are going, kiss her or smack her ass and tell her you'll be back later. Don't let her blow up your phone or argue through text, and maintain frame and don't p…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 05:55 AM
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...because she's an unsufferable harpy who kills boners and no man wants to commit to her. So instead of, you know, working on herself, she decides to bash those who have settled down in marriage.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 05:42 AM
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It could also be surmised that the hacker only sought the nudes of women whom he was particularly interested in. He must have known that his window of opportunity would be short and he would only have one chance, so armed with his short personal list of faves, he went to work and brought forth The Fappening.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 05:35 AM
1

Correct. Because we are told we need to find the one out there and that she is worth it and will bring meaning to our lives. We should spend all of our energy and waking moments thinking about her and save up three month's salary on her ring and years planning and saving for her special wedding day. And if the marriage doesn't last, well it was either because we were bad husbands or it just wasn't meant to be.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 05:17 AM
1

I was in a similar boat - I was very beta in high school: had lots of female friends, never dated etc. What got me out of my shell in my late teens was that I was just tired of being the guy that went home alone at the end of the night. Things turned around when I decided to not give a fuck. What I realized was that when I approached a woman I didn't know, I could act like whatever I wanted because I was a stranger to her and I would never see her again afterward, therefore I didn't put any pres…
/r/askTRP03/09/14 03:51 AM
2

Yes. With my wife I told her straight up after her persistence: "I'm not going to tell you because that information will do you no good - you'll just dwell on it. All other women before were just practice leading up to you." and I left it at that.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 03:41 AM
2

Sluts are fine to have fun with, they just aren't good options for LTR and should be passed over for women who show more value and less risk.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 03:38 AM
0

Threesomes will RUIN relationships. Women are too jealous and they cannot handle the competition. What if it was a threesome where your GF fucked you and another man? Same thing - you would be jealous and not like it at all. Threesomes are for girls you don't care about - not LTR.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 03:33 AM
1

Women dye their hair so much you shouldn't even notice it enough for it to be a problem.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 03:29 AM
2

Women listen and mentally record everything. My wife doesn't know my partner count because she would dwell on it, and in some future argument she would use it as ammunition and throw it in my face. That particular piece of information adds zero value to your relationship and most likely she will just hamster on it.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 03:27 AM
1

She is GASLIGHTING you, bro! My wife tried that shit for YEARS, saying I was a sex addict because I looked at porn now and then, trying to make me feel like shit and putting it all on me. This is a MAJOR shit test. As a man, you need to maintain frame. Some women will not tolerate it and they will threaten to walk when they realize you insist on being the captain of the relationship, and good riddance imo. Maintaining frame is key. Once you let the woman dictate the relationship, through shaming…
/r/askTRP03/09/14 03:19 AM
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The same reason a lot of girls need male attention: we are taught that if we aren't in a relationship, there's something wrong with us and being single is seen by some people as a curse. It's the idea that your self-worth is based on the validation of others - which is bullshit.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 03:00 AM
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Most women have shitty taste in music, period. Case in point: how many times have you asked a woman what her favorite music / bands were and gotten the following responses: "I like everything!" or "I like all types of music!" Most women like whatever music they can shake their ass to, or what their friends tell them is good. If the hive mind approves it, it's in their ipod.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 02:58 AM
1

Note to all engaged guys: it's always a good idea to get your butthole pleasures from pregnant employees before the wedding. This public service announcement has been brought to you by Brawndo: It's what bodies crave!
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 01:29 AM
2

That's why when you kiss a chick, you should always be rubbing her love button. If there's a pad blocking your hand, then simply reach in, pull it out and stick it on the nearest window, then continue.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 01:26 AM
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"This guy I just met asked me out for a drink. What should I tell him?" "Tell him you're going to be too exhausted from all the dirty things I'm going to make you do later."
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 01:25 AM
1

Don't over-think things. Just start with the first step: going out and socializing. Your chances are zero if you don't get out and talk to people. Make a game out of it. Talk to people in checkout lines, at gas stations, browsing in a store - just force yourself to strike up conversations. This will get you comfortable with approaching people and it will teach you to relax and eventually you will have fun with the conversations. Do you need to 'manipulate or seduce' women? No. In fact, it's alwa…
/r/askTRP01/09/14 09:03 AM
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TRUST ME. I'm clicking on them and abusing myself a whole lot more! Giggity!
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 08:38 AM
2

A shit test is a situation that is meant to throw you off balance, make you defensive or rattle your frame. Guys can shit test other guys ("Dude, when was the last time you got laid? Haha!") but women are the real kung-fu masters. Sometimes women will use it as a way to flirt with you, sometimes they will use it to test your strength of character (also called a 'fit test') and sometimes they will use it like a bludgeon to try and bash you into submission. Shit tests are the primary weapons of wo…
/r/askTRP01/09/14 03:57 AM
2

You no longer give her the tingles, so she is getting her tingles somewhere else. When a chick is into you, she will move her schedule around to spend as much time with you as possible. The dread game scenario might work, but if it doesn't then consider other dating options.
/r/askTRP01/09/14 03:42 AM
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Get her to buy you a car with cash, then break up with her. But seriously, you have been sticking your dick in crazy and you're lucky it hasn't rotted off yet. Break up with her and go no-contact and get an STD full panel workup on yourself STAT! You can't "save" people, especially women who crave that dark dirty underworld. Sure, when she is too old or used up to do it anymore, she will paint herself as a victim of circumstance, but the truth is that's where she wants to be. You can't make a ho…
/r/askTRP01/09/14 03:38 AM
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Women are the gatekeepers of sex, but men are the gatekeepers of the relationship. If you're not getting what you want, then you set your terms and you WALK if they are not being met. Scarcity mentality is fiercely holding on to a woman because you feel like she's the one, or that your options are limited and she's the best you can get. By acting like this you put the pussy on a pedestal and allow her to get away with way more shit than you should. Abundance mentality is always treating a woman …
/r/askTRP01/09/14 03:27 AM
1

My safe word is Raajvegnazdulanianzhgebergenratzenschpleggenschoupenhauersmegmateliavolbenheibenabananawexelpexeloobeneebenaben.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 09:16 PM
2

NO, DAMMIT! You're supposed to STAY THERE! Why do you think we put you on that island?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 10:53 AM
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A lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets. That is the ideal woman that most men want. If you take care of your man, nobody else has to.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/14 09:37 AM
3

Otherwise, you would have no idea she was fucking around on you. What I am wondering is why you would still put up with her. No pussy is worth your self-respect.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 08:28 AM
2

Get in good with the mom and the rest is cake. Amateurs.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 08:20 AM
12

If you prefer women's friendship over men's, then you need new male friends.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 08:13 AM
0

Women are the gatekeepers for sex, but men are the gatekeepers for relationships. That being said, as a man, your significant other will only act as bad as you allow her to act. You have the power to praise and encourage her good behaviors and punish and condemn her shitty behavior. And if it comes down to it, you can decide not to be with her. You cannot force your GF to do anything without her feeling resentful, and that's understandable. However, what you can do is give her options and conseq…
/r/askTRP31/08/14 07:57 AM
1

Read the sidebar: that is the best advice, but since most people don't and I'm feeling generous, I'm going to help a brother out. First, you are coming across as clingy and needy with scarce mentality - that is, your mindset is that your options are limited so you come off as desperate. Women who are looking to have fun will avoid guys who want to pin them down, and will always go with the more laid-back, confident guys. Instead, you should be demonstrating abundance mentality - that is, letting…
/r/askTRP31/08/14 07:24 AM
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When you give a woman good tingles, she will move mountains to find time to meet up with you again. Even if she was kind of interested, she would have at least insisted on another date. I have to agree with the other guys here that you were simply not a priority for her. Good thing there are billions of women on the planet, and millions of them are beautiful, right?
/r/askTRP31/08/14 06:31 AM
8

i had several girls i was seeing at the time, but we both decided to become exclusive. there was one other guy who was showing interest in her but she ditched him to be with me, but this guy still hovered around trying to ask her out and shit, which i was aware of, i was also aware that they did try to sleep together around the time i was still sleeping with other girls WRONG! You decided to become exclusive - she is still seeing people. do i give this girl an ultimatium and tell her shes not go…
/r/askTRP31/08/14 06:25 AM
5

With a ladder. But seriously, you should always work on the things you can improve and not worry about the things you cannot control.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 04:56 AM
1

Good for you. At least you're pointing them toward solid advice and not telling them to "just be yourself!" or some other bullshit.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 04:30 AM
1

Why would you pursue such a disrespectful little cunt? I don't care how hot a girl is - if her attitude is shitty and her personality sucks, it's a total boner killer. Chasing women like that also shows you don't value yourself very much - why would you settle for that? You can do better - she's not the prize you think she is.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 04:19 AM
1

There is no such thing as a 'Long Distance Relationship'. If she is a current GF that just happens to be out of town right now, then it's whatever. Just laugh at her and clown on her for smoking herself stupid. HOWEVER, if this is a girl that lives far from you, then you really need to drop her and focus on more worthwhile (closer) girls. The reason for this is that as a man, you get NOTHING out of a LTR - men need sex, companionship and the peace of mind that his woman isn't fucking around on h…
/r/askTRP31/08/14 04:10 AM
2

Married man here. Yes, marriage is work, and if you've let the ship hit the rocks (like I have before) then getting the ship seaworthy again is a SHIT-TON of work. Everybody's situation is unique, but for me, I decided to reclaim my place as the captain and with the help of TRP principles I am now much happier than I have been in a long time. For me, fixing my marriage was a good move, but I can't offer advice to you unless you give some specifics on your situation or ask specific questions. Als…
/r/askTRP31/08/14 03:57 AM
2

Branch swinging is always a possibility in any relationship. Nothing is permanent and unconditional - especially love.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 03:43 AM
0

TRP teaches us not to expect anything from women, but instead helps shed some light on their mating strategies and motivations. "Beta Bux" are men who women 'settle' for to gain relationship security. They are not necessarily the most attractive or valuable in her eyes, but as options dry up, they are often the best remaining choice for a relationship. As men, we cannot control what a woman does, but we can control whether or not we choose to have a relationship with them, and we can reward good…
/r/askTRP31/08/14 03:29 AM
1

BUT ONLY as long as you treat her like shit! You have let the genie out of the bottle with this one, and you are going to be under pressure to escalate with her as time goes on to keep her spinning. You brought your inner asshole out to play and THAT'S who she got all sloppy hot for, so that's who she's gonna want to see. If it were me I would be SO looking forward to pushing the envelope every time I saw her!
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 07:37 AM
4

Dude. That's third-person mode. Press R2 while holding the Select button to change camera angles. Also, don't forget to save your progress.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 07:01 AM
6

Make the friendzone work for you by using these time-honored phrases that are usually said by women to men: "Haha you're cute! You kind of remind me of my little sister's friends!" "Awww you're such a nice girl" "Some day you'll make some lucky guy very happy!" "I can't go out with you - you're too good a friend." "That's so sweet, but I don't want to ruin our friendship - let's just be friends!"
/r/askTRP30/08/14 06:54 AM
1

Sometimes you just have to man up and do what you gotta do.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 06:41 AM
1

Definitely get a leather jacket. One with lots of zippers and buttons on it. Also, a belt buckle in the shape of a skull or brass knuckles works. For a shirt, I'd go with a renaissance-style ruffled shirt that shows off a bit of the chest hair. Pants should be jeans, or business slacks if it's a professional work environment. Also, nothing says 'Large and In Charge' like a neck tattoo - you can even get one that says "Large and In Charge" but I wouldn't recommend it. Maybe just a tat of the devi…
/r/askTRP29/08/14 06:11 AM
1

You can't negotiate attraction. If you're disgusted by the idea of being with a non-virgin then good luck finding one and I hope it works out for you. We all have our own preferences, ideals and deal-breakers. Hopefully you will find happiness. If not, come by and visit us after you crash and burn.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 06:03 AM
8

Before I deleted Facebook I actually Un friended my wife for criticizing comments I made to my old school mates whom she had never met (dudes). I wasn't going to be policed by her on my own account so I dropped her.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 11:51 PM
1

He has put up with so much shit for so long that his marriage is his own personal cross to bear. He sees it as his duty and his obligation, and he probably has a bit of Stockholm Syndrome too. I have seen this A LOT - people clinging to shitty relationships because it has become this thing that takes up all their strength, willpower and energy just to keep it on the rails. They fought so hard for it, for so long that to simply walk away and give up on it would be to admit defeat in front of ever…
/r/askTRP28/08/14 03:13 PM
1

FUCK THAT. Seriously, I have a huge problem with women that have a need to invade bro time. You all know what I'm talking about: when she's there, you have to police yourselves. You can't have any real talk that might offend her, you can't joke around with your bros or just fucking relax and be yourselves because "oh noez we might offend teh womanz!". And as soon as she's gone, the guts are let out, the shit talk commences and you can all go back to talking about the sluts you want to smash on. …
/r/askTRP28/08/14 02:59 PM
2

You really are gimping yourself over text. Tingles are so much easier to achieve and maintain in person. When you text, you're just one of several guys in her message box, but when you're in person, her focus can be on you. Not only that, but subtle word play, innuendo and sly jokes are easy to miss or misread through text, so you limit your effectiveness all the way around. I agree with /u/tombreck2 : Texting should be logistics only. "When are you free" and "Meet for drinks at X at 8pm". Also,…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 12:47 AM
1

I have heard about how Japanese girls behave from a friend that spent some time there. Japanese girls are very warm, friendly, open and curious. They do smile and giggle a lot and show their excitement readily, but that's just how their society is. My friend said that he would go out clubbing with his Japanese friends and he would be mobbed by cute girls giggling over him and wanting to know all about him. He thought he was going to get his dick worshiped like a king, but after being shot down s…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 12:42 AM
1

HAHAHAHA nice. I don't care if it is a bot without the sentience to realize it's being trolled. That is fucking hillarious!
/r/askTRP27/08/14 12:25 AM
1

Some women get POWER out of it. They learn early that the thing between their legs can entice all sorts of hungry men out there into lavishing them with attention and 'love'. Not all - although most women - have used sex as a bargaining tool in a relationship or even a hookup to get what they want in return. Sex is a commodity which they control the supply of. And for them it can be lucrative. This doesn't mean they fuck for money, but they certainly fuck for their career, for their social statu…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 12:18 AM
1

That's just it. You will never know if she does unless she wants you to. So we can only assume that she hasn't.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 11:55 PM
4

I concur. We really can't give informed advice without access to this particular photo. It really makes or breaks the outcome of your query.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 11:46 PM
1

That you know of. :D
/r/askTRP26/08/14 11:38 PM
2

Damn. I was gonna suggest finger-blasting her in Space Mountain :(
/r/askTRP25/08/14 07:56 AM
1

hey bb u wan sum fuk?
/r/askTRP20/08/14 10:11 PM
1

Whenever women become the driving force of your motivations, you are fucked. The great thing about being a man is that we can be self-sufficient. It's time to ghost her and relearn this about yourself. Stop messaging her, block her from your social media and ignore her attempts to contact you. Whenever you feel yourself chasing a woman, realize you're doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 07:51 PM
2

Women date up, not sideways or down. Women branch swing and find excuses to leave men who they perceive as lower SMV than themselves. Dread works because it presents the possibility that she might not be good enough for you in subtle but undeniable ways. However, if she has any brains in her head and has a rough estimate of her own SMV, she will not only not take your dread seriously, but will view you as inferior if your dread involves a less-attractive woman. Don't flirt with less attractive w…
/r/askTRP19/08/14 03:25 PM
3

This Video has some very cool nuggets of information in it. Watch it, let it soak in and start applying it today.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 03:20 PM
2

14 years of marital bliss. They have been blissful because of some liberal sprinklings of dread crumbs (haha!).
/r/askTRP19/08/14 10:01 AM
2

A googly-eyed gargling gaggle of grievously ungoldy sluts.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 08:04 AM
1

Wouldn't that have negative impact on the situation by having him give in like that? The problem is her insecurity, not the fact that he added her friends to FB. I realize that there are times when it's best to give in, but I'm not sure that I agree this is one of them. To me this could be the precedent that might set the tone for her expecting him to cater to her future insecurities. This also gives her influence over his social media, and what if those cracks spread into other areas of his per…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 11:39 PM
1

By having fun and rising above it. Not letting it show that it bothers you. When a guy does this to you, the best thing to do is to have fun with it or make them look like a complete ass. The only thing limiting you is your creativity. "You look like a little bitch!" If this happens in a large social setting and you're being called out in front of others, instead of throwing it back at them or getting defensive, you make them repeat it. "What did you say?" And they will. And then you call them o…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 11:02 PM
11

You need to get her to suck your dick - even if it's a half-assed attempt that does little for you, and when she's done you need to give her a kiss, look her in the eye and give her a huge grin and say "Thanks hon, you're the BEST! I'm so glad you take care of my sexual needs - it means that I'll never have to look elsewhere." Boom. Shots fired. Then next time she attempts it, you compliment her, tell her how fucking amazing it feels and how much you love it when she does that. Reward her effort…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 10:28 PM
1

With guys, you just don't let them treat you like a little bitch. You pretty much treat it the same way - you hold frame and rise above their petty shit. You always need to be the bigger man when guys start talking shit or testing your mettle. This lets them know that teasing doesn't bother you, talking shit doesn't rattle you and that if you are challenged you won't roll over and submit.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 09:41 PM
2

The posts themselves can become a bit convoluted, but even then, the comments usually contain some RP knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 07:59 AM
58

Bravo! Your post was a good example of how to hold your frame as a man.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 07:45 AM
2

By not making a big deal out of it. Have fun with it. Treat it as a game and try to beat your own high score. You see a girl that's too hot to approach? First, don't think that way. She has way more self-esteem issues, social pressure and internal chaos than you can imagine as a male. She's just human, like you - she shits, bleeds and has hopes, dreams and areas in her life she could use improvement - just like the rest of us. And she doesn't know you. You're a stranger to her - a blank slate, s…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 07:18 AM
3

Being here is a HUGE step in the right direction. Go to TheRedPill, soak up the sidebar material and keep your eyes and ears open around school. You will see examples all around you when clarity hits you. Lift and exercise. You're young. Getting into shape and staying in shape will be easy for you if you start now. Women respond to physical power and muscles drop panties. Your friends are a reflection of yourself - guilt by association. Hang around guys that add value to your life and who's goal…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 06:16 AM
1

A 'shit test' by definition is anything that throws you off balance or puts you on the defensive, or makes you feel like you have to explain or apologize for yourself. Sometimes they are pinpricks that can wear you down over time, sometimes it's done in a flirting manner and sometmes it's a hammer between the eyes. Women measure your worth as a man by how you handle these shit tests because women date up - not sideways or down. What this means is that they want a man who can maintain a superior …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 05:19 AM
1

Damn! Don't be such a shit lord! It takes WAAAAY more effort than that! They have to ace bandage their tits down, not wear makeup, get mannish haircuts and let their armpit hair flow! Oh, and they also have to walk like they are part of Puff Daddy's crew and lower that voice an octave or two. Clearly you have no snappy comeback now, since they are clearly the same as men once the whole thing is done up right!
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 04:48 AM
-4

YEA! One inch of balls and one inch of mushroom tip! Man, I feel sorry for you and your single little inch! No pork-sword swashbuckling for you!
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 04:41 AM
1

Dude. Stroke of genius with the cookie idea! ♂
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 04:25 AM
2

The quickest way to kill a ladyboner is to unload your problems on a woman, even one who professes to offer you a 'shoulder to cry on'. Women like to see men as their rock - the solid piece of wind-sculpted granite that can shrug off the minor problems of the world and withstand their battering waves of shit-storms. Get a routine together, whether it's exercise or hiking or a hobby. Something you can look forward to that will allow you the space to reflect and decompress.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 04:15 AM
7

'Being Alpha' doesn't happen by saying or doing the right thing. It comes from putting yourself first, realizing that your value is higher than theirs and improving yourself (working out, career advancement etc). As you improve yourself, you'll see the benefits and your confidence will improve. As your confidence improves your perceived value will go up in women's eyes. You will be seen as a confident, driven person who knows what he wants and would be fun to be around. Alphas are busy improving…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 03:53 AM
1

Win the lottery! Throw yourself in front of a Maybach or Rolls Royce and hope it's not a rental. Or you can work for it. Up to you.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 03:35 AM
3

Pro tip: blood is a poor substitute for lube during anal. Just FYI.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 09:39 AM
8

Pickle wrapped in a tube sock, don't fail me now!
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 08:30 AM
-6

Maybe they thought they could score some weed off of you. Did weed come up at all in the conversation? You know, marijuana? cannabis? pot? dope? smoke? bud? dank? sticky icky? grandma's glaucoma medicine?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 08:28 AM
4

Trust me. You don't wish that. Don't EVER wish that!
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 08:22 AM
2

Ha! That's how I usually end my replies! Also I agree with your advice. Best of luck. :P
/r/askTRP16/08/14 11:55 PM
1

There is no such thing as a long distance relationship. If you cannot be physically present to ensure her needs are met, she will find somebody to fill them. You are trusting her not to have tingles for any of the many many exotic foreign men she will be studying with, and that is just not realistic. Her going abroad to study is your out. You need to break it with Ashley and hook up with Erica or any other girl you are attracted to. It's not healthy to worry about what she's doing and she won't …
/r/askTRP16/08/14 11:52 PM
8

A shit test is anything that puts you on the spot. It's anything that rattles you and makes you feel like you need to explain or defend yourself. Women like to test and prod us, looking for chinks in our armor. They are constantly trying to shift or pull us off balance. Sometimes it's a little poke and sometimes its a 2x4 to the back of the head. As men, we are judged by how well we handle ourselves under their assault - it's trial by fire and it's never ending.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 11:39 PM
8

Ouch. She might as well put the gun to your head and pull the trigger when she says this.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 11:37 PM
1

You have unhealthy oneitis. What you need is to give her a proper burial and let her go. Delete her number, her contact info and remove and block her from social media. Do not contact her. Do not respond to her attempts to contact you. You need to treat her like she got hit by a bus, died on impact and had a closed casket funeral. Give yourself a week to mourn her loss and move the fuck on. She is your kryptonite and you are poisoning yourself. Once you quit her cold turkey and get over her, you…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 11:25 PM
1

Here's the thing: We are born alone and we die alone. Nobody is looking out for us except ourselves. Nobody should love you more than you love yourself, except maybe your mother, but there are shitty moms out there. First, you need to love and respect yourself. If you want the love of a good woman you need to show value. You show them value by having self-respect, discipline and confidence. Improve your life in the little ways that you can here and there. Stay away from the bottle and the other …
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 10:56 PM
2

She is a wily one. She got you with the rope-a-dope. The answer was there all along: The next time she starts piling work up on you, use amused mastery and tell her she can handle it just fine. She will try to leave it there for you. Just hold frame, smirk and tease a little bit. Tell her you're busy doing man things. Still do your share. Just not her share too.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 10:39 PM
4

Men should never be friends with a woman unless the following criteria are all met: You are not sexually attracted to her AT ALL. Not even when partying. She actually adds or contributes in some way that benefits you and doesn't expect anything from you. She keeps her drama and crazy to a minimum and doesn't drag you down. Unless you happen to find that trifecta, you shouldn't even bother with women as friends unless they just happen to be friends by proxy through somebody you know.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 10:33 PM
2

Realize it for what it was: a failed relationship. Giving an ex another go is never productive. This is like moving backwards when you should be moving forward - you cannot drive a car if you only look in the rear view mirror. Understand what you did wrong and take your lessons from this. There are prettier women out there with better personalities and fewer issues. You have nothing to prove to yourself or to her. Good luck.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 10:24 PM
2

If they are saying something positive, then yell "That's right! And I have giant brass balls!" If it's negative, yell "That's right! And I have giant brass balls!"
/r/askTRP16/08/14 10:16 PM
1

I'm all for this. If this catches on I can't wait to see the mad scramble for surrogate babydaddies in the next few decades. I'm gonna pull up a chair and sit down with my beer and popcorn amid the harpy shrieks of "Where have all the good dads gone?!"
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 06:24 PM
1

Because we are men and we shouldn't need to be coddled after we reach adolescence. Nor should we need women to validate us, make us feel good and kiss all our boo-boos. Such a system would do more harm than good.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 01:37 PM
0

The bitter taste from women is probably from poorly washing the vagina. But seriously, it's from the fact that you now know that everything you've been taught - especially by women on how to act as a man, has been complete horse shit.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 10:42 PM
1

You need to be up front with your expectations and let her know that you're a man with options and she can either see to your needs or walk. This is how I'd put it to her: "Listen, I like you and you're a really nice girl, but I'm a very intimate person and physical intimacy is a big part of how I show my affection. Every time I try to get intimate with you, you shut down. I don't think we're very compatible." That will let her know that she is the one lacking and not meeting your needs. It will…
/r/askTRP14/08/14 05:38 PM
8

Instead of looking at the few female engineers who work their asses off and succeed because they earn their place there, they focus on the women that become unhaaaappy when they realize it's too hard. So lets dumb it all down for the average Strong Independent Woman™ and pray to hell that our planes still fly, our machines operate correctly and our buildings don't collapse.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 05:20 PM
5

I feel really bad for you. You're basically a lit match in a fireworks factory - one wrong move and KABOOM! That being said, you can navigate your new work environment successfully, but it will be a constant battle - both internally and with female office politics. I have worked in similar offices and I made my share of mistakes before figuring out the dangers and avoiding the pitfalls. Here are some steaming nuggets of advice I would offer you: Women can and will turn ANYTHING you say or do int…
/r/askTRP14/08/14 05:04 PM
3

Gotcha. Oh, your sis in law notices, but doesn't care. She knows petty jealousy when she sees it. You could just invalidate your SO's jealousy by pointing out how childish she is. Also, I like the idea of pointing out her own weight whenever she makes a fat reference. Let her know you're not okay with ending up with a land whale, and she could be just as sexy as the sis in law if she worked on herself a little bit more.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 04:05 PM
41

Somebody please re-blog this by switching all references of gender from women to men. Post it somewhere the feminazis will see it. Double standards are a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 03:53 PM
115

wee wee croissant grey poupon champaigne cirque du soleil
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 03:49 PM
9

I agree with this. As a married man, this is how to get things done with a live-in SO. However, realize that once you open this Pandora's Box, you can't just stop and go back to normal when their visit is over. As soon as the door closes behind the in-laws, you are in for a shit-test marathon, so you had better strap in for the ride and hold your frame like a fucking man. Hell, if she's a big enough bitch, your SO might not even wait until they are gone. Dread works wonders, but only if you comm…
/r/askTRP14/08/14 03:41 PM
3

Are there lying, cheating whores out there? Absolutely. Are all women devious and conniving? No. There's a difference between knowing there's the possibility that your relationship will end, and worrying about it until it crumbles. It's like a self-fulfilling prophecy - if you have it in your mind that things will end horribly, and you carry on like that's the case - well guess what - that's exactly how things will play out for you. Instead of worrying, keep it in the back of your mind that life…
/r/askTRP14/08/14 03:18 PM
2

She's using plausible deniability. She may want sex, and sex may happen, but she isn't going to outright say she wants it. That way, she leaves herself an 'out' so she can throw up some Last Minute Resistance or possibly even back out at the last minute because that 'wasn't what she intended'. This is why women never come out and say what they want, and it's so refreshing when they actually tell you what the fuck is going on in their heads, which is almost never. As stated before, ignore her wor…
/r/askTRP14/08/14 08:59 AM
1

I haven't had any young girls since I sold the ice cream truck. :(
/r/askTRP14/08/14 08:15 AM
23

She should be sitting on your face. Your face should look like a glazed donut when she's done with you. Best of luck!
/r/askTRP14/08/14 03:15 AM
1

Giggity! Oh... nevermind. I feel dirty now.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 09:05 AM
1

Life doesn't care about plans. It's good to have a general direction to head to, but you never know where you're going to end up, or who you're going to end up with. Just be aware that whatever plans we make are only lines scratched in the dirt during a windstorm. Sometimes the lines stick, and sometimes they get obliterated. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 07:07 AM
2

Girls on Tinder are going to be the lowest common denominator. You will see women being their worst entitled selves. There is an OCEAN of cock available to them, and they just want to dive in, swim and gargle the salty water. Don't take anything a Tinder girl says seriously.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 06:51 AM
0

"Hmmmm... Whatever should I do?.... it would surely be a waste if this vexed plate of mine were to drop! Aha! By Jove! I think I've got it! Yes! Yessss! I shall cut a sprig of some particularly beautiful vegetation and have it sent to her forthwith! Ohhh I am good! My dastardly plan will surely make her succumb to my manly charms!"
/r/askTRP13/08/14 06:41 AM
1

Being a man means using your rational mind to make hard choices, sticking to your guns and seeing things through and knowing when to walk away from a bad situation. You did the right thing and we're all proud of you. Don't worry about the love you lost - YOU should be your first love. She was looking out for number one and you should too. Take your lumps, learn your lesson and move on. Good job and best of luck.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 06:20 AM
7

Be careful though. Often when a woman seems too good to be true, she is. This could be her trying to hide some serious crazy from you too. It could be that she just likes you, but it could be that she's tiptoeing around, trying not to let her crazy scare you away.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 06:11 AM
4

Confident and desperate are two completely different things. Let me know how that works out for you.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 06:08 AM
2

This is the wrong subreddit. You need to tell him to check out /r/Stopbeingaparanoidfreak
/r/askTRP13/08/14 06:06 AM
3

A similar post came up a while ago and there was some solid advice given, so I'll relay what I can remember: Don't fuck them. Treat them as you would treat little sisters or guy friends, for the reasons already posted by others. Don't hit on their friends either. NO good will come of this. Set the boundaries and enforce them. When you finally meet up together, have a friendly talk about what they expect in a room mate and then tell them what you expect. Don't be afraid to disagree or call bullsh…
/r/askTRP11/08/14 10:08 PM
1

You can't do anything but beg and plead with mom and support dad. My mother not only got us kids in the custody, she took my dad to court numerous times to raise his child support and tapped into his retirement. I would point out how facetious and childish she's being by sucking him dry just to prove a point. Tell her it makes her look like the bad guy and you are disgusted by her behavior. Divorce can be civil, but it seldom is.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 09:35 PM
2

Word. Bullies and women will often mistake kindness for weakness.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 09:26 PM
4

"Hey honey, can I talk to you about something? OK... here we go: Your pussy smells bad. Like REALLY bad. Like a school of mackerel beached at low tide bad. HAHA! Just kidding! You're just a little chubby. Wanna start working out with me?" Yea don't listen to me. It's 4am and I'm running on fumes.
/r/askTRP09/08/14 11:00 AM
2

But just the tip. Because shallow. :(
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 09:34 AM
18

The formula for meth would be too big. Better save that shit for a tramp stamp.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 09:32 AM
1

"Know, O Prince, that between the years when the ocean drank Atlantis and the Rise of the sons of Aryas, there was an age undreamed of... And hither came I, Conan, a thief, a reaver, a slayer, to tread jeweled thrones of the Earth beneath my sandaled feet. But now my eyes are dim. Sit on the ground with me, for you are but the leavings of my age. Let me tell you of the days of high adventure."
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 08:34 PM
1

There are no bad women. But there are CRAZY women. We all know at least one.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 11:34 PM
1

The best revenge is to live well. Let her see you having fun and be sure to flirt with all the chicks you can.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 04:49 AM
2

Hell yes! Eat that pie. If you don't want it, I'll eat it for you! Never reward shitty behavior. I would have made her wait.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 02:35 AM
2

I've said it before I'll say it again - billions of women on the planet and you'd try again with one you failed with? That's going backwards, not forward. There are prettier women out there who are more interesting, with better personalities who will treat you better and sex you harder than she ever did. Why go back to an ex? She isn't a special snowflake. Your destiny with her isn't written in the stars. You're in a garden with abundant fruit - you just gotta reach out and start picking them.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 08:53 PM
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There is sidebar material to read. If you want to understand TRP, you can read the suggested material. Or you can make posts like this that make you look like a huge troll. You could also argue with me, but again it still makes you look like a troll since I'm just pointing you to the sidebar material where you could get a better feel of what TRP is about, instead of making asinine comparisons.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 08:49 PM
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WHO'S WIFE'S sister? Your wife's sister? The homeowner's wife's sister? MORE INFO PLEASE.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 02:47 AM
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What makes their shitty behavior worse than women out in the wild is that they have the extra buffer of anonymity the internet provides, plus the agreement of every other Strong Independent Woman™ and white knight that's lurking, waiting to jump to their defense.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 07:25 PM
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Hamster's gonna hamst. What can you do?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 07:11 PM
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Admit to yourself that you have the feels for her. Billions of women on the planet and you gimp yourself for one with a boyfriend who now views you as a needy little boy instead of the fun, playful man she brought home a week ago. Son, you fucked up. It happens, we're only human and great sex with a hot chick can easily beta-fy a man if he lets it. She may have been a potential plate before, but now she's an emotional investment. Now is not the time to think of how to get her back - now is the t…
/r/askTRP04/08/14 07:00 PM
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Some women just need a minimum amount of drama in their lives to keep them happy. If there isn't enough drama, they will find ways to manufacture their own. Nip that shit in the bud next time you see it. Let her know that you don't find it sexy or appealing when she gets all worked up over nothing.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 06:45 PM
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Nope. It will just allow female police officers to use deadly force because of male oppression.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 09:44 AM
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She's not into you. Work on yourself, raise your value and she'll be the one hitting you up. Until then, ignore her.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 09:39 AM
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Women like a man to be their rock - a solid emotional pillar that they can break their emotional waves on. Women value strength and, sadly, they view emotion in men as a weakness. They say they want a nice guy who's in touch with his feelings, but what they do is hook up with guys who are emotionally unavailable to them. Pay attention to what women do and not what they say. Women will analyze and store every bit of information they get from you. Everything you 'admit' to them and everything you …
/r/askTRP04/08/14 06:46 AM
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Probably because you've been conditioned to think that a woman should never be submissive to a man. If it strikes you as morally wrong, then of course it would be hard for you to do. That's where feminism has dropped the ball - they view any submission as being a show of inferiority. Perhaps instead of 'submission' you can think of it as 'concession'. You allow him to take the lead and you let him know when there is a better course of action. Give him the benefit of the doubt and give him a chan…
/r/askTRP04/08/14 06:36 AM
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"and I shouldn't have to say anything" This is a common problem where women just 'assume' men are on the same page and expect things to be done without communicating. Men are HORRIBLE at reading the subtleties of women. We need to be asked or told in no uncertain terms when you feel strongly about something. We are not mind readers - you need to be clear and concise with us.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 06:14 AM
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This could be very insightful for the rest of us who get to see it from a woman's point of view. If you accept it as how it should be, then what are your reservations about letting him captain the ship?
/r/askTRP04/08/14 06:10 AM
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Hey bro, welcome! OP is my brother. I vouch for the fact that his ex is indeed HOT and CRAZY. My advice is to also ditch the crazy. I pointed him here for help and advice. Any input from the rest of you would be helpful to his situation.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 06:06 AM
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The captain / first mate dynamic doesn't mean that you give up your voice or opinions or have no say in the relationship. What it means is that in the relationship, somebody has to lead - having two captains will sink a ship for sure. You stated that when you lead, you feel as if you are doing more of the work while he is slacking, yet you don't feel comfortable letting him lead either. Ask yourself if you are wanting to lead for the good of the relationship, or because you feel like you should …
/r/askTRP04/08/14 05:27 AM
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You can't deny the entertainment value, though. Seeing those strong, independent women getting ridiculed for being unable to fill the job role that they beat out competent men for. This shit makes me laugh.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 04:57 AM
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How far away is she from you? LDRs don't work out very often, so if you've found a woman you think is a good catch, you're hopefully seeing her often enough that she won't see the distance as much of an obstacle. I like the idea of you seeking motivation outside of your relationship. It's when men put all of their attention into a woman that things can go very bad because it leads to pedestalizing. Don't ever make your happiness depend on a woman - you won't be happy and she won't respond well t…
/r/askTRP03/08/14 06:34 PM
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I disagree. Society has come to it's current point because collectively, women have more power now then they have ever had. Women are in every HR office, dictating company policy. Women are teaching our children. Women have made sure that our court systems give them preferential treatment. Women have successfully defined what a man's role should be through books, films and social media. Women have emasculated men for generations now, and so here is where we are, with no chance of going back to a…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 06:07 PM
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Air Supply. There's just something so beautiful about finding that one special girl that you're just meant to be with! I love their entire music catalog! Before you say they're not metal, you can hear an electric guitar if you turn it up loud enough! I'm totally fucking with you. STEEL PANTHER IS THE MOST TRP BAND IN THE ENTIRE FUCKING WORLD!
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 05:41 PM
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My comment might not be a popular one, and if you were another poster I'd offer different advice, but here goes: You sound pretty fucking awesome. Seriously - like you said, you lived the lifestyle that .01% of men get to experience and we all wish we had. You've been there and done that and you don't have anything to prove. You're fit and good looking and fucking loaded! You pretty much already won. The fact is, with an eight figure bank account, even if you get divorced seven times, you'll sti…
/r/askTRP03/08/14 05:26 PM
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Anger is never a good thing to show to a woman. Shit tests are meant to make you lose frame. Once you get angry or get butthurt, you're giving them that power over you - you've shown yourself as weak and easy to provoke. Treat them like children. Amused mastery is always the best alternative to anger - that is, show amusement while maintaining control. Smirk and laugh. Point and tease. Let them know you view them as children throwing a tantrum and they will abandon their course of action. Raisin…
/r/askTRP03/08/14 04:52 PM
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Women learn this shit in grade school. We guys have to play catch-up. That's why it works so well for us - they don't expect us to use their weapons against them.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 12:19 AM
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It's fairly simple. You state your case, imply that they are critical to your success and a vital component to the well-oiled machine (hold back the smirk), and if they fail to comply then you just shake your head and look disappointed. Give them the silent treatment and their hamsters will manufacture the shame for them because they feel they are letting others down. If she's really acting shitty you can reinforce it by comparing her to other girls that work hard and have your respect. Women ha…
/r/askTRP03/08/14 12:12 AM
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Don't bring up the past to her - that's a tool women use. Next time this happens, give her some tasks to do just to get her out of your hair. "You want to get out of here quicker? Ok. Refill the napkins and straws. Refill the ketchup. Help me wipe down the bar. If you don't want to help, that's fine, but I don't want to hear any complaining out of you unless you're busy. We all want to get out of here." And then you ignore her like she's not there. If she starts helping you, then fine - thank he…
/r/askTRP02/08/14 11:21 PM
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The heart of TRP is self-improvement. If you improve yourself in as many areas as you can, you are showing others that you value yourself. If you're just looking to get with women, then r/seddit or r/PUA may be more beneficial to you. If you only look to TRP for the sole purpose of attracting women, you're doing it wrong. Work on yourself and the women will come investigate on their own. 'Becoming alpha' isn't done by acting this way or saying and doing certain things. Alphas take care of themse…
/r/askTRP02/08/14 11:11 PM
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TRP isn't a manifesto to be followed to the letter. It's a shared collection of observations, tactics and ideas that stress the importance of self-improvement and help navigate the social landscape. "We take what we want and leave the rest, just like your salad bar." - Egg Shen, 'Big Trouble in Little China'
/r/askTRP02/08/14 10:57 PM
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Billions of women on the planet and you want one you already failed with? Take your lumps, learn from your mistakes and move on, man. There isn't a 'special one' out there for you. Your destiny with a woman isn't written in the stars. That's the shit marketing they use to sell greeting cards and perfume to lonely cat ladies. There are hotter, more interesting women with better smelling vaginas out there and they're queuing up at the cock carousel right fucking now. She can either be 'the one tha…
/r/askTRP02/08/14 10:51 PM
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Groupthink = the female hive mind. When they all get up at the same time to go pee is when they download their updates.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 10:17 PM
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Dude. This totally came to mind when I saw your post!
/r/askTRP01/08/14 10:18 PM
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I've been married 14 years. For 12 of those years I was separated from my nuts - they were sequestered away in my wife's purse. The past two years have been the best of all those years because two years ago I told my wife I met somebody online that I was considering leaving her for. Dread game at it's finest! My wife's interest in me was rekindled when she discovered I had other options that I could capitalize on. At that moment she realized that my SMV was much higher than she had dared to cons…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 10:47 AM
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The first step is to find a daddy, or have your branch-swinging mom find a temporary one for you. Sadly, this is the reality nowadays.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 09:52 AM
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Stay vigilant. That's all a man can do.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 09:37 AM
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Lust can be bought. Hookers would have been cheaper.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 09:33 AM
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Figures. A woman modding on Dead Bedrooms! LOL! Edit: Yes, this is me being a sexist pig. :D
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 09:24 AM
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...And the circle of life continues...
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 09:16 AM
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It's after the fact, so drop it and don't mention it. Ever. This guy isn't a threat and you know it. He's just trying to get a rise out of you because he has a boner for your girl. However, if he does bring it up again, the best response is to look him in the eye, put on a shit-eating grin and say "Bro, if you knew what kind of man it takes to sexually satisfy her, you wouldn't even be joking." Say nothing more, then walk away. That will give him something to masturbate to while he's crying hims…
/r/askTRP01/08/14 08:43 AM
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I'm late to the party, but If you're in a happy LTR, then you're ahead of the game already. The goal is to find a worthy woman to have a meaningful relationship with - that's what anybody wants when it comes down to it. Some guys would gladly spin plates for the rest of their life, but when you find a good woman, why not take a chance? As far as men being polygamous, I think the word you're looking for is polyamorous. Where 'polygamy' means having many spouses, 'polyamorous' means you have many …
/r/askTRP01/08/14 08:34 AM
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Women look to men for stability. Overly emotional men - unless they are the 'starving artist' type or have high enough SMV (wealth), will be viewed as weak. Women want a solid man as a counterpoint to their emotions - a rock they can break their emotional waves on. Anger issues are often a red flag indicating instability. The exceptions to this are women who thrive on drama and adrenaline. These are the Tina Turner type women who yo-yo in and out of relationships with angry men, because "he's a …
/r/askTRP01/08/14 08:05 AM
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The one thing TRP reinforces above all is that a woman's love is conditional. You were her first love and you guys hit a rocky patch, but you've manned up and she worships you. That's awesome! Good for you. But realize that just because she'd do anything for you today, it doesn't mean she'll feel the same tomorrow or the next day. You acknowledge that she would be a good LTR some day and good mother material, and since she took a few strange dicks, you don't put her on a pedestal anymore. Good. …
/r/askTRP01/08/14 07:56 AM
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Realize that if you have a 3-way, your LTR is pretty much fucked. Before I get downvoted, hear me out. Women are very jealous of other women they view as a threat, and if you think your friend is hot, then I will guarantee you that your GF feels threatened. If a 3-way does go down, then your GF probably won't even be able to enjoy it because her hamster will be burning it's clutch as all of her insecurities and jealousy bubble up to the surface. You might not notice at first while you're plowing…
/r/askTRP01/08/14 07:31 AM
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Best response to this would be: "That's cool. I was getting kind of bored with you anyway. Good luck with your man!" aaaaand cut. Lose her number. Delete her from your social media. Stop answering her texts. She's a dead end. Don't waste time on dead ends.
/r/askTRP01/08/14 07:08 AM
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My shit test go-to list: First, never respond to shit tests via text. Act like you didn't receive it. Even engaging in a texted shit test is a fail, because she knows you will stop whatever you are doing to argue with her and play her games. Don't do it. Ever. If she's jabbing your personality, habits or traits in an attempt to push your buttons, my response is usually "That's why you love me." or "I know. You have shitty taste in men!" said casually with a shit-eating grin. If the shit test is …
/r/askTRP01/08/14 07:01 AM
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Even a broken clock will be right for two seconds every day. You are focusing on the anomalous outliers and not the big picture. Of course there are exceptions to the rule. There always are. Or are there? These men have Forrest Gumped their way into finding women that were drawn to their quirks and personalities. These guys obviously did something to attract and maintain these women, but to us it's unclear how because we have incomplete information. We all know of examples such as these, where g…
/r/askTRP01/08/14 06:35 AM
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I agree with a previous poster that at worst, this may be an attempt to stir up drama - perhaps even incite a preemptive breakup before you go. But consider that this may also just be a valid concern for her, since you are going to be gone a while, especially viewed in proportion to the time you two have been dating. If the conversation comes up again, what I would do is to reassure her that you will be faithful to her, and you expect the same fidelity from her. Something like: "Babe. Do you rea…
/r/askTRP01/08/14 06:24 AM
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You are Superman and she's your kryptonite. You could be banging other chicks, enjoying your awesome superhero life, but no. You have this attraction to this energy-sucking threat to your well-being. You got this girl in your blood and she's your drug. The BEST, and in my opinion ONLY option - I've been there myself - is to ghost her. Cut contact and go cold turkey. Delete her number and her email address, delete and block her from your social media and DO NOT respond to her calls or texts. Trea…
/r/askTRP01/08/14 06:02 AM
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She's ready to branch swing. She's already hamstering it away and if you play it right you could be the 'fun guy' that sex 'just happened' with. Be fun, flirty and keep escalating if you want to get into her juice box. Stop with the relationship questions and make conversations about 'you and her'. She's already spinning her hamster wheel, you just have to feed it.
/r/askTRP01/08/14 05:47 AM
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We need to start a Blanket Brigade, where we take ratty old cat-hair-sprinkled blankets into cosplay conventions and cover these bitches up. We can be over-the-top white knights and form protective blanket barriers around them so they aren't eye raped. State your opinions freely and don't worry about hurting their feelings. They're adults - they can handle it (or should be able to). Point this out to them. Remind them that feminists, Martin Luther King Jr., our founding fathers and Susan B. Anth…
/r/askTRP01/08/14 05:24 AM
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White Knights are always on the lookout for damsels in distress. You won't find many - if any - in this sub. Opening up to your BF is great, but don't feel obligated to spill your guts out for him just to fill in the silence. Sometimes men just like peace and quiet. We spend a lot of time in our heads too, and most of us just feel good and comfortable spending quiet time together. Don't worry about who you should be for him. He likes you already, otherwise he wouldn't be going out with you. Just…
/r/askTRP01/08/14 04:59 AM
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I agree. Learning how women operate gives you a huge advantage.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 10:01 PM
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If he's building attraction with any of them, they will passive / aggressively sabotage his chances with any girls he brings home. The best he can strive for is a cordial but neutral living arrangement where they respect his space and don't have any emotional investment in him.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 06:13 PM
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That, my friend, is why you never put your dick in crazy. Most well-adjusted women won't take it to this level unless you have totally lost frame and made them the center of attention.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 06:06 PM
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Great sarcasm there (I hope). To expand on my statement, you do not engage an argument unless it's valid. To point out that women pick arguments for no good reason is akin to pointing out that water is wet. The shit tests should be disregarded. Genuine arguments are another matter. Troll more.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 07:34 AM
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I agree with the other posters that she is trying to guilt you into committing to her. Tears, accusations and putting herself on the martyr cross for you are all red flags. Most women use sex as the first tool to gain access to a man. Then they do their best to display their value to him. When that didn't work, your plate then started resorting to guilt. This is a good indicator of what a LTR with her would be like. Once you give in, she will be the perfect GF. For a few months. Then comes the s…
/r/askTRP30/07/14 07:24 AM
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Have fun with it. Embrace it and it won't be seen as a negative. Get some new shirts to show people that you're not making a big deal out of it, so neither should they.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 07:13 AM
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She may feel threatened that her ability to do whatever the fuck she wants is now in jeopardy since you've taken your nuts out of her purse. You need to reward her positive behavior and willingness to comply with your wishes. Just as you have to learn to lead, you have to teach her to follow. A good way to do this is by complimenting her work, thanking her for helping and telling others how awesome she is when she's in earshot. Positive reinforce the good behavior.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 06:54 AM
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Great line. By denying them the pussy pass and making them earn it you elevate yourself in their eyes.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 06:47 AM
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As a married man of many many moons, I can verify that my marriage has never been better since I demonstrated to my wife I had other options, but chose to be with her. That's how you have to frame it. You're choosing her. But that it's conditional on her behaviors. Examples: "Yea she's pretty. But I chose to be with you. So far you've been worth it" and smile with a shit-eating grin. "It's like they can sense what a great man you have and they want to know more!" Smile. Chuckle a bit. "You've be…
/r/askTRP30/07/14 06:43 AM
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"We've been friends for 4 years." This means: "I've been her friend, being there for all of her needs and I really want to fuck her" A man cannot / should not be friends with a woman unless 3 conditions are met: He is not sexually attracted to her. At all. Ever. This includes when alcohol is involved and when hanging out alone or sleeping under the same roof. If you have feelings, you need to either escalate and see what happens, GTFO or risk becoming a beta orbiter like you are right now. There…
/r/askTRP30/07/14 06:19 AM
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What's not to get? Once you have called her out on a shit test and she acknowledges it, why would you entertain it further? So what if she won't let it drop? Let her be persistent. She is still acting childish, so you can point it out to her and ridicule / tease / mock her in a playful way that says "Haha nice try, now how about acting like a grown up?" You fail the shit test by letting it rattle you. Fire back as only a man can: with wit and absurdity. Examples: Her: "Why won't you tell me what…
/r/askTRP30/07/14 05:57 AM
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Best advice I can give: As stated before, DON'T be sexual / flirty with them. At all. Ever. A jealous and vindictive woman will ruin your living experience and any chance of hooking up with other women. Plus, when things go bad (and they will) you'll be stuck with them. Maintain your personal space. Locks on your doors are a GREAT idea from a previous poster. Women naturally want to invade men's space and impose their will. Don't let your room be the 'hang out' room, keep them out of your bathro…
/r/askTRP30/07/14 05:35 AM
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This is a place of open discussion. Trolls will be summarily executed and their remains used to fertilize fields of relevant discussion.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 05:14 AM
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Word. We are all free to pick and chose, but that funeral sex, though... just sayin...
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 05:10 AM
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BRILLIANT! I had a nice chuckle at this.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 04:00 AM
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Still, remove any doubt. How many men have been burned? Enough that to not get one makes zero sense.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 03:50 AM
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Women hate other women. They are all in competition with each other. The don't do each other favors like this when competing for a man. Ever.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 03:41 AM
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This! It's true: once you see how the system works, it's easy to navigate and use it to your advantage - knowledge is power.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 03:36 AM
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Women act emotionally and therefore logic will not work on them when they are in a mood to argue. You can't fight feeeels with common sense either. This is why you never engage in an argument with a woman. She will drag you into her world where we men are ill-equipped, and she will tear you apart with her emotional tempests. So the best option is to invalidate, ignore and weather the storm. Be the rocks that break the waves, not the sand that gets sucked into the tide. Women don't respect a man …
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 03:32 AM
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The best way to do it when you're starting out is to realize that to her, you're a stranger. You can be whoever you want to be and chances are she won't see you again. This gives you an excuse to have fun with things and see what you can get away with. Remember, every girl you approach is a small victory, so rejection is a badge of honor for manning up. After a while of not giving a fuck and having fun, you'll find your stride and get a good sense of what works for you and what doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 03:22 AM
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Your chances with her would be better if you treated her like a guy friend you don't want to have sex with. Make her work for that shit.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 02:54 AM
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She was such a good friend that she left you. The happier person in a relationship is the one that has less to lose. I guess she was much happier than you. Funny how that works. There are over three billion women on the planet. Why would you want to go backwards and try and rehash one you failed with? You seriously need to read the sidebar materials and realize you were a stepping stone for her. She got with you, had fun for a bit and when she was done with you, she discarded you like a candy wr…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 02:49 AM
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You pretty much friend-zoned yourself. She gave you an invite to dinner at her apartment, where you could have escalated in a place she felt comfortable. Sounds to me like you are just horrible about reading women. The next time you get a casual mention from a girl to hang out, you take them up on it, but you need to play to win. By that, I mean you have to state your intentions from the get-go that you want something fun and flirty. To your credit, you did pass on her offer to just be friends, …
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 02:13 AM
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The first and second rules of TRP: YOU DO NOT. TALK. ABOUT TRP. Women will demonize you and BP guys will think you're a sociopath. Guys will come here when they're ready - after they get walked all over and are ready for a bitter dose of cold hard truth. Trying to convert others often makes you out to be the bad guy because a lot of guys simply aren't ready for it.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 02:04 AM
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When a man is looking for a LTR he needs to demonstrate that he is seeking quality from a woman, and he needs to state his list of expectations early and often. This gives you plausible deniability in situations like this where you are going go get cheated on. No question. You can feel it, we can see it and she will be half way around the world where you have absolutely no way of knowing what she's up to. If it were me, I'd buy a large box of condoms and slip them into her luggage, along with a …
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:56 AM
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Congrats. Make her bladder splatter and her liver quiver.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:43 AM
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Rational vs. feeeels. Rational doesn't stand a chance against crazy. It never does. That's why you never engage an argument with a woman. Be the bigger man and walk away.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:38 AM
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She's going to fuck somebody if not you, and she'll be thinking about you while she does it. Shes going to cheat on this guy and it sounds like it's no big deal to her, so chances are she's cheated before. You're a man, you know the risks involved and you do what you feel is right. Nobody can tell you what's right but you, so ignore the hate. Who doesn't want to plow some 19yo? Enjoy that shit. And wrap it good because you don't know where else she's been.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:34 AM
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Thanks for the reply! If my wife has a genuine argument, or she is concerned or freaking out about something that isn't a shit test, then no, of course I will be sympathetic with her. But we all know there are times when women pick fights like lightning out of a clear blue sky and those are the ones I immediately stamp out, regardless if it may be patronizing to her. I hold her accountable and she loves me for it because I no longer let her steamroll me.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 06:26 PM
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Tell her you met somebody and she has to get move the fuck out and stay out. Tell her it's been a long time since you've gotten your dick wet and you don't want her to fuck it up for you since she's not putting out.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 09:24 AM
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How old are you?
/r/askTRP28/07/14 09:03 AM
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This is why you don't want to get in a relationship at your age. Girls are going to slut it up from 18 to 20-something and there's nothing you can do. You can let it drive you crazy, or you can accept it for what it is. Seriously, why do you think she wants to go clubbing? Because of the music? No. Because of her friends? Her friends can do something that includes you. No. It's because of the hot guys she'll be slutting up on. Next her and remember you have your whole life ahead of you to settle…
/r/askTRP28/07/14 08:58 AM
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I'm a little late to the party, but I'll add my 2¢. I posted this before somewhere else but I'll retype it. Betas view their self-worth as being directly proportional to the levels of approval and validation they get from others. Most females are like this and unfortunately so are most men. An alpha thinks validation is nice, but that is not their goal. Since they don't worry about seeking validation from others, that affords them time and energy to spend on themselves, allowing them to focus on…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 10:32 PM
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Realize that you are Superman and she is your fucking kryptonite. Getting close to her, fucking her and just letting her be in your life is dangerous for you. Most guys have that girl in their lives that was / is their kryptonite. The happy ones are the ones who severed all ties and moved on with life. You owe her nothing. She owes you nothing. You know she is fucking kryptonite. Have the self-respect and the good sense to sever. all. contact. Forever. You are giving her power over you by acknow…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 10:09 PM
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This . Agree and amplify. This calls them out and points a huge neon arrow pointed at their nose. "Oh! haha! That's right! I was thinking it happened at the sex shop when I was looking at whips and handcuffs! But you're right, of course! Anyway, if I can continue, or do you want to remind me of anything else? "Ooooh! I thought they said they wanted to paint a baby with a lemon brush! Well thank you for clarifying that for me, I was so confused silly me haha! Or you can simply keep talking withou…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 09:30 PM
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People who are sensitive about gender are not very well-adjusted, plain and simple. The argument I make is that if you are comfortable with yourself, your gender shouldn't be an issue. Similarly, the gender of others shouldn't be an issue either because again, it has no bearing on you since you are comfortable.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 09:12 PM
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First, how old are you guys? This is important info.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 09:05 PM
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Look at it from her perspective: She's retired for a reason. She is tired of being filmed getting dicked up and down. She's ready to move on and she's probably having a hard time coping with the huge social stigma of her career choice. Now do you think she'd really appreciate some random guy reminding her of how many cocks she took? She's probably trying to forget that part of her life and move on. Either way, it seems like a stalker move to me. It's not healthy to fixate on women. Ever.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 09:02 PM
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Knock them off their fucking pedestal. Realize that they are human and they shit, bleed, fart and they get nervous too. Best thing is to not overthink it. The more you think about it, the more you psych yourself out. Go for the kiss. If she rejects you, you know where you stand and you move on. You owe her nothing. If she hesitates, you de-escalate to kino, gauge her reaction, then try it a second and final time. If it's a no-go then you excuse yourself and move on. You owe her nothing. And you …
/r/askTRP27/07/14 08:56 PM
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Women know fashion. Some new threads, shoes and a nice watch will scream THIS GUY HAS RESOURCES!
/r/askTRP27/07/14 08:50 PM
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Routine. Get yourself a regimented physical routine and stick with it, whether it's working out, walking, hiking or biking. This will give you time to go on autopilot, de-stress and think. Forcing yourself into positive physical routines will make it harder to become stagnant.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 08:46 PM
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Either way, you can't get away from women wanting you for your status (money) - which is fine as long as you realize you're disposable if a Bigger Better Deal comes along. It's the hazard of being financially successful. You might as well use it to your advantage and display the perks of your status.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 08:41 PM
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I have a friend with a GF that is post-wall and baby crazy. He ditched condoms in favor of spermicidal lube because of the higher success rate. Condoms can be sabotaged. The spermicide, not so much.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 08:38 PM
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To expand on and broaden your questions, I think the qualities that would make an ideal NAWALT woman to most men would include the following: Keeps hypergamy in check. She sees other men and has other opportunities but for whatever reasons she is content being with you. Readily embraces her role as first mate. She is happy to support you as you steer the SS Relationship and she makes the ride enjoyable for you, putting the relationship first. Keeps shit testing to a minimum. She realizes when sh…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 08:18 PM
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Wow. Do not take offense, but when I read this I was immediately struck by the idea that you are in fact a 'she' and she is in fact your boyfriend. The reason I say this is because men don't usually have a problem with having a GF that has less direction / motivation / drive. Also, we don't typically describe friendships with the opposite sex in quite the same way as you did. But, I am getting off topic. Sounds like you are bored with them and ready to move on to somebody who is more in line wit…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 08:03 PM
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You can't change somebody's beliefs. Trying to point out flaws, ridicule or debunk a person's beliefs often just makes a person cling more strongly to them. White knights believe that they are acting nobly, with honor and that they will be rewarded for it. Shaming does nothing to these boys because they have discarded their pride and draped them across puddles so m'ladies could step on them without getting their heels muddy. Best advice is to leave them be and treat them like you would treat a f…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 07:40 PM
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Puff puff pass! Puff puff pass! Daaaayum! Stop smokin' all my SHIT!
/r/askTRP27/07/14 07:32 PM
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She is using dread game on you and it's working. There is a complete role reversal going on in your marriage. As a husband of 14 years, I can relate to everything you posted. She is steamrolling you with her emotions and manipulating you with guilt. Realize she is acting a lot like a child. Maintaining frame means you don't entertain her tirades, jabs at your intelligence or masculinity or her threats. Women say and men do. Remember that. If you say something, you do it. If SHE says something, i…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 07:06 PM
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Sounds like a slippery slope to me. I would think the temptation would not be worth the price of rekindling a relationship you just left. This sounds like a wonderful way to keep the oneitis going - as you obviously have oneitis. And the best cure for oneitis is to go out and fuck a few new girls to get her out of your blood. To me - the casual observer, it seems like you are seeking validation to go ahead and hook up with a recent ex under the guise of a just sex scenario. Do you really think t…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 06:13 PM
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It's been said many times - men cannot be friends with women except in rare cases where it benefits them, drama is kept to bare minimum and there is ZERO sexual attraction or desire. That trifecta is hard to find.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 05:37 PM
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The muscles that hold in your pee when you have to go are the same muscles that will prolong ejaculation. It's called dick control. Kegels work for men too by tensing and relaxing those muscles to build strength. When you feel close, slow down and flex until the pressure goes away, then when it's safe relax and continue. You know you're there when you can stop a morning pee mid stream, wait thirty seconds, then continue. Dick control through muscle control.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 07:26 AM
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Anger is more useful than self-pity, so at least you aren't going that route, for that is the way of the blue, not the red. Anger gets shit done. It's power can be channeled and redirected into something better.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 05:45 PM
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That drink shall be known as a Special Snowflake. It's a drink that you should serve up regularly.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 05:40 PM
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Or maybe he was sick of them being cunts. Seriously, the level of cuntyness was off the charts there. I'm surprised it took that long to shut them down.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 05:09 PM
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Definitely fame not game beep boop boop fuck off stupid delete bot
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 03:39 AM
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50 Shades of Not Giving a Fuck. a humble sacrifice to the cockblockbot so this doesn't get scuttled
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 03:36 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=66hSiRgbgX0
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 03:18 AM
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Ok, for the sake of the possibility that you aren't just naturally argumentative, dense or in need of a soapbox, I will feed the troll against my better judgement. Your statement implies that women dress how they dress for many reasons including comfort and dressing for certain situations. It sounds a lot like you are saying that women aren't even aware of how they may be viewed by others and they have no control over being ogled by men. This is true if they don't have access to a mirror, are vi…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 03:11 AM
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I'm a bit late to the party and I also applaud you for coming here to ask what men look for. To clarify the whole 'captain' vs. 'first mate' thing, it does goes back to traditional gender roles, but that doesn't necessarily mean it's demeaning, misogynist or that one is less important than the other. To continue using the analogy, sure, you can try to have two captains, and that may work for a while during calm seas, but what about when things get rough and you have to make a choice which way to…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 02:51 AM
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Nail. Head. Bullseye. My wife has many times made the comment that I rank third behind the children and herself, and she feels it is natural to feel this way. I tend to agree, even if it does sting a little. It is what it is and you have illustrated it very well.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 01:25 AM
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Blowies for daaaaaays! A good blowie is hard to deny. She sounds like a keeper!
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 01:17 AM
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Haven't you paid any attention to how things are? Rape - Definition: Sex that was forced, unwanted and/or sex that makes a woman feel bad afterward. There is no statue of limitations on sex that can later become rape and rape can be decided at any time about any sexual encounter as governed by feeeeels. What governs the feels is not for you to know or ask questions about, you tyrannical patriarchy shitlords, because she is a strong independent womyn! Edit: Yes this is me being a sarcastic dick b…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 12:58 AM
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"You can see this as an opportunity to add your own conclusion to what I'm ending this post with" Ex. 1 You can see this as a joke and that I'm clearly fucking with all you guys and this will probably end badly, possibly ruining plates or relationships! Ex. 2 You can see this as a great way to wear them down, break their spirits and beat them into submission so that they can be remolded into the women we all deserve. Ex. 3 You can see this as a way to test their boundaries and your own as well, …
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 12:50 AM
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No, that's pretty spot on for both genders haha.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 12:44 AM
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Trolls gonna troll, haters gonna hate, taters gonna po-tate.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 12:33 AM
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I smoked a hyperbole once. I woke up sooooo high, man!
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 12:27 AM
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Exactly. It's like women who are unhappy and get bigger breasts. Then they just end up unhappy with a huge rack. They weren't unhappy because their tits were small. They were unhappy because they saw themselves as unattractive.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 12:26 AM
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There will be an app for that - Twat Blocker™
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 11:53 PM
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I love how she repeatedly gunned the engine trying to get it off the trailer. Silly girl does not know about rear wheel drive. She then breaks the windows and pulls out an appalling amount of trash from the vehicle that she wishes to keep. And all the while in her twisted little head the hamster is on twin turbo mode telling her that she's the one that's right.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 11:42 PM
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That is so she can claim injury and try to sue the bad repo man for letting her walk barefoot in broken glass.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 11:39 PM
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His name is GayLubeOil, not Gayman. Sheesh, get your facts straight, buddy! I would probably have done the same. What kind of fucking guy would kiss another guy that was obviously sloppy drunk before making sure it was cool? Being on coke is no excuse. If he was fucked up too, then it's just a case of two fucked up guys punching it out and no big deal. GLO, don't taze me bro!
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 11:34 PM
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Not even when he was face fucking you and grabbing your hair? HAHA just kidding bro. Don't be mad. Lots of people suck dick.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 11:27 PM
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Arguments can either come from something real, or something fabricated to shit test you. If you are in a relationship it's important that you learn to recognize one from the other. For instance: "I don't want you going out and drinking with your friends" Is this because the last time you did, you came home, pissed on the rug and passed out on the couch where you shit your pants? If so that may mean the problem is real and needs to be addressed. Or is this her way of shit testing you and trying t…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 11:21 PM
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They need to just make pills for us already. I will keep a bowl by my computer and munch on them like M&Ms.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 10:42 PM
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Something something too much weed.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 10:38 PM
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"Mmmmm gggirl you smell rrreal gooood! Can I ttttouch your hair? COOKIES! LOBSTER BISQUE! SHOE POLISH! Where do you live? Can I have your phone number?"
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 10:34 PM
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Dude. You need to check out this video on How to have a conversation like a man. As condescending as it sounds, it's worth a watch and there are some good nuggets in there. Edit: It's also entertaining and spot on.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 09:59 PM
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The biggest differences are the behaviors. Men and women might as well have different brains for all of the overlap their behaviors have - or lack thereof.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 09:46 PM
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I agree. When you've been conditioned to listen to women, it's hard to learn to disregard all the bullshit they say and focus on their body cues. I am probably the ten trillionth man who has stated that he wishes women came with mute buttons.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 09:41 PM
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TL/DR: What he means is that the Double Standard is alive and well. Women can generalize men, but men are not supposed to generalize women. Also, just because you generalize people doesn't mean you don't view or treat them as individuals when interacting directly with them.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 09:23 PM
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Fine. But no furries either.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 09:06 PM
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True, but if everybody deserves to be heard, you have to include EVERYBODY.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 07:44 PM
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Congrats! You win this thread! Seriously thought, don't show this to any old feminazi women or you will be treated to a grisly spectacle as their hamsters burn their clutches, spinning for traction against this hard, cold truth. Their eyes will bulge, then glaze over while their mouth works silently, trying to form words but failing because the hamster is in hyperdrive, pouring through their entire life's inventory of feels to come up with the right words. In fact, it is a very real possibility …
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 09:24 PM
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I've been married for over a decade and I was constantly giving in to my wife's tantrums and insecurities. It wasn't until a few years ago when It came out that I started showing interest in somebody else that our marriage improved. Sure, it was a happy accident of dread game that showed her that I could have options if she set me free, but I'll take it. Since then I've reclaimed my voice and I call her out on her bullshit. Life is good now.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 08:20 PM
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Sadly, where most of us see this as a warning of what to avoid, others will inevitably see it as a how-to guide or use it to gauge their own skills.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 08:07 PM
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Women. Yes, it's easy to demonize and hate women if you don't understand them, but hating will get you nowhere. The hate comes from being raised to believe the mythos of female purity and goodness, only to realize that women are just as human and fallible as men. What's worse, they get a pass for their shitty behavior, while men are held accountable. Again this is a symptom of society, and many a poor soul has died broken and defeated trying to change society. A fool fights to change the world, …
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 06:48 PM
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Dammit. I'm not on there. Looks like I'd better up my game as well.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 05:32 PM
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Sounds like he's a homicide waiting to happen. I'd try and convince him to worry about his safety with that powderkeg.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 04:57 AM
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Eat that tuna hole. Throw in a little teeth so she knows you mean business.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 12:35 PM
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and then gingerly dipped in tabasco and lime juice.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 02:03 AM
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I just make eye contact and hold her gaze whilst licking my eyebrows. But seriously, the simple approach is always the best. "Hey, you're cute - what's your name?" " insert chicks name here " "NO WAY! That's my middle name!" and BAM! You're in. Have a funny to back up your initial convo starter and don't treat it like a job interview. Keep her talking.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 09:41 PM
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and snuffing them out on a fire ant mound.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 09:31 PM
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My thoughts on kids: Wait until they turn 18! :D But seriously, kids are great. I wouldn't trade mine in for anything less than six figures.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 09:27 PM
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ITT I picture a huge feminist beast, with her red pixie haircut, three chins and a look of intense hatred in here eyes as she hands you the sledgehammer and expects you to demolish everything you stand for because it is an affront to her sensibilities and therefore should be vehemently destroyed for the good of (wo)mankind.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 08:56 PM
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Shhhh! Making jokes about rape is rape! So is talking about rape! Rape! Rape! Bob Dole! Rape!
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 08:52 PM
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Ok, THAT is some brilliant shit, right there!
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 05:08 PM
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Story Time! I worked a construction job with an older man who was in his late forties. Nice guy, quiet but a hard worker. One day he comes in a few minutes late REEKING of alcohol. I asked him if he had a rough night. He said he got off work the previous day and went to his GF's house - who was in her late 20s. As she served him dinner, she gave him the good news that she was pregnant. He said he finished his meal, then took a knife and chopped the cake in half and said "Congratulations I'm happ…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 03:40 PM
2

So you're OK with Harriet Potter?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 06:31 AM
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He's GOT to make matching wristbands, headbands, water bottles and towels too!
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 09:53 PM
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The system is broken. Men and women are being lied to and told that in order to find ____ they must act _____ and true happiness is when you ____. You're hurt and we get it. Nobody likes being lied to, especially on a massive social scale like this. Men are told to be the good guy for women. Women are taught that there's a Prince Charming that will complete them and make them happy. The lies go both ways. Hating isn't the answer - sweat out the toxins lest ye become toxic yourself. On the bright…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 09:38 PM
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Your problem is that you are referencing Tinder. Going online to meet women is a horrible idea. You need to learn to approach in person. Get out and mingle in the real world, because that's the best sandbox to play in and try out your approach and game. I was a shy polite beta kid until I hit my 20s and got out into the clubs where I could drink and mingle. I was also very self-conscious about my looks, but I saw uglier, less talented men than me with hotties on their arms, and the only differen…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 09:19 PM
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I'm also married, and while I won't use TRP to pick up women, it certainly has opened my eyes to the interaction between the sexes. Swallowing TRP has affirmed many things I've found on my own, dispelled many myths I took for truth and has opened my eyes to the underlying social structure around me.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 08:52 PM
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Society tells women that they are "strong" and that dominating men and controlling men are one and the same. They are bombarded with "rape culture" talk, not to mention the fact that slut shaming has been a thing with them since childhood. It makes sense that women would try to deny wanting to be led and dominated, sexually and in a relationship context. Biology can't be denied.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 08:44 AM
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Women will use you as an emotional tampon if you let them. To their Solipsistic little minds, you should feel privileged that she is allowing you some time on set in soap opera that is her life. She is getting some cathartic decompression by unloading her mental garbage to you, while you have to suffer. Why? You are the one doing her a service by allowing her to talk at you. Women do that a lot - they talk at you instead of to you and it wouldn't matter to them if it's you or somebody else, as l…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 10:36 PM
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Somebody should make #YesAllWomenAreLikeThat in response to #YesAllWomen :D
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 09:25 PM
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In feminism, there is no room for truth. Facts, logic and rational discussion are kryptonite for feminists. Employ any of the above and you will be labeled a hater. They will bully, cry, play victim and try to get others against you in an attempt to shame you into agreeing with them.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 09:21 PM
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Good call! It's like the government's been saying for YEARS: the internet has to be censored so people don't get together and discuss radical ideas that challenge the viewpoints of others. As long as the exchange of information is sanitized and nobody is offended, EVER, only THEN can we allow a semi-open discourse between individuals. After heavy screening, of course. I mean, could you just IMAGINE the chaos if racists, Jews, Muslims, NRA advocates, liberals, gays, left-wingers, hipsters and Mor…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 08:30 PM
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Once you allow a woman to dictate your actions - especially at something huge like this - then you have lost the relationship game. This will be the precedent (or is it?) that sets the tone for the rest of your time together. She will try to guilt / shame / bully you into doing what she wants, and she will resent your weakness when you fold. Also, if she has any inclination to take a quick spin on the carousel or branch swing on you, she will use your trip to justify it. Either way, your choice …
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 09:40 PM
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In Feminism there is simply no room for Truth. Facts, logic and common sense are the kryptonite to any feminist argument. The feminist will attempt to bully, shame, demonize or use tears and victim status to get others to agree with them. Any attempt to rationally argue against them will be steamrolled with accusations of hate and injustice. It is simply not worth the effort to argue with them. When you fight with fools, you are lowering yourself to their level and they will beat you with home f…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 09:18 PM
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To me, a beta is somebody who actively provides and seeks validation from others, believing that the more he does for them, the more they will like him and ultimately his virtuous behavior will change minds and win hearts. To me, an alpha is somebody who does not seek validation in others, but because they personify desirable traits that others wish to possess, they receive validation by default. As for the difference between PUA and Redpill: PUA is all about getting women, so they focus on how …
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 08:24 PM
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Oneitis happens when you put all of your love, hopes and dreams into a person. When you do this, you stop seeing them as a normal person with thier own issues, and they become the sole source of light and warmth in your life. When you do this, they become the reason you are happy or sad. Your mood is tied directly to them. You are putting all of your emotional eggs in one basket, so to speak, and there will eventually be a huge omelet made when that person inevitably falters. Instead of seeing t…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 07:32 PM
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Call me a dick, but I think the reason women tend to not pursue scientific fields is because they are often based on logic and not feels. Women are emotional creatures and to me it would seem like sensory deprivation for them. Could a woman get good gossip working in a sterile laboratory or writing code? What would her friends think of her? Would such a job raise or lower her social value? Do men want a woman that's more intelligent than them? Isn't it just easier to do something more 'fun' and …
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 06:58 PM
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Just because things SHOULD be a certain way, doesn't mean they are. Everybody that swallows TRP knows this. Women will not give up their positions of being catered to. Ever. Not without full-scale societal collapse, so arguing the point of who should approach who is moot. It's up to men - always has been, always will - unless there suddenly becomes a man shortage. I'm assuming that the men that stayed in the U.S. during WWII had pussy thrown at them left right and center, but female privilege wi…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 06:10 PM
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Thanks. I think it might be a few weeks before I can even consider eating another tuna salad. :(
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 05:53 PM
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She's 19 and that's a very immature age for women. She will want to go out with friends (party) and you will be the asshole if you deny her that. What's more, if she lives with you she will try to ruin any attempts at spinning plates. If you are considering monogamy with her - don't. She isn't ready to settle down and she will eventually come to resent you for ruining her prime years. Besides, she DID want her space from you, so she's not ready to get off the carousel and things will end badly. …
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 05:30 PM
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"Intellectual Domination" is not even necessary. Are women smart? Absolutely. They just think differently than us. Once you begin to understand how a woman thinks, you can use the information to your benefit. But honestly, a girl at a club / bar is not looking for intelligence. She is looking for confidence. A confident man that she has to work at for his attention. Somebody posted this link and it was BRILLIANT! It's called "How to have a conversation like a man" and it's incredible how simple …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 11:02 PM
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The only power others have over you is the power you give them. Knowing why they have their behaviors will allow you to navigate through the bullshit. It's not enough to just realize society is fucked up - you have to take it further and use what you know to get what you want.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 10:53 PM
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Fuck. Look at Janis over there, tearing up and feeding their hamsters with her shitty rape story. Wait a minute.... did Amanda actually bring her a casserole and pie to comfort her? That BITCH! "Actually guys, I was raped too! Lots of times, in fact. I'm still so very traumatized by it." Damn right I was! I like casseroles and pie!
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 10:41 PM
1

Exactly. Not every guy with a horse dick has to shoot porn. Same thing. Just because you are doesn't mean you have to be a certain way.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 10:27 PM
1

Yay! I always carry my own pitchfork just in case an angry mob is missing a member! This is the evilest thing since..... that last evil thing! Yay us! Boo them!
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 10:20 PM
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I will state the obvious because some of the notions in today's society that we have accepted are just insane when you take a rational look at them. The many thousands of years of human evolution have ensured that men are the warriors. Men are more aggressive, physically more intimidating and stronger, and have better reflexes and instincts in physical confrontations. So why are we allowing women to participate in combat? What has changed in those many thousands of years that would justify such …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 10:12 PM
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ARE YOU INSANE, ASKING THAT QUESTION? (sarcasm) Don't you know that all wymyn are God's Gift to the earth and each one is a special snowflake treasure worth ten-thousand men? These majestic, super-intelligent and super-beautiful non-flatulent creatures each deserve to be canonized in sonnets and ballads, and to have untold riches heaped upon their feet by the lesser man-species! Why, to imply that wymyn are anything less than perfect is to deny puppy dogs, rainbows, kittens and everything else g…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 09:40 PM
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Hindsight is always 20/20, but if you take what you learned and apply the lessons in the future, you'll be better off. Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. Let's examine the scene: You didn't say if it was a bar or club, but they are similar enough not to matter. Why do people go to a bar? To meet people and hopefully hook up. Your mission is to ultimately get that hookup, so you have to tailor your strategy for that mission. She was there for the same…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 09:18 PM
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Because you two go to the same school and have overlapping social circles, you need to take extra care not to become an orbiter. Girls seem to think they need to 'be just friends' with guys after they break up, and except in rare cases when they can respect boundaries, this doesn't work. Girls will try to text you up, make excuses to hang out, get touchy feely and do whatever they need to do to retain you. This is a dead end if you let them have their way. What will happen is she will cling to y…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 08:36 PM
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You are so not invited to the next Sausage Fest! But seriously, drinking and grilling with bros? How is this a bad time? Unless you're a vegan, in which case you could have a Carrot Fest and consume your fill of penis-shaped vegetables. Lighten up and eat the sausage.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 08:22 PM
1

There was a time when I would have felt sorry for this guy. Then I would have felt angered at him and offered to rip a hole in his gut so he can see where he's going while his head is up his ass. But now? Now I just chuckle to myself and cringe, the same way I'd do if I saw a child eating a huge crusty booger. Don't care if it's troll or not, I enjoyed the cringe. :D
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 08:15 PM
7

In a group situation, absolutely. When trying to hookup with women, it has to be used sparingly or else it comes off as lavishing her with attention instead of making her work for it.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 07:56 PM
2

I have to disagree with the "it's society's fault" angle. Yes, in society women are encouraged and rewarded for acting like entitled little cunts. Yes, men are being socially beta-fied and conditioned to worship the ground women walk on. By declaring that society is at fault, we are doing the hamstering for them and absolving them of responsibility for their actions. They know they are being sluts, and instead of facing that dark reality, they rationalize it away. But all is not lost. We have wo…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 07:41 PM
3

I usually respond with "Good" while looking smug and winking. If she questions or persists I just say "I like it when you Miss me." I never reciprocate the affirmation that I miss her too. It reinforces their need to please by not gushing over them, but it's also done in a way that's not too dickish.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 07:19 PM
2

This is fine since you're monogamous with her and have no intentions of spinning plates. As long as you're aware that leases, utilities and bills can wreck your credit if you default on them and they will come after whoever's name is on the bill. Sit down and figure who's name they will be in - Cable, water, electricity, trash and sewer, internet etc. Hopefully you figured out what it costs to turn on and maintain those services. Another thing is to discuss boundaries with her, and ENFORCE them …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 07:08 PM
8

I had this problem for a LONG time. I'm witty and quick with the jokes, and I can get a lot of laughs. The problem becomes that it's mistaken for showering her with flattery and attention - traits that make a GREAT beta orbiter. What I found to work was limit the jokes to two or three per conversation. Anything more would ruin the moment, and that's what you want. You need to exude the intense vibe, and you can't do that while smiling and joking. Another thing that seemed to work was to be funny…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 06:29 PM
1

Awesome post! I also salute you for having the willpower and good sense to not shit where you eat. Maintained frame like a fucking train!
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 07:28 PM
1

Be careful what information you tell a girl. They tend to file away anything that can be useful later, and they pay attention to EVERYTHING. Lying (or being truthful) and telling a girl you have had 10 partners will be used against you at some point if you get with her - guaranteed. My wife STILL has no idea how many women I've been with and when she brings it up and says "But I told you how many I was with!" I just tell her "Honey, that information will do you no good. You'll just stew over it …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 07:16 PM
2

I would have to agree with /uIamAwaken. The fact that they are dating and wanting to contact you says they either want some plates on the side, or they are inviting you back to your old orbiter position because their satellite supply is dwindling. Maintain frame and decide what - if anything - YOU want from THEM. I had this happen to me on FB too, and tbh I was so disgusted at the thought of talking to these women who used me as their emotional tampon that I just had no interest in conversing wi…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 07:02 PM
2

Well THAT makes sense now! :D
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 06:54 PM
2

Ok, real talk time. My wife and I were married for a few years before we had our first kid and it was scary as fuck, not gonna lie. She was nervous about what it would do to her body and I was nervous for her, hoping everything would come out OK. As things moved farther along, tensions only increased. Sex dried up (part of it was me because I thought it might be dangerous to the baby lol) and the stress manifested in her being bitchy and me being distant. After the birth things were good again (…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 06:51 PM
1

Alpha and Beta are behaviors and mindsets that differentiate between a confident, dominant leader and a compliant insecure follower. Women want the former and not the latter. The two aren't mutually exclusive either - you can have betas with alpha traits and vice versa. It's all about what works best for you and your current situation. Learning when to concede and when to stand firm is key. Using common sense while keeping your goals in mind should help with making those decisions.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 06:28 PM
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Wow. Was that blogger in the right forum? Because I haven't had '8-10% body fat' rammed down my throat as much as they seem to espouse the idea. Sensationalism to affirm BP beliefs and win tons of internet feels from supporters. Anybody who would look down on improving one's self and reaping the benefits is not somebody who's opinion I would value.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 06:20 PM
2

The whole feminist movement nowadays can be easily dismissed as women trying to get away with shit. Sure, there was a time when women couldn't vote or attend university. Their wages WERE less than a man's and so feminism helped even the playing field. However, feminism has outgrown it's usefulness, and the modern incarnation of feminists don't really have any more real dragons to slay. The problem becomes that feminists want preferential treatment, which completely undermines the whole 'equality…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 12:11 PM
1

Women don't accept blame. They rationalize, hamster and justify.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 01:30 AM
4

I almost wish they WOULD ban the word 'crazy' in reference to women. It would give us the opportunity to use 'batshit' more often. "Yea, I started talking to Gertrude, but come to find out that girl is TOTALLY batshit, so I bailed." It would make them wish they had 'crazy' back.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 01:09 AM
1

There's no such thing as bad publicity.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 01:03 AM
2

YUP I agree! Hamster's gonna hamst and she's hamsting as fast as hamsterly possible.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 12:57 AM
1

THIS. Give a woman an opportunity to snoop and SHE WILL take it.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 12:53 AM
14

"Society made me this way!" :D
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 12:37 AM
3

I agree that it has been advised to treat a woman like a child during shit testing, but you have to admit there's missing information. NO WOMAN would ever paint herself in an unflattering light. Unless her man makes an appearance to defend his side of things, we can only imagine what behavior of hers has prompted him to act the way he does.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 12:27 AM
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No. If you murder an alpha man you go to prison and become a sexual plaything for alpha men. If you beat up an alpha male, all that does is create drama and sympathy for him - and we ALL know how women love drama and sympathy! Hell, the fluttering of hamsters around him might be enough to suck in a few new females that have come around to see what all the fuss is about!
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 12:22 AM
3

Distance yourself, either slowly and casually, or quick and dirty - up to you. Some day you may find a girl that's worth investing in, and do you really want this prick worming his way next to her? He has no sense of guy code and has no problem taking from others to satisfy his urges. He is what gives the rest of us men a bad name - not that he's a player, but that he's a -bad- player. A friend who does not honor the guy code is no friend. NEVER mow another man's lawn! And if you absolutely MUST…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 11:44 PM
3

Pssshh! They have righteousness, karma and the balance of the universe on their side! There's no WAY they could lose! :D
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 09:32 PM
7

NO RAGRETS!
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 09:30 PM
1

Thanks! I won't even bother with Itunes myself. Worst thing Apple has going for it imo.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 08:30 PM
1

A fool fights to change the world. A wise man works to change himself. There is simply no use giving RP advice to people - even fellow men - until they are READY to accept it. Once their hearts are broken, their spirits are crushed and they are left with that dazed 'where did it all go wrong' look, THAT'S when most people will be ready to accept it. Some of us were able to recognize TRP truths before damage could be done, but most of us learned the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 08:17 PM
1

They all smell like fish! :D
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 07:17 PM
3

Well... THANK GOD we have SJWs to defend us all! :D haha
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 07:04 PM
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She did a Princess Di haha
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 06:59 PM
25

YES! She forgot she wasn't with her friends and gave the 'safe' answer, that her friends would have wholeheartedly agreed on. And she wondered why everybody was shooting beer out of their nose, gagging and laughing at her.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 08:24 AM
1

If he cared enough about the sex part he would have made a similar disclosure before marriage. If he has the means to support her entitled ass, he's probably doing well for himself and living it up with friends and plates. For my own happiness, this is what I choose to believe, otherwise this is every man's marital nightmare right here.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 08:15 AM
1

Not to mention she has given him one HELLUVA reason to cheat! :D
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 08:08 AM
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Women are very much herd animals. That's why a group of women will go piss together at a club, listen to the same music, think the same guys are hot, etc. Going against the herd risks shaming or shunning. Fitting in with the rest of the herd is deeply ingrained into their opinions and views. She gave a very generic and socially acceptable answer because although her girlfriends were not there, she forgot herself and was trying to appease the herd. Of course, being guys, you called her on her bul…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 07:56 AM
4

"RAAAAAWR! I am a Red Pill Man! I will try and force sex from you because you are a woman and therefore I must victimize you, because you are a woman! RAWRRR!" And the big scary Red Pill Man almost had me, but I was able to wiggle out of his grasp! See those fingernail marks on my skin? The ones that aren't accompanied by any other scratch marks or bruises like the ones a much larger, more powerful sex-crazed man would leave? HE DID THOSE WHEN HE TRIED TO RAPE ME! The more bullshit they spin, th…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 04:26 AM
3

Good on you for maintaining your resolve and holding your ground! Putting yourself first is the best thing you can do.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 04:17 AM
2

What's worse, oneitis can be more like a drug, where we feel that we NEED the constant stimulus or we feel 'incomplete'. That is not a place I will ever stoop to again.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 04:16 AM
1

Cheer up! We men are not exactly worthless - we're just disposable and to blame for everything that goes wrong, everywhere and at all times. :D
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 08:22 PM
1

Yes, but you're not a woman, so it 'doesn't count', according to society at large.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 08:09 PM
2

Women are almost like real people! Minus the sense of humor, soul and ability to take full responsibility for their actions! :D Edit: I say this jokingly. Except for the sense of humor and responsibility part.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 01:14 AM
2

Because her Supersolipsism would have kicked in and she would have just grabbed John's mic instead, since the universe DOES revolve around her, and the audience and TV cameras were there just for HER.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 01:05 AM
3

They are just words. What's more, they are passionate words spoken in anger. This sub provides a safe haven for men to vent and decompress without worrying about backlash or being shamed. There are a lot of wounded men here that are trying to find their center, and that can be a messy process - especially when we realize that what we accepted as truth about society and interaction with women has been completely WRONG. While this a necessary part of the process, it's important not to dwell on it …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 12:51 AM
1

It's the 'Clerks' scene all over again!
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 10:13 PM
12

I imagine once he finds out about her, in his mind he'll be tasting all of those dicks every time he kisses her. D:
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 07:18 PM
2

Agree! My first time was when I was 17 and it was AWFUL. I did it just because I felt like I 'should' do it, not because I was comfortable doing it.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 08:58 AM
1

A paternity test saved my life! Edit: Not literally. Rather, it saved me from becoming further involved in a messy situation. ;)
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 07:09 AM
1

The best acid test is 'logic'.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 11:20 AM
1

There once was a hamster who wrote, The Red Pill was too big for her throat. She tried to rebuff, but burnt out her clutch! Now she's spinning in a cloud of foul smoke!
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 10:56 AM
2

LOL BYOH! Bring Your Own Hamster!
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 10:48 AM
1

I dunno... how long has the U.S. 'unofficially' been at war?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 10:35 AM
2

He probably introduces her as "my girlfriend. She probably refers to him when he's not around as "my friend".
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 10:33 AM
1

She's not mad that you did as promised. In her mind, what you want is irrelevant. She didn't get what she wanted, so she ended it with you. She might come back around after she realizes: she misses you and doesn't have any better options at the moment you aren't going to be the one to crawl back to HER :( you have her dickmatized If she doesn't come back then you move on too. SHE'S the one that left.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 10:22 AM
1

True. I have also noticed since coming here that a lot of the observations I myself have made about men, women, relationships and society over many years of heartache, frustration and denial have been all laid out in the hopes of educating others. There is no definitive answer to many situations, but knowing the lay of the land (knowledge) will give you a fighting chance.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 09:53 AM
1

I agree. It all translates into desire, whatever form it manifests.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 09:38 AM
5

Joke: God saw Adam moping around in The Garden and asked him what was wrong. "I'm lonely." God says to him "But I made you this wonderful garden, with all these beautiful plants and animals!" "I know." Mumbles Adam. "But I'm the only one like me." God thinks about this and says "Tell you what! I'll create a mate for you!" Adam perks up at this. "Sure! I'll make her the most beautiful creature you've ever seen! I'll call her 'woman' and she will be at your beck and call! She will live only to ser…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 09:27 AM
2

If it were me I'd just pretend she got hit by a bus. Mourn for a bit and think fondly of the hot sex you had together. Don't speak ill of the dead, just leave them in the ground and continue living. She sounds crazier than a bag of cats and you KNOW this. Besides sex (which is not a good enough reason to put up with her imo), what will you gain by being the one that calls a 'truce'? With women, kindness can often be misinterpreted as weakness to be exploited. You ran away. Good for you. Stay awa…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 09:11 AM
1

After swimming across an ocean of lies and sloshing through miles of bullshit, all the while asking yourself WHY, you finally arrive at The Truth. "WHAT. THE. FUCK? I came all this way for THIS ugly motherfucker?" And while you are staring at it, it's staring back at you. A sense of calm comes over you as you realize that all the obstacles that were in your way can be walked around. The monsters under your bed were just shadows. And the booming voices of those who would tell you who you should b…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 08:39 AM
4

Be content in knowing that you are seen as an embodiment of everything that she sees wrong with TRP. By attacking you and attempting to emasculate you, she demeans herself and discredits whatever ideology she identifies with. Just remember: the best revenge is to live well and let your critics see you do it.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 08:54 AM
1

Hawt!
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 10:06 AM
2

To be fair, at least Yngwie has skills, albeit very limited skills (diminished arpeggio sweeps that he has committed to muscle memory, to the point that hooking a battery up to his corpse, he could probably play 3 or 4 complete Malmsteen songs). She is in a far lower realm than Yngwie. At least he has tasted some glory in the past. That woman wouldn't be fit to mop the sweat from his Swedish meatballs.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 09:46 AM
1

Yup. Can confirm. Am not as tall but similarly built (better hairline though!). I foraged far outside my number scale and got hotter girls than I should have when I was single. Attitude is everything.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 05:14 PM
7

Yup. I used to think only tinfoil hat wearers believed in that NWO Police State shit. Now all I have to do is look around and I see the changes everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 03:25 PM
2

Fuck. I wrote a goddamn essay before I read the comments more clearly. Ok, so your problem is being sexual with women you just met, and you feel you need to be drunk. I've been there. Alcohol is a cruel mistress. She gives you the artificial courage to do what you need to do, but takes the libido (and sometimes your boner) and flushes it down the fucking toilet. I have had some of the worst sex (there is such a thing, believe me!) while drunk. Nothing worse than trying to fuck a chick you KNOW y…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 02:22 PM
2

I always ask myself 'is the pleasure worth the pain?'. Then I proceed accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 06:24 AM
1

I used to be Gamma. I had been the 'nice guy' beta friend to so many girls that I liked. I didn't come out of my shell until after high school, when I started partying. At first, I had the 'yea, who needs 'em!' attitude. I fully embraced that for a while. I told myself that I was single because I 'chose' to be single, but really it was because I had ZERO game and I knew it. I had gone from beta to gamma - the beta is woeful and tries too hard, while the gamma realizes their situation and accepts…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 05:58 AM
1

Never fly solo. In my day, I was the wingman that jumped on the grenade, and I say that with pride. I got WAY more tail than my other friends because I had no shame and would just have fun. Sure, a lot of them were overweight and plain looking, but they were happy to get it and VERY accommodating. Several times I also ended up with the hotter girls on later meetups (girls talk). Sure, we all want to get the hot cheerleader, but what I learned is that pussy is pussy. And honestly, some of the mor…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 04:24 AM
1

When you mean it. Showing affection is not 'unmanly'. There is a difference between being a whiny bitch-boy and showing that you're human. As long as you know that difference you're fine. None of us are made of stone.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 04:10 AM
1

As a man with a HUGE sex drive, I have never paid money for sex. I feel that sex is a human right, and that paying for it would make me less of a man. I respect myself too much to pay some filthy whore money to touch my dick. The sex wouldn't last that long, but the diseases could last a lifetime.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 04:07 AM
3

DO NOT FALL for the 'let's just be friends' trick. You will regret it. I was beta as fuck in school and I always thought I could first be friends with the girls I liked and then they would see what a great guy I was and allow me to date them. Wrong. I just ended up carrying their books home and listening to them talk about the guys they were fucking. Being a girl's friend after a failed attempt / relationship is pretty much the same thing. You will bear the mark of shame and she will be a consta…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 03:35 AM
1

Sometimes you just gotta hold your nose and pound that tuna!
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 03:26 AM
3

DON'T be friends with girls you dig. or it will friendzone you EVERY time. first impressions are everything for girls. you have to make your intentions known. flirt. tell them you think they are hot. and if this seems overwhelming to you, then do this: act like you don't give a fuck. when you stop to think about it.... you have nothing to lose and everything to gain when you walk up, introduce yourself and tell a girl you think she's pretty. or hot. or whatever. worst case: you'll get the snotty…
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:37 PM
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