Now I'm not in need of advice with women. More what to do with myself now I have become single. Quick story. I was in the final year of college, met a girl, fell for each other, dated for a year. Things started to fail in the final 2 months, we agreed to split. I didn't argue with her, as we had both done each other wrong. We hugged for about 5 minutes said goodbye and that was is. I was happy with how well we handled it. Seemed mature, like our relationship felt. So that's that. It's been about 5 weeks ish since that day.

I now live back at home as I graduated. I've managed to get an okay job, working for the local council. But I'm back out of the city in my home town. And its totally dead. I no longer have a social life. And no chance of meeting girls. My old friends are all ether still at uni or too busy with LTR's to care.

So I'm left with what to do. I want to take this time to re build myself. Learn skills, continue to develop my design skills, draw, finish my graphic novel. Learn to play my saxophone again. Read. Workout. Make myself and awesome person again like I was when I met my ex. Then when I have the money, move back to the city and have a life again, though I can't realistically move out until after February. Seems so far away.

Is this the right thing for me to be doing? And how the hell do I stop thinking about my ex fucking guys? Literally I sit in at home on a Saturday night, nothing to do, really trying to focus on my work, but she keeps popping into my head. I KNOW she's with guys. I'm not upset, more jealous? Makes me feel like a waste of space. All I can think is her saying "So glad I split up with that waste of space" Whilst enjoying some cock. Ugh.

I'm very positive about the future. And in general feel like I'm a pretty sound guy. Just this present I find myself in is rather shit.

Any advice on this kind of situation? I can't be the only guy to have been in it. Just wish I was still at college and to sleep with a few girls to take my mind of things.

Thanks, needed that off my chest.