I've been told that I give off a thirsty vibe. Women have told me that as soon as they saw me, before I spoke or acted, they could tell that I was preoccupied with sexual thoughts. I've been told that this vibe is offputting and makes women defensive.

To be totally honest I am rather thirsty. I haven't had sex in a month and I'm staying in a town with lots of beautiful women so it's hard not to think about sex. What can I do to cultivate a better vibe? Should I jack off before I go out or get a hooker (legal here) to fight the outcome dependency?