So we shall call the girl A. Her and I had been hooking up for about 2 months. Casual and very low key since we go to the same small school. I was couple semesters ahead of her and I would be leaving soon(long distance) to another location where she would be heading there as well in 3 semesters.

Before I left, she wanted more commitment from me and wanted a full blown relationship...I wasn't ready and was mainly in it for the sex. She asked me straight up couple days before I left, and I said No.

I still maintained contact and about a week after, I changed my mind and wanted to try long distance, but she had already made up her mind and that after I had said No, she put lost any feelings she had for me like that. She still talked to me as friends I guess. Fast foreword a few months...we had kept on talking. I stupidly asked her again if she wanted to try and make this work; same response as before. (I later found out that she had been hooking up with a guy for 2 months who later transfered out to another school)

We facetime often, I should have gotten the hint because it had been always me that started the calls/conversations. She would always answer. I could still tell that she had feelings for me. She was drunk once and she said that she felt bad because she couldn't give me what I wanted. I would ignore her and say that it was best if we didn't talk to each other. She would feel hurt about it, but I would somehow I would still restart our conversations. I guess you could say I kept giving her whip-lash by how I had kept changing my mind.

So now, We talked and I told her what I really wanted and I was willing to try and wait for her to catch up and be here in another semester, but she said that she has feelings for me, but she just doesn't see our relationship having a future.(we are from different backgrounds is the reason she gave) I would get mad and say we shouldn't talk and end it, then the next day we would be facetiming. She just wants to keep talking as friends I guess...but idk how when I know she still has feelings for me. She says that she can compartmentalize/bury her feelings, etc. idk what to do...any advice?