What now

Misteralcala · 2014-11-19T20:04:28+00:00

It's like walking a tight rope or climbing a mountain. You don't look down and stare at the abyss. You don't look up and feel the weight of the mountain bearing down on you. Instead, you focus on one foot in front of the other and work on one handhold at a time.

You're doing awesome, and you're going about it the exact right way. You can't will success and fortune into being - it has to be fought for, earned and conquered every step of the way. Keep your goals small and manageable, but always pointing toward the bigger picture. Along the way you will become who you want to be. There is only the journey, and the destination is where you see yourself tomorrow and the next day and the next. Good luck.

tombreck2 · 2014-11-19T19:52:59+00:00

What would this man do?

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kingofpoplives · 2014-11-19T21:03:48+00:00

Despair is a vice. Don't give into it like a weakling. Life feels like shit sometimes. That's true for everybody. But take it like a man and time will pass and things won't seem so bad anymore. Keep working towards your goals and you'll be fine.

theeemaster · 2014-11-20T04:22:27+00:00

But it never feels like enough. For reasons I cannot explain, I feel like an absolute loser. The world is slowly wilting away and there is no future for my generation. The strives I've made to better myself are for naught as I feel no different now than I did then.

honestly, I feel chasing white american pussy is just tough and not worth it.. you can find close enough white pussy in the ukraine (well it was better before it was bombed.. :D ) and tons in the Philippines.. You are either going to have to up your game.. or go where the fish are.. that's my suggestion..

Yah, know I find it much funner when woman chase men.. not vice versa :P

Naonin · 2014-11-20T17:52:24+00:00

For reasons I cannot explain, I feel like an absolute loser.

Hmm, sounds like you might be struggling with some depression.

You're moving forward with life, have a well established foundation, independent, lost weight. So what's the next step? You have to decide for certain what gives you your jollies but I think that's what the next step is.

Passion. Find a passion. You have your foundation. Ever hear the saying "do what you can tolerate to fund what you love to do"? It sounds like you have the funding but you just need an investment. All investments take time and work but are very rewarding and make you feel like a boss as you progress. Here are some options:

Learn a musical instrument.
Do something outside: shooting guns, archery, hiking, mountain climbing, swimming, fishing, climbing trees... something. There are so many options for outside things it's amazing.
Fully functional mini airplanes/helicopters. Those things are only a few hundred dollars and really really cool. Learn to do tricks with them.
Lift.

Try nofap/noporn and stop watching TV. Limit reddit time to an hour a day. Then go live. That should get you feeling like a champion instead of a loser. You'll be forced to find something to fill your day that you love doing.

oldredder · 2014-11-21T17:46:44+00:00

Do for yourself, not your generation. There's a few pockets of fun & glory to be had. Then move. Like immigrate. Your "generation" isn't failing, your country is.

Title	What now
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Date	November 19, 2014 7:28 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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