There is a strategy I recently discovered in communication. The method is: -Always use affirmations. Never ask questions-
It could sound strange but basically I noticed that I asked a lot of questions to people (especially about things that I did not even care about things). examples. -What did you do last night?- -How was your weekend?- And the worst of all -What you and your boyfriend did this summer for holiday? I think I did this just to 'make the other person feel comfortable'. A typical Nice Guy behavior and doing that I was emasculating myself in every question I did. I think that asking question is a betha attitude. Alpha males in fact do not ask questions, they pretend they have all the answers.
How I discovered the method
I enjoy to do improvisation theater and there they taught us that in scenes we must never ask question because we block the scene. For examples. In a scene where you see a man cutting a tree, don't say -Hey what are you doing?- because you block the scene but instead do an affirmation (and also try to guess). like -Hey Tom, I see you are cutting a tree, probably you have a lot of other trees to cut today-. You add information and the scene continue. Then I had the illumination moment and I said to myself -This could work in real life- and so I started to use a different game with people in general and with women -When you talk with someone never ask questions-
This is my method of interaction with people:
1) I never ask questions. I use only statements
2) If I want to ask something I use an indirect affirmation (example. I do not ask the question -What did you do last weekend?- but I use the statement -I hope you had a good weekend- and then the other person starts to talk about his/her weekend).
3) I guess and suppose (ex. Instead of asking -Are you tired?- I say-I see you tired. I suppose you had to work a lot today).
4) Before speaking I always ask to myself -What do I want to say?- and I do not try to please the other person talking of something I do not care. (with some limits of course, ad example I tend to talk of food with women and of video games with nerds and stay in the limits of courtesy and civilization).
Examples from real life
Well this strategy may be not rocket science but it is working a lot for me. For example there is a girl from work (I now it is a red alert), but basically she started to laugh to my jokes, talk to me, touch me in some occasions, even send me little hearths on the phone. Even if she says she does this because she sees me as not emotional and she want to show me the emotional side of life. She has a boyfriend and I will never do anything with her but what strikes to me is all this feminine attention I never received before. Another woman 40yo, overweight at work she was mean to me and I was super Blue Pill and submissive to her. Well guys she now treats me super good and invite me at her house and prepare food for me and touches me. And this after that I started to use this method. So please, try this method I invented and tell me what do you think and if it works for you.
If you have any questions please feel free to ask me and I can provide more 'real life examples' while I am testing this method by myself.
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