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[–]makethemwant2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes, it's normal to start to hate women, and some people get stuck there, but hopefully you will not.
After a while you should see that everything ""is what it is" - including women's patterns of relating to men and to the world.
Women can add a lot of value to your life, or they can take a lot of value from it. It's up to you to understand how they operate so that you can have value-creating relationships with the women in your life, and so you limit your risk of being blind-sided.
[–]monerap[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks. I don't want to be like some people, what can i do to not stuck? What is suggestion for me?
[–]1DRMMR766 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Rubber band effect. You went from putting them on a pedestal and thinking they're sweet chaste princesses to seeing their devious, cruel, self-serving, manipulative underside. After time it should equalize and you'll just start seeing them as people. Keep in mind, most people male or female are shitty, selfish, lazy, mean, and manipulative too. You're actually far closer to just seeing women as people now than you were before. But people as we really are, not the idealized fantasy fairy tale versions of people.
[–]barmaleo5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yep. Next big step will be once you stop giving a fuck about them. When pussy's just a pussy and woman's just a woman and there's not much else about them. You'll take off your pussy goggles and will start to lke them again but for different reasons.
[–]1User-31f64a4e1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You had a theory about how people and society worked. It was normative. You made value judgements based on it. And then your found out it was untrue.
You describe the reality of coming to accept that your model of the world was untrue. So you realize that objectively, TRP captures the facts.
The hate is because you haven't given up thinking that Blue Pill should be true. You are still making moral judgements based on your old theories of how women should be.
You know TRP is true, but you haven't adjusted your value system to account for it.
[–]monerap[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Thanks man, your answer exactly described my situation. I still have some accepting issues about TRP. I know it is true but... What is your suggestion for me? To not stuck at this point, for moving further?
[–]1User-31f64a4e1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Now you see what's going on clearly. You've had the insights. Not just TRP, but into your reaction to it.
From here, I think that the passage of time will take care of it.
Anything you can find in the personal growth arena that promotes self awareness can help, but be careful; a lot of that is very Blue Pill.
[–]monerap[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why a lot of that is BP? You mean just reading instead of acting is BP?
[–]1User-31f64a4e1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No, I mean that some of the personal growth programs and so on are infected with new age nonsense, worship of the feminine, etc. etc.
The bits the promote self knowledge and self acceptance are great. The bits that promote white knighting and saving the world, your mileage might vary.
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