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Lifting doesn't make sense right now. Putting in long days of physical labor on the farm. No weights or gyms for miles and miles, anyway. Can get back into that in about a month or so. I could just start doing extra push ups, squats and sit-ups, on top of the farmwork, because fuck it, I'm a badass. Yes?
/r/askMRP26/01/18 03:39 PM
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As redpillschool suggests, read the sidebar. This is textbook beta-provider placement. That should make you mad. Use that anger to give her less emotional access. You're letting yourself be used as an emotional validation whore and she is losing respect for you by the day. The more she can control you, the more it seems she wants you, but really, she's likely to be primarily wanting you as her Beta provider bitch.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 03:01 PM
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The fact that the pinnacle of girls are 6s on that site gives me hope that the real hotties and worthwhile girls are not on those sites. I tried online dating for all of 1 week before I figured out that I didn't enjoy such a low response rate from mediocre-looking and high-needs-having females. In person, chicks love my vibe, my smile, my obvious show of confidence. Dating apps can't do me, or any wholistically developed RP man, justice. Delete the apps.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 02:52 PM
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Lol. As has been said before, power-fucking and staying dominant are two different things. Thanks for the anecdote.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 02:25 PM
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First I want to say I feel your pain and understand that you don't see the point of existence if this is how things are. That is great because if you're willing to end it all, it means you're willing to change EVERYTHING about your life. So consider the following changes and approaches. Never give up. Your despair is just fuel for more radical changes in your life. See it as such: Change where you are. Change cities, change countries, change work industry. Work in hospitality in New Zealand or A…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 09:29 AM
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Men have 17 times more testosterone than women. Testosterone is one of the primary contributors to sex drive. End of discussion. http://www.everydayhealth.com/sexual-health/sexual-dysfunction/testosterone-and-low-libido.aspx
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 12:06 AM
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First off women want [...] sex just as much as men False
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/15 11:41 PM
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I just happened to make this post in support of the primary conclusion in another thread: The primary conclusion of Red Pill Philosophy: The best way to live one's life is by setting firm boundaries and by developing your self The primary theory underpinning Red Pill Philosophy Women's sexual desires and experience of love is driven by biological imperatives honed by evolution This whole field is very interesting because the question that was asked was "How can I be better with women?", and the …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 11:15 PM
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I don't understand what you're asking
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 11:02 PM
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its highest level description Agreed. Describing the fundamental conclusion of a philosophy is much higher level than describing the theories supporting the philosophy.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 10:55 PM
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Let's get tight with our words. "Red Pill" is vague. Red Pill Philosophy and Red Pill Theories have better potential for enclosing meaning discretely. Definitions: Philosophy - A philosophy is made up of beliefs based on theories. Theory - Theories are based on observations and can refer to a hypothesis or set of hypotheses. The primary conclusion of Red Pill Philosophy: The best way to live one's life is by setting firm boundaries and by developing your self The primary theory underpinning Red …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 10:52 PM
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These numbered items could be converted into affirmations with great effect.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 05:51 AM
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You've already received good advice - that you should go to the party. Once you get there, be super sociable, like Danedina suggests. The best way to start the process is with the very first person you see, who is physically close to you. Whoever opens the door, who ever happens to be standing near the doorway. Immediately turn to whoever is closest and initiate social contact. Say hello, make eye contact, smile. If appropriate, give a firm handshake and introduce yourself, asking for others' na…
/r/askTRP24/04/15 11:31 PM
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I give her the best sex she's ever had. In the short term, it couldn't be better if it weren't for the fact that my logical mind is super-concerned about the long-term, and the fact that she's a family friend, and the whole camps thing...
/r/askTRP24/04/15 10:06 PM
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Too much confidence can intimidate them if you don't simultaneously put them at ease with the funny in cocky/funny.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 09:17 PM
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Buddhist perspective here. Once you become aware of the extent to which we are all connected, then you realize that to injure anyone else is to injure oneself.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 11:33 AM
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Neural etwork perspective here. We're all connected. As biologically programmed social animals, we are necessarily sensitive to the well-being of those around us. Facial and gross motor gestures from others activate our mirror neurons which activate emotional responses. Pheromones also likely play an effect. Our ability to imagine what someone else is thinking is likely an evolutionary adaptation. By chemically rewarding us for caring about each other, our lizards, and the brain network they use…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 11:24 AM
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he should have escalated He should have escalated if what? If he wanted sex? What if he wants more than sex? Does anyone here understand the value of enjoying women's company? I had the opportunity to sleep with a beautiful girl in Thailand. She said no with her mouth but yes with her body, several times. I never made the move because I was actually enjoying hanging out with her, because I didn't want things to get awkward, because I could get sex from others when I wanted it. If you really have…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 01:33 AM
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What's MTRP? I'm interested. The "young fella" quote was an example of what I thought would be a good thing for newbs to hear upon introduction to the forum, to try and ease them through the overwhelm of seeing so much hate and anger openly expressed. Not directed at you. You seem cool.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 10:17 PM
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Right. Like there should be some quiz you have to pass before you can comment. Also, a stickied post or two at the top would be good. The recent post about the five stages of Red Pill acceptance would help to clarify things for those who think mistakenly think they've found a simple-minded forum of hate-preaching bigots. "Yes. Some people here preach hate. They're in stage 2. You're probably in stage 1, so tread easy young fella."
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 04:39 PM
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...if you have ANY people coming in and saying that, there's clearly an issue with how the community is presenting itself. Disagree. TRP is supposed to be a safe space for men to discuss things free from Feminists and politically correct nazis. It is a discussion ground, not a marketing piece. The purpose of TRP is not to "present itself" to society. It is for the sole benefit of men interested in improving themselves and how they interact with women and the world. I, too, would like to be part …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 03:22 PM
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There's a lot I have to say about this...
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 02:53 PM
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Mmm. There's 100,000+ members and the moderators have a hard job of it. It wouldn't be unreasonable for them to silence someone for two weeks if it doesn't look like they've put in any time actually trying to read through posts and actually understand what's going on. Besides, you'll get much more out of this sub by reading and commenting on posts, as opposed to posting. Especially as a newb, any posts you feel inclined to put up will probably have a few glaring flaws in that they won't address …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 02:36 PM
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Condolences on being incel. It sounds like you know, intellectually, about the importance of being able to talk with others and yet you still have issues with it. Have you studied conversation techniques and implemented a well-structured plan for practicing them? I suggest this 3-day plan (taken from Nick McLaren's 10-day plan of action). I have never made it through his 10-day plan without picking up a plate. Never. He is the original student and master of this art of seduction, as far as I'm c…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 12:26 PM
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Don't worry 'bout the haters. Solid example of what it is to really know you have your woman locked down. Some man-children think it's not possible because they've never had that deep understanding of and control over a woman's internal state. LPT: Don't include sentimental kisses in your stories. It makes people gag a little, myself included.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 09:06 AM
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The idea of fucking someone who used to be a dude makes me physically ill. The blood and neural networks underlying every inch of their skin is male. That is a male ass you would be grabbing. Vomit. I'm sorry. I am very much in favor of non-hate, but I can't pretend that thinking of fucking a dude makes me sick.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 03:14 AM
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Good analysis. Point awarded. However, there is also a biological imperative in women that pushes them to settle down. If she has a huge sex drive and no exes, she may have developed the ability to dampen this biological urge. You don't want to settle with someone who has a weak urge to stay committed and strong urge to have sex.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 03:10 AM
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Dude. Feels are what give life texture and meaning. If you are happy with only the feels you get from sex and from your other non-female interests, that's fine. That's your choice and I respect it. You may find that changes over time, depending on your age and your surroundings. If you're stuck on a desert island with nothing but women to keep you company, what you find interesting may shift. I have done so many different thrill sports and hobbies - including MMA, surfing, skate-boarding, sky-di…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 03:05 AM
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I think that the best solution is to come up with standard ways of pointing to Red Pill truths in ways that inspire thought and deliberation. For each red pill truth, there should be a "way to point outsiders to it". For example, in the case of the "schedules of mating" truth, I use language like: Me: You know that study about how what women find attractive differs depending on where in their ovulation cycle they are? Them: Yeah Me: That's proof that women have a biologically programmed desire t…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 02:50 AM
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First, thanks for asking before down-voting. You know that "high" that you get when you're around a beautiful woman that you think you might be able to fuck? All your senses are amplified. The air feels cooler in your nostrils, your heart beats a little stronger, your brain runs a little faster. These are chemical rewards, from your lizard, for doing something it thinks is right. These chemical rewards is what we are all slaving too, and we are projecting the source of those rewards as "vagina".…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 02:39 AM
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It sounds like she's pretty "in love" with you, in her head and like she knows that she shouldn't be doing what she did. So she's trying to rationalize it to you, talking about "the void" (Translation: it's not her fault she's horny when you're not around). First suggestion, don't respond for a long time (relative to your normal time-frame for responding). E.g., if you're messaging her roughly once every 24 hours, at least double your response time. This will institute dread and cause her to thi…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 02:28 AM
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Makes sense and resonates with my personal experience. TRP dialogical path to truth, for the win.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 02:19 AM
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He was probably an orbiter who she instructed to hold her purse. The dude she could hang with in case there wasn't enough interest from other alphas in the club.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 02:18 AM
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I have never cringed so hard. omg.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 02:15 AM
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If you fuck her discreetly, in the broom closet, so to speak, then end it relatively quickly, you are helping her satisfy her biological need. Keep it quiet and no one gets hurt. Her Beta never needs to know. She won't tell him. It won't do him any good. The key is to not know them both socially, so you don't keep running into her, triggering her desire for more. If you trick a girl into thinking you're the next branch, so she leaves her beta (or emotionally disconnects from him), and then you f…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 02:09 AM
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Yes. All women have a biologically programmed desire to be dominated sexually. They want to put up a fight, but they want you to win. Once I was dominating this girl so hard that I had to stop because I wasn't sure if I was actually raping her. So I stopped for a second and evaluated the situation. Her ass pulsed towards me, so I stuck it back in and continued railing her. AWALT
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 02:03 AM
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Hmm. Nod up: I'm with you Nod down: I'm separate from you (either above or below) This makes sense in terms of the whole exposing of one's neck. You would only expose your neck around people you're comfortable with, who you consider part of your "in" group.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 01:59 AM
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when moral evaluations start, understanding stops Yes. No actions are universally morally right or wrong. Morality is a social construct - a set of rules designed by society to limit the experience of emotional pain. Ultimately, all behavior is motivated by biology and experience.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 01:57 AM
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this belongs on r/asktrp. She's trying to rationalize her biological desire to fuck these men and reconcile it with the fact that she thinks she loves you. Best thing you can do to prevent cheating is to simultaneously let her know that you are a massive alpha and that you will kick her to the curb if she cheats on you while still showing that you don't give a fuck...
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 01:51 AM
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You and OP are both right. Nod up to friends. For some alpha males, everyone is his friend. In other words, he assumes good rapport with everyone, and so he always nods up.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 01:47 AM
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If she's looking for the alpha sperm, she'll say almost anything and do almost anything to get it.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 01:42 AM
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stop taking things so seriously.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 01:27 AM
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I appreciate the comment in support of "not inferior, different". They may be inferior from the strictly masculine perspective. But failing to see the benefits that women bring to life, beyond what's between their legs, is evidence of still being in one of the first four stages of Red Pill acceptance.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 01:25 AM
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Ooh Ooh. Or, EmotionPinging or EmoPinging. This is fun. "I could tell she was in my frame because it was so easy to EmoPing her." Note the Wikipedia definition of a ping: "A ... utility used to test the reachability of a host". Kind of perfect.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 01:13 AM
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FunPolling? Will you explain with a one-liner? What about BrainPinging? - Ping her brain to elicit different emotions. Edit: E.g., what does the polling mean?
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 11:01 PM
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It's a woman's biological imperative to invade male space. It's the only way she could survive in the wild - by ingratiating herself with men and getting into their social circle. Male spaces will always be attacked more virulently and effectively than women's circles. Men could give a fuck about women's book clubs.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 10:36 PM
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Truth. The fraternity of men needs to have a socially acceptable credo of "self development for the betterment of all humankind" so that other people will leave us the fuck alone. And then it's up to us to not give a fuck about how we develop ourselves and what we think society should be.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 10:34 PM
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Absolutely, we need to create and defend "male space". On that note, the PUA community used to have "Lairs" where guys would rent out multi-bedroom apartments together. Is there a similar movement for TRP that I haven't heard about? I'm looking to move to the bay area soon and would prefer to get a room in a place filled with real bros that share a similar philosophy. Whatup TRP?
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 10:30 PM
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What's the significance of your username? Are you just a sadistic fuck who likes to force people to think things that might be unpleasant for them? Because I can appreciate that.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 10:23 PM
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Just read up on the Eternal September. Great reference. It sounds like we have to weather this September before we can move on to the next one...
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 10:15 PM
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FunCocking is awful! Polarizing her emotions is what you're talking about, but you're wanting a fun and buzzy word for it. I appreciate that, but FunCocking isn't it. Keep up the good effort :-)
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 10:08 PM
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For sure. I get you. I think you're terminology lacks that pizzazz you're looking for. How about something like "emotional assault" as a description of the process of bringing a girl from really "negative" to really "positive" states in rapid succession. Like, "I totally emotionally assaulted that bitch last night. One minute she was crying, the next minute she was hysterically laughing. Then she was so angry she tried to throw her drink at me. By the end of it she was absolutely enamored"
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 10:05 PM
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"Or What" - is a great attitude and response. This whole post is about how to think, internally, when people suggest you "should" do something. Externally, I tell all my friends and relatives that "should is shit". "Don't should on me", and with my closer friends I come up with an agreement that I can punch them if they say "should" in any context, and I ask that they please do the same. Should implies judgment, implies knowing what's best for someone else, implies knowing what someone else want…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 09:59 PM
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To be more masculine in your language, speak about action and make things happen. Don’t talk for the sake of talking. Make your point with the minimum of words possible. Great point. Communicating using less words is a more masculine and thus more desired-by-women trait. Remember that one goal of talking can be to get others, and one's self, to laugh. Being able to inspire laughter or fear, or whatever emotion you desire to inspire, using a paucity of language makes you formidable, powerful and …
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 09:44 PM
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Summary of post: Efficiency is a golden standard that should be pursued at every moment. Formal courtship is less efficient than techniques discussed here; sex could and should be gotten in as little as an hour. All of life's big problems are really small shitty problems that could be fixed in an instant if people just approached them the right way. My response: Sex isn't the only goal and courtship can fulfill some of the other goals (e.g., satisfaction and life enjoyment gained from getting to…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 09:38 PM
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I believe we're all circle jerking here, trying to get technical about how to describe flirting.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 09:29 PM
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It's all about the feels. Make Them Want to feel something again, and they are yours.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 09:25 PM
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It's funny how the actual words and phrasing used can make one post so much more valuable than another. Like right now, I'm using words somewhat carelessly. Someone else could say the same thing as this in something like 3 words and manage to inspire much deeper levels of insight. Posts with this level of quality are inspiring.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 09:18 PM
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Thank you for taking the time to re-post such an important bit of text. This was really well laid out. And yes, this should definitely be in the side-bar. I almost wish this was the very first thing I read when I came here.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 09:15 PM
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Yup. Another great point. Male comedians are something that guys can relate to. "Being silly" as I described above, isn't really what comes naturally to guys. It's really an effeminate thing. Sometimes it's fun to play around in that sphere of being silly, but in terms of being centered in your masculine self, "being funny" is a masculine way of not being so serious. Learning to laugh at life, at others, at yourself, is a great way to remove the "bite" out of one's perspective of life. I know th…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 09:11 PM
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While this concept is certainly true from a "life is a very serious thing" perspective, I think that life isn't actually that serious (we all poop. we all die. best to enjoy it while we're here), and that women have something valuable to add in their natural tendency towards being children-like. Didn't Jesus, one prophet of many, say that we should view the world as children do?
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 09:06 PM
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Simple explanation (for why we're serious with one another): we're not women and the "fun" approach doesn't work the same to motivate us. You've hit the nail on the head with this. Why do you think this is? My immediate thought is that our biological programming has us more concerned with avoiding pain (serious, important pursuit) and women's has them more concerned with pursuing pleasure (less serious, but still an important pursuit in terms of maximizing life happiness). Perhaps together these…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 09:01 PM
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Thanks man. Glad I was helpful!
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 08:55 PM
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Because studs are cool and sluts suck. It's cool for there to be a stud in the relationship. It's not cool for there to be a slut in it.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 01:41 PM
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Agree with the message completely, but it's funny, In short... stop. being. so. fucking. serious... The culture here is so serious that even the advice to not be serious is given in a sort of serious way. "You want to turn your life around and be good with women, maggot? Stop being so fucking serious". OP, you did a good job with this post, but at the same time it seems silly to be so serious and straight-forward about telling people to be less serious. The solution, I think, is to shift the foc…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 01:30 PM
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Good guide. The hardest part for me will be going monk mode. I'm addicted to the rush of being around women and there's a couple women who won't let me easily de-plate them...
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 01:17 PM
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Examples are to be kept for FR, I'd recommand. If you're strong with theory, keep with theory, and work your skills at storytelling using FR. No one would through away a theorical post about dirtytalk, as long as it's well written and clear enough. But examples just are not the way to go in that case. This is high quality feedback and I appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 12:01 PM
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Flirting and teasing is a huge key to success with women co-workers. They love it. It makes them feel good about themselves and it makes them feel good about you.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 11:21 PM
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but if they're calling you an asshole there's hope. Perfect
/r/askTRP20/04/15 10:54 PM
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Her: Oh my god Rebekah, I can't believe you slept with him! You: Don't get all high and mighty. Like you don't like sex? Like you wouldn't fuck a stud if you had the chance? Her: (Surprise)(Shock)(Feels!) You: It's okay Rebekah. How was the sex? Was it good? Women love to talk about sex. And talking about sex turns them on. You should support this natural tendency and support them talking about sex in positive ways. This will lead to them pulling you aside for some more one-on-one "chats".
/r/askTRP20/04/15 10:51 PM
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basically treating her as a plate... Be careful. ALWAYS frame your interactions so that the woman understands what is going on. Usually, the best time is immediately after sex. This gives her hamster the rationalization assist. Then, if she doesn't like the situation, she only has herself to blame, because you were clear. If you're not clear about what it is you're doing, she can make like you're just "using" her for sex (as if she gets nothing out of sex). You need to frame the sex as a positiv…
/r/askTRP20/04/15 10:47 PM
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This should be in r/asktrp. As a high schooler, you want to get good at flirting with girls, bottom line. All the principles you could and should read about - push/pull, cocky funny, amused mastery, etc... are all good. But like you said, the goals and milestones will be different. In high school, flirting is a lot about doing things to piss girls off and/or making them laugh. In high school, it's also about hanging out with the cool, fun guys that the girls want to be around. In high school, it…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 10:41 PM
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Traditionally, sympathy, empathy and compassion are understood to be progressively more valuable levels of emotional experience when confronted with someone else's pain. Sympathy - your emotional experience revolves around the feeling of pity. Translation: "That sucks for him." Empathy - your emotional experience is about feeling the same feelings as the other person. Translation. "Wow. I can really feel how much that sucks for him. Like my chest hurts a little." Compassion - your emotional expe…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 10:14 PM
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Nice. Thanks for that. I got a little butt-hurt with all the negative feedback, which is stupid of me. I'm glad to hear it worked so well for you. And her. Just keep up with the progression and the escalation. Each time you have sex you can use commands with more variety and intensity, depending on what feels good to you at the time. For posterity, here's some other fun ones: "Bend over" "Back your ass up" "Yeah. Like that" "You love it don't you?" "You love it, don't you?! Tell me you love it. …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 09:47 PM
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Hey dude. Thanks for this. I feel like I needed the kick in the pants. Sometimes I feel like I've been coddled my whole life by my parents and family and associates. All this talk of "you're so special and handsome and unique." Now while all that may be true, it's not fucking helpful. I yearn for the drill sergeant who will tell me I'm not shit. I want to join the military so someone can yell at me so badly that my mind has to go, "Wait a minute. Fuck you. I am somebody. I can be somebody. I can…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 08:55 PM
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Harsh feedback, but not entirely accurate. thinks...his dirty talking to them ... is the way to go for every men. It was just a description of a method. Not all methods are for all people or for all occasions. I could have clarified that better. Thanks. Basically, OP says what's written in The Sex God Method, but it written way worst and brings nothing valuable to the table. Haven't read TSGM apart from the bullet points, but after having learned about it recently I thought I'd share my perspect…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 06:52 PM
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It's probably good for the human genome, but it's no good for you. I'm interested in your perspective here. Do you think you can live a more satisfying life without an empathetic connection with others? The honest way would be to become that alpha man that your brain wants you to be. There are other ways. What are you talking about? What's your end goal that you feel will bring you the greatest happiness and life satisfaction?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 06:30 PM
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So it looks like your point was to demonstrate that U.S. census data points to the fact that marriage (even multiple marriages) has a positive impact on women's income and a negative impact on men's. Meaning there is a financial incentive for women to behave in accord with AWALT. I think that was your take home point and I think its powerful. Personally I bristled at the idea of "not being able to train a woman". I can train a dog. I can train a cat. I can train my mom, my cousins, my friends. O…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 03:14 AM
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Fortunately or unfortunately, the empathetic mechanism is a critical part of the shared experience of what it means to be human. We're biologically hard-wired for this. Read up on mirror neurons for the hard evidence. There are ways to suppress the mechanism - e.g., don't look at others in the face. Don't make eye contact. But ultimately, my experience is that actively trying to suppress the empathetic connection de-values the actual experience of life and interaction with others. Even if suppre…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 02:54 AM
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32 year old professional male with experience as a husband (which is over thank god), owner of my own company and rising star within my corporate structure. Your comment doesn't add value. Go away.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 02:34 AM
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Wow. This takes some balls to post on this forum. And I fucking love it. It's well said and it reminds me of what my experience has been as well. I don't have time to say more, but well-noted and well-said. You're now a Reddit friend :-)
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 02:30 AM
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Thanks. I'm not actually feeling defensive. I just wanted to emotionally punish him for being a bit of a dick. It was out of line and I needed to let him know, the stupid prick. ;-)
/r/askTRP20/04/15 02:27 AM
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Great nuggets here. Repeated for emphasis and amplification. you can change yourself to the point of being in a permanent semi-state of meditation and clarity. Always being mindful of the thoughts that come into your awareness, even when you're not specifically setting aside time for meditation. It becomes natural, instead of a thing that you consciously do. In a way, this is the exact same as recognizing shit tests and acting accordingly. It's being permanently aware. It's like that moment when…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 07:15 PM
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Maybe it's because it's only the "Alpha" type guys that care about women enough to study them and learn to be effective with them. Wow. This comment gave me tingles. Ha. I think it's because it reminded me of this rule from my very first pick-up book which I purchased mail-order from "Things You Never New Existed and Other Items You Can't Possibly Live Without" back in the 90s (available here). Rule 23: What is your attitude toward women? The point is, to be truly successful with women, you have…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 06:42 PM
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haha. It's kind of sad really that they think that, for everyone involved...
/r/askTRP19/04/15 06:26 PM
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I'm cute? That's so funny. Your mom said the same thing last night. Most information processing happens without a window to consciousness Right, and that information processing is influenced by your subconscious representation of reality - i.e., your subconscious belief system. Affirmations are a way of taking direct action on this subconscious map of reality - the map upon which your subconscious processing takes place. What value are you adding here, exactly? Fuck off.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 06:23 PM
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Personality profiles are only relevant in context. How you are at work is different from how you are with your sports team, is different from how you are with your geek friends is different from how you are with your sister's friends. it feels like I started out as far away from the ideal as possible... There's no value in that statement. Try to focus your attention and energy on things that create value. You're not here to "change the core of your personality", you're here to develop habits of …
/r/askTRP19/04/15 05:59 PM
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Exactly. I'm an alpha male. I rule my sphere. I'm going to say what I think. The confidence and truth hits them so hard they can't think to question me, so they're forced to question themselves and the world they think exists. FTW.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 05:50 PM
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Like you said yourself, you had some great insight driving this post, but the communication intended didn't shine through . I think I see the truths you're pointing at. Let me know. Polarity is required for sexual attraction. Part of what polarizes the male-female interaction is that men are generally proactive and women are generally reactive. However, for alpha males, the roles often get reversed - the alpha male is reactive/being-pursued/screening and the woman is being proactive, pursuing. S…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 05:45 PM
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For women, there is a unique pleasure that is derived from receiving acute physical pain while in the throes of sexual intercourse. It's almost as if her brain perceives she's being raped by an alpha and is saying "Good girl. Fuck him good. You need that sperm. Don't worry about that pain. In fact, you love it."
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 05:09 PM
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She is entirely consumed by it and has no objective or conscious understanding that her outbursts are goal oriented. She is a slave to her emotional chemistry. Yes, and... so are we. The goals we set for ourselves in life - the things that we try to develop ourselves into - are a result of our understanding of where good feelings come from. We're not all here trying to maximize child-count (evolutionary success). We're here trying to maximize life satisfaction, and that has to do with maximizing…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 04:37 PM
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A man loves a woman who makes him feel like a man Great line. Being aware of how things make you feel will allow you to keep your mind in check and keep people from manipulating you by intentionally making you feel that way. What you're pointing to is that we men may get a real chemical reward (from our reptilian brain) for dealing effectively with a woman's shit test. This means that they may have more value to us than previously recognized (based on the value of the feel-good emotions that are…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 04:17 PM
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I'm responding here because Zeal's reply has been the best so far. So far :-) You phrased the question carefully, and I want to respond in kind. You asked for advice about: how to accept that you are the Great Catch as you are right now, how to be more balanced with living life and having fun vs. non-stop self-improvement, and how to reap the rewards of what [you] have built up to this point First answer: The mind-set you need to see yourself as a Great Catch while also being committed to self i…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 03:59 PM
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not worth it. we're obviously talking past each other somehow.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 03:11 PM
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Sorry dude. Didn't mean to attack you at the testicular flame-war level. Just wanting to recommend you triple check your logic.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 02:54 PM
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I'm sorry, you're not very good at this logic thing. Do you happen to be female?
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 02:44 PM
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The real takeaway is that you should 'help keep an honest man honest'. Don't present your LTR with reasons to cheat. Don't be a pathetic psychologically weak castrato, and do not date women that are constantly hanging out alone with men that wish to bed her. You That's the ultimate take-away from all of TRP, IMO.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 02:19 PM
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My tip is to get in with a group of other travelers. In Thailand the situation is the best because the feeling is that the Thais are all out to get you (and they sort of are). It's normal to become really tight with the travelers staying at your hostel almost immediately. Then from there you rent motorbikes and ride through the mountains, you go drinking at different bars and go to the market together, you get arrested by the police for being out past curfew. Your mileage may vary of course.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 02:06 PM
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The Anger Phase generally comes in response to having a girl destroy your soul. Or so I've heard...
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 02:02 PM
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Women need to infiltrate male spaces, demonize male only institutions and complain and cry about sexism because it is their biological imperative to do so and guarantee their place in the tribe. If a woman were to be excluded from a male-only survivor island and forced to live on her own, she'd die. Female shit tests, female manipulation, female social machinations - their entire existence depends on their ability to manipulate men to serve as their protectors. So next time you're mad at shit te…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 01:55 PM
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Pretty sure I broke my last girlfriend. She was nice but I didn't trust her at all... I didn't have as much understanding of the mechanics of how women function as I do now. Was a total asshole when she got uppity, forcing her to see that she was acting like a child, and totally ignoring her afterward. I was nice during other times, when she wasn't being a twat. I did this pretty much exactly. I had just been fucked over by one woman's biological imperative and so I sex-slaved this poor girl and…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 01:24 PM
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Your data shows that marriage is especially not financially advantageous for guys. We know that. Your two anecdotes point to the fact that women care about looks and have the potential to get addicted to an alpha. And...? AWALT no matter what! AWALT for life! Woot. Let's do a circle jerk.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 01:17 PM
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there's a belief that anything sexual or non platonic is only 'acceptable' once a formal and mutual agreement has been formed between both parties that a romanic interest exists So cerebral and so sadly true for Blue Pillers...
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 12:02 PM
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Men ought not be wishing they were like women and enjoying that kind of sexual access from 15-30 -- because we're not women. As men, unless we are among the very few, we peak in our access from, say, 26 to 46 and beyond This should be part of the "Red Pill Truths For Teenage Boys" book.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 11:46 AM
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That's not a problem. That's an opportunity for improvement. And for the record, there is no one "correct" way to handle a girl. Interact with girls only at the levels where you are able to maintain your frame. Eventually, you may want more from them and so you may want to build a stronger frame. But if you don't then don't. It's all good. There are no problems that exist outside of our brain space.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 09:16 PM
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So the point of this forum, I think, is to point to the insights you think you see based on the events you experience. Can you resonate with what he's trying to point out? Do you think he's gotten close to a fundamental truth but isn't seeing it clearly? Perhaps you'd like to elaborate. Or are you going to only support posts which either: a) describe what we already know or b) draw conclusions on the back of rigorous scientific studies. The first is a circle jerk, the second is unreasonable, and…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 09:07 PM
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I love the title. TL;DR - AWALT, even your dear old grandma. I feel like what you're saying is that the "T" in AWALT isn't about sexual behavior, necessarily. It's about all the things that make women's experience of life unique and different and, as such, sometimes an incredible pain in our ass. That's manifested in sexual and emotional infidelity, and also in how your Grandma decides to organize the cabinets. She operates illogically based on fear, and that fucks with your flow, so as a mascul…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 08:53 PM
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Women cheat in both ways. They cheat physically (fuck an alpha to collect his sperm) and they cheat emotionally (develop "friendships" with guys who are really potential branches). Guys cheat both ways too. They cheat physically (spreading their sperm as far and wide as possible) and they cheat emotionally (though this is rare; usually a guy who emotionally cheats has been ensnared by a temptress). None of this takes away from the suggestions that thoughtful discussion is valuable, that women ar…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 11:56 AM
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You can give her tingles and security, but if someone with more of either comes along you're fucked. The woman will only leave you for another if the difference between what you provide (in tingles and security) and what she thinks she could obtain from another (in tingles and security) is great enough to overcome the natural inertia of the situation she finds herself in. She will only physically non-emotionally cheat (read: sperm collect) if she can overcome her naturally arising Anti Slut Defe…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 11:44 AM
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Before you get rightly down-voted into oblivion. The core truth discussed here is that women's sexual desires and experience of love is driven by biological imperatives honed by evolution. The obvious corollary is that men's sexual desires and experience of love is driven by biological imperatives honed by evolution. The translation of that is that the animal nature of men is to like young, physically attractive girls, who are submissive and enamored with us. There's nothing glamorous about that…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 12:14 AM
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Having a dynamic, mutually beneficial relationship with a woman is much more life-enhancing than reading one's newspaper in peace. I think you're right to consider developing both qualities. A woman wants both. If the only thing you like about women is their orifices, then maybe you do want to only be Alpha. But if you actually enjoy spending time with women because, you-know, they're people too with interesting perspectives on life, then maybe you'll find it's worth putting up with some of thei…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 06:51 PM
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Awesome proof of concept. There's obviously some things we're going to need to work through here, in terms of what is our collective ideal. I think this thread (and this subreddit) are leading us into a whole new world of potentialities more strange than any of us could have imagined.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 09:56 AM
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Why would you need to go to Utah? Can't you do this anywhere? Pass the girls off as roommates to anyone who asks, but make sure the girls know that they are lucky to be sharing an alpha, and at a reasonably subsidized rent too.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 09:53 AM
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All I know is that with the effort I've put into the study, practice, repeat cycle, I will be much better positioned than those who have not undergone similar training. And what the article points to, I feel, is that it may be natural for alphas to have harems of women. That's something I can get excited about.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 09:46 AM
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I trust that women will feel sexual impulses in accordance with AWALT (AA/BB mating strategy). I trust that by being alpha (or being the catch, as you say) and by limiting her ability to be alone with other alphas, I can dramatically reduce the likelihood of her cheating. And I agree with you that a female who has had a good relationship with her father will be less likely to experience the same intensity of urges for attention from males.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 02:56 AM
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Yeah, exactly. Her: Well then bring em over and lets watch You: What? I can't come over. (then throw out a humorous false disqualifier)
/r/askTRP19/03/15 11:04 AM
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I will definitely search the tinder game thread. Interesting...
/r/askTRP19/03/15 11:01 AM
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If that's the case, and I think it is, then just ignore her for a couple weeks and then send a probing text, like "Hey. How you been?" Time is a tool.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 10:58 AM
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nice translation!
/r/askTRP19/03/15 10:56 AM
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Yes, you made a mistake. It's not a big deal because it already happened, but DON'T do it again! In case of doubt, don't text. This one is hard, but very very true. Risk prolonged silence. DON'T ever talk about your feelings for her ever again. Show her how you feel about her by the things you do, by what you choose to talk about, by how you choose to talk about things not relevant to your relationship with her. By not talking about the relationship, you are demonstrating that you are not too in…
/r/askTRP19/03/15 10:54 AM
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The foundational truth of Red Pill Theory is that women cannot be trusted to be sexually faithful due to biological impulses rooted in evolution. What does that mean? Women have a different mating strategy than what we have been led to believe. They desire the children of the most physically dominant males (alpha fucks) while also simultaneously desiring the security and comfort provided by less dominant males (beta bucks). These desires are hard-wired into their emotional circuitry. Their emoti…
/r/askTRP19/03/15 10:41 AM
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Once you realize that women cannot be trusted to be faithful, your world will never be the same again. The reasons they cannot be trusted are evolutionary and biological. The evidence is undeniable to any rational male. Consider the fact that women tend to cheat more when they're ovulating. Women tend to do a lot of weird shit as a result of their crazy wiring and a lot of it doesn't make sense. Until it does.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 10:29 AM
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First, do you care about (feminized) society or do you care about yourself? Second, polygamy has been a fairly common social structure for thousands of years across dozens of cultures. Generally, the man has a primary wife and then concubines. I think as long as the women understand their status in the hierarchy it could work. I met a guy at the bar once who was with two girls. They both slept in his bed. One was 18. He was 30 something. I got his story. Ex-millionaire from the tech industry. Gr…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 08:46 AM
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that's fucking hilarious
/r/askTRP19/03/15 06:07 AM
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That sounds good. I like this whole 'not responding' thing. It makes texting so much easier :-)
/r/askTRP19/03/15 02:06 AM
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Okay wait. I've read the sidebar, but maybe I missed this. I know you can't link outside of TRP It seems to me like a lot of people link to content on the wild world web?
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 02:02 AM
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Correct. Women only notice us if they are attracted to us or want something from us. Hence the whole "all guys are assholes" line.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 01:59 AM
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"Oh, I have a boyfriend. I'll still take your number and we can hang out!" So, good job. And one thing I found is that women actually can provide more value than just sex. If they have a boyfriend but they still want to hang out, they can become friends and strategy partners via messaging. You can tell them about your day, about other girls you're meeting and talking to, and they can and will help you figure out how to bang other girls. And they're good at it. I have a lot of girl friends and I …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 01:57 AM
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Holy shit. Do you know what this means? It means that with the breakdown of marriage in our society, men like us could have a 17-1 advantage on our AFC peers! Is anyone here considering a polygamous lifestyle? It seems to me that wealthy successful RP men should be able to enjoy sex with multiple women who themselves are happily emotionally and sexually committed only to him. A woman would rather share a winner than be stuck with a loser, right? So, polygamy anyone?
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 01:50 AM
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I think what you're saying is you enjoyed the fantasy of it and you miss it. I can relate. But it was fantasy. Now you know. You can't really go back unless you commit to deceiving yourself. Sorry, you took the red pill. You don't get jitters from girls anymore. However, personally, I've found that I get jitters from deep spiritual experiences, often triggered by meditation. I think this is more meaningful than the fantasy of "oh my god, i got to kiss her!".
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 01:44 AM
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Before feminism, it was clear that all women are like that. Men acted accordingly and lived in a society structured in such a way that they could tolerate women being like that. With rising male suicide rates, I think it's clear that we cannot tolerate living in society the way our mothers tried to frame it for us. Our mothers tried to hide us from the truth of what forces drive women, because they tried to hide it from themselves.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 01:35 AM
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Golden advice. Thanks. That was exactly the framing I was looking for.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 01:17 AM
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I'm super happy to have been helpful. Also, It was nice to have a woman who seemed to actually be interested in my life and about giving me pleasure. Even though I know logically that she just wanted money. You are not crazy. She was a real human being you had sex with and from the sounds of it you had a real human connection with her. Realization 1: It was a real connection and it was special. She probably doesn't connect with all of her customers as well as she connected with you - hence the e…
/r/askTRP19/03/15 01:14 AM
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TRP is a place where bros help bros deal with ho shit. Hoes make us frame the world so that we shitty about ourselves to the point of depression and suicide. Realizing that we are all actually okay just as we are is the starting point for real indestructible confidence. That line is one that I tell myself over and over again and I find it helpful. I get that it sounds cheezy and I can work on that.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 01:03 AM
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RP is selfish, but not necessarily unkind. Showing kindness towards others is actually one of the most selfish things you can do. RP shows us what drives women's behavior so that we can care better for ourselves and (if you so wish) for others. TRP is about self-respect and learning about the ways women (and others) will try to break that. By respecting yourself and not giving a fuck about what anyone else thinks, women will find that naturally attractive. Is any of that on point? I'd say that's…
/r/askTRP19/03/15 12:53 AM
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Okay. Maybe I didn't make myself clear. I can basically fuck this girl whenever I want. I want to send a reply that makes her giggle and say "oh you", and then have her not give a shit that I took pictures of her. I think that she partly wants to see the pictures just because, but I'm a bit worried that she may be worried that I have the pictures... I worry too much.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 12:32 AM
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Visual Your frame is the frame through which you see the world. It is the the thing which controls your perspective. Imagine you are holding an empty picture frame in front of your face and you can only see the world through that frame. Now the world is a complicated place, and everyone has a different perspective, a different frame, and thus a different understanding of the world. The key is to build a frame for yourself that generates a perspective that makes life good and enjoyable for you an…
/r/askTRP17/03/15 11:40 AM
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Has anyone experienced the same feeling of not having any motivation to pursue girls/women? For you I think it's situational and temporary, and also the result of you being a natural alpha combined with the new confidence gained from a healthy dose of Red Pill Knowledge. You're lifting, working and looking for a better job. Good. Once you get on a roll and have some momentum building your life into what you want it to be, then you'll be ready to consider letting a girl onto your train. Alpha as …
/r/askTRP17/03/15 11:31 AM
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Understanding where you fucked up and not doing it again There's a Buddhist slogan "drive all blames into one". Everything in your life that upsets you or that upset you in the past is or was your responsibility. I recently realized that my ex-wife began a covert and very serious love affair because I wasn't giving her the Alpha presence that she needed that she expected from me, that she was biologically driven to require. Realize what you did that fucked up and then go and build yourself up so…
/r/askTRP17/03/15 11:25 AM
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Wow. Go dude. First, stop judging yourself. You're perfect just the way you are and you just keep getting better, always. Second, what the fuck have you gotten yourself involved in? Seriously deep water my friend. Prozzies are pretty kettles of fish, because they know how to fuck. They are experts at it. They are expert at making men feel how they want to feel. Sex is a drug. Act accordingly. Drugs are medicine if used correctly and can be life-damaging and fatal if abused. Hmm. Real advice? Kee…
/r/askTRP17/03/15 11:14 AM
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Seeing the truth is painful, not least of all because your knowledge of the truth does not coincide with your ability to lead others to it. Understanding what role you play in others lives, and how you can best play that role, is something you should spend your entire life perfecting. The best man at my wedding openly told me he didn't agree with my decision to marry. But he stood by me that day. And at the other end of it, he's still there for me and I'm still there for him. Everyone has their …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 10:08 AM
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I imagine if a man were to do this they'd be charged with fraud sitting in a cell awaiting a trial That may be true. I'd be more interested to hear how you've been personally wronged by women.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 09:57 AM
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I despise the fact that I am not perceived as a sexual being Sorry to double-post but after seeing all the great feedback you're getting, this also came to mind: Lift. Work out. Get big muscles. This will naturally lead to better posture and swag in your walk. Develop those independently anyway. Wear nicer clothes. Train your body movements, your eye movements, your speech qualities to emit Alpha presence. This is what I call improving "how you move in the world". This way you won't have to worr…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 09:54 AM
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Thank you for sharing. This is an important view that I think needs to be heard. Maximizing happiness is the stated goal, and many here confuse that with having sex on tap whenever you want. However, as you've suggested, it doesn't feel good to feel emotionally manipulative. they want my social value, not me. Here's a rude awakening: People only ever want you for the value you can give them. No exceptions. Here's the silver lining: since you're so good at figuring out what people want, you can l…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 05:12 AM
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If you really think she's "an amazing girl in almost every sense", and she's lost feelings for you, then that sucks but at least she's told you and hasn't gone and cheated on you as a result. As my ex-wife did. Get out now. End it amicably, without dread, and then get to work on figuring out how you can start amping up your alpha energy. You don't want to make her feel bad for not desiring you. You don't want a pity fuck. Using dread game is a symptom of being afraid to lose a fuck and a willing…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 05:01 AM
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Men have all the wealth, happiness, and freedom, while women are going to be left alone, poor, depressed, unhealthy (fat). What do you think about this idea: if men don't have a tribe to look out for, they won't be driven to achieve financial success. Instead they will be driven to seek success in the eyes of other men - which will lead to a self-destructive arms race among men. I'm using black ghetto culture as an example of what might happen. I think we men do well when we receive care and aff…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 11:12 PM
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Good job having read models and also on using the word which your mind seems to grasp. I'm sorry to hear you're in so much pain at this point, but it seems like you are being smart and using that pain to drive changes in your life, and to "not care" if you are perceived as an asshole. There will be time in the future for finesse Good job accepting your pain, your response to that pain and getting on with getting better.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 10:55 PM
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I think it's all about timing. Wait for your beta friends to be really upset with one particular female and then ask them if they want to hear truth about women. Then hit them with an article which explains the behavior that is frustrating them. It's all about timing. A content person doesn't want their world shattered.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 10:49 PM
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Thanks for the clarification. I noticed you did X well, but your Y is falling short' That is good phrasing. You are commenting on the action, not the person. If they get upset you can say "I'm not judging you. I think you're great. It's just that when you did Y, then this happens, so I'd prefer you did something else. Always use specific examples. In other words rather than saying "when you don't clean the dishes...", say, "on Thursday, when you didn't do the dishes...". Every situation is uniqu…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 10:46 PM
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I think your frame may have bended slightly by seriously acknowledging the question. I know that people here have stated that you should never give an answer to, say, the number of women you have slept with, but I'm not so certain that explicitly stating you have such a policy is the right way to go about it, since it appears that you take the question seriously. If a woman asks how many people you have slept with, you should give some sort of witty-dismissive answer and move on. It sounds like …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 10:34 PM
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And she might not have wanted a relationship or commitment. Some women are very happy to ride the CC (even if it's one cock at a time), and you took her off the ride.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 09:53 PM
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Short answer: Yes, there is such a thing as too much dominance. If you want to be happy in an LTR you ought to strive to be the leader - the person the pack follows out of trust that he will take care of needs - and not the dominator - the person the pack follows out of fear of potential negative consequences.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 01:52 PM
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Shaggy Dog, you say: I can't quite pinpoint what I have done wrong. I have taken TRP directives on passing comfort tests such as giving her my masculine energy, giving her some comfort and relief, making her feel like first mate rather than a sailor, etc. but evidently it has not been so effective PhantomDream09 says: it’s imperative to know the difference between shit tests and comfort tests shit tests are actions which try to challenge you and take away your power. comfort tests are true expre…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 01:48 PM
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Yes, and this could leave to her leaving to find a more beta man who will commit.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 01:14 PM
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Never just up and tell someone something as precious as Red Pill Theory if they didn't ask for it and if they're not ready. If you want to break someone free from the matrix, you have to first make sure that they have some sort of feeling that "something isn't quite right". This requires careful observation and skillful conversational allusion on your part. Secondly, you need to give them a choice. Tell them you have information for them that could rock their world. But then ask them if they wan…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 01:08 PM
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You said: I don't think I've been 100% getting the point of TRP. From the sidebar: The goal is maximizing happiness! You said: I feel like I'm taking advantage of the people I have sex with Yes. It's normal to feel that way at first. However, for me, RP is about finding women who are at peace with their desire for an Alpha to fuck. I maintain the relationship on a basis of friendship first, and on the basis that they desire me for fucking. It requires me not using them for sex, and only fucking …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 12:54 PM
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Disagree. The solution isn't in any specific action, it's in the framing.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 12:48 PM
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Remember, the ultimate objective is to get what you want This is an axiomatic truth. Well said. So what is it that we want? And how do we get it? You point out that we should wait till our emotions cool down - yes, that's excellent advice. You suggest: Do positive and negative reinforcement. Only negative sooner or later triggers the ego. Only positive and they think they're above you. I disagree here, not with the technique, but with the timing. When you're in the middle of a dispute, you need …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 12:45 PM
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In my mind, Red Pill Theory is for men who already are comfortable with picking up women but are struggling to understand what to do with them once they get them - through a psycho-analysis of how women think. For you, I would recommend you build your confidence by learning concrete skills related to giving women the gina-tingles. My personal favorite book of all time is this very little known one: http://www.amazon.com/50-Secrets-Picking-Up-Girls/dp/B00EZMEDCA To me, this book has taken a red-p…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 12:30 PM
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If you felt dumped, then you weren't truly non-attached. You were being a beta (feeling "in love" and enjoying the sex) without providing the bucks (real security), and that's why she dumped you. AWALT, period. There is no "unless proven otherwise". If you want to have a successful relationship, you have to be able to make her crave your sexual touch as much as, or more than, you crave fucking her. Don't fall in love with anyone except your self. Once you truly love your self, you can extend som…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 12:14 PM
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This reeks of try-hard PUA strategy that thinks that the close is the most important part. Personally, I think it's all about the game.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 11:54 AM
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I think a key point is that women very often don't understand why they're doing what they're doing.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 11:52 AM
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To rephrase what you're saying, when your girl pity-fucked you, she demonstrated that women sometimes sexually reward males for expressing weakness. This is called pussy whipping. This is what it means to be pussy whipped. This is how women gain control in relationships - through pussy whipping. The counter-offense is to dick whip them. Like you said, "fuck them hard". Make them lust over you. Give them the gina tingles. By making ourselves unbearably attractive to women, we can re-assert power …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 11:22 AM
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I Disagree. Commitment has many meanings. One includes your description. Many others do not.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 11:01 AM
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Rejecting society can be a really dangerous thing to do. But it can be very tempting to those who don't feel they have a place among it. This is what's scary. If society isn't going to go to shit, then we men need to ensure that there is a place in society for us and our masculine energy.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 10:45 AM
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Thanks for that great link. TLDR: If women's power in our society goes unchecked, the result will be women who are fatter, who have more illegitimate children, who are unashamedly hypergamous, who are co-simultaneously unashamedly bad-boy worshippers, and who are anti-male. This will lead to most men being raised by single mom's who will indoctrinate them into a man-hating culture which marginalizes males. This will lead to men finding unproductive, violent ways of securing status within this ho…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 10:40 AM
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Daniel Bergner’s book, What Do Women Want?, is an examination of the weird and surprising things that turn women on. As OP says, these “weird and surprising things” are well known to us red-pillers. We have efficiently reduced the take-home point of that entire book into this pithy statement: “Women want AF/BB. AWALT”. I believe that soon feminists will succeed in using books like Bergner’s to justify their AF/BB desires as socially acceptable. This should not be allowed to happen.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 10:14 AM
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This is a really solid piece of evidence and deserves it's own post as a separate thread. This is the kind of article you give to blue pillers to induce the feelings which lead to an offer of choice from Morpheus. Let me tell you why you're here. You're here because you know something. What you know you can't explain, but you feel it. You've felt it your entire life, that there's something wrong with the world. You don't know what it is, but it's there, like a splinter in your mind, driving you …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 09:00 AM
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Intermittent reinforcement is the strongest kind. #SocialPsychologyLessonsWeShouldn'tForget
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 08:50 AM
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So we should tell our friends and family, "Emily? Oh she's a plate I'm spinning. I'm into spinning plates." ?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 06:41 PM
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Zeal - I appreciate your making this comment. There is a real danger of deceiving ourselves when framing our reality. However, what is it you think I'm "aiming for"? As a red pill man, do you think it's possible to aim for a situation which can provide some degree of respect for the girls I'm seeing? That's what I'm trying to do here.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 06:36 PM
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I used to use that term too. Stopped because even that term's not suited to me. Now, I don't even address them as anything "Dating" is the word I use to explain to others why I'm not settling down. As in, "I have no interest in settling down. I'm just interested in dating" To refer to them, I call them friends. "She's my friend." "You're my friend." "We'll be friends no matter what, right?" I'll friend-zone them first and make sex something that is uncertain and which could disappear in an insta…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 06:31 PM
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I don't "call it dating to their faces", because labels are dangerous and girls will try to trap you if you use them. Mostly, I try to give them so much pleasure in bed that they are saying thank you and asking for more and hoping not to upset me so that I don't withhold sex. When we're not actually having sex, I treat them like I would treat a guy friend or one of my female cousins.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 12:39 PM
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Revolutionary evolutionary psychology. Sounds good.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 12:31 PM
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Yes, it's normal to start to hate women, and some people get stuck there, but hopefully you will not. After a while you should see that everything ""is what it is" - including women's patterns of relating to men and to the world. Women can add a lot of value to your life, or they can take a lot of value from it. It's up to you to understand how they operate so that you can have value-creating relationships with the women in your life, and so you limit your risk of being blind-sided.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 12:30 PM
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So wait, do posts that I make here in ASKTRP increase my rating in TRP?
/r/askTRP10/03/15 09:01 AM
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Thanks for the encouragement. I guess this is a chance to work on improving my patience.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 08:29 AM
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Well done. There's a reason we men are biologically stoic. It's part of the role we play societally. This feminist bullshit that we are suppressing our emotions and that we need to open up to them leads to non-men who they find sexually repulsive and who can't hold a family together. Why do they try to tear-down the model of a man they crave and need?
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 08:00 AM
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Too right. Women will walk over you if you let them, so don't let them. The formula might resolve to: Be a man, stay a man, enjoy women.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 04:28 AM
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I've done Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu for over ten years and the friends I made there are some of my closest and best. Any martial arts group might do, but the guys in BJJ tend to be the manliest and chillest guys I've met. Plus, what's more alpha than turning your body into a weapon?
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 04:11 AM
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While feminism is a spent force, the ultimate consequences of that philosophy is a whole generation of women who don’t want any man to tell them what to do, and don’t really understand the give and take that is necessary for a marriage relationship. They did this to themselves.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 01:53 AM
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Aloofness wins. I was cuddling with my plate last night (on my back, with her head on my chest of course) and she scooted back and propped her head up on her elbow and looked at me smiling. I looked into her smiling eyes for a few seconds before I realized what was happening. I turned away, looking back at the ceiling, waited a beat and then asked bemusedly "what are you looking at?" She replied "your sexy body." Me: "Oh, well go ahead then." Her: "You asshole" (laughing) Me: "You love it" (chuc…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 01:11 AM
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Thanks for this reminder. Put another way, true confidence is knowing your opinion of yourself matters more than others' opinions of you. Once you really commit to improving yourself, you start to take measure of yourself, and to appreciate all the progress you've made. If someone comes along and tries to shit on you, you realize they're like a toddler walking into the middle of a movie - they have no frame of reference.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 12:32 AM
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Thanks. Have an upvote for honesty
/r/MGTOW04/03/15 11:03 AM
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Dude. You may have been a loser tonight, in this context, but you won't always be a loser, in every context. Personally, I've had TERRIBLE success in night clubs. I've had girls I didn't even approach try to bully me out of the vicinity because they didn't like how I approached a girl THEY didn't even know. In my egocentric world view, I like to think that I am too intelligent and too thoughtful for those hoe-ass club bitches. In other contexts, I am boss. You can be boss too. Maybe you just nee…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 10:16 AM
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This reminds me of the other post on here recently - that it is entirely possible (even probable) to be Alpha in one context and be Beta in another. I like how you point out that "being Alpha" really means "emitting alpha behaviors". Like you said, it's about self-improvement, and about appreciating the positive (Alpha) behaviors that are generated as a result. Our aim shouldn't be to "always be Alpha"; it should be to continuously self improve - with a keen eye on how this self-improvement corr…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 10:04 AM
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It's not about how others perceive her, as much as how she perceives herself. She doesn't want to think of herself as slutty or easy. She wants to have sex, if you make the WHOLE process, from beginning to end, smooth and enjoyable. She wants you to make up a story. I once told a girl she needed to walk me back to my tent because I was scared of rattlesnakes. She LOVED it. She even joked about it with me the next day about how smooth it was. They want a smooth fun ride. They want smooth escalati…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 09:39 AM
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This exactly. What is good content and what is bad content? Both require examination and healthy discussion. Good, intelligent, thoughtful mods will hold the fate of this community.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 02:54 AM
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Surround yourself with exceptional people. Red Pill traits will seep out of a person with specialized knowledge or skills This exactly. I am just now starting to appreciate how skilled my stepfather is and how much experience he has. I've gone from being irked at his huge ego to looking for the life lessons he has to share. I am lucky to be surrounded by skilled people - sometimes it just takes more effort to "tune-in" to what those skills are and how I can learn from them.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 09:18 PM
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“I don’t want to say someone who is having a baby is not eligible to be a cabinet minister, but I certainly think perhaps the demands of that particular job will require someone to give it their full attention.” A pregnant woman, about to give birth, cannot possibly bring the same level of focus and effort to her job as a non-pregnant individual. Women have the honor of bringing children into the world, but they cannot simultaneously exercise this right and expect to be given the same employment…
/r/MGTOW03/03/15 10:24 AM
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