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Is it time for me to settle down?

CalvinHobb3s

June 21, 2015
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Title Is it time for me to settle down?
Author

CalvinHobb3s

Upvotes 0
Comments 8
Date June 21, 2015 10:53 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3anf43/is_it_time_for_me_to_settle_down/
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Comments

[–]Endorsed ContributorUrsusG2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

No-one can answer this question for you.

This stuff is so subjective and individual, and there are so many variables that no advice here will do you good. (e.g. what do you mean LTR? Just being exlusive or living together? What are the cohabitation laws in your jurisdiction? etc.)

Just don't make any legally binding decisions until you've been with the woman for at least 2 years. That's when the pink unicorn love goggles wear off and you begin to view the other person more realistically.

[–]Grompher2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I wouldn't. That's me, but I wouldn't. She would have to have her shot together as much as I do.

[–]TheRightStuff791 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

What are you even asking? Just bone her and see where it goes from there. What are her faults?

[–]CalvinHobb3s[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

We have been boning. She's not as health conscious as I'd like her to be. She has a shaky past.

[–]mexaboy1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Follow what your heart and your dick tell you right now, always keeping in mind that AWALT. Then when the new relationship bliss wears off, make an informed decision.

[–]Your_Personal_Jesus1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If you have to ask, you really don't wanna. When you really feel like it's worth your time, you'll do it without needing approval. The worst kind of relationships are the ones you feel like you're settling.

[–]CalvinHobb3s[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The worst kind of relationships are the ones you feel like you're settling

Mmm I didn't want to hear that one but I guess you're right.

[–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Removed. You didn't follow the rules and this belongs in /r/asktrp anyway.

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3a0135/announcement_new_thread_requirements/

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