So, you got the girl.

Congrats, you got lucky.

Now, everything is implied. Nothing is spoken upfront. You are providing her a service, she with you. You don't know what that service is. Maybe confidence, maybe looks, maybe game, maybe status.

But you know what she is providing you.

You need to be fun in a sexually adventurous way. Also, you need to have something in common to talk about. What could that be? Work. Your workplace. Where you and her both work.

Again, this is for dudes starting out game. In your early days of pursuit, guys will and do move. You should always be searching for something better. Older guys with money, this is not for you.

The after sex convos about work will keep it afloat. They will allow the bonding process to occur more easily. The fact that she can relate to something you both understand, will help with retention.

Also reward her with public attention, or better put, "dates", in public.

Can you squat 315 for reps yet?

Most of your competition will be duds so don't sweat it.

Over time she will stray. Maybe a date, or a kiss. You have to allow it, as of that time you still may not have another girl. There will come a day when she crosses the line, and you will know it, and by then hopefully you have a spare, if not, go without, and close the deal on other girls.

She will buy you gifts. Use them, enjoy them. Do not reciprocate. Reward her with public dates.

Can you bench 225 yet?

Other girls will be able to tell your getting some. Don't go full blown Chad. Be bold, persistent, but agreeable. Don't push to far.

Find things that you want to do. Not COD and booze. Other things.

Can you deadlift 405 yet?

Your girl will eventually turn up the sex. She is on the cusp of boredom. She will then try and start drama. Why? She thinks she found someone better. You must cut contact. No message, no call, no in person. She will reach out. But it will take time. Close on other girls or go without.

And finally, when she realizes that she will not be able to change you, she will leave, but she will make you pull the trigger. Besause she is a women, and can't do that herself.

Can you press 135?

She's gone.

Go without, or close on other girls.