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| 1137 | Girl Who Accused College Football Players of Rape Charged With Lying | Red Pill Example | brinkleybuzz | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/17 05:51 PM |
| 488 | Jake and the Woman Who Broke Him | Red Pill Example | brinkleybuzz | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/17 05:39 AM |
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| 8 | Women Should Be Expected To Be "Fuckzoned" When They Have A Promiscuous PastDoesn't work like that in the real world. There are plenty of women with promiscuous pasts who get wifed up by decent guys. All it takes is one man who doesn't know or doesn't care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 03:08 AM |
| 3 | The biggest reason why average dudes have low n-counts is because they're too picky ...pickier than ur average manwhoreIt's not possible for an average frustrated chump to be pickier than a manwhore if the AFC has far fewer sexual options. Manwhores (the ones who don't pay for sex) rack up high N counts because they have women offering no or low attachment sex to them on a regular basis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 09:03 PM |
| 7 | Do relationships automatically make a man a beta/betabuxx?Automatically? Absolutely not. If you're in a relationship with an attractive woman who's fully into you and consistently gives you what you need with a reasonable amount of investment by you, isn't that a great situation to be in? You're in betabux territory if you end up with a woman who considers you to be her backup plan, isn't sexually attracted to you and invests a lot less in the relationship than you do. You can avoid becoming a betabux by only getting into relationships with women who h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 08:57 PM |
| 80 | We ready to admit that LTRs don't mean shit yet? Or we gonna still pretend like it's a soft marriage?This weekend I devoured six delicious home-cooked meals, busted four nuts, got an extremely relaxing massage and enjoyed hours of great companionship, all courtesy of my LTR partner. I'm gonna keep enjoying this ride until it's over. Fellas, live for the moment. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/20 04:06 AM |
| 15 | You Cannot Control HerYou can't control your girl, but you can establish rules and boundaries as conditions for your commitment to her. If she's really into you and values your commitment, she'll follow your program. If she doesn't value your commitment, she'll do what the fuck she wants, which means you shouldn't be in a LTR with her. A lot of guys screw themselves by getting into relationships with women who haven't proven themselves to be LTR-worthy. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/20 03:55 AM |
| 13 | Why would a woman lie about their n-count to her partner if "insecure", "misogynistic" men are the only ones who, in her view, would care about a high n count in the first place?Why ask a question that, ironically, will decrease the likelihood that you will ever get the truth about a woman's sexual history? Just appear to be open-minded and non-judgmental and allow for enough time for her to tell you her life story. There's no need to get a precise cock count. If you're perceptive enough, you can figure out how promiscuous she's been. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/20 04:11 AM |
| 2 | The polarity of gender desire. Men are working to create and sustain it, while women's actions continually reduce it.Opposites do attract. I have no interest in a woman who is or wants to be a carbon copy of me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/20 06:56 PM |
| 9 | Women's reported sexual partner count dramatically increases when hooked up to a polygraph whereas men's does not significantly changetl/dr - the average woman in this study really had a body count of about 4 but reported a body count of about 3. I guess the average woman isn't a raging whore after all. This may also confirm my theory (based on personal experience) that when asked about her body count, a lot of women will default to three, which is why I don't ask any more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/20 01:21 PM |
| 6 | [Q4A] What's so great about low-N women?Common sense. A woman who has demonstrated the ability and willingness to be monogamous is a better candidate for an exclusive sexual relationship than a woman who hasn't. Another point. A lot of people seem to conflate low N with low libido. Nothing could be further than the truth. The best sex I've had has been in relationships with low N women who loved to have sex with one partner. Conversely, high N women have been consistently poor lays. Easy sex doesn't usually result in great sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/20 02:58 AM |
| 3 | How do you define a slut?Sluttery is in the eye of the beholder. I think most guys define sluts as women who bang multiple guys but won't have sex with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/20 01:44 AM |
| 8 | Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to womenThis isn't surprising. Promiscuous women are slut shamed by other women who consider them man stealers and home wreckers. They are also resented by other women because they lower the perceived market value of vagina. Promiscuous women are also slut shamed by incels. It's a serious blow to a guy's ego when even easy women won't let you fuck them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/20 06:13 PM |
| 3 | What sexual acts are a deal-breaker, if your prospective female has done it before but won't with you?Why would it matter and how would you even know what your girl did with other guys sexually in the past? Most women would not willingly volunteer or even admit to the sordid details of their sexual past if asked. The only thing that matters is her ability to meet your sexual needs. If you like BJs and your girl won't give them to you, find someone else who will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/20 09:40 PM |
| 3 | How do women treat their casual sexual partners better then their bfs?Simple. Casual sex partners get the pussy, for free, without the problems. Unless a woman has a lot more to offer than her vagina, it's clear that the casual sex partner is getting a much better deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/20 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Is this why women shit test us? Major realisationWomen shit test us to assess our masculinity. Deep down, they crave strength and despise weakness in men. A woman will figure out if a man is strong enough to maintain frame during times of stress and dominant enough to keep her in check by testing him. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 05:24 PM |
| 40 | Q4ALL: If men gatekeep commitment, who exactly are the women being gate kept out of commitment?The women being gate kept out of commitment are the ones who chase high value men and won't settle for a perfectly nice, ordinary guy who would love nothing better than have a girl he can call his own. Expressed another way, only a select group of men who are desired by women are the true gate keepers of commitment because they're the ones with options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 02:17 PM |
| 15 | The overwhelming feminist approval, and criticism over conservative criticism over Cardi B and her song "WAP", is evidence that, despite many claims to the contrary, women ARE as horny as menCardi B is a stripper with a record deal. She isn't representative of the typical woman. The typical woman will expose her sexuality and "dirty mindedness" to men she wants to smash and will have no problems telling and/or showing them how horny she can get. Other men get the good-girl, "I don't get horny" act. It's the mask they wear so they aren't judged by men they have no intention of having sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 02:25 AM |
| 16 | The overwhelming feminist approval, and criticism over conservative criticism over Cardi B and her song "WAP", is evidence that, despite many claims to the contrary, women ARE as horny as menGenerally, women won't admit they get horny to men they don't want to fuck. Why should they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Sluts almost don't exist outside the USYou apparently haven't been to Brazil or the D.R. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Do most men find that a friendship with a woman is pointless?No. A man and a woman can enjoy genuine companionship and friendship. As a woman, Just realize that if he's straight and you're attractive, at some point he'll try to have sex with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Should lying to get sex be illegal? Which gender would get in trouble more?I'm all for making body count fraud a misdemeanor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 01:18 AM |
| 3 | Who has benefitted more from women's sexual liberation: women, men, or some subset?Women .. and the men they want to fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Men are better at seeing a person's intentions in dating, than women.C'mon bro. TRP is a thing because men continually get burned by women. Regarding your sister and other women like her, ever consider that they actually like having no-strings sex with Chads? They tell you and other men they get "hurt by assholes" to hide their true intentions and not be judged as sluts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 07:00 PM |
| 17 | "Looks matter" needs to die on this sub.Women tend to tell guys what they think they want to hear. If a man is attractive, women will tell him that. If a man isn't attractive, a woman will tell him how kind, generous, intelligent, etc. he is. Guys who aren't attractive may draw the wrong conclusion and underestimate the importance of looks in female sexual attraction. If they haven't experienced or witnessed how women react to hot guys, they need to be told so they know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/20 03:08 PM |
| 8 | Plate considering onlyfansSo your plate wants you to be her digital pimp. Sounds like a good business opportunity. Get that money bro. If you do a good job, maybe the word will get out and you'll get a stable of virtual hoes. Hopefully you know that the first rule of pimping is you don't wife up your hoes. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/20 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Pair bonding isn’t ruined with high N countsThere's a huge difference between post-coital warm and fuzzies and the kind of deep bond a woman develops with a man where she becomes emotionally attached to him. When most men refer to pair bonding, this is what they're talking about. The latter can occur organically when a virgin or near virginal woman has a positive sexual experience with a man. The odds are against this happening when a man is just the latest in a long line of penises. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 02:01 AM |
| 24 | Strawman N count discussionsVery smart people have figured out that the past matters when assessing a person's willingness and ability to have a good long term relationship. We accept credit scores, job histories, Carfax reports, background checks, etc. as reasonable information that other parties should consider before making a financial or business commitment to us. On the other hand, if a man wants to know the sexual and relationship history of a woman he's about to commit to long term, where the stakes are potentially … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Women create "nice guys".Don't blame women, blame nature. Females of most species naturally want to mate with the dominant males in their social group. For younger girls, this means they'll follow their instincts and chase the best looking and most popular guys in their vicinity, regardless of character. Not all guys in this select group that girls are chasing are bad boys, but sex appeal definitely outweighs character when young women choose who they mate with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/20 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Is it me or is “I slept really good last night” code for, I got my brains fucked out?Get out if your feelings and understand that if she's your plate, she's fucking other dudes. Don't catch feelings and blow her back out every chance you get. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Why does contemporary culture embrace a lack of personal responsibility and adopt a victim mentality?We live in a feminized society where feelings are more important than accountability and legitimate achievement. You're on the right track. Iron sharpens iron. Surround yourself with a group of men who have the same attitude as you and will hold each other accountable. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Guy on the street called me a cunt and I didn't reactAllowing a random asshole who means nothing to you to sucker you into a fight is not Alpha. You did the right thing. The risks associated with challenging this dude far outweighed any benefit. Even if you did kick his ass, you could have ended up being arrested or worse. Read the Art of War by Sun Tzu to understand the logic of conflict. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 03:01 PM |
| 5 | Does the language you use to describe women dehumanise them?I prefer use the word "objectify" rather than "dehumanize". It's how the game is played. Men objectify women. Women certainly objectify men. Fuckboy, playboy, sugar daddy, baby daddy, side piece, nice guy, boyfriend material, husband material, friend(zone), etc. We all place each other into categories based on sexual persona and relationship status. Women are just better than men at using innocuous language to describe these categories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Women with exactly two premarital sex partners have consistently higher divorce rates than women with 3 to 9 partnersNot much difference between 2 partners and 3+ partners. 2+ partners is a clear inflection point for divorce rate. The 1 partner group probably includes a lot of married women whose only premarital partner was their current husband. Conclusion: women who had premarital sex with anyone else besides her current husband are more likely to divorce than women whose only sexual partner was her current husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 02:37 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women don't really want "good men"Sure, being attractive and good aren't mutually exclusive, but attraction rules. That's why LTRs are tough. Just ask Will Smith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 01:54 PM |
| 3 | LTR cheated with a guy who has a GF - let his GF know?Don't do it. Your problem is with her, not him. If she didn't bang this guy, it probably would have been someone else. Look at it this way. The thot that used to be your girl is his problem now. Lick your wounds, learn the right lessons and move on. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 04:18 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The swagger that women are attracted to is typically displayed in men who aren't very intelligent.My college years in a nutshell. Graduated with a high GPA in a STEM field. Smashed a lot. High intelligence and swagger aren't mutually exclusive. Cool nerds do exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 05:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The fact that it's harder for men to get sex makes high n-count guys more pathetic not more admirable.The diversity of high n-count women is impressive. They come in all personalities, shapes, sizes and shades. Literally, just about any woman born in a modern society can rack up a high N count. All she has to do is show up, make herself available and comply. I have never encountered a high N count man who didn't have some combination of good looks, popularity, power, charm and money. Male losers generally don't get laid. The point is cause and effect. High male value is the cause, high notch cou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 12:58 AM |
| 1 | It is hypocritical to not want to be in a relationship with a woman who has slept around, if you would still sleep with her.Why would this be hypocritical if the woman has slept with other men knowing that it wouldn't lead to a relationship? Is it hypocritical for a woman to complain about being pumped and dumped, when she has ignored, friend zoned and cheated on men who were more than willing to be in a committed relationship with her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 12:49 AM |
| 44 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?A non-judgemental gentleman who knows how to listen doesn't need to ask. He'll find out what he needs to know in due time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Men: if a woman's male friends ALWAYS end up trying to fuck or date her, does that mean she isn't interesting/funny/good enough to be friends with?Real talk. If you're an attractive woman, straight men will want to fuck you. It's our nature. Mating instinct is a thing. Because men want to fuck as much as possible, we'll prioritize our time with women willing to have sex with us. The best case scenario for a man is to have a woman who he likes spending time with and is sexually attracted to him. That combination can lead to a long term relationship. If we like spending time with you but you're not willing to fuck, those of us with other opt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 07:52 PM |
| 2 | How can a woman respect men knowing that they all want to fuck her?Speaking for many men, yes, I like to have sex with attractive women. Blame nature for that. I also enjoy shared experiences with attractive, engaging women who have fun personalities. If men view a particular woman as just a masturbation aide, perhaps that's all she has to offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 07:41 PM |
| 1 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?Bro, no pussy is worth 20 to life. A batshit crazy chick like this isn't worth a long term relationship, so it had to end at some point anyway. Cherish the memories and move on. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 06:13 PM |
| 8 | Fiancees best friend revealed to me she is a cheater?Your girl's reaction is a MAJOR red flag: she got defensive, denied everything and threw her so-called best friend under the bus. Consider yourself warned and very lucky. Not only is there a good chance you girl is a cheater, you got a look at how she reacts when things go against her. If I were you, I'd move on most ricky tick. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/20 07:58 PM |
| 1 | LTR of 8 years 'Accidentally' kissed another dudeIn your next conversation she'll tell you that she slipped and accidentally fell on this dude's erect penis. Do you know anyone else at this party she went to? I'd get the facts from them. At best, you'll only get trickle truth from your girl. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/20 07:47 PM |
| 61 | What are some of the subtle difference between low quality women and high quality women?Solid women are aware of their nature and limit their time in environments that expose them to temptation, especially clubs, bars and social media. They also dress modestly. One of the best indicators of the quality of a woman is her friends. If her friends are thots or most of her friends are male, watch out. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/20 07:40 PM |
| 2 | I have a problem with my girlfriends promiscuous past. Need advice.Seems like you're here to find someone to convince you not to trust your gut. You've been with enough women to know how they are. For example, is a chick who keeps a lifetime dick list worth your emotional investment and commitment? If you're bothered now by her past and personality, it won't get any better. Go with your gut. Enjoy this girl without getting too invested in her. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/20 12:30 AM |
| 5 | Women who want to have relationhips should probably lie, down-play or omit details from their sexual history.Why is it that many women want men to accept them as they are, but won't take ownership of or admit to their past? Aren't our past experiences an important part of who we are today? It's exceptionally difficult for a normal person to live a lie. The stress and anxiety of living with a lie and the difficulty of maintaining a consistent story over time means the truth will likely come out in the future. If a man asks a woman about her sexual history, it's obviously important to him and if he enter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 07:32 PM |
| 7 | What was I supposed to do when a guy touched my girl in front of me at a club?Don't take your girl to clubs. That's like walking into a den of lions with a backpack full of raw meat. If you have to go to a club or crowded event, the right move is to show situational awareness and avoid confrontation that could lead to violence and endanger you and your girl. Also, walk through a crowd with her slightly in front of you. Hold her hand or put your arm around her waist and guide her through the crowd. That way you have her back, you can see what's happening in front of you an… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Wife of good friend won't stop hitting on meLeave her alone. Bros before hoes. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 03:05 PM |
| 16 | A buddy has an interesting take on prostitution"I don't pay prostitutes for sex, I pay them to leave" -Charlie Sheen Pussy without problems. Not a bad deal if you can afford it. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 07:08 PM |
| 14 | Keeping her.Fuck worrying about keeping her. That's existing in her frame. Be so awesome and have so many options that she's the one worrying about keeping you. You shouldn't be in a LTR until you're at this point in your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/19 05:20 AM |
| 5 | Dancing will get you laid - a list of things boys can do to be popular with girlsDancing is the introduction, getting to know you and foreplay phases of a relationship rolled up into one interaction. If you're one of the couple of guys partying on a dance floor full of drunk, horny women, how can you not get laid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 04:41 AM |
| 4 | Why do men who want women to have casual sex with them slut shame those who do?Guys who aren't getting laid shame the women who have sex with other men because they are bitter, jealous haters. Some guys who are getting laid like to brag about their sexual exploits and end up embarrassing the women they had sex with in the process. On the other hand, based on personal experience and observation, guys who are non-judgmental and discreet about who they have sex with tend to get laid more, over the long-run. In this case, good behavior usually wins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 04:29 AM |
| 12 | Can you open up all the way and still be mysterious?There's a reason why studios fiercely guard scripts and storylines of blockbuster movies before they are released. If people can figure out the movie through spoilers, they're less likely to actually to see it. Don't spoil the show for your girl. She says she wants you to open up. What she really craves is the challenge of figuring out who you really are. Give her teasers and trailers to keep her interest but also give her the opportunity to keep learning more about you over time. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 01:58 AM |
| 11 | How do you take photos with your bros for your IGTake photos with you, your boys and attractive girls having fun. Girls eat that shit up and your boys definitely won't have a problem with it. Even better if the girls post the pics and you are tagged in them or repost them. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 12:50 AM |
| 28 | Ask for full body pic. Got ghosted.Facts. Face like an angel, body like Lizzo. Selfie cameras are designed to make fatties attractive. Beware of filters and MySpace angles. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 12:20 AM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP is not for relationships. Stop trying to force fit it.Why wouldn't TRP work in relationships where the woman values the type of traditional masculinity it promotes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 04:06 AM |
| 7 | What are some popular things from TRP that you dislike or disagree with?I disagree with the idea that some RP gurus seem to have that mate guarding your girlfriend or wife is beta male behavior and should be discouraged. In reality, mate guarding is instinctive male behavior. What matters is the frame. Proactive mate guarding by establishing boundaries for your woman's interactions with other men makes a lot of sense. Also, mate guarding in the moment with a dominant frame gets pussies wet. For example, if a guy is hitting on your girl at a party, you should walk up… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 03:33 AM |
| 41 | Women aren't shooting out of their league; "Chad" is not hooking up with ugly women.Seen it. Done it. When it's two-minute warning time at a party or bar, you hook up with who's available at that time. Chad has Stacy as his girlfriend and Plain Jane as his side-chick or booty call. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 03:10 AM |
| 8 | What are some popular things from TRP that you dislike or disagree with?Not breaking contact to prove that you're "alpha" is a fallacy. You're correct in that staring another man down is just weird and can get your ass kicked or worse in some situations. The trick is how you break away after making initial eye contact. Never look down. Make eye contact, nod your head or make another subtle move to acknowledge the other guy, move your head slightly to the right or left then look straight through him towards your destination. That's how you engage another man as an eq… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Would you commit to a high N-count woman if she was the one rejecting men due to sexual incompatibility?A woman who values sexual prowess above all other relationship attributes and is near impossible to please in bed isn't the best candidate for a committed, monogamous relationship anyway. Just sayin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 09:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men need to learn to have Self-respect and self-empowerment just like women are doing. Step one? Saying NO when you realize you are merely a "backup plan" in a relationship.Say no to the friendzone. I endorse this message. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 08:21 PM |
| 0 | who is your best real life example of an alpha male?Jay Z, Hugh Hefner | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 08:07 PM |
| 4 | Why do women hate n-counts?Spot on. Guys care because the type of woman they partner with impacts their perceived value to other men and women. The guy who wifes up the town bike is considered a joke whereas the man who lands the beauty who rejected all of the other guys is called a stud. Women hate n-count because it's an objective metric that significantly affects their relationship market value and, because you can't un-fuck someone, past behavior may have a lasting impact on a woman's ability to land a quality mate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 06:21 AM |
| 2 | Virgins and low n count women are harder to please sexuallyNot if they are open-minded, somewhat adventurous and coachable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Second wave of red pill rage after self improving , changing my game and getting women now ???You act Red Pill but still think Blue Pill. Your Blue Pill mindset is disgusted by the fact that women don't act the way they're supposed to based on Blue Pill idealization of women. You're like the guy who's appalled that his precious, idealized snowflake told you she wants to wait for Mr. Right but would blow Chad in his SUV without hesitation, except now you're the one getting his knob slobbed and you're experiencing this first hand. To be truly Red Pill you have to accept and embrace the tru… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 04:57 PM |
| 4 | Advice needed on my Gf sexual pastYou weren't being an asshole or insecure by checking her phone. There's nothing wrong with gathering intelligence. Your mistake was telling her. Did you really expect her to admit that she still wants to fuck this guy?! Now that you know that you're her plan B dick, it's up to you to determine if that's good enough for you to claim her as your main girl. I wouldn't. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 04:17 PM |
| 38 | Two prior, now married, plates contacted me on Facebook this week. AWALT is so true.Alpha Fux, Beta Bux. Women want a man who will get them wet and pay their bills. They'd love to get what they want from the same man but will settle for a 2 for 1 deal if they can't. Congrats, you're the side-dude, the go-to guy for the good dick your exes are missing in their lives. I stopped messing around with married and engaged exes when one's husband beat her to a pulp and came after me before the cops got involved. No pussy is worth that amount of drama. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 05:23 PM |
| 5 | Traveling GF.If you're that concerned about your girl cheating, you don't need to be in a relationship. It's obvious you're the powerless one. She obviously has more options and, as a result, more leverage. If the situation were reversed and she was concerned about going away because of the other options available to you, she'd probably be too worried about what you may do to cheat and would be frequently calling and texting you to check in. Trust your instincts. If you're worried your girl cheat, then she u… | /r/askMRP | 28/11/19 02:25 PM |
| 3 | How do I truly come to terms with the fact that my girlfriend is incapable of loving me?Grow up. The only woman who will ever love you unconditionally is your mother. What you should look for in a relationship is performance, not unconditional love. Does your girl give you what you want and is she loyal to you? If the answer is yes, then you're good, for the moment. Keep enjoying the relationship until it runs its course. Men innately get their sense of value and self esteem from accomplishing great things, not from female validation. Get a mission and make accomplishing that missi… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 02:17 PM |
| 6 | So is the only way to stop them from cheating to be so domineering/ red pulled that they wouldn’t dare think about it?You're asking the wrong question because you can't stop anyone from cheating. You should be asking how do you become so outcome independent that if your girl cheats, you'll end the relationship in the blink of an eye, move on and be fine. You should also be asking how can you get as much enjoyment as possible from your girl now while you have her. She may or may not branch swing from you in the future, but if you're worried about losing her, you won't fully enjoy her now. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Promiscuous men vs. promiscuous womenThe male biological imperative to spread our seed and keep our mates on sexual lockdown to ensure paternity. A promiscuous woman threatens this order and presents a higher risk of cuckoldry. This is why men are hard wired to devalue promiscuous women as long term mates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/19 03:47 AM |
| 2 | N-Count is such a stupid thing to worry over. Just because she had casual sex, doesn't mean she doesn't value you in a relationship.You're the guy who gives a woman exclusive access to your time, attention, resources and affection in return for the same thing she gave away for free to dozens of other men; and you may not even get the same quality as the dudes who got freebies. What does that say about your value as a man? Think those other guys who got it for free, and others who know about it, will respect you? See the problem here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/19 08:45 PM |
| 18 | Bluepill bro says I cant be with sluts because I'm inexperienced.Why are you taking advice on girls from an incel? | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 11:49 PM |
| 7 | How to withdraw attention from plate without looking "salty"?Prioritize your other plates who won't waste your time and fit this chick in when you can. When she asks when she can see you again, tell her you're busy next weekend and to check in with you the Monday after. That's it. Be cold, emotionless and see she how she responds. If she's remorseful, she'll do something special to make up for what she did. If she isnt, you cut your losses and moved on. You should be salty about what she did because she wasted your most valuable resource, your time. If yo… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 11:37 PM |
| 3 | LTR and her guy friendIf a relationship brings you more stress and anxiety than pleasure, you shouldn't have it. Also, your girl seems to be more focused on saving this other dude than meeting your needs. You should be able to figure out what to do next. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Do women have a blindspot when it comes to what they are attracted to?Most women I know are aware of what they are attracted to, embrace it and will tell you if they believe you won't judge them for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/19 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Do you think long term/lifelong partners are entitled to complete transparency regarding the other’s past life and sexual history?Nobody is entitled to disclose any information to another party that isn't relevant to their relationship. So here's the key question: is one's past sexual history relevant to a current romantic relationship? It depends. If there's anything in one's sexual past that could surprise, embarrass or shock your current partner if / when they find out, then yes, it should be disclosed. For example, if you had a one night stand with a mutual friend, you should disclose this before your partner finds out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/19 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Anyone feels like 80/20 rule is becoming slowly outdated and going further into 99/1?Would my girl prefer to be banging Dwayne Johnson? Sure, but that MFer isn't walking through our door anytime soon, so it's my cock she's sucking. Top 20%, top 1%, doesn't matter. What matters is you're the best option when she wants some dick. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Why shouldn't you date a former slut if you yourself were a player?Women generally seek commitment. A slut is a woman who has either massively failed to get men to commit to her or has no interest whatsoever in a stable, monogsmous relationship. Why would you select someone like this for a LTR?! That's like hiring an employee who has either been fired from or job-hopped through dozens of jobs. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 04:40 PM |
| 7 | Does having a threesome in the past with two guys automatically disqualifies a plate for LTR promotion?Just to be clear. FMF is a threesome, MFM is a train. Go ahead and wife this chick up so you can be tormented by visions of two dudes spitroasting your snowflake. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.Spot on, which is why "don't ask, don't tell" is the best approach for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Preselection clarification: does she like to know I’m fucking her friends?This. She'll find out. Plus don't brag about your conquests to other chicks. Makes you seem insecure and indiscreet. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Why promiscuity reduces the odds of a woman being happy in her LTRA woman who's been pumped a lot has also been dumped a lot ... a red flag that she has issues. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/18 04:41 PM |
| 12 | After giving me her number, she says she's in a LDR, but she wants to go out. Next or date?Subtext. Read between the lines. Chicks don't just come out and say what they want. What she wants is some discreet side dick from a dude who will plate her while she plays GF to her LDR guy. You hit the lottery my man. A hot chick who wants the D and not a relationship? Cash in that ticket or give to someone else who will. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 04:24 PM |
| 16 | Girls say that they love my African accent but I rarely get laid! The girls that I’ve been with are so irrelevant considering that I don’t like them. I’m 23 and I attend a small college, help!! I’m in a perfectly great shape, workout a lot, and deemed funny. Help!!Tell the chicks you have a Vibranium penis. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 02:31 AM |
| 9 | What is proper frame for exfriend who had sex with my wifeGet cucked for the kids. Great way to raise children who respect their dad. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 11:58 PM |
| 16 | What is proper frame for exfriend who had sex with my wifeIf you had the proper frame, you'd have a smirk on your face the next time you saw this guy because your cheating, thot ex-wife would be his problem now. But I still would beat his ass if I saw him right now. Someone who is worthless to you isn't worth fighting for. Both of these scum should be dead to you. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 11:51 PM |
| 2 | My Girl (25) Left Me For A Fat Old Rich GuyThis. Look on the bright side. You got the pussy and he gets the problems. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP : You have to drop your child off with a stranger, all you know is their occupation. Teacher, or stripper. Which do you choose?Female child - teacher. Male child - stripper, of course. Great opportunity for vicarious thrills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/18 08:36 PM |
| 6 | Fucked up my relationship by showing her my vulnerable side even though I didn't believe that this could happenYep. It's a tough, cruel, cold world. Women need a man who's strong enough to protect her, stoic enough to keep cool in the midst of chaos and detached enough to kill the puppy if that's what needs to be done. Never let her see you sweat or show any weakness. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/18 08:28 PM |
| 4 | Doesn't getting exhausting have to calculate every move you are going to make with a woman?Repeat after me. I Don't Give a Fuck. The day you stop giving any fucks about what women think about you is when they'll start wanting you. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/18 03:05 AM |
| 3 | How to cope with cognitive dissonanceHow to cope with cognitive dissonance By judging women on their actions, not their words. I don't give a shit about a woman says to me and don't assign much value to her words. I judge her by how she treats me. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 05:04 PM |
| 34 | Be careful dating a woman on birth controlTime Magazine article on this, citing a study published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Science. Money quote: "Women who choose a partner when they’re on hormonal contraceptives and then stop taking them will prioritize their husband's attractiveness more than they would if they were still on it," says Michelle Russell, the Florida State graduate student who is the lead author on the study. Had the opposite happen to me a long time ago. GF started taking the pill, started feeling w… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/18 09:50 PM |
| 9 | How to go clubbing with an ltr?How to go clubbing with an ltr? You don't. Taking your girl to a club is like walking into a canine convention with a big, fat, juicy piece of raw meat. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 04:31 PM |
| 1 | She’s Going On Spring BreakWhat's the big deal? If a plate goes away for spring break, that means you have more time to spend with your other ones or even recruit new ones. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 04:21 AM |
| 4 | GF mentions ex who is getting married. What should be my reaction?What is the right TRP thing to say? Get me a sandwich. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/18 09:02 PM |
| 9 | Frame for Dummies. What it is and ways to build (and keep) it.I love the term "frame". It helps me to envision myself as a building that will remain strong and upright through hurricanes, earthquakes and anything else nature can throw at it. My goal is to have an unbreakable emotional frame that won't bend when challenged by any emotional turmoil that a woman can and will conjure up: shit tests, comfort tests and emotional outbursts. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/18 01:18 PM |
| 5 | Your girlfriends guy friendsAnd this is why you shouldn't get into an exclusive relationship until you have a contact list full of HBs who want your D. If your girl is really into you, she'll want to spend as much time as possible with you and not her guy friends so there's little to no chance you'll hang out with her competition for your time and attention. You'll also have a lot more power and leverage in the relationship. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 09:37 PM |
| 7 | Kept a “plate” at a distance. Went on a break, found out she got railed by two rando’s at a party. Now, I’m disgusted but she wants to keep fucking.You need to be a realistic. A chick who's willing to have casual sex with you is probably willing to do the same with other dudes. I’ll fuck other girls with you if you want Rather than falling in love with this chick, be thankful that you have a legit freak as a plate and take advantage of the opportunity. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Why do some girls act flirty until you show interest, and then they act standoffish and extremely guarded like you’re a creep? And then once you start ignoring them they want your attention again?They are conditioning you to be their orbiter. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 03:13 PM |
| 10 | My current GF has had ‘alot of meaningless sex’. But has had two or three meaningful relationships. I’m apparently one of her meaningful relationships. Sex is fun. Should I bail or stay for the sex?I’m apparently one of her meaningful relationships. Lol. I'm sure she would never say this just to keep you around because you could be her meal ticket. She's had many cocks. She's only your second partner. Be careful. You're going up against a pro, a seasoned carousel rider. I'll bet most of the "I think I'm being cucked" posts in this board started out like your situation. You think you have things under control but you catch oneitis and she snares you in her BetaBux trap. Sounds like you're j… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 02:34 AM |
| 306 | Girls are losersBingewatching Netflix series, spending hours on social media, reading Vogue, .... Activities that are in no way improving themselves or anything around them. To be brutally honest, substitute video games for Netflix and internet boards for social media in this line and you will have described a large portion of the male population. The difference between a male and female loser is the female loser was born with something that has value out of the box, her vagina. A male loser is worthless. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/18 02:14 AM |
| 18 | Be Selfish.This. Some of the biggest pricks I've known were weak men who acted that way to hide their insecurities. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/18 12:10 AM |
| 3 | girlfriend (24F) and what she did to me (31M) on NYE's this past year and how to handle future situations.Alcohol is truth serum. The best way to discover the true nature of a woman is to get her intoxicated. Now you know ... she's a ho. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 08:01 PM |
| 158 | Confessions of an Alpha Widow/Branch SwingerWomen are acquisitive by nature, they want what they don't have. That's why they love shopping and chasing dick. Woman A isn't happy with her perfect guy because she has him locked down. The only way to have a decent relationship with a woman is to play Charlie Brown football with your emotional commitment. Show it to her so she knows it's there for the taking but never let her fully get it. Once she does she'll start looking for the next guy to get. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/18 07:56 PM |
| 120 | My buddy's newfound success caused his (now ex) girlfriend to lose her mind.Most girls would start cooking him 5-star meals and fucking him like a pornstar. No, she did what the average woman would do if she found out the guy she was banging was rich and she wasn't getting her "fair share". They'll never admit it, but sex is transactional for women. They defintely expect a return on their investment. Good thing your buddy wasn't married to her. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 02:39 PM |
| 30 | Do I live in a hellhole, or are girls like this everywhere?Welcome to the Kardashian generation, where thottery is the new normal. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/18 10:49 PM |
| 3 | The psychopathic relationship...why does it work?Psychopaths and sociopaths don't give a fuck about what women think about them and act accordingly. Women love this because it's a display of high value. By the way, normal men with self respect and lives outside of pussy can also develop this trait. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/18 03:16 PM |
| 1 | I feel like my dick isn't what it used to be now that I'm in my mid-30s. What can I do to restore it?Healthy T + nitric oxide levels = hardwood. For T, get your levels checked regularly, stay lean, eat a clean diet with a good amount of healthy fats, supplement with zinc and do manly shit on a regular basis: lift, compete and fuck. To maintain nitric oxide levels, eat beets, supplement with L-Arginine and horny goat weed and take low dose dick pills for an extra boost. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/18 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Her big boobs come out ... compliment them or not?No need to say anything. When you start sucking on her titties she'll figure out that you like them. Smack your lips and add an "mmmh" for emphasis. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/18 10:36 PM |
| 17 | Notes from the book 'Deep Work' ( My fav on productivity). 1. Remove all distractions before commencing any deep work, hide in a cave if you must 2. Be consistent with your work 3. Don't Multi-task (it doesn't work) 4. It's not meant to be easy but do it anyway.We need to put down our smartphones, hide the video games and set aside focused time to build and fix things. Using our hands to do real work is one of the most therapeutic things men can do. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/18 05:50 PM |
| 4 | Unicorns do exist, but it doesn't matter.There are a lot of women dressed in unicorn costumes who when viewed by men with impaired vision look like the real thing. Guys have a problem (the young version of me included) getting past the halo effect created by female charm and oneitis to see a woman for who she really is. Think of the movie They Live. Once you get those glasses that clear up your vision you can start to see through the facade. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/18 10:51 PM |
| 7 | Do women change when they get married?What man-made substance is guaranteed to cause weight gain and reduced sex drive in women? Wedding cake. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 09:29 PM |
| 40 | Women talking about their past boyfriendsLet her talk. It's the best way to find out about her past. If she talks too much about a particular guy, you'll know that she's an alpha widow. If she talks about an assortment of dudes she "dated", you'll confirm that she's a carousel rider. If it gets too annoying, change the subject but don't let her sense that you are butthurt or angry. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 09:23 PM |
| 28 | TRP Children’s BookNo need for a children's book. Feed boys a steady diet of hip hop and they'll become playas in no time. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/18 06:13 PM |
| 51 | My sister told me she would use a man for money and then leave himBetas get used up Betas and sluts get used up. Betas are the male equivalent of sluts. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/18 01:07 PM |
| 4 | Girl cries during sex. Feels bad about cheating her boyfriend. What to do?I like her maybe that's my problem Time to move on. You're catching feelings for a mixed up chick who's not worth them. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 03:04 AM |
| 243 | My sister told me she would use a man for money and then leave himKanye West warned us about your sister. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/18 11:36 PM |
| 4 | What does TRP actually want from women?I see all these posts against LTRs and marriage Regarding marriage. Imagine you're taking a leisurely walk and see a sign in a field in front of you: "Beware of the mine field. You have at least a 50% chance of being blown up." Would you walk into that field? Probably not. This is the state of marriage today. A man has at least a 50 percent chance of having his life blown up if he gets married. Is that a risk the average man should take? ,>What does TRP actually want from women? Fairness. Relati… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/18 11:46 PM |
| 10 | The Ansari story - Red Pill EditionSo your very first move with a dozen chicks you just met was to eat them out? Not only is that a Beta move if you don't pull it off just right, that's some nasty shit. Best to send a well protected scout team before exploring the jungle au natural. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/18 11:14 PM |
| 32 | The Ansari story - Red Pill EditionDon't making eating her pussy your first move. That immediately puts you into her frame and sets up a covert contract: "I gave you oral, now it's your turn." Makes it seem like fucking you is a quid pro quo which feeds the "I'm not a whore" hamster. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/18 03:57 PM |
| 22 | The Anna Karenina Principle and the Problem of Bad RelationshipsHaving other options is the key to being treated well by your woman, your employer, your friends and the organizations you do business with. I'm reminded of that every time I see a miserable looking dude with a dad bod being berated by his woman and every time I have to deal with a local utility company or go to the Dept. of Motor Vehicles. Most acts of kindness are the result of competition, not altruism. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/18 03:49 PM |
| 85 | What happens in a girl's mind when you say "I love you"She really means "at this moment, I love the way you make me feel." | /r/askTRP | 14/01/18 06:44 PM |
| 10 | Would girls that give you heavy IOI's still reject your approach?Sure. Sometimes you swing and miss. It's part of the game. Can't get a hit if you don't take a swing though. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/18 05:55 PM |
| 14 | Should I Consider This A Red Flag?she told me she's only had sex with 2 guys in her life (she's 27) the last being a married ex-coworker. Fucking a guy who she knows is married is also a red flag. she told me she's only had sex with 2 guys in her life (she's 27) Hard to believe that a 27 y/o woman who's OK with smashing married guys has an N count of only 2. Something doesn't add up with this chick. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/18 05:38 PM |
| 3 | How do women perceive arrogant men like this?It's a sad sign of the times that a man who acts like he has self respect is considered arrogant. So my question is how did these women perceive Bob? Who gives a shit how they perceived him. What's important is Bob didn't put these chicks on a pedestal. Good for him. I didn't like his answer though. Should have said "you can have these stools when we're done", end of conversation. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/18 04:53 PM |
| 17 | Just two days ago, I was told I was being alarmist for posting "Straight Men Will Soon Be Called Homophobic For Not Sleeping With Gays And Trannies." You can't make this shit up.Some viewers claimed Ginuwine rebuffing the notion of dating a trans woman was discrimination or transphobia - dislike or fear of transgender people. I'd ask female supporters of the tranny when was the last time they fucked a short, ugly, poor man. Women are clearly guilty of rampant incelphobia. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/18 03:07 PM |
| 16 | Arousal doesn’t come in discreet laser focused packets "A man’s sexuality is a fire. Not a laser beam. If you succeed in tampering down his fire and get him to self regulate looking at hotties while you are both out, you won’t get fucked as much."... "brought to you by the American Strip Club Association." | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/18 11:23 PM |
| 0 | On Alpha & Beta, and the misuse of these terms.I see it this way. Expression of strong frame = Alpha trait. Weak frame = Beta trait. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/18 01:38 PM |
| 16 | Am I seen as her rock by doing this or her emotional tampon ?If she's fucking you, you're her rock. If she isn't, you're her emotional tampon. You were her rock. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 12:02 AM |
| 2 | On Alpha & Beta, and the misuse of these terms.Beta – Traits of provision: either providing resources or validation to others, women (and perhaps men). For discussion ... might be time reconsider or refine the definition. Beta implies weakness and subservience. I see a Beta as someone who defers to women and other men. Someone who provides as a way to win the affection of a woman is subservient to her and therefore Beta. It is possible to provide from a position of strength though. Think of the head of an organization who rewards those who a… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/18 07:40 PM |
| 0 | On Alpha & Beta, and the misuse of these terms.But buying a house, or feeding your family? Beta traits. Taking care and protecting people who rely on you and treat you with respect and deference is not a Beta trait. IMO it's a legitimate expression of manhood. Giving your resources to someone who doesn't give a fuck about you and treats you with indifference or disdain is a Beta trait. Be a benevolent monarch who rules his kingdom with an iron fist in a velvet glove. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/18 03:46 PM |
| 1 | 27 and lost my virginity todayI almost want to say sex is overrated So you reach this conclusion after your first time? Come back and post after you reach 1K+ lays. If you're doing it right, it gets better with time. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/18 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Women are Red Pill as FuckThe other day I left a hamburger on my coffee table within my dog's easy reach while I stepped out of the room to take a leak. I came back, saw that the burger was gone and observed my dog licking his chops with a contented look on his face. Did I get mad at him? Absolutely not. I was the dumbass for not moving the burger. When I was young dumb and full of cum, girls used to use and abuse me. I was the nice guy who would talk to them for hours about their problems while other guys hit the pussy.… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/18 10:39 PM |
| 21 | Accept that all women desire to have a dick inside of them, no matter how cute and innocent they seem to be.I learned this as a teen when I found out from the source that the cute, wholesome cheerleader in my neighborhood who I dreamed of someday becoming my girlfriend was raw dogging and blowing the neighborhood scumbag weed dealer. Every woman is a slut for the right man. After I figured this out I started to get laid on a regular basis because I began to assume that every chick naturally wants to hop on someone's cock so it might as well be mine. Escalating became easier with this attitude. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/18 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Losing your capacity to be hurt by herPutting a positive spin on this, for me the light bulb moment that resulted in better relationships with women was when I understood that women want a man they can admire and look up to. If you put a woman on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you. Focusing on being the highest value man possible is the best gift you can give to a woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/18 05:51 PM |
| 3 | How to not be cockblocked by parents?Well, smash the maid. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 08:23 PM |
| 4 | How to not be cockblocked by parents?What's up with young people these days? Where there's a will, there's a way. Can't you sneak girls into your house without your parents finding out or do they have special thot detection skills? You could always find girls that have their own places or live with tolerant parents. Motel rooms were made for smashing. It’s hard to be alpha when mommy and daddy are breathing down your neck. Protip. "Alphas" don't let their mommies and daddies breathe down their necks. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 07:59 PM |
| 9 | The Bell CurveTrick question. The real answer is "who gives a fuck" because solving equations about how to get laid won't actually get you laid. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 07:48 PM |
| 5 | [Xpost from r/Science] Females are four times more sensitive than males to economic status cues when rating opposite sex attractiveness, indicating that higher economic status can offset lower physical attractiveness in men much more easily than in women.Newsflash: women like big bank accounts and men like big boobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/17 04:20 PM |
| 37 | At the top of reddit right now is a cold, hard redpill truth about AWALTNewsflash: women like big bank accounts and men like big titties. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 04:14 PM |
| 28 | The Treasures of the Cornered AnimalTo a woman her reputation is her precious. And this is why a real player doesn't kiss and tell. A reputation for discretion helps if you want to get laid on a regular basis. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/17 05:58 PM |
| 5 | LTR in Collegegeneral LTR advice for college student If you're on a campus with more women than men, don't get into a LTR and enjoy the pussy buffet. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/17 12:07 AM |
| 6 | Girl lost virginity to me reasoning because she can never fall for guy like me.Virginity doesn't mean shit to women these days. Men place higher value on virginity than women. A logical explanation is she had friends who were sexually experienced, felt out of place because she was a virgin and wanted to get it out of the way. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/17 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Keep it to yourself. Honestly.I used to do this until I realized that I was wasting precious time and energy evangelizing people who don't want to be saved. Focus on you and only share the secrets of your success with people you trust and have proven they are willing to put in the work to succeed. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 11:52 PM |
| 25 | LTR oraganising a canoeing trip abroad. Didn't invited me. Help with frame and confront, please.If a girlfriend is really into you, she'll try to find as many opportunities as possible to be with you, not plan extended trips away from you. If a guy has other female options, a girlfriend who's into him won't allow other girls to have access to him while she's away and he's horny, unless she doesn't have a choice. If a guy has other female options and his girlfriend plans an extended trip away from him, he won't worry about it because he'll be balls deep in new pussy the day after she leaves… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 06:28 PM |
| 1 | I implemented TRP doctrine for two years. Here is the results.You learned that men think and women feel, which makes arguing with a woman pointless. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 04:27 PM |
| 2 | I implemented TRP doctrine for two years. Here is the results.This means withdrawing attention when she behaves in an unwanted way This isn't being manipulative. It's having the balls to act like you feel. The natural response to a woman who's acting like a bitch or spoiled brat is to get as far away from her as possible. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 04:18 PM |
| 27 | Why you must believe AWALTyour girl will cheat eventually AWALT and exit strategy, yes. Not a fan of "your girl will eventually cheat" though. A lot of guys will misinterpret this and enter into a relationship with a frame based on fear, which will prevent them from enjoying their time with their woman. Following a couple of simple rules can help protect against the risk that your woman could eventually cheat - Don't enter a LTR unless you have abundance. Men with other options usually don't obsess over cheating and are … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Woman who hates men, worth plating?men are rapists Looks like you haven't been following current events. Your date should have ended after she said this. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 02:03 PM |
| 5 | The world's oldest profession is still alive and well...Great to know that every time I fill up my gas tank a portion of the proceeds funds the lifestyle of an Instahoe. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 09:33 PM |
| 5 | Confidence issues even when doing well in life, my LTR HB9 model partner becoming more disrespectful.Your problem is oneitis. A woman can't respect a man who places her on a pedestal because she has no choice but to look down on him. The problem with this chick is she's used to men putting her on a pedestal, so disrespecting men is her default mode. Ask yourself ... would you rather have a HB7 who treats you like a king or a HB9 who treats you like shit? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 06:44 PM |
| 4 | What exactly is (1) profound or (2) useful about Briffault's Law?A man's love for a woman is sympathetic. The more a woman needs him, the more attached a man tends to become to a woman. That's how we're hard wired. A woman's attachment to a man is ephemeral and based on his strength and the benefits he provides to her at that time: tingles, protection, status and money. A guy who doesn't know any better will expect his girlfriend or wife to treat him the same way he treats her. When a woman is suffering, most men will be supportive because that's how we're wi… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Girl text "you ok?" after showing abundance, how to respond?This. The best response is indifference. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/17 09:40 PM |
| 66 | It's not an accident, women are very deliberate when they are using you.If an attractive woman who you knew was disease free and relatively sane offered unlimited no strings attached sex to you would you accept? If you were a girl and chumps with money and skills offered them to you just for talking to them would you take advantage of the opportunity? Women aren't the problem. The thirsty chumps who enable them are. They are the male equivalent of sluts, addicted to covert contracts. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/17 04:06 PM |
| 1 | How can anyone have abundance mentality?To have abundance, you don't need to have as many options for sex as a woman. You really just need more than one so the woman you're with has to compete for your time and attention. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/17 07:53 PM |
| 2 | You will Lose - But you're not a loserNice post. TL;DR - fear regret more than failure. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/17 06:24 PM |
| 15 | Ran into LTR's Ex and drama ensued.Interesting story that your unicorn, perfect LTR snowflake told you. Let's break the story down. She went "traveling" (translation - cock carousel tour) and expected her BF at the time to be waiting for her when she finished. Props to her ex, because he didn't go for it and moved on, probably ghosted her, she became obsessed with him and she's now an alpha widow because she never got "closure". Your drunk reaction? That was panic. Your gut was telling you that you're over invested in a woman who… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/17 04:03 AM |
| 20 | Study: chicks dig jerks - prisoners have more sexual partners than regular menTrue. A lot of women are attracted to bad boys. Another reason why prisoners have more sexual partners than average is they lack impulse control and many of them would fuck anything with a heart and a hole. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/17 03:18 PM |
| 3 | How do you react when getting rosted by the group?Laugh with them. Agree and amplify. Learn how to roast back without seeming butthurt. Have fun with it. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/17 02:15 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend texts her "best guy friend" multiple times a weekyou need to work on your self esteem And abundance. If OP had girls blowing up his phone, he wouldn't worry as much and he'd have more leverage with his GF. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 12:42 PM |
| 10 | 3 Words That Will Change Your LifeSure. As a man, you have to own your struggles and ultimately resolve emotional pain yourself, but most men would benefit from having someone to vent to every once in a while, talk through problems and help figure out solutions. We should do the same for other men because it helps to put our own problems into proper perspective. No man is an island and none of us have all of the answers. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/17 04:46 AM |
| 27 | I’m using my new situation in life (body, money, etc) for sex and entretainment with women, and I’m loving it. Why TRP says that is counterproductive?No problem with living a fun life. You're a victor, enjoy your spoils. Problem is if you do what you do for pussy, once you start to get laid you'll lose your motivation, start to slip and eventually the pussy goes away. This is the story of many former players, failed athletes and one hit wonder musicians. Do what you do purely for the love of what you do and you'll be great until you can't do it anymore. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/17 09:05 PM |
| 69 | Men tend to be much more capable, even in disagreement, of civil conversation about a topic without letting emotions boil over. (Video inside)Men think. Women feel. It's impossible to debate a person who doesn't use logic to make decisions. "You cannot win in a fight against women, cause men have a need to make sense." Chris Rock | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/17 09:00 PM |
| 499 | 3 Words That Will Change Your LifeDefinitely don't overshare your burdens, as too many "modern" men tend to do, because most people could care less. On the other hand I've known too many good men who self medicated with drugs and alcohol, abused others and/or attempted suicide because they kept their emotional pain bottled up. For minor discomfort, OP is spot on. The right thing to do is to just deal with it. For deep emotional pain, the right approach is to not suffer in silence but share your emotional pain with a trusted, sym… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/17 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Purpose beyond dating women?Life priorities: You Family Hobbies Chicks are included in 3. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/17 04:03 AM |
| 2 | A woman at work starts making kissing noises when she wants you to help her... how do you tell her to shut the fuck up?What can I do to make her stop this crap? Don't let it bother you and she'll probably stop. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/17 04:00 AM |
| 5 | How to keep a strong frame up when feeling tired or having an average day?Willpower. Don't let your emotions control your attitude and productivity. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/17 03:55 AM |
| 5 | Confessions of an Uber DriverYep. Girls get horny, like dick and talk about their conquests amongst themselves. Always have, always will. Great news for guys who fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/17 03:54 AM |
| 2 | How to be a whore at Christmas - A guideA thousands words of clickbait authored to make herself feel better and reassure fellow cock carousel riders. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/17 01:18 PM |
| 6 | How do I soft-next a girl that I see everyday?Treat her like any other random, anonymous chick you run into in class. By the way, you technically can't soft next a girl who nexted you first. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/17 01:44 AM |
| 12 | What to do about shit tests that you have no choice but to fail?Demote your wife to plate. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/17 01:33 AM |
| 5 | You will get burned.If a girl you're attracted to consistently sets herself apart from others in your life because of her attitude and connection with you, why not be exclusive with her? Don't let fear of loss and future pain get in the way of enjoying the moment. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/17 01:15 AM |
| 3 | You will get burned.A relevant story to remind us that no relationship is permanent and if the relationship brings enjoyment now we should savor the moment rather than worry about losing it in the future. Example - having a relationship with an HB9 is worth it now because I'm going to savor every minute she's on my arm in public and every second I'm in that fine ass pussy understanding that it won't last forever, just as I savor every sip of an expensive glass of single malt scotch, every puff of a fine Cuban cigar… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/17 01:03 AM |
| 6 | You will get burned.If you're the prize, an LTR with you is a privilege not a right. If she doesn't earn it, she doesn't get it. This is the logic of a man with abundance who values his time and commitment. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/17 12:16 AM |
| 2 | How important are grades in college?A matters a lot if you want to get into a good graduate school or a competitive entry level job. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/17 03:27 AM |
| 7 | How would you respond to a girl asking if you go to church?"It depends on how bad I was the night before." | /r/askTRP | 04/12/17 03:23 AM |
| 5 | Next week I’ll move out of the country, and I have proof against two of the bitchiest women Ikkve worked with in my last job. Would you send it to the entire office?I can defintely put bitch #1 job at risk and bitch #2 reputation in the toilet. And you kinda sound like bitch #3, Petty Murphy. Tit for tat is a game best played by females. If you're leaving just move on and forget about the shitshow of a company you're departing. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Should past relationships matter?Hold her accountable for what she does for you now. Her past is her problem. If her past prevents her from earning your trust, being 100% into you, being low drama and giving you what you want from a relationship, then you shouldn't reward her with your commitment. “doesn’t know what would happen if me and him met” What would happen is you would hold frame and treat him like any other dude. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 08:59 PM |
| 1 | GF told me from the start she's friends with her ex. Hid something she told me 5 months later.A girl who's still friendly and talking with an ex is a horrible candidate for an exclusive relationship. She obviously still has feelings for this guy. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 06:57 PM |
| 10 | How much does height and build play into attractiveness?You can't control your height but have a lot of control over your build. Focus on what you can control. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 04:54 PM |
| 20 | “I don’t like muscly guys”“I don’t like muscly guys” And OP will get the satisfaction of proving his wife a liar when she fucks and sucks him on demand after he gets ripped. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 04:52 PM |
| 47 | Why is there a meme of all white women always secretly wanting black guys?Bad boy / forbidden fruit syndrome perpetuated by white chicks with daddy issues who want to piss off their fathers. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 04:48 PM |
| 7 | LTR question: is saying "I love you" a big deal?Don't say "I love you" now. Bad idea for a couple of reasons. What you're feeling is a neurochemical high, not actual love. If you really have to express your feelings, say something like "I like the way you make me feel" or something similar. The love of a high value man has to be earned over time and women instinctively know this. Telling a girl you're just getting to know that you love her is a display of low value and will make you seem needy. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/17 04:27 PM |
| 35 | Why do you want an LTR?Curious about why TRP are looking for LTR's Not looking for an LTR. If a woman is so fun to be with, adds so much value to my life and has good character, sometimes I end up spending so much time with her that we become exclusive. In other words, you don't go looking for it, she earns it. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/17 03:27 AM |
| 2 | What Traits Should You Look For In a Potential Girlfriend?What Traits Should You Look For In a Potential Girlfriend? I'm a simple man, so I have only three traits, tested and proven over time, that I look for: Does she pass the boner test. Is she not a drama queen. Does she treat me like a fucking king. As long as she demonstrates these traits, she may have the opportunity to be my girl. Most of the rest is either noise or largely unknowable. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/17 02:50 AM |
| 15 | What Traits Should You Look For In a Potential Girlfriend?Then she bleeds She may bleed, but what if she sucked 37 dicks? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/17 02:28 AM |
| 5 | Don't know whether to ask my LT-Situationship if she's fucking other guys...You're right, because they could have been at the beach at 1 AM with nobody else around to discuss aquatic life and collect seashells /s You don't need her to spell anything out for you because what she did is a terminable offense. Plate or next. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 05:36 PM |
| 4 | Girlfriend Cheated, best stuff to read to get though it?You knew better. You're like the guy who captures a wild coyote, tries to domesticate it, gets his ass mauled and now wonders what pet books he needs to read to feel better. Whatever book can help you to use some common sense ... that's what you need to read. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 05:28 PM |
| 3 | I push for sex too soon, end up creating plates. I don’t want plates anymore. I’d like a relationship eventually while spinning plates lowkey.My abundance mentality doesn’t let me connect she said. Never ask a woman for relationship advice. Your abundance mentality actually makes you immune from oneitis. This is a good thing, unless you're a low effort chick who wants to use pussy to control men. Because you're not enamored by pussy, you can actually make women earn your commitment by being fun, supporting your mission and adding value to your life. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/17 11:15 PM |
| 7 | I push for sex too soon, end up creating plates. I don’t want plates anymore. I’d like a relationship eventually while spinning plates lowkey.A man of abundance such as yourself should realize a couple of things about women: Every woman is a slut .. for the right man. AWALT. Sex is cheap, pussy is pussy. What makes a good LTR is what she provides besides sex. Either you're dating women who don't have much to offer besides pussy or you're holding out for a mythical unicorn snowflake. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/17 11:03 PM |
| 5 | Why do I feel so lonely after sex with girls?Why do I feel so lonely after sex with girls? Bitter Red Pill truth: girls want you for your dick, money, status and strength, not emotional connection. I think you're buying into the BP idea that sex leads to emotional intimacy. In reality, emotional intimacy = women telling you how good they feel after you give them a good dicking, not listening to you emote. Enjoy sex for the sensual experience that it is. Savor the pleasure of the moment. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 10:40 PM |
| 7 | Girlfriend is going to Cancun with 3 of her friends in January. Should I care?Any woman can be gamed and may cheat given the right combination of opportunity, tingles, plausible deniability (I was drunk, my friends made me do it, etc.) and distance. AWALT. Your concern is valid because a place like Cancun is a perfect storm of opportunity, tingles, deniability and distance. The best LTR quality women understand this and don't put themselves in positions where they may cheat. You won't see them clubbing, traveling without their boyfriends to notorious hookup destinations, … | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 10:29 PM |
| 4 | [Boner Killers] Is it normal for a girl's sexual history to kill your boner?Listen to your Johnson. He's telling you "don't send me back into that cesspool." | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 09:38 PM |
| 8 | Girlfriend is going to Cancun with 3 of her friends in January. Should I care?Any advice? Listen to this classic Tom Leykis episode 'Girls on Spring Break' and report back to the group. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 09:34 PM |
| 4 | I'm an idiotAcknowledge to yourself that you fucked up. Learn from your mistake but don't beat yourself up over it. Happens to the best of us. Might help to share what happened with the group. Never make the same mistake again. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and get your life back on track today. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/17 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: N-count.People talk about it, men obsess over it and women lie about it because IT IS important. Ask an insurance, human resources or other professional in the business of predicting human behavior if past behavior is a good predictor of current and future performance and they'll tell you - absolutely yes. A woman with a high N count generally sucked at or didn't like monogamy, which makes her a high risk candidate for a future monogamous relationship. Sure. A woman might exaggerate her sexual experienc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/17 04:25 AM |
| 5 | Should I sleep with her friend?She's been with a few guys in the group over the years Problem: you have oneitis for the group bike, Kate, who you already fucked. Solution: now smash Jenna, then Kate again, then maybe Kate and Jenna at the same time. Then you find other girls outside of this group, because it seems like this group is like a mini cock carousel for Jenna and Kate. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/17 02:25 AM |
| 5 | Sometimes do you rather just fap than deal with bs?Your mission always comes first. If you have to make a choice, getting paid > getting laid. With that said, it can't be too difficult to get laid where you are, no? I went to a university with med, law and b-school students who took turns smashing each other in between exams and have heard similar stories from friends at other schools. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/17 02:15 AM |
| 14 | High N Count debateWhy is there so much hate against LTR'ing girls with high N counts? Not hate, more like using logic and playing the odds. A girl with a high N count has low relationship value and is high risk because she previously has been unable to lock down a guy and/or was unwilling to be monogamous. Wifing up a slut is also a poor investment of your time and resources, unless she has a lot more to offer than sex. If you're locking her down for exclusive access to her pussy, you're paying premium price for … | /r/askTRP | 24/11/17 08:23 PM |
| 171 | I just pulled an all-nighter devouring the side bar. Here from /r/deadbedrooms. I think my gf does nothing but shit test me.Dead bedroom, in your 20s with a supposed girlfriend?! Your issue is much bigger than a fucked up Thanksgiving dinner. If she's not fucking you she's just a roommate, not your girlfriend. If she's not fucking you she's likely fucking someone else. She keeps shit testing you and won't fuck you because she has no respect for you. In other words ... your so-called relationship is a shitshow. Forget about her and start getting your own shit together. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/17 02:29 PM |
| 4 | The challenge of a successful LTR.Keep gaming other women and give your girl a month-to-month, performance based lease and not an open-ended commitment and you'll be fine. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/17 09:15 PM |
| 22 | Ltr calls me her little kittenMeow while you're caveman fucking her in the ass. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/17 04:40 PM |
| 5 | College: Just Fucking TryPurpose and pussy aren't mutually exclusive. If you know what you're doing, a guy can actually find a woman who can help him in his mission. You can get laid and get good grades on college. I graduated with honors in a difficult major. Once I tightened up my game, I had girls who regularly kept my tummy full and balls empty in between study sessions. I focused on serial relationships. Where guys F up is trying to spin 3, 4 5 plates at a time while taking a full course load. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 07:27 AM |
| 11 | Be sure to make best friends with Chad Thundercock. It's eye-opening.simply astonished, again, at how easily highly attractive men get laid. I've been in the game over 20 years and have seen plenty of attractive men who couldn't get laid because they didn't have game. I've also seen plenty of butt ugly men who did get laid regularly because they had game, status, personality or something else that made them stand out. Lyle Lovett got plenty of tail in his heyday. Same for fat-ass Patrice O'Neal. The formula is simple. Be awesome, stand out and get laid. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 05:09 AM |
| 1 | "If you're not getting laid, you're a fucking asshole." Homeless man sleeps with 4 women a week for a place to stayNot surprised this guy gets laid. Thots love edgy cock. "Bang kinda hot homeless guy" is probably on a lot of carousel riders' sexual bucket list. Fast forward 10 years. I'd love to see how these thots' future husbands take it if they found out their snowflakes, who only give them duty sex, sucked off and got ass plowed by a homeless dude. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/17 09:24 PM |
| 8 | Women always lie because they don't want you to know the truth about them.Women lie to men because they regularly lie to themselves as a defense mechanism to protect their fragile egos. They don't want to admit the truth about themselves. That's what the rationalization hamster is for. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/17 09:00 PM |
| 3 | What are things a man can do for their LTR that doesn't come off as corny or desperate for love?What can a Red Pill man GIVE his significant other? His time plus the occasional bag of Skittles. Serious answer: having the opportunity to be in the exclusive company of a fun, interesting, awesome guy who lays consistently good pipe is the best gift a girl could ever want. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Determining n countHow do you determine your partners n count relatively accurately A woman's dick count is unknowable trivia because you generally won't get a straight answer. When I kept getting '5' as the answer, I just stopped asking. If you're evaluating for an LTR, you definitely need to find about out her past before you commit. Look at it as learning about her life story rather than getting a precise N count. Was she a party girl, in monogamous relationships, did she go through a slut phase, does she have … | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 04:47 PM |
| 3 | You can't escape the bullshit.You can't escape the bullshit. Yes you can. Find friends who aren't threatened by your success. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/17 06:41 PM |
| 15 | what is wrong with women sleeping around during their 20's.CC ridden chicks won't be good partners. Gotta be careful with this because CC riders can give academy award winning performances to lock down a provider. Until Hoefax becomes reality, best thing to do is assume every woman is a rider unless proven otherwise. Best way to figure this out? Thru friends and maybe family. Give yourself plenty of time to meet current and old friends. Go to reunions with her. Meet girls and guys she's known for a while. You'll get a sense of her past from this. If she… | /r/askTRP | 08/11/17 12:10 AM |
| 19 | what is wrong with women sleeping around during their 20's.... don't expect someone to pay full price for a car with 200k miles on it. That everyone else before you got to ride for free. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/17 12:01 AM |
| 8 | Skipped sex for work, I guess i'm starting looking at sex differently.Choose getting paid over getting laid ... always. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 11:53 PM |
| 8 | Why do women push for more and more commitment only to be disatisfied when it actually happens?This is because the nature of a woman is to want what she can't have. If what she wants is attainable, a woman will take it for granted. This applies to shoes, clothes and men. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 03:33 AM |
| 1 | CNN released a 12 minute report about this subredditNothing better than free advertising. Expect an immediate surge in membership. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/17 05:14 PM |
| 3 | You wont know when she cheats (2 years later)The power of the rationalization hamster. She probably convinced herself that the lie was the truth. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/17 03:06 AM |
| 1 | How do you get over dating being so much easier for girls?When you're in the shower, look down, remind yourself that you don't have a vagina and get over it. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 07:57 PM |
| 6 | How do I deal with my GF when she hits the wallWrap it tight every night. She's due for baby rabies. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/17 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Your best response to "can we be just friends"Ghost her, unless you enjoy providing furniture moving, tech support and emotional tampon services for free. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/17 10:58 AM |
| 4 | Girl asking to cuddle on first meetup?Girl asking to cuddle on first meetup? Is how a "good girl" asks for the D. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/17 10:55 AM |
| 3 | Women intentionally shit test men to understand if he's a solid partner, which is caused by an abundance mindset, but how do we do the same?"Get me a sandwich" works. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/17 08:51 PM |
| 5 | For those of you in a relationship, what would you do/how would you react if she suddenly ended it?Say bye to Felicia then find some new pussy. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/17 08:49 PM |
| 4 | Sister has shown me the "ranking list" of her best friendYou know you've made it when you discover that you're on some lists. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/17 08:44 PM |
| 15 | Two Words That Can Change Your Life/Game"That which does not kill us makes us stronger." - Nietzsche Words to live by. This is why I love being a man. While women live to seek comfort, men have the capacity to thrive by enduring pain and discomfort in the pursuit of excellence. Toughen Up I prefer "Man Up". Has a certain ring to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/17 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend cut herself after I soft nexted her?Congratulate yourself for nexting this crazy chick. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/17 04:33 AM |
| 1 | WTF is happening to men nowadays?Meh. Don't get butthurt because guys are approaching your plate on social media. Attractive women will get approached often, in person and online. She's just a plate, so why do you care? | /r/askTRP | 21/10/17 04:32 AM |
| 5 | Gone on 14 dates with girl, she asked me what we are14 dates? Tell her the truth. You're her emotional tampon and ATM. She's definitely ltr material So you want an LTR from a chick who isn't attracted to you? Sidebar. Now ----------> | /r/askTRP | 21/10/17 04:29 AM |
| 17 | My GF Wants To Pick Up An Assistant/Escort Gig For A Weekend And I'm Not OK With It. How To Deal With This?my GF has a history of partying too hard Here's the problem. You wifed up a party slut and now the chickens are coming home to roost. It was just a matter of time before this happened. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/17 12:17 AM |
| 49 | Feminists go apeshit when stay at home mom makes lunch for breadwinnerThe sandwich and drink test never fails. If she won't make you a sandwich or get your drink on demand, she won't be a good LTR. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/17 07:57 PM |
| 2 | What clues do girls give at clubs that they want you to make a move on them?When you go up to a girl, take her hand, lead her to the dance floor and after a few minutes she's grinding on your dick while you're squeezing her ass. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Some of the best game I've played turned into worst shit test I have ever experienced"if you were with a girl and she wore lingerie for you every night, you would fuck her every night, right?" They shit tested you because you gave a straight answer (which by the way was lame) rather than play along and keep the conversation sexual. Reading between the lines, she also pretty much advertised to you that whatever dude she's with now isn't dicking her like she wants and she's on the prowl for new D. IF you want to get laid, next time keep the convo fun and sexual, something like ...… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Me and my girlfriend having issues because of my lack of trust.Your real problem is lack of abundance not lack of trust. Are there other women interested in you who girlfriend should be wary of? If the answer is no, that's the problem. if you had other options, you wouldn't be so worried about another dude pushing up on your girl. Your response would be more about the timing of when you take advantage of some potential new pussy. The dread naturally created by your other options would also help keep your girl in check. Having a girlfriend doesn't mean you r… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: What can a 20 year old 5'5" guy do to raise his SMV?Become a millionaire, or a drug dealer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/17 04:30 AM |
| 5 | Red Piller here who's been working in strip clubs for the last 8 yearsI use to think that not all women were the same. What's the only difference between a stripper, hooker and "respectable woman." A "respectable woman" doesn't accept cash for her services. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/17 01:27 AM |
| 4 | LDR in College; Considering Open RelationshipLDR 5 hours away in college? Considering an open relationship? Guess what buddy. She's probably already opened up her legs to some new campus dick. Like her? Plate her, but get yourself some new pussy. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 12:44 AM |
| 76 | Asshole Game - An Exhilarating yet Depressing Conformation of Red-Pill TruthWhat most women term an 'asshole' is really just a man with self-respect who doesn't put pussy on a pedestal and acts like it. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/17 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Called my LTR before work todayam I being a lil bitch? Yep. Search-replace "she" with "he" in your post and what you get is how she should be reacting to you, not the other way around. You're in her frame when she should be in yours. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 09:23 PM |
| 1 | You're not good enough, you're not smart enough, and people don't like you.Spot on. Champions hate to lose more than they like to win. The key to personal growth is to keep putting yourself in situations that push your limits and don't allow yourself to fail. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/17 03:48 PM |
| 4 | Alpha Takes Womanly AdviceHopefully your friend learned that if he's going to spin plates he better be discreet. His biggest fuckup was telling a woman his business. Discretion is important because women don't want to be viewed as a playboy's cumbucket by other people, especially in a tight-knit community like a school. The reason why he gets disgusted looks isn't that he was banging multiple chicks at the same time. They're disgusted because he opened his big mouth about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/17 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Putting An End To The Black Pill.Bushwick Bill is a one-eyed, midget rapper who is arguably the ugliest entertainer ever. If he can get laid, you can too. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/17 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Trust & business travelNext-ing seems to be the best option. Why? You can't hang out, have fun and bang her without getting oneitis? | /r/askTRP | 24/09/17 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Trust & business travelI'm questioning how any man would ever trust a woman in a LTR who has regular business travel? It seems like a recipe for disaster. I travel for business and can confirm that opportunity + plausible deniability + hotel bars + expense accounts = women hopping on extracurricular dick. What's a modern divorced dad to do? The same thing a 20 year old should do when faced with a chick with red flags. Plate or next her. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/17 05:23 PM |
| 2 | An issue many men in their 20s struggle with on TRP, not seeing a light at the end of this tunnel when thinking about the alternative to marriage and kids.The question we ask ourselves is, what is the alternative to the family life with marriage and kids? Half of marriages end in divorce and probably at least half of marriages that don't end in divorce are miserable. At least 75% failure rate. Here's the real question we should ask ourselves. Are the benefits of marriage worth the enormous risks and opportunity costs? TRP didn't create this current situation. TRP is helping men to figure out how to make lemonade out of lemons in the sexual and rel… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/17 02:36 PM |
| 3 | How to Become Powerful in Society?that if you get in some conflict or someone tries to dominate you or steal your woman. You can be prepared. Prepared ... lol. You've been watching too many gangsta movies. If someone steals your woman, you don't have them killed, just find another one. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 08:42 PM |
| 7 | Bang 20 girls before you consider a LTRWhy should we care about moral equivalency? This sub is about optimizing male sexual strategy. Here's the answer to your question anyway. The key that can open many locks is a master key. The lock that can be opened by any key is a fail. Most girls would love to lock down an "experienced" man. Most guys would prefer not to LTR an "experienced" girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/17 12:33 PM |
| 6 | Why is Married Red Pill a Separate Sub Reddit?Seems to me that the purpose of Married Red Pill is to help men make the best out of bad situations that most TRP contributors would probably advise you to avoid altogether. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/17 11:03 PM |
| 17 | The Amazing INVERSE Relation between Commitment and Sex - Real Science InsideWhat substance has been scientifically proven to reduce female sex drive by 90 percent? Wedding cake. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/17 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Does wearing glasses affect your SMV?Your vision doesn't mean shit unless you keep hooking up with skanks because of an inability to distinguish facial features. Eyeglasses are a fashion statement these days. Get a cool pair to wear during the day and contacts for social activities, working out and sports. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/17 04:44 PM |
| 2 | LTR withholding sex on 1 year anniversaryWho's the prize in this relationship, you or her? Here's how Valentine's Day or an anniversary date works when you're the prize. You set the date/time, tell her you're coming to her place and you can't wait to see what she has ready for you that night. Send her a text a couple nights before reminding her to be ready. Send her a pic of some lingerie or panties. Ask her to text you back a tit pic or nude so you can preview the menu. You show up and she has her sexiest lingerie on and a home cooked… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/17 01:27 AM |
| 1 | I need your guys help. What am I to do here? (Please leave morals out of it)Keep her as a "friend". Is there any chance you'll ever be out with your LTR and run into your hot "friend"? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/17 02:48 PM |
| 0 | Suspicious about LTRnow she's going to work with a red dress Is she ovulating? Women dress more provocatively and act sexier when they're in heat. If she's not on the pill, learn how to track her cycles. She'll naturally want the D more when she's ovulating. Whether or not she wants it from you or if she's dressing sexier to attract other guys when she's ovulating will give you insight into how attracted she is to you. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/17 02:34 PM |
| 16 | Girl I'm interested in tells me about other hook-ups!Two possibilities: 1. She wants the D and is qualifying herself as a DTF slut to you. 2. She's placed you in the friendzone and is bragging about her conquests like she would to her slutty girlfriends. There's only one way to find out which one it it. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/17 02:27 PM |
| 14 | I need your guys help. What am I to do here? (Please leave morals out of it)If you're satisfied with your current LTR, keep this chick in your prospect pipeline. Stay in touch and game her but don't bang her, yet. She may have more value to you now as an asset for dread game and a quick source of pussy if your current girl starts to flake. In other words, use her strategically as a source of abundance, for now. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/17 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Is Utility is the Ultimate Sexy?If a man wants sex, he needs to demonstrate usefulness. Wrong, because women have orbiters, white knights, Jiffy Lube, Takl and Angie's List to get things done for them. If a man wants sex, he needs to give women tingles. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/17 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Discovered an emotional affairWhat you have is a shit show not an LTR. If you're going to cheat, you better have a rock solid frame and act like you don't give a fuck how she feels about it and what she does as a result of it. The fact that you confronted her about crying into the arms of her emotional tampon shows that you don't have this frame and can't handle the blowback from cheating. Not judging, just saying that you need a lot of IDGAF in you if you decide to cheat. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/17 07:45 PM |
| 68 | I left my LTR of a year last night. Caught her cheating from may 2017.She did you a favor. Count your blessings that you didn't get locked up long term with a chick who's almost old enough to be your mother. You should be banging 25 year old chicks when you're 38, not the other way around. Go find some younger pussy. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 03:43 PM |
| 1 | I got cheated on. Don't be like me.Anybody can know trp. It takes an iron frame and sometimes a cold heart to actually practice trp when faced with the emotional manipulations of a woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 04:55 PM |
| 2 | why do women do thiswhy do women do this They were looking out for their friend, who would have been known thereafter as the thot who got fucked in the bathroom during a party. how do i avoid this in the future? You need to learn the art of isolation. Next time tell the chick that it's hot and you want to get some air. Take her by the hand, lead her out and when one of her friends says something reply "it's cool, we're just getting some fresh air". Then keep walking until you get some privacy. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/17 07:16 PM |
| 5 | I feel like I've lost the ability to love.You probably haven't lost the ability to love. I'm guessing the issue is that you've learned that women want men to love them a different way than what you're used to providing. The Blue Pill way is for a man to put a woman on a pedestal and constantly profess and show his love by doing shit for her. That doesn't work. What women really want is a strong, desirable man to show his love by giving her access to his world and allowing her to reciprocate by serving him. Here's how you really show you… | /r/askTRP | 05/09/17 03:50 PM |
| 10 | Why do females call you insecure when caught lying. What are the common lies? - Foreigner.Why do females call you insecure when caught lying It's a tactic designed to put you on the defensive and deflect the pressure from them to you. What other lies are there commonly used? Gaslighting, selective memory, omission, denial, minimization. Never argue with a woman. Chris Rock explained it best: “Don’t argue! You cannot win, you cannot beat a woman in an argument. It’s impossible, you will not win. Men, we are handicapped when it comes to arguing because we have a need to make sense”. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/17 02:06 AM |
| 7 | She may shit test you even as you're fucking herHow can anyone deflect shit tests for ever? Shit tests are easy to deflect if you're indifferent to female bullshit. Shit tests are only difficult if you care what a woman thinks about you. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/17 03:06 PM |
| 5 | Girl I'd been semi-serious with for around 6 months dumped me because she wants to play the field in college, need some advice.Sounds like she wants to meet to firm up your friendzone arrangement. Every carousel riding college girl needs a shoulder to cry on after getting pumped and dumped by her Chad of the week, so by all means meet with her and make sure you check in with her often ... /sarc Don't even think about meeting her and don't delude yourself into believing that she'll regret her decision to "leave you". She can't wait to slut it up in college. Time to move on. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/17 02:45 PM |
| 10 | How to deal with girlfriend looking at more attractive dudesHow to deal with girlfriend looking at more attractive dudes. How do you deal with it? If she's hot from looking at other guys, take her home and fuck her brains out. Be realistic. Your girlfriend's human. You're human. You both notice attractive people of the opposite sex. Don't take her noticing other guys personally. Learning how to deal with these feelings comes with practice and experience. I've been in the game for years and I still feel an initial sting when I notice a woman I'm with chec… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/17 02:23 PM |
| 38 | Saw TRP in Action at my Job; I Buy it NowGood job winning this battle. You haven't won the war yet though. Ask yourself ... why did your boss hire your potential replacement? If your employer doesn't value you, you need to find someone who will. Sound familiar? Women, employers ... same concept. You have a scarcity mentality because you are relying on someone who doesn't value you to reward you. Dust off your resume and start building abundance through real options. If only a small group of people in a single company are aware of your … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/17 08:30 PM |
| 10 | I have the worst possible trait -- I stop doing something as soon as it becomes hard. How to stop being like this?The solution is simple. Don't be a quitter. You apparently don't have the drive and self motivation to accomplish things yourself, so find and join a group of other guys who will hold you accountable. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/17 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend got mad at me then admitted that she has dreams about having sex with one of the people we went to highschool withShe had a tantrum and said something that was meant to hurt your feelings. Your response was a fail because you made it obvious to her that she succeeded. Whatever you decide to do with her, next time something like this happens with her or any other chick, completely ignore the comment or have a sarcastic comeback ready. Whatever you do, never show a woman that she has the power to upset you or hit any of your hot buttons. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/17 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Hypothesis: Men who value loyalty in a relationship have a scarcity mentalityI think the term for men who don't value and expect loyalty from an LTR is "cuck". It's one thing to acknowledge hypergamy but to not expect a woman to be loyal in return for your commitment is some weak ass shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/17 06:56 PM |
| 4 | How do guys stay committed to a girl after she openly cheats on them?This is what happens when you believe she's the prize and not you. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/17 02:51 PM |
| 7 | Why do women seem to be willing to cheat to have casual sex more in a relationship, than when single?Alpha fux, Beta bux. The optimal female sexual strategy is to have a man who excites her sexually and will protect and provide for her. The next best option is to get what she needs from two different men, an alpha male to mate with and a beta male to provide for her. Women in relationships who seek casual sex on the side are looking for alpha dick to satisfy their sexual needs without losing access to their beta male provider. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/17 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Implications of "she's not yours, it's just your turn"I actually see this as a way to remind men to not be possessive and controlling in their relationships and to live for the moment when with their woman. You don't own her and you aren't guaranteed to be with her forever so enjoy her while you can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/17 07:06 PM |
| 4 | Anyone else feel nothing now?I pull a steady stream of new girls from tinder It's impossible to get a prize catch fishing in a cesspool. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 06:56 PM |
| 22 | What I learned after approaching many, many women.It's very rare that women are actually "taken". In reality, they are just temporarily parked until they find a better space. After I figured that out, "I have a boyfriend" sounds like "blah blah blah" to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/17 03:03 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else feel nothing now?I'm just like fulfilling a need so I can go do more productive things. What's the matter with this? You just described the the perfect male sex life. Get pussy during your free time in between getting real shit done. Guys aren't supposed to get tingles and crave drama. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 02:56 PM |
| 1 | 45/yo man here. Married. My sex drive is higher than its ever been but i have trouble sustaining erections. Very frustrated.Go see an expert to get an accurate T level: total and free T. At your age, there a number of reasons why T levels can be low: shitty sex life, diet, lack of sleep, etc. Poor erections are a classic symptom of low T. Plus a T level of 200 can cause all kinds of health and quality of life issues. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 05:49 PM |
| 4 | 45/yo man here. Married. My sex drive is higher than its ever been but i have trouble sustaining erections. Very frustrated.Your testosterone levels are really low, if the test is accurate. Median levels for your age are in the 500 to 600 range. Go see an endrocinologist and research low T. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Some people pretty much never get jealous in a LTR/with a plate/girl/etc. How can I be one of those people?Be realistic and accept that other guys will go after your girl. Have an abundance mentality: if she goes, then it's the next one up. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 11:45 AM |
| 120 | Three ways to consciously manipulate women before they subconsciously manipulate you.TL;DR Don't be thirsty. Be dominant and self confident. Maintain an unshakeable frame. Spot on. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/17 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Girl likes me for being a nice guy?Post again after you smash. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 06:13 PM |
| 9 | Knowing the truth about women nature, the acceptance phase, what is left?Knowing the truth about female nature will set you free from being a doormat for women. If you realize that women are about optimizing their advantages in relationships then it frees you from feeling guilty when you do the same. it does take some of the "magic" out of life That magic you refer to is child-like fantasy, like believing in Santa Claus and the tooth fairy. Grown people understand that humans act according to self interest and will work together when their interests are aligned. A wo… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 06:05 PM |
| 3 | LTR wants to go study abroad without me.I can't tell whether to treat this as a shit test, or as a serious sign of disrespect. Not disrespect. She's experiencing conflicting emotions. She obviously wants you but studying abroad is a once in a lifetime experience. This is a great opportunity for her. Encourage her to do it. If she doesn't, she'll blame you. Just tell her that you don't do long distance relationships and it's best that both of you "take a break". Then move on. As a man, you often have to be an emotional rock and do what… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 11:54 AM |
| 3 | LTR Flirty comments. Is it over?Damn son, your girl is a public freak. Nothing wrong with being a freak. It's the public part that's the problem. If the sex is good, make her a plate. She sounds like a fun girl. Not the type you claim as your girl and show off to your friends because she might be fucking one of them. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 12:40 AM |
| 1 | In terms of muscle mass, would this be considered really buff (relative to most women in their 20s), and do you think its common for guys to get intimidated by a girl with this physique?Intimidating? Nah. Just don't let her put your head in a leg lock when eating her pussy. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 10:19 PM |
| 5 | Two exes hit me up after being pumped and dumped, should I try to smash?Do you really think that two chicks who just got pumped and dumped are coming to you to get pumped and dumped again? I'm thinking they may want emotional tampon services from you. Probably best to just let them watch Netflix without you. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 10:06 PM |
| 5 | Girl I'm dating gets pissy that I can beat her at everything...Let her beat you at sucking cock. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 10:01 PM |
| 7 | Finally posted a shirtless muscle pic on Facebook... thoughts on this response?It's because "good girls" don't publicly upvote pictures of half naked guys they know on social media. Virtual anti slut defense. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 09:55 PM |
| 10 | Can you dump a LTR by treating her like a plate until she leaves?Be careful because sometimes the worse you treat a woman the more determined she becomes to win you over. A desperate woman can be very dangerous. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 08:56 PM |
| 55 | LTR wants sex constantly, but doesn't take care of herself.So if the roles were reversed and you were overweight and dressed like a slob and she was a fit, attractive personal trainer, you realize that she probably would have banged someone else by now, right? Does she ever see other women giving you IOIs and flirting with you. If she doesn't, then start employing dread game. If she does and hasn't stepped up her game, then you have every right to find a woman who will. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 04:59 PM |
| 1 | I'm going to be completely honest, I think i'm a social retardEvery time I get into a conversation with a woman I try to make it as short as possible because I have no witty lines or cool stories to tell. No need for cool lines or witty stories. The key to having a conversation with a woman is to get her talking about her favorite topic: herself. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Repost: Guidance on looking for LTRThe best guidance on looking for a LTR? Don't. Looking for a LTR is a recipe for failure because you'll look needy and/or catch oneitis. Spend time with multiple women and let an exclusive relationship develop organically. The one who's 100% into you, cooks for you, buys you gifts, fucks you like a pornstar, doesn't allow exes and orbiters to become a distraction, is low drama, doesn't spend half her day on social media, doesn't have slutty friends, can have a decent conversation and has fun wit… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 11:09 PM |
| 4 | How can I stop my sister from being a slut?As a result I often tell her to be friends with the right people and I'm not afraid to get stern with her when she starts disobeying my mum / get into an argument ... I'm honestly not sure if what I'm doing is the right thing. You're doing the right thing and keep it up. She'll fight it now as a teen, but she will definitely love and appreciate you when she gets older. Every young woman needs a strong man to set and enforce boundaries for her and right now you're all your sister has. If you don'… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 11:01 PM |
| 3 | On Cheating: "THERE IS ALWAYS BETTER THAN YOU."And you're not hers, it's only her turn, as long as she adds value to your life. You're the prize and she had to earn your commitment. The root cause of anxiety about cheating is being in a woman's frame in a relationship. You see her as the prize and you worry about losing her. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/17 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Girl I fucked wants my attention, even though she gets attention from many other guys. How to proceed?So I got involved with this 9/10 girl Only the hottest supermodels are 9/10. Don't pedestalize this chick. Who happens to be a bit crazy. We have had sex once, and it was amazing Sounds like she's maybe in the danger zone of the hot / crazy matrix. Also looks like you might be in danger of catching feelings for her. Be careful with this one. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Holding a frame when she says gut wrenching thingsHere's what happened. You opened the conversation with a mildly sexual comment, she upped the ante on the sexual tension with her comeback and you folded because you were shocked that the girl you respected could be such a slut. Guess what. All women are sluts ... for the right guy(s). I actually kinda like this chick because at least she was honest. Better this type than a self-professed snowflake who's an undercover slut. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/17 11:41 PM |
| 14 | After discovering the pill I've gradually noticed a colossal influx of beta women-worshipping testosterone suppressing music, television & advertising. It's just fucking everywhere.All this shit has always been around, you just put on your red pill "They Live" glasses (look up the movie). | /r/askTRP | 25/08/17 04:22 PM |
| 12 | Field Report: Do Your Best to Document Consentshe still would hit me up with texts like, “I wanna suck your dick.” “I only have sex with people that I’m in a relationship with.” Nah, you had fair warning that she was a high risk fuck. Plus she was a freshman; they don't know the rules of the game. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/17 12:59 PM |
| 3 | What areas of the US have the highest concentration of good looking women?Doesn't matter 'cause I got hoes in different area codes. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/17 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Shit test while fucking.I have no intentions of hooking up with her again due to her disrespect Man, relax. She was just talking a little shit. It's how some thots motivate their men to give them a good stiff dicking. Looks like it worked. Next time say "let's see how it fits in your [insert ... mouth, ass or other orefice of your choice]" | /r/askTRP | 25/08/17 12:00 AM |
| 11 | How to scout for women who are suitable for long-term relationships?Looking for a LTR is a recipe for failure because you'll look needy and/or catch oneitis. Spend time with multiple women and let an exclusive relationship develop organically. The one who's 100% into you, cooks for you, buys you gifts, fucks you like a pornstar, doesn't allow exes and orbiters to become a distraction, is low drama, doesn't spend half her day on social media, doesn't have slutty friends, can have a decent conversation and has fun with you gets to be your girl. Also take the term … | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 11:46 PM |
| 5 | Dealing with a more rational woman than usual. WTF is going on?While she isn't a girly-girl and was more of a tomboy growing up She may have high testosterone levels for a woman. That could explain why she has some masculine personality traits. If this is the case, hopefully your brother is laying some serious pipe because chicks like this usually have high sex drive. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Breaking up with my ltr, but feeling guilty. Is this normal bluepill thinking?Don't feel guilty. If the roles were reversed and you were the mopey, depressed one in the relationship, she probably would have left or cheated on you months ago. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/17 02:40 PM |
| 4 | Leaving for the military for 1 year; how to maintain relationship with the girlfriend?Jody's going to have a field day with her while he's gone. Splitsville. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 03:24 PM |
| 2 | If it's just your turn then is there any point in having an ltr in the first place?Sure there is. A good LTR is like going to a concert featuring your favorite band, enjoying a meal at your favorite steakhouse or traveling to an exotic location. You know the experience has to end sometime, so you savor it while you can. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 12:46 PM |
| 52 | The story of a Blue Piller. Learn from my painYou were your wife's slave, not her husband. No wonder she wants back in. She had a sweet deal: a man who would provide for her every need and she didn't have to do shit in return. Before you get back on the saddle and start dating other women, you have some work to do on yourself. Realize that you are a "nice guy", a man who does good things for women and expects good treatment in return. Doesn't work like that. Women will fuck men they respect and they don't respect men who serve them. It's th… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/17 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Getting tired of bruises on my neckSon, wear your hickies with pride. They're the mark of a man who gets some. Your grandma will understand. How do you think you got here? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/17 06:34 PM |
| 2 | people who say they're intelligent actually smart?Actions, not words. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/17 06:25 PM |
| 2 | LTR raising her SMVIf your SMV is higher than hers, there's a good chance she's doing this because she's insecure about her looks and is motivated to step up her game to keep you. Don't obsess about why she's doing this. Live in the moment and enjoy it. She's not yours, it's just your turn. Why not enjoy having a more attractive chick to bang? Also, if she's like most women the lifting probably won't last more than a month. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/17 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Oneitis at my job -- standard guidance not workingStop fantasizing and start working. Don't shit where you eat. Also remember that for every hot chick there's a guy fed up with her shit. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/17 04:56 PM |
| 3 | LTR went solo travelling + came back my ExAre you sure she traveled solo? Women don't go anywhere by themselves. The most likely scenario is she had already branch swung to this new guy and maybe even went on a trip with him. Women are horrible at straight talk. Admitting to anything that could make them feel bad about themselves is something they tend not to do. That's why trickle truth and powertalk exist. This is why your ex gave you the bullshit line about liking you and her new dude the same. Lessons learned. Always judge women by … | /r/askTRP | 20/08/17 09:08 PM |
| 7 | Older guys, what do relationships and the whole social game in general look like after 30? Especially if you remain single and follow what TRP says?I'm a business consultant and have met hundreds of people through business relationships, conferences, seminars and other business related events. I'm active in local charities and I've met lots of people through these organizations. I've made new friends at my gym. I'm also active in my college alumni association and have made new friends this way. Do the math: the longer you are alive and actively involved with people, the more friends you'll make. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/17 03:05 AM |
| 16 | Older guys, what do relationships and the whole social game in general look like after 30? Especially if you remain single and follow what TRP says?Almost everyone your age is married with kids, The divorce rate is at least 50%. There are lots of single men and women who are 30+ and if you stay fit and take care of your appearance, younger women will be interested in you as well. Because you're wiser and probably wealthier, life gets a lot better after 30 if you take care of yourself. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/17 01:01 AM |
| 1 | I'm having a debate this week with a bluepiller, what are some of the best scientific evidence that supports TRP ideologies?The time you're wasting debating this guy is time you should be spending in the gym or otherwise improving yourself. Let him learn the hard way, like most of us did. there's no such thing as an alpha, the whole idea behind alphas is false If you insist on making your point, the best way is through observation not debate. Take him to a club, festival, bar or some other gathering with lots of women, Chads and nice fedora-wearing neckbeards who are very respectful to women. At the end of the night,… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/17 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Girl nobody is interested in - can anyone game her successfuly with persistence?I think the more important question is why would you want to game a girl like this? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/17 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Recent grad. During college I heard a ton of promiscuous girls saying that the guys they've slept with were bad at sex because of whatever reason, but I never once heard one talk positively about a guy in this way. Is there a name/word for this?Is there a name/word for this? Denialism. The reality is a woman probably won't get good sex if she's viewed as a cum bucket. What woman will admit to herself or anyone else that she's a known slut? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/17 12:45 AM |
| 6 | Recent grad. During college I heard a ton of promiscuous girls saying that the guys they've slept with were bad at sex because of whatever reason, but I never once heard one talk positively about a guy in this way. Is there a name/word for this?Yep, this is an explanation. Most sluts are terrible lays. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/17 12:40 AM |
| 1 | My girlfriend spends too much time with her exWhy isn't she your ex already? She obviously doesn't respect you. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/17 02:32 PM |
| 4 | Girl going to a bar and getting drunk is a red flag?Yes, this is a red flag. Plate her, don't date her. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/17 02:30 PM |
| 2 | "you have to ask me not tell me hun" shit test"See you at 8 Monday" [or insert time you want her there]. Then silence. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/17 01:22 AM |
| 25 | Girl going to a bar and getting drunk is a red flag?Is this your girl? If she is, going to the bar and getting drunk with a guy who isn't you is a terminable offense. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/17 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend of 2 years said i'm not good with my handsGirlfriend of 2 years said i'm not good with my hands C'mon man, this one is easy. You: "You know better than that" Then double tit squeeze or ass grab. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/17 01:07 AM |
| 20 | Is this a shit test or is this a sign that I shit?When I was fat and out of shape, girls said I was quiet. Now that I'm fit and carry myself with an air of confidence, women say that I'm mysterious or aloof. Own your personality. Your actions and confident body language are more important than words. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/17 09:06 PM |
| 70 | Young Men & The Empathy Gap - "Young male suicide rates have increased 50% since 1994."Modern Western culture in 3 sentences. Men are told they have to act like women. Women are told they should act like men. Men and women are miserable as a result. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/17 09:01 PM |
| 5 | Bar maid gave me a discount and gamePost again after you smash. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/17 08:46 PM |
| 4 | How to deal with LTR orbitersIf you handle it right, orbiters can actually boost your value in your girl's eyes. Show her that you don't consider them to be a threat and she'll consider you to be higher value than them. Here's a problem though. These orbiters may be causing an abundance imbalance in your relationship. She has lots of options and maybe you don't, which is causing some anxiety for you? If this is the case, keep flirting, gaming and building your pipeline of potentials so you have options too. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 03:54 PM |
| 21 | Redpill Caught on Tape, one of the best example of Redpill Principles from a HBO DocumentaryI know the old saying ... "don't stick your dick in crazy." But what do you do if 90% of chicks these days are crazy. Sure, there are levels, but there's not a huge difference between Kenzie and a lot of "normal" women nowadays. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/17 03:42 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about Hookers?Morals?! What's the difference between a hooker and respectable woman? The hooker only accepts cash. Every pussy has a price. Back to the morals question, who's more honest and transparent, a hooker with a set price for sex or a "respectable" woman who expects you to provide a blank check for access to her pussy. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/17 11:19 PM |
| 2 | I'm planning a power move to take control of my current company together with one of the owners, leaving the other one out. Do you think this could work?Why don't you develop your own business plan and launch your own business if you can bring these things to the table. Sounds like you'd be joining a dysfunctional partnership. Start fresh with your own. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/17 04:07 PM |
| 2 | What is your advice on whether one should cheat or not? What is the official TRP policy on whether one should cheat or not?Official TRP policy?! The only policy is what you feel when you look yourself in the mirror every day. Following TRP advice helps you to get options. What you do with those options is up to you. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/17 04:06 PM |
| 9 | Girl w deeper voice = higher Testosterone = higher sex drive?Does your plate also have an Adam's apple, big feet and broad shoulders? | /r/askTRP | 12/08/17 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on r/exredpill?The red pill isn't for everyone. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/17 03:51 PM |
| 2 | I'm planning a power move to take control of my current company together with one of the owners, leaving the other one out. Do you think this could work?What do you bring to the table that would motivate the owners to give you a piece of their company? Important clients that you brought in and can take with you if you leave? Are you willing to invest your own cash? If you don't have anything to offer or if you don't have some leverage, then you don't have a chance. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/17 03:46 PM |
| 3 | Fuck "My Life"One of the features of our current gynocentric society is the promotion of the victim identity and the idea that there is power in powerlessness. What this does is allow victims to disown any responsibility for their lives. Others are responsible for their lives, their choices, intentions, ability to get back up after being knocked down and ownership of their decisions. If victims can manipulate others to buy into this, they can get power without the usual costs that come with it. This works for… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/17 02:02 PM |
| 18 | What is the black pill?Blue pill is fantasy, denial of reality of the current SMP. "What decline?" Red pill is the recognition of reality with some hope that men can change or benefit in some way from it. "Enjoy the decline or fix it." Black pill is nihilism, the recognition of reality and embrace of hopelessness. "Nothing we can do about the decline." | /r/askTRP | 11/08/17 03:38 PM |
| 28 | Women don't hit on men, they "put themselves in his vicinity"?I was so bad at picking up signals that other girls had to tell me when their friends were interested. That's what happens when you're passive and look for obvious signs of interest rather than assuming attraction. I don't think I've actually gotten better at reading IOIs, the difference is I now assume that any chick within eyesight wants the D. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/17 03:20 PM |
| 98 | Women don't hit on men, they "put themselves in his vicinity"?Women absolutely hate rejection because of their fragile egos. Putting themselves in the vicinity of guys they're interested in and sending IOIs creates deniability if the guy isn't interested. If he doesn't approach, they convince themselves that he just doesn't "get it". | /r/askTRP | 11/08/17 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Girls and tripsSo a girl who you put on a pedestal (no such thing as a 10) and you haven't had sex with (which means she's not really a plate) goes on a trip with another dude. The problem isn't her trip. The real problem is you're an orbiter with oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Got caught going Through FWB phoneSo many hamsterisms in this post. Emotionally abusive ex who ruined her self esteem, giving her a convenient excuse for bad behavior ... check. Only slept with one other guy yet she's casually fucking you ... right. Phone blowing up with messages from an army of dudes who are "just friends" ... yeah, you really should believe that. There's a reason why you checked her phone. Your Spidey sense is tingling because your gut is telling you that she just may be an undercover thot. I agree with vandaa… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/17 08:55 PM |
| 6 | Don't even think about thinking about opening up to a womanShowing weakness is the problem. Women loathe a weak man. Simultaneously displaying emotional vunerability and strength by opening up to a woman you've gotten to know about something that hurt you in the past (ex. getting bullied) but overcame with strength (lifting and learning how to fight) is actually a proven panty moistener. In other words, don't use a woman as an emotional tampon, but you can strategically "open up" when it helps you. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/17 07:54 PM |
| 4 | The Ninjas of The Red PillOne of them paid $140 for some chicks to join them. If you have $140 to blow on some bitches, just go to a strip club. You're guaranteed to at least see some pussy, get a few lap dances and if you play your cards right you might even get a quick blow job. Don't waste it on food and drinks for chicks who won't even give you a goodnight kiss. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/17 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Women serve two primary purposes in a man's life: 1. Sex, 2. Companionship. How to acquire both in the most cost-effective way.Benevolent dictatorship is a good model to follow. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/17 01:47 AM |
| 25 | Red Pillers, do you consider any woman's single male friends to be "beta orbiters?"AWALT. No woman I know has ever admitted to knowing that their male friends wanted to fuck them but believe me, they know, no matter how innocent or naive they claim to be. Women love the validation and benefits they receive from orbiters and will tease them to keep them around. Every woman I've had a relationship with had this issue, multiple orbiters who she claimed were "just friends". How do you deal with this? I establish up front that spending time with orbiters tells me that she isn't ser… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 07:08 PM |
| 51 | Red Pillers, do you consider any woman's single male friends to be "beta orbiters?"99% of straight guys who hang around attractive female "friends" are trying to get into their panties. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Gf is donating eggs, and I'm super uncomfortable about it. Just want other guys advice.Yep. Her next move will be turning tricks. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 11:09 PM |
| 4 | GF won't have sex with me anymoreStart investing a lot of the time you spend with her on gaming other girls and / or yourself. If she's still into you, she should get the message and step up her game. If she isn't still into you and doesn't respond, then you've started the process of moving on from her. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 04:03 PM |
| 5 | What is the happiest moment of your life you can remember of?Making a shot at the buzzer to win a championship for my high school basketball team. Better than sex. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 09:02 PM |
| 7 | What hard truth do you wish you were told earlier in life?AWALT | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 08:58 PM |
| 58 | Women want ValueTwo words: dread game. A must for any healthy LTR. Your girl has to witness other women giving you IOIs and flirting with you to stay motivated. Women are like bankers. The more you need them the less they want you. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/17 08:47 PM |
| 8 | Do women lie about what they are attracted to or do some people just not understand that women are individuals?It's not that women always lie about what they are attracted to, it's often difficult for many women to verbalize this because attraction is a feeling and not the result of a logical thought process. The fact that female sexual attraction is more complex, multi-layered and variable than male attraction also makes it more difficult for women to tell men what they are attracted to. The result is female cognitive dissonance about sexual attraction. Many women are socialized to believe they should b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 02:55 PM |
| 18 | Girlfriend flashed a group of people, next?Congrats. Your girl will be starring in the next Girls Gone Wild video. Your call if you next her. Just understand that your LTR is a trashy thot and prepare accordingly. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Being the "other guy" helped me swallow the red pill. Here are some lessons I learned.Or leave a used condom wrapper in a strategic location at her place. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/17 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Being the "other guy" helped me swallow the red pill. Here are some lessons I learned.Let me try to explain this one more time. I'm not a charity and my time is valuable. If a woman isn't providing me with something valuable in return then she isn't worth my time. If there's another woman who will provide me with what I want, then I have every right to make better use of my time with her. If there isn't a woman in the picture who will provide me with what I want, then I'm better off investing that time in myself. Thinking otherwise makes you a very high risk of becoming a patheti… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/17 07:43 PM |
| 16 | Short anecdote of the Chicks I've had sex with.No such thing as a "taken" woman. They're in a temporary parking space until they can find one in a better location. She's not yours (his), it's just your (his) turn. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/17 07:04 PM |
| 4 | Being the "other guy" helped me swallow the red pill. Here are some lessons I learned.I prefer to call it performance-based compensation. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/17 06:55 PM |
| 10 | 5:00am. My soon to be Ex (6 years) is sleeping right next to me. I just caught her cheating. What's the next move? How do I dump her?Going to shoot a text in a few days simply stating that "I know you cheated. We are over." Clear your head, take a deep breath and just ghost her. Complete radio silence. Block her and do not return her calls, texts and DMs. Erase her from your memory and move on. If she left anything at your place, pack her stuff into a garbage bag, put in on your front porch and the only communication she'll get from you is where and when to pick her shit up and make sure you aren't there when she does. The be… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/17 06:51 PM |
| 5 | Being the "other guy" helped me swallow the red pill. Here are some lessons I learned.if you're not satisfying all of her needs, she will not be faithful. Having been on both sides of this type of situation you described, I now fully grasp this, the idea that a woman will "love" me for what I can provide to her at that moment in time (tingles, status, bragging rights, tickets to see her favorite band, etc.) and that she'll bang someone else if she finds a better supplier. In other words, female sexual attraction is based on utility and not loyalty. This realization has been liber… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/17 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Will you never have a high SMV if you don't go out drinking/partying and do not frequently use social media?Work on building your social circle. One of the best ways to meet women is through mutual friends and referrals. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Girl at work giving loads of IOIsAnyone has done something like this before? Put myself in a position where I could get fired from my job AND attacked by a jealous husband because of some pussy? Nah. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 04:18 PM |
| 3 | I Wanna Thank You GuysLast piece of advice: she's not really a plate until you get some other bitches in your stable. Keep improving and start building abundance. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 04:01 PM |
| 57 | How to deal with beta protectors in a club setting?Get her number and text her ... tell her to text you back when her bodyguard isn't there. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 04:21 PM |
| 3 | LTR hid relationship status last night on FBHonestly, this sounds like something a chick would worry about. Relationship status in Facebook?! Does she fuck you when you want, cook for you when you're hungry, do other shit for you when you need it, treat you with respect in private and public and otherwise treat you like a king? The answer to these questions = her relationship status. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/17 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Ex bf in the pictureseems more like casual conversation Any guy a woman has fucked before is a candidate to fuck her again because the guy has already established attraction and comfort and women can easily rationalize banging an ex: "he understands me", "we saw each other and it just happened", it won't add to her dick count, etc. I would tell her something like this. "My expectation for any relationship I'm in is that neither of us stay in contact with exes." That way it's clear that you're establishing standards… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/17 12:55 PM |
| 20 | LTR refuses sex for past 3 weeks ? Need adviceI missed the part of your follow up post where you nexted her. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/17 12:38 PM |
| 2 | MRP and scheduled sexScheduling sex and waiting for her to initiate = you're in her frame. She gives you her body when you want it = she's in your frame. It's not just about the sex, it's also about establishing dominance. | /r/askMRP | 28/07/17 11:28 AM |
| 3 | Does the average man have better, and more marriage opportunities in his 20's or 30's?30s Without a dad bod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 10:30 PM |
| 8 | Why does a high Female n-count damage pair bonding?It has to do with the affect of frequent, casual sex on a woman's oxytocin receptors. The hormone oxytocin, which is produced during sex, increases levels of empathy and bonding. Women produce more oxytocin during sex than men, which means they are more likely to let their guard down and fall in love with a man after sex. Oxytocin receptors in the central nervous system regulate the affect of oxytocin on emotions. Oxytocin is like a drug. A woman's first experience with post coital release of ox… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 09:24 PM |
| 3 | First man to man conversation with my Dad, and he gives me this shit..My dad's words back in my high school days when he found out I was banging a chick ... "Son, you can screw who you want, but I ain't paying for no babies or doctor bills." I got the message loud and clear. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/17 02:52 PM |
| 34 | Female acquaintance "breaks up" so that her bf will chase her. He does not. She OBSESSES.This is why you ghost a bitch who fucks up, to not give her the satisfaction of closure. Now the memory of this guy will haunt her forever. I feel sorry for the next fella who ends up with this alpha widowed chick. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/17 09:49 PM |
| 6 | LTR Says "I'm glad you're not the type to take me home after the first date" Turns Out She Slept With Someone Without A Date At AllWithin every woman on this planet is an inner slut waiting to reveal herself to the right man. This includes your girl. She admitted this to you. If you're the right man, then fuck her like the slut she is. If you're not comfortable with claiming her as your GF, then make her a plate. If you're not the right man, then get to work right away. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 03:11 AM |
| 13 | LTR Says "I'm glad you're not the type to take me home after the first date" Turns Out She Slept With Someone Without A Date At AllBe honest, are you really angry at her or at yourself because you think she sees you as a beta nice guy and not as the kind of guy she'd bang on the first date? Let's be realistic, most sexually active women have fucked someone after a first date. She disclosed this to you to test your frame. I wouldn't drop her just for this reason. Don't show her that you're upset by this. Use her as red pill practice. Step up your game, be dominant as fuck and get as much as you can from her while you can bec… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Is there any truth to this "women are attracted to bad boys" trope that gets trotted around?Women are also attracted to military men, policemen, firemen, athletes and entertainers who aren't necessarily "bad boys". Women are attracted to badasses and "bad boys" are a subset of that category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/17 04:06 PM |
| 8 | Friends from beta past seem to throw jabs, or am I just being unreasonable?Can anyone shed some rationale on why they behave like this? Haters gonna hate. Hang around guys who get laid. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 04:02 PM |
| 2 | 2 year Live-in LTR secretly talking to ex in instagram DM's. Need advice.She cried and is moping because she got caught, not because she's sorry. Next with extreme prejudice. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 11:36 PM |
| 7 | Why do women like the CC and why am I grossed out by an high n-count?What's the driving force for women to be on the CC? Disregard those blue pill fairy tales about women being virginal snowflakes. Nature made women to mate. Their default, hard wired behavior is promiscuity, to fuck the highest value men they can find to secure good genes for mating and to rinse and repeat until they run out of eggs. What we call the cock carousel is how women naturally act without societal constraints on female promiscuity. Can't they see that it's "bad" for them in the long ter… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Open relationship?!?I never got the appeal of open relationships. Other guys get the pussy and you get stuck with the problems. A relationship like this devalues the value of your commitment. Plus, do you want to walk arm in arm in public with a woman who's getting regularly and openly dicked by other dudes? Why not just make her the ace of your plate rotation, your bottom bitch? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 01:46 AM |
| 7 | Fuck your male hamsteringThat’s straight blue pill nonsense A lot of this is generational, the result of being raised to embrace mediocrity: participation trophies, cheat codes and other self esteem boosting shortcuts. Poor babies. Here's what happens when you grind to look good. Today I was shopping in Home Depot when I passed by a couple in the paint section, an attractive woman with a skinny fat schlub she was clearly bossing around. As I passed by and looked back, the woman turned around, locked eyes with me then lo… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/17 11:53 PM |
| 1 | What special powers do people with a triple figure n count have compared to low n count people?Immunity or indifference to STDs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/17 12:26 AM |
| 11 | How do I deal with my oneitis' promiscuous past?You should be asking "how do I deal with my oneitis?" Don't catch feelings and buy the cow that everyone else milked for free. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Plate on her periodShe has hands, a mouth and a booty hole? Also ... call me a nasty boy, but you can always fuck a girl on her period in the shower. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 11:47 AM |
| 3 | Women Need the Approval of other Women- a short example.Yep. Birds of a feather flock together and influence each other. Slutty friends = slutty girl. The best way to vet a woman is to spend time with her friends, preferably when they're under the influence of alcohol. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/17 09:39 PM |
| 3 | LTR Dropped The "L" Bomb Last NightTo relieve your guilt, understand that she loves you like she loves that pair of shoes she absolutely had to have the last time she went shopping. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 09:33 PM |
| 3 | My 30yo coworker has many plates and women love him... and he lives with his parents! How is he pulling it off???How can they be attracted to a man-child who can't even cook his own food, wash his clothes Because they want his alpha D, not his domestic skills. In fact, they probably cook his food and wash his dirty underwear for him. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 09:27 PM |
| 7 | Man works himself to death for his family, still treated like a shit.Bitter RP lesson learned. Nice guys finish last. We shouldn't blame a women for doing exactly what nature programmed them to do; use sex to get what they need and want from men ... money, security, comfort, protection, social status, professional advancement, good genes for mating, etc. Women only get away with as much or as little as men allow them to. Mikey's death is his own fault because he allowed himself to be used and abused. I feel bad for him and those who lost him, but a man should nev… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/17 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Is my GF Marriage MaterialHowever in many ways it seems she resents me for the misery of that year. She is bitchier and belligerent to some extent. If you marry a woman with the intent of being with her for a lifetime, it's guaranteed that you will go through much more difficult trials than having to live through a year of low income when you're young. So, is she marriage material? Based on what you observed during that challenging year, do you think she wants you for more than for the financial security you can provide,… | /r/askMRP | 12/07/17 03:36 PM |
| 14 | Worth having a hot GF, even if she might not be loyal?Yes, if you have the right mindset. A friend who was a pro athlete let me borrow his Maserati once when he was out of town. I knew I only had access to it for a limited time, so I rode it as much as I could, showed it off to my friends and used it to pick up girls. Same with a hot girlfriends, they are good for your brand. Pictures of smokeshows hugging and kissing on you is a subtle reminder to future girlfriends and plates that they have to step up their game. She not yours, it's just youe tur… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/17 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Wife's sexual past may be more than reported. A test?You should read Rollo's classic post Saving the Best if you haven't already. If it resonates with you, then you know that you have two options, if you choose to stay in your marriage. Wrap your head around the fact that she did more sexually for men she knew before she met you, who didn't commit to her, than she does for you, her supposed life partner, and live with it. Improve yourself so she will get the same kind of tingles for you that she did for these DJs. | /r/askMRP | 10/07/17 12:00 AM |
| 2 | (crosspost) Any statistics on what is considered a high n-count (for a female) before marriage? Or opinions?Here's the problem with this question: you'll likely never find out her real N count unless you have inside information from mutual friends, acquaintances, etc. You should ask this question: will her experiences in past sexual relationships affect her current relationship with you. Will she bring emotional baggage from past relationships? Is there another guy(s) she's still attracted to that she can't get out of her system? Will her past create awkward situations and/or embarrassment for you? Is… | /r/askMRP | 09/07/17 11:53 PM |
| – | Why do men ditch their friends when they get a GF?Why do men ditch their friends when they get a GF? It's that thing between his girlfriend's legs that his buddies don't have. After you have a girlfriend you'll understand. With | /r/askTRP | 09/07/17 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Who you are is what you attractTRP 101. Women are attracted to looks, dominance, status and money. Character has little to do with who women choose to have sex with. If your theory was correct, nice guys would attract women who treat them well and, as a lot of men on this sub can confirm, that isn't the case. Read the sidebar -------> Then try again. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/17 08:12 PM |
| 16 | Hypergamy thy name is Woman!Maybe Ms. Shookus likes to take it in the tookus. Never underestimate the power a freak can have over a man who's used to bland, "I'm a celebrity princess", starfish sex. Just ask Hugh Grant. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/17 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Wife's sexual past may be more than reported. A test?Does it matter who your wife banged in the past if she fucks you like a pornstar and treats you a king? Is the real issue what she did for a guy years ago before you were together or what she is/isn't doing for you now? | /r/askMRP | 08/07/17 06:06 AM |
| 5 | Can someone explain to us, where a woman's loyalty is?Can someone explain to us, where a woman's loyalty is? To herself ... and yours should be to yourself. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/17 03:01 AM |
| 2 | GF invited to go camping with a couple and a guy she has a history withIt just seems a little inappropriate of her to go Little inappropriate?! Cmon man, this ia a huge red flag Listen to this Tom Leykis Radio Show classic "Girls on Spring Break". The highlight is a girl who talks about how she and her friends go to spring break to bang Chads while leaving their pathetic, naive boyfriends behind. Listen to this and ask yourself if this sounds familiar. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/17 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Do Women REALLY Only Where Make Up Strictly For "Themselves"?This is like the "If a tree falls in the forest, and there's nobody around to hear, does it make a sound" question. If a woman puts on makeup or wears an attractive outfit but nobody who could find her attractive sees her, does it really matter and will she really feel good about herself? Women like to look good because they like the validation and attention it brings them. Am I right ladies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/17 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Friend Zone Proof Yourself - GuaranteedSolid advice. Not every woman will be attracted to you, but by making your intentions known early you can filter out and avoid wasting your time with the ones who aren't. The biggest problem with being friendzoned is opportunity cost. Time that could have spent gaming a woman who will fuck you is wasted on a woman who won't. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/17 02:33 PM |
| 1 | What are the best TRP posts to suggest to a very beta friend to read?Send him to www.drglover.com (author of NMMNG). Good bite sized material here, including podcasts and blog posts. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Plate went on "vacation" with guysGreat news. Now you know to never even think about making her more than a plate. In fact, she should only qualify for "down low" plate status. Only booty calls, no public contact. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 01:08 PM |
| 28 | Thought I found a unicorn and reality came crashing down...She seemed like a wholesome girl, considering she goes to church every week. Regular church-going is by no means an indicator of wholesomeness. Many women go to church on Sunday to get forgiveness for all the freaky shit they did Fri and Sat night. She admitted to being into FFMs? Why didn't you get at least one out of the deal before you split? You don't have to take plates home to your parents. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/17 05:28 PM |
| 2 | My mindset believes I damage women by using them for sexMen and women have a strong biological urge to mate. In modern western society, women can freely act on their mating instincts and fuck whomever they want whenever they want. The only question is will you be one of the men they fuck or will you be sitting on the sidelines holding your dick in your hand. "Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved." | /r/askTRP | 02/07/17 12:44 PM |
| 72 | Girl uses PTSD to justify casual hookupUsing it to justify a hookup is a slap in the face to endless struggle many PTSD patients face. Don't take it personally. PTSD is one of the long list of excuses women will use to save face and protect their fragile egos when encountered with the consequences of their bad behavior. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/17 12:20 PM |
| 18 | What to do in absence of emotional intimacy?some chick I picked up at a club You can't fish in cesspools and expect to get a quality catch. Here's an idea. Get active with local non profits and participate in their activities: fundraising galas and parties, events, meetings, etc. You might meet women with at least half a brain that way. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/17 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe that men have an overall higher sex drive than women do?whereas no women (0 percent) agreed to sex with a complete stranger Funny. The real answer is (1) no woman would admit to having sex with a complete stranger or (2) in her mind, a guy she meets and bangs within maybe a few hours isn't a complete stranger or (3) she didn't "want to have" sex with a stranger but it "just happened" (ex. "blame it on the alcohol"). From my experience I know of at least a half dozen women who would have to truthfully answer yes to that question but would probably say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/17 03:54 PM |
| 6 | In an LTR with a girl whose very devoted to me. However I find myself despising her because of her sexual past. Should I spin plates/cheat?Use this as motivation to demand as much as possible from the relationship, much more than you'd expect from a plate. Porn star sex + cooking, cleaning, king treatment and constant pleasant companionship. In other words, her pussy isn't valuable enough in and of itself to warrant exclusivity because she gave it away to other guys for free. It's the other things she'll do for you that can earn your exclusivity. If she does them, then you'll have a good LTR with tangible benefits. If she doesn't, … | /r/askTRP | 22/06/17 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Is it our role, as men, to protect women from their own destructive behaviours?"Don't save her; she don't wanna be saved." Unless you are a priest, missionary or social worker, the answer is no. Plus, the idea of a virginal woman is a bluepill fantasy. Women have a natural instinct to mate. Men have unsuccessfully tried to suppress this instinct for millennia. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/17 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Need advice on ltrBros before hoes. Enjoy your vacation. She'll be there when you get back and if she isn't find another girl. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/17 09:34 PM |
| 1 | If someone is RP in belief, how can Pumping and Dumping a girl, or using her for sex, be anything short of misogyny?Ride and hide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 09:19 PM |
| 2 | If someone is RP in belief, how can Pumping and Dumping a girl, or using her for sex, be anything short of misogyny?It's sexist in the 2010s to believe that only men are capable of pumping and dumping.Women can have post coital buyers remorse and ghost their partners too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 08:52 PM |
| 7 | Chad fucked old oneitis.The problem is your case of oneitis, not Chad. Girls jump from cock to cock. You were with her, now it's Chad's turn to hit it. If you need to make yourself feel better, covince yourself that Chad is getting your sloppy seconds. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/17 01:44 PM |
| 4 | We are surrounded by idiots - there is no reason you can't move up"The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation, and go to the grave with the song still in them." Henry David Thoreau | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/17 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Is it really possible to have a solid LTR with a really hot girl?If you set realistic expectations for the length of the relationship, don't get oneitis and keep the relationship in your frame, why not. Look at it this way. You'll probably get a better quality relationship from a 6 or 7 but arm candy is good for your brand and regularly banging an 8+ can help your confidence and will sharpen your game. Go into a potential relationship with a 8+ as more of a "fling" than LTR. If she doesn't act like the typical hot chick then it will be a pleasant surprise. Ev… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/17 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Women have been engineered by evolution to love a man that 1. is capable of killing things, 2. will do so for her. How to adapt to this and profit in the sexual marketplace.Here's the distinction. If you kill an animal because you're hungry and decide to share your meal with a woman to reward good behavior, that's fine. If you kill an animal to get the approval of a woman, that's a problem. Women are attracted to strong men because they seek to harness masculine power for their benefit. That's the point of your post. However, if a man isn't careful, he can be manipulated so that all of the benefits of his strength and labor accrue to a woman and not to him. If that… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/17 02:47 PM |
| 23 | Women have been engineered by evolution to love a man that 1. is capable of killing things, 2. will do so for her. How to adapt to this and profit in the sexual marketplace.A man who is capable of killing things and will do so specifically for a woman is physically strong but mentally weak, the worst kind of white knight, and the woman ultimately won't respect him because he can be easily manipulated and places her on a pedestal. It's not just weak betas who have been corrupted by the feminine imperative. There are plenty of men with masculine physical traits who have been convinced to use their strength to promote and protect the feminine imperative, for example, … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/17 09:16 PM |
| 11 | Had the worst sexual experience of my life last night..Guess I should clarify for the greenhorns. "Double wrapping" is /sarc. A fictional practice reserved for only the dirtiest of skanks. Literal meaning: if she's so dirty that one rubber isn't enough, you probably shouldn't do her. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 02:32 AM |
| 58 | Had the worst sexual experience of my life last night..Lessons learned: 1) Crazy is as crazy does. Next time don't stick your dick in it. 2) Hopefully you wrapped it tight? Didn't see a condom in your story. Double strength wrapping for loco chicks with full body tats if you choose to stick your dick in crazy. 3) Improve your aim if you like to hit it from the back. Protip: use a finger or two as a guiding mechanism to improve entry precision. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/17 08:35 PM |
| 1 | The Utility of Beta MenIn most instances there’s no real reason to AMOG an orbiter. I'm glad you pointed this out. While seduction is often easier if a woman is surrounded by orbiters or attached to a Beta (ex. many married women) the reaction of an orbiter or Beta husband or boyfriend to being bested by another man can be violent. AMOGing a guy by taking his woman in front of him can result in a beatdown or worse and no woman is worth that. Plus women love to set up situations where they get a validation rush from gu… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/17 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Why AF/BB is wrongSometimes some women have sex with a player because he's an easier way of having casual sex, because she knows he'll go away afterwards. So the guy who will go away gets no-strings hot sex while the guy who will stay has to earn the right to get vanilla sex with his patience and commitment? Hmm ... who's getting the better deal here. Here's a radical thought. Maybe men don't like being a consolation prize and/or having to pay for the vagina that other hawt guys got for free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/17 03:48 PM |
| 2 | When you first started spinning plates, did you get depressed to?I know I will never get companionship from my women. Your expectations for women are way too high. If you want a female soulmate who will love you unconditionally, live with your mother. If you want a companion who will listen to whatever you have to say, get a dog. If you want companions who are fun to hang out with, look at and smash, enjoy your plates. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/17 03:12 PM |
| 2 | LTR pushing for more.She's at the age where her internal " I need to lock down a man" clock is ticking and it looks like her plan is to do it incrementally. First she moves in. Then she starts pushing for marriage and/or a kid. Next is a house with a mortgage. Next thing you know it's 10 years later and you've got a beer gut and a couple of kids that you're shuttling back and forth to soccer games. If that's what you want, then cool ... your life, your call. If you don't want to be locked down though, it's time to s… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/17 04:27 PM |
| 10 | RROI: Relationship Return On InvestmentThe Red Pill idea I just laid out is called Spinning Plates. A skilled portfolio manager will start out by spreading money across a number of different investments and will constantly evaluate his investments to determine winners and losers in the portfolio. Over time, he'll sell off the losers and increase his investment in the winners. If the winners keep growing, he'll double down and invest more in them until they plateau or decline, which is the point where he'll sell. This is also how to m… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/17 04:07 PM |
| 0 | It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta'You have cause and effect reversed. Many wealthy men became that way by exhibiting the alpha traits of competitiveness and dominance in business. It's their personality not their wealth that makes them alpha. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/17 03:16 PM |
| 2 | mgtow best option?The best option is to learn how to manage your bitches. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/17 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: Do you think you can fall in love with a woman WITHOUT sex?What if after 9 months of dating, she still wasn't in love but didn't want to put out yet cuz she was still getting to know you? Back when I was a naive young man I used to believe the "getting to know you" line. Now that I'm wise to the ways of the world, I know that if a woman doesn't have sex with you after you've been dating for a while it's probably because she's not sexually attracted to you and there's a very good chance that she has been or will be having sex with someone else. If you're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/17 03:20 PM |
| 2 | 19 can't live with my mom and my dad is debating whether to let me live with him again.I don't know what to do Looks like you're on your own, time to man up. Offer to pay your dad rent to live in his house. If he won't take your offer, then figure it out. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/17 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Were women really happier before?They always tell me they wish they would've done more with their lives. A large majority of men would say the same thing. The reality is that most people, men and women, live boring, uninteresting, tedious lives. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/17 07:35 PM |
| 2 | the Redpill's position on giftsSounds like you're her BetaBux and she's trying to increase her return on investment. If she wanted you for you and not your money, she'd travel to see you. Does she? If she doesn't, tell her that because of your schedule she has to come see you. Her reaction will tell you a lot about her motivation to please you. The only woman worth an LTR is a woman who's # 1 priority is pleasing you. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/17 03:50 PM |
| 2 | How to tell if you're attractive?If girls look you up and down make eye contact and lick their lips, you're probably attractive. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/17 01:25 AM |
| 5 | Is being repulsed about LTR's sexual past next worthy even if she has strong commitment to me?Reading between the lines, sounds like you like being with your girl but you're concerned that she's benefiting more from an exclusive relationship than you right now? She "had fun" in her younger years, is approaching her "wall" years and may be looking for someone to settle down with. You've made a lot of recent improvements and getting a lot more interest from women, so you feel like you have a lot more sexual upside. Is this right? If it is, why don't you have a non-exclusive relationship wi… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/17 10:32 PM |
| 21 | AWALT, even the person you think breaks that lawYou learned a valuable lesson about abundance mentality. I learned the same thing about 20 years ago when I was your age. Young, attractive women naturally have an abundance mentality because they are constantly approached by guys. This gives them lots of options, which they constantly explore and evaluate. Know that when you're in a relationship, your girl is likely being pursued by other guys and she isn't shutting them all down because she thrives on the attention and validation. I've been wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/17 09:39 PM |
| 3 | New York Times Promotes Open Hypergamy (a must read)Maybe I lack empathy but I'm thinking that a dude as weak as Kevin deserves to be cucked. BTW, Kevin's wife looks like she plays for the New York Jets. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/17 11:59 PM |
| – | New York Times Promotes Open Hypergamy (a must read)On the one hand, I can understand why a woman wouldn't be attracted to a man who was so weak that he would knowingly allow another man to fuck his wife in his home. On the other hand, only a sadististic person would openly exploit this weakness to the point of complete humiliation. My takeway from this: don't let the flowery bullshit about "an open relationship will bring us closer together fool you". Women loathe weak men and will manipulate and take advantage of them to get what they want. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/17 05:39 PM |
| 111 | The Sadness PhaseAll she wanted in the whole world was to be loved properly by a guy who could actually guide and protect her, and she was giving up her body to try and find a guy who would do that for her. As bad as modern feminism has been to men, it's been a massive disaster for the vast majority of women. Women naturally crave a strong male presence in their lives. The feminist assault on masculinity has robbed many women of the strong fathers and partners they need in their lives. The result: a generation o… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/17 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do some men date women that are less atractive?Because sometimes a guy doesn't want to have to jump through a bunch of hoops to get laid, especially if he's busy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/17 09:18 PM |
| 7 | You're not the one she wants. You're the one she's using.This list describes things that a woman may do to you. The best way to evaluate a relationship is what a woman will do for you. Regular sex the way you like it. Going out of her way to make you happy. She gladly does whatever you need from her to add value to your life: cooking, cleaning, running errands, being a great travel companion, supporting you in your life mission, being a great mother to your kids, etc. If she's not doing these things for you, she's not worth your commitment, even if sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/17 11:59 PM |
| 1 | LTR going on friends vacation to EuropeYou think someone should cancel a trip they've spent a couple grand on and eat the money just because they're now in a relationship? The money she already spent is a sunk cost. The decision she made to go on the trip has nothing to do with the money she spent already, it's a reflection of how she currently values your relationship. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/17 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Saw a plate out with a random dude. How to proceed?Don't say anything. If she's truly a plate, be thankful that she has some other guy to take her on dates. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 06:34 PM |
| 8 | LTR has male friend over, confront, ignore, backfire?Sounds like she's your girlfriend and you're her plate. Have some pride and self respect and make her a plate or drop her. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 06:32 PM |
| 7 | Why Some Awkward Guys Get LaidWomen are attracted to confident, socially dominant men and their evaluation of male value is based on the pool of men immediately available to them. In OP's example, girls were attracted to the aggressive, short, socially awkward guy because he stood out as the most confident and dominant guy amongst his weak competition. Put the same guy in a college frat party with a group of Chads as his competition and girls would call him a creep. Attraction is about context. The more you stand out from yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/17 05:57 PM |
| 9 | Girls best friend is her exher best friend is her ex Either he broke up with her or demoted her to plate and is still fucking her or she broke up with him and is keeping him around as an orbiter. Calling him her "best friend" is probably her way of feeling good about a situation where one is using the other. What "best friend" really means is she spends most of her time with a guy who she fucked and won't add to her N count if she fucks him again. Plate material at best. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/17 08:05 PM |
| 6 | GF and girl-nights-out in a clubHere's the root cause of your problem. You're more worried about her going out with her girls than she is of you hanging out with your buddies, which means she controls the balance of power in your relationship. If you had the power, she'd be mate guarding you instead of the other way around. You're acting more like her dad than the guy she should want to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/17 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Modern Women - The Real Mans TruthModern women?! Women have been like this since Eve threw Adam under the bus. The old saying "it's a woman's prerogative to change her mind" is a nice way of saying women are impossible to please. Women realize this, which is why they are attracted to men who don't seek their approval. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/17 09:40 PM |
| 25 | Younger trp readers, does anyone else feel like your mother is holding you back from growing?The only person who can keep you from growing is you. AWALT applies to mothers too. They'll shit test you and use guilt and shame to try to keep you attached to them. Part of becoming a man is learning how to love your mother without letting her control you or hold you back. In other words, you need to learn how to game your mother too. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/17 11:43 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: What percentage of men, in your best estimate, want their sex partners to feel some desire for them, and what percentage don't care either way?Considering that lack of desire leads to starfish sex, I'd say close to 100%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/17 07:41 PM |
| 34 | "What do you have to offer aside from what's between your legs?"If any women are reading this thread, here's the correct answer to this question: "whatever you want" or "whatever your heart desires" if you want to get fancy with it. Bonus points if you end the answer by addressing us by our proper title: "my king", "muh lord", "master", something like that. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/17 06:33 PM |
| 3 | HELP! I Got Off the Cock Carousel too Early!Question is, can a woman who is used to hopping on a new dick the minute she loses attraction for the man she's with change her ways and stay attracted to the same man indefinitely just because they are married? As difficult as marriage is, marrying a former carousel rider is like playing russian roulette with 5 bullets. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/17 08:47 PM |
| 19 | HELP! I Got Off the Cock Carousel too Early!This has happened before, but it's always been reserved for partners that I no longer loved. I love my husband quite a bit, so wtf? I was raised Blue Pill so it took me a while to figure out that Lust, not Love, is the four letter word that defines a good relationship. If you're not the man she wants to fuck, then you aren't her man. If you're not her man, then you're just another friend. With that said, I'm sure it's hard to keep a woman who's used to jumping from dick to dick with ease satisfi… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/17 05:39 PM |
| 5 | How can I best explain my occupation, without sounding like I'm bragging or exaggerating?Don't discuss your occupation. Most chicks your age won't know what an IT Director is and even if they did, they won't give a shit. If they ask, resist the urge to brag about your success and just say you're a businessman. Your success at a young age gives you the ability to join a good gym, wear tailored clothing, eat good food, drive a nice car, purchase a motorcycle or other cool toys and travel to places that most 22 year old guys can't go. That's your edge, not your corporate title. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/17 04:04 PM |
| 50 | Cuckoldry. SJWs. Hamstering. Everything so wrong with modern sexuality, in this one comic. (Not Safe For Work)Money quote from the comic: "At the very least, we can agree that being a cuckold is tough and takes a lot of bravery and strength." That's it ... no more cuckshaming for me. (The last comment was satire). | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/17 10:09 PM |
| 4 | Preselection is powerfulWhen I was a young buck I used to wonder why girls who wouldn't give me the time of day when I was single suddenly wanted the D the minute I got a GF. Now I know. Preselection is one of the few good uses of social media. Getting tagged in photos with attractive women and having women make flirty comments on your posts with smiley face emojis definitely helps your brand. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/17 09:57 PM |
| 8 | Tips for a youngster who's goal is not to get laid?Youngblood, you need to make your mission and becoming the best version of yourself your focus. When you get your shit together, the women will come. Getting pussy is like getting a bank loan. The more you need it, the less likely you are to get it. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/17 04:22 PM |
| 7 | "Young Americans Are Killing Marriage: Millennials are lagging behind on the traditional markers of adulthood"No fault divorce + alimony + child support = jackpot for women who don't have to do a damn thing for the men they marry. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/17 04:16 PM |
| 16 | I work with a lot of guys who pay out the ass in child support who want me to believe it's normal/fine.I've got news for you. We all pay child support and are at the financial mercy of single women and their bastard spawn, at least if you're a taxpayer. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/17 04:13 PM |
| 4 | I fucked up, got caught cheating, what do I do ?OP should use Shaggy's song "It Wasn't Me" as his playbook. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/17 04:06 PM |
| 120 | "Young Americans Are Killing Marriage: Millennials are lagging behind on the traditional markers of adulthood"Baby boomers also brought us the expansion of no fault divorce. Women with impaired pair bonding ability + no fault divorce makes marriage a bad deal for the average man. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/17 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Drake University Expels Male Student Despite Female Admitting She Forced Him Into Sex ActSo a woman who drinks and has sex isn't responsible for her actions but if she drinks, drives and kills someone in an accident, she will likely be charged with a serious crime. How does that make sense? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 11:51 PM |
| 12 | Dispelling "Rape Culture" myth in two simple diagramsMany of the women who scream about "rape culture" get wet fantasizing about Chad ravaging them. In "rape culture", the only rapists are unattractive men. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 11:47 PM |
| 11 | Girlfriend cheated - What is the best way to break it upI need to let her know it is over... No you don't. One of the main reasons to ghost her is you shouldn't waste another second of your time and ounce of your energy on a bitch who cheated on you. Another reason to ghost her is the thing she wants the most now is "closure". She'll want to engage you in an emotional conversation and get you to a place where she confirms in her mind that she did the right thing by fucking another guy. Maybe you lose your temper and yell at her. In her mind, it'll co… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 08:30 PM |
| 33 | Gf harassed in publicBecause you could end up in a no-win situation if someone steps to you and/or hits on or harasses your girl. Do nothing and she loses respect for you. Fight back and you could get stomped, stabbed or shot. I've been to a few events where someone ended up seriously hurt or dead because of this. The best fight is the one you avoid. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 07:17 PM |
| 18 | Gf harassed in publicSame advice applies to taking your girl to clubs, frat parties, hip hop concerts, [insert any event where you are just asking to get tested]. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Plate Theory. All is fair in love and war? Or is it possible to be honest and still keep on spinning?So true. In the relationship game, we play checkers while women play 3 dimensional chess. Nearly every single woman I know has multiple guys she calls "friends" who she's either banging or has waiting in the wings for her. No matter how they spin it, women definitely are not in a scarcity situation in the 2010s. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 06:52 PM |
| 129 | Gf harassed in publicNext time, exhibit some situational awareness and avoid passing by a group of thugs when you're with your girl. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 05:58 PM |
| 3 | How to become more "Alpha" in mindset and not just behavior?An 'Alpha' is his own man. A 'Beta' lives for the approval of others. In regards to women, an 'Alpha' knows he's the prize, a 'Beta' believes she's the prize. Internalize this and you'll be fine. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 02:55 PM |
| 3 | "Women don't owe you men our bodies!" ; are men justified in "going their own way"?Justified?! We still live in a free country, right? Her body, her choice. My commitment, my choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/17 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Live in a big city and have no carOr you find girls who have cars or friends who will drive them. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/17 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Live in a big city and have no carIt's a good thing that you're broke in the 2010s. You have Uber and Lyft, a bus pass isn't your only option. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/17 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Do you object to strip clubs?It depends. If you're traveling to a place like Vegas, Miami, Atlanta, etc., a night at a strip club is a fun evening out with the fellas. Kind of like pussy Disneyland. Frequenting your local strip club is kind of pathetic though. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/17 11:09 PM |
| 2 | My LTR doesn't want to have sex until marriageYou committed to an LTR without knowing this? That's like buying a car without test driving it or a buying a house without an inspection. Lesson learned. Only commit to an LTR on your terms. Is she a real or "born again" virgin? If it's the latter, she probably marked you as a BetaBux, which means you have some work to do. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/17 03:08 PM |
| 6 | Male sexual needs = female commitment needsWomen instead, can live a happy life without dicks, they don't have the same biological NEED for sex as men do. Absolutely not true. Women are hard wired to need the D. The reproductive drive can actually be stronger in women. If you've been around enough ovulating women you'll know what I'm talking about. The distinction between men and women is they are more selective. Most men will fuck an average woman but most women won't fuck an average man. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/17 04:09 PM |
| 7 | Where did I f**k up at?She was drunk and horny after the party and you were there to meet her needs. Sometimes a girl just wants a one night stand. Actually sounds like it was more like a half night stand. Going forward, if you bang a chick after just meeting her, she bails before you wake up and doesn't leave her number, assume she doesn't want to be contacted. Who knows, she may have a boyfriend, she may be a "good girl" who would never do that kind of thing, etc. Her rationalization hamster has probably already rew… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/17 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Can't recognise a sunk cost due to lack of abundance mentality. What to do?The fact that you classified a woman as an HB10 shows that you have oneitis (or you're a troll). Like unicorns, HB10s don't exist. Having a one night stand with an extremely attractive woman is something most men can only dream of doing. Enjoy your big moment and move on. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/17 12:56 PM |
| 10 | I know of so many women who are in.. what appears to be loving committed relationships, BUT they still have Instagram and post selfies and beach / attention whoring pics almost every day still. AWALT?Women need male attention like a junkie needs a fix. Social media is like crack cocaine to chicks. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/17 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Advice Request: How red is this flag.I've been on both sides of a similar situation. Sometimes it's nothing and she'll ultimately stop talking to the ex. Other times she was alpha widowed and never got over the ex, so a risk to cheat. It's important that you appear to be open minded and non judgemental so she'll tell you more about their relationship. If he dumped her, I'd be very concerned that she's still talking to him ... a sign that she hasn't gotten over him. If she dumped him or it was a mutual parting of the ways, maybe not… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/17 10:45 PM |
| 5 | Why Beautiful Women Date Average-looking MenWomen are attracted to men by their looks, status and confidence. The men in this article either had enough status and/or confidence to overcome average looks or they are BetaBux. Notice there weren't any average looking, socially awkward grocery store clerks featured. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/17 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Is that (TRP) it?Google "Rational Male" and read through every post on the blog. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/17 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Sluts, Good Girls, and AWALTNo such thing as a good girl. Any woman can be a slut for the right guy. You know you've arrived when you make good girls do bad things. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/17 06:04 PM |
| 3 | A classic example of irony in toxic feminismStories like this make me believe that all you have to do to give a woman tingles these days is show up and not be Pajama Boy. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/17 11:40 PM |
| 3 | REMINDER: Some of the biggest fallacies I've seen in here this week and just one man's take on itBiggest fallacies I've seen in here this week ... Telling your girlfriend or wife she can't go out or hang out with other guys or her friends is somehow NOT mate guarding. No, it isn't mate guarding. This is like saying no to a child who wants to climb up to the roof of his house and jump off because he think's it'll be fun. This is setting common sense boundaries and establishing a relationship based on respect. There's a word used to describe men who are in exclusive relationships with women w… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/17 06:32 PM |
| 8 | How do you make your cum taste better?Shouldn't matter if she's attracted to you. Tell her it's an acquired taste. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/17 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Promposal?Think of the long game. A picture of you doing a promposal will be posted on multiple social media accounts and mark you for life as a beta pantywaist. The internet never forgets. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/17 03:40 AM |
| 3 | The reason why women hate being judged by their sexual history more than anything elseFor a committed, exclusive relationship, I want a woman who is likely to form a strong bond with me and has relatively little relationship baggage. I think most men who have options feel the same way. Playing the odds, who is more likely to provide this? A woman with dozens of ex lovers or a woman with just a few? If a woman wants to have fun and ride the carousel, who am I to judge her? Her body, her choice. But why should I be judged on who I choose to call my partner? My commitment, my choice… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 12:20 AM |
| 2 | How much of a red flag is this?Well, I'd say this is just a notch below holding up a liquor store as a red flag. Unless you're a Russian mobster or Nigerian scam artist, I would say yes, she's probably not the right girl for you. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/17 06:20 PM |
| 8 | Girlfriend hangs with exWhy do you call this chick your girlfriend? To earn that title, she has to value your commitment so much that she wouldn't dare do anything that would risk losing it. Obviously not the case in this situation. If she's acting like a plate, make her one. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/17 06:18 PM |
| 36 | After 21 years, I puked up the blue pill yestedayYoungblood, you figured out that an orbiter is the male equivalent of a slut, someone who gives away their precious resource (for a man, his time, money, brainpower and labor) to the opposite sex for nothing in return. Consider yourself fortunate that you figured this out while young. Good luck on your life journey. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/17 08:51 PM |
| 5 | What is wrong with a woman, who had fun in her younger days, settling down to a LTR with a "beta"?Nothing is wrong with this if she gives her beta the same hot sex, passion and respect she gave the alphas she had "fun" with in her younger days. We all know this usually doesn't happen. A lot of betas in this situation feel like bait and switch victims. They got lured by the prospect of finally being in a passionate relationship with an attractive women and end up with infrequent starfish sex and a woman who doesn't respect him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/17 08:41 PM |
| 18 | Breaking MGTOW habits? and rant about hookup culture.Don't blame yourself and definitely don't blame TRP for "enabling" hookup culture. We aren't the ones encouraging women to slut around in their teens and twenties when they probably should be using their youth, beauty and fertility to lock down a high value man. They can blame their feminist sisters for giving them shitty dating advice. TRP is just helping guys get and keep their dicks wet in the modern sexual marketplace. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/17 02:23 PM |
| 6 | What's the most irritating Beta trait that you encounter on a daily basis?Men who orbit validation seeking attention whores on social media. Pantywaists who refer to their wives as "the boss". | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/17 11:59 PM |
| 7 | "I love you"When said by a woman who's not a female relative? "I have an emotional high from the way you make me feel, right now." No guarantees that her "love" will last more than an hour though | /r/askTRP | 24/03/17 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Girls settling for betas allows betas to fuck out of their leagueAnybody can fuck out of his league if he's willing to pay the price. These betas paid a steep price for what was likely boring sex from women who weren't as attractive as when they provided hot sex to alphas for nothing. This is like paying the new car price for an extra high mileage Mercedes Benz that was driven for free by a lot of previous owners and doesn't ride nearly as well as it used to. Yeah, you finally have a Benz in your garage, but was it really worth it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/17 11:31 PM |
| 5 | I spilled water on her food to assert dominance.Dominance? More like a tantrum. That was a massive display of low value and you outed yourself as a sperg | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/17 03:53 PM |
| 1 | FaceTimed this girl who looks NOTHING like she does in her POF profile.You should sue her for fraud and seek compensation for the time you wasted orbiting her. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/17 03:03 PM |
| 3 | I want you to go out there and make enemiesI think what you're trying to say is that the number of haters you have is a leading indicator of success. People are naturally competitive and/or jealous and will want what you have. Just think about the number of Chad haters there are out there. The crabs in a barrel syndrome is real. An important skill to learn on your path to success is how to tune out haters. Another important skill is how to discern haters disguised as fans. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/17 03:00 PM |
| 12 | Is it common to be in a group of people joking around for someone (girl or guy) to take a cheap shot at you just go show they can insult you?Man, you need to stop taking sensitive pills. Sometimes people have fun by talking shit to each other and sometimes talking shit is how women flirt. her way of joking was to comment "she would drive me over with ber car". Have to admit though, this is kind of weird. Were you at an aspie meetup? | /r/askTRP | 24/03/17 02:47 PM |
| 7 | Stop giving women orgasms, you sexist bastards!Probably written by a lesbo trolling for converts. Shit like this may be the tipping point that actually causes meaningful female backlash against feminism. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/17 02:37 PM |
| 13 | What do you do if you dont like hookup culture/clubs/bars?guitar Develop your skills and play gigs. They'll come to you. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/17 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Sex w/ 23 y/o stripper friend (I'm 45) - Now she's coming on strong. Bad news?Check "banged stripper" off your bucket list and move on. It only goes downhill from here. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/17 12:31 AM |
| 10 | I saw an example of hypergamy and feel like no woman is worth a serious relationship.Let's recap. You meet a chick on Tinder, fuck her and now you want to forever give up on having any kind of relationship with a woman because your Tinder oneitis is in love with Sven (Swedish Chad). Here's your assignment. Read back the first paragraph to yourself so you can appreciate how silly this is. Read the sidebar --------> | /r/askTRP | 22/03/17 10:21 PM |
| 3 | [Possible perspective changer] My encounter with ChadIf you spent half the time improving yourself that you do obsessing over Chad, you'd be killing it. Hit the gym son. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/17 10:11 PM |
| 6 | Q4ALL What would happen if women wanted multiple husbands?Time for a fact check. Redpill recognizes that open marriages usually favor the wife because it's generally easier for a woman to find sex partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/17 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: What Do You Think About the "Fragile Masculinity" Concept/Memes?More manshaming. Misandrist shitlords should make up their mind: is masculinity fragile, toxic or an artificial construct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/17 08:35 PM |
| 7 | Q4ALL What would happen if women wanted multiple husbands?This. Betas are the only men who would agree to this type of marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/17 08:29 PM |
| 2 | "The agony of being too beautiful to be faithful" - Yep. You read that right...Good point. This is not a moral judgement. This is a cold, objective calculation of the odds that a woman will be a faithful, long term partner and will provide a low drama relationship. The more cocks a woman has had in her past, the less likely she is to provide this for obvious reasons. Have to add though that women will attempt to shame men into thinking that their objective assessment of a woman's relationship value is a moral judgement against them. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/17 02:35 PM |
| 36 | Once you take the Pill, the Lens will never leave youI liken the moment I swallowed the pill to the day I found out as a young boy that Santa Claus didn't exist. Before that day, I assumed that kids automatically got free shit on Christmas just because they weren't horrible people. After that day, the fantasy was over and I realized that my dad had to bust his ass to earn the money to buy those gifts for his kids. Like kids who believe in Santa Claus, blue pillers live in a fantasy world where women love men and reward us with sex and respect beca… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/17 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Sex Dreams - you bring 'em up?You would basically be telling your wife that the only women you can fuck besides her are in your dreams. This would be the opposite of dread. | /r/askMRP | 22/03/17 04:04 AM |
| 47 | My plate's sister got her boyfriend to agree on a foursome with boys she'd hand-picked.This bitch is pure evil. A living, breathing succubus She found the weakling of the herd and is trying to break him to the point of no return. This dude might try to kill himself after going through something as humiliating as this. Sounds like this guy may be more dork than cuck. One of you guys needs to find this dude, pull him aside, put your arm around him and explain to him he can do better. No man should help a woman break another man's spirit. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/17 02:05 AM |
| 25 | "The agony of being too beautiful to be faithful" - Yep. You read that right...How do I pass this shit test? Same answer you give to anyone else who works for you. "Alright, just give me a few weeks notice so I can line up your replacement." Seriously, that's a fucked up thing to say when there are kids involved. Good luck with your situation. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/17 12:33 AM |
| 17 | TRP and the insecure keyboard psychologistLots of cocks = lots of potential relationship baggage and drama from exes and former fuck buddies who think they still have a claim to the pussy and who she can't get out of her mind. High cock count = a chick who is probably an alpha widow and addicted to strange dick. Pass for LTR. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/17 11:11 PM |
| 10 | "The agony of being too beautiful to be faithful" - Yep. You read that right...Man, I'm laughing my ass off as I type because I've been through this many times and you are so right. Women frame things that tip the balance of a relationship in favor of the man as "emotional abuse" and love to cry fake tears of victimhood to bring you into their frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/17 08:24 PM |
| 60 | "The agony of being too beautiful to be faithful" - Yep. You read that right...And this is why it never makes sense to wife up a former carousel riding slut. Once an addict, always an addict. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/17 08:03 PM |
| 15 | "The agony of being too beautiful to be faithful" - Yep. You read that right...So true. Abundance is a blessing for men, but a curse for women because they are so indecisive and act on feelz. Lack of abundance (real or perceived) is what keeps women in relationships. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/17 06:21 PM |
| – | Is losing sexual interest in a long term a natural thing for a guy?It's natural. The Coolidge Effect. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/17 01:22 AM |
| – | I cannot cope with the realisation all it takes is the right guy to ruin your relationship.there's little hope that attaining the full potential of their own genetic gifts will in any way allow them to out game a legit adonis. You know what ... you're absolutely right. If it came down to me or adonis, there's a good chance my woman would choose adonis. Fortunately for us men with average genetics, dudes who look like greek gods are rare. In a normal setting, the odds of our women being in a position to interact with an actual adonis are fairly slim. They get horny and have to fuck som… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/17 09:10 PM |
| 14 | Today I saw first hand how chicks use guys like an ATM'sDawg, you need an agent to negotiate your rates. Coffee + scones isn't even minimum wage. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 06:00 PM |
| 26 | Today I saw first hand how chicks use guys like an ATM'sEh, not bad. I'd do her. Wouldn't shovel her snow though unless she paid market rates. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 05:54 PM |
| 4 | More attracted to bigger women as opposed to slim ones?You do you. Nothing wrong with having a thick chick to keep you warm on a chilly night. but my strongest erections (even just by being within 5 feet of them at the supermarket). TMI tho. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/17 05:04 PM |
| 15 | Where the quality bitches at?I've been in the game for a while and have seen with my two eyes, experienced myself or gotten reliable accounts of "respectable" women doing some real freaky shit. We're taliking soccer moms, business execs, elementary school teachers, etc getting banged in restrooms, on dance floors, fucking a dude in front of friends, MMF, sucking multiple dicks at once, serial gang bangs (fucking 3+ dudes on the same night), acting as groupies and fucking celebs, sucking off her side dude then kissing her bo… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 03:34 PM |
| 121 | Today I saw first hand how chicks use guys like an ATM'sAfter today maybe that number went up to like 95% The story that got me to 95% RP was the chick in Boston who used Tinder to find "wholesome" guys to shovel her snow for free. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 10:46 AM |
| 95 | I cannot cope with the realisation all it takes is the right guy to ruin your relationship.Guess what, a 5'7" skinny fat guy can also fuck your woman if he has game and catches her at the right place at the right time. Stop worrying and enjoy the moment. No relationship lasts forever. Realizing that my woman will one day decide to open her legs for another man motivates me to get as much as possible from her right now. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/17 12:16 AM |
| 37 | Next level Open HypergamyShe also has a phd in psychology She'll be quite the catch for her future hubby. A frumpy chick with a Mandingo fetish and advanced ability to fuck with your head. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/17 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Q4RedPill: A common red pill idea is that "women are children." In what ways are they like children? Why is this childishness specific to women?"Women are children" is a heuristic to help spergs understand that they should be playful and fun when interacting with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/17 06:10 PM |
| 2 | This girl with a boyfriend keeps flirting with me, do I just let her go, or do I smash?Most women who say they have boyfriends are temporarily parked until they find a better space. Proceed unless you're friends with the boyfriend (bros before hoes). | /r/askTRP | 19/03/17 05:12 PM |
| 2 | I did an asshole thing last night. Feeling some anxiety about it.Yeah, you crossed the line with the tit pic. If I was refereeing, I'd penalize you for taunting. If this girl is getting too attached and you don't want to LTR her, you should think about not seeing her anymore. Overinvested plates can lead to all types of drama. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/17 04:18 PM |
| 19 | Being in love is just a synonym for being insecure.There's nothing with loving someone who truly earns it. I love my parents because they gave me life and sacrificed a ton to help make me the man I am today. I loved a woman because she had my back and treated me like a king. Male love for women is sympathetic. We're hard wired to want to protect and take care of women, so there's nothing wrong with loving a woman if she earns it. The problem is men give away their love unconditionally to women who haven't earned it. In our quest to be loved, we … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/17 04:42 PM |
| 25 | Do girls like being 'checked out'?If you are attractive, they love it. If you aren't, they accuse you of harassment. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/17 02:24 PM |
| 4 | LTR driving an hour away to meet Chad from her past...She gave scant details of their past, she just kept saying "he's my friend" / "he's my good friend". Sounds like trickle truth. The less she says about him, the greater the chance they were lovers. If their relationship was strictly platonic she would probably say more because she would have nothing to hide. So looks like we have an Alpha Fux, Beta Bux situation here. Guess which one you are. If you're OK with your status in the relationship as your girl's source of comfort and provision and not… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/17 02:22 PM |
| 2 | [Q4BP] What has Feminism done to help men?Gotta hate those unintended consequences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/17 07:11 PM |
| 3 | [Q4BP] What has Feminism done to help men?By promoting female sexual freedom and encouraging women to remain single longer before settling down, feminism has been great for attractive men who like casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/17 05:23 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP: what is the difference between AFBB and wanting to have no commitment sex with sluts and then wanting to settle down with a submissive virgin homemaker?Big difference between a man settling down with a high value woman (submissive, attractive virgin = unicorn) and a woman settling for a low value man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/17 02:42 AM |
| 6 | Bringing Food To Plates?Why are you struggling with this? Easy solution: get a 3 piece from KFC and give her half a wing and some of your biscuit. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/17 12:49 AM |
| 20 | Question for women: Why do so many women have a hard time wrapping their minds around the simple concept that many men simply find high n count women unattractive?Women know that high N count is an indicator of low relationship value. That's why so many try to conceal their N count from men they like for relationships. Social media makes it more difficult for women to cover up a promiscuous past, so the next best option is to shame men for caring about their past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/17 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Back-up PlansWrong question. Most women won't admit to having a plan B guy. The question should be: if you're in a relationship, do you have any attractive single male friends or guys who want to be friends with you? If the answer is yes, that's their plan B guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/17 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Limiting hypergamy is mateguarding.Looking at the big picture, without beta males producing and protecting, we wouldn't have the stable, affluent society we enjoy today. Doesn't it make sense to help relieve them of their sexual frustration and give them an incentive to continue producing for our economy and protecting our society? Let's keep it real. "Limiting hypergamy" really means convincing the average to below average woman that rather than chasing alphas, the best thing she can do for herself and mankind is to find a nice,… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/17 11:35 PM |
| 68 | Make yourself her only optionShe knows you are her only option because if she cheats or disrespects you, you will walk away. If she understands this, her actions will align respectfully, and you won’t have to worry about her branch swinging. While I agree with your attitude, I think you are setting expectations too high in terms of controlling the behavior of women. Women act on emotions and are often unpredictable. While setting and enforcing boundaries and having high SMV help, millions of women have cheated on high value… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/17 04:00 PM |
| 25 | Make yourself her only optionThis and not having a dad bod will put a guy into near-Chad status these days. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/17 03:48 PM |
| 2 | When LTR Requests Space: Conflicting Approaches for How to Handle"I want some space" is a passive aggressive way of saying "leave me alone, I'm not attracted to you." What do you do? Grant her wish and find some new pussy. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/17 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Should you be completely open?The wise chef never reveals the recipe for his secret sauce. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/17 02:03 PM |
| 52 | Stop trying to prove to women that you're a "good guy"Ask yourself, do you want her to like you or do you want her to fuck you? Answer that question then act accordingly. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/17 02:40 AM |
| 222 | Tupac Shakur at age 17, on being nice to women then grows up and understands the true nature of women."Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks ..." Dr. Dre "Bitches ain't shit" is a recurring theme in hip hop. That's what happens when you're constantly exposed to the depravity of many women. Be a thug or pimp, get the girl. Be a decent guy, get played. What else are you supposed to think? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/17 07:12 PM |
| 1 | still don't fully understand solipsismHow a woman relates to the world: I feel it, therefore it is. My feelings are the most important thing in the world. This results in solipsism. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/17 04:43 AM |
| 3 | a woman constantly bringing up guys from her past , is it a shit test? and your best method of handling this.A confused chick thinking that being with a lot of guys is a display of high value when all it really means is she isn't selective, has low self control and/or needs excessive validation. By doing this she disqualified herself from being anything more than a plate. When she does this just ignore her or tease her about it. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/17 11:41 PM |
| 2 | I don't want to be married but I do want to have children. What are things to keep in mind?This. If you want your children to love and respect you and not be brainwashed by your baby mama to hate you, don't do this. Better to not have kids. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/17 04:44 PM |
| 10 | Getting Info on a Potential GF's PastFigure out how to meet some of her friends. You'll learn a lot by observing them and how your girl interacts with them. Also if your girl is trying to hide something, her friends may drop hints for you. I've seen this happen more than once. Apparently there's not a female version of bro code. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/17 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Why Is Alpha Deified?Here's the ending to your revenge fantasy. After the betas join forces to kill the alpha, the females of the pack go to the alpha's funeral to mourn him and blame the betas for killing the one ape who made them all happy. The grieving alpha widows forge a pact to never have sex with the weak, cowardly betas and become lesbians. A week later, a group of rogue apes attacks the pack, kills the leaderless betas and ravages the females, who express their enduring love and commitment for their new alp… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/17 03:46 PM |
| 25 | Is this what being Chad is like?You make me so bad. I really am innocent. This is how you know when you have arrived ... when you make "good girls" do "bad" things. Keep it going. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/17 01:30 PM |
| 2 | There is no reason not to be a slut.If your point is that feminism has ruined the long term relationship value of women by encouraging them to slut it up during their years of peak attractiveness, which makes them unsuitable relationship partners when they finally decide to "settle down", then yes, you are correct. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/17 01:23 PM |
| 10 | So looks don't matter?Lesson learned. If your preferred method of pickup is to disrobe in public, it helps to have a sixpack. FYI, you don't need a sixpack to smash. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/17 07:39 PM |
| 5 | Women beg to stop the "slow fade", however have no problem doing it themselvesThe slow fade for women is the time it takes for her hamster to rewrite the history of your relationship after she decides to leave. Memories of you as her "soulmate" are overwritten by contrived memories of you as a jerk and/or loser. A girl's gotta have closure, right? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/17 07:30 PM |
| 10 | Beta friend hates me nowGo ahead and fuck her so he can wake up from his Blue Pill dreamworld. He'll thank you for it later. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/17 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Can sex feel good with condoms?This. Rawdogging is playing dick roulette. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/17 12:30 AM |
| 48 | Potential motivates, Pussy does notThe ratio of demand to supply will determine the value of any commodity for a person. This includes pussy. A high smv guy can have a strong need for pussy and still not overvalue it because his potential supply is so large. A low smv guy with high need for pussy is going to overvalue it and act accordingly. He'll settle for just being near a halfway attractive woman with a 1% of fucking her because of his demand / supply imbalance. This is why the TRP model works. If you can't get laid, the wors… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 07:19 PM |
| 59 | New "Fearless girl" statue staring down Wall Street's famous "Charging Bull" for International Woman's DayYou must be a city boy. A heifer is a young female cow who has never given birth to a calf. A cow is actually an older female bovine who has given birth. Think of it this way, in the bovine SMP heifer = pre wall, cow = post wall. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 04:03 PM |
| 66 | New "Fearless girl" statue staring down Wall Street's famous "Charging Bull" for International Woman's DayI think the statue is hilarious, nothing more than an expensive shit test. In reality bulls attack only if provoked. The way this would play out in real life is the bull would walk around the little girl or brush her aside on his way to fuck another heifer. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 02:16 PM |
| 17 | Jake and the Woman Who Broke HimSpot on. What's dangerous about ego is that women have a natural ability to play to and manipulate the male ego. I have no doubt that Jake's girl did this to sink her hooks deeper into him and drive a wedge between him and us. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/17 04:32 PM |
| 5 | Jake and the Woman Who Broke HimSeriously?! Google the term 'cuckoldry' and report back. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/17 02:03 PM |
| 11 | Jake and the Woman Who Broke HimYeah, I realize that now. The better move long term may have been to not say anything but be there for him when he got hurt. This situation is a really tough call. It's so hard to not to anything when your boy is getting screwed over. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/17 01:46 PM |
| 46 | Jake and the Woman Who Broke HimYour best friends are right more often than not. So true. I now make it a point to tell my good friends that if they value our friendship they should tell me anything they feel I need to hear and I'll promise to listen to them with an open mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/17 12:44 PM |
| 6 | I notice that when I talk about my future/interests, girls fall for meMost women are passengers trying to catch a ride with a man who will take them on a fun, interesting, passionate ride through life. The next best thing to a man with this kind of life is one who is planning to have one. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/17 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Severe oneitisLook at it this way. The more time you waste chasing after chicks who have no interest in you, the less time you'll spend actually having sex. Women are a dime a dozen. Go find one who is attracted to you. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/17 03:59 AM |
| 1 | My First Time Witnessing Cuckoldry and Hypergamy.There's AWALT and there's being a shitty human being. This chick is more of the latter. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/17 03:36 AM |
| 45 | What's your first impression of a woman like this?Don't stick your dick in crazy. The risk isn't worth the reward. Good move. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/17 03:33 AM |
| 2 | I've cheated on my girlfriendshe didn't have plenty of sex with other guys before me I misread this part. Bottom line, she wasn't meeting your needs and the situation wasn't going to improve any time soon, so why not just break off the relationship?! | /r/askTRP | 06/03/17 03:27 AM |
| 2 | I've cheated on my girlfriendMy takeaway from this is you have a Godzilla sized hamster. In reality, you didn't cheat on your girlfriend because she really wasn't your GF to begin with. You were with her for six months, rarely had sex while you were with her (even though she she had plenty of sex with other guys before she met you) and she ended the relationship ("taking a break" usually means I want to fuck other guys). In other words, she really wasn't your GF. Tell your so-called GF that you'll take her up on her offer. … | /r/askTRP | 06/03/17 03:09 AM |
| 5 | how do you tell a girl that she sucks at giving head?Tell her that she's hurting your dick with her teeth and that she should cover her top teeth with her upper lip and bottom teeth with her tongue. Sometimes they just need to be coached up. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/17 12:37 AM |
| 1 | I know she's going to cheat, how can I trust her?For the millionth time, "she's not yours, it's just your turn." I'm going to one of the best steakhouses in town for dinner tonight with some buddies. They have a 14 oz ribeye that I can't wait to sink my teeth into. Should I cancel my dinner plans because at the end of the night I'll look down at my plate and that tasty ribeye will be gone? Hell no, I'll enjoy the sensory experience while I can and look forward to the next one. Enjoy your woman and get as much from her while you have her. Learn… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/17 08:51 PM |
| 9 | my 'main' plate & i got caught fucking by her bfAbsolutely do not call this dude. OP has already done enough. No need to be Captain Save a Chump. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/17 08:31 PM |
| 4 | Late night messageIt was her lame attempt at dread game. What these chicks don't understand is shit like this doesn't work and it actually lowers their value with guys worth having. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/17 08:28 PM |
| 103 | my 'main' plate & i got caught fucking by her bfYou did him a huge favor. Most guys like this don't find out about their snowflake's thottery until it's too late. If he goes ahead with the wedding, his future misery is all on him. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/17 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Social Cues for Ovulation?Look at the way they move. Ovulating women tend to walk sexier and slower around guys, to accentuate their ass-ets. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/17 09:19 PM |
| 4 | What are some of your covert/passive dread techniques?Go out with your girl somewhere where there are single women and make sure you look good. She'll notice the IOIs you're getting from other women. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/17 09:13 PM |
| 147 | Why is it that my girlfriend tells me she used to be a whore?Why is it that my girlfriend tells me she used to be a whore? If your GF starts talking about her whoreish past, consider yourself lucky because most guys find out through other people, by finding old sex tapes of their snowflake or not at all. If she starts blabbing about her past thottery, show no expression or emotion, appear to be open minded, not judgemental, and let her talk so you get the full story. You can plan your exit strategy later. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/17 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Got a single mother twice my age pregnant2 weeks later? So it didn't take a missed cycle for her to discover she was pregnant? You saw an ultrasound of your unborn child after a few weeks? It usually takes over a month to see anything on an ultrasound. Time to call Maury. You were set up. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 02:14 PM |
| 30 | There is so much wisdom in this community. You all were right and the hard truth today presented itself today....This chick's girl game is weak. They normally don't come out and ask if you are a BetaBux. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 12:54 PM |
| 3 | Lost my virginity, didn't feel a thing.What did you expect, fireworks to shoot off and an orchestra to play the 1812 Overture in the background? Losing your virginity is just the first of hopefully many loads you'll blow throughout your life. The act of having sex can be anticlimactic, especially if you don't have good sexual chemistry with your partner or she just sucks in bed. The chase, seduction, buildup of sexual tension and foreplay culminates in a few minutes. I know I've had the "so that's it?" feeling more than a few times a… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/17 11:04 PM |
| 2 | How to accept that every girl you meet is settling for youYeah, like not working because you might get fired, not playing a game because you might lose or staying at home curled up in a ball because something might not go your way. Weak sauce world view. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 10:47 PM |
| 24 | Hypergamy and AWALT - she's thinking of a name.I'm cool as long as she at least says my name when I'm balls deep in her. "Whose pussy is this?!" "Yours?" "What?!" (extra hard slap on the ass). "Brinkley's!!" "Gotdamn right." She can go back to fantasizing about Ryan Gosling, Idris Elba or whomever after I'm done. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 10:43 PM |
| 3 | My mom is trying to force me (34yr M) to let my brother (37yr M) move in with me because he is "having a hard time", and can't stay with herYou are not your brother's keeper or your mother's slave. A 37 year-old man has to be responsible for himself. You should tell him that he's not welcome back in your home until he gets his shit together. Call it tough love, something it looks like your brother desparately needs. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/17 06:45 PM |
| 25 | Why I can't stand "Cool Girls"Cool girl. Ha. A long time ago, back when I believed in NAWALT, I thought I had a cool girl who was different. She liked to play video games like me, we liked the same music, we'd talk about intellectual things from time to time and she actually liked science and math. She wasn't like those bimbos who banged Chads, right? Nope. I found out that while she was subtly friendzoning me, she was banging a couple of Chads, including a football player who had to be one of the dumbest MFers I ever met in… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/17 06:25 PM |
| 2 | I hate working out with my boyfriend.I've been through this before. It's a testosterone thing. Lifting heavy gets the testosterone flowing. Feels great for guys, not so much for most women. Join a gym where you can do classes like yoga, pilates, etc and he can lift heavy while you are in class. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/17 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Is it all about having an attractive face when it comes to getting younger women?Lift regularly, change your diet and lose weight, shave your head and grow a beard. You'll get plenty of IOIs. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/17 11:46 PM |
| 2 | The City Makes You SoftWow. Not everyone from the inner city is a thug and those who made it out and succeeded in life are among the most mentally tough, resourceful people I know. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/17 09:40 PM |
| 3 | How to console a BP who's LTR cheatedTell him don't worry about it, bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks, then take him out to a strip club. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/17 08:00 PM |
| 2 | How important is a low N Count?Hate to break the news to you, but an attractive 28 year old woman with an N count of three or less is like a unicorn these days. Most women in this age group have N counts into the teens or more. You have a right to your standards, but that's reality in the 2010s. Most women will lie about their N counts if they think they are being judged. An N count of 3 isn't terrible. Her past shows that she can bond with a guy in a LTR. The question is can she bond with you. If her N count is 3, then she p… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/17 02:55 AM |
| 3 | Why your race has such a big impact on your SMV and the only thing you can do about itIf your're Hispanic, what's the matter with banging Latinas? I'd go balls deep in a young JLo, Selma Hayek, Penelope Cruz, Rosario Dawson, etc, etc, etc all day and night. Pussy is pussy bro. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/17 12:55 AM |
| 5 | LTRs Are Like a Business Transaction - You Get What You NegotiateI prefer to to view a LTR as a benevolent dictatorship. Life is good for the lucky girl as long as she pleases the King. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/17 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Use prostitutes to create abundance mentality.I dunno man. That's like wearing a muscle suit to feel like you're jacked. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/17 11:51 PM |
| 13 | The City Makes You SoftWell, it depends on what part of the city you're in. If you're on hipster side of town, yeah, marshmallowville. If you grow up in the 'hood, odds are you're not soft. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/17 11:49 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend NEVER pays attention to anything I have to saythis is definitely not how all women behave Yeah, it is, but there are levels. I have yet to meet a woman who doesn't prefer to talk about herself. Female solipsism. Look it up. I will say, though, that a woman who is really attracted to a guy will at least pretend to listen to him. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/17 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Girl Who Accused College Football Players of Rape Charged With LyingI hear you. I've been out of college for a while, but I tell younger guys that I know to be wary of thot traps. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/17 07:02 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend NEVER pays attention to anything I have to sayNah, I'm too paranoid to have a device that records everything I say. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/17 07:00 PM |
| 9 | It's very easy for a girl to rack up a HUGE n-count. Here's an example.True. The average woman's N count today would have been in the top 10% a couple of generations ago. A "good girl" nowadays will easily have an N count around 10, which is well above the level where women can have major relationship baggage and impaired pair bonding. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/17 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Taking my shirt off during sexDim the lights until you get ripped. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/17 05:17 AM |
| 34 | My girlfriend NEVER pays attention to anything I have to sayI'm guessing this is your first girlfriend? Get used to it. If you want someone to actually listen to you, get a male friend, dog or Amazon Echo. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/17 05:15 AM |
| 2 | my girlfriend has 3 beta orbiters, what should I do?send her paragraphs and paragraphs of texts You should thank these orbiters for setting the bar so low and (hopefully) making you look good by comparison. Those chumps aren't in your league and not worthy of your concern; that's how you should act. You should also remind your girl that modern technology will enable her to block messages from unwanted senders and that you'll judge how serious she is about your relationship by how committed she is to shutting down orbiters. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/17 05:08 AM |
| 1 | How to practically apply the Poon Commandment "Always Keep 2 In The Kitty?"Keep your prospect pipeline full by approaching, flirting, pulling numbers and connecting on social media. Your girl can have first crack at your time and attention but she shouldn't have you on complete lockdown. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/17 12:31 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with regret for mistakes made & childhood nostalgia?The more awesome your current life is, the less you'll fixate on the past. Start focusing on building your future and stop worrying about your past. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/17 09:46 PM |
| 18 | Billboard reading, "Real Men Provide, Real Women Appreciate It" causes protests over patriarchy and sexismMissing a word .. Real Men Provide TheD. Real Women Appreciate It. Fixed. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/17 09:05 PM |
| 0 | Found out the girl im seeing has slept with 20Well, enjoy being #21 on her way to #22, which based on her current trajectory will be very soon. By the way, if she admitted to 20, her actual number is probably closer to 50. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/17 09:03 PM |
| 7 | Girl Who Accused College Football Players of Rape Charged With LyingMakes sense only if the goal of their so-called "due process procedures" is to persecute men. Welcome to the 21st century version of witch hunting. And people wonder why college attendance and graduation rates for men are plummeting? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/17 08:44 PM |
| 7 | Cuckolding make me sick.stumbled upon a npr report Consider the source. What else would you expect to hear on Blue Pill Radio? | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend plans on studying abroad. How to proceed?She's not your girlfriend anymore. It's EuroChad's turn. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 04:04 AM |
| 21 | Another view on the pitfalls of women's high N countsFemale sexual desire is instinctive and emotional, a signal from a woman's subconscious that she has to use sex to get and keep a man she's attracted to. Once a woman gets a man and she feels like she's able to keep him, desire decreases. There's a negative correlation between comfort and desire. A positive correlation between female relationship anxiety and desire. That's why dread game is so important in LTRs. The woman who racked up a high N count chasing Chads but only offers token sex to th… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/17 11:22 PM |
| 6 | [FR] [NSFW] Nothing cures oneitis like watching your former oneitis wipe your cum off her faceI was miserable and tried all the methods that feminism suggests to no avail. You should be angry at modern feminism and those who support and advance the lies promoted by this false ideology, not all women. Women naturally submit to the dominance of a masculine man. Your ex surrendered to you sexually when you exhibited dominance. Feminists demonize the masculine power that women crave. Ignore what the feminists say, understand that female submission is natural and use that power wisely. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/17 04:44 PM |
| 4 | One of my friends has organised a party. My ex is gonna be there with her bf. How do i face them making out etc?What part of "she's not yours, it was just your turn" do you not understand? There are countless other girls ready to swing branches right at this moment. Go get one. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/17 12:41 AM |
| 7 | Semi boners when flirting?Don't worry about your boners. Enjoy them while you are young. In about 20 years you'll worry about why you can't get a boner when flirting with an attractive woman. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/17 10:56 PM |
| 1 | I'm 33. Going on a date with a 21 year old. Is this weird?Half your age + 7 = 23. Close enough. Why do your co-workers need to know who you're banging? | /r/askTRP | 16/02/17 08:53 PM |
| 33 | I don't want to treat women like children but it works too well.I had the benefit of growing up with older sisters. I would observe their conversations with each other and their friends and I swear they were speaking a different language. The words themselves meant nothing. How they said the words; context, pitch, tone, inflection and emphasis, meant everything. Their social conversations were all about conveying emotion, not exchanging information. I always have to remind myself: girls just want to have fun. Keep it light and connect with them emotionally. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/17 03:21 AM |
| 25 | [The System Works] EX came back on Valentines dayIf you trained for revenge, to view her reaction when she saw the new you, she's still your oneitis. She obviously still has power over you. Use your gains to get new pussy and make her irrelevant to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/17 04:45 AM |
| 13 | V-DayVDay is a great relationship litmus test. If you're the prize, the day is about you. If she's the prize, it's about her. Go out of your way to buy some expensive shit for your woman on her special day and you might get some starfish sex? You're probably a BetaChump (me about 10 years ago). Is your woman waiting for you at the door in her sexiest lingerie and treats you to a lobster dinner, bottle of wine and best BJ after you give her some flowers you picked up from a street vendor? You're proba… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/17 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Never Feel Bad About Using Women for SexNah. Sometimes she just wants a high quality sperm injection. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/17 02:47 AM |
| 39 | My Valentine's Day plea for the newbies and lurkers on TRP who are looking for that last minute advice/edge to finally win over your oneitis and make tomorrow a special dayA bag of Skittles with a stick-on bow. The perfect VDay gift for that special girl in your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/17 02:45 AM |
| 46 | 5 Simple, Fun & Cheap Date Ideas + How To Build An Interesting LifeMini golf or a slo pitch batting cage. Lots of kino opportunities when you show her "proper technique". Go-kart racing too. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/17 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Called Off Wedding - Became IrresistibleYes. This is the age where if you stay fit and on top of your game, you continue to get better while most of the competition goes into free fall. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/17 03:24 AM |
| 89 | Never Feel Bad About Using Women for SexIf women didn't like being "used for sex", they wouldn't enthusiastically bang Chads who obviously only want them for sex. "You only use me for sex" is usually nothing more than a shit test and/or negotiating ploy. Plus, if you catch a woman at the right time, like when she's ovulating, she might just use you for sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/17 03:21 AM |
| 10 | Cheating, Pain, and Fear"You’ll always miss 100% of the shots you don’t take." - Wayne Gretzky 100% guaranteed that you'll be betrayed in life by someone you love and trust: friends, lovers, even family. But you'll also meet plenty people who you'll never forget because they make your life better. If you don't approach and engage with people, you'll never experience this. Don't let fear of failure and defeat control your life. I've taken away something positive or learned a valuable lesson from just about every relatio… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/17 03:15 AM |
| 9 | Askmen tell their stories about marriages with women with a promiscuous pastYeah, true. But these are outliers. Both women with dick counts of 100+ and the dumbasses who marry them. Problem is the average woman now has a pre marriage / pre ltr dick count that makes her a high risk partner. Most of today's "good girls" would have been considered damaged goods a generation ago. We need to realize that we're choosing from second hand produce at the discount supermarket, not freshly picked items from the farmers market. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/17 09:09 PM |
| 19 | Askmen tell their stories about marriages with women with a promiscuous pastI'm not a fan of threads like these because they imply that the problem is committing to a promiscuous "bad girl" rather than a "good girl". Many more men have been cucked and divorce raped by "good girls" than "bad girls". AWALT. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/17 06:43 PM |
| 5 | Six Stages of Branch SwingingGuys with abundance branch swing too. Be a renter not a buyer. By the time she gets to stage 3, it's probably time to wind down the rental and start shopping for a replacement. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/17 06:06 PM |
| 35 | How do I chase away other men away when I am talking to a girl?Your so called friends have a scarcity mentality. They probably can't get laid. Don't hang around guys like this in social settings because they are cockblocks. Find yourself a wingman or two to hang with. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/17 03:47 PM |
| 2 | What are the lies that society tell us in regards to dating/sex?The way to get a good woman is to be a good guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/17 04:50 PM |
| 6 | Can a woman be attracted to you, but not respect or admire you as a man?I say no. Admiration and respect are prerequisites for attraction. A woman generally won't bang a guy she doesn't respect. There's a difference between what women say they respect and what actually makes them respect a man. If you ask women what they respect in men, they will invariably cite characteristics of guys they usually won't bang but will put in the friend zone: nice, respectful, caring, giving, etc. If you want to know what they really respect in a man, look at who they bang. Dominance… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/17 04:42 PM |
| 1 | The LTR or not questionI hate the term long term relationship. I prefer month to month rental. Give it a shot, constantly re-evaluate to determine if you're having fun and she's adding value. If yes, extend a month. If not, walk away and let someone else have a turn. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/17 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Plate was on her period. Didn't tell me because she wanted to see me. What's the proper response to this?Bang her in the shower and rinse off afterwards. If you don't like that, I assume she has hands, a mouth and/or an ass? "I'm on my period" is so lame in the 2010s, when women do anal and oral like it's Pilates. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/17 10:18 PM |
| 1 | I get insecure that she will find betterMy advice? Don't audition for a role in a porn vid. Your problem is oneitis, not the size of your dick. Bang another dozen chicks and you'll figure out that most won't care about the size of your cock until you break up with them. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/17 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Struggling... N-CountIs sex with your wife good? If yes, then don't worry about it. Believe me, quality is more important than quantity. It's much better to have great sex 100 times with the same woman than mediocre sex with 100 different women. | /r/askMRP | 31/01/17 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Open Relationship, AKA Voluntary CuckoldryPonytail guy got played, skinny guy got an attractive plate. Moral of the story, be the skinny guy. Also, I love it that the girl is advertising to the world that she's a carousel riding hoe. Hopefully the guy she targets as her future husband will see this. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/17 05:24 PM |
| 5 | Fucked ex fwb last night"A gentleman doesn't kiss and tell". | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 04:07 PM |
| 3 | I'm always feeling jealous from my GF's past experiencesTrust your gut. What you're feeling is your spidey sense tingling about your relationship. Subconsciously, you're probably feeling: I'm about to commit to a girl who's been with a lot of other guys (if she admits to 5 or 6, the real number is probably 2x or 3x that), so how strong will be her commitment to me? She has the pictures on social media of these other guys, so how does she still feel about these guys? Never let anyone shame you about these feelings. They are legit and don't mean that y… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 08:21 PM |
| 5 | You guys are fooling yourselves.You enjoy the relationship as much as you can while it lasts. That's life; eveything comes to an end. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/17 02:19 AM |
| 8 | You guys are fooling yourselves.Relationships have an expiration date. Think of yourself as a renter, not a buyer. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/17 02:03 AM |
| 3 | Can someone walk me through the weekly interactions an orbiter has with a girl?The week involves a variety of activities that don't include her banging or blowing you. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/17 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Women Will Not Appreciate YouAnd I don't appreciate a woman who's not my mother and doesn't pay me, fuck me or cook or clean for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/17 06:14 PM |
| 3 | GF wants me to show "that i care about her" by letting guys flirt with her and then expects me to "man up". I AM FUCKING ANGRY AT HER! AWALT??I AM FUCKING ANGRY AT HER! APALT applies to guys who say shit like this. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/17 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Advice on how to break up with LTR?You're right that settling down at 20 years old isn't a good idea. If you take care of yourself physically and progress financially, you won't reach your SMV peak until your 30s or 40s. Settling down now is selling yourself short. Say the truth to your girl, that you don't want to be exclusive right now. She's been good to you, so be respectful. Tell her that she's great and that you do care for her but you aren't ready to settle down yet. I'm in my 30s and went through the same thing a couple o… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/17 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Why am I not able to handle the things my ex girlfriend told me while breaking up? How can I resolve this ?Because you actually care about the stupid shit females say. Take a few weeks to read the sidebar and some of the better posts on TRP and you'll be cured of this affliction. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/17 01:35 PM |
| 4 | GF wants me to show "that i care about her" by letting guys flirt with her and then expects me to "man up". I AM FUCKING ANGRY AT HER! AWALT??Yes. AWALT and APALT. She's questioning your manhood because you're acting like a pussy, evidenced by the fact you used time that you could have been lifting or meditating to post a wall of text about a dramatic bitch. Drop her and get your shit together | /r/askTRP | 24/01/17 01:32 PM |
| 2 | "Girl texted me after 5 months." - UPDATEIf she comes over, you escalate and end up balls deep in her then she's DTF. It's that simple. Don't overthink it. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/17 01:15 PM |
| 6 | Coming to Terms with the Slutty Nature of WomenRepeat after me: "she's not yours, it's just your turn." Think of yourself as a renter, not a buyer, and you'll be fine. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/17 07:05 PM |
| 7 | Awkward women want to fuck youFind those dumb assumptions and replace them. Great line. One dumb assumption is that women aren't as sexual as men. They are and most minimally attractive women are banging someone and most of the ones who aren't want to. Is it irrational confidence to believe if they're banging someone it might as well be you? Another dumb assumption is that modern, "sex positive" women are more overt about signalling sexual desire. Some are, but most women still prefer for men to make the first move and will … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/17 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Awkward women want to fuck youYou won't have good evidence until you approach and escalate. That's what OP is saying. Words, facial expressions and body language don't always reflect desire. Based on her physical response, is she receptive to your advances? That's the only reliable evidence of whether or not she wants you. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/17 04:05 PM |
| 8 | Girl is asking if we fucked after a drunk night.Don't respond until you talk to an attorney. You could be facing a rape charge or Title IX charge, especially if she's trying to save face with her boyfriend, and your response could be used as evidence against you. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/17 06:12 PM |
| 21 | "You don't treat me as a priority"She's right. She's not your priority now. Nor should she be. Ever. Your mission always comes first. An LTR worthy woman will support you and your mission. Rather than bitching about your busy schedule, she should be at your place cooking, cleaning and giving you back rubs and BJs when you take study and writing breaks. Tell her this. If she doesn't enthusiastically agree, she's not worth your commitment. You're better off pursuing your dream alone because she will drag you down. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/17 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Plate flirting with my friendsNot the kind of guys who make good wing men. Find a friend who has your back. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/17 02:14 AM |
| 4 | Be careful of being too Alpha, Comfort Tests are far more lethal than Shit-TestsWomen love to compete for high value men but are miserable when they lose. One of the keys to a successful LTR is to subtly remind her that she always has to compete for your commitment (dread game) while assuring her that she's leading in the competition. Notice that I said "leading", because if she thinks she won she'll start looking for someone else to compete for. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/17 02:03 AM |
| 5 | Get another one"Greed is good." Gordon Gekko. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/17 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Girl on OkCupid subreddit feels guilty because Nerdy Ned constantly showers her with affection/gifts while Cocky Chad barely responds to her texts - and guess who her vagina is tingling for."When a man does exactly what a woman expects him to do she doesn't think much of him. One should always do what a woman doesn't expect, just as one should say what she doesn't understand." Oscar Wilde | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/17 09:08 PM |
| 3 | FR: Calling a woman’s bluff can be better than sexYour body, your choice, but if you really were trying to bang her this would be a great field report on how not to handle basic LMR. Now you have to be concerned about how she'll treat you after rejecting her. Normally not something to be concerned about, except that you do business with her employer. If she badmouths you does that mean you could lose business? My takeaway from this ... don't shit where you eat. No pussy is worth losing your livelihood. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/17 05:41 PM |
| 1 | How do I go on dates if I'm broke?I've never dated a 9 before and I got no money to take her out to decent places If she's really a 9, she has plenty of guys who are willing to take her to nice restaurants, buy her jewelry and provide other betabux services. Be the guy who provides her with some alpha dick. She'll appreciate you and it doesn't cost a thing. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/16 05:20 PM |
| 5 | Why the FUCK do you ask for advice if you don't want it?Because they need to be fully deprogrammed. The cult of pussy is a motherfucker. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/16 11:02 PM |
| 1 | My GF visited her ex's house. How should I handle this?You have a right to be concerned. She's putting herself in a position where she could end up cheating. Tell her that if she does this you can't trust her to hold up her end of the deal and it tells you that she isn't serious about having a committed relationship. Be prepared to walk away if she keeps doing this. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 05:01 PM |
| 3 | I've been cheating, and she found out. LTR of 5 years. Her grandma also passed away the same day.Dead bedroom for several months ... sure she wasn't cheating on you or was about to? She may be breathing a sigh of relief that you gave her a reason to move on without being the villain. Be a decent guy and show compassion while she's mourning but make plans to move on. Your relationship is over | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 04:47 PM |
| 14 | If a woman you flirt with looks at your lips when you talk, does she wanna kiss?Maybe you need some Chapstick. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 04:34 PM |
| 5 | Breakups and the Buddhist Concept of ImpermanenceMy guess is he's going through some shit and posting is therapy. All good ...that's why we're here. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/16 06:29 PM |
| 3 | LTR was almost "attacked" at a party, how would you guys proceed?Yep. The only reason she probably told OP is because someone at the party saw his girl with the other dude and she was scared that he would find out. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/16 01:02 AM |
| 3 | Taking joy in the fact that she will hit the wall: a note on bitternessTrue. Women are wired to seek commitment from alphas, not betas. Most carousel riders have to "settle" when they get married and they know it and ultimately resent their husbands for it. They don't feel "alive" (I lost count of how many times I've heard that phrase) because hubby doesn't give them tingles. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Found girlfriend on TinderYou should find her on Tinder, swipe right then ghost her, never to be seen or heard from again. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/16 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Women like possessive men?Women like dominant men to possess them. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/16 03:35 PM |
| 4 | Gf has guy friend who crossed boundariesShe wants to arrange a meet because she thinks we would get along and I'll know he's not a threat as he's like that with everyone. Hate to break the news to you, but your girl isn't arranging this meet to look out for you. She probably wants to set up a side by side comparison between you and her "friend" to confirm her feelings for this guy or even set up a confrontation that will build up her ego You have way more tolerance for drama than me. This chick is throwing up more red flags than an NF… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/16 07:00 PM |
| 12 | Gf has guy friend who crossed boundariesSounds like your girlfriend likes to play games, loves validation from high value guys and isn't too serious about being exclusive. Why would she try to arrange a meet between her current man and another guy who's trying to get in her pants. Who does that shit? A female who's addicted to drama and validation, that's who. Next this chick. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/16 05:43 PM |
| 10 | Lost girlfriend to hotter/bigger guy.Son, ya got thundercocked. Happens to the best of us. I've been around the block a few times and one thing I've learned is that when a woman says your penis is underwhelming she's usually really talking about your frame. I had a woman go from telling me that I had the biggest dick she's ever seen to saying that I had a teenie weenie that couldn't satisfy her. I measured and I know it wasn't the latter. She couldn't even keep her damn story straight. What was the difference? When she was into me,… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/16 09:29 PM |
| 29 | Nothing but SMV matters if you want to get laid with young womenCriminal record For a large segment of the female population, a criminal record will boost your SMV by at least a couple of points. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/16 04:40 PM |
| 9 | FR: Closed a woman from Tinder but she's begging for a relationshipNext her. Her desperation is a major red flag. You obviously made a great first impression, but a high quality woman would never beg for a relationship from a guy she just met. The exception may be a virgin who gets attached to her first lover, but you won't find too many virgins hooking up on Tinder. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/16 06:37 PM |
| 6 | How do I stop getting so pissed when I find out an "innocent girl" is actually quite promiscuous?Remember this equation, high partner count = low relationship value, when you hear women ask "where have all the good men gone" when they wonder why they can't find a high quality man to commit to them. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/16 06:05 PM |
| 5 | When an attractive woman wants me, I feel like the king of the world and that there are no worries in life. I want to feel this while alone.The less you want women to want you, the more they'll want you. You're probably projecting neediness, which repels women. Women are attracted to men who don't need them. You need to learn how to derive satisfaction and self esteem from your personal accomplishments and not from the approval of women. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/16 03:30 PM |
| 12 | Realizing that nobody gives a shit about you should be the most liberating thing you think.Fuck happiness. It's way overrated. Let women spend their lives chasing their tails seeking "happiness". Self satisfaction is what men should seek, the feeling that comes from accomplishing measurable, tangible things ... improving your physique, earning a degree, building a business, rebuilding a car, seducing an HB, winning a championship, becoming a millionaire, etc. "Happiness" is so subjective, impossible to define. Accomplishment is not. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/16 01:50 PM |
| 38 | Mini FR: Forgot Her Birthday2/3 dread + 1/3 comfort seems to work. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/16 06:23 PM |
| 149 | Mini FR: Forgot Her BirthdayI did not know what to text back so I just did not respond Well done. When in doubt, say nothing. This applies to women and cops. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/16 02:02 PM |
| 1 | The ideal Red Pill lifestyle includes a long term relationship.I agree that LTRs can be great if done right. I also like most of your relationship tips. Disagree with this though: Do not ask for or promise sexual exclusivity Bad idea because (1) you should never offer any kind of commitment without the explicit promise of sexual exclusivity and (2) a relationship like this is based on a covert contract. Women need firm boundaries otherwise they'll take advantage of the situation. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/16 01:58 PM |
| 7 | i cant' get laid can't find a girl to date anywhere? ): ( im a 20 year old male)This. One of the great ironies of life that I stumbled upon as a young man is that your success with women will improve when you stop giving a fuck about them and start focusing on yourself. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/16 03:26 AM |
| 1 | BP friend/roommate has been talking shit to my LTR behind my back. What is the appropriate response?The appropriate response is to not call this sperg your friend. Why are you still rooming with this guy? Do you like getting cockblocked? | /r/askTRP | 13/12/16 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Why do GFs tell their BFs to stop being friends with other girls?Because they know that girls want to bang attractive guys. Remember that when you get a GF who wants to have male friends. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/16 05:48 AM |
| 10 | girl saying other dudes are hot in front of me"Yeah, he is hot. I'd do him." If I were you, if she keeps it up I'd strongly consider getting another girl. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/16 05:45 AM |
| 6 | Fetlife and Facebook -- How Women Can Hamster Between WebsitesCongratulations. You've discovered the dual nature of the modern Western woman. Public persona = strong, independent woman who wants a modern, sensitive 21st century nu-male. True nature = submissive female who craves domination by a stud. Since you've cracked the code, rather than complain about their hypocrisy, go out and give these chicks what they crave. Someone has to do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/16 11:38 PM |
| 102 | What does the friend zone mean to a woman?Women "friend zone" men for the same reason men bang sluts: great returns for little to no investment. Women get validation, attention, gifts and an emotional tampon without having to put out. Guys get laid without having to commit. You can have female acquaintances without being "friend zoned". The rule of thumb for me is there has to be an exchange of value where I'm getting something back (social and professional connections, social proof, preselection, etc.) for my investment in the relation… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/16 11:26 PM |
| 20 | Professor and PhD in women's studies: "I think about you constantly when my boyfriend is fucking me."The boyfriend chose her of his own free will. "Free will" implies that the new BF had full knowledge of his new GF's history and alpha widow status. I'm sure she fully informed him of this when they agreed to the relationship. "Hun, I love you, so I have to tell you something about my past. I was previously used as a fucktoy by a black stud and everytime we make love I can't stop thinking of him ramming me in the ass with his 8" cock." What the boyfriend did was more like buying a used car witho… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/16 11:09 PM |
| 3 | You should ghost the woman who has cheated on youIf she cheated on you, it's not your turn with her anymore. Move on. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/16 08:05 PM |
| 10 | Fucked girl that a friend was trying to get withHopefully he understands that bros come before hos. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/16 08:04 PM |
| 15 | My girlfriend has A-cups and Its honestly depressing me. Is there anyway to make them bigger naturally?If you're a boob guy, why did you make a chick with mosquito bites your girlfriend? | /r/askTRP | 09/12/16 11:04 PM |
| 45 | Are you her safe bet?Some women are secretive and conniving beings. Some women?! Ha. You have some serious sidebar reading to do ----> In the relationship game, the average guy plays checkers while the average girl is playing three dimensional chess. Now that you are aware of this, don't get your ass checkmated. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/16 08:13 PM |
| 15 | The Burden of FamilyHats off to men who have been able to maintain a stable marriage and successfully raise a family. The reality though is these men are the exception that proves the rule. The fact that it takes a man at the top of his game to pull this off proves that the game is rigged against the average man. A couple of generations ago, the family alpha was the norm. Now he's a unicorn. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/16 06:40 PM |
| 2 | How to get out of the depression phaseIf you're in depression phase, it probably means that you're still putting women on a pedestal, expecting more than they can actually deliver. You're depressed that they can't live up to the ideal that you established in your BP days. It's kind of like when you create enormous expectations for something else in your life, let's say dinner at a really nice restaurant with great reviews. Even if the dinner was great, if it didn't meet your lofty expectations you might walk away dissatisfied. You h… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/16 06:27 PM |
| 37 | imthinking of running away at 20 year olds. should i?No such thing as "running away" when you're over 18. When you're an adult it's called getting your own place. Maybe that's why you're not getting respect at home. Grow up and man up. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/16 12:17 PM |
| 3 | To All The Guys Recently DESTROYED By A WomanBeing "destroyed" is having your bank account drained by legal fees and losing your good reputation and career and nearly losing your freedom because of a false rape charge. Happened to one of my best friends. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/16 02:12 PM |
| 17 | Post-wall woman stops dating because of TrumpBye Stephanie. Making the SMP great again. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/16 02:28 AM |
| 16 | The 300lb invisible man.I don’t know the science, and I hadn’t been lifting but maybe running around with 300lb builds a lot of muscle. You were on a 10+ year bulk. Congrats on your success cutting down to the new you. I'm curious, how many times did your wife say "you look fine just the way you are" during your transformation? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/16 04:26 PM |
| 1 | "Just let her win arguments and everyone will be happy. The guy will never be right." Is this feminism? I see married men saying this all the timeIt's impossible for a man to win an argument against a woman because we have a need to make sense. A woman starting an argument with a man is usually a shit test, an attempt by a woman to bring a man into her emotional frame. The best response is to ignore, redirect or belittle her attempt to argue with you. So men who say "just let let her win arguments ... the man will never be right" are half correct. True, the man will never be right but they are fools to argue with a woman in the first plac… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/16 04:16 PM |
| 32 | Californian Kathy Murray saved her marriage by giving up trying to control her husband. Despite considering herself a feminist, she follows the approach of a controversial book called The Surrendered Wife, which tells women to stop nagging their partners and start treating them with more respect.After viewing her picture, I threw up a little in my mouth when I read this. I've now found subtle ways of getting my husband in the mood for sex, which is far more effective than the days of begging, crying or yelling about wanting it. Conventional wisdom on this sub is women can get laid if they just show up. I think we found an exception. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/16 01:57 AM |
| 12 | Californian Kathy Murray saved her marriage by giving up trying to control her husband. Despite considering herself a feminist, she follows the approach of a controversial book called The Surrendered Wife, which tells women to stop nagging their partners and start treating them with more respect.This is an interesting read, because once you sift through the woman's hamstering you can see this is for what is really is: a classic example of a 21st century man who's been beaten down by life. The combination of being married to a cranky hambeast, tolerating a house full of unruly kids and suffering through the tedium of a dead end, low paying job sent this poor fella into full retreat: My husband often resorted to watching TV and snuggling with our pets as I'd rage at him over ignoring my n… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/16 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Tempted to next my LTR because of her pastGood job getting her to open up about her past. Now ask yourself this question. If she got off on allowing multiple guys to use her as a fucktoy in the past, what are the odds that she'll be satisfied with one cock for the rest of her life? If you are considering a long-term, perhaps lifetime relationship with kids with her, you have good reason to be concerned by her past. If you just want to have some fun with her, enjoy it, it's now your turn. Don't let oneitis cloud your judgement. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/16 05:41 PM |
| 3 | What's the basis for saying womanizers are insecure people?What's the basis for saying womanizers are insecure people? I think the proper term is "playa hating". | /r/askTRP | 04/12/16 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Does Sh!!t testing ever stop?Yeah, when you become a monk or die. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/16 03:21 PM |
| 5 | 'Perfect guy but not right now' Thoughts?Yep. And five years from now she'll be heard saying "where have all the good men gone." Let her go and enjoy her ride on the carousel. You go be awesome and enjoy ignoring her when she tries to weasel her way back into your life after getting used up. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/16 02:54 PM |
| 3 | When does funny become friend zone?If you are being spontaneously and genuinely funny in the natural flow of a conversation or interaction, no problem. If you are performing comedy routines for women to impress them, big problem. They will sense that you are trying too hard to impress them and dry up as a result. I think this is how you can tell the difference. If the thought enters your mind, "I will do [insert action] to impress her", then don't do it. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Why is it bad to ask a woman for relationship advice?Because women live in a perpetual state of cognitive dissonance where they say one thing and do another. They say they want nice guys but bang jerks. They saw they want a man to open up to them emotionally but gravitate to stoic guys. Women feel and react, men think and act. Not a good idea to ask people for advice who can't tell you why they do the things they do. One caveat: I did experience some success in the past when I asked a female friend for relationship advice and did the exact opposit… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/16 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Outta GasThe day you stop giving a fuck about women is when you will start having success with them. Your problem is that everything you do seems to be aimed towards attracting women and not reaching your full potential as a man. IMO you should take a step back, go monk mode for a while to focus on yourself and figure out what your mission in life is. Then go to work on accomplishing that mission. Also realize that when you live your life as an actualized, free, single man, most of your buddies in long t… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/16 03:57 PM |
| 10 | STBXw wants me to furnish her new place when (if) she moves out. After I have been paying for everything for 6 years.Looks like you and your parents paid $30K+ for a degree from Cuck U. Use that knowledge wisely and don't make the same fucking mistake again. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/16 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Methods of determining if an LTR is a cheaterWhen I first started dating her, I screened her and determined she has a high probability of not being a cheater. She said so herself when asked ... Exactly what screening method did you use to determine this? The NAWALT algorithm? Let me know so I can license it, build into an app and get rich. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/16 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Wife got my name tattooed on her back...She creepily proclaimed everyone will know who's girl she is. Yeah, this is some weird shit. If she's your wife, why would anyone else see her back? Ever see the film Misery? Watch your six and plan some escape routes ... just sayin. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/16 12:54 AM |
| 3 | RedPill at workBig difference between handling shit tests in your personal life and business. Great job maintaining frame, but next time have some data to counter a statement like this: "well you certainly haven't been to see me for the past months and I have no idea on how the service we bought was going." A good response would include information that shows that you are meeting or exceeding agreed upon service levels for the client. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/16 05:02 PM |
| 5 | New girlfriend texting her ex-boyfriend but says she's willing to cut him off. Do I verify?Yeah, there's some resentment in the subtext of her response. She's not ready for a committed relationship. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/16 02:00 PM |
| 3 | How to keep a girl when your dick is small?Don't focus on what you can't change. If you have a small dick, then make sure you have top notch technique. It's not the size of the ship, it's the motion of the ocean that counts. Plus women are notoriously bad at estimating dick size. The main thing you need to do is stop obssessing about pleasing a woman to keep her. That's BP thinking. Be high value and dominant and women will get off on pleasing you. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/16 12:39 PM |
| 3 | If AWALT, then why hide the fact that one is rich?Because when she marks you as a provider type, she'll start auditioning to be your GF or sugar baby and she'll kick into full ASD mode. Women know full well that guys don't like to wife up sluts. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/16 04:59 PM |
| 8 | Trp view on the whole "her past is fucking with me" issue in LTRs??I've been there before. Her past is probably fucking with you because you're concerned that you're getting a bad deal. You gave her your commitment for pussy that she gave away to other dudes for nothing. How do you get over this? Expect and demand a lot from your girl. Frequent and kinky sex, great companionship, hot meals, massages, etc., whatever you want from a relationship. If she treats you like a king, then why worry about her past. If she doesn't, then you are getting a shitty deal. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/16 04:49 PM |
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