Understanding the metaphysical differences between men and women on a biological and psychological level is the integral part of defining the differences in social behavior of men and women, and more importantly, understanding them to my advantage. If you don’t have a basic understanding of what fitness or sexual selection is on a biological level, or of evolution itself, then you should go and read up on that before you continue reading this sub at all. Note: “fitness” is defined as an organisms ability to produce fertile offspring.

This post may not provide you with any method that will help you in the field, but I believe this sub is about more than that.

I personally have heard the rhetoric many times: “A slut is a woman with the sexual morals of a man”.

This may on face value, read simply and true. A light bulb moment for many sluts-to-be, and food for the hamster.

I’ve seen an all too common answer to the paradoxical question “What makes a sexually successful man a stud and a sexually ‘successful’ woman a slut?” and it has an answer which seems to be an epiphany for many young men and the object of undeserved upvotes on this very sub:

“A key that opens many locks is a master-key, but a lock opened by many keys is just a shitty lock.”

Queue gasps and wide-eyed wonderment.

This answer is, in reality, as insightful as the question itself. However it should lead the thinking man to another question:

Why are men keys and women locks?

To answer this we must delve into the biological difference between men and women. If you’re here, you should already have an understanding that women are more selective than men about their partners. Sex isn’t just an act performed for pleasure. It serves an evolved and deliberate purpose to spread your DNA into the gene pool with that of another human being, and we have evolved certain behavioral traits to reflect the environment humans have lived in for millions of years. When a man ejaculates, he releases anywhere between 100-400 million sperm. For women, they produce one ovum a month. This tremendous supply/demand ratio is a biological truth which influences the psychology of the sexual market place.

If Joe goes out one night and, to his surprise being the Average man that he is, pulls a woman. Let’s hypothesise that Chad is having a particularly good week and manages to pull a woman every night. By doing so, he has increased his fitness over Joe’s sevenfold. He is 7 times more likely to spread his seed into the future generation. It is logical to conclude that males who exhibit this behavior are far more likely to father sons in the next generation. This attitude to sexual strategy is passed on.

Furthermore, if a woman sleeps with a different man every night for a week, has she increased her fitness the way Chad has? Does this strategy lend itself to greater fitness?

A woman can only produce one child every 9 months or so, however a man is limitless in his ability to spread his genes. This lends itself to women being more selective and less promiscuous than men in the sexual selection process.

If Chad chooses to bang 6s as well as 10s, he loses nothing from courting the beautiful woman who will contribute to his future children in the gene pool. If a woman chooses to take a low value man as well as a high-value man in the same period of time, she is RISKING the chance of being fertilized by a lower-value man. She cannot spread her DNA with both of these partners the way a man can. Thus she is SELECTIVE of who she sleeps with. She must guard herself from low value men. A man has no need for this as he can inseminate a lower value woman and a more attractive one at the same time.

This biological truth should help you comprehend why, contrary to anything that feminism tells you, there is a gender-based dynamic in the social world. Women do not want to approach men; they do not need to. We have evolved through environments which dictate that men have abundant sex to give and will approach women. Men are defined to be aggressive sexually and will always be the pursuers. Women merely have the job of choosing the best one and then seeing if a better one will come along.

Chad Thundercock doesn’t just have different morals to Average Joe, in order to succeed he must be a high-value man who many women will select over the dozens of other men trying to impress them. All a woman has to do to get sex every night for a week is say yes. Women will only have sex with the highest-value men on offer. Period.

This is why a “stud” is just that. Attractive, sociable, successful, and wanted by many women. A slut is just a woman who opens her legs.