Summary: Where I throw some guide lines to help you absorb TRP faster.

Body: When I discovered TRP I was in a sad state, 1,80 m, 97 kilos, LTR was shitty and I was pretty much hated by most people in my workplace and my family. Now picture someone in that state discovering TRP at 31, in pure anger phase I had 3 options:

  • Becoming a serial killer
  • Suicide
  • Curl up and live in my mom's/dad's basement for the rest of my life, afraid of the cruel world.

But, a fellow veteran presented a thread saying something like " Abandon yourself ", I didn't understand at first, 'Abandon myself? The f* this person is saying? If I abandon myself I am nobody ', after that I felt like stumping at something VERY IMPORTANT for my life, but anger phase would not let me see through it, well, you got my curiosity TRP veteran, lets read it.

While reading I could feel my brain explode at each line, letting go of your pride, admitting that you "know absolutely nothing Jon Snow" and other things, it was so clear, how could I be so blind? Than it hit me, I was very afraid of doing it because it meant I would start from scratch, starting from age 31, I had to be born again.

This is the answer for most subs here, stuck on the anger phase or something, you have to kill your self or admitting that you fucked up most parts ( or you wouldn't be here for a start ) and have to humble yourself by saying loud and clear I was wrong so that TRP knowledge can flow more freely inside yourself, this won't make the anger phase go away but at least diminish it so you can have a free mind to practice and live trp outside better and get more results, but this process isn't so easy.

For starters you have to understand that killing your self is very hard to begin, are you a conservative? Start reading liberal/left stuff, know how to raise cattle? Start learning how to program or make things on the computer, everything that you think you hate, you would be surprised by how many stuff you thought you hated but it is pretty cool actually, for me it was taking down an angry goat at a farm and killing it with the least pain possible for christmas, and I am a city boy who graduated at administration. It was... Liberating, after a long time I felt like actually doing something useful.

But, you probably noticed the catch, it is a really slow process, you can't just "TRANSFORM" and done, but I realized that taking it slow helps you absorb core concepts of TRP and live it. I started lifting and after 1 year I am at 73 kg, learned 50% italian, 30% french and 15% german at duolingo, started educating myself financially, learning how to start a business, reading about social engineering, all while learning more TRP. Could I have done all that in 4-6 months? Of course, but I wouldn't imprint it in my body and mindset, which is vital for a good life.

Nowadays most people at my work respect me and my boss let me procrastinate ( which I use for duolingo/books, btw, get a tablet if you can at work, they can help so much on your free time ), my family looks me with other eyes, my LTR cooks and brings beer for me and I get IOIs from people that wouldn't bat me an eye. All of this by becoming a blank slate, where all knowledge, yes, even about 3rd wave feminism, will be absorved and used in your benefit.

So here it is gentlemen, kill your self, and remember no one is here to mock you, TRP is a harsh place but most people are here to point you the TRP way and they won't spare the rod if it means that the rod will help you improve.

TL;DR: Leave your own ego at the door before entering TRP, it will help you in so many ways that you don't even imagine.