1. Scan the room to assure if and when she does see you, she knows you're looking, but still have lots of options. And proceed to sit at a table with the guys, find a good place to stand, or whatever is fitting for the situation. You know that you should
  2. Not leave your guys yet. You're 2 minutes in! What are you desperate? NO. You can do this. Order a couple of shots, chill with your guys, all whilst carefully displaying subtle traits of an alpha male like
  3. "Playfully" pushing them around, while demonstrating that they know not to push back.
  4. Laughing, but not over the top.
  5. BEING YOURSELF. NOT TRYING TO GIVE OFF THE ILLUSION YOU'RE SOMEONE YOU'RE NOT.

And things are looking pretty good. TRP has taught you well, you've seen her glance in your direction a couple of times - all while speaking with your guys. You know not to make pre-disposed eye contact. It's time to strike.

You now must choose, do you motion your group over, slowly but surely, or do you wander over yourself. No matter the method - you get there, on your OWN time. Moment of truth. You look at her. Dang. You've never gotten this far. Where do you look? And for how long??!?

Here's what you do.

As you approach her, you look directly at her eyes. She will see that you are looking DIRECTLY at her, and are not afraid to be rejected. YOU. MEAN. BUISNESS. She sees you, you introduce yourself and use whatever witty comment you thought up on the way there to discover her name. And AS she is telling you her name, you look her up and down - meeting back directly at her eyes. Listen to the name, but show it no significance - you're here to play the game.

How long is a good duration to hold eye contact? She will be the one to look away. YOU are the alpha male. If you look away first you're showing fear. And you're not afraid - right!?

So now your night can continue and you can resume your knowledge of TRP to bring you within grasp of the prize. Each and every time you remember to keep the eye contact. WITHOUT looking away. You know what you want - and soon she will too. You're not ready to back down.

The final and otherwise important piece here is body language. You orient yourself so that she turns to see YOU. You must demonstrate that you can simply find another one. But you must watch her aswell. Watch for any signs of contempt. As you keep your eye contact, take note of the slight pull of either side of her mouth - a direct sign of contempt. You must remember that you can't win them all. Stop while you're ahead.

Happy hunting.