Long Term Goals

RACCBL · 2017-02-20T02:22:00+00:00

One thing that I also hope to realize in this process is that I want to truly have a connection with a girl, fall in love, and settle down. I know most of you don't beliveve in this "fairy tale"

Well, here's the problem: that's a bluepill way of thinking. Having oneitis for a girl (or falling in love, in your words) is something that dissapear with TRP mentality. Once you know that AWALT, the different way that women and men love and others RP concepts, you don't let yourself go to that place. Fall in love is no more an option for your mind.

You're in denial. You either never had a truly bad break up or never swallowed TRP. And I know it hurts to think that the world is not the one sold for you when you were a kid. I wish that the kind of love and happiness from a Disney movie was real. I thought I had it a couple of times. It hurts, but you have to face it and come to terms with this idea. The sooner you understand this the more you're preveting youself from getting hurt really hard, hurt in a way that you're left with scars that stays with you forever.

Maybe your unicorn exists and she is out there. But you can't tell if a woman is good or bad for you. You fall in love with the chase, with a cute smile, with her body, with the way that she talks to you. So chances are that the woman you'll settle down with will fuck you up, just because your stupid oneitis brain won't let you see the red flags.

max_peenor · 2017-02-20T06:45:09+00:00

everyone is on here for developing the skills to ultimately get revenge for that girl that messed you up

Not me. I'm here because what I read here explains everything I have experieced over my life. My experience says that you are either trolling or you are in for a world of shit.

Bambam22bam · 2017-02-20T14:25:38+00:00

I don't think many people are here to get revenge on some woman from their past. Maybe that is what brings them here, but that is the definition of oneitis. Anyone who thoroughly reads the sidebar knows that self improvement and centering your life around your own progress and happiness is what long-term goals are about. The pussy is just a by product of how one lives.

RedShock1 · 2017-02-20T16:21:06+00:00

I think everyone is looking for the one that is perfect in their mind. However no one is perfect except the ones in Disney movies. That's why Disney movies are inherently flawed. Just live with what you got and be happy with anything extra.

Harkian · 2017-02-21T10:36:23+00:00

I made a similar thread like this before and I know what you mean.

An ideal woman (like you said) is someone you want to fall in love and settle down with. This is known as a unicorn. But frankly, I doubt they exist. Though I'm open to the possibility of them existing because you have to make sure that your unicorn isn't ruined by our fucked up dating culture.

Women are grouped into a spectrum. A spectrum that measures how fucked up women can be. TRP teaches you how to adapt to women who are high in the spectrum.

An example of women who are high in the spectrum are women who are cruel. Women who cheat with no remorse. Women who claim they want to settle down with a "nice guy" with beta traits but then fucks Chad within the first hour of meeting him. You want to stay away from this type of woman.

You are the product of your environment. So you have to make sure that your unicorn isn't exposed to an environment where the traits mentioned above are normalised or else she will be high in the spectrum, which is very bad.

Your unicorn has to be low in the spectrum. An example would be women who aren't experienced with sex. Virgins. Women who aren't exposed to an environment that turns them into cruel creatures.

Long term goals are great. However, they are difficult to achieve because unicorns (women who are low in the spectrum) are rare and like I said, I doubt they exist.

Title	Long Term Goals
Author	lindsaylohansclit
Upvotes	5
Comments	5
Date	February 20, 2017 1:26 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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