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Thanks for what it's worth I've been rejected / turned down / laughed at etc... a majority of times (more than 90%) but there are also a lot of instances where I banged complete strangers or girls from class (in my college days) or tinder in very short periods of time. It has to be the right girl at the right time though and, honestly, i feel like the sooner you go for it the better.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 07:56 PM
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I don't know man. I don't think anyone here is saying it happens "all the time." Part of TRP philosophy is about shooting your shot pretty much all the time. Look good. Develop game and frame. Then shoot your shots. I don't think every woman is doing this. I don't even think 10% are. The point is to shoot your shots, IMO. Also this works to filter for women who just want D. That's what I'd want to find anyways, so you're going to have to ask a lot to find the ones who are down. The idea that peo…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 05:24 PM
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Women do this all the time if you demonstrate high enough value / are hot enough. How is it any different than a one night stand pick up from the bar? Women want to fuck ALL. THE. TIME.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 02:34 PM
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You're essentially drawing another line in the sand, a year later. You need to be ready to walk away completely in my opinion, as she has already crossed the line. I doubt she takes this one as serious as the last, since she is not suffering any consequences from the previous transgressions. "Laying down the law" is not a consequence to women. It's drama and it's an emotional reaction she is sparking in you (i.e., it is exactly what she was looking for in the first place).
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 01:53 PM
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It reinforces the goal of increasing your SMV but should also underline and reinforce the advice of not committing to women. Be the guy she fucks to see if her LTR stacks up, don't be the LTR she steps out on.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 01:25 PM
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Totally. This is the real reason why feminists want it to be the rule that all rape claims are to be believed, no questions asked. It's an incredibly powerful tool to be used to further the feminine imperative and consolidate on the AF/BB strategy. This is damn near the nuclear option in terms of AF/BB manipulation.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 08:29 PM
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You seem to be the master of ceremonies dude. Enjoy your weekend. Happy father's day.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 08:15 PM
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This is a trash post. It got rightfully removed.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 07:18 PM
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This is a place to talk sexual strategy, not learn how to be a good dad or campfire guitarist. You aren't in the right place. Bye.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 05:53 PM
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I agree but there are kids and a custody battle involved. Proving she was lying about being raped and instead got gang banged could help in him getting the kids. That would make her look pretty unfit, leaving the kids with the baby sitter until 5 am while she was getting trained and then saying it was rape to cover it up...
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 09:52 PM
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Meh. They live in a small town as he said. It's probably better for his reputation that he can prove something. Other wise she wins the news and he's a piece of shit for leaving a rape victim.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 08:52 PM
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While this is shockingly absurd (he's a cuck), I think the real TRP gold is in the comments. Specifically, please notice the sisterhood jumping in to protect one of their own, with the various levels of justification and plausible deniability littered throughout the comment section. Saying that rape victims tend to respond in different ways to the act... OK. IF a rape like this DID, in fact, happen.... That's a SERIOUSLY VIOLENT FUCKING CRIME. Two dudes pounding an incoherent woman for hours in …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 08:30 PM
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PI for the divorce. Also, let her go to the starbuck's and play dumb. Get the PI to be there with a hidden Microphone waiting.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 08:24 PM
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You'll grow out of this feeling of resistance. Women have always been this way, since our species started walking upright. Nothing changes. It's not that I am a nihilist loser faggot (that word is not a good intellectual choice). It's that I'm smart enough to realize that this is the way it's supposed to be; the way it's always been. Any other kind of forces used to eliminate women's true nature were futile and bound to fail. Better to put your efforts elsewhere and treat them like fuck toys. Tr…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 05:48 PM
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So like, PJs make me a pussy? I'm so beta. Ugh! wtf am i doing with my life?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 11:20 PM
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The fuck is wrong with pajamas? You sick fuck!
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 07:59 PM
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That's whack, but one of my best friends go suckered into a marriage like this. Bitch doesn't even work, but treats him outwardly like a cuck (calls him "slow" and an "idiot" in front of ANYONE) My friend is an idiot. Beardo is an idiot. They both deserve the cuck pudding they're destined to eat.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 06:16 PM
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Oh the irony that they would become the most trappable.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 04:20 PM
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I think it's really the feminine imperative that has retrained women into consuming men, much like the YSL shoes or CC handbags. It's hard to see a difference, as this woman was obviously programmed through main stream media / feminine primacy social orders to view the men in her life the same was she views her other consumption choices. It's a chore to walk a mile in her Christian Louboutins, so she made the "reasonable" choice and got some comfortable flats to walk in. Except we're not talking…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 01:47 PM
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She's bitter about it too. LOL
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 01:07 PM
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Yeah man all women are going to lie about that. It's in their nature to deceive sexually, whether it's lying about their past exploits and N counts, or tricking people into pregnancy or cheating and using sex in a relationship to manipulate behaviors. You can't control it, so just live your life. The biggest part of TRP that does not get discussed enough is the peaceful acceptance of it all. That means in this case, instead of calling her "slut" you just laugh / shrug it off. WOMEN! haha. But in…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 01:06 PM
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It means she wants a beta male to pay for her, but all she can get is a pump and dump. She rode the cock carousel until father time closed the amusement park, and now she has nobody willing to drive her back home. Her bargaining power is diminished, and she just feels entitled to a beta male's commitment and money.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 07:31 PM
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Totally true. Lost me there as well.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 07:26 PM
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Your plates are fucking other guys whether they tell you or not and whether you like it or not. It's probably best that you get over that part of the deal. You seem butthurt. Whether you are or not doesn't matter, because that's how it looks. The correct reaction is no reaction, not to be confrontational. By doing that you blow your frame. What I mean by that is that you should have options and what she is doing should not matter at all. If she isn't interested in coming over to fuck you, that's…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 07:20 PM
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I've had my dick grabbed twice by women I was showing no interest in. I found it offensive and I was pissed.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 05:30 PM
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Have you banged her before?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 05:21 PM
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Don't have an LTR if you're going to be constantly traveling from city to city. You'll eventually have regular routes as a pilot, which means you have an opportunity to have multiple plates in multiple cities. Why the hell would you want an LTR with all that potential?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 05:20 PM
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It's not comparable. Anyone who tells you different is selling you shit. Squats. Deadlifts. Pull ups. Bench Press. Shoulder press. These 5 movements with heavy weight are the foundation to developing the kind of body described here. Not pushups and situps and bodyweight lunges.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 05:18 PM
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I’m in a summer college program where all the students hang out all the time and are pretty close, there are about 100 of us. Last weekend I had sex with one of the girls in the group, everyone suspects but they don’t know. So you just described every college in North America. How do you guys think I should procede at this event? Who should I ignore and who should I lead on to maximize my total success this summer? Any help is appreciated! You're cool right? Just be cool, you don't have to ignor…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 05:17 PM
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You need multiple plates bro. That's how LMR doesn't even matter because you just say "ok cool, well I'm going to bed. Bye" - or some other excuse, then set up a time to fuck another plate and go do something productive / for you in the mean time.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 05:15 PM
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No but there's not way school and work are THAT busy that you can't find time to lift.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 05:13 PM
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Hey "girl" just thought I'd give you a heads up that I'll be in your area this weekend. Let me know if you want to get together and I'll make time for you. Then forget that you sent the message. If she bites, cool, if not, cool. Because it doesn't matter to you.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 05:12 PM
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Get emotional support from male friends. Don't be so black/white though. A lot of women are cool and fun to hang out with. Find one with shared interests and you can enjoy things together besides sex.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 05:08 PM
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Nah Indians shouldn't accept THAT as fate, because that isn't fate. That is an obstacle that likely needs more work to overcome than white dudes, but Indian dudes bang hot white chicks every day my man. Now, there will be some specific women who are just not into Indian dudes. Maybe they are stupid or racist. Those women are probably not worth the effort for an Indian guy because she is unlikely to change her mind. But there are millions of white women who will fuck the RIGHT Indian dude.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 01:18 PM
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I'm not a victim like you claim. I'm merely demonstrating the definition of the word "fate" which is a real word. Look it up. "the development of events beyond a person's control" If a drunk driver hits me on my way home from the office tonight and I die, that's my fate. Please tell me how my social conditioning caused me to be a victim in that scenario.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 04:57 PM
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If you are born without legs your fate is that you never have legs. You might get prosthetic legs, sure, but you never have your own legs. That is your fate. You can get prosthetic legs and learn to use them with the efficiencies of a normal person, but you never will have your own legs. This is literally what i mean by operating within your fateful bounds. If you were sexually abused by your father as a child, that is your fate. You can still work very very very hard to heal and have a normal a…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 03:40 AM
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I disagree. You can chase chicks and can be outcome independent. You don't care if she bangs you or not. That's the point. You want her to, but if you don't it's someone else that you will bang. Sure, you have preferences, but ultimately you treat her responses objectively, not emotionally.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 07:33 PM
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Outcome independence. It should be your ultimate personal goal. She doesn't call you back at some point should neither elicit a positive or negative emotion from you. It just is. That's the space you should aim to get to in the long-run.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 02:57 PM
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I did speak to the main point in my original comment and in my response to OP. I agree with what he is saying, that people hide from real and ultimately just want to live their lives doing enough to feel comfortable in that they're doing enough not to be considered a loser (i.e., my metaphor of people running the life race not to win, but just to avoid finishing in last place < this is the BP mindset in our society writ large and it's contagious and encouraged throughout).
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 10:39 PM
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No, I got the point when I read it. My reasoning and reading comprehension skills are well above average, although my grammar can be lacking at times (seems to fade as the years pass, but oh well). I just thought the black jesus metaphor was stupid as fuck. Still do. So far you have questioned my masculinity and now my intelligence. Keep going. Do you want question my earning potential or how much I can dead lift?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 09:46 PM
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I don't have delicate sensibilities. I just thought this was a stupid thing to say, since Jesus was likely a brown middle-eastern Jew. By OP's standard, the adoption of white Jesus is far more widespread than black Jesus, and therefore white Jesus is probably fucking people harder than black Jesus ever could. If you want to know how stupid of an argument this is, OP has included a "picture" of white Jewish Jesus as reference to what Jesus presumably looks like. Nobody actually knows this. It's i…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 09:34 PM
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There's a lot that is out of your control here that isn't worth the obsessing that you're doing. Learn to let go of your control over outcomes and people and just live. You will be much more relaxed that way, and naturally that will make you more attractive.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 06:04 PM
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Agree. Like I said, it's a really great point. People are needy, uncertain and weak and look to others to feel like they are "doing okay." Ultimately most people are just running a race to not be in last place. If you're winning you don't need to look around you or behind you to know it. That's true confidence and frame.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 03:23 PM
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Yeah, but why are you so mad? This is just objective truth. You must accept it for what it is, move past it and live your life for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 03:16 PM
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Black Jesus is not different from white Jesus. Jesus wasn't white, but white people had a really hard time worshiping a brown middle eastern dude, so they made him white. The underlying point you're trying to get across is a good one and important, but the jesus / race example is probably not the best vehicle to do so, since anyone with half a brain knows jesus isn't white or black and that most people are just fragile little children that want to identify with something that looks, walks, talks…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 03:14 PM
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Progressives who behave like this are no different than conservatives that do the same. The all or nothing identification and shaming from the tribe exists on both sides, but there are many progressives that subscribe to TRP. I promise that.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 05:02 PM
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Yeah but he's right. Fate does set certain boundaries of which you can exist and manipulate yourself and the world around you to your liking, within those fateful bounds. If you're born paraplegic, you have certain bounds that you operate in that are outside of your control. You still control what happens within those bounds, but fate has largely decided a lot of what you can / can not do before you even get a say.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 05:00 PM
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Aside from that point, though. Yes you can be unlucky once and boom, but really that's unlikely. How can you be proved wrong?
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 04:30 PM
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Why would a woman accuse you falsely? Aside from being unlucky that you meet one that is just complete batshit crazy...
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 09:33 PM
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Don't put yourself in a position to be accused of sexual assault. Sure, you can't control random crazies accusing you of it, but how often does THAT happen? Most times it's regret-based. Learn how to cover your ass and you'll be fine.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 08:46 PM
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No it's not weird, but there are likely many fraternities on campus. Some are admittedly douche bags and losers. Some aren't. The people in the fraternity (me and a friend started it by the way) I was a part have largely gone on to be pretty successful and interesting people. We're not scumbags like some people here would like to infer.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 08:59 PM
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So take one piece of anecdotal evidence and then use it to generalize about a large, diverse and varying subject. Good for you, but you look like an ass.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 08:28 PM
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We had a 30 year old and a masters student form Bangladesh pledge and join our fraternity. Awesome dudes.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 08:26 PM
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Volunteering or Community service should be on here for sure. Whether it's helping at a shelter / food bank / soup kitchen. Environmental clean up. Community gardens. Mentoring / tutoring. Well worth it to partake in these activities at some point, for countless reasons.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 08:11 PM
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Was in Denver in March. Attractive women (definitely fit) and I consider moving there next (although it's a cost of living thing and clearly that's changing out there) - I live on east coast now and it's getting old. But for sluts, nothing in the world is like NYC. Lived in Brooklyn 2 years working in finance, but yeah cost of living sucks. I prefer to save money and accumulate and found myself spending almost all of my disposable income. Easiest women in the world though. Single women move ther…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 01:11 PM
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Why do you have this mindset? I have a friend 5'5". thin, not even muscular but fit. Smashes no problem. Good looking bitches too. Change your mindset. It's not that you're giving the west a chance, you aren't giving yourself a chance. Defeatist.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 01:06 PM
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We're talking about men with whom women would give children to(according to the article). In that case, I believe trends show that women, no matter how much money they make, would tend to choose men who make more money and have more status to form families with. That's not to say successful women wouldn't be single moms by choice, but in that case fathers are still missing out on having children and are merely vehicles through which women can achieve single mother status.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 02:32 PM
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This is the truth. If median income for women rises, then we can easily assume the median woman will see a shrinking pool of "acceptable" men to breed with. As women would choose to only breed with men who make more or are of higher social status. Women won't breed down.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 10:47 PM
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What are you more of a glock guy?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 08:47 PM
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Can confirm this. If you want to fuck go to New York over anywhere else. If you need your P365 nearby to get hard, though, you may want to think twice.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 03:36 PM
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This isn't the place to be discussing a topic like this. Besides how ignorant and stupid this sounds, this has nothing to do with TRP and should be removed ASAP. FYI. Kanye was speaking metaphorically. People who are physically enslaved don't fight back because they would be murdered.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 03:09 PM
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liberals for undermining our great civilization at every turn Hold your horses if you think it's just liberals that undermine our "great" civilizaiton. It's everyone in power structures. Liberal and Conservative.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 05:39 PM
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Yeah I know this type of conversation is avoided on this sub. What I would say is that I agree this guy seems abusive, by first getting physical and also by this standard. I think it would be good to understand that guys like this don't intend to be abusive. But rather, their lack of abundance / self esteem makes them hold on insecurely to women like this for fear of being alone.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 01:46 PM
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The first thing out of your mouth was complimenting her appearance, which is something you shouldn’t do because 99% of men are using that exact same approach on her irl and on social media. Separate yourself from those betas. I disagree. OP showed his intent and maintained frame so this tactic is perfectly acceptable here. His intent is sexual. He jumped right in. This only works if you have high SMV, and therefore you are being selected for by her. Low SMV guys who use this opener are doomed, b…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 06:09 PM
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pretty sure this was being sarcastic / funny...
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 04:37 PM
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tl;dr: Never stop using condoms unless you deliberately intend on making a baby.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 04:32 PM
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I agree with your position. I think it depends what you're looking for, how high your sex drive is and what else you have going on in your life as well. Seems OP is willing to next over this (maybe), but point being that's his prerogative and him living in his frame.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 08:22 PM
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Her friends were drunk and showed their jealousy. Clearly L bitches about you, likely because you won't commit (this is also the reason she wants to fuck you, due to your indifference and your "out of reach" status with her). A lot people here are saying to keep plating, but I have a different take: OP gets to decide when he's done fucking a certain woman. If he has abundance (which it seems like), it doesn't matter. Yes, I agree that OP could continue to smash, no problem, as this incident actu…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 04:25 PM
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Don't get married. Technically possible to have kids without being married.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 06:09 PM
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Seriously this. Everyone wants to take TRP and try to use parts of it to fit into getting married. Foolish. Not possible.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 05:26 PM
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Sometimes you get with a ho. When she shows you she's a ho, chalk it up to a lesson learned. Sometimes you don't know she's a ho right away so you can't make that assessment right off the bat, BUT... This is why we say no LTR or, at the very least, spin plates until one undoubtedly earns an upgrade.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 02:33 PM
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Women are like puppies. I didn't realize this until I got a little corgi pup (he's awesome). Training puppy: You praise and reward good behaviors by having a key word, known as a marker - I use "Yes!". Then I give him a treat. Bad behavior, you do NOT yell or scold them, you ignore them. If you yell or scold the puppy when it misbehaves, it learns that the behavior gets it attention. It wants attention because it is a puppy. The best thing to do is to walk away and ignore the puppy and it will q…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 08:02 PM
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THIS. OP shouldn't get a 7.5 though because he played right into her hand be getting emotional and reactive. Dumb move, as she was likely trying to elicit said reaction. Best response is always ghost or plate.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 07:34 PM
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You walk away and break up with the bitch. Simple.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 07:31 PM
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You didn't hold frame pal, you lost your shit and you look like an abusive ass in public too. Jeeze us.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 07:31 PM
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Yeah bro just invest every hour of every day into yourself and improving yourself. Join gym. Lift. Eat perfect. Dress better. Financial success. Hard work. Dedication and Routine. You got this.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 09:50 PM
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Take your time in monk mode. Really spend time developing good habits. Build a body, mind and spirit that you can benefit from for the rest of your life. Worth it. The bitches are always there when you want. ALWAYS.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 08:25 PM
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You should demote and start hanging out with other women 1 on 1, if you get it.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 06:41 PM
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I second this. Fuck em. Bang girls from other schools if you must, but honestly just monk-mode the shit out of your life until you graduate. When you step onto a college campus being the most aesthetic dude there you're going to see what the fuck is up dude.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 04:00 PM
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the 2nd amendment says a lot more than what you selectively include here. Further, you are making radical comparisons of knives vs. guns, which isn't an intelligent argument. Not sure why you would even bring that up. We also have very little gun control. Not sure why you'd say we have it. Further, few people on the left want to ban all guns. Not sure why you believe that their goal is for nobody to have guns, but I'm guessing it's the propaganda you consume, as you probably prefer to stick to i…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 02:54 PM
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It takes time. It's winning tiny, tiny battles (see below for examples) consistently and, over time, that accumulates into something larger. Examples of tiny battles won: going to bed on time today choosing to eat healthy in the moment getting to gym even though you don't feel like it foregoing that college party to study or lift and work on yourself. Over time these choices turn into habits and then the habits turn into a lifestyle and become default / second nature. At that point you are on yo…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:41 PM
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You literally just proved my last point to a T. Also I grew up with guns. I have been shooting guns since I was a child. My grandfather a veteran (got his M1 from the war, pretty awesome piece). My father is lifetime police. I have shot dozens of guns over the course of my life. Again, like I said... we weren't even talking about guns anymore. We were talking about how propaganda campaigns work, and you literally just proved my last point.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 01:45 PM
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It's only as bad as any other ideology taking hold of the way people think and go out into and view the world. It's structured the same as how feminism is structured, it's just a different point of contention. Get people really invested in a belief. Flood the echo chamber. Demonize those who disagree and completely write off other points of view. That's how it works. That's how it's a bad thing. If I say I am anti-gun, you already have a disposition to write off anything I say. I'm an idiot, in …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 10:08 PM
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Your thinking is close-minded and I mean that genuinely. Pro-gun propaganda is big business. Sell more guns. Pay out shareholders, Make money. Just like anything else, they sell you an image or ideal that you buy into and want to live up to. Whether you like to admit it or not, this is truth. My close, NRA member friends are even willing to admit this. If you think that pro-gun propaganda only exists as you describe above, that is foolish.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 04:02 PM
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That's one perspective that you have come to in your journey. If you think that the right-wing, pro-gun propaganda isn't as strong or as insidious, you're being played. I seem to be getting through life fine without owning guns.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 01:52 PM
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This is a genius way to make it feel like an adventure. Bravo.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 01:43 PM
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Where can I find one? Do I have to be an athlete? What if I just studied and lifted during college, but wasn't actually on a team? does that mean my alpha isn't high enough and I have to settle for a slut?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 06:37 PM
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Calm down Chad, before you break your keyboard. Seriously. I am happy for you. You have an amazing wife all to yourself. You are Chad personified and I'm sure she has only every, truly enjoyed fucking your cock and nobody else's.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 06:12 PM
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You can never know. Yeah they may seem "believable." Because nobody wants to admit their wife is a slut. TRP applies to everyone else, but not MY wife!!! She only ever slept with her 1 ex boyfriend. Sad.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 05:54 PM
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EXACTLY. you don't know dick about your wife The big fat TRP cock slapping him right in the face with a dose of real.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 05:50 PM
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Like I said. good luck with that.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 05:48 PM
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It's just the way it is. I'm 30. When i hear or see shit like a 0-2 n-count or limiting it to 5 max? HAHAHAHAHAHA fuck outta here. Maybe in Provo, Utah. That's about it.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 05:47 PM
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No shit. That way every woman in our society gets to live out her little disney "princess" fantasy in some fashion, no matter the expense to her "partner." What a crock of shit.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 04:25 PM
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TL;DR - 0-2 body count is ideal, 5 is the ceiling. Good luck catching that fish in 2018.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 03:42 PM
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Bringing a gun to a bar when going out drinking is stupid. What kind of life are you living if you feel the need to carry a gun to the bar for protection? Me thinks you have other shit in your life to get in order if that is something you are doing.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 08:02 PM
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Why not do it the other way around and find out if she is a great person first? Because sexual compatibility is king in a relationship. This is golden advice, spoken from experience.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 06:31 PM
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I'm not sure this is true. Gaining muscle has to do with time under tension and can be achieved through high repetition as well. In my 10+ years experience a regime as described by OP is the best, but every body is different.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 11:48 AM
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Seriously this is next-level wtf and the main reason this sub is considered a bunch of neck beard misogynists. Here's a how to guide to be a controlling insecure little fuck. None of this shit is useful. Has nothing to do with getting laid or being happy. The existence OP describes is pathetic, paranoid, insecure and completely miserable.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 05:53 PM
17

You need to just take full responsibility for yourself on a daily basis. I know this sub is all about sexual strategy but the best thing anyone can do, in my opinion, is extended monk modes with the only social contact being career and or close male friendships. This provides a solid foundation and a long enough time for new habits and values to develop and stick.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 08:28 PM
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I still get mocked for it by friends. Take it with a grain of salt. I work too much. I lift too often. I don't spend enough money and "enjoy myself." Who cares. Most people have no vision in life. I found one and focus on it and it works really well. Edit: When you are checking off those boxes people will see it and feel insecure that they aren't, because inside there is born into us a drive to thrive. Most people never realize this intellectually, let alone in the physical world, so like crabs …
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 08:14 PM
1

Yeah we're on the same page here. I don't have kids. I don't know if I want them, but I have time.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 07:59 PM
2

In most places in the United States it would be really hard to have a common-law marriage. You're right about referring to her as your wife, but living together rarely leads to common law marriage, with the exception of a handful of states. You're right about the plates. The other stuff seems really hard to do.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 01:57 PM
4

I took the red pill BULLSHIT. That is some real bullshit, OP. You are being a fucking pussy and letting this woman use you and control you. Nothing about you is redpill. You're acting like a good little blue-pilled cuck. There are a lot of people in this community who really have gone through the hard work, commitment, and painstaking process of becoming red-pilled. There are a lot of people here who genuinely have improved their lot in life through the consistency and industriousness required t…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 01:57 PM
3

Cut out drugs and alcohol before you cut out the gym. I doubt you spend more on a gym membership than the other shit. In the long-run you're only stunting yourself unless you have a medical need for marijuana. Alcohol is poison, so if you do drink, stop. I would suggest quitting smoking as well. The gym and working out builds you up, the other stuff stagnates you.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 02:22 PM
1

Are we saying that evolution selects for male emotional attachment here or is that something that is socialized into a person? If the former, I would posit that even the most alpha, seed spreading males are prone to the attachment but consciously choose against it for some reason. If the latter then we are speaking of the manipulated man, no?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 09:13 PM
1

There is legitimately something wrong with you and you should seek professional help. OR... You're a mega troll.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 01:24 PM
3

This is some of the best advice anyone can take from the TRP community.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 08:30 PM
1

Not at all correct. Um, so you're saying that I am 100% incorrect? Are you sure about that? In the United States it's rare and hard to prove. You can look at the law if you like or specific decisions handed down by the courts here. In Canada it's different. OK. Look up the laws where you live and act accordingly. This can't be that hard. It's my understanding that what you describe above is rare in common law circumstances even in Canada. Otherwise, please share your sources of legal guidance so…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 08:25 PM
2

It's an absurd gesture that I've seen too many friends do. Women live for this shit. It disgusts me.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 04:00 PM
2

This is wonderful thank you.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 03:07 PM
2

No shit. How humiliating of an experience is that truly. Think about it. Here's a super expensive piece of jewelry for you to show off to every other woman you know! Please, please, PLEASE tell me this was expensive enough for you to love me forever! Yikes.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 02:09 PM
1

We shouldn't really give too much thought to the whys in terms of how it got this bad. Political ideology probably has little to do with it either - people raised by conservatives get cucked just as much, pal. Don't kid yourself. The point is, this is the way the world works. Facts. Don't marry. Doesn't matter who, what why or how it got this way. These are the rules of the game. Play the game to the best of your ability.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 02:08 PM
4

You described a girl that called you her "back-up plan" after she was done riding someone else's cock. You then proceed to claim that you would date her because of her redeeming qualities. And you're calling my comment autism?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 10:16 PM
1

A lot of women my age are legitimately disgusting, I dated a girl last year who has had sex with at least 10 different men and she was only 20 at the time. OP is literally upset because, wahhh, women sleep around. Wahhh this isn't fair. Wahhh I can't have the blue-pill monogamy that I was told. boo fucking hoo. The world isn't what you want it to be. Cry a fucking river. Literally ranting about how "I don't want it to be this way." How about shut up and focus on yourself instead of whining about…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 10:14 PM
1

Wow she sounds like a lovely, reasonable woman. Definitely marry someone who tries to force you into one of the biggest decisions of your life while giving you no say whatsoever besides leaving. 100% she definitely "loves" you.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 09:52 PM
1

You're an idiot.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 09:50 PM
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You're angry. I get it. Don't live your life like this though. It's not worth it. Do what you have to do to become a top tier man that can fuck women effortlessly. It's possible, but requires a fuck ton of work and sacrifice. Totally worth it though.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 09:32 PM
1

It's in a handful of states and my understanding is that the burden of proof is high. If you cover your ass properly (don't enter into a contract or promise to take care of her) you should be fine.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 08:31 PM
0

I think this is more hyperbole than truth, just from my research. Most states don't recognize this and, for those that do, the one wanting to prove common law has a very high burden of proof.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 08:29 PM
4

You can walk away much easier in those instances. That's your unique power you hold, don't give it up.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 08:25 PM
4

I didn't mean it like that. What I meant was, YOU got married and now are trying to advocate that it's "not that bad" because you apply RP principles. Yes, if already married apply RP. But let's not tell people we actually think marrying is the way to go. Apply RP principles if you're married. That's good and you should improve your lot always. Don't advocate for non-married men that getting married is okay if you do it "RP style." No. We still tell these men don't marry.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 06:27 PM
2

Some men got married, divorced and made out well. Some people go to the casino and win thousands of dollars. Meh. Play the odds.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 05:58 PM
3

First: I take none of this personally. I participate in the spirit of our camaraderie and sportsmanship here. I genuinely mean that. It still doesn't address your shitty argument surrounding risk aversion in which you implied I am some sort of scared man child that needs to learn how to assess risk. I leave the house and venture into the world every day because there is significant potential upside to doing so (meeting people, experiencing pleasure, making money, building muscle, etc..), hence I…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 05:34 PM
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Seriously how the fuck did this turn into people trying to justify marriage? NO! MARRIAGE IS NEVER THE RIGHT CHOICE. I thought this was universally clear here...
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 05:24 PM
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That's fine. To each their own, but we shouldn't be advocating that or teaching others that or enforcing it by any means. Good that we route it out. A lot of these are men who got married and THEN discovered TRP and are now retroactively trying to conform it to their own situation to feel ok with their life choices.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 05:19 PM
2

Leaving your house has upside. My profession revolves around measuring risk vs. reward. Don't try to bait me into false equivalents.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 05:15 PM
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Because I can't stand bad arguments. Maybe it's a character flaw of mine in not being able to let it go (i'm sure it is). That said, you project onto me and make presumptions on your own that do not align with anything I said. The humiliation and emotional abuse that a woman can put a man through requires no legal contract. We don't disagree on this. That said, my statement is solid reasoning that goes well beyond pure financial loss, and it's summed up in a very common saying that i learned yea…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 05:09 PM
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That's not what I'm saying at all. Not sure where you're making these assumptions from. LTR can't divorce rape you. ONS can't divorce rape you. Having kids? OK child support, still can't divorce rape you. You know anyone who has been raped via divorce court?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 04:16 PM
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Being afraid to get hurt is some psychologically damaged childhood shit. This is poor reasoning and pure projection. Who said anything about being afraid of getting hurt by a woman? that can happen in or out of marriage. The point is to just not get married and then you don't ever have to worry about getting divorced. Uhhh yeah, that's pretty good reasoning.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 03:28 PM
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You're trying to one-up my statement and call into question my masculinity. For what reason? I never said anything about being risk averse, but it takes a well-measured man to make prudent life decisions and assess risk / reward properly. Most don't, that's why most men are poor and fat. Don't get married. Ever. There is no upside. It's the equivalent of selling a put option to your LTR and the underlying is the relationship. That's my reasoning and it's completely accurate and, quite honestly, …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 03:26 PM
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If you don't marry, you can't go through a divorce. Remember that. Everyone. There is not scenario that exists where you can get married and not expose yourself to this.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 02:05 PM
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This is a meaningless interpretation of numbers.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 02:02 PM
1

I think your understanding of AWALT is skewed. It means that all women have it in them to act like that at any given time. Every single woman is like this, and we should be aware of it. Should we assume that every single woman will branch swing? Not necessarily. Ok. But, every single woman has those urges and, given the right opportunity and circumstances, would act on them. I think what you're trying to get at is that a lot of frustrated dudes who are angry at women project AWALT onto women as …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 02:52 PM
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I was 5 when I threw sand in some girl's face in retaliation (she threw sand in mine.) She started crying. I was like 7 or 8. Same exact thing happened to me. I was a bad boy.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 02:48 AM
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His response is actually really good because anyone paying witness to the situation realizes the person chastising him is a fucking asshole for doing so. OP is then publicly acknowledging the person being an asshole in the most polite way possible, without being confrontational or allowing room for any response to continue said interaction.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 04:47 PM
2

Being homeless and going to a shelter is an incredibly low place and highly emasculating. Men face these circumstances at a ridiculously higher rate than women, because of what i said above. Most women have base line level of worth in our society due to vaginas. Men don't, unless they themselves are economically viable. You can see this phenomena play out via military enlistment, homelessness and incarceration rates. As someone who has been there, I'd sell my dick. Thanks for your hypothesis tho…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 01:55 PM
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I don't have a child I am responsible for, so my situation isn't like yours. However, in 2007 I was homeless for a few months. I was young then and broken due to family and drug issues. I assure you if you're smart and hardworking you can get somewhere, though it's going to be really tough at times. I've made it to the point of affluence by 30, but it annoys me to this day how most people who get here typically are born to it. You're going to have to fight daily for it, but you should. Also, for…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 11:16 PM
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Yeah that's fine and dandy but there's two features about an experience like that which differentiate it from what men face. Like I stated, women can cash out on sex for shelter, housing, food or money. Sure, low-end prostitution is dismal, unsafe, abusive and probably downright horrible. I didn't say struggling or poverty is unique JUST to men, but if OP is hungry he can't just go out there and sling his pussy for a meal. There's an inordinate amount of societal SHAME associated with men in thi…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 11:09 PM
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I have to deal with the shame of declaring myself homeless and living in a shelter for a short time, before they help me find a home. I have to face the shame of times being tough until I get back into work again. What you're describing here is a uniquely male experience. We never (rarely) have an option to cash out on our sex appeal for shelter or housing. Oftentimes we're left to our own will and devices to make something out of nothing, with limited safety nets. This is a frightening, cold an…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 08:21 PM
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Women being hypergamous and slutty got us to where we are as human civilization. You really think our ancient ancestors followed the good lord's will to be virgins until marrying? Marriage wasn't even a thing for a majority of human history and I'm pretty sure our species has progressed to the point it has just fine, which is one where we shoot people into space and can download movies into the palm of our hands..... Nothing's bringing back the rust belt and blue collar jobs. NOTHING. Anyone who…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 07:49 PM
3

that leaves me about 3 hours for a date But this demonstrates your value and lack of time for her. It actually works out great for you. You don't want women taking up your valuable time. You shouldn't be spending more time than this to bed them, otherwise keep it moving.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 04:48 PM
5

Don't involve cops, they will arrest you not her in most cases.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 08:00 PM
-7

A much needed one.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 02:17 PM
10

Expect less, need less from them and you'll be happier. Honestly this is all the good stuff about TRP summed up in 10 words. The most succinct advice you could give here.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 06:36 PM
4

AWALT. Most guys don't come here and go from incel to models.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 10:50 PM
1

Yeah in theory that works - the all perfect rational man doesn't exist in real life. He develops tools, routines and ways of life to best promote his success.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 09:04 PM
1

I think what he means is it helps him avoid being needy because the bitch phone is at home...
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 07:29 PM
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Mine too. Holy fucking shit what a nightmare that would be.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 03:38 AM
2

I was speaking to the religious philosophy behind circumcision, not anatomy of the penis itself, but please enlighten me...
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 04:44 PM
3

I wasn't describing the anatomy. I was describing the flawed philosophy behind circumcisions.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 04:42 PM
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OK well it's documented that one of the main drivers of circumcision in modern / western and english speaking societies is as i described, specifically in America and Victorian Britain. I understand it might be tough work for you to read about stuff instead of just arm-chair commenting on shit. Give it a try though, who knows what it could lead to?
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 03:40 PM
1

I have an average-sized dick, thanks. I wasn't describing how a dick works, I was describing the religious reasoning behind circumsion. Try reading with a bit more intelligence so you can pick up the context next time.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 03:16 PM
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It's for religious reasons. They part of the penis that is circumcised is the most sensitive and, as a byproduct, most pleasurable part. This was done to help men "control" their sexual urges.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 02:19 PM
1

The over-arching discussion is about gun violence in general. He took it to "crime, in general" and the sources he cited did just that. Reducing the amount of guns would go a long way in reducing homicides, both gang, and non-gang related. As other posters from countries who have enacted laws like this have already attested to, murder is a lot harder to achieve when access to these types of weapons are restricted.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 05:37 PM
2

More people who read this page agree with you. Guaranteed. It's always the loudest that shape the discourse.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 04:01 PM
1

I don't see where the question posed spoke of firearm homicides. Flammingammosexual was talking about crime in general. Read the thread.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 04:00 PM
1

having an opinion on guns is not identity politics and you're one hell of a stupid fuck for thinking so
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 03:59 PM
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the total number of gang homicides reported by respondents in the NYGS sample averaged nearly 2,000 annually from 2007 to 2012. During roughly the same time period (2007 to 2011), the FBI estimated, on average, more than 15,500 homicides across the United States (www.fbi.gov/about-us/cjis/ucr/crime-in-the-u.s/2011/crime-in-the-u.s.-2011/tables/table-1). These estimates suggest that gang-related homicides typically accounted for around 13 percent of all homicides annually. https://www.nationalgan…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 10:45 PM
14

You're not going to convince consumers of right wing propaganda that their viewpoint is wrong, just saying...
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 10:28 PM
5

Yup. And if you speak out of line compared to the group think people take it personally and become defensive / start speaking irrationally.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 10:21 PM
0

I consider my children not being shot at school a critical freedom. What does getting run over have to do with anything?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 10:07 PM
2

Switzerland is a poor comparison pal, considering they require a person to pass a psychiatric evaluation to even apply for a government permit to own a fire arm. The process is the same for whenever someone wants to purchase ammunition. They must go through the same, rigorous background / psychiatric checks. Generally, people are not allowed to carry weapons outside of their home in Switzerland, unless specially certified to do so (i.e., work in militia or security). You cannot transport a gun o…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 10:06 PM
7

People on here are so pro-gun, which is fine, but have honest discussions about it. Not bullshit arguments.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 09:57 PM
-2

There are credible statistics that show how the amount of guns in the US drive the incredibly high murder rate here, when compared to other, similar societies. What you're saying here is untrue.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 09:30 PM
-3

I consider my children not being shot at school a critical freedom.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 09:20 PM
-6

There is no accounting for that because the argument makes zero sense. Gun lovers are top-tier, Grade-A Cucks for the NRA and gun manufacturers. The rest of us are just collateral damage.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 07:53 PM
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It has nothing to do with freedom. We're no more or less free than countries who have guns restrictions. We are under no threat of communism taking over our wonderful capitalist semi-democracy. We don't have to debate the negative impact of mentally ill people because in societies where guns are restricted and healthcare is accessible, there is limited negative impact of the mentally ill. Our country features negative impacts of guns.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 07:50 PM
-4

I'm an american and I agree with your analysis. I'm fucking sick and tired of these hot takes. Stupid fucks here.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 07:39 PM
8

I suggest minimum 6-month monk mode, as Auvergnat said. Start with straight lifting and died. Stay dedicated and never miss a beat. Downtime should include reading. Then add in hobbies that you have (healthy ones, sports, hiking, skiiing, instruments, language, etc...) to become a more interesting and accomplished man. Get into a rhythm with all of this in your life and appreciate how the hard work and routine builds your character. Truly take the time to reset and change your life. The women wi…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 06:31 PM
6

Hope this helps for those who are looking for alternatives to lifting. Fuck outta here with this shit. There are no alternatives to lifting. I'll jump right in. I have no time for lifting Bullshit. Today is Shoulder Day.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 07:15 PM
15

She's the only girl I've met in my life that has actual ambition. It turns me on how smart she is. Fact is, I've been in love with her from the moment I set my eyes on her: I could tell from the start that she was different, that she was special. You'll have a laugh about this sentiment when you turn 30, if you even remember it at all. You're right to focus on yourself. When you do, sex will just come. It's a natural byproduct.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 03:45 PM
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If she rescheduled then she didn't flake.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 06:42 PM
6

you think tipping low-level service workers is going to save you in the long-run, "especially if you ever get in trouble???" That had me laughing out loud. You really think people are sticking their necks out for you because you tip nice and come around often? Being someone's meal ticket will get you a nice hello and a head nod, but don't kid yourself. If these are the people you are using as your social proof - your "network" - that says a lot. Also if you need a club manager to wave you into t…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 04:52 PM
2

You shouldn't have to do this to run game. If you just practiced game and become a top man, you wouldn't have to do such tedious groundwork. Besides, not many women think "wow he knows the bouncer, must sit on his cock tonight." At least, not women worth spending time with... shit sounds kind of sad.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 04:17 PM
2

You should hang out with better men. You deserve everything you got here pal.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 06:16 PM
4

I agree with this and should be more prominently spread throughout TRP theory. It's 2018 and we should all aspire to be this level of man.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 09:18 PM
12

You missed the point. "Coffee date" is just a metaphor for casual, non-formal, non-expensive. Sheesh. Hence the term "coffee date." It doesn't literally have to mean going and drinking a cup of coffee together.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 09:16 PM
1

I am doing about 90% push and having most excellent results. Can you give more examples of push?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 06:45 PM
9

Yeah people around here need to get off Trump's dick. The guy is a crony and a fool and does not give a shit about anything he says. Literally just wants to enrich himself.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 02:10 PM
1

I feel your point and agree. My point was that OP sounded like he was married before being red-pilled. Kind of have to play your hand from there so the level of alpha or "on your own terms" is different for that man than for me, a 30 year old unmarried man. It's all relative. If the above scenario is true for even OP tied to one pussy doesn't have abundance shares his resources has less personal freedom of choice is susceptible to being controlled by supply of sex then my mans needs to get a div…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 02:45 PM
1

I never said any of these things was living on your own terms. Don't assume things. My point is that men living life on their own terms is peak alpha. What you describe above is clearly not on your own terms, so why would you even ask this question when it's obviously not what I was referring to. Can a man get married and live on their own terms? Unlikely, but I'm sure some do.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 03:11 AM
1

It would not befit you to openly show abundance if you are partnering with someone to raise a child. That will fuck up the kid. If you choose to have a child, it is on your own terms and is a VERY careful choice to be made. When you do this there is INHERENT SACRIFICE on your part. You seem to be upset because of said sacrifice. In that case, you shouldn't have children.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 08:48 PM
2

Yes that would benefit the child.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 08:23 PM
-1

Then if the situation isn't right, don't have kids. This presumes you obtain and maintain a level of Alpha that allows you to achieve what I have described. If you cannot achieve said level, forget it or accept your fate as submitting to her sexual strategy. If she requires marriage, for me, I would terminate said relationship immediately without a second thought.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 08:00 PM
-1

This is too hypothetical to consider and honestly if I am stupid enough to put myself in that position then I am worthy of the punishment you describe above. Having children should be something carefully thought out and planned for over many years with a woman. If you or I get a woman pregnant by happenstance, we're clearly doing it wrong. On the flip side, if another man wants to raise a child with my dna, he is effectively openly cucking himself. This is not something to strive for or be proud…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 06:57 PM
1

Don't get married ever. No excuses. Anything I want to do in life I can do without getting married. This includes becoming a father, if it is what I want to do.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 06:42 PM
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Your thought process makes sense but is too black and white to work here. Being "Alpha" is less about smashing pussy (a byproduct of Alpha) and more about living life on the terms you want. We don't have enough insight into OP's situation to determine that. To your main point, yes marriage is blue pilled and a stupid fucking idea. But OP is of a generation different from mine and ~20 years ahead of me in life so I cannot judge his decision to marry as BP without more context. Generally though, m…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 06:08 PM
26

TL:DR, HB9 dumps good guy who she loves, dates Chads for over a decade, and now at 35 is in the process of settling for a guy who treats her well, but for whom she has less than optimal tingles. This is Sheryl Sandberg's advice to a T. Millennial women are taught to live like this in the west.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 11:57 PM
1

Do you need to get legally married to do this? What opportunities does legally marrying someone afford you that you otherwise could not experience without getting married?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 04:39 PM
2

Society wants you to spend all your money on things. If you are on the internet or watch enough tv / movies, all of that is aimed at getting you to spend every last dollar. The most common way it achieves this goal is to hit your dopamine receptors (it's why you get a slight rush when you buy new things). Secondly, society will instill fear into your core being. Fear of not being "enough." Fear of missing out. It wants you to buy that new car on a loan, instead of a used one with no loan. It wan…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 02:22 PM
2

Let me know if you want to bounce ideas in messages.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 07:48 PM
9

Ignore society's values. It just wants your money. This statement in and of itself should be the #1 educational topic on the sidebar because it is the most core issue that underlies all of the other behaviors discussed in TRP.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 06:54 PM
38

Blue pill conditioning wants men to find value in what they can do for women.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 07:00 PM
1

Leave it behind completely then. You can do it. I've been there before, my life got infinitely better post-alcohol.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 06:57 PM
1

That's impressive. Most men can't do that.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 06:56 PM
3

Went through something similar at your age. Best advice is a repeat of what everyone else is saying. Go no contact. It's the only way when break-ups happen. You don't remain friends and you go your separate ways. You both have a ton of growing to do. Try to figure out your life going forward. College? Career? focus on building a career and education yourself and hit the gym religiously. If I can be honest, do this for a decade with no further LTRs and your life will be in such an amazing place. …
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 12:29 AM
1

The 3 point lead should be what you worked for and achieved in your personal and professional life.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 05:04 PM
1

OP You will never understand or even come close to experience the need for us, as men, to consistently perform just to be accepted by society. It is a LOT of constant work, dedication, and involves risk with no safety nets, just to get a seat at the table. Further, you will never experience or even have the opportunity to experience the fear that no matter how hard and long you work. No matter where you come from. No matter how much risk you took to get to where you are. ONE woman could take it …
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 03:23 PM
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Patriarchy and toxic masculinity, to the extent they do exist, are mainly driven by female mating choices. Jordan Peterson spoke on one of the Joe Rogan podcasts about this.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 03:09 PM
13

IF she cheats, leave immediately no contact, straight ghost.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 06:17 PM
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You run that risk at any restaurant. You runt that risk with any woman. You'll never know, just enjoy the steak.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 06:14 PM
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All of these things are temporary experiences. They constantly change, come and disappear, but the only thing that will always be there is you. THIS. For EVERYTHING in your life, from day 1 to the last.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 11:57 PM
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You sound like a troll but in all honestly no girl is perfect and worth the space that you're giving up in your mind for this. You need to internalize it and grow up. Go see a therapist to talk through it, but really you need to learn how to take responsibility for your own life. Right now you're just whining about life happening to you. Life happens to all of us, you have to learn to take control and responsibility for your own outcomes regardless of how fair life is.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 10:11 PM
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You're being a little bitch about it and I mean that in the nicest of ways. You need to grow up and realize that girl that you can't get over is getting treacherously fucked on the regular by various men who are bigger, stronger and better than you. AND. SHE. LOVES IT. She doesn't even think about you at all, because you mean nothing to her. Meanwhile you sit in a wallow of self-pity about her? Why? She is getting split open while you're at home crying about her not wanting to love you? That's w…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 09:14 PM
1

Perfect example of how online dating / apps are for women to exploit their sexual strategy. Might as well just line men up in public with their shirts off and their salary / earning power hanging around their necks and let the women choose - would make it more transparent.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 01:27 AM
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Go move to a different country than where you grew up, try to learn the language, and then see how well you do grammatically. Did You understand his points? I did, and that says a lot.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 03:41 PM
5

Except CMB consists of retired Tinder thots.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 05:31 PM
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When she complains like that, she isn't actually disgusted at the behavior of the attention she is getting (she wants it to continue). She is disappointed because he his showing the beta behavior, as she deep-down hopes he proves his alpha-ness. It comes off as disgust, and she probably is disgusted, but the underlying nature of it is pure disappointment in him and herself as she realizes her avenue for a committed relationship is with a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 08:13 PM
13

It's called cuffing season for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 08:10 PM
1

Yeah it's one of the better takes I've seen here in 2 years.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 01:53 PM
1

Correct - "Dadbod" is the late 20's to early 40's of the "just be yourself" advice that gets peddled to men in their teens / early 20's.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 01:57 PM
5

Read it exactly the same. Exhibits DGAF attitude well. That's a great characteristic to have.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 05:23 PM
2

Ultimately these AFC's are children who are angry with the universe and existence for making things so hard. boo hoo. Instead of looking inward, processing the universe and its natural order and developing themselves, they direct their anger at women like a child directing anger at its mother for not allowing it the candy it wants.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 01:36 PM
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I don't think TRP promotes hatred of women, but rather promotes awareness of the exact behavior you outline, as well as how and why to avoid that situation. Feminism considers it hatred because it competes with the feminine imperative. The people who come away from TRP with hatred towards women are probably socially awkward / low EQ to begin with. Also I disagree with the premise you put forward. Women are not frugal before 25 as far as the # of partners they acquire. Whatever makes you think th…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 08:27 PM
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I've worked jobs for way less than $10 and hour and now work a career where I'm not even comfortable divulging the hourly rate. I treat people the same as I did washing dishes dude. It takes a special kind of ego to insult people based on the type of work they do and I'm guessing You have never really faced struggles or financial insecurity in your life before. Talking down to or bad about people like that doesn't make You alpha bruh and it doesn't impress anyone. It just makes You look like a s…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 08:20 PM
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You're an asshole. You treated that janitor like shit. I guarantee he knows more about an honest day's work than you ever will, being from "somewhat of a well off family." < this isn't a fucking accomplishment that you should ever talk about or write about.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 03:08 PM
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I would think that the variance between a top tier woman, say 8-10 vs. mid-tier, say 6-8, is de minimis. What we're really talking about here is a lot of sexual for partners for all involved. Perhaps 6's get an n count of 40 and 9's get to 30... Which is better / worse really? The difference is negligible after a certain threshold. Ultimately I think women want a lot of sexual partners just like anyone else does (and in 2017 a lot favor it over commitment). I probably couldn't make a judgment on…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 06:51 PM
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Yeah this is exactly what I was thinking. I get what OP is saying, but the basis of his thought process is misaligned due to blue pill society / disney brain washing. The underlying assumption made in the theory that attractive women have less casual sex is that women's main goals are commitment, no matter the case. We know this is simply untrue as the hypergamy and AF/BB nature of women is the truth. Women will want sex from Alphas AND simultaneously desire commitment, but nevertheless that doe…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 02:54 PM
1

It's a glorified / elitist trade school. Go for things that you have a plan for employment and a way to pay back your debt. If you can't answer those ?'s go to community college part time while you work, go learn a trade, or start a business.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 03:39 PM
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Do not invest in something that gives you no dividends. A lot of good shit in here but this should be the #1 takeaway, both metaphorically AND financially.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 03:36 PM
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You shouldn't be teaching your son to get in arguments like this. Especially in public. Especially with feminists. And you certainly win no points by "crushing" her argument. In fact, when you left, you probably left with a little more of a reputation of being an asshole (not in the good "game" way), which is not good for anyone. Read 48 laws of power. Think as you want, do as others. No good will come to your son's life by training him to be some martyr for TRP principles. Look at society. Look…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 01:38 PM
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You can bet your bottom dollar that there's thousands of women doing just that. I would guess that a meaningful % is likely instances of "regret."
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 12:20 AM
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Intangible assets are riskier than tangible assets, both in businesses and with women. Pay attention to the intangibles.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 06:29 PM
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Too many guys do not understand you can't have your blue pill dreams without paying the blue pill price. Amen brother. This is the truth of many people here. Mr. President is beta, I was thinking about this in the gym this morning.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 01:33 PM
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One of my best friends is marrying a bitch like you describe this month. I'm the best man. He's gone. See him like 2 times a year even though we live a mile apart. I'm resolved to continually invite him places / include him, and I have subtly hinted my views on marriage / relationships as to not offend him and ruin the relationship, but still get the point across. It's sad to watch, honestly. We used to be bros. Lift together. Sport together. Music. Etc... Honestly AskTRP convinced me a couple y…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 07:54 PM
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Triadis is right. You should put Your ego aside and listen to people. While it's tough love, we ARE here to help each other.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 05:41 PM
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This is not the best advice. NEVER talk to police. Not even about the weather. That's the best advice. You don't say a word. Your advice is naive. While it may have worked in select cases, what personal experience do you bring to the table? Also, why is this posted in a subreddit focused on sexual strategy? It's dumb and misplaced.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 03:10 PM
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If you put women above men, women will refuse to mate with men. This needs to be internalized by everyone here.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 03:15 PM
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Now that you tell me I feel a bit bad for my friends. Yes they smashed way, way more than me in HS, but thsy also didn't make it far college wise. Don't compare yourself to other men. Just stay focused on Yourself and improving. Gym I'll get back up on the prio list. Literally I can't stress this enough You NEED to lift for the rest of your life if you want the success you speak of. Real lifting. My sister just turned me semi vegan Do your own research. Don't base these decision on propaganda. A…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 04:36 PM
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Nope. Sandra is no more or no less likely to cheat than any other woman.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 07:24 PM
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Upvote for the coparenting. You deserve to be happy. Don't stay in a relationship for your kid, that will hurt them worse than anything that comes from coparenting.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 07:23 PM
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Focus on the following things in this order of importance: Your studies. You are there to learn and leave college and start a career where you can maximize your finances. Get fantastic grades, aim for perfect scores, do extra-curricular activities and get into leadership positions there. Aim for internships EVERY summer. This is why you went to college, you aren't there to smash pussy. Lift. Lift. Lift. You're in college, you should be able to do this religiously. Get your diet dialed in too. Ne…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 06:23 PM
2

Yeah I thought the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 03:00 PM
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OK so this is what you need to realize. You are operating from a place of scarcity. That is, You want to cling to this relationships because You have severe doubts about when the next time you can plow some pussy will be if You leave her. She requires male validation to feel good about herself. Think about where this leads You to on a long enough time line. You should break up with her. You probably won't, because of point 1, but You should. Why? Because You are uncomfortable and honestly You do…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 02:53 PM
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You meant absolutely nothing to her and You need to realize that now. She used You and that's probably all she really ever thought of You.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 01:36 PM
1

Well I disagree on enjoying the decline. I will enjoy it, but I don't think society will decline. I think it's just the decline of traditional marriage and families.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 01:30 PM
1

I kind of get what You're saying, but I don't think sexual strategy changes much based on what You and I were arguing.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 11:01 PM
1

I disagree mostly, but I agree on the point of a mass influx into any given society as you state. What does this have to do with Sexual Strategy anyways?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 10:47 PM
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Agree on Your first point, but pure Capitalism is what it is. The proponents of it should own ALL OF IT, or none at all. If we want to get away from that economic system, or adjust it, that's fine and we can have that discussion, but otherwise it is what it is. Second point I disagree on. I support immigration completely. I don't need people to speak American English. I don't need them to hold middle class jobs. I want them to pay taxes. I don't want serious criminals. I want them involved in ou…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 09:53 PM
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Ultimately men like us need to stand together on our similarities in the new world. Women have been trained to do this, and that's why feminism rules the day in the west. We need each other regardless of politics or race, so I agree that it should go elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 08:59 PM
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I interpreted your comment as condescending. Apologies if I was wrong. My point is that this is a good place for men in 2017 to learn sexual strategy, but it should be left at that.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 08:53 PM
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Ok well why the fuck do you care? And what does that have to do with sexual strategy in 2017? I find it interesting you would go to one reddit site and then assume that someone would base their entire political ideology off of ONE FUCKING REDDIT SITE alone. Who the fuck does that? I'm highly educated in economics and finance, as well as international relations. A lot of my ideology comes from the many years of research that went into that, the years I worked at a major investment bank, my many y…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 08:33 PM
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I notice the same in my point of view but I try to compartmentalize issues and be a free thinker issue by issue. Using one source or one point of view to inform my feelings on any issue isn't good enough for me, so I try to consider all sides. I used to identify as a feminist. Now I hate the word and internally roll my eyes anytime I hear someone identify as one. Truth is many people have good points and ideas from opposing ideologies. I think it's important to consider everything, and the sourc…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 08:13 PM
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I'm guessing it has a lot to do with the fact that everything we engage in is informed / motivated by our biological imperatives of passing on our respective genealogies? I'm not saying the skills here aren't applicable in other areas. I meant TRP does itself a disservice when someone writes something like "Derrr, Trump, Immigrants, the wall, derr." There's other places for that and it will prevent some people from getting the message.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 07:46 PM
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I'm pretty far left economically and on issues of race / diversity. I happen to be sickened by 3rd wave feminism and the dating / mating game in our society i pretty much wholeheartedly agree with TRP on. I think TRP does itself a disservice by going into areas other than sexual strategy. Yes, I can understand why it is right leaning. I get it. I am able to set aside my overall beliefs and take the things from here that i need and believe in. TRP would be better served to root out those politica…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 06:24 PM
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Basically go find that information elsewhere. A lot of people benefited from the simplified, straight forward sexual strategy message. We should keep it that way so we can continue to help others.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 03:41 PM
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I came here 2 years ago for the sexual strategy. I didn't even struggle with sex, I was just salty about an ex that played me. I couldn't get over it, but now I am and I'm happy. I ignore most of the political bs on here and just take the sexual strategy stuff. The things about relationships. Red flags. What to avoid. Different techniques, etc... Love the post. Everything must come back to sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 03:40 PM
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they put crack in them i swear
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 02:12 PM
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Women make the majority of consumption decisions in America, especially on the household level (i.e., SHE decides how to spend HIS money). It would make little sense to belittle these women through media and, instead, they just inflate the female ego into making the decision. Now go look at statistics on household debt vs. savings and put 2 and 2 together.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 02:59 AM
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Really great post. You put a lot of good points of reference in there and I agree wholeheartedly that economics drives a majority of social problems / phenomena. As someone who works in financial economics, i agree... except you lost me here: Trump is taking care of the globalist China and immigration issues. He's not doing shit. I don't blame him for just wanting to get his, though. Do Your damn thing donnie. But I'm not living in some fairy tale existence where this biff-looking motherfucker c…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 02:56 AM
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Go easy on the biscuits, bro.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 02:02 AM
1

Who cares? How does the fact that Jordan Peterson is married affect you?
/r/askTRP08/09/17 10:18 PM
1

i would just say goodnight and leave.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 09:32 PM
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I would say that your response should be twofold: We are not in a committed relationship. The rest is none of her business.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 09:28 PM
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nofap
/r/askTRP08/09/17 09:27 PM
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you already sound like a bitch to her. if you want to be a bitch your whole life, then fine, otherwise grow a pair and leave.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 09:26 PM
2

fucking a right man. only route to go.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 09:25 PM
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You should ghost her. Not kidding either. That's disrespectful and whether she does or does not meet up with him, she showed you who she is as a partner. At that point, believe her. That's who she is. She doesn't care about you. I would just stop talking to her altogether and move on.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 09:25 PM
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I would talk to a therapist, honestly. It's a really poor way to live. Clearly there are issues you need to grapple with because you don't want to go through life being angry or being a slave to your impulses.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 09:23 PM
1

LIFT.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 09:22 PM
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You don't have to look at people and agree 100% with them to take their wisdom or knowledge and apply it in your own life. In fact, that's unhealthy and weak. Be smart enough to take the good parts and leave the rest.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 09:20 PM
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It is something that may seem that way, but ultimately it should just become your way of life if you are committed to it. It's acting in the same way the first time you step into a weight room is acting. Eventually, with enough trials and commitment you will improve and become a natural.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 09:19 PM
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Those women deserve nothing but your most chivalrous Black Knight. Yes, black knight bitches like this.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 09:17 PM
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Well honestly I'm ok with a woman saying no to sex because that's their prerogative. If You're stupid enough as man to operate on covert contracts, you're going to get taken advantage of as described in the post. THAT'S THE GAME. "Want me to bring you ice cream? Sure. What do I get in return!" If You're doing shit like this to get laid, You don't get it. Read the side bar. There was never an implicit contract of men doing things and women fucking them for it. If that did exist, i feel sorry for …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 06:00 PM
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Because they fucking can take your resources, that's why. It's not about equality, it's about political and economic power / domination, just like any other human on earth.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 12:55 PM
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Women want to be the only ones capable of controlling contraception and family planning. It's a disturbing sense of entitlement, but it exists nonetheless.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 04:53 PM
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To take it a step further, one's alpha-ness is no match for a woman's entitlement and solipsism. She doesn't care about her husband because her husband isn't a real person to her, but rather just some accomplishment on her life's to do list labeled as husband. Any husband, so long as he is attractive and financially successful, it works.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 07:50 PM
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I read the article and I wouldn't call it trash. I believe it was an honest attempt by a blue piller to understand why, but we already know why don't we? BIOLOGY. You can't negotiate this shit away with a high-powered career or washboard abs. It just IS.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 07:48 PM
7

Yeah exactly this. I didn't find it THAT out of the ordinary, although it is on the more BPD side of things...
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 09:21 PM
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To follow up, did you feel like deep down the relationship not working would be a personal failure, and perhaps that allowed you to look past these signs?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 09:21 PM
2

Yeah that's fine for you. In my opinion and preference, one should focus on their money situation if they are as broke as OP describes. It matters far more than having sex.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 11:43 PM
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Fine. Normally this is my advice to people, but OP needs to get his financial shit together right now, not go chase pussy.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 09:16 PM
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Don't date until you get your whole life together. You don't have to be a genius. Just work your ass off.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 04:00 PM
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You won't notice it. That's the nature of women and the person here saying otherwise is naive and living in a fantasy. If you think you're smarter than her on this regard, biology and science say otherwise. THEY WERE BUILT FOR THIS SHIT. You were not.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 03:59 PM
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You HAVE to take this L like THE man. I feel your pain, but life is calling for you to step up to a higher purpose right now, and it's up to you to make the most of it. Use this experience to learn and grow as a man. Get a career and be successful. Pour your heart and sole into this. Make and invest money. Develop yourself. Gym. Reading. Hobbies. Etc... Remember to NEVER get married. You learned this life lesson without losing your wealth in divorce court. You DID NOT have kids with this whore. …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 03:57 PM
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Yes. This is a side effect of living in reality and not fantasy land. It only sucks if you dwell on it and let it get at you. In all honesty You will get past it, just keep focusing your energy on yourself and how to improve and enjoy your own life.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 11:58 PM
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Many are here just to learn what the real rules of the game are so they have a fighting chance. And naturally the feminists in this world would shame TRP in an attempt to prevent a larger mass of men from learning the real rules, as we see with the Vice article.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 04:55 PM
2

haha i was thinking the same thing
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 02:15 AM
1

No it doesn't, it's much more observable and explainable than "god"
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 10:34 PM
3

It's almost like by pitting man vs. woman the masses are easily divided and consumed by these ideologies, meanwhile those in power gain more....
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 10:33 PM
5

OK so a rapper said something we'd expect a rapper to say....
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 06:39 PM
14

It's a great, real-life example of white knighting, including the sneaky "ally" type of betas out there who are just trying to sneak in the back door of mate selection because they could never really compete genetically.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 02:11 PM
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It's called "empowerment." When men do it they're "jerks." It shows how the feminine imperative currently owns the frame of public discourse. Don't fall for it. Hold frame and keep executing on your goals / life. It's a GIANT shit test.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 08:14 PM
6

Honestly You shouldn't be in a LTR at your age. PERIOD. I know that's not what you want to hear, but fuck off and stop being a sissy. EVEN IF I were to say ok bro, it's cool to be in an LTR, it wouldn't be with HER. This shouldn't be happening and she should shut it down immediately. Any respectful girlfriend would do that. She has no respect for you, your relationship, or herself. Clearly she loves the attention and you should break the relationship off permanently instead of lamenting and cryi…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 06:21 PM
2

I think OP would better be servied saying "not incompatible with equality" <= the point being that feminism no longer has anything to do with equality of genders. I do believe that equality in its purest sense is compatible with TRP. Equality as it is used today however is impure and inherently dishonest. It doesn't actually mean equality, it's a power play by women for even more special privilege than what they already possess. True equality in which we all have the ability share in the benefit…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 08:07 PM
3

Plus sometimes not drinking can lead to social suicide, no matter how much you want to try and deny it. False. If you don't want to drink you don't have to. That's part of YOUR frame, don't break it for social approval.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 02:37 AM
3

How do you feel about Nazis?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 06:57 PM
1

Democrats and feminists have been using the term "Alt-Left" for over a year now. Specifically it was first coined to alienate Sanders' supporters. You can look at peoples' twitter feeds, including people on her campaign, using the term "Alt-Left", so it isn't false allusions, it really, really did happen. The "Alt-Left" isn't like the Alt Right though, there is no equivalence and the people with progressive ideals would shun the label, not embrace it. It was used as a smear to muffle the noise f…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 06:39 PM
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Alt Left was started by Hillary Clinton supporters to try to ostracize and rid themselves of progressives during the election.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 05:31 PM
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It doesn't matter if the truth is that most are decent people. If you're allowing nazis into your party and standing by while they do and say nazi things, nobody gives a fuck about how decent you are. You're at a party with nazis. You should work hard to kick the nazis out of your party, before you start bitching about other people questioning the entire party. Take ownership of it.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 05:29 PM
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your logic makes no sense. I don't involve myself in violence so i would never punch a nazi in the face, less they were threatening violence against me or people i care about. Nazi doesn't equal patriarchy. Patriarchy isn't even a real thing anymore, but Nazis are very real.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 04:50 PM
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If you're going to be part of an ideology like the right (and I personally don't associate with any ideology, but pick apart issues one by one and form my own opinion), then the members of that ideology need to self regulate the assholes that ruin it. I believe in many ideas both from far left progressiveness (public health care works, in my opinion), as well as from the far right libertarian-isms (government should stay out of my bedroom / not regulate marriage). The real sad part about all of …
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 04:00 PM
1

In the morning, before work.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 06:22 PM
5

As gender roles continue to change, it's natural for women to cling desperately to the old social norms that benefit them. Letting men pay for them is one of them, and is rarely called out by feminists. Deep down women are programmed through their mothers, social media, pop culture, classroom, and society at large that because they have vaginas, they deserve to be paid for by men. Once you as a man wake up and realize that a vagina is just a wet hole to put your dick, AND that there are billions…
/r/askTRP15/08/17 06:11 PM
74

I've been off hard drugs for 10 years next week. props.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 06:25 PM
1

Then just buy a decent grill and stay home and cook your meals pal. I hardly believe an extra $5 in tip matters to most people on here, at least those of us with abundance mentality.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 01:18 PM
1

I'm a top income earner in the United States at 29 years old. I work in finance in a major east coast city in the PE/Banking space. I worked at Applebee's when I was putting myself through community college, and then as a bank teller when I went to a fantastic public university. I still have student loans because I had $0 when I went to university. When my Mom dropped me off she gave me $20 to get a fucking burrito. That's it. So yeah I could walk around like an asshole with a chip on my shoulde…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 09:55 PM
1

As a rule of thumb, servers who make a "shitload" of money are rare and are the exception not the rule.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 05:41 PM
1

There's only one state in this country to properly incorporate your business. Delaware.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 10:09 PM
2

Because a labor market determines how much any given positions get paid. The more people applying to a job, the more competitive it is to get said job, the likelihood of those applying accepting a lower wage goes up. Simple supply and demand. It's why we developed countries have minimum wage regulations, because less-skilled labor would, at times, create instances where people are competing for jobs and the employers could just lower the wage until it crowds out everyone but a few who would be w…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 05:02 PM
2

It isn't sad. It's refreshing. It's the ultimate "ah-ha!" moment in life. Embrace it. Live it.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 10:32 PM
2

What is so hard about fucking Harvard med students? they must be mythical figures to you. the type of people you would never come across in your life, huh? Harvard med students crave dick as much as the next bitch, believe it or not. I believe OP's story because that's EXACTLY how you fuck women, it's really not that hard as long as you have the basics down.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 02:17 AM
4

It's so true. He's also right about sidebar, lift, career, money, hobbies, game etc... Just focus, the rest is all horseshit. All the information you need is provided in the sidebar, it's a blueprint to improvement and achieving whatever goals you want. There's a lot of sour bitches here that want to tear people down instead of going out and living. I think a lot of dudes just get stuck in the anger phase permanently and never grow past that point.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 04:41 PM
1

It's a moot point because men aren't able to have sex as easily. You can live in hypotheticals, and sure hypotheticals will change assumptions if you indulge them, but this is real life. I don't want to commit to someone that has given sex away so freely prior to me. I might as well take it for free and get on with my day as well then, shouldn't I? This goes back to "Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Women are the gatekeepers of sex." If a woman has spent her teens and twenties actively eng…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 06:14 PM
1

Stack bread. Let bread grow. Repeat. Do this until you mathematically don't have to anymore.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 03:54 PM
1

A lot of people around here think that it hurts a woman's ability to pair-bond, which is ideally needed in order to form a family. For me, this isn't the issue. To me, a woman who has racked up a large n-count represents someone who lacks self control. To get to this point, you really have to think and understand just how easy it is for a woman to have sex casually - it's akin to me, as a man, trying to eat clean and be healthy, yet going to the fridge for a late night binge on ice cream. It's t…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 03:52 PM
2

Oh boy. Better not let this lead to any signs of weakness, or else my LTR might end up on some bad-boy's cock!!!!
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 04:45 PM
1

Yeah you figured me out. Good job bro, you call anonymous people on reddit pussies because you disagree with their personal lifestyle choices.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 02:34 PM
7

OK so what the fuck is she going to do to me? Cheat? boo fucking hoo. It wouldn't phase me, because I'm smart, i protect myself in the places that are most important, and i continuously develop myself physically, financially, professionally, socially and spiritually. I've already processed that any woman i LTR might cheat and I'm fine with that. IF it happens, I walk away. She isn't taking my money, because I don't allow that. Ever. So I don't really see what I have to worry about. She sees me b…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 10:14 PM
7

No it won't catch up to me because what is going to happen to me? I don't live with her. I won't get married. I won't combine assets. I don't pay for her for anything. None of this is going to change, because I have my values and standards for what I want in my life. If the relationship strays from these values and standards for too long, I end the relationship and get on with my life. I get what you're trying to say here, but your thinking is too black/white, and while your underlying dispositi…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 08:32 PM
12

I was in, and still am in, a LTR when i found TRP 2 years ago. It has helped me in terms of managing that LTR better and will help me in the future if it goes south and I have to delete. The thing about TRP is that it has a lot of advice and tools to use to better yourself as a man, but these are merely suggestions and not iron-clad laws. I am anti-marriage because of TRP and I am super grateful for that, so I think it has applicability to many different types of men who exist in this world and …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 06:09 PM
2

If the mom wants to be a cancerous cunt, and get 100% custody, Obviously if this is the case it's bullshit and I think the father should actually pay less than 50%. Custody should be 50/50 in all cases unless there is a legitimate reason. This should be default.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 06:39 PM
1

This is exactly how i've played the game so far. It works.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 05:58 PM
1

I agree but I would say a little more than 50/50 if one parent has primary care - i.e., more time spent actually caring for the child. 50/50 if custody is 50/50. I don't care if it's man or woman or what the genders are, I think actually raising a child is a lot of time and effort that a parent does not get compensated for. Agree on the proof of where the money is spent. It should all go to the child and if any left over into an education fund for the child going forward.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 05:56 PM
3

Perfect example for the use of body cameras.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 02:56 PM
-2

OK glad to read this. I agree, she is manipulative in her description to make it seem like she did it all on her own. Child support is a good thing. When parents split up, the primary caretaker deserves to be compensated FAIRLY for the costs of raising a child. I say FAIRLY because in a lot of cases the amounts required to be paid for child support leaves the payer in poverty - this is punitive and over the top. A "single" parent should only get enough to feed, clothe and house the child, and it…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 01:50 PM
1

Woah hey now, You can check my post history. I'm front of the line calling out feminism and how shitty it is. What you rate is retarded. You are speaking in absolutes like "everybody all the time" and then called them "literally" retarded. If you don't get how stupid speaking like this is, I don't know wtf to do for ya.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 01:36 PM
-2

No. It's fun for me to call you a cuck. I enjoyed it.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 09:09 PM
-1

This was a good fucking field report and the way he described it is perfect. Go fuck yourself cuck.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 08:10 PM
1

Cut her loose. She caught feelings and that's a no-go for you. You have other women. Replace and continue.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 04:11 PM
-1

Pretty much everything you wrote here is retarded, figuratively.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 09:04 PM
5

Amused mastery all the way. This is spot on. Unless of course you did something really shitty and she has a legit reason to be angry - then maybe don't show your amusement outwardly and just keep it to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 08:01 PM
1

I think it depends on the person. For me, the biological nature of it is a big deal to me. I don't expect "purity" in the religious sense, but a woman who has sex with a lot of partners casually, to me, is risky. You have to fully understand what it's like for women in the sexual marketplace. How hard is it for a woman to get laid, really? To me, it is akin to my eating habits. For instance, if I want to look ripped, I need to stop indulging in those easy late-night snacks that add up. A woman w…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 01:46 PM
1

I get what you're doing. There's NOTHING wrong with anal sex. I have nothing against it. I have done it before, various times with various women. No big deal. However, a woman letting me fuck her in the ass 4 hours after meeting her is not what I'd be looking for in a partner. It's cheap and easy, to me, and it tells me that she probably engages in this behavior with many men and regularly. Again, perfect for a one night stand or some slutting around, if that's what I'm looking for. I just don't…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 03:09 PM
3

Bacteria risk. Tissue risk. Other forms of infection. You can just accept the fact that a lot of men, especially in this subreddit, prefer more prudent standards in women we would want to date. Would I fuck a woman who chooses to have anal sex with strangers? Yes. Would I date her? No.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 02:13 PM
2

Being fucked in the ass is risky behavior, yes. And after 4 hours, yes it's not a good thing and is not someone I would ever want to commit to.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 01:21 PM
2

I don't respect someone who would let a stranger fuck them in the ass. 4 hours is a pretty low threshold and this person clearly has self control issues.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 09:19 PM
3

The article and this discussion is not about what women are attracted to. The article and this discussion are on how women choose marriage mates. You're assuming that this has anything to do with what women find attractive. I don't think degrees or jobs do much of anything in terms of attracting or getting women excited. Remember, we're talking about women getting married here. Their motivations for marriage are WAY different from there motivations for sex and who they do or don't find attractiv…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 10:14 PM
8

I don't agree with any of this, as far as frame goes.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 09:13 PM
40

I fucked her in the ass. This was only within only 4 hours of meeting her. I love this. Go you. But, my workmates and I were literally just talking about fucking randoms like this and how it makes it hard to have respect for women in general. They'll do anything hahaha.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 08:45 PM
2

Yeah nobody is saying that. The point of the article was women with college degrees looking for men who have college degrees. I know from my experience if i tell women what my degrees are in and / what industry i work in, they get all wet and attached. Because at a base level that's what women are, and they can't help it. it's in them.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 08:20 PM
4

We disagree completely on how women view men as potential mates.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 06:54 PM
1

She literally could have been hinting at you to pork her muff bro, which you should have done regardless of her golddigging ways or not.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 06:04 PM
9

Exactly. Men are accomplishments to women, not actual humans or partners. Men are there for women to consume sexually (the Alphas in their twenties) or to consume socially (husbands / marriage). Don't get it twisted. Any man with decent looks and enough status will do. They don't care who, just that they get that status.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 02:28 PM
20

Well from a pragmatic point of view You're right. Don't expect women to take pragmatic points of view, though.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 02:26 PM
1

Yeah you're legit trickle-truthing your own story. This all sounds fucked up and you provide no details for people to honestly and correctly give advice. Try posting again by being honest and open, or don't waste peoples' time who are genuinely here wanting to help others.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 01:29 PM
3

But honestly, we as a society worship marriages pretty irrationally. I mean, who doesn't want a giant party where you're the focus and get all these gifts? It's more about satisfying the woman's desires for consumerism than anything else. The industry knows this and preys on women through advertising and other means to covertly compete with each other by using their husbands / weddings/ marriages to keep score. You're right about not marrying. No reason to. Even if you want a family with one par…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 01:27 PM
2

It's fine that it's different strokes, but you provide no evidence that she is a gold digger. You sound like an asshole. I get that there's a lot of complaining about women and feminism here, and rightly so in most cases. But this is a community on sexual strategy first and foremost, not a community based on hating women.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 01:25 PM
1

Look at the rates of unemployment or underemployment for men under 35. This is directly related to education being feminized. While you present personal evidence from the town where you grow up, it's anecdotal to assume that's what's driving men away from college. Long story short, your shit doesn't make sense. Drop out rates for men aren't increasing because of part time jobs. I graduated with two degrees in finance and economics and i do well. Most men don't. Regardless of what women are going…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 01:23 PM
1

False. I wrote a dissertation on the drivers of social mobility in the west when I got a degree in economics. Historically, men marrying women of lower classes was one of the biggest reasons for people to move up class wise. All facts back this up. I have no idea what you're referencing or where that theory comes from.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 01:18 PM
1

Don't apologize. Get your shit together. LOOK AT YOURSELF I am bit of an emotional wreck at the moment, not sleeping, eating etc. Why are you like this? This is no way to live, man. You deserve to be living happily. Thriving. Healthy. Functioning. What are your hobbies? Career goals? Do you lift? workout alot? Eat healthy? etc...? Methinks you are struggling because you relied on HER for your happiness and good feelings, rather than yourself. Big mistake. Is she worth it to be living this way? T…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 10:46 PM
7

dude wtf is wrong with you?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 10:00 PM
1

Honestly that's your own doing. You were very vague about what those red flags were. As advice, next time you post a question like this, be as explicit as possible about the details. This is Reddit. You can be 100% anonymous here, so there is no need to spare details. You were basically asking for advice from people and giving us 40% of the story. How the fuck can people properly give advice without the information?
/r/askTRP06/07/17 09:53 PM
3

Break up with her tomorrow and NEVER, EEEEVVVEEERRR talk to her again.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 08:17 PM
4

Well then one can never know, so one will never marry, right?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 08:17 PM
1

I don't understand what you're saying. What red flags exist for you to not trust?
/r/askTRP06/07/17 07:43 PM
2

Eventually, though, I have to tell them. No you don't
/r/askTRP06/07/17 06:11 PM
2

Yup. No need to ever get your stuff back.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 05:39 PM
2

All of this. OP, learn what STOIC means and become it. Hold frame always. Holding frame here would entail what Ecoast_Man described above.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 05:36 PM
1

This had me laughing out loud as i read, bravo!
/r/askTRP06/07/17 05:33 PM
1

Your attitude is fine. Is it annoying? Yes. But don't spend too much time letting it take up space in your life. Get on with things. You now have a better understanding of the world and your place in it (better than most). Be grateful that you know now, at least.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 05:31 PM
2

It persists. It isn't these specific women. It's feminism and the female imperative. We live in a social order of feminine primacy, Rollo's words, not mine. But he's right. Rational Male is on point. Don't marry these women. Don't give them babies. That's the best medicine. Other than that, enjoy your life and grow into the man you've have dreamed of.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 04:41 PM
2

Also, women can't marry down because a "husband" is a status symbol to be flaunted to the rest of society to prove her worth. There's a high amount of covert competition between women, observable even amongst "bffs," that requires them to have the highest status male possible as a means of social proof of their worth/beauty/etc...
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 02:02 PM
1

This is hard to prove and maybe not on a mass scale, but I am 100% sure it happens often enough.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 01:56 PM
3

I was going to reply but everyone who already has replied covered it. You're free to think what you want but when you look at statistics the truth is apparent. In 20 years women will make up close to 70% of all bachelors degrees and probably closer to 80% of all advanced degrees. Women graduate high school at higher rates. Women get better grades. They go to college at higher rates. They graduate college at higher rates. They go to graduate school at higher rates. They graduated with advanced de…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 01:55 PM
1

I disagree. At 19 I was a homeless junkie with 3 arrests under my belt. I went to rehab, got clean, went to community college, graduated with high honors, went to a great state school and graduated with a degree in Economics and a degree in Finance while also learning Mandarin. I paid my own way, borrowed what I had to and today at 29 I work a really great job that puts me in the top 1% of earners in our country. I wouldn't be here without education and college. I think it has to do with who the…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 01:50 PM
2

100% agree with you sir. It's the way it is and it's why so many of us say enjoy the decline. No point in being salty forever over it. The best among us can observe the trend, see the changes coming and adapt ourselves and our lives accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 01:47 PM
3

It is about women refusing to date down. You're an exception, not the rule. If it wasn't the case, articles like these wouldn't exist, would they? NOWHERE in any of these pieces (almost always written by women) do the authors suggest dating men who didn't go to University. Why is that? Why?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 09:22 PM
2

Because to women, it's not even an option. Disney princess syndrome. They don't view men as meaningful, loving and loyal companions. They don't even view us as mates. We're FUCKING TROPHIES brother. We are their achievement, so they can look at their moms/sisters/friends/social media and say: "Look what I got!"
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 09:21 PM
24

Agree. 20's can still be fun and easy if you lift, women don't care about $$ at that point really, in my experience. I agree, if we want to fuck to our heart's content, now is a good time to be alive. If you long for a family or kids, you're fucked and it's truly a dice roll.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 08:59 PM
1

I don't like beer because it's too high in calories for my liking. I too stick with straight whiskey (bourbon). Usually I get it on the rocks, as the melting of ice makes the drink last longer as i sip (also i prefer the taste w/ ice vs. without). In general, I dislike drinking. I will do it in social situations as I described to avoid questions and to just fit in, but I always stick to one.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 06:44 PM
1

Don't hold doors for women.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 05:58 PM
1

Sounds good. I say go in raw and seed her.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 05:56 PM
1

You don't waste your time come on.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 05:53 PM
2

Give him a hard copy of the rational male.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 05:52 PM
4

2 Drinks and sip the 3rd the rest of the night.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 05:50 PM
76

A-fucking-men brother. Poor women! That guy you left when you were 27 to go "find yourself" just had his second child. Meanwhile, you're 35 and childless and lamenting men for not being high status enough for you. Tough life!
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 04:06 PM
35

Of course, it's still the mans fault Was just thinking the same thing. Notice how fem-centric media is? The women here are the victims. Nevermind that masses of men who will go without ever having a family life or raising kids going forward because they weren't a high enough status symbol (ahem, i mean "educated").
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 03:51 PM
117

This is the beginning of this issue, remember. Men are going to continue to make up a smaller % of college graduates in the west for the next couple of decades at least. The education system is stacked against men from a very young age and represents one of the purest forms of overreach attributable to feminism. The only kicker is that these women won't have high status men to attach themselves to. That's what they mean by "educated." It's like a German car to them. They don't want to be seen in…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 02:52 PM
9

Don't slut shame, she sounds empowered.....
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 03:39 PM
8

Pretty much yes, don't get married.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 03:38 PM
2

The things is, if she cheated once and you forgave her, why not cheat again?
/r/askTRP30/06/17 08:45 PM
1

I'm more into IWC
/r/askTRP30/06/17 08:42 PM
185

Nothing like some war stories about some drunk white bitches to get the weekend started, eh? As a former president of a fraternity at a major state university I can attest... There's always a Sheriff. It's kind of like a house pet... Guys.... If you learn anything here it's to make sure that no matter what happens in life, you never marry the sheriff.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 02:58 PM
5

Has to be a next.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 05:44 PM
5

The way I view it is this: We get one life to live. It's finite and that's it. There is not enough time on this planet to spend it rationalizing things that we are not okay with or don't want in our lives. If the girlfriend wants to live in a way where this is OK and acceptable, that's fine - it's her right, but she should seek out a boyfriend that supports her smoking weed with other guys privately. At the same time, OP should seek out a girlfriend who wouldn't put him in that position. Life is…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 05:39 PM
3

This is spot on. I commend OP for consistently approaching, number closing and getting dates. At some point, though, adjustments need to be made and dude needs to be getting his dick wet on the regular with so much effort.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 01:49 PM
5

You know what to do.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 11:31 PM
60

That feeling in your gut is ancient programming that should be listened to. More men need to understand this.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 11:30 PM
3

I agree with this route. As long as OP is honest with his intentions, it's up to her to decide if this is for her or not.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 11:28 PM
4

Crossfit blows. Keep lifting in a proper gym. If you want to expand your fitness routine/abilities, look into training martial arts.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 06:04 PM
3

I did the same thing 10 years ago. You need to find like-minded people, so start at activities that you would have in common (i.e., college, gym, work, sports, hobbies, etc...) Next, develop filtering mechanisms based on what you value and stick to your values. Don't compromise for anyone. In my experience, meeting two or three quality men that you share interests with will help you meet more, similarly-valued men.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 06:02 PM
3

Continuously develop your skills outside of your main job (but not while on the clock). Always look for better opportunities and don't necessarily think that loyalty will be rewarded, it won't be. Network constantly. Don't wait until you're ready to switch jobs.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 05:59 PM
2

You're a fucking loser for even talking to her at all. ignore.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 09:59 PM
3

She is bpd and hasn't dealt with those issues. IF she had, this would never happen. Ignore and get on with your life. It doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 08:13 PM
8

Yup, that's the word that came to my mind while reading too.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 02:35 PM
1

I assume my plates have sex with other men. I always have. When they tell me otherwise, I have a chuckle inside.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 05:10 PM
1

My point is that your plates fuck other dudes while making you think that they don't. If you're really telling plates that... haha, good luck.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 04:13 PM
3

You're saying that attractiveness and lack of common sense have a correlation here.... That's a stupid assumption and is completely baseless whatsoever. TRP is a place for men to exchange theories and ideas and improve upon those ideas. This theory is a terrible idea. It's not backed by any truth that you can prove and is completely speculative. I'm not sure why you're generalizing in this way, it does no good.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 03:44 AM
4

I feel sorry for you that you take that and then somehow derive the fact that, somehow, the more attractive a woman is, the dumber she is. Like how do you get to such a large generalization?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 09:38 PM
4

You sound so fucking bitter towards women, I feel sorry for you. We've all had dumb/stupid moments like this in our lives at one point or the other, it's called being fucking human. Additionally, I know plenty of attractive women who are super intelligent. This is all such bullshit. I would argue intelligence and looks are unrelated, but when I see someone who is physically fit (male or female) I assume some form of above average brain power in there to achieve that.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 06:58 PM
1

Then shut the fuck up and stop whining. You're choosing the easy way so you're going to win the easy prize.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 01:33 PM
2

Then why the fuck aren't you out here making fucking bread bro? I did top 1% in America last year while ten years ago i was homeless and in jail, so who the fuck are you?
/r/askTRP21/06/17 01:32 PM
2

Lift more and buy non graphic t shirts and v necks that show off your build. You ain't day gamin' at 16, but you can start putting in work now that will pay off IMMENSELY in your 20's. TRUST ME.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 08:07 PM
2

One of my best friends is short like you. He has a great career, awesome personality, in decent shape and a hot girlfriend so shut the fuck up and go lift and improve yourself.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 08:05 PM
2

I know too many people with "business ideas" these days. If it was good, you'd already be out meeting investors and developing it. You should learn computer science, inside and out. That will take much more than 2 years but fuck you because robots are going to take a majority of today's jobs during your lifetime and you're only 18 so you have time to really grow into a skill set like that.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 08:04 PM
1

no
/r/askTRP20/06/17 08:02 PM
23

she's a full grown woman WTF is that? Never heard of one of those before...
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 08:00 PM
2

I would beg to differ on your last point. I personally go a long way in my life to benefit people and causes i care about, at times spending hundreds of hours per year doing so. If women want to have sex with whoever whenever that's their prerogative. Who am I to say they're wrong for that? In my country (America) they are free to do as they please and so am I. I don't have an opinion on civilization or society failing, I think people have been saying that since the beginning of time. People alw…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 07:53 PM
1

Even if she was willing to be monogamous, OP knows she is banging a variety of different guys. Would YOU wife up a woman who you knew slept with 4 or 5 other dudes last month?
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 11:07 PM
1

How would you know if a plate fucks other dudes?
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 11:05 PM
2

Everyone is a prospect to her because in her mind she is a 10. The reality is likely she is ready to get married and have babies and she will go through all the guys she has fucked in order of value to her until she finds one that satisfies her commitment desires. It has NOTHING to do with the guy. It's 100% solipsism and "I want now!" Like a child who wants a toy.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 11:02 PM
5

The takeaway I got was don't be the beta guy that jumps at monogamy with a woman who just went down her roster and got a bunch of thanks but no thanks from "better" guys. The likelihood is that beta bob who just cuffed this bitch thinks that he was the only one on her radar. Low and behold, she probably asked and was rejected by others (for commitment) before settling for beta bob.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 10:58 PM
19

Free will. We don't make them act like hoes, they get there all on their own.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 10:50 PM
1

Disagree. Women won't date or marry down in social status and class. For women who have strong "career" ambitions, they're not settling for anything less than what they achieve themselves. In this regard, the career IS the status symbol to her.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 02:55 PM
1

Give me shit for oneitus all you want. I don't give a fuck. If you had this girl literally drooling off your dick, treating you like a king from cooking amazing food to full body massages multiple times a week to literally my choosing of sexual escapades whenever however...your punk ass would fall for it too. Oneitis. And no, not every man falls for it like you.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 02:47 PM
2

I have been struggling with sugar for a year now and will go days, sometimes a couple of weeks, with limited (not zero) sugar. It always ends in extreme cravings that I have yet to over come. Care to share any advice or tools that have helped you along the way? (besides the obvious "discipline")
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 08:57 PM
1

The majority of women get divorced, the majority instigate it, and the majority are paid to do so. This isn't a "slight risk", divorce is a statistical likelihood. While this is true, the majority of marriages don't end in women divorcing men. We were talking about women instigating divorce, but I agree that no matter who instigates it, the man loses. Risk vs. Benefit is economic in terms and unique to each individual, so i'm not about to look at my male friends that get married and say "stupid …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 06:23 PM
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OK I don't disagree with you, but it isn't a statistical likelihood, it's more like a 1/3 chance. 50% divorce rate. ~70% initiated by women. So you're at like a 35%. Still, a dice roll. Still, not worth it. Don't marry because you don't know. Statistically it's ~35%. OK, but for all intents and purposes, we should assume it's 100% and never marry. What these %'s don't convey is the MAGNITUDE of loss IF it happens, which is too brutal for me to think about.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 01:20 PM
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I don't believe that chances are that it WILL happen. I think every woman IS capable of it, but a lot of women are decent people who refrain from such acts. That said, again, we must always assume it will happen, because we just don't know, do we? That might be one of the most maddening things about it all, the not knowing or "I didn't see this coming" story. Oh well, it's a reason to be grateful for our ability to engage and discuss these things and at least be more thoughtful in the way we go …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 09:22 PM
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That's why we never marry, right? All women have this potential, said another way is: Any woman you meet COULD do this to you and you don't know if she is that woman until it happens. Therefore, we must assume that it will happen and either accept the penalty of it, or avoid that risk and not have kids/get married. Regardless, if you are in a situation where you had kids with a woman that did this to you, it's YOUR shitty life decision and nobody else's.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 06:26 PM
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Then you never marry and never have kids. Otherwise you are vulnerable to these things. You're the one who brought up kids. I'm assuming if you have kids and a family, you're well aware of where you're vulnerable in the first place. If you happened to have kids with a woman who would do this to you, sucks to be you. Should have made better life decisions.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 06:11 PM
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Nah you can still leave if you have kids and work out an okay arrangement while being a fantastic father. If the mother is a bitch, that sucks, but if you apply sidebar, specifically stoicism, IMO anything is tolerable. It's all more of an internal struggle than external one, no?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 01:53 PM
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Could not agree with this more. It's like people don't even think about why they have kids, they just do it as a form of status of achievement and then the work stops there!
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 07:01 PM
2

DEAR MAN GIVE FAST is a good technique for many confrontations or negotiations / tough conversations that occur in life. It really focuses on awareness of the mind and situation.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 03:13 PM
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You are what you believe yourself to be, man. Keep telling yourself these stories and that's who you will be, but don't blame the red pill. There's no hard/fast rules to this approach to living, you take what works for you and you leave the rest behind. We say lift here because those of us who have transformed our bodies into top 10% end up having sex with more beautiful women more often than before. If you only have excuses and want a pity party, you came to the wrong fucking place. You've been…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 07:41 PM
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None of what you're saying makes any sense, nor does it have any economical basis whatsoever.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 01:52 PM
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IQ has a lot more to do with the environment one lives in than the other way around. There's enough evidence of this previously presented. You're putting the cart before the horse here. That Africans never had any incentive to improve the infrastructure isn't a fair assumption, considering that continent bore the economic and social brunt of hundreds of years of colonialism. Basically their wealth and resources were exploited and exported, with little remaining there. Now, one can argue that is …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 06:00 PM
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Yes, people have evolved differently. I don't disagree with that. The original issue I took was that the people of Africa are not prosperous because they have always had lower IQs, thus explaining the west being more affluent and advanced. EVERY group of people in today's age has a whole spectrum of IQs, including Geniuses that live in the poorest parts of RWANDA and fucking idiots who grow up in white suburban upper class America. The races of the people of Africa are not inherently dumb just b…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 01:40 PM
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The first article you send, if you read an understand the analysis has everything to do with how well students can take tests. The author goes on to not that this has nothing to do with actual intelligence nor how well people do in life. The second study is basic and doesnt' control for a lot of other factors.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 01:28 PM
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Yes I read this. The most successful civilizations are ones that understand and manage resources. That said, there have been numerous disease outbreaks in Africa over the course of human history that seriously challenged those civilizations. It has a lot to do with environment.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 01:26 PM
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Yes, IQ is fluid. Studies don't need to be done to prove the environment one is subjected to throughout their life plays a large role in determining this. That is what I'm arguing. Being born in Africa or of African decent does not mean you have a lower IQ than Europeans or Asians. If you live in a stable home in a stable well-off country that has educational and societal structures, of course your IQ can flourish. IQ isn't the reason that Africa goes through famine or disease crises, which was …
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 10:37 PM
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Literall the conclusion form one of your sources (the book), which analyzes all of the relevant studies on this topic... Conclusion "The studies most directly relevant to the question of whether the IQ difference between blacks and whites is genetic in origin show no association between IQ and African, as opposed to European, ancestry. A few older studies of skin color are consistent with European superiority, but most are not. The best modern study shows no relationship between IQ and European …
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 07:59 PM
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I am not a conformist. I take issue with your false facts as a means to throw in a veiled form of supremacy. It's ridiculous to expect people not to challenge that, and then cower when challenged on it. I can exist in a world where I understand the principles of TRP and still call out things like this. That's free thought, being able to take in all the information I can consume and make observations and judgments on that information as to what is real and/or applicable in any given scenario. Fur…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 07:02 PM
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You're speaking about the evolution of a species over millions of years. The development of civilizations and the ways and means in which they gained cultural and economic prominence. Also, throughout the history of our species, different cultures and peoples/civilizations were dominant. Think Egyptians. Aztecs. Romans... The list could go on. Your bias is that you are judging as of now, why have the best economics, quality of life, access to education always been white countries and some east a…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 06:59 PM
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It's bullshit. Veiled racism through presenting "studies" to make themselves feel a false sense of supremacy to compensate for a lack of self-worth.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 06:53 PM
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I call bullshit because you offer no proof. If said studies exist, and they are legitimate, and you can provide them. Do so.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 06:01 PM
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This has nothing to do with race or what continent You are from, and everything to do with the economics, quality of life, and access to education of said places. Also, this is not a true empirical study. There is no basic rule on human IQ. The people who ran this study did so in an underhanded manner. They manufactured these results.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 05:52 PM
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Get this weak shit out of here. You throw around #'s with no support? Preposterous. I already know what evidence you would cite. The larger scientific community has already debunked the ways and means of said study. The people who did that study selectively ignored and then excluded Africans with higher intelligence from their findings. I call bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 05:49 PM
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Provide proof for these numbers.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 04:29 PM
2

Most women ride the CC and get away with at least beta providers. It's the specific "career type" women who fuck themselves.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 06:50 PM
3

The wall is unforgiving indeed.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 05:10 PM
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Dowries were used in some instances to enrich men This goes to the point of the article with these women bitching about men not "manning up" and marrying them.... What are the men really being offered in return to do such a thing? Of course women don't think introspectively like this because solipsism.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 04:43 PM
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This should say "Men have been willing to marry down, women always up." You can look, historically economics show that the #1 way for social mobility for women is through marriage, but the same is not true of men.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 04:28 PM
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Regardless of if it's biomechanics or not - and i agree, it's biological - it IS a superficial behavior by definition, worrying about status to that point. Nowhere did I say men and women are the same. If you read my words, I actually articulate the differences in how we approach "careers" - that men approach careers for maximization of resources and women do it for status. Literally the difference is superficiality and represents a class signalling mechanism. Nice try to flex though.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 04:24 PM
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Throughout history men have been willing to marry down for a wife to start a family with. Women are too superficial to consider this and place too much emphasis on career. I think the reason men are not considered "career men" is because they view careers as a means to gain resources to the point of independence and safety. Women view it purely as a social status mechanism. I'm generalizing here, but it makes a huge difference. If women view careers as social status then they are never going to …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 03:45 PM
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It'll leave a gaping hole in her soul. I fucking love it, man!
/r/askTRP17/05/17 10:58 PM
1

Walk away completely, this is bullshit.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 10:41 PM
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I live in America. It's pretty scary to have him as our leader, but I get why people voted for him. The Alternative was blatant corruption and status quo and I'm not going to pretend like I can feel other's pains or anxieties, as my life is abundant.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 01:44 PM
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This is on point. I would say in general, the overarching psychology behind this is that MOST people you come across in life are only really concerned with what you can do/provide for them. When they see you improving your value (which occurs in so many ways), there is an underlying fear inside of them that you will leave them behind - in other words, they can no longer "get" from you, like they have in the past. Additionally, when we improve ourselves in the midst of people who are stuck in rou…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 12:58 PM
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I disagree. Your thinking is too black/white here. Your assumption is that if I am "enjoying the decline," which is essentially realizing how society is shifting, how sexual dynamics are today and subsequently taking advantage of that, that I can not achieve meaning in other areas of my life. In reality, are women really worth that much? Really? Your assumption equates women to having such a meaningful effect on one's soul as to assume that one cannot achieve "freedom" or "meaning" through other…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 02:16 PM
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This was awesome to read. As men, I think we are a fortunate that we're able to truly compartmentalize things. I believe this is rather unique to our gender. For instance, I can separate my mission and purpose in life, which is what I wake up for and spend a majority of my time and energy on, from women, or on a greater scale - the need for love and validation and sex and everything that can get twisted up into that compartment. Like really having faith that if I'm taking care of my mission, my …
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 02:12 PM
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I would agree and I'd say we're saying the same thing. I have a strong mission and purpose in life - it just doesn't involve women, or in a greater sense - relying on women to fill an emotional/spiritual place in my heart. I have other friends/purposes for that. If I felt comfortable sharing my personal struggles and subsequent climb and achievement I would, but I really try to avoid coming off as bragging or wagging my dick.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 02:07 PM
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No, I think that you mistook what I said. Clearly TRP advocate that we don't fall prey to this behavior. That's a no-brainer. What I meant was (and what TRP stands for) is - You don't have to pay for women to date/fuck them. In fact, I would say you don't have to pay for a woman even if you are in a LTR with her IF you do the following: Lift - Develop a physique that puts you in the top 10% of men. This includes diet/lifestyle to achieve, but we all assume that is what we mean by "Lift." Abundan…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 01:57 PM
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I know enough about carving a path from nothing. The point of the post was directed at the "Oh if we just convert enough men to this way of thinking then women will have to submit" group. That isn't going to happen, and I don't believe it should be propagated here. I wasn't trying to be defeatist, but I can see why it came off that way. Enjoy the decline is awesome because when we come to the understanding that we have here, we are free to live the lives we want. Living in reality is a supreme a…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 08:58 PM
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This one was a really good episode (Joe Rogan is awesome). A lot of deep thought, it's a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 07:38 PM
2

This is fantastic. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 07:07 PM
1

That's exactly how I play the game sir.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 03:42 PM
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In hindsight we all knew it, that's the maddening world of investing. If I pick stocks, I'd try to go from a value strategy. But I don't have the time to research this well enough and I truly believe that REALLY good returns aren't consistently achievable over the long-term. *Edit: REALLY good returns are achievable in the Private Equity world, where investors can control the business. I do believe this.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 03:37 PM
1

Nice - I'm on the M&A side. I guess we have different views on EMH then, eh? Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 03:27 PM
1

Yeah? Well how did that turn out for them? You're the kind of guy who would get demoted in rank in ancient Rome. Your 'realistic' attitude promotes cowardice in men. I'm the kind of guy who lifts 4 days a week, makes top $$ and fucks regularly. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 03:25 PM
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Buy ETFs, don't try to pick stock by stock. The transaction fees on excessive trading will wipe out any profits above the market you can make - and most professional managers can't beat the market regularly. As for buying vs. renting, don't think of it in terms of what's a better return - buying will generate more wealth. Think about whether you want to stay in one place (then buy) or move around (then rent). Additionally, buying a small house or apartment in a city (i've done it) is a good idea…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 03:16 PM
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Also looking for ways to invest my money, while being frugal, so that I can make more money. You got it bro. This + lift = life goals. Both will pay off exponentially (literally).
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 02:10 PM
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I agree with everything you've said here. There's enough evidence to back it up, and I'm familiar with these arguments, as I make them myself. I just don't see society as a whole shifting to accept this. I think, from a sexual strategy point of view, operating in a world with a bunch of blue-pill men is actually easier and advantageous for us. If your goal is to LTR or Marriage, well I'm sorry things will be much more difficult, but not impossible, on that front. Then again, we were never biolog…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 01:43 PM
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Yup, you're spot on with that. They need a shadowy enemy/oppressor to rally against and further the cause, no?
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 01:33 PM
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Do you think society/women are susceptible to change? That was what I was trying to say. Sure we can destroy the mythology and educate each other and those willing. But I believe a majority of men will stay blue pill, which ultimately enables hypergamy in women.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 01:29 PM
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I disagree. If you feel that way or are falling victim to those dynamics, You're doing something wrong.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 01:27 PM
2

This is the only one I see, unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 01:26 PM
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I'm not going to down vote you. We ought to be able to discuss these things without hurt feelings or ego (ideally). I think you can have a good LTR in America/the West, it just takes a ton of work. See Married Red Pill for that, there is good advice and there are a lot of men doing it. What I am arguing against are some of the sentiments I've seen around here that argue that if we "show/convert" enough men to reality, then we can change society/hypergamy. My argument is that this isn't a realist…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 12:47 PM
1

My mission is going really well, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 10:38 PM
2

Beta shit out of here? This is not beta. Beta is whining about the way things are and staying stuck in the angry phase. "OHHHH wahhh. Why are things so unfair? Why don't pretty women want to fuck me? wahhh it's feminism's fault. Women are BAD. If they would just agree to be subjugated to men, then I might get to have sex with pretty women." "Maybe once sex robots are viable I won't have to feel bad about not fucking pretty women. Until then I'll bitch about it." You don't know what beta means. G…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 09:55 PM
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No. This sub is not about changing hypergamy or feminism or society. THIS. SUB. IS. ABOUT. SEXUAL. STRATEGY. PERIOD.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 09:52 PM
4

i thought the same thing. Who bangs 5-7 women? Like, really? Was it 5? was it 7? or Did you find 2 women from your past and you banged one 3 times and the other twice?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 06:12 PM
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OK, pal. There's a reason why TRP endorses "Enjoy the Decline." Have fun saving the world.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 06:08 PM
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I don't know if I can handle it anymore, I'm considering leaving her almost daily. This isn't the type of person you should be committing to in a LTR and you know it. Your subconscious is trying to repeatedly tell you that this person is a risk for you and that you deserve better. You said it yourself: I need to be with someone who respects me I always thought I could put this relationship back on track, she isn't just a girl I fuck, she is something more. You have oneitis. You are telling yours…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 01:48 PM
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Yeah this is a great point. OP isn't clinging to the relationship because it's a great relationship, because it's not. Is flipping out and crying about not turning out a light normal? Is embarrassing your partner in front of your family over a chocolate egg normal? Certainly not. This is not a healthy person to be dating and OP knows it. OP is clinging to the relationship for the small amount of external validation it provides AND for the distraction from himself. It's comfortable and easy to st…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 01:40 PM
2

At any point during the process of coming up with this idea, logging onto a computer, writing this post and hitting submit did you ever think about what you're actually saying?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 02:11 PM
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I live in a $300k house and I drive a 6 year old ford. I could buy a fancy new car today in cash if i wanted, but I have no desire to advertise my provider capabilities like that. Additionally, I work in finance and I know how that shit works. Big house, fancy car? = I am indentured longer than I truly need to be. For what?
/r/askTRP04/05/17 09:24 PM
1

You should get a therapist. Your parents fucked you up and it probably complicates your life in more ways than you realize. Building a life does take willpower. It's hard. It's difficult and unforgiving at times. This is also what makes humans, and particularly men, unique. The ability to build. I encourage you to find help. Come to the understanding that in life, nothing external is going to make you feel okay. All of that is internal work. Work on yourself. It is difficult and hence not many p…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 09:17 PM
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You don't do an LDR. As such, You will never face this shit test.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 09:13 PM
2

I feel I got a somewhat attached to her, but that's not the point. No, that's the point.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 04:07 PM
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A few observations, as I am 29 and have been in this process for about 8 years. -The first two points, finances and health, are very complimentary. That is, unless you come from a well-off family (or even if your parents paid for your education), you will need to live well below your means to build a financial foundation. With this, building your lifestyle around health and fitness can allow you to save money. You will learn to cook at home, which leads to healthier diet and saving money on not …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 01:17 PM
1

I have had good results with fenugreek. You can get this online and it is not really expensive if you look in the right places.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 01:27 PM
1

You should be hanging out with other girls too, not just one person. That is really fucking you over here and you're over thinking it by about 90%. Your interactions via text should only involve logistics. Go hang out with other girls and forget about her.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 02:00 PM
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Number one thing a man should never do in life is get cucked. You're on cuck highway right now. Fortunately, there are still a few exits coming up before you're a total cuck. But if you keep going, she will cuck the shit out of you if she hasn't already (she most definitely has already cucked you bro). Get the fuck out of this relationship. It sounds horrible and you sound like someone who has no self esteem. Maybe go work on that part of yourself for awhile before dating again. Also, don't go a…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 08:42 PM
5

This is really important, I agree. Frame should be established prior to dating anyone.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 03:46 PM
2

You should be close banging tinder dates. Tinder is for close banging on the first date.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 02:11 PM
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Roughly 8 or 9 years ago I had an Honors Ethics class at University in which our assignment was to determine the most "ethical" society (the class was ~10 people). We got to the point of legalizing prostitution or not, and almost all women in the class were vehemently against it. I was for it in an outspoken manner and faced verbal backlash and shaming from women in the class, questioning my manhood. The best quote was "Why wouldn't You just go pick up a woman at a bar. Wouldnt' that feel like m…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 01:31 PM
1

All of the above require impeccable frame and abundance mentality, in my opinion. It's why TRP does not recommend LTRs and advises men to be prepared for an LTR before entering one, as LTR Game is a different league from single life.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 08:01 PM
3

Unless your friend is a surgeon (which then at 32 to the age math starts to get fishy), i highly doubt he brings in $50k after-tax a month. That would be like $1million per year at least, pre-tax. Not at 32.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 01:32 PM
0

You made good points but you spell like an asshole. Use spellcheck and people will take what you say more seriously. The other guy is just a fucking asshole.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 06:01 PM
5

You are both fucking assholes.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 05:29 PM
1

It's in the fucking sidebar. You're too lazy to fucking read it. You want everything spoon fed to you, clearly. Do yourself a favor and read the side bar. I've read it a few times. You're looking for a magic pill because you're scared and lazy. There is not one. You have to do all the work to get the rewards, and that involves actually developing as a human being. Good luck.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 04:45 PM
1

I read it.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 04:18 PM
1

Then go MGTOW and shut up if you don't want to do the rest of the work. Fuck prostitutes and stop whining about it. But what you shouldn't do is assume TRP doesn't work because you haven't even given it a half-assed try.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 01:24 PM
1

Because there's a bias included in Tinder of the TYPES of women that will sign up for that app and use it (and subsequently match with you). Tinder is fine if it is supplemental, but in my opinion, game never sleeps. You should be approaching and talking to women throughout your day.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 08:45 PM
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No, it doesn't. That isn't how the world works, my friend. Just lifting and dressing well gets your foot in the door. You still have to do most the work after that via things like: -Game -Frame -Charisma -Social proof/preselection -Passing shit tests (or even getting to this point). The list goes on. You don't give any indication of your social efforts, other than tinder, which is downright terrible in terms of mating strategy. You also don't mention if you have a purpose in life. A career. Some…
/r/askTRP18/04/17 04:56 PM
5

You're never getting anything with the sense of entitlement you're carrying around. I almost feel sorry for you, because it seems you feel the world owes you something. It doesn't.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 03:42 PM
1

I don't know many people with a weekly cocaine habit... Just saying. Good call OP.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 03:41 PM
2

Get a lawyer immediately. Don't get blacked out drunk.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 01:39 PM
1

I graduated from Temple. Go there. Message me if you want advice or tips.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 09:58 PM
1

HIIT
/r/askTRP14/04/17 08:50 PM
1

The relationship is over. Go meet new women.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 07:36 PM
1

Art
/r/askTRP14/04/17 07:35 PM
1

What college are you wanting to go to in Philly?
/r/askTRP14/04/17 07:34 PM
-10

I didn't get that far. Was a lot of text.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 07:27 PM
4

Then test this out. Go fuck another girl.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 06:36 PM
3

I started lifting at 19 in 2008. By age 22 I was getting ridiculous amounts of attention from attractive women. Attention I never received before. I was like 175 and cut at 6'1". This had nothing to do with anything other than my looks, because I had no game or status at that point. I can attest to the fact that the bodybuilder physique will get you laid regularly with minimal effort. Today I float between 190-210 depending on what stage I am in. When I am cut I can go to a bar and get laid with…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 04:07 PM
1

My answer directly addresses why here, on TRP, we focus on lifting more than anything else. This is because women respond to a muscular and lean look more than anything else. TRP is about sexual strategy. Big picture, yes you should do everything for yourself first and foremost. But the idea of lift is directly related to the experience of men here who do lift and the real life responses they receive from women for lifting.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 04:03 PM
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Because TRP is about sexual strategy with women and women are vapid and shallow. Lifting plays right into their strategy. **Note: Blue pill main stream society would have you believe that men are the more shallow ones. As we all know, LIES.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 12:15 PM
-1

What are you afraid of?
/r/askTRP12/04/17 07:01 PM
1

Dude calm the fuck down. NO. She wouldn't. This could easily have been researched on your own.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 01:32 PM
3

I would fuck her. I would not do anything more than t hat.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 01:01 PM
1

Fiction. You need to understand that human bodies are on a spectrum with the average being most people. If you're well below average, then yes i would say this is a concern and could be detrimental, but otherwise, just try to be confident in bed.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 01:00 PM
0

Show up and do the right thing. You're an asshole right now.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 12:47 PM
0

Just fucking pitch in and do the work? You're an ADULT.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 05:57 PM
1

Lift. Lift. Lift. Start TODAY.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 05:16 PM
1

I don't think this was a rational, well thought-through decision by her. Feelz, bro. I stopped here because you haven't read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 05:07 PM
2

Standing ovation required, gents.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 05:05 PM
1

NEXT. Go fuck ten other women. Lift.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:15 PM
1

Yes I do believe I can drop her without an internal struggle, because I have done it previously with pretty good partners in the past. It's MY mission first. I understand the "in love" feelings and their purpose, as far as biology goes. At the end of the day, if I'm going to commit to my current gf long term I already know that means she is getting offered dick every day during that time. It's not her fault. But this is life. This is reality. This is the Red Pill. If you can detach yourself and …
/r/askTRP11/04/17 01:51 PM
1

Do you have other plates?
/r/askTRP10/04/17 10:27 PM
1

She is looking for plausible deniability. She doesn't want to feel like a slut. Show up and escalate.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 10:26 PM
1

GO. FUCK. TEN. OTHER. WOMEN. Ghost her. Never speak to her again. And don't be a little bitch about it. Actually have some god damned self-respect and follow through.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 10:24 PM
1

she's a plate bruh. do you really think she dodged his kiss?
/r/askTRP10/04/17 10:18 PM
2

Good advice given already. On top of that all, I would stress this to you: Internalize this LIFESTYLE change. Fitness and clean eating is going to be you for the rest of your life (right?!), so internalize your new frame. Then, realize that it's a long, long road to walk. We walk it together and the fitness community is super supportive, in my experience. No need to rush things, but stay disciplined. I say get to your 190 goal and reassess from there. Lifting throughout is important though, so k…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 10:03 PM
2

It hurts until you internalize AWALT. How old are you? I'm guessing early 20's. I'm 29. Have a LTR of ~ 2 years. We are "in love." To be honest, I have been emotionally detached from every woman I've gotten involved with since I was 24 and I discovered AWALT first hand. No matter how "in love" my current LTR and I are, for me... I'm detached and focused on MY mission. Get to the point where you live life on your terms and rely on yourself for your feelings of purpose, fullness and happiness.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 09:58 PM
2

To be honest, after a while it's hard for me to keep a straight face in those moments. I probably end up chuckling and changing the subject. If you have abundance mindset then you are outcome independent, demonstrating high value and it will show. She will see it and will be that type of girl for you.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 09:53 PM
1

That's an interesting take I guess. Much like the gym though, it's super important to focus on form and technique to get the results and the growth.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 06:55 PM
10

I don't think this version of day game approaching is efficient or well thought out. You're just randomly trying to stop women on the street walking somewhere. To me, this is not how to day game. I mean maybe one or two while you're out and about, but you really need to have a way to develop common interests or spark conversation organically. You basically leave yourself with no "ins" to conversation and it comes off as creepy (even I find you creepy just reading this). In NYC especially, people…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 06:30 PM
1

this
/r/askTRP07/04/17 08:07 PM
7

I say go for it. I enjoy fucking prostos. Slick my hair back and feel like Patrick Bateman.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 07:13 PM
3

This is fucking hilarious that you posted this here.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 07:04 PM
5

You have completely solid proof she cheated. Why wouldn't you?
/r/askTRP07/04/17 06:07 PM
5

Just don't go to the event. It isn't worth it. OP fucked this whole thing up because he can't hold frame. He should have waited (as many people advised) until after the event. Now he will be in a social scene where is ex shows up and there is high drama.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 05:33 PM
10

Well you didn't really take people's advice and now she is going to show up at a social event and make a scene. Good job bro. You should ignore her and you should call your friend and cancel the plans. Reschedule for another time. You broke up with her. It's over. No need to talk anymore.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 05:32 PM
2

Wrong on the first 3 points. TRP does not endorse that either.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 05:27 PM
1

PM me if you have any questions. When I was 19 I was a skinny fat weakling. When I started lifting I could barely bench 25 pound dumbbells. Today I warm up on the bench with 185. It's a long road to walk and it takes time, but it's a lifestyle commitment. You're going to commit to doing this for the next 50 years bro.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 01:37 PM
1

GFTOW
/r/askTRP06/04/17 10:08 PM
1

Splits. And with proper nutrition and rest, no, why would that wear you out? That's 5 hours a week. I've been doing it for a decade.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 10:07 PM
1

I found a better job that makes enough $$ for me to capitalize on my short and long-term plans. Graduate school is very expensive and I fully self-funded my undergraduate degree, which I will pay off this year. Taking on another $150-200k in debt is bonkers.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 08:08 PM
3

Always go with no response, when in doubt. Women love the reaction they can get. Don't give it to them.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 08:07 PM
3

But you don't give a fuck, right?
/r/askTRP06/04/17 06:40 PM
2

To be honest, if You're looking at these types of careers, you'll have limited free time to build entrepreneurialistic ventures. Law will take up all your time to start making $$$. Same with most business careers. I suggest taking a step back and really figuring out what you want from life and then back track to see how to get to it. I wouldn't recommend Law or Finance careers unless you are genuinely interested in those. Speaking as someone who has worked in finance for the past 5 years. I have…
/r/askTRP06/04/17 06:39 PM
3

LIFT. Religiously. Forget about girls for a full year and fully dedicate yourself to lifting 5 days per week. Never miss a beat. You can find fitness reddits to help in advice. Additionally, check out bodybuilding dot com. They have very exercise on there with video instruction, as well as fantastic forums to find people that have been where you are. Seriously, you need to fucking lift your ass off and build muscle. Also, google CT FLetcher and Arnold for motivation videos. It helps, IMO.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 05:04 PM
2

MBA could help you get a decent job, but I don't think it's something you should invest in (unless your parents are rich) unless you pretty much know what you want to get out of it (i.e., finance MBA ->> banking). Your GPA and undergraduate major will keep you out of top tier (top 25) schools, no matter what your GMAT score is (unless you have some truly REMARKABLE story).
/r/askTRP06/04/17 04:57 PM
12

Ignore it. Also she is trying to show you that she has value by explicitly telling you she fucks other guys. Dread the fuck out of her, but do it with actions not words.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 02:59 PM
5

You played a stupid game and you won a stupid prize. Deal with it. Stop trying to be a lying dickhead to save yourself. You're clearly too much of a bitch to stand up on your own and be held accountable for your actions. Also, your friend Paul is a shitty friend. Like real shit. IDK why you keep the company of people like that.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 02:54 PM
1

Interesting. Might have to do with your relationship with your father. Either way, You're aware of it now, so you should be able to correct it, no? Men are pretty easy to get along with, especially compared to the females bruh...
/r/askTRP06/04/17 02:51 PM
1

You're the only person that can fill up that "need" for yourself. You're looking outwards for comfort and stability, which is always a big fat fail. You need to provide this from within. Yes, develop strong and deep male friendships. Trust me.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 01:51 PM
5

OK then if you are sure of this I would do the following. Emotionally detach from this person ASAP, if you already haven't done so. You need to know that you're completely done with her. As you've said, you two will be at an event together. Be cool. Keep up appearances. Don't show your cards at all. Ghost. Ghost. Ghost. Make sure you get any valuables of yours first that she might have. You can send her shit via post. Stick to it and never look back. Lift like a motherfucker. Tune in your diet. …
/r/askTRP06/04/17 01:49 PM
6

Do you have hard proof that she did, in fact, cheat? If so, fine tell her you know, she cheated, here's the evidence, please get out of my life and leave me alone. If you don't have proof, how do you know she cheated? Just curious...
/r/askTRP05/04/17 09:57 PM
2

Go lift bro. You deserve it for holding frame!
/r/askTRP05/04/17 07:39 PM
1

If you live off scholarships, fine. But then look for a full-time program, not online. This will help in networking and making contacts in the industry you want to go into. If you plan on living off student loans, don't do that.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 06:22 PM
2

You should seek out someone who feels the way you do, instead of trying to fit a square peg into a round hole as you have been. On a deeper, human level. It's not fair to expect her, this far into a relationship, to just switch over and go towards openness. That isn't for everyone and 2 years in is a bit late in the game to figure that stuff out. Try to search for women who are into that to begin with.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 06:21 PM
0

Try some fucking gratitude, brother. Of all the organisms that you could have existed as, you're a human and a man. You live in an era of unlimited information and possibility, with advancing health sciences and technology to consistently improve your lot in life. Try living life from a point of abundance and gratitude. Find a purpose. We don't know why we're here, but we have control over ourselves to make the best of it while we are.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 06:06 PM
3

Totally THIS
/r/askTRP05/04/17 05:53 PM
1

I have had a regular plate for the last 7 months whom I dont think would continue to sleep with me if she new I had met another girl i was this interested in. You have a Girlfriend. First mistake to your attempt at plate theory. I also dont think the new girl that IM excited about would be ok with me continuing my sexual relationship with my earlier plate, being that its been consistent and involves emotions. Now you might have 2 girlfriends. Second mistake to your attempt at plate theory. I hav…
/r/askTRP05/04/17 05:51 PM
1

Ignore. She is a plate. Effectively You have chosen her as an adequate hole to put your dick for a couple hours a month.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 05:42 PM
2

Good work. Do me a favor though??
/r/askTRP05/04/17 05:40 PM
1

She doesn't fuck you because she doesn't want to fuck you. Get it? I would leave her. Not because she did anything wrong, but because YOU CAN'T NEGOTIATE DESIRE. The moment you brought up the lack of sex directly, you guaranteed it will stay that way permanently with her. Break up. Go LIFT. Be more sexually desirable. Never negotiate sex in a relationship. Also consider if monogamy is for you. If not, then find women who are on the same page.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 05:34 PM
1

Hold yourself accountable.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 05:31 PM
1

You don't say what you do for work currently, what the masters degree would be in, and how that would improve your prospects. You should be lifting hardcore anyways, so you don't need to quit your job to do that. Additionally, you can get an online masters while working. That's why they invented online masters.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 05:30 PM
3

What can you do? Just ignore it as you did. It's 5 vs. 1 at that point. You should know to just walk away and get on with your day. You have NOTHING to prove to anyone, including her.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 05:27 PM
1

-Stop drinking. -Become financially independent. -You aren't your parents' bitch, stop acting like it.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 01:28 PM
14

You need to find a job and career that you can make money in. Period. You should be dedicated to doing this right now.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 10:08 PM
4

Stick with your plan. You're exhausted. Let her get dinner with him. See her tomorrow and next her. You don't have to tell her why, just say it isn't working for you anymore. Downgrade to a plate if you wish, but I prefer clean breaks with women like this.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 09:29 PM
2

I turned 21 in prison with no money, job or education. I was grateful then because I was already more than a year clean from addiction. This year (last week) I turned 29 on a private beach in St. Lucia with my foreign, ivy-league educated girlfriend while on vacation from my six figure job that i got 2 years after graduating from university with degrees in finance and economics. I was top 2-3% of all men there in terms of muscle/body. If your goals scare you, you're doing it right. Work your ass…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 09:58 PM
3

"we should hang out next week" This sucks. You sound real interesting... I'm sure the other 10 guys who asked her out next week are way more interesting.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 11:20 PM
1

Yeah and if anyone asks just say she wasn't feeling up for it. It's the truth, in an ambiguous statement. The whole point is to enjoy your life and DO YOU, regardless of what women are doing.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 02:07 PM
14

"THEN I'M NOT GOING TO YOUR FUCKING DAD'S RETIREMENT PARTY NEXT MONTH This is where FRAME comes in for You, I believe. When she says this, so what? You go to your dad's retirement party without her then. What's the worst thing that's going to happen? You get away from her more, which works because you can't stand her anyways. At the end of the day, you chose to get married. It was a choice. Now you're here and you need to manage it appropriately or cut your losses, take your medicine and divorce…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 03:42 PM
21

He wrote "Acts like a dad in public" as a talent.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 09:18 PM
11

I would agree. It's a pet peeve of mine too. I've met other guys' 8s and thought "hell no" and i've met other guys' 5s and thought "fuck yeah i would" The scale is so subjective that it's rendered meaningless.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 02:10 PM
2

You're either her girlfriend or fucking her. Which one is you? Why are you wasting your time with women that aren't fucking you? She played fair here, you should know better. Spend time improving yourself. A lot of time.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 02:05 PM
5

Certainly. They're acute at searching for any reason to classify you into the beta category.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 11:52 PM
11

Provider behaviour triggers LMR. Thanks for pointing this out. Sometimes it's the little things that connect that make you say, "aha!"
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 08:50 PM
2

I've read the sidebar plenty of times, including all of the actual published literature. I'm well versed. Never did I say I support Hillary Clinton or feminist social policies. "You need to read the sidebar" is a weak thing to say. What are you trying to display your dominance here? Way to go, pal. You're clearly the superior alpha. My statement deals with the fact that you can find value in sources without 100% having to be indoctrinated to their cause. As a freethinker, it's important to reali…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 10:31 PM
7

This is ridiculous. Who cares what his political views are? There's people of all beliefs who can be Alpha and red-pill. This is not a conservative think-tank. This is a discussion on sexual strategy. Not everything is black/white.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 06:35 PM
1

Comparatively yes, and I am not arguing FOR feminism here, but I do think you present a logical fallacy. For instance, imagine a man who was previously abused terribly on a daily basis 100 years ago. Now imagine his grandson today is only slightly abused on a daily basis, but abused nonetheless. Should his grandson just shut up and take the abuse because it wasn't near as bad as his grandfather's? It's important to recognize in this example that abuse is abuse and it's wrong. Inequalities in soc…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 06:07 PM
2

Right on! If someone is getting triggered by international women's day, i'd say that person is operating in the women's frame and not their own. If you're here operating in your own frame you let women do whatever it is they're doing and keep on with your mission.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 11:37 PM
1

Or passive-aggressively posting on TRP
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 11:23 PM
4

If anything, what you describe is oppression of men. I didn't see women being forced into a battlefield to die in your story. What a privilege that must be.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 10:03 PM
-1

okay go martyr yourself. I'll be over in the weight room, or counting my money, or enjoying various pieces of pussy that i acquire.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 07:22 PM
3

Again, what does it have to do with sexual strategy or improving myself as a man? I don't care about international women's day. It doesn't trigger me, mostly because I am comfortable and confident in who I am as a man. Also, "We" don't say "shitty things." There are more people than not on this sub that don't partake in that, so when you say "we," who are you referring to? I don't hide from the truth either. I can see feminism and women for what they are and not catch feelings over it. Respondin…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 05:52 PM
0

Focus on yourself and improving your life. I see very little need to try to take down other groups of people and I'm not sure what that does to make yourself feel better, nor do I understand what politics has to do with sexual strategy here. There's a reason that the red pill is looked at like a group of women haters and it's statements like "No woman has been a significant original thinker..." Really? Even if that's true, what good does it do to spout it off? Blah blah blah, dude. You look so b…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 02:42 PM
4

Everywhere bruh. At the store. At the coffee shop. In class. On the street. Friends of friends. At the bar. LITERALLY ANYWHERE. Just develop your personality and talk to people.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 11:05 PM
5

You should have multiple women in your life and only text about logistics/hangouts. If you do this, your abundance will naturally glow from you and she will notice. Even if she doesn't, you have a roster to choose from at any given point, so one girl not texting you back means nothing.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 09:40 PM
10

Standard shaming technique of framing "real men" as those who will commit vs. "boys and males." Yet women who pursue casual sex are "empowered." Don't fall for it guys. Only you get to decide if you're "man enough." Nobody else gets a say.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 02:49 PM
6

It takes more than 4 months to transform. Also, you should be doing these things (lifting/self improvement) for yourself and nobody else. Women should never be your life's center. Come on, Man.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 12:45 AM
42

The title of this article should be "Six Sociopaths Explain How They Hurt People Without Feeling Bad About It."
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 12:43 AM
4

I think the main moral of the story is self-reliance. At the end of the day, we only have ourselves to rely upon in this life, especially in terms of being fulfilled. This doesn't mean that we're all doomed to be alone, but it means to have a healthy sense of self and your place in the world, to appreciate other people for the roles they play in our lives, and to get the most out of everyday. Being vulnerable is a good thing, when we actively choose the time, place and person with whom it occurs…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 04:18 PM
11

Is casual sex really uncommon in China? the most populous nation on the planet?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 09:28 PM
23

So....... you smash that or what?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 02:41 PM
1

Yeah I get that. I really mean there shouldn't be a "courtship" going on. Like the texting/communication aspect. "Getting to know each other" or "talking" is not congruent to plate theory really.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 02:37 PM
0

Yeah that wasn't what I was saying though. She clearly needs a variety of dick and is willing to risk her "great" relationship for a chance at that. I don't even know wtf you're trying to say here...
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:58 PM
8

Because if you internalize "she is not yours, it's just your turn" it will make sense. To get out unscathed? Shit, man. Most guys would love for that. Also, how are you not angry? Because he is clearly a desirable male, probably late twenties? Going back to the market at this point will be fun for this guy.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:56 PM
1

I do 5-6 a day too, maybe 7 on weekends. If you want to lead a productive life you need to find ways to balance things really well and sometimes, but not all the time, it means sleeping 6 and getting up to work your ass off anyways.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:20 PM
1

Pack all of your things the moment you get home the day before. Don't wait until right before bed, do it right after you walk in the door in the evening. Make this a habit, prep everything so you can grab and go in the morning. Have water by your bed. Wake up. Drink water. Take your vitamins or supplements. Get dressed and go right away. If you're going to be in the gym, just fucking go as hard as possible THAT day and do EVERY rep that you planned on the night before. Simple as that. You either…
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:18 PM
4

then why even pursue? Tons of women out there to find a hole to put your dick in bruh.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:12 PM
31

Dude THIS is what irks me so much about plate theory on TRP at times. Plate = no attachment. NONE. Personally, I don't date a plate. Rarely sleep over. No going out to dinners and movies. Forget it. They know the deal, strictly sexual relationship or hit the road.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:02 PM
88

If I'm this guy (and I would do the same exact thing), I am waking up super grateful every day for at least the next year. Knowing that she showed me her hand BEFORE any legal commitment, especially with how "well" things had been for FIVE years? What a fucking blessing for this guy, because, based off of her description of the relationship, everything was great, so I'm guessing she played the part REAL well. Then again, he probably noticed other small things over the years that tipped him off s…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 03:29 PM
2

I'm sorry, but someone's got to be the best. I will work my ass off to make sure that's me and if it's not, who the fuck cares? In my mind and life, I am the best. I could not give a fuck what anyone else thinks. You need help.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 08:28 PM
2

I prefer to think of my whores in less quantifiable terms, but if this gets you going, by all means download the nike running app to track your miles.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 08:15 PM
1

In my humble opinion, if you and your plate are going out to dinner y'all should be splitting the bill. Equality and shit, no reason not to.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 02:29 PM
30

If I were you, assess how good the sex is and adjust accordingly. If she rocks your socks off, keep her as a smash-only. Stop spending quality time with her.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 10:06 PM
36

This is why she is a plate. Why would it be a deal-breaker if she is just a plate?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 08:56 PM
1

Meh. I think the debt crisis is overblown. Although we ought to figure out our finances as a society, there's a lot of hysteria around this without much understanding or perspective (I'm an economist).
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 01:36 PM
1

This is what I'm saying. The prediction of a decline caused by feminism is wishful thinking. It's an angry redpiller's fantasy and nothing more.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 08:57 PM
1

It's really not. We're going to keep moving toward blue pill heaven for a long, long time. There is a lot more men willing to do that than there are on this side of things. Let's just enjoy the pussy as it becomes cheaper and cheaper for us.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 08:55 PM
3

I mean, it is kind of disgusting. The idea of doing a long-term commitment with a woman who has been plowed repeatedly by strange dick is kind of bothersome. It's one of the reasons we advocate for no marriage. It's because you can never know the truth.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 08:53 PM
1

Totally. "Party girl" means nothing to me. I assume all types of women are getting on-demand dick.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 08:52 PM
1

Yeah, this isn't going to happen.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 08:51 PM
22

I'm just saying it isn't happening. There's enough blue pill men to marry and have kids with these women. Also, this will just fit in with the feminista empowerment mindset. "You go girl. Nothing wrong with being 40 and single and childless."
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 10:41 PM
41

Don't get married. The societal reckoning isn't coming. That's wishful thinking.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 10:17 PM
4

In my view, I see it as a complex issue, not a simple one. The main points are as follows: Human beings are not monogamous creatures. Marriage and LTRs are an economic/social construct, but definitely not our nature. Women enjoy sex as much as men, possibly more. It feels good for all involved. We know this. Women are in the workforce now as much as men. As they continue to graduate college and obtain solid-to-affluent types of careers, they will rely on men for provisioning less and less. They …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 08:09 PM
1

Yes, this is the best strategy. I can confirm.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 06:43 PM
17

This. I would call them out on it within moments of meeting them and realizing it. It's disingenuous at best, but highly manipulative is a more realistic way of describing it.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 02:54 PM
186

You should assume all women have high n-counts until proven otherwise. You accept this going into any relations with them. It is 2017. It's not just party girls.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 11:03 PM
2

Maybe? No it definitely is that. It's good advice for anyone looking to maximize their sexual strategy. Fuck people casually who aren't good prospective LTRs and then if you need to do an LTR, make sure it's with an appropriate type of person.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 10:58 PM
3

This is a very cheeky rendition of Sheryl Sandberg's feminist excuse for women being complete sluts and then finding a betabux. Props to OP.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 06:31 PM
8

He fucked up. Whether he was being sarcastic and trolling or not, he talked about (and condoned) raping 13 year old boys. It was recorded. It was released. He fucked up and pays the price. It has nothing to do with frame. He knew what arena he was playing in and he should have done differently. He didn't and he lost. Sad.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 08:12 PM
0

I would text her and say "hey i hope you enjoy your trip. Hit me up when you're back and we can meet up." Then continue to meet more women and spin plates. You are in Uni. Don't LTR anyone. Don't be her bitch. Let her enjoy her vacation and don't text her. GO MEET MORE WOMEN.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 02:15 PM
1

I would break up with her and secretly record it. Do this immediately. Don't tell her you spoke to the ex boyfriend. Block her on all forms of media.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 02:12 PM
3

I don't think many people are here to get revenge on some woman from their past. Maybe that is what brings them here, but that is the definition of oneitis. Anyone who thoroughly reads the sidebar knows that self improvement and centering your life around your own progress and happiness is what long-term goals are about. The pussy is just a by product of how one lives.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 02:25 PM
12

Exactly. They want the confirmation and safety that comes with commitment, but they still want to fuck Alphas and secure the best possible genes. Hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 10:40 PM
3

Yeah I agree with you here. I wasn't saying women aren't wired to want commitment, they certainly are. I was addressing OP's thoughts that women do things they don't want to do, which I wholeheartedly disagree with. Women love casual sex with the RIGHT man at the RIGHT time. I think women love hypergamy above all else, even though they consciously do not realize it. That is, women love sex AND they love commitment, depending on the feelz (ovulation cycle) and what is suitable for them. Blue pill…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 10:38 PM
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Women rack up high N counts because they love sex as much as we do and now, in 2017 in our society, are enabled socially and through science (contraception) to do this at will, with little consequence (they can just lie about n count when it's time to settle down). She's done a lot of things she didn't want to do, or maybe did but now regrets, or just simply dedicated a lot of time and energy. This sounds like blue-pill wishful thinking on your part. I doubt the high n-count woman didn't want to…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 09:17 PM
1

Disagree. Both partners in an LTR should want to please the other sexually. A lot of pleasure for women comes from connection, especially in an LTR setting. Partners should also be able to express their wants and needs sexually and have them met, if reasonable. If you're good at sex and getting it often, you would know all of this.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 03:14 PM
1

You should post this in askTRP. Once there I will recommend you fuck them both repeatedly and add more.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 02:43 PM
1

Honestly you should go back to nonexclusive and GFTOW. Then see how you feel about the pictures, but I wouldn't LTR someone like this.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 05:05 PM
2

I had dated a girl in University when I was 22 (I'm 29 now and this sparked me on my TRP Journey). It was a LDR (dummy). She was English (dummy). I met her in her year abroad (dummy). She was one of the hottest girls I had slept with at the time so I figured why not LDR (dummy)? She eventually moved home to finish school in the UK, but we kept dating (dummy). At the end of her winter semester, she texts me saying she is done with finals and is going out clubbing all night. That she "wants to get…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 02:35 PM
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Deadlifts and Squats bro.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 02:29 PM
3

Chances are she even already had his cum on her forehead. This made my day, haha!
/r/askTRP16/02/17 02:28 PM
1

I would hard next. Don't even get into why You are doing it. It's only 6 months. Just tell her this isn't working out for you and that You'd like to see what else is out there. Be kind about it and move on. Then go lift like a motherfucker.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 02:27 PM
1

How is that terrible advice? Show me in the sidebar where TRP says just do Chest Day and Arm Day? If you don't work out your body evenly, with a focus on balanced muscle development, you risk injury. Worse than that, you're going to end up looking asymmetrical. The true answer is there's no "Best exercise" to get a body that women like.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 02:07 PM
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How lazy and self-centered are you that you can't partake in your LTR's interests and learn a new skill together? With your attitude, I hope she nexts you!
/r/askTRP15/02/17 10:56 PM
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Soft next. Let her make a move. Give your time and energy you would be spending on her to other plates and/or your goals. If she comes back, demote her to the bottom of your plate rotation. She is no longer a priority.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 10:54 PM
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You should be doing all muscle groups and all types of exercises. If you're going to do something, do it 100% and do it right. Also, being lean is about what you eat more than anything. Abs are made in the kitchen.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 07:03 PM
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I don't even see that much "fat shaming" going on in our society. I personally don't give a fuck what lifestyles people choose to live. That said, I have tastes and preferences for what type of women I want to date and be intimate with and I won't do that with fat people. The real shaming comes in this movement trying to make me feel like a "bad" person for my ideals and preferences. The irony is ridiculous when you think of it. Why do men prefer fit/thin/healthy women? Because on a biological s…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 02:54 PM
1

This is really good advice. I went years early on skimping around deadlifts and squats due to a mix of tightness/fear/laziness. I supplemented legs with isolation exercises and leg press type machines, but obviously results were mediocre at best, featuring diminishing gains over time. ~ 3 years ago I got serious about squats and deadlifts, but struggled with the tightness and form still. My cure? Yoga. Not the crazy 5 days a week stuff. Just 20-30 beginner poses, maybe some intermediate after aw…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 02:36 PM
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honestly i would just tell her that you want your dick sucked more often and if she doesn't do it you should break up with her and go find a woman that meets your needs. Life is too short to not have it your way. Sex in a LTR is about maximizing connection and pleasing the other partner. Find someone who believes this.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 03:50 PM
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You put your happiness on your current wife. I don't think it is ever advisable to marry so quickly and your description of being "happy now" has nothing to do with your own personal improvement or journey, but rather just the mere fact that you found someone that currently makes you happy. Happiness doesn't come from other people. Also, you hate yourself for what? Fucking women? That's straight blue-pill conditioning, my friend. You have no idea that this woman is a "keeper" after 1 year. Fuck,…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 12:35 AM
1

Damn straight. She is a commodity.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 09:26 PM
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I think the survey you shared here isn't necessarily solid evidence of that. I do agree with the theory. More sexual partners means women are undesirable, especially casual sex. I just wish there was a better study to back it up. Intuitively, I am pretty sure the conclusions are correct.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 08:19 PM
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90% might be an understatement in 2017 bro. Just saying.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 08:16 PM
1

You need to not be such a pushover with your parents. There's no need for them to inject themselves into your personal life. If they're using you living at home as an excuse, then you need to move out and go live on your own. As for the plate, keep smashing. Be sure to subtly remind her that it's not moving towards commitment, unless you want it to.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 07:36 PM
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You're a troll, clearly. You give no reasoning for why no problem is a beta response. Meanwhile, "Your loss" is as blue pill nice guy as it gets, dude. Get a grip.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 06:20 PM
1

If you max everything out and become a really cool and personable dude you're going to do just fine. There's a guy named Peter Crouch. Albeit, he is a professional athlete in the most watched sports league on earth, but he landed a hb9.5 with a serious horse face. You can find a lot of ugly dudes like this. They're not everywhere, but if you rise up and become fit and successful, paired with game, you're going to do just fine and can fuck whoever you want at that point.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 03:01 PM
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I don't bench nearly that much, so I'd say that's impressive, although I never go in the gym trying to figure out what my max is. Mostly because I've hurt myself when I was younger trying to do so. I stick to 8-12 reps. On bench right now I can get up to 275 at 6-8 reps. Pushing 30 here and i have been straight lifting for a while. My goal this year is to head towards more diverse training. Probably drop from 5 days lifting to 3 and add in yoga and aim for more intense cardio. By end of year I'd…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 02:58 PM
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No, the point is you can go work somewhere else for more money because abundance. Hence, when your boss says no, you actually so "OK, no problem. But I have to leave now because my economic value in this market is higher than you can afford." It isn't personal. Maybe your boss can't afford the raise. Maybe the girl really is studying and can't get lunch. You don't take it personal because you have other options and/or productive things you can be doing. Abundance. Read the side bar.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 02:53 PM
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In this instance, I would purposefully plate her in hopes that would happen. But I sometimes like to make things interesting like that.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 02:50 PM
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It's a great feeling, isn't it? Does that work ethic bleed into other areas of your life?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 03:27 AM
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Yeah i mean 5'9" 177 is really good man. That's good work.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 03:26 AM
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Exactly. I think women freak out when they see you improving because they put you in provider bucket early on. As they see you moving towards that Alpha physique, there's an underlying anxiety that one of their potential security blankets is disappearing.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 02:04 AM
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it took forever, the first 3-5 years was a lot of learning and tinkering. You can see in my frame my genetics are for a very thin build. Plenty of DOMS along the way. I love that feeling.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 02:00 AM
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You can still hold frame and stay out of marriage/relationships. You can be gay and be Alpha, hence Milo...
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 01:58 AM
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I went from 6'1" and 145lbs at 18 to now an athletic/lean 205lbs. at 28. My progress along the way had soooo many people like this. It means what you're doing is working. Men will try to mock you for being a "meathead" and women might say that it's unattractive or gross or obsessive. That's good. They're worried about what you're doing instead of what they have going on for themselves! People don't like to see you climb because they're afraid of looking at themselves and what they're lacking. Ke…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 10:55 PM
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One of my best friends is gay AF (feminine and all). He is completely Alpha though, because he is constantly in his frame and consistently has plates / never in a relationship. He keeps pushing himself career wise and financially and accomplishes things he sets out to do. Travels the world, oftentimes solo. Mannerisms are just that. Look at their frame and how they live.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 10:48 PM
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I've spent a lot of time as an adult resenting my father. This is a fair point. But in hindsight, and as I approach 30 in the next 12 months, I can't blame him. My dad is a simple man and his dad grew up an orphan and worked 80 hours a week in a factory his whole life to provide for his family. These values were instilled in my father, and he lived his best and did his best with the toolkit he was provided. Do I wish that he had figured things out? Sure. But that's a lot of men. Naive. Working h…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 10:44 PM
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No problem implies he doesn't feel any sort of way about it because he has options and, as such, the outcome of this interaction is of little consequence, or of no problem, to him and his frame.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 08:03 PM
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This is a good perspective. It is definitely best to get to that masculine/feminine polarity to leave no doubt in her mind as to the intent.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 08:02 PM
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I wish I had TRP knowledge at your age. You should go about your life at University just as you did with her. It really is a numbers game and her rejection says nothing about you or your quality. You did the right thing and I urge you to keep it up. She will see you with other women and you will instantly be more attractive to her in that light. She might even put herself out there for you at that point, but it doesn't matter anyways because abundance is your permanent frame.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 07:59 PM
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Dude you're wayyyyyy in your head here. hb7 wants your D in her V. Come on now!
/r/askTRP08/02/17 10:25 PM
1

Our divergence is based on our respective understanding of hypergamy. I meant it in terms of the modern female sexual strategy of riding the CC and then finding a BB. I see you're referring to hypergamy as the literal breeding by AF through her sexual prime? I agree her instincts say "make babies with alphas NOW!" during her prime, depending on her ovulation cycle. That gets to my point of she doesn't know what makes her happy. She thinks she is exercising her sexuality, but at the end of it she…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 06:09 PM
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Yeah I disagree slightly. These women are still likely getting married and having families, just after riding the CC. This is still the early stages of open hypergamy. In some cases these women really are having kids by multiple "AF" and settling down with a BB for provisioning. I get what you're saying though, birth control takes away consequences and enables more selfish sexual behaviors.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 03:07 PM
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It was also about increasing competition in the labor force as a means for oligarchs and corporations to pay lower wages. Nobody talks about this in terms of lack of wage growth since the seventies, but it's blatantly apparent to me.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 02:28 PM
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Yeah honestly if you need them to be non-prosto to count, then you're really relying on external female validation. That's so beta.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 02:24 PM
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Unless you have led her on into thinking she is the only one, it shouldn't be an issue for you. This is the way it goes sometimes. Remember: Women do this to men all the time, they are just more discreet about it. You have no reason to not date multiple women casually. If she can't get with it, tough.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 09:48 PM
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haha How many badass criminal drug lords are here on TRP unplugging right now?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 08:06 PM
1

I spend my birthdays in the gym. It's the most gratifying feeling possible for me. I usually make it a monster lifting session. What better way to celebrate the anniversary of my life than helping myself grow into the person I truly wish to be? What you're describing here sounds miserable. Read the sidebar. Buy a copy of The Rational Male and a few others as a birthday present to yourself and do yourself a favor and read them on your birthday. You don't have any "friends?" Well you should get ou…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 07:38 PM
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Unless you're marrying a woman who is significantly in a better financial position than you (career or family wealth), there is literally no upside. *Note: Women typically don't marry down financially.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 07:02 PM
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This is a big must-do in the evolution of TRP. There are some really idiotic and unrealistic policies and positions on the right AND the left. This community has a really hard time taking any criticism against the politics of the right and is probably too willing to dismiss those on the left.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 06:57 PM
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TLDR: LIFT! This is gold and applicable in all situations.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 03:15 PM
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So you're caught up in semantics. I get it. You consider rape to be a forced, violent occurrence form a stranger on the street. You are saying, as a man, I shouldn't fear that. Well, as a man, I don't fear that. Most women shouldn't either because that typically isn't how rape happens. I think we have different understandings of what the word rape means. I'm comfortable with my interpretation on the subject.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 08:12 PM
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so if a man was blacked out drunk, and a sober woman had sex with him, this isn't rape? I think this is definition of forced intercourse. You're blatantly wrong here and your definition of rape is too. The below is published research on rape and sexual assault statistics. You can find the study by searching for it. It came out recently. Of male rape, ~ half are female perps. So "Women don't rape men, period." <- not sure what you're talking about. Data hasn’t been calculated under the new FBI de…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 05:26 PM
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I didn't even realize it as assault until years later. It's ingrained in western society that men are the only types of sexual predators out there. It just isn't true. I thought it was "cool" to get that attention from women at the time. In hindsight, I can see it's fucked up for a human to touch another's genitalia unwarranted like that, no matter what the genders or scenario. I never said I was afraid of women raping me. What I am saying is that women do rape men all the time, by our society's…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 04:19 PM
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Men get raped and sexually assaulted by women ALL THE TIME. You can find data to back this up, it's been ingrained in society that men can't get raped. I've had my junk grabbed by women that i just met at a bar/club twice in my life. Both times i did not ask or even indicate this is what I wanted. That's a legit sexual assault. Am I in fear in those situations? No I am a lean 210 pounds 6'1". But is it sexual assault? You bet. Women rape men across this country on college campuses and the like. …
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 02:18 PM
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I like to fuck sluts. I wouldn't like to marry a slut. But, I like to fuck sluts.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 05:30 PM
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She doesn't know what makes her happy. That's the point. The BB loses, thinking he won. She doesn't win or lose, she just is. Hypergamy wins. In this instance her hypergamy is likely maximized. She gets her short term AF and her long term BB provisioning.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 04:07 PM
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This. Divide and conquer is a thing. It's super easy to get control while everyone is pointing the finger and fighting. That's why the rich donate to both political parties. Keep the fire burning, nobody will notice the few lining their pockets.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 10:05 PM
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Yeah. I'm neither a conformist, leftist, nor a slave. All I said was, in our society, white women haven't had it nearly as bad as minority groups. It's not so fucking hard to see that, really. Prove me wrong with evidence. Facts. Statistics. ANYTHING. All you have is your armchair ideas that you want to blanket the issue with. It means you probably have a difficult time synthesizing information and THEN forming an opinion. Nothing about what I said is wrong. Do I think patriarchy exists? No. Do …
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 12:25 AM
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At 29 she'll probably still find her BB. There's enough of them out there for one to provide for her.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 12:17 AM
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Yeah you have shit to say, really. As I suspected. Keep feeling butthurt because you feel threatened that you can't compete in this modern economy. Let me know how that works out for you.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 12:09 AM
1

What racial issues are made up? which ones specifically? Can you show me?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 11:07 PM
2

You sound kind of strange, man. Not sure what You are implying or trying to say, to be honest. You provide no basis, your thoughts aren't clear and you sound resentful.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 09:57 PM
2

I would agree with you that identity politics is a loser. I would disagree that you're oversimplifying race and wrongfully equating struggles of different races of people when it's simply not true. You have no evidence backing this, I promise that. My point is that the disadvantages white women face right now in america do not compare to black Americans, Muslim Americans, Native Americans, etc... If you want to argue that white peoples' struggles are equitable in our society you're either a liar…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 09:03 PM
2

You have a loser attitude. You're making all kinds of excuses for why things aren't working out for you. You either came here for advice or to argue with people that are trying to give you perspective. If you are genuinely trying to improve, why don't you listen to people with experience instead of fighting them?
/r/askTRP01/02/17 03:10 PM
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Dude you're a loser before you even try. How can you do that to yourself? I have shorter friends than you that have pulled hotter pussy than me at times (I'm 6'1" and i've been lifting for a decade with a great sense of style). Your attitude fucking sucks and you don't deserve to enjoy pussy until you fix that.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 12:46 AM
1

The sexual marketplace should operate like any other free market in terms of pricing assets (YOU). That is, if you're smashing an objective 8, either you're at/near an 8 or she's overpricing you. Perhaps get out there and try to game a few more in the 8/9 range and see what you can pull? Chances are you're higher than a 6.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 10:01 PM
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We all want to fuck so many other people, men or women. The difference between men and women is that men will work really hard to rationalize why it's wrong to do it. Women will work really hard to rationalize why they deserve to do it.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 01:48 PM
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TRP assumes AWALT is true. Every woman has the ability to be hypergamous under the right circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 11:24 PM
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OP gives a good example of Women's nature. I disagree as well. OP isn't planning a life/marriage/house/kids with her. He's enjoying his turn. That's inherently redpill.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 08:33 PM
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This. I've done this with my current LTR. I'm amazed at how rock-solid she is when telling a lie. Props to her. Have you ever had this straight-faced behavior drive suspicion in you that she might be lying? Sometimes I feel too much/consistent eye contact is a flag.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 08:13 PM
2

No. I'm not sure what you don't get about the advice around here. Everyone advises lifting for a reason. Why are you looking for a way out of that?
/r/askTRP26/01/17 07:02 PM
1

You should go but make sure you ask the server for separate checks from the get go! She is definitely going to end up ordering whatever she wants while expecting you to pay. That is, if she's real.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 06:03 PM
1

You can search bodybuilding on google and some of the top choices will be websites with almost infinite information for you based on your current status and goals. These places also include communities where people share their experiences and ideas, among other things. It helped me a ton.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 03:54 PM
1

The only time I ever give out any Red Pill advice is when a man that i judge as open minded comes to me for woman/relationship advice. At that point, I never mention TRP. Rather, I recommend he read the Rational Male and I tell him when I was down it helped me better myself. Either he likes it and is receptive or he's not. But it's unlikely he will lecture me for it.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 03:52 PM
2

You clearly want to stay with her. I'll give you advice that i read here a while back. If she's not worth committing to in the long-run, she'll give you blatant reasons to next. You can move past this, but don't forget it. Next time it happens you'll know what to do.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 03:46 PM
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First rule about fight club. Also, fake it for a semester? That's not going to hurt you a few hours a week. Your goal should be to get an A and use your success in University to achieve prosperity moving forward. This won't be that hardest thing you do along your path. Suck it up and participate like you mean it. I'm sure you know enough of the opposition's game plan to get by with an A. Then move on to better things.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 03:42 PM
2

I would try yoga. I had this problem roughly 12 months ago. I have been lifting for 9 years, but recently started focusing on deadlift and squats using progressively heavier weights. My range of motion was terrible. My girlfriend is a yogi. She showed me a dozen or so hip and hamstring poses to open me up and boy does it make a difference.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 03:36 PM
0

How is it racist towards non-minorities to recognize that minorities have certain structural disadvantages? What I'm saying is white women in America are far less likely to face harder circumstances than black men, black women, native americans, and various other groups. If you have legitimate factual evidence that proves this wrong, please provide it.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 02:20 PM
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If he took off the condom without consent and without her knowing (or communicating it), that's not consensual and definitely a form of rape. Besides pregnancy risk, she has no idea of what his sexual health is like. Not cool on his part. It's not that hard to tell right from wrong.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 10:16 PM
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"Any group like women and minority's that can be manipulated into believing they are victims can be exploited." Comparing white American women's struggles to minorities in our society is a false equivalence. We should aim to be as realistic as possible and, IMO, minorities have probably faced much harder circumstances than white women could comprehend.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 03:49 PM
2

They knew she was going to cheat on her bf. My guess is it wasn't the first time.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 06:27 PM
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We played mario kart, yes, among other things. She had a long-distance boyfriend. He 3 friends were there, including a cousin, and nobody stopped her. Funny, huh.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 02:44 PM
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I too sealed the deal with a woman (who had a bf) at college 10 years ago using mario kart... Except she asked me to come play mario kart...
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 11:51 PM
1

Nah man, You're going to make it if you stay focused and put yourself and your goals first. Dream big goals up, not average ones. Anyone can be average. Dream big and then develop a plan to go get it!
/r/askTRP18/01/17 07:59 PM
2

It's wild out there! Haha, I'm so much happier and content knowing there are others that see what I see! Most men are so used to taking what life gives them. It's a super comfortable way to live, mentally and physically, but completely unfulfilling and boring.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 07:58 PM
2

On being discouraged: I faced this over and over again, especially with the amount of financial and human investment needed to go through college. Trust the process (76ers fan here). Seriously. Get involved in groups on campus and establish a leadership position. Volunteer. Get into the best 4-year school possible. Don't even f*ck with women. They don't matter right now to you. Lift, eat healthy, focus on studies/activities and getting into that 4-year University. Pot is a crutch. I appreciate y…
/r/askTRP18/01/17 06:51 PM
1

Happy to share. I figured out self-improvement and TRP things from a low place. I drank and used drugs in the first place because I had no self-esteem and I felt I was "unlovable." Only recently have I found TRP (last year). Figured a lot of this stuff out through living and paying attention, but there's a TON of nuance and background here that really helps in guiding me. Also, it's nice to know that I'm not "crazy" as feminine society is essentially a huge practice in gaslighting men.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 06:10 PM
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I had 3 misdemeanors by the time i was 19. Two DUI's and another disorderly conduct. It sparked me to get my life together. I served 6 months in jail for it and stayed in the system until i was 25. I got 2 degrees by 25, in finance and economics. I HAVE lost internship and job opportunities for these past charges. I also have worked at one of the largest investment banks in the world and now currently at a smaller, more niche consulting firm. I am in a top income field and above six figures 4 ye…
/r/askTRP18/01/17 04:54 PM
3

Well, don't get married anytime soon and You'll find out. If she isn't worth it, she'll show her hand eventually.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 03:55 PM
3

That's a problem. Hard next. Don't give her the satisfaction of knowing you read her phone. Just next. Say it's not working and you want to be single. Her friend seems kind of cool for passively trying to shame her for it though. Didn't expect that.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 10:49 PM
1

That's gold, though. She showed her hand. Your gut was right. You should feel good on making the right decision AND having her affirm that for you. Most men in your situation don't get that luxury.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 09:53 PM
0

Why is that the worst example ever? We're talking about gains and sleep, and the truth is every body is different in what it requires. He goes on to talk about how he slept 6 hours regularly his whole life, not just recently. What do "regular folks" do? I lift 4-5 days a week. I work 60+ hours a week, often times on weekends as well, in a very demanding job. I find time to volunteer 15 hours a month, continuously self study and pass exams for my profession. On top of it i have an active and robu…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 04:30 PM
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You can do 6 hours. I have for the past 4 years and I'm making gains just fine. Arnold is well known for his preference for no more than 6 hours sleep. Every body is different. Nothing will beat long-term consistency and intensity.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 04:05 PM
3

Bernie Sanders is 100% right about this issue. Single payer would solve the cost problem. The catch is, corporations lobby against that (and the ACA), because they want free reign in the healthcare market. THINK about it. Someone benefits from those high costs. How come Canada can have low costs and we can't? Because people are profiting immensely off of us.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 08:03 PM
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That's how insurance works. I don't know what to tell you other than that... Private insurance works that way. Public insurance. Car insurance. That's the business model, and it works. The price of healthcare is so high because we do it through corporations, who in-turn lobby the F*ck out of congress. Corporations need to turn profits for shareholders. There is also an added administrative cost (think paying management/executives huge salaries). None of this would exist if we had single payer. W…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 07:28 PM
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This. I'm an economist and I work in finance covering some of these companies. The idea that a free market will solve this is absurd. Free market works in theory, but only if the supply/demand equilibrium is true and fair. In healthcare it can never be. It's a purely inelastic good. You'll pay any $$$ necessary to stay alive, because the alternative is no longer living. It requires heavy regulation, but more likely a shift to non-profit/public healthcare. Everyone just ponies up the taxes. Rich,…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 07:16 PM
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You're right about the replacing bit. They nicknamed it "Obamacare" for a reason - so that it would be easy to repeal in the court of public opinion. People love the benefits of ACA, but hate that it's associated with Obama.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 06:54 PM
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Single payer works and it lowers costs. You can look at any other country in the world and see that in real life. How is it anything like a pyramid scheme? That's hyperbole at best. Insurance works because low risk and high risk people pay in and there's enough in surplus to cover expenses and grow the total amount of reserves by the cost of inflation. As a trained economist, i know how this works. Birth rates aren't declining THAT much that we face a crisis as you describe. If that's the case, …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 06:53 PM
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Free reproductive choices for everyone is a good thing. It should be covered for men too and that part seems sexist, albeit women's healthcare costs related to reproductive services are MUCH higher than men's. Everyone who works is taxed. Not just young men. Healthy young people paying in is how health insurance works and remains a viable option. You're against free birth control, but I bet you also get angry at people receiving welfare for kids that could have been avoided if they had access to…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 05:28 PM
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Fair enough. That's good enough advice, but I'm leaning toward not saying anything at this point. He'll identify with feminism, oppression of women, patriarchy ideas, etc... That's part of the change that has occurred with him since he met her. (I noticed the change because I used to buy into that until I opened my eyes a couple years back. He never had an interest in discussing any of it, until he met her).
/r/askTRP11/01/17 05:47 PM
1

Can you give me an example of how? For instance, she doesn't work...
/r/askTRP11/01/17 04:51 PM
3

Sad but true.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 04:50 PM
1

He's definitely going to ask me. I would show up for him because I have love for him no matter what. But I get what you're saying. I'm not trying to tell him "don't do it." I just want him to think. Wait it out. If she is pressuring him and he holds out a couple more years, I'm guessing she shows her hand... hopefully.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 04:50 PM
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Haha! Sorry she's err... not my type.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 04:39 PM
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Basically, he's going to learn the hard way, if at all...
/r/askTRP11/01/17 04:26 PM
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Next. Ignoring your partner like that is an abusive behavior. Don't settle for someone like that.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 12:01 AM
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Go find another girl to sleep with. Then text her 3-5 days after for another hookup. Keep it casual. Spin plates. Low investment.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 08:56 PM
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You shouldn't use the average, you should use the median. Then you're onto something. if out of 100 women and 100 men the women all had sex with the same 10 high SMV guys, the average is 10 for each. 10 guys had sex with 100 women each. That's 1,000/100 or 10. while 100 women had sex with 10 guys, that's 1,000/100 and also 10. The point is, if you go to the middle woman and middle man, the middle woman has an n of 10 and the middle man has an n of 0. This is obviously dramatized to prove the poi…
/r/askTRP05/01/17 07:15 PM
2

If cost is not an issue, 100% move away and do that shit.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 07:05 PM
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Zyzz was redpill AF from what I can tell. I can understand why people are fans. He went form scrawny dork to a fitness/self-improvement icon. On top of this, he always seemed to be super inspirational and supportive to others in similar situations.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 04:29 PM
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You did the right thing. You practiced self-love by choosing yourself. You should be proud of that. Keep Your head up and get to work.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 11:29 PM
1

I get what you're trying to say here. Men are more capable of inventing themselves and building themselves into what they idealize. This ability is what you're grateful for here, but it is not easier than women. Women have an entire culture and legal structure to enable their hypergamous instincts. Further, they can just lie. How would you know how many times any given woman has been around the CC? Have you ever met one who admitted to sleeping with 30, 50, or 100+ men? Funny. I haven't. And whi…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 09:02 PM
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If you're not studying finance, economics, math, chemistry, biology, engineering, or the like.... You're wasting your time. The liberal arts portion of college, especially the "required" classes, is a perfect example of the society-wide shit-test that is western culture. In this scenario, first and second rule of fight club apply.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 02:32 PM
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You're either winning or You're learning. Don't be so hard on yourself. Next time just go home. She was probably hamstering at the bus stop until you came back.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 02:14 PM
1

Leave and whatever you have to pay in divorce be grateful for the opportunity to leave.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 03:20 PM
1

That was the first inkling I had into the red pill. On my own. To see basically all women treat me differently based only on my looks. And down the rabbit hole I went.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 03:04 PM
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You need to go to the authorities immediately. She raped you, first and foremost, and you need to go to the police, no matter how many people on here tell you otherwise. Next, get a lawyer. Get money and find the best lawyer possible. See what your options are in terms of civil suits. I'm going to be blunt here. You're an idiot for getting blacked out drunk. There is never an excuse to do that. You're also an idiot for keeping in touch with this person. But that doesn't mean it's your fault for …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 01:47 PM
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I did half my degree at a community college and finished at major university in my state. It's brilliant and should be used by more people.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 04:31 PM
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Lifting is my recommendation to anyone of my male friends going through anything. I figured this out at 18, ten years ago, long before i discovered the community. It just made sense intuitively, and if you think about it, it's easily the most accessible form of self improvement to men. Once I realized gains and saw the attentions of women start to change towards me, I "got it." Even men who used to pick on me in high school respect the hell out of me now. Lift gentleman. Lift. Lift. Lift. Have a…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 02:43 PM
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It's a 50 cent lyric, Kanye just borrowed it
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 02:34 PM
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Sales is a good recommendation. You should consider going to University for something worthwhile, even if you want to start a business. Go study economics or finance even. At worst, things like that can lead to pretty decent career opportunities. You'll gain a ton of knowledge and meet decent people too. If you do, find a good public school IN YOUR STATE. It offers lower tuition at some really good schools. I did this and it's been the best decision of my life besides starting to lift 3-5 days a…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 04:08 PM
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I think the point of this sub is to teach men to be of high value so that they won't have to settle for used up or ugly women. I'm grateful for that. Some women think they should be allowed to gain 100 pounds and still attract attention from high-value males. Why? If I work hard to become a high-value man, is it not my right to date as I please? Some women feel they can sleep with dozens of men and still attract commitment from a high-value man. Why? Why do women feel ENTITLED to my commitment? …
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 06:31 PM
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There's enough science that proves that green house gasses trap the heat from the sun, creating a warmer environment. Carbon happens to stay in the atmosphere for a very long time. The solution isn't clean energy, there is no financial incentive yet for that. The solution is in finding a technology to clean the atmosphere of carbon. This may seem far fetched, but so was internet 100 years ago. What proof do you have that carbon doesn't warm the atmosphere? Phosphorus dumped into lakes is horribl…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 02:38 PM
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Climate change isn't made up. Just because you don't like a political philosophy does not mean that proponents of that philosophy are lying 100% of the time. If you don't think that human beings are putting carbon into the atmosphere, that carbon stays in the atmosphere for far too long (compared to other gas), and that carbon doesn't cause the earth to trap heat... Pal, what are you talking about? You can believe in science and still have all you want. By buying into these theories you aren't l…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 04:30 PM
1

REIT's - If you own your home, don't buy a local REIT. This takes away diversification benefits if your local real estate market enters a downturn. Commodities - Historically not great. Hard to predict/ it's a gamble. Own metals (gold/silver) if you expect inflation (though your real estate holdings could be hedging against inflation already, depending on % makeup of your portfolio). Short term plays are not realistic. Unless you are trading in very large quantities, it's very likely your transa…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 05:55 PM
2

I'm 28 and just coming to terms with the fact that when I was younger (3-7 yrs old) my mother would take me to her boyfriend's (I use this term very loosely) homes to "play" with their sons. I didn't know these kids. They weren't my friends, but at the time I thought nothing of it. This past year it just all made sense to me (finding out the truth of her infidelities). My father suffers from mental illness to begin with and was the bluest of the blue, so I can't blame him for not being that male…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 08:16 PM
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