[Rant] Obligatory Anger Post

COCAINE_ADVOCATE · 2018-04-24T19:13:38+00:00

I'm in a similar place at 33, but a couple years after what happened to you.

No, it's not ideal. No, you'll never be the 22 year old slaying left and right. But you are now in an ideal position to learn from one of the hardest lessons in life that those youngsters never will. You now realize with a crystalline certainty how valuable time is-- because so much of it was stolen from you. You'll lift, expand your career, and treat the world as your plaything with this new perspective.

Your BP buddies and coworkers? A memory of what you were.

Those saggy heifers dragging a middle-aged Homer Simpson around at Walmart? A bullet you dodged.

That mid-twenties cutie with the Latina ass eyeing you across the lounge? An opportunity you didn't have before.

What pisses me off is the idea that girls somehow "know" this too. And they just aren't overtly telling us.

They were playing the game, and we landed in prison the first round. We weren't introspective enough. We ignored all the signs. We were complacent.

Never again, right? Let's get to work.

acidicbitchdotcom · 2018-04-24T18:52:57+00:00

34 is incredibly young. It feels like you wasted a lot of time, but the resentment and anger and frustration you got out of that "wasted" time is just fuel to make yourself the best possible version of you.

The fact that women and society in general tells us that they want a nice guy who follows the rules is the first and biggest shit test you will ever encounter. You just passed.

The world is now your oyster if you want it to be. Don't be jealous of the guys who found out ten years ago. Your maturity only adds to your SMV, and you'll enjoy your new life even more for having lived on the other side for so long. Just remember that you have the power to make your life whatever you want it to be, just as you have the power to squander this knowledge.

BewareTheOldMan · 2018-04-24T20:57:24+00:00

"What pisses me off is...that girls somehow "know" this too. And they just aren't overtly telling us."

Women have zero incentive to inform men of their true intentions. The truth violates their reality and does not support the "this is all about me" agenda. It's almost an innate and natural behavior - based on the fact of receiving unearned male attention since age 14 or 15.

There are men who behave this way as well, but not NEARLY as many women who use their sexuality and femininity to get what they want from men. It's basic manipulation and society reinforces how women "deserve" the best of whatever they can squeeze from men.

It actually wouldn't be a bad thing if most women used their "power" for the greater good, but in the modern era and post-third wave feminism, it's all about how women can get men to fulfill traditional male roles/duties in the most Blue Pill way while simultaneously shirking their duties as wives and mothers - not to mention having sex with as many Hot Guys as they want and then looking to a Beta Chump to follow the "Life-Playbook" that says to overlook a woman's faults and bad behavior to marry this train-wreck...only to later ruin a man's life due to selfishness and entitlement.

And it doesn't stop - even after they make stupid life-decisions, or ruin a Good Man, or become Single Mothers after more stupid life-decisions. It's the base reason for all the whining and caterwauling of "Where Are All the Good Men?"

Most men do NOT have this luxury.

Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved. -J. Cole

Live, learn, and be a much better man for the experience.

__ROOSTER__ · 2018-04-25T02:35:50+00:00

I didn't learn it until 47

don't feel too bad

Black_m0ngoose · 2018-04-24T19:29:11+00:00

You look back and think of all the wasted time.

You wish you could go back- imagine, all of that potential!

Sadly, it took you this long to realize your errors.

You can completely turn your life around- this very minute.

Commit yourself to excellence. Knuckle down, grit your teeth, clench that fist- look yourself in the eye and realize that the past is over.

You don't have any more time to waste feeling sorry for your predicament. You must act now, if you hope to catch up!

The only thing stopping you from succeeding is your lack of will.

If you don't have the will to succeed, then what difference would a do-over on the last 35 years make?

Just more wasted time.

Find the will! Get off your ass and make yourself matter, damnit.

319Skew · 2018-04-24T18:59:47+00:00

You're here now and that's what matters. Self improvement doesn't really require anyone else and can be any time. Change your paradigm to one where you're now where you need to be and have a long life ahead in which to apply your principles.

Source: was where you are and got off my crazy ride (marriage ) before I can become more invested...

TheDisillusionist · 2018-04-25T04:31:33+00:00

Let me tell you where you are fucking up. You give them way too much credit. Way too much. There isnt some massive conspiracy to hide this shit from you by people in the know.

Most women know far less than you do, and dont really care to. Sophistry and emotional thinking does not incline someone to figuring things out or seeing thr big picture, and for the most part that's what they have to work with.

Save your rage for the intentional, malicious evil you'll find in life, not silly bitches acting like silly bitches.

The only conspiracy here is evolution. They dont give a fuck and arent designed to. Women largely arent immoral and disloyal.

Theyre amoral and aloyal. Big difference.

U-94 · 2018-04-24T20:25:23+00:00

I'm 32 but flew through my 20s always single, feeling like a relationship would be a waste of time since I have zero interest in marriage or children. That didn't stop me from taking an emotional bullet a few times. Realized I needed to date someone I wasn't 'head over heels' for and that was miserable too. ANYWAY, my point is that there is no time wasted because it's IMPOSSIBLE to be in your 20s and operating at a wisdom level it takes time to accept or master.

I've said it before on here but if you're 25 and think you've got this RP shit down, you are in for a hard lesson. Men love women. Women love children. That is fucking IT.

FrgElder · 2018-04-25T13:33:10+00:00

Everyone goes through it.

And then you learn from experience, think you have it all figured out, and go through it again. And again.

Everything in life is about enjoying the experience and failing, and relationships are no exception. As long as you learn from your failings and don't take things too seriously, you're doing better than 95% of men.

morexel · 2018-04-25T05:02:21+00:00

I'm much older than you and the girls keep getting younger. Just don't put a ring on it. Ltr are fantastic. But assume you'll be cheated on... Because now adays you will be. Just move on once it's obvious.

That's the modern American relationship. Enjoy.

Metalgear222 · 2018-04-25T20:47:08+00:00

What pisses me off is the idea that girls somehow "know" this too. And they just aren't overtly telling us.

They don't "know" anything. They are simply following their programming and upbringing:

Theirs provides them with how to manipulate men.

Ours provides us with how to be manipulated by women.

Avesatanie · 2018-04-25T04:00:06+00:00

You know what make me jealous? The bluepilled you got a wife and were chased by girls. I'm 28 and got my first gf 3 months ago and ended after only 3 weeks. Plus 10 years dry spell. I'm fit, 1.80m 73kg, dress well, highly educated, just not outgoing. I don't know what to receive an IOI feels like lol.

zealanderx · 2018-04-25T19:04:53+00:00

No man,

Don't be angry at "the lie" you've been told... be angry at yourself for being a little bitch who didn't look the truth in the eye. You are telling me you got to the ripe old age of 34 without realizing women prefer strong, leading, intelligent, charismatic successful men? And that this was nearly their prerogative in life to acquire one at all costs?

What's the deal man? Who was lying to who? A lot of BP men are BP because they are afraid to stick themselves out there. They don't want to rock the boat or flirt with women because they might get their ass kicked. BP men think there is a template where they can play it safe, be a nice boy and be rewarded for good behavior.

We live in the fucking animal kingdom. Be an animal and take responsibility. You told yourself lies, own up to it.

Herdsengineers · 2018-04-24T19:09:40+00:00

Following "the rules" has proven very effective for me in all other aspects of my life. I have a great job, a great family, great friends. What the heck was happening with my romantic life? Why was my wife, who I treated so nicely, not sleeping with me? I went to therapy - and my therapist taught me to communicate more. Super BP thinking, which resulted in nothing.

Yup. Been through this before. The biggest problem with couples counseling is that they always focus on "communication" and other horseshit. They address the underlying disregard and disresepct that the wife so often carries towards her husband. You can't address that in a couples environment. As a man, you can only hold boundaries against disrespect. A RP'd counselor can help you figure out how to do that, and might even help get through to the disrespectful wife, but usually she just refuses to go back to the counselor after being confronted about it.

No amount of couples counseling will amount to anything until underlying issues with disrespect and not valuing a partner are addressed and fixed first.

p3n1x · 2018-04-24T20:18:30+00:00

I'm so jealous of the guys learning this younger.

Don't be. TRP is still based in nature. At 24 you don't really have enough life experience to properly use the tools. Some things you MUST learn the hard way.

doyouevenvape420 · 2018-04-24T21:02:33+00:00

Growth mindset man. Just keep getting better every day and dont look back.

intuition25 · 2018-04-25T03:53:28+00:00

Anger phase. Disillusion. It gets better, just keep bettering yourself and try to get what you want out of relationships.

ManSoldWorld · 2018-04-24T20:19:18+00:00

I personally don't know if it's something that girls "know" explicitly...but it's hardwired into their minds from the minute we're born. Aside from different technological and civilization benefits, we're really not that different from the cavemen/women from the ancient times.

Arty777 · 2018-04-26T02:41:47+00:00

Just try to think about all the hot girls you graduated high school with, and the think about the fact that half of them are starting to freak out because they have hit the wall and are still single. Then try not to laugh too hard.

kealh · 2018-04-26T11:18:40+00:00

I met this guy who is happened to be bisexual. Cool, whatever, thought the guy was pretty smart and maybe I can learn some from him. Turned out he is rigid and stoic in his own ways that part of me resent him and part admire him for it. He just pissed me off in his demeanor and overtone when he talked to me. Plus, he's extremely stingy. As I get to know more, the more I started to dislike his personality. I'm so mad at myself for even getting this fucker the attention and time to write this.

kealh · 2018-04-26T11:19:02+00:00

I met this guy who is happened to be bisexual. Cool, whatever, thought the guy was pretty smart and maybe I can learn some from him. Turned out he is rigid and stoic in his own ways that part of me resent him and part admire him for it. He just pissed me off in his demeanor and overtone when he talked to me. Plus, he's extremely stingy. As I get to know more, the more I started to dislike his personality. I'm so mad at myself for even getting this fucker the attention and time to write this.

ForcefedRedpill · 2018-04-26T14:42:18+00:00

At 34 you should be entering your Prime. As a red pilled male in your age you should be in the top percentage of fit men. You should be financially established now. Confident. Experienced. The world is yours now.

Women have or are hitting the wall. You hold all the cards now. Go fourth and spin plates unmercifully.

matrixtospartanatLV · 2018-04-27T21:33:23+00:00

56 years old.

Found TRP formally about 11 months ago.

Entering monk mode as I go through my second divorce. Almost over.

At 34, you are not even at your peak for another 3-4 years according to Rollo Tomassi.

Do not regret one single second of your past.

You have more life ahead of you than behind you.

Be fucking grateful.

I HIGHLY recommend The Rational Male, by Rollo Tomassi. And also his second tome, Preventative Medicine.

The Red Pill is tough to swallow, it’s bitter, but it is most definitely worth it.

It is truly a gift.

Title	[Rant] Obligatory Anger Post
Author	awakenedspirit1
Upvotes	61
Comments	49
Date	April 24, 2018 6:44 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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