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| 4 | Being a good sister while my little brother gets his heart brokenSounds like she's met someone else | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/20 09:47 PM |
| 0 | Asked a girl out and she asks what she has done to earn the privilege?'Never mind your're weird' | /r/askTRP | 18/04/20 11:06 AM |
| 4 | Subtle but strange signs that girl is down to fuck?When it gets to the moment that a girl has to decide if she's going to/wants to go to your place, she starts incessantly yapping. Like just motor mouthing about trivial things and jumping from topic to topic really quickly. I think it's a way of dealing with the nerves and excitement that go along with the sexual tension. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | What red flags have you ignored that came to bite you in the ass?Getting laid isn't blue pill | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 12:37 AM |
| 5 | Are young women getting worse?Status has been robbed from young men to the point where its virtually non existent; while women's has been artificially inflated beyond belief. Women chase status for themselves and that status used to come from being in a relationship with a high value man. There was a time that being single as a woman was a source of shame; girls without boyfriends would be pressured by their peers and family to get one - and rich successful one at that. Was that really all that bad? It was surely a preferabl… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 09:39 AM |
| 1 | How do you accept help/money/kindness from others, while minimizing the leverage that they get from doing these acts?That's why as a man it's important to have your house in order. The only way to avoid this is to not be reliant on the help/money of others. People who know they have leverage on you by those means will treat you like a child. Some people want leverage - it makes them feel good about themselves; don't let them. Oddly, will often find that as your own financial security increases; people become much kinder to you and are willing to do favours for you - to try and get into your good graces. It's l… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/20 10:12 AM |
| 4 | Do you feel like getting rejected is a waste of time?It's worthwhile if you learn from it. The belief that you can somehow develop abundant confidence just by experiencing enough rejection is completely misguided. Any well adjusted person would ruin their self esteem, anyone to the contrary would be sociopathic to truly not be affected by what others are displaying them. Those who develop confidence do so because they learn nuance and start getting repeatedly positive encounters from their learned experience. They get better at identifying girls w… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Can someone sum up power talk?Power talk is the discussion of 'table stakes' - when 2 people have information or access to something that is valuable to others; they will often conceal the entirety of their nfluence and selectively trade information with others when necessary to better their own position. A lot of the communication is deliberately ambiguous so as not to divulge valuable information to those who don't need to know it and to cover their own tracks through plausible deniability. In terms of game, a lot of seduc… | /r/askTRP | 06/03/20 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Plate seemed like she didn’t want to be there then sent me this...I just wouldn't reply to her text. If she reaches back out try again, if not it's a plate dropped. Pursuing at this point is just going to make you seem invested after she's been pretty disrespectful towards you. It's on her to regain some desire to see you at this point. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 11:22 AM |
| 5 | How to stop being the workplace bitch?Read the Gervais Principle for all there ever needs to be known about workplace dynamics. In short, just fucking chill out. If you're being asked to do stuff, get it done but just take some time. You don't need to become all dominant and alpha; just stretch things out so you're not working into smoke breaks/lunches etc. Your bosses have no real idea of how busy or how idle you are, they simply see the end result for a lot of things. The reason this likely happed is you were probably finishing wo… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 09:23 PM |
| 27 | Can someone help me break down this Tinder interaction? Girl literally tells me that she really isn't attracted to me and a few hours later we are hooking up?I'm not sure if testing is the right word for it. Some girls get a weird sort of mean/angry when they're horny. The conflicting of strongly wanting to get laid; contrasted with the sense that they can't be seen to do anything for it. A lot of women's sexual satisfaction comes from being strongly desired by a man and dominated. That fantasy disappears if they're the one seen to be making the advance, it just no longer feels right to them, it has to be the guy leading each step forward that she su… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Suicide note from my deceased GF - proves AWALT. What to make of it?I think this is beyond the scope of this sub. Your gf was sick, mentally corrupted to the point that she took her own life; if i were you id force yourself not to base any future life decisions on anything she ever said to you. Don't get bitter or resentful with AWALT; most women don't kill themselves - she was an outlier with issues beyond your scope of control and you can't take any responsibility for what happened. She was just a sick chaotic person who paid the ultimate price. For your own e… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 08:07 AM |
| 10 | Shitting and farting as a RP manShitting with the door open is an alpha flex | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 11:41 AM |
| 6 | Is being “cock blocked” all the time a sign of low SMV? Or why the hell do people try so hard with me?People are just picking up on sexual tension between you and whoever you're talking to. You must have been the 'other' guy at parties before, stepping between two people flirting; it makes you feel awkward as fuck. At a party the etiquette is to gtfo of the vicinity and leave them to whatever happens. However, if these people have shit to do at work, they can't exactly be tip toeing around your attempts at getting laid - they have work to do, and so do you in most likelihood. Reading this post f… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys know any good books that talk about women's inner psyche philosophically?'The way of the superior man' has some good unique insights. Not at all what i was expecting it to be before i read it. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls like to be carried?Bruh, do you even lift | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 11:59 AM |
| 4 | Banged Flakey Tinder Girl... What is the reason?You're too needy, '2 days no contact' is nothing. Always wait for her to reach out. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 05:26 PM |
| 34 | Have you ever accepted a friend-zoning after dating, i.e. continued to give her attention after she said “let’s just be friends,” and lived to regret it?Yes, in most cases the friendzone is malicious and abusive. Women only do it to weak men who they've assessed will buy such a shitty deal off of them. Your intrinsic frame must present yourself as a man who does not tolerate unfair exchanges; in all matters. If you want to understand the root of it all, consider that the exchange between men and women, around dating etc; not be thought of in a social friendship sense. Instead it's akin to a relationship which centres arround a fundamental desire… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 02:44 AM |
| 1 | How do i not end up killing myself?Pah i trained as a dental technician in my younger days, i can see why you want to kill yourself. You think your life is shit.. because it kind of is. If i were you i'd go have some fun and adventure. Go work some odd jobs in some odd and interesting places. Meet people, meet girls. Give yourself time to figure shit out, while earning enough money to live in some shared house, and keep your parents off your back. In a years time you might be having too much fun, and actually have the contentment… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Girl said she was going home in the middle of sex on first date. Was this LMR? Pretty confusedPower move on her part.. Patrice talked through a similar thing on one of the call in shows. Your not threatening enough and something about you is weak enough that it caused her to feel comfortable to stop things mid way. She got too comfortable, likely because you went down on her for half an hour before you'd even banged her. Save that shit for real girlfriends.. even then limit it. You gave her all the validation up front, signalled that you were trying too hard to please her and she got bor… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 04:49 PM |
| 15 | What advice would you give to a 23 year old virgin?I didn't lose my v plates until 23. 3 years later im well into double digits and feel pretty confident of being able to get laid whenever my logistics allow. I don't live in a city and work offshore now; so i have less opportunities than i used to. It really is a skill you learn with practice. I fucked it up many times, with some very cute girls, because of nerves and not knowing what to do etc. Now i have numerous experiences turning even fleeting glances into lays the same night etc. All from … | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 10:19 PM |
| 2 | How to make a move on snapFocus on getting them 'chasing'. Snap story is a good tool for showcasing what cool and interesting things you are doing on a frequent basis, without it seeming like you're out there to brag. Ideally once a girl starts to get hooked, she will comment something on your stories and you can make plans from there. It goes a long way when they are the one initiating the conversation to maintain your frame. Stories don't have to be you at a pool party in vegas either. I had one chick comment i seemed … | /r/seduction | 14/02/19 11:43 AM |
| 9 | Can someone with experience explain why eventually you have to quit drugs/alcoholI think as you get older, drugs and alcohol just cease to be cool like they were when you were younger because better alternatives exist. Having good money, worthwhile responsibilities and the ability to navigate through society with status aren't really options to people under say 30. When i think back to my late teens early 20s, i was going out drinking often 3 times per week and dabbling with other stuff. I was also living with parents and working shit unchallenging jobs. Drinking and 'going … | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 04:12 PM |
| 8 | How do I deal with this feeling?Women are happiest when they're in that softer submissive state, say after sex. And unhappiest being bosses and having to take charge of things. However, being submissive means being vulnerable - if they kept that shit up 24/7 they'd end up in a world of hurt. Hence is need to test and continually put up that shield - especially around men they like. Sex is like the final granting of submission a woman can give to man, her final play after he's swatted away all manner of tests and LMR. After it'… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 10:21 PM |
| 6 | Why are tattoos seen as a red flag?Fuck that's a good observation | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 12:48 AM |
| 4 | Know of any guys who have sidetracked their careers for their GF's and they lost?I know a guy who was offered a full golf scholarship at Florida State. He was one of the top amateurs in the UK at the time and would have had to move over to the USA. Basically a golden opportunity to get on the PGA Tour. He turned it down cause of some girl he was seeing; they ended up breaking up 6 months later. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 05:10 PM |
| 5 | Girl is beaten by Chad, yet goes back numerous times, even breaking a retraining order twice to see him. Can someone give an explaination to why he has such a firm hold on her emotions, other than "because hes Chad"?It's not 'daddy issues' and whatever else. All women share this nature, always have always will. It's a form of hypergamy. He makes her feel 'lower' than him. Her hypergamous drive gets a kick from being around a man she views as superior. It's the same psychology pimps exploited. All the cliches that girls like douchebags, psychos etc all have their root in this. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Those of you with non-fancy boring jobs, how do you answer what you do for a living?'something with computers' Don't take it seriously and reframe it however best it suits you. Tell them you own the business if they pry further and it makes you feel more confident. Most women don't know what a 'consultant' is or even what a managing director is, trying to impress a chick with a corporate title is pointless. Their judgements work on such a base level, such as associating the military with buff men in uniforms, firefighters with tacky calendars and DJ's with parties. So long … | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Girl invited me to the pool with her friends. Should I go?If you're having doubts then don't go. Just tell her you're busy and schedule to meet with her later on the night just the two of you. You've only banged her twice over a month so you're not exactly her sure thing just yet. The first month or so it should just be the two of you, no friends and you should be having sex every time you're together. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 10:01 AM |
| 2 | Average women are harder to date than beautiful women.take your neuroticism elsewhere mate | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 02:27 PM |
| 32 | Average women are harder to date than beautiful women.You guys really don't think 8+ chicks are getting approached as much?? The main difference between men and women, is that women know their value. They are reminded of it daily when men check them out in the street, through their matches on tinder. And mainly through a society that encourages women to develop unhealthy neuroticism regarding how they think people should treat them. For men you actually have to put yourself out there and risk rejection to get any real semblance of what your value… | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 09:51 AM |
| 16 | Why friendzones have nothing to do with actual friendshipsIt's such a bizarre dynamic, and fundamentally why relationships are not at all what they're cracked up to be. Sometimes (often) friend zone is sheerly exploitative. And sometimes it comes about from a girls loss of interest once she realises a guy likes her and wants a relationship with her. Women always crush on the guy who is just not quite available to them, because that's what appeals to hypergamy. Nothing displays that a guy has lower or equal value to a chick than him actually wanting t… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/18 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Is larry david a good red pilled comedianHim and Jerry Seinfeld have pretty strong frames. In my more pussified days i found Jerry obnoxious, but he really just has excellent understanding and control of his interactions - like all good comedians have to. His brush off to Kesha was a pretty great example of a man who just don't give a fuck. Second the mention for Patrice but that goes without saying. If you aren't familiar with him what are you even doing here | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 11:24 PM |
| 2 | The Lay of the Land: What are the 70% of women who can't get with the top 20% of men doing with their time?This is something i've given a fair amount of thought to and it still baffles me. Despite the rhetoric on this sub, most chicks aren't boning 6ft chads every night. That's not to say they're unicorns either. Most women are frankly fucking so useless at life it's depressing. Still living with their parents and unable to organise a simple meet up with a few friends to drag them out of their despondent way of living. There's a heap of girls out there who are largely shut ins. And i think a lot of t… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/18 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Why are girls so insanely attracted to Artists (Especially Musicians)?Well firstly, they're not attracted to all musicians/artists. Generally, only to those who are relevant to whatever social or hobby clique she happens to decide she is into at any one time. I don't think many cello players are drowning in puss. If you break it down, it's quite straightforward really. Women are highly social creatures because their mate selection depends on it. I've known a few local musicians who shoot above their means in terms of dating. They are regularly in bars, 3x per … | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Plate sent a snapchat of her and another guy in bed togetherPersonally, i'd hard next. It's a blatant attention grab and an attempt to get a rise out of you. Don't take the bait. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with disrespectful pet name?You need to frame it on her that she's making a faux pas with the name and not that you're butthurt by it - cause she'll probably find that funny and keep using it. Just imply that it's cringe worthy and you think less of her each time it's used and she will get the message. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 01:21 AM |
| 58 | Didn't escalate, girl gets disappointedGirls get so pissed off when a guy doesn't make a move. I've been subject to it multiple times and blown more opportunities than I care to admit from my beta days. Girls have an entitlement towards sex and will decide that 'he must be gay or a virgin or something' if they feel they are dropping hints and nothing is happening. I doubt you'll get anywhere with her number, you've already blown a golden opportunity. In my experience all the girls I blew chances with, went from having a crush on me… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/18 09:51 AM |
| 4 | Does it even matter what you say on Tinder?So much of 'pick up' is being in the right place at the right time and then just moving things along to close the deal. I've said it before but I've lived with multiple women (through work) who downloaded tinder for the first time. The pattern is always the same. -Download it. Are receptive to mens advances because it has a novelty. Meet like 5 new guys in the space of 2 weeks. -Put 3-4 of the guys into orbiter territory and sleep with the most don't give a fuck guy who knows what he's doing. … | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Flirting with girl that's sleeping in the same room as me at hostel. How to close?You got a laptop? Watch a movie. Hang the towels around the frame of the bed to give you 'privacy'. Have some cheap nasty boxed wine to create an ambience. Laying on a single bed together watching a movie, you can't not get laid. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Why do guys particularly my friends think it’s creepy to hook up, plate or LTR an 18-19 year old? How do I deal with this?Your friends are idiots. 4-5 years is an optimum age gap if you're going to LTR. It puts you in a position to have your shit together, compared to her. Obviously thinking too far ahead, but if the relationship is to go the distance it also gives you much more time before the kids/marriage dilemma surfaces. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 01:15 PM |
| 8 | Is the entertainment industry becoming too bluepilled? How can you enjoy the shows after taking the trp?Watch Madmen and The Sopranos. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 04:31 PM |
| 3 | I've almost never made it past a first date. Advice?Yeah your game sucks.. Your mindset is all wrong. You're trapped in the nice guy dating realm of having to have several dates before you can really get with a chick. Instead you need to move faster and capitalise when you're hitting peaks with attraction. Girls standards are a lot lower than we all imagine, it's just most guys don't move things forward in the right way. Have a read of the article below to give some context. Women grant 2nd, 3rd dates to guys that they sleep with. https://ww… | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 12:11 PM |
| 3 | I'm not like other girls. I don't hookup unless it's a doctor.Meh doesn't really prove anything though except that OP doesn't understand women. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/08/18 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Buddy took my date homeSo you mean to tell us that inviting other guys on a date with you and a chick isn't a good tactic to get laid? - noted. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 11:37 AM |
| 8 | A Shocking Twist: My Hookup Buddy does not want to be my BoyfriendWithout knowing what they look like I'll hazard a swing that he is way better looking than she is. At some point early in a relationship they realise that repeatedly having sex with some guy and not getting any commitment out of it is actually lowering her value while the guy gains a fuck buddy and gains value. They always paint it in some light that they're the ones being 'used' and the guy is an asshole - despite that they were enthusiastically willing to go along with things. This guy has… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/08/18 01:14 PM |
| 33 | What happens when you stick your dick in crazy (Or another example of how hookup culture damages women).My guess is she's done this to guys before and asksed for $500 for an 'abortion'. Most dudes would rob their own mother to give her the money fast enough and not risk a pregnancy. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/08/18 01:46 PM |
| 5 | In general, are girls on dating apps just lower quality?Yeah there's generally something amiss about a lot of girls on there. I do tend to think tinder negatively effects women more so than men. I've used tinder while travelling a lot and generally speaking the girls I've met from it have been pretty cool and normal. They're girls who are in new places and obviously tinder works as a good means of meeting people in a foreign place etc. However since getting back to my hometown Tinder here is an absolute shit show. A lot of single mums and socially … | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 11:41 AM |
| 1 | You guys say ‘next’ over almost anything?Well there is a pretty huge bias, in that people generally post here because of a problem in whatever relationship it may be. Nexting is advised because it always has to be a consideration and it underpins the frame of any action you may take. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Fucked OneitisI’m trying to get some insight as to what’s going on in her head from trp vets. You became and started acting like an attractive man and she became attracted to you. Is she going to be 'the one' - probably not. Because she's attracted to you does that mean she now has eyes for nobody else? - Also no. It's way to early to tell in any case. Keep her around but see other girls as well. If you still feel this way about her and she's shown no obvious red flags 3-4 months down the line then keep h… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 01:03 PM |
| 6 | Why do girls love drama so much?I think the guy who mentioned it's similar to how men like to watch and analyse sports is onto the right idea. As men we compete in social hierarchies of competence and dominance. Take any context, be it a football team or even a group of lab professors. The 'alpha' is defined as the most dominant and universally competent. Taking the football team example, the team is made up of different individuals of various strengths and weaknesses - a quarter back has different qualities to a line backer… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 12:36 PM |
| 6 | This "alpha fucks, beta bucks" story puts a whole new spin on the dual mating strategy.Play stupid games, get stupid prizes | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/08/18 10:39 AM |
| 2 | Bored and unimpressed with sluts. I genuinely want an LTR. Am I in an unhealthy mindset?Agree so much. It's got to the point now where the last couple dates i had, i had the feeling of she's cool, we've clearly hit it off and she would make an awesome girlfriend. But i just know i'll never see her again. Or it will take too long to get together again and the 'spark' for her will fizzle out or some lame shit. I know because it's happened a multitude of times that i just don't bother anymore. As well when i've met up with chicks with the explicit intention of just having sex they alw… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/18 11:42 AM |
| -1 | 6 MOST COMMON Signals Girls Give as an INVITATION to Talk to ThemLets not beat around the bush, her advice is nothing short of dreadful. | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 10:03 PM |
| 18 | 6 MOST COMMON Signals Girls Give as an INVITATION to Talk to ThemGuys don't hit on girls because they might not be into you. If they show a subtle sign of interest, play it safe - best not risk it and come across as 'lame'. In other words live your life like the advice in the video below.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xa-4IAR_9Yw *sarcasm* | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 01:04 PM |
| 4 | It's not your fathers fault you suckInstead or blaming others just embrace the suck of certain life experiences. We're not meant to coast as beings until 80 wrapped up in a bubble of non conflict and easy pleasures. I was listening to a Rogan podcast where he chats about how it's good to experience heart break early in life - to lower your expectations and realise what people really are. He shares a multitude of experiences from his early years which would 'red pill' most nice guys. At 50 y/o him and his guest just laugh them away… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/18 01:07 PM |
| 1 | If guys suddenly stopped asking women out, would women begin chasing men?I'd be wary of believing much in the way of Japanese men putting their foot down with their women and saying no. Having lived there and gone out there, young japanese guys are shy beyond belief. A lot of them resort to getting black out wasted after work in the cities and hitting up 'host' clubs to get their kicks. It stems from their culture which is very oppressive to the young in a 'respect your elders' way. Corporate Japan is archaeic with the younger staff mostly always being subservient to… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/18 02:10 AM |
| 10 | Man dumps his fiance: "My fiance wanted an open marriage, so I called off the wedding. Even her licensed female therapist said, 'we live in a modern world, and your fiance wants to have a non-conventional marriage moving forward.'"Post the recording here so we can tell if you're chatting shit or not. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/08/18 06:04 PM |
| 5 | How to screen Tinder matches for ONS?Just plan 'dates' that will lead to sex. Meet up for drinks late, invite her over to your place for drinks. Don't agree to meeting for 'coffee' or going to dinner or anything in the daytime. Never mind what you're after, if you're asking women what kind of relationship they're looking for - you're doing things very wrong. Plausible deniability, always. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 02:19 PM |
| 4 | Blue Pill TraumaI had an exchange similar with my former oneitis through Facebook - I'd share it with all you guys but I deleted it one night in a moment of cringe induced RP reflection. It was that moment which made me red pilled. As Rollo says unfortunately it takes a (completely unnecessary) trauma to finally remove the blue blinkers. What's worse though is how there is no support out there for guys. If some red pilled guy had talked to me in the run up to what happened I likely would have accepted it as I w… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/18 11:12 AM |
| 5 | Did Improving Your Life (e.g. Working Out, Finding Hobbies) Get Women To Start Approaching You?In my experience girls only express interest if it's some sort of social setting or you are around each other enough. Although I'm not chad by any means, I have had a few instances of women 'coming onto me' just by being in their presence and being a sociable guy. However, that being said it's rare and your faaaaar better developing your ability to open and chat to new women wherever you can. Women's signals can be so subtle that they're non existent, you need to be comfortable in your self to c… | /r/seduction | 30/07/18 03:02 PM |
| 109 | Reminder that it doesn't matter how innocent a girl looks when she's taking it from three random guysI feel like your pedastaling her because you enjoy the status it gives you to be around some hot chick at a music festival. This whole plate attitude of 'she's free to do what she wants as am i...' I mean yeah maybe when you're not on each others time and attending an event together. This just reads like a cuckold fantasy with some BS defence letting her off the hook with 'we're not exclusive'. She does not respect you man, get the fuck away from this damaged bitch, I can't mince words on that. … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/18 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Pickup Artists are psychopathic.Every means to an end is psychopathic. I feel like anyone could become psychopathic given the correct motivation in life. It's even applauded. If you were to have an idea for even a small business and were to recruit lower level employees to do the baseline work - your relationship with those employees is psychopathic. You'll exploit the value of their labour and dine off the fruits of it. Fuck you might even profit more than 20x the value of which you provide to them. But it's justifiable under… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/18 11:59 AM |
| 74 | The Friendship MythAbsolutely. You realise why men tend to lose most of their friends as they get older and struggle to make new ones. In a 'traditional' sense men move around for work, get promoted and whatever else and drop friends consistently. I left my hometown around 4 years back to travel and work. Now im back things are same but different. Friends have moved on (rightfully so) with LTR's or moving for work, the ones who still do the same shit just no longer appeal to me (im from a pretty nothing town). The… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/18 10:52 AM |
| 4 | Jordan Peterson can’t handle the truth.The criticism I have of Peterson is his idealism in literally every topic he broaches. He does a good job of criticising and shaming beliefs which don't line up to his traditional conservative mind set. The rather patronising way he talks about young men needing to grow up and adopt responsibility - as if it's something they never realised was possible before. It's typical boomer rhetoric, but he fails to address why such a decline is happening in society and seems to just brush over the now hug… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/18 11:39 AM |
| 3 | Treat sex like a business transactionI was reading the 'Gervais principle' essays the other day (essential for anyone wanting a 'RP' view of social hierarchies) and one thing in there struck me as profoundly true. The essay outlines different groups of people in hierarchies and the 'languages' each group speak to one another. At the top level of any business the people in charge engage in 'PowerTalk'. That is their conversation entirely revolves around important dealings of exclusively; money, power and sex. It might not seem so on… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/18 10:54 AM |
| 66 | Young Newbies: Stop Trying to Pick Up Women In Bars/ClubsNightlife is dead. Unless you're going to bars in student towns, most inner city venues are ratio'd highly by men and older women. It's simply too expensive a pastime and most girls who aren't in a big party clique don't really stay out very late at all if they do. If you're going to do it, get out early and talk to girls from the start of the night as most places seem to be a complete dude fest after mid night (basing this on a few major cities around thee world). It kind of eliminates the whol… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/18 11:52 PM |
| 1 | I want to open a discussion about modern feminism and some of the things that are wrong in this movement.The way feminists describe their 'motives' is similar to how any disenfranchised identity cult, with no real aim, does. Take any white supremacist or right wing nationalist group and ask their motives and they will respond with something along the lines of 'we're just fighting for the rights of good christian (insert nationality) men!'. However if you were to attend one of their meetings or protests you would walk away thinking - it actually just seems like you hate black people. Feminism is the… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/18 05:06 PM |
| 2 | How to stop being the guy that gets stuck with the fat friend?You implied a sniff of interest to a girl below your SMV and she's jumping at it. The other girls know she's single and aren't going to step in and risk upsetting Bertha. It's on you to negate that. Hot girls are more subtle because they can be; they're used to men doing all the leading and if he doesn't they can just wait along for the next guy who does. The big girl has to show active intent and interest just to get men to keep talking and interacting with her. When you got taken to the group … | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 03:18 PM |
| 24 | Was this a white knight move?I wouldn't mind paying the homeless to do this for me on purpose, in fact. lol, that'd be some next level game | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 11:05 AM |
| 28 | FR. Back to basics: frame, abundance mentality / outcome independence, being busy, and being myself led to first "date" fuck.Some good lessons. With tinder, never be needy, keep ALL options open and lead the logistics. Usually you can find girls happy to comply. 'have found it easy to impress most girls with just old-fashioned missionary sex- which leads me to believe that most men have no idea how to fuck a girl.' Sex for men is different as it is for women. Ask your average man what his darkest fantasy is and he'll probably say 'just regular consensual sex with a pretty girl who really wants my dick would be nice...… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 09:52 PM |
| 6 | Help me understand: married girl hangs out with me and is becoming flirtyShe would have fucked you the night of the concert if you had pressed harder. Now in the morning and sobering up she's feeling self aware. She's getting herself off the hook by showing you those picture to provide plausible deniability and throw you off in case any of this could come back and reflect badly on her. You also verbalised it, so you removed the 'it just happened' feeling for her; 'urm.. what are you talking about. I showed you pictures of me and my husband on holiday you creep' Women… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 04:31 PM |
| 9 | Henry Cavill says he’s hesitant to hit on women bc of #metoo and the female collective goes crazyIt’d be harder to pin sexual misconduct on a man who’s societal perception is that of a charismatic ladies man Pretty much. Can you imagine if the Louis CK story had not been Louis CK and say Russel Brand. Exact same careers, similar levels of fame. But Brand is an openly sexual deviant whereas CK has built a character around being a neurotic nerdy successful fat man. If that story had broke about Brand he would have been on stage the next day doing a routine about it and being lauded for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Study: dominant men don't smile a lotBeta males have a submissive tonality in their speech from the get go. They automatically bow frame to whoever might want it to appease conflict. If you've ever worked in customer service and dealing with an irate customer you know the frame you sink into to try and appease them; soft voiced, wide eyed 'yes I understand sir..' Or dealing with a boss and laughing at his shit jokes to try and win favour. Men who are more guarded with their expressions are trustworthy and respectable. That's not to… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill GemsIm seriously thinking of packing it in. After the first 2 beers it just becomes diminishing returns. Not to mention the amount of botched dates i've had from getting too drunk, running my mouth or getting her home to have a noodle dick. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 09:43 AM |
| 2 | The Life Story of Carol.This is why i have such an issue with the conventional nice guy shaming. Most guys aren't alpha chad pull them by the hair and touch her up in a public place - as well as not being fedora wearing gift giving 'yes m'lady' types either. Many men are somewhere in the middle. They know how to flirt and some basics of attracting women. But without knowledge of the bigger picture it's so easy to fall into womens 'back pocket' tactics. It happened to me all the time before RP. Meet girl, have good date… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/18 11:30 AM |
| 14 | What's going on with girls and wanderlust?It's actually quite an interesting question which I've put quite a bit of thought in over the years. As someone who's travelled for around 4 years and managed back packers accommodation in a popular travel/adventure town, as well fucked a fair share of wanderlusters. It's mostly about shopping for guys, hopefully finding a foreign man from a country/culture which they've pedastalled as culturally superior to their own; as well as appearing to have a hobby/interest out of normal chick shit (Netfl… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 03:54 PM |
| 2 | How do you find motivation to keep on living, especially once you've figured it all out?I'm totally with you on this. Same age, probably RP for 3 years. It's hard man. I'm 26 and I already have a large feeling of ennui. A feeling of been there done that. I've travelled the world, worked all manner of good jobs and shit jobs. Interacted with people of all cultures and fucked women of varying degrees of hotness. It all becomes the same, the same social systems at play and the same bullshit hierarchies of alpha, beta maledom to navigate through. The main thing I think it comes down to… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Feminism is not a shit test. Feminism is a macro level compliance test, and we're all failing it.I've always protested that what we face now is an economic problem. It's a bigger issue than just lumping this on men to stop playing video games and jacking off to porn, If women aren't going to fall into line then it's all for nothing. For the first time in history women on mass have money and resources to fend for themselves. Except it doesn't really feel like equality to anyone does it? The middle class is vanishing and it's leaving a slump of 'millenials' in a wake of dead end employment li… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/18 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Men in today’s society: an explanation. Understand what’s going on, or give up.What exactly is your point? This is feminist rhetoric of patriarchy; Not so long ago, men had all the power and women were just accessories. People to fuck, people that would do stuff for you, and that’s it. - Incredibly reductionist statement, with no objective basis in reality. Ironically, setting aside all the shit dicatorship governments did in the past, the role of women on those societies was always relegated to the traditional conception of “being there for men” and nothing more - Again j… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/18 10:58 AM |
| 13 | Has anyone else become more conservative over the course of their TRP journey?Yes. For me it started when I really began thinking about sexuality and relationships after having some dire experiences with women. Before I was a typical college liberal who supported feminism because I thought it was the smart person thing to do. However, it dawned on me of just how 'not ok' I am with the idea of the growing feminism narrative supporting female promiscuity or loose sexuality providing 'empowerment' to women. I looked at my parents and close family members relationships and ho… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 11:21 PM |
| 6 | How did Patrice O'neal(RIP) know so much about how women think, act, psychology, and interplay with men.Heres a bit of Dante talking about it, starts around 10mins in. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C1kX52dAeBE&t=834s I'm fairly sure I've heard Patrice mention the same story on Black Phillip, albeit in less detail. So I guess I'm piecing those 2 clips together from what I remember. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Instant Gratification: The Age We Live InThat's what they say, but it's not what they do. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/18 10:02 AM |
| 35 | How did Patrice O'neal(RIP) know so much about how women think, act, psychology, and interplay with men.Patrice is probably the best source out there. He had all his theories on lock and was able to defend them all humorously and also under the 'pressure' of women. He's obviously got quite a natural ability to pick apart underlying social dynamics and an appreciation for 'truth'. In essence what a lot of Patrice's theories boil down is the conventional 'pimp code' of the 60/70s. If you ever wanted to delve into the dark side of sexual psychology then reading up pimping would be it - Check out the … | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 05:43 PM |
| 7 | How to get the cards back from a girl after showing to much interestBone her sister | /r/seduction | 13/07/18 09:33 PM |
| 4 | What a gay guy hitting on me taught me about seduction.The issue is that nice guys aren't really "nice" they only act in a way that appears to be nice in order to get what they want but it's really just masking a river of rage - explain how this is not an absolute statement which just serves to demean the character of the 'nice guy'. The problem with your argument is that it serves in absolutes. Your implying that any man who engaged in a 'nice' tactic would never succeed when that is obviously not the case. The underlying problem of 'niceness' is i… | /r/seduction | 13/07/18 07:50 PM |
| 6 | What a gay guy hitting on me taught me about seduction.No I completely understand the 'nice guy' problem. The thing I don't like about the popular Robert Glover rhetoric is when it's used in absolutes. It fabricates an archetype of some clueless fedora wearing loser and judges that rather than situations based on individual merits. There is no 'nice guy' - that's just a convenient caricature used for ridicule which in reality is a lot rarer than everyone imagines. The truth is more complicated and there are many nuances to seduction or 'negotiations… | /r/seduction | 13/07/18 06:09 PM |
| 33 | What a gay guy hitting on me taught me about seduction.Very well summed up. I don't like a lot of the nice guy hate at times, it seems a tad unfair to guys who are trying to do the 'right thing' but are just a bit clueless to how women operate. Obviously theres extremes but some people even go as far as implying that buying a girl a drink is a 'covert contract' or 'ploy' in some manner. Best way is to always understand the reality of what is going on, remove your ego and asses a girls interest objectively then act accordingly. For every story of 'ni… | /r/seduction | 13/07/18 12:46 PM |
| 37 | She confirmed so much of the advice repeated here.Be careful. I wouldn't read much into her words unless you do actually start fucking her. Sure your friends might have been uncouth in their game but don't think you're in any better standing because she's deemed you non threatening enough to grant more of her time to for the time being. Im sorry if this seems cynical but this reeks of a 'lets just be friends' in the making. You seem to be lapping up her words and happy for her attention. I generally don't like this holier than thou attitude wom… | /r/seduction | 10/07/18 06:52 PM |
| 11 | What She Says She Wants, What Actually WorksIt's so important to hold the relationship power as a man in order to protect yourself. No one has empathy for men - not even other men. If you start to become a weak link, capable of being pushed around then people begin to dissociate from you. Not just women, but friends and even family will drop men like a bad smell if he fails to be competent. As men we compete constantly in hierarchies and we judge men around us based on their standing within them. Think about beta males from school who jus… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/18 04:54 PM |
| 8 | Men only respect strengthHere ya go, about 7:35 he gets into the bit I quoted but the whole talk is worth a watch. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gj1iDCIwLq8 What I like about how Peterson structures his 'develop your monster' (become an asshole) is his explanation of why it's so necessary. How your 'normative reality is completely insufficient to protect you in the world'. Basically that people will make unreasonable demands of you throughout your life and many of which can't be resolved with a polite 'no thanks' - bu… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/18 09:22 PM |
| 25 | Men only respect strengthTheres a great Jordan Peterson bit about it where he says you should develop a temperament that when people interact with you, they know within the first 5 seconds through instinct that messing with you is a bad idea. At first, I did it only when he provoked me, but then I moved on to do it every now and then just to keep him on the edge. That's the way. It's easy to think eye for an eye - only give shit in response when somebody else gives you shit. But the truth is you will always grant the up… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/18 11:33 PM |
| 6 | On Jordan Peterson : The ultimate TRP meta conflict brought into the mainstream. Why you're here, is why he's wrong.Failed by what metric? - That they don't exist anymore and societies that moved from a conventional monogamy set up to polygamy were in ruin within 3 generations. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/18 10:53 AM |
| 22 | On Jordan Peterson : The ultimate TRP meta conflict brought into the mainstream. Why you're here, is why he's wrong.This is naive nihilist bullshit. Evolutionary biology based on multiple millennia doesn't give a shit about modern social conventions from the last few hundreds of years. Except it does.. Societies that did not conform to a mostly monogamous set up failed. They failed to raise enough children on mass to propagate new generations. Monogamy does not exist because it is 'nice' to men who can't get laid. It's because societies that don't follow that set up die. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/18 09:10 AM |
| 6 | The "Redpill" Guide for Women - A Guide to Unhealthy Relationships and Emotional ManipulationThis seems to be a pretty spot on guide to how shitty break ups go. I know better now and the best way is to be aware and deal with potentially shitty scenarios before they have opportunity to ruin your life for some amount of time. If you are unfortunate enough to fall victim then i say flip the board. Call her out, not with any intention of changing her ways but to definitively burn that bridge so you can start piecing your balls and head back together. It's ugly but at times necessary. In fut… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/18 11:59 PM |
| 30 | Hostile reaction to giving redpill advice'You have to understand. Most people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured and so hopelessly dependent on the system that they will fight to protect it.' | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread June 25A lot of the Jordan Peterson parts about 'harnessing your inner monster' can be applied to women and dating. For many unplugged nice guys, their own sexuality is the 'monster'. It's something they've been taught to be shameful of and never display unless a girl asks them nicely to do it. There's a quote from one of the Peterson lectures; 'People should know after 3 seconds of interacting with you, that harrassing you will be a seriously bad idea' It's a great quote because it provides so much in… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/18 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread June 25It's because of status and it's really fucking powerful. I've traveled and worked a lot of jobs and experienced the differing preferential treatment which happens as a result of changing status. It's the most subjective factor you could ever be judged upon - but you could probably sum it up scientifically as 'he who best fits/dominates his environment' If you're high up in the corporate world girls will take notice. They're designed that way. As a man suddenly thrust into a realm of attention fr… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/18 12:00 AM |
| 9 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread June 25I've been having a lot of thoughts about what oneitis actually is and why 'heartbreak' occurs. It's universal in that most men have experienced it at some point or another in their lives. Some deal with it better than others, some learn some don't etc. One thing I've always took issue is the explanation that it stems from 'scarcity'. Obviously that can play an element but there's a lot of other factors involved. I put it down to future investment and I think it serves a very real biological func… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/18 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Oneitis: What Led Me To EnlightenmentMan I had an experience a week ago that was one of those 'bask in how far you've come' moments. I recently met up with some old work colleagues back from my BP days. 2 of the 3 I haven't seen in over 2 years and one of which I had a huge oneitis for. Exactly as OP describes, we'd often party together then sit up late into the night getting all deep about life etc. Always I was 'waiting' for my moment, you know, feeling like we were developing that 'special bond' - you know, only to discover she … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/18 10:22 PM |
| 1 | ASD, aka lying: it goes deeper than we know'because she hadn't had sex in about a year' Translation: This is obviously total BS, but I hope you realise I'm acting 'pure' because I want you as a long term partner. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/18 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Rejection is NOT defeat.You have to the 'right now' rule to when girls tell you about their feelings or whatever else. 'we're just friends' - means you're not acting like a guy I can fuck - right now. You see it on conventional dating spheres everywhere and it's always along the lines of 'brah she told you how she feels, it's your fault if you expect anything out of her!' The big problem that conventional advice fails to explain or factor in is women's proclivity to change their mind once their safe male girlfriend sta… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/18 04:00 PM |
| 1 | You look like you get pussy a lot.'Expound?' It's akin to a bigger issue of how you grow up in many senses. Working hard, achieving good grades at school. They all play into following a system and a belief that fundamentally people will do the right thing in your favor. I think it's this attitude that is a subconscious turn off to women. It's the same shit that 'nice guy tm' is dragged over the coals for. When in reality nice guys are simply following a sytem of courtship outlined to them as 'safe' in societies eyes. If you want… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/18 10:27 AM |
| 46 | What Is It Like To Date A Guy? Things Guys Get Right (And Wrong)Underestimate Their SMVs severely. A lot of guys are a lot more attractive than they think. Some guys act so surprised when they find out a guy, let alone a woman, thinks they look good. Seriously, even some of the chubbier guys are cute/good looking. You should always work on yourself and your body of course, but in the meantime walk around like you're the shit regardless. Trust me, it works. Absolutely cannot be overstated. All my fuck ups with women have stemmed from this, from doubting at th… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 07:28 PM |
| 35 | You look like you get pussy a lot.Good write up. Said that once and in my mind I was like - "I don't wanna bang you yet, just want to cuddle and talk - let's have sex when we're ready -which can be now or you know, after years..." Ugh I've been there man, I know what thats like. That shit never works. This is one thing that I think is quite key to unplugging and realising why relationships aren't what a lot of young men think they're cracked up to be. Often smart guys, who've done the right thing throughout life fall prey to thi… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 01:05 PM |
| 14 | The easy times have done a lot more to emasculate men than you think, I feel feminism takes too much credit.....If women would be the main reason for lower wages (double the competition, halve the wage), there should be 50\% unemployment (perhaps split even between genders). I feel that's wilfully reductionist and misconstruing the point. This isn't about unemployment, it's about underpayment for the jobs which do now exist. Jobs which previously paid enough - relative to living costs etc to support a home. Women entered the workforce because (now this is the contentious opinion) for the first time in his… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/18 02:56 PM |
| 95 | The easy times have done a lot more to emasculate men than you think, I feel feminism takes too much credit.....The economic changes in the past few decades have contributed a large part to what is happening nowadays. Theres a great Jordan Peterson bit that summarised is something along the lines of; A minority of women existed in the workforce. Men worked and were able to support house hold on a single income. Then some high flying women entered the workforce. For a time some households had two incomes. Social mobility in these homes rocketed. Around the time of the 80s right through to the millenials bo… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/18 09:43 AM |
| 11 | The universal way forward, you get the relationship you deserve.The biggest thing I can preach is just getting to a place where you understand women more and can honestly judge yourself as to where you stand in their eyes. Remove your ego and cut/remove interactions that don't fit your needs and play along where they do. For example I currently have a nice 2 plates spinning. Plate 1 is an old friend. We're old party buddies from way back and hook up whenever we end up drinking together. She respects me, I respect her. Neither of us expect anything out of it,… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/18 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Now I am become Chad, the destroyer of pussy.Now I get laid, and I hate women. Now they piss me off. Now they frustrate me. Now they disappoint me. Now I’m a misogynist. This is precisely my experience. I was a near incel who pedastalled women because I knew no better. Now I get laid and the reality is not much better. I'm literally just back from a profound tinder date that I fucked up. I fucked up because the 'chat' got too deep. All signs were go, sitting close, touches early on etc. It should have been a case of keep it simple, keep it… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/18 10:39 PM |
| 5 | askTRP Megathread June 13'I’m done with her trying to dominate me all the time' This is what they do, you ain't going to find a woman who does not try that shit on a near consistent basis. It's written into the nature of male/female interaction. You may as well say 'I left my job because they were trying to make me do shit all the time' It's a necessary evil, it's up to you to asses wether the challenge is worthwhile. In the same way you make an assessment of value from an employer, so do you with your partner. Also in … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/18 06:28 PM |
| 0 | We (Men) Played ourselves.The sexual culture has EVERYTHING to do with the economic system. Might have to do a full length post on this one. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/18 12:18 AM |
| 6 | The Nature of the GameThe problem is women's interests and tastes are dynamic, they change upon the environment. As does all human behaviour. One theory as to why we have such large complex brains is an ability to asses sexual partners based on some pretty complex environmental criteria. The AF/BB theory is useful but it's so linear to the point that it is foolish in many ways. The collectiveness of this sub is desperate to adopt a one size fits all theory on these matters that it becomes dangerously reductionist. I … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 10:53 AM |
| 30 | Girls you orbit will say they care about you, but really only care about your attention.You made the mistake of presenting yourself as weak and gullible. When this shit happens you have to accept that you fucked it up. No girl would willingly just start leading on some dude they had no interest in. What's important is you work the relationship to provide the value you want out of it. I know so, because I've been exactly there. I've told a girl pretty much what you said, about having feelings for her and still gotten used for validation. It sucks, but the only way to learn from it i… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/18 01:00 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread June 06Hold your ground and explain the 'facts of life to her' if you have to. That this guy wants to fuck her, you know it and if she is honest with herself she knows it as well. Make it known (through your actions) that you will be ready to walk away unfazed if she doesn't tow the line more. Most important, is that you say none of this as a threat. You just explain your position righteously and make her aware of the consequences if anything were to 'just happen'. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/18 06:31 PM |
| 20 | A message to those on the fenceI used to laugh at men who didn’t put their women on a pedestal That was me in many ways. I had so many clues to drop the pill looking back but overlooked them until I finally had a bad oneitis. This example was not that oneitis, but it was one of three incidents that lead to my unplugging. I remember working a resort job and chatting to one guy who I became sort of friends with, sort of looked down on him as well. I remember him laughing saying 'every girl mate, you have to flirt!'. He was alwa… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 05:56 PM |
| 191 | Women Want Desirability, not ExclusivityWomen care more about what other people/women think about who they are fucking than exclusivity itself. If not having exclusivity means people judge her for being easy etc, then she will try to put wraps on it. But her motivation is because of what her peers think, not some visceral feeling of exploitation like it is for men. The whole pre-selection thing is one of those weird - the rich get richer phenomenon. I've seen it so many times in social circles. Guy in the group starts dating one high … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 11:48 PM |
| 25 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread May 28Men should embrace low standards and sexual frivolity as a means of power. For some reason, nature made it so that women appreciate leaders and strong older men. Which means from a young age, girls have a head start in dating because they attract the attention of older guys, who have more experience and know what they are doing relative men of a younger age. This breeds a sense of entitlement into many girls who get to know the dating game better than their respective male counterparts of the sa… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/18 10:45 PM |
| 14 | In which a nice guy is disassembled for being nice.Women will never understand the nice guy debate because they're unaware of their nature. Which is a shame because if each gender understood it, it would save a lot of misery and frustration for both parties. I recently tried arguing on the women's RP sub with one of their endorsed contributers that both genders would be better to understand how 'niceness' is a turn off to women because it invokes disgust and a show of weakness. You know rather than it being a calculated act of entitlement to the… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 01:10 PM |
| 30 | If you find yourself arguing with women, you are a weak target.Don't change her mind, change her mood | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 12:55 PM |
| 9 | Just call herAlso best time to call is if you're in a text back and forth exchange when you know her phone is in her hand. It takes away the whole gay male girlfriend thing if you refuse to get sucked into texts conversations and talk it out like a real person. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 11:35 AM |
| 12 | Tinder date with F-close. What it looks like when gaining a plate goes right, and how many lessons you can extract from it.They want to size you up. When girls are attracted to you and thinking of sleeping with you they pepper you with questions. It's a form of testing if your behaviour is congruent with your image. Some guys might have buckled at what she asked. 'Ohh urm no.. just gotta be prepared ya know.?'. FAIL If you fuck it up she will bail. She has friends ready to call her at a moments notice with some lame excuse to leave and get out of there if she senses you are in any way awkward. She knows why she's th… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Does this mean I’m beta (sarcasm)Ignore what they say only what they do. You can appease womens barriers in any manner you like. The important thing is you keep things moving forward on your terms and schedule hooking up. The better your game the better you get at reading women. Judging their responses and when to pull the trigger. You should most of the time play plausible deniability but always be pushing the envelope. Ask her out for drinks or over to play scrabble or whatever else. But once in person always be closing. Once… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 01:17 PM |
| 24 | Tinder date with F-close. What it looks like when gaining a plate goes right, and how many lessons you can extract from it.Having a car, a cool apartment or whatever else makes all the difference. Smashed a tinder chick 2 nights back in an apartment hotel I'd booked for a city visit. I have literally never failed to get a chick in this environment since being all RP aware. It's shooting fish. Chuckled while she ran around checking out the apartment looking in drawers. Found my strategically placed condoms in the bedside drawer. 'I guess you do this a lot?' 'Yeah, you could say that' There's no need to project high s… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 11:23 PM |
| 14 | More TRP observations/lessons from my best friends sister.Agreed. The last point in particular is why you can't listen to what women say. Only judge what they do. Or asses their words to that medium. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 12:10 AM |
| 10 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread May 21Biggest IOI (other than her jumping your bones). The slight nose laugh women make when you say something cocky or even slightly funny. It's subtle it's not 'haha' - if they're laughing a bit too loudly that's almost a bad sign. It's a submissive quite sign of bowing to frame. Sometimes accompanied by putting their hand over their face. That's the sweet spot of conversation with girls. Keep them in that state and lead them around to do whatever you like. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/18 01:10 PM |
| 3 | Best activity to invite a new girl to do at your place, BESIDES COOKING?🤔 | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 03:27 AM |
| 3 | Laying in bed with this chick I couldn’t close. What do.Once a girls done this it's pretty much over in my experience. It can probably best be explained by a crash in her emotions. Say for example you're in a loud bar, people laughing vibing etc. You could even be escalating with her in the bar and in that moment she's down to come with you and see where things go. Then you leave and it's quite. The mood slowly dies but she's still with you. She's already displayed with her actions that she's going to come home with and it would seem weird to bail on… | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 04:00 PM |
| 6 | The Royal Wedding.Bullshit. Harry's a player. He's lived with rockstar abundance since he was like 17 and had his share of 19 y/o popstars and Victoria Secret models. He's more of a partier and socialite than his brother and seems to have less taste in conservative women. He's picked a partner who can handle the celebrity without him having to protect her from the tabloids. I also imagine he'll use it as an opportunity to spend more time in the States and embrace the anonymity it will provide for raising a family… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 01:45 PM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread May 16It's not 'harsh for women' - that's just you falling for the shaming narrative of 'Men right! They only want one thing!' And what one thing is that? Sex? Love from an intimate partner? An actual relationship with a girl they like? The latter two are simply not possible without sex. As a man, everything you want from a woman revolves around sex being involved. Settling for 'friendship' is imasculating and humiliating. It's akin to being cuckolded in that you have a girl you are providing your tim… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 01:24 PM |
| 1 | So i plated a long time friend but she told me she wants to stop hooking up cause shes worried itll ruin our relationship.'what relationship' It's alway good to cut down the 'girl talk' and asses the reality of what women ask for. Either she's lost interest in you sexually, which means she does not respect you as a masculine figure. Or she has another guy in her sights and wants to move you to friend territory so she's free to pursue her other options. Which again is disrespectful and akin to her having her cake and then some. -Deal with it like the shit test that it is. Male/female friendship is nonsense, everyone… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 12:41 PM |
| 3 | Every girl I've banged thought I was good lookingGame is simply about presenting the best version of yourself in the shortest time frame possible so that the girl can decide, herself, that she is into you. It's not some magic trick to make any woman sleep with you. But it does ensure that the women who do want to sleep with you do exactly that. And it's more subtle than that. I think every man has experiences of having had a 'chance' with a girl and blowing it. Not making a move, saying something a little weak and watching her interest deplete… | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 12:48 AM |
| 1 | The "nice girl" vs the "nice guy"I refer to my previous comment | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/18 10:51 AM |
| 0 | The "nice girl" vs the "nice guy"This is all getting rather pathetic now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/18 10:39 AM |
| 1 | [FR] How keeping around an ex plate and behaving BP paid offSocial circle is the 'best' way because it negates the downside of cold approach which is. The awkwardness and potential for harm that occurs if you fail to demonstrate high value quickly and congruently. With social circle, it's already present. You can even run 'anti' game because you have a group of hotties backing you up. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/18 10:35 AM |
| 0 | The "nice girl" vs the "nice guy"Ah yes.. my whole argument us undermined. Piss off whiteknight and let your gf argue her own battles | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/18 10:11 AM |
| 12 | Ya'll ever notice how the more your SMV increases, the more enemies you seem to make?People are inherently selfish and only really give a fuck about their own happiness. I think men are worse about this than women (or women hide it better). They take their self worth by ranking themselves amongst their peers. When a peer improves or moves rank it throws the status quo and shit testing ensues. You see this between staff at typical shit jobs. If one dude is more ambitious the others of the group will tend to shut it down and downplay his achievements. All you can do is just keep l… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 03:39 AM |
| 5 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread May 14Oh lord, what have we created | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/18 03:20 AM |
| 0 | The "nice girl" vs the "nice guy"Why are you turning this into a personal attack? -im a creep? -using social shaming tactics? You used rape apologist rhetoric to support your flimsy argument. It's hardly social shaming tactics, pointing out a very real fallacy you made just for some point scoring. Accusing men to be likely to commit 'date rape' based on what? Utter nonsense is what. Have you been date raped? If you had a multitude of experiences of date rape from nice guys to form this opinion then the point would be valid. But… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/18 03:11 AM |
| 0 | Proof Hypergamy Is Real From a "Certified Homewrecker"Who knows what her relationship was like with her fella. But 'hypergamy' isn't rational in most cases. Women seek the emotions they crave to hook up. Emotions are how women get turned on. Theres a reason 'literature porn' is more popular to women than regular internet videos. If you can create those emotions then you make women want to have sex with you. The predisposition of her getting those feelings is dependent on a large number of factors. It's why pick up exists for men, and not for women.… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/18 02:41 AM |
| 0 | The "nice girl" vs the "nice guy"Agree with u/sonder_one here. This is the feminist argument and it's a dangerous way of thinking. Look at your language and how you shame 'nice guys'. This is not TRP thinking - quite the opposite. 'These are the men who are more likely to date rape you (or attempt to) because they've been so niiiiice and their niceness entitles them to your body' - I mean really? The reason this is such a controversial subject in essence is because the truth is frankly a little darker than men and women would l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/18 04:53 PM |
| 3 | The Best Five Nonverbal Signs Of Attraction (and supposed signs of attraction that are NOT linked to attraction)This. IOI's are over rated, and if they're majorly obvious, i'd go as far as saying you're putting yourself at risk of a 'promiscuous' girl. - nothing wrong with that if that's your thing. But a lot of newbies get shocked when 'their girl' starts batting eyes at other men as well. Always Assume Attraction. Then just act in a way which is non creepy and non needy but subtly pushes the envelope. Like you say ask to see a watch or wristband and hold her arm. Sit close to her and talk while making c… | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Am I the only lurker here that finds the intense focus on sex a little counterproductive?Id like to see an off topic trp sub. Understanding TRP isn't just about getting laid. It's reach is on everything away from the 'middle class idealism' of getting an education, finding a lucrative job, buying a house and conforming with a system. We live in an age where we can survive on relatively very little work/money. But people are more miserable than ever. Baby boomers naively quash the 'millenial' concerns as the of wanting new phones and big tv's etc. And a 'your time will come' mentali… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/18 11:32 PM |
| 0 | Social proof and frame examplesI get that you mean well with this advice. But the reality is sadly different in many senses. The fastest way of gaining social status is often by shitting on people beneath you to score points, engaging in seemingly bizarre tasks and games and dominating them to show a form of competence. Socialising, especially in aggressive party frames, is a battlefield of he who can win and control the frame the fastest often has the joy of the surrounding girls attentions. Only when you're securely at the … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/18 08:06 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread May 09It sounds more like your problem is lack of approaching and limited beliefs. Be confident in yourself and what you offer women. You're a fucking huge winner by the vast majority of 21 y/o girl standards.. Leverage it. Money makes you hotter intrinsically because it demonstrates status. And you really don't need to show that much wealth to put yourself ahead of the curve, especially if you're setting your sights on University girls. Most of the game is just about not appearing to be a loser. I've… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/18 11:59 PM |
| 21 | [FR] A More Socially-Acceptable Version of Redpill theory'Women want to like you more than you like them' | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/18 09:59 AM |
| 6 | A quick AWALT reminder.And this is why you should be hesitant to date any girl past three dates who you haven't managed to seal the deal with. It's a paradox where guys think they're getting a 'better girl' because they've been made to wait. Whereas in reality they just make themselves to be be seen as low value by the woman. Either she's not all that interested or you're not escalating and planning your dates correctly. First date public, second date your place and wine. Rinse and repeat. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/18 01:51 AM |
| 1 | I didn't realize how easy it was to get a girl to have sex with you if you just askCan't even be arsed explaining it at this point to be quite honest | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 02:33 AM |
| 5 | I didn't realize how easy it was to get a girl to have sex with you if you just askThis is a whole lot of beta male hamstering. Take on board what i said in the initial reply. This line of behavior will never work out well for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 01:31 AM |
| 34 | I didn't realize how easy it was to get a girl to have sex with you if you just askYes, this is going to be some tough medicine and correct me if you truly think i'm wrong. I say this because it was my problem for years and I have been guilty of using your defensive reasoning in my own life previously. You're at a disadvantage because you're being dishonest and projecting weakness. You're fearful of being judged based on your performance. Whether that's performance in the pick up itself (being funny, dominant) or doing the dead (sex). Naive guys think that if you just 'get to … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/18 09:52 PM |
| 651 | I didn't realize how easy it was to get a girl to have sex with you if you just askYour title is totally misleading, but your point remains valid. Many guys don't try and close the deal fast enough. It's all about 'striking while the iron is hot'. Say you're at a party and vibing with some chick. Most guys tactic would be to grab her number at the end of the night. Get excited, brag to their friends and start texting her. They end up confused that after 2 weeks of texting/talking the girl is swerving his invites and flaking on date requests. Whereas a guy who knows what he's d… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/18 03:44 PM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread May 02Go do something you're good at and enjoy. It's almost a cliche small town date, but bowling is pretty sick and if you're good enough at it that chicks are somewhat impressed by your skillz all the better. Golf driving ranges in the summer can be good if you happen to live close to a nice range. I used to live close to a cool place that had a bar patio adjacent so you could sip beers while hitting a few balls in the sun then walk over for an appie or something later. The golf one i got from a fem… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/18 09:23 AM |
| 3 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 30It's a bleak picture you paint but i admit there's a lot of truth in that. It may sound weird, but for years i've often wondered where do women hang out. I grew up in a poor working class town in the UK and always felt it strange going to pubs/bars where each night is basically 80/20 ratio men to women. (After midnight it becomes like 95/5). For years before i travelled i wondered how the fuck do guys meet women on a regular basis - do i really have to depend on parties or go to a yoga camp just… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/18 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 30no. 2 Is an interesting point. In my blue pill days I had numerous experiences where girls 'came on strong'. In a sense that they initiated a lot of contact and pushed for dates etc - before I even really clocked what was going on and that they were interested. All because of the strange nature in how overt these girls displayed their interest. These girls were obviously on the 'boyfriend hunt'. The kind of girls that don't really go out - but cause they're looking for a partner they're now acti… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 08:02 PM |
| 5 | How OneItIs can mess up your game. Don't let it get to you.Marc is a real MVP. I remember Patrice said a thing along the lines of, once they are hooked, women will never leave you if you're indifferent. Your demonstrating what it means to be a man; to unapologetically be about your purpose and your mission. Always remember it's a feminine trait to be infatuated. Being TRP aware in these scenarios is so important. The fantasy of having this girl and sacrificing your life goals to be with her is false. It's like that scene from The Matrix where Neo's in t… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Advice on cockblockingSounds like he has a crush on her as well of sorts, or doesn't want you getting laid out of FOMO. I've been there as well, on the couch together. And a mate just keeps asking the chick questions. I was even giving him the 'dude can you leave us alone' look; which he clocked and was either too dumb to realise or cunty enough to ignore and plow ahead. This is common in beta circles who have no idea how the game works and how fragile pulling can be. You might even have your nerdy friend shit test y… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 12:41 PM |
| 9 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 30Western society is growing increasingly protective of its women as the young middle class crumbles and men of the same age cannot provide homes for them. Universities almost serve as a safe guard to protect societies most prized resource - young fertile women. Training them for 'careers' which provide maximum comfort and opportunity to pursue an extensive social calendar to seek viable males for as long as they are valuable. I base this on the slew of young professional/prosperous women in any g… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 10:19 PM |
| 4 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 30I'd like to see some more posts into the how the working world and the middle class is changing nowadays. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 10:03 PM |
| 4 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 30Have a read of the 'mystery method' it's where the whole game concept began and it's still one of the best sources out there. TRP has quite obviously swung too much into asshole territory in regards to it's PU advice, with everyone here happy to up vote any narrative that goes along with lifting and ignoring her until she fucks you in a parked car.. Attraction alone isn't enough and far too many people get hung up on it. I lifted and now girls give me IOI's (are you gonna bang doe) The 'game' is… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 09:54 PM |
| 41 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 30ABALT (All Bond's are like that) | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/18 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Redpill moviesGoodfellas | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 09:44 PM |
| 16 | Redpill moviesfirst you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the woman - Should pretty much be side bar material | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 09:42 PM |
| 7 | Why Tinder Sucks - My Experience with Tinder GoldTinder's been monopolised and the obvious target market is men (because lets be honest, women have no need to pay for that shit). But, it's largely been ruined because of how common place it is nowadays. Online dating used to have a huge stigma even 5 years ago. People didn't want to be seen on Tinder, they were there as a last resort. Either they had work and social lives which vastly limited their opportunity to meet others, or were just chasing discrete hook ups. When i first used the app (ba… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/18 07:57 PM |
| 3 | [Rant] Obligatory Anger PostExactly, Hanlon's Razor 'Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity' When you 'get it' you can chat to girls about this shit on an open level (although not if you're trying to fuck them). I always find it funny but a lot of them are genuinely clueless to the light switch nature of their attraction. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/18 12:25 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with flakiness?Having a TRP understanding of relationships explains a lot and you still seem quite blue pill in how you're acting with these girls. It seems like you're investing too much and not treating them like a man is supposed to in a sense. You're set on locking them down to dates and relationships where it's not necessary. Any sort of holiday or big shared financial commitment can spell bad news in a sense as it's too BF/GF. Remember the fundamentals, it's their job to ask for commitment and plan that … | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 10:46 PM |
| 6 | A couple questions about the girl I lost my virginity toTell her that you had an ex that popped back in the picture. That should get her hamster going nicely in your favour. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 06:06 PM |
| 4 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 23Despite the wage gap narrative i think young women fresh out of college have it vastly better than men in the world of work these days. The amount of girls i know who studied a humanities degree and were readily offered employment as a PA or general admin in a nice office, middle of the city, easy hours is huge. If you're a semi attractive woman the corporate world is pretty easy to break into. They're happy to work as someones assistant doing no real work and getting overpaid for the privilege.… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/18 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Jack Nicholson talking Hypergamy in 1994I remember hearing Joe Rogan saying something along those lines. That if everyone became the person that they acted like when trying to get laid the human race would achieve so much. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/18 02:27 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill has wrecked me completely.\'I do horrendous socially.* I'm not saying that the Red Pill is bad for me. It just made me stress out a lot more about my image on others.'\* I think in a gist you lack 'congruence'. How do you know you're congruent? It's something that's impossible to describe but it is something you can feel when it's happening. It's why living a good enviable life should be your goal. To become 'congruent' that you are chasing aspirations and creating a cool life that people want to be apart of. You reach c… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/18 03:24 PM |
| 55 | Most experiences I've had with females in my life have been negative ones.Online dating is fascinating personification of everything that is wrong with the human condition.. Here is this magnificent resource, that if used appropriately could bring together couples who share the same interests, location, desire to seek a partner and of similar ages. And hey, you don't even have to go through the awkwardness of establishing if theres mutual attraction because the whole thing will only allow each of you to communicate if you both agree to it in advance. It's mere existen… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/18 07:16 PM |
| 47 | So happy with a caring guy that she left him!This is a pretty great snapshot of pure female mentality. It should almost be side barred as a learning resource for nice guys, analyse everything that is wrong with this. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/04/18 09:38 AM |
| 79 | Field Report: Asked a girl out while she was workingWell done for the approach, but don't shame yourself. 'Girls hate being approached at work' - says who?? - They hate being approached by weak men who don't know what they're doing. If you're masculine and have your shit together, then being approached by you is a privilege for any woman. That's the mindset you have to get to in order to garner more success. That doesn't mean you go up to her with the 'you know i'm kind of a big deal' spiel. But owning how you say shit and not subconsciously thin… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/18 09:33 PM |
| 0 | Women over 28 are more easily plated and misled by men who sense their desperation.Your friend had all the power for 15 or so years. She could have picked from a multitude of men who wanted to date her during her prime years but for some reason didn't. She unfortunely dug herself into this situation and has to deal with it, she's now in the same boat as many 21 - 25 y/o men. The whole concept of TRP relationship wise is that women trade their beauty for the sake of commitment and prosperity provided by a man, for sake of kids and all that. It therefore makes sense for men to d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/18 05:58 PM |
| 25 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 16Social circles limit the effectiveness of conventional pick up 'game' hugely. One factor that is a huge influence in pick up, or merely developing social status is the group dynamic. I've been fortunate enough to live and work in different places over the past 4 years and seen how social groups establish themselves and how people hook up with each other etc. It's especially important for women though, who rarely act as individuals and prefer the security of a 'group dynamic'. Generally when you … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/18 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 16Good point. Where i think this is commonly applicable is the whole 'sending memes to each other' on fb shit. You see it with couples or dudes trying to date a chick on FB all the time. You can 'connect' with a woman and talk all manner of shit if you want to. But you must be aware of never becoming un masculine and weak to her. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/18 05:07 PM |
| 97 | [FR] She'll Cheat if the Time is Right, and You're NotTheres so much that can be read into this. Kudos on the easy lay.. but realise that she pretty much made this happen and likely had eyes for any decent dude at the convention. This is a chick that was looking to fuck someone the minute she got away from her BF. She's entering that phase of her life where she's expecting to become 'better' than her current BF because she's going to college or entering some business to be a strong financially secure independent woman. The IOI's were just too stron… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/18 02:14 PM |
| 2 | How do I respond to girl who forgot we had sex last night?What a dick move on her part. Do not respond by text, don't put anything out there in writing. Maybe she has a BF and is trying to mentally let herself off the hook. Maybe she's into you and, badly, trying to gauge wether you're interested in seeing her again. I'd either not respond entirely or call her and deal with it like the shit test that it is. But whatever you do, do not reply by text and give her any leverage to turn this around on you. She might not cry rape to the police, but she might… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 01:54 PM |
| 7 | Why you should ditch your Oneitis immediately: a reflection 15 years laterI 100% agree with the last 2 paragraphs. However i think oneitis stems from a misunderstanding of women and how they operate, rather than scarcity. Although these two factors pretty much go hand in hand. I have a friend who's pretty much a chad - works a bar and girls ask him his number multiple times a night. He still suffers oneitis with the chicks he's dating. It's weird but I feel i understand it now. The girls who paint themselves as pure as snow are often the guiltiest of suffering from th… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/18 11:53 AM |
| 12 | Be the hero in your own story, not the cuck waiting at homeTravelling for women is ALL about getting consequence free sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/18 11:12 AM |
| 3 | What should a red-pilled young male learn/know by their 20's ?You're 19 and therefore in no place to be giving life advice. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 01:43 AM |
| 24 | There is No Santa ClausI'll always remember literally doing this on a date one time. Sitting on a nice bar patio with a hot canadian chick (who i thought was too hot for me). I thought time to put this TRP shit to the test. While she was mid story i lent back, kept one hand on my drink and started examining my nails on my other hand. She immediately lent forward and grabbed my drink hand to emphasise a point in her story. I stayed lent back, gave her a little eye contact and basked in the glory that was her bowing to … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/18 12:47 AM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread April 11I've been away from home for the past 4 years travelling and working places. From a small town that i have a love/hate relationship with. My first trip at 21 taught me i was in no way ready to sit down for a 9-5 anytime soon. The good I've always worked im developed countries - Canada, France, Japan, Australia (from the UK). Working with different people who've set up businesses away from the norm is a cool experience and shows you how life can be done differently. Adapting to new environments o… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/18 11:02 PM |
| 4 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 09It reminds of that quote from High Fidelity; 'What came first, the music or the misery? People worry about kids playing with guns, or watching violent videos, that some sort of culture of violence will take them over. Nobody worries about kids listening to thousands, literally thousands of songs about heartbreak, rejection, pain, misery and loss. Did I listen to pop music because I was miserable? Or was I miserable because I listened to pop music?' It's something that takes on quite a profound m… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/18 11:59 PM |
| 3 | The ultimate, low effort guide to fucking girls off online dating appsAbsolutely right. Me and a buddy figured this out while traveling and using the whole boost feature was the only way we could ever get matches to come through. Nothing for days, then boost to see sometimes 20 matches come in at once. Not only that but the matches you do get through it are waay hotter chicks. As if the algorithm knows to reward paying customers with the most right swiped chicks. It's digital pimpery! | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/18 11:47 PM |
| 5 | The ultimate, low effort guide to fucking girls off online dating appsGood write up and good tactics. It really pays to be smart on Tinder and time your matches for peak times and read your audience. I'll admit i waste too much time on it idly swiping and starting up convos with no real intent. One theory id put forward is being able to read the 'buying temperature' on girls and how it is so important. For cute chicks in their early 20s your club tactic is ideal. Many younger women just dont do one on one dates, they dont have to. They're just not going to risk th… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/18 09:56 PM |
| 20 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 09I've been extreme beta and ended up in bizzare situations where girls have literally tried to coach me into making a move on them. In hindsight its very cringe worthy. Not saying im a chad, but i dress well, socialise well but just happened to be severely under experienced with girls that I fucked it up a lot. It often takes a few obvious situations for guys to pick up their game. Realise the patterns that keep reoccurring and change their behaviour accordingly. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/18 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 02Game is getting more essential as 'access' to women becomes increasingly more difficult. I'm not exactly sure the reason, probably smartphones or something, but 'night game' seems to have died a death to me. In the past couple years i've noticed that; unless you're in a student area, most clubs and bars are predominantly filled with men, and the fewer women there are over 30. Something is causing men and women of traditional 'dating age' (early 20s) to occupy vastly different spheres. Maybe it's… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/18 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Girls lose interest after a whileYou're not moving fast enough. Attraction has an expiration date in women as it's largely down to how the man behaves. By stalling and being apprehensive you lose your chance, often forever. I've learned that the hard way many times. You should be aiming to plot a meet within the first few days of getting the number and text purely for logistics. You need to ramp up sexual tension from the first date, touch her and act like a man that knows how to close the deal. If you haven't had sex with a ch… | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 11:08 AM |
| 11 | A Bottle of Wine, A Service Elevator & A Hot Tub Lead to Hotel SexPersistence is key. Just when I thought my night was over, it actually was just starting. It's always up to you to see how long you're willing to ride things out, but you might be surprised how they turn very quickly in your favor if you stick with it. Always. The biggest IOI is always 'is she still with you'. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 10:54 AM |
| 3 | How pointless is it to ask where I standShe's not going to make the effort unless she sees you with another girl. My bet is you were too soft in the sack or you're just generally too nice to her in general. You had her attraction, but now it's waining and she's slotted you into back up material. Leave it alone. Do not entertain her fishing messages for attention. Be excellent and be gone. If she comes back it's on your terms. Stand up for yourself little bitch. Sorry for the tough love language, but I feel it's appropriate. | /r/seduction | 04/04/18 09:31 PM |
| 1 | A guy asked me for advice about relationships and I can't really help because I'm femaleHigh functioning autism? Send him our way, he'll fit right in at r/asktrp | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/18 12:31 AM |
| 7 | First date coming up and she wants to chill at her place...It's all about breaking the touch barrier early so making the move is no big deal. Heres things i've learned in my time over a series of mistakes and successes. Take a bottle of wine - it just makes things easier. Hug her when she opens the door - nothing drastic just a quick break of the touch barrier. When you first sit in the couch together, sit really close to her. Girls generally sit in weird positions with their feet up on the couch or cross legged. Make it so your legs are touching, you c… | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 05:48 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread March 28The old addage of fake it till you make it. You don't 'invite' a girl to do anything while you're on a date you just lead her into doing things like its the most natural thing in the world (because it is). I think you'll find once you actually start doing things that way it actually feels a more natural and comfortable way of behaving. As opposed to being in your head and thinking all *uggg does she like me.. i dont knoww' The trick is to plan things backwards. Be prepared for success and it wil… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/18 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Sexually frustrated college student, where am I going wrong?Break it down and asses where you're going wrong/where you can improve; Are you approaching? Do you know how to set dates/encounters with subtlety - if you're trying to bone girls from you're friend group this is essential. Are you putting yourself in situations where you get to meet a lot of girls who see you in a favourable light. Are you aware enough to pick up when a girl is interested and do you know what to do about it. Sounds a lot easier than it really is (hot girls are generally more su… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Be better than her!What does this even mean. What point are you (badly) trying to make? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/18 01:31 PM |
| 15 | Be better than her!Ugh this sub needs to learn to grasp context because the decline into a frustrated incel cult who support school shootings is going to take over. It's nature, it's been like this since the beginning of time. Men have done dumb shit to impress women because it gets them laid. The context of my example is.. Living and working in a ski resort. Being able to competently ski/snowboard happens to be a big fucking deal. You make friends with guys who are at your ability - (girls always try and tag on f… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/18 10:21 AM |
| 3 | Be better than her!Well they didn't bang so theres actions as well. And you're missing the point that is to say you can fuck things up very easily with women by being perceived worse or weaker than them - despite how high your initial status may have been. This is a petty example but it's quite illustrative of a phenomenon. In the same way that a hot guy can fuck up escalation and 'lose' a girl to a lesser looking more confident man. It's just the way of nature and it makes far more sense for women to behave that … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/18 10:24 PM |
| 7 | [FR] How to kill interest in 3 weeksI've been there. Had an ex who would hit me up pretty much every day, always wanted to be with me. When she left the picture i went on a tinder date with a cool chick, ended up in bed. She texted me the next morning a few trivial jokes and things about the night before so I just thought screw texting and asked her out again on the weekend. THE SAME DAY SHE WAS JUST AT MY HOUSE. Id been in the relationshit game too long that i just got a bit spoiled. Cue several hours for her to reply with somr e… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/18 10:11 PM |
| 31 | Be better than her!Nope. I based it on a true story from another girl who pretty much had the same experience. She was really excited about meeting the dude for obvious reasons. When she described that she had to teach him the basics of getting down a slope i sensed in her vibe that she had slotted the guy into friend territory. She was all diplomatic saying theyre just going to be friends and how he's a cool guy etc. It wasn't until a few days later when we were out drinking and 'chad' was trying to hit her up la… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/18 07:48 PM |
| 117 | Be better than her!This was at the core of TRP when it was founded and it really needs more attention. A lot of the red pill is no secret to women and men (who know what they're doing). You can actually have fun and enlightening conversations once you understand it's principles. I was managing a business in a ski resort a few months back and me and the coworkers (male & female) were having a laugh about women's standards when it comes to dating etc and how women's standards change depending where they are. Whereas… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/18 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Turned down group “date” for first time meetingTake charge dude. Women are terrible at planning dates and they will always verge towards having a bail out plan if you turn out to be some sucker. Women's nervousness about dating isn't that you're going to rape and abuse them despite what #metoo leads you to believe. It's more that the man is just not going to 'get it' and things are going to be awkward between the two of you. It's a shit test and an obvious one. You negate it by having confidence and showing her that you know what you're doin… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 09:19 AM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread March 21Just try and get some side from a chick who does it well. Some girls are shit in the sack because they have no reason to learn otherwise. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/18 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Professionally, you are the female.Very good. The job analogy works on quite a few levels as well. One of the things I felt even before TRP was a feeling of being inexperienced at dating - in comparison to women of my age. And it's true, because women have waaay more value from pretty much 15. They date and trade around and work out how to maximise their returns in a dating sense. They get the virtue of figuring out how the game works because they have value. When men enter the 'dating around' marketplace at whatever age they hit… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/18 05:06 PM |
| 3 | I was on date and girl at the end asked if i want to meet her againIt sounds as if she wanted to invite you back to her place but didn't know how and was looking for you to make up some excuse and let her off the hook. I'd hit her up tomorrow but you may as well steer it to you going to her place. Whatever jokes you made about her inviting you home go with that.. Something along the lines of; 'Had a fun night x-day. I was just wondering when you were going to invite me over for movie time?' If she's keen she will 'lol' and invite you over. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 03:58 PM |
| 1 | The concept of orbiters and possible link to why women give bad dating advice (question / discussion)The problem with the 'nice guy' tactic is it largely depends on the woman to initiate the courtship to a very large degree. The amount of times in my past I lost chicks by going on a date etc and not making a move because I was clueless and 'afraid of overstepping boundaries' is vast. Also I was clueless to mixed signals when presented by women and took a lot of their flakiness at face value 'oh yeah, i guess she really is busy that's cool...'. What TRP teaches is a true understanding of women. … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/18 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Behaviors That Demonstrate Detrimental Escalation AnxietyI definitely agree with the 'bubble gum' escalations. I've always held off touching too much - it just feels to forced for me and maybe a bit camp? I will maybe once over the date grab both her shoulders when were about to leave the bar in a jokey way and move her around. That tells you all you ever need to know. If she giggles and leans into your touch its game time. Think of some shit excuse to show her your place and be decisive about it. This part is always funny cause you know she knows wha… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/18 07:54 AM |
| 6 | monogamous malesIm not sure why people are disagreeing with this. This whole subs going purple pilled each day. All of the things we know to be true through experience support this hypothesis. -keeping your feelings towards her unclear -being seen having options with other women -not doing things for her other than sex etc.. All shit that is non conducive of a man seeking monogamy ironically induces monogamous nature in women. Theres a good bit on one of the Black Phillip shows where some woman is explaining ho… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/18 12:54 AM |
| 1 | The Problem With Nice GuysThe criticism of 'niceness' is over played. Was it enlightening to read 'no more mr nice guy' and the views on how men who've been taught to be ashamed of their sexuality will placate themselves to women?.. absolutely. But that doesn't neglect the fact that someone else is often more to blame in all those nice guy failed romances between handsome beta boy and a girl who just can't quite make up her mind. Then you read TRP and you realize just how dark female sexuality can really be. How much the… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/18 10:31 AM |
| 2 | A Billy-Beta acquaintance has *zero* clue his fiancee is about to leave him. Guess the reasons.Its the messed up dichotomy of her beta not being a 'challenge' to her. Women are like dogs chasing cars when it comes to commitment. They run after it but they have no idea what to do once they have it. and generally, once its obvious their target is willing latch to them, they will chase the next shiny new thing - despite how unsuitable it may be. This dynamic is evident in all aspects of dating. It would suck to get as far as this guy in OP's story and be subject to this. But it happens in al… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/18 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Casino: A Fictional Account of a Beta Bux and Alpha WidowScorsese is a don for creating realistic red pill cinema and telling stories that have that gritty level of realism on a real human level especially with the male/female relationships. The thing with Casino is Rothstein is a true alpha in all aspects of his life other than with women. To Ginger he's a pandering servant attempting to buy her affection with expensive jewellery. These kind of narratives are so prevalent in the italian/american gangster flicks probably because theres a lot of truth … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/18 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend masturbates frequently, then whenever I want sex she's either "not horny" and we have shit sex, or just gives me an excuseYou need to start taking responsibility because frankly, you sound more than a bit clueless. Step up your 'fucking game' or leave. Read sex god method, learn how to dominate in bed and make her respect you. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 08:33 AM |
| 14 | How I Manage My LTRI'm confused as to the criticism on monitoring her messages. If she's given him the passwords then fair game. It's a good idea... It's naive to think your alpha powers are just going to sense otherwise. And at least that way he can see it before it's going to happen and save his manhood and pride by getting out of there at the first sign of trouble. Because thats the fucked up thing about infidelity. It's often less about 'trading up' than it is about power. The way women trickle truth when it h… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 06:00 AM |
| 6 | How I Manage My LTR/r/dating_advice is that way. Here we like to stick to the real world. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 05:49 AM |
| 6 | LTR wants to travel solo.She's not going to see the 'architecture'. Its over dude, let it go and move on. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread February 26Theres definitely a lot of truth to this and it can be explored a lot more deeply. One lesson i'd like to put forth to TRP masses is something along the lines of 'she's probably lusted after someone far uglier than you' Woman and men are different - we are attracted to fundamentally different qualities. One thing i've experienced numerous times is being at some pre drink party with girls and one of the hotties telling her friends about the guy she's sleeping with and happens to be meeting with l… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/18 04:56 AM |
| 13 | The reason why your dating profile sucks.Very true. Tinder is interesting to analyse and you have to dig a little deeper than the whole 'if you looked like Brad Pitt she would come straight over and fuck you'. Uhm maybe, but probably not. Women get a kick out of the attention obviously. Ive worked closely with 5 or 6 chicks who got signed up to tinder for the first time and the result is always the same. First week 'omg did you match this guy, ah yeah me too! Hehehe' Then maybe a few days later she goes on a few dates with guys. She fu… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/18 01:47 AM |
| 3 | "The Talk" is Socially Retarded, Do Not Tolerate It.Couldn't agree more with your stance. I'm all for understanding women and embracing their nature to a degree (wait for them to commit) etc. It seems some people just go to far with trying to justify the complexities of 'plating' etc. Just look at the (normally pretty well argued) people tying themselves in loops with their arguments here. I hate the phrase 'covert contract' - as OP says the reason you don't do 'the talk' is because it's weak and slightly spergic. If you want to be with somebody … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/18 06:22 AM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread February 21Where do the more experienced dudes meet their women? It seems half the problem is just having access to girls for the most part | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/18 02:16 AM |
| 5 | Always Have A Back Up Country50% of the expat workers earn over $150,000USD China (hong kong), Singapore etc are booming economies. As a young guy it pays to look into where 'new money' is present. Its hard to get a foot hold in much of the established western cities as their doors are very much kept safe by the old guard. Just visiting those places gives you some big perspective as to how to world works. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/18 04:33 AM |
| 2 | If she wants you, she won’t make it hard.May as well just embrace cuckoldy while you're at it.. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/18 02:40 PM |
| 25 | Get Your Fucking City On Lock, The Benefits Are Endless.TLDR https://youtu.be/3Sr-vxVaY_M | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/18 04:34 AM |
| 6 | AWALT confirmed - Deception of CharacterOne of the biggest principles of TRP should be realising how much women lie. It's frankly absurd. Women lie and reshape themselves for guys they like or are pursuing. Feigning interests in music, sport etc. Presenting themselves as pure as snow. Its not hard to see through it, once you are aware of it. But it does take a lot of dudes off guard because they just dont consider it initially. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/18 03:42 AM |
| 1 | GF mentions ex who is getting married. What should be my reaction?Hmm how old is she? Try and put your pride aside - this ain't about you vs him as much as you think. This is the effect of female solipsism and entitlement. It's not about who's the better man, her ex or you. It's about why did some guy decide to not choose her as marriage material over somebody else. Women gain value in marriage, they find an existential purpose of some sorts in plodding along the path to babydom. She tried with this guy and failed. Or maybe she dumped him and now in typical fe… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 02:03 AM |
| 500 | Tried being a wingman for BP friend, got thrown under the busThe fucked up thing is this guy sent her the screenshot in the hope of 'scoring some points' in his own virtue signalling 'i'm not like other guys, i respect women' way. The ultimate irony is his actions are going to lead him to continue to be a kissless virgin and if he just had followed your advice he would have a wet dick by now. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/18 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Why Can't We Have Sex?- an explanation of my sex lifeYour belief that relationships of men and women are between equals is largely what is holding you back. Women have an innate nature to 'fuck up' both figuratively and literally. Nice guys suffer because they put themselves in the same position as the woman out of insecurity and misguided respect and this often kills attraction. Learn to be a leader with women and be unashamed about it. They will respect you massively for it. You're better than her Nice guys will always be shamed because it's ins… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/18 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Total clusterfuck with tinder matchWell played son. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 11:36 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Tinder date, several makeouts but failed to F-close. Analysis of possible mistakes + questions.Im one for timed assertiveness. This post feels like you went all in too soon. You also have to almost have a check list of things to achieve - with number one being get her to a private place where you can fuck. You could have used more plausible deniability in inviting her back to your place. I dont go for the make out until im sure set to get laid, it just kills the tension and signals your intent a bit too early. Escalate yes, but then when you see shes receptive back off. A few touches on h… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/18 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Chick wanting second date, daytime coffee, is it a good idea?You're neglecting to consider the female ego. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Chick wanting second date, daytime coffee, is it a good idea?Especially early days in the 'courtship' you must keep things sexual. She's trying to rope you down a commitment path by getting you to 'take her out'. Tell her you're busy. She'll get the hint self edit. Just wait for her to ask you out on a 'night date'. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 04:31 AM |
| 3 | Some kind of lmr or actual friend-zoningIts ASD. Remember it has to 'just happen' for her. Plow on as normal. Take a bottle of wine in your bag to drink while you study cause you 'thought it would make things more fun'. After she has the plausible deniability of alcohol its game on as usual. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/18 03:21 AM |
| 20 | Where is "Me too" for Feminists importing poor underage "boy toy" migrants in order to fuck them?Its akin to creating a no strings sexual marketplace where women take in harems of men who are happy just to fuck and share pussy. Similar to travellers hostels where hot white middle class girls with nice teeth go to collect flag poles and return home saying they had such a great time checking out the architecture with everyone non the wiser they were bedding multiple guys a night in dormitory rooms. Women know they can get attention from any men, especially as liberal 19 year olds living on Da… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/18 04:53 AM |
| 16 | [FR] Most bizarre first date, yet one of the best I've hadThere wont be a 2nd date. She's using you as leverage against her BF or to piss him off for attentions sake. This shouldn't be RP advice. Any sane person would tell you to run for the hills and dont stick your dick in crazy. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/18 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread January 22Womens need for sex is not for sex sake at all, but all for validation. Women are socially wired to be hyper sensitive to their value among others and take sex as a form of ultimate approval. Its why branch swinging girls still message their exes when they really should let things die. Why girls still continue to string on orbiters after denying them pussy rights. Why after marriage and commitment is made many womens desire for sex falls by the way side. Women don't need it physically in the way… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/18 02:52 PM |
| 2 | How our culture propates blue pill ideas?It feels like many things in society have contributed to it. What i will say is TRP opens your eyes not just in a dating sense but politically and socially. The reason society functions the way it does is all down to sexual dynamics. Its not out of design, its out of survival of a sustainable model. For society to continue humans have to reproduce. It would make sense then that successful societies lay good foundations for reproduction and raising families. BP men are often socialist in nature, … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/18 09:46 AM |
| 6 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread January 22I had the exact same experience in Bali, Indonesia. I was going to write up some FR on it. I fucked 3 in 3 days and it could have been way more. By then end of it i was a little jaded. Girls would message first and ask straight to meet up. It made me realise the whole pre fuck dynamic so clearly and how girls stall when you take it slower than just dive straight in. Im white, 25, blue eyes and like to think of myself as somewhat handsome - but really no chad. The first chick i made effort with, … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/18 05:54 AM |
| 57 | The culmination of the pro-women movements and their unabashed abandonment of logic and reason is that their narrative can now be publicly misandric and any critical opposition is simply ignored as they march forward. Everything leading up to this has created the Hollywood sex scandal fever.Surely this whole SJW thing is reaching a tipping point where even it's early supporters start questioning the ludicrousness of most of its claims. Being a successful white male means all action you take is exploitative in their world view. It's laughable that folks can talk this shit seriously. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/18 02:05 AM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread January 10Agreed. It's a pretty major red flag. Every pussy BP guy has probably been burned by the fast girl. She goes on several dates a month, slots most into friendzone because theyre were never dominant/confident enough to ask her out themselves. Maybe if you're RP aware you can not be an idiot and get an easy lay out of it tho. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/18 03:17 PM |
| 5 | askTRP Megathread January 10Men value fertility - looks Women value resources - money The 'healthiest relationships' follow this dynamic So in short, Briffaults law does apply to men. If a woman fails to exude fertility, gets overweight or hits the wall then a man's interest depletes. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/18 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Girl i’ve been chatting with lives far away. Comes to my city and starts lining up other men.Don't tell them you want to fuck them until you're both naked and you're about to stick it in there. You gave up to.much power and she milked the attention from you, she probably does the same with a lot of dudes. Her likes mean nothing. What matters is she sleeping with you, yes/no. Treat all women the same. Do not give her undue attention and if she starts up chat again use it to ask her out and get it done. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Coffee date helpCoffee dates are generally bad news because they go nowhere. However, some girls are going to be reluctant to come and meet you late at night on the first encounter. The best way to treat it is as a short introductory meeting. Get in, asses if there's a vibe and then make an excuse to leave. Say you have to run but set up another date for drink in a few days time etc. Logistically it would be tough to take a girl home from a coffee shop. Much better to start from a bar near your place etc. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 08:04 PM |
| 4 | Blue Pill / Red Pill MusicOh La La - The Faces 'Poor old granddad I laughed at all his words I thought he was a bitter man He spoke of woman's ways They'll trap you, then they use you Before you even know For love is blind and you're far too kind Don't ever let it show | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/18 03:32 PM |
| 18 | Nice Girls Win, Nice Guys LoseIt makes sense when you apply it to parental roles. Men seek a caring mother for their children. Women whom are confrontational and stand offish are an instant turn off because they don't project a nurturing quality. Men who are nice are exploitable. Women test a man's exploitability when deciding if they will sleep with him or not. They lose attraction for these men and hence the whole cuck friend zone phenomenon is largely exclusive to the female gender. The story of my oneitis followed this d… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 06:11 AM |
| 2 | The Drug Rape Hysteria- BE ADVISED- Woman is with man who has drug alcohol combination overdose- She assumes he must have accidentally drugged himself trying to drug rape her!Why is it women think most guys are just carrying stashes of roofies on them to pick off unsuspecting girls for shits and gigs. Something else happened and I call shenanigans. This girl is pissed that alpha money bags didn't make a move or called her an Uber right after. We clearly know she wanted to smash 'i trust my judgement' - I want to blow this guy into commitment. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/17 03:26 PM |
| 3 | I’m never banging a fat chick again!And here I was thinking it was because they were hungry | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/17 06:26 AM |
| 2 | This is the most Horrific Dead Bedrooms story, I read it a month ago, amazed it hasn't been posted here.This guy is weak. He's beyond hope. I feel for him but his behavior is beta extreme. There's a bit Patrice says on one of the O&A bits where he roasts Opie saying something like 'every man has to at least juggle (several plates) at some point in his life' Its a good point because it teaches you a lot about women and never to put up with BS behaviors like them withholding sex etc. This guy chose to be in a dead relationship for years because he had no better judgement. No guy friends to tell him … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/17 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Girl rejected me, but keeps on writing to meSounds like you gave up too easy. When she reaches out give her the ol 'hey cool to hear from you. We should catch up over a beer this week, when you free?' That's the only way you ever know a girls intentions for sure, by making her take action to put up or shut up. She could be dropping hints that she wants to be asked out - or at least is open to the idea. Or she could just be fishing for attention. Only one way to find out. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 05:58 PM |
| 15 | My best example of HypergamyThis is what happens at a young age. The girls have much higher value than the equivalent guys at 19. This is why many guys experience this baptism of fire in dating in their late teens/early 20s. Part of your problem grasping this is also your own projection. It's one thing many red pillers get hung up upon and that is looks equivalency. Jay's still a 19 year old kid, albeit with some decent looks as you say. But if he was instead an average looking 24 year old with his own apartment and a prom… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/17 04:45 PM |
| 5 | First post, same old story. Was awared but had to experience it myself. AWALT always.I'm inclined to agree. One theory I have is the more naive you are with women and unaware of their nature the more prone you are to these types of women. Shy guys who never approach women, all of a sudden a girl falls out of the sky. She may be a friend, friend of a friend etc. But the important distinction is that she initiates everything, the courtship, dates etc. The guy is just happy to go along with it, he's finally found a GF. That is until she loses interest and goes and starts up the sam… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/17 05:11 AM |
| 7 | Blue Pill NostalgiaEveryone struggles with it - tis the human condition in a way. I was watching the 'Tao of Steve' the other day and a bit in that hit me when he says to the married couple that romantic love is this day and ages religion. You know as people we always just wait for shit to happen in the future and that's what motivates us to some level. The belief that in the future when x happens I'll be happy. Religion maybe took that concept to an extreme with the promise of live a good virtuous life and you wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Do guys get increasingly insecure the longer they go without sex? Bc girls don’tThis is a good point. Women use sex often as a tool to earn men's comitment, attention and resources. That is what was meant to be at the core of TRP but seems to have been neglected recently. That's why nice guys get friend zoned and known sluts get pumped and dumped. In each case neither sex can respect the other, but often will use them for their own selfish personal gain. I have found in my own life women pursue male 'friendship' in bizzare ways which is confusing to men. The whole orbiter d… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 03:06 PM |
| 3 | is this a shit test or something elseI was just about to type what you said. Patrice had a perfect bit about 'can't fuck'. Don't be her time ho. It's a classic situation and so obviously a test. You can't cede ground to her in my opinion. Just have to remain patient and centred. If she pulls that shit again just say; 'ok cool, let's just get together another time' Its important because this is early stages. If you don't take this action now then you set yourself up for her controlling your actions with sex in the future. If she get… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 07:18 PM |
| 6 | How do I respond to that Tinder girl ?She's throwing it out there cause she wants the thrill of your reply. It's one of those texts she'll get excited to see your response and wether you measure up. All you have to do is pass the test and quickly establish logistics. Phone number, call her set the date. How you pass the test is up to you. 'we go to bed and I choke you out' - has genuinely gotten me a girls number in the past. I sent it as a laugh while drinking with some guys in a hostel and we were challenging each other to say out… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/17 08:12 PM |
| 8 | Why does this girl only want me to sleep next to her?Gaaaay | /r/askTRP | 04/12/17 07:49 PM |
| 3 | FFS this better not be any of you. Internalize, live it, breathe it, OR GTFOMan that's deep but it's a very good point. I met a dude travelling who's went to Thailand recently. We shot the shit about girls and stuff late over beers one hostel night and I got him into some red pill thinking - his oneitis had done a number on his head and he was having a hard time coping. If he didn't have some intervention who knows what he might have done.. There's differing degrees of BP I feel. Many guys have no problem treating women in RP ways to pick up lays. But they feel compelle… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/17 08:47 PM |
| 10 | Women settling for "Attractive".Well firstly, he was a good looking guy. But if he worked in a bakery he likely wouldn't have had the harem of women that he had as the leader of a communist revolution. STATUS STATUS STATUS Even if your a good looking guy, you're not doing better than an average bloke with higher status. You'll drive yourself mad trying to figure out which men are 'hot' and which are not. Until you realise the common theme among all attractive men is status. The range of appearances in 'attractive' males is hug… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/17 03:12 PM |
| 7 | TRP is catnip for narcissists; bipolar girls are catnip for narcissistsExcept the behaviors described in this article, rather than explanations on the extremes of psycological episodes seem to be actually quite reasonable and common behaviors exhibited by either sex in defense of their respective sexual strategies. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/17 05:17 PM |
| 5 | TRP is catnip for narcissists; bipolar girls are catnip for narcissistsIm with you. It seems to be a description of traits that are universal to every human on the planet. The distinction being BPD refers to girl traits and NPD to men. Shock.. women are attracted to displays of ambition and competitiveness in men. Shock.. men are attracted to displays of compassion and nurturing in women. Could it be some genetic legacy passed on to aid the parenting of children? Nope it has to be definable mental disorders and if only mum/dad were better. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/17 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Should I buy this girl something for her birthday?Buy her the first drink then lay her. Everyone wants to get laid on their birthday. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/17 04:19 PM |
| 47 | 5 Not So Obvious Signs Your Girl Is Cheating On YouSo basically anything a woman says or does can be construed as evidence for her cheating. Get a grip. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 03:41 PM |
| 4 | Consequences of Modern Feminism for WomenIt's important to emphasise the evolutionary perspective over the belief a 'societal programme'. It's easy to forget but we are living in strange times in regards to having lifestyles which are artificially influenced against human nature. The contraceptive pill was only produced 57 years ago. Which means this current generation is among the first to actually experience it's existence as 'normality'. Womens earning potential has also risen due to the nature of more menial and less labour intensi… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/17 02:22 PM |
| 2 | "Reaction to Touch" Shit TestThe best way to consider these things as with most indications of interest is that they are displays of her being open to something happening between you two. What happens exactly, will depend on how you act and how assertive you are etc. Think about it, her grazing touch with you is not some invitation to 'come fuck me daddy'. But your gut is right that it is indeed some display of affection. Your gut instinct is there from 1000s of years of programming. Learn to trust it and act in a way that … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/17 06:14 PM |
| 11 | Imagine learning and practicing the 48 laws consistently since age ~5 and almost nothing else. You now have a vague idea of what a woman is.They're not that cunning, boys just get dick knapped too easily. I think women get more tolerable with age because the men around them learn not to tolerate them as much. To some level all men become a little more TRP aware as they experience life. Could also explain why girls are attracted to older dudes. I'm reading through 48 laws now and it's fascinating applying the explanations to previous situations in life etc. I was in a McDonalds a few weeks back and this group of 16 y/o were sitting i… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/17 06:16 AM |
| 9 | Why do I not fuck hot women when I know 100% that I can? I just feed off of the attention and I hate myself for it.You're scared to make a move because you're a virgin. You don't know what steps to take when a girl shows interest in you, as a result you shut down and convince yourself in the moment that your happy enough with the 'knowledge' that you could have fucked them. You're fundamentals are strong enough to earn their interest. But your game is weak and it's only going to develop into more of a complex as you get older. It's time to grow up and overcome it. Stop looking for excuses, low T puhlease. Yo… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 12:19 PM |
| 4 | She wants you do be a daddy figure, not a son figure.This is so true and a proper grasp of this philosophy explains most of what you ever need to know about women and dating. Never be her equal, because friendship is equal. A lover is a leader. This is evident when you observe how women act around guys they're trying to pick up or have crushes on etc. They fawn for attention like little girls to their fathers. They ask for help with trivial things to entice his guiding presence etc. One movie which shows this dynamic quite well is 'Lost in Transla… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 11:24 AM |
| 3 | Why do girls keep giving me their numbers and then straight up ghosting me and not even replying to the first text?Who fucking knows to be honest. One theory I have is that girls very much act and think in the moment. Especially early on in a courtship. Your method should always be to move fast and capitalize when girls are giving you the green light. Also with texting it's important to signal intent from the get go and give her more or less a yes/no response. That's the guys job, always be leading. If you've already met, felt sparks then theres no need for text chatter. 'hey Jane it's John' - is bad because… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/17 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Real reasons why women will sleep with youDude, women aren't us. Donald Trump's wife fucks him because he's such a fine good looking specimen of a man? It's an extreme example but it proves your point is invalid. Why? because the inverse is literally never true. Women of power don't claim young good looking trophy husbands. They just do not (they don't even try and claim power). And also if it were true, selection would have favoured appearances in men the same way it has in women over the past million or so years. It's no coincidence t… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/17 08:07 AM |
| 8 | Mom Dropping A Red Pill BombI really wish Patrice were alive to comment on this. The Hollywood industry and women were his bread and butter. His whole speech on being swallowed into the belly of the monster is excellent listening and provides some much needed context to how that industry really works. Talent ain't got a thing to do with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/17 05:54 AM |
| 4 | You don't need to say a word to get laidI met my oneitis on a plane. Long haul, 9 hours. Probably could have boned her on the flight looking back with TRP lens. It's pretty easy to hold frame when you're trapped next to a girl and she has nowhere to go. This story tho, I'm not buying it. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/17 01:47 PM |
| 65 | Dating Crisis Goes MainstreamIsn't weird how the alternative viewpoints these days are coming from guys 45+. Every young 'role model' toes the #heforshe feminst line. There is literally no young icons for masculinity anymore. No rebels. It's all PC garbage. Whenever I listen to BIll Burr's podcast segments I think ahh how refreshing, he's like the older brother figure. The guys nearly 50! There are so many poor young saps who are ruined by dogma these days. Any male college student who's ever marched for feminism to protect… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/17 01:43 PM |
| 3 | Sexual Assault: What if it's the WOMEN who are the problem?The thing with these allogations, which I believe are all likely true. Is that they're being used as news fodder to further the myth of an evil patriachy. That these men are ruthless pigs exploiting honest talanted women. How could they not be if you're to believe feminist rhetoric and in true equality between genders. It's easy to pin Weinstein, a fat aging rich Jew as some pig. But more akin to the truth is he's a rich highly successful man of power. That alone is highly appealing to women. He… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/17 07:35 AM |
| 3 | What does it look like when you're talking to a chick and the tingles are going off?This is the only way to be sure. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/17 05:05 PM |
| 2 | You are gross.Fuck that's a good point. The whole 'man flu' nonsense is one of those weird things in society that strikes many men as out of place. He's a BP feminist but David Mitchell summed it up quite well. https://youtu.be/ug9oc-mg4e0 | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/17 04:07 AM |
| 2 | You are gross.Can't remember who said it but the whole 'she doesn't love you, the way you love her' Was summed up quite well as; women are looking for a protector, men are looking for someone (of value) to protect. It explains a lot of phenomenon. Every innocent seeming pretty girl having a slew of white knight orbiters - these men are just weakly following their instincts to protect some broad. They get that dopamine buzz everytime she bats her lashes and asks for some help with some trivial nonsense. And y… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/17 04:03 AM |
| 8 | Fucked up friendship completely. ConfusedThats why you should never be friends with a girl. It's not natural because shit like this always happens. It's never 'just friends' thats some new age millennial harry met sally nonsense. Always always be aware of the sexual subtext in your male/female encounters. Why are you hanging out with a girl you are not fucking/dating? Being friends with girls is bad for 2 reasons. Either they don't like you and you're just a needy orbiter. Or they do like you, but the context of 'friendship' makes the … | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 07:24 AM |
| 2 | How I Fucked a Cheaters Best Friendhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AFCxHmtHTGU | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 06:25 AM |
| 34 | How I Fucked a Cheaters Best FriendMan i don't know why but the fact that girl 1 followed her there pisses me off. Theres a lot to be said in that behavior. I swear there is a dark side of female nature in this, because it's somewhat common. And the whole 'I thought we can still be friends nonsense' - bitch ain't nobody buying that shit. It's that kind of next level machiavellian BS that would destroy weak nice guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 06:42 PM |
| 5 | Meet Jacq......the StripperYes there's extreme feminism such as this. But it's rarely taken seriously, more as an interesting perspective of how things can play out at the extreme level. And frankly if it's aimed at women who really cares. It's like Hugh Hefner for guys. We can briefly look at his way of living and think 'damn that guy had it good'. But most men can see the underlying shallowness and misery that would also be involved in such a pursuit. Similar to women viewing this stripper. It's entertaining to see the … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/17 01:09 PM |
| 33 | Women flock together and will protect their hoes.Pretty standard, M was the emotional tampon for V. This shit plays out consistently with young college groups of men who believe they have to make a girl their girlfriend and get commitment before they have sex. You don't mean anything to a girl until you're fucking them and that's what's so frustrating to explain when talking to BP people. I've tried to explain this shit to guys way older who have these grandiose plans to take a girl on 5 dates and spend all amount of time/money on them. Women … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/17 05:27 AM |
| 3 | Which parts of the red pill mentality really serve your happiness?TRP means facing reality. You're choosing to live in a dream world and it's unsustainable. Its not about being 'untrusting'. It's about not being an idiot and seeing things for what they truly are so you can make some predictive value on the future. This LDR serves no purpose other than satisfying your ego. The ego that craves the status of having a hot GF. But other than that you derive no benefit. You cannot build a future or plan any meaningful life decisions in regards to a family etc with s… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/17 08:13 AM |
| 3 | Short funny FRJeez white knights in the comments wake up to the real world. This shit happens all the time in clubs. How on Earth is this borderline rape? She consented to going home with him and even told him to book an Uber. People go out get drunk and hook up with strangers frequently. It's the law of the jungle in these places pretty much. Night clubs mean you have to have your game on extreme mode and work fast, as soon as you sense a girl is interested get her out of there. There's hundreds of horny dud… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/17 06:45 AM |
| 1 | I think my last sexual encounter gave me an epiphany into TRP philosophy.It would be hard to imagine it going any further legally and you're best to just ignore her and move on with your life. I'd say you probably hit the worst timing with all the #metoo nonsense going on. However going to the police to make a report is serious shit and deep down she knows what you did was nowhere near the line of definable abuse. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/17 04:55 AM |
| 5 | I think my last sexual encounter gave me an epiphany into TRP philosophy.Her not getting off is only part of it. I don't mean that from a place of you need to improve (I'm sure your a stallion brah). But your actions on a whole implied you weren't interested in commitment. She, either through insecurity on her part or callousness on yours (probably a mixture of both) lead her to conclude that once this was over you would reject her. You wouldn't believe how common this is and how little you need to do to set it off. I could go into several stories of myself and guy f… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/17 04:30 AM |
| 12 | I think my last sexual encounter gave me an epiphany into TRP philosophy.Try to read her emotions and not her words. She's pissed off at you. Why? hope you had fun Implies that the sex was meaningless to you and the fact that you went to grab your phone right after implies to her that you've had your way with her and had enough. She was obviously not satisfied with the sex - that's not to say she didn't enjoy it while it was going on but the whole thing probably ended a bit to abruptly for her liking. Her thinking is as follows; I didn't get off and he only seemed to… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/17 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread October 30I've started to wonder wether that stereotype of the protective father grilling his daughters boyfriend is more about knowing girls nature and protecting her reputation, as opposed to protecting her from evil guys. Teenage girls especially can go through like 5 boyfriends in a couple of years if they have a weak father who's happy for her to bring random dudes into his house every 3 months or so. The strong father who 'vets' boyfriends is trying to ensure his daughters relationships have a chanc… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/17 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread October 30I have two girl friends from my BP days who i met through travelling/working together. The 2 girls were besties all while living together then moved back to the UK. They live about an hour away from each other and have never made the effort to hang out together it's absurd. They tag each other in FB memes and events but they never have met up in person - it's been like 2 years at this point. Each time me or a buddy from the trip is home they hit us up and say things like we have to all catch up … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/17 05:26 AM |
| 8 | Mythbusting: women actually care about physical attractiveness more than men doIt's hard to determine which is the most 'important factor' when you break down how each quality favours you. They obviously do care about looks, I don't feel anyone is really arguing otherwise. However, there is much more to it than that. You say yourself, watch what they do, not what they say. Im therefore hesitant to ascribe much weight to the survey. When you ask women which men they want to sleep with they're all going to say Brad Pitt, Chris Hemsworth etc. But a lot of them rarely ever do,… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/17 04:03 AM |
| 3 | God Can't BleedExcellent write up. Good to see the 'she can't love you like you love her' concept explained so elequently. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/17 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Flowing HoneyShe nexted you because you fucked up. I like your thinking on going to her place, however doing that leaves a lot of logistics etc out of your control. You could vibe and Mack on in the bar, head back to her place and her roommate is chilling with friends etc. All of a sudden it's a no go and she's pushing you out with excuses she has to get up early etc. You have to think it through from the end game backwards. What we're you expecting asking her to meet at 10pm and if she lives alone? You meet… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/17 03:52 AM |
| 1 | If dating a woman and she pushes for exclusivity and you say aren't ready yet or don't do label, my ex said you open yourself to her fucking someone else. True?Your ex is a woman (I presume) and therefore her advice in regards to dating is worthless. If she's getting what she wants - that is good times, companionship, good sex etc. It would make no sense for her to cheat for the sake of finding a commitment. She's not going to be as attracted to men who offer up immediate BF status to her as she is to the man who presents a challenge and the ability to screw other girls. If she finds a man better who's willing to commit then yes she will stray - but sh… | /r/askTRP | 27/10/17 05:54 PM |
| 18 | Short example of a guy who was so BP that his "date" was convinced that he didn't like herShe knew what was going on, they're not stupid. But they're never going to come out and say it. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/17 07:33 AM |
| 3 | Short example of a guy who was so BP that his "date" was convinced that he didn't like herHa that's cute.. I can tell you better stories of myself suffering of the nice guy syndrome. It's a common occurrence for girls I feel. Guy likes them, they like guy. However guy is clueless how to move things forward - girl picks up on it, loses interest and quickly bails to someone else. Keep a look out at parties for girls on those kind of dates. They're already in the mind set of being receptive to a man making a move on them - they spent their pre party time getting ready and imagining how … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/17 07:32 AM |
| 3 | Even spinning plates its hard to get away from scarcity mentality when you land a high SMVIt's not a personal attack, just trying to provide some perspective. You go to work to make money and you go to the gym to get fit to get girls. Nothing wrong with either of those things. But if that is all you have going on then it's no wonder you're going to get hung up on hot girls, just like everyone else does. Whereas if you have a purpose that outweighs 'the chase' it becomes a lot more natural to act with abundance. It's also the only way you can really live life properly. Stop focusing o… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/17 07:19 AM |
| 5 | Even spinning plates its hard to get away from scarcity mentality when you land a high SMVSo you go to work and go to the gym? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/17 02:48 AM |
| 3 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread October 23“In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.” Scarface was dropping red pill truths in 1983. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/17 01:54 AM |
| 19 | Even spinning plates its hard to get away from scarcity mentality when you land a high SMVYeah but men should have a purpose that outweighs spending time with some girl just because she's hot. Boys get infatuated, men should have better things to do. Your problem is you don't have a life. It's alright to like a girl and want to see her. But you should have plans and shit to do that restrict you from seeing her during the week etc. What do you do for work, hobbies? Go to the gym, fuck start playing golf or something. If all you are doing is focusing on who's the hottest chick you can … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/17 01:24 AM |
| 2 | The Definitive Guide to Scarcity and Abundance in DatingStory of my oneitis. I think that's the most dangerous thing, when you play it slow you develop feelings and unicorn fantasies. Always move fast, always be closing or move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/17 03:57 PM |
| 1 | The Sad, Sordid Cautionary Tale of Harvey Weinstein: Why Money Isn’t EnoughHypergamy in action. Theres no way he would keep this behaviour up if it wasn't working for him, probably with waitresses in LA. When he tried the same approach on millionaire actresses only then was he was met with rejection. Still a dumb fucking move on his part.. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/17 03:04 AM |
| 1 | The guy slept with my gf before me'fucking hell mate you keep bringing it up, do you want me to set the two of you up together or something?' Should get the point across for him to cut that shit out. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 04:26 PM |
| 4 | What The Red Pill really isThe red pill is about taking the filter away from primal behavior. Men never naturally crave female companionship, they crave sex. When you first got a sex drive at like 10/11 years old I bet your instincts were that you wanted to sleep with a lot of girls. Only as life progresses and you realise how competitive getting high value women is do you start to invest in finding 'the one'. Women's instinct is also to fuck high value partners who have the resources and willingness to commit to them. In… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/17 06:34 AM |
| 2 | This is probably one of the hardest things I've come acrosslol well yeah. You're not going to get anywhere without those traits. Fake it till you make it brah. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Why hasn't The Red Pill posted anything about Harvey Weinstein?I bet it worked on every hot young server in Hollywood so well that he got the confidence to pull it on movie stars as well. https://youtu.be/TLZIon79Dno | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 01:29 PM |
| 1 | This is probably one of the hardest things I've come acrossMove fast. You don't need to establish a 'connection' you just need to present yourself as a collected and confident guy. The best way to establish this frame is to ask her out directly. Set yourself a 3 strikes rule, if you guys haven't had sex by the 3rd hang out just drop her, or else become a needy orbiter for the reminder of the year. Because of the class situation you need some finesse to asses her interest before moving things along. But always if in doubt err on the side of moving thing… | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 01:15 PM |
| 11 | Yet another story on how to get rid of your former soulmateIm only just discovering him but he really is a genius. Leykis 101 should be side bar material. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/17 03:01 PM |
| 199 | Yet another story on how to get rid of your former soulmateI was listening to a Tom Leykis clip where he says the fastest way to get a girl stop calling you is to tell her you 'need her' etc.. and the best way to ensure they keep calling you is to always be too busy. It's actually incredible that with this 'alternative' view on women and relationships all draw similar conclusions and past experiences. That clip I mention was from 2006 so well before this sub existed. Patrice O'Neal said stuff of similar rhetoric around the same time also. Not to mention… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/17 10:35 AM |
| 9 | Told the oneitis I don't want to see her anymoreThe friend zone really is fascinating and has to be the biggest factor in discovering TRP for me. Coach Corey Wayne has a lot of good things to say about it on his YouTube stuff I'd advise checking them out OP. But in general you acted weak and this is the result. If you can get to a place where you no longer have strong feelings for this chick you can plate her and learn some truths regarding the real dynamics of this shit. Watch how she idolises you when you have no time for her and so on. Goo… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/17 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Discussion on social circle gameWhy would you rather be with one woman? I feel the problem here is you're chasing something that doesn't exist. The whole thing of having a 'connection' with a girl is largely meaningless and is more than likely to reduce your value in her eyes. That's the whole dilemma of TRP for most, women's nature (to value strength) goes against what would make a relationship mutually enjoyable for both involved. She doesn't necessarily have to cheat... But if you act weak she's still going to test, treat y… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/17 03:33 AM |
| 26 | Lesbians aren't usually lesbianFemale sexuality is different.. it just is. Male sexuality is so straight forward that we find it impossible to comprehend. Lesbians aren't truly lesbians and straight girls aren't truly straight. It's amazing how many innocent darlings fess up to having a lesbian encounter at some point. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/17 10:51 PM |
| 1 | The journey so far (And how I could have got where I am faster)That's an important point and one I feel most guys miss and get burnt on. They fall for the first pretty girl and ascribe these high values to her before they even know her. Before she's proved she has anything to offer other than sex. It's not entirely men's fault, we've been conditioned to believe that and go out of our way to pander to women's needs. When you start a relationship from a place of non investment you can adequately vet those traits impartially and bail out if you don't like what… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/17 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Best TRP first dates?You should always be thinking logistics. That is how are you going to make this end with the two of you having sex. If you're in college dorms I'd suggest just meeting at a bar close to your place. Ideally a mid week night when it's not going to be busy. Get drunk together, escalate and make up some excuse for her to check out your room. If you kind of already know the girl I'd try and get her to come straight to your place. Be prepared, have beer or wine at hand (it makes shit a lot easier). | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 01:48 AM |
| 1 | How did you learn to dance?Pingers | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 01:40 AM |
| 2 | How can I find a more conservative woman in a big city?https://youtu.be/qNQVLtqOcrc | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 08:58 AM |
| 0 | Why you must establish yourself as a sexual being.Except your posts willfully miss the point of OPs problem by a large margin and provide no reasonable advice. You're shaming the advice here as encouraging him to be selfish (which is precisely the fucking point 'champ'). The world might not need this and that (in your opinion). It's besides the point to what OP needs in his own life right now. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/17 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Why you must establish yourself as a sexual being.Your message isn't RP. It's holier than thou BS. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/17 07:02 AM |
| 21 | About age gapsWhat are you talking about? 17 at 19 is perfectly acceptable/preferable. Unless age of consent nonsense applies where you are? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/17 03:22 AM |
| 4 | sleeping with not so attractive girls for practise?Absolutely, get practice 'closing the deal' I heard a good quote that was something along the lines of.. When the receiver makes that catch in the last quarter to win the Superbowl it's not the first time he's done it. He's made that catch countless times at highschool, college amateur level etc.. The fact that he's done it before doesn't detract from the achievement, it's just what is necessary. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/17 12:01 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread October 04Generally when girls lose interest before you slept with them it's because you didn't move fast enough and have been too available. Study partners - all that talky talk which provides the illusion that you're forming a connection actually kills her attraction or merely gives her too much time to asses the situation and get cold feet. If you move with the woman's agenda it doesn't go anywhere. The more time you spend together (not having sex) the weirder and more awkward it's going to be to event… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/17 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Tinder: The Menprovement Initiative - The Bluepill Strategy.The George Costanza rule applies to female dating advice. Do the exact opposite of what they think is right. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/17 02:41 PM |
| 3 | Why you must establish yourself as a sexual being.Agree with your 2nd paragraph entirely. However I feel OP would benefit from a more selfish mind set. I think his desire to supplicate this woman from the outset is what landed him in this mess. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/17 05:39 AM |
| 14 | Why you must establish yourself as a sexual being.Man the comments here seem to be missing the point. I've been there OP, many a time. It's a weird phenomenon but it's universal across all women - at least in my experience. It was an event that brought me to TRP when my oneitis shut me down harshly - which is a long fucking story I need to tell one time because it tells so much about female nature. I even directly called her out once it was a lost cause and she confirmed many RP truths somewhat directly. An article I found that helped was; http… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/17 02:24 AM |
| 13 | Why "Fake it til' you make it" is quite...bullshit.Alpha this alpha that... I see these posts and I can't help but think they're written by guys in high school or college. Some static environment whereby a dominance hierachy is ingrained into the fabric of the institution - college athletes, head of fraternities etc... The biggest thing I've learned and that TRP teaches is that a man's value is subjective and changes with circumstances. I've been fortunate enough to travel and live/work in different environments numerous times throughout life an… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/17 11:50 PM |
| 1 | How do I reject a close coworker?Can't really say much to help other than.. The sheer arrogance of having a vagina. Imagine if a guy pulled this shit at work, tip toeing around some girl he wanted to take out. He would be outed as a creep by all the women in the office and called for a disciplinary with the boss. I would just carry on as you are and ignore this girl as best you can. You're not going to win any favors by letting her know where she stands etc. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 03:53 PM |
| 4 | Do children have a greater sense of attraction than we do?There's a lot of good writing in the 'book of pook' regarding how flirting is instinctive, and that as children we instinctively knew boys and girls were different. If you were playing with a girl, you would always be the leader and teach her the rules and boundaries of the play ground etc and they would happily comply. I think it's a very important age the early teens and before. I'm not sure what happened to me but at 11/12 I would regularly chat up the 'babes' on MSN and even tease them at sc… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Why did I get this angry?This is why TRP always says never go long distance. I've been there mate, it sucks and I threw my iPhone at the wall and smashed it to bits when it happened to me (prior RP teachings). Here's why I think it hurts, and it's not as simple as a lack of abundance yada yada. The hurt comes from being blind sided by the sheer disrespect of someone you were close to and valued. It hurts the ego as well - but weirdly (at least in my cases) the new guy is no better an option than myself in terms of looks… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 03:24 PM |
| 1 | You think You're not good enough? Guess what... You didn't read the sidebar carefully!You're and engineer. Own that shit. Your problem seems not that you can't 'pretend' to be anything. It's that you can't present what you are as a great thing. Most women aren't shit. They're cashier's, hairdressers or studying some bull shit BA at college. You need to truly internalise that and accept you are better than them. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/17 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Should I/how can I get over my past of being a codependent loser and loving a massive slut?Not at all what I'm saying. If you slayed 100 girls in a year that is your past. Your now that guy who's slept with over 100 women - that you didn't start until 25 is irrelevant (or just makes it more impressive lol). I'm saying if you went on a date at 25 and told the girl you were a virgin, chances are she would excuse herself for an eternal toilet break. The benefit of being a man is we can improve, learn and get better. Accept that this was part of your learning experience. It needed to happ… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Should I/how can I get over my past of being a codependent loser and loving a massive slut?You as a man can be judged on your past. Your beta male past.. Everything is flipped in the male female dynamic. A man with few previous partners will be subconsciously judged by women as weak and unattractive. In contrast women with many previous partners... You get the point. As a man you can improve and develop, your game, status and resources. Hence why older men of experience have greater value. Women's value is their fertility (that's it) which is largely innate from birth. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 02:56 AM |
| 4 | Link to post from MGTOW, "All women have to offer is sex and they still make excuses" Lets Discuss.So true. What's worse is treating them well instinctively makes them less turned on. When I started dating my ex I was a nice ish guy trying my best to make a relationship work for once. As I started reading RP, more of her behavior aligned. If we spent all day together and had lunches out etc we would end up in bed and no sex. You can see why marriage fucks relationships because it takes all a man's challenge and mystery away. I made it a rule (in my head) to never sleep over if sex wasn't goin… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 04:41 PM |
| 14 | Someone help me understand what just happened?She freaked out because of nerves and ASD. Once she'd made that turn she realised how awkward she'd made things. Because she's 18 (and a woman) she thought it would just be best to delete you from everything to avoid any back lash and face consequences for her actions. Hard next and move on. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 08:59 AM |
| 2 | Am I getting ghosted? What's my play here?She will view it as needy because it's moving too fast. Girls need to feel they're chasing you. And I'm not sure what life you lead (Mr 7 weddings a summer lol). But for normal people weddings tend to be serious shit where sweet grandma's will ask you how long the two of you have been together and wether you have any plans to get married yourself. I imagine she's spooked and thinking your going to be introducing her as your girl friend to distant relatives. It's like some extreme leave your coat… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 02:57 PM |
| 2 | What are some shit tests you've received but passed flawlessly?https://youtu.be/k-8j30oFRB8 | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 12:14 PM |
| 3 | Am I getting ghosted? What's my play here?Way too needy man. Inviting her as a date to a wedding is serious LTR shit and I don't blame her for running. This isn't even RP knowledge, I would have thought it to be common sense. Yes girls always agree to stuff when they're with you and feeling good in your presence. But reality sets in once they're home alone and thinking 'im not seriously going to a wedding with some dude from tinder'. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Has T.R.P ruined women for anyone else here?'Love' how you would like it to be does not exist. A lot of people on TRP seem to hark on about men being the only ones capable of 'unconditional love' and it's simply false on so many levels. All love is, is infatuation. I'm not denying it's a strong emotion and good feelings come about from it. But realise that your pure virgin oneitis doesn't exist and if she does and suddenly put on 50lbs your feelings for her would dry up faster than the Sahara. It's the same with how women view men. For wo… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Wait for her to message me, or ask her out one last time?Stop trying to take her out for a drink. Get her to come straight to your place. Either get a convo going and drop that your bout to watch a movie and she should come over. Or hassle her at mid night when she's drunk and horny 'soo what you doing?' | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 11:51 AM |
| 3 | The main lessons I've learned after 3 years of implementing TRPAs someone at pretty much your starting weight can you share how long it took you to make gains and what kind of diet you followed. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/17 03:44 AM |
| 12 | The main lessons I've learned after 3 years of implementing TRPDrugs are weird social proof to women, it's one of those things that flies in the face of conventional wisdom and rational behavior. I kind of get it, when you try and understand women that bit more. They crave a man who opens them to new experiences and despise guys who can't or haven't 'done as much' as they have. In highschool the good girls were impressed by the guys who smoked and drank on weekends. Enter your 20s and it becomes late night parties railing a line of cocaine in front girls. S… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/17 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Nice Guys are Fucking BoringHere's the thing I hate about the 'niceness is not genuine'... I used to be nice, genuinely nice which was too nice for women. My intentions when 'courting' women were never disingenuine. Sure I wanted to sleep with these girls eventually (and they did with me) but I also had a mind set of it will happen when it happens and I don't want to rush a girl because I like the 'connection' we have. I liked going for dinner with girls and enjoying their company... But sadly it's something I've come to r… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/17 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Guy talking shit about meCall him out on it and don't be afraid.. Next time he gives you grief don't try and be smart about it. Just reply with; 'why are you always such a dick?' He'll probably laugh and be all like this guy Don't drop it. 'nah man, I'm serious, this is my house and you treat me like a dick every time you come around. Have some fucking respect or fuck off home' He'll probably be shitty and try to fake apologise. Hold frame and realise when your point has been won. By being civil at this point you win fo… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/17 08:40 AM |
| 3 | At what age did you take TRP?At 24. I never considered myself a big sucker before and have always been cynical about women in general. Mostly from putting up with their nonsense attention seeking at parties and how they're always deemed to do no wrong - despite being the aggressors in most social situations. Had no abundance though and would fall for girls who showed interest. Would pedestal them and think 'finally, this one's different'. Got screwed over by being a nice guy way too many times and flat out mental abuse that… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/17 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Where Could I Have Improved With This?You were going good until the 'gorgeous women like yourself' line. It's abit tip the fedora me-lady and her response to it is telling. My response to her smooth comment would have been a simple. 'i try.. give me your number, we can maybe grab a beer this week' By telling them rather than asking it implies you're not going to waste much time trying to win her over - which if they're interested is a good thing. Most guys talk themselves out of getting anywhere. Once you have their number I usually… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/17 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Woman in Need of Male adviseIf it was really playing against him you would have the confidence to break his balls about it or you would simply decide fuck it and go talk to other dudes. It's making you insecure which in turn is making you try harder in your relationship with him. You said you doll yourself up for him etc.. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/17 04:41 PM |
| 6 | How am I supposed to trust her?You gotta start treating the dating game as your 'vetting' process. It's been 3 months and sadly this one has failed the test. She can't keep her attention focussed on one guy and has the disrespect to speak to other guys when you're hanging out? What the hell man, you know that ain't cool. You also know there's no point asking her to change etc. This is 3 months in... It's as good as it gets. She should be putting her best face forward. Keep doing what you're doing with her but start meeting ot… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 02:18 PM |
| 3 | [FR] AWALT - freshly used condoms in her trashcanYou don't know the backstory with the condoms. Coul have been a FWB, ex BF situation for example.. someone who's already put the work in. When you escalated did you try and get her to do anything for you? I feel that's where you went wrong. Everything you did would still have forced her to take some initiative. Like pulling her dress up - what can she do with that if you don't take charge? Immediately turn around and shout at you to put it in her? Unlikely First time hook ups seem to go through … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Men, It's okay to play the field in fact it's part of modern datingFucking right. I never understood the logic on this one. It's weird how it's been normalised that you essentially just cheat on each other until you have 'the chat'. Because that's a totally healthy way to go about things.. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/17 08:19 PM |
| 33 | Nice Guys are Fucking BoringHit the nail on the head. It's always been a weird paradox that women shame guys as being nice in an attempt to get sex. As opposed to what? Treating you like an asshole? They always have a way of telling us what they really want in the most covert ways. Just got to read between the lines. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/17 04:14 PM |
| 5 | Nice Guys are Fucking BoringIn extreme cases yes.. but I think it's more the lack of assertiveness and dominance that turns them off. They use the 'ulterior motive' card to knock back guys who took them out on dates (maybe paid for them) and who don't end up getting any. 'uggh so the only reason you took me out was to get into my pants?!?!' - when the reality is no.. he took her out to try and win her as a GF and she lost interest because he displayed no dominance, failed tests and she got bored. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/17 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Nice Guys are Fucking BoringGood point on giving into their demands etc and killing any sexual tension. That's the thing that always fucked me over in the past and it took me ages to realise it. Not knowing when a girl was 'testing' etc. That's the main thing. It's not that she was so offended by your 'covert intentions' (which most of the time arr not that covert). It's that she's turned off by a complete lack of assertiveness in most cases. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/17 04:02 PM |
| 12 | CASE STUDY OF A MOTHERFUCKING COVERT NARCISSISTUsed to live with an ER nurse, can confirm was batshit crazy. She would drop her job title into arguments thinking it meant something. 'i work in an ER so I think I know how to handle stress' Sure, you did blow until 5am last night and cried about your drug dealing ex BF. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/17 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Friendzone adviceHang on, need more info on this. She's sending you nudes and that's a bad thing? | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 02:28 PM |
| 1 | No escalation first date.. now what.No escalation is fine so long as the 2nd date gets you moving forward. With tinder the first date is kind of a pre-date in some senses. It's best to make it short - show the girl you're not some aspergic moron and then get out of there leaving positive vibes. It sounds like you did exactly that. It's also awkward as hell making moves when you're both sober, so I usually don't try anything until I get the 2nd date on my terms. This 2nd date should be around your place with beer/wine whatever. Tak… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 01:45 PM |
| 1 | What do you text a girl after you get her number?Hey bbb wan sum fuk | /r/askTRP | 09/09/17 11:00 PM |
| 13 | Merely wondering why you're not having sex and seeking advice is considered 'Misogyny'. Men are not allowed to rise from their station. You do not matter.For me, it's not even cringe reading that. I've been exactly where that guy is. Threw my phone at a wall the last time a girl who 'really liked me' started seeing someone else. And gone through all manner of confusion just like that guy. Get him to TRP. Even if he doesn't end up getting laid as a result - at least he will never end up confused or surprised by women ever again. That's more than most men figure out in their life times. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/17 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Increasing amount of bluepillers on the TRP SubI agree with the agression aspect. That's the beauty of this sub at times because people are free to express and discuss these experiences, and previously passive males can open their eyes to things they have been doing wrong for some time. As always there are constantly new people discovering this sub who rush in to voice the same naive denials because they're young and it's the first time discovering the true dynamics of sex and relationships laid bare; outside of their mum telling them to go … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/17 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Breaking through the impossible wallRaising your SMV is one thing and can work, but often the largest factor is how you have already behaved around her.. The problem with getting out of the friendzone is that the actions to do so are not what you want to do.. You got there because you believed in being nice and building a platonic connection before eventually entering a relationship with her. And you do that, because that is indicative of the relationship you wanted with her. A girlfriend/boyfriend dynamic whereby you're good frie… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/17 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Why You Should Join A Fraternity In CollegeAmerican college culture fascinates me. Americans are so forward... I'm from the UK and our Uni scene is a little... different. Sure there's plenty of hooking up but most of it seems to be in friend groups etc. I have however lived in a party resort in Canada for 2 years (Whistler, BC) and witnessed the nature of American college girls on the big holiday weekends MLK being the biggest and had friends working in hotels etc who had to break up parties etc. Hot girls throw themselves at guys with a… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/17 09:27 AM |
| 26 | She may shit test you even as you're fucking herI remember when I used to let the girl take charge of sex. It just ends up boring and neither of you enjoy it very much. One thing my ex used to do was get handsy in missionary and just generally grab my head/hair lol. I remember getting sort of angry and telling her 'get the fuck off' and just grabbing her hands and pinning them to the bed while going at it. She seemed to love that. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/17 07:30 AM |
| 3 | Saw TRP in Action at my Job; I Buy it NowInteresting point on how often people don't appreciate work that they don't physically see getting accomplished. It's something I've struggled with in the past, if i can see a task I can get done quickly I do it. No fuss, just like to tick it off my list so to speak. The incompetent folk who run to the boss and take twice as long to get even the most simplest of tasks done seem to get the praise. Their bosses see the 'effort' of them going back and forth and running around and mistake it as some… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/17 01:41 AM |
| 5 | Hypothesis: Men who value loyalty in a relationship have a scarcity mentalityWomen do not feel the same ways towards sex as men do. Evolutionarily speaking, it makes no sense for a woman to be loyal to one man. She knows any child she births will be hers. From speaking with women who've had guys blow up at them after finding out they were off with other dudes etc. At some level they genuinely do not understand it. If their man cheated they might feel disappointed - but they do not experience the anger and hit to the ego like men do. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/17 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Feeling like I've run out and burned out of date activities with my LTR after 6 months?You need to experience/enjoy how treating a girl 'badly' makes them treat you better. What you're doing is nice guy mentality. Trying to keep her around by being her fun source, let me guess your paying for dinners on the regular as well. Treat this as if you have put in your 'courting' effort and tone shit down to stuff you can sustain and enjoy. My last LTR, the best times were just chilling drinking wine in bed, watching crap tv murder mystery shows and having sex. Girls infinitely like dudes… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Am I bound to remain like thisI feel like you just have to accept the game for what it is to a large extent. No woman can be the great partner and 'soul mate' society tells us is possible. The best advice is to just chill out and have sex. Stop chasing 'commitment' or a life partner. You're just creating fantasies and will end up crushed when you realise time and time again that they were not what you expected. The great feelings of 'connection' you might experience after a chance encounter chatting with some cute girl. How … | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 12:52 PM |
| 8 | AWALT in actionMan I've been that guy that travels for a girl - never ever again. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/17 01:25 AM |
| 4 | AWALT in actionI think the wise old term of 'doesn't matter, had sex' Is in effect on that one. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/17 01:22 AM |
| 6 | Women are devoid of Character. You giving a fuck what a Woman thinks of you is like a hedgefund manager worrying what a hobo thinks of his investment portfolio. Its fucking laughable.Im realising this more and more. Like, even the guys who did badly in high school still go out into the world and carve up their piece of it. They do what has to be done, wether thats risking their life/limbs on an oil rig, mine site or other equally shitty places just to make decent bank. There are a few women who work hard but as we can assume, they're greatly in the minority. It's really starting to piss me off reading articles of income disparity from leftist news sources. Until women are sa… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/17 06:49 AM |
| 13 | Your Vulnerabilities Cannot Be Related to Her or Another ManYou must act like a man.. always. I think many of here have to swallow the pill that the problem is ourselves. We were raised shy, weak and taught to pander to women. Are mums taught us that girls were a 'safe space' - away from the harshness of boys who might fight you or tackle you hard in a game of football. There were even some girls (in our younger days) who liked talking to us all day/night and we felt we would make them our girlfriends. Always confused how after months of spending time to… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/17 08:15 AM |
| 2 | How people treat you is a reflection on who you areGood post.. and it goes both ways. The more you develop and 'bring to the table' the less time you have for people who don't give anything back or waste your time. That's what this self improvement should be about. You don't get oneitis when you know you provide something to many potential girlfriends., Girls/people don't ditch you and treat you badly when you bring something to the table. Its life. Learn to do it and embrace it, or get on with being a bitter loser crying AWALT. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/17 03:28 AM |
| 2 | [FR] The perfect storm, or my personal fire I want to play withFrom what I'm reading I feel like you should have made some excuse for the both of you to go to your place. Her place being 'untidy' could have a room mate situation she didn't want to breach. Once you guys are home alone and drunk together making a move is like the only thing you can do.. The only thing you can do is lay off her and hope she doesn't meet someone else soon then decides to reach out to you. At this point it's almost like you've hit a hard reset on all that sexual tension that was… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/17 02:03 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The perfect storm, or my personal fire I want to play withI mean yeah whatever. But you can only analyse this from her perspective. She doesn't know you have plates and yada yada. To her you're just a guy she used to work with and she wanted to hook up with. She flashed you her tits, fondled your man meat... Then you both went to bed at your own places... Bit of an anticlimax for her really. I've never dated a girl past 2 dates and gotten anywhere with them. Even when they started out really keen they always just become more flakey, the hang outs becom… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/17 01:44 AM |
| 14 | [FR] The perfect storm, or my personal fire I want to play withEven before I got to the end I knew you had fucked it up when you didn't lay her after the concert. What exactly happened after that? You said you were tired which sounds like you were too pussy to escalate properly (not trying to be all AMOG - but I used to use that excuse with myself many times before). After that, the sexual tension died and you've forced her to consider you as beta boyfriend material. She's not actively attracted to you anymore and her 'feels' told her no go.. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/17 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Agreeableness and Neuroticism should be used instead of the terms "alpha and beta".If you can do that I see no problem with it. I always indulged in the party scene and for me it got to a point where all of use were just getting a bit too casual with the drug use and being reckless mixing alcohol, coke, and pingers on some nights. It started to feel like only a matter of time before somebody went too far on the stuff. I'm out the party bubble now and fortunately all my mates seemed to have moved on with life as well, so no casualties. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/17 05:12 AM |
| 5 | Agreeableness and Neuroticism should be used instead of the terms "alpha and beta".MDMA is quite an incredible experience and something everyone should experience. The first few times I did it I never (still don't, I'm just more reckless with alcohol now) did experience a come down. If anything the after glow lasted weeks and the memories I made on the nights out were some of the best experiences ever. The way OP describes the influence of serotonin only furthers my own understanding of my experiences with the drug. For example, the fact that a dominance hierachy can exist bas… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/17 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Evaluate this situation, I consider it a no win scenario in TRP terms.Ok first of all learn to bottom line. That's not just RP advice but something that should be taught to all men in dating. That is.. analyse and judge her on actions not words. It works both ways. Girls will say they're busy, have complicated things with an ex - all this is an excuse. The bottom line is she is making excuses not to see you. Never good in anyone's book. The reverse can also be true, a girl can say she has a BF, doesn't want anything serious or 'we're not going to have sex' and des… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/17 01:42 PM |
| 6 | Agreeableness and Neuroticism should be used instead of the terms "alpha and beta".This is excellent. Interesting point on how serotonin almost serves as a vicious cycle towards depression (and success for that matter). Depressed people become sad maybe because of loneliness, then they lose the motivation to get out there and talk to people. Likewise I've noticed a lot of guys who are successful with women are just constantly upbeat, constantly on their A-game chatting up cashier's on an overcast Monday morning. I always look at those guys in a 'wtf how?' sense of awe. It's ex… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/17 10:30 AM |
| 1 | The law of averages and diminishing returns, date smart not hardThere's a lot to be said for location, competition and timing when it comes to getting girls. Generally the higher the competition the worse it is for all guys and probably girls as well when you think about it. We think that women will just pick the hot guys and everyone else misses out.. but it's more complicated than that. I feel when women are in environments with lots of attention they tend not to be so thirsty for sex. Everything for men becomes way more difficult. They're less likely to p… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/17 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Breaking up with my ltr, but feeling guilty. Is this normal bluepill thinking?Absolutely the right thing to do. No, it's normal human compassion. BP thinking would be to think 'this LDR will work because love conquers all yada yada and this girl is different' If you go your own ways and she decides to come back then good - if that's what you want. If she doesn't then no harm done. But I agree with other posters - once she moves away and meets others (if she's to make it work for herself), you will cease to be part of her thoughts. Just the way it is.. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 04:01 AM |
| 2 | What happens when you try to make it special for herHappened to me twice.. with 2 different girls in quite quick succession... The absolute worst thing is when I was on the couch watching that's 70s show with the 2nd one I knew it was time to make a move but I thought 'no, it's too soon'. I even thought back to the first girl and how she started seeing some other dude like 3 days after and in my head saying - nah this girl is different... 2 different girls same exact result - both cut ties with me and started seeing other guys pretty much immedia… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/17 03:21 AM |
| 1 | A guy and good friend of my GF is flirting and asking her to come and visit him on social media, how do I deal with this?You're going to get dumped and rightfully so in a sense. I don't know the full story but your behavior is crazy. Talk to other girls if you feel jealous. Don't Lord it over her, just be casual with a sense of - 'ah well if that's how it is' She either sees you withdrawing and gets her behavior in line real quick or she let's you go. That's the drama free way to save/end relationships. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/17 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread August 21Cats are weirdly good metaphors for women. The whole dangle the yarn analogies, how they go to the people in the room aren't giving them attention. Fuck we even refer to vaginas by their name sake. What is this madness. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/17 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Creating Social Value to Attract WomenIt's an interesting point you make with the boy band thing etc. It's why it's so frustrating to hear guys say looks are all that matter etc because it's just so obviously more complicated than that. If looks were all that matters then your success rate would be consistent. And it never is. I have Chad friends who are ripped and over 6ft doing no better than me. I've had girls obsessed with me who I thought were out my league and I never would have wasted time approaching.. A lot of pick up seems… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/17 12:31 PM |
| 2 | What would you do in my position with this girl?You're dangerously close to being her male girlfriend right now (if not already). It's weak weak weak behavior. Because look at what your conveying - your time is worth so little you can help her with her emotional shit show day and night. Don't be ashamed to be honest with her. Don't get all butt hurt. Explain it like it is. 'look I'm going to be honest, I hope you sort things out with your ex. But I don't feel like this is going anywhere right now, so if your ever feel like grabbing a drink or… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 07:04 AM |
| 1 | How to be NICE?Search up the TV show 'First Dates'. It's pretty fun to watch and you can learn a lot from the guys who 'get it' on there and also those who don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/17 04:49 AM |
| 2 | How To Handle The "I'm A Lesbian" Mega Shit TestThe couple I lived was the same though. They had a huge blowout on Xmas Eve because a dude was hitting on one of them hard and the other felt she wasn't doing enough to close it down. The girls shared a bed together etc. A lesbian friend of mine at University had been with numerous guys before deciding she 'liked girls'. A good friend of mine was boning some girl who shared a bed with her girlfriend and he had to keep it all on the DL in case she found out. It's a weird dynamic I feel, not dismi… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/17 03:38 AM |
| 2 | How to be NICE?Annoyingly, as with most things in life. This shit ain't black and white and the best approach is to develop an understanding of things so you can strike the sweet middle ground more times than not. I try not to adapt my personality too much now. Instead I just behave with a few learned fundamentals that will stop me from getting fucked over and also learning to understand women that bit more. It really is the truth that you have to trigger the right 'emotions' in women to get laid and the windo… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/17 03:41 PM |
| 0 | Who is your favourite male role model? Wether he be fictional or non fictional.Are you autistic? seriously? 'Sheeran makes love songs and has insane status. Using some ugly CELEBRITY as proof that attraction is negotiable is retarded on so many levels.' Why? the guy has access to more tail than you, I and the biggest chad from your high school ever will. I'm using it as a rather obvious and extreme example. Average men can implement those qualities into their own lives and benefit. Theres plenty of skinny 19 year old guys who bang hot girls because they front a local band … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/17 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Who is your favourite male role model? Wether he be fictional or non fictional.You're missing the point on so many levels.. Really didn't think I'd have to explain this. Conveying confidence, belief and a purpose make you infinitely more attractive to women. McGregor is a talented fighter who through his action and how he presents himself has landed a deal waaaay bigger than anyone could have expected. Consider this.. Ed Sheeran is literally a heart throb to some women.. Just think about that and let that one sink in.. So no... I don't negotiate women into having sex with … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/17 03:20 AM |
| -4 | Who is your favourite male role model? Wether he be fictional or non fictional.Spoken like a true little bitch | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/17 06:09 PM |
| 1 | RP Whiteknights.Don't mention or obviously convey TRP tactics or theories to any woman. Wife, girlfriend, FWB. They do not want to hear it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/17 04:06 PM |
| 131 | Who is your favourite male role model? Wether he be fictional or non fictional.Conor McGregor. If that guy can shit talk his way into a 180 million dollar boxing match with the best boxer of all time. I can shit talk my way into sleeping with girls 'out of my league'. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/17 09:03 AM |
| 8 | How To Handle The "I'm A Lesbian" Mega Shit TestIs it just me or does anyone else think there's no such thing as legit lesbians? I feel most people on TRP are close enough to understanding female sexuality to realise how it's mostly a shit test. No word of a lie I lived with a 'lesbian' couple in a shared house. The first night out we had together one of the 'lesbians' was hitting on me hard - to the point where my guy mates we're like what's the deal with you and X etc. TRP makes me understand human sexuality so much more. Homosexuality does… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/17 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone help me come up with a funny bio for tinder?New phone who dis? | /r/askTRP | 18/08/17 11:17 AM |
| 2 | dinner and movie at my houseThere is no time limit if you do things right (escalate and have sex). She's using it as an excuse to get out of there if things don't go well and you fail to make a move. Proceed as always, hug her at the door then keep your hand on her lower back as you lead her into your apt/room. The tone has been set, get a blanket so you have to be near each other on the couch. Escalate, escalate, escalate. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/17 11:13 AM |
| 2 | A few years ago I had a girl all over me, then she went cold turkey. Where did I go wrong?You made the mistake of asking her out on a date (too much investment). I know that sounds paradoxical but it's something I'm picking up on more and more. If you have to ask or seek permission from a girl with words if she potentially wants to have sex with you - you're doing it wrong. It's never as black and white as 'we both like each other, let's hook up'. As a man your best approach is just to hang out and escalate. Not to ask for dates. The longer you spend together while nothing happens th… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/17 11:08 AM |
| 3 | An RP Report From the Days I had No Idea What It WasI don't get how men become orbiters of girls with BF's to the the extent of 'i was there for you'. Like even in my most BP days I've been led on by girls with asshole BFs but as soon as I found out I always thought the girl was the asshole to me. Not her boyfriend. That's weakness on another level. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/17 04:19 PM |
| 8 | It never ceases to amaze me.Sure.. You get laid so much you resort to weak oyster bants with tinder girls at 3am. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/17 11:04 AM |
| 9 | It never ceases to amaze me.What is this? Don't you realise when a girl is flirting with you? Just go fuck her you pussy. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/17 10:44 AM |
| 1 | How do I get big as an ectomorph? (Gym)You're not eating nearly enough to make gains. An extra 200-300 cal a day would see you better. Remember it's gradual but the biggest factor is continually eating surplus calories. Even if it's sugar it's still usable. Your body can't build muscle from protein alone. My advice is to go 'dirty bulk'. Gain weight as fast as you can. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/17 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Girl I recently started dating said she "cant imagine ever coming to me for help" or "relying on me"Well done. She'll use her orbiters to help solve her problems while fucking you. You're officially Chad status to her male girlfriends. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 11:39 PM |
| 1 | My first ever date-what do i do?It's probably going to not go so well because you're inexperienced. Remember that, don't be ashamed or embarrassed about it. It's a learning experience. 2 words to remember in your head are lead and touch The biggest thing I could say, especially with this being an 'action' date is to lead. She's a girl so she will play helpless and look for you to 'teach' her how to paddle board. Own it and confidently show her how to paddle the fuck out of that inanimate piece of fiber glass. Excellent chance … | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 11:34 PM |
| 11 | TRP Truths in old Amir Khan news storyWhat about the Amir Kahn saga with Anthony Joshua. https://www.google.com.au/amp/www.independent.co.uk/sport/general/boxing/anthony-joshua-amir-khan-wife-twitter-relationship-dating-responds-spat-cheating-a7877306.html%3famp Anthony Joshua is the Golden boy of British boxing right now and Amir's been on the decline for a while. Obviously the media was going to side against him. Can't help but feel there's some RP truths and another side to that story. Especially when she claims that Amir doesn't… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 03:06 PM |
| 3 | What do you make of this?Could have been treated as a shit test. Don't be afraid to call girls out (respectfully) when they pull this stuff. And the biggest thing is to keep on it. Let her know you're available without being needy. 'well once your finished with the girls hit me up' Would have been the best response. The thing you have to realise, is a lot of tinder is just about timing. Fuck most of this stuff can be put down to being in the right place at the right time... although with TRP you can learn to I put yours… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/17 05:38 AM |
| 11 | Why You Should Be An ExperienceDrop MDMA and go to a rave night. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/17 02:19 AM |
| 2 | My best friend is being manipulatedLink him to a couple coach Corey Wayne videos. That guy has some great stuff about explaining why texting a girl etc is a bad move. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/17 01:52 AM |
| 6 | Women don't hit on men, they "put themselves in his vicinity"?It's the best way. And when you think about how difficult it is for most men to muster the confidence to approach etc you realise why girls rarely do it. Because they don't have to.. as they're regularly approached by men that do. It's like a path of least resistance. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/17 04:37 PM |
| 40 | Women don't hit on men, they "put themselves in his vicinity"?Yep. This mannerism becomes so evident when a you realise a girl is actually actively pursuing you. It's like high school all over again. Like ahh, this random girl keeps starting conversations with me.. does she want the D? Who knows. That is why the best way is to assume attraction and go with it. Plan 'dates' hang outs etc and just escalate. Don't even consider if they're interested it will just hold you back. If you get an obvious no then you back off, like any reasonable man would. I fuckin… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/17 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Using psychology to manipulate women in to being faithfullAs people we tend to project our values onto others. I've been putting together the theory that the differences men and women project onto relationships are the cause of some rather profound relationship dramas etc. Especially in the ways that it comes to cheating etc. TRP likes to push the idea of hypergamy - however I feel the truth is often a bit more complex than that. Men value sexual loyalty. It's ingrained in us and you have to work pretty hard to overcome your natural instinct to be rath… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/17 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Here's what I learned from being in a relationship with an active user of TRP, as a woman. Here's what worked and what didn't work.I'm really confused by the part where you go back to CA. You say you ended things and hooked up with someone else. That he was insecure and had your laptop to read your iMessages etc. It seems his insecurity was pretty much on the money? That you were on a 'break' - how was he not to take this that you split up to fuck another guy then crawled back to him after having your 'validation'? You seem to be blaming D's RP ways for you cheating on him in 2 instances. When if you're honest they have no… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Friend goes on a large group trip overseas, watches as 90% of the girls cheat on their boyfriendsIf she starts putting on too strong you can talk it out with her. Talking actually works when it's done from your frame and position of power. Just tell her you like where things are going but you don't want to rush things. If she can't handle that like a reasonable human being then it might be best to move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 07:33 AM |
| 26 | Friend goes on a large group trip overseas, watches as 90% of the girls cheat on their boyfriendsIf you want her as a LTR you just have to be patient and remain non needy. The fact that she was blowing up your phone while you attended a lingerie party shows she's nervous that you might switch her for a better woman. Every time you feel like you're doing something 'correctly/BP' (offering commitment, giving her your time) she backs away. It's in a girls nature to do this.. Women aren't us. They look for different things in a mate. Where we as men like women who are young, loyal/obedient and … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 07:29 AM |
| 2 | What Brought You To The Redpill?Always been decent at chatting with girls, just never could get anywhere with them. I was clueless and I knew I lacked that 'killer instinct' I saw my mates use on nights out etc when pulling girls. I was naive and thought the 'right' girl hadn't come along yet. I had 2 experiences in fairly quick succession of girls being into me and then jumping to someone else before I made a move. One of which I developed oneitis for and looking back it's laughable how I didn't make a move. I started looking… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/17 10:58 AM |
| 1 | The truth about male romantic love vs female romantic loveWomens love seems to be related to 'chasing'. If you can develop that attitude where you're consistently always one foot out the door they are obsessive and will do all manor of things to please you. In a way, it makes sense. It's all about baby making/raising and a man who is infatuated with his girl becomes unattractive as he no longer fulfils his biological function of gathering resources for the little one. Women want a man who owns his shit and has priorities above her because evolution mad… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/17 10:22 AM |
| 6 | Don't even think about thinking about opening up to a womanDon't do it. And frankly it's something I have come to learn is ultimately unhealthy. Like I feel some guys (I would include my former self) view women as a place to vent their feelings. Because women are viewed as more sensitive yada yada they feel it's appropriate. Also, for men, women's advice is generally crap but that's another issue In my last relationship I remember chilling with my girl watching Netflix while her room mate had a dude over on a 2nd date sorta thing. I remember listening t… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/17 07:14 AM |
| 6 | Girl couldn't stop smiling/laughing after I told her why I approached her. Awesome interaction. She's not responding to my contact, though.She probably does have a boyfriend and some women (believe it or not RP) have the ability to swerve guys and remain faithful. She gave you her number because you were non threatening and she enjoyed the interaction - she didn't feel like being a total bitch and saying no to giving you her number. On reflection she likely thought 'nah I have a good thing going on, I'm not making the effort to meet some total stranger' Keep going, you'll land a few good leads in no time. Most important is to not t… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 08:38 AM |
| 10 | (Long) Don't let yourself be blindsided by the lies and deception a woman will feed you to reap what she really wants.That's the problem with female 'friends'. They ain't real friends in a sense that they will be there to help you out. Women's biological judgement of you will always creep in. Become weak, express your feelings and you trigger disgust within them. It manifests as anger and is probably why girls always paint their nice guy exes as 'assholes'. Its something I noticed at work with female bosses etc. Now I always flirt and act mischievous with the middle aged women at my workplace. They treat you fa… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 12:23 AM |
| 3 | She never truly loves you..This is the real RP a lot of men need to swallow on this sub. So many guys are still all high and mighty and think their 'love' (lust) is valuable and women should respect them for it. Your pretty oneitis that you did 'everything' for and she still fucked Chad. What really made you any different to some creepy dude messaging her online offering to pay for her to move across the country etc. Realise your 'love' for her is shallow and vain. As OP says if her looks fade thats it - the feelings end.… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 12:01 AM |
| 7 | Girl Keeps Texting Me! What to do?Man I had a girl do this to me in my BP days. I was really into her and fell into the trap of texting her all the time etc. It turned out fucking terrible and I only wish I was RP aware back then to get something out of it (she was hot as fuck). Don't want to be rude, but seriously not interested in being a constant texting buddy and I'd rather talk more when we see each other. You're completely right to be thinking along those lines. The good news is her interest in you is high, she wants to kn… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 03:29 AM |
| 1 | [Field Report]I rarely hear about the nature of the friendzone after casually dating?You need to be honest with yourself mate. I'm telling you right now she's not the girl to be involved in any long term capacity with. If you can get a few lays out of it without getting feelings then sure go ahead. But you sound as if you like her and are invested. If that's the case just move on (been there done that). You're in the awful place where the only way to move forward with her now is to back off. You need her interest to build to a point where she is receptive to attend dates on your… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/17 10:59 AM |
| 2 | [Field Report]I rarely hear about the nature of the friendzone after casually dating?She sounds like a bit of a bitch as well to be honest. I like to think AWALT in that they share the same nature and react similarly to weak behaviour. All women would be turned off by the behaviour you exhibited - you expect a 'good girl' to politely tell you this isn't going to work out. However some (like this girl) do not let things drop and continually make effort to bring you into their orbit. She likely doesn't have many healthy female friends and resorts to stringing thirsty guys along fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/17 10:27 AM |
| 1 | [Field Report]I rarely hear about the nature of the friendzone after casually dating?Dude you know what you have done wrong. Textbook neediness and she's fading you out. Her interest has been lowered by your beta actions such as; I agree to take things slow when she gets back. *We don't have sex** but we start going on dates again.* 'Taking things slow' should mean hooking up and not having all the emotional chats. The absolute opposite of your approach. Realise you are never going to talk your way into being her BF (not one she can respect at least). Dates are supposed to end i… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/17 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Just finished reading No More Mr. Nice Guy. Is there any equivalent of a female nice guy?weak | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Just finished reading No More Mr. Nice Guy. Is there any equivalent of a female nice guy?Sorry. Not woman hating enough for you? | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson: Casual sex is not good. What is TRP's answer?The problem is the nihilism of it all. And it's all over way too quick anyway. I know a few women in their 30s who played the casual game throughout their 20s and they're no happier for it.. It's sort a trp myth that girls fuck around then find their beta bucks (I'm sure it happens in many cases) but even that is a difficult task for girls. Most of the women I know can't tolerate being with a guy who doesn't turn them on and has no game. Especially when they're used to experiencing guys who know… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 01:46 PM |
| -1 | Just finished reading No More Mr. Nice Guy. Is there any equivalent of a female nice guy?I would say the female equivalent would be a young bossy obnoxious girl (low in agreement). I've met a few in my days and they tend to get ostracized pretty quickly by everyone. Their relationships are awful because they're constantly unhappy as their behavior goes against 'nature' in regards to attraction. In extreme cases they either date betas (and abuse them) or seek ultra alpha dudes (like ex convicts and drug dealers). Just like a nice guy is ultimately unattractive to women so to is a dom… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 07:34 AM |
| 41 | RedPill truths abound in an AskReddit thread on what turns women onIt's so true. I can now read guys who know the game and those that don't. Like even some big built fellas fall short because they pander and speak in a soft voice to women at times. Instantly you can tell that it's going nowhere. It comes down to polarity as well. It always seems the shy and innocent girls are often the freakiest in the sheets because they crave (need) dominance more. That is, they just don't end up having sex with tame men because their character does not allow tame dudes to pr… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/17 06:25 AM |
| 22 | Never Land in The Friend Zone Again: How to Be Man To WomanIt's important to realise that the friend zone is based on a girls 'feelings' for a guy at a given time. Weak behavior, being too available and not making a move will land you in the friend zone. I don't think it's just as simple as being honest 'just tell her how you feel bro' - I can list countless examples of that being a shit show. We all know there's a pretty big period of keeping your feelings etc under wraps as not to come off over eager etc. For me, and I think it's common for a lot of d… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/17 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Ended up with a few hotties in my life, but I could not get it up!I think this is quite an important point and something that could do with some analysis. It's happened to me way too many times and i remember waking up the next day thinking 'wtf, i go out drinking in the hope to score. Then when I finally by chance end up with some girl in bed i don't do anything' - it's not necessarily the 'not getting it up' - but more the not feeling at all turned on in a girls presence that you valued. It was likely my lack of experience, had only been with one girl with e… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/17 09:59 AM |
| 1 | A girl in my social circle always looks towards me when talking to anyone. Does this mean anything?Make a date with her (don't have to tell her it's a date). Just you and her out for drinks and escalate. Will tell you all you need to know. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 04:29 AM |
| 8 | Don't be afraid to get angryTinder is the worst for flakes and shitty behavior from women. I do agree with your point though, calling them out can often have positive results. I cringe the amount of guys who would just be like 'ah it's cool lol, we can totally meet another time (please date me pleeeease)' It's all about establishing you're not a pushover and can be treated as a major shit test. Don't resort to name name calling or getting emotional. But a cold 'that's not cool, you've wasted my time' is appropriate in any … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/17 12:32 AM |
| 5 | Unplugged during a good LTR and started to view things differently...It sounds like you're projecting your issues onto her and using her as a conduit for the dissatisfaction you feel in life. You are however in a difficult position. How old is she? If she's the same age the marriage and baby pressure is going to start creeping up on you pretty soon if it hasn't already. What I will say mate is the grass is always greener. It's the reality of the human condition. I'm a year younger than you but my life is free as fuck. I've lived and worked in 5 different countrie… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/17 06:33 AM |
| 5 | Looks like I just took the red pillI feel like feminisms angst can be boiled down to the 'hierachy of life quality' At the top you have rich high status men (<.1% of males) - there's no better, not even close and it's hard to argue otherwise. It don't matter if you're black or white. Celebrity man, pro athlete, rock star, movie star. The world is your oyster and you live a life of unlimited sexual opportunity and freedom. It really probably is just as good as it looks for men with the right frame of mind. Women in a similar posit… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/17 02:13 AM |
| 15 | Do not let her waste your time. Use your power to walk away.I doubt it. Although... She's a hot 20 year old so she has probably 10 orbiters texting her validation and therefore is not thirsty for sex/approval. I would however imagine OP to be of the highest SMV out of her field. He's older, actually has the balls to get her round his place and understands how this shit works. She treated him like she treats every other guy in her life (because guys let her). OP played it perfect and it worked. It's important to realise it's never truly malicious. She's j… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/17 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Blue Piller waits 3 years to meet Tinder match on Good Morning America, Girl is repulsed at the Guy's clingynessI remember seeing the initial post of this on Instagram and his comment of how when he finally meets this girl it will be 'epic'. My first glaring instinct was - no, it's not mate. The combination of his BP ways and this getting put on TV is going to fuck this guy up. No one's doing him any favours encouraging him to behave this way. I cringe it kind of reminds me of me and my meet cute oneitis and how I was all excited (not as bad as this guy) and it blew up in my face. I'm wiser now (or maybe … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/17 07:14 AM |
| 6 | Scraped Off the PlateThanks for this. Confirms what I thought to be true regarding not making a move, being friendzoned and talking too much without any action - then she jumps to somebody else. It's happened to me twice. In each cases I knew the guys she started banging and had no idea what she saw in them (I was better). But I behaved like a doormat and got treated like one - oh well live and learn. Maybe one day I'll post my oneitis FR full of TRP truths. It was a textbook man's decline from alpha to beta. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 11:46 AM |
| 7 | TRP and Female OrgasmMy last relationship this was so evident. I liked her she was cool to hang out with. But the more I 'dated' her the worse the sex got. Like going out for dinner and doing couple shit would result in mediocre sex at the end of the night with her faking enjoying it more than she was. You can easily tell when they're not overly wet down there that they're not really turned on. Luckily I started to pick up on it and just started backing away after mediocre nights. Wait for her to text me the next da… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Love is temporary and circumstancial.I hate that term 'you were in lust, not love'. They're the same fucking thing. Infatuation, good feelings all stemming from the biological wanting to stick a baby into some girl. Your oneitis - if she put on 50 pounds would cease to elicit the same feelings within you. And you would move on as coldly and unashamedly as women do when they no longer perceive a man's SMV as sufficiently high. As a guy that's why being a cocky asshole works. Treat em mean keep em keen. It implies higher status and w… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/17 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Why Quality of Women Varies Enormously By LocationIt's the same when you visit Asia. All the women are slim and attractive. It's like you never even notice a 'hot girl' there because most girls are totally bangable regardless. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/17 01:16 PM |
| 44 | The Red pill is training wheels for betasWe're all a bunch of over thinkers who were cursed without having the 'natural' ability to just 'get it' first time around. We are however smart logical guys who recognise the truth when it's laid out and are trying our best to change our ingrained ways. When we say ignorance is bliss (and maybe it was better to remain BP) - yes to a degree. But I have mates who just always seemed to understand RP shit and have had well functioning and drama free relationships their entire lives. Never have they… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/17 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Don't be afraid to tell a girl straight up that you like her or find her attractive. They love that shit if it's coming from a place of confidence and non neediness.It's all about strength. If you can convey you're attracted to her without being apologetic or needy then this is good. However the timing of this is what is important and what actually determines wether your being 'needy'. First 10 minutes of a date 'hey your really beautiful btw' - needy and socially clueless move. Towards the end of a date when 'chemistry' has already been established and flirting etc. Confidently telling her you think she's attractive is likely to turn out well. Ideally you … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/17 03:43 AM |
| 4 | No question, Just a rant. Fuck you TRPMan love Scorsese for his portrayal of not give a fuck men and TRP truths. Goodfellas is my fav, the writing of Karen Hill is so on the money. https://youtu.be/OJEEVtqXdK8 Such a perfect scene; You don't feel like you're in construction - as she grabs his hand affectionately. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Spartan Living Makes Life EasierRice is fine in the fridge. Put in an air tight container with a wet sheet of kitchen roll on top. Microwave that shit as good as fresh. Source I used to work kitchen at a Thai restaurant | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/17 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Career Advice: 9 - 5 or Fly In, Fly Out?Can you work towards working for yourself? Is there anything in your job or a client list where you could say; fuck this, these customers could be mine and mine alone. If so do that. The problem with corporate is that while it provides a sense of security and a 'strait forward' path. The pay raises and incentives will never truly match what you feel you deserve and you will always be chasing that next golden salary packet. Eventually you'll find yourself at retirement with far less than you barg… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/17 06:02 AM |
| 2 | All of the posts here regarding LTRs ending seem to revolve around AWALT and seeing through the shit tests. I'm certainly not saying I have a unicorn but how many of you have sacked up and ended a perfectly good relationship simply to enjoy the finer side of the single life.I ended my last relationship to move to another country for work and just a change of scenery. The relationship was pretty great and I credit TRP for teaching me how to handle the usual dramas and keep things easy and steady. As a result we had a great time together. Sex every time we met up, fun chill times watching sports and drinking beers together. Absolutely zero effort with a lot of reward. However. Women really do hold you back when it comes to 'following your path' and I'm a pretty restl… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/17 01:39 PM |
| 35 | Why girls always complain they were used for sex when they get dumpedMan my oneitis pulled this shit on me. In my BP days I travelled to see her after we'd texted for a month. I didn't make a move out of being a nice guy. I texted her telling her I really liked her and that I wanted to 'kiss' her cringe. Got the 'non compatible' spiel from her. I wished her the best and tried to move on by going no contact. Got random messages from her every other day which I largely ignored. After 2 weeks I broke and told her I'm coming over to visit with some big BP spiel messa… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/17 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Myths and Truths of approachMeh while I want to agree with you (as an excuse not to approach). However, I've seen too many acquaintances be successful with random approaches. With approach it's all about striking a non needy balance. Which is extremely difficult as you put yourself out on a limb from the beginning. Guys who are good don't try and force it, more start an innocent conversation and skill fully escalate. No overconfident bravado - the sort of thing to the unaware looks like an unassuming conversation between 2… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 01:34 PM |
| 8 | Too Much Attention Kills AttractionWomen love strength - that's all it is. All these subtle tactics can be branched under that concept. I like to use the 'strong man' as a sort of gay mental man crush of who I will emulate with women. If in doubt I ask myself - 'what would the strong man do' The answer is - whatever the fuck he wants. Approach a girl and confidently eye fuck her while he smoothly carries a decent conversation and gets her number with no hesitation. Not texting her right away because he forgot - because he has a j… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 02:41 PM |
| 16 | askTRP Megathread July 05Ah the classic bill splitting scenario. Don't get caught up in TRP thinking she's trying to exploit you for a free meal etc. What you are overlooking is what 'paying the bill' implies. I think she took splitting the bill as you not being interested. Girls are insecure as well, if they like you they are constantly worrying if they're putting themselves across in the best way towards you. At the end of the date if you say 'lets split this' it implies that you have decided over the course of dinner… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 07:44 AM |
| 2 | How to fix m-f dynamics in society and lessen the impact of feminism.I think it's largely an economic problem. There simply aren't enough well paying jobs to give everyone male and female a position. We forget, but it never used to be like this until fairly recently. Most peoples parents here will have been in their mid 20s when women could be expected not to work and merely tend to the house.. The impact of women having jobs is quite far stretching and were now seeing the effect it has on 'sexual selection' and families. We know women have a nature to shoot up a… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 04:32 AM |
| 7 | Being "selfish" is important for your well-being.Very true. This past year of 'self discovery' (fuck i hate that term) i'm realising what a useless pushover i've been and just how much it has been detrimental my life. In the world of work it's especially important to realise the needs and wants of your superiors. Everyone is selfish, (so they should be) recognising it and tailoring your approach to avoid being roped into unfair roles and looking after your own needs is vital. The last job I had was working as a manager of a small business (i w… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/17 01:44 PM |
| 15 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread July 03Your inexperienced vibe comes from shame regarding expressing your interest in girls you like. Work towards getting over that and your interactions with girls become 'fluid'. That's all it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/17 05:06 PM |
| 25 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread July 03The natural sense of disgust (or more urge to avoid commitment) men feel towards women with high n-counts is the same instinct women feel when they sense a man is 'inexperienced'. If a mans 'ideal' is to lockdown the virgin to father a family, then sexual polarity would dictate that a woman's instinct is to tame 'chad' for commitment. It's why 'pre-selection' is such an important factor for women considering men. It's why on dates you must make a move quickly and not be seen to hesitate. It's fu… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/17 02:56 PM |
| 99 | 6 Common Things Women Say To Show DisinterestI got the 'nice' speech from my oneitis (who I never even fucked) after spending 2 days with her without making a move. In hindsight it's all so obvious looking at the signs I missed. She dropped hints and me as the clueless beta was obsessed thinking 'i should take her to dinner - that will impress her right?' keep making her laugh.. you're doing good!' I cringe remembering; walking back into her apartment after a hike and she passed her female room mate on the stairs. She was walking slightly … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/17 01:56 PM |
| 5 | Found my girlfriend texting a guy friend about smoking weed in private together?Take out the 'smoking' and what have you got? A straight up 1 on 1 date with another man. Let her go.. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/17 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Why I Made True Freedom My Goal In LifeI recommend taking some time out. Let me chime in from the 'other path' - I'm only 2 years older than you so please don't take this as a 'listen here my son' speech. At 21 I was at a crossroads to study medicine post graduate after finishing a biomed undergrad. I hated the idea of life being planned out for the next 7+ years but it was also what I dreamt of doing since I was a teenager. I hadn't 'lived' and the idea of entering such a profession felt way too soon. After graduation I ended up doi… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/17 10:43 AM |
| 3 | AWALT or how I managed to awake manipulative instincts on a seemingly innocent girlYou acted weak and she's treating you like a weak person in kind. She asked you for a lift, because she needed a lift - not because she wanted to spend time with you. You did right to cut ties with her because you're in a no win situation either way. You didn't have to tell her friend you have a crush. If he has half a brain he figured that out and went off to tell her immediately.. You can imagine how that conversation went down.. Yeah, you're right about me acting like a bitch and that's how I… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/17 06:13 PM |
| 3 | AWALT or how I managed to awake manipulative instincts on a seemingly innocent girlmonths forward I’m getting impressed from her generosity and kindness and start contemplating the idea of asking her out -Mistake no.1 Self evident - far too long to be 'waiting' So I ask a guy from the group (gay and probably into me) to help me isolate her to “talk about her strange behavior” (she didn’t reciprocate me much in the club) but what actually happened is that he probably told her and she made up an excuse not to come with us for a weekend uhm yeah, ya think? - i'm not going to get … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/17 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Homebody? Workaholic? Even then, AWALT.This is just the nature of female sexuality. Get used to it, learn to understand it or you will forever be bitter and frustrated. I think the 'crush' is largely a female phenomenon. It's fleeting, girls have them all the time and really it doesn't mean a great deal. It's also great evidence that women don't judge us the same way men judge women. Ever heard a woman talk about her crush; there may be a few comments about his appearance but mostly it's about what 'he does'. Girl 1 - omg he has thes… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/17 02:18 PM |
| 24 | The more attractive the young woman, the more she lacks common senseI think it all comes down to creating that vibe that happens right before 2 people are about to hook up. The girl enters a massively 'submissive' frame; and if things are to go well - the guy will take initiative and lead her. Think of a girl asking to be shown how to do something when she already clearly knows how to do it. It's about displaying to the man that she is receptive to his leadership. As guys we pick up on this - i've just never really analysed it until recently. It works - we get a… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/17 06:38 AM |
| 21 | The more attractive the young woman, the more she lacks common senseActing dumb is a girls number 1 move to attempt to entice the guy of their fancy. Any date I've been on, if the girl starts saying things to imply she's incompetent for any reason I generally know I'm in there. Isn't it weird how you realise these actions all correlate to sex in some fucked up primal way. I want to see an Instagram account titled 'women pretending to be idiots on tinder' to counter that BS 'do you consider yourself a feminist'page. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/17 04:19 AM |
| 4 | Why getting back with an Ex is a bad idea: your Cinderella is really the Paper Bag PrincessGood point. I like to define 'friends' loosely as 2 people who are equal; it serves to set a good barometer as to where you stand in SMV. The guys I hang around are those I deem equal to me and they must deem me as equal as well (or else we wouldn't make the effort to hang out together). I've been ditched by friends who went to hang with admittedly better people than myself and I myself have ditched friends for better company. Its just the way the world works. Women always shoot up - when you be… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/17 05:42 AM |
| 152 | My girlfriend continues to present TRP stuff. This is intense...She described women's break-up, get-over-a-man strategy and basically said all women are manipulative, and men are stupid for thinking they'll find a non-manipulative, perfect woman who "loves them for who they are."Closure is TRP, no point reading into any of the contrived BS she has to say. Seriously any guy who's new to these things should get sent to read threads like these and see how universal girls behaviours are after break ups. 2 years ago girl cheated on me with a 'friend'. I called her out very harshly and cut all contact. She tried for 3 months to reconcile and get me back. I didn't really care, she wasn't the best looking or the best of company.. I went travelling and returned to the town aroun… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/17 05:36 AM |
| 2 | What it's like to be a 49M, dating 20–25 year-old femalesA question for the older dudes.. Have you guys always been decent with women from your 20s or did you find that you hit an age later in life when things became a lot easier? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/17 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Why do women truly believe they are the "mature" ones? And why does society go along with it?I think it comes down to 'perception' based on social market value. I use the terms winner/loser for lack of a better expression. Most men are considered 'losers' in societies eyes until their 30s or later, after they've acquired a career and 'status' only then are they deemed to be 'men'. This harsh judgement i think is what results in a lot of the depression in young guys these days, they're judged so absurdly for not 'having it all' right away. It's not just women who make this judgement, it'… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 12:10 PM |
| 2 | First hand experience of female mind gamesInvite her over to your place.. Guys let themselves get played by sitting back and expecting the girl to do the mans job of planning the get together and 'initiating intimacy'. It's your job to do so because it shows strength to do so. You've already taken too long to ask her out, hence the flaky behaviour on her part. She's doubting your strength (rightly so) but keeping you around as an option. Make her 'put up or shut up' you already know she will milk you for attention if you don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/17 09:00 AM |
| 8 | Women and beta males mould themselves to the frame of the local alpha. Internalizing this principle will naturally fix 99% of your social and sexual interactions.Fuck, there's actually some well thought out posts on here today. For any guy who might not be believing in any of this, get yourself in a leader position. I would go out there to say it's more important than anything else (I'm looking at you lifting Bros). However slight it might be, being manager of a bar or such like with women 'beneath' you. Watch what happens when you tell women what to do from a position of authority. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/17 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Women have been engineered by evolution to love a man that 1. is capable of killing things, 2. will do so for her. How to adapt to this and profit in the sexual marketplace.Excellent post. If you think of all your interactions with women in terms of showing 'strength' everything makes so much sense. It's something you see people have difficulty in who aren't 'aware'. Why shouldn't I text her back right away?' - because doing so implies you're a weak guy with nothing more important going on. Nothing is 'confusing' when you understand that principle. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/17 12:41 AM |
| 2 | TRP in Reality - Observations from someone who has recently swallowed the pillDefinitely agree on cutting out the BS with Tinder.. I don't know why it took me so long to realise that, if you cant think of a good opener go with... 'want to grab a beer x-name?' It's so casual, going for 'drinks' implies a proper date but grabbing a beer is something a girl can do after she gets off work. It gets a response 60-80% of times and girls can 'interpret' it however they like. The follow up is easy. 'send me your number, i'll let you know where'. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/17 01:06 PM |
| 33 | Even if you're Nice you'll be the Bad Guy afterwardsFemale sexuality is cruel in that it 'punishes' weakness. This is what 'nice' behaviour ultimately is. Girls then have the ironic problem that they must maintain their pure and kind image (to be attractive to others) while justifying at often times pretty cruel actions towards men who have displayed weakness towards them. How would you react if a girl said she ditched her ex because he was always taking her out for dinner, telling her how great he thinks she is... | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/17 07:48 AM |
| 2 | What is the best possible outcome of a LTR?Absolutely agree. I like to think along the lines of relationships, are at their root about creating children. In that all the good feelings and desire of attraction correlate to being with someone who's a fit candidate to be a mother/father. I think as men we are attracted to 'affectionate' women because we see it as the way she will mother your children. Affectionate behaviour from men however must be in limits. For a man, being busy, in charge (top of the hierachy) earning good money is attra… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/17 11:31 AM |
| 5 | Monogamy was designed to help betasI like what Jordan Peterson said on that Rogan podcast in regards to the death of 'religious values'. Something along the lines of... 'there's a reason all societies and religions worship the 'virgin bride', because societies that did not died' Monogomy didn't come to exist because it's kind to 'beta males'. It's because it was the most successful way for society to breed on mass with the most children reaching adulthood. Without it, women would give birth to 'alpha' children with no man to prov… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/17 11:06 AM |
| 9 | My Girlfriend Is Explaining and Confirming TRP Concepts...Yep, 'nature' sucks.. But it's way better to live in knowledge of how it operates than be ignorant to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/17 09:26 AM |
| 57 | Men care more about looks, but women's standards for looks are higher.'Male Dominance Hierarchy' That's what women judge you on and your position within it. The likes of Tinder etc women go for looks because it's the only reliable factor they can judge off the bat through that medium. Even then it's not enough. Match with a girl on tinder - BP guys take that as; she must mean she's attracted to me right? Wrong - she's then going to test you and throw challenges your way to see if you're capable of working around them and be man enough to establish a date. It's her… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/17 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Saturday night date, sudden collapse of confidence and what I've learnt from the rejectionMan this resonates with me so much.. What i will say, it's likely the best thing to have ever happened to you. Now you know how the game works and are young while realising how quickly weak behaviour can turn off a girl who was previously very into you. You can decide if thats something you want to entertain (by entering a LTR) or use your knowledge to play things more casual.. One thing I learned (and is reinforced in your post) is that never try and go 'romantic' places for girl, no matter how… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/17 11:12 AM |
| 4 | Frustrated with trying to bag 8's & 9'sThe thing with tinder/bumble etc is that they're just 'right there' for women.. At a moments notice they know they can hit up some dude and get a lay. Because of that, most of the 'thrill' is taken out of it for women. That 'chase' or 'game' as we call it is vital for most hookups or early stage relationships. Instead what is tinder for women? It's like a sears catalogue of potential BFs or FWBs that they are free to entertain and pursue at their leisure. Thats why most girls have a 'meh i can t… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/17 05:57 PM |
| 8 | AWALT, even the person you think breaks that lawYes AWALT but dude grow up... Learn from this. It's not popular opinion around these parts but you fucked up. You're also 18 for fucks sakes, getting tied down at that age is stupid for 2 reasons; You miss out on a lot of potential options, not just women but career wise. She's an 18 year old girl, if she's hot every man from your age to 70 wants a go. And people 10 years older than you have more game and money than you can ever have at your age - unless your a pro athlete in which case plow on.… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/17 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Never let a woman control you. Never give in despite your desires and "hope".If you 'want her back' at this point then ironically she's going to have to see you with other girls. She'll hit you up in no time, however I imagine your motivation for going back to her after a few different lays will be drastically reduced. In short, move the fuck on. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/17 07:11 PM |
| 5 | The Story of My LTRThe problem is you and how you've been so weak for so long in the relationship already. The girl I've been seeing tried to pull the 'you never do anything for me' crap early into seeing each other when I wouldn't get a bus to pick her up and drive her car home. Id just started reading TRP at the time and couldn't believe the trueness of it. I ignored her messages and denied her calls all night. She ended up driving to my place and crying. She tried to reiterate her point to which I responded 'im… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/17 05:46 PM |
| 1 | You haven't made it until you have accepted the harsh truths that don't fit your narrative, there is a big difference between taking the red pill and coping.I think a lot of the stuff thats becoming accepted on here is getting to the realms of a bitter circle jerk with a lot of male 'hamstering' to appease their own flaws and failures. Monk mode bull shit and this idea that guys are just going to lift until they're 30 then women will just fall into their lap. I have a great deal of respect for this sub for uncovering many truths regarding female nature and relationships that are unpopular with conventional society. Behaviours such as 'testing' and t… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/17 10:59 PM |
| 4 | Alpha to Beta Without Realizing It'When we started dating, she was infatuated with me; she would question the reality of me, she would do anything I wanted. Then I got comfortable.' That there is everything in a nut shell. I've been there albeit on a much shorter time frame than yours. When a women you are crazy attracted to is infatuated with you, it's like a drug high. You slowly lose any previous motivation for doing cool and progressive things with your time, because hey you have a hot girlfriend and what else do you need in… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/17 07:57 PM |
| 2 | There is no Friendzone!The friendzone fascinates me, having been there more times than I care to mention. When I was a BP pseudo feminist I used to buy into the crap that the 'friend zone' was just used by bitter men to describe women who wouldn't sleep with them. However, it's simply not true. Most real 'friendzoning' happens when you are 'courting' a girl who is interested in you and during which time you display weak behaviour - e.g don't make a move soon enough, don't present enough challenge. Her sexual interest … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/17 07:57 PM |
| 88 | Why Some Awkward Guys Get LaidVery telling. I manage a backpackers hostel and my favourite at work activity is to passively observe the dynamics at play between male/female guests. My office is right next to our communal spot, so as i do emails i can eavsedrop on the 'chatting up' outside. From my experience, >80% of dudes are 'nice guys'. I kick myself listening to some of these encounters of guys blowing great opportunities because they don't know to 'push the envelope'. One on one with a girl who's new to a place and they… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/17 08:22 AM |
| 4 | dating girl for 4 months "need space"Bang your colleague and 'plate' this current girl. If she ever gives you grief about it you can drop the 'Ross Geller'. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/17 11:11 PM |
| 8 | dating girl for 4 months "need space"She's probably speaking to her ex again. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/17 10:56 PM |
| 25 | What Japanese Think of Herbivore MenJapan is crazy interesting. I lived there for 4 months last year and had a great time. Going out in the cities though is weird but fun. The best way I can sum up the dating world there is it's like a pre teen school disco. Guys and girls on separate sides of the dance floor. Never see anyone 'making out' or grinding on the dance floor etc. Rarely see guys and girls holding hands in the street etc. As a young white dude (23yo) the attention you get is crazy. Girls would check you out constantly. … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/17 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Diomedes' Triple Strength RP Guide To LTR Breakups and ExesIncredible read. Side bar this shit | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/17 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Redpill me on how smart it is to enter Carpentry when I'm 25 and have no woodworking experience.Do it, and look into working for yourself as quickly as possible. When you get out of the BP society way of thinking and start working for yourself. No matter what it is you do will be ultimately more profitable than the college route. It sadly was something I realised too late (halfway through college myself). When I looked to friends parents etc who had big houses and nice cars, not one of them was college educated. They did however all run their own business. A friend of mines parents own a c… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/17 05:30 AM |
| 1 | LTR - I beta-ized myself because I listened to her ever-changing reasons instead of paying attention to her actions. Thanks for a way out, TRP.You don't even need to ask this.. Hard next. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/17 07:37 PM |
| 4 | Conflict / Shit test strategyOption #2 - You argue with her about how she's being dramatic/taking you too serious. I usually go with this, but it's all about how you frame it. It can't turn into an 'argument'. I remember being at a party and me and my mate were hitting on a group of 3 girls. 2 of the girls were Irish and I made some joke along the lines of 'you seem like trouble, but being Irish you'd know all about that'. One of the girls laughed and the other started feigning offended and tried to call me out and shut me … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/17 06:50 PM |
| 1 | I still have oneitis hardI think once you 'develop the feelings' for someone thats it. You've built the chemical high relation with them in your brain and no amount of alpha thinking is going to get you over it. The old cliche of time will ultimately cure you as you simply meet more people and eventually meet another chick who sparks your interest. What I found oddly effective is each time i go to stalk their FB or whatever is to creep some other girl instead. Each time you want to think about it, think instead about ho… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 07:06 AM |
| 5 | Was I just shit tested or just being naive? (Regardless I'm moving on)So the other day I said fuck it and I asked her out. I didn't emotionally vomit all over her. Just something along the lines of "I've been feeling more romantic towards you lately, I wanna see where this goes. Let's give this a shot." What exactly did you say? Sounds like a shit test to me. If you're going to ask a girl out, don't under any circumstances give her more information than necessary. And never tell them you like them until way way after you've been sexing for a while. Be as casual as… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/17 05:36 AM |
| 3 | The more you spend on a girl, the less likely you'll fuck her.The thing is girls don't want you to spend money on them and take them on fancy dinner dates. If they're attracted to you they just want to get down and fuck as quickly as possible in the same way that a guy does. It's this false notion that the media and society pushes that you have to on 3 dates and hope the girl deems you to be worthy. It took me 2 different girls to realise this. Both times I knew they were DTF, but my earlier blue pill beta nature though 'take it slow, be a gentleman'. Took… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/17 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Escalate mercilesslyIf society could reframe the early dating period into 'scales of escalation' rather than how many dates you go on I feel guys would never be confused about early stage dating ever again. It doesn't matter if you clarified if it was a 'date', wether she agrees to meet you again or texts you right away etc. Touch her on her back while your talking and progress from there to see how she reacts - you have all the information you ever need in a completely respectful way. Ofcourse feminism probably de… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/17 06:40 AM |
| 2 | An entire company run by women on the verge of self-implosion.This week I applied for a management job of small business which I am very qualified and experienced for. I got a call from the 'owner' (mid 20s girl who's mid 30s fiancee clearly bankrolls the business). We established on the phone I would be a great fit and the top candidate of the 50 people who had applied. I would have to relocate for the role so I offered to travel over and see the business to give her 'peace of mind' etc. She knew it would take me over 5 hours to travel from where I lived.… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/17 02:43 AM |
| 3 | GF says "I am the perfect man"Tell her/yourself the truth.. That she had her chance with you and she fucked it up. You blamed the 'other guy' for sleeping with her (you knocked him out) but you know deep down that she instigated the whole affair. She started texting him probably 2-3 days after you were out the door and you can't admit it to yourself. When she texts, don't even entertain her. Or have your petty fun if you need, and tell her your seeing someone else. What have you possibly got to gain form having this toxic wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/17 08:59 PM |
| 2 | today I take the red pillThe hardest thing of TRP to swallow for me is not the AWALT and they will cheat etc (women do that once they lose interest and are looking for a new guy). It's that as OP described, treating a women with kindness and affection has the absolute opposite results you were hoping for. Be machiavellian, treat her like shit and she will text you every day, make you dinner, cry to her friends that 'i like him sooo much'. I wish it wasn't true but i've seen it just way too many times in my own life and … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/17 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Stupid = AdorableWomen have always 'acted dumb' to attract the attention of a guy they're interested in. They know they're doing it and it works, it appeals to every guys save a ho genetic programming. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/17 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Story time with a question.I agree. What I would also say, and is where many 'non redpill' guys are mistaken, is that it's important to be somewhat sexist when assessing a girl for a LTR. In that you can't apply the same standard to behaviour from a guy as to when a girl does the same thing. My friends from my hometown - will get together every weekend for beers and a catch up about the week we've had. At one point there were a few girls tagging along who some of my friends were 'working on'. These girls would be able to … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/17 06:37 PM |
| 13 | What was the worst Blue Pill thing you did in your lifetime for a girl?Spent 2 nights at a girls place (separate bedrooms) after having texted each other for over a month. Went out for dinner then back to hers, she showed me my bedroom and lingered awkwardly at the door - didn't make a move. Went on a hike the next day and had a picnic together - didn't make a move. Final night watched netflix on the couch together, she went out to her room and came back smelling all nice - didn't make a move. Thought I was doing the decent thing by 'taking it slow' blah blah. She … | /r/askTRP | 12/03/17 11:08 PM |
| 5 | Story time with a question.The thing you have to accept is that there are trade offs. Want a women who is hot, fun to drink with on a weekend and into good shit in the bedroom? - you have to accept she's going to have been with many guys. Her habits have lead her to cross paths with enough horny decent guys on a regular basis that she's likely let a good number of them fuck her. Want a girl who's loyal, cooks you your dinner and your parents are going to love? Chances are she's incredibly boring, never wants to leave the … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/17 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Should I wait till I can drive before I try to get with girls?We've all been there. You're young, there will be many more girls. So long as you learn from it it's not a bad thing to go through at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/17 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Should I wait till I can drive before I try to get with girls?'For my generation texting is a huge part of building attraction sadly and you almost can't skip it.' No it isn't - texting never 'builds attraction'. 2 months is way too long and she lost interest or went for another guy who asserted himself more directly. Your using the car as an excuse, if you had something fun going on where you are and invited her along she would make the effort to see you. Text for 2-3 days ideally (a week maximum) before you schedule a date. Any longer and you head into f… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/17 08:09 PM |
| 1 | AWALT Experimentbonus points for 'i probably love pizza more than you' | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/17 05:24 AM |
| 4 | Status is determined behaviorally, not circumstantially.AMEN. Work out, eat right, dress well. Do all you can to improve your looks - every bit helps. But it is by no means the most important factor. We as men make the mistake that women judge us the same way we judge them. Not true. Your SMV is fundamentally what you as a man will be judged on by women. Think back to the 'coolest' cliques in high school (unfortunately life doesn't change that much, despite what you were told). The 'cool' girls were the hot girls - isn't it weird how all hot girls se… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/17 12:03 AM |
| 15 | Women will destroy themselves for ChadHonestly /u/franz1980 do you have a crush on this girl or something? You sound like a white knight accusing this guy of being a sociopath and applying the blame to him. Sure she likes this guy, but this is not at all normal or acceptable behaviour for anyone. 'I suspect Chad is Dark Triad (this going by what she told me and what I looked up about him; I tried talking to him directly, out of curiosity to check his side of the story, to no avail).' -Going by her words? Just like every girl ever wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Watching an apparent red pill morph into a blue pill as the night wore onMaaan this one hits too close to the bone. I could tell you a story that would make the whole of TRP break down in cringe I was so autistic about it. What never fails to surprise me though is how angrily/bitter women can react when you don't pick up on their 'hints' and they feel that you have rejected them. It's like they feel that they've really stuck their neck out by dropping a 'its cold here' or by merely lingering around you for an extra 30 seconds. If you don't act on it they go cold in a… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 03:16 AM |
| 4 | Alright, I will hear you out.Look at yourself honestly and what you can do differently in the future to achieve what will make you realistically happy. What do you put as the reasons that your marriage broke down? How will you ensure that you don't realise too late that your future partner is a 'child'. He might have done stuff wrong who are we to know, but you ultimately decided to marry the guy - so you have fault in that. What do you feel at this point of your life would constitute a healthy attributes in a partner? e.g … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/17 07:52 AM |
| 1 | My girlfriends attitude problem is ruining me, please help guys'But I feel like all the assumptions and conclusions people have come to are just as delusional when every relationship is unique, because it's about two individuals - it's not some formulaic script.' Except is scary how stunningly universal these experiences are. It's human nature and we see time and time again the same actions you have exhibited leading to the same results. Don't ignore it, don't think you are special. Don't think because your 'in love' you're immune to your relationship faili… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/17 04:43 AM |
| 50 | 10 logical fallacies that block you from success, plus Beachbloke's Lazy Lay methodFallacy 9) I need to chat with a woman to make her like me - The women I fuck I send maybe 4 texts to over a few days, talk to for like 30 min, and then fuck. Every time. Women who are in your league will be DTF right away. Maybe 1 or 2 shit tests, some light LMR, and then bang. You shouldn't be talking to girls who waste your time. There are girls out there who won't. Maybe you need to start looking down market? -This. The amount of chances i've missed because i thought it to be 'too soon'. Onc… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/17 11:40 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriends attitude problem is ruining me, please help guysRead the sidebar. Dude you're going to be in deep shit if you're not careful and pull yourself together quickly on this. Everyone on this sub has experienced this to a greater/lesser degree (thats how we ended up here), trust what they are saying. Cut ties with her, you're clearly not ready to be in a relationship. If you carry on in this way she will cheat on you and leave you in horrific fashion. You'll end up heartbroken and it will take you months/years to get over it and realise you all alo… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/17 09:45 PM |
| 1 | The Traditional Roles of Mothers and Fathers in the Family - How It Effects YouMy parents are happily together but my dad didn't really do much parenting. He's a shy guy, a bit of a nerdy sci fi fan. He was the breadwinner and mum raised me and my sister. Dad would take me to football every now and again, and we occasionally discuss 'the scores' that sort of thing. Never never ever would we talk about girls etc each other. It's only now after a period of serious self reflection that I can see this as a large factor for me being generally shit with picking up women (as well… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/17 07:59 PM |
| 5 | [Ultimate Beta] Don't be like me, I told my feelings to my crush and this is what happenedFuck the 'friend-zone' is such a head fuck. Even if the girl started out interested in you, acting as a friend just throws you down a path of confusion and misery at the end of it. Never develop female friendships they're never worth it. The dynamic should always be Man > Woman, if she's to be attracted she always has to look at you as superior. The minute it steps to being friends and you become 'equal' the attraction dies. Be a leader in all your interactions with women, if they're not recepti… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/17 07:18 PM |
| 3 | [FR] [NSFW] Nothing cures oneitis like watching your former oneitis wipe your cum off her faceThe thing is to try and not be bitter at women for 'their nature'. Be bitter at society for promoting the blue pill narrative. There is literally no logical reason for blue pill thinking to exist, if it weren't for pseudo feminism and shit rom-coms no man would ever treat a woman in your previous manner. We've seen from the countless failed marriage, LTR cheating posts in this sub that treating a woman like a 'princess' is a one way street to cheat ville. Guys like fucking a girl and being domin… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/17 10:29 AM |
| 8 | Friendzone after 3 months of relationship'I treat her better for last 2 weeks' Explain in which ways you treated her 'better'. The problem is women REALY don't know what they want. They're brainwashed by the media to think they wan't a guy to be at their beck and call, bring them flowers etc. However, those actions generally raise feelings of disgust and uneasiness within them. TRP makes us aware of what really is beneficial to a girl sticking around, please for your sake realise that we have it 'right' here and they (society, most wom… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/17 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Texting?You have to realise that if she is interested in you, she's going to be keen to meet up. No amount of texting etc is going to 'woo' her into suddenly finding you attractive and someone she wants to fuck. That means, if you get the sense she's not interested (flaking your date plans), cut her out and move on. Likewise you lose nothing and have everything to gain by asking her out directly right now. Do it now. as im 16 and asking on her on a date may be a bit weird Fuck I wish I was RedPill aware… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/17 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Losing girls with lower SMVIt's a combination of; Because he didn't escalate in any of these instances, and 'she' just by virtue of being a woman has infinitely more options than he does. Escalation is key to attraction. It doesn't matter how 'cool' you are or how good looking you are. If she senses you're being a pussy and not making a move - she will lose respect for you fast. Or she will simply just get bored in your presence (no matter how interesting/engaging your conversation is). The BP mindset troubles itself thin… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/17 07:31 AM |
| 39 | The paradox of improving yourself to achieve high SMVI agree. Everything in regards to 'gaming women' can be applied to your social circle and male friends. At the end of the day pretty much all socialising comes down to 'sex'. Men associate with other men of equal SMV. SMV comes down to looks,, intelligence, athletic ability, income and life style. In the same way we say women instinctively know if a man is getting laid. Deep down other men know which of their friends is doing well with women and they subconciously judge their worth on it. As you… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/17 01:34 AM |
| 5 | Oneitis is Cancer: a Journey towards my UnpluggingThe problem I think (and one that makes us as guys very bitter) is that the men in a woman's life whom she's attracted to fluctuate wildly in her eyes. One minute she's infatuated with you and the next she's going cold. What makes a girl attracted is not the great 'connection' that comes from talking for hours at a time. It's the aloofness and desire to be involved with a man's life who lives better than her. Give her too much of your time and she'll (often rightfully) realise you don't have muc… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 09:54 AM |
| 7 | Have you ever noticed there is never a male 'fat acceptance' movement, because women and society do not care about you.We should see this 'fat acceptance' for what it truly is. A very very clever marketing campaign. Similar to the smoking commercials from the Mad Men days. They associate 'feeling good' with their product and people flock to buy it. If women see that dove commercial and feel slightly better about their bodies, thats not good for society. It's good for sales of moisturiser. The worst thing about this shit is how they try and claim it's somewhat ethical, they're promoting 'acceptance' and 'self con… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Who posts here? (Don't get defensive)I've never posted a thread in here, I don't think I'm fully able to construct a post of significant value just yet. But I try to share TRP tips with friends of mine who I sense are struggling with a girl - Often younger guys who are way too nice and afraid to express their true desires to a girl. I see myself in them and I just can't do nothing.. I know exactly whats going to happen if they carry on following how 'society' teaches them to date. I expect thats the reason for many of the posts on … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/17 01:09 AM |
| 10 | My personal journey from blue to red and back again.I threw my phone as hard as I could and it smashed into pieces against my basement concrete wall. Fuck i've been there. Never again.. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/17 07:18 PM |
| 4 | Can someone explain how ghosting is supposed to help your situations with women?Ghosting works crazily well if they are into you. It's actually incredible how well it works and was one of the depressing reality checks that made me go TRP. Example - back in my BP days I got caught in a texting everyday cycle with a girl i'd met. Distance was an issue, and she kept bringing up the idea of a meet up then changing the subject once plans started to get made. Finally after about 2 weeks I worked up some balls and asked her if she was ever going to visit. Got some excuse about her… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/17 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Your SMV directly correlations with how much a girl will do for you.Absolutely, if in doubt improve. This sub annoys me that we seem to get so close to realising the truth in a way that would actually be of benefit to both men/womens relationships. Yes 'the game' never stops. Just because you're now her 'boyfriend' or 'engaged' doesn't mean shit. If you start being a lazy weak piece of shit she will go and find someone else because she's no longer attracted to you. You must always be improving. And it goes both ways, which is something TRP ego can't ever admit. … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/17 07:16 PM |
| 2 | How to not be a beta-orbiterI should also add, the BP nature of 'waiting to make a move' is weak behaviour that (counterintuitive to BP thinking) will only make the girls interest drop. Somewhere, maybe consciously/subconsciously she knows you're too scared to go after what you want. And that ain't attractive behaviour.. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/17 11:45 PM |
| 2 | How to not be a beta-orbiterI think the 'friend zone' is often a misunderstood concept and one that to the guy on the receiving end often feels like very harsh and unfair treatment from the girl who's decided to - let's just be friends. Many sources try and excuse it as a polite knock back that girls say to guys they are simply not interested in. I think theres more to it than that. Guys don't go around falling for every pretty girl they meet - we would be useless if we did. Instead theres usually a large degree of hope on… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/17 11:40 PM |
| 2 | IDGAF what color you are, how tall you are, what color your eyes are, or how big your cock is... you can get whatever the fuck you want in this world with the right "type of mind state." So why doesn't anyone ever ask, "How do I get a better brain?"Just like the saying goes; there will always be someone taller, better looking and richer etc. (who's banging chicks) The inverse is also true; theres always someone smaller, uglier and poorer who's banging girls way hotter than you ever have. Remember this above anything else and you'll realise the true impact your actions have on who you meet/date. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 07:21 PM |
| 50 | Relationship Mantras To Live ByI wonder if anyone else feels this. I feel like 'getting feelings' for someone is a choice. Especially as a guy. It used to happen to me once a girl showed clear interest; a realisation of 'this girl is cool she likes me i'm going to like her'. Cue the inevitable BP behaviour, talk too much (better keep her interest right?). End up completely confused that you're now invested in this girl who now has completely no interest in you. TRP allows you to internalise and rationalise your behaviour, nev… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/17 06:48 PM |
| 3 | What inherent flaws are there here that make leaving beneficial?TLDR: Slags off guys who detail their positive/negative experiences on picking up girls. Advice - just be like a gorilla. WTF dude | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/17 06:48 AM |
| 40 | Open Relationship, AKA Voluntary CuckoldryThis whole new wave Buzzfeed pseudo journalism is toxic. The fact that the audience for this shit is young guys/girls in their teenage years is a recipe for disaster. Girls regularly exposed to this crap are going to reach adulthood believing they're entitled to sleep with as much dick as they like. Guys exposed to this crap will be doomed to a life of being invisible to the women they want to date after an adolescence spent shamed to exhibit any of their natural masculinity. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/17 08:39 PM |
| 136 | Casual friday night in the club, now I'm going MGTOWGet CCTV and press charges on her. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/17 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Flaked on twice by girl, how to proceed?She's getting the D somewhere else or she can't be bothered to go on a full on date with you. You shouldn't have ever attempted to 'date' this girl. Going for sushi? seriously? It should have been wine and chill at your/her place, or 'I've ordered sushi in, bring wine'. Once a girl has shown direct interest in fucking you, move in as quickly and as directly possible.. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/17 01:09 AM |
| 10 | AWALT, More Than I could Have Imagined!A friend of mine has a single dad probably mid-late 40s. He owns his own business and lives in a party ski town. He is regularly bedding hot servers under 25. I've been drinking with him and his buddies and they literally DNGAF. They will hit on every girl who serves them. While all the young dudes are sat around thinking 'creepy old dudes she'll never go for it'. They regularly collect phone numbers written on the cheques. I think it's mostly due to the attitude older guys develop. They've seen… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/17 12:15 AM |
| 7 | Former virgin here, accidentally got laid thanks to The Red Pillloving the phrase 'accidentally got laid' | /r/askTRP | 20/01/17 07:14 AM |
| 2 | The story of an orbiter, aka, what you should NOT do with a girl.Pretty much the same thing happened to me, turning me to the red pill. Your in the right place. It took me 2 months just to find this community and finally start piecing shit together and making sense of what I had done wrong. For me the pill wasn't bitter, it was a relief. Finally some truth out there in the sea of conventional relationship BS telling you to 'communicate your feelings'. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/17 11:05 PM |
| 42 | My example on why you should care about yourself more than the girl you want [long term relationship]For sure. The biggest thing redpill has opened my eyes to is that the only influence on a relationship being good is the attraction between one another. It's easy to be bitter and think she dumped you to try and get better options. But thinking like that doesn't really get you anywhere. Being stoic, strong and a leader is what maintains/creates attraction in women. By acting like you DGAF after the break she saw you as attractive again. Hasn't every guy experienced this, a girl drops you only to… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Learn from my mistake : escalation is everythingStop initiating contact with this girl, no more idle chats etc. If she pressures you to hang out again make it on your terms. Round your place with some wine or whatever, something that is obviously sexual. If she says no and just wants to get a coffee or something, be firm and say NO. Ideally she will keep asking until she gets the message, and either agrees to meet on your terms (in which case she values you enough to have sex with etc). Or she does the decent thing and stops stringing you alo… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Status and Money is needed to date the Hottest WomenWell duh..The whole of society works within its own social realms. Forget about dating some millionaire instagram chick if you are not a multi millionaire yourself. To have any chance of scoring a LTR you have to be better than the girl in most ways. Luckily for men it's not hard as most girls work in retail or some coffee shop. Have your shit together and own your life and you stand a chance with pretty much every girl you'll encounter on a daily basis. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/16 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with a past 'love'Blow her off, or make it a 'date' on your terms, i.e one where you actually stand a good chance of fucking her at the end of the night. Sex her and never speak to her again, will do your ego the world of good. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/16 08:42 PM |
| 4 | 'If' by Rudyard Kipling is a poem every man should take very seriouslyEngland will play 4 4 fucking 2! | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/16 08:46 PM |
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