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Yes. Been a drug user for 15 years. Need to get my shit together and stop searching for contentness from externatilies
/r/askMRP22/06/21 06:23 AM
1

I should just exit then?
/r/askMRP22/06/21 06:23 AM
1

It was the 3rd time in 2 months that i disrespected her while being completely floored from booze. She dislikes drunks and drugs and i let myself go from march when i lost my job. I guess its all my fault. And the sex decreased yes but not to a dead bedroom, but still noticeably. I failed shit tests, she had a stressful spring because of thesis and finishing uni. I was a whiny needy bitch who got high all the time and drunk, no wonder she lost attraction. But I can sense that her interest level …
/r/askMRP22/06/21 06:18 AM
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Will do. Thanks for the input
/r/askMRP21/06/21 03:38 PM
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Reading no more nr nice guy and this covers it also. I am a validaton seeker
/r/askMRP21/06/21 06:19 AM
0

She doesnt want to break up
/r/askMRP21/06/21 06:18 AM
0

I lost my job, she offered to move in in a new city and found a new job
/r/askMRP21/06/21 06:15 AM
1

Thank you, this is constructive advice. I dont get why they all say ditch the gf, I just need to get my sh*t together and all will be well.
/r/askMRP21/06/21 06:09 AM
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Yes. booked a visit to a therapist also.
/r/askMRP21/06/21 06:07 AM
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How do you know that from a shallow post i made? Here are many posts about men turning their life around and their relationships
/r/askMRP21/06/21 06:07 AM
2

Sobriety seems the end game yes. Need to take responsibility
/r/askMRP20/06/21 03:24 PM
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Will start tomorrow.
/r/askMRP20/06/21 03:24 PM
2

She is good company and really has helped me move my life in a better direction. I was a major drug abuser before.
/r/askMRP20/06/21 01:57 PM
1

That Im not sure about if its broken beyond repair, but I need to put myself first from now on
/r/askMRP20/06/21 01:56 PM
1

Will start venturing into the sidebar. Choosing sobriety now
/r/askMRP20/06/21 01:55 PM
4

I had a hunch yea. I think I have failed all shit tests and acted like a pussy and let my self go
/r/askMRP20/06/21 01:54 PM
9

Been sober for a month. Before that I smoked everyday. Its passive suicide for me. Maybe you can have a better relation with weed, but for me it made me content with everything around me. Short term its a good thing but long term as I said. Passive suicide.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:30 PM
2

Invest in a upbright piano. I dislike playing on synthesizers, acoustic piano feels alot better to play on. Good job. Keep at it. P.s check out nils frahm and julien marchal. Favourite neoclassical composers.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/19 05:56 PM
1

Where attention goes, energy flows and where your energy goes thats what you are manifesting
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 08:16 AM
1

Check out Dandapani for sure
/r/askTRP14/07/19 07:09 PM
6

Can relate with OP. Willpower and concentration is the topics put emphasis and set goals.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 07:12 AM
1

Check out Sam Harris and especially Dandapani on the mindset of it
/r/askTRP26/06/19 07:06 AM
1

But investing time to learn it and then its still not a viable source of income?
/r/askTRP23/02/19 08:18 PM
1

What is an IRA? Is it an american term?
/r/askTRP23/02/19 08:17 PM
1

Isnt it possible to do full time in some learning years? How is it low in return?
/r/askTRP23/02/19 08:17 PM
1

I am reading "Meditatations" but in my native language there is only one edition and damn its difficult to understand
/r/askTRP23/02/19 10:26 AM
1

Finland is not a low country. How did you assume the opposite?
/r/askTRP29/01/19 08:14 PM
3

So is carpentry, forex trading, lifting weights etc in that logic of yours. Just be progressing in life, thats it.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 10:25 PM
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Why Finland?
/r/askTRP28/01/19 07:42 PM
0

Play tekken 7
/r/askTRP28/01/19 07:39 PM
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Sorry OP but it seems hard to live in your skin when you see music as same par as drugs etc.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 07:36 PM
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Playing piano for me is one of the finest and most essential ways of escapism, which has benefits too
/r/askTRP28/01/19 07:34 PM
1

I can relate with your story, but more in a existential way
/r/askTRP26/01/19 10:27 PM
1

Can relate
/r/askTRP24/01/19 10:28 AM
0

Higher n count = more masculine?
/r/askTRP30/12/18 06:26 PM
1

I feel your point. Life feels really weird when losing sight. Everything gets dull, nihilistically quuestionable
/r/askTRP15/11/18 01:54 PM
1

I have done too much of it, basically 3-5 day hangovers
/r/askTRP15/11/18 01:53 PM
1

Hit me a pm, im on my phone right now, would like to talk in detail about it. Yes its not a death sentence, just makes stuff alot harder.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 09:32 PM
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Whats your gene type? I will get tested within this year. What do you think when a cure will.be available? Id say ten years. Luxturna is fot rpe65 gene i think and 850k $
/r/askTRP14/11/18 09:31 PM
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You mean luxturna? Thats for a psrticular gene type and it is immensley expensive
/r/askTRP14/11/18 08:43 PM
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Well I hope its not blindness. Sight is deteoriating. I have usable central vision, but I guess the party lifestyle accelerates its. The lifestyle is kind of nihilistic even. There are many possible cures being developed such as stem cells etc but some are just in the beginning of the clinical trials.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 08:42 PM
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Woah man, how old are you and how is your vision?
/r/askTRP14/11/18 08:40 PM
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That was what my friend also said, just man up and stop that self pity.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 08:39 PM
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I have also read about that side effect. Some anti depressants in the beginning have side effects more and you may have to switch them for a while to find one that suits best.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 07:37 PM
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I think fitness etc is also at its all time high as well as the party scene
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:49 PM
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Basically I am in the same boat as you, completely been drifting life doing what is needed to be done in most minimal way. Everything is in the last minute. The thing is, if I observe my actions and such I come to the conclusion that I am acting purely on impulsivity. Are you one also? Basically Im acting on emotion. If i would describe discipline to my self its tackling the impulsivity. Stop smoking pot if you smoke it. Im having real problems with discipline. I dont know how to cultivate it to…
/r/askTRP30/08/18 09:41 PM
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Convey the emotion.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 04:57 PM
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Truly a good post, I saw myself in many ways in your pre trp relationship. Nice contrast pulled with the post trp relatioship
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 09:35 PM
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Just write a tune mate
/r/askTRP12/08/18 05:02 PM
1

Be careful with mdma, abusing it yields a long negative loop
/r/askTRP10/08/18 08:52 AM
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I've been producing electronic music for a bit over 5 years and went to music school when I was younger. Doing it to get big and famous is the wrong mindset. Basically you can learn it on the side too while working. The thing is to get the craft to the industry standard level you need to know music theory, sound design, mixing mastering. This is so much information. The 10000 hour rule applies to it very well. If i were you I would encourage him, help him find a piano/88 key midi to practice pia…
/r/askTRP08/08/18 09:57 AM
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Everytime someone posts a pic of themselves here for me reeks insecurity. Work on that.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:16 PM
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I would get the point of starting producing electronic music but just DJ is kind of generic stuff.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:29 PM
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I guess you are right. Still bluepilled in that sense.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 10:01 PM
2

I have long essay email from few years ago on the theme "how i fvcked up the relationship and how to make it better". This post really made me cringe how bluepilled a person e.g me can be.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 10:00 PM
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It is like the pot of gold in the end of ghe rainbow, you will.never find it
/r/askTRP06/08/18 05:40 PM
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Spinning plates forever then? After indulging into trp concepts theoretically i see so many flaws now in ltr business, its kind of sad actually.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 05:31 PM
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This is a really good post, been guilty of letting things get routiney and stale too. Corey Wayne also emphasizes on many points you told. Never let the courtship end as he says. Dont get complacent.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 10:31 AM
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Nice post man. I myself have no clue, I would love to think that we are souls in a body etc that there is somethin bigger and ungraspable than we yet are. I do kind of have interest in new age stuff tho.. reading near death experiences, about astral projection/out of body experiences etc etc makes me believe that we do have souls and we cant just be just a biological biomass, oh well who knows what we are. About the monkey thing and darwinism, read an article a few years ago that aliens bred wit…
/r/askTRP31/07/18 06:08 PM
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If you bash them even subconsciously on that topic you would seem cold. Just be human man. You do have a soul too! Dont you?
/r/askTRP31/07/18 02:02 PM
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Making music is really fulfilling in my opinion.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 09:00 AM
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Have read several implications that the dating scene in Canada is awful, can you elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 11:25 AM
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Woah this is so me
/r/askTRP10/07/18 08:09 PM
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Listen to classical music or some newer neo classical. I myself listen to alot of drum n bass, psytrance, breakbeat etc. These usually have no lyrics.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 01:58 PM
1

Take a working holiday visa to australia
/r/askTRP06/07/18 09:25 AM
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How did it change your life?
/r/askTRP04/07/18 09:53 PM
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I produce electronic music and sometimes i have good sprees of gettin in the flow like a tune writes itself basically. On the opposite side a bigger percentage what i have done gets stuck in songwriting or mixing phase e.g cant get the lowend to sit right etc. I really admire musicians who can grind the flow mindset and be ubermenschlich productive spitting out tunes (which sound well produced ofc) in a streamful way.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 10:13 PM
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20 songs per week is insanely much.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 03:19 PM
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This resonates with my past encounters. One thing that I have noticed in previous relationships is that when I dont seem to be the top option, I have always thought that I need to do something about it, I need to do more, suprise her, be romantic etc and guess what, it didnt help. Withdrawing attention is the key. Good post it is.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 09:00 PM
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Weekender* sorry that was a misleading typo although your reply sounded quite ironic hehe
/r/askTRP22/06/18 07:43 AM
2

Take mdma, that does the job too on jaw clenching. Just kidding. Chew some gum.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 07:39 AM
2

For me its like a few beers and suddenly its a all weelender
/r/askTRP21/06/18 08:58 AM
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Depends on the drug of choice I guess. If it's opiates or coke then its a rough ride, physical dependancy, otherwise all else is just mind thing. Hope you are well. I know what you feel. Have been thinking of making a similar thread.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:31 PM
1

Are you on ableton? I guess fulfillment comes in many different ways.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 11:35 AM
1

I once did the personality test also at a pscyhology class, I'm pretty sure if i'd do it again, i would be another four letter combo. I think I am more cooler than four letters.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:16 PM
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love the irony
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:15 PM
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shoot me a pm
/r/askTRP19/06/18 07:39 PM
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that is individual mate, i know many high achieving pot smokers, sadly I'm not one of them :)
/r/askTRP19/06/18 07:39 PM
1

this is a topic I need to delve into more, because I do not understand if still 100%.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 07:38 PM
2

Holy crap. This sounds like one of my exes. Little village stuff, 500-700 inhabitants. She banged 3 guys from our group. Turned us against each other in someways. What the hell. Is this a stereotype?
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 05:05 PM
4

Can you elaborate a bit more? Cheers
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 04:56 PM
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I am 26. I would have wished that my 18 year old self would have known that pot isnt good in the long run hence other drugs.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 03:47 PM
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Been there. Wasnt a good idea. You have nothing to gain from it.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 03:45 PM
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The instant nexting advice on asktrp is too much. Sometimes i feel like people dont read the whole post and skim through it somehow cherrypicking some details and boom next that bitch. One word post replies are liberating
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 09:38 AM
1

Should have done it after the second nights lmr.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 09:32 AM
1

Holy damn crap, this was an entertaining read and it made me realize that i need to start fixing my posture.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 04:11 PM
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I orbited my ex for 2 months in the summer. We were out everyday she was flirty at first sent nudes etc was touchy but i was too much drooling ovet her. When I got tired and started dating other women, she went extremely jealous and suddenly she is dtf. Weird.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 01:48 PM
4

Amsterdam is my fav city
/r/askTRP13/06/18 08:40 AM
-4

Damn, this was so nice to read, it went like motion pictures in my head, well written dude. That is really one of those days, awalt came so out of blue. Script like in a movie. Enjoyed.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 09:03 PM
1

Estonia has the most models that have situated from one country in %. Really beautiful women here and a nice small country.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 11:38 AM
5

Go to Estonia to do pickup
/r/askTRP07/06/18 08:23 PM
1

I've been smoking for years, sometimes regularly, sometimes not so regularly. What I can say is that the set and setting really matters. When I'm with my closest friends, I have a good time and we get to laugh and talk about life and ideas. I don't like smoking alone that much, I get too distracted by my thoughts and it really has a weird impact on productivity. One thing I really dislike is the anxiety that I get from weed, escpecially when coming from a friend's place and need to walk through …
/r/askTRP05/06/18 06:34 PM
3

I remember from Corey Wayne's video too that your vibe is the most attracting part, hence some fat dudes dating hot women. Your life/visions/theburningbulbbrigthness=Vibe=Energy=vibration
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 09:58 PM
2

This is well put together. Good thought material before sleep. What really baffles me still as a bp minded guy, is the hypergamy part, but eventually I will accept it for what it is. But I really liked your analogy of the story to hypergamy, it's put together in a motivating way.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 09:57 PM
1

Wow. This is gold.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:31 AM
1

Nice, good job
/r/askTRP28/05/18 07:41 AM
1

Why is there a flood of questions about friend's girl is interested? There are lots of fish in the sea. Why do you want the fish your friend caught?
/r/askTRP25/05/18 08:41 AM
1

This is a good post. I havent seen oneitis for a year almost, she went abroad. Found a new guy and we havent spoken for a long time. She still crosses my mind though. Luckily she aint coming back in a year or two maybe even never who knows. By then life has changed and I have changed to the better and I guess no fvcks are given at that time anymore and I am thankful for her otherwise I wouldnt have found this sub nor got a honest look in the mirror.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 06:24 AM
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Short input. Got mixed signals for a month hot n cold back n forth. Then i started talking to a new girl, didnt make plans with girl, she noticed got jealous and boom she was very interested suddenly. Move on gaming other women. Wish I learned it sooner.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:03 PM
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Reread it, understood your view. No anger both ways.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 12:52 PM
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Did your dad create you and carried you for 9 months? Do you have a stamp on you "made by man"? This post reeks anger.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 10:23 AM
2

My cereal box would last longer when i would put milk first. This is a biggie.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 06:29 PM
1

Rip KRK. Do you produce music?
/r/askTRP21/05/18 05:17 PM
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Its for the better that it ended. Maybe she is nuts or bpd. You went too deep in investing into the ldr. By the way Amsterdam is awesome!
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 12:20 PM
6

I've been a commitment slut..
/r/askTRP15/05/18 10:01 AM
8

Guilty
/r/askTRP14/05/18 08:32 AM
3

This sounds like a case of needyness which drives her even more away from you
/r/askTRP12/05/18 09:48 PM
2

Same here, low budget student. Eggs rice chicken veggies is the most common thing i eat
/r/askTRP12/05/18 04:58 PM
6

I resonate with some points with OP what he described how life has been, but damn, reading this comment, thank you.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 12:48 PM
6

Can relate man. One day I feel completely like I own the world, so confident, feeling like I'm on a good spree/streak and like I could conquer the world and then there are days where I feel like I want to stay home all day in bed, lack of motivation and drive. Today I feel good.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 05:25 PM
1

Enjoy the decline of..?
/r/askTRP01/05/18 03:50 PM
1

Fear of failure, that rings a lot of bells for me. I'm having the same issue as you a year a go. Seems so dreadful to get the inertial step towards improvement done sometimes, but often the first step yields a better outcome..
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 09:10 AM
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The same thing happened to me, but I was the friend. And theother friend didnt tell me, they started an affaie behind my back. We weren't friends anymore for a long time. Scarcity mindset was his thing when I look back. In my eyes it's not worth it. I would tell your friend about her attraction towards you. Bros before hos. There are plenty fish in the sea. I guess your friend isvery bluepilled in the relationship? I was a lot.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 08:26 AM
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Well written. I have been an open book before and fishing subconciously for validation by it.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 06:44 PM
2

High five to you, that took some discipline to quit I imagine
/r/askTRP28/04/18 11:40 AM
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Nope. Not worth it. Find other women, it ended because it got to an end. On a side note the way she will end up as a plate would be if you move on and find new women to game and when she sees it, ding ding. (Preselection)
/r/askTRP28/04/18 10:48 AM
1

Can relate to the drug induced anxiety. What did you abuse?
/r/askTRP28/04/18 09:30 AM
6

Look elsewhere, there got to be more women than the one your friend dated.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 08:19 PM
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Corey wayne is really goos in my opinion, thus still trp goes more in depth. I still encourage people to read his book. There are many relationship coaches who are quite bolloks and in it for the money, but corey is quite genuine, despite the costly 1on1 fees, but his book is free and so are the dozens of videos.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 01:11 PM
1

Made a screenshot of it. Thanks! This hits the spot.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 11:17 AM
1

It took 2 years to get to that point for you? Dang, i need to think less and do more
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 11:16 AM
1

How long have you produced music? Make production first and dj secondary.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 12:27 PM
1

Bingo
/r/askTRP25/04/18 10:39 AM
11

This is golden. It should be on my fridge thank you!
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 09:40 AM
1

I was quite surprised nobody said gftow, been using tinder with basically no luck. Guess I need to focus more on me.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 05:33 PM
1

Dream journaling, should start that too
/r/askTRP24/04/18 05:12 PM
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Dreams are so weird, vivid and random. Yes, influential because it brought memories up.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 04:15 PM
1

I guess the whole LTR was both of us leeching validation
/r/askTRP24/04/18 04:14 PM
1

I am quite childish too actually. How old are you? The last sentence struck. Thanks for your input.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 02:22 PM
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I have been quite down for a long time, not only because of her. My old life pattern arent fulfilling anymore and always seem to feel that im wasting time. The improvemet goes in cycle for me, consistency and discipline are lacking factors.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 02:20 PM
2

Will do
/r/askTRP24/04/18 02:17 PM
1

Can u pm me a more detailed instruction? Will give it a go The example is throwing me off :edit
/r/askTRP24/04/18 01:27 PM
1

I have also thought that maybe i miss the illusion of her, not precisely her. The LTR was full of drama, when there was no drama it was the best LTR, but when it was drama it went completely opposite. I will try the exsercise, thanks for the tip.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 12:13 PM
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Im pretty happy that I found TRP, answered many questions for me. Of course she wont be the last one, it was just my turn, nothing more, but damn how the step back in the oneitis road annoys me today, but it is what it is, tomorrow is a new day.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 10:52 AM
1

Easier said than done for me at the moment
/r/askTRP24/04/18 10:50 AM
1

In my male group if i would talk/rant about it, they'd say get over it already. Im on my way.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 10:49 AM
1

I guess this is still a bit of scarcity mindset of mine
/r/askTRP24/04/18 10:23 AM
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Yes, option 2 is the best way. Indifference is key.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 09:58 AM
2

I am 26. Yes it will pass and has passed already in a significant amount. I was major bluepill mindset with her. Were together for almost 2 years and broke up, no contact for almost a year and then she hit me up, at first it was friendly until we met again. It went all full blown feelings after that for 2 months until she went away for the volunteer work. Luckily she isnt coming back this year and maybe next year too. So i am pretty sure in the meantime it will fade away. I hope when we bump int…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 09:46 AM
3

I recently was hitchhiking on a road, got picked up and the driver was a electrician on a boat. He told me so many awesome stories and he does work also 3 months in a year. Awesome life, made me think about life and jobs.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 09:13 AM
1

Yes, it seems that there is nothing more than improving myself to do. Other stuff aint fulfilling. Like one side of me tells me that forget her, she has moved on hence the new bf. Other side is analyzing why would she take 2 days to send a bday wish? She is in a messenger group were i am and saw on the right day when everyone wished happy bday. Why ghe unblocking too? I really dont like the analyzing part right now. Like you feel that it has all passed and then one little thing and i already see…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 08:55 AM
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3.5 is a lot for a day
/r/askTRP23/04/18 07:20 PM
2

Immerse into other women. I guess if you have new options, seeing her would less and less sting you.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 09:06 PM
1

I have the same feeling. A constant disease discomfort in the background of my head when just chilling ans being unproductive. It goes away, when doing stuff thats fulfilling.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 08:59 PM
2

You would ltr a girl whos n count is more than 10?
/r/askTRP16/04/18 07:52 AM
3

If this is real, you are just a bad friend.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 12:07 PM
1

I live drum n bass, liquid funky stuff the most. I produce dnb myself too
/r/askTRP07/04/18 01:34 PM
3

I escaped the LJBF zone, but its not worth the time and effort. Game other women.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 09:14 PM
1

I was just surprised seeing the mail in my inbox. Last thing she said to me before the email many many months ago was "you ruined my life" lol.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 02:56 PM
2

I just asked a girl out, she rescheduled, my timeline didnt suit, cause of I am busy. She told me hit me up when you are free with your time. Should I wait a bit with it?
/r/askTRP04/04/18 01:43 PM
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nah, i wont reply at all. Basically we broke up long time ago, then almost a year no contact, then she wrote me, we got almost back together, then again no contact. Dont want to break it now. Its the past. I guess i wouldn't seem butthurt for not replying? I guess she would assume that she is blocked from the e-mail too then.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 01:32 PM
2

let her validate herself by other means somewhere else.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 11:10 AM
1

Didn't think of blocking her e-mail wise. Usually only have emailing on business side of things. Never had the thought that she could use that, but will block her there too.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 11:09 AM
1

mostly interested how the female mind is working in such situation. More of why she is doing it, but i see your point tho
/r/askTRP04/04/18 10:33 AM
2

Will not respond to the bday wish of course, f*ck that honestly.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:40 AM
1

What in particular? I lost track
/r/askTRP03/04/18 08:58 PM
1

If changing to a more healthier lifestyle would equal +years of sight to me, then that weighs every party out.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 08:34 PM
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Yes, been reading about it. Weird precautions like no water 1-2h before sleep, no marinated nor salty foods, smoking is bad, alcohol too. Damn, I have too much of a party mindset lately for a period of time. The thoughts about this are really creeping in, but still..today was a day when the condition i had only got a name, that what changed. It's still the same as last year and so on. Making lifestyles changes would be beneficial to the eyes and to other parts of my life too. I hate the anxiety …
/r/askTRP03/04/18 08:31 PM
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Well once upon a time in my life many years back i chased a girl for 5 months, got LJBF from the start, but in the end i managed to "seduce" her. I was all the way so beta from the start, dont know why it happened. She of course had 2 flings in the same time i chased her, so i guess i was the last choice. Dont be the last choice, if she isn't "FUCK YES" about you, then cut it. You'd have better luck by looking elsewhere.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 07:49 PM
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I truly think you did the right thing. I had an ex who also hid the past from me, the same way in little incriments i got to knos her past. I even knew several dudes sho she has been with. She lied about her n count and with time it got bigger and bigger. It was really creeping in my mind. And in the end she ran to a new guy because i was the bad ex who.broke her heart lol. I have my fingers crossed for you that the best is yet to come.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 10:30 AM
1

You seem like a smart rational guy, time makes it easier.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 10:29 AM
2

Amsterdam is so awesome, love the city and the canals, although the und-ending smell of dank weed gets really annoying in the end. I kind of feel you, I've been medicating myself with weed too...in the end it's wasting time basically if you do it everyday, gives a false sense of fulfillment and you seem to enjoy time now but watching back it seems wasted. Counter-productiveness is enrolled with weed.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 10:26 AM
2

alles gute man!
/r/askTRP31/03/18 10:23 AM
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This was nice to read, love thoes success stories. Inspiring.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 02:31 PM
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For me lifing's mental aspect is the most fulfilling. I feel sharper and more 'wake' after a workout. More in tune with the day and my self. I go from mind to body at gym, helps sith my stress levels especially if i add sauna also to the equasion. I feel that i work better as a whole when i workout regularly.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 02:14 PM
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Man, this hits the spot. Its so hard to get not distracted and subconsciously i am always leaning towards instant gratification/the shortcut etc
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 05:00 PM
1

Damn, i usually eat before sleep, not a big meal.but something still. I still wake up groggy
/r/askTRP29/03/18 04:34 PM
1

Dude, write me in private message, we share a common ground, would like t talk about it. Damn these zaps are horrendous.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 01:32 PM
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Enjoyed reading, thanks for the thought food
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 09:59 PM
1

took me sooooo loong to understasoond that, basically wasted so much time and mental energy to her, she was never 100% "fuck yes" and then i thought like need to be more sincere and caring, lol, makes me really cringe, damn it feels soo good that it's in the past and have new views on life and other prospects in sight.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:19 PM
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happened to me too, ex broke up with me 'cause i suspected branch swinging is going to happen to him and boom 1 month later after breakup it happened, although both were like noo we are friends lol, funny to watch back, shouldn't have been so butthurt at that time. I do get along with that friend now, but it's still a bit weird, but still, I do understand why he did it, he sucks at gaming and hasn't had any other luck with women besides her. Thirsty guy hehe, but it lead me to TRP
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:13 PM
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oh man, have you experienced brain zaps? those suck so much, i've done it too much i guess, hangovers conclude to 2-3 days of feeling like shit, sometimes 5, with really bad depression. Need to stay away from it.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 12:07 PM
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do you think chatting virtually/on the phone will satisfy her and your needs? there's no physcial intimacy involved for few months...man, i hope you will be well, because a LDR (even for a short time like few months) is still a bumpy unknown road, do you have other prospects?
/r/askTRP27/03/18 09:11 PM
1

No smileys at all and directness with vague answers and more towards logistics is the right way?
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:01 AM
1

This is the right thought process. Just observe, let em fade out dont react to these thoughts :)
/r/askTRP26/03/18 09:52 PM
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It gets better. I saw today a dream where my oneitis showed up and as i woke up I had her in my thoughts for almost half a day, but it fades out. You need just time. Sometimes it feels though as it wont go away. Dont worry, in some time you click and feel like you detached from all of these thought trains and memories and then you feel and see stuff directly differently, which will change the oneitis to being a more lesser issue. ( talking about my experience about thesame issue )
/r/askTRP26/03/18 09:51 PM
5

Damn I've never thought about that I look and dress like a nice guy and that maybe a reason why I get rejected or lack of IOIs. Revelation by reading this post and a bit of thought
/r/askTRP26/03/18 09:44 PM
1

Positives: was involved in a concert, did well. Negatives: 1x gym this week only partied two days in a row, feeling really bad about lots of self critizicism diet was half week good, other half bad
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 07:05 PM
1

What? How long and how did you learn?
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:41 PM
1

Can you elaborate on the long term issues you have experienced with mdma etc? I just rolled this weekend at a party, was fun but damn it ruins the following days and the severe negative self critizicism Be well, man
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 11:32 AM
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Wrong author
/r/askTRP15/03/18 03:20 PM
2

I know what u feel, went through one of my ex's phone and all the gut feelings turned out to be true, everything shooked inside it fucking eats u inside a bit. Reading all these awalt stories make really not that enthusiastic about LTRs. Oh man, do you have other women in sight potential plates etc?
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:41 PM
2

Man the questions in the 2. part, these should be asked every damn day
/r/askTRP12/03/18 10:29 AM
0

This right here sheds light on life's paradoxes. Why do we cling to the known so much?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 09:43 PM
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If this all is 100% true and instincively common throughout the female realm...then gaining abundance and DGAF mentality is the only antidote to getting bitter by their nature?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 05:30 PM
2

I had an ex over at my place for many nights for netflix and chill, i escalated to having us both doing massage but i couldnt escalate further because of lmr. Same scenario multiple times. A week later I started talking to another woman and after ex found out, she was at my place and no lmr. Weird. Looking back I was rp minded for one evening.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 05:06 PM
1

This i came to realize in my latest ventures, that is why being too available, too in, too nice kills all the attraction by killing the chase.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 04:55 PM
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This i came to realize in my latest ventures, that is why being too available, too in, too nice kills all the attraction by killing the chase.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 04:55 PM
2

I'm in the same boat as you OP, but for me having those zero days of procrastination are making me more unhappy. Start thinking of where can you be in life in x amount of time, picture it so vividly. Everything is possible
/r/askTRP11/03/18 04:53 PM
4

Looking back on how I did 2/3 of my ex girlfriends essays makes me cringe really. Thanks for the reply mate.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 01:43 PM
2

Yes! It's so weird that it goes away in waves, exponential waves. experiencing this myself too..
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 08:03 PM
1

Truly spot on, needed to read that myself.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 09:51 PM
1

Can you give a little detail before & after? I love to read about such stuff, find it motivating
/r/askTRP28/02/18 12:18 PM
1

6'1 is tall then right?
/r/askTRP28/02/18 09:41 AM
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So basically anytime I get a depressive-low self-esteemish-negative thought, that will impact my mood or the thought train, I should propose a positive counter-argument to the thought, so I'll basically transmute the negativity to positivity in some time?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 08:45 PM
1

Which first? Asktrp sidebar or trp sidebar?
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:19 PM
1

My grammar may suck yes, english isn't my native language too. I guess the oneitis will evaporate when I meet someone who tops her in my eyes. Will hit the gym harder and focus on improving. By the way what does ESL stand for? On second thought I am quite surprised that none has advised to bang ten chicks etc. Thanks for the input though.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:18 PM
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I've been with 3 women this past time between breaking up and re-sparking the attraction. All of those 3 were not so pretty as her. The thing is I dont seem to find someone who knocks my socks off, maybe im still dreaming of a connection rather than just hooking up. I have been on a dry spell since august..
/r/askTRP21/02/18 03:22 PM
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More of hoped that here in TRP would be an Australian citizen/or someone who has done the WHV trip to Australia, who i can ask questions. Yes, i'll visit an opthamologist in near future and see how what and where with the eyes. thanks for the reply tho
/r/askTRP07/02/18 03:58 PM
1

How do you form discipline? I'm relapsing all the time. Can go 2-3 days with To-do lists and stuff and then find myself mentally masturbating to the idea of improving or getting baked again.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 04:53 PM
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It almost feels like I broke something inside of me, Im having trouble concentrating and enjoying stuff. My advice for people doing molly, please dont redose nor do it every weekend. About reading "Power of Now" made me realize that I think too much. That's why im trying to take up meditation, but getting it habitual is hard. Actually making everything habitual is hard.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 04:24 PM
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