Basically I posted a topic that an ex of mine (this post is already screaming oneitis) sent a birthday wish via email after 2 days from my birthday.( shs is blocked on facebook) I didnt respond at all. Some weeks go by and I talk to a common friend who tells me that she found a new bf, well it didnt sting that much as i thought it would. Now today i wake up from a dream of her, pretty random dream though and i cant help to just unblock her and see her facebook page, she is indeed in a relationship and she has unblocked me facsbook.

I've started lifting, hitting tinder up with minor luck, been going out in the weekends, trying to be more social and productive. Life has gone better a bit in small incriments. Havent talked to the ex for many months, basically out of sight out of mind, but after someone mentions her and i see her in a dream, it almost feels like i've gone back some steps. Feels so dumb right now. How to eliminate the lingering oneitis? Will it ever go away fully?

(We do have a common group of friends, but she is a volunteer in some other country til the end od the year, so i wont see her)