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Those who adopt TRP as a personality trait have such a fragile ego that they won’t even let themselves experience emotion, and create this huge safety net by repeating mantras and only listening to the echo chamber they’re in. Those folks know deep down they are miserable because they will never be truly fulfilled no matter how much they lie to themselves. They’re deathly afraid of the one thing they truly want to feel, so they do the exact opposite and reject it altogether.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/19 10:45 PM
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Do you know that being "Red Pill" naturally(in your context) usually equates to some form of mental illness or personality disorder(narcissism, psychopathy, etc.)? If this is not the case, it's usually MAJOR underlying insecurity that comes off as confidence...but deep down they are pretty miserable. Their egos are so fragile, they'll do anything to guard it. Being red-pilled just means that you are aware that anything in life, at anytime, can change in an instant and you acknowledge the true na…
/r/askTRP24/07/19 06:29 PM
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If you don't care about pussy, why would you be badmouthing it on the internet in the first place? I know we all seek confirmation bias on certain things, and that's where the hamstering comes in.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/19 02:07 PM
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Because the man doesn't care about getting pussy? Sounds like male hamstering to me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/19 01:40 PM
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It was a shitty joke. But there are plenty of men out there who are going shooting on the regular, while also getting their dick wet at a price way lower than a box of ammo. Free in fact. why not both?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/19 01:06 PM
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Good luck out there champ!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/19 11:34 AM
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Dude life is about taking risks. You know you want pussy(doesn’t mean you need to commit to anyone), and to deny that is just male hamstering to keep your ego at bay and to build a safety net for your fragile psyche in case something doesn’t go exactly your way. I wouldn’t visit fucking Syria or the Middle East because there’s probably hundreds of better, safer alternatives to accomplish the same goal. Same with women. If you know you want something, don’t lie to yourself just because you can’t …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/19 10:40 AM
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You're using the wrong gun dude. Dissolve that ego and go get some pussy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/19 09:08 PM
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Right? Why you gonna let your ego get in the way of a good time and life experience? If you walk around expecting the absolute worst from every single woman, your ego is fragile and you wreak of insecurity.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/19 09:07 PM
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How does this effect you in any way? You don’t own her, hence the word “plate”.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:20 PM
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You are the master of your own domain, why let this one person rule over your entire conscience? It literally takes zero skill and effort for a chick to sleep around, why should you be worried about the decisions she makes? Her thoughts have no bearing on you and amount to nothing. You're letting this chick dictate how you feel about yourself. If she cheats, you move on. You should just see her as disposable utility if that happens. She provided you with good times and good feelings, but now she…
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:51 PM
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Think about how little you look while she’s staring you down from the pedestal you put her on.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 01:20 PM
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Phenibut or Kratom are pretty low risk, high-ish reward substances, if you don't want to interrupt your eating habits.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 08:38 PM
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I totally agree and that's how I would react personally, but I think with a death there's some slight wiggle room there. Men shouldn't be shamed for needing consoling when it comes to losing a closed loved one.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 08:30 PM
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I mostly agree with you, but in the same breath you're preaching this to unstable individuals who may need an outlet to grieve. This is not good concrete advice for losing a close loved one. If your girlfriend breaks up with you, sure. But trying to force this unrealistic stone-face approach is NOT for everyone when it comes to something tragic. Leaving shit bottled up is just not healthy for some people, no matter how redpilled you THINK you are. It's better for harm reduction to not try and ac…
/r/askTRP29/03/19 08:17 PM
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1000%^ Being redpilled means being outcome independent, if you want to express emotion or not, that's your choice. But worrying about your girl leaving you because of your reaction to some SERIOUS shit, is really some of the most backwards "alpha" shit I've ever come across. It's definitely real, but as you said, she's doing you an utmost favor. That being said, you can expect feelings to change if you hysterically cry for a whole week about your dead dog.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 06:28 PM
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Many people's endgoal with TRP is to protect their fragile ego at all costs. Not all, but many.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 03:43 PM
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That sub and the Petersens made me question EVERY fucking thing regarding health, even more so than I already did. I actually put more weight in anecdotes than “science” now. What crazy world are we actually living in? There is no absolute truth to anything. I’m starting to feel like Roddy Piper in “They Live”. Propaganda is run amok.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 11:43 AM
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I try a lot of things but never follow through if I feel like I’m not going to be great at it. But you’re probably right somewhat, I don’t like to fail either.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 08:02 PM
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Sous Vide Cooker for cooking my steaks and other protein. You won't eat a better steak and it's so easy.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 09:50 PM
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If you can orchestrate your offspring to do that, go right ahead. I'd start by getting off reddit though. But still that has nothing to do with your genes directly. That's why you see parents who have both beautiful and ugly kids, smart/dumb, healthy/unhealthy, etc. They call it the genetic lottery for a reason.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/19 02:53 PM
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When the Earth is a burning pile of ash, your "genetic material" won't mean shit. NOTHING. Your genes aren't that important. If they were, you'd be knocking up every chick you could. I'm not bashing having kids, but having them just to pass on your genes is just a form of validation seeking from your elders. We're not cavemen anymore. More humans =/= better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/19 02:00 PM
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I think your mission should be to obtain whatever gives you a hard-earned sustainable dopamine release. That's what true happiness is IMO. Nobody can tell you what that goal is, but you also have to balance it with survival and general well-being. Don't settle for cheap thrills, and don't feel inclined to do something that would impress your peers, because that's just living for the wrong reason and is a form of validation seeking. Your actions should incite a feeling of self-accomplishment, alo…
/r/askTRP08/02/19 02:09 PM
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Good luck getting over your oneitis then lol. The only real remedy is no contact.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 02:26 PM
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Ignore her and game other chicks, pretty entry level stuff here. You’ll just look pathetic to her if you try to maintain a friendship with her after she rejected you.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 04:41 AM
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When in doubt, GHOST. Casper that bitch
/r/askTRP16/01/19 12:40 PM
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That how she feels right now, so thats all that matters. The awalt stuff is innate, and doesn't come out until nature presents it at the appropriate time. You should probably stop worrying about it, and her "lying". You're just making it worse tbh.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 04:28 PM
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Not really, it just made me obsessed with myself and being invulnerable. I think my ego prefers that to being blissfully ignorant though.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 03:59 PM
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I was wondering if it was depression, or just wisdom. Feels like a mixture of both. I always valued close relationships but now it seems so hard to maintain those.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 04:48 PM
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"By the end of the night shes leaning on me, calling me her boyfriend etc" This is a bit concerning as well. Unless it's just drunk talk.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 04:28 PM
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I think the hardest part of the pill for men to swallow is that they will never be able to relax, at least until you're dead. There is no finish line, and you will not be rewarded for doing everything the "right way". You were born to struggle, that's what being a man is. You can't plateau and expect to find happiness, especially with women. Our work is never done. That's why unconditional love is such bullshit.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 02:28 PM
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feel the exact same way after doing IT for 10 years. It's so unfulfilling and feels so lowly. You feel like everybody's little bitch boy at their diposal. Get into development or some kind of analytics, or get educated in something entirely different.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 10:45 PM
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Definitely inspirational and unbelievably driven, to a fault. I wouldn't be surprised if his body gives out at any time based on the stories he's told if he keeps up the same shit he's been doing.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:07 PM
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Maybe you just hate people in general, that seems to be my problem. I have to put on a big act a lot of the time, aside from the very few genuine friends I appreciate.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 02:56 PM
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Your first paragraph needs to be acknowledged more. TRP instills doubt in you about others, which is the key to self improvement. Even if it is slightly exaggerated, it gets the point across.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 12:31 PM
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Overall, TRP is a safety net that errs on the side of caution. This type of extremist approach is to combat the blue pill tendencies that most guys still cling to, even after being redpilled. Most girls are not worth a LTR, but like others in here said, there's always exceptions and when it's all said and done, you might find someone who was worthwhile and resulted in a "net gain" to your life. Regardless, you WILL deal with shit no matter who it is, to varying degrees. The LTR-worthy woman most…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 03:24 PM
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Kratom, trust me
/r/askTRP10/11/18 04:10 AM
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100%. Most of those people channel the anger from their shortcomings and disappointments with themselves through TRP and project it onto everything else, especially women. I think that goes against what TRP advocates. Take accountability for yourself and what you’re doing wrong.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 11:52 PM
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Projection is casting out and making accusations of your own insecurities and flaws onto others, in an attempt to make you feel better about your shortcomings or to shift guilt. It's a form of acting out.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 01:37 PM
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She's also looking for cocaine...so probably needs money to fund her coke habit. She's a real winner ay
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:40 PM
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yeah I think I was taking too high of a dose of Moda. It made me a bit lethargic after a few hours. Phenibut was pretty enjoyable, and relaxing but it had diminishing returns to take even weekly (and the addictive properties)
/r/askTRP31/10/18 11:59 AM
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Basically a waste of time unless you’re taking modafanil or phenibut IMO. Maybe I was just a non-responder but finding a noot that works for you is a huge money pit and probably not worth it.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 10:46 AM
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Stop using Snapchat
/r/askTRP26/10/18 06:51 PM
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I'm working on eating as clean as possible and exercising to reduce my inflammation. I would start with that if you're not already.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 02:18 PM
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I have a very similar experience. This might sound farfetched and don't take it as fact, but a theory. I think your mindset switches back and forth depending on serotonin and other neurotransmitter levels. I deal with pretty significant chronic physical pain, that gives me headaches and very high levels of systemic inflammation. When I'm having a bad day and in a considerate amount of pain, I hear the first voice you described in my head. Almost to a T. When I'm pain free(rarely) or take pain ki…
/r/askTRP25/10/18 02:13 PM
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Limit instant gratification and focus on delayed, fulfilling gratification. Get off the internet firstly.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 02:46 PM
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Dude I have a solution to your PE problem: Kratom Seriously try it.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 12:50 PM
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Sounds like you want to use TRP to achieve your blue pill goals. If you can deal with the fallout, go right ahead. You won't know until it happens though. It's counterproductive in the grand scheme of things.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 01:40 PM
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Good point! I also see these friendships fading over time naturally due to age, we already spend less time hanging out than ever before. Hopefully that will never happen completely, but you're right, its probably best to oblige if I want to hold on to these connections.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 04:20 PM
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It's strictly about money. I don't exactly make enough to throw $200 around every other month, especially just to go be "the life of the party". I don't even drink and am on a very restricted diet so I can't even enjoy the party favors.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:32 PM
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blueskypeptides
/r/askTRP17/10/18 01:45 PM
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😂
/r/askTRP17/10/18 12:24 PM
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Never add a chick on Snapchat or Instagram until you've smashed.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 09:03 PM
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"How can I tell her that hair around the belly button is acceptable only for men?" wot.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 02:22 PM
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Somebody posts on /r/truerateme haha
/r/askTRP10/10/18 01:27 PM
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The internet and cell phones have dissolved any substance in which a girl(or even most guys) may hold. You’re either a part of the societal decline or you’re completely out of the loop. Take your pick. 99% of girls don’t have the wherewithal to define themselves, they need to others to do it for them and provide them the validation needed to feel good about themselves. It’s honestly a fucking pandemic but we are in too deep. You better adapt or you’re going to find out the hard way.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 12:25 AM
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I see you graduated from Stony Brook University and are enlightened. Cheers brother!
/r/askTRP28/09/18 12:21 PM
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If you feel strange and creepy on the inside, people will pick up on those vibes on a subconscious level. You're reflecting those insecurities in your words and actions. It doesn't help if you have an unfortunate face either. You should meditate and honestly practice the "fake it til you make it" mindset. You have to believe you are the shit, and basically not give a fuck. Your game and general interaction should improve, but it may take a while to internalize those beliefs. Let go of your ego f…
/r/askTRP27/09/18 02:36 PM
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You say you don’t care now, but as soon as you move in together and shit hits the fan one way or another, you’re going to have instant regret. The worst possible thing is you get overly invested without even realizing it, then you find out she’s cheating or does something crazy and you’re stuck there with her(at least for a little while). This will fuck with your psyche and pride more than you think. You start questioning your decision-making ability after noticing the red flags but proceeding a…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 08:44 AM
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Just assume it's over 9000, because you will never really know anyway. Remember to always multiply by at least 3 with whatever number they give you.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:31 PM
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What's the best way to address her engaging in betafying behavior without being too drastic?
/r/askTRP25/09/18 05:00 PM
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Most dudes are just as basic as the girls they chase on those platforms
/r/askTRP24/09/18 12:53 PM
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There's a big factor of FOMO with not having social media. As you said, it's so ingrained in the culture, it's a big handicap not to have it if you want to be in the know about things. Or you can just check Reddit. At least its anonymous(as you want it to be) and it's not tied up in social acceptance as much, aside from karma whoring which is just as pathetic as any other form of validation seeking.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 12:49 PM
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Very well put. So in other words, there shouldn't be a verbal agreement that takes place at any point in time that verifies commitment? It's just assumed after a period of time and amount of investment?
/r/askTRP21/09/18 08:38 PM
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Your edit is essentially what I'm trying to come to terms with. Is there a reason you didn't dump her for those AWALT actions? To use some logic spewed around here, you're a beta cuck for not nexting her. And definitely not red pilled. There seems to be a black and white view of that in this community. There's not much in between. Either you're Chad or you're a beta pushover with no abundance. Is that to create a safety net so nobody gets burned in the long run? But you still perceived value in …
/r/askTRP21/09/18 06:32 PM
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Committing or engaging would have been a better word choice instead of pursuing. My bad.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 06:19 PM
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That's a healthy way of looking at it for sure. But where do you draw the line at disrespect when you know women will do what they do(eventually)? Do you drop them at the first mis-step? Since most guys come from beta beginnings here, it seems logical to prove themselves worthy by not tolerating even the most minor act of misbehavior, but you saw it coming because AWALT. That's a common attitude I see here often. You basically just put up with them until they start doing what they're wired to do…
/r/askTRP21/09/18 05:02 PM
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I'm starting to realize that more and more. There is no definitive red-pill way of handling certain situations.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 04:48 PM
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That's the best way to look at it I suppose. It seems as if most folks on TRP tend to refrain from relationships altogether to prevent those possibilities from ever happening. Maybe in an attempt to protect their ego. Nobody wants to be played.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 04:47 PM
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Women are the gatekeepers of the relationship I've read the exact opposite hundreds of times before on TRP.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:27 PM
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I mean you have to pursue it enough to accept it eventually. It doesn't just happen.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:19 PM
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which is?
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:18 PM
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What's the link between Wellbutrin and amphetamines? Just curious, because I tried it years ago and it made me so anxious and wired(not in a good way).
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 02:28 PM
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Yeah it's almost like if you go looking for it, you're gonna find it. A self-fulfilling prophecy. It's what helped me not be so paranoid. Fate has a puzzling way of playing out over your emotions. It's best to not tempt it.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:56 PM
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Very solid advice. Start spinning other plates just in case. I’m not saying to cheat or be disloyal but slowly start spinning plates. You will be glad you did when it’s time to soft/hard next her. Hopefully it doesn’t come to that as I am sure you care about this LTR, but realize there’s nothing you can do except for have a contingency plan. That's probably the most conflicting thing with LTRs. You have to stay on top, and it seems like spinning plates is the only way to ensure you don't get cuc…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:44 PM
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I think engaging in commitment and LTRs requires swallowing a bit of your pride. It's almost like owning a pet. Sure the dog is fun and loving 95% of the time, but at some point it's going to shit on your floor or chew up your shoes, and there's nothing you can do to stop it because it's in their nature. And you know that. You must sacrifice your ability to be unscathed by such possibilities in order to experience the good. It's a tradeoff. I personally think the hardest part about LTRs is knowi…
/r/askTRP15/09/18 04:22 PM
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A majority of therapists are blue-pilled af. As a red pill messiah, I figured you would know that.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:39 AM
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Man tbh, I feel like I have a mental illness. Why else would you be on asktrp?
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:31 AM
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What helps me is realizing everything in life is transactional. What you give to others is an attempt to get something of equal or greater value in return. You have to balance that out with women especially and keep an even playing field. Stay on top in the power struggle. If you can detach your utmost desire for those feelings and realize they aren't permanent or unconditional, you can still "love" but not be overwhelmed by it. Avoid the oneitis. The love you receive from your mother will never…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 01:34 PM
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I care more about her true intentions than the pictures literally being on the internet I mean.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 09:14 PM
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I think you're right bro. Aren't they all though? I'm convinced the only way to avoid that pit is to avoid LTR's altogether.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 08:48 PM
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I tend to believe that the more I think about particular situation, the better prepared I will be when I consider all the possible outcomes and mull them over in my head. This just creates unnecessary suffering as you said, but I catch myself doing it subconsciously all the time.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 07:31 PM
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When you say ignore, does that typically mean radio silence, or just being short and uninterested for a while. What's the best way to put that into practice? How long, etc.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 07:11 PM
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I doubt the substances themselves caused the anxiety, as they both are being used and studied for treatment of anxiety and PTSD(albeit in smaller doses and less frequently). However, there's a possibility you experienced a realization that changed your thought patterns and outlook on life while tripping. I think this may be a case of correlation =/= causality. I also thought I lost my mind on shrooms one time. Words were coming to my mind but I couldn't form coherent thoughts or sentences. It wa…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:01 PM
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I'm in the same boat. I tend to go into the anger phase when this happens and it sorta helps. Its like your subconscious is still seeing shades of blue.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 01:09 PM
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I find it's helpful to talk to people in a louder, commanding voice and make eye contact. Don't stare at the ground or look aloof. Also, this is a big one, INTERRUPT people. Don't be that guy that sits there waiting his turn to get a word in. You have something to say, so fucking say it. Talk louder than the other people. It may seem rude at first, but fuck it, everyone else is doing it. It'll take some getting used to. Courtesy doesn't get you very far with most people. Obviously gauge the crow…
/r/askTRP31/08/18 12:50 PM
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Sounds like you have a hard time associating with people you can't connect with on a certain level. I tend to have this problem with guys and girls, because I carefully choose who I spend time with. I imagine you have trust issues, and can't fathom the idea of using someone strictly as a utility or being used yourself.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:22 PM
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"Yeah I'm on Boost Mobile and get free nights and weekends so hmu girl"
/r/askTRP28/08/18 01:44 AM
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The internet gave people the opportunity to identify and label a temporary issue they are having and claim victimhood, instead of facing the problem head-on and dealing with it. Why would you want to put in effort to improve yourself when you have a scapegoat for all of your behaviors and actions?
/r/askTRP27/08/18 02:28 PM
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In the same boat. I feel like you're admitting to the fact that you will never be in a LTR then(like me)...it's that rare. Unless you're aiming WAY down the SMV ladder. If you find that the social media aspect is the ONLY red flag with a particular chick, would you ever be able to look past it and try a LTR? Assuming it's not near nude and slutty pics?
/r/askTRP24/08/18 03:09 PM
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It's random selfies mostly and lame Facebook memes. Like "hurr durr I'm a zombie until i have my coffee in the morning XD"
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:38 PM
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Posting very frequently. If you see that a girl posts once or twice a week you can just tell she’s craving validation. This is the thing that concerns me most.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:34 PM
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200-300 but a lot of posts
/r/askTRP23/08/18 10:12 PM
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Hell yeah I love that band dude. When the Kite String Pops is probably my favorite metal album of all time. I would like to think that is true, but it seems like the hot ones simply can't help it. I know they are biologically wired to be attention seekers.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 10:01 PM
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I feel like I'm at that crossroads on whether I'll ever be comfortable in a LTR haha. btw is your username referencing the metal band, Acid Bath?
/r/askTRP23/08/18 09:51 PM
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Aloha Fucks Hello fucks!
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:49 PM
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They call it The Red Pill for a reason. It's the equivalent of taking off the rose tinted glasses that most people are conditioned to. You can still be a "good person" with a healthy outlook but recognize the deep rooted motives of those around you and how life really operates. What you choose to do with those realizations is up to you. That is wisdom.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:16 PM
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Yeah most responses here jump to the worst conclusion possible. Maybe they're right and she was getting filled with numerous dicks but that's sorta irrelevant. You shouldn't live in fear and doubt to protect your ego at the slightest miscommunication. If you find out she's cheated, dump her and move on. If you don't like living with the uncertainty and your gut tells you something is wrong, then maybe an LTR isn't ideal for you. Outcome independence and less investment makes this worry and conce…
/r/askTRP19/08/18 07:04 PM
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I guess the difference lies in how often they cheat, right? Or how how many tingles it takes to push them over the edge. Or if they go out actively seeking to cheat. I know at the right place and time, it will happen regardless.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 12:05 AM
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I often wonder how overstated things are in TRP, I know it's to drive the point home but just how accurate is AWALT? Like out of 10 women, how many of them actually are cheaters or compulsive liars in reality? I know there's no way to tell but it's interesting to think about and I realize it's high enough to where you never give them the benefit of doubt.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 11:47 PM
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lol I've always wondered if this actually worked, and if it came off as legit. Did she break up with you?
/r/askTRP17/08/18 11:35 PM
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What percentage of statements by women do you think are lies? Like can you really trust ANYTHING they say about themselves? It seems like everybody lies when it's convenient for them. But It's just amazing how women can rationalize their own lies to the point where they perceive it as truth.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 11:04 PM
5

Social media has ruined any semblance of loyalty that women may ever have. How many girls do you know that don't have Facebook, Snapchat, or Instagram(usually all 3)? I sure as hell can't think of any. The attention and validation they receive is almost as important to them as the oxygen they breathe. They wrap their identity up in these fucking online profiles. Even though they haven't technically cheated or acted upon their desires in your instance, they still justify their actions because rea…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 07:31 PM
1

Good point. It's not like you can change their ways anyhow but I was wondering if somehow made you more attractive or less prone to shit tests
/r/askTRP15/08/18 12:40 AM
1

Just don't trust your gut on how to spell "lose" lol
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 11:10 AM
2

If you can keep your ego in check, you can still experience the upsides of an LTR without having this irrational fear of something you can't control consume you. If she cheats, you move on. The key is to never be as invested as her, so that's easily doable. You can still connect with someone on a higher level, but just remember "true love"; the fairy tale, Disney BS is all blue pill lies. There's a reason the mantra around here is "She's not yours, it's just your turn." That is one of the toughe…
/r/askTRP10/08/18 02:04 PM
1

Why did you tell her you have secrets? Or what prompted the question?
/r/askTRP08/08/18 02:33 PM
3

Go fuck his mom? Sounds like she's just being petty and trying to get under your skin. Tell him that, she probably doesn't like this guy.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 04:09 PM
1

Before, no. Now, yes. Maybe that's the problem. I would hope my friends aren't the crab in the bucket types. They don't act that way, at least on the surface.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 02:38 PM
2

My emphasis is more on lack of "similar interest" friends and less on the LTR part. I'm just saying that would be the only benefit of an LTR to me. The bad still far outweighs the good. Everything in an LTR is short-lived anyway
/r/askTRP03/08/18 10:18 PM
0

Nothing at all. I've just always had the opportunity to go somewhere with somebody but not this year. Actually preferred it. Nobody slowed me down from doing what I wanted to do. You'd be surprised at how many people frowned on me after telling them I was vacationing alone.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 07:56 PM
6

I just went on a week long out-of-state vacation/hiking trip alone and did exactly that. It was very refreshing! I've always went to concerts by myself if I couldn't find someone to go as well. I'm slowly adjusting to the solo dolo life. It used to make me feel like a loser to do activities alone
/r/askTRP03/08/18 05:49 PM
1

¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/askTRP03/08/18 04:55 PM
1

For those guys, 99% of their friends aren't real friends, just parents of the kids in their kid's class or couple friends they hang out with as a couple. That's a depressing fact, and I see that playing out in real time.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 02:34 PM
1

You're right, maybe I need to put myself out there more and ask people to hang out. I just assume everybody is consumed in their own little world to hang out with random stranger. These are friends I've known close to 10 years or longer. They're usually down to chill, drink, play video games at their house. Getting them out of the house is a fucking chore though. I'm always wanting to go hiking, kayaking, to a show/concert, go play basketball, workout, shoot guns, etc. Admittedly, I used to be t…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 02:32 PM
1

Ideally all of my FWBs would be down to do spontaneous shit on the reg. Dating without commitment at least. I don't really want a LTR.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 01:49 PM
1

Sounds like you got served... The dance battle part in the story was so random lol
/r/askTRP03/08/18 01:38 AM
11

Please m'lady may I perform cunnilingus at your behest?
/r/askTRP28/07/18 07:03 PM
1

"yeah you have BITCH written on your forehead"
/r/askTRP27/07/18 01:51 PM
2

Same thing happened to me. What I learned was that oneitis is really just a self reflection of your own insecurities as a man. The girl in question that you have oneitis for is a mental hurdle you've created to validate yourself and to ascend to some higher pecking order. It isn't about the girl...get your priorities straight.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 12:31 PM
4

I'd rather be broke than room with a chick. Even if it was my girlfriend lol
/r/askTRP29/06/18 01:39 PM
1

Take a dose of kratom a few hours before you have sex. Seriously, you can last like a damn machine, but don't take too much or you might have trouble actually cumming. Maybe not in your case though.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 04:08 PM
1

Don't give her any closure. She's making you an orbiter and that's one of the most disgraceful things you can be as a man. You're pumping her full of validation while some other dude is pumping her snatch on a nightly basis. There is no silver lining to being friends with an ex.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 02:22 AM
2

I'm always super sarcastic with comments like that, if they're obviously not ugly or fat.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 12:36 PM
1

The tables turned once I started lifting and increased my SMV. Now she has oneitis for me after we hung out a few times months later and I don't have any of the previous feelings, which at one point completely wrecked me after she broke up with me. They were completely gone, and it felt liberating. It opened my eyes. Lesson Learned: Oneitis isn't about her, it's about you. It means you're lacking in life and you need to improve yourself. You're blinded by the validation you're receiving from you…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 12:25 PM
4

Are you asking for feedback? I've never had anyone speak to me or critique my form at the gym lol. Even as a noob. Just youtube it and make sure you feel the muscles being worked that it targets.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 07:56 PM
2

Why would your "friend" put someone else in your bed(when you're in there first)? Did she know you were seeing someone? Seems like you need to address that first.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 01:09 PM
1

I thought the same thing when I read Models, but it also makes a good point about vulnerability and being able to admit weakness and inexperience without shame in order to grow, learn, and progress(not when it comes to sex in most regards). Hopefully I'm remembering correctly
/r/askTRP01/05/18 09:15 PM
1

Dude, I feel the exact same way. I'm 28 and in 4 fucking weddings this year as a groomsman(all very close friends so it was hard to say no) and it pisses me off because I have to rent suits for all of them and I'd much rather spend that money on something else. Plus coordinating plans with them is pointless nowadays, we rarely hang out anymore or do anything memorable. I'm going on vacation this year by myself because they're too consumed with wedding planning and other bullshit. They just don't…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:22 PM
1

What helped me was realizing that your feelings of oneitis stem from validation you seek from your ex. Her getting a new boyfriend triggers feelings of doubt and insecurities you have about yourself as a man and how you compare. You don't really care about her. Address those and your oneitis will go away.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 02:51 PM
1

It's not just with actions and goals. Things actively bother me if they are flawed in some way. It bothers to the point where I have to say fuck it. Which works out good most of the time. But it's still on my mind when it shouldn't be. When I was 8, I would switch my cousins Pokémon cards with my copy that were in slightly better condition than mine just because I couldn't stand to have any smudge or bent corner. I was 8. I knew he didn't care, but it bothered me enough that I justified it. It's…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 01:31 AM
2

I listen to JRE all the time in the background. Big fan
/r/askTRP30/03/18 07:17 AM
1

That is one of the very few shows I did binge watch. My favorite
/r/askTRP30/03/18 07:16 AM
4

I do watch a fair share of Youtube, but those are short and sweet. The internet definitely plays a part.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 04:39 PM
1

I'm the exact same way. I'm one of the types that find real word shit way more intriguing than some made up fantasy story. Although I love comedies and will watch those 99% of the time over other genres.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 04:36 PM
1

I went and saw The Last Jedi in theaters in December. I walked out after an hour into it for various reasons.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 04:34 PM
6

Spot on. Even brainstorming about what you can or need to do to improve your life takes deep thought sometimes and quite a bit of time, at least for me. I used to just drown out life with TV. Admittedly, I spend a lot of time on the internet, but I'm at least gaining valuable information a majority of the time.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 04:32 PM
3

lmfao
/r/askTRP23/03/18 03:20 PM
1

Everybody has a line. Where you draw that line depends on what you're willing to tolerate. Sometimes you can't help but engage a habitual line stepper. If somebody spits in my face, we're fighting, for instance.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 07:39 PM
1

wot
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:28 PM
2

Exactly. I get discouraged when I eat junk food, or go over my calorie limit, but the next day I hit the gym hard and eat my normal allocated meals.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 02:51 PM
2

Spot on. I believe internalizing this is the foundation of the Red Pill and what leads to true contentment. This can't be stressed enough.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 10:18 PM
1

This is paramount. If you feel like you can't do better at the moment, you might be right, so hit the weights, eat clean, read TRP literature, work on your game, and up your SMV. Suddenly your oneitis will vanish. Don't waste your efforts on retaliation or one-upping this girl. There's nothing to prove anymore. Side note - fnordsnord your comments are always top notch, thanks for posting!
/r/askTRP01/03/18 05:15 PM
15

You have to realize you have this grandiose image of her in your head, but in reality that's not who she is. You merely like the idea of who you THOUGHT she was. Who gives a fuck what she thinks about you? You're actually upset at what this says about who you are as a man, and nothing about what she actually thinks about you. In other words, improve yourself and this feeling will go away. Make yourself proud of who you are.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:44 PM
1

Good call. I believe you're right. I haven't heard from her since that night(I fell asleep on her and she left), and I haven't texted her.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:37 PM
1

Most girls tell me when they're on the rag but this one didn't say anything. The comment about expecting sex sorta threw me off though
/r/askTRP14/02/18 12:38 AM
1

Well I'm not wanting an LTR in general so plate status is my goal. I actually think she's pretty cool and has a nice body.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 11:33 PM
1

Good advice. I'm improving when it comes to abundance mentality, but I find myself going a little too far to get some tail. I feel like my current SMV is hindering me somewhat, but I'm definitely working on that with lifting and clean diet.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 10:29 PM
1

That crossed my mind. But yesterday she said she was interested and wanted to keep hanging out because I'm "mysterious". Is that a good thing or am I showing too much investment?
/r/askTRP13/02/18 09:02 PM
1

It's weird because she doesn't seem real attached most of the time. She doesn't text much at all. I was actually surprised she cooked such a big meal. She said yesterday she wanted to keep hanging out because I'm a "mystery" lol. But I was wondering if it was she was testing or if she was on her period or something. You're most likely correct.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 09:00 PM
1

I noticed this myself yesterday when I started the book. I was wondering the same thing.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:18 PM
1

We're all dopamine(and other neurotransmitters) fiends but I think your level of discipline is what separates you from the hivemind. If you can create healthy outlets of dopamine, such as accomplishing goals, being creative, and improving yourself, that is what makes you better than 90% of people. Why would you want to work hard when cheap doses of dopamine are right at your fingertips?
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 04:05 PM
1

I think the key for people with lower than optimal SMV is to bluff with blue pill traits and then incorporate TRP game after your first lay. Take them on the roller coaster ride they yearn for.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 02:01 AM
1

I'm having the EXACT same experience man. I seemed to get more dates and interest when I was texting up a storm in my blue pill days. I personally think the texting for logistics only works if your SMV is relatively high. I'm not saying it's a bad strategy, but if you're not in the upper echelons, you're disposable to these chicks. You've got to realize how many options they have. I could be totally wrong, but if you're just a face to them before you meet up, it doesn't help you stick out. But t…
/r/askTRP29/01/18 08:51 PM
1

How common is this petty leeching bullshit?
/r/askTRP28/01/18 02:29 PM
3

You were right. Just last year, I probably would have caved and bought everything in an attempt to get laid. Feels good sticking to my guns
/r/askTRP28/01/18 02:29 PM
1

I live in the South. I've never come across this level of entitlement.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 02:25 PM
1

Right? Who would feel so entitled to run up a $50 dollar tab and expect a stranger to pay. That's asinine. I wouldn't have minded so much if it was just a drink or two(still don't agree with that though). I'm sure the night would have ended in sex if I payed, but I don't do handouts anymore.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 03:28 PM
1

Damn dude that's not what I want to happen at all. It's like my mom wants me to be one of her girlfriends that talk shit about him and validate her hatred of him. I'm the last person that needs to do that.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 10:27 PM
1

Oh yeah they're both stubborn as hell and grew up in broken homes. I had a great childhood but now I'm finally seeing the error in the way they were raised.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 10:23 PM
3

Dude are you me? I seriously juggled the thought of becoming a park ranger here recently haha. But I can definitely vouch for everything you said. My current gig is a small shop with just the boss and myself(I'm helpdesk, and also do sysadmin projects, a little bit of everything). I actually have the keys to every server, switch, and admin accounts, believe it or not. Admittedly I don't know what I'm doing with a lot of it, but at the same time, I DON'T CARE to know either. It makes me feel lazy…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 02:41 PM
1

Yeah i guess my main question is are college girls easier to plate and would that be an incentive to move there along with the cheaper rent. Only downside is the drive itself really.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 10:03 PM
1

I have worked as a IT support guy for about 6-7 years now. The pay is decent but I feel like I'm at a dead end. I'm honestly burnt out on doing tech support, and sysadmin type duties. It's just fucking boring and unfulfilling to me. I'd like to get certified or focus on my skills on something more specific with technology, like something with audio/video applications. Basically not IT shit. I'm also thinking about getting a degree or education in something entirely different that pays well and d…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 07:59 PM
1

Same exact experience man. It gave me headaches and shit and felt super foggy after an hour or two when took 100mg+. Did the opposite effect for me at those doses. Maybe I'll try 25mg again soon. Also could have had a bunk batch.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 04:39 PM
1

Modafanil is the big guns here. Other nootropics didn't seem to work for me. Although Modafanil worked, it wasn't the godsend that some people claim it to be. At least for me.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 01:53 PM
1

Yeah totally except for Keep Ya Head Up. It's pretty white knight but it's mostly about his mama i guess.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 04:31 PM
1

Agreed, do not take antidepressants unless you're seriously at your wit's end. Diet and vitamins/minerals are super important when it comes to mental health and boosting neurotransmitter activity. You can't overlook diet and exercise. Your physical health and mental health often go hand in hand.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 04:17 PM
15

You're an orbiter. I've been there man. Just ghost her or make a move. There is no friend zone. She's gonna drain your life force if you continue doing what you're doing. Start reading the sidebar because you obviously haven't
/r/askTRP02/01/18 05:14 AM
1

I agree about the cheat meal, don't make that an acceptable excuse. If your will power does cave, just don't fall off the wagon completely. It's not just about getting fit, your body needs vitamins and minerals from whole foods. Cooked vegetables are very important. If people could eat just for sustenance, they would be a lot more healthier and not have so many unexplained health issues. Garbage in=garbage out. I'm not saying it's easy to do this by any means, but it should be your goal. Food is…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 05:56 PM
2

I mean this is the whole reason you're cheating in the first place, to have an abundance and a one up in case shit like this inevitably happens(even if you weren't 100% official at the time) I think you're angry because she's just confirming those insinuations, especially being a self-proclaimed incel.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 04:28 AM
1

Don't read into this. I've super liked girls by accident because I've accidentally swiped more UP than left or right. Usually happens if you're swiping quickly and do a half-ass finger motion that goes more vertical than horizontal. They're probably telling the truth in this case.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 05:27 PM
8

I was with a girl who knew what TRP is from being on reddit. She just randomly brought it up but I didn't get called out on it. I just acknowledged that I knew what it was but didn't go into details. She also mentioned MGTOW. It was kinda surreal since I had just started digging into it. Chances are if they are on reddit at all and actually read and browse it, they're aware of what TRP is to some degree.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 02:31 AM
2

It's over my dude. You handle it by cutting all contact, and finding new prospects.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 03:25 PM
1

/s
/r/askTRP21/12/17 11:03 PM
1

Go to Arby's with a friend Get a Roast Beef combo Load the horsey sauce on there. Take a snapchat pic of you and your bud laughing while holding up sandwich Caption "talking about your snatch" Eat the curly fries Send the snap Is this how A&A works?
/r/askTRP21/12/17 09:26 PM
24

She's not yours, remember that.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 08:25 PM
5

The crazy horse girl theory holds up everytime. It's tried and true.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 06:38 PM
1

I have the same problem. I generally don't like people but at the same time, I really value relationships with people that are worth it. I think you have to find a balance of how much you invest into someone but still protect yourself and manage your expectations of them. Because things can change in an instant.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 02:26 PM
1

Good point. It's definitely hard to grasp at first, as your subconscious has likely been plagued by years of toxic shame and blue pill conditioning. I think developing mantras and being able to analyze your initial thoughts go a long way in internalizing what you learn and tell yourself.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 09:30 PM
1

I totally can relate. I knew about TRP earlier this year and brushed up on it but I didn't really immerse myself into it until recently. After my previous relationship, it hurts now more than ever to know that I was acting like a bluepilled bitch most of it while being aware of TRP. But that experience has fueled and motivated me going forward to put 100% into my self improvement. I can relate to your resentment for your former self. I think that's a major thing to overcome with most people that…
/r/askTRP14/12/17 02:40 PM
1

I'm almost through with this book and I had to stop and reflect several times already myself. BP/nice guy mentality always seemed like common sense to me. But reading this book made me realize all of the subconscious motives and behaviors that I expressed to get what I wanted from people. It's just a guise. The most daunting thing is realizing you've been living a lie most of your life.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 02:25 PM
1

I always thought it'd be hilarious to somehow manipulate an average decent looking chicks social media accounts so that they can't receive likes or comments on pictures & shit they post and watch them squirm. I'm pretty sure you'd see withdrawal behavior similar to heroin. That's how ingrained the validation seeking is.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 09:44 PM
1

You bet. It sucks that you can't discuss this without repercussions but you're doing the right thing. The bottom line is nobody seriously cares what you're going through, aside from family. But they can only tolerate so much worrying and complaining after a while(not that you're doing that). It's best to keep news like this on a need-to-know basis. Do you see yourself marrying this girl? I feel you man, I've had some big time un-explainable issues that's really effected me. Real chronic physical…
/r/askTRP11/12/17 06:10 PM
1

I wouldn't advise anyone to seek a LTR if they are in any type of chronic pain they can't play off. Or any illness that seriously hinders your mood, ability to do things, or has any significant impact on your life. Women will inevitably see this as weakness, and it WILL make you feel like shit if they use it as a reason for leaving you. Especially when you just want people to understand what you're going through. I know from experience. You're already aware of that though. Don't get down on your…
/r/askTRP11/12/17 05:08 PM
1

It's really simple. Tell her your body needs plenty of rest during the week for work and you can't get that at her place.....because her bed and cats suck.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:20 PM
7

I feel the exact same way about video games and movies, even though I used to be a huge gamer. I don't know how my roommates veg out on those constantly. I start getting antsy just thinking about it. I know they think I'm weird that I don't like to watch movies during the week.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 02:12 PM
1

Keep trying, but DO NOT try to get attached to this chick if you do end up having sex. Unless you're really playing it off well, this is going to make it hard to maintain frame especially after multiple attempts. But definitely keep trying.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 03:27 PM
1

Thanks man I needed that. That's exactly whats happening to me. I'll be glad when the beta is fully exhumed from within.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 05:42 PM
1

No doubt it's true, I fully accept it. I just think it's fucked up that we have to have net mentality in the first place. Doesn't make it any less real though. Human nature is pretty fucked up so I guess I shouldn't be surprised. It just goes against the grain of what marriage has been built up to be and what I've been force fed for years.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 01:38 AM
1

This is the real answer. I've been married and with the same woman now for 10 years. The trick is to know from the beginning that she isn't yours for keeps. She'll leave eventually, and that's okay. As a TRP newcomer, the idea of having to think that way about someone you marry is so fucked up. It's honestly hard to grasp at first, but I totally agree with what you said. It's just a sobering thought.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 09:46 PM
3

So are you seeing other women too?
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 09:34 PM
2

This is so important to realize. The subconscious/unconscious mind is very powerful and you can't change it just by reading something. You have to embrace change and internalize ideas that rock your core beliefs that have been conditioned into you. Live by TRP, don't just read about it.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 04:02 PM
1

If you meet the right kind of self destructive girl with no discipline, low self esteem in the right place where you don’t get to interact with other women, where she is the hottest thing around, this will fucking happen to you. You will start thinking how lucky you are because all the other thirsty fuckers around you will be telling you that. You will get blinded by the pussy. It won’t matter how fucking strong you are. If you let your guard down, you will get fucked. slow clap Holy fucking shi…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 03:44 PM
11

This is so important. Even having this knowledge and being aware of it doesn't make it reality for you. You love yourself by being the absolute best version of you and that takes hard work. Other people will discourage you and hold you back if you let them because misery loves company. Never get complacent.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 03:02 AM
1

Don't shit where you eat ever (If you care about the job)
/r/askTRP04/12/17 02:00 AM
2

I've had some very profound psychedic experiences, both good and bad. Shrooms really put me in my place, and made me self reflect. Also had a terrifying shroom trip before. LSD really found the "love" within myself. The best trip I've ever had was with my ex on 450ug. It was unreal. I had tripped acid on many occasions before but everything was PERFECT this time. It was a day trip with the best weather and setting possible. I felt amazing, all my physical and mental pain vanished. I loved everyb…
/r/askTRP02/12/17 12:18 PM
1

I was in a relationship where the same bratty behavior was a common thing. It's fun/cute in small doses, but after a while it gets tiring and borderlines on disrespect(in certain situations like you said). It feels like constant shit testing. You may be able to stop this and recover frame, but I certainly wouldn't put up with it if you don't like it(which you clearly don't). And the fact that your reaction will be used against you when it's convenient for her. Just keep that in mind.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 06:11 PM
1

Has she acted that way before?
/r/askTRP01/12/17 03:14 PM
8

This happened to me. She was somewhat convincing and manipulative(insane). But I called her bluff by using Google reverse image search. https://support.google.com/websearch/answer/1325808?hl=en
/r/askTRP01/12/17 02:46 PM
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