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Just because you got lucky once doesn’t mean you can time the market. Since you’re such a Buffet fan why don’t you read up on what he says about market timing and how stupid it is.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/20 01:11 PM
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The next ones are going to be about the various things you can do. Looking forward to them. Loved your last two articles on endgame.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/20 07:21 AM
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This is a good one. I regret not smashing two insanely hot girls when I was in high school who showed subtle signs they were attracted to me, that I didn’t pick up on until much later.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:18 AM
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150lbs is very skinny for your height. Stop worrying about your bf% and start eating and growing.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 06:45 PM
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He’s a pretty alpha guy No he’s not. He’s a beta moron. Seems like a situation of alpha bucks. Nothing about what your friend did was alpha, stop calling him that. He’s a beta simp who let a girl move into his house right after meeting her, and refuses to believe his girl is cheating on him when all signs point to the contrary.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 02:10 PM
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Solution: vasectomy. Then fuck as much crazy as your heart desires.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 01:43 AM
1

Are you seriously a considering fucking an actress in the #metoo world we live in? Have fun ruining your career.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 04:03 AM
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If you have a decent paying job, know how to interact socially with others, and are in shape physically, I’d argue you’re maybe in the top 10% given how many fat, unemployed, socially awkward guys there are in the world today.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 05:23 AM
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“The National Academies of Sciences, Engineering, and Medicine determined that an adequate daily fluid intake is: About 15.5 cups (3.7 liters) of fluids for men About 11.5 cups (2.7 liters) of fluids a day for women.” So no, the comment above is spot on. 3-4L of fluids a day is how much we should be getting at a MINIMUM. Especially if you’re an active male who hits the gym daily or does another form of exercise.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 05:16 AM
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+1 cured my elbow tendinitis overnight
/r/askTRP02/08/20 01:35 AM
1

This guy fucks
/r/askTRP31/07/20 05:06 AM
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You should be leaving hints. I don’t tell them outright that I’m seeing other plates, but I’ll leave a pair of another girls earrings or panties lying around from time to time. Jealousy builds attraction and makes them work to please you. The last thing that you want is for a plate to think she’s your only option.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 08:49 PM
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Don’t get married Don’t get anyone pregnant Live below your means
/r/askTRP18/07/20 04:56 PM
3

Listen to me and DON’T mess around with Robinhood puts and calls. Options are a losing game if you don’t know what you’re doing, and you’ll get your face ripped off by experienced traders. Put your money in low cost index-funds instead.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 11:25 PM
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Yeah protests and riots with thousands of people standing and breathing on each other is OK, but choosing to go to a gym with capacity limits, social distancing, masks and safety protocols in place is not OK. Such a double standard. No wonder people are fleeing CA to states run by politicians who don’t treat its citizens like children.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:11 AM
2

Who gives a shit, she canceled on him.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 12:09 AM
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Zinc.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 03:54 AM
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Who gives a shit. Stop reading garbage celebrity gossip like a girl.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 03:52 AM
1

Don’t call with a girl you haven’t smashed yet. No you aren’t “in”, all you’re doing right now is providing her with free attention and validation.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 03:48 AM
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Let it ring. Unless you’re with another girl, then make the other girl pick up.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 03:45 AM
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Live below your means, save 30-40% of your income and invest it in low-cost index funds (stocks) so it compounds. With your salary you'll be a millionaire before you're 40. Don't get anyone pregnant. Don't get married.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 08:14 PM
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TRT
/r/askTRP05/07/20 01:00 PM
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Zero debt and at least enough money in the bank to cover a year’s worth of expenses, mortgage on house/apartment on its way to being paid off Climbed the ranks in your field/company so you are mid/upper level, managing several below you Slept with enough women that the number is no longer important and ONS are no longer that enjoyable Solid group of real friends who would help you out when in need Sub-12% bodyfat (visible abs) with a good amount of muscle
/r/askTRP05/07/20 04:29 AM
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It's so easy to move out if you have money and he has money. What are you trying to say? That's exactly my point.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 04:45 PM
2

Exactly. If you're on top of the world the only place you can go is down.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 04:41 PM
-1

How about you use that money to move out of your parents basement and rent your own place, so you don't end up as a 30 year old living with mommy.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 04:14 PM
2

You flaked on her so she found another guy to fuck in the hotel. Now she’s fucking him so she doesn’t want to fuck you anymore. Do the same as she did and find someone else.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 02:09 PM
1

Which country did you live in?
/r/askTRP30/03/20 03:28 PM
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You’re spot on. I have had a couple of broken plates and my ex-gf come out of the woodwork the past week seeking comfort and resources. They aren’t getting any from me. This is a time to be taking care of family and those we really care about.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 03:41 AM
2

Stop caring what others think. It’s not putting her on the spot if you’ve been talking to her for a while and it’s clear she likes you. “We should grab coffee sometime, what’s your number?”
/r/askTRP07/02/20 03:13 PM
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That’s where I got all my plates. I don’t like bars and clubs.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 02:31 PM
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I’ll give you a few examples. My morning routine involves getting coffee before work. I talk to any attractive girls I see in line. Then I get on the train to work. If there’s a cute girl with an open seat next to her, I sit next to her and ask her how her morning is going. After work, I go to the grocery store and strike up a conversation with the hot girl in the fruit section. I’m never going out of my way to meet anyone, I’m a busy man like you.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 04:55 AM
1

Better would have been “thanks, I know you liked it”
/r/askTRP06/02/20 04:41 AM
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Mall, coffee shop, train, street, girls are everywhere. Just go about your life and talk to ones you come across. If there aren’t any in your suburb, then go to the city.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 04:41 AM
1

Asking for nudes usually isn’t a good idea. The treatment plan line was stupid.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 04:39 AM
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To get them to meet you, tell them you’re just having one or two drinks so driving home isn’t a problem. Once they’re out with you and you’ve had a few and hit it off, say “No I’m not letting you drive home, you’re coming to my place to sober up first.”
/r/askTRP06/02/20 04:36 AM
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My go to is one drink at a bar, then I tell them about my wine collection back at my place a block away. We usually don’t even end up drinking the wine.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 04:09 AM
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Why do you give a fuck if you’ve already dumped her? Stop replying, block her if you have to, and move on.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 04:07 AM
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From an evolutionary psychology perspective, celebrities represent the alpha males of the tribes we lived in as we evolved as species. If the alpha/leader died, survival of all tribe members was threatened since the alphas provided protection and resources.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 06:01 AM
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Leaving a piece of another women’s clothing on the floor or a pair of earrings on the bedside table in plain sight.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 05:59 PM
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Start with cleaning your room.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 01:04 AM
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You’re too late to the game. Just embrace being off soul sucking social media and not being a slave to your smartphone.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 08:19 PM
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Yes a gym is worth it. Start squatting.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 01:59 AM
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You sound like a girl. Stop being jealous of your sister and focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 01:46 PM
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Just don’t reply to her that often and she’ll get the message. If she bothers you about it, say you’re busy.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 01:40 AM
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Ok I’m waiting
/r/askTRP22/12/19 12:35 AM
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Frame has nothing to do with wealth. There’s plenty of broke dudes with iron frame, and plenty of wealthy guys with zero frame. I’m not going to explain frame to you, go read the sidebar material. If you’re wondering how to properly act around rich girls, tease her playfully about being a trust fund baby, and play up how you actually have to work hard for your current lifestyle.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 04:29 AM
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Unless you’re a quadriplegic who can’t move, there’s no injury that will prevent you from exercising entirely. Stop being a pussy, and work around your injury.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 08:41 PM
1

Tell us your total test AND free test results (with ranges) and what time of day they were taken, and then we can tell you if they’re good or not.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:44 PM
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What the fuck did I just read. I suggest next time you have condoms and smash her. And stop jerking off so much so you can actually get hard next time pussy falls in your lap.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:24 PM
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Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 09:31 PM
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Yeah taking advice from a blue-pulled 54 year old is a great idea.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:29 PM
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That was a comfort test, and the husband passed. An easier option would have been telling her to be quiet and fucking her.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:07 PM
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No, they aren’t going to think you’re autistic if you describe your job, they’re going to think you’re intelligent. Girls are attracted to intelligence. So don’t worry about it.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:04 PM
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What are you afraid of? That she will leave you if you make her pay? If she does leave then that proves she’s a materialistic, gold digging whore who didn’t give a shit about you and was just enjoying the free meals, so you’ll be doing yourself a favor.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 03:23 PM
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Sounds like you should move.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 06:54 PM
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Good. I hate try hard PUAs.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 03:43 PM
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That was actually funny. I might use that one in the future.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 06:53 PM
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How old are you? Do you have kids from your past marriage? What specifically led to your career falling apart?
/r/askTRP12/10/19 06:46 PM
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Stop thinking with your dick and start thinking with your brain.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 06:26 PM
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She’s a club slut, what do you expect?
/r/askTRP12/10/19 02:50 AM
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Last time I went to Vegas I got head from a girl who was engaged, because in her mind giving me a bj wasn’t cheating on her soon-to-be husband, but sex was.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 05:05 PM
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Great reply, thanks I needed this. Shame it’s buried deep in the comments after a heavily downvoted troll.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/19 06:55 PM
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Thanks, yes I’m fully aware. But wearing the glasses blocks out 100% of the blue light - these filters just shift the majority towards red but there’s still a decent amount of blue light. Also, any lights on in your room produce blue light.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/19 03:11 PM
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The one trick you didn’t mention that has done wonders for my sleep is putting on a pair of blue light blocking glasses a few hours before bed. You can grab a cheap pair on Amazon. I work a demanding job that usually requires doing work on the computer at night, and these prevent the blue light from my computer/phone messing up my sleep.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/19 02:08 PM
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Brainwashed at a young age by their teachers in school, parents at home and the politically correct media.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 01:02 AM
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Thanks for the daily reminder to never get engaged.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 12:44 AM
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She’s looking to branch swing from her current boyfriend into a new relationship with you. Why the fuck are you even considering a relationship with a post-wall cheating whore who films herself having sex online? If you really want to keep seeing her make it clear sex is the only thing that’s on the table.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 12:41 AM
1

Defend yourself all you want, all I’m saying is a skinny late-20s guy making 60k in a dead-end remote job isn’t “high value”. You asked for my opinion, take my advice or don’t.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 08:49 PM
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Get a better job. You aren’t pushing yourself if you work a remote job that doesn’t promote you or have room for career progression. Do you really want to still be making the same salary 3 years from now? Eat more and lift. 175 is skinny at 6 feet.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 01:31 PM
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Dude you post here every fucking day with the same stupid question. Do whatever the fuck you want to do.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 02:07 AM
14

You’re considering getting back with your ex who meetooed you and put you in jail? What the fuck is wrong with you?
/r/askTRP02/10/19 02:04 AM
3

Yeah it’s shocking to me how many girls I meet for the first time will try to jump on top and slip it in raw. Maybe it’s their reproductive instincts taking over and rational thinking goes out the window.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 10:41 PM
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“It’s complicated” = “I’m single for the right guy”
/r/askTRP28/09/19 10:16 PM
5

If you have an addiction to porn, it’s important. If you don’t, then it’s not.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 05:35 AM
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Came to post this. If you have a solid plate rotation, porn is never on your mind.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 05:34 AM
14

I was like you in high school, now in my 30s and have lost touch with all but one of my high school friends, you probably will too. As time goes by, everyone gets busy with life, and you’ll realize you don’t have anything in common with the guys you smoked weed and played video games with when you were 16. Don’t worry about it, and make new friends with people in your current life. Might be hard right now, but when you leave your state and find a new job, it’ll be much easier.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 05:16 AM
3

No don’t confront her. You’ll come off as needy, low value, your whole life revolving around her. If she’s slow, then be slower. Im a horribly slow texter because I’m off my phone for the majority of the day and busy with work. So should you,
/r/askTRP28/09/19 03:00 AM
7

Either: 1) You watch too much porn and masturbate too much. 2) You’re gay and don’t know it yet.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 02:58 PM
15

Most likely she knows you’re flirting with her so she’s subtly rejecting you by bringing up her bf/husband. Could also be a shit test, to see how you react. Best response is ignoring and proceeding as normal, as if the husband doesn’t exist. In my experience, if a girl is attracted to you and wants to sleep with you, she never mentions her S/O or husband and I’ll find out about it afterwards.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 02:49 PM
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And if you don’t move around, you will miss out on loads of cashola. This is so true, especially if you work in tech or any field where companies are growing quickly and trying to staff up. I changed jobs four times in my 20s, each time for a 10-20% increase in pay, and sometimes a bump in title/responsibility. It works the best if you know how to negotiate, and make it clear to the new employer that you are happy where you are and will only leave if their offer is sweet enough.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 04:47 AM
2

Don’t LTR a prostitute.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 07:40 PM
2

How much cardio are you doing? I’m an inch taller, 185 lbs and I grow on 3000/day. I’d be getting fat on 3.5k.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 07:34 PM
1

Name checks out
/r/askTRP21/09/19 09:19 PM
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“None, I’m a virgin”
/r/askTRP20/09/19 11:08 PM
2

You’re preaching to the choir here
/r/askTRP19/09/19 07:54 PM
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Completely depends on the situation. If you’re at a country bar, the guy playing the guitar on stage is the local alpha. If you’re at a bar in NYC, then it’s the investment banker with a sweet apartment. If you’re on a remote Caribbean island, then it’s the tattooed surfer with long hair who owns the bar. See where I’m going with this?
/r/askTRP17/09/19 10:06 PM
1

The one time this happened to me was in Vegas. After she blew me and swallowed my load she admitted she has a fiancé back home and a BJ wasn’t cheating in her mind. This was before I was red pilled so at the time it was a valuable lesson.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 04:33 AM
4

Remind yourself that plates are a warm hole/cum dumpster for your dick.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 11:08 PM
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There’s a large amount of girls on these apps, especially if their age is 18, who are using them for validation/entertainment with their friends. Good job getting to the point quickly. If she doesn’t give out her number then move on. That’s how you make your time on these apps efficient.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:35 PM
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How the fuck does this have anything to do with what OP is asking for, which is regrets of your 20s? “Nutting in dimes” - you sound like a kid who is still in high-school and just got his first lay. I don’t think me or anyone here is advocating MGTOW, just highlighting there’s more to life than chasing girls.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 12:03 AM
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This isn’t advice. This was a response to a question asking your biggest regrets in your 20s. After you’ve slept with enough women you realize there’s more to life then “nutting in dimes” which isn’t a hobby to begin with. You’re an idiot if you thought my post was MGTOW. My point was there’s a balance and I regret spending all my time chasing women. There’s balance to everything in life.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 03:38 PM
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You say you can’t afford a cycle but you want to waste money on bullshit supplements that barely boost test? Save your money.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 04:25 AM
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Post pics of your neck gains
/r/askTRP15/09/19 02:42 AM
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Build a tiny house? Seriously? Clown advice.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 02:35 AM
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1) Spent less time staying out late chasing girls, and more time investing in my career and hobbies. I fucked over 50 girls in my 20s but all I have to show for it is hazy drunken memories, wasted time and less money. 2) Took more career risks, switched careers sooner and kept building my professional network. 3) Spent my money on experiences not things. Things come and go but memories last forever. I wish I had used my vacation time to travel the world - I’m making up for this now in my 30s. 4)…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 10:52 PM
2

Your situation is a great example for everyone on here of what NOT to do: made a post-wall club slut who you work with your girlfriend, pay her bills, salary and sponsor her visa while she provides nothing of value but pussy and cooking, and of course she doesn’t give a shit about you and is handing out her numbers to random guys because you have zero frame and are her beta provider. What a disaster. As for your question, you know what you have to do. Grow some balls for once in your life and do…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 10:37 PM
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This is probably isn’t the advice you want to hear but if you follow it you will get out of your current situation: 1) GET A JOB, any job. Most people are unemployed because they refuse to do jobs that they feel are beneath them (dishwasher, retail job, waiter, etc). It doesn’t matter what the job is, do something. No job is beneath you. 2) With your newfound stream of income, MOVE OUT ASAP. This will force you to be independent and take responsibility for yourself instead of being reliant on yo…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 10:02 PM
2

Clubs are a waste of time and money if your objective is to get laid. All the attractive girls get pulled into the tables where morons spend thousands on a few bottles of grey goose to yell at hot girls over loud music. Nobody is getting laid, they’re a fucking scam. Stick with bars and lounges where you can actually talk to girls, don’t drink too much, don’t stay out until 2am, nothing good happens after midnight. If you can’t get a girl to leave with you before midnight then hang it up, get so…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 02:28 PM
0

I support the porn industry, the more porn addicts the better. More pussy for guys like me who don’t watch porn.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:08 AM
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had a girl be disowned by parents, a suicide attempt with another when I broke it off, claims that I’m their soulmate, etc. Jesus man, sounds like you attracted some crazies!
/r/askTRP13/09/19 12:37 AM
1

My girlfriend is your height and almost weighs as much as you, and no she’s not fat. You should be bulking until you’re at least 180. That’s 30 fucking pounds from where you are today.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:22 AM
2

Yes, maybe for a while, but long-term happy marriages are rare given 1) the divorce rate of >50% and 2) the number of guys stuck in horrible marriages who decide not to get divorced for a number of reasons. There’s no answer to your second question. The woman you marry will change in many ways you can’t possibly predict as you grow older. Dread game only works to a certain extent. At the end of the day you are playing russian roulette with the odds heavily stacked against you, hoping you don’t s…
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:12 AM
3

This should never happen. If you properly apply dread, they will be constantly striving to improve themselves. Because if they don’t, they know you have other options, and they’re getting dumped.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 03:27 AM
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You don’t get it. Women don’t care about average dudes. That’s the answer to your question. They are out of touch because they simply don’t give a shit. All of their focus is on above average guys who have options because they are above average. That’s why the fat girl or your friend in your original post are out of touch with the experiences of average men.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 04:30 AM
2

She’s not yours, it’s just your turn. She’s not yours, it’s just your turn... Once you internalize this, it no longer should surprise you. It’s a matter of not if but when.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 08:13 PM
1

When did you get one? I’m close to your age and highly considering one myself. Too many crazy plates and afraid of knocking one up.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 08:07 PM
1

Some health insurance, like mine, don’t cover vasectomies because it’s considered elective surgery (lumped in with breast implants, LASIC, etc.). So do your research OP and make sure it’s covered, otherwise it’s going to be an expensive bill.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 08:06 PM
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“Thanks”
/r/askTRP07/09/19 08:02 PM
3

The guy with earrings and every video is one big advertisement? Nah. Agree with your other advice though.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 11:23 PM
1

Training 9 times per week probably isn’t the best idea. More isn’t always better.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 08:21 PM
1

“Chase the paper not the cat”
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:20 AM
21

Ok cool, you’ve been at it for two weeks and are excited about trying something new. Let’s see if you still feel this way in a few months or a year.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 09:59 PM
8

Stop texting her and let her mind guess that you are.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 11:16 PM
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No, never directly mention you are seeing other girls. Only leave subtle signs that you are. I leave a pair of earrings on my bedside table that a now broken plate left long ago, and sometimes I ask plates I have over if they are their earrings.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 11:11 PM
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1) Invite her to your pub crawl 2) Isolate her from the group at some point by asking her to dance, go outside for a smoke, etc. 3) Escalate physically to make your intentions known (touching to kissing) 4) Bring her back to the hostel and smash Good luck
/r/askTRP20/08/19 07:50 PM
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Cringe
/r/askTRP15/08/19 03:11 PM
0

You go to jail
/r/askTRP15/08/19 02:26 PM
1

Unless you’re a powerlifter who is trying to compete, nothing wrong with strapping up for your max set. Just don’t overuse them and make sure you’re still training your grip.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 02:52 PM
5

“You just figured that out?” or “Thanks”
/r/askTRP11/08/19 05:29 PM
1

So you didn’t fuck her? What are you bragging about?
/r/askTRP11/08/19 02:07 PM
1

You didn’t read what I said. You are going to have no success with women until you fix yourself first. What girl is going to want to fuck or date a guy with depression, mental issues, no confidence and no hobbies? Focus on moving away from your abusive parents, fixing your depression and getting a job.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 09:28 AM
1

I honestly don't know what my issue is. I'm confident, smart, charming, and ect. I just never can get to a date, or sex. I’ll tell you what your issue is. You are blaming everyone except yourself for your problems. Your abusive parents, mental health issues, depression, etc. How can you say you are “confident, smart, charming” if the first thing you do in this post is talk about your problems and wanting to kill yourself? Stop worrying about girls and getting laid, see a therapist and fix your a…
/r/askTRP08/08/19 09:15 AM
7

Be the alpha she desires
/r/askTRP06/08/19 07:48 AM
9

Males care less about value because males have unlimited chances to impregnate a girl. The more they spread their seed, the higher the chance that one of their offspring is produced. So males are programmed to bang as many attractive women they can find, and don’t care about the value of the women they are banging. Women on the other hand, can only get pregnant once and must wait until that is complete to mate again. Therefore, their selection must be more carefully made. They must choose to mat…
/r/askTRP21/07/19 03:38 PM
1

Name checks out
/r/askTRP20/07/19 08:59 PM
2

Shark week is blowjob week. If she’s not willing to please you then find another girlfriend.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:18 PM
1

Good for you, but seriously...55kg at 6ft? How is that even possible unless you’re a heroin addict? My petite in-shape girlfriend weighs more than that.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 06:36 PM
0

Yeah you’re right. Everyone who says they are having success on tinder is lying. Everyone is a sexually suppressed loser like you are. Women never have one night stands with anyone. Keep on living in your fairytale and complaining to strangers on the internet about your lack of success, instead of improving yourself.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 06:52 AM
0

I didn’t bother reading your reply. You’re clearly still in the anger phase. But I’ll extend you an olive branch since that’s what we do here and I was angry like you once. I’ll say it again: Tinder is a hookup app. Guys are getting laid regularly on tinder, and you aren’t. You need to improve your looks, work on your game, and focus on building attraction over text so when she shows up to the first date she already wants to fuck you. Then from there it’s up to you to escalate and perform.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 01:43 PM
15

Completely depends on the situation. I met one at a market in Tokyo who was a very reserved, traditional Japanese girl and it took a couple dates to get her in bed. I also met a couple on tinder who were not too different from western girls, crazy and slutty. My advice is game them as you would any other girl. Japanese girls are crazy in bed once you get them there and always a good time from my experience.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 01:32 AM
0

No need to get angry. Lots of guys like myself are getting laid regularly on tinder, if you aren’t then you have work to do. Honest stats: of the last 20 or so tinder dates I can remember two where I didn’t get laid. One was because it was logistically impossible (both visiting friends in another city), and another because I fucked up and said something she took offense to. Yes, a few are looking for boyfriends. Of course you pre-screen for this by subtly suggesting sex prior to the date. If a g…
/r/askTRP11/07/19 11:44 PM
0

That’s not how girls work, they’re not even interested in casual sex. Are you kidding? Tinder is designed for casual sex. Every girl I’ve met from there we banged on the first date. Most girls who are single are down for casual sex with the right guy. If this is really what you think, read the sidebar and work on improving your SMV. You have a lot to learn still.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 10:14 PM
13

It’s not your height that gets you laid in South Asia, it’s your race. Especially if you’re white and look like you come from a western country.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 01:40 PM
5

On tinder, most girls do fuck on the first date. If you aren’t getting laid on the first date, then work on your own game, don’t trash talk OP.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 09:19 PM
15

The classic beta orbiter gets rejected story. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 03:25 PM
8

I think you already know the answer. Divorce and move on with your life, or you’ll be back here in another 10 years posting the same thing.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 02:16 AM
2

“Hi”
/r/askTRP30/06/19 06:37 AM
4

Sometimes lessons must be learned through experience.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 02:18 AM
19

What do you think is going on Sherlock.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:02 PM
2

What did you go to prison for? Dealing drugs?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:35 AM
6

What are you wary about? Clearly she feels bad and wants to fuck you. Go fuck her. Just make sure that you come before she does this time.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 02:07 PM
1

I generally agree with you. However, OP’s “friends” are cancer, they are not friends but parasites who are using OP for free resources and are losers who offer nothing of value. In this case, there is only downside from keeping them around.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 12:04 AM
7

Rule #1 of TRP: Don’t talk about TRP. Guys need to be led to TRP on their own. Believe me, I learned this the hard way.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 06:15 PM
2

Fine then keep flirting with her until the logistics are right for you to fuck her.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 05:45 PM
1

I see her regularly because my work makes it so. Are you shitting where you eat? If so, don’t.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 05:39 PM
1

Unlikely, but only one way to find out.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 05:38 PM
4

You might have been overtraining. Entirely possible to happen, especially on a calorie deficit. Lower your workout volume/frequency and eat a bit more.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 05:37 PM
9

Ghost and cut them all out of your life permanently. Anyone who is still a cokehead in his late 20s is a degenerate who is going nowhere in life.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 05:34 PM
29

Bali is amazing. Lots of young girls go there to “find themselves” and end up finding a lot of cock instead.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 04:22 PM
4

Sounds like you have oneitis. Entire post devoted to one girl who is in a relationship.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 02:29 AM
2

Seeing/fucking multiple girls is the best way to do this, not being in a relationship.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 02:42 PM
12

What? How does SMV have anything to do with if you’re single or not?
/r/askTRP23/06/19 04:16 AM
1

More like I don’t give a fuck mentality. Obviously if she cheats, she’s gone.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 03:20 PM
35

Don’t be an insecure bitch about it. Remember if she’s going to cheat, she’ll cheat, nothing you can do to stop her.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 12:13 AM
1

Get a girl in your life and make her do it.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 12:07 AM
3

“This girl” = oneitis
/r/askTRP21/06/19 07:12 PM
-1

Stop being so controlling. Stop arguing with your girlfriend over stupid things. Focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 07:03 PM
1

Yeah and I bet that relationship is going to suck for that beta she marries. She is settling for a dependable guy who is beneath her in SMV, like women eventually do.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 04:29 PM
2

Sounds like you need to come to terms with your homosexuality.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 02:36 AM
1

She friend-zoned you, move on .
/r/askTRP20/06/19 02:34 AM
1

Why don’t you move to Tibet and become a permanent monk.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 03:54 PM
4

Explain why you would “need” to plate the mother of your kids.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 01:48 PM
2

It’s just not worth it dude. There’s a million other hot 21 year olds to game.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 01:48 PM
3

Have fun being fired for sexual harassment. If you haven’t figured it out yet, she friend zoned you and clearly is not interested. Keep pushing it and she can ruin your work life.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 01:44 PM
2

Don’t shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 01:36 PM
4

Not your circus, not your monkeys.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 12:34 AM
57

I’m not on any social media platforms. I’m happy to not be a slave to artificial dopamine and time wasting. It has never hindered my game since I pick up girls in real life, not on a validation platform. Not once has a girl thought it’s weird I don’t have a snap/insta. If they ask why I say “I deleted social media when I became an adult.” Stay off social media.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 03:59 PM
1

I’m happily in a LTR right now. I promoted her from plate, she knows I was seeing several other girls at that time and was so happy that I finally picked her. She knows if she fucks up in any way I’ll happily go back to seeing multiple girls. She does everything she can to please me - cooks for me, does my laundry, blowjobs or any sex act on demand. I make all the decisions and all the plans. If I want to see her, she will cancel any plan to see me. I treat her like a young child and help her wi…
/r/askTRP12/06/19 10:51 PM
5

I disagree. When a younger chick (18-22) asks why I don’t have an Instagram I reply “I stopped using social media when I became an adult”. No chick ever thought it was weird.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 07:28 PM
3

Wtf is your question? If a girl threw up in my car I’d ask her to come clean up her mess ASAP.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 07:17 PM
4

Don’t listen to what she says. Watch what she does.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:49 PM
2

“How do I get my girlfriend to change into someone she’s not?” You don’t. Next.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 03:25 PM
1

Dude you’re 22. Why don’t you relax, have fun and stop seeing every girl as a potential spouse.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 03:22 PM
2

Whip your cock out and guide her head accordingly.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 04:14 PM
9

It’s because the hot ones have been put on a pedestal and drooled over by betas the majority of their lives.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 03:49 AM
1

I agree but living for free is also very good. No it’s not. Living for free and being sheltered from the world is what made him who he is today.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 04:16 AM
38

Big red flag
/r/askTRP08/06/19 12:49 AM
10

Start with going back to work and moving out of mommy’s basement. You can study web development in your free time, but living with your parents is holding you back. Almost every post I see on here about someone who is suicidal or depressed is a male in his 20s who has had his hand held by his parents his entire life and was never forced to become an adult. Grow up, move out, get a shit service job if you have to, and stop leaning on your parents and antidepressant medication to get you through l…
/r/askTRP07/06/19 04:25 PM
1

It’s not that hard to do both. I gym three times a week and roll three times a week. Sunday is off.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 03:33 AM
1

Going to the bathroom and flushing it down their toilet is far easier.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 04:06 PM
13

This. She also sounds crazy to begin with.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 12:42 AM
8

By reminding yourself “she’s not yours it’s just your turn” and having other options available (abundance) for when your turn is over. More importantly, NEVER let yourself get off track with your work, lifting, and hobbies. Always be striving to make yourself better today than the day before.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 12:25 AM
1

If you want to fuck her, then fuck her. We can’t decide for you.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 09:24 PM
1

Studies show women are actually happier the longer they are in a relationship, whereas men typically start to get bored and want novelty. Source for these “studies”? I highly doubt that women, on average, are age happier 10 years after they got married compared to the day after the wedding.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 04:00 PM
2

Bitches just want what they can’t have.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 04:40 AM
1

Not your circus, not your monkeys.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 03:38 PM
1

Wait until she brings it up.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 09:13 AM
2

What Patrice said was it’s best when a woman loves a man, and the man likes the woman. Stop with the gifts unless she is doing the same for you. Gifts should be reciprocal only. She buys you something nice, you buy her something nice. My LTR recently complained to me that I didn’t buy her anything, like her friends’ boyfriends do. I told her I don’t show my love by buying her superficial things, but by doing things for her and with her. If she wants to be bought things she should break up with m…
/r/askTRP25/04/19 01:08 PM
4

You'd be shocked how many guys can't even do this.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 03:03 PM
4

Sidebar.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 02:14 AM
3

The only unconditional love you’ll get is from your dog, everything else you have to earn.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:38 PM
11

Grow up, stop being a pussy and get your shit together.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 10:34 AM
2

You mean 300M idiot? More like 1.5 million.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 01:50 AM
1

Disagree. Having specific goals allows for accountability and actually making sure you can measure success. Just saying you want to “improve your life” isn’t measurable.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 02:06 AM
2

Asking for “a break” - especially if this is an LDR - means she met someone, or lost attraction and wants to fuck other guys, or both. You can’t maintain attraction in a LDR. Dump this girl and find one who isn’t in another country or city.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 10:00 PM
2

More like you pay the price when she fucks the plumber because she’s sitting around all day with nothing better to do, divorces you for half the money YOU earned while she watched cartoons with the kids all day, and the real kicker is you have to pay her alimony forever because her income is zero.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 02:30 AM
2

Stop giving a shit about them and focusing on yourself.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 11:56 AM
1

“Shark week is blowjob week”
/r/askTRP15/11/18 11:48 AM
1

Lift heavy weights. Listen to relaxing music. Have my plate give me a massage.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 03:13 PM
7

Put your phone on vibrate, tell her to call it, and then shove it up her pussy.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 12:31 PM
1

I roughly follow the rule: 1/3 of after-tax salary on rent, 1/3 on other expenses, 1/3 towards debt/savings. I also live in a HCOL area, so finding a place below 1/3 is challenging. So yes, 1/3 is fine.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 12:26 PM
46

It’s always going to sting a little. What helps me when a plate breaks is remembering: Plates eventually will break - shes not yours it’s just your turn How all the plates YOU ghosted must’ve felt when you ended it Abundance mentality - there’s a million girls like her out there
/r/askTRP13/11/18 12:05 PM
51

I’m fine with it for now given: 1) I’m in my 20s and know the hours gradually improve over time. 2) My work is mentally stimulating and I enjoy what I do. 3) I earn six figures and am able to put a decent amount of my income towards debt repayment/savings. In short, I’m setting myself up for a more comfortable life in my 30s, at the expense of a worse life in my 20s. There’s payoffs to everything in life.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 02:59 AM
2

Buy a rice cooker and a grill. Consume lots of steak and rice. Snack on nuts during the day. That’s what got me there.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 02:55 AM
33

Work in finance. Up before 6am every morning, in by 7am. Work until 6-7pm, then hit the gym and grab dinner. Get back around 9pm and unwind a bit before bed, try to sleep by 10pm. I’m resigned to the fact the weekdays are for work and sleep, the weekends are mine to do what I want.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 02:02 AM
11

She craves attention on social media, AWALT.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 11:19 PM
11

The fact she’s accusing her ex-bf of “raping her” is a huge red flag that should make you RUN. You don’t want to be the next crazy ex-bf she’s accusing of rape.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 12:32 AM
63

The reason for this is mainly that your lower spine and hamstrings are tight. WRONG. Tightening your hamstrings will actually decrease APT by pulling your butt downwards. The biggest factor you left out is tight hip flexors. These should be stretched, NOT your hamstrings -- if anything your hamstrings should be strengthened. I've found that hip flexor stretches and ab strengthening are the best solutions to APT.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 03:48 PM
7

she said wanted to see my room (is that a sign I could sex her?) Do you really think she wanted to see your room? No, she wanted to fuck you. You failed by not escalating. Why was she even attracted to me? Maybe you're better looking than you think. Maybe she just got dumped by her bf and wanted a rebound. Who knows.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 12:13 PM
1

I wonder if there is a biological reason why women physically hide their ovulation. Many animals do not hide their ovulation. For example, when female chimps are ovulating their bellies turn bright red, and all the male chimps see this, jump on them and fuck them. During this time, a female will maybe have sex with a dozen male chimps, and the male with the biggest balls/highest sperm count will pass on his superior genes. I believe human females have been designed to hide their ovulation so the…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 04:00 PM
10

Use thinner condoms. Stop jerking off to porn.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 06:40 PM
2

How is this any different from what I was saying? Of course girls are sluts and aren’t focused exclusively on one guy. But one guy is their top option, the guy they’re crushing on, at that moment. Even if they’re fucking others. Oneitis is different for girls.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 06:03 PM
11

No. Constantly reminding yourself of her is NOT part of the process, and is making you feel like shit. Go fuck ten other girls, that’s how you get over it. Trust me, I’ve been there before.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 05:53 PM
3

She’s fucking one or more guys (alphas) that she doesn’t talk to her orbiters about, and keeping the orbiters (betas) around for validation and attention. All attractive girls who are single by choice do this.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 05:48 PM
1

What would you do? I wouldn’t be in an LDR in the first place. End it, fuck other women, and when she comes back consider starting it up again if you really want to.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 05:45 PM
11

The reason why you aren’t over her is because you are still stalking her Instagram. Block her everywhere, stop looking at her photos, she’s dead to you. Game other girls. There’s 3 billion other girls out there.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 05:43 PM
320

If you want to be her top option, make it so she isn’t your top option via abundance. A guy and a girl both having oneitis for each other is a fairytale, it’s either one way or the other. Strive to be the guy that hot girl has oneitis for, and life will be great.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 07:09 PM
16

Bad opening line.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 08:42 PM
1

What was the line?
/r/askTRP28/06/18 08:36 PM
2

Soft next, hit her up in a week. If she doesn’t put out then move on and stop wasting your time.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:57 PM
25

Good find OP. Sounds like the husband used to be an alpha guy with several options, but marriage turned him into a betafied pussy over time. Bad sex and lack of frame (timid, easily upset, overwhelmed by the smallest things) will dry up any woman. I hope he finds his way here and starts running some dread game on this broad before she inevitably cheats and divorces him, but it’s probably too late to turn the ship around.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 02:50 PM
1

Learn to read for pleasure.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 12:26 PM
3

If you really think reading is “exhausting” then you’re reading the wrong stuff.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 12:15 PM
2

Reading. Meditating. Fucking.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 10:04 AM
9

Stop using the past as an excuse for your failures and a crutch to lean on when you fail. Live in the present moment and work towards improving yourself every day. Plenty of great men were born in horrible situations, but they didn’t use it as an excuse not to be great. Edit: I’ll also add, nervousness is an emotion that is created by thinking about and living in the future. If you are fully present, that is embracing the NOW, it is impossible to be nervous/anxious. I suggest you read a book cal…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 10:26 PM
0

I disagree with this advice. Most girls hate initiating. If you tell her to initiate and she doesn’t because she wants a man who leads, then you have to txt her and it seems desperate.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 09:53 PM
11

You’re in the depression phase of swallowing the red pill. You’ll get out of it by realizing there’s more to life than women.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 09:50 PM
8

No. Don’t say that. Don’t mention anything about future plans. Don’t text her at all. Let her wonder for a day or two if you had a good time. The next day or a couple days later text her that you had a good time, let’s do it again, and set up a next date.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 08:45 PM
1

If you are a 7-8/10, as you said in your original post. That’s who your ex fucking, so that’s what you have to be. As I said, tinder is a crapshoot, if you’re an average looking guy you’ll do much better day gaming.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 09:25 AM
1

No. Plates are holes you masturbate in. Relationships are completely different.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 09:23 AM
2

This is why I’m in an OLTR. All the benefits of a relationship, but I’m seeing other plates so don’t have to worry about abundance. The other issues you listed about waste of time and money are only present if you let her run the relationship. I put myself and my time first, never prioritize her over my family/friends, and we split everything.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 01:39 AM
3

Ask her to blow you. If she refuses, then refuse her sex and withdraw attention.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 01:26 AM
1

I handle it by knowing that I don’t want to be in a monogamous relationship and fuck just one woman, and I don’t expect her to do the same. I’m the only one she’s “dating” and has feelings for, but if she wants to have a ONS or casual sex she’s free to do so.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 01:20 PM
2

You didn’t escalate on the 2nd date so she moved on and is now fucking someone else, and so should you.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 11:57 PM
2

Exactly. Your 2/10 ex is easy pussy, and is the only girl that 8/10 guy can convince to come over the same night he’s horny. Maybe he gets a 6/10 on a good day, and a 2/10 on a bad day. Crapshoot.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 11:51 PM
81

Classic ASD. This happens more times than you can imagine. I had a similar experience at that exact nightclub the one time I went. Friends birthday, had one of the outside tables on the roof-deck, pulled a girl who kept saying she had a bf so “wouldn’t do anything” over and over, while her friends were there. Once we were back in the hotel room the script flipped and she couldn’t take her clothes off fast enough. Vegas.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 11:43 PM
6

Most guys have horrible game so have to rely on Tinder for lays, which is a total crapshoot.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 11:18 PM
2

For plates or prospective plates, yes.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 10:40 PM
5

I’m in an OLTR. She knows I fuck other girls but we don’t talk about it.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 10:39 PM
3

Ok then, ignore all the advice that every poster in this thread has given you and go for it, let us know how that works out for you. Why the fuck do you post a question asking for advice if you have no interest in listening, and only argue with people who are taking the time to give you advice?
/r/askTRP25/06/18 06:46 PM
3

Read the sidebar (or re-read if you have already). You have a lot to learn. Solely pursuing a girl who lives in another city 500 miles away and you believe is an 11/10 is a fools errand.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 06:35 PM
3

Not your circus, not your monkeys.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 06:28 PM
16

As often as you wish. I see mine once a week. I have a “Monday”, “Tuesday” and “Thursday”. Working on replacing “Wednesday”, who unfortunately broke. I feel like once a month is too long between visits, but more than once a week is too frequent if you are spinning a couple. Weekends are reserved for gfs and the boys.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 06:23 PM
2

According to me. Denying your sexual instincts is being weak and giving up, instead of trying to improve yourself.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 04:28 PM
2

Yeah ok then, instead of trying to improve yourself just go ahead and give up, and head over to the MGTOW sub.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 04:25 PM
5

Yes, you should have asked for her number. The girl you were with is a plate, you aren’t exclusive with her. Missed opportunity.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 04:21 PM
2

Monk mode or focusing on yourself is different from MGTOW. If you’re bad at dating then work on that. Giving up entirely is being a weak pussy. All men should have a woman / multiple women in their lives.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 04:11 PM
6

Make her come to you. Don’t travel 500 miles just to see a girl who for all you know could have a rich bf and is fucking 5 different guys on the side (this is common for model-type nyc girls). Also this post screams of oneitis.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 04:09 PM
0

Pointless unless you’re asexual.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 04:01 PM
1

“Yeah short women are disgusting too”
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:47 PM
1

Exactly. A woman will be complaining to her friends and orbiters about this asshole who shows no emotion and is so abusive, but she keeps running back to fuck him.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:43 PM
3

These are all great points. I disagree with your 3) point though. Girls use alcohol as an excuse to be sluttier (oh I was sooo drunk last night so I had to fuck that hot guy). BUT it’s not worth it in today’s environment (#metoo) to fuck drunk girls, and I agree the sex is much better sober.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:39 PM
3

Start with lifting. 140 lbs at your height is very skinny. You should be at least 180 lbs.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 07:27 AM
88

I’ve basically quit drinking. Only have 1-2 drinks max when I absolutely have to (cocktail party, work drinks, etc.), maybe drink once a month if that. Has not improved or hindered my game at all. I don’t think I’m better or worse off drunk vs. sober with regards to game. But my health, quality of sleep, mental clarity and overall fitness have all greatly improved.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 04:15 PM
9

1) Read the fucking sidebar. 2) Dump her. Ghost/block/delete everywhere. 3) Find a girl who isn’t a physically abusive slut.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 04:12 PM
5

Reply with “Let’s do drinks at my place this Wednesday” or whatever date/location works. The best response is not directly replying to it and setting up a time to fuck.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 04:09 PM
1

Don’t dig through the trash.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:38 PM
8

Try growing some balls and actually escalating beyond kissing/cuddling next time you hang out. You’ve been on SIX dates with her, she’s probably wondering what’s taking you so long to fuck her.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:36 PM
6

Why are you still messaging this chick if she told you she wants to fuck? The only messages you should be sending are to organize a meetup. And in the future, no, you shouldn’t talk about sex or exchange photos.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:33 PM
8

The best thing to do in these situations is stare directly at him and laugh. Amused mastery. Don’t let idiots irritate you or get under your skin.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:30 PM
4

I believe the ego is ultimately very destructive and is the root of unhappiness. Separating yourself from your ego (and your mind) is the key to happiness and enlightenment.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:24 PM
2

No, don’t reply. And read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:21 PM
1

Good on you for keeping your skills sharp. The key to good dread game and keeping your wife attracted, and peace of mind in knowing you still have options if the marriage gets rocky. If I ever get married, I plan to do the same as well.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:19 PM
1

(I got a good job and place to live) My guess is she’s nearing the wall and she knows it, so she’s looking for a stable guy (good job, house) to date and lock down — that’s you. Or she just got dumped by her last bf, is insecure about it, and wants a rebound/your validation. Either way, you shouldn’t be digging through the trash. Find a new girl without baggage.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:12 PM
1

Most people are fucking pussies and every single person in their life they encountered by chance (school, mutual friends, work). You really set yourself apart from the rest of the crowd if you cold approach.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:08 PM
1

To answer your question, yes you did well. She’s clearly into you and wants to fuck you. All you need to do from here is escalate. But what’s your objective? To bang her or just practice game? If you want to fuck her: you’ve already laid the groundwork and she’s DTF. Next time you see her tell her directly that you want to get a drink with her and ask for her number. If you don’t want to fuck her: keep flirting and small talking with her, it doesn’t really matter what you say/do.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:04 PM
15

I think you answered your own question.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 01:41 PM
9

Yes. When you didn’t escalate during the first encounter she friend zoned you.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 10:14 AM
2

You’re insecure.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 06:48 AM
3

This is why you don’t shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 06:44 AM
1

Nailed it.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 11:33 PM
24

Text her and invite her for drinks at your place. This is a fucking layup, it’s not complicated.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 01:47 AM
5

This is why you should only text for logistics. You can only fuck things up over text, you can’t build attraction.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 01:32 AM
148

No, it didn’t happen by accident. She also probably fucked him. Girls usually don’t confess the entire truth. She’s acting distant because she has feelings for the guy she kissed, if she didn’t she wouldn’t have brought it up. Who is the guy? An ex she still has feelings for? I would end the engagement, but only you have the data points to make that decision. I don’t know anything else about your fiancé.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 12:05 AM
35

Thanks, this is a great post. Do you recommend any good books on Stoicism that you found helpful?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 04:25 AM
1

Think about how much time you are wasting thinking about her, that you could be spending finding a new more attractive girl on your travels.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 11:46 PM
1

Time and fucking several other girls.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 11:44 PM
1

1) If you’ve only gone on two dates with a girl, she isn’t a plate. She’s just a girl you went on two dates with. 2) Plates are for fucking, not going on dates with their friends. That’s a girlfriend activity. 3) Plates break. Maybe she met a new Chad. Maybe she didn’t find you attractive any more. Who knows, don’t let it bother you.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 11:42 PM
0

You have oneitis for this girl, and she sees you as only a friend since you didn’t once escalate with her or even imply you want to fuck her. Maybe she said that because you were less friendly. Who knows. Either way, stop wasting your time on her.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 11:37 PM
11

This. Having borderline homo sex with another strange dick in the room just to fuck some STD laden slut and risk drama with the bf sounds like an awful idea.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 01:13 AM
3

1) Don’t shit where you eat. 2) You have oneitis, fix that by getting more options. 3) You’re in the friend zone, total waste of time trying to climb out.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 01:07 AM
43

She was actually giving you some decent red pill advice when she said to stop talking and that you’re messing it up. Plates are for fucking, not chatting with. If she already likes you and is consistently fucking you, then you can only go backwards by chatting on and on with her about random stuff. Otherwise, yes, well played.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 05:36 PM
12

Girl A: ASD because you’re trying to fuck girls in your friend group. If she fucks you, how would that look to the group? Game different girls. Girl B: This happens all the time, nothing you did wrong here.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 05:02 PM
4

Then you should’ve made her blow you. Shark week is blowjob week. Always escalate.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:24 AM
3

Don’t do dinner. Do drinks and sit next to her so you can escalate.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:21 AM
3

She was on top of you in your bed and you didn’t fuck her?
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:17 AM
9

Don’t shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:15 AM
7

What’s butthurt about withdrawing attention and seeing other plates instead? It shows the exact opposite, indifference and abundance.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 08:35 PM
2

Where do you meet these girls who keep flaking? Dating apps? Tinder sluts are notorious flakers.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 11:31 PM
5

Not your circus, not your monkeys.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 04:29 PM
2

Practice. That’s the only way to effectively rewire your brain and conquer anxiety. Stop reading about it on Reddit, and start talking to more girls.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 10:28 PM
15

It’s very possible for these women to find a man. But thirsty beta “nice guys” aren’t men, they’re boys, and might as well be invisible to them. All the “good men” are too busy fucking the attractive 18-25 year olds.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 10:21 PM
2

You are unhealthily skinny. I’m your exact height (177cm) and +45 lb heavier, and still feel like I have a long way to go. The only thing you should be focusing on now is NUTRITION, counting calories and making sure you’re getting enough (3000-3500/day). Don’t worry if you’re lifting enough or not.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 10:11 PM
1

Fine then say the first sentence, whatever makes you feel more comfortable. Good guess, I am. But the baseball analogy probably made that obvious.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 08:51 PM
9

“No you’re my 5th so far today. The others all struck out, let’s see how you do.”
/r/askTRP13/06/18 08:47 PM
2

When you realize that she is not yours, it’s just your turn. I can’t sleep because I get these shitty memories of her and her ex. At some time in the future, you will be the ex-bf in some other beta’s nightmare fucking his gf.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 06:52 PM
8

Yes, this is an effective form of dread and shows your plates you have other options. Take it to another level by leaving earrings or another girl’s panties in plain sight in your apartment.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 06:17 PM
3

"I was thinking about last weekend and came to the conclusion that you fucked it up. Not sure I want to see you again.” NO NO NO. Do not send this. Why would you tell a girl you don't want to see her again, when clearly you do since you're STILL texting her? She'll reply "ok then, bye" and you've blown your chance. If you really want to give it another shot, your best bet is to ignore her for a couple days, then pretend nothing happened and hit her up with something passive like "Let's hang out …
/r/askTRP12/06/18 12:49 PM
78

She thought I was trying to manipulate her (I think she's quite used to guys like that) so I insisted by saying "I don't want to have sex with you, I don't care, leave if you want". This was your only mistake during the date, and it was costly. Never directly tell a girl you don’t want to have sex with her, and suggest that she leaves. She called your bluff and left. Since I was organizing something at my place the next day, she said that if I invited her she would come. I did, she didn't come. …
/r/askTRP12/06/18 01:21 AM
56

Let us know if it’s a boy or a girl.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 11:51 PM
2

Ever think you’re getting rejected by these girls because your SMV is low and your game sucks so they think you’re a creep? But yeah, go ahead blame it on “society”. It’s never your own fault right.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 10:12 PM
1

Ok then provide a detailed example of a date. How can you expect us to help you with such little information.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 10:02 PM
4

Are you taking them out to fancy dinners? Buying them gifts? Showing you’d be a good provider of resources? Need more context. What’s clear is you are somehow coming off as being beta, which is why they won’t fuck you.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 09:37 PM
5

Yes. You DO have oneitis. You’re still bitter about a girl you broke up with two years ago. Get over it already and meet new girls.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 09:25 PM
3

The best text game, is no text game. Only text for logistics, never to build attraction.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 08:29 PM
4

Yes, they do it all the time. She will go after the beta who she believes will be a good provider of resources, while simultaneously going after the high SMV alpha.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 06:34 PM
1

Yes, they do it all the time. She will go after the beta who she believes will be a good provider of resources, while simultaneously going after the high SMV alpha.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 06:33 PM
1

You’re an idiot.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 06:20 PM
1

You have oneitis for a virgin you haven’t even fucked yet? What’s wrong with you.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 06:16 PM
1

Are you gay?
/r/askTRP11/06/18 06:13 PM
1

Any future woman will be an accessory to my life, not an integral part of it. This is always what women should be.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 12:10 PM
3

Both. Girls don’t ask guys out on drinks, that’s for you to do. Girls want a leader who calls all the shots, and makes all the decisions.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 02:55 PM
4

Yes. Initiating a girl isn’t being needy.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 02:13 PM
3

Girls don’t generally initiate, especially at your age. YOU have to do the initiation and escalation yourself.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 02:07 PM
0

With the rate life expectancy is growing, very possible.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 06:24 PM
2

No moralizing.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 06:17 PM
0

I find the grass is always greener on the other side. When I was in a relationship I wanted to be single, when I was single for a while I got bored of the game and wanted a relationship. Best solution - find an LTR and spin plates on the side without her knowing.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 05:11 PM
6

This is excellent.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 04:30 PM
20

Your best bet is gaming and fucking the other tourists you meet in hostels, not the locals.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:52 PM
1

It really doesn’t matter. I always text them the next day, in the afternoon/evening.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:51 PM
18

You agreed to be exclusive with a virgin who you haven’t fucked yet? Sounds like a bad case of one-itis.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:50 PM
1

Ice cream is great. You can accidentally “drip” some and have her lick it off.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 01:52 PM
1

How old are you? At midnight you should be at a bar or club.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 01:49 PM
1

Groups, especially mixed guy/girl, are hard to open during the day. Go to a place where there’s more single girls walking around.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 01:45 PM
1

Final comment... People who just want to smash sometimes pedestalize virgins, but they usually make slow, unsure, sloppy, pain in the ass casual sex partners. There are plenty of semi-experienced and willing women for plating and casual sex; the experience is usually better for both parties than when one is a virgin. This is so true. I’ve hit a couple virgins and they were the worst plates. Sex is horrible and they fall in love with you very quickly since you’re their first. The ideal girl is th…
/r/askTRP09/06/18 01:38 PM
9

K good luck getting in shape by lifting hard every day, but being a fatass outside the gym.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 05:22 PM
20

No it’s 100% lifting and 100% diet. You need both. Doing one and not the other won’t get you anywhere.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 05:19 PM
5

Not your circus, not your monkeys. Your fault for getting involved with a BB his crazy one-itis.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 10:37 AM
1

This is a great article. Thanks for linking.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 10:16 AM
17

Your mind will always try to trick you, but the data never lies. If you aren’t getting measurable results or moving forward, you haven’t changed and aren’t making progress. Don’t bullshit yourself.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 12:43 AM
36

what causes women to become so bitter as they near this age? Because they notice that men start treating them differently post-wall since they are no longer as attractive.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 09:10 PM
2

How the fuck is this downvoted. This is by far the best reply.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 09:03 PM
8

You were being plated. Girls plate guys as well. If you are spinning enough plates yourself, and don’t become too attached to these girls, it won’t bother you as much.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 08:04 PM
13

I feel like they just ghost in order to keep the door open, if something fails they usually hit you with the "I'm sorry I been so busy" text and try to pick you back up. Once this happens to you enough it’ll no longer bother you. Just understand why it’s happening. I do the exact same thing to girls if I find a more attractive replacement or if I have too many plates and need to cut back. Ghosting is actually a smart sexual strategy to keep the door open so you can hit them up down the road.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 07:52 PM
41

Plates break. Could have been for a million different reasons. Maybe she wanted a BB to commit to her, maybe she found a better Chad. Don’t take it personally. You deal with it by accepting it’s eventually going to happen (she’s not yours, it’s just your turn) and having multiple options lined up to replace her (abundance mentality).
/r/askTRP06/06/18 07:30 PM
2

This is not only mate-guarding, but is jealous/controlling behavior. This is NOT the way to maintain attraction in an LTR.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 05:03 PM
4

What you have to realize is if she is going to cheat, she’s going to cheat, and there’s nothing you can do to stop it. Mate guarding and jealous, controlling behavior is not the way to keep her committed to you. Dread game is. Tell her to have fun, and let her know you’ll be going out with your friends that night.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 05:01 PM
2

College. The ultimate waste of time. Only if you drink your way though college, get shit grades, and graduate with a useless degree, such as Philosophy. Which sadly a lot of people do. Why so many people take on mountains of debt for a useless degree is beyond me.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 03:27 PM
2

No. Don’t shell out for a hotel. That’s probably more expensive than paying for sex. Tell her your place is unavailable for some reason, and either go back to hers or fuck in your car if you have one.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 03:22 PM
1

Don’t kid yourself. 5’10’’ and 133 lbs isn’t “lean and muscular”, it’s very skinny and malnourished. I’m exactly your height and 180 lbs (teens bf %), and I feel like I still have a long way to go in terms of gaining weight. COUNT YOUR CALORIES. That’s the biggest tip I can give you. Once you count everything you’re eating for a while you will realize you aren’t eating enough. Start with trying to eat at least 3000 calories a day and see if you’re gaining weight.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 03:01 PM
2

No, don’t go yourself. Tell her to go have fun. What are you worried about? Is she going with single slutty friends to a club and “sleeping over” at a friends place? It’s completely situational.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 02:56 PM
5

Jesus that post was so cringeworthy. Are you positive you aren’t gay? You sound like you’ve played the gay-best-friend role your entire life. Start with reading the sidebar. Your number one priority right now should be losing your virginity.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 02:41 PM
2

Who cares. You’re in the friend zone. Stop wasting your time and game different girls.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 02:36 PM
6

1) You have a massive case of oneitis. You invited a girl you haven’t banged yet to a party, still didn’t bang her, and are now mate guarding her and jealously checking who she follows on instagram, even though you guys aren’t even fucking. Read the sidebar. 2) If you really think your friend would do that, then he’s not your friend, and you should cut him out of your life.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 02:25 PM
3

This sometimes happens when she knows you’re an alpha and have other options, which is why she feels the need to push for exclusivity. You have two options: 1) Make it clear to her you’re not going to be exclusive with her, and if she wants to walk then she should go ahead. You probably won’t get laid. 2) Say to her directly: “How can you expect me to be exclusive when we haven’t even slept together yet? I don’t buy something without sampling it first.” Once you’re fucking her she’ll eventually …
/r/askTRP06/06/18 11:51 AM
2

If you’re spinning more than one plate this is easy.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 10:37 AM
1

Not your circus, not your monkeys.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 10:26 AM
1

Why does it matter if she drinks or not? Maybe try AA meetings? I don’t know many chicks who don’t drink...
/r/askTRP06/06/18 01:54 AM
2

In the future, the proper response is “yes, I have a few”
/r/askTRP05/06/18 07:02 PM
7

“That’s fine, I’ll have someone else go with me.”
/r/askTRP05/06/18 06:30 PM
1

You see plates for sex, that’s it. No dates, activities, trips - those are girlfriend privileges. Yes, immediately after sex we do cuddle a bit and talk about random stuff before I kick them out. No sweet talking, ever.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 05:02 PM
2

If a guy cold approached me and asked for my number, I’d assume he’s gay and wants to fuck me.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 04:15 PM
6

Brilliant. What do you say when girls point them out?
/r/askTRP05/06/18 03:43 PM
1

Yeah this was my thought. I’ve never had a girl “forget” her panties. They’ve left plenty of earrings, bracelets and other trinkets, but never panties.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 03:42 PM
1

I completely agree. Practicing game on tinder is like practicing sex by jerking off.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 01:25 AM
6

You’re right, it can be a crutch for those who are too scared to game in real life or haven’t put in the time to build up the skillset to be successful. But for those of us who are already proficient at talking to girls we encounter in person, Tinder is a nice supplement to further expand the girls you meet. It’s like jerking off — doing it all the time is unhealthy, but there’s no problem with swiping a bit on a Friday night when your boys aren’t around to go out with you.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 01:21 AM
3

I'm not comparing a missionary to Ed Sheeran, I meant a musician who is maybe unattractive but is talented enough to impress her. The girl you're talking about is not going to fuck the Pope, just like most fan girls won't fuck Ed Sheeran. In her current field of obsession with God, a missionary is best guy she can get. What you have to understand is girls are attracted to status more than looks. The missionary makes up for his "okay looking, chubby, poorly dressed average height" with his status…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 12:54 AM
5

The exact same reason why fan girls fuck the ugly musician, like an Ed Sheeran. They love his music. She’s a fan girl to Christianity right now, and a missionary is the equivalent of a famous musician.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 12:28 AM
0

No I am fully aware of the differences in sexual dynamics. My point is, the woman I am describing would have to be unattractive, or have a SMV significantly below yours. Otherwise no woman would sign up for that arrangement.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 12:24 AM
2

My point is that woman you are describing would have to be HIDEOUS looking, that’s why you can’t find her! She’s a 300lb woman who looks like a man. Or your SMV would have to be through the roof (you’re a celebrity). Otherwise what attractive woman would sign up for that arrangement? I am fully aware women work differently.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 12:20 AM
-4

Find a real job.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 08:25 PM
5

Only one way to find out.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 06:25 PM
7

Yes, she wants the D. Give it to her.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 05:43 PM
5

Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 01:36 AM
11

Stay far away from single moms. Especially one who thought it was a good idea to have a kid at 17. She’s actually doing you a favor, next her now. Don’t say I didn’t warn you.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 12:25 AM
3

Drinks at a bar. Ideally position yourself so you’re sitting next to her from the start so you can kino. If it’s a bar where there’s music/dancing, even better. Then bring her back to your place to continue drinking, and bang.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 10:10 PM
8

Getting out of the friend zone is usually a waste of time. I’d recommend finding different girls.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 10:07 PM
8

1) Taking a girl out for dinner is the worst first date idea. Waste of money, hard to kino/escalate and sitting across from each other watching the other stuff his/her face is unappealing. 2) “Don’t shit where you eat” applies to the workplace. So it’s irrelevant here. You should bang.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 10:02 PM
1

I already have abundance. All three of my plates I sourced by cold approaching during the day. What girl met this way is going to fuck you without first going out for drinks?
/r/askTRP03/06/18 06:51 PM
1

I’ve read your comments and you sound like an autistic high schooler. Good luck getting a high quality girl to fuck you without first going on a date. Have fun with trash off tinder or one night stands with bar sluts.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 06:32 PM
1

You’re either an idiot or a troll.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 06:28 PM
1

Not every girl puts out on date #1.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 05:24 PM
5

Women can be flakey and fickle, it’s their nature. I have a three date rule. No sex after third date = hard next. Give it one last shot.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 05:06 PM
2

Low N count, conservative and smart are all I need(but can’t find) It’s called a unicorn, that’s why you can’t find it.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 05:02 PM
2

You’re clearly still not over her. How many women have you fucked since you got dumped? Fuck more girls and whatever you do keep her blocked.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 04:59 PM
17

Any piercing = plate only
/r/askTRP03/06/18 04:56 PM
7

Yes, you’re a sociopath and that makes no sense. Why would you talk to plates about having a future together if you have no intention of being in a LTR with them? Sounds like a great way to piss them off and lose a plate. If you really want an LTR then go find one, and stop promising one to plates you fuck.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 04:53 PM
2

What kind of a question is this? There are millions of topics you can talk to random girls about. Who they’re with, what they’re doing there, what other bars they frequent, what music they’re into, where they’ve traveled recently, where they grew up, what their career aspirations are, the list is endless.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 04:50 PM
3

Good job going out solo, takes balls. I didn’t read the entire post, but I’ll point out a couple mistakes you made in your first opener: 1) Never say you’re here solo, girls will think it’s weird/creepy. Say you lost your friends, or they’re still on the way, any other excuse. 2) You failed both her shit tests when she called you “scary” for being solo and guessed your age to be 18. Never try to defend yourself, either AA or pressure flip.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 04:38 PM
1

Weren’t you talking with her on FB? She had no photos or posts to give you any red flags? Either way, the second she showed up in person you should have walked. Fucking her was a bad idea.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 03:25 PM
1

I would argue that how you look is 100% lifting and 100% nutrition. Both are equally important. You can’t change your physique without one or the other. Same goes for attracting women: it’s 100% SMV and 100% game — unless you’re an extreme outlier, you need both.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 12:40 PM
18

This girl also makes you taste your own cum and lick her stinky vagina, both of which are disgusting. She’s clearly the one in control, not you. So yes, you are a pussy for letting her control you in the bedroom.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 12:27 PM
2

No, don’t try again. You have one of two problems, or both: 1) She’s not attractive enough to you to get you hard. 2) You have ED from too much porn or another health issue. Find a more attractive girl who you are excited about fucking. And quit the porn.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 12:21 PM
1

Is she really a plate or still your girlfriend? Did you make it clear to her that you’re fucking other girls and you are only using each other for sex? Plates don’t bring up “the talk” if it’s made clear they are a plate.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 12:16 PM
26

How big of a pussy are you. Tell her “no I’m not doing that.” You’re completely in her frame. YOU should always be the one in control during sex.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 12:13 PM
1

Great that you’re finally waking up to reality in your late twenties, better late than never. Start with growing the fuck up and moving out of mommy’s basement. Nobody in their late twenties should still be living with their parents. She’s probably embarrassed of how pathetic it is that you are still living at home. The shock of having to live on your own will spur you into action and force you to make a better life for yourself.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 12:09 PM
2

The real question you should be asking yourself is why did you feel so desperate that you asked out an unattractive, criminal, drug addict?
/r/askTRP03/06/18 12:02 PM
102

No, listening to your brain usually isn’t the solution. Your brain will always be trying to find ways to doubt your self-worth, and highlight your insecurities, especially in the face of adversity. The best way to overcome scarcity mentality is to ignore what your brain is telling you (I’m not good looking enough to approach her, I should lift more first, I’m a beta piece of shit) and just fucking do it. By ignoring your insecurities and putting yourself out there with women — or any hardship in…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 09:38 PM
3

Incorporate a 2:1 ratio of pulling (rows) volume to pushing (bench) volume in your routine. Foam roll/stretch your front delts/pecs. Focus on keeping your shoulders pushed down and back throughout the day. All these really helped mine.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 09:22 PM
-1

You completely missed my point.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 09:16 PM
19

Imagine there’s this girl you know. Who after you break up with your girlfriend, you text out of the blue, and she comes over and hears your story, let’s you cry on her shoulder, and then let you fuck her multiple times. She’s always available, always there for you. This is you. Is that girl going to be remotely attractive?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 02:35 PM
4

You are friend zoned. That’s why she won’t fuck you, but is probably fucking several other guys and having one night stands every weekend. Stop wasting your time and find other girls.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 02:17 PM
52

Always listen to what they DO not what they SAY. It’s pretty clear to me that she ran back to her “abusive” ex. Why else would she break up with you just when he comes to town? The reason she gave for breaking up with you was lame. I don’t think you did anything wrong here. AWALT, it’ll happen eventually. Just be glad you didn’t marry her. If she comes crawling back to you when her ex dumps her again, don’t take her back.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 02:12 PM
1

I never let girls sleep over. I always have an early meeting the next day, flight to catch, whatever the excuse. Has never been a problem. If you know they live far away, tell them in advance they can’t spend the night, don’t be a dick and boot at 2am without warning unless you never want to see them again.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:27 PM
12

Well said. Couldn’t agree more. Besides, those nights out with the boys are always guaranteed to be fun, regardless of what happens with girls.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:20 PM
2

She wasn’t sleeping, she was sucking on Chad’s cock. Soft next. Text her in two weeks and give her one more chance. Otherwise you’ll sound needy/desperate.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:14 PM
13

1) No need to stay up all night or have ten drinks. Limit yourself to a few drinks, call it a night around 2, force yourself to wake up at 8 and nap in the afternoon if needed. Will help you keep the same schedule. 2) Weekends are for the boys and girlfriends. Keep your plates for weeknights after work.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 03:36 PM
11

Let us know if it’s a boy or a girl.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 03:32 PM
1

You’re right, his focus right now shouldn’t be on getting laid. He’s a loser who still lives at home, his ONLY goal should be finding a way to move out and become an adult. The only reason to still be living at home in your 20s is if you’re unemployed.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 11:20 AM
2

1) Harder than you think. Not every mom wants to fuck someone the same age as their own child. But it can be done. 2) Shave the gross mustache until you can grow a full beard. 3) Life-changing, if done correctly. 4) Depends on the situation. If you’re in a bar or she’s already giving you IOIs, a simple “Hi” will suffice. The opener doesn’t really matter.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:31 PM
2

No. If she really is just a plate, and you make it clear upfront you are going to game other girls, she can help you. Maybe you can get a threesome out of it.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:13 PM
1

Who cares? Fuck her when you want to, not when she does. You’re the leader, the king in the relationship, remember. That’s what girls want.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:11 PM
6

1) She’s a sex addict. Imagine her getting stuffed by many guys at once and gurgling on their cum. Is she really still your special snowflake? Who wants to be dating a slut cum dumpster. 2) Now, GFTOW (go fuck ten other women). Seriously. The best cure to oneitis. Keep her blocked and forget about her. She’s dead to you.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:07 PM
1

Move out. Find a girlfriend. Have her cook, clean and do your laundry. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 08:22 PM
1

Yeah, it’s a complete waste of money for a 24 year old to be paying rent and living on their own. What girl do you think wants to fuck or date a 24 year old boy who hasn’t left home yet? If you were a girl, would you date you? It’s fine if you can’t afford it right now, but don’t say it’s a waste of money and focus 100% of your energy on making enough to move out. That’s my advice.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 07:55 PM
1

Who says you have to buy a house? Can you afford to rent? From what you said in your original post, your mom is keeping you busy around the house doing these things anyway. Living at home can be a serious crutch to both your life goals, and meeting girls.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 07:47 PM
0

I'm 24 y/o IT guy and I'm still living with my parents. Start with growing up and moving out of your parent's basement.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 07:36 PM
2

Are you fucking her? You don't go swimming, cook and go out to eat with a plate. Plates are for fucking, only. This sounds like a girl who has friend-zoned you, and you're now her orbiter. Yes, next her. You should have long ago. Stop wasting your time.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 07:34 PM
2

Work on the other non-visual aspects of SMV: frame, game, and money/status.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 07:30 PM
1

No, you didn't flirt with her. Creepily staring and smiling at a girl isn't flirting. Next time, grow a pair and say something.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 07:24 PM
1

Why do you think she’s fading? Because she hasn’t double texted you? As long as the date is still on, chill out. About fucking her on her period, you made the right move. Blowjobs are much more enjoyable and a bloody mess is embarrassing for her. Why did you try twice to get her pants off if you didn’t want to fuck her anyway?
/r/askTRP31/05/18 06:26 PM
5

1) Plausible deniability so they don’t think they’re easy or a slut. It doesn't even matter how stupid the reason is. They just need any excuse, whether its checking out your pet hamster, finishing that great bottle of wine you have, or seeing how great the view is from your roofdeck (while riding your cock). 2) Who cares that she’s on her period? Turn shark week into blowjob week and/or anal week. Don’t let it slow you down.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 06:12 PM
8

Get one to blow you while the other licks your balls. That's not boring.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 04:34 PM
2

My question is, how do I adopt the abundance mentality, and get rid of this oneitis and "I need a woman" sentiment? Read the sidebar and go out and meet women.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 04:30 PM
4

Find new friends.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 04:28 PM
11

It's called experience and not giving a fuck. You'll eventually get there.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 04:24 PM
18

"No thanks, I see him when I look in the mirror every morning" would have been better.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 04:22 PM
1

Weekends are for the boys and girlfriends, weeknights are for potential plates.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 04:06 PM
14

Think on the bright side, it could have been much worse. You could have married one of these girls, and spent far more money on her for a decade, before she divorces you and takes half. Or you could be one of those pathetic guys who gives gifts of thousands of dollars to cam girls and instagram whores. $10k isn't much to lose for a valuable lesson.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 03:00 PM
17

This is why I never discuss anything about sexual strategy with my blue-pilled friends.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 02:57 PM
3

Hitting on girls while you’re working is a good way to get fired, just saying. YMMV.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 02:32 PM
2

Don’t shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 02:29 PM
5

Who gives a shit. She probably doesn’t want to go out with you for one of a million reasons, and is only messaging you for validation. Forget about her and game other girls.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 02:28 PM
1

You vomited a blue-pilled “dear diary” story that was a waste of time to read. What do you expect me to say.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 02:19 PM
4

She didn’t have as much fun as you did on the date. She had another date with a different tinder guy she liked more in that 2-3 week window, and is now fucking him. Get over it and find a new girl.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:55 AM
3

Is there a question? Read the sidebar, you still have learning to do. And don’t talk to your ex.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:51 AM
8

You have a lot to learn.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:49 AM
1

I think the real question you should be asking yourself is: why do you get these shit tests a lot? Are these coming from your friends or acquaintances? If so you need to find new friends.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:44 AM
-1

Don’t pressure flip with guys. Who knows if they’re really insecure and will start lighting into you with insults or worse challenge you to a fight. Best is always AA. “Yeah you’re right I’m such an idiot for not knowing that” (said sarcastically) and change the subject.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 12:22 AM
39

In my experience, the best response to IHABF is to completely ignore and change the subject. Yes, there's a bunch of creative lines you can say in response if you have to, but it's better to avoid the topic entirely since you want her to be thinking about you, not her boyfriend.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 08:58 PM
4

im 1.81m and weight 61kg, with not much taste for fashion and with hard time to gain weight First and foremost, you are extremely skinny. I'm your height and +20kg heavier, and still feel like I have a long way to go. LIFT, but most importantly, count your calories. Force yourself to eat. Once you put on some size, your confidence will improve and you'll start heading in the right direction.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 08:48 PM
8

Spend a day locked away with a pad and no phone etc, and spend the time thinking about what your perfect life would look like. How would you spend your time (and no i dont mean lying on a beach). This is an important point, and I think something that everyone should do at least once a year. Every December, around the holidays, I carve out a full day of doing nothing but reflecting on the past year, what I did right, wrong, goals for the upcoming year, what my perfect life is several years from n…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 08:42 PM
2

They probably see and treat you like a little kid because that is how you are acting. Start acting like a man and treating girls like children, and you will be seen as a man.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:29 PM
1

If you’re going to college just to get laid, that’s going to be a very expensive cost per lay, regardless of how often you get laid.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:26 PM
21

Your title is misleading. Girls don’t punish guys for being in love. Girls punish guys who they believe are inferior. You must always show your SMV is higher than hers. Girls never want to be dating down. The ways you showed love (fancy gift giving, helping, supporting), showed her that you are inferior to her because she wasn’t reciprocating the same. I show I love my girls by fucking them well. Being their emotional rock when they need me. Mentoring and leading in all aspects of the relationsh…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 01:26 AM
15

The IOIs you think you’re getting are just girls staring at your beanie.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 08:26 PM
47

I have a three date rule, never dinner out, just coffee/drinks/cooking at my place allowed. I’ll buy her the first round, if she wants another round I’ll say “this one is on you.” This effectively screens out the leeches out there looking for free meals/drinks, and also makes it clear from the start I’m not her provider. Not to mention, I’m also saving a lot of money.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 07:25 PM
1

Are you autistic? You don't have to flirt, she already implied she wants to fuck you. Just talk to her like you would a normal person, ask for her number, and close.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 12:02 AM
2

Cool, you’ve confirmed that instead of being needy, playing hard to get works, and now she’s the one chasing you. Hard to tell from what you’ve given, but it’s possible she sees you as BB and you’re already friend zoned. She probably just misses all the snaps and attention you used to give her. But why not meet up and find out.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 10:31 PM
3

You are still plugged in. Read the sidebar again and before you comment next.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 02:49 PM
1

A decent portion of girls on dating apps just use it for entertainment / validation, and have no interest in meeting up. You have to screen these girls out early and move on if this is the case.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:28 PM
1

Don’t kiss plates.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 03:20 PM
28

Except for the part about having a kid with an LTR, sounds like you’re doing it right. We don’t moralize on here, so you should keep doing whatever makes you happy. Just recognize that eventually you’ll get caught, and what impact that will have on your kid, if any.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:59 PM
2

Tinder in general is a total shit show. If you don’t capture their attention, they’re on to the next 100 guys who are bombarding them with messages. Don’t think you said anything wrong she probably just matched with a guy who had a stronger opener.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:55 PM
1

Read the sidebar. And learn how to smile.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 04:32 PM
1

Yes, it’s beta. But from experience it does work. Attractive girls get so many likes, so differentiation helps. I usually throw in “I have a confession... I super liked you by mistake” somewhere in the convo.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 04:29 PM
1

I’m looking forward to reading it. Enjoyed reading your material in the past.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 10:13 AM
3

She then told me she got a bit too drunk and ended up kissing a guy. She told me she was "so so sorry" and was balling her eyes out while hugging me tight telling me not to leave her, and that it wont happen again. She is trying to make you jealous while simultaneously trying (again) to get you to commit to her. Who gives a shit that she broke down and cried? Act as if nothing happened and continue fucking her. Eventually she will give up trying to get you to commit to her, and will move on to a…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 11:24 PM
1

What are you afraid of? Do you have bad social anxiety in general? Maybe you should find another career that doesn't involve working/talking with people all day.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 11:18 PM
1

Sidebar.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 11:14 PM
3

Go on tinder. Find girl who will meet at hotel bar. Smash.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 11:14 PM
3

Only if you aren't fucking them right (aka you're bad in bed).
/r/askTRP23/05/18 10:28 PM
3

Shredded > bear mode > skinny with no muscles > non-gym fatty
/r/askTRP23/05/18 09:43 PM
2

No. Why isn’t she blocked everywhere? Don’t waste your time.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 09:39 PM
5

I disagree with the people who said to find a new plate. This happens all the time, and I just ignore it or avoid the question and keep fucking them. Eventually they'll drop you because they'll find a guy to commit to them, and you'll know why. The only reasons to drop a plate is because you have too many (need to clean up the roster), she crosses a boundary you have, or you find out she's crazy/psycho and it's not worth the risk to continue seeing her.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:18 PM
1

What's the problem then? Closing the deal? If you're already talking to them and have good rapport just say "I have to run, but it's been nice talking to you. We should get drinks sometime, what's your number?" That's the easiest part.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:16 PM
1

Approach anxiety. We've all had it. Once you take the leap of faith and start talking to these girls, you'll realize it's not that hard, and you'll have much less regret being rejected then if you don't talk to them at all. Lots of girls dig older guys with graying hair. It's easy - ask her what she's working on (coffee shop) or what she recommends to order (burrito shop). Doesn't have to be some fancy opener. Just strike up an ordinary conversation and see where it goes.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:06 PM
11

I have no idea, because I don't care and neither should you.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:02 PM
6

As I get older (30s) I've often found that the juice is progressively less worth the squeeze. I'm reaching the same point in my life. I think it's less to do with age per se, and more having done it so many times, that you realize there's far more important things in life than gaming women and sex. I would rather focus on my career, friendships, hobbies, and family, than stay up late gaming women. What am I going to do in ten years when equivalent, or lesser, women are throwing pussy at me and I…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:54 PM
5

So I'm feeling like total shit, looking back and reminiscing of my ex-relationship, thinking how she was a great girl after all and it was my own mental fuckery that ruined it all, having general feelings of sadness and lamentation. This is from having a lack of options / abundance mentality. Your problems will be solved once you go out and bring new girls into your life. You'll stop thinking about your ex-LTR and more frequent sex will help with the apathy / lethargy.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:46 PM
1

Met up with the girl I've been fucking for two years she said she's trying to figure out what happened back in the bed and it's still new to her, as she freshly broke up with a beta idiot. What's new to her? Hanging out with you? Haven't you been fucking her for two years?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:43 PM
5

Yes, it's called being a good mate. Next time, instead of being a dick offer him some advice.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:41 PM
1

Have you guys experienced this (granted the woman isn't objectively boring)... Yes, my last LTR. ...if so, what were the measures you took upon realization? Broke up with her, acquired a few plates, and am happily single.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:39 PM
2

"Let's do drinks this [day of week] at [bar name]"
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:36 PM
2

Based off your responses to other comments, my guess is she willingly cheated, regretted it, and is now claiming sexual assault to save face. If her story was really true, a guy grabbed her by the neck and assaulted her, she would have gone to the cops. Think about it, what guy would grab a girl by the neck and feel her up and give her a hickey, if she wasn't already flirting with him.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:35 PM
8

Ive been lifting for a bit (3-4 years) Squat: 115 lbs Bench: 155 lbs Deadlift: 135 lbs OHP: 95 lbs You haven't been actually lifting for that long if these are really your numbers. See a doctor and fix your T levels and eat more food. Then you'll see progress and grow. What's your age/height/weight?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:29 PM
10

Don't. Why are you so focused on nudes and not on finding a way to bang her in person?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:23 PM
3

Since when does your current SMV have anything to do with girls you've slept with in the past?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 01:52 PM
1

Was this guy a friend of hers? If so you're an idiot and way too controlling. Girls have guy friends. It doesn't mean they're necessarily fucking them.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 01:49 PM
68

What's amazing is it doesn't even matter how stupid the reason is. They just need any excuse, whether its checking out your pet hamster, finishing that great bottle of wine you have, or seeing how great the view is from your roofdeck (while riding your cock).
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 01:40 PM
5

Improve your SMV. If your SMV is too low, you're invisible to most girls. Lift, lose weight, get a proper haircut, get rid of your acne, improve the way you dress and your posture. Whatever is lacking, fix it.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 01:34 PM
8

Nothing you said was funny and they probably all think you’re socially awkward or autistic.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 12:29 PM
1

Why would you want a relationship with a random girl you had terrible drunk sex with at a wedding?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 12:19 PM
2

My guess is she blew you off because you came off as being too needy (she sensed your oneitis for her), and she doesn’t want a relationship with you. Or maybe she has better options than you and you’re her backup when Chad isn’t around to fuck her. Stop being needy, wait a bit and hit her up only for sex. And recognize that it’s crazy to have oneitis for a slut.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 12:08 PM
1

Agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 12:04 PM
1

My standards are not that high. Graduated from at least a decent college, enjoys reading and learning, and someone I can have intellectual conversations with.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 11:59 AM
1

Did I ever say I wanted to be homeless? My point is stop using “I have no money” as an excuse.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 11:56 AM
3

Who gives a shit what plates do and who they fuck.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 10:36 AM
5

Don’t tell her about it, and fuck her already so you’re not a virgin anymore.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 10:22 AM
22

Go slower. Have her blow you after every few minutes. Have more sex. Personally, I could care less if I finish quickly. Means I’m usually ready for round 2 sooner.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 10:20 AM
2

She will always eventually throw you under the bus. Might be a week later, might be five years later when you’re married with a kid. She’s not yours, it’s just your turn. You have to go into every LDR knowing it won’t last forever, and plan accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 10:12 AM
8

There are homeless people who get laid regularly, so stop using it as an excuse. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=bmav517MQJc
/r/askTRP22/05/18 11:09 PM
6

A must have to be LTR material. Talking to a brick wall is no fun.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 10:44 PM
1

No, it’s 100% gym and 100% nutrition. You need both.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 09:14 PM
4

Wtf is wrong with you.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 09:05 PM
2

But then again i look at the amount of money I've wasted into this relationship. Walking away would mean that it was wasted all for nothing. Sunk cost fallacy. Make your decision INDEPENDENT of what money you've already spent on her in the past. It's been two years, I'm shocked she has been able to string you along with that lie for this long. She's probably texting you again to try to get more money out of you. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sunk_cost#Loss_aversion_and_the_sunk_cost_fallacy
/r/askTRP22/05/18 08:44 PM
1

Ok, so learn from your mistake. You've already wasted 2 years on her, what's the point in wasting more of your life and money? Ghost her and move on.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 08:26 PM
5

Sounds like she's been using you for your money, and is probably doing the same with other gullible guys like yourself. Maybe she has a bunch of idiots around the world who she's married to, who send her checks in the mail. Why the fuck would you marry and send money to a woman who you don't even live with?! Do you really need us to tell you how stupid you've been, and what to do here?
/r/askTRP22/05/18 08:14 PM
3

Jesus this post is confusing. Fast forward a year and half of a long distance relationship full of anxiety and being a doormat while spending 50k$ on the whole ordeal, my wife ended up cheating on me So you married this woman you met online? But you are not living together? What did you spend $50k on?
/r/askTRP22/05/18 08:06 PM
5

If you were meeting her out at a bar for the first time, I would say looking at your lips and touching your chest are legitimate IOIs. But if those are the only IOIs she's given you after "half a year" of chatting with her, my guess is they're not. You're probably deep in the friend zone since you haven't made a move in all the time you've known her. I would game different girls, or risk an awkward rejection/loss of face to your mutual friends.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:54 PM
6

Red pill.... Take care of yourself. Above all. Period. He's obviously a very blue pilled guy who should have grown some balls and bailed on that bitch long ago. At least now he's finally waking up to reality and asking for advice on how to fix his life. It's a start at least, I'll give him that.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:29 PM
2

before the red pill i would’ve asked what’s wrong and shit This isn't a girl, this is your friend. Ask him wtf is wrong.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:22 PM
1

"Let's do drinks at (bar near your place) this weekend."
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:17 PM
2

There's a difference between being persistent and being needy. The persistent guy gets laid, the needy one doesn't.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:05 PM
1

She apologized twice, so maybe she's actually sorry and didn't intentionally bail. I haven't responded to her. What do you mean? You're the last one to text her something. Personally, I would have immediately suggested another date in your last text to her: "No worries, how about next Wednesday?" But since you didn't, I'd wait a few days then reach out again and suggest another time.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 06:56 PM
11

You're over analyzing the situation. Once she rejected you and started dancing with the other guy, you should have moved on and found a different girl or enjoyed the music. Focusing on this one girl the entire time sounds like a gigantic waste of time. If I'm out at night and a girl rejects me or goes cold, I'm immediately on to the next girl.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 06:42 PM
1

Depends how she canceled it. Was she apologetic, and suggest meeting another time? Did she give an excuse? I usually give girls one more chance, since sometimes a conflict will legitimately arise, or maybe they're on their period. Wait a week then set another date. If she bails again, then delete number and forget about her.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 06:38 PM
11

How do I best avoid the other chicks, and get away with gaming the baddest bitch in the whole group? By doing the opposite, and ONLY talking to the other chicks, while ignoring or lightly teasing the hot one you want to get with. Her hamster will be trying to figure out why you seem uninterested in her, and you'll be more desirable.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 06:34 PM
6

She’s the first of her kind, and a kind that won’t be replicated. Unicorns don't exist. I’m not in the friend zone, she wants this to work but is incredibly shy. If you really aren't in the friend zone, then why aren't you fucking her or at least kissing her?
/r/askTRP22/05/18 06:29 PM
26

About 3 years ago I had a fling with a client that led to her becoming pregnant. Don't shit where you eat. Don't let the woman control the birth. Oops. I decided to take her in (she comes from poverty and was essentially homeless at the time ), marry her, and raise our child together. How nice of you. The abuse turned physical after the birth of my first child. Don't stick your dick in crazy. You took it a few steps further by impregnating and marrying a complete psycho. Were there really no red…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 06:14 PM
2

Here are some options: 1) Drive into a larger city/town on the weekend and game girls there 2) Lower your standards for practice sake 3) Increase your tinder radius
/r/askTRP22/05/18 06:05 PM
5

She tells me she loves me and doesn’t want me to forget about her over break. Translation: she wants you to continue to be her BB provider and emotional tampon, but probably won't ever fuck you. If you haven't kissed her or fucked her you're deep in the friend-zone and there's no going back. Find another woman to pursue or continue wasting your time on her, it's up to you.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 06:01 PM
1

You need to eat more. Start eating a surplus and get your lifts up.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:44 PM
1

These stats are 5 reps and 5 sets Dead: 214 Bench: 170 Squat: 160 Tot:544 Your squat sucks, the others are OK. You should never squat less than you bench. Learn to squat with proper form. My goal is: 423 Dead, 275 Bench, 368 Squat, Tot: 1066 Why don't you start with something simpler and more achievable: the 1000 lbs club. I am eating at a caloric deficit but I will change it to a surplus when I get a plateau You weigh 160 pounds and are lean. Why are you cutting? You should be eating a surplus.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 02:58 PM
1

she saw me leaving and asked for my snap, so I gave it to her She's clearly attracted to you, and basically asked you for your number since you didn't have the balls to do it yourself. Anyway, fast forward to a few weeks later, we would snap back and forth occasionally with no streak. She's probably wondering if you like her as well, since you haven't escalated at ALL and have been treating her like a friend for "a few weeks." One night she snaps me telling me she only got my snap cause I'm real…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 01:13 PM
1

If a girl you are "dating" doesn't text you, then you are no longer dating her.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 01:09 PM
1

What did I just read. Is there a question here? Who gives a shit? Your exes should all be dead to you.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 01:06 PM
1

A girl and I were driving past a lingerie store and she goes have you ever been there? She was trying to get you to bring her there and buy her stuff.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 01:05 PM
-1

"I'll have you home in time so he can tuck you in."
/r/askTRP22/05/18 01:00 PM
1

I've been seeing a plate for a good few month... How many plates are you seeing? Sounds like you need more options, and less time spent with her.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 12:58 PM
3

Iron Rule of Tomassi #4 "NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry within 6 months."
/r/askTRP22/05/18 12:20 PM
1

Clarify what the “fiasco/drama” is you’re talking about and what you did that caused it? Feel like you’re leaving out part of the story.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 09:59 AM
3

You're probably ugly.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 07:28 PM
17

The inflated ego you are talking about is created by beta males and society as a whole putting them on a pedestal their entire lives, up until they hit the late-20s wall.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:13 PM
6

Its called "cuffing season" Girls want a guy to commit to them to snuggle and keep them warm during the winter when its cold and they aren't going out as much. Once it gets warm and people start going out more, the cuffs come off and they dump him so they can slut around.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:09 PM
3

Small height (5'8'') Pretty much average height. Very small body frame (abs start showing at 110lbs, 130lbs make me look fat already) Lift. Very small wrists/hands Who gives a shit. Below average penis (5.1'') Once you're fucking them, it won't matter. Still have acne at 27 (Accutane gave me major depression, so I'm using BP which doesn't work 100%) See a doctor and get this cleaned up.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:00 PM
7

"I've been busy"
/r/askTRP21/05/18 01:52 PM
37

What is the difference with a girl who doesn't want to have sex on the 1st night? I have the impression that we don't want girls too promiscuous and give up easily. Or is it to separate girls who genuinely want to wait until they are comfortable from girls who use sex as a trade-off? In this case I 100% agree. I have a 3 date rule for sex. If it doesn't happen after 3 dates, it's not worth waiting any longer. Your time is better spent on other women. The birth as in, having a baby? a woman who w…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 12:32 PM
10

What happened? She met another guy off tinder who is more exciting and higher SMV than you. Nothing you did wrong, it was just your turn.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 02:43 PM
1

Was going to suggest “cool” but this works.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 03:47 PM
1

Stop being such a needy little bitch.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 10:48 PM
1

just hanging from a horizontal bar. Dead hangs did great things for my forearms. I have a pull-up bar at my place I do hangs from a couple times a day, just grip and hold on until failure. Great for shoulder health too.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 06:55 PM
1

Side note: Don't snoop. If you ever get into a LTR and you suspect foul play, your dick knows 100x quicker than your brain that she's a scumrat. Don't snoop, dump her or demote. This is so true. When you have a gut feeling she is fucking around, she is 100% of the time, in my experience. Snooping or asking who she's texting/seeing shows jealousy (huge turnoff) and is a loss of frame.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 06:23 PM
2

I didn't even need this right now and it still pumped me up.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:46 PM
2

Can you expand further on this? I'm traveling there this summer. What cities have you been to? Isn't language an issue in the smaller cities (nobody speaks English)?
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:44 PM
0

Ok so you caught her before she worked up the courage to reach out to him. What's she doing on a dating website to begin with? Maybe she's on other dating websites. Maybe you don't excite her any more. Maybe she wants some strange dick. She only is going to tell you what you want to hear. Wish I had good news for you, but this isn't going to end well, I've been there before. I would end it.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:30 PM
2

But I shit you not, every single guy in the library is staring at her like a starving dog. It's because you're in a library where there's nothing better to do but study (boring) or stare at a modestly attractive girl walking by.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:26 PM
1

It depends. Are you meeting these girls online or on a dating app? They have to be somewhat familiar with you to feel comfortable enough to meet up with a stranger for the first time. If its a girl you met in person and already built rapport with, then only text for logistics.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:23 PM
0

You've already messed up by getting all butt-hurt about it, checking her phone, etc. Total loss of frame. Here's the two ways to handle this situation: 1) Pretend like it doesn't bother you. "Oh that's great you went on a dating website, let's see how many guys you can find" "I'm going to go and make a profile too and let's see how many girls message me when I send them a sexy photo." 2) Your girlfriend went on a dating website and sent pictures to another guy. Break up with her, ghost, block, s…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:20 PM
2

I disagree with a hard next here, she could actually be busy that day. "Ok, what days are you free next week."
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:14 PM
1

These were my goals. I’ve achieved all but 2), but getting closer.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 11:23 AM
12

Here’s some goals for you: 1) Spinning 3+ attractive plates. 2) 100 women fucked (triple digits). 3) At a job that you love and pays well. 4) Debt free. 5) 100k saved in the bank and house/apt bought. 6) 1000 lbs club in gym. 7) Jacked with low-teens bf %. I could go on but there’s a start.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:37 AM
1

One of the ECs wrote a guide about threesomes, search “Uncle Vasya’s Guide to Threesomes”
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:30 AM
3

I’ve found some girls just don’t want to do anal and there’s little you can do to change that. Find a plate that does and stop pushing it with a girl who doesn’t, it’s needy.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:21 AM
9

Who gives a shit. She’s dead to you. Ghost, block everywhere, GFTOW.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 10:55 PM
3

You're missing the point.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:01 PM
1

Large shoulders with a slight hunch Sit behind a desk? Do only bench press, and nothing for your rear delts/back? Get on a proper lifting program, and start stretching your shoulders out. Not sure if I have any suggestions about your face.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 05:24 PM
1

You have the right idea. Act as if nothing happened, and hit her with "hey, are you around next Thursday to hang out?" or whatever.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 07:37 PM
1

Only text for logistics. You aren't "making progress" if you aren't setting up a date to meet her in person.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 07:33 PM
10

Sounds like you’ve already given up. Nobody here is going to wipe your ass for you.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:07 AM
1

Expert level amused mastery. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 11:01 PM
1

My go-to for height shit-tests: "we are all the same height when we are lying next to each other in bed"
/r/askTRP07/05/18 07:06 PM
2

I met a girl around this age on one of the Greek party islands a couple summers ago. She had a boyfriend back home who she had been dating all of high school. I fucked her senseless, after which she left to facetime him and probably tell him she loved and missed him.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 07:03 PM
1

Ok I didn’t read your entire post. Misleading title. Agree, sometimes a nice BJ is preferable.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 01:39 AM
1

Do you really think that Chad is going to hold their hand? Take them to movies? Wear cute outfits with them? Take them shopping? No, he’s going to fuck them and then tell them to gtfo. These girls want comfort. And how do you know this ugly BB guy holding hands with the 9/10 isn’t loaded?
/r/askTRP29/04/18 01:37 AM
4

Why wait if she wants to fuck? All that can happen is she loses interest because she thinks you’re a pussy for not escalating, or thinks you aren’t interested in her. And if you don’t want to fuck her, then you should be gaming a different girl.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 05:08 PM
1

Are you gay?
/r/askTRP28/04/18 05:02 PM
3

Young girls are in relationships with BB guys for comfort, resources, or because she believes her SMV is too low to get a AF guy. The second a Chad enters her life, the BB boyfriend will be cheated on and/or dumped. Girls aren’t only dating BB to marry.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 05:00 PM
4

Nofap is fine as long as you’re plating girls or have a gf you can get a release from regularly.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 04:56 PM
2

“Thanks, I’ll give it a look”
/r/askTRP28/04/18 04:52 PM
1

Sure, but I’ve found with some girls if they don’t think it’s at least going somewhere they’ll drop you for another guy. This way makes plates last longer. Just my experience.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 10:51 AM
2

Are you in highschool? Or are you old enough that you shouldn't be living at home?
/r/askTRP24/04/18 06:47 PM
4

Don't bring it up. If she directly asks if I'm seeing other girls, I say "yeah I'm fucking 100 other girls." If she asks "what are we" or "where is this going", I say "I like you and I like where this is going, but you could still mess it up."
/r/askTRP24/04/18 05:44 PM
1

Use your car or hers.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 05:34 PM
11

Deleted everything when I graduated from college. Best decision ever. Much more free time, forces you to talk to girls in person, and no major drawbacks.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 05:33 PM
1

GFTOW. Ghost and block her everywhere. She's dead to you.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 05:29 PM
5

Are they full range squats, with a barbell, below parallel? They started growing once I got past 300. Think my legs are the type that only responds to heavy, yours might be the same. Keep going, and keep the reps low. I’m doing 5x5 squats and it’s working well. Also, 70kg is tiny for your height. Part of the problem is you need to eat more. Put on more mass and your legs will grow. You should be at least 80kg at 5’9’’.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 10:31 AM
3

How much do you squat? Heavy squats got my legs growing nicely, nothing else really worked. I’m now up to 405 for reps, and they’re tree trunks.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 10:23 AM
8

You sound like an arrogant asshole. Instead of arguing with all the valuable advice this EC gave you (which he took time out of his day to write), listen to what he is saying, read the side-bar again, and fix your attitude.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:23 PM
1

She's fucking the "hot" guy, and stringing the beta guy along for his resources.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 04:34 PM
7

Don't talk about TRP. Let them be. More pussy for you.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 01:51 PM
2

Is there any defense against a women getting impregnated by a Chad and then hooking up with you and saying that the kid is yours in order to trap you? It's called a DNA test.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 01:50 PM
5

I love silence. During a first date, whoever breaks the first long silence is usually the most nervous of the two. Enjoy the silence and let her say something.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 01:48 PM
11

Is every girl you see when you go out unattractive as well? I have some bad news for you...
/r/askTRP20/04/18 01:46 PM
1

Irish girls are such sluts.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 12:59 AM
2

1) Once you’ve already met the girl, only text for logistics. You’re doing it right. 2) You can’t come out that strong and neg a girl that quickly. No wonder she went cold on you. Build some rapport first, and let her become attracted to you a bit, before you neg. Push-pull.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 12:55 AM
1

Unless she’s your girlfriend, I’d skip the birthday gift. Don’t get gifts for girls you’re fucking.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 12:51 AM
18

You’re either autistic or a troll.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 12:48 AM
1

I said "You just have to move on, death is a part of life". Awful text, she probably now thinks you're an asshole. I told her to make a choice, and that if she wants to leave then leave. Leave what? You haven't met up with her yet right? She hasn't responded in a couple hours so I'm leaving out from this. I'm surprised she didn't stop replying to you right away. Did I mess up anywhere? Yes, everywhere. The autistic text to her, arguing with her about it and telling her to "make a choice" when yo…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 07:30 PM
1

GFTOW. Ghost and block her on everything. Stop stalking her and thinking about her. She's dead to you.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 06:03 PM
3

Hi, I'll try to keep this short... Rambles on forever.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 05:29 PM
1

A year ago i met a girl when i was still beta billy and told her i liked her and all that gay ass shit she went well i have a boyfriend but we can see where it goes... Stopped reading after the first sentence. Once you're in the friend zone there's likely no getting out. You admitted you were BB when you first met her, that is what frame she has of you in her mind, and it's an uphill battle changing it. Move on, find a different girl.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 12:24 PM
16

Next time she brings it up say "what's a relationship if we don't trust each other" and change the subject. If she keeps pestering you about it, soft next her.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 12:22 PM
1

Clearly she just wanted a ONS and doesn't want to fuck you again.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 12:18 PM
1

Find another girl to fuck in the meantime.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 09:30 PM
2

It sounds to me like she dumped you. Why would you apologize to her? She should be dead to you. Find a different girl and move on.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 09:25 PM
3

All three examples you gave: She was probably using Tinder for entertainment (common if she's 18-20), or using you for entertainment while she fucked a different guy. She didn't "reject" you, she just never wanted to meet you to begin with. This happens all the time for me, it's a numbers game.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 09:22 PM
5

Sure. Girls will cheat on anyone, for a variety of different reasons. The key is accepting your girl will eventually cheat, and planning accordingly (spinning other plates and hard nexting if you catch her).
/r/askTRP17/04/18 09:18 PM
3

I went from 155 lbs to 175 lbs in the first year of lifting using stronglifts. It really doesn't matter what the program is, as long as you're eating enough and lifting consistently.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 09:15 PM
0

You could always try directly asking her why she doesn't. If it were me, I would next her and find a girl who pleased me the way I wanted.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 05:49 PM
1

Hard to answer without more context. I would ignore her last text or if you have to reply say "goodnight" and text her a few days later. She might just not want to hang out that day.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 05:44 PM
2

No, wait until she replies first.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 05:42 PM
1

I always ask her if she's around later that night. If not, try to get it on the calendar within the next week. Beyond a week, the chance of a flake increases exponentially.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 05:38 PM
15

Ghost her and next.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 04:24 PM
18

I fail to see why fapping is worse for you than fucking. Because in one you're having sex with a real person, and in the other you are not. Sex with a real person is very different, and there have been countless studies done on how much porn messes up your brain.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 12:17 PM
1

This is a fantastic post. If a girl really wants to see you, she'll get over her dead grandma and leave that assignment undone in order to drive the 20 miles to your place. A girl who is head over heels for a guy will jump any obstacle to get the chance just to see his penis again. This is so true. This girl I'm currently seeing will skip class to see me if I tell her I'm around that night, and has never flaked on me. Once you see this in practice, it's easy to know when a girl isn't interested …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 11:57 AM
2

Great post. I agree with almost everything here. Do not drop plausibile deniability until you are balls deep in her. Period. I disagree. I think there's a time and a place for being extremely direct about your intentions. Women are turned on by guys who are direct. Telling a girl -- at the right time, after proper escalation, and reading the situation correctly -- that you are planning to fuck her senseless later, can only help you, not hurt you.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 05:10 PM
1

I also work starting at 6am. Why do you stay up so late? Sounds like you're staying up until midnight if you're getting home at 9:30-10:30pm every weeknight. I get up at 5am every day and make sure I'm asleep by 9pm (8 hours), but guess some people need less sleep.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 12:14 PM
2

Sounds like a good program. I'm 5'10'' (180 cm) and went from 150 lbs to 175 lbs in my first year of lifting from following a simple 5x5 program that utilized the compound lifts. In my opinion, the program doesn't really matter. What matters is EATING right (in my case 3k calories/day) and CONSISTENTLY going to the gym (never skipping a lift). That's all there really is to it.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 08:19 PM
2

Thanks for the reply. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 01:23 AM
16

Women must need pain. No women want excitement. And for whatever reason you weren't exciting enough, so she branch swung.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 01:53 PM
2

My advice is just go for the makeout, earlier in the interaction than you would think. If you get rejected (rarely happens in my experience) then you can just play it off with "what I thought I had a green light." Once you kiss a girl its easy to escalate from there.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 01:38 PM
2

Very strong "first post ever", well said.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 01:32 AM
3

Did you ever consider ditching her in SE Asia and enjoying the rest of the trip alone? Sounded like the relationship was effectively over at that point, and maybe using that extreme option would have rectified your frame in her mind and made her come back to you. Or worst case, you would have been able to enjoy the trip without her, and sounds like you're breaking up anyway.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 06:00 PM
2

Just out of curiosity, do you make this clear to your plates up front? Or when they ask? I've never brought up I'm fucking other girls, and if they ask I find a way to avoid answering the question or make a joke out of it "yeah I'm fucking your entire friend group". Feel like its best to avoid a possible confrontation "I don't want to feel like I'm just an option"...
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 05:23 PM
7

Good tip. I believe we are all addicted to colors because in the primitive world, anything that had vibrant color (bright red, yellow, orange, purple, etc.) was a tasty fruit or vegetable. Maybe we are wired to get pleasure out of these colors as a survival mechanism. When we were hunter-gatherers, fruits were rare (seasonal) delicacies that required immediate consumption upon discovery.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 03:36 PM
1

I can't imagine this is healthy.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 07:56 PM
5

I think this is ideal, but for most people its hard to do it just once a week. It's like an alcoholic telling himself he's only having one drink every Sunday. Eventually you fall back into a downward spiral of every day, multiple times a day.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 07:55 PM
4

Good post, I agree with most of what you said. I do feel like sometimes you can overdo dressing up and look like too much of a try-hard. I always laugh to myself at that guy in every bar wearing the suit and fedora trying to peacock to attract girls. My best lay was when my friend dragged me out to the bar and I was wearing sweatpants, flip-flops and a plain white t-shirt. The IDGAF attitude that my outfit implied worked, and I brought home the hottest girl in the bar.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 11:54 PM
0

I hope to god that I never have a daughter.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 12:37 AM
2

Interesting. Maybe I'll try that. Yes, girls flake on drinks all the time.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 12:00 AM
1

I agree, girls do use guys for meals. But come on. If you're having a girl come all the way to meet you for a couple cocktails, do you really think she's using you to get free alcohol? What girl is going to uber all the way to the bar I choose on a weeknight to milk me for a couple cheap beers/cocktails?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 11:59 PM
4

Good post. But a coffee date? Unless they're under 21 stick to drinks, buy her a round or two, then ask her to help you finish off the bottle of wine back at your place. Much easier to escalate and maybe sets you back $20 tops. Don't think I've ever gone on a coffee date.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 05:48 PM
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