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Are you asking why media designed to appeal to the broadest audience has power and success fantasies that involve the bottom 80% or so winning. No idea, man. It must be a riddle or something.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:21 AM
0

Um, probably not since its extremely sad and pussied out. Tell your friend to get some help.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:19 AM
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ALL of her friends are drunks who sleep around? Might have some bad news about what she has been up to.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 12:17 AM
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Pretty sure not being torqued over netflix choices doesnt make someone smart, and it def doesnt take a genius to point out dwelling on it is stupid. If netflix counts as "it all" then I guess I owe an apology for insulting a crucial part of OP and apparently your life? I hadnt considered not giving a shit about netflix choice would be anything but kinda common amongst grown ass men.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 09:23 PM
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That's exactly how it should be. If you decided to get into a long term commitment with a girl and there was emotional shit invested would you go tounch with her? Would you be doing it wrong if ot was a great lunch with someone you cared about? Would it ne a fail if despite being a great lunch and cool part of your life it the lunch with your girlfriend didnt blow the lid off your life, redefine love for you, and make you generally act like a fucking moron? This is some blue pill fantasy residue…
/r/askTRP18/08/18 01:54 PM
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No. Because you shouldnt be having an emotional response to fucking netflix.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 01:45 PM
1

Have you considered writing a book?
/r/askTRP11/08/18 03:25 AM
0

Could you sue her for entrapment. Lololo. About as much as she could sue you for giving her baby fuckin idiot dna. Move out. Cut all romantic ties and do what you are legally required. Make it clear thats the deal forever. You cover your end and be a dad but that is it. Then make it clear you support and will pay for an abortion. You see all this comfort shit is shooting you in the foot, right?
/r/askTRP11/08/18 02:58 AM
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I'm not emotional about my trash but if you had a habit of cumming on it I probably wouldnt invite you over for beers anymore after that.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 01:14 AM
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No ultimatums or "if then" unless she specifically asks. Otherwise she knows what it means.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 11:01 PM
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It's a self solving issue. When you get sick of losing you'll be motivated to try. Darwin's cruelest play.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 09:27 PM
12

It's always sad to see a friend come down with vaginal cancer.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 06:19 PM
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Not really, because this sort of thing is instinct that becomes habit. We are applying rough theory to behavior. Women generally are not sitting down and considering sexual strategy. So she likely only has some vague sense of the wall and what it means. She isnt going to be making the conscious choice to be something she has never been in her whole life on that basis. All you can do is make sure you get a worse deal than all the other loads before you. So you ought to be evaluating them along th…
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:55 PM
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Meditation helps and you shouldn't be afraid to bring in a pro to help too if that's what you need. My point with the emotions being broken thing is that you need to try to separate this from a sense of guilt at this. If you broke your arm or got some weird cancer you wouldn't act like it was a personal failing. Clinical depression is the same thing. Your emotions are there to motivate the right behaviors. You need to understand that your aren't going to work right for a while so you need to be …
/r/askTRP30/07/18 06:16 AM
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"i took her virginity" According to whom? Tough love, man. What you did wrong was crack your own frame like an egg because you thought a college girl was special. Way way early on too. Nothing you do can be on credit because nothing you do buys loyalty. It doesnt work like it does for dudes where you say "that guy has done X and is worth my loyalty". It's a lot closer to "I dont feel like fucking around right now." She fucked a guy she thought was a player. She cheated on a guy who gave up his h…
/r/askTRP29/07/18 06:46 PM
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Of course they would. By definition they would. My point is you should be purposefully acting on your own steam. If you are LTRing so there has to be some level of consideration of her end but at the end of the day your reasons being yours has to be the final decider. There will be pushback from her specifically and society even on the little things. This applies to all kinds of things, not just relationships.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 01:55 AM
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You define "valid" reason. Who's standards have you been using?
/r/askTRP28/07/18 01:32 AM
0

1 day post tragedy. Close family, friends, or dog. Possibly upon viewing moving art but keep it classy. Single tear. None of this bawling or sniffling shit.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 07:24 PM
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This is an internet forum discussion literally no one should be the slightest bit invested in. I wouldn't read too much into taking the time to comment while waiting in line to buy my food on the way home from work, my man.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 05:01 AM
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He framed the question as the other guy played the game poorly did better. So advice on how to play the game better fits. If you're going with how to build a better autist we can go with your stuff. Although I have to say any advice on game that includes the caveat that not getting laid is just super and simultaneously shoehorns gay sex into the conversation probably isnt making the greatest hits album. I guess we could crosspost it to a sub for dudes who want help being more socially impotent a…
/r/askTRP27/07/18 04:26 AM
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Well, the above was assuming you want to play the game at all. If you dont just flipping the board is this obvious right move like you did. You asked and were specific about how the guy who played badly got action so thats the assumption I answered with. There are tons of situations where you wouldnt.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 04:11 AM
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The full on "fuck you" to a tease or compliance test rarely works outside of very specific situations. The problem there isnt aggression. The problem is that you werent funny or interesting, just a dick about it. The answer to this is pressure flip compliance checks while being forward and funny. Example. Yeah, I'll help out a lady in need but I wont be kneeling. So you make her sit where you tell her. You position her leg, then get her name, then tie the shoe but put loud like you would helping…
/r/askTRP27/07/18 02:32 AM
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No. All it would do is display your attention comes very cheaply these days. Honestly the pushing for physical when she was clearly ignoring you was dumb too but the past is the past. But she has rejected you then flaked. You need to be done here without some significant action on her part.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 12:59 AM
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Yeah, something is wrong with you. Its called depression. Go to a doc and get on meds if lifestyle changes arent cutting it. "I see that they don't really like/appreciate me and/ or that the girls don't care who I am." You dont have a fuckin clue what other people think. Get that through your head now. You have a broken emotional regulation system and your intuition on this cannot be trusted right now. It's not girls you see or just mets job to care about you. If you are waiting on that to live …
/r/askTRP26/07/18 05:10 PM
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Hey, there's a sidebar right over there for you to read. You figured out being dominant with a side of protection gets pussy wet. This wasnt super obvious before?
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:06 PM
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So you're fairly RP'd except for the part where you have blue goals and sensibilities? Yes, the problem is you. You mention meeting women in 1 venue and seem surprised when they are exactly who you use that venue to find. You go to burger king, burgers are on the menu. If you complain about the selection the problem is being a dumb ass and nothing else.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 07:48 PM
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Even vague references to your dick at work is playing with fire, my man. As a response it is a C. For context and risk F. The reason I say that is your reply includes the implicit assumption that it is something you would desire to make up for. See how that is a subtle frame shift? If it were me I might flip the entire concept. It's a short man's world. Just make something up. Like something silly and over the top like walter's jewish monologue from the big lebowski. I would start low key with a…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 08:09 PM
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Along with the other advice you see I will caution you to expect and deal with the 60-90 day crunch. What that is is that the end of the infatuation stage will be marked by her starting some shit that will be very stupid. The prior relationship is over at that point. All the starry eyed new pussy experience shit is gone and it's just a lever to move you with bullshit. The worst thing you can do is appease her. It will be that kind of thing. "You did/didn't do X and I'm Y". Do not explain, do not…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:44 AM
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It's deeper than that and simpler. If you say you are afraid of being wrongly accused the implication is the mob can be wrong. That's it.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 04:30 AM
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Most "neutral" facial expressions trend toward negative looking, particularly if you're a naturally stoic look guy. It isn't a flaw to my estimation, you just have to understand how people perceive things. If you are a more reserved person naturally you likely don't estimate this sort of thing well yet because you know your own mind and others don't. If I am not paying attention people tend to think I'm pissed. It's just a natural inclination to a kind of look. If it's fucking up your goals just…
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:01 AM
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Are you sure you aren't? No one on earth that ever says that to you from this point forward means it in a good way. There is no way to mean that in a good way. It's fucking weird that you wouldn't know. Oh, and you weren't smiling and I would bet you were looking into the camera, possibly from an upward angle. It's a shitty pic possibly showcasing a not so great demeanor. Got to be charming, my man.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 04:49 AM
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Sounds like you dont have to, she is nexting you, bro. Also, "LTR" at 4 months is fucking insane. Stop doing that.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 02:04 PM
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More a mild annoyance. I basically keep a few social media apps going as camo. Having them doesnt mean you have to be messing with it all the time.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 01:59 PM
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You sound like you are lost in theory, stuck in your own head, and frankly not very charming/fun to be around. I think you read somewhere that being stoic/hard is the key to pussy and just ran with it. Wrong. It's one slice of things. You have to be stoic in response to hardship, negativity, and rejection but you have to be charming and fun as a baseline for most women, especially at the age you are. You also have to get some confidence.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 01:57 PM
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You can't find resources for this? It's all over the sidebar and married redpill is a whole subreddit where exactly this kind of shit is described all the time. But in short you have to think of this from the standpoint of female solipsism. From her perspective, probably beneath any conscious thought so there is no reasoning with it, you "tricked" her into getting off the gravy train just before it rolled into the station to candyland. This is one of the biggest issues with divorces with kids, b…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 11:07 PM
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Oh, yeah man. I wouldnt apologize for some shit like that. This would be a good example of why it's important that it be your own standards that you go by because girls will gasp and clutch their pearls at shit on principle sometimes, and many have a lot of trouble telling the difference between being disappointed and being wronged.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 04:18 PM
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I think the advice you are getting on the apology tip is pretty silly tbh. I do agree that you shouldn't be apologizing for every little thing or as a routine, and you should definitely not be capitulating. But, and this is the important part, if you violated your own standards of behavior there is a point where you can man up and say you didn't act the way you would have liked. Once. and then it's a dead issue. You don't wallow. You don't live in it. and the fuck up has to be by YOUR OWN standa…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 04:48 AM
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See a psychiatrist for one. Without very specific info the best general advice is talk to a pro. Don't be afraid to shop until you get one that works for you.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 04:43 AM
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Too much explanation. You're DEERing too much. After a break up you're just feeding her attention lust and validating her decision, which shouldnt have even been hers to make. Ok, take care. Here's how we swap stuff back. Full stop. Explain nothing ever. You should place very little value on her emotional state or opinion on anything now, especially you.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 04:05 PM
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You dont know what a branch swing is. She was looking to score dick. It isnt the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 11:38 PM
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Did your parents mutilate your dick? Because I see a weird diatribe about how your parents did you a disserve by encouraging education and achievement with a side of it's their fault you're short and your dick is curved. What I didnt read. Dick is so distorted it causes pain and/or doesnt work. So it's totally possible you have a mutilated dick but weirdly obsess over being short and wearing glasses. Either way. Comment stands.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 05:22 PM
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You list every reason you're smarter than the community and lucky enough to have tripped over a unicorn. First one out too. That must be a powerful insight you were born with. So taking your almost supernatural knowledge into account she seems like a great candidate. Plate her for 12-16 years until youre ready for a ltr at the right time in your life. Shit, I'll even give you a smartest man in the room discount and say with your superior ancestral knowledge you could be ready in 8 yrs if you bus…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:30 PM
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youtube patrice o'neal and his monologue on the difference between "didn't have sex" and "can't have sex" You can be ok with an occasional "didn't" have sex. You can't put up with "can't" as in she just decided it was time to play a game with it and fuck with you. This was a comfort test and you have to decide which way you want to go with it. A little comfort from you is expected and normal. Even for plates unless they are very hardcore about plate status themselves. A rare thing. If it were me…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 01:12 PM
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Lasik is fine. Otherwise you are mentally ill. YOU. ARE. MENTALLY. ILL. Spend your weird dick surgery money on a quality therapist. Also your parents far from did you a disservice as described. You sound like a petulant child. Once you pay someone to cut you guess what...still you after. You'll still be you and the same shit you are running from will still be chasing you. Take a step back, breathe, and honestly assess your issues like a man.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:50 PM
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"I don’t really mind lying, I just don’t want her to be too sad." This is otherwise known as being a fucking coward. Owning it is the first step to fixing it. You are afraid of a woman's emotions.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:42 PM
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You likely feel like blowing someone or taking a dick is gross. Our standards aren't their standards. They are different. In every conceivable way. And yes, it's normal to find women who don't check behavior you don't like unattractive. What other standard could you possibly use?
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:41 PM
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It seems like you're locked into specific venues that aren't going to work for you at the moment. Have you considered looking elsewhere? Also you describe trying to dress better. Is this your style or do you feel like you're wearing a costume?
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:23 PM
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Certainly I don't personally have to know (or the internet) because we are talking in principles here. But the idea is that your purpose, your goal in life, isn't about women. Women, and the things that attract them, are things that come of your victories along the way of you doing what matters to YOU. If you can actualize that everyone else is disposable on some level. You can maintain the perspective that allows you to say goodbye to someone or something very dear to you just because it was a …
/r/askTRP16/07/18 10:33 PM
1

Right, you address that because by definition if you catch it then it isn't really on the fringes, but I would think the best way to deal with that is through your boss. Being so unassailable there that their bullshit is just ridiculous to him without you having to make overt action. Of course if it is low effort and low risk you can always apply a little friction directly, but on the whole this shit should come off as beneath you.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 10:29 PM
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The reason I ask is there are several keys here in getting over a oneitis. You fuck other women so you learn abundance. But you also have to have a mission in life greater than women, bigger even than yourself. Education itself isnt likely to be that. Education is a tool and force multiplier for your efforts. Neither is passion, although that is key too. The difference between a hobby and a mission isnt passion, but rather purpose.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 09:39 PM
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You said they arent treating you like crap. They're being conniving bitches out of your sight. For people deep in this behavior thats the best you can ever hope for. There is no mechanism to make someone fear or respect you enough to act out of character when alone or in friendly company. You just secure yourself in the organization, address issues that leak out of the shadows or are in your face, and if the opportunity presents crush them if you can do it without fucking up your position. But I…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 09:35 PM
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If you want to go on a crusade against every catty bitch you run across you wont be doing much else in this life.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 09:20 PM
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Unless she is super fucked up it's the strongest love her instincts will point her toward.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 09:15 PM
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No. Not one person of the thousands. You're an anomaly.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 09:12 PM
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What else do you do? You got a mission?
/r/askTRP15/07/18 09:12 PM
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Dont shit where you eat. A few months and you couldnt read a sidebar?
/r/askTRP15/07/18 09:07 PM
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Dante carried on his stuff in the biege phillip show. Its close. Not the same but close.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 05:48 PM
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If a gay dude did all this shit when you were tasked with training him at work there is no way you would be thinking he's just a nice fella making conversation with you. Stop hamstering this shit. The problem is you don't know what the fuck you are doing. You're a fucking child playing with a chemistry set and after the mother blew up in your face you're on the internet posting the firm conviction that you understand chemicals now and they aren't to be trusted. You caused this and it was doing s…
/r/askTRP14/07/18 04:51 AM
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Wait a sec, are you implying women are not only physically different but also have different expectations and standards with larger society? Fuck man, game changer. Is there a subreddit that deals with any issues that might stem from this sort of thing? It would probably have a name that sort of metaphorically alludes to taking something that changes your perception of how you thought realty was? Maybe something from a movie about that. Guess we'll have to just make due with the ole' red pill he…
/r/askTRP14/07/18 04:43 AM
1

For the level of stupid you put into this the settlement on the back end is a gift from the universe.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 04:34 PM
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So all you have said about yourself aside from describing clingy beta behavior is that you are spoiled and lazy. Stop doing that. The problem is they get outside your couch bubble to run into men that can keep a job and solve problems on any level. Not hard to get blown out in that case. Tip. If your family can let you "afford to ve choosey" ie lazy they can also afford for you not to move in with your girlfriend (certain disaster) and can afford for you to be BOLD and decisive.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 03:46 PM
1

A lot of the times the route to gaming is the same as treating them like you arent. That "shut the fuck up" you are holding in could get your dick sucked.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 12:56 AM
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How do you dress? Are you charming? Physique is just a piece of the puzzle. If you are looking for payoff solely on the grounds of being a fit black dude you need to be looking in the cuckold kink community.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 12:53 AM
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The male hamster in action, boys. She's nothing but a plate....and my best girl friend and I vent my personal problems to her. No idea where those escalating shit and comfort tests might be coming from. Where could whe ever have possibly gotten the idea from. Ladies are weird.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 12:35 AM
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Right, but there isn't an automatic "she sucked dick" clause in there. It's always framed as "did she stay home".
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 06:16 PM
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Discretionary is real close to "I don't give a fuck what she did." in our system.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 05:50 PM
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Aside from the lesson about fucking up your job you get this is a cautionary tale about coming completely unglued, losing frame, and acting like a weirdo in public. "She was visibly unconfortable in presence and directly stated she wanted to be alone. So I figures why not lurk a bit and try to kiss her in the parking lot." You dumbass. You're lucky she isnt smarter and the cops didnt push for more info, because your dumb ass could have gotten talked into a jail cell to cover her ass just on thos…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 06:58 AM
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You're engaging in passive aggressive shit and analyzing every detail so you think she must be equally as passive aggressive and be paying attention to every minute detail. You are the damn man. If she pisses you off or does something where you want to withdraw attention just make it clear and do it. Dont DEER it but you can make it clear why you're ending the night early or whatever. And put your god damn phone down if all you have to do is stare at a text and wait for a status to change. Have …
/r/askTRP07/07/18 06:52 AM
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Sounds like you are the one being passive aggressive. Have you considered being the man in the relationship?
/r/askTRP07/07/18 06:35 AM
2

How much pussy has been had in that time?
/r/askTRP07/07/18 06:28 AM
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Well there is already a lot of literature that explains theories as to why this might be both from a biological and cultural perspective. As to variation this is just how we evolve, everything is a huge bell curve with outliers on either side. If one way of being is more successful than another over time the fat part of the curve moves in that direction for the whole population. Of the bulk of us are in the middle ground the species needs dudes way out on the fringes to possibly move things that…
/r/askTRP07/07/18 06:22 AM
2

They dont like it when you sucker punch their cervix, man.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 06:10 AM
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This isnt even a relationship thing. Although tbh your assessment is off base there anyway. Your friend has a larger problem with being a fucking idiot. One personal term I have for this is unfrozen caveman syndrome. He is a man out of time. A few hundred years ago he would be happily trapping fur or doing some other survivalist shit. Leading viking raids or something. But he is here in civilization. Getting his action fix through gambling. Putting this dude on wall street is like caging a sheep…
/r/askTRP07/07/18 06:09 AM
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Most men would not. They MIGHT consider side action. Realize there are outliers, but the bulk of trp stuff is to prevent exactly the normal behavior. Which is to pair bond and idealize one woman. It is much more common for men to cheat knowing it means nothing and will go nowhere from the start. Again, I'm not saying it doesnt happen but the base wiring doesnt generally work that way in the average mass of guys. Think of it this way. Look at the mass movements out there, the common themes. Women…
/r/askTRP07/07/18 06:02 AM
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Men can certainly be disloyal and stupid, just for different reasons. Usually that reason isnt hypergamy. Also if you think hypergamy makes sense in explaining how employees and peers act you dont know what the term is used for. I think you mean opportunism.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 05:36 AM
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If you let them they become assassins of dreams. Never forget what you're dealing with.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 04:55 AM
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In nearly every jurisdiction divorce is no fault unless someone beats the shit out of someone. She can go in there with selfies of her chugging cock and it wont matter for alimony.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 04:54 AM
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2 months is early. Look into getting it annulled. Talk to a lawyer.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:57 PM
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Pretty shit display. It's not funny. It's not clever. It's not even in response to anything in a sane way. This isnt even a white knight thing, you absolutely have to be willing and able to poke at them and bust them out a bit, especially if they are coming on cocky. But rapid fire negging in response to stuff you actually want happening is fucking mindless and stupid.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 08:11 PM
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Since there is no question here is a free answer. "Like the time you said because I was spending so much time at your place I needed to pay rent or we should spend less time together. " If you actually did this its dumb as fuck and you should learn. Not for the stupid reasons she said. Its just a bad move.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 07:38 PM
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The real answer is disclose it if it comes up later, at the point where she is infatuated. When she is in that headspace it wouldn't matter. The danger is, like any problem, she can only see you beating it. Fault vs Responsibility means nothing to them. This is a key problem many guys have, they think they can be sensitive or weak if something isn't their fault. Not true.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 07:56 PM
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March?! That should be quite a few pussies ago. You want to talk about the tight cheeseburger you ate in march too? Forward.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 07:51 PM
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If you're breaking out a punnet square and gene sequencing printout on a date you aint getting that dick sucked anyway, Doc Mendel. How is this anyone's business unless YOU are looking to have a kid?
/r/askTRP30/06/18 07:45 PM
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The girl comes out to number 2 as far as guilt goes, at best, in this equation. More often number 3 as the husband blames the other guy, then blames himself, and finally her if he ever does.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 06:52 PM
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When she shows up all wet faced and crying imagine that's the jizz of all the guys she's been with since leaving.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 05:03 AM
1

Would need more info if the "why" is something you want to know, but even then there may not be a reason you could just point to. With no info it isn't even clear if you made any serious missteps at all. What you do know is you have to pick yourself up and move forward. If you think of something that motivated this shit by all means fix that for your happiness but otherwise you just have to live one day at a time and be better. Do not chase her. Do not allow her back if it comes to that. Whateve…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 04:02 AM
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If you need to send some money to someone and get zero back from it you can send it to me. I never betrayed you so I'm already ahead of her.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 12:19 AM
1

Is there a reason you are chained to this group? Cause it sounds like it sucks.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 12:00 AM
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"I tried explaining to him" There's your mistake.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 06:52 AM
3

You think way way too much combined with the certainty you already know what you're talking about. You picked up in how mercurial women are when her love thing flipped but then act like everything else she says must be the hard truth. Maybe the dad bod thing is as simple as motivating the behavior she wanted. She wants attention, your reply is no I am doing X, and her reply is that she likes guys that havent done X. The herps thing. Its very unlikely she is trying to "weaponize" her STD. Human b…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 06:03 PM
1

6 months, are you fucking kidding?
/r/askTRP24/06/18 12:41 AM
2

You need an explanation of why recoiling in horror from a phone and hanging up is cringe?
/r/askTRP23/06/18 02:14 PM
2

Amused mastery. Pressure flip. It sounds playful. Play back that her getting dick isnt guaranteed.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 04:55 AM
1

This is why you dont get oneitis and remain outcome independent. There is no insurance. Ever.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 11:50 PM
2

Very solid post. Was just reading up on supranormal stimuli. Kind of related.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 01:14 AM
2

"He knows that happiness is a myth." What a pile of self indulgent shit, made all the sadder by you needing a religion to prop it up.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 04:49 AM
1

Text 1 : I'll give you money! Text 2 : It's late and I'm so lonely, please come over. She's ignoring you out of pity and desire for a little orbiter buddy. She knows if she unleashes the industrial grade abrasive sandpaper you turned her pussy into with this sad display you will be too emasculated to ever give her attention. And she probably has some level of pity for someone who appears to be begging for sex.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 04:46 PM
12

No. You think to much. It's just a chick that wants cock but no relationship involved. Dont make it more epic than it is.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 04:41 PM
1

Deep in the wiring the women have to be prepared to care for children over a long period of time as well as face multiple changes of regime, because men do the craziest shit to survive. That evolved hypergamy and an innate ruthlessness. Men have to be prepared to do the wildest shit imaginable to get ahead or for the tribe to get ahead. That takes romantic sentiment. That takes a higher purpose. Notice that in romantic fantasy both genders tend to go for the fantasy that would prevent them from …
/r/askTRP16/06/18 04:20 PM
15

Just because you can look at being a child with nostalgia doesnt mean being an adult sucks or that you would choose to go back. Thats just part of life. I think you'll be a bit healthier if you look at it that way instead of immediately labeling it as "bad" or "wrong". Some days I remember what it was like to be a younger man who thought a unicorn was out there if I slayed enough dragons for her. Some days I remember how cool it was to be 6 and only give a shit about TMNT and nintendo. You can l…
/r/askTRP16/06/18 04:10 PM
1

This seems like a crutch for shitty self esteem issues but is the first name such that you could just go with the first letter? Hippy parents often came from conservative families, do you have a grandfather that you care for their normal name?
/r/askTRP16/06/18 04:05 PM
2

The media on all ends of the spectrum massively amplifies a very small voice by percentage. Most people drift closer to the middle of any given bell curve. That's why people who want to be on the extremes have to isolate.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 04:00 PM
6

You certainly dont owe civilization children but to make a blanket statement maligning civilization because there are trends and aspects you dont agree with is the mark of a fool. This is the most insidious remnant of blue pill conditioning and useless red pill rage. Stop whining like a god damn woman or child and jerking your dick to nihlism. No one ever had kids to do their duty to pass on society. They do it because they want to and their are biological drives to do it. There is no other reas…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 03:57 PM
9

It aint getting any bigger. Why waste energy worrying over jt.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 10:37 PM
1

Neither the line nor shitty attention to detail in communicating are effective.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 10:54 AM
1

No. What the fuck are you saying? He has certain goals and traits that suit an RP mindset but seems to largely aspire to BP goals. I would reference Rollo's discussion where he describes alpha traits have nothing to do with being a shithead or shitty person.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 10:52 AM
2

If your ex is both still texting you and in your head you have bigger problems than too much pussy in your life. Also...14 years younger. Jesus christ, you are going to let someone who was learning to wipe their own ass when you were learning to drive speak to you authoritatively on ANYTHING? Your fuck toy squeaks too much.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 04:51 PM
1

I'm exaggerating to make a joke but since you are committed I would go with cocky funny and amplify/flip. Thank the guy for coming because you werent sure you could trust this chick. Say it in front of her joking. If she wants a chaperone on date 2 maybe you have an issue.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 03:38 PM
3

Could just want a friend there since you are still getting to know each other and you chose an obvious rape venue for the first date.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 03:26 PM
1

It comes from not knowing who the fuck you are and trying to substitute articles you read for that.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 01:48 PM
1

Say thank you? You need advice on this?
/r/askTRP30/05/18 12:49 PM
2

Have you tried keto eating? It has shown some utility in managing bipolar symptoms.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 12:34 PM
3

Do not DEER god damn it. It's in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 12:28 PM
0

Someone who does some silly shit like that in public is looking to fight. There is zero reason to engage unless you are too, and if you are going into it with that attitude then there is no reason to talk, is there? Just get up and kick his fucking teeth in. Now that isnt my suggestion. I am just saying you stupidly walked into a clear invite to fight thinking words were going to solve it. They never were. To my thinking the person you talk to is your girl. You make a joke to her like "He's tryi…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:18 PM
1

It's you. This shit has been around forever.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 12:58 PM
1

Why would anything you do out of fear be ok...
/r/askTRP26/05/18 07:51 AM
2

Yes, they do. It isn't an act most of the time.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 01:43 PM
3

The average guy is a overly possessive punk. Women know this and accept it like pissing on the toilet seat. They expect their pussy to make you act like a crazy idiot, and most guys oblige them. Even if they don't like it it is common enough that doing it early would be noteworthy.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 01:20 AM
15

Shepherding. There you go. It's just a guy acting like a fucking border collie running in circles around the herd and barking to keep them loosely contained and isolated while they basically try to ignore him.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 01:17 AM
0

Don't be a pussy, that's what got got you here in the first place. They can smell the lie on you. You don't talk because you were interested and it didnt pan out.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:34 AM
2

Is there a question here?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:26 AM
5

Define your terms. Love as you see it is not real. That is love like from your mommy or unconditional love. Love within the bounds of the male and female imperatives is possible. Love as a verb. An action. Actions exist NOW, not as a platonic ideal in space. As long as you fit the ideal she can love you...now. You thought this chick was your soul and feels mate but I bet a big part of that was you liked to fuck her, right? Like all this sympathy shit, feelings, etc cant really be divorced from y…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 02:29 AM
2

Have you tried not being an asshole? Or boring?
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:59 PM
2

If you have resigned yourself to going through life as a pussy all other questions of technique, strategy, and style are pointless. You'll just fuck the next one up until you learn so go right ahead. Eventually you'll stop and ask why you are asking advice on how to be a more efficient pussy and start asking the right questions. Or maybe you wont. Good luck.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 02:34 PM
6

This sounds like she was playfully being bratty. She wanted you to play back at her because she was playing. You are too far down the rabbit hole with theory. Find some damn joy in your interactions.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 12:42 AM
5

Hey man, I just heard some shady characters talking about stealing her car, so I threw a brick through her window, snuck in, woke her up, and politely whispered that she needed to be careful as there are some shady characters about. And after all that trouble that bitch had the nerve to call me a disturbing creep. Just doesn't pay to be a nice guy.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 08:52 PM
5

You got taken for a chump. Basically she said "I promise to be less of a whore if you just tell me I matter enough for it to bother you. Tell me I can get to you." and you rolled over on command. This is why women are 5 moves ahead if you aren't paying attention. You're sitting there thinking hell yeah, I told her what to do and she did it cause investment when you just tipped your whole hand and she still went out on a whore run. You gained nothing and tipped her off that she has power over you…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 01:01 AM
3

I doubt it, especially in a bar. I would read it as a green light. She is signaling availability.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 06:50 PM
3

What kind of shit test could this possibly be?
/r/askTRP14/05/18 06:41 PM
3

Do not focus directly on results. Set a process or program you know works and measure success by compliance to it. You want geese that lay golden eggs, not one golden egg.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 06:39 PM
21

One thing you say is you cant see what the other guy did wrong. He didnt have to. Sure, there are a million ways to fuck up and she will bounce. You can also play a damn fine game and still wind up taking the L. Just how she goes, boys.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 06:37 PM
1

Motivation and fear. A strong silent type will be emoting and interacting as needed, to include smiling and whatnot. The socially inept will be visibly tense and afraid. They will clearly want to say something but wont.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 06:32 PM
1

I wouldnt hide. Just do what you do openly and proudly. You get a lot less bullshit on the back end that way and dont have the stress of shucking and jiving all the time. As to rep, you're in high school who gives a shit. But even after this "bad rep" thing is bullshit if you are owning your shit. If you get a rep as a dishonest piece of shit who will lie for pussy that might be a problem. If you get a rep as a guy who owns his shit and fucks then that only helps. Even if you eventually (long ti…
/r/askTRP14/05/18 06:29 PM
1

It's cute that you think someone would have to be emotional to see through bullshit, kid. Maybe that unearned certainty will help when she is gushing over the dude with the balls to make a move suring your next girl's night out.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 05:02 PM
1

So you have this thing where you label yourself but have to be the exact opposite? Interesting path. Good luck being the christian who isnt really christian looking for the red pilled unicorn hunter explicitly stated to not exist in red pill theory. Being full of shit isnt a nuanced philosophy. Oh, and if you arent committed to the action just be content being her little beta orbiter buddy.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 10:44 AM
3

How are you being confronted about something you arent lying about?
/r/askTRP14/05/18 09:19 AM
1

I had already read the other two, which is what makes this look like a marketing attempt sincr they are 2 very commonly promoted and respected books in the manosphere. You have 2 obvious recommends and this relatively unknown guy that literally tells a story a chapter or so in about how mastering the skills and mindset he teaches lets you do things like date the woman of your dreams only to have her leave in a year to do more important shit in europe and fuck other people, but that's ok because …
/r/askTRP12/05/18 05:30 PM
1

Think about what you're doing, jackass. In order to help her feel she doesnt need to try harder you want to make sure she understands your dick doesnt work right... What the fuck do you gain from that? Your best case is she believes you and perceives a flaw or weakness? Tell her it isnt a big deal and drop it for the hamster to run.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 04:16 AM
1

What can you do in the next moment to be 1% in a better position? Do that thing. Repeat.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 04:06 AM
3

Went out on a limb and checked out this corey wayne book. Please dont recommend this hacked out piece of shit work. If you're stealth marketing this or are the author maybe pass along telling the reader to google shit the author wrote in other places in a paid work is cheap amd trashy.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 11:55 PM
0

First off, it's what he needs to hear because he doesnt have the balls to pull the trigger and he specifically asked to have a fire lit under him. You think telling him he is top tier so be lazy as hell will help with that? Second, he has an average job. Average. Psych problems w/ meds and a huge blind spot to progress. And he does bodyweight fitness, the diet pepsi of man exercises for people too lazy to lift. I'm being a bit hyperbolic to make a point but the sad fact is if he was high value h…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 08:51 PM
1

"There is a girl who likes me but she is like 4/10 and I just cannot get myself to respond." Bro, you're a 4/10 at best and you fucking know it's about you being scared rather than picky.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 08:31 PM
2

Meditate. Don't sit and ruminate. Meditate. Then go do more stuff. You'll discover more in action than in sitting around forcing it. However, part of the answer is that except outside of extreme or fringe cases you aren't "supposed" to feel anything. You just feel what you feel. Is the feeling that you aren't feeling what you should a mask for you not doing something you feel like you should be doing?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 02:06 PM
3

"I answer that we can take it at her pace for now andd once she ends her relationship we'll take it at mine" Why would this ever seem like the right thing to say? Also, if you cant act like you have some sense when drinking cut back.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 11:24 PM
6

Really most things that you do righteously will come off attractive, but I'll give you one. Wet shaving. Not only is it just great from a purely man standpoint I have never once had a woman watch me shave with a razor that didnt get turned on.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 10:32 PM
2

You have a bigger problem. Even if this round of let's you and him fight ends with you not getting yout shit pushed in the next round is going to be let's call the police and say he assaulted me in our apartment. You dont have time to meet this guy, you need to be too busy moving right now.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:42 PM
1

And yet you have described a very specific problem. She is a bitch to you and neglects the relationship when in a specific situation. So if she does whatever you tell her because she is such a unicorn tell her how to fix it. You ought to be able to say be home by this time, right? I'm not saying this isnt a viable long term relationship but the conclusion you jumped to about marriage and what it means is fucking insane. She isnt compartmentalizing her emotions well and has shitty work life balan…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:32 AM
2

The opposite, the literal exact opposite, of every scrap of information in the sidebar and every quality post is contained in that statement. If we were making a caricature of blue beta billy fucking his life up believing in unicorns we could work a thousand years and never come up with a better thing for this cartoon to say to perfectly encapsulate the blue pill ideal and expectatiom that destroys lives. That statement is the fuckin blue infinity stone of not knowing shit about women. There are…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:28 AM
11

"I have no issues making her a house wife. The sex would be awesome and she wouldn't have to do anything." You are a fool.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:13 AM
2

Are you in love with the best pizza you ever had? How about the best shit you ever took?
/r/askTRP07/05/18 11:37 PM
8

She didnt "take" shit from him. He did this. The question you should ask is why you keep putting effort into this disloyal punk.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 08:26 PM
1

It is concerning that you felt the need to even ask this. How is it not obvious both what she is going to do and that ltr's are not even a realistic thing at 17. Enjoy then let go when she leaves for her fuck trip.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 10:02 PM
5

I realize in the moment a girl stepping this far out of line would be surprising so it would be easy to DEER. That being said this is such a nuclear option shit test that the only real option I see is nuke the site from orbit and be willing to take the L. As soon as she did this shit you know the evening is over, you are done. All that's left is getting this irrelevant bitch out of the way so you can salvage your time. So you treat it that way. You slide the bill back across the table, tell her …
/r/askTRP06/05/18 06:34 PM
1

Defend, explain, excuse, rationalize.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 05:08 PM
2

I speak harshly on purpose to emphasize my point. You have a guy here who thinks the path he needs to walk involves being the kind of person his own mother wouldnt like or root for. That sort of distorted thinking needs some shocking language in response for a lot of reasons, not the least of which is that the behavior he is putting so muvh weight into is females working as intended, but also is not special in the sense of being relevant to his assessment of how to move forward. Any man who ente…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:14 PM
1

I'll get right on top of worrying about triggering anyone on the internet. If you think I fucked up my point then you must have gotten my point, and dislike my style. Post your own random internet shit if you want it to read like you want.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:27 PM
1

What is tragic is just how thoroughly you have fucked up your understanding. You are talking about your mother and close female relatives. Not people on the street saying "look at this sad bitch". Female hamsters work just as hard at convincing them that their beautiful snowflake spawn deserve shit by virtue of coming out of their little snowflake pussies. That's why there is this whole body of reading talking about how you can not base your understanding of female love and possibility on matern…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:20 PM
0

People being sympathetic means you're weak? Never go full retard
/r/askTRP06/05/18 02:22 PM
4

You werent clear on plate status.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 02:11 PM
19

Have you considered being a bit less of a bitch?
/r/askTRP06/05/18 01:54 PM
10

You werent wrong at all in your conclusion but maybe a bit of technique. Like most guys, meaning someone not insane, you DEERed when there was conflict. There was no need and it actually presents a weaker frame. They know when they are stepping out of line. The problem is almost never a rational misunderstanding.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 01:35 PM
7

You misidentified the problem. It isn't that you can't be the best in the room at all times in all contexts. You date low value, silly whores. AWALT in capacity but there are degrees of stupidity and general behavior. If you can't leave a bitch alone for 5 min you're either sub par in every measureable way or you picked the wrong bitch.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 10:19 PM
2

I dont personally fall into this stereotype much but a lot of the drives that would lead men to lift fall under "traditional" masculinity, which is a bit more closely associated with right of center views.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 12:40 PM
1

Probably better to just give up your psych problem for now.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 08:40 PM
11

Rule of thumb, never assess value based on "plans".
/r/askTRP04/05/18 08:36 PM
1

You're 17. It's not possible for you to know shit yet anyway. Almost the first 2 years of college is common stuff so just jump in, man.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 08:26 PM
1

"I believe this LTR will help me to hold my frame constantly and therefore help me overall in life." You can only fuck this up.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:38 PM
2

Get out of the habit of applying purity tests to shit. Judge for yourself whether some or all of the content seems reasonable and helpful to you.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:19 PM
2

The time honored and evolved way is lead by example. In guilds it was apprenticing. Knights had squires. Farmers had their sons in the fields with him. Young men are like puppies, you can't tell or teach them much of shit until you get their energy mobilized. So do man shit with the kid.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:15 PM
3

Dont be a paranoid bitch. If she is it will come out and there is no point ruining your life in the meantime acting stupid. Find better shit to do with your time.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 06:16 PM
1

Yes, you are acting like a pussy and dont understand women. At all. A woman can and will accept shit you wouldnt even comprehend if hit the right feels and have an inner core of steel for the most part. Many of them, particularly higher quality, will bet on capacity rather than current available resources. IF you come off like a fucking man and not a whining bitch who isnt sure if he is alpha or good enough for her. If you are going through hardship for your fucking mission dont you ever act lik…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 06:15 PM
2

Why do you care what a girl you dong have the balls to pursue does at all? This is the equivalent of a whore sniffling abouy being "used" after the fact. Brother, you got exactly what you told everyone you were down for. Dont be a time and benefits ho if you dont like the morning after. Oh, and it isnt being ostracized if you throw a giant pre-teen girl tantrum and run away looking back to see if anyone will chase you. You did this, you fuckin drama queen.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 06:05 PM
5

See a pro, these are signs of bipolar disorder. From personal experience there are supplements that can help depending on severity and diet/exercise.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 06:15 AM
1

It's important to always yield to emotional pressure and say whatever is expected when women feels are in play. Maybe her feels would be better if you bought her a strap on for you to suck on for her too since that's what your barometer is. And how exactly is someone an fwb but accidentally not know? Take some damn responsibility for your shit. You're supposed to be the man.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 06:12 AM
2

Youtube Patrice o'neil's stuff
/r/askTRP03/05/18 02:07 AM
5

Zinc
/r/askTRP30/04/18 09:51 PM
0

You thinl they are thinking that far ahead?
/r/askTRP30/04/18 02:18 AM
181

If you passed on buying land that turned out to have a gold vein under it you might be a cunt about it if you had zero insight and thought you were the center of the universe. Same thing.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 02:15 AM
8

The longer I am in the game the more I see that girls are just amoral and aloyal when it comes to men. They literally dont connect the dots the way we do, and wont ever.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 07:39 PM
8

No fucking way would I do this shit. It's like a competition to see who ia the bigger moron.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 03:46 AM
1

Arrogance has literally zero to do with BB. Just say no to buying them shit.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 03:44 AM
8

You preggo'd up trash, my man. Simple as that. And you did it from a position of absolute personal weakness. What did you expect to happen?
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 02:05 PM
2

I figured. This is sidebar stuff. This is not a good age for LTRing anyone.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 06:37 PM
7

Let me tell you where you are fucking up. You give them way too much credit. Way too much. There isnt some massive conspiracy to hide this shit from you by people in the know. Most women know far less than you do, and dont really care to. Sophistry and emotional thinking does not incline someone to figuring things out or seeing thr big picture, and for the most part that's what they have to work with. Save your rage for the intentional, malicious evil you'll find in life, not silly bitches actin…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 04:31 AM
3

Why are you LTRing anyone at 19?
/r/askTRP25/04/18 03:55 AM
-1

She got the same 45 secs you did.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:06 PM
5

You don't talk in principles, you just ask the hard questions. "Why the fuck doesnt this bitch care about your health?!"
/r/askTRP22/04/18 07:40 PM
2

So basically it was her plan, not the plan.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:51 AM
2

Is there a question here? Even if not moving in is the right move (it is) you're saying you had plans that you now broke. Are you an autist? People get upset when you make plans and dont follow through.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 09:20 PM
2

Not that you should reply to this bitch but the answer to you must think you're a big shot is always yes, of course. You really aint shit to billions of people on this earth. Anyone that has a problem with you being a big deal to just one person, yourself, is a cunt.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 01:53 AM
1

Pretty sure you could only fuck a ltr up. Avoid regardless.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:08 PM
1

"(And I've dome more than my part to ensure that there's no trust deficitt; by sharing screenshots of whom I'm talking with if and when my phone appears busy so that she doesn't feel like I'm cheating on her)" Wrong. 100% wrong. Do not negotiate with terrorists. This is the same as if you said she has diabetes so you make sure to give her all the sugar she wants, but she keeps getting sicker. You cannot negotiate or appease your way through neuroticism. If people change at all its when something…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:01 PM
5

I was going to answer this but according to your lady friend you need to be told something between 6 and 10 times to get the picture.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 07:44 AM
15

Wedding invite before sex. Never seen someone so flawlessly headshot themselves before.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 02:11 PM
16

I was going to say something similar. You can really tell how fucked up someone is mentally by what they count as disgusting, and in this sad fucked up kid's case worthy of punishment (she is now something to break.) Let's see. She likes sex and touches herself. She likes him. That's this kid's criteria for basically calling someone a piece of shit. Time to grow the fuck up.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 10:34 AM
28

He had been telling himself that his church was his own personal unicorn ranch for when he decided to be done getting the "sluts" out of his system. Now instead of buddy christ giving him the thumbs up and a kiss on the forehead he figured out how little anyone takes it seriously.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 10:29 AM
1

Probably depends on the girl I would think. I would just play it cool. Be funny. It seems like you're being really serious in casual conversation with this chick.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 05:59 PM
1

No, but what good is your specific answer to this question? It is way overexplaining and the extra information says nothing that improves your situation at all.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 03:04 PM
2

It wasn't a shit test. It was just a failure at basic human interaction.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 01:38 PM
6

I mean if the point is for her to get the message that youre gay or a eunuch it's a pretty good line.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 01:00 PM
9

Did she promise not to make out with other guys before? Putting a lot of faith in the honor system, and for what?
/r/askTRP05/04/18 10:27 AM
8

If you were considering this at all what possible reason could there be to doing it before her trip though? I'll tell you why. Somewhere deep inside you know if your precious unicorn goes over there single she is getting railed halfway across the continent. Let's LTR up before you go is just an attempt at some half assed beta pussy insurance, based only on the honor system. You will be disappointed. Look at it this way. You already say she hopped right onto another dick because you weren't being…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 10:13 AM
43

"Became" beta? You are still there, bro. You're talking about LTRing a chick that cheated on you, bounced, and is going to be on an extended vacation in geographical bachelorette land for 4 fucking months. Just on the basis of the 4 month dead zone why the fuck would you even be considering this? Because she is the special unicorn.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 09:52 AM
1

No, all women. But equally applies to them. Running game is just running game. How you operate. Prospecting comes from sales background, which is largely what you are doing. Prospecting is filling your funnel. Talk to X women to get Y dates. Get X dates to lock in Y women. You have to figure out what works for you there.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 03:08 PM
3

You would be incorrect. It does present a benefit to gross women but, like everything, benefits the attractive as well. Because they can play both sides of the game. Feminism is the ugly woman's only real shot aside from acceptance and attracting an at par man. Attractive women can, with minimal effort, shift gears. Shit will happen for them their whole lives due to their looks and they generally play to that, but can also lay claim to most of the bennies of feminism too. Think of it like a golf…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 03:04 PM
1

And that is fine if you can be happy with that tradeoff and get that when you decide that it is time to devote time to that part of life the answer is prospect and run game. They will not generally approach in numbers that can successfully drive your agenda.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 02:48 PM
2

How you invest your time is your business, but you have to be real as to what that investment actually entails. There are plenty of things more important than pussy. It's quite another to tell yourself that your time invesment wont affect other areas of your life because women are going to break type and chase you around.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 02:40 PM
7

Haven't been approached in a long time? You waiting? Is wait to be approached advice you are commonly seeing in the sidebar?
/r/askTRP24/03/18 02:33 PM
1

My god, man. Do you realize that you have a combination of conditions common to all people in human history at some point? I mean why even try when there are only the examples of everyone ever to look at for solutions.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 11:00 AM
0

You mean you dont give sentimental gifts to people you have no feelings for all the time? Totally normal behavior.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 01:57 AM
1

Probably because women arent men.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 01:47 AM
1

The military is a goos route for picking up a lot of character and life skills, if you survive. If you have a passion for it I say do it. If not, dont.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 01:46 AM
4

To be fair to the brain damaged ex texting like a girl...OP's girlfriend did suck his dick after that exchange. Maybe it's a pavlov sort of thing and everytime he acts like a fool she gives it up.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 01:42 AM
2

So you noticed through all the painfully stupid bullshit he called it a date, right? Why even entertain this bullshit?
/r/askTRP23/03/18 01:39 AM
2

This shit right here is why you are gonna be a lost cause. Somewhere you are invested in a worldview that you can't possibly find success in. Go for it. Double down on the bullshit people have been telling you. Don't change a thing. You're absolutely right and there is nothing you can do and no ugly dudes ever get women. Ever. It doesn't matter if you're fit, successful, or anything at all to do with personality. You're done and all that is left is to whine about it online and perform no actions…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 12:13 PM
2

On the timid stuff? Yes. If you act like a timid bitch no amount of handsome can overcome. If you run your shit you can get a lot of sins forgiven. Look around you, man. You're telling me you have never seen a woman with a sloth looking fucker that you just cant puzzle out why? I'm telling you your attitude is hurting you more than anything. Stephen hawking didnt die a virgin, man. Stephen hawking.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 04:56 AM
3

The timidity. Ugly mother fuckers have been conquering the world and slaying pussy from the beginning. The timid have not. You have everything in you to survive and thrive.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:49 AM
2

Aside from the sidebar stuff pick yourself the fuck up and move forward, FOR YOU. They make more women every day. They dont make more of your life every day. You lost motivation because you thought they were the goal. They most assuredly are not, my friend. You have to internalize that and your own value.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:46 AM
2

Then no pussy for you. Yup, it's hard. A couple million years of evolution back the notion that being an ugly mother fucker isnt a death sentence. After all your butt ugly genes made it this far, didnt they? But being neurotic and timid is. The world is full of below average women if that's what you think you're worth. Sorry, no huggy advice on this one. The advice is fix it or fail.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:42 AM
1

You got to de-bitchify yourself. Your balls are made out of pussy right now.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 07:54 AM
3

Jesus, reading the anger mode spergs flip their shit when they clearly didnt bother to read the post is fucking painful. As far as OP os concerned, buckle up if you're waiting for that chick who was totally honest about her past. At least she knew when to switch gears. You sound like a wounded child who discovered unicorns arent real. Unicorns are just horses with makeup and a press release.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 10:13 PM
2

"I didnt know how to get any pussy off this hot ass woman, but luckily she posted a helpful guide on the internet!" Does that statement seem realistic?
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:14 PM
1

It's a comfort test and she is telegraphing the plate is about to break of you continue to be stupid about reading people. Just an anecodte but in my experience the single "K" is almost always seen as an attack or put down to them. If you are just spraying and praying without knowing what you're doing things will get stupid quickly.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:11 PM
1

No, I am saying that even if you were in a shitty marriage something clicked in your head. You had a kingdom of sorts. Your household. You don't have quite the same thing now because you have gone backward in the hierarchy. Once you are the head of a house it feels odd not being that, even if objectively where you are at now is better in every measureable way. You're going to have to figure out how you fill that void productively. Maybe it is building your kingdom another way in business or soci…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 05:02 AM
1

Let me explain what I think drives this sort of thing. This is not RP nor BP, it is an underlying drive/process that you can handle according to either way. I suspect that the progression of men through life usually follows a very rough pattern when you look at family and dominance structures. Here is what I can tell this progression is with a little comedy to prove my point. Serf (just a chump) -> Bandit (Scrapping it out in the world with varying success) -> Chief (Some level of success/status…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 12:46 AM
3

They lose.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 05:19 PM
1

It all feeds into itself but ok. Have you considered a therapist then? When you're at the point that you are confident enough in your knowledge that there is no point in listening to anyone but don't know how to fix it it's time to get a professional involved.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 07:32 PM
3

Yes it does. She is in no way abnormal in her behavior. He blew it.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 07:27 PM
56

There is another lesson in this too. I have never, not once, met a woman who won't get arrogant if she believes the game is won, regardless of how hard up she was before she met you or the consequences of failure. That bitch could be a 1 to your 10, and know it, but if you telegraph enough that you are hers she will get arrogant about it.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 07:25 PM
1

Is it a problem because TRP says you should be a fuck machine or because it is holding you back from your goals? A low sex drive is only a problem if it is a problem for you specifically. If it is and you have all this other stuff dialed in I would suggest that examine list. In particular you might look at a good ZMA supplement to trial.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 07:21 PM
1

So probably not that then. If you have everything else dialed in examine.com has a good list of aphrodesiacs. Although it has to be asked, is this actually a problem for you?
/r/askTRP10/03/18 07:04 PM
1

Were you noticeably different as far as libido then?
/r/askTRP10/03/18 06:02 PM
2

The average person in general sucks at facing rejection. So on average most people, women included will be shit at it. But specific to the scenario you gave women are generally keenly socially conscious and usually are thinking of a few different levels (this is not always a good thing). So she is both aware of social standing and thinks you are subtly digging at her because it is exactly how she would communicate.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:46 PM
1

Red pill in the context you are asking is a sexual strategy, not a moral one. Your question drifts into that realm. So no. Most women that identify as red pill want to capture the alpha sort of guy and get him to walk the line just enough to provide beta bennies but maintain alpha attraction. It's really no different than a man wanting a depraved whore in the bedroom that is susie homemaker outside of it.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:31 PM
3

Jealousy is an emotion that requires no further explanation as to it's utility. Anything she might want from you is better if you are jealous. Period.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:17 PM
1

Have you had your test checked?
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:09 PM
2

Depends on you. I personally go in for aftercare but I also don't fuck with women I wouldn't want lounging around purring after fucking. If they were annoying as hell or something I would probably just gtfo.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:08 PM
1

Whether it is wrong or not depends on the move you intended to make. Did you intend to upgrade her position?
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:05 PM
15

Stop choosing to be a hypothetical pussy instead of an actual man. Try it and see. Actual answer. People are so different this question has no fucking meaning at all except to distract you from doing something you are scared of.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:01 PM
1

Every bit of dialog you provided is not a woman initiating meets. On some level you are offering your time and attention to her and she feels secure enough to play some games with it. But the point remains. If a woman totally put in all the work setting everything up and then started giving you static the right reply would be the same.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 08:41 PM
2

Right out of the gate one problem is you're beint a pussy about terms. You said she turned it around on you but she didnt. You just arent being man enough to call it like it is. Having sex, going to dinner, and visiting venues is called fucking dating. It doesnt matter what lvl 10 bitch hamster you engage to lie to yourself. You were already dating. She can smell your lack of resolve and weakness, which is where this shit gets started. If you are getting push back you have to be willing to take …
/r/askTRP08/03/18 07:03 PM
1

There is important info left out here. Trip?
/r/askTRP08/03/18 06:52 PM
4

Most people dont know what the fuck they are doing or why. Your mom wasnt a liar most likely. She was just a person who was likely clueless.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 08:12 AM
6

The world is full of marriages where the man is unhappy with exactly the woman he said he wanted. This isnt a woman thing. It's a people thing. Most people have no clue what they really want.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 03:55 PM
3

Your brain tricked you into thinking local conditions were ownership. The weather was good for a while in a cool location, but now the weather changed and you had to travel somewhere else. But your brain tricked you into thinking it belonged to you. All that belongs to you are the memories and the lessons. You wonder all this shit because you use them to validate you.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:45 PM
5

Wait, your semen doesnt work without a contract? Is that like a union thing?
/r/askTRP06/03/18 04:50 PM
1

She was always crazy. It just revealed itself. How do you remove her? You need a lesson in not talking to someone?
/r/askTRP27/02/18 12:44 PM
31

The only thing I can see that you did is kill attraction by continuing to paw at her and fuck around after she clearly said no. It flips the dynamic where you are basically begging for sex. If she pulls the plug on the events the right move, imo, is full stop, and I mean on everything. You aren't her cuddle buddy or her vending machine for ego food. If you are feeling particularly cool you let her sleep there but you treat it exactly like your buddy is over. No pathetic ass begging for sex.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 06:49 PM
0

That is a pretty big problem. Have you considered the anonymous email option? Assuming a clear warning is all that would be required...
/r/askTRP24/02/18 05:41 PM
1

Like I said, you either decide that you want to back channel info to the owners to help or if the union is inevitable you need to be in a power position to prevent the shit you see as a problem. Those are really the only options.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 04:42 PM
1

I gave the name so you could Google it. He's an actor from modern family. Not a model but not disgusting either. The point there is you are doing this to you. Not genetics.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 08:07 AM
1

You start doing the right things, man. Go out. Get some skills. Lift. Eat right. Anyone that tells you they will kill themselves if you do something you have to do to be happy your fucking answer is "Do it on the tile floor not the carpet. Easier to clean." And you do you.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 08:02 AM
1

Direct confrontation is really really stupid and you can't afford to be this stupid many more times. First off it seems like most of the demands are for the worst employees to be around less and giving them space to fuck up more. How does that hurt You? But if there are real reasons to be against this that you can articulate aside from mean idiots make you mad then I would back channel info to the owners. Barring that if this thing is going to go through I would try to be as involved as possible…
/r/askTRP24/02/18 07:59 AM
3

First of all you shouldn't be at this stage. But if you are dead set on stepping on the take don't look at college. Branch out to other social spheres.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 07:51 AM
1

You are pretty clearly doing your level best at accentuating the negative. You aren't too far off Jesse Tyler Ferguson in bone structure if you were making the right moves.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 07:49 AM
1

They don't grow pussy in your country? You gotta move, man. I appreciate that it seems extremely likely identity thieves stole you girlfriends free email to register free apps to make anonymous calls instead of just getting a gmail themselves. I mean that's the most likely justification I can see. James Bond needed some anonymous calling to defeat some international threat and your lady friend just got caught up in it. Probably they lifted her phone and gmail while she was sitting in a cafe draw…
/r/askTRP24/02/18 04:54 AM
3

You are aware that the purpose of snapchat is to text and especially send pics that delete automatically behind you, right? They are trying to grow the brand but it's core is titties and sexting. Doesn't appreciably change the advice but acting like snap is the direct equivalent of say normal texting or messenger (which she could be using instead but isnt for "some reason") is a little off.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 04:49 AM
6

Only thing I disagree with is the first para doesn't sound peefect at all. Late teens LTR is a disaster.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 07:57 AM
2

No. You specifically are being creepy by adopting a persona you only partially understand with a clear intent to manipulate. They see through it and smell it on you. There are no shortcuts and you are confused partly because people use the same words for different things. Women will call you an asshole when you can't be easily and conveniently moved around but still like you. That isnt ehat you are doing.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 10:33 AM
1

You thinking this much about what the ladies in the coffee room are thinking is not normal, you are correct.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 12:46 AM
1

Open relationships rely on trust too.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 12:09 AM
3

Get your test and estrogen checked.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 12:03 AM
14

19 and LTR. Did we change the sidebar, guys? I swear this shit used to be covered.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 12:02 AM
2

I'm sorry she broke your unspoken agreement for her to enter a convent and become a nun if she couldn't have you. This is what fucking breaking up is. How she goes, boys. The antidote is do shit important to you and different pussy.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 12:00 AM
1

Because you are acting like a creepy weirdo who is putting up a front.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 11:51 PM
13

Yes, you fucked up. You're acting like a fucking petulant child throwing a tantrum. You shouldn't even be thinking LTR right now but you cut a 9 loose at college and now your feels are hurt because she got railed, with the cherry on top being you couldn't get pussy as easily as she got dick. Well no shit, man. Welcome to life. And yeah, communication is important. Like if you clearly tell a smoking hot woman you don't care if she gets dick as a cunning mind game you aren't even close to being ab…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:55 AM
1

Read the sidebar so you don't fuck the next one up this thoroughly.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 12:31 AM
2

They have hormones that work in a different way. It's supposed to be a more local effect to the uterus. Anecdotally, One of my last lady friends got one and couldn't leave her husband fast enough, and was falling all over my dick with some pretty basic man shit brought to the game. Her ex is a dick and a bit of a pussy, but he was like that for years before she switched. My point there is anecdotally I have seen some of that weird "switch back to normal" behavior when they switch from oral to IU…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 06:57 AM
2

This is another reason why IUDs are the way to go if you have any pull with your lady friends. They don't work in quite the same way hormonally and much harder to fuck up.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 06:50 AM
3

Eject. Now. You shouldn't be celebrating her birthday OR fucking with her when she gets there. Why are you explaining yourself so damn much when you know this shit is off base?
/r/askTRP11/02/18 12:12 AM
3

Some good advice here on not being alone but also the "don't cry" thing was fucking stupid as hell. It's exactly the kind of shit that sounds worse in the retelling. Also, it seems like your constant whining about her has given the impression that you just don't like women. There are stupid and incompetent people in the world. It's not your problem.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 04:01 AM
2

8 weeks l8tr? What? Starts fights when you get home? Does this bitch live with you 2 months in?
/r/askTRP05/02/18 01:48 AM
0

No. You didnt make the right decision. You wasted a lot og time amd energy concerned over something that shouldnt matter at all. And the entire reason you told her at all smells like validation seeking behavior. You dont wamt her but for some reason it matters to you for her to be interested. She doesnt matter but it matters enough for you to make sure she feels rejected and you have to be there to see it. Think about that and what it says about your frame.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 01:54 AM
1

Evaluate the reasons apart from the source. If it seems reasonable for someone to be upset in that situation or not.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 01:50 AM
0

This is a lot of talk and wondering over a girl you arent into. Someone isnt being honest with themselves.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 01:45 AM
1

Why would he set up this whole venue you arent into? So fucking dumb.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 09:12 PM
2

Yes
/r/askTRP25/01/18 03:30 AM
2

I'm sure it is possible, as you have nothing to compare it to. The alpha widow stuff is related to the sense that the "best" got away. By best I mean best in pushing your buttons and fucking. You aren't tracking on the fucking part, yet, so it's just about the button pushing. My advice would be to work through it and not treat this part of your psychology as something deserving of power over you. Don't think about this guy in terms of this awesome catch. The way you get over these things is to m…
/r/askTRP23/01/18 01:38 PM
2

That wasnt a shit test and that wasnt how you navigate one if it was. If she is withdrawing the answer is not to give attention. If a woman has decided you arent worth her time or effort there is no you fixing it by trying super hard.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 02:51 AM
1

I would say that is for the individual to decide. There is a whole married/LTR TRP subreddit after all.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 12:50 AM
2

You seem to be talking about frame from the standpoint of what you want the world to be sending your way. A lot of times it's discussed that way because the friction and dissatisfaction from failures in frame come at us that way, and that is how many if us identify the problem. But your frame is YOURS. You dont construct your frame to deal with shit tests. You construct your frame to be the you that you want to be, and shit tests just happen in life, ehich are passed because you are congruent an…
/r/askTRP13/01/18 03:42 PM
1

The problem you're having isn't that you think of good stuff to say afterwards if what you post is any indication. Your problem is that you aren't witty or funny. Also you care way too much about what random loser women think and are trying to construct a frame from the opposite direction.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 07:14 AM
1

If you are already on about how unique this extremely unremarkable woman is you might want to pause before she tears you a new asshole. She uses charm and sexuality to get free shit and benefit. Can you convince her to keep quiet before all the other women pick up on this innovative technique?
/r/askTRP12/01/18 06:31 AM
1

I would say you need to look at whatever in you makes you so reactive. A little joke and your frame blows wide open like a pinata. I could tell you how to be charming or funny in situations like this but it wont matter until you figure out why situations like this are so cutting to your ego in the first place.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 10:19 AM
4

You are thinking too much. Fake exasperated. That is the joke. But they wont be jokes for long because if you keep reacting to very minor tension amd humor like a fucking martian they will connect you as a creepy weirdo. She probably didnt want your attention. She probably hasnt thought of you at all just like most people dont think about most people. It sounds like she made a mildly ball busting joke in a social setting.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:45 AM
2

Nice until there is a reason not to be nice, which is rare. Being nice is easy when you have control of your shit and it isnt a game to get something. It is easy to be nice to things that you dont allow power over you.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:40 AM
1

Why is she your only option? Fair warning, every single bit of this going to be bitter medicine because your inner game is all out of whack.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:36 AM
1

Without knowing the full context but people bust your balls sometimes. Honest question. Are you any good at reading nuance or subtle social stuff? Because just off the text this seems like just being a lowkey asshole as a humor thing.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:32 AM
2

Gonna have to elaborate because what you wrote doesnt make any fucking sense. How is bringing someone else up an attack?
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:20 AM
3

A little patrice wisdom that I think keeps this in perspective is that sex is about the same as a car having wheels. It's just a basic feature. Buying a car with no wheels is just dumb. But it is equally weird if someone selling a car made a big deal out of the fact that it has wheels, or if that was what sold you on the car.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 12:33 AM
1

Like I said, this is a highly individual thing that you guys have to work out your own flavor. But you have to have some self awareness too. If that alpha captain vibe is what gives you the charge then that does indicate a certain paradigm. That being said the whole captain/first mate thing doesnt mean the first mate is just there to be told how hell it is either. It isnt a no input sort of position. But again, a ltr dynamic is very individualized and you guys have to figure it out. To put what …
/r/askTRP06/01/18 07:50 AM
1

I dont think the issue (if there will be one) would be due to sacrifice. All relationships require that, but you exerted power and he caved. I think you can trust what he is showing you is from a genuine place, but I would say it is probably not sustainable to stay in the current mode. Before you basically had a captain who knew how to handle guests in the boat but not how to mange crew. Now you have the same problem from a from the opposite angle, he still doesnt know to treat you as crew on th…
/r/askTRP06/01/18 07:15 AM
1

What's in this for you? Also, the phrase "I called him a hypocrite and for some reason he got angry." displays a naivety bordering on stupidity. People get mad when you call the hypocrites, even more when you are right. Can pretty much count on it.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 06:57 AM
5

Nah bro, you just gay.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 06:52 AM
2

You were fucking stupid and then tried to cover it with an obvious lie that only served to make it clear to her that you were afraid. She proceeds to treat you like the punk ass you were acting like. Most women smell fear and are disgusted by it. Also, this facetime thing is just stupid.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 06:48 AM
2

Depends on your purpose. If you are niceguying your way into pussy you are wasting your time. If you are orbiting you are wasting your time. If you expect them to view friendship as men do you are wasting your time. It would be a rare woman that could resist trying to put you into those roles. Being friendly is fine. Being friends on terms that are to your benefit is fine. This is significantly more rare than you have been led to believe.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 06:39 AM
2

You are dealing with someone that doesnt transition roles very well. The transition is probably genuine but as the woman you need to put some work into figuring out if you can maintain with him basically buckling like a belt on this. If he has just blown all respect you had then it is pretty well done. If he can recover and transition to a functional captain role then it can probably be fine. Just my 2 cents.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 06:33 AM
3

"shes starteed seeing others off tinder. Hasn't had sex in case I will commit to her" You've got to solve this being real naive problem that you have before you even consider a commitment.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 10:13 PM
1

I dont personally hold the same views as you on a lot but I can say there are a lot of people on all sides of the spectrum in every area. It seems like you are just going off of luck and who you bump into to provide your needs. If you're further right leaning or conservative there are churches in your area. Even if they arent dominant politically there will be a republican party you can volunteer at to meet people who are probably at least a little closer to you than some random asshole. The poi…
/r/askTRP30/12/17 05:05 PM
3

Just to put a finer point on things if you really have an attack of conscience you can in most states go to a simple web site and figure out what you will owe in child support. Just get in the habit. I understand the kid complicates things but I've beem there. It gets no better by waiting. I still kick in way more than required on my kids but it is much more on my terms. Not the total win I would like but I value the kids. What you have to donis figure out your terms and adhere to them keyser so…
/r/askTRP30/12/17 04:58 PM
5

Rather than do the whole jerking off to the vile woman I would look at how the old guy fucked up. I don't mean the silly shit she came up with after but the story involves her directly telling/showing him what was going to work. She wanted to feel safe and protected, meaning she wanted that sense of power and competence from a man. What did this guy do? He bitched. He acted threatened. He DEERed it up. Props to him for bagging the 20 yr old. I just hope he was smart enough to realize how little …
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 12:54 AM
32

Lots of advice on how to handle shit tests. Have you considered she may just be a fucking asshole?
/r/askTRP29/12/17 10:24 AM
3

Are you sucking dick or fucking a dude while doing this? If not, not gay.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 01:49 AM
1

If she is fucking nuts on the front end it will only get worse.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 02:43 AM
2

There is only 1 surefire method. You have to fuck her and prove it to him. If you cant oe wont do that nothing you can say will sway him.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 02:39 AM
1

God damn, man. She doesn't live near you and barely cares to let you know when she is around. Stop acting like a trapped weasel when she sees you getting your game on and wink at the bitch. Smile. Did you lead her to believe you were an item?
/r/askTRP28/12/17 02:34 AM
5

Hell no he isnt smart. What he is is desperate to cover his prior fuck up.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 05:52 AM
1

Because he is a guy who knows what he is talking about and not a cult leader? Lifting is a healthy and beneficial habit that this guy apparently doesnt feel like he needs in his life, and since he isnt asking any opinions on what he could be doing different I assume it's working ok in his situation. You dont have to throw a perfect game.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 10:12 PM
9

You were being a bit of a shitheel on this one. It's the man's wedding and a close family member. The world is full of pussy, but is it full of friends? Decide if the dude is actually your friend and act accordingly. You say he is number 2 so I would say you either have shitty friends or are a l shitty friend. Maybe both. If the man isn't actually a friend or friendship has no value to you then by all means go for it. But you cant have it both ways you cant value pussy over brotherhood and still…
/r/askTRP25/12/17 01:15 AM
2

My gut says you fucked up in overbooking things. 2 nights in a row and events during the day seems like way too much, if you're positioning this chick the way you claim you are. I think you are correct in that this was a comfort test and you did pretty well with the specific test. You cant say "it's a one off" until she doesnt do it again, and if you arent careful shit tests will begin. The takeaway here is if you're captain of the ship you have to anticipate shit so you minimize pushback so you…
/r/askTRP24/12/17 09:15 PM
2

You didnt break shit up. You offered to keep provisioning with less sex, more bullshit, and a handicap on your game. You have a worse girlfriend now. She still siphons off your time and resources.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 05:42 AM
0

Dont get pissy because you wrote a page essay on how unfair it is that girls can get easy dick. You wrote it, man. Nit everything merits am in depth response if it is ridiculous enough.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 07:14 AM
0

Why are you jealous of getting dick?
/r/askTRP19/12/17 06:56 AM
31

I'll refer to the whole beige phillip rule of anything you do 3 times is no longer a favor, it's an obligation.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 07:21 PM
32

This is true, and the best advice. My point was to hit this very specific illusion a lot of guys seem to have that being good to the kid gets you any kind of special standing with mom when it doesn't. Even if losing you would be devastating to the kid she will not hesitate.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 07:07 PM
356

This hits on one of the most insidious covert contracts men buy into. Its fine to take a child in and be good to them, even being a father. Never ever do it for a woman or expecting to gain respect or devotion for it. You will not. If you love the kid love the kid on the merits of that dynamic. The mom will not hesitate to pull the trigger on you though. Not for a second.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 06:01 PM
1

"I played it cool and said ok. She asked if that's all I have to say. I said yes and then we said bye." Correct "Like she was trying to have a serious convo with me by call me and saying something drastic." So playing games with your emotions and the relationship then? Sounds like a keeper. "Ive always treated her with care." How's that working out for you? "I know that this won't be easy for her." What the fuck is wrong with you?
/r/askTRP16/12/17 11:09 PM
1

Well shit doesnt change that much. Its not like you woke up today as the first person to think "hmmm, kids and a wife. Interesting idea." There is a whole married subreddit. To answer your question LTR and kids is one late goal. Not the goal.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 12:10 PM
1

That's one specific type of scene that you dont find interesting, man. There's nothing wrong with you for that. And there is nothing RIGHT with that scene just because some attractive pussy does like it. Its just one scene out of many. You have to have unconditional postive regard for YOU and then live a life that is worthy of that regard. Pussy comes.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 05:05 PM
1

This is why you have to have other stuff in your life aside from pussy. But think about it. A guy could have all that stuff (looks, money, etc) and you wouldnt just automatically worship them. You might think that guy was interesting or gifted, but you probably wouldnt just roll over and tell yourself they were worth more than you. It's the exact same with a woman except they have a pussy. Thats the only change. And a pussy really isnt worth much per se.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 04:39 PM
1

It's one thing to realize you have different interests or goals that arent going to be very comparible. But your entire premise seems to be relying on women possessing some inherent value or status that you lack and have to be worthy of. Don't give anyone that kind of power over you. Certainly not over pussy.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 04:31 PM
1

Enjoy the ride and never ever get attached. If this is legit you are the entertainment.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 07:35 AM
2

"Not looking for the classic dump her advice" Then what you are willing to settle for is the classic "I don't get my dick sucked" relationship. I'm not saying break up with her off the bat but if you don't think thousands of years of evolution haven't prepped her to smell when you aren't serious about something you are about to be taught a hard lesson in just how good they can be at bitching you up. "makes me feel guilty about my kinks" See what I mean?
/r/askTRP12/12/17 07:13 AM
13

I wouldn't even demote. Done.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 07:07 AM
1

Everything you think about qualification is wrong. They aren't gods that you have to petition for favor.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 07:05 AM
2

Stop apologizing and saying it is you.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 06:59 AM
1

I would go with whichever job is better for your mission. If neither really does then I would go with the money.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 10:31 PM
1

So why feel insecure at all? If your actions are in service to your own mission it's just money.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 04:56 AM
2

I think you need to look into why you think you cant do it while thinking it is important at the same time. My experience is the time not making big money bothers people the most when they dont have a mission in life. Do you?
/r/askTRP11/12/17 03:40 AM
9

Something you hear and don't like isnt always a shit test. Sometimes, just sometimes, she actually has a boyfriend or just isnt into you. Out of curiousity what criteria are you using to "know" you "passed"?
/r/askTRP10/12/17 07:35 AM
3

This isnt a woman thing. This is a life thing. Life will find whatever area you are inclined to be a whiney little bitch and you will sense friction there. That said a lot of this will come from your woman if you are like most guys, because your woman will be your biggest area in which to be a hypersensitive bitch. What happened here doesnt seem like a shit test yet, just her making a joke. But it will be the more she senses that it bothers you. Thats her job. So the real question isnt why that …
/r/askTRP10/12/17 07:19 AM
31

It's bitter medicine, man. I know from personal experience. Focus on you and getting your ship right.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 01:10 AM
263

You are still acting like this chick is your unicorn. This chick that lies to you (she is already fucking) and is absolutely full of shit (If I suck strange dick it will help us emotionally, baby). This whole post is about how you believe in fantasy creatures and magic. It's bullshit, all of it. That is bitter medicine but it is the truth. Read the sidebar. You and she were both too young. She has already jumped. Sitting down to logically think anything through was a huge mistake in response to …
/r/askTRP08/12/17 12:49 AM
29

Yes.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 11:40 PM
0

This is what happens when they ban incels from having their own containment. It's a shitty article about having fun during the holidays. You don't have to be an angry bitch about every God damn thing that involves a girl.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 03:12 PM
1

After 3 times I would just be done.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 06:56 PM
2

Both. Although like just about any human behavior it's usually not that overtly thought through.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 05:40 PM
6

"Had control over her phone (including social media) to occasionally check on her and it was all clean." This is where you set yourself up to have her hide things from you. You aren't as in control of your frame as you think you are. If there is real evidence that she actually did immediately cut the guy off I would just worry about your frame issue.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 05:30 PM
0

Report to HR first off and talk to boss. The desk thing phase 1 I would laugh in his face, take my phone out and start taking pictures. Then I would say this is great, I tell my friends about you and they think it's so over the top that this big a dipshit can't be real. Or just say excuse me and flip the chair backwards. Say it was an accident to him. Make sure no one else is around so you can just deny it. Just lie and say it didn't happen like that and he was in here threatening you. Or just g…
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:46 PM
0

"I begged her not to abort it" Stopped reading right there. Tell her to go ahead and do it, dumbass. Ask if she needs a ride to the clinic. Then no contact at all. If she shows up with a baby get a paternity test.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:38 PM
6

It's 2017. It's ok for 2 women to date. But seriously, you have a shit ton of work to put into yourself before you even think about some LTR shit.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 02:44 PM
2

There are some effects but it shouldn't be that pronounced. Are you doing this legally or otherwise. Are you monitoring estrogen? Because if you are juicing and getting that out of whack you can act weird as hell.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 08:28 PM
1

Do you really think someone has to be mad to tell you that you're being stupid? Look at the era we're living in, man. Look at how many rape allegations you read about with like zero cause and you're going to hand some chick this and see what you can get away with. To get some action you were already a moron for going for anyway. Be sure you don't use a throwaway for the follow up questions in a few weeks. People will need to do an autopsy on your stupidity to warn other kids not to follow in you…
/r/askTRP02/12/17 08:17 PM
5

Yeah, it is really blue to realize that leaving an electronic record of her agreeing to consent only if you use protection, so she can hit you with that convenient rape allegation if your half assed game works is fucking stupid. Again, step back and realize you're a fucking moron.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 07:51 PM
10

On top of being stupid as hell you're pretty much borderline planning a sexual assault. Take a step back and ponder just for a minute that you might be an idiot.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 07:33 PM
43

Only note I have on this one is the "women respect men with strong boundaries" thing is only slightly relevant to this, as the only woman that is keyed in to how serious you are in this story doesn't matter. What matters more is that you respect yourself more when you are serious about boundaries.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 07:27 PM
7

The best thing to read to get over a breakup is a text message from another girl asking when you can fuck again like last time.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 05:39 PM
3

I suppose the question is what you want out of the situation. If you're just done then what you do is break contact and move on. In any event I would have as many ladies in the chute as possible because this is never a certain thing. If this is a true soft next you have to figure out what your acceptable conditions are, and realize you can't really guide or coerce her too much in that direction. The point of a soft next is you are truly and authentically done but you might be willing to deal wit…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 11:17 AM
3

You don't have to talk to someone to tell them you don't want to talk to them. She is pausing because you were doing well and when you start caving she has to reassess if you're a bitch or not.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 07:55 AM
2

It sounds like you're an asshole and this "frame" will last about as long as it takes for someone to kick your fucking teeth in. It is a little odd that some or the disrespect you mention is pretty tame like people having opinions or asserting themselves. You insecure?
/r/askTRP29/11/17 08:28 PM
32

Come on, man.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 08:18 PM
2

It is stagnating because you are letting it. Move forward.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 08:13 PM
4

Sounds like you have been blowing comfort tests off. If you want her back but don't want to actually promise anything on a timeline, but we're considering going to the next level I might go with something like. "Hey, I know things weren't very traditional with us and I understand you not wanting to stick with it. I was happy with the direction of things but you have to look to your own happiness. Take care. Still one of my favorite people." This shit is a lot more nuanced than the average Rp ver…
/r/askTRP29/11/17 08:11 PM
3

You can't convert people to this shit, and if a shit marriage isn't doing it then nothing will. As a practical matter I would say you can't and shouldn't start with philosophy nor theory. You start with actions. Lift or do man shit with your dad and unflinchingmy tell him the truth. As for mom pulling attention works just as well on them. I will say that iirc some cancers do cause hormone changes that a preggo test might detect, so like 50/50 on that one being bullshit. You'll never really know.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 02:02 PM
1

I get that that is a huge pain in the ass, but you have to understand women are prone to this in the first place and at her age she is likely so far down that path there is no change. The only way to win is not to play. You own your shit and then you don't have to owe her anything.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 02:58 AM
2

So you are with a girl who has panic attacks if you aren't around and who supports you totally, except that with that support all you managed to do was fail. So really it reads like you're both co-dependent and not incredibly functional. Your mom has this long string of crazy mother fuckers she was into, including a few situations where they seemed to start out fairly normal and went crazy/had enough. So right there I would say your mom is crazy as fuck on some level. Probably co-dependent too s…
/r/askTRP26/11/17 09:08 PM
2

Literally no one ever said that about depression.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 07:23 PM
2

Give her info on where to get help then leave. This is the very beginning and it is already super fucked up. Make it clear that any contact with you that involves discussing self harm or suicide will immediately result in a 911 call and no further attention. This shit is a fucking game that relies on your compassion to make you a chump.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 07:08 PM
1

Every one of you are fucking crazy.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 06:50 PM
1

You fucked up with the response.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 05:28 PM
1

You need the mentality even if you are making the choice to narrow your current focus. Because lack of abundance mentality will turn you into someone she isn't too into, which will turn her into someone you don't want to focus on. This is why you have to game LTRs 10x harder.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 07:06 AM
4

I would start by getting over your own bullshit regarding abortion. There is no position for an very early term abortion to be "murder" in any sense of the word. Except religious. If you believe that strongly you should probably own your shit enough not to be fucking in the first place, right? She is 20. You haven't been together long. Abortions aren't fun and no woman has one and thinks "wow, that was great! I can just be a depraved slut now!"
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:40 AM
1

It's all the self doubt and angst, man. Along with the idea that this one must be the one. You seem to be in the mindset that this one is meant to be and you are going to fit this square peg into a round hole. Maybe she just isn't for you, man. That doesn't have to be a knock on your ego or anything, some people aren't right for each other.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:47 AM
1

Society hasn't come to this. It always was this. And I gotta say any chick that heads for the hills after 3 months of no contact and you offer to move in is probably making the right call. You sound like a neurotic mess.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 03:07 AM
1

If this wasn't a thing you were ready cool with then you are done. Acknowledge it or not.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 02:30 AM
1

Just ask her out. You overthought it and now you want more shit to think about because you are comfortable with thinking. Act. Or just give up on her and act on another one. But act.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 02:20 AM
2

They have a whole subreddit.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 02:11 AM
3

If your biology isn't doing the work on this one just dont worry over it. Become a millionaire at whatever interests you.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 01:59 AM
28

I think you may have not correctly identified what the problem was. You got drunk and called a crowd of young guys already posturing fags repeatedly in front of the girls they were gaming. The problem isn't that you're the alpha master and they were threatened by your smooth moves. The problem is you're a drunk asshole who didn't do a very solid risk assessment and were lucky you didn't wind up in the hospital. Act like you have some fucking sense.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 10:09 PM
1

Either she has a legit (to her) hang up or you are too far ahead on giving her something she wants like attention.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:10 PM
2

Do I use condom or not Don't worry. The fuck buddy problem will be a memory of better times soon.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:06 PM
1

You can't. He isn't ready.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 01:10 PM
1

Just for fun have her respond that the offer sounds great, and as an added bonus her boyfriend offers to come for free. He is super protective and even more fun, so he can keep them out of trouble spots and help find the party. Watch just how fast both the johns and your ex get real clear on what is being bought.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 09:47 AM
3

She knows what is up. She was willing to put up with it as long as he was a money fountain. Now he is still probably rich. But he is now a money pool and the pool is gonna get a lot smaller as these lawsuits come in. Not only that but she had some level of prestige in being connected. Now that is gone. So it is time to siphon off as much as possible and trade up.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 06:15 AM
43

Don't shit where you eat. Right there in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 03:35 PM
1

AWALT as far as potential but they are different in personal taste. Most like dirty talk. Not sure why you are talking about love here. They won't assume you don't love them, but they might not be as turned on as they could be depending on the lady. But if you are crafting what you do based off inspiring love you are in for a world of hurt either way.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 10:13 PM
7

Props for taking your medicine and owning up to bad decisions. At least no one got hurt. One of the better bodyweight books I know of is oddly enough called "convict conditioning".
/r/askTRP08/10/17 07:28 AM
2

From your original comment she is telling you something that you can't make sense of. Objectively it is stupid to prefer a shitty neighborhood over a better one. You seem like a pretty intellectual guy so that jumps right out at you. But what is she telling you? She is just reminiscing over some shit that has more to do with feelings than reason. She grew up there. As a kid she probably didn't know how bad it could be. She remembers family, friends, or whatever. The important thing to your goals…
/r/askTRP07/10/17 07:42 AM
3

I promise the bad man won't challenge what you think you know any more. Keep on trying to reason your way into figuring out women. I'm sure it is going well.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 07:20 AM
3

Is it this easy to crack your frame like an egg? Pretty defensive. Fighting pretty hard not to accept advice you asked for on the internet. Seems like you have it all figured out, friend.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 07:14 AM
4

Ummm, I def see your problem. You can't identify emotions and confuse condescension for masculine behavior. It will come, buddy. You'll get this.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 07:06 AM
2

Why are you dissecting what she says and correcting her? Are you trying to fuck her or provide life lessons as a father figure? Stfu and let her be silly enough to suck your dick.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 07:00 AM
1

You are being fucking crazy.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 03:27 PM
3

That isn't a plate. That is a chick you do shit for with no return.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 04:25 AM
1

Pomodoro technique is pretty good.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 09:49 AM
1

Very general rule of thumb? That gut response of "I can't believe this bitch." Is a shit test detector.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 09:43 AM
1

Seems like if you "know" not to trust anyone then you don't have to check on anyone at all. There is much more to your attitude whether you see it or not. There is no real point in being this insecure. As to your anger at the dude, it seems like she is the one inviting this. How is taking out her own trash not her own responsibility?
/r/askTRP30/09/17 09:40 AM
5

If you can't joke about fucking you got problems. It's fucking, not a second job.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:56 PM
1

Not finger painting with shit crazy. You know that feeling when she says or does something that causes you to kind of tilt your head to the side and say "Is this bitch, crazy?". That absolute confidence when spouting some shit you KNOW to be off base is what I mean. And I'll bet 9 times out of 10 times you roll over for that. As to your second part if you are arguing that God damn much it is time to go. I mean this shit bugs you enough to come here and ask. But you should decide what is a big de…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 10:03 PM
2

Well for one thing it is made up. Another is it is a fantasy about the PARAMETERS of hypergamy. The story involves women who have everything and take a shot on a (still handsome and rugged, lets not get too silly) lower class guy that has the one thing other chad doesn't. Alpha traits AND they worship them. They get worship. That's what those movies are about. An alpha male worshipping a female.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 01:45 PM
5

"Before you tell me stuff like ''dump her, loser'', she's far hotter than the vast majority of girls in the town where I live, and I kinda love her." Then bend over and be a good little bitch. Seriously, this is a game of chicken where the craziest and least invested wins. Guess who that sounds like? I'm not saying dump her. That will happen soon enough if you keep up with this weak bullshit and she sucks some other dude's dick. What I am saying is even if your preferred route isn't to end thing…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 01:40 PM
18

She got the same 45 seconds you did, bro.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 01:11 PM
1

You not wanting her there is the reason....
/r/askTRP28/09/17 09:16 AM
0

I'm kinda like Val Kilmer as doc holiday for an example of frame in the face of meaningless anger from others. "Why X. Does this mean we can't be friends any more? I'd just die if I thought we weren't friends."
/r/askTRP26/09/17 07:26 AM
1

After all that your question is how to get her BACK? Christ dude. Find your fucking fangs.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 07:22 AM
1

They will almost 100% tell you you are wrong doing everything that works except in their rarest moments.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 12:50 AM
4

For something like this I would just keep your head down and do every assignment technically correctly. No need to invite fallout with something as important as education.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 07:51 AM
2

Pretty sure your girl is in charge of telling her own friends to shut the fuck up.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 02:37 AM
1

I see a lot of talk and thinking and not a lot of moving. Go do something.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 02:35 AM
33

Come on, man. Really? What's the benefit it hanging around?
/r/askTRP13/09/17 10:26 AM
1

Which of the 3 women you should have on tap are you referring to?
/r/askTRP03/09/17 11:07 PM
5

Kinda seems like this chick is the last thing you need. You're an emotional mess.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 11:03 PM
3

Stop talking, man. Why does this shit even deserve the "ok". You are being reasonable and her shit is fucking batshit crazy.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 10:54 PM
1

The white knight thing I mostly see come up in the context of a stranger and even more often a stranger that is behaving badly to provoke the problem in the first place. The crowd you are describing that advocates zero regard no matter the relationship is a pretty fringe element as far as I have seen.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 10:52 PM
2

Kinda reads like you stayed to keep feeding her attention in the hope she would come around. Pretty beta. Also, fucking with some girl's ego then just hanging out having conversation you can't prove is how he said/she said assault allegations get made. Is that worth a shorter commute, assuming that is what you hung around for which it wasnt.
/r/askTRP03/09/17 12:59 AM
1

No "I learned something" is worth a he said/she said rape allegation because you hit some silly bitch's ego and insisted on staying around to have conversations you can't prove. If you get a hard no from someone you have been escalating on you need to get something on text with her acknowledging you did not fuck and fucking leave. This shit was dumb and not half as bad ass as you imply. He stayed there because deep down he was hoping it would work. He stayed close so he could feed her more atten…
/r/askTRP03/09/17 12:57 AM
3

Staying was extremely stupid for a lot of reasons. Like "you can't afford to be this fucking stupid, stupid".
/r/askTRP02/09/17 11:02 PM
3

Don't confuse what they like with what works or is best for them. Dogs like eating shit and junkies like smack. Doesn't mean the thing to do is shovel as much as possible toward them.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 09:05 PM
7

Not related to this but you don't understand AWALT. It is a statement of capacity not destiny. But again, not relevant to this because this is just a life crisis, not a woman thing. You just be there and help where you can. Try to let him work through his grief and not wallow. In the end only he gets to decide if the tragedy breaks him.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 08:53 PM
1

That's funny. I discovered I didn't have to consume any products I didn't care for.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 09:56 AM
2

Not complicated. You're super fucked up and need to get your head straight before even considering anything else.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 05:25 AM
1

"Conor openly talks about how he owes most of his success to her " Best redpill story? Nope.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 10:41 PM
3

He did something wrong in that he handled something stupidly. He didn't do anything to deserve these shotty accusations but he handled someone else's bad behavior in the worst way possible every chance he got. You can be in the right and still be stupid.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 04:15 AM
3

Sure, thing sport. The woman didn't say he let her grind her ass on him and touch his fuck while inexplicably he chose not to say anything at all due to the very best of nice guy intentions. He said that. My reply had nothing to do with if the events actually happened or if she actually did this crazy shit or told this story. I actually said I thought she sounded crazy and probably did what o.o said if you want to try a little reading comprehension. Her being crazy doesn't mean OPs story just ch…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 12:40 AM
4

Kinda my point. This chick is clearly fucking nuts but this guy kept quiet for a reason and let her control the narrative, which makes no sense. If he had told her to keep her God fan hands to herself in the moment this shit would have gone differently. I got the same read. He kept it quiet thinking it might pan out and misjudged her level of crazy. But that isn't a feminism thing, that's a crazy thing. Women have been getting men beaten up, jailed, or shot long before women's lib ever came arou…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 10:30 PM
5

I hate that it is being presented this way but Trump is just about the worst role model for masculinity humanly possible. Hard beta who lost the genetic lottery in every way but daddy left him with money so he never had to be a man. Dishonest. Cowardly. Lazy. Has the fragile ego of a woman.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 10:03 PM
1

Nah, if you have the cash there are concierge docs that will hook you up. I was in a similar boat and did it.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 09:41 PM
20

What a weird story. To be honest you seem either really stupid or lying. First off none of this is a feminism thing. It's a woman thing. Second, your friends girlfriend touched your fuck and you were just like "better not say anything about this obvious inappropriate and sexual behavior to my best friend." I'm not saying your story isn't what happened but you handled it in the weirdest, most suspicious, and stupid way possible.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 09:40 PM
3

Get rid if this asshole. How is this even a question?
/r/askTRP03/08/17 09:23 PM
3

You can do everything well and still have things not pan out.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 08:54 PM
2

Stop fucking and talking to her. Or maybe be honest that You're an attention who're yourself.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 08:44 PM
11

The reason you have any flaws due to bad genetics is guys like you have been power fucking pussy for all of history. Every other bearer of your cursed genes managed it somehow.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 08:43 PM
1

Like not being married.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 08:39 PM
1

So the point here is the women owed some kind of cultural loyaltly? Why?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 06:03 PM
1

Seems a little harsh. You probably pilot a several thousand lb vehicle daily that will basically immediately kill you and others if you fuck it up. But you manage to sing, scratch your balls, fuck with your phone, etc while doing it without white knuckling the wheel or repeating the litany against fear. It can be like that with women too even though the stakes can be high. Amused mastery
/r/askTRP17/07/17 03:18 AM
1

Awalt is a continuum of potential behavior. There is not magic unicorn, just ranges of more or less acceptable behavior, tolerances, and what not. You walked up and gamed your way into her pussy on the street. How fundamentally different can she be? Note this doesnt mean she isnt a worthwhile pursuit, just that people are people.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 02:35 AM
6

No
/r/askTRP17/07/17 12:58 AM
1

Most girls will rise to the level you treat her as far as entitlement and tests, only with less experience and finesse. You treat a charity case like a queen and you wont get an appreciative charity case, you get a fat ass asking what you are doing to be worth her attention.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 10:53 PM
1

Dont be available next time.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 10:21 PM
2

Any "hope" for what, you fucking idiot? Being her next victim?
/r/askTRP09/07/17 10:07 PM
4

Right there where you said if she did it nothing would happen but you would feel really disrespected and maybe consider things. So nothing. Sorry I paraphrased your watered down responses, but yeah, read them. You said a ton of times you arent doing shit if she "puts her foot down" on this double date with another dude issue. Dont get mad at me, man, she is the one giving you the finger here.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 07:44 PM
-1

Let me just stop everyone. The man said about 10 times he doesnt care who she fucks, he is just gonna pout about it and draft a letter. He didnt come for advice.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 07:38 PM
1

No. This is stupid.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 09:45 AM
2

"I'll be happy to help after X task that I have to finish asap. Until then here are some research resources and I am available to answer specific questions via email."
/r/askTRP05/06/17 11:22 PM
4

So the problem is you're a grown man and a some asshole you could just say no to is paying for everything? That son of a bitch...
/r/askTRP30/05/17 02:19 PM
1

It's a comfort test.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 07:36 AM
17

For a guy with nothing to lose you sure act like you have a ton to lose.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 04:42 AM
3

Yeah, there are just tons of people who's lives are ruined through use of high end escorts. I mean I am constantly running into it. More importantly before that bit I gave quite a few other options to make the best of your sitiation. Textbook shitty ass negative attitude picking out the most extreme thing and answering only that to deflect. If you are as physically fucked as you say you cant afford to have a fucked up mental game as well.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 04:32 AM
5

So focus on your health, get rich, look for a nice 1 or whatever that fits your lifestyle and fuck hookers. Make the best you can of it, man
/r/askTRP27/05/17 03:41 AM
2

What is wrong with your genetics? Are you a flipper baby or something? If you're just ass ugly get rich or date "1"s.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 03:14 AM
6

I mean if you want to tuck your dick and balls back and play bitch games like the other ladies for drama go ahead. Nothing "wrong" with it. Its just stupid and sad.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 03:12 AM
11

Call of the void.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 07:08 AM
2

I mean if getting laid sporadically knowing she is getting fucked all the time would be worth it to yoi, then yeah, it would be worth it.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 08:06 PM
1

Oh, thats just women. They are more social and adept at it. It is easy to use that to solve problems.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 09:54 PM
2

Think you missed my point. She has no use for you. So she basically ignores you just like you would something you have no use for. You cant see it because you are the main character in your own story but to her you are not. There are no grand designs or motives at play. To her you are of no consequence.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 09:41 PM
11

Does she have the last pussy on fuckin earth? Why jump through all these damn hoops for ass? A woman that wants to fuck you will find a way, you are just being a chump thinking the situation just magically evolved in a way for you to meet her emotional needs but she just "cant find a way" to make the physical shit happen. Here is a novel idea. Next time she tries to "emotionally cheat" be busy. Watch how fast the logistics just kinda work out.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 10:47 AM
6

Do you make it a habit to pay attention to things YOU have no use for?
/r/askTRP17/05/17 10:33 AM
1

She's crazy and you're being stupid. Next caller.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 05:36 PM
1

The books listed are good reads. My theory on shit like this is part of your ego's job is to protect you, part of that requires an understanding of the world. So when you challenge a worldview you have internalized, even for the better, it resists. Intrusive thoughts and fucking up things you "know" to be the path forward.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 12:23 PM
2

She wants the attention and security to know your dumb ass will stop what you are doing to tend to her. Stop being a chump. Next time she does this shit turn her to a random in the crowd and say he looks about your speed and smack her ass in his direction. Then say you are busy. Then tell the girl you are with you used to have a thing a now she gets weird.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 12:20 PM
1

If you are going to do some shit like cheating it ought to be in service to goals or wants you actually chose. Not some shit you are told you should want. In your estimation would it improve your life or not?
/r/askTRP12/05/17 08:55 PM
12

This. Saying it is not what causes the problem. The way most guys think they should act when they love someone is what fucks it up.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 12:21 PM
16

You havent faced many shit tests if you think this is a nuclear one. This is a chick who isnt too into you. You're playing it pretty well though. I would just put on ice and move on.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 09:48 AM
3

There is always having some fucking class and not acting like a fucking idiot. Maybe not emulate a comedian going for shock and comedy value in settings where that shouldnt be what you are going. You gotta have some tact and tailor your persona to the setting, man.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 10:00 AM
1

It's a pretty broad amount of theory so just suspecting he is familar wouldnt tell you much. You are going to see perspectives around here from a super manly to flat out botderline psychopath. At the end of the day you really only have what you always have. Do you trust the pattern of behavior he has displayed to continue and does that work for you.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 04:47 AM
5

You have my apologies for whatever troll or idiot wandered into trollx or whatever feminine oriented sub I dont personally care to go to or learn about, causing you to respond with the same douche idiot behavior. The principle you are shitposting about never said men were infallible and definitely didnt say that the concept that femininity requires masculinity wasnt 100% reciprocal with a similar need from men. Some kid who probably doesnt have a dad to guide him well just asked a damn question.…
/r/askTRP27/04/17 11:48 AM
2

Seems to me you foolishly engaged when it was stupid and unneeded. You know you dont have to reply, right? When she said she wouldnt bother you at home again all you have to say is youre glad you both see eye to eye and you promise to extend her the same courtesy when she goes on holiday. Maybe with a backhanded ask if it would help if you forwarded her complaint regarding the supervisors tasking to him so he can hear her concerns.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 11:38 AM
3

If your reading comprehension is on par with your writing probably a wise move.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 12:30 AM
2

Tons of the married red pill sub guys dont advocate cheating, at least not as anything but a last resort in a failed situation.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 12:27 AM
1

There is no shame in getting whatever help you need to be who you want to be. If you see a therapist and their advice doesnt connect you can always ignore it or find another, but you shouldnt reject help you seem to need just because of a standard that comes at you arbitrarily. It sounds like you have a lot of insecurity and depression issues, man. Until you get to the root there, or at least get out of your own head aboit it, anything else is just polishing the brass on the titanic.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 07:43 PM
1

"I've probably got clinical depression or some shit but I don't wanna go to a psychiatrist because I feel like I'm not supposed to be doing that. I've heard that men don't like to talk about their problems, I wonder if I'm being a stubborn mofo here."
/r/askTRP24/04/17 06:24 PM
1

It's funny how often you read through a wall of text only to see the answer clearly described right behind the phrase "I dont want to..." Ego's are a funny thing.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 04:06 PM
1

Bodyweight fitness and hotel equipment until you can afford better facility access. Hard budget and allocate funds based on a list of priorities you set. Dont resort to alcohol nor drugs to numb. Dont kill yourself. Get therapy if you need it. When and if you get the child thing settled insist on swapping the kid as a dead drop system, she leaves them with a trusted 3rd party and you pick up. No unrecorded contact with the ex for any reason, even the child.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 02:58 AM
1

Dont assign reasons for someone to reject you. Assuming there arent other issues like the other dude being a friend or unacceptable risk you have no idea how she feels about what she has.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 02:44 AM
2

Lot of very broad generalizations there, man. You are doing the equivalent of coming a general math forum and saying "You weird guys sometimes talk about algebra and calculus, but I am happy with long division. How can I want to be that into math just because others think it is important." The answer is you shouldnt. If you are happy by your own standards you are done. The existence of a larger body of knowledge others find engaging isnt a threat or use to you, but to be honest being a bit of a …
/r/askTRP24/04/17 02:42 AM
4

Jesus, dont you have better shit to do?
/r/askTRP24/04/17 02:33 AM
25

Why did you say how tall you are? No one gives a fuck how tall you are. Is it because the meme is women like tall dudes and you just bought into it? Did you think someone was going to advise you to be taller? The sidebar has plenty of resources but you seem resistant to that so here is this. Leave your fucking house and talk to girls. Ask them out to do shit that seems fun to you. Kiss them and fuck them when you can, otherwise have fun and dont be so serious.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 04:34 AM
6

It is rational that it matters for you to pass on your genes but you want to do it in a way that ensures both the worst pairing possible and minimizes the chances of both survival and cultivation of any actual positive traits you possess. This feeling you have confused with "rationality" is what fucking morons feel when they think they are being smart.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 09:31 PM
7

Christ this sub is in a freefall.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 09:24 PM
8

Why would this somehow be ok if she only goes to dude's house and sucks face with them when she is mad at you, you jackass?
/r/askTRP13/04/17 09:20 PM
1

You can buy the compound at play direct from nootropics places. DIMM.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 08:17 PM
2

You need more expansive labs but mine was higher than this and I def had symptoms. Started trt last week and already seeing a big improvement.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 08:16 PM
29

Is she just hanging out with you for the free candy and sweet mural on your van?
/r/askTRP03/04/17 04:03 PM
1

Keeping a oneitis around just in case is like keeping a little heroin around because you feel sober today but you never know about tomorrow.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 08:39 AM
2

Well as a vegan you're already into hippie bullshit, so what is the issue?
/r/askTRP22/03/17 10:16 PM
2

I think it is probably a matter of the right being more vocal and the left having more overt animosity to red pill ideas. So you have a mix of independents, center left, and the whole right wing spectrum. And the fundies are louder.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 10:54 PM
4

You gave it away with the weird dick tattoo fetish shit. Someone who just wasnt wired that way wouldnt feel the need to mutilate their cock over it. You either did it as a message to people that would never ever be in a position read it without significant and weird effort on your part or you did it as a message to yourself about your fucked up views on sex. Who the fuck has to carve a message about their nature into their own cock? The species needs expendables and fails too.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 09:23 AM
16

He is already scared to dump her because of her feels and puts up with her facetiming ex's. How much more beta could he possibly get?
/r/askTRP17/03/17 05:15 PM
1

I def understand that but at some point you have to consider the damage done to him as well.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 08:35 PM
1

Seems like it would also happen when someone is an asshole who expects you to coddle them forever. You sound like you're just rolling over all the time here.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 06:43 PM
5

How the fuck does a car accident cause someone to remember a bad marriage and shit childhood? Sounds a bit like bullshit.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 10:46 AM
2

No
/r/askTRP13/03/17 07:48 PM
4

My early years were similar. Dad wasnt a full deadbeat but wasnt worth much from a mentor or example perspective while mom did her best to avoid the worst shit single mom's do. You still wind up in a dangerous position because a woman cant model what it is to be a man. So that natural structure is missing.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 04:20 PM
1

Dont move the goal posts just because you are wrong. Your question wasnt a specific woman fucked you over so should you get rid of her. It was a very general statement about rejecting all women because you learned what they're capable of in principle.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 04:11 PM
36

Thats about like discovering dogs can bite so you dont like any dogs. Aka being a huge pussy.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 03:13 PM
3

Yeah, I knew she was not the kind of girl you could just get right to fucking by the way she was snapchatting a stranger she met on a fuck app masturbation video. I mean, thats clear evidence you have to play it cool and slow, right? ...
/r/askTRP11/03/17 02:51 PM
3

What you're describing isnt passive aggression.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 02:45 PM
1

His entire purpose is to do shit for others and get fucked over for it, not to mention the rather specific exortation that whores arent so bad and you personally shouldnt judge them nor think of their past. No sub that repeatedly indicates a dark triad personality is desireable can possibly also raise the king ot martyrs as the icon of that ideal. Including this in what specifically is an amoral theory is fucking stupid.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 07:35 PM
1

He was known for saying whores arent so bad and dont think about their past. He flipped some tables, talked some shit to religious authorities, and beat up a tree.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 07:32 PM
1

Uh huh, sure thing sport. Turn the other cheek. Get fucked over for the team. Literal messages over and over to look past whore's behavior. Nice fedora comment. Anyone seeing through your bullshit must be a loser, right? They have a blue pill sub for martyr fellating chumps. Go fit in.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 07:30 PM
4

Jesus: the ultimate beta male.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 09:11 AM
3

Actually took the time. The first 2 pages of submissions and comments are not related you fucking idiot. If you want to tell your story tell it, but this is ASK Trp. Not tell TRP.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 12:27 PM
1

It is a pretty good program although I disagree on his diet stuff a little. Can get everything off his website if you mine for it.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 01:54 AM
21

Gonna be tough. She already knows you barebacked a load into a used up drunk whore with shitty critical thinking. So she has you pegged as the dumbest mother fucker she knows. Why would she pay attention to your advice on how to not fund her dumb ass into her 50's, chump? Detailed in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 12:24 PM
3

If you had paid it would have paid dividends later? So, like a hooker? Pay to play.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 12:20 PM
1

She probably does but not from the guys she did this in front of. It is a bit too brazen, shitty, and impersonal.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 04:48 PM
1

Usually they will include the male if they think there is pariety. Include you making fun or something. To full on display shit qualities in front of you without regard (like golddigging) usually requires lack of respect for the audience. If she gave a shit she would want to put her most attractive face forward. Doing this shows about the same consideration as you taking a shit with your dog in the room. It is too far beneath you to consider.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 04:47 PM
46

Because she considered the men around her losers. Irrelevant.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 07:57 AM
1

Let me break this WAY down into caveman brain. We are the hunters, they are the gatherers. What she is saying is she believes she has pattern matched you against a background and identified what she thinks your qualities are. I have had red berries. They were good. These new berries are red. They are probably good. I know this plant. It isnt good or bad. It can be either. Men do it too from the the flip side. When your buddy intros you to a whore he has fallen for and literally everyone in his c…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 11:57 PM
1

It isn't a either/or choice. I would shoot myself if the face before voting Hill. Thinking one pampered rich dipshit is a bad move doesnt grant a pass to every other asshole out there who wants the job too.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 01:26 AM
18

She is improving while you are looking for excuses. Dont worry, someone will be along to next you soon enough.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 08:40 PM
3

Not sure having political differences than you is blue pill. I think Trump is a fucking entitled pussy unfit for the office but that has little to do with my beliefs on social dynamics.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 10:39 AM
2

I wouldnt do this to a friend of mine, because thats what being a friend is. Pretty ultimate dick move. My friends mean more than that. Some guy I dont know? Different story.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 09:50 AM
2

What went wrong is she sucked this dude's cock in between talking shit about you. And it didnt happen because you werent kissing her ass enough. Christ man, have some self respect.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 10:47 PM
1

Reads like you wasted a bunch of time on social media only to find your chemistry sucks in person.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 07:58 PM
3

Same way I handle any tragedy. I send condolences.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 07:50 PM
15

No issue with lying but god damn if you need to be loki, master of illusions, to score some ass you need to be building a better you.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 08:11 PM
1

So the guy is the problem but no balls to handle that? Is that read correct?
/r/askTRP10/02/17 07:58 PM
1

If you know she askes you into the other room to bitch and block your exit why the fuck do you go in there in the first place?
/r/askTRP08/02/17 09:58 PM
1

You kinda sound like a bitch. Why would you just wait around when she said she had to evaluate if you were worth her time? Deuces is the answer. No time needed. And dont explain shit to her or any woman throwing a tantrum.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:47 PM
3

She makes you? Have you considered having too much pride to be someone's puppydog bitch? Give it a shot sometime.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 07:02 AM
1

By being a dominant guy all the time.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 10:56 PM
2

Cock and ball torture isnt for everyone.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 06:16 PM
8

We have different meanings for "fucked". You are afraid to hurt a girl's feels. Was expecting a post about testicular cancer or a hostage situation. Only way you're fucked is by a weak ass lack or grit.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:43 AM
2

Be 5% better tomorrow. Repeat.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:39 AM
3

I guarantee this guy isnt on some forum right now talking about his campaign of disrespect against the badass alpha he sees at work. Maybe you're confused on which of you is beta because getting upset ovet something like thie pure bitch made faggotry.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:37 AM
2

Is this like a writing prompt to generate a story to disregard as much sidebar as possible. You even shoehorned in covet contracts for fuck's sake.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 07:17 AM
1

Fuck no. Could be better is about the worst thing you could reply.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 07:56 AM
2

Gonna call bullshit. No one would ever tell the police they assaulted someone if they didn't. Not white knighting here, as your wife is def fucking this dude and you are getting divorced, and should. But the part where you allege nothing happened but you just happened to tell a police officer investigating you that you physically assaulted your wife when you didnt is pure bullshit and possibly makes you the stupidest motherfucker on earth.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 07:51 AM
3

Just about wrapped up with the divorce. Autistic son (mine) that I love to death, but it is gonna be what it is gonna be. Daughter starting to display some behavior of crazy druggie bio dad and bpd mom, basically actively hates me for both being the discipline guy, being gone all the time to support the kids and mom's gold bricking ass, and bailing on mom's festival of bullshit. Lots of lifting, vagina, and whatnot since hitting the escape hatch. Nothing gained ever for signing any paperwork asi…
/r/askTRP26/01/17 10:42 AM
3

Both
/r/askTRP26/01/17 10:35 AM
1

Dark triad. Lie. Charm. Manipulate.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 10:41 PM
29

Got married. Adopted her kid. Wouldn't recommend it.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 10:30 PM
5

Great sex but she had no practice? Right...
/r/askTRP25/01/17 07:18 AM
6

Jesus, a little try hard there, bro. Protip. People you feel the need to make a detailed explanation of your reasoning and motivation to seem important, and you seem like a butthurt chump.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 04:10 PM
3

All of these situations could have been avoided if she just stood up and dealt with the problem, and you're frustrated she wont? But you understand the behavior, dont you? After all, these situations could be avoided if you just stood up to her and dealt with the problem, but you wont.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 03:43 PM
2

For the most part it is because the majority of the audience have been harboring special snowflake fantasies and dont need a detailed discussion of marginal cases to give them MORE ammo to hamster and delude themselves. It would be like training marksmanship for war but we spend 1 day on accurate shooting at common ranges and targets, and 4 weeks talking aboit the advantages of blindly firing because miracle riccohets happen and are pretty amazing. That isnt the shit they need to hear and going …
/r/askTRP21/01/17 12:30 AM
1

Not sure what you are asking. You can do whatever you want as long as it makes you happy and no one else gets hurt. Personally I think what you are describing is a dead end but it is probably the best time in history to try it imo.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 07:22 AM
1

Jesus this closet misandrist bullshit gets old. Would men have acheived if they werent assured of the most precious of all resources, pussy. You are god damn right they would have. Because that is what men do. You are absolutely right that monogamy plays a role in that as tribalism is stamped out there has to be some kind of game that feels winnable for ALL resources or civilization cant function. But to treat vagina like the spice of Arrakis is just sad. It is one piece of a very big puzzle. Al…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 11:25 PM
1

Just right out of the gate shaking up with some blue pill loser once you are out of options and used up is a pretty shit consequence. I mean we live in a world where there are enough homos that either of us could suck cock to get by if we had to, but I dont think either of us are excitedly calling that a back up plan. Doesnt sound fun and I'm sure it isnt fun for a chick settling. It isnt like the average woman is bringing enough to the table to snow some high quality man. The 5's of the world w…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 11:18 PM
1

So do women. There are TONS of fucked up and shitty consequences to the kind of bullshittery women pull routinely. The problem is you cant see them clearly because you still have tears of rage in your eyes due to the realization that they do NOT have the consequences you have led yourself to believe they should. The detoxing blue pill looks at the world where a woman can do everything wrong by HIS OWN standards and still get what HE wants. He rages and says this is bullshit, there are no consequ…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 10:45 PM
1

I'm a big believer in designing better systems but this is some true blue bullshit right here. Overvaluing pussy and mortgaging one's life to it via monogamy brought us out of the caves? Took us to the moon? It isnt just offensive but red pill is now an existential threat to society and the barbarian hordes will overrun us all because not enough people are playiny the game? Just the idea that you believe the spread of non-mono as the FEMALE imperative ascendant is amazing.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 09:56 PM
14

It shouldnt, and your rage/fear is a sign that you really dont get it and are still party to the biggest blue pill covett contract delusion of them all. The belief that if you are good/virtuous/honorable that you live in a world where THEY would and should be the same. It is unmasked by your dire predictions of societal upheaveal and marital crisis once it all just comes out. Once the world sees what you desperately hope it is blind to. Cut the don quixote bullshit, you sound like a god damn rel…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 12:07 PM
1

You read the side bar. We get it.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 04:12 AM
1

Men only get better at doing man shit as they age for the most part, with the exception of raw physical stuff.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 09:47 PM
3

Pretty hard to kiss the mrs after work every day wondering if chad from HR blew a load in her face at lunch too. You dont get an option for easy in this situation.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 09:16 PM
1

Go back to school for what you love, doing student loans if you have to. Bust your ass and work. Cut ties with the rents.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 04:23 AM
1

She thinks you are a creep because whatever psychological shit you have that causes you to obsess over what a bitch that doesnt even like you thinks and "make a game of it" (your words in a reply) leaked into your interactions and she could smell the fucking stink of it on you. Tldr She is right. Stop having creept obsessions and pursue other women.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:57 AM
1

If she was schizophrenic would you just talk her out of it? Probably not.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:29 AM
3

Wouldnt she be embarassed by how well put together you look then?
/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:27 AM
2

The only guy you have to be better than tomorrow is the guy you see in the mirror today. You have way too much going on to blow smoke up your ass on results because how would some internet giy know? But if you can find a way to be 1% better per week thats over 50% better per year, compounding.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 02:17 PM
4

Get better at sex...
/r/askTRP05/01/17 12:12 PM
1

Deuces
/r/askTRP02/01/17 07:12 PM
2

They dont? Fuck, I need to tell all these women eating that shit up that they're doing it wrong.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 10:20 PM
26

Aka marriage is betting someone half your shit they cant make you hate them.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 01:12 PM
11

You think all of the married people are hanging out with each other with their kids? lol.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 10:41 AM
2

Don't talk about your history with girls if there isnt a reason.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 07:47 AM
1

How is your relationship with your mom? Growing up? Lots of times shit like this begins there and you have to unfuck your head.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 07:44 AM
2

Is there a question?
/r/askTRP26/12/16 07:43 AM
2

Are you playing with the dog aggressively? Like flipping him over, etc. Related point, did you adopt a dog actually capable of hurting you?
/r/askTRP26/12/16 07:26 AM
7

Just about everything you wrote was beta as fuck, particularly your whiney ass entitled tone.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 07:48 AM
5

It means enough dipshits have done this for youtube it has become a meme.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 12:26 PM
4

Sitting here at 37 in the gym pretty happy even having fucked up so much prior. Have some fucking imagination and build the life you want, man.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 11:12 AM
6

You don't have to do anything. You dont owe her shit.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 12:32 PM
3

There is no artificial inflation of value in an open market, just a glut of fools who make bad choices. Fast food isnt "artificially" more valuable because people who make bad choices like it. It just has a value in conflict with your (hopefully) perceived value of it.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 08:28 PM
1

Communication is vital but not necessarily the kind most beta sources are advising. If you talk about your feelings constantly and kiss someone's ass you are not just communicating that data. This is a huge mistake men make, they think communication is just transmitting data when the subtext, method, and tons of other variables are more important.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 01:58 AM
2

It isnt the actual fucking that matters, but your attitude. You are the accelerator, she is the brakes. If you are doing your job half assed it will show.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 01:53 AM
1

You either have to let it go or let her go. As you said, you fucked his current. It is what it is, people know people.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 01:48 AM
1

You still dont know the truth. You know the insecurity she already knew about that she threw out there to shut you up and get you to just go away. Jesus man, are you going to go through your whole life with dick envy?
/r/askTRP19/12/16 06:00 PM
1

My advice would be to stop going into this with a half assed frame. You are acting out of the gate like she is the prize and you're some chump who has to impress her or you're toast. You're the one who speaks the language of all the shit she needs to function in the modern electronic world. Software guys and lawyers are the closest thing to fucking wizards in our world and that should be your frame. She should be blowing you like the mixture of 1's, 0's, and IQ points flying out of your dick is …
/r/askTRP19/12/16 12:35 AM
21

Why the hell would you "drag anything" out of a cheating whore that lied to you? Find the reason it was important to you to badger someone you shouldnt give a shit about to insult your dick to your face and you might have some insight into what you are doing to motivate people to act a certain way. Also you can be a catch and still get cheated on, and the person with a vested interest in it being something to do with you is the last person to ask. Unfuck your self esteem.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 12:55 AM
1

Lift. Zma supplement. Ephedrine. Caffeine. Sleep more.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 10:33 PM
7

All dogs will bite you in the right circumstances, should you keep the one that has because the next one has teeth too?
/r/askTRP13/12/16 08:14 AM
9

It's already on her terms.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 08:10 AM
2

Why is a submissive girl acting submissively to the original authorities in her life? Unsolvable mystery, man.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 11:30 PM
2

Sounds like her husband was a dick to her about it and she allowed it to keep the peace, but now that he is gone she is thinking "why cant I be friendly with an old friend?". Or cynical version. Attention.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 10:27 PM
6

He literally told you TO STOP DOING THIS IN FRONT OF HER. That is the problem. Keep your business private and dont rub her face in it.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 05:12 AM
1

I dont do mixes but powdercity is a good source. I wouldnt get too crazy with it young.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 04:41 AM
2

Right out of the gate your frame is how do I help her make me want to keep her. Why isnt it about the standards she must meet to keep you? Because those were the standards she started with and it worked for you. You make 6 figures and she is a fucking vagrant except for the kindness of family and yourself. How is it on you to motivate HER. Set the standard for the woman in your life and do you. If she goes overboard find another.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 06:53 AM
1

Have you tried asking what the fuck they think they're doing?
/r/askTRP04/12/16 03:35 AM
2

From experience you start this thinking you are getting the best of both worlds but you get the worst. Women who would cheat or just date you while fucking your brains out will be really weird about an open thing. It steals the prize from them when they cant either win against other women or poison their happiness.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 03:22 AM
2

You have mismatched sex drives. If you are willing to play hardball the question "How seriously do you take your role as my sole sexual outlet?" Gets things really interesting in response to the leave or cheat test. If you have established your credentials as a guy who solves his problems one way or the other a bluntly stated "this level of sex doesnt work for me" followed by silence will tell you what you need to know. But you have to be willing to lose the relationship in deference to that fra…
/r/askTRP04/12/16 02:57 AM
1

I let her aim a gun at my head but she says she knows how to use the safety...
/r/askTRP04/12/16 02:52 AM
3

Begging a woman who is ignoring you to please come wipe your nose and be your mommy isnt exactly something you want to do with greater energy in the first place.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 01:45 PM
6

No one's judgement is perfect, but you have to believe your judgement is sufficient and able to improve. You trust a woman just the same way you "trust" that the person piloting a car toward you at 60 mph or that the guy walking behind you isnt a mugger. Because in most situations it will be fine, performing the task requires you to act fearlessly, and you trust yourself to notice the signs that something actually is wrong. A trust issue is a fear issue. Learn not to be afraid and trust is a lot…
/r/askTRP28/11/16 10:39 AM
1

Do you imagine in your wildest dreams he isnt getting laid?
/r/askTRP28/11/16 09:45 AM
1

I think you are probably confusing alpha or trp with being a flaming turbo asshole. Not necessarily the same thing although lots of TRP guys might think so. But to answer you I have never known amused mastery, lifting, or owning my own shit to hold me back at all.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 09:40 AM
2

It seems like what you are implying is that the woman cant be a fucking loser piece of shit just because she brings the pussy to the relationship. Like every girl with a junkie or stoner is "dating down". Maybe she is just like him and they are perfectly matched.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 09:11 AM
8

Trust them with what? Most people say "trust" when they mean "I desperately need for you not to do X". I trust that what I see in someone is what I see, and that my own judgement is sound. If they throw me a curveball I learn what is to be learned, accept the sting as the price of admission, and move on. People that constantly obsess over trust are insecure. Dont be.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 09:05 AM
3

If that is the lifestyle you're into I suggest saudi arabia.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 08:59 AM
2

Quit while you're behind.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 08:57 AM
2

Your child basically called you a fucking idiot because mommy does. You should be worried about how she is being raised WITH you there to model taking this shit
/r/askTRP27/11/16 02:25 AM
1

Don't give free or unconditional validation.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 05:47 AM
1

No, and you wouldn't want them too. How can someone who doesn't find you desireable or attractive help others feel that way about you?
/r/askTRP24/11/16 10:25 PM
5

Get her on birth control to mitigate the damage and accept she is her own person. If she is walking a fucked up path you cant stop her. Avoiding teen pregnancy is your sole achievable win condition.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 12:10 AM
1

Taught So, we could teach basic grammar and english or those things could be taught to people. You're welcome.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 02:43 PM
2

Just a potential, if the point is to give him the heads up setting up for the hook up and then warning him has almost the same effect.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 11:55 PM
4

Your code shouldnt be determined by what your friend lets you get away with. If he isnt your friend dont say he is. If he is dont be a backbiting fuck.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 11:36 PM
8

Actually it isn't. And this is from a guy who gives no shits about taking someone's candy. YOU have a relationship with this guy. Betrayal is betrayal no matter how you pussy out on the guilt.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 11:16 PM
1

Less than 3 months? Are you fucking high? 2 days max.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 11:39 AM
2

Ummm....it applies x 100 if you are trapped forever.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 10:44 AM
1

I guess if your test is how she would react to you being extremely stupid and socially inept.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 03:51 AM
0

He isnt. They are both shit candidates.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 03:43 AM
1

It is a feature not a bug. Working as intended, bro. Welcome to "why moving in is a shitty idea" 101. That said you have to handle it like you have to handle anything difficult. Head on.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 10:36 PM
1

What are you wanting out of life that this prevents you from having?
/r/askTRP19/10/16 10:13 PM
1

Why? No one you would need to show would ever be convinced. Do something productive.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 08:09 PM
0

That sucks you got friendzoned by the only girl on the international space station with you. Guess you should just refocus. Oh, you're on fucking Earth? A beautiful blue ball with god damn millions of women? Maybe talk to them.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 11:09 PM
21

Say "what the fuck are you doing, you stupid asshole." Say that into the mirror then call someone else.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 11:05 PM
6

Umm, yeah. This was a trap to get you on tape saying you cheated for a divorce rape, man. Think about it, if the interaction was genuine why would she have shit already recording? The whole purpose is to blue ball you up then ask a pointed question while you werent thinking right. Get the fuck out, and I mean out of the house. You have no expectation of privacy even in your own bedroom discussing the most intimate shit. Fuck. That.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 11:53 PM
1

You ditched your security without a plan because your feels were off and your job couldn't turn that frown upside down. But then again neither could poverty, could it? Get a new job. Get a new woman or lots of women. Realize as a real live grown up you cant tantrum because your job sucks and when you fly off half cocked without a plan the woman who is supposed to follow your lead is gonna have some reservations. Also, who the fuck gets a degree in accounting if job excitement is that big a deal …
/r/askTRP05/10/16 11:32 PM
1

Hold on...bro aint got a job and we're on life partner advice?!
/r/askTRP04/10/16 11:45 PM
1

Every shitty relationship and failed marriage ever involved people that could have been pretty good of they managed to unfuck themselves and not be shit. Besides, what is her motivation to change? You are making it clear that the relationship is here to service her and her problems. People with psych problems generally dont fix anything they dont have to. If you arent willing to take it that far amd just sit here hampstering then you deserve what you get. Maybe she'll just see it all and change …
/r/askTRP04/10/16 09:55 PM
1

She's great...except everything is a bullshit neurotic hassle, she doesnt trust me, and she dumps me expecting me to roll over on command like a fucking chump if she changes her mind. Yeah man, corral that unicorn immediately.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 07:14 PM
7

Are you asking why rubbing your dickhole into shit is the riskiest place you couls for infection?
/r/askTRP04/10/16 07:05 PM
1

Is it either or? Cause I can like you and find another girl...
/r/askTRP03/10/16 08:54 PM
3

I get that TRP changes everything, but there is an additional secret level to this where I get to keep doing the same exact shit I always was but it works now, right?
/r/askTRP03/10/16 08:53 PM
1

So you just want women looking for losers? I guess just pick up ladies working at arby's, man.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 08:50 PM
2

Almost every point has to do with fear and in a few you are outright lying to her out of fear. Maybe work on that.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 10:35 PM
1

Ok with whom? The international standards in tongue wrestling bureau?
/r/askTRP30/09/16 11:34 AM
2

Good man. The world needs eunuchs too.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 04:29 PM
1

You made a weird assumption there that anyone owes that random guy shit.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 05:12 PM
7

The problem is you're operating on a busted shitty paradigm but dont want to pay the price of admission. With your conservative shit this is what you get. The next step is marrying this chick, that is the point. Blue balls is encouraged to motivate you to do something fucking stupid like sign a contract with zero due dilligence. You've been programmed to expect to win the lottery by letting someonr else pick the numbers. Go for it. You wont learn until you step on the rake for yourself. The cons…
/r/askTRP20/09/16 01:11 AM
1

This somewhat falls under the premise of treating women like children that a lot of angry mother fuckers cant get. Children can smell a stuck up asshole who doesnt like kids a mile away, and nothing will change that. It's the same with women. If you are harbor fear, resentment, or especially hatred they will sniff it out. You should not be discussing TRP with any women any more than when you're hanging out with your niece/nephew/kids in your family you shouldnt be talking adult shit and asking a…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 01:00 AM
5

She wants to enjoy her body while it's young, whatever that means? Really? You can't quite see what that means?
/r/askTRP15/09/16 03:34 AM
3

Like many alphas he was pretty shit as a caregiver or nurturer, but as an example looking back he was a better role model than I saw as a kid.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 02:14 AM
14

My grandpa literally tells this as the story of my mom's conception. "Doc said she was pregnant. Turns out she wasnt but it was the go ahead to fuck wide open, so by the time we noticed the mistake she really was."
/r/askTRP14/09/16 09:16 PM
4

"Sad" in a "I don't give a shit about any of these people and nothing of value was lost." sort of way. It's a very subtle flavor of sadness.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 02:47 PM
1

It is not "like" that. It is that.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 10:23 AM
1

It honestly doesnt sound like you should give a fuck about this guy. At least you havent described any redeeming qualities to the guy. If anything it's a cautionary tale. Everyone has limited time, this guy could have had a relationship with his son, but he blew it.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 02:43 AM
1

What the flying fuck are you even talking about? You just learned TODAY that a feature of life is that it ends eventually? This is a child's reasoning. Santa claus isnt real either.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 02:06 AM
13

Sidebar Also for fuck's sake yes
/r/askTRP09/09/16 01:06 PM
6

Stop telling her what to do to make you fucking feel better. You sound desperate. Because you are. Just do you. The breach is hers, dude. Act like it. Dont freak out but she is the one that initiated a breach here.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 12:52 PM
7

You work at a club where you drink, buy drinks, and are free to leave whenever you like to fuck customers in the bathroom. You're right, the fact that you were at work was so obvious. Of course the point remains if you have that kind of awesome ass job you probably ought to have a condom or two at "work" as well? I know them feelers are stung by the bad internet man's harsh words but take a step back and think this through for just a second before you try to defend shitty planning. And the point…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 05:07 AM
5

You already got good advice so I'll just add in that being a raging asshole and mocking a slut who has literally every psychological reason in the world to paint you as the bad guy is tremendously fucking stupid. If you're going to be the bad guy, the guilty secret, have some god damned tradecraft about it.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 04:55 AM
9

You went to a venue with no purpose except fucking sluts and didn't bring condoms. I think you might want to focus on the more immediate aspects of critical thinking before pondering the deeper insight issues.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 04:50 AM
2

Stop feeding them and see what happens.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 04:48 AM
1

This was in 97 so I'm sure it's different now, but yeah. I honestly dont remember much of the ceremony as it was pretty generic. I still have it if that tells you something of the value in the experience. It "can" provide lots of experiences you can use to mold yourself into the man you want to be, but lots of infantrymen and military in general are just as henpecked and pussied at home as anyone else. In fact, the military guy having a very low value wife is almost a cliche. Doesnt have to happ…
/r/askTRP05/09/16 06:49 AM
1

No. Any experience CAN help mold you if you approach it the right way. I did exactly what you are doing a long time ago. Did it make me alpha? No. Was it worth doing? Yes. Have I encorporated those experiences into a more alpha mindset? Very much so. But it isnt a cure all. Nothing is.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 04:11 AM
2

Is this a troll? Is your question really "I have a limp dick and reminded her of an appointment mid-fuck and can't get why she wouldnt be down for more of that action?"
/r/askTRP25/08/16 04:19 PM
3

If you think your accomplishments are negated by anything to do with a woman you havent come half as far as you think.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 09:42 AM
4

You said you wouldn't get fired if you stood up to him. You seem be hiding behind buddhism as an excuse to do the easy thing and be a pussy so I'll frame this in those terms. How is allowing someone to abuse you compassionate to them or yourself. From the perspective of buddhism everyone loses.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 09:17 AM
1

It's likely not a race thing, but working in a related field I would guess you are giving off drug seeker vibes. As for migraines, long shot but try keto. It sounds woo woo but they used to do it for epilepsy so there is a neurological change there. It costs nothing to try. For the other stuff I keep working the doc angle and maybe try the street. Narcs are bad news but I would experiment with THC. Not an expert or even user, just what I've heard.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 02:24 AM
20

Numbers dont add up. You're top 10% but the world is full of chads above you on the totem pole? You were saying something about unrealistic self evaluations?
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:02 AM
1

See if your doc is associated with a religious system. We have a catholic system in my area who will deny you control over reproduction and mask it as a medical opinion when you can go to the SAME DOC once they arent affiliated and they will do it. Just a thought.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 11:37 AM
1

She doesnt. You are gone.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:16 PM
1

You're right, she barely talks. Hard to when she's blowinf him.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 02:59 PM
4

Ummm, are you some kind of fucking idiot? Tinder isnt for meeting besties. You act surprised it would be full of gay dudes and they would want to fuck you when you went on a hook up app and selected them. Your experience could not be less useful.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 02:46 PM
1

Maybe you shouldnt accept being miserable then.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 12:02 AM
1

Erotic masseur? So like a hooker?
/r/askTRP10/07/16 02:58 AM
1

I'm saying most vets wont approach strangers in a bar and boast "did this, got the scars to prove it". As in I suspect this guy was full of shit. Not saying military guys can't be assholes. I'm saying as a vet most people I know wouldnt boast like this (some are also assholes) specifically. This is the kind of thing some idiot leads with when he wants to try to amog someone or be intimidating. Not saying it isnt true, just saying my bullshit detector would go off.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 02:17 AM
2

So she says she can mind trick herself into believing something she did didnt happen. Enjoy the thrilling tales of your imaginary actions in the future, hope they dont include rape.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 01:30 AM
1

Wait, so you know this or you just assume information from the internet is applicable and fucking your own head up? How about dont ask and fuck who you want?
/r/askTRP08/07/16 11:38 PM
2

No. Because it wasnt about the girls, it was about another person controlling your actions. Also, just a note. Most people who have seen shit dont talk like that. Note 2, the IDF has cooks and janitors too.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 11:32 PM
3

He's not saying the italians are nazi's. It's widely believed many nazi officers escaped to argentina after the war.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 05:53 PM
1

Thats what it always was. Having kids (if you give a shit about them) is having everything about you yoked to their fate. That hasnt and will not ever change. The difference is society has moved into a paradigm where the male component of it is barely respected whereas it used to be seen as crucial. So society had to sweeten the deal a bit AND apply negative externalities to promote the practice. All the negative shit is still in the culture but theyve largely ditched the benefits for the male b…
/r/askTRP03/07/16 08:37 PM
1

Thats what I'm saying. It isnt a dig at you personally. I'm saying there is no greater reward or burden. There's no reason to have kids unless you have an intensely personal and compelling reason on your own, which is perfectly valid if you did.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 03:23 PM
1

There's no reason to ever have a family unless you just wanted to, there never was. What were you expecting? The family fairy to ride in on their magical unicorn to shit gold coins into your wallet for doing the species the service of passing your statistically not of note genes?
/r/askTRP03/07/16 02:56 PM
6

It's also seems a lot more common for a guy to even mitigate his own fuck ups or bad behavior. A man will fuck side action with the full and stated intent of playing around and never changing his "primary" situation. It's almost cliche. Even in fiction how often is the side action having aspirations while the man reacts like leaving his marriage is fucking crazy the conflict, especially if there are kids. Think of the scene in goodfellas. It's a lot more rare to go the other way where she keeps …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 10:16 AM
2

All women have it in them. Relentlessly shit talking their man behind his back is a bit on the crazy end of the spectrum.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 09:30 AM
2

It's possible for a 3-4 man to become a 6-7.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 04:49 AM
11

Sounds like an honest fuck up to me.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 04:48 AM
2

It has to be like to you to be a shit test. This is just someone being a disloyal cunt behind your back. You deal with it by dumping their ass before they can cause real damage.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 04:37 AM
1

You're correct. Notice my initial advice was how this is playing with fire and probably a bad idea with a footnote of if you really like playing with fire for some reason here's how I would. But me personally I just wouldnt put up with it, as you know she is trashing you behind your back. The orbiter's behavior is actually really consistent with that being the case.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 03:35 AM
1

The entire purpose of a corporation is to shield the humans behind it from human emotions and consequences. You dont owe a corporation anything ever, and no business is going to hurt their bottom line out of loyalty to you.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 01:09 AM
2

There is a married red pill sub as well. It's a choose your own adventure. No one says you have to adopt everything whole cloth without thinking or experimenting.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 01:07 AM
1

Forgiving has nothing to do with forgetting. Forgiving is not carrying the burden of any pain on yourself or allowing what happened to dominate your life. Nowhere is forgiving setting yourself up or giving someone another chance to fuck up again.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 12:47 AM
5

These arent shit tests.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 12:42 AM
6

Echo on the subs mentionee but I would say if we cant hit saudis for civil suits for 9/11 its probably not too likely a pissed girlfriend is getting much traction. International angry girlfriend court isnt a thing.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 11:45 AM
1

And that is valid. In the end it's up to you to decide if whatever dynamic works for you. What makes you an orbiter is hanging around on her terms in a situation that is not what you want in the hopes that things will change, again on her terms. In your gut you know if that's what you're doing or not. I will ask why it should be about what she might be getting from a friendship with you at all? Any relationship with anyone ought to be evaluated by YOU on whether it provides value to you on your …
/r/askTRP27/06/16 11:32 AM
1

Not sure you know what an orbiter is. For one thing you sound like an ass with this "she's just using me for conversation and friendship!" bullshit when the first thing you said was how you have her around for the same exact reasons (conversation). If you're just hanging out hoping things will change and doing favors yes you're orbiting and you should stop. But if you're getting interactions you value why is it a problem for her to be valuing the same interactions? If you're skulking around orbi…
/r/askTRP27/06/16 08:21 AM
15

Fuck no. I flirt back and dont comply when I dont want to. When a dog runs up and wags it's tale I dont scream "fuck you!" and kick it because it thinks I might have a treat. It's a dog doing what a dog does. If I feel like it I pet it, if I dont I laugh and shoo it away. But I dont get angry over a thing being what it is.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 12:53 AM
1

Talk to her friends. If you're charming enough the girl will start to pull you away.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 12:37 AM
1

You're depressed. You're average to above average on looks. It is in your head. Get help for it.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 12:13 AM
2

Yeah, what an idiot getting the free ride for life, stable kids in a supportive home, and social status when she could have had a moment of emotional fun of publicly attempting to destroy the father of her child. This woman is playing chess to your checkers.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 11:51 PM
1

You couldn't be more wrong. He is lucky, but he's lucky he ran the gauntlet with a red pill woman. She recognized pawns for what they were and took the hit to maintain board position and kept her eye on the prize.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 11:47 PM
7

You ever see how it goes when they get complacent? This way was better for everyone.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 11:44 PM
1

It doesn't matter. You can't make someone see the light no matter how much you want to.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 11:42 PM
1

Maybe he cared about the marriage being on his terms.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 11:37 PM
4

No it won't. Thats some blue pill shit like hoping the universe punishes bad people. The truth is she identified his side action as barely relevant to what she wanted out of life and acted like it.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 11:36 PM
37

I wouls say they both won. She got the free ride for life, kids from presumably good stock that got taken care of, and the lifestyle/status she wanted. All these guys grousing about how fucked her self esteem and value must be don't get how well she played the game. She CORRECTLY identified the side pussy as pawns on the board, just like the husband did. Everyone would love to play a perfect game and lose no pieces but it isnt realistic if you're playing against someone worth playing. She knew w…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 11:31 PM
1

Chick : What do you search out in a Woman ? Me : Oh, (with a sub-millimeter sized smile) I have my expectations.. pause.. (I would personally play more coy here but playful. Something like "depends on what I'm hungry for and what's on the menu" or something like that. Your reply wasn't that bad though) Me : Stressed, very stressed (Stress usually involves a negative connotation, hence the assumption that you're whining. If someone asks about stress you should probably reframe or agree and amplif…
/r/askTRP24/06/16 11:23 PM
1

You just sorta wake up and say "remember you're on planet Earth and not fucking Narnia."
/r/askTRP23/06/16 03:41 AM
1

You exposed yourself to STDs and pregnancy but you just don't knoe how to open up in a conversation? Does that seem like a progression that makes sense when you review it in your head?
/r/askTRP23/06/16 02:08 AM
1

You should be fucking her. The reason I asked that specific question is you present it like she is driving the interactions, even when she is basically telling you she isn't sure if she's into you you describe your response as asking her what she wants. Passive. A lot of this is in the sidebar but long story short being passive and indecisive at BEST will confuse most women and at worst will set her up to hold you in contempt. Your job is to help her find her boundaries and what she wants by bei…
/r/askTRP20/06/16 02:20 AM
1

She thinks you're a great girlfriend but she wants someone more like the assholes she has a history of actually fucking. But that is insane so she is confused. Are you doing anything remotely masculine at any phase of this?
/r/askTRP19/06/16 11:11 PM
1

Nope. And I actually am a pretty stand up guy in most situations, but the only way to answer this is no. The difference between amused mastery and tryhard douche is your frame and attitude. Thing of how joe pesci would answer this. Dont do that. Think of how ryan renolds would. Approximate that and make it your own. There should be no indication you take the matter seriously.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 04:50 AM
1

If you're relying on what a girl tells you as to what plans you need to make you are in for a hard time. I'm not saying this one is lying, I'm asking if a verbal "yep, I would" is somehow better than her being honest? Dont be stupid, they change their minds. Plan for her not to have to make the decision.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 08:26 AM
2

Theyre long term, not infinite term.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 07:29 AM
3

I think the issue being less eloquently stated is familiarity breeds contempt. Looks matter but less as time goes on because they're familiar. Money matters less because in her mind it's her money, this is why they have no shame about divorce raping the fuck out of you. In her mind you not giving up the money was THEFT. Taking half or more of your shit isnt even an opportunistic ploy for the most part in their world, it's righting a wrong. To he1 r it was hers. Same with status, especially if yo…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 02:07 AM
1

Being a hustler or con man is a good racket I guess if you can manage not to eat a bullet.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 10:53 AM
2

Also pretty much straight from the book recommended in this subs sidebar.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 10:40 AM
1

Today
/r/askTRP13/06/16 10:38 AM
1

You make good points but I still say it's very relevant that she basically threw down the gauntlet with the willingness to break up over it, which is how I read her "never be controlled" spiel. Thats a nuclear option level shit test. Also, she's proven to be two faced. She stabs her girl friend in the back. She shit talks the orbiter to his back. There is no reason to think she wouldnt do that to OP and honestly the over the top praise he mentions seems like she is. That kind of shit is what man…
/r/askTRP12/06/16 06:26 PM
3

First off, you dumb mother fucker. You invested in this without doing your due diligence. Second, everything she does to her slut friend she will do to you. Shit talking when she isnt looking? Check. The phone name switch. Spoiler alert. On your horizon, chief, and when you catch her it will be your fault for making her lie in the face of your control "issues". Third, he openly disrespects you and she doesnt give a shit. She doesnt care about respecting you. Fourth, the "I'll never be controlled…
/r/askTRP12/06/16 04:35 PM
1

Kinda surprised actually. I can see how stereotypes could be a problem but I dont see a lot of resistance to black dudes as such with ladies in my area, and I'm in the south. Caveat. Anecdotal as fuck since I'm not a minority.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 03:15 PM
1

Ok, 2 points. You've been increasing the emotional and comfort piece she wants while she's been decreasing the physical. Flat out. She flat out told you many of the moments YOU JUST DESCRIBED as great and real were an absolute lie she didnt want to do but figured it was how to manipulate you better. You were saying something abouy how wonderful a person she is?
/r/askTRP12/06/16 12:18 PM
1

Texting is hard mode for attraction, particularly if you use it for the reason most guys want to, its easy and fear. Neither of those things is attractive. You can build ON attraction via text, but this will rely on all the shit you did in person that got the attraction going. Early on you won't have that stuff unless you get off the screen and get in her space, preferably into her pussy. You can build on attraction texting about how how fun your fuck session was once you did it, but you cant ge…
/r/askTRP12/06/16 12:14 PM
1

You ever notice in movies or stories whenever an actual king says "I'm the king!" it's usually about one scene from when someone murders his ass or fucks the queen? Like having to say it is your clue that things are out of his control and he's scared in the narrative? Same in real life. The king isnt really thinking about reminding people he's the king. He's getting shit done.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 11:55 PM
2

Let me just stop you at "she talks about the dog eating her pussy when we're fucking" and ask why the fuck there are any questions after a statement like that?
/r/askTRP07/06/16 10:54 PM
4

Can comfirm anecdotally that this helped me.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 09:39 PM
2

I'm a different flavor of bipolar than you (type 2) but keto dieting helped a lot with it. I find as far as supplements go ZMA and noopept/alpha gpc helped as well. Have to stress its a different flavor on my end though, although it will cost you nothing to try. As for the hypomania I like it. Feature not a bug.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 09:35 PM
1

So your BEST case is "I'll fuck you but half of the best parts I'll think are gross or just won't do, I'll always have an out since you know I'm really a lesbian, but I might let you knock me up and support me for 2 decades or so." In what universe is this your best or even an attractive option?
/r/askTRP05/06/16 12:17 PM
1

Did my comment give you PTSD?
/r/askTRP05/06/16 04:26 AM
1

Step 1: never ever say "I have PTSD from a bad relationship." Ever again. Sincerely, people who have seen shit in life. But really, an absolute rationalizing pussy mentality is encapsulated in that statement. "I dont have control over my actions, baby. A girl was mean to me in the past! Even if I'm assertive in being an asshole it's not me! I have no power over anything, even myself." Is there a faster way to dry up a pussy?
/r/askTRP04/06/16 03:38 PM
1

Fuck at your place.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 11:34 AM
1

Explain this shit in english. She's fucking this guy.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 09:32 AM
5

I think she might have a thing for retarded guys who question stupid bullshit...
/r/askTRP27/05/16 11:43 PM
1

I feel for you as a bds survivor but here is some tough love. Everyone has to die. Not everyone does it with some goddamn dignity. Get off the rollercoaster.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 06:41 AM
1

I read the whole thing but I could have stopped at you allowed her to physically assault you and kept chasing her like a whipped fucking dog, man. This asshole treated you like god damn property and you're sad to see her go.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 06:21 AM
146

Always my reply when a dude says he doesnt understans women. Women understand women just fine and they fucking hate each other.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 07:48 PM
1

"Thats cool, my ex blew me from that seat right there a few times. Its good to talk about ex's randomly." "You're so silly. You think I like the dog because he's devoting a chapter of his memoirs to me. He was cool as shit when he was around me. All that matters."
/r/askTRP19/05/16 12:07 AM
2

You could try moving off whatever island you live on where this is the only girl available.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 08:02 AM
1

Just say you want to get out of the sun and get a cold drink.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 07:58 AM
3

Why would her lack of effort indicate to you the right thing to do is increase your effort? Did that sound like the smart play when you just typed it?
/r/askTRP18/05/16 07:50 AM
8

You blew it in acting like a sniveling bitch in a situation you should have laughed off.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 08:07 AM
1

Everyone has a different tolerance for this stuff. Here's a tip. "I got a little sick and suddenly you lose all bearing and respect. I havent thought of YOU as a submissive since. Hit the road."
/r/askTRP15/05/16 11:00 PM
1

I wont say it worked in the sense that it changed things. I just couldnt do it anymore. Didnt make me happy, and it def hasnt changed her much, just bought some peace and distance. If I was actually back in the house it would be the same old shit.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 11:14 PM
1

Addendum. You are correct. She didnt want me to leave. I woke up one day and realized I missed afghanistan where life made sense. I woke up one day and realized I would rather be dead than live the way I was. So I pulled the plug.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 10:58 PM
1

Just had the court date last month. She balked at the last minute and I threatened the nuclear option. As it stands I've had a bad run the last few weeks (issues getting own place, wrecked car, lady friend that was helping me out lost job, etc. Just life shit) and the ex is behaving perfectly...because I was upfront that now she needs to be thinking real hard on what she can offer to keep the extras flowing. Even then I do NOT take her up on what seem to be sincere offers to help out. She couldn…
/r/askTRP12/05/16 10:56 PM
1

You'll have to check in your state and you def need a lawyer. How I sold it was shes on psych meds with bullshit physical issues and needs my insurance. I was also ludicrously generous in the property settlement. Like sawing your leg off financially to escape a bear trap. The insurance thing and generosity was my hammer, which I needed because she almost backed out. My lawyer tells me the separate maintenance settlement holds for the later divorce, its all considered "settled" including child su…
/r/askTRP12/05/16 10:28 PM
1

Check my other comment where I give practical advice. My ex is bpd too, and I did EXACTLY what you are describing.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 09:58 PM
3

When it explodes you will have armed her against you in the worst possible way. I did EXACTLY what you are doing. Look into a order of separate maintenance if they do that in your state. It resolves property and child issues like divorce but you stay married on paper, lets her stay on your insurance and whatnot if that matters AND you can get it written such that paramours are kosher. In writing. None of this "I trust your borderline ass not to ram the pregnant and he cheated dildo straight up m…
/r/askTRP12/05/16 09:54 PM
3

So youre giving someone with bpd proof of infidelity for the next phase? This isnt golf. You dont need a handicap.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 09:48 PM
4

Is she keeping hers on when she's blowing the new guy?
/r/askTRP12/05/16 09:46 PM
1

Nope, got a date tonight.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 09:45 PM
31

You're not doing the math right. In her mind she isnt giving up a 10 for a fun 5. She's planning on totalling 15.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 09:34 PM
4

Why not? It sucks and I wish this chick was more loyal but a huge part of rp is giving YOU a free pass to bail...if her moods and behavior dont line up. Good for the goose, good for the gander.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 09:31 PM
8

A woman will bandage your wounds, she wont share her tampons.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 09:30 PM
2

Yeah, compliment shitty and controlling behavior.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 10:32 PM
0

In the context of training someone to be the ideal woman for you I would like to think you're not dating someone you raised.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 11:03 AM
4

Your awalt confirm is if you act fucking stupid it will blow up in your face? Sure will.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 05:24 AM
3

Do you understand the level of effort and circumstances that would be required to even have the remotest chance of even attempting to motivate someone like that? And even then it would involve a degree of control most would describe as "creepy" at best. And your own game would have to be dead on, no errors. After all that lets just say its fair to say you would need to invest the same amount of time it took for her to get all messed up (since she isnt right as is). So 2 decades minimum. Or fuck …
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 07:37 PM
1

When I'm 80 I want to be slamming viagra and shooting puffs of nut dust all over the nursing facility.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 03:14 PM
1

I look at the bright side. That means there is some wrinkled old dude still slaying pussy while on oxygen. Play on, player.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 02:42 PM
1

Looks at the bright side. At least she waited until he was dead. As close to completing the terms of the contract as you can get. Many wouldnt even have waited.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 02:35 PM
1

Full stop. No contact. Work on you.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 03:51 AM
1

Dont overthink.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 03:40 AM
1

Check married TRP subs. Its the same as an LTR. Dont get married until youre super old if ever.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 03:38 AM
2

Well, in my case it's a done deal. Physically I'm fine, I would say above average. Unfortunately, I have an autistic brother, an autistic son, and a prior girlfriend that refuses paternity testing but has an autistic kid of about the right time frame. Now there are a lot of factors in something like that, many having to do with the woman I unwisely chose to have a kid with, some alleged to do with substances I've been exposed to (military stuff), and possibly just shitty luck. So the fact that m…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 03:32 AM
3

This is actually potentially the case with me. I make it clear if I'm serious with someone but would never just casually throw it out there early in. Mood killer.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 03:05 AM
3

Quick advice: Don't do that again.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 02:26 AM
1

Comfort tests. You can't have it both ways. If you work a next and she cracks, and you choose to reengage you have to expect this shit.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 01:33 AM
2

It works the same way. Even if you're ketogenic your body will prioritize as much as possible toward metabolizing alcohol first.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 06:54 PM
0

Just to clarify. She personally has 3 kids?
/r/askTRP24/04/16 05:53 AM
1

If you think you found a unicorn and the literal next thing you say is she's cute it's clear your thinking is clouded. I don't know this girl, she could be cool as hell. But I can tell you the first thing that came to mind when you were trying to describe her was her physical beauty. Doesn't sound very special, you just sound smitten.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 08:31 PM
2

Imagine when you get out of the tutorial and have to play the game for real. Also, can I just say you sound like kind of a gutless bitch. "Of course the girl didn't get in trouble". Your ass got caught doing some shady shit and you're butt hurt that the accomplice YOU talked into helping you out didn't go down with you? What kind of bullshit is that? Who gives a shit if it's a girl, someone goes on a limb for you you have some fucking honor about it on the back end. Maybe your religion failed yo…
/r/askTRP23/04/16 08:10 PM
1

Seems natural? How? A woman is going to pick up on "He sees me every other day, but chooses facebook." In about 2 seconds and toss your ass right in the pussy pile with the other beta orbiters. Take a number, she'll consider your request in due time if she's bored enough or too sore from getting mercilessly railed by the guy with the balls to approach for a second round, but could go for a free coffee or some shit. Come on, man. What part of "this would be easier" made you think it would be attr…
/r/askTRP23/04/16 04:39 PM
1

I think you're looking at it the wrong way. They are what they are, just like men. Look at it this way. You watch a WW2 documentary. It's about some leader that motivated men to do extraordinary things under his command. They took objectives. They died for this guy. They were loyal. At the end do you say "those guys are bullshit, they would never have done that amazing shit if this guy hadnt been the leader he was. They would just be ignorant farmers, or criminals, or whatever." Their behavior w…
/r/askTRP22/04/16 01:20 AM
17

No one is destined for anything. You choose your own fate. I'm saying you clearly enjoy this behavior on some level and so are probably seeking it out because of that. The task to you is decide if you are ok with liking it, in which case you have a kink, or if it makes you unhappy, in which case you have a disorder. You're captain of your own ship, decide and act.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 01:18 AM
1

You said placate. Your words. It comes through even if you arent directly stating it. Besides, you're the side action. Why worry about this shit at all? She should only be your side action too at bestm
/r/askTRP21/04/16 01:00 AM
1

I work with a lot of nurses. You're going to be dealing with a lot of freaks working shit hours, usually divorced at least once already, in high stress jobs. They were all up on the CC and usually dont have the time to fully go back to it, but are back on the market. Also, always ask what kind of nurse and probe for education. Lots of CNAs say theyre nurses, hell people who watch old people say it sometimes. Dialysis work 9/10 times they have drug or other issues.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 12:56 AM
1

"I wish she would placate me..." Dont know where you went wrong in projecting your best self, bro. Women go nuts when they can tell their side action is begging for pity sex.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 12:08 AM
2

You are the leader. Where have you led her?
/r/askTRP21/04/16 12:01 AM
14

These other guys had good advice and you should follow it, but I'll go one further. You're jacking off to someone else fucking your girlfriend and sniffing your other girl's cum stained panties. So maybe you need to address that you keep getting cucked because part of you likes it, and why.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 11:45 PM
1

So you were just like "How can I make this as sad and needy as possible?" Seriously, "not nice". First off how do you know? Do you amswer every weird number that calls you? I don't. Why wouldn't you be texting her asking who the hell she is since it's a random number on YOUR phone? If you want the world to be nice to you you should have been born with tits. Why would you just relentlessly talk shit about yourself and assume lower value like that?
/r/askTRP20/04/16 11:39 PM
1

Pass her a note in homeroom to check yes or no. Seriously, too much thinking, especially about your own shitty value in your own opinion. You don't ask. You fuck girls and don't have the talk. When they initiate the talk you decide.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 12:23 PM
1

You should share this amusing anecdote with the 3 other girls you have on tap.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 12:20 PM
2

Her condition for fucking you is it can't matter and you agreed to her demand because you desperately want it to matter. And now you're begging the internet for advice on how you can get "just one more fix" like some fuckin junkie for heroin or meth. One more ain't what you need.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 12:18 PM
2

How do you know she swallows if you don't like it? Protip. The part at the end where stuff squirts out of your dick? That's "liking" it. You might be overthinking.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 12:10 PM
1

I don't know, man. My lady friend would have a hard time selling that she drove to a hotel room she lays for repeatedly to be raped...
/r/askTRP16/04/16 12:08 PM
14

You need to see a counselor because there is one flaw there that can't be overcome. She's dead, bro. Take it for what it is, a beautiful memory, and stop disfiguring it by using it to fuck up your life. Tough, and crude, love... The universe dropped this exquisite work of art in this memory, a priceless faberge egg meant to sit on a mantle in your mind to be appreciated for what it is. And you're using it as the world's most uncomfortable butt plug, and you don't even like the feel. Stop.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 11:57 AM
2

BDSM! SURPRISE! Don't don't do that.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 02:48 AM
1

Just off the top of my head if she blows off time together to screw around when she comes back you shouldn't be faking sleep like a naughty 4 year old, you should be gone.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 11:59 AM
2

They are not. The boundaries you're setting ARE your frame. That's it. No tricks or strategy. In the above example the frame is being in control of himself and choosing to knock a few things out then have a good afternoon with his lady friend. Boundaries are anything that will fuck that up not being acceptable. I will say this about his specific incident. He fucked up continuing to change the deal on her. You're the rock, not the storm. When you state your intent (gonna do this on the way then d…
/r/askTRP10/04/16 08:59 PM
1

No. It told you the part you wanted to hear. The rest was stuff you could also work on but likely don't want to.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 02:51 AM
1

Plates. You need plates. You fucked this up royally by proclaiming "love" at the exact time she's creating distance and OVERTLY STATING THAT THERE IS NO FUTURE WITH YOU. That does not merit exclusivity on any level. EVER. Plates don't solve everything but in this specific case the best thing is to treat this like what it is, and she told you straight up you're mr. Right now. Flip it and get active. Right now she's slow playing a breakup because she likes you but not enough to actually prioritize…
/r/askTRP09/04/16 12:26 AM
1

Nexting YOU because you dated someone she knows and were honest about it is a "good" quality? You have a weird definition of good. Also, jesus the oneitis on this. Do not reply. At all. You don't have your psychological shit straight enough to do anything but embarass yourself as you gush and plead for someone who values some asshole's opinion more than your presence. Just because someone is nice and has similar interests doesnt mean they aren't a coward or socially fucked. She turned her back o…
/r/askTRP09/04/16 12:04 AM
1

You are wat too short on detail to give a comprehensive answer, but in thd specific case you mentioned I have something. This is only appropriate if someone is actually being a demanding asshole AND it conflicts with your clear frame AND there isn't some obvious social convention in place you would be reasonably expected to know, but in situations like that I usually just say "You asking or telling?" In a slightly amused way while making eye contact. Then let the silence sit. Do not do this over…
/r/askTRP08/04/16 10:21 PM
1

For a guy who thinks he's as smart as you say you are you read one line into that guy's reply and discarded the rest.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 10:07 PM
1

Horrible advice. If knowing all this shit and presenting a masters thesis on rape is the price of admission to her time you just reject it.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 02:26 AM
1

The walk away was fine. The texting was you being a bit of a bitch. You made it clear she got to you. You're way too invested in this shit and overthinking it.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 02:20 AM
6

"Get as close a look as your curiosity demands, but I get to go next."
/r/askTRP07/04/16 01:05 AM
1

You're using her to mirror validation you want, but that should be coming from your own self. Very few things will make you more miserable in the long run. It's bigger than one relationship with onr girl. If you don't get out of this behavior you will consistently fuck your life up.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 12:34 AM
4

Here's an actor telling it well. https://youtu.be/Ugd_VB9iVFE And the wiki https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Scorpion_and_the_Frog But here is the cliff notes. Long time ago in a gslaxy far away, there is a forest, a scorpion, and a frog. Rain comes, floods happen. Scorpion approaches the kindly frog. Begs for a ride across the flood waters to safety. The frog, knowing the scorpion is a dangerous creature, thinks its likely a bad idea. The scorpion convinces the frog saying it has no reason to…
/r/askTRP06/04/16 11:33 PM
2

Every time I explain the story of the scorpion and the frog from both sides it blows people's minds. They are what they are.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 09:00 PM
13

It 100% validates it. When her mind was occupied (drunk) what did she do? Offer to fuck him. It should have been a red flag for him and the BC refusal and pregnancy was absolutely predictable. When she couldn't keep her mind on the strategy to extract the desired commitment she full on offered to fuck him. This is the smoking gun that it was a game on her end. A set of rules to adopt to a specific end. And it worked. Oh, and your premise implies that she loved him during the 2 years he beta'd ou…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 08:44 PM
1

Sometimes the answer if she takes something is to take something back yourself. If she's getting my attention and validation and suddenly pulls a 180 against the clear signals and seems to mean it then it's time to back off the attention and validation in a similar fashion. If she asks wtf because she's used to being pursued "I love playing games as much as the next guy but I don't play with monopoly money."
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 08:38 PM
4

If you think fucking is an inherently damaging activity then you might be the damaged goods. Go live in Iran with that puritan bullshit.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 06:43 PM
3

Jesus, thats even worse. You're in the "gettin to know ya" phase with someone you've already tied yourself to forever.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 12:50 PM
2

Here's thd thing, and this is from sad experience. If you're doing this it is because the person you don't trust is YOURSELF. By that I mean your subconscious has assessed lots of data and issued emotions to your conscious mind based on that. So when you do this one of two things is happening. You either don't trust your experience or you don't trust yourself. You're looking because you already know and desperately want to be wrong, meaning you secretely want to be incompetent. Or you know you'r…
/r/askTRP06/04/16 12:47 PM
7

Don't sweat it. Won't matter when she's pregnant soon and you're locked in.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 05:37 AM
28

Relationship was over the second you decided to task a wing of the NSA for operation: pussy periscope. Seriously, is there anything more grasping than this.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 05:30 AM
2

It's worse than that. The 25% where it could pan out isn't actually enriched by the agreement. Things would have been great either way. It's like playing blackjack, seeing the dealer has busted, and continuing to hit because you want the already winning hand to be higher. You'd be a fucking idiot who doesn't understand the game if you did that. Same with marriage.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 05:08 PM
3

The idea that absolutely fucking yourself somehow makes something better. "Hey man, my girl and I are doing great! I bet it would be even better if I bet her half my shit that she can't make me hate her at any point over the next 50-70 years! What could go wrong since the legal agreement has absolutely benefit to me at all!" The only way this shit looks like a good idea is if you've rationalized the shit out of it and literally bought the cultural party line. Or some girl makes it the price of a…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 05:05 PM
3

I found that person. Wonderful, awesome person that respects and values me. Everything I'll ever need. I'd do anything for them. I give that handsome bastard the thumbs up every morning when I see them in the mirror.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 10:17 PM
1

Be a God damned man and not such a pussy about what you like. You like her but you want to hide because you're afraid of judgement by others about what would otherwise be acceptable to you? Who's fucking rules do you operate off of in this life? If she is too ugly FOR YOU then just leave it at that. If she's acceptable FOR YOU then face the fucking world with honesty and say "I like what I like." Live on your terms.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 09:29 PM
2

Sets of 6-8.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 12:36 AM
8

You need to work on your comprehension there, son. You said you were getting swole, and she responded by saying you're already sexy and she doesn't know what she'd do if you got better. Need to superset some books.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 12:29 AM
5

The answer doesn't matter. You've described such an incredibly fucked up person in yourself that whether she was a dirty whore or a unicorn you could only fuck it up. Look at all the fucked up issues you mention with you, make a plan to address that shit, and proceed. If she's there at the end decide then, if she's not move forward and find another. But there's literally no point in determining her merits relative to other girls if you're just going to be a passive aggressive, abusive pseudo-fem…
/r/askTRP28/03/16 09:25 AM
1

Is there a reason you wouldn't just translate this emotion you have into an action on your part?
/r/askTRP28/03/16 09:07 AM
4

First off this shouldn't be a big deal as it is to you. This shit is a mild curiosity or annoyance, not "driving you up a wall". Second, the correct response is amused mastery of your situation. You ask for what you want one time then you solve the problem yourself. You will never ever say this but making you a simple breakfast is the price of admission for your time at breakfast. She said no. You smile, say no worries, and go out for breakfast without her. Have a coffee, read, do you. Then come…
/r/askTRP26/03/16 09:37 PM
36

You are literally lucky. You got played by someone with the shred of decency to at least tell you. Tell her thank you for being up front about who she is, you won't be requiring her services moving forward, and find another. Right now, at this very moment, there is some other slut that those same two disgusting fucks worked over is French kissing some poor son or a bitch while talking spring weddings. You. Are. Lucky.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 08:15 PM
1

Look at the bright side. A hb8 will be asking you to fuck her soon.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 10:20 AM
1

Don't lie to maintain frame. You maintain frame by not being a cowering bitch in the face of mild social discomfort. She smelled this stink on you a mile away. How can you you next her and let her know she stung your feelers? Why? It's a next. Are you lying to yourself now too and hoping if you let her know you're pained she'll ride in and white Knight you and kiss your emotional boo boo? And every time you utter the phrase "there was nothing else I could do" in connection to something sneaky, c…
/r/askTRP26/03/16 09:50 AM
1

How can you leave someone you never had?
/r/askTRP26/03/16 05:41 AM
2

Deficiency of pride or balls. Fix one or both.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 05:24 AM
1

No. And don't. This is the guy you want to have to compete with socially.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 05:22 AM
3

You shouldn't be adjusting how much of a pussy you act in order to impress a demographic.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 05:17 AM
3

You always are around people you don't trust, especially at work. Or at least you should be. So you got the heads up that your boy is a backstabbing fuck and a lady you were into a bit has no ass nor self respect. You got outplayed for a lady who doesn't give a fuck if a guy she just hooked up with goes through her phone and sends messages in her name. For one thing she'll be back around. For another why the fuck would you care when someone has that kind of twisted sense of privacy and self resp…
/r/askTRP26/03/16 04:27 AM
1

Wait, her opinion of you matters more than what you know to be true about yourself? This is who sets goals for you? Gonna be pretty hard to convince someone you aren't beta when you plainly act like one with them.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 01:14 AM
1

For the love of Christ you explain too much. You're trying to be a bigger woman than your woman. There is a time to just shut up and let her mind work. You're the damn man. You're supposed to be a Caesar, a Conan. You corrected her conception of what you're about and she called you a liar. Would anyone else flat out calling you untrustworthy to your face be just cool? Would you continue to waste your fucking time trying to convince them of anything once they made it clear nothing you say matters…
/r/askTRP26/03/16 01:12 AM
1

Be willing to choose the highway of course.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 01:02 AM
1

Why are you asking why? Do you like projecting need?
/r/askTRP26/03/16 01:01 AM
4

He's half her age. No prenuptial needed. He's thinking her ass will be dead by the time he's 30 and he can retire rich.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 11:07 AM
1

Probably not man. I would just accept who you are. The life stuff would probably still be of benefit, but if you like dick you like it. Be a man about it and own it.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 08:10 AM
8

You are literally a black hole of wit and charm in this exchange, and send almost every possible signal that you're not worth a woman's time. Even if you're the total package it wouldn't matter because in the first line you're all about being clear with "I'm boring and unimaginative, be an object to distract me". Women want to be a distraction and entertain a man busy conquering the fucking world and stacking the skulls ogre weaker men out back, not some fuckin loser with nothing better to do. U…
/r/askTRP23/03/16 07:44 AM
2

So your lady friend started dating someone to pass the time while you continually didn't fuck her? Let me put it this way. If she flaked on you 3 times you would assume not interested. Well, you flaked on laying down the dick to her at least 3 times in your tale of woe. So you have something in your life that reliably interferes with how your cock works. You have bigger problems than this chick.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 07:35 AM
2

You know why in captain America they used the actors face on theweak Steve Roger's cgi body, and it was so funny and made the point? Because it is true. He was literally the same guy with the same face but physical changes made a difference. The gag/metaphor works because it's such an obvious part of the human experience.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 06:10 PM
7

You're a great match except for the part where she met this guy behind your back, lies to you constantly to your face, and provides motivation for you to sneak around like a snooping bitch that can't manage the testosterone to call someone out for lying to your face while she's doing it? That about right? Tough love. I'm not a big "dump that bitch" guy but you visibly make plans to move on and do it. And your only explanation is "I know what you did and are still doing. We get along to my face b…
/r/askTRP10/03/16 01:08 PM
1

"You know the kind of job that you just hate to go to cause its just a chore anyone can do, and they pay shit? Not that kind." Shit man, why are you using your job as the selling point in the first place, and why would you want pussy from someone who doesn't respect what you do? Maybe the pussy is drying up because you're discussing your fuckin job when you should be doing something fun?
/r/askTRP10/03/16 12:56 PM
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