So a HB8 plate started texting me today and tried to set a date with me for this coming week, which I agreed to as I haven't seen her in a couple of weeks. She tried to keep the conversation going but kept my answers short and vague and I wasn't too bothered and was genuinely busy. She texted something to which I just replied "k" To which she said "It hurts me when you K me" to which I instead replied "ok" and she said how "her heart hurts a little bit right now."

I haven't replied anything (usually works in most cases.) What would be appropriate response to something like this apart from silence? My gut tells me this is a comfort test, which leads me to my another question: How do you distinguish a shit test from a comfort test? Are both dealt with by keeping frame or do comfort tests require you to juxtapose your alpha traits with some beta ones?