TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Self-honest Archive

View 17 posts and 1,641 comments by Self-honest on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
1540

Red Pill ExampleSelf-honest/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 04:39 PM
937

Red Pill ExampleSelf-honest/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 04:19 AM
702

Red Pill ExampleSelf-honest/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 04:45 AM
338

Red Pill TheorySelf-honest/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 12:05 PM
272

Red Pill ExampleSelf-honest/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 06:20 AM
137

Building PowerSelf-honest/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 05:41 PM
118

Red Pill ExampleSelf-honest/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 03:47 PM
77

Field ReportSelf-honest/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 03:34 AM
36

Red Pill ExampleSelf-honest/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 03:52 AM
21

Field ReportSelf-honest/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 09:43 PM
17

Field ReportSelf-honest/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 06:25 PM
7

Self-honest/r/askTRP28/04/20 12:03 AM
1

Building PowerSelf-honest/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 02:16 PM
1

Self-honest/r/askTRP17/10/18 04:30 AM
1

Red Pill ExampleSelf-honest/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 05:57 AM
1

Building PowerSelf-honest/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 02:06 PM
1

Building PowerSelf-honest/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 06:13 AM
Showing the 1,000 most recent of 1,641 comments.
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
14

Redundant and rambling. No clear focus. Had to stop reading half way through. These are not “laws”. Rethink it.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/20 01:44 PM
0

It’s 100% a good thing. Just act like you didn’t realize they were there and play it off like it’s not a big deal. Don’t even own up to the fact that they’re hickeys. Just shoot a sly look at whoever brings it up and deny it. They’ll know what it’s from and like you more for having it and keeping the details to yourself.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:08 PM
2

Update: Decided to hit her up today. Me: Gonna go out and grab drinks tomorrow night. Wanna join? “You should join” Her: If I'm not dead tomorrow (early convo she told me she went fishing today and had a big day) Her: Not really. I’m tired because I went fishing and had a big d(ICK fucking me all d)ay Me: Well if the grim reaper decides to not knock on your door, let me know tomorrow You fucked up saying “let me know” keeping yourself available to her while she makes no similar investment. Shoul…
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:13 PM
1

Yep. She just needs to know FOR SURE what you’re all about and who you are. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 03:54 PM
3

Haha no. It was a teaching moment I decided to share after reading a bunch of askTRP posts where guys seemed to not know this simple principle was the answer to their inability to move forward in a given situation. You’re always going to validate a girl by attempting to have sex with her. There is no way around it if you are being bold enough to face rejection by being congruent with your desires. Continuing to offer that validation without sex is the problem many face here. A simple solution to…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 03:53 PM
2

Understanding the stuff is good, but the whole game is results based. Sidebar is solid. Digest it and internalize it. This is a good way to filter for time wasters vs those who are genuinely interested in getting their hands on what’s in your pants.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 03:22 PM
2

As long as your intentions are clear and you know how to read covert communication, your decision making should be on point.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 03:18 PM
3

Cliches are cliche for a reason
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 03:16 PM
3

I’m far past that. I could care less about her. Just illustrating the point about not wasting time getting to your answer.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 03:16 PM
2

What lead are you referring to?
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 03:14 PM
2

Exactly. It’s not friends with benefits, but rather sex with an added friendship component if you qualify. You want that friendship without the sex part, you have to actually be bringing something substantial to the table.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 03:12 PM
2

What’s really upsetting you? I know you’re not really just mad at me for breaking my post up in a style I think is more easily digestible than a wall of text. That would just be a ridiculous and irrelevant thing to attack someone for. There must be something else bothering you.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 08:11 PM
14

Lol for the sake of discussion I’m going to call this one a little cringe as a response to the LJBF shit test. The move isn’t one where you’re negotiating, because as we all know you can’t negotiate attraction. The move is you walking away and then her coming after you and entering your sexual framing of the relationship. Added bonus: if you are breaking up with someone or being broken up with, always say yes to just being friends and then never contact them or respond again/block everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 07:24 PM
16

Hahahaha I was in need of a bj Oh buddy I’m rolling. This is correct.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 06:48 PM
18

“I’ve already got enough friends, thanks”
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 05:44 PM
18

She’s just a dumb bored bitch who was probably pinging every ex she’s ever had. I simply shut it down. If she’s looking for someone’s time to waste I’m sure she’ll find it elsewhere. Point is, if you want to fuck and don’t want to be someone’s gay best friend orbiter, polarize the situation and stay congruent with your desires, then you’re golden either way. And you save valuable time and emotional energy.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 05:13 PM
7

Lol. Don’t miss the forest for the trees. I polarized the interaction she started (texting to cure boredom), by initiating a meet up or walking away. She is of no use to me unless she’s swallowing my loads. By forcing the idea of a rendezvous, I shut down her attempt to use my time for her own entertainment and validation. I think it’s strange you say don’t dig through the trash, but then you are fully open to digging through it with your dick. Don’t just be contentious for the sake of argument.…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 05:08 PM
18

Nice, we should get together one night next time we’re both in town She knew exactly what I meant. I mean I’ve fucked this girl hundreds and hundreds of times over the course of many years. If she thought coffee was in the realm of possibility she would have responded. I said the code words “get together at night.” We all know what adults do when they get together at night. No one would ever be ok with their wife or LTR getting together at night with an ex. It was very clear.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 04:56 PM
5

Yep. This shit applies everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 04:51 PM
25

The point was to frame the interaction on my terms. Sex or silence, either is fine. I think she just wanted to get you to invite her and have that satisfaction Of course. That doesn’t effect me though. That’s the point. I framed the interaction on my terms. I want to treat her like a cum dumpster. She wants to use me to validate herself. Classic male/female inter-sexual/personal dynamic. I set the terms so that if she wants any future validation, she has to meet up and get it physically. She can…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 04:49 PM
5

people who are told to love themselves despite being fat, lazy, degenerate, etc. actually hate themselves deep down and they always will. They continue the self destructive behaviors as a way of ignoring the feeling of hatred building up inside. Accepting it allows you to engage in healthy ways of removing the negative feelings.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/20 11:28 PM
13

The only way I was able to successfully quit smoking once and for all was when I allowed myself to hate myself for continuing smoking. Then I had the overwhelming desire to stop. The only way I was able to lose a significant amount of weight and build a significant amount of muscle was when I allowed myself to hate myself for being a disgusting fatty. Only then was I driven to change so I would stop hating myself every day. The only way I became disciplined enough to pay off all of my debt and b…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/20 08:10 PM
5

"I'm going to wait until I'm 50 and marry my second wife, first." Perfect in every way
/r/askTRP23/06/20 03:34 PM
4

Sounds like you rushed the whole interaction. Drinks for longer would have gone a long way.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:38 AM
3

Are you significantly higher SMV than her? It sounds like that might be an alternate view of this situation. If so, she may feel significant anxiety and realize it’s only a matter of time before you leave her for something better. It is a vicious cycle where her own anxiety manifests as a self fulfilling prophecy by making you less attracted and more likely to leave her. Which might be the ultimate move at the end of the day. There is undoubtedly a less insecure more well put together woman wait…
/r/askTRP21/06/20 12:07 AM
6

It’s possible she wants you to kill the puppy. “Please break up with me so I don’t have to be the bad guy, because I no longer want to be with you” I mean really, she should be going above and beyond to make sure you don’t break up with her. If she won’t even do the simplest of things then openly states that you should break up with her, the dynamic is off. She should love and appreciate the things you say. She should be agreeable. If she is being disagreeable regularly when you say things, the …
/r/askTRP20/06/20 09:20 PM
1

Yeah dude, that’s your answer right there. She is opening the door and making it easy for you. You have one job and one job only. Escalate. Do I keep not giving a fuck and let her succumb to the attrition of time? When you go on the hike, keep not giving a fuck while escalating. I’ve never had a girl want to go on a solo hike that wasn’t looking to fuck. Or rather be straight up (yet polite) of what I’m feeling Don’t be stupid. Don’t be polite. Don’t TELL her anything. Just let your actions do t…
/r/askTRP18/06/20 09:25 PM
2

You’re going on a hike next week with her. Is it just the two of you?
/r/askTRP18/06/20 07:43 PM
134

Original TRP post by u/taracus on this story: http://archive.is/lv4aW Summary: OP (girlfriend) gets asked by an "ancient ex" to meet up in Amsterdam for a week while he is there for work (he lives in Italy and she in the UK). She books the ticket before mentioning anything to her BF because: they were on sale for a ridiculously low price on the dates that he would be there, so I jumped at the opportunity. Boyfriend breaks up with her without loosing frame and even 'that' subreddit calls her out …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 02:27 PM
1

We’re clean. I’ll do my best to verify that this chick is clean as well. I’ll wear a condom. At some point you’ve gotta loosen up a little and just live life. It will probably be fine. If it’s not, I’ll cross that bridge when I get there.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 02:46 PM
0

There are a lot of scenarios where this applies. I don’t think this is one of them, though I looked for signs and waited a couple of months. The way it kept coming up, the manner it is spoken of, is always in regards to me and her together. Also it’s lockdown. There are no other contacts. And I fuck this girl hard enough that she can’t sit down and isn’t able to do her squat workout the next day so she’s not missing a big dick in her life. That being said, it’s always a valid point to bring up. …
/r/askTRP28/04/20 02:43 PM
2

Solid feedback, thanks.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 05:01 AM
3

Haha, I am all too familiar with tinder horror stories. Unfortunately I mentioned the FaceTime to other girl already so now I get to see how smooth my skills really are. If I do end up not being able to wiggle out of the call, I will tell my girl that we’re only doing it to make sure she she’s actually hot enough to hook up with. Then I’ll tell the other girl the same thing during the call before we “have to run” for some reason. Hopefully that will keep the frame sexual and keep the interaction…
/r/askTRP28/04/20 02:46 AM
2

If not this one then it will be another
/r/askTRP28/04/20 01:08 AM
7

Thanks. Pretty much what I was thinking. I’ll just let it simmer and try to keep the tension building as long as I can. It’s looking like around 10 days before she can come over. She said she’ll have to sneak around because her roommate doesn’t know and they have been quarantining together this whole time. I think I’ll tell her we’re having some drinks Friday and would love her to come over if she can find a way to sneak out. That way if she can’t, she’ll be thinking about what she’s missing out…
/r/askTRP28/04/20 01:01 AM
1

I date a girl who works 24 hour shifts. I never initiate communication because I could be left waiting. She reaches out when she wants to hear from me. Sometimes I answer right away. Sometimes I ignore. Sometimes in between. Either way it’s on my terms.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:56 PM
1

Best way to tell her I do not do dates with her and her buddies, only her. Don’t do it. When she asks just say you can’t make it, and offer up a one on one date for another time. After 2-3 times she will get the picture and stop trying to put you in that box.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 02:06 AM
2

I’ve definitely read this before. Thanks for bringing back excellent content. I regularly search through old saved posts. There is a wealth of old posts available that outshine most current content.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 02:06 AM
10

Extrapolate this out to JUST sexual strategy. Most if not all females are “true achievers” in the SMP. Therefore if you aren’t a “true achiever” (ie. haven’t spun multiple plates) then your best move is to say less not more. If you have achieved this level, then you will be leading the conversation as opposed to following her lead and trying to project some fantasized persona. Your ribbon ceremony is her submission, over and over again. Plain and simple. But to my original point, covert communic…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/20 02:05 AM
38

Saying things without saying things. Once you have defined what you actually want (outside the specter of Disney fantasies), biggest takeaway for anyone here is the correct way to communicate.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/20 11:49 PM
5

TRP has no integrity. YOU have integrity. Full stop.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/20 11:43 PM
1

So make a decision to find a way to ingest more calories and find some social activities that easily fit into your schedule.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 07:26 AM
1

Lie to her
/r/askTRP21/02/20 07:22 AM
2

Stop believing that you have to sacrifice physical and mental well being to increase the financial. Find harmony. I’ve been there, but it was my limiting beliefs that kept me from a fully healthy life. Get sleep. Exercise. Social time. And make money. Budget. Save. Short term sacrifices are ok. Long term can be detrimental. Either way it’s a choice.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 07:21 AM
11

I get tired of both if I don’t have balance.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/20 01:48 PM
2

Seconded
/r/askTRP18/02/20 08:34 PM
5

With all of these sensitive and caring responses, I will offer up a challenge. See this as the great challenge of your life - because it is. See this challenge as the legacy of your son. Find peace in the pain. Know that he did not live and die in vain, because you will live a great life in his honor. Live the life he would be proud to see you live. All that said, I am deeply sorry for your loss. It is one of the worst things in the entire world to have to face down. But face it the fuck down - …
/r/askTRP17/02/20 01:47 PM
2

It’s ok to have emotions - they just need to be under your control. It would be strange if you didn’t have emotions. Men love women, women love children, children love puppies. It’s ok to love a woman, just know she’s replaceable, and she is lucky to have you.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 04:47 AM
1

She will also never be as hot as she is right now if that makes you feel any better. You better enjoy it while it lasts. After it fades, you’ll have a better chance finding a younger girl that hot and ready to serve.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 04:09 AM
1

You’re also listening to what she says. You don’t know that she even actually told him. She might be toying with you to see how you respond. She’s leaving in three months and wants you to alpha widow her so she can continue to be in love with a guy in another country
/r/askTRP16/02/20 05:02 PM
3

Again, it is a dark day around here with so many contrarians and bloops. Great post. Occam’s razor. Get the point across in as few words as possible for the most effective and accurate communication. Of course not engaging at all is the best show of disapproval and higher status. The other day, I had a plate make a comment about certain areas being undesirable to live in, then pausing and stating that my house was in fact exactly that. I just gave her the look and she immediately started bashing…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/20 07:54 PM
1

You just say “I have some friends I have to go meet up with” Keep it simple
/r/askTRP27/01/20 02:04 PM
4

I’ve been on Mint for about 5 years. It is a great baseline to understand your own habits and blind spots. It’s worth the download for those of you who are just starting out. Source: my savings account
/r/TheRedPill27/01/20 07:32 AM
2

Beware Beta Bait 8 and 6 Also, you aren’t the first guy she has been able to activate the male protective instinct in. Be aware, because she is.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 04:24 PM
1

Haha nah. There are thousands of Sallys all over the place.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/20 03:49 AM
6

If I ask to switch up positions Everything about this is wrong and it probably makes her skin crawl. Just DO whatever you want to. Take her and flip her over. Drag her. Grab her. Smack her ass hard. They are built to take a real pounding with grace. They are wired to tingle for a strong man who takes what he wants. She wants to be someone’s sex toy. You don’t ask a toy if you can play with it.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 01:11 PM
2

One of my plates will text me dumb shit from time to time. I usually just ignore and she will text me again within the next few days asking to see me. In this case I would just give her a little bit of back and forth before clearly ending the convo. Since she’s leaving, just tell her you had fun and you guys should get together next time you’re in the same city.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 02:07 AM
1

Lol I still have a great plate. I was considering something more. Nothing wrong with making decisions and investing your energy for positive ROI. Also the post linking wasn't cute. You're annoying Whatever you say, champ.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/19 06:33 AM
1

The strategy on display in this post is for inexperienced guys to fine tune their bullshit detectors by remembering stories like this one while they encounter similar situations. Recognizing trickle truth and learning how to tune in to red flags instead of tuning out like most BP guys do is a valuable skill. I’m not theorizing anything. Just sharing a story. If you’re past the point where it is of any value to you, then just move along. No need to clog up the comments. Not everyone is at the exa…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/19 06:20 AM
1

Spot on, man. It’s crazy how often they NEED to go again even after being fucked into a coma. Or I'm just paranoid lol. Something to ponder. What’s funny is, when you know what to expect, it’s so obvious when they offer up extraneous sentiments to cover their tracks.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/19 06:14 AM
1

Nah, this is a place to discuss male sexual strategy. We’re not concerned with justifying her actions. And we don’t concern ourselves with morals.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/19 02:23 PM
1

I wasn’t in her frame, but she certainly wasn’t rushing to get in to mine either.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 03:36 PM
2

Didn’t drop her, just not going to promote her ever because of this. Which is how I choose to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 03:19 PM
4

While you are right in spirit, there are plenty of guys who need to take the opportunity to look through a girls phone once to really swallow some pills. It’s eye opening. And I’m advising they do it to level up.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 03:57 PM
1

It’s at the top of the archive link
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 02:06 PM
3

I wrote a post based on a real situation most of the guys here will probably find themselves in with tons of extra wisdom I feel like they might not stumble upon themselves. You just have to admit that you love this woman. I love all women. You got anxiety about losing her. It’s ok. Nah. I’ve got other options. I did invest in her some by choice. It paid off. Just took a little ego hit realizing there was someone out there she was still pining for and I didn’t erase his memory.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 02:05 PM
1

For you apparently. I didn’t write it for you. I wrote it for inexperienced guys who may benefit. Not sure why you’re still here being negative. What is anybody gaining from this?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 01:50 PM
1

If you want exclusivity, you need to tell her your expectations and not use covert contracts. I didn’t communicate them verbally because I’m not a woman. I don’t see the relevance of calling it a covert contract. She did not meet my expectations. I adjust my actions. No problem.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 01:48 PM
2

Read up on covert contracts my friend. This is 100% what it is. I expect any woman I’m fucking to honor and worship me. There is nothing covert about it.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 01:34 PM
2

It could be shorter, but I wanted it to be visceral for the inexperienced guys so they could soak in the experience and recognize when they find themselves in similar circumstances. Also the length allowed for tons of links to other posts. If just one guy reads all of the other posts then I’ll consider it a win. Those are posts that don’t get brought up or mentioned and were incredibly valuable to me in my early phase.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 01:24 PM
5

Lol why are you so mad? The point is there are tons of guys who haven’t seen this side of women and I was taking an opportunity to introduce them. Most guys reading here are at beginner levels. This can resonate with someone. And while I know how to navigate and handle my shit accordingly, they may find themselves deep in a similar situation and not notice the clues. You end with a messaging about trying to decide on how to manage your bitch. I’m not trying to decide anything. I’m man enough to …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 01:18 PM
1

I don’t want acknowledgement. I want to pass on relatable experiences to guys who are probably in similar situations in their journeys. The stories of the perfect finished product don’t always resonate and I would guess most guys reading here are closer to beginner level than anything else. In reality I am used to spinning plates with no emotional investment. I don’t care. Drop them and move on. This is the first one in a while (since I found TRP 3 years ago) I’ve built any semblance of a relati…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 01:01 PM
1

Her asking for exclusivity implied that she is working toward that as a goal. Every girl knows how to behave. Edit: this entire post is him hamstring his heartache. LOL you guys and your desire to feel superior to someone else.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 12:09 AM
1

Totally. No hard next. But definitely no promotion though she persists.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 12:04 AM
3

Right. I’m highlighting examples for inexperienced guys.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 12:02 AM
8

I’m enjoying every second of my life. I just came here to share a story about trickle truth for people who are here to learn. Not so much interested in a psychoanalysis but thanks.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 11:48 PM
2

You appear to have been exclusive with her. You never mentioned seeing anyone else. LOL you and the whole army need to hear about my entire sex life. The post was long enough without any more details irrelevant to the point: trickle truth
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 11:46 PM
1

The only woman who deserves to be exclusive with you, is one who already is and maintains that. Call it a covert contract if you want. If she thought it was ok she wouldn’t be hiding it.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 11:43 PM
1

It’s not a covert contract, it’s vetting. If she doesn’t meet my standards for promotion, then she won’t get promotion.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 11:41 PM
2

Trust but verify applies to upgrading plates, he has no other plates to compare to. You’re nitpicking. I wasn’t writing a story about spinning plates. I was writing a story about trickle truth. Your comments add zero value and only attempt to distract people from the point of the post.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 11:40 PM
30

It’s ok to feel feelings. It’s just important to be in control of them and not let them effect your actions or decision making.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 06:25 PM
27

For sure, man. Well trained.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 07:11 AM
9

Great breakdown. It’s as simple as getting somebody to start thinking about things in a certain way. Those who are already thinking that way just unconsciously use their brains to work through situations/have fun while trying to achieve their goal. Those who aren’t need to be hacked and re-wired. Over time their brains will collect enough data to run on auto pilot most of the time too.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/19 11:05 AM
9

Or you could just be outcome independent and not give a fuck what anyone does other than yourself. If you’re working hard on yourself and your business, she might say “I miss him so much” or she might say, “he never has time for me” while she’s sucking some random dick. You can’t control other people.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 03:22 AM
3

Bro that is decent success rate. Quit bitching. Quit being a bitch. Just go live your life and stop worrying about other people. It gets better just keep putting the work in.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 08:37 PM
7

If a woman actually places these things as important, she is automatically disposable material They are good for cheap entertainment and nothing else
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 01:25 PM
2

Think about your own neediness here too. Why do you want her texting you all the time?
/r/askTRP06/12/19 03:45 PM
4

It’s that time of the month
/r/askTRP06/12/19 03:31 PM
1

Ask her out
/r/askTRP05/12/19 01:10 PM
28

where you see the obvious sexual tension and then act on it. You need to build your ability to read women to become more effective at this. This is where it’s important to learn how to polarize and use plausible deniability. Polarize and judge her reaction to see what a real OBVIOUS IOI looks like. If she gives the right signal response and she keeps giving what you thought were IOIs to begin with then all you need to do is isolate with solid logistics and plausible deniability. Getting a ride h…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 01:19 PM
1

Sure. Remind me if you haven’t seen something in the next week. I’ve got a lot going on, but it’s a story worth telling.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 05:53 AM
2

Agreed. Please don't recalibrate around idiots who don't even have their minds open to this stuff. It was actually a LMR/ASD joke.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 10:10 PM
4

We are all in different places and everything is relative. Work hard to make your life better than it was yesterday. Looking at comparisons beyond that serves little purpose in the long run beyond understanding mistakes your parents made so you don’t make them as well.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/19 09:33 PM
2

He means if you just met
/r/askTRP27/11/19 05:01 AM
2

There are SO many more intriguing options.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 04:56 AM
2

Man, you shouldn’t be confirming dates. And you shouldn’t let girls slide very much unless they have a rock solid excuse and they set an alternate time/day
/r/askTRP27/11/19 12:10 AM
1

It’s called agree and amplify. Not doing it for the lolz.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 07:03 PM
1

What are you doing here? That “little witty retort” thing is a weapon we sharpen around here.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 02:57 PM
1

the fundamentals will always be there to fall back on Everyone needs a solid foundation to build on
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 12:58 AM
12

Glad it resonated with you. Sure the pussy was great. But there’s plenty of other pussy out there. That’s what I’m talking about. Even if it was the best pussy I’ve ever had, I’m not compromising my own goals and standards to try to hold on to it for ANY amount of time.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 12:56 AM
2

Lol. I wanted to shit all over her but we didn’t get to that point in our relationship yet
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 12:18 AM
1

Exactly. Sounds good to me.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 11:34 PM
2

Lol. I wrote it like that to make people read to the end, hoping an epiphany would happen along the way. Classic “you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink” moment.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 10:59 PM
6

You have to want it. There is no other way to put yourself through the pain of killing parts of yourself and burning off the dead wood so the new thoughts and ideas can take over. It’s so nice on the other side though.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 10:56 PM
13

I enjoyed your post. You’re right though, the sub has been overrun by people who aren’t actually looking for “the red pill” at all.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 06:53 PM
11

Tbh I didn’t believe your story. In real life bitch would keep coming back. That’s what I thought too, and exactly why I shared the experience. I can’t be the only one who has ever experienced this. Looking back, I realized that I easily could have dug for an explanation, tried to understand why she didn’t act the way I expected and try to better figure out how I could control or predict a woman’s behavior/how I could keep it from happening again. But I didn’t, and that was a new one for me when…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 06:25 PM
4

This exact post was removed yesterday. Mods told me that the auto-mod removed it because it was too short. You should save yourself from having a stick shoved up your ass and delete this. I doubt you could fit anything else up my ass right now but you can try. You tried to make a point across. People didn’t listen. So what? As long as it works for you, stick to your guns. I’ll just wait a bit, recalibrate and try again.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 06:01 PM
44

Great post. I have noticed that my ability to ignore their most emotional pleas completely usually drives them insane. Not answering phone calls and texts for weeks on end only to act as if it never happened and I was busy. Being naturally aloof is helpful. I would genuinely be happy doing my own thing most of the time except when I want to put my dick in a vagina.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 06:51 PM
7

Go off and do things on your own
/r/askTRP24/11/19 05:24 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP24/11/19 03:55 PM
0

This
/r/askTRP24/11/19 03:55 PM
2

This is an excellent comment. she wants to feel anxiety that she can resolve by fucking you. People need to get this drilled into their heads
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 02:47 PM
3

Lol accurate breakdown as always, man. Message to readers: maybe you're not there yet, but this is what abundance is like, it's a wonderful feeling, and it's a worthy goal, work for it. It seemed so positive and uplifting to me.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 08:14 PM
2

In theory, yes. In reality, no. I would rather be completely alone with no plates than to be in an exclusive relationship with someone I didn’t want to enter into one with. True abundance mentality is knowing you can get another female to have sex with anytime. It’s really just a belief in yourself and your abilities.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 02:30 PM
3

Yes. Well said. You should always be aware of where you are on that scale. That is skill number one.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 01:41 PM
2

Don’t disagree. The point is, I did it that way, it ended in that result, and it doesn’t really matter. Take away shit and learn, but always have your focus right and be moving forward.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 01:26 PM
1

You will never REALLY know anything. You do the best you can with the data presented and as of now, I am yet to find a single example of that kind of love flowing uphill. If I’m wrong. Awesome.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 01:23 PM
1

Just pay attention to their actions
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 05:08 AM
1

Absolutely agree. I realized my error almost as I was making it. It has been an interesting journey full of uncomfortable mistakes and freeing realizations so far. I stumbled upon this community 2.5 years ago and I don’t want to imagine what my life would be like right now if I hadn’t. I greatly appreciate the work you have invested in this place, man. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 05:06 AM
1

It doesn’t flow that way. They feared losing me for themselves. They respected me. They will never love you in the way you want.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 04:52 AM
1

Would you then say that there is a part of you inside that feels bad for her, but that you're choosing instead to guide yourself with your values rather than dwell in such emotions? Yes. I don’t hide from feelings or emotions. I’m not a robot. I am capable of deep love. I have tons of close friends that I love dearly. I love my family members to death. Do you think she had genuine love for you beyond that of a pleasure object? We didn’t know each other that well yet. I think she had love for her…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 04:29 AM
1

Think whatever you want. We are here to share experiences and trade notes. And on top of that, this focus isn’t even the point of my post, but let’s dig in. Out of the, again, dozens of times I've been through this never has a girl ever just walked away and cut contact Not a large enough sample size to declare certainty. I could name many different things that could cause this to be the case. I’m sure I wasn’t the first and I won’t be the last. I assume that she expected that if I gave a shit at…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 04:24 AM
2

That’s a ridiculous take. In this case she would of continued using emotional manipulation to guilt you into a committed relationship What do you think withholding sex was? An attempt to manipulate me into a committed relationship. Just because she said, “I understand” doesn’t mean she wasn’t just lying or saying some shit she thought I wanted to hear.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 09:56 PM
1

Fair points. No one will ever know.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 03:20 PM
1

Doesn’t matter if I feel bad for her. I can have empathy and still follow my own strategies.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 03:19 PM
2

Nope. Just learn that shit doesn’t matter.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 03:17 PM
2

Men don’t lie Men do whatever the fuck they want
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 02:58 PM
2

Nope. Just living the good life.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 02:57 PM
2

Not saying I’m special. I’m saying it’s not special.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 02:55 PM
3

My sexual strategy is to be able to replace a girl at any point
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 02:52 PM
2

Ayyyeeee, thanks man! Haha
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 10:06 PM
3

It doesn’t matter that she’s not still around. That’s the point. That’s what’s important for these newer guys to grasp. Stop making her the mental point of origin. I honestly would have replaced her by now. Girls get boring.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 10:06 PM
3

And it doesn’t matter at all. Life goes on. Mine didn’t skip a beat.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 09:37 PM
5

instead, he effectively slammed the door on her desires. you never give a girl a straight answer with overt communication. ever. Correct. Definitely made an error but I was honestly not in a place where I was thinking about commitment. I laughed. And fumbled through my words. It was obvious I did not care. I handle it much better these days.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:51 PM
8

Seems pretty normal and healthy to me
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:34 PM
13

This is absolutely correct. Thanks for the input. At that point I was still working out how to handle the talk. I’ve gotten much smoother over the past year. In fact I sidestepped my most recent episode of the talk into a potential threesome, some toys and cuffs to tie her up that she purchased for me, and anal whenever I want. Mostly because of lessons learned from the abject failure recounted in this post.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:33 PM
1

I’m open to an LTR with the right woman but I’m certainly not looking for one. I write down a lot of my encounters with women in a journal so I can learn from them and share them here in the future.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:30 PM
1

Lol. You’re fun.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:10 PM
3

There’s a reasonable response. Good job.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:02 PM
2

Why can’t you accept that I saw her as a wet hole and nothing more because I didn’t even know her yet. Also why do I have to want an LTR and kids?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:01 PM
3

I don’t mind that she brought it up. It’s that she decided not to fuck me as an attempt to get me to give in to her wishes. We didn’t know each other at all. I’m guessing we had seen each other 9 times at that point. Enough to scratch the surface.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 07:57 PM
7

Dude she already opened the gate to sex. You don’t weaponize it in an attempt to get your way. I mean she is welcome to try that but it’s not going to get very far with a guy who has options
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 07:46 PM
3

You understand that a couple of months is only a handful of weeks right? We did not know each other at all. We had hung out maybe 8-9 times. It’s needy behavior. A woman that’s worth committing to would not push for commitment so soon. Also she would not hold the pussy hostage with bullshit as a way to force my hand.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 07:24 PM
3

It was tucked in. She was clearly planning on trying to secure exclusivity and brought it along for good luck.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 07:20 PM
2

That’s why I pulled back when I felt it. I know she was into that kind of stuff so something must have been up if she had one in her bra. Honestly I thought she was going to tell me she was pregnant.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:54 PM
5

OMG you’re right! I’m such an idiot.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:28 PM
2

I burned her because she was trying to get exclusivity after I had only known her for a matter of weeks. That’s ridiculous and a major red flag in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:22 PM
3

Haha it was very thoughtful. Habanero infused salt since I love hot peppers.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:20 PM
3

Nope. Just because I’m half decent at telling stories doesn’t mean I know how to write fiction.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:15 PM
2

Damn right I do 💪🏼
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:12 PM
5

“Step up and be a man good man”
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:09 PM
1

We all die alone. I like being alone. I’m assuming you don’t want to be alone (I feel like that’s pretty reasonable). That’s so soft. Sounds like you want someone to be your mother.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 05:59 PM
2

Very little time in pursuit. I get text messages asking if I want to hang out a certain night. I make plans then girls show up.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 05:56 PM
5

“YoU sHouLd hAvE cOmMitTed bRo !!” Haha man it is beyond me how that is the consensus
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 05:48 PM
1

Haha I should have just grabbed a beer out of the fridge and wrapped it in a paper towel.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 05:43 PM
1

Habanero infused salt because I love me some hot peppers.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 05:22 PM
5

Right and THIS was a part of the vetting process that she unfortunately did not pass. Because I’m not going to commit to a woman I basically just met, no matter how good she has treated me for a few weeks. And because of that I showed her the door. And she walked out the door. And I closed the door. And I continue to fuck women who are not her and improve my life daily. End of story.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 04:54 PM
5

Why do you care what I do? I don’t care what you do.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 04:46 PM
2

Nope, I made the right move for me. I did not want what she was selling.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 04:32 PM
2

Haha I enjoyed your comment. I’ve found better than her. Not here for reassurance, but to teach less experienced guys that even though it seems tough, this is the right move. It makes you stronger.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 04:30 PM
9

Man, this is very well said. Love the analogy.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 04:13 PM
3

It’s a journey. I’m much smoother now. But the ultimate point was that it didn’t matter.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 04:10 PM
3

Ok, fair. Point taken. I did just chuckle at this little girl fumbling through her attempt to put her foot down. But I have made a point of accepting my feelings and embracing them more recently.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 04:06 PM
9

we are all supposed to leave the place better than we found it. WE aren’t supposed to do shit. Quit moralizing. I never signed any contracts.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 04:04 PM
4

I’ve definitely faced this more recently and handled it a bit differently, but not much. Current plate who has been promoted to FWB (while on an overnight trip on at a rooftop bar): “Sometimes I wonder if we should just stop seeing each other” Me: “Right now? Is that what you want to do?” Of course it wasn’t. I’ve learned to have feelings for them and embrace it. I’ve learned to show them the door and let them walk if they want. I’ve learned that playing things close to the chest is better than …
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 04:02 PM
4

This is normal. When people think a normal guy who looks out for his best interests is a sociopath, the feminizing of society must almost be complete. If I told her I wanted to be in a relationship when I didn’t, just to fuck her again, THAT would be sociopathic.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 03:54 PM
9

Yeah it’s crazy. I literally told a story about how I laughed at a chick who wanted me to commit after a matter of weeks and I’m somehow a horrible person. Not even sure why those kind of guys would hang around here in the first place. It’s gross hearing them spout their moralizing.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 03:43 PM
3

Hopefully they are just letting it bake for a while to get everyone to out themselves before they hit it hard.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 03:41 PM
6

I did what I wanted to. I’m not going to change my actions because someone else would want me to do something that benefits them.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 03:36 PM
5

Oh man. Sit down, we need to have a serious talk.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 03:30 PM
1

Net gain. I got more time back to spend on the things I wanted to spend them on.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 03:23 PM
6

Wrong. They actually ask me to fuck them in the ass and tie them up. I do not feel dumb at all.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 03:22 PM
4

Her feelings are fluid. Her attraction would decrease the second I became exclusive. Not to mention the rest of the story.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 03:20 PM
1

Indeed
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 02:33 PM
3

Yeah, this one was into reading vampire and witch fantasy novels and had a fair amount of stones and things.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 01:34 PM
5

I did expect to hear from her again. But it’s perfectly fine that I didn’t.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 01:15 PM
3

I literally just reacted honestly. It made me laugh. Because it was foolish to assume that I would stop seeing other women after fucking her once a week for like 10 weeks.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 01:14 PM
6

I agree on the surface but she did have red flags. The biggest one being that she was pushing for commitment so soon.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 01:13 PM
4

True. Lol. Can’t make this shit up.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 01:10 PM
1

I know. I have many times. You’re missing the point.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 01:08 PM
4

I’m glad somebody got the point I was trying to get across.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 01:03 PM
18

You missed the point and honestly that’s fine because the post wasn’t for you. I have gotten plenty of PMs from young guys dealing with oneitis who thanked me for the example.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 01:01 PM
1

They have grown so strong in numbers over the past few years. It’s funny.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:59 PM
4

A guy who looks out for his interests. Oh nooooooo. Head for the hills.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:56 PM
2

Hahahaha yep. Love and learn. It’s called a journey for a reason. Great comment.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:55 PM
1

It had been like 10 weeks of fucking once a week. I barely even knew her. Anyone who needs commitment that fast isn’t worthy of it.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:53 PM
5

Not sure if I will or not. If I do, I’ll take as many precautions as possible and accept the challenge.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:51 PM
4

Totally agree. I think she expected me to reach out. As I expected her to. In a kind of “whoever speaks first loses” situation. But the holidays happened and the new year passed and I just didn’t give a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:51 PM
5

What allowed you to reach this abundance? Knowing there are always more women who I can replace the current women with. And out of curiosity how tall are you? Short enough to get picked on my entire life Glad you enjoyed the post.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:46 PM
4

Damn right. Similar experiences over here
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:43 PM
15

Thank you! She was a bit nuts for many reasons. She got me habanero infused salt because I love hot peppers.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:43 PM
8

Lol. A smooth stone that she was hoping would bring her good luck with her pre-planned assault on my freedom.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:42 PM
3

This girl said the same thing. I forgot all about it until you posted. I never spend time texting. She was upset that I wasn’t putting in effort outside of our dates and wanted more communication.... nope.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:41 PM
3

plate didn't just break. you threw it on the ground. Haha indeed. It’s a pretty liberating act. I highly recommend it. Like I’ve said, you learn through action. But I built a lot of self confidence by sending her on her way and not giving an inch. Do I handle it differently now? Yes. If I want the girls to stick around. I have had many realizations over the past year along my journey.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:39 PM
8

Some smooth stone that she was hoping would bring her good luck with her pre-meditated power move.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:34 PM
-6

At the very least it’s a story about two people respecting themselves. Sounds classy to me.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:32 PM
-3

I regret nothing. I’m literally just a man, being honest with himself about what he wants, and then living that life.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:27 PM
3

I don't understand why you're calling her insecure? She stated what she wanted, you said you won't give it to her, she left. Seems pretty secure and she-had-her-shit-together kind. She was crying and heartbroken that I hadn’t, on my own, declared my love by vowing exclusivity to her after 10 weeks of fucking once a week. Sounds crazy to me.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:25 PM
-2

I truly enjoy my life exactly how it is. I have tons of great friends. I own a business. I have a side hustle. I work out regularly. I eat well. I have interests and hobbies. I spend the remainder of my free time with women. There is no permanence. There is no time to pretend to play house. Women lock men down. There is no locking a woman down. They are always single no matter what has been said. Better to keep the power positions flipped to keep them working hard.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:22 PM
4

Hilarious
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:17 PM
33

It’s nice to have girls just coming over for good times. Picking up new girls is fun but it is a task. I am too busy to rely on ONS exclusively. Also I like building relationships with these women. I’m just saying that it’s always the same fun no matter what girl I’m with. I am the party. I am the good time they seek.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:56 AM
4

Haha it was just a social experiment to see how many people would ask about the gift. You are in the 1% my friend. She bought me habanero infused salt because I love hot peppers.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:43 AM
2

She got me habanero infused salt because she knew I like hot things.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:37 AM
-10

Haha what in the fuck? I thought it was a good example of how to protect your own mating strategy at all costs and being strong enough to walk away for you, not as an attempt to manipulate someone.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:36 AM
5

It’s an example of someone being hit with “the talk.” Which is something anyone here with any value will go through. Examples are important. I feel like there are only examples where things go horribly wrong or work out perfectly, but I wanted to highlight for guys without much experience that this happens too. I did a lot good, and could have handled it perfectly, and we still may never have spoken again. It’s teaching that the mindset I had allowed me to know what I wanted and make sure I got …
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:28 AM
5

For sure. Happy with my current situation.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:14 AM
14

100% Man, the times I’ve fucked this up.... been manipulated.... committed anyway.... scarcity mindset.... and that entire cycle.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:13 AM
7

It clearly wasn’t written for you. There are plenty of guys on here who haven’t experienced this level of self confidence to just walk away from something that isn’t quite up to all of your standards. It’s an example for them. Something to aspire to. If you want to tear me down, knock yourself out.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:10 AM
7

Haha good work, sir. That is correct.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:08 AM
16

Fucking nailed it. Well said.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:02 AM
10

When you design your life the way you want, it’s easy to cut women loose and replace them without a second thought when they don’t behave the way you would like them to. No wasting time and energy trying to get them to act a certain way. No giving in to their pleas for commitment. No compromise. No fucks given.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 07:58 AM
17

Boooooo. I made this post for guys who keep hanging on to one special girl. And I made it for guys who have not yet designed their own lives to show them that you can be in control of your own happiness.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 07:45 AM
9

Right. Totally agree with all of that. The point being that none of that shit matters if you designed your life the way you want it.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 07:44 AM
13

She was doing all the things she was doing to try to secure commitment. It all comes from a selfish place. Just because her attempts didn’t work doesn’t mean you should feel sorry for her. She wants a guy to take care of her and provide for her. If she wants a quality man, she will have to invest more time before he is willing to commit.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 07:43 AM
31

Lol for sure. Again not the point of the post, but yes I did rub it in her face. Bottom line is that wasn’t going to last much longer either way.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 07:40 AM
8

whereas perhaps now she mistakenly thinks she was ushered out because all she was to you was a wet hole That’s all she was. I hadn’t known her long enough for her to become anything more than that.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 07:38 AM
1

We prefer the term “trashmen”
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:45 AM
11

Girls want different things at different times and are quite unpredictable. Also the terms “Alpha” and “Beta” just describe certain behaviors. Try to make your point without involving mythical archetypes. No category can hold me, sir.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:37 AM
11

Yep. We did fuck on the first night.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:31 AM
-24

Lol gayyyeeee. I’m the love of my life. But seriously, I believe I dodged an emotionally unstable bullet.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:29 AM
14

Yes. It was a good move but it was too much too fast. I wasn’t into it at all. We were just getting to know each other. Slow your roll lady.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:27 AM
25

If I was interested in a future with her then I might care, but I’m not focused on a future with anybody but myself. If a girl wants a future with me, then she will continue to act within the framework I lay out for our interaction. Which includes not pressing for exclusivity. If that doesn’t work for her, she is free to walk. I know my behavior made that clear. I said I could have handled it differently and kept her spinning for a little while, but the point of the post is that it’s better to l…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:19 AM
49

Lol. I’m not alone. Everything is great. Am I the only one who thinks that the reason you're telling us about this almost a year later is that what happened bothers you? Probably. There's nothing in the RP philosophy that dictates that you can't have committed relationships with someone if they're trustworthy and loyal to you. One little red bit of wisdom I picked up is that, the only woman that’s worthy of commitment is one that would never push for it too early (really at all). She had not dis…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:03 AM
28

I almost always go that route. It is the best.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 05:55 AM
9

Absolutely
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 05:44 AM
12

Eat up, the second course will be ready soon.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 05:43 AM
109

Great mindset, but did you truly internalize that? Hell yes. It’s so obvious how boring/bored these girls are. I plan everything, make all decisions, and make all the fun happen. You can insert any random vagina in the equation and I still have the same good time. Basically do you have moments of self-doubt and how do you deal with those moments? Or how did you eliminate them? Of course, we all do at one point or another. A huge point I’ve internalized is a mantra I learned from Herm Edwards. “I…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 05:40 AM
197

She’s the one missing good times. I am the good times. They come with me wherever I go.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 05:28 AM
44

Let’s play a game. Why would I feel remorse?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 05:21 AM
223

I wasn’t always the man I am today. It’s important to note for the newer guys out there. It does get better. Just do the work.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 05:02 AM
8

Go read the community rules and the sidebar. I will paste this here for everyone: Do not announce that you are a woman Women frequently use their sex to try and seize special attention on the internet. This does not fly in our community. Having a vagina does not afford your words special weight or wisdom, or give you any inside understanding of how men should deal with women. If you are female, do not say "woman here," or "as a female" or anything that identifies you as such. Your comments and p…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 05:00 AM
1

Agreed. Watch the rules: No moralizing (Sexual strategy is immoral) No declaring yourself a woman
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 04:53 AM
29

Light switch effect is crazy. knowing female nature she had another man lined up should u not give in to her ultimatum. 100% I dont think you handled that question correctly though Definitely shouldn’t have laughed at her and should have found a way to not rub it in her face. The point of the post is that it really doesn’t matter. You learn by doing and making mistakes. The other point is that your effort is always better spent securing new pussy than trying to salvage the old.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 04:48 AM
4

A classic case of holding the pussy hostage. Only works if there is no other pussy around.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 04:37 AM
59

Haha it was actually quite thoughtful. She got me some habanero infused sea salt because she knew how much I enjoyed hot things.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 04:35 AM
15

She definitely was a good girl for the most part. It was however way too early to be expecting exclusivity from ANYBODY. Kind of a red flag in and of itself. I mean what guy just decides to be exclusive without even being asked? A chump.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 04:28 AM
22

Very well composed. It does boil down to this. Are you willing to be a plaything or not? If your gut recognizes that you are being treated like a plaything, are you sticking around for the chance at some pussy? If so, that pussy will recognize this and dry up. Establish your frame when the first tests begin to trickle down and make it clear who will be the plaything in this interaction.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/19 05:46 PM
2

They covertly and successfully crack my frame after sex because I think I have them on lock and lower my guard. This was one of the most important lessons I’ve learned here and it took a WHILE to find the answers. Girls take much longer to emotionally invest than guys. Guys are visually stimulated. You just need to see a hot girl to be ready to invest. Fucking one and you’re 100% ready. The problem is guys assume that girls are the same way and are at the same level of investment after fucking w…
/r/askTRP17/11/19 05:24 PM
1

You’ve got a lot of work to do. It’s not going to change over night.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 05:12 PM
2

Absolutely not. If I have to send one more because she makes a move to suck me in, it is clear that I’m not engaging. “Yes that thing you just mentioned is totally hilarious babe. Enjoy your day.”
/r/askTRP16/11/19 04:20 PM
1

We are pretty much in agreement. I have just noticed that a quick comfort text before pulling back after fucking a new girl the first time can work wonders. I’m still pulling back and giving her space to wonder and text me over the next week. Just a quick “Had fun last night. Let’s do it again sometime” to control the narrative.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 04:12 PM
1

I mean, it’s good to send a “Had a great time last night” text after fucking the first time so she isn’t falling into her feelings of regret or feeling like a slut who just got pumped and dumped.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 04:02 PM
1

Good advice. Annnddd it’s different if they had actually fucked.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 03:49 PM
1

She doesn’t have to offer an actual date, she asked if you wanted to reschedule. So YOU have to reschedule. I would have told her you would be in touch instead of telling her to hit you up. Just message and set the date.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 03:28 PM
3

I’m just not interested in talking about fucking guys, so I EXPECT her to understand that by my actions. I’m not going to explain that to her, that’s not how girls communicate. Acta non verba Girls communicate covertly (through actions) A plate that is in FWB territory texts me that one of her male friends (a beta orbiter) would like to join us for a day time outing I had planned for us. I only do romantic date shit with this girl and I’m not interested in hanging out with some fucking guy, so I…
/r/askTRP16/11/19 01:54 PM
2

When a woman says something you don’t like, ignore it as if she never said it. Also.... Acta non verba. Watch what she does, not what she says.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 04:50 AM
2

You’re looking to get something from a girl, that you can only get from yourself.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 04:40 AM
1

The only thing I would change is the “You weren’t interested” part. I would have said, “I didn’t hear back from you so I made other plans. Maybe we can do it some other time.” This will drive her hamster crazy. She will assume you’re with another woman. She will hate that she’s missing out. She will go crazy that you said maybe, and don’t seem overly invested.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 02:00 PM
3

Bro just ask her out. You’re acting like a child. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Just be a man and ask her to meet. Let the chips fall where they may.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 06:52 PM
12

Ask now. Why wait? You have enough time to talk about it on here, you have enough time to date her for a couple hours and try to fuck her.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 06:51 PM
3

You’re just rationalizing why you aren’t going to polarize her and try to fuck her. What does double texting matter. Just ask her to meet. You are being far too outcome dependent. She will make it easy to meet or she won’t. Then you can decide whether it’s time to try to fuck her or drop her.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 06:49 PM
2

You’re supposed to entertain yourself
/r/askTRP01/11/19 02:53 PM
1

Be attractive. Don’t be unattractive. “Be attractive” can be achieved through Monk Mode. You increase SMV and initial attraction now occurs on the regular. “Don’t be unattractive” is basically just knowing how to avoid stepping on your own dick. You don’t NEED hella game when you have a high SMV. If you meet a girl that requires that level of gaming, she’s just not that into you and it’s fine because with an SMV like you have built, there are plenty of opportunities out there. This is true abund…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/19 12:05 PM
9

Do people just upvote they first thing they see because it appears at the top of the comment section? You already know this is true. Unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 12:09 AM
1

One day you’ll understand how ridiculous you sound speaking in ad hominem attacks and archetypes.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 08:56 PM
4

why does he get to “pump and dump her” and treat her like his personal cum dumpster and I have to stand by and treat her like a princess? This exactly. You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to. You feel like there is a contract and you need to uphold your end of it. What is on the other end of the contract? And is it being upheld? And is it valuable enough for you to honor it? And what are the consequences of not honoring it? There are other lessons here like, “If you have the need to wri…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 03:05 PM
3

Do they sound mature and intelligent or do I? You are already ahead of them in your journey, don’t look back just because there are multiple BPish perspectives commenting here. They are all afraid of friends stealing their girls. This is how a blue pill is spread. People feed you bullshit to get you to act a certain way that will benefit them. The blue pill in this scenario is that you need to be a good little friend by not fucking hot girls that want to fuck you. The red pill in this scenario i…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 02:39 PM
4

They are all clearly still basing their sexual strategy off of some level of societal morality. Sexual strategy is amoral. Morals are a contract. You give something, you get something. Whenever there are morals involved in a situation, ask yourself what you are supposed to be getting in return, and whether you are actually receiving it, then decide if the moral is worth upholding or honoring, or if it’s just someone taking advantage of you. Your friend doesn’t give a fuck about that girl. He pro…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 01:57 PM
4

She’s just some girl. You didn’t fuck up.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 12:22 PM
1

u/total_sleazeball this is the correct answer. It’s not a huge deal. Imagine how a predator reacts in the wild. If something acts like prey, it’s brain lights up and it attacks and plays with the prey. If something lays still and doesn’t act like prey and freak out/run away, then it gets disinterested and finds another prey. You didn’t even fuck this girl yet. You’re still in the clear.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 12:04 PM
3

“Had fun last night. Let’s do it again sometime” If you want to plate her you need for her to believe you’re better than her AND you need to believe you’re better than her.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 02:37 AM
1

Girls will SAY a lot of things. Girls want exclusivity from the highest value male they can attain it from. Then they will fuck above that. Watch what they do, not what they say. Separately, this was a shit test/beta bait as was earlier stated.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 02:29 AM
4

Nailed it. Well played. OP take note.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 02:20 AM
2

You’re banking on her going against her mating strategy. She will lie to you and her BF with no chance at commitment from you. No way to be sure he won’t want revenge even if she did break up with him. There is no safe bet.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 01:46 AM
1

As I heard last night from the mouth of a successful mother fucker, Nick Saban, “Don’t focus on the results, focus on the process and the results will come.”
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 06:04 PM
0

Agreed. I can’t really pick out his issue with it. Regardless, his method and understanding is flawed.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 05:07 PM
27

Every girl is ALWAYS single. You guys who set conditions and rules for women and play the honest card, are missing the point. Your actions are all that should matter to you. She will cater to her own mating strategy no matter what you say. Expecting her to break up with her meal ticket AND fuck you with no chance at commitment just shows that you don’t understand women like you need to. She will lie to you and fuck you if your SMV is high enough and she’s not getting the D she craves at home. Wh…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 02:34 PM
2

Anything people will buy into. Confirmation bias is a hell of a drug. 100% of stats sound legit to someone. And for a bonus, I’ve never heard an honest man use the word “legit.”
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 03:59 PM
2

This
/r/askTRP16/10/19 05:08 AM
1

I think people far too often confuse when we’re discussing short term and long term strategy/concepts. He’s clearly talking about short term ONS type situations. Of course over months and months girls can sort out who is faking and who is the real deal. But in a same day lay situation they are fully slaves to their wiring.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:20 AM
1

If you had been around a bunch of really masculine guys who you were attracted to, then you were around nervous you, who was basically forcing her to take the male role by pulling her on top of you instead of getting on top of her, you would see a start difference and get turned off too.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:15 AM
2

Haha yeah, it’s all trial and error. You clearly understand what went wrong there. Build that emotional connection for her. The only way to do that is to open yourself up to it, then have a strong enough frame to resist it/see it for what it is. Once she is hooked emotionally, she’s free to be the whore she really is with no shame. One of the best things I have realized is that you can never have too much plausible deniability. I used to drop it after one fuck. It just takes longer for most girl…
/r/askTRP16/10/19 02:40 AM
2

Absolutely, man. I have really enjoyed learning and I think a big part of learning is passing on knowledge here. Glad to give you a new perspective. I definitely mean SMALL DOSES too. I’m not out here acting like a girl’s boyfriend all the time. Just enough to keep her from feeling like a slut, which absolutely will creep in to her mind at random times if you aren’t giving her just enough male love. You want her to feel like a slut in bed and nowhere else.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 02:33 AM
2

It sounds like you’ve got a lot of this figured out. I pretty much run the same patterns as you described. I had a hard time converting ONS to plates. I fucked em good. Made them cum. Showed all the alpha traits with none of the beta. They would message about enjoying the sex and say that we should do it again. Then they would break before they started spinning. After many failures I added a little comfort here and there and things changed. I realized I was trying too hard to show alpha traits. …
/r/askTRP16/10/19 02:19 AM
1

Lol no
/r/askTRP16/10/19 01:32 AM
4

1 - Sounds like you’re being cocky not confident. Confidence is silent. You never tell them. When they ask me, “I never kiss and tell.” When they dig in later about other girls I just ignore it and focus on having a great fucking time in the moment. 2 - You should view every plate the way YOU view an LTR. Don’t treat them any different than YOU would treat an LTR when you’re with them. Plates usually last 3-4 months before they break. Your version of an LTR is 3-4 months. THAT was a plate. Plate…
/r/askTRP16/10/19 01:00 AM
1

Nah. It’s weird. Sending a picture is not investment. Asking for one is.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 12:40 AM
2

Google it
/r/askTRP15/10/19 03:54 PM
4

“I am the absolute worst😘” Agree and Amplify I usually don’t use emojis but we were going for polarizing here and you’re implying that you want to move this forward sexually. So it is a good tool in this instance.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 01:38 PM
1

Sounds like a fun challenge
/r/askTRP13/10/19 11:25 AM
2

Polarize her and be willing to walk away
/r/askTRP13/10/19 11:22 AM
4

You seem to be concerned with “being” alpha. There are alpha behaviors and there are beta behaviors.. The only question anyone should concern themselves with is, “Am I getting what I want?” A lot of men following TRP rapidly understand that spinning plates is not a long term fulfilling solution Let’s dissect this: Knowing what you want or desire is key. What do I want? Consistent enthusiastic sex Am I getting what I want by spinning plates? Yes Do I want consistent enthusiastic sex long term? Ye…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/19 02:00 PM
2

Try it. Gotta be willing to lose girl #1.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 11:37 PM
3

I just give them special affection and good dick when they’re with me. They know there are others. They try the old triangulation tricks. I actually don’t care if they say they want to go fuck another guy. That takes literally zero effort from a girl to achieve. Pat her on the back, “go ahead babe.” That’s like me saying I want to have a long deep reassuring conversation with a platonic female friend. “Neat. That means literally nothing.” They like being around me for the dick. It’s worth the pr…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/19 03:29 AM
4

Women maintain orbiters (spin plates) to achieve their goal of getting as much attention and resources as possible. They also get as much good dick as they want as long as they are average in the looks department.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/19 03:15 AM
6

This is from No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover. Read the book. DEER Response DEER is an acronym I use for: Defend Explain Excuse Rationalize. These are all fear-based behaviors used to distract others from focusing on the Nice Guy's mistakes and "badness." The Nice Guy is most likely to go into the DEER Response when he has done something or failed to do something, and someone (usually wife, partner, or boss) confronts him and expresses his or her feelings.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 12:49 PM
6

You have to understand women to understand what’s going on. You’re thinking about things from a male perspective. Also questions and clarifications go in askTRP. Delete this and go post it over there. Don’t clog up the main sub with 101 level stuff.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 08:09 PM
9

Not necessarily. The fact that he engaged her sexually and then didn’t finish the job could cause all kinds of problems depending on her mental state. u/ComplexProjection take note. Search the post: “If you've Ever Wanted to See the Absolute Worst of a Woman, Just Refuse her sex.” Read all the comments. Not saying this scenario is at all the same, and you might indeed be fine, but we’re all here to compare notes. Edit: This post doesn’t end in tragedy. There are plenty that do, I just don’t have…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 05:37 PM
35

Agreed. I certainly don’t shit where I eat ever. If I were in a similar situation after a few drinks with a co-worker that I had a lot of sexual tension with, my mind would snap back in the same way the second she put up the resistance. All of that makes sense. His analysis was off base. He still has a lot to learn before he starts teaching other people about how well he understands women and how they operate.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 02:04 PM
122

LMR....ASD.... call it what you will.... whatever it was, she didn’t say it because you’re not attractive enough. It had nothing to do with you at all. I thought it was a good example on how women work. It was, you just missed the forest for the trees. It’s also a great example of a guy who doesn’t see himself as the prize (possibly because he hasn’t become the prize yet), hamstering reasons why he was too afraid to push past a little token resistance, claiming that “chad” is somehow involved in…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 01:43 PM
1

Agreed. I made a post about it a while back titled “TEXT ME” if you want to search for it for the comment thread. Responses from ECs were predictable, yet valid.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 03:03 PM
1

When I do decide to do this, I always roll with the phrase “text me”. Which is as good as, “send me your number and I’ll take it from there.”
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 01:44 PM
3

I was waiting tables years ago before I was introduced to TRP. There was a smoking hot little number at my table. I made some strong eye contact with her once at the table and once as she walked past me to the bathroom. The rest of the time I did my normal song and dance, but it was obviously laced with desire. After they left her number was on the receipt. I was too dumb to call because I was seeing someone else and thought I needed to be committed. The point remains that the polarity was stron…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 12:09 PM
2

"She's not yours, it's just your turn": a defeatist cuck mantra for losers by u/whatsthisgarg Enjoy
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 10:12 AM
2

But not always. Gotta keep them on their heels.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 01:31 PM
1

The interesting thing is that you honor it. Not that you shouldn’t - however you don’t have to.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 12:14 PM
1

You can't let this woman go! LOLOLOL Hah I read that post again the other day during my sweeping search. They sensed this and wanted to have the talk. I said "this is just sex, that's it." They had too much self-respect and stormed out, and I appreciated the hell out of that lol Yes dude. Same. A small ego hit and a relief at the same time. I think your upcoming encounter warrants a post, whichever way it comes out; I want to hear about it for sure Will do. It was an entertaining evening.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 12:12 PM
4

Sure thing. The hamster is gonna hamster. You’re the hamsters boss. In the famous words of Austin Powers, “Who does number two work for?!” If you reassure her when she’s feeling anxious and fuck her good to boot, it’s about the best you can do to achieve what I think is the ultimate goal.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 03:50 PM
5

They'll tow the line as long as they can but ulimately most women want exclusivity in the end. They want exclusivity of feelz and provisioning. Sex to a woman is a zero effort transaction - therefore it means next to nothing for you to sleep with other women as she knows she’s the only one getting your affection and support. Not that I’m offering that to a plate I’ve know for two WHOLE months, just wanted to open up the dialogue a bit.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 03:31 PM
25

I have a plate right now that I really enjoy more than the others. We’ve been fucking for about 2 months. She gives the most enthusiastic blow jobs, and is great in the sack. She buys me dinner, and fucks me in public - a guy could get used to this kind of treatment. Long story short, we have plans for her to come over tomorrow, and this morning I see that she has created a tinder account and liked my profile.(tinder gold feature). LOL, what a bold move on her part - she knows I have been fuckin…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 03:07 PM
3

Literally everyone
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:04 AM
30

Yes that is the classic move to resolve some guilt and cover her tracks. OP, she is also lying about him being a pussy. It’s another common tactic. Making him out to be less than a threat makes it easier for her to grab firmly onto the new branch before letting go of the old one.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 03:01 PM
1

I did not give a fuck. It goes a long way.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 05:19 PM
18

Nothing to see here. Go forth and keep doing what you’re doing unless it sucks. Then change it.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/19 08:05 PM
2

Yeah we’re on the same page
/r/TheRedPill05/09/19 09:43 AM
2

The point is to view them as replaceable. And have their replacements waiting in the on deck circle. Or be confident that you can easily replace them. Don’t get lost in the details.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/19 08:29 AM
5

It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it and how you look while you’re saying it. Power talk. Overall communication is the key. Pay attention to what you’re communicating and what’s being communicated to you (watch what they do not what they say). Most guys can only take words at face value. Women don’t communicate overtly. Learn the language of covert communication. The medium is the message. Acta non verba. Congrats on the transformation bro.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 01:48 PM
14

It DOES always start with a blow job. I remember the first girlfriend of one of my best friends that cheated with me. I had just broken up with (was dumped by) my girlfriend. I was in college, blue pill as hell, and still - the sexual tension led her to blow me and then ask who was better, her or my ex. It was her by a landslide. Later, we ended up banging behind a locked door while her boyfriend was outside banging his fist on the door. We both called out that nothing was going on and he needed…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/19 11:44 AM
2

Man, I just re-watched this video like 4 days ago. I revisit Patrice at least once a year for a refresher in attitude. He’s the best. “Two in the kitty” is the most important commandment by far. I have a secret “two in the kitty” handshake with my boys when we’re out hollering at random bitches - to keep the mood light. Awesome post. Looking forward to more from this series.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 12:25 PM
1

Happy to help. Trying to bring this place back to the glory days. I’ll be back when I have time to write again.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 08:13 AM
1

Thanks buddy. There are tons of great posts like this one from back in the day. I was reading some the other day and got inspired to write this. This style has been lost in the autistic spergy style of direct speak we get bombarded with these days.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 06:16 PM
2

A nice twist on the original point.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 03:25 PM
2

Hah - my dad bought me my first pair back in middle school. Modern day rite of passage.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 02:52 PM
1

They always seem to enjoy watching me throw mine in the back seat or across the room.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 10:57 AM
1

“Now go out and get yourself some big black frames With the glass so dark they won't even know your name”
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 10:54 AM
1

It’s amazing, I used to lose them left and right. Once I dropped my investment and got multiple pairs, they’re all where they should be when I want them and I can’t seem to get rid of them.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 10:38 AM
4

Ha - but I LOVE sunglasses. This is not a knock against sunglasses in ANY way.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 10:35 AM
1

They don’t have to be “cheap” but you better not spend a lot. It’s all about keeping your emotional investments low by having seemingly unlimited options.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 10:33 AM
3

Way to “maintain frame” dude.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 10:15 AM
1

Be like the distant star, who’s light can still be seen and remembered hundreds of thousands of years after its burned out and disappeared.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 10:12 AM
82

For sure. I was going to add this, but it wasn’t my focus and I knew someone else smart would show up and mention it.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 07:30 PM
348

She knows what she’s feeling but she doesn’t know how her own brain works well enough to articulate it. She doesn’t want him to cheat or lie to bring him down to her shitty level as has been suggested in the comments. She doesn’t want him to make her feel better about her own poor actions. Her actions are a reflection of his value in her eyes. She is bored (read: uninspired). She so close to getting it. She has nailed the what, she’s just missing the why. What: I want him to cheat. Why: I want h…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 06:47 AM
1

God that’s obnoxious. Say thanks and go read it.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 12:14 PM
9

He sells "the dream" of a $2000 magic pill that we all know doesn't work like that. One of the best things about this iteration of the manosphere is that the first step advocated by flaired members and others alike, is the destruction of the idea that there is a magic pussy/masculinity pill. To exploit that weakness for financial gain is disgusting and manipulative and eerily feminine. Every guy would be better off spending that 2k on a gym membership and healthy food for the year, some new clot…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/19 04:03 PM
8

This was it for me as well. The moment I let plates break and walk out of my house, and NEVER try to save them (no contact); the moment I go for the kiss on random girls within a few minutes of meeting and laugh when she turns away, only to have her pursuing me the rest of the night; the moment I experiment with reckless abandon because I would rather prove to myself that something doesn't work with a woman, than worry about keeping one around any longer.... The moment I became a free man.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 04:07 AM
3

I don't know if people are just glossing over all the the shit that's standing out to me because of his financial success, or what. Here's my view: -She has fucked more than 2 guys ever (not that it really matters, just plays to OPs lack of vision) -OP saw her lower SMV and thought he could build a unicorn to bare his children. Treated her differently from the jump. -He gave up exclusivity far too early (why?), before a months long trip on both ends (why? Who does that?) To a girl who was clearl…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 02:54 PM
1

Haha for sure. Had me rolling though.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 11:57 PM
3

i been spinning plates for a while and this girl is me with a dick. Hahaha I'm dying at all the layers there
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 10:15 PM
1

That's why I included "(if anything)". This was just an attempt to spark dialogue that might smash our visitors misconceptions about TRP. I probably should have left that last question out (it was just an add on, bonus question), but if I did I wouldn't have gotten your excellent response and example of what TRP is all about. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 07:04 PM
1

Who is TRP? I never suggested anyone should care what I think.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 06:43 PM
2

It's fun. You should do it. Because it's fun. And if you're having fun, she's having fun. Obviously there are exceptions.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 06:18 PM
2

So in a way, TRP saves female lives too! Absolutely does. In more ways than one.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 05:47 PM
6

fancy new technology Makes sense. Anticipation is key. Hope you've got it set to vibrate.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 05:41 PM
3

The saddest intermediate Reds are the ones who became attractive and then decided to take revenge on women It's such a weak way to be. A lot of men are commodity fetishists. This behavior can extend to women as well, and for the men who do truly end up lonely, alone, and terribly sad , it's usually a result of this particular behavior. It is. The only things I care to own are my own actions and behaviors. Everything else can come and go as it pleases. I'm not against having nice things, but the …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 05:34 PM
2

"the hamster." It can cause an unlimited amount of problems for everyone. Recognizing this process in myself and shutting it down was one of the biggest steps forward for me. Great answer.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 05:26 PM
3

Sounds like somebody's got one hand double clicking the mouse while her other hand is triple clicking refresh on these comments. Get your mind out of the gutter you perv.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 05:07 PM
21

My main issue with most (probably all) feminist discourse I see is that it only takes aim at men, what men do that is bad, what men need to do to change, how men can make women's oppressed lives better, what is toxic about men, who is the latest target of outrage etc. If anyone wants to be taken seriously, I need to see them talking about what THEY can do, what's wrong with THEM, what toxic behavior do THEY need to cut out, what horrors they impose on others, how they are contributing to the pro…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 04:39 PM
3

It's the definition of shitting where you eat
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 04:06 PM
3

Listen to him man. He's not wrong.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:53 PM
3

Last piece of advice for the future Closure Is Bullshit by laidnyc As a man, you don’t need closure. A girl either wants to fuck you or she doesn’t. A long, emotional conversation will not change this fact. Girls, however, need to put a man they are dumping into a desexualized box and wrap a pretty bow of closure around it. By participating in the closure process you are helping her tie the bow around your desexualized fate. If a girl breaks up with you: Do not talk about your feelings Do not ta…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:43 PM
1

You're right. Thanks for the response.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:17 PM
1

I hate this so much. Embrace the suck. Red pills aren't fun going down. Maybe some ECs, u/itiswr1tten and u/VasiliyZaitzev, who have been commenting can jump in and explain this a little better than I can. I see u/MattyAnon already covered it pretty succinctly for you. The bottom line is, you can't win like that. She's knows that I'm what? Someone who caused her to lose attraction. Call it blue pill, beta, whatever you want. She won't easily forget that feeling and it's not worth the effort with…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:06 PM
1

You're regressing. It just sucks that one slip up might have fucked over years of work. Years of work at what? Your blue pill goals? It wasn't one slip up that was the problem. It was your hidden thought process the whole time. What did you lose? In my opinion you just gained a great deal. I'm not going to reply to her inevitable messages for a month or several. Never dude. It's over. She knows who you are now, there is no going back in her mind. If she comes back to you it will be to take you f…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:31 PM
3

There it is. See your blue pill conditioning in action and reject it. You will get that same crabs in a bucket mentality everywhere. If you're not careful to recognize it and reject it, it will get the best of you.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:07 PM
5

Dig deeper. You're not there yet. It wasn't bringing up the conversation that was your downfall. It was wanting to. You spent how long using red pill tactics to achieve blue pill goals? One mistake after 4 years of maintaining frame and it all goes to shit. Wow. You were faking your frame for four years. Then you slipped up. Congrats on making it that far. Don't fake your frame then you can't slip up. Be congruent with your desires. TRP teaches you to aim for pussy. Let her aim for commitment. T…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:56 PM
5

I love the outpouring of support l and I agree it's no contact or bust, but I want to point out something I haven't seen anyone touch on yet.. I love your overall attitude but you are glossing over the most important lesson here because in your own words I'd rather not get into that though. It sucks, embrace the suck. What triggered this conversation and her anxiety was that I had just landed the job and was ready to introduce her to family for things to get serious. Error. You initiated a push …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 06:37 AM
4

Men that women "love" are to women like drugs are to drug addicts.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 06:55 PM
1

Stop. Nobody needs to hear this bullshit. If you don't want to lift, just don't lift. I have a friend who went from skinny to winning body building competitions, completely clean, in his thirties.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 04:06 AM
3

You're ridiculous. Go away. Source: plenty of family members in the medical profession Bullshit is so easy to notice.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 04:03 AM
2

How old are you? muscle building becomes next to impossible after 25. Where are you getting your info from? Source? I'm 34 and I have been putting on muscle just fine. If you go to a gym regularly you will see guys much older than me putting on muscle.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 03:58 AM
2

Why do you think you won't get results? You don't want to be strong and healthy? You don't want to increase your bone density? Fucking lift man. Stop looking for a reason not to do the hard work.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 03:53 AM
1

Give up. You can put on mass any time
/r/askTRP06/02/19 03:49 AM
3

Just give up. You're looking for someone to tell you that.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 03:49 AM
4

Takeaways? RP lessons? I was left wanting more substance and less poetically written details.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 03:32 AM
3

Women are children, never forget this. The difference is, a child will disrespect you and give you all kinds of shit, unfortunately you have to put in a lot of effort to correct them because the stakes are high, you can't just ditch them. With women, you just ignore that because it's just a child trying to get on an even footing with an adult, and it's just cute. Boys are children too. If she gets on an even footing with you, then she realizes you are a boy, not a man. She knows this because she…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 01:56 AM
9

Great post. Always be prepared to take the L so you can stay in the position of power no matter what.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/19 08:41 PM
3

They feel so strongly they have to delude themselves to make the feelings calm down. Sounds shitty to me.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 03:57 PM
5

No problems. Perfect execution. Probably acutally bumped your smv up a notch.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 03:58 AM
1

Hahahaha. Yes. That.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 02:36 AM
0

Bro you need to act like a pussy little bitch so she is no longer attracted. That's the only way to ditch her in a permanent/guaranteed way.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 11:32 PM
1

Just use that negative energy to do something positive. As far as how long it lasts... As long as you view it as a betrayal, you will feel feelings about it. You already know what actually happened and articulate it pretty well. Accept it. She didn't betray you. She was always going to put herself first. You handled it right and didn't fuck yourself over. Take pride in that.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 11:30 PM
1

Good. That's the takeaway. Be easy young buck.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 08:13 PM
3

We almost already have a “relationship” just haven’t had the talk about exclusivity or anything. You have fucked her a few times... That isn't a relationship. You're young, you have a lot to learn. Just do whatever you're going to do and take your lumps. Don't come here looking for someone to validate your bad decision before you make it.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 08:10 PM
1

You don't have a next move other than doing something stupid and learning your lesson the hard way. Just kick back and take it easy. All the shit you're wasting your time thinking about is her job.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 08:07 PM
1

So can ugly, fat fucks. It's ridiculous to disregard everything else. How do you feel when a chick is awesome vs a clingy annoying social retard. I for one am less attracted. Women are people, so I assume they are similar in nature.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 03:15 AM
1

Boom
/r/askTRP30/01/19 03:10 AM
2

Either way, you're in a bad spot. You need to distance yourself from this toxic situation. Aka: If you like being a cuck then stay with her. Same shit, different phrasing. OP is looking for someone to tell him it's ok to be an orbiter/cuck.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 02:59 AM
2

Furthermore, the intention of calling him a cuckold was to insult him without the decency of even the slightest bit of insight. That's literally the best insight. He is deluding himself, and needs a wake up call. He is asking directly about this, which means he basically knows it, but is hamstering his was around it currently. If ya boy wanted to be insulting, I'm sure he could do a lot better than that rather polite truth bomb.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 02:57 AM
2

It's accurate
/r/askTRP30/01/19 02:52 AM
2

I honestly think she might want to help me explore with other girls, help me with the social scene, meeting more people. Do you need a mommy to hold your hand, or are you a man who is capable of handling life on his own?
/r/askTRP30/01/19 02:46 AM
1

Why would you want to? What do you gain? What does she gain? I promise she's not thinking about you when she's making her decisions. You call yourself empathic, but you're forcing your mind to use her as your mental point of origin. She isn't returning the favor.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 02:44 AM
1

Maybe I should get some new ones to remind myself of what you just said. You should ALWAYS BE GAMING NEW GIRLS. Don't let it stop and you won't accidentally waste your time on stupid shit like this. She's trying to make you feel that way. You're letting her.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 12:46 AM
2

Precisely what it is made for
/r/askTRP29/01/19 10:58 PM
2

You don't make her do anything. That is the essence of trying to control. You just have outcome independence. Ask yourself (you know the answer) if you want someone who acts like that in your life. If no, then move on and if she comes back around acting differently then she can be in your life in some capacity.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 10:58 PM
2

"I'm dating someone" means keep trying because I'm interested. Fucking right it does
/r/askTRP29/01/19 10:55 PM
1

For sure
/r/askTRP29/01/19 02:46 PM
3

Give up. You literally won't close it. You're wasting your time. Just go for it and watch her ghost.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 05:27 AM
1

Also done it with a few plates and I basically just pull my phone out and start filming after round one/when I'm ready for round two. Never been turned down. I also have a really nice camera setup and have done it with a tripod for sex/handheld for BJs etc. She asked for it so I would have something to remember her by. Steel frame wins all. Higher SMV does whatever he wants.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 05:22 AM
3

Exactly. It's setting off all the alarms over here.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 05:03 AM
36

Who cares? Can you actually verify that? Don't trick yourself into thinking she's special. When someone shows you who they really are, believe them.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/19 04:59 AM
9

Wrong. You're thinking like a guy and still trying to communicate overtly. If you're trying to communicate that you're losing interest, doing it that way is overt. You need to communicate covertly (the way women do). Because that's the signals she will be reading and decoding whether you like it or not. Here's how the two scenarios will play out: Scenario #1: You sound obviously annoyed and cut the convo short You think this will be obvious to her that it is directly related to her behavior and …
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:56 AM
29

Dude. It's cool if she wants to get one. Sluts are great. Don't be looking for commitment or expecting to find a girl worthy of it. It's the exception to the rule.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/19 04:41 AM
3

Make sure you maintain your frame (whatever it is). Like if you're the fun guy, somebody else is calling you and you'll call her back later. Then just text and say you're doing something fun with a friend and you'll talk to her later etc. Make sure you don't sound upset.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:39 AM
1

And I click the link to go read the full text because you hold the power. I "need" to read the rest of your thoughts, more than you need me to. So you exercise your power in the situation to get me to visit the site I keep neglecting to visit.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/19 03:43 AM
8

It obviously depends on the person. I always acted RP, masculine, alpha, etc. until oneitis tripped me up and a woman betaized me. Then I was depressed, gained weight, fucked my life up. Eventually I would monk mode and get everything back in order, only for it to happen to me again (while recognizing a cycle I did not understand). TRP was the missing link for the natural me who was confused by societal programming. My authentic self. So it's been easy for me to add that puzzle piece to my life.…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/19 03:39 AM
1

From the jump
/r/askTRP29/01/19 03:26 AM
4

Perhaps if she mentions her ex texting her again then I'll straight up ask her: "Why are you still communicating with your ex who clearly wants you back?". Never. Girls don't communicate overtly therefore your words will do nothing good. They only read actions. You should read her actions and act accordingly so she gets the message.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 03:07 AM
3

It just seems obvious and concerning that she is implementing this pattern so early on, leading me to the possible BPD conclusion. Which again, may be wrong. Either way, it's an unhealthy way to form a bond and a red flag for any future commitment. Imagine how she might act a year in if she starts feeling a certain way.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 02:55 AM
4

Here's something to pay attention to: "To draw you closer, narcissists & psychopaths create an aura of desirability—of being wanted and courted by many. It will become a point of vanity for you to be the preferred object of their attention, to win them away from a crowd of admirers. They manufacture the illusion of popularity by surrounding themselves with members of the opposite sex: friends, former lovers, and your eventual replacement. Then, they create triangles that stimulate rivalry and ra…
/r/askTRP29/01/19 02:52 AM
3

That sounds like love bombing/unhealthy concern for abandonment to me. Not saying that she is, but her just calling you her boyfriend only a few weeks in popped a flag up in my opinion. There's a chance that the comments about other guys are just shit tests to test your frame since you allowed her to secure your commitment (even if only in her mind) so quickly without having to earn it.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 02:43 AM
4

Watch out for BPD
/r/askTRP29/01/19 02:36 AM
65

Just dropped one the other day. Literally laughed in her face when she started to give me "the talk". I shouldn't have but it was so ridiculous as we had only been fucking for around 2 months and she had shown far too many red flags (already taking herself out of the running for anything beyond plate). Anyway, tears... goodbye. Next.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/19 01:54 AM
1

Your job is to try to have sex with her while not caring if it happens or not. The rest is just mental masterbation.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 09:41 PM
10

Perfect. Rinse and repeat. Why would I not try to fuck her again?
/r/askTRP26/01/19 04:48 AM
3

I don't know bro. I think that's exactly the way to make it happen. If I don't go in with sexual intent I usually don't get laid. Edit: I don't tell her, I show her.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 04:38 AM
2

Haha I'm done with a bulk and I fucking hate what I see. But my gains we're worth it. Shit was funny and on point. Cut time.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 04:16 AM
4

Just do it. Just interact. That's it. She's not special. Stop acting like she is.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 04:09 AM
23

Every girl should want to secure your commitment. You should only want to hook up with every girl. It's your job to make sex happen. It's her job to make commitment happen.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 04:07 AM
2

It's literally the easiest. Just be smooth. Wait for the right signs. Then escalate.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 04:06 AM
1

Correct. I have quite a few girls who have reached out even 6 months after I "left the door open" by politely removing my attention from them when they had their eye on another guy.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 05:26 PM
2

I've crushed through audiobooks and PDFs for about two years now and I haven't bought a single hard copy of anything. Anyone who actually wants it, will read the shit out of it in any format. Everyone else is a lost cause until they're not. I would prefer to read actual books though. Fuck reading on my cellphone. It's making my vision blurry and giving me carpal tunnel. Not to mention a ghosted screen. Edit: I agree it's time to build a library of hard copies.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/19 05:23 AM
4

Update: the girl is now acting very feminine and doing my work for me
/r/TheRedPill25/01/19 02:36 AM
9

This cuts to the heart of it. I recently had an experience at work where a girl switched mine and my buddy's names on a white board next to a task we just completed, for her's and another coworker's names next to a task that had not been started, telling my buddy (much younger guy) some BS reason as to why. When he told me, I immediately changed it back then told our manager what I did and that I wasn't going to be walked on like that by anyone. He said it was a fight he wasn't going to win (she…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/19 07:14 AM
7

She probably just said that to gauge your reaction before deciding to actually fuck you. The cart was before the horse talking about possibly being a FWB before fucking multiple times.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/19 07:07 PM
1

It's always better to be single and fucking multiple girls. The whole world is full of options. You are doing a girl a favor by committing and you should see it that way with your LTR. "I hope she does cheat so I can get back to working on all these other girls." Because that's how it really is. If you see things that way you will laugh at the thought of her fucking up and losing you.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 06:24 PM
5

Obviously the attractiveness = success with women theory is provable. I think the language theory can be many different things. I've had plenty of girls call me "bitch"(as well as dude, bro etc) over the past few years and still end up taking the D later that evening. I see it as a simple shit test to. Do you sink into her frame or do you ignore and bring her into your frame?
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 02:41 PM
1

I've always been a free-thinker and anti-authoritarian Same On that second strike if there aren't great indications it's happening soon, I'm moving on. She had her chance, I will find other prospects and she's not that special. In my experience, a lot of the time this will light a fire under her ass like nothing I've seen. as BB King says, the thrill is gone. Why stick around? Sure as fuck not crying about my turn being over. Right, if she isn't as enthusiastic, neither am I. This story is about…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/19 04:48 AM
4

You expected everyone to freak out... I agree with you. Grow the fuck up and be a man. Don't waste time "progressing" through safe steps. Life is short, get your head right and get on with it. I prefer "Her loss" as a simple mindset when a girl flakes, ghosts, or loses interest. It happens for so many reasons. I just keep working hard to elevate myself and continue the never-ending quest for newer, hotter pussy. I do understand the EC's sentiments that it's a pointless phrase uttered to jumpstar…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/19 03:13 AM
27

My brother got married 1.5 years ago and had a child 7 months ago. His wife is already going through the process of distancing herself from our side of the family. I can tell that she is struggling through events like Christmas. They have been together for 6 years and this year we were not allowed to exchange gifts, she did not plan to be around for the holiday, and only decided last minute to ride it out with us (with no enthusiasm she previously showed). My brother had a birthday recently. She…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/19 04:35 PM
12

The main point of the OP was that women drive men off instead of reengaging them in the love cycle and keeping them around to help raise (in best interest of) the children. You said nothing to refute this. I have only few friends (girls) whom do not appreciate their father. Some of them even consider their father as a true friend, calling him often to ask advice etc. Almost every woman you know has a high level of respect for their father in comparison to their mother well after their first few …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/19 04:07 PM
6

In addition, why would you waste your time with any girl who's panties aren't flying off at the chance to be with you? If the well dries up for any reason, at any time, move the fuck on. The hunt for flying panties should be a never-ending quest. The flying panty zone is where you want to live.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 11:02 PM
1

You play to win the game. Never up, never in. However a mentality is different from an action. You better be the god damn prize or you're going to trip yourself up and lose the game.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 10:52 PM
35

"Never let your highs get too high, or your lows get too low" -one of my more red male role models growing up
/r/TheRedPill21/12/18 03:11 PM
4

Excellent post. It's important to set that dynamic and then maintain it. To me it's that simple. Any shift in dynamic should be initiated by you. If anyone tries to change the dynamic on you recognize and don't let it happen. Set correctly. Maintain.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 05:28 PM
1

Invite her out anywhere else. Maybe somewhere near her place or somewhere you guys can make your way to be alone
/r/askTRP26/11/18 10:20 PM
8

I don't see why you wouldn't just invite her over and play the game
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:14 PM
1

You will always see a thing you don't like in every person on the planet. You have to train women.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/18 12:50 PM
2

It's a loser mentality Girls WANT to feel like they've been chosen by a high value male. They NEED to feel like they can choose who NOT to fuck. If a girl you are attempting to fuck chooses not to fuck you, you're technically the loser. she's not yours it's just your turn literally exists to be repeated by losers only. A winner has no need to ever repeat this statement. She wants to be chosen by a man she percieves to be the highest value available to her, and knows in her heart that she will be…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/18 02:58 AM
1

If you have an issue, tell her you don't like it. Do not tell her to stop doing it. Instead, see if she stops doing it herself to please you. The best way to do this is to tell her that you don't like that kind of behavior in the context of some unrelated person's situation. "My friend John's girlfriend has this guy (orbiter) who is always texting her and buying her presents and inviting her out. It's so obvious that the guy is trying to get into her pants even though he probably has no chance a…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/18 02:11 AM
10

It's a wonderful sight to behold when they start to crack and all the garbage comes spilling out (and you haven't invested a thing). Pretty funny to watch people unravel and show their true colors and realize how hard they must have been working to cover it up.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 02:52 PM
3

Too many TRP save a ho's watching till the clock strikes six months, then running to their princess to ask for her hand in LTR. Hahaha dude.. good shit. Super accurate.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 02:48 PM
2

You have no idea how much experience I have or don't have. At a minimum this would disqualify her from ever being promoted past plate. How do you not see the major character flaw? What if she catches something more serious next time? What if she has the flu but wants to see me? What if it's birth control related? Seriously anything that matters, she has proven her default behavior already. There's nothing wrong with fucking other girls instead.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 02:43 PM
8

You are still in her frame right now. Your mental point of origin needs to be yourself. Why do you keep speculating about her emotions? You don't know, you're just making things up that fit into your narrative instead of listening and thinking critically. She was always going to contact her ex and play both sides. That's what you're missing. She wasn't looking for a boyfriend in you. You put off the boyfriend vibe, which is weird in general when you've just met a girl. The guy she wants (her ex)…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 07:49 AM
6

Exactly. It's obvious, like a slap in the face.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 04:45 AM
5

It gets late and she brings up, that she has lots of stuff to do and you walk her home. You weren't leading. You have a good amount left to learn man. All of this stuff is so obvious to everybody else. Don't ignore us because it hurts. Be honest with yourself. At that evening she told me, that she had an on-off relationship with her ex and that he dumped her So they've been on and off multiple times, but talking to her ex one time after she made plans with you (the guy she's supposedly into) and…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 04:44 AM
7

You have a good base of understanding but my point is that girls communicate covertly. She was inviting you, repeatedly. She's not going to come out and say it. If a girl is attracted to you she expects to be fucked right away. You're the man. Sex is your job. She just gives the signals. When you don't, she finds someone who will. If she sticks around, she wants something else from you.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 04:33 AM
4

Just thought of another: she wants drama, not necessarily "let's you and him fight" but maybe just the "star-crossed lovers who can't be together" because of the other guy. Lived that one, too. Diane, I'm still waiting for you LOL. Hahaha jesus. That one was such a mind fuck to my younger self. she's a complete freak, has done everything and wants to do it again, and will probably completely overwhelm and humiliate the guy if he can't keep up. This one seems most likely to me. At that evening sh…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 04:27 AM
1

It's a shame he didn't conclude that as well.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 03:58 AM
2

He does. I hate that he hasn't responded yet. I hope he's busy doing his reading.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 03:56 AM
122

I'm only going to say this once, she wanted to get dicked down. I could tell from the get-go, that she was interested in me (playing with her hair, staring at my lips while I talked) She wanted to get dicked down. at the end of the evening we exchanged numbers and the next day she added me on Facebook (she was clearly interested). She wanted to get dicked down. At that evening she told me, that she had an on-off relationship with her ex and that he dumped her, but I didn't think much of it at th…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/18 08:01 PM
1

Thanks for the heads up. It is certainly stigmatized. Good to hear from so many people that it's really no big deal.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/18 07:41 PM
2

Don't shit where you eat. He could easily go out dancing and meet women. Tell them he's a dance instructor and get laid. Assuming he's not ugly or fat. Which he probably is if it's being reported as a problem to all of these women.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/18 05:15 PM
3

Def agree. But once they're that far down the road, they can't just start acting like that. There is a lot at play.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/18 02:11 AM
7

I think most average marriages and relationships have okay sex lives they are content masterbating into a warm hole, but their women aren't happy. Frankly, most married guys get laid by their wives, and most wives don't do it grudgingly. That's the contention point. Agree to disagree.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 07:08 PM
26

Hahaha. I liked your post, but this is delusional. 20% of men, at best, have their shit together enough to qualify for this "normal" guy meme you're pushing. The world is filled with sexless loser pushovers. The ones in a plowhorse scenario are getting starfish sex and they are content masterbating into a warm hole, but their women aren't happy. But most "normal" people men in "normal" relationships provider roles have "normal" boring or non-existent sex lives and they're okay with that.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 06:48 PM
14

Starfish duty sex is not satisfying. That's definitely the norm the same way obesity is the norm for people in marriages, LTRs etc.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 06:23 PM
1

You're not wrong bro. That's what /u/whatsthisgarg is talking about in his comment and specifically in his post he links there.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 06:09 PM
3

I think we agree. I'm literally saying that this girl's behavior (feeling like she needed to tell me, but not telling me, then crying and trying to manipulate me ie protective instinct) signals an issue that could replay as an unwanted pregnancy or anything else more serious in the future. Maybe I'm wrong though.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 06:00 PM
3

The fact that she felt she should have told me up front, but didn't signals future problems. I don't care about HSV 1. I probably already carry it. I don't want it on my junk though if I can avoid it. Saint = Unicorn like praise.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 05:52 PM
12

I just wrote a similar post last night. Some definite differences but coincidental either way. It's called "The Future Prize". Go check it out. Good job sticking to your guns brother.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 03:47 PM
2

So, if all she did was blow you, then you are at 0% risk of contracting the virus on your shaft, bro. I fucked her a good 13-15 times before she told me. It sounds like she actually did the responsible and courteous thing by telling you before hand, and was planning on fucking you that night. It was nice of her to tell me before we fucked THAT night, but too little too late in my opinion. Also, it wouldn't hurt for you to reach out and thank her for telling you, because she sounds like a good hu…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 03:13 PM
2

She did get unlucky. Apparrently from what I've read, you can get infected again even if you already have it, IF you have contact while the virus is shedding (usually only happens if there is an outbreak but can happen without one).
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 03:07 PM
1

She has it on her genitals. I fucked her multiple times on three different occasions before she told me about it. I know I probably carry it. You can get it multiple times via contact an infected area via yourself or someone else. I don't necessarily want an outbreak hotspot on my junk if I have the choice. She knew she needed to tell me up front but didn't.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 03:05 PM
4

The worst thing is that I went oral on some and it can cause Kaposi sarcoma. Mouth, nose or throat cancer. Haha good to know man. I love pussy and I like enjoying it in every way possible. Probably need to chill on the oral until I vet a girl for a good while. If a girl is this "promiscuous kind" saying it lightly, there is 90% chance she has it. I guess we should go ahead and assume that 90% of girls have it then. Which means basically all girls have it. Classic AWALT ratio.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 07:13 AM
2

The way I see it, she was so caught up in her feels night one (I literally charmed the pants off of her and it was fucking fun for both of us) that by the time I was inside of her she was willing to do anything to keep the good feels rolling. So when it crossed her mind she just hamstered it away. Later she thought it would be seen as some kind of really amazing and brave thing for her to do and I would be "impressed" She did say she thought one of three things would happen: 1) I would tell her …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 06:59 AM
1

For sure. I was already aware of the frequency in the population and wasn't all that concerned. She was stressing how it's not a huge deal (hoping I would sweep her risky decisions under the rug). It would be easy to just rationalize forgiving her and move forward with our arrangement (because it's not really that big of a deal). If I did, her specific default nature would burn me at some point. Next time it might be an unwanted pregnancy or something else way worse than a little skin condition.…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 06:35 AM
23

When I was younger, my father's most successful friend told him I had the eye of the tiger. He was not wrong, and my competitive drive to succeed was noticeably strong. At some point failures in business and with women and health issues/injuries sent me into a classic depression. Some time ago, my father approached me and told me the story of his friend making that comment about my younger self. He then asked me where the eye of the tiger went, and said I needed to get it back. I realized that i…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 11:06 AM
6

"I don't kiss and tell"
/r/askTRP31/10/18 04:24 PM
1

The way I see it, If you're not a complete beta you can't really fall for beta bait, at least your frame won't let you. For sure. I've got it under control. Just curious about other people's thoughts. Thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:56 PM
1

I'm thinking, "Thanks X, we should go out sometime so you can see it in person." Or something along those lines.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:54 PM
1

It's not. I just recognized the trend when I got it three times in one day and figured there was something more going on.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:19 PM
1

Oh dude, I do. It's not the point though. Or maybe it's just the easiest way to say they want to slob the knob without self-activating their ASD. I just think there are too many instances to ignore the pattern. Edit: also, regardless of the motivation or reason (though they're important and I'm happy to discuss them), what would you say?
/r/askTRP17/10/18 06:06 AM
0

It's beta bait
/r/askTRP17/10/18 05:40 AM
36

"For what?" with a smirk.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 05:05 AM
-3

Edited to be more concise. I've read the sidebar plenty of times. I'll be fine if nobody says anything. I'm trying to use this as the tool it is intended to be. If you're going to participate, give an answer bro.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 04:52 AM
-1

If this isn't explicitly about trying to teach another guy how to handle himself in a red pilled manner, then I think you missed your own metaphor.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/18 05:53 PM
2

Give up
/r/askTRP14/10/18 12:29 PM
1

Literally anywhere
/r/askTRP14/10/18 12:26 PM
1

I think it is widely considered a lame move. I just started doing it in scenarios where I wouldn't likely ever see them again as a hail mary. Total indifference. And a curiosity about experimenting. Results are better than expected. You have to hook them first though. I'm thinking that if they're already hooked, just asking for their number is the best move after talking with a lot of other members here. Maybe this is a tool for the bag in an unlikely scenario only.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/18 09:12 PM
1

Don't be too afraid to add social tension. You want to get her feeling/thinking about the interaction. I'm reading back through these comments and this is one of the more important things I've read. Thanks for your thoughts man.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 05:16 AM
1

Do it again. See what happens.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 12:10 AM
3

I'm with you. Just trying different shit out. Really attempting to get the contact info without triggering ASD at all. Seems to be working so far.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 12:10 AM
1

Agreed. Except, fuck it. Plant all the seeds you can. They can come and go as they please.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 12:08 AM
2

I hear ya man. I'll give it a shot and see if it ramps up the attraction.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 11:03 PM
2

You know what else matters way more than fucking words? Actions. This has never been a problem for me because I don't validate again unless we're fucking. And my actions are congruent with a valuable, busy man with abundance in his life.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 10:53 PM
5

I also just want to personally thank you for everything you do here. When I found this place my life was literally on the edge of falling to a million pieces and possibly never fully recovering. I have never felt better, or been happier. Today is the best day of my life and thanks to TRP I know tomorrow will be even better.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 10:27 PM
9

Haha. I owe idle time to the internet gods, so I pay by answering ridiculous comments like this. Off to the gym.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 09:45 PM
3

EDIT: The point of that story is that she didn’t see what the guy looked like. She has a choice to assume he was hot or he was a ‘creep’ and guess which one she defaults to. This therefore places the move in the low confidence realm because only a low confidence person would attempt such communication indirectly. Well that definitely makes sense. When I use this, I make sure she is aware of my looks and my frame and is having a good time talking to me and has shown at least one IOI. Has not been…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 09:41 PM
3

Great way of saying it. That is definitely what the data (albeit a small sample size) is showing here.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 09:38 PM
4

I felt the same way. But they just keep messaging. I think it's a combination of how easy it is to text and how curious they are.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 08:40 PM
4

Word to the wise: don’t shit where you eat. If you go to the bar or restaurant a lot, it’s better to run game on other women who come there, even if the waitresses there like you, because then you have quasi pre-selection from them. Absolutely 100%. I only do this places I don't frequent.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 07:38 PM
3

It doesn't matter why she texts back. All that matters is what I do. I'm direct with my intentions. If she doesn't respond enthusiastically to meeting up after that then she gets nexted. She might not respond for a day after the initial response, as a shit test, because of my forward nature. That's cool too. I respect her right to weed out the chumps. I just assume it's a next non-stop then when things work out it's awesome.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 07:21 PM
10

Nah. You got this buddy. Lite touching. Eye contact that she breaks first. Smiles. Brushing hair. Laughing at stupid jokes. Biting lip. Go forth and search.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 07:09 PM
2

This is including good rapport building, flirting, teasing, etc. In a business setting. Edit: spelling
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 06:39 PM
2

Hell yeah. Excellent feedback. It makes them start investing effort in you, no matter how small the gesture is.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 05:40 PM
3

I couldn't have said it better myself.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 05:31 PM
8

Indicator of interest. Non-verbal clue that someone is attracted to you.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 04:46 PM
4

Yep. I've been slipped a number before as well. The subtlety is the key.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 04:32 PM
1

Yeah I'm more on your side of things currently.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 03:47 PM
2

Yeah I've been down that road too. Blocking everywhere is so key sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 03:39 PM
2

I like the last one. I went with a chuckle then saying everything I wanted to say while she dug her fingernails into my arm. Haha.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 03:35 PM
3

The more you say it the more it makes sense. It really hasn't caused me any issues though (that I know of). I've said to to hundreds of girls, not just the one's in this experiment.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 03:33 PM
3

Great explanation of the point. I still don't think telling her she's "cute" changes the dynamic at all. My perspective has always been that it knocks her back more than saying nothing. Nothing = he possibly thinks I'm the most beautiful girl ever Cute = he thinks I'm average. Shit. I better suck his dick good. Also saying she's cute takes every ounce of confusion off the table (if there is any) and clarifies my intentions. If that's wrong, I would like to know why.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 03:24 PM
1

You aren't right just because you decide to speak. I told you I got your point and your response was: Good, then you should realize how stupid you sound. Like that's any way to have a civil discussion.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 03:19 PM
4

Clearly you're only here to be a dick. You think I give a shit how I sound to you? Good, then you should realize how stupid you sound. You think I give a shit how I sound to you? 😉
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 03:09 PM
14

I agree. This is meant specifically for girls at their place of business. I only do it if I've established myself as a bold, fun, attractive option (so there's no confusion about low confidence). It offers plausible deniability that allows you to continue to frequent that place with no issues if she doesn't reach out, and allows her to come to you without activating her ASD due to work related social pressure.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 03:02 PM
3

Exactly. I only do it when it's obvious she is into me.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 02:59 PM
13

Haha no way. It must be more complicated than that.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 02:57 PM
1

And some don't. It really hasn't been a negative at all. I don't flood them with validation unless we're fucking or just fucked. Good, then you should realize how stupid you sound. Haha relax. Do you realize how statements like that make you sound?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 02:39 PM
3

Hot>cute Cute is like average. It's not a compliment. Some will take it that way for sure though so I get your point as a whole.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 02:32 PM
4

During sex with a new girl, "Oh you're a talker...? I'm not a talker."
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 02:24 PM
7

Oh for sure. Just in the case of her place of employment, while she's working, I dial it back during the exchange of contact info. I'm brazen with the entire interaction, then disappear with only a clue as to how to continue our fun interaction. And it's been working.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 02:13 PM
10

Indeed. And some heavy unwaivering balls. Not giving a fuck and enjoying yourself goes a long way though. I've absolutely gotten a number at party by licking a girl's cheek and not breaking frame (Don't try this at home).
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 02:04 PM
13

On principal, I agree with everything you said. Leaving a note on a reciept is too passive and looks wimpy. I am not wimpy during the interaction, so I don't think it's coming across that way. I'm not going to wait around to exachange numbers because it's not a big deal if I ever hear from her or not. It's worked all 6 times I've done it so far. The business card is 3/4. I would prefer handwritten as well though. Sometimes you work with what you got. I'm not looking to apply unnecessary social p…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 01:51 PM
5

I use "cute" like a back handed compliment. Not validating at all. Just showing interest. She wants to be called hot, I'll call her that in bed.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 01:34 PM
13

Thanks for the feedback/data. I'm in a group message thread with a bunch of close friends from college, 1 female. I just threw the concept out there and the girl said, the dropping your number and walking off move "got her" too. I think there is a lot being communicated through the action of walking away without a way to contact the girl. It might all be in her mind, but it (reaching out to see what you're all about) plays out to be almost irresistible. Assuming your SMV is high enough and you'r…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 01:31 PM
7

Explain how you're relating that to the post. I'm missing the connection.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 01:22 PM
12

Of course. That's always the case.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 01:21 PM
7

It's a good literary tool these days.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 01:20 PM
7

Nice. I only do it if I'm definitely recognizing unspoken signs of attraction on her part. For example, I was getting my hair cut yesterday. We were having good convo. I was challenging her, making jokes etc. It was literally the longest most detailed haircut I've ever gotten. Noticeably long and with lots of extra effort made where none was necessary. She must have been liking the sauce. I didn't have a card on me so I walked out to the car and grabbed one. Strolled back in and gave it to her w…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 12:29 PM
-4

"Imagining" is the problem. That's what girl's do. I'm not afraid of some chick. She isn't going to do anything. Block everywhere. No contact. Like I said, he played this poorly so the choice to pay her $15 to go away might have been in his best interests. But just don't fuck up to begin with then we're not even having this conversation. Edit: I agree with OP's sentiment about picking your battles. Let's not lose the point and argue about the details of how it applies to this one situation (aka …
/r/TheRedPill08/10/18 03:20 PM
0

I wouldn't have done it, but he fucked up offending her the way he did. So I think it was probably the right move at that point.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/18 02:59 PM
3

Man it's the best. She just got flakey. I could give a fuck less. Got two others on deck for the night. They're both non-responsive currently. Heading out to find some new ones. Don't care if I do. Life is perfect.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/18 02:07 AM
3

Exactly. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/18 03:07 PM
2

The nihilistic element I find to be deeply non-masculine. Even if there is nothing, we are men, we invent and we build, so even if there was no meaning, we would then create that meaning instead. This is my essence, man. Well said.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 03:08 PM
2

I recently fucked the hottest girl I have fucked in a while. Bordering in the 9 territory. I know her pretty well and I know her flaws. Old me would have fallen instantly in love with her. But I'm too in love with myself now to go down that road. I came like a monster and then immediately got up and walked outside for some fresh air and found myself flipping through Tinder. She has been messaging me about how she's going to come over and "take advantage of me" soon. "If I'll let her."
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 01:23 PM
2

I didn't say, "he looks guilty as shit." I said I have heard that from other people and it's literally the most solid thing anyone has said against him yet.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 12:21 AM
2

Dude you got to live your life. You're not guaranteed today or tomorrow or anytime. Don't die with regrets like that
/r/askTRP03/10/18 01:33 PM
1

Definitely take a couple plays off man. You're ignoring my point and going off on a philosophical tangent. No offense, but you're making about as much sense as a coked up stripper in a debate club competition.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 05:53 PM
1

I get the vibe you need to take a couple plays off brother. You're sidestepping the point and not answering questions, then spitting talking points. Where is AFTSOV and who built this robot to replace him?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 05:09 PM
14

The only solid points I've heard against Kav is that he looks guilty as shit and his expressions and responses are sketchy. How do you propose protecting yourself from an allegation 35 years ago? Against an anonymous accusation you have no idea of? Frame is king. Be believable. There's a lot to that, but I think you get my point. Frame is really all you have in that situation. I got accused to a friend years ago in college by some girl who would cheat on her boyfriend with me. My response was ju…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 03:18 PM
1

Is she your wife? Edit: To answer your question, IF I was married, I would feel obligated to intervene to protect my own best interests. The PTSD from that experience would fuck with the lady's head and I would end up paying alimony. But generally no, I wouldn't run to defend some woman. She would hate you forever for not risking your neck for her, but there are plenty more out there. Or would she perceive you as higher value because you're clearly not comitted???
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 02:52 PM
14

I feel dumber having read this. What's your point? Run to help save the defenseless women? Sacrifice your own best interests for some chick? Allow her to push your buttons and pull your levers?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 02:51 PM
8

You don't want to come across as an asshole when she gives you a reason to (that's reactionary). You want to be an asshole all the time. Consistency. Frame. Etc. Vetting doesn't matter if her attraction level to you is dropping. I'm in the process of plating a super hottie who is probably out of my league except for the fact that I'm the shit. I really enjoy fucking her, and I like spending time with her too. Every time I think about doing something, I do nothing instead and she messages me abou…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 04:08 PM
2

What part is giving you the most trouble? As far as I'm concerned I just don't commit my time or attention unless we're hanging out. So it's as simple as "stop doing it."
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 03:40 PM
35

Go on a web browser on a computer and log in and then opt-in to the dangerous content. Then you can access it from Mobile again
/r/askTRP01/10/18 03:26 PM
8

Stop giving her so much attention and time.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 03:24 PM
4

Hahaha man that really cracked me up
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 03:16 PM
10

Looking like a player is a good thing initially. For long term prospects things like lifting only make you attractive, whereas actually being selected by other girls means you are assumed to be fucking them, therefore wouldn't maintain dependability of your machine as it could break down in hopes of being used by someone more likely to crank the provider dial the second an option appears. As long as that option is of the beta orbiter variety then the machine will employ the dual strategy. It's n…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 03:11 PM
6

If this was an elaborate scheme to get people to mentally prepare to hop off the tit and get down to business, it would be ingenious. Anytime shit goes down in my life, I get laser focused and start adapting. With no more TRP (or other places to congregate depending on how far this goes), we would all have to take what we know right now and go forward into the world, reasoning and questioning, ultimately focused on getting the best outcomes for ourselves. Which is exactly what you guys want us t…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 04:24 AM
3

What we can do though, instead of lashing out and justifying them, is Satyagraha. This community is very creative and thoughtful. Resist by remaining resolute in who and what you are. Aka our frame is stronger than theirs. This is easy shit. No need to get upset about things we expect to happen and can not control.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 12:22 AM
3

That's the right god damn attitude right there. This is a catalyst. What happened back in the day when an earthquake hit and destroyed a civilization? Did the men give up, or did they fucking mobilize and rebuild society? Difficult times are the best times.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 12:18 AM
2

Added these concepts into my game the other night and fucked a 9. Took longer than I would like, but she was hotter than most so, I'll take the W. Definitely got her taking about things she was super vulnerable about. The second she loosened up a little and seemed more receptive to my charm, I escalated. Now she's texting about doing "it" again sometime.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 06:54 PM
2

You HAVE to be able to recognize indirect signs of interest and receptiveness to escalation. They are almost always INDIRECT. This girl asked me to help her read her summons sheet, that requires you to scoot closer. Don't mention it, just act. 'Just get it'. It's all in the OP. She starts touching me while talking some more. Indirect permission to escalate granted. It is basically affirmative consent as long as you know how to communicate. She puts my hands on her tits and starts kissing me. Ins…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 06:03 PM
5

you may witness a taken girl suddenly doll herself up one night and go with her friends for a 'girls night out'. She's hoping to garner attention from other men and 'see what happens'. One of my LTRs a few years ago got all dolled up for work one morning when there were going to be multiple male vendors setting up tents and giving away free samples. It had nothing to do with her job and she wouldn't necessarily even see them if she didn't go out of her way, but I knew what was going on. She 100%…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 05:46 PM
1

you may witness a taken girl suddenly doll herself up one night and go with her friends for a 'girls night out'. She's hoping to garner attention from other men and 'see what happens'. One of my LTRs a few years ago got all dolled up for work one morning when there were going to be multiple male vendors setting up tents and giving away free samples. It had nothing to do with her job and she wouldn't necessarily even see them if she didn't go out of her way, but I knew what was going on. She 100%…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 05:45 PM
1

you may witness a taken girl suddenly doll herself up one night and go with her friends for a 'girls night out'. She's hoping to garner attention from other men and 'see what happens'. One of my LTRs a few years ago got all dolled up for work one morning when there were going to be multiple male vendors setting up tents and giving away free samples. It had nothing to do with her job and she wouldn't necessarily even see them if she didn't go out of her way, but I knew what was going on. She 100%…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 05:44 PM
2

Extremely insightful. I too have had that talk many times. 1) Let's just keep doing what we're doing without labels. I hate labels, they change the dynamic and mess things up (Cool for a few months). Then the talk comes again with tears and I broke down and committed. Attraction dissipated over the next 6 months until cheating and ugly break up. 2) What are we going to do when the summer ends? (Summer fling at the beach, I had a senior year of college waiting on me 4 hours away). "Let's just cro…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 01:11 AM
1

I'm not saying the last situation doesn't occur. Simply stating this isn't a tool to be used, it's just an observation. Sure, a girls ASD might get triggered by a needy boyfriend who knows she's about to fuck some guy and mate guards. Sure she could back off to protect her rep if she's essentially busted. She will also start to branch swing on the needy guy. And she will probably still fuck whoever she wants to and just hard line lie about it. Then slander her needy BF until everyone thinks shes…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 09:15 PM
1

Haha ok buddy. It's never happened to me because I make them feel good and safe to do whatever they want, while their little bitch boys make them feel disgusted. Reminding them how fucking awesome you are is gold, reminding them how much of a bitch you are, and how likely you are to try to ruin their reputation is instant cucksville.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 04:53 PM
1

I see how you could theorize that. I don't see the data or examples proving it.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 12:54 AM
1

I'm saying I think your observation is flawed. It's not increasing their attraction. I've never seen or heard of that happening. Rather, you are doing something to decrease their attraction to you and then hamstering a reason that they are becoming more attracted to needy behavior from another guy. If that was the case then why not just act super needy and change the situation?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 07:55 PM
1

Got it. In my opinion, you can handle the situation differently and get a more desirable outcome.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 05:32 PM
3

Mine aren't assumptions. I read the messages and get spoken to directly about them. In your post it sounds as though you see a girl check her phone and then she flakes out of the situation, which gives you no real info. As far as I can tell, it sounds like you are inventing the content of the messages and hamstering reasons why things didn't work out.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 05:25 PM
4

Dude you are making a lot of assumptions. It's not like you're actually reading all of these so called needy texts. In my experience, when I'm with a girl and she actually gets a call or text like that, it pushes her further away from the caller. She wants to get fucked more and immediately starts talking shit about the needy behavior as she spreads her legs even faster.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 01:27 PM
7

It's not about being safer. Once she was giving continuous IOIs it's game on. Pull the trigger.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 01:20 PM
1

It's completely bitch behavior. It would turn anybody off.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 03:32 PM
5

I can 100% agree that you can say whatever the fuck you want (even if it's super faggy) if you say it in the right tone with the right body language.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 04:13 PM
9

I believe the less restrictions you impose on someone's free will, the more they will return and follow you so it's basically a "do whatever you want" answer. We're on the same page for sure. "Hands off" and "No fucking Josh" sound too much like restrictions to me. That's all I was pointing out.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 04:05 PM
5

Have I ever? Yes. Would I ever again? Hell no. Tell them with your actions.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 03:41 PM
15

I've been down this road before. I think saying anything about "fucking josh" is failing the shit test, no matter what your intentions. It shows this is where your mind went. As playful as "Hands off" is intended to be, it still sounds more like an attempt at controlling her actions.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 02:09 PM
1

What would your answers be to 8 and 9?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 02:00 PM
0

It's super corny sounding but who cares?! Haha
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 01:59 PM
8

You're 100% right that this is a pre-emptive strike against ASD. Also... Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2 NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover. Even if I haven't fucked a girl yet, she's a current lover in my mind. Let her imagine whatever she wants.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 01:58 PM
1

For sure. She's free to do what she wants and deal with the consequences of her actions. Smacking her on the ass and fucking her shows where we stand and telling her she needs to tighten that ass up is just a little reminder that she can be replaced, even though it's done in a playful way that isn't directly malicious. That's what she wants. And she can keep getting it as long as she doesn't make a bad decision to hang with some other dude like that. Also it's just incredibly dismissive. Which i…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 01:53 PM
13

Right. We're assuming it's a shit test because she's voicing it to you. If she really wanted to fuck him, she would just do it and never say a word. Also fucking her when she drops this shit test shows her you aren't intimidated by him/you're going to get what you want.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 01:48 PM
36

ROUND 2Basic Shit-Test 1: ”Bring me my shoes!!" // LTR, ONS, Plate "Ha!" (Then obviously don't get her shoes orrrrr playfully throw one at her and then don't let her have the other. Escalate, bang). Shit-Test 2: ”Who are you?” // Cold appraoch "God, who am I not?! Really!?" (Smirking, rolling eyes, clearly not taking this serious, also not revealing anything at all). Shit-Test 3: ”Do you have a girlfriend?” // Cold approach, Plate "I don't kiss and tell" (smirk) Intermediate Shit-Test 4: Your pl…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 03:26 AM
2

They can't stand/resist that shit.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 02:44 AM
1

He seems to be speaking idealistically. It's a battle between how things are (your perspective) and how things should be (James' perspective). If we ignore all rules, there is nothing wrong with what happened. However, once you agreed to the rules, you were fucked if you didn't uphold them. You clearly made the logical decision.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 04:07 AM
1

Ignore them. They're just jealous.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 05:44 PM
4

My laundry has been in the dryer for 2 days.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 04:32 PM
5

Get the terminology right so you don't get confused by advice or reading.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:49 PM
-2

That's exactly what I was going to say.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 04:51 PM
1

Let me put it this way, stress can cause so many issues in your body. If you can't get your own stress levels under control you're only fucking yourself up and causing the problem to worsen. Literally all you can do right now to increase your health is not stress. So stop stressing at all costs.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 11:50 PM
1

Knowing what you want
/r/askTRP02/08/18 05:38 AM
2

we need to live out that awareness in our own lives and lead by Red Pill example. Roughly 10 years ago, I was going through some rough times and I let it beat me down. I had enough experiences to build a solid understanding of Red Pill truths, without the why (I wouldn't actually learn the why until a decade later and would go back and forth between Red Pill goals and Blue Pill goals). I went through the anger phase. I lost all confidence as my health got worse. As my younger brother started dat…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 04:48 AM
2

Being her emotional tampon will always turn her off.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 01:03 AM
2

If you read the Art of War, read a few different translations and form your opinions out of all interpretations.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 03:17 AM
1

Don't tell her you don't feel comfortable. Don't talk about your feelings. She will start having her own feelings. Probably the uncomfortable kind. Don't ever ask for a pic. As if that would satisfy you. You won't know shit about it until you see it in person anyway. Simple say, "I'm not that easy" or "I'll show you in person". Sending pics is gay and also they could have been taken anytime and be of anybody.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 11:33 PM
3

Stop calling yourself a faggot
/r/askTRP30/07/18 02:41 PM
31

Great example of how this process plays out OP. You stay strong when she drops the ultimatum of sorts and she changes course. Pay attention for buzz words and don't forget to insert "right now". I'm not one to share somebody that I like, that I enjoy being with, and like having sex with, with another women RIGHT NOW lol She sure as shit was one to share you only a few hours later. And even more the next day. "I'm not one (or I'm not the type of girl) to fuck on the first date." RIGHT NOW works t…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 02:07 AM
3

It's so disgusting. They act exactly like females do, and put way too much emphasis on trying to build a relationship. I've been there before. It made so much sense at the time. That's what they want. If I approach it like that, I will have a leg up on the competition. Fucking flawed logic.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 05:08 AM
1

I didn't read anything that you lied about that is bad. What are the worst things you're concerned about telling people?
/r/askTRP21/07/18 07:42 PM
1

Human females are sexually selective. As are human males. I know women are more selective than males. But you seem to ignore how much women use sex as a tool and a weapon. It's literally all they've got.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 07:51 PM
2

Nah. Your sisters can totally act like that. You haven't unplugged all the way yet.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 02:54 PM
1

So because you don't trust yourself enough to be in control you're just going to give up?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 02:38 PM
5

She's never met you before. She's going to be intrigued. She obviously thinks you might be worth it to her because she showed up for the date. It's not a wet dream at all. It's in the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 10:28 PM
1

Without it you're helpless
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 09:43 PM
1

So both are supposed to stay attracted to you after all this shit goes down? Kind of forgetting here that you must be maybe the 1% male to pull that off. If you act upod abundance, you won't give a shit what happens either way. But But what? It drives the girl you have a date with to be more attracted. It's not a waste of time. It's the best thing you can do.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 09:42 PM
2

His point is that you let people be sad if they want to because they aren't going to appreciate your effort either way. The best thing you can do is to make sure you're happy and healthy to be there for your SO if you are needed. Having a partner that is happy and there for you makes you feel way better than some flowers and other attempts to cheer you up. Your own happiness and steady life is infectious. It will surely overcome any non life changing event or sadness better than showering someon…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 09:35 PM
1

This one is tough because most guys are not in control of their own emotions. They only pick it up when they are actually angry, and only put it down after they have fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 09:23 PM
1

It's so simple, yet so many guys have been programmed to do the opposite. It sucks when you see people you're close to who just WON'T get it. It's so easy and basically common sense. And works like a fucking charm.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 09:20 PM
5

Carrying capacity is a real issue that I have to imagine is being dealt with behind closed doors somewhere. The culling. Or whatever.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 09:13 PM
7

Once I read up on how to survive a nuclear attack (assuming you aren't in the blast radius and are only dealing with fallout) I lost all concerns about it. It's so unlikely that you'll be anywhere near a bomb or the fallout zone, and if you are there are good ways to ensure you make it out alive. It's definitely hyped up and seems way scarier than it is.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 09:11 PM
5

Nope. Preselection is preselection. Abundance is abundance. Competition is competition. You can't be in the bottom 1% lol. Butttt this stuff elevates you. Especially if you act like it's no big deal and that's how you always are.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 05:06 PM
0

It takes a special kind of fearless man to build his own kingdom or impact world culture like a Jesus. A special kind of dead man who endured torture. And the world is still as fucked up as ever.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 09:29 PM
11

I think part of the problem is not having good male friends. These guys attempt to use girls to achieve their need for male friendships. After cutting contact, when she reaches back out, the guy is now starved for male and female companionship and attempts to reconnect to satisfy his needs. It's different because they are friends. He's had the Friendship male companionship part from her before and thinks he can have both. One of the bluest of all pills is that your girl or your wife should be yo…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 07:40 PM
7

We had been friends for about a year before anything serious happened between us, and as such, we had been refreshingly honest about each other’s past sexual partners and dating history. Don't lie to yourself. “Alice”, was in a serious relationship for half her college career. It unceremoniously ended when her boyfriend cheated on her. Don't believe everything she tells you. It's never her fault. When I met Alice, she had just gotten out of another relationship, one which had only lasted 3 month…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 05:42 PM
3

The written rules are of little use to you until you understand the unwritten ones. That's the awareness you operate with after unplugging versus the world being stacked against you when you only know the written rules. "The is no kneeling rule in the rulebook. Why did I lose my job? This is so unfair and unjust." "It's ok for women to sleep around these days. Why did she file rape charges after I told people we fucked the other night? This is so unfair and unjust."
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 04:43 PM
5

I was out with a couple of girls the other night that I like to use for preselection. I was leading the way into the bar and I heard them talking behind me... "Self-honest walks around like he's the man" giggle. "He IS the man" giggle. In closing, everything you can do physically makes a huge impact.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 04:10 PM
0

It's a METAphor used to discuss unwitting participants in a system used to extract resources from said participants. The system works to create docile seemingly contented slaves who feel that their interests are aligned with their purpose when in reality it couldn't be further from the truth. How bout red pill vs red pill "There is no underlying philosophy to TRP other than "figure out what works" and "don't let people trick you into thinking that their goals are yours". I don't see those as opp…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 03:20 PM
1

What is "The" matrix? It's defined at the very top: The Matrix is comprised of a Left and Right axis as long as you are between said planes you are within the Matrix. Don't devolve the conversation into chaos just for the sake of stroking your intellectual ego. You're all over the place. Reign it in. But then you're INSIDE another matrix bro. life is a matrix higher planes of existence original thought see the full scale of light invisible things behind the scenes give up left liberal and right …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 02:55 PM
2

You're making this more complicated than it is. And I'm not sure what your point is? Truly unplugging is a total rejection of the matrix. Only then can you actually be Red Pill. If you self identify as left leaning or right leaning Red Pilled male, you're kidding yourself. You're buying into the system that controls you mentally instead of transcending it.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 02:08 PM
2

It's defined at the very top: The Matrix is comprised of a Left and Right axis as long as you are between said planes you are within the Matrix. "The system"
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 01:39 PM
13

The toolbox (the system) sounds very punk edgy to stupid tools. The farm sounds very edgy to the happy plow horse. Sure, you can be a manipulative tool if you want. That's not unplugging. Neo could have been a Machiavellian genius inside the matrix (he would probably be more likely to take the blue pill if he was). Look what he was capable of once he actually unplugged then plugged back in. You have to transcend the system before you can manipulate it to create your very own system within it Rec…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 03:23 AM
12

That's not what I got from it. Other than some hilarious images that had me cracking up, "Wash your penis"...to me he was championing total rejection of the two dimensional system that was created to keep us in line and keep us productive. If you go right because you think the left is ridiculous or you go left because you think the right is ridiculous, you're still in the matrix. You can recognize all the dumb ass tools on one side of the toolbox or the other. But you are too dumb to realize you…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 02:36 AM
1

That's beautiful.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 01:57 AM
3

"6'5 muscular athlete, timid, virgin, displays supplicating behavior." Do you really think that it can happen in a remarkable percentage? Do I think there is a nationwide crisis of bluepilled beta bitch boys in our feminized society? Yes. Undoubtedly. Change the heights, to 6'1 and 5'8, same results. The case of boy B is more plausible, but you have to remember that he either has ther things to compensate for his physique (hobbies, a good race, a lot of intelligence) or well (and as the OP has e…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 01:49 AM
2

Exactly. There is a lot more involved than is mentioned in this post.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 12:35 AM
3

None of that really works in a society in which might makes right. A weak man can't fuck a strong man's chick because he will be killed, as will his child if he decides to rape Chad's side chick number 20. You're assuming there were a plethora of "weak men" and a handful of "strong men" in the past. They all went through rites of passage and became strong. There were bigger guys, but they might not have been the best hunter. You're moralizing this prehistoric society. Like they cared about rape …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 12:31 AM
6

Too rigid. Guy A: 6'5 muscular athlete, timid, virgin, displays supplicating behavior. Guy B: 5'10 average build, outgoing, +30 notch count, sexual, dominant behavior. Girls are attracted to and want to fuck Guy B all day every day. Guy A dries their pussies up almost instantly. Appearance is king for initial attraction. It's never gotten a dick inside a wet vagina without the help of the correct behavior.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 11:14 PM
177

They can't fix western civilization in time to make a difference in your life. You are going to live the rest of your life in Upside Down Clown World. This is the truth. Stop picturing a future that's any different from the ridiculous world we live in today. It's only going to get crazier. My dad always told me, "look out for number one". It's the most important thing you can do. You aren't effecting shit but your own fortune or misfortune. Stop trying to be a hero. Stop picturing a utopia. Acce…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 11:02 PM
4

You don't know any of that for a fact. You're just assuming. I think women from the distant past fucked any and everyone. The collective women of the tribe probably took care of the children while the collective men hunted and fought. They can't all fuck the top dog at the same time. He can't fight off the lesser men while he's fucking. The women can stick their ass in the air for a bite of food at any time from anyone and get pregnant. Sluts dude. They weren't less slutty without societal stand…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 10:31 PM
2

My main issue is you are operating under the assumption that humans were not initially sexually dimorphic. Then because of their behavior, slowly evolved into a sexually dimorphic species. That doesn't work. When males and females are not distinguishable they don't display the kind of behavior that would drive your entire premise. If they were initially sexually dimorphic, then your premise doesn't hold any water either. I'll agree that the extent of the dimorphism would theoretically increase, …
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 10:16 PM
1

Edit: re-posted in response to the correct comment.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 09:54 PM
16

You need to read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 09:41 PM
0

Haha it sure as shit seems that way huh? #metoo stop harassing the attractive girls and harass us manly fatties instead!!!
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 09:35 PM
3

There is no such thing as a genetically alpha male. You think musculature just shows up? You think leadership just happens to people? You think great men are born and not made in the fire of trials and iron?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 09:34 PM
2

Haha dude get over yourself. why nature intended such way Incoherent as fuck. Please spoonfeed and enlighten me.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 09:31 PM
3

You are interpreting the data backwards. People do this a lot when it comes to evolution and behavior. I studied primitive behavioral ecology for a while in college because it was fascinating to me. the species that are more monogamous have less sexual dimorphism the specie is less monogamous...the more sexual dimorphism occurs The species that is more sexually dimorphic begins to exhibit behaviors that are less monogamous. You can't connect current behaviors with previous biology. The sexual di…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 09:27 PM
12

If you think your actions and attitude can't make a girl's pussy tingle, I don't know what to tell you man. You have a rudimentary understanding of this stuff. Quit acting like you know it all. Ugly dudes can make pussies wet and "handsome" dudes can dry pussies up.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 09:13 PM
1

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0960982210012248 Cooper [7] reports on sexual dimorphism in the damselfly Megalagrion calliphya. As with many damselfly species, M. calliphya exhibits a peculiar twist on the standard sexual dimorphism story: females come in two genetically determined forms — a relatively dull-coloured (green) morph and a brightly coloured (red) morph that closely resembles males of the species. One of the standard explanations for the maintenance of female poly…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 09:06 PM
3

Nature doesn't "intend" anything. Don't personify nature... it makes you sound dumb.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 08:57 PM
11

You have a lot to learn bro.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 08:55 PM
1

Haha ok buddy. Good attempt to pressure flip to take the attention off of your beta behavior. I see you sounding like a little bitch asking for advice in the relationships sub. If you know the sidebar so well why would you ever go do that? The post itself does not even answer the question. It is relatively incoherent. The reason women are weak is they fuck only the top guys? Get the fuck out of here. I know the Pareto principle. That doesn't have anything to do with human sexual di-morphism or w…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 08:50 PM
1

I copied the following text from quora. Thanks for posting the ramblings of some anonymous idiot. This post is full of non-sense rationalizations that are not backed by any real science or data. You can do better. While we're at it... Nothing in it is new for the true redpillers. Like you? But it seems like this sub have become more of a "I want to feel good", rather than "I don't give a shit about your feelings, I am just gonna present you the cold hard facts that the blue pill society don't wa…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 08:09 PM
2

That was definitely my first thought
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 07:59 PM
11

Haha. I mean.... Don't be so trans-blind. He was obviously a confused boy in a girl's body acting like a weak ass dude. I'm sure zee has cleared things up by now.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 07:54 PM
1

Def
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:38 PM
1

You should have gotten her number. That's all. Your addition to the story definitely changes things.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 11:39 PM
1

Yep
/r/askTRP16/07/18 11:34 PM
5

Haaaaa
/r/askTRP16/07/18 11:32 PM
2

OP this chick was testing you to determine your value. If you are lower value than her you will go along with whatever she says in fear of losing a chance with her. If you are higher value than her you will tell her that's dumb and not true with a smirk. It's as simple as that. You listened to what she said. Then you ran away. F.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 11:31 PM
2

That is exactly what it was
/r/askTRP16/07/18 11:27 PM
6

General information: I am (20M) and i am a voluntary EMT at the red cross. The Problem: Today a girl (18F) joined the red cross and she worked with...me and my buddy, luckily. She was kinda shy the first hour but we got comfortable with each other pretty fast, told me she got a bf and yeah. But she started to always touch me during talks and also just touching me for no reason at all when she sat next to me. She even grabbed my butt a few times and told me she likes him (my butt lol). Also, some…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 10:22 PM
6

Haha got em
/r/askTRP16/07/18 10:12 PM
1

It would because they would realize how stupid it is, how stupid you think it is, and it would stop happening. Don't be so close minded
/r/askTRP16/07/18 09:59 PM
2

That's exactly what OP was saying
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 09:14 PM
4

That's definitely what he was saying
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 09:13 PM
4

It's scary bro. Guys either like running toward scary things and conquering them, or they freeze and skip down the path of least resistance. Finding a way to break that cycle for the latter, getting them to experience how challenging fear and difficulty make you feel alive, making them love the truth more than they love the comfort of lies and fairy tales; to me this is the only way guys like that will ever move forward. It's better. They think it's worse, but it's not.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 06:03 PM
7

Great post man. I take issue with your use and implication of the word "evolution". Evolution is the process by which a species is shaped as genes are passed on over long periods of time. When 50 black moths and 50 white moths are in an environment that is mostly black, birds will pick off the white moths leaving the black moths more opportunity to breed. Eventually there will be very few white moths and tons of black moths in the area. The moths didn't choose to fuck only black moths. They happ…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 07:07 AM
93

HB8 also complimented me on my shirt, and I told her HB7 really liked it as well Remind her that she's not the only one. Women communicate covertly. You can't achieve the goal here by talking. It's all about action. Here's how this part of the story reads to me: HB7 then HB8 both tell you they like your shirt. What they're communicating here is I really like the way YOU look. I'm sexually attracted to you. They can't come out and say that, so they tell you they REALLY like your "shirt". Awesome.…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 04:20 AM
2

Just because he stated them doesn't mean that it was well handled. I wanted it to look silly. It was a silly statement. Did OP give the best response possible? No. Not even close. The original comment seemed to think it was "well handled". Which it wasn't. I wanted to point out to him so he could re-inspect it and learn the lessons. Edit: Oh wait... that was you.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 08:44 PM
1

I love the concept man. Pre-selection at it's finest. All they know is you have been chosen prior to right now (by them in this case, not other girls) and that's intriguing enough to get your foot in the door. Good thinking. Edit: Assuming it works. I can't imagine why it wouldn't though.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 03:11 AM
0

These other guys aren't trolling. They're being honest.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 07:52 PM
-2

Do I sound like I'm asking for a blueprint to life? Re-read my comment. I made a few key points and pointed out errors. What "key points" did he make?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 05:33 PM
15

There is so much missing information. Watch out for beginners luck. I don't see how you could think that buying a girl Sunday lunch is a viable plan going forward. When did you Kino how did you escalate? The only really solid takeaway I see is showing up to a Tinder date without a car because you walked or got an Uber might offer plausible deniability for a ride back to your place and give you the opportunity to get her to come inside. You played banjo for 20 seconds and then started fingering h…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 04:17 PM
3

You're hopeless at this point.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 02:49 PM
1

Lmao that you think it could actually work like it does in a sci-fi movie. Nah dude it's a metaphor. You will give me a red pill truth for every one of my thousand interactions listed in my old journal? You want me to link it to you? Sure man.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 10:56 PM
1

You're just lost. That's why you think it's blurred. Fuck the blue pill. Those are the plugged in fucks from the matrix. Why would you want to subscribe to that?? Fuck the black pill. Like what even is the point??? Fuck the purple pill. That's where you should stay if you just want to debate. The divisions exist because people a fucking pussies and they won't man up and accept the truth. Drop an anecdote and I'll analyze it for you. Give me every anecdote you have and I'll give you the red pill …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 10:16 PM
1

Dude it's not about guys finding the easy way. It's about attacking the hard way and becoming a man for yourself. And navigating the SMP in a way that doesn't leave you fucked over. The data is in the sidebar and all of the posts. I'm not going to do the work for you. I don't give a fuck if you agree with me. Enjoy your search for the easy way to get a girl.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 10:10 PM
1

No. TRP IS WHAT IT IS. Take it or leave it.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 09:46 PM
1

My point is, you don't get it and you're not trying to. My point is, if you have experience with 1000+ women and you're honest with yourself then you have plenty of personal anecdotes that fall in like with TRP. My point is, if you still don't get it, then get burned and then come back. My point is, talking to me isn't getting you laid because you won't listen.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 09:42 PM
1

Incorrect. It's useful to everyone. It's tools theory and data. Use it as you see fit. I'm not sure what you're looking for. That's literally what this place is about. Anyone who Rejects data is plugged into a system built on Fairy Tail unconditional love that is not consistent with what I have personally encountered in the world. People who go through life believing in those stories end up in situations that are not as advantageous as they could be. It's up to you to decide what you want and wh…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 09:35 PM
1

I asked if you had any experience with women and you said you never claimed to be sexually successful. That experience should be invaluable and Rich with lessons if you're honest with yourself.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 09:31 PM
1

Go open a girl somewhere man. This is a waste of your time.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 08:56 PM
1

We're not talking about sexual strategy of rats or aliens. Of course it relates. It's just not TRP's job to relate to what you want. Especially the bluepill fuckers. It's a tool box. You choose what you want. Use the tools that work best for you. Report back if you choose.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 08:54 PM
1

Dude. Look around. Life is the source. Women push for commitment and weaponize sex. Men can't even play those cards. Do you have any experience with women to draw off of?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 08:22 PM
1

TRP is a discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. We're here to have a discussion, test theories, report back, and foster understanding about the SMP and how you can succeed at your own personal goals.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 08:19 PM
1

Fine go elsewhere then man. I'm here for me. I'm not here for you.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 08:06 PM
1

I said it's not TRP's job to do anything but what it already does
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 08:05 PM
2

Lol. provide some kind of source Nah. I don't need to do anything to prove that all women are capable and will act in certain ways based on their biology if the circumstances are right. Read the sidebar and the top 100 posts of all time. There is plenty of evidence.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 07:45 PM
2

It's all covered here. You act like TRP is a one trick BB/AF pony. Read more. It's literally all here. I understand every dynamic you mentioned all directly from writings here and my own experiences. The bottom line is all women act similarly given the right set of circumstances. It doesn't matter if they're religious, married, slutty, or anything in between. They all get tingles.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 07:42 PM
1

You do know to take into account the observer (you) when thinking about these "observations" right? Maybe they are blurring to you because you're reading too much shit.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 07:21 PM
1

Because guys aren't in search of provisioning. They don't find a woman to support them and feign love until a better option comes along only to attempt to gain her commitment and cut off all feelings for the original girl.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 07:19 PM
1

A theory is no good until it's been tested in practice. I said we're here to test theories. And empiricism is no good unless it accounts for a broad sample size. 270k members. Objective discussion on the rest of the world. Field reports on interactions with the rest of the world. Not seeing what you are taking issue with other than me not agreeing with you. worldview based on a narrow set of circumstances. Bluepill. Not sure that relates to trait openness and skepticism leading to finding answer…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 07:16 PM
3

We're not here to account for people who want monogamy or polygamy or LGBT or anything else. We're here to have a discussion, test theories, report back, and foster understanding about the SMP and how you can succeed at your own personal goals. It isn't the job of or the goal of TRP to account for the array of dating preferences. It's about truth and facts. It's not about colored pills.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 06:02 PM
2

Why do you care? Exchange of ideas and dialogues? Who gives a fuck what other pussies and dumb asses talk about?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 05:58 PM
43

Been there bro. There was no rape. She might have fucked two guys at once and let it get a little rough. He made the right call. "You know I don't date girls that go clubbing." Would have been a better way to phrase it. Then dump her if she does anything other than back down immediately.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 02:47 PM
1

Lol. Not how it works bro. Have a good one. Catch up on some more reading.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 06:41 AM
4

Well handled? That was almost a train wreck. Mostly because of the way OP handled it. What in the fuck is this best response possible in this specific situation ???????????
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 06:40 AM
6

Haha yes bro. The last few lines are pure poetry.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 06:33 AM
1

That is such an absurd generalizing statement. The rest of the world? For who? Guys game and fuck girls in other countries where they don't even speak the same language. Girls in the US won't fuck a waiter unless he gives her tingles. You cannot negotiate desire. A new job won't do it anywhere. DESIRE. TO FUCK. Not desire to give duty sex for provisioning. Why is your post gone if your point is valid?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 05:52 AM
1

Girls in the US are way more interested in LTRs too man. Get with the program. Intersexual dynamics are basically the exact same everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 05:31 AM
1

40% of the female population in the US is also over 30 years old so.... what's your point?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 04:45 AM
1

I couldn't agree more. It's painful to watch someone rationalize why a guy would need a new career to get a girl. As they say, "Mo money, mo problems". Someone with the wrong mindset or understanding is in for a world of shit if they go down that road expecting things to magically get better.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 04:42 AM
1

The funniest things are often the most true. This one is spot fucking on.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 04:37 AM
3

Also, it's a fucking great time! Excellent report OP.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 02:05 AM
20

Good on you man. I've been through some rough times facing my own mortality, not walking for a year, crawling to the bathroom, depression, and the other health problems that come from such major issues. Not to mention the financial burden. It's great climbing back out of that hole and seeing daylight. Life is fucking wonderful. Keep pushing.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 01:35 AM
2

Is he looking for a girlfriend or a chick to fuck? He can most certainly say he's a porn star or a cowboy astronaut with a grin and get away with it. Unless his game sucks. Besides, he meets most girls at work Maybe he should think about changing where he goes to pick up girls. Shitting and eating don't mix. Those things are not enough after 30. Not enough for who? You need to prove yourself worthy in the professional field, too. If you want to be an easy mark as BB Brad or you're seeking an LTR…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 01:29 AM
3

Bullshit. Girls don't need to know what he does for work. His game is weak. He probably needs to lift more. He doesn't need to be able to talk philosophy or physics or history, he just needs to be sexual and be a fucking man.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 01:03 AM
9

Not all women act that way, but they are all capable of it given the right set of circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 12:57 AM
5

Sometimes continuing to be the one with the power means walking away and using your power elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 12:55 AM
3

First off, I understand your point. Don't feel bad about kicking stupid sluts out of your life. Got it. And I also think you know everything I'm about to say. And I'm leaving some shit out. I disagree with the broken frame, anger and physicality I made her stand up and gather her clothes. "Are you even going to give me a ride?" She asked. "The fuck nigga?" I said, pushing her out my bedroom door. I pulled her by her arm and started leading her out of the garage. "I'm kicking you out of my house …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 11:26 PM
13

Because he needs to avoid repercussions. The way he handled it involved more risk than it was worth.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 10:30 PM
2

A 9 or 10 that thinks you're trying to fuck will act differently than a 9 or 10 who thinks you're just being friendly/orbiting.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 10:14 PM
2

The lower the girl's status, the more guarded she has to be.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 10:13 PM
3

Skeptical. Good job. Jump in, the water is fine.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 04:38 AM
14

Bruce Motherfucking Lee. Dude used to work out between workouts. I heard he could regularly be seen holding a newspaper or a child in one arm and doing dumbbell iso work with the other. Not only don't waste time... find ways to further maximize it as well.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 02:00 AM
4

The answers lie within. Use Occam's razor and find the simplest way to explain what went right when it worked. Then put that into practice with the rest of your knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 01:50 AM
1

So being a man means being a dumbass to you? Then coming here to boast about how tough you are? You should have just attacked the guy if you really didn't care what happened. Reactionary is not tough, it's weak as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 01:43 AM
18

Way to go at it man. I've been through the ringer and made it out relatively unscathed. Thanks to TRP I have come to understand all the crazy shit that I've witnessed from so many different girls and will be sure to never involve myself with any of the psychopaths ever again. On behalf of men everywhere (blue pilled and red pilled alike) thanks for the effort. Be safe in your new endeavors man. Nobody needs a martyr.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 12:58 AM
7

This post has a ton of great points all boiled down very nicely. She was laying in bed and I was rummaging through my fridge for something to eat after having a shower. He's already not spending an extra minute on her than he desires to. He wanted a shower and some food. He moved on to a shower and some food. I didn't feel like spending the afternoon with her - And he was already making that clear to her through his actions. she had been hinting at going to see a movie together Girls communicate…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 04:53 PM
0

Good job. You got the right idea man.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 04:12 PM
1

Agreed. It's very similar to being asked if you believe in love at first sight. Bluepillers will think the answer she wants to hear is "yes, I loved you the moment I saw you." The female however knows there is no such thing. If you don't laugh it off as a childish fairy tale or A&A, she docks your points. I was dating a girl who claimed to be very into Wicca ("witchcraft"). I listened and laughed and told her I don't believe in any magic. How quickly she lost her pentagram necklace and "deep int…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 06:02 AM
97

Great example man. You can only truly commit to one person at a time. Be committed to yourself and things will work out as well as they possibly can.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 02:22 AM
2

Everyone can be a liability until you learn how to handle yourself in all situations.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 08:14 PM
2

You could try understanding sentences. He spelled it out and you take nothing away from it. That's where your problems begin. You need to change who you are, not find a list of rules for starting your own social circle full of hot girls.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 04:47 PM
3

That's how women are. They are all in that bs. You don't need to worry about them. You need to worry about yourself and getting every thing you can out of life.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 07:05 PM
2

Don't miss the important part of what he said.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 06:50 PM
0

Not saying it's a reason to commit horrible atrocities, but making a joke isn't going to hurt them and treating them like they are more sacred than everyone else that is already dead isn't going to bring them back or correct any injustice.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 04:23 PM
2

Nah. I deserve it. Fucking dummy. None of them would bite on this retarded shit.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 07:01 AM
2

I'm so glad I was here and I had some time available to help you out. I usually just ignore stupid bitches, but I felt a nagging desire to be constructive. I am a fucking idiot. You are so right.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 06:50 AM
2

Lol you asked for it. Perhaps you should explain what "this" is first. Don't be too upset that somebody gave it to you. If I have mistaken what this sub is about or is supposed to be about Tried clearing that up for ya. and I am sure that is the case metoo then there is no value in me telling you what I think it is about if I am already wrong. You still said it even though you knew it was pointless. Edit: In an attempt to be polite, I was explaining myself and I can't allow it. If you can't stan…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 06:11 AM
0

Dude 100 billion people have lived and died. Most of those people would be dead now either way.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 05:29 AM
1

Lol dude stop. What are you trying to prove, and to who?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 05:27 AM
2

Dude quit trolling or being stupid. Either one would be fine.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 05:25 AM
1

6 million dead people. Lighten up.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 05:21 AM
3

God damn if that ain't the truth, nothing is.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 05:19 AM
2

And one day I'll master being funny like this mod squad is while they're setting the record straight.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 05:15 AM
1

Edit: don't feed the trolls
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 05:13 AM
0

Can we What do you mean "we"? cut down on Chads emasculating people in AskTRP? Chads? What the fuck are you even saying? Shit like "grow a pair" and "stop being a beta faggot" don't encourage learning. I want to encourage learning but grow a pair and stop being a faggot. Evaluate your situation. It's probably not "we" who are causing your problems.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 04:47 AM
1

Me too man but human psychology normally works in a certain way. The ego protects itself. And there are better and worse ways to open someone's eyes to information that you don't have distinct proof of.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 04:23 PM
1

Exactly. That's what I based my understanding a long time ago. Thanks for bringing that up. I had forgotten the source.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 05:52 PM
1

There are so many reasons it's wrong to have a two hour text conversation. Meeting up is how she gets to know you. Selling comfort is selling yourself as a willing BB provider. Give her a little polarity and then invite her to join you on your plans you already have. Comfortable kills attraction, so if you're not ripped and super attractive naturally, you def don't want to offer comfort. Ripped attractive guys might need to offer a little comfort. She wants a real man not a girlfriend to text wi…
/r/askTRP29/06/18 04:08 PM
3

Haha ok man. Go shove this garbage down somebody else's throat. You sound a bit naive.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 03:34 PM
2

Ok cool, booking my plane ticket right now. I'm glad you said something.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 03:28 PM
5

That certainly works in some scenarios. I'm just saying it's probably not great advice for everyone. "Invite chick to party. Ignore her. Get wasted. Fuck her." It's not ripe with wisdom.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 03:23 PM
24

Fuck yeah man. Keep pushing. Don't compare yourself to women ever again. You're not one. The chick in question still has a vagina. You could cut off her head and there would still be weak little bitch ass dudes lining up to date her (really weird sentiment, but I'm sure it's true). Do you bro.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 03:03 PM
11

American girls traveling around are planning on getting dicked down. It's a failure in their eyes if they don't. I'm not sure there's a whole lot here unless you match with a girl on a dating app who is traveling. Setting up a party with your friends won't be a good method for plating in a normal circumstance. Good to run into people out and about but you can't control that.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 02:51 PM
3

Haha dumb. Gorillas can't get rape charges or fired by HR for made up stories. Alpha in TRPs case is a set of traits or behaviors, not a caricature.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 02:21 PM
1

Oh no. Texting is for logistics only man.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 02:08 PM
1

Scarcely is fine. Maybe don't lead with it. You want to polarize. Can't do that with a disarming smiley face
/r/askTRP29/06/18 02:06 PM
1

It isn't going to happen over night. Give it some time. Patience.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 06:27 AM
2

Lol sure dude, you're too smart for me and I'm offended by it. Now I need to go cry. The point is, you cannot negotiate desire. Saying it with more words from different angles is meaningless. Occam's razor that shit and be done with it. What you do is equivalent of saying repeatedly "fire will burn you", never adding anything more. Again, feel free to explain to the whole class the ins and outs of female desire and why it can't be negotiated. You argue like a woman. Best of luck to you buddy.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 05:33 AM
1

Why do you hate your real name? Not that bad of an opening line. Maybe... "I know your real name kind of sucks, but you didn't have to change it." Bad opening line She's fucking with you because she liked the line. "You're a bad opening line." Would work just fine there. I responded "yes i'm good at those" Meh her - "from a lot of practice?" She's opening the door for you here. You get tons of practice because you're always talking to tons of hot chicks. me - "natural talent" Nevermind. That sou…
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:12 AM
1

Don't emoji. That's what chicks do.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:05 AM
1

Call her and tell her you're going to do x and she should do it with you. If she's busy, you can set a date for sometime during the week like you want to. It eliminates waiting too long.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 04:58 AM
1

Try the takeaway
/r/askTRP29/06/18 01:49 AM
2

You didn't explain anything about WHY it doesn't work (it never works). Since you don't think "fire is hot, it will burn you" is enough to keep people from putting their hand in the oven; feel free to explain it for the class in a way that isn't just re-phrasing what was already said. And do it without trying to attack my ability to grasp your "logic".
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 11:27 PM
5

Aka pointless comment. What are you adding by saying that, that wasn't already said? You cannot negotiate desire. There is nothing else to say.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 11:08 PM
3

Find me an example where head on confrontation with the red pill worked. You are unplugging someone from the matrix. They will resent you and want to plug back in. I get that you would be tempted to lay it out there because life is too short to pussyfoot around, but Law #38 and experience says you will only out yourself and lose power/influence/a friend.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 11:05 PM
12

OP pay attention
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:33 PM
22

Yeah watch out for her pimp hitting you up for cash or an ass whooping after the fact no matter what.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 05:55 PM
19

I've only fully red pilled one friend. He was later able to recognize his wife cheating when he would have otherwise been blind to it. I did it indirectly. He asked if him being happy about getting a check from his dead grandmother's estate made him a bad person. I told him that he was conditioned to feel bad about things like that. Death is perfectly natural. Money is awesome. HE dug deeper. I mentioned feminism and alpha characteristics versus beta programming. He asked more questions. I gave …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 05:46 PM
20

Irrelevant to the point. Even from a place of strength, you cannot negotiate desire.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 05:30 PM
2

You have another idea?
/r/askTRP28/06/18 01:57 PM
25

Yep. It's a shame we don't live in the movies or that shit might be effective.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 01:14 PM
1

Only use it when you need to. Do you have any self control?
/r/askTRP28/06/18 12:05 PM
4

Also the shit is done man. If you lost control of the ship, walk away and let it crash. That's the only show of strength she's going to respect at this point.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:55 AM
10

I know she acts like a child because she's happy. Yes. but I fail at handling her childish behavior and correcting it. Not the same thing as "acting like a child because she's happy". There is literally no reason to mention these together.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:53 AM
6

I hear you it's definitely something like that. I disagree that it's a good time to shit where he eats. I'm 21, working two dead end jobs, no car, and not attending school. I mean you could shit somewhere in this scenario so far... I fucking failed. My father kicked me out shortly after New Years; I was homeless A bit more risk involved now... don't want to be homeless again. Ever since I have been working two jobs (~70 hours/week) Good on ya OP. because I committed to moving to another city by …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 05:11 AM
60

And...don't talk about fight club. Probably reach out to your buddy and see how he's holding up.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 04:02 AM
277

You fucking dummy. That's not how you influence people. Inception... man... You needed to lead him, but let him speak the answers into existence as he realized them. You were just regurgitating things you read here. And basically calling him a loser while doing so. Red pill or not, you think anybody is going to respond well to being called an idiot loser you dumbass? Get what I'm doing here dumbdumb? Once I activate that negative feeling in you, you don't want to listen to a fucking word I have …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 03:50 AM
0

No shit man. That's my point. You're calling a FWB your "plate". Not a plate. If you can't keep up I'm done discussing it.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 02:16 AM
0

FWB and Girlfriend are the terms you're looking for.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 02:07 AM
3

Yeah dude. It's over. There are better girls out there for you. This one who claims to love you, knows exactly what you want and need to be happy and would willingly withhold that from you while she takes everything she wants. What does that sound like?
/r/askTRP27/06/18 11:41 PM
79

Hey trp, I slept with one of my HB8 managers about a month ago. This was my first RP success. No. We don't shit where we eat.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 10:45 PM
1

Too many comic book movies and shows out recently that say otherwise.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:40 PM
1

Slackers.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:33 PM
4

Spend your 30s thinking about your 20s.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:11 PM
0

Who the fuck cares???
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:10 PM
6

I don't blame them for trying. It doesn't mean they don't enjoy it. Just an example of the motivated woman. Sex is their tool. It isn't important what motivates them. Just that you're aware of it and guiding it.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 07:01 PM
1

Haha chill man I love life too much to ever hurt myself intentionally. The sidebar does solve your problem. Read it again. Digest it. Internalize it. Practice it. Cycle through that. The answers are in there. The fact that you think this is a serous problem is problem number 1.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:36 AM
1

Man reading your response makes me want to shoot myself in the head. Sidebar?
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:05 AM
6

Gotta tinder plate wanting me to drive an hour Haha not what you do with a plate... go on. and pay for her Plates are for fucking only. lunch as well. Hahaha. Lunch???? Drive an hour to meet a plate for lunch??? Never. Ill offer starbucks. Lol buddy this is not anywhere close to plate theory or how to manage your bitches. Hit the books bookloverphile. Live up to your name. But if i have to “pay for a date” with a random tinder girl Not a plate. Plates don't get dates. i’m not doing something rig…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 04:31 AM
2

Not a plate. Quit pumping up your ego.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 04:21 AM
1

Are you just here joking around. Why would you ever neglect the fucking part in favor of the cuddling?
/r/askTRP27/06/18 03:44 AM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP27/06/18 03:43 AM
1

No dude. If you don't get that at all (literally the best advice) then you're hopeless. Break it down word by word and read up on each one until you understand it for yourself. This response has me feeling repulsed. The same way a girl feels when you are needy about your desire for physical contact.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 03:43 AM
2

Haha you only wish that was true
/r/askTRP27/06/18 12:15 AM
5

True. Girls also get out of more tickets, so it's less risky. They should try it.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 11:16 PM
4

If for instance, men make more because they drive faster, are we also factoring in all of the speeding tickets that men get? That probably balances any perceived differences.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 10:40 PM
1

Well do something so you can find out. I'll never know because I'm only 5'7. Don't waste the gift of height. Just go for it.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 09:20 PM
0

You're lost. What would you do if you were addicted to heroin? Cut back?
/r/askTRP26/06/18 08:56 PM
5

It's true
/r/askTRP26/06/18 08:55 PM
-4

You are generalizing. There is no way to know all of a woman's life experiences or conversations. What is your point?
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 03:02 PM
7

But the response of women across different cultures is to enjoy her youth, try to lock down alphas, and then choose a beta bucks to lock down when she fails to get the man of her desire.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 01:01 PM
9

So you're saying it's the same everywhere? Lol
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 12:17 PM
14

That's not monk mode man. That's just being a guy and putting yourself first. Congratulations, but don't just post here to pat yourself on the back when your comment is irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 12:08 PM
2

Socialism is the blue pill danger. Lots of -isms rise out of feeding people a load of shit.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 12:02 PM
3

You probably act different around the girls you're more attracted to repelling them. And the ones you don't really care for dig you, because ya know... that's how this shit works.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 11:55 AM
17

That's what I thought. This guy is just making shit up for the attention.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 11:49 AM
5

You have a long way to go man. Stop talking so much. Just read, observe, test theories, form some real experience to draw from so you stop thinking a trip to the mall is worth talking about. If that shit rattles your frame, just wait. Lol. It's crazy out there. Soak in the knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 05:15 AM
1

High end gyms? Are you inexperienced? Young? What gives?
/r/askTRP26/06/18 04:02 AM
6

Also I would guess it's the opposite and MOST women generally will pass on guys who look nothing like them.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 03:15 AM
1

That has what?
/r/askTRP26/06/18 03:09 AM
42

You are making a lot of assumptions and generalizations. Calling this 101 like it's a proven theory is laughable. Sexual Strategy(duh this is TRP) 101(hah): Given the choice(what woman isn't given the choice?), most women (some women you've encountered) will pass on men (have passed on you) that resemble their background regarding appearances (that also happen to look like you) Seriously though... try this one, if this title focused on your actual point, which I don't think it does: Some women w…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 03:07 AM
1

because you sound like a complete idiot
/r/askTRP26/06/18 01:09 AM
1

Yup. You can always go for it and then bounce if she won't take it to the bedroom with you.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 01:01 AM
2

Genetically compelled to lie? We all are I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 11:44 PM
0

The TRP vets have tons of advice for you, it's on the sidebar and in the top posts of all time. Glad you found your way here man. Best of luck. Don't make meaningless posts like this one. You posted this for yourself. It helps no one else. You haven't "swallowed the pill." You're just starting your journey.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 11:41 PM
56

Don't overthink it man. It's not feminist overlords trying to limit your clothing options or oppress your masculinity. It's just capitalism. Girls buy more bullshit. Honestly though, how many options do you need? And do you really want to spend all day wandering around shopping and trying on clothes and spending money? Bitches do.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 11:34 PM
1

Probably a good idea. He's not wrong in this instance.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 07:50 PM
15

It does if his biggest problem is acting like a little bitch about his situation instead of taking control and doing what's best for him. Sometimes that's literally all people need to hear.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:50 PM
2

Haha.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:46 PM
3

First, these people who are looking for a magic potion and are lazy need advice too. And they need it in a different way. Lazy bitches get called out enough they will stop being lazy bitches and keep posting or they will go away and stop posting. Second... If you're an older male and you aren't here to give advise to the next generation, then why are you here? No moralizing.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:44 PM
5

Yeah but... "you're acting like a pussy" can be something tangible that someone can learn from.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:36 PM
3

Gave her enough rope to hang herself, then calmly moved out and cut all contact.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 04:30 AM
21

Cool. I just wanted to clarify that it's a conscious decision. They want to appear to have no agency, but they call their own shots.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 06:13 PM
152

girls lie to themselves and others about their sexuality. It's a hardwired response to protect their ego. They do lie. It's not subconscious. It's a choice. They aren't fucking robots. They lie to benefit themselves. They lie because so many guys want to hear the lies. It's self preservation that's hardwired. Laugh at it, but it gets old if you're spending time with a big ol bucket of red flags. Good advice for a ONS/plate and avoiding low value women.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 05:56 PM
2

Fuck. You're right. I don't internet good.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 05:16 AM
5

It needs to be hammered over and over again until it gets better (before it gets worse). Echo chambers can get out of control quickly when misunderstood concepts or ideas start to spread exponentially.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 05:13 AM
3

Ego tripping is what I see the most of. People afraid to be honest and accept the fact that they don't understand the dynamics at play, acting like they're masters. Probably because they are so good at lying to themselves and believing their own bullshit that they just feel good about parroting things they don't actually grasp. Maybe because they're lazy or lack patience.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 05:09 AM
3

You got this. Figure it out.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 05:04 AM
8

Nah man. He made good points. It's annoying and unfortunate that some people come here and shout uninformed non-sense without first understanding the core concepts. You do you though. It's easy to tell who has something valuable to offer and who doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 05:03 AM
1

You see her as a friend. She sees you as an orbiter. What do you do for her? What does she do for you?
/r/askTRP18/06/18 01:34 PM
1

Don't defend your position. Just listen to the advice you came here asking for. You thinking it's petty is a BP mentality. Why should you give a fuck?
/r/askTRP18/06/18 04:38 AM
3

You shouldn't be wondering if this girl can be a plate until you've fucked her a few times. You're putting the cart before the horse. Don't think like this.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 03:59 AM
2

Nah. I'm sure I felt that way at one point or another. I know what's what though. Probably won't have kids.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 05:43 PM
1

Lol I know. They are great parents. They aren't assholes about it. Just honest in conversations avout kids and expectations.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 04:14 PM
2

Yeah dude. It is what it is. Think what you want, but act like others. #38
/r/askTRP16/06/18 06:23 AM
1

When you recognise it, act on it. I was out networking tonight and a few people I ended up giving cards to said, "I'll keep you in mind". That is powertalk for, "nothing will come of this." So I change my approach with them or move along to others.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 05:58 AM
3

Red pill is code word for reality. You only need a red pill if you have been given a blue pill. Men are fed blue pills because they are capable. Blue pills exist to control and balance the scale. Who needs more balancing?
/r/askTRP16/06/18 05:54 AM
3

Yeah I hear ya. My parents speak the same way. They love me and my brother, but we ruined their lives.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 05:28 AM
3

Crazy but I have rarely ever heard anyone (men) who's been married for more than 10 years speak highly of it. Almost everyone (men) would leave if they could.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 04:50 AM
5

I wish I could convey her tone on the first line. It was like impending doom in a cell for 25 years (I think she might have said "locked into"). He responded with a tone of amused mastery. She quipped back about the divorce. It's just that she wasn't wrong and she knows it.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 04:33 AM
6

I just met a married couple tonight who just bought a house today. She said, "I hope you're ready to be in this house for the next 25 years". He said, "yeah unless I divorce you". She said, "well we live in x state so if you do, I'll be living in the house and you'll be fucked. Sorry we live in x state. Sucks for you".
/r/askTRP16/06/18 03:40 AM
1

Your attempts to be annoying are strong
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 01:23 AM
1

Lol you didn't. I was just clearing things up for newer guys. You kept challenging me with empty responses. No worries man.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 01:18 AM
1

Haha. I've made my point. If you actually have something to say, say it.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 12:58 AM
1

They won't appreciate it
/r/askTRP15/06/18 04:29 PM
1

Hahaha
/r/askTRP15/06/18 04:26 PM
1

If you want to be real, a thoughtful response to my first comment would be a good place to start. Implying that I haven't read the sidebar (I have multiple times and the top 1000 posts of all time plus comments) is a weak attempt to discredit my point. Can't unswallow the pill. Pointless use of the metaphor. There is no "the pill". Anger phase... Even if I was "angry" at you (lol), that still doesn't have anything to do with the "anger phase". Hamster over-drive About what precisely? Haha I mean…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 03:19 PM
2

"The Pill Brothers" - a new film about a set of twins, separated at birth. One raised RP and one raised BP. Same genetic advantages and disadvantages.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 02:19 PM
1

Lol wow. Thanks for doing what I asked.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 02:12 PM
-1

Or just parrot something else that doesn't make sense and don't bother listening.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 01:25 PM
0

The red pill isn't about being a part of something, it's about unplugging and testing theories to find answers for yourself. U can't unswallow the pill brother Is not even remotely helpful. If OP "can't unswallow" it, then why even say it? You got some upvotes for puffing your chest out and acting like you're standing on the mountain top. Try to add some substance next time. The comment and the upvotes strike me as a veiled need for validation. It does no one any good in reality.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 06:32 AM
1

I became attractive to get girls That's the dissonance in your situation. You need to become attractive as a byproduct of doing what's good for you physically, mentally, and financially. Then you get girls as a byproduct of becoming attractive. Then you don't care how they act because it's a side effect, not your focus. You DGAF. I know you know that shit. Just pointing out the obvious.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 04:48 PM
1

Not to mention what looks like 50 billion in tithing for churches in the US annually.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 04:38 PM
2

Target the weak. Single mothers have no time to think for themselves. They are probably much more likely to be swayed by media input. I never buy anything from a commercial and I'm generally skeptical about anything from MSM. Females lose their shit over a social media post. Their emotions are easily manipulated. Single mothers might be the most easily triggered or controlled demographic of all consumers.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 06:15 AM
2

Fuck other women. Are you familiar with dread game?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 06:10 AM
3

Don't let anyone demand anything of you.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 06:08 AM
10

Unplug, my friend. You are generalizing. Read more. There is plenty of info available here on why you shouldn't look to the left or the right for guidance in the SMP. Look to yourself. Test theory. Find what works. You aren't going to find truthful answers about society and culture in a church either. Religious leaders blue pill the fuck out of people. As do the political leaders on the left and right. Religious followers are blue pilled and will shove pills down peoples throats even if those pe…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 06:06 AM
1

Dude... why are you listening to anything they say?
/r/askTRP01/06/18 11:51 PM
19

Thank you so much baby you're the best This is the kicker. As innocuous as "you're the best" seems when you're throwing it out there, she needs to think she's not the best you can do.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 03:54 AM
3

This will never happen so what's the point in discussing it? Couldn't you spend your time more wisely or productively?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 03:49 AM
1

We aren't here to talk about men
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 07:17 PM
5

There are plenty of posts explaining AWALT. What point are you making? Unicorns do exist?
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 04:26 PM
9

Wake up dude. You sound extremely clueless.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 05:37 PM
1

Nope. You keep wanting to pat yourself on the back. I don't think you handled it well. You did ok. You need to internalize this stuff so it manifests in your actions. What is the end game? You want her to come back from what I can tell. That's scarcity. You care too much, and you act like this tough guy who doesn't care at all. Then you talk about "the pain". You're all over the place. Take a good look in the mirror. Re-read the sidebar. Read the top posts of all time.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 03:18 PM
1

Butt hurt
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:22 AM
2

No. There are plenty of better examples. This was pretty weak.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:12 AM
2

What you're missing is saying things like go have fun and be free is covertly calling her out for branch swinging. That's why she got pissed. You need to realize how women actually communicate. Also, why are you getting a gold star and giving a shit about her orgasm??? Stop making her or any girl your mental point of origin.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:11 AM
1

She will only think you're butt hurt if you have shown her that in the past.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:07 AM
2

Correct
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:06 AM
1

He didn't do that good
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:04 AM
2

So my ex gf hit me with the she wants a break from the relationship to miss me and rediscover her feelings for me after a period of fighting in our relationship (bullshit but I allowed her hamster away). She's straight up lying to you and has already fucked or is planning on fucking someone else. She needs the clear path so that she doesn't feel like the bad guy. In a calm voice say "Ok cool. I've gotta go." And hang up. That's the end. You don't want to be comitted to someone who doesn't value …
/r/askTRP18/05/18 05:58 AM
1

Cool, keep listening to the harsh responses. Don't pay any attention to people who are praising you. I'll take a crack at the situation for you here in a sec.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 05:44 AM
3

Dude it's oneitis. Why are you focusing on her? You're writing multiple paragraphs about this one girl. You're sitting in silence for 5 minutes after she has clearly expressed her willingness to fuck other guys. And you're acting like a know it all. It's obvious to anyone who really gets this stuff how lame that was. Good start, but true abundance mentality would be manifested by saying ok and hanging up and never talking to her or about her ever again. Staying on the line silently for 5 minutes…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 05:37 AM
4

I called her name after realizing 5 minutes later that she was still on the call Drop the high and mighty attitude bro. That is just weak and needy. It's in no way cool or "red pill" like you're acting.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 05:08 AM
3

You sat on the phone for 5 minutes in silence. Just think about that by itself.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 02:49 AM
4

I believe like 4 out of 60,000 primate species are "monogamous". Humans being 1 of the 4, and we all know how debatable that is. I think the nature of life is impermanence. So the more lifespan increases, the less advantageous monogamy becomes. I know you said pair bonding, just throwing that into the discussion.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 01:34 AM
3

Thanks for taking that one.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 04:29 PM
16

Just finished a 3-day bone broth fast to kick start ketosis. Once the switch flipped, the mental clarity and lack of hunger while only taking in around 200 calories a day is astounding. Though I can't live on 40g of protein and 2000mg of sodium a day forever. I'm looking forward to some chicken and veggies tomorrow. That's my craving after not eating for a few days, delicious eggs and bacon. Fuck sugar.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 03:29 AM
3

Sleep for a cycle - 1.5 hours.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 04:12 PM
1

And how long did it take you to believe it/convince yourself that you weren't wrong?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 11:48 PM
9

She's literally asking you to abuse her.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 08:26 PM
3

Agreed. I don't care if she will come back. I just care that she's not being someone I'm willing to associate with currently. Who gives a fuck if she comes back?? My point was to squash the language that she will, because it could lead people to develop or maintain a scarcity mentality and see this as an option to control the object of their desires.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 08:14 PM
26

she will may re-initiate at a later date. It might be over 50%. Still in no way a definite. The only definite thing about this is it's the best way to handle that situation.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 02:07 AM
1

Prove it wrong and shut it up.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 07:17 PM
5

I have a FR in the works that illustrates this point exactly. Two sisters. Two different approaches. Opposing results. Spoiler alert: The less hot sister who was initially giving me obvious IOIs (who I offered the mutually beneficial value of my talents to), is now blowing me off. The hotter sister I ONLY displayed value to is now chasing me. There were other things at play, but I knew as I offered to combine talents for both of our benefit, it was going to kill her attraction. Luckily I knew ac…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 07:15 PM
1

Exactly. Fat fuck who's about to pass out and die. Still, that girl can't help but want to fuck him.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 05:41 PM
1

Lot's of words. Not anything I was asking for. This is the PET THEORIES thread. It better be a theory. Tell us what it is.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 11:28 PM
1

Haha you need to pay attention to what they do, not what they say. I know what you're talking about. Trying to give you actionable advice dickhead. Give an example of what you mean if you want more specific advice. Your comment was very broad/general. It's likely just beta bait or a shit test as early as you're describing it.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 10:50 PM
5

One of them even confessed over text how much she liked me after she saw me make out with her friend at the club. I got a girl I was into's best friend to suck my dick once (then ditched her) and the girl I was digging on immediately claimed me for herself and ditched her friend forever. It's unbelievable the power that holds over a women's perception of reality.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 09:04 PM
5

Lol. Sounds like a decent life hack. Work towards not giving a shit at all.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 09:01 PM
1

Care to expound upon it at all? What's your theory, take care of your shit?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 09:00 PM
1

Try not giving a shit what she says.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 08:58 PM
2

Don't overthink it (you are). Women are all the same everywhere you look. Look inwards. What actually changed? Not to dismiss your observations, but the girls in the city of 4 million are getting fucked too.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 08:54 PM
1

Yes
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 05:57 PM
1

OP listen to this. It's the correct answer. Why do you care what some dumb bitch says? Listen to yourself jumping through mental hoops to try to accommodate for her "opinion".
/r/askTRP26/04/18 12:12 PM
1

Haha. Yes. All of that exactly.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 12:10 PM
2

I was going to post something like this, but you did it already. Good job.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 11:55 AM
3

and told me all the details Trickle truth my friend. You did not get all of the details. Cut her loose.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 11:53 AM
2

Good
/r/askTRP25/04/18 06:19 PM
1

Correct
/r/askTRP25/04/18 05:11 PM
5

I love soda water with a lime. Get it in a pint or rox glass. Cringe when you take a sip! Lol jk
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 04:21 PM
3

Yeah neither
/r/askTRP25/04/18 04:01 PM
0

Be a man. It doesn't matter. It doesn't have to be her fault for you to not give a fuck.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 02:47 PM
1

Consciously stop doing it. Make a mental note when you do. It won't happen over night.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 02:37 PM
1

You got a haircut?
/r/askTRP25/04/18 02:35 PM
1

Whatever it is, just look the girl in the eyes while telling the the server, bartender, cashier, etc "split it" or "seperate".
/r/askTRP25/04/18 02:00 PM
1

Correct. I've experimented extensively with this.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 01:38 PM
4

I've read that a couple of times now. Fucking awesome man.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 12:36 PM
1

Definitely one of the more fun enjoyable dgaf albums of all time. No BP at all either.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 10:38 AM
5

Now, watch how this conversation unfolds. She texts him today. Her - Guess who's not good at texting back Him - ya im terrible Him - im on a skype call rn with an old friend Unnecessary to explain yourself. It takes all the pop out of "ya I'm terrible" which is a perfect response. Him - how's the couch? :) Don't like emojis. Her - Haha no worries. I'm going to the doctor now Because of the skype call comment. Him - ironic ain't it? Being on the other side and going to the doctor. Pointless blabb…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 12:11 AM
1

Learn to recognize and bounce
/r/askTRP24/04/18 08:22 PM
1

Link ---> https://youtu.be/8nmXrCJIsAo
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 01:34 PM
2

Snoop Dogg - Ain't No Fun (If the Homies Can't Have None) You're back now at the jack-off hour this is DJ, Eazy Dick On W-Balls, right now, something new, by Snoop Doggy Dogg And this one goes out to the ladies, from all the guys A big bow wow wow, 'cause we gonna make it a little mystery Here tonight, this is DJ Eazy Dick, on the station that Slaps you across your fat ass, with a fat dick When I met you last night baby Before you opened up your gap I had respect for ya lady But now I take it al…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 01:33 PM
1

I'll try to find it. Message me to remind me. Don't have time right now.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 10:52 PM
1

This is basic sidebar stuff. Where you at on your reading? You seem to be hearing most of this for the first time.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 10:04 PM
9

Because he is clearly that guy
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 10:00 PM
2

100%
/r/askTRP18/04/18 10:46 AM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:05 PM
5

You resent yourself (albeit a past version of yourself). Stop projecting.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 11:12 PM
1

Grow up. Lol. That's the only answer. Find your maturity.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 04:21 PM
2

Good stuff man. Just wanted to point out that in spite of all of your awesome advice, some young kid might misinterpret it and make a stupid mistake that costs him money etc.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 09:29 PM
1

she's just fucking with you
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:46 PM
3

You have bigger issues: 9 years older than you Asking you to do shit for her Dismissive when you won't You don't know her surely there is someone closer It's all bad. Delete her number and never talk to her again. Hit the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:46 PM
1

You're digging deep for something that isn't there. She just doesn't want to see it. Let it go. "I'm going to go see it. Come if you want to."
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:19 PM
1

Textbook shitting where you eat though. There is a possible joint business partnership on the line and you risked anything at all for some 37 year old pussy??? What are you thinking man?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 05:51 PM
1

This stuff, aka truths. It's not supposed to be pleasant.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 08:26 PM
4

The two should be mutually exclusive
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 06:13 PM
1

It's not any different given the circumstances.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 12:18 PM
1

Dodged
/r/askTRP02/04/18 10:18 PM
1

Don't leave the ball in her court ever
/r/askTRP29/03/18 06:29 PM
3

Also, just have a life and other things to do. Only text for logistics etc.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 05:37 PM
3

If the shit test is after I've initiated kino, I just look her in the eyes, put my hand on her hip and go in for the kiss. You clearly don't care if that's your move.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 05:23 PM
2

It's the best. Not what I'm talking about at all.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 01:04 PM
2

I hear you man. I'm talking more specifically about smiley face emojis and emojis in general. It's too "cute". You don't want to be cute.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 01:03 PM
6

Downvotes are cool, but I'm not wrong.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 07:12 PM
0

I've started to do the parsimonious tipping thing using a sliding scale based off their infractions You sound like a fun guy to be around and find myself feeling better Why do you feel so strongly about such a minor thing? In my opinion it is definitely blue pill to tip high on low service Huh? It's unrelated. Just tip whatever you want to. I just don't want to do it wrong That's the blue pill I see them like my bud that makes a killing in sales I've spent 5 years making a killing in sales and 1…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 07:04 PM
6

You sound like a know it all idiot. What kind of "absolute ridiculous bank" are these sluts making?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 06:25 PM
7

You don't need to say anything. Just ask questions. Are you interested in anything at all. Learn the art of conversation. Shut up. Ask questions about things she's interested in. Bullshit if you do have to talk.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 06:13 PM
11

Keep reading. Cut the smiley face shit out. :-)
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 06:10 PM
1

Drama possibility. Pass on it for a better option. The only benefit you get is pre-selection. Maybe take her to the wedding then drive her home and go back for the reception alone.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 06:08 PM
2

As triadis3 said, there's so much wrong with your mindset, I can't even. Have you ever heard the expression, experience is the best teacher. Ten girls is a loose approximation. I have around 10 on my radar right now. I didn't find them all at once. I improved myself while finding girls. I'm just saying, sitting on the internet using metaphors to explain why you're having such a hard time.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 03:15 PM
5

Stop with the metaphors. Just shut up and go find 10 other girls.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:47 PM
1

You could have found that yourself. Don't be lazy.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:46 PM
0

Sad... Dude just get out there and learn it through action.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:44 PM
3

Killer points. but she'll figuratively do it if she starts to smell a vagina on you Unless it's another girl's vagina. In which case you will be fine.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:42 PM
2

Approaching
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:39 PM
3

I second that
/r/askTRP27/03/18 06:23 PM
1

"Would it be bad if I fucked this guy?" "I fucked this guy." "I haven't yet. Just asking." "I have. I'm still going to test you and see how you react." Or if somehow magically she hasn't, she's going to. We've been seeing each other for like a month Cool. You haven't even come close to vetting her. but I'm seeing her as a bit more than a plate now. Why? You don't even know her. That's neediness my friend. how should I go about it? Fuck other girls. Keep plating her. Don't give a fuck about anyth…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 01:43 AM
5

Male primates that are born into matriarchal groups almost always strike out and join/challenge their way into other groups; while females are raised into power/class levels according to the hierarchical position their mothers hold/ascend to during their upbringing. Female primates that are born into patriarchal groups strike out and fuck their way into other groups; while the males are raised and eventually climb the male dominance hierarchy to their fullest potential.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 10:24 PM
15

Ten years ago, there was a girl who fell head over heels in love with me, simply because I grabbed her by the hand and playfully lead her through a crowd at a sportsball game. For years she would talk about how it made her feel. She was there with her boyfriend who she eventually left for me (because he didn't make her feel like I did at that moment). We all know how that worked out, but it illustrates the point. When they submit (even being lead by the hand through a crowd), they feel feelings …
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 10:10 PM
1

That's what I was thinking as well.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 06:20 PM
12

You got an outcome you WANT to feel like you can hang your hat on, she texted me and shit which you're assuming means displaying interest again and respecting my masculinity but you haven't seen things through to a point where you can claim that sometimes it's good to let the femoid know how you feel about shitty things that she does. because that is terrible advice if you play it all the way out. Quit lying to yourself. Use your actions, not your words. Like Rian_Stone said, your actions are ea…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 05:21 PM
1

The only possible answer.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 11:13 PM
2

I like IF. I don't worry about working out in a fasted state. It's probably better to get some extra energy before lifting though. My question is: Why is it called intermittent fasting? Intermittent means, "occurring at irregular intervals; not continuous or steady." If anything it should be called intermittent eating.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 09:31 PM
2

Just tell her you're going out with a friend. Be busy. Be vague. Try again next week.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 09:21 PM
1

Don't start watching the movie. Even if you put it on, it should be like background elevator music. It's secondary to your interaction.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 09:20 PM
1

I like that you're sticking to your guns. I've been equally entertained by what you've said. I think it's funny that we initially agreed, but I mistook you for a sarcastic OP. Anyway, my bad for that. You're going to have to meet me in the middle though.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 10:31 PM
1

Haha what the fuck are you even talking about? It's what you get For breaking the sacred internet code of not being 100% perfect? Got me there. stop trying to be the bigger man taking the high-road bs buddy boy. Huh? Lol. I am the bigger man.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 07:57 PM
1

I said I thought you were being sarcastic (because I thought you were OP, who was being very sarcastic). That was my point. Mistaking someone for someone else has nothing to do with common sense. Being unnecessarily rude to someone over a mistake is a bad look man. All you had to do was to politely tell me you weren't the same guy. Questioning my reading comprehension, like that is in any way the same thing, is just silly bro. You don't have to type in all caps and call me brain dead either. Lol…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 06:26 PM
1

You're writing paragraphs about how not emotional you are. If you can't see what I was saying, it's all good bro. It is pretty obvious that I mistook you for OP, and in that context, everything I said made sense. Not a lack of common sense at all. Just a common mistake. Either way, have a good day buddy.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 05:03 PM
1

Chill. I thought you were OP. Relax dude. Are you brain dead or just plain stupid? Haha, do you always flip the fuck out? Control your emotions buddy.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 03:02 PM
1

You said this: The amount of women has no correlation to whether or not they gravitated towards me. Then this: Yep. There is a conflict between: "I could get laid with ease. Women gravitated towards me" and "I was consistently fucking about 4 girls a year" Which one is it? That seems like the general sarcastic attitude you have established by saying things like this. Oh yeah? Thank you for your quality contribution. Lol. Anyway, good luck bro. Hope you figure out how to find a girl to have sex w…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:20 PM
2

Subtle sarcasm Oh yeah? Thank you for your quality contribution. Also, the whole thread..lol dude you slacking , I slept with 7 girls last night Pssh. I've fucked 14 women since you posted this an hour ago I currently have my fingers, toes, penis and tongue inside 22 different women. Also, while we have our dicks out, mine is 70 inches long how about yours? There's a little sarcasm going around.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:59 PM
1

Cool. I thought you were being sarcastic.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:48 PM
1

"Four girls in a year" is not the same thing as "women gravitating to you." But go ahead and miss the point. Women gravitating to you would be more like four girls a month.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:28 PM
2

I could get laid with ease. Women gravitated towards me. 4 times a year. It's not congruent. Don't get upset. Go read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 06:53 AM
14

I remember looking in the mirror and wondering when I would become a man. It didn't actually happen until I worked hard, and turned myself into a man.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 10:55 PM
2

She's getting her girl fitness advice from a guy who acts like a girl (orbiter). Don't feel disrespected. I'm sure it makes perfect sense in her head.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 01:12 PM
1

Maybe. I didn't think I was, but now that you mention it.... Just do whatever you want. How many years of high school do you have left?
/r/askTRP20/03/18 06:55 PM
1

That's deep. How "many" do you recommend?
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/18 06:25 PM
1

Ahhh I see.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:56 PM
6

She's the first girl I actually want to date and not just fuck "Just as women, who are the gatekeepers of sex, still crave and enjoy sex, men can and do feel real affection for the right sort of woman, and will actively want to do so." I hear you man. You need to kill the oneitis either way, but go read Whisper's post I quoted from and linked above if you haven't already.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 12:51 PM
14

If you can't seem to overcome your oneitis with the help of the sidebar, I recommend finding nine more girls that are hot enough to make you feel the exact same way. Then you'll have ten-itis (tinnitus: a ringing or buzzing sound in the ears, often associated with hearing loss). At some point the signal to noise ratio (the ratio of the strength of a signal carrying information to that of interference) will reach a point where any lingering thoughts of "this one special girl" are completely drown…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 11:35 AM
1

👊🏼
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:52 AM
1

You're not wrong. Expecting women to deal with their emotions like a grown-ass person, or otherwise blocking them (everywhere, no contact, no feeling bad about it), is the story I'm talking about.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:29 AM
3

Do you have any experience to draw off of with either of these? Edit: are you cocky, or funny? Can you read body language at all? Where are you at in your journey?
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 10:41 PM
2

Well then, fuck yes. Go to the party and talk to all of her friends.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 10:10 PM
659

When she's making it simple, don't make it difficult. Also, when she's making it difficult, make it simple. Go find somebody else to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 10:09 PM
3

Plates don't get girlfriend treatment. They get a fat dick in the mouth and say thank you.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 10:01 PM
1

Listen to this ^
/r/askTRP19/03/18 09:55 PM
1

No reason to go. What's in it for you?
/r/askTRP19/03/18 09:55 PM
7

Bruh. What do you mean "date" her?
/r/askTRP19/03/18 09:52 PM
2

Truth
/r/askTRP19/03/18 09:39 PM
1

I read that. Solid post.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 09:38 PM
5

Yep. That post by Whisper is one of my favorites. When I first read it, I realized some things that were a part of my own life philosophy that needed to go.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 07:14 PM
5

But why should he be compassionate to her?
/r/askTRP19/03/18 06:34 PM
1

But why should he be kind to her?
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:47 PM
3

Used tampons are trash.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:40 PM
2

But she means so much to you that you remember the anniversary of the day someone (who you never met) killed himself 16 years ago. That makes her feel important. You fed her ego. She will be back for more if you don't cut all contact.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:35 PM
1

Correct
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:31 PM
5

You aren't going to get it.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:54 PM
1

Every single person you have ever met will die alone. You are just young and inexperienced if you think she's one of the only girls who hold on to negative experiences and use them to emotionally manipulate people for their own benefit.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:52 PM
3

Are you autistic? Are you? Why do you give a fuck?
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:49 PM
2

It's not any different than any other emotionally charged situation anyone else's ex-girlfriends ever text them about.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:40 PM
6

She's had 16 years to get over it. Are you always going to be there for her on this day no matter what???
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:38 PM
1

This happened when she was 6. How old is she now?
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:35 PM
10

Can you?
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:34 PM
6

Yep. That's the dumbest shit I've ever heard.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:33 PM
1

She's a manipulator
/r/askTRP17/03/18 02:49 PM
3

same
/r/askTRP17/03/18 02:18 PM
1

The movie is just plausible deniability. It's good if it's obvious you want to fuck. The PD is for her to tell others.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 04:26 PM
2

If you get her to your place, no point in going back out.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 04:24 PM
7

Spot on. I've definitely used it correctly and incorrectly without realizing. The results were exactly as you stated. Great insight man.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 02:40 PM
1

Do you know a pussy when you see one?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 02:27 PM
1

I like to think of it as planting seeds. Then you may be hungry and harvest the crops later. Just plant a shit load of seeds. Always be planting. Leave some girls hanging whether you see red flags or not.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 02:04 PM
0

I’ve pretty much been a lone wolf with no best friends for about a couple years. He didn't ask "how to make friends." I tend to be really funny when I’m in study groups or when I’m talking to someone I casually know at the gym. Seems like OP knows the basics of "making friends." How do you make best friends with people in college? Do exactly what the fuck I said. It comes from experience.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 10:37 AM
2

She wouldn't hurry up if she wasn't comfortable getting close to you and checking you out. You drop the door on her, show her you don't give a fuck, and then make fun of her and give her what she wants. Lol.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 12:46 AM
5

I feel like letting the door hit a cute girl, then making fun of her for not paying attention is a solid opener.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 12:42 AM
2

Agreed. I didn't even hear her. My homie that was such a gentleman brought it up later.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 10:38 PM
3

Lol my mom is 5'0 and my dad is 5'10, I'm 5'7. Pretty sure I get my genetics from a mix of the two.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 09:40 PM
-1

Make friends. Hang out with them. Go on trips with them. Get a place with them. Throw parties with them. Then when you graduate, keep in touch and schedule a regular group trip.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 07:05 PM
5

Laugh at her unoriginal attempt to fuck with you, then A&A or some other method (whatever is appropriate in context). I mean really.... it's the number one thing anyone has ever fucked with me about. I should be able to handle it.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 06:42 PM
1

Telling the truth can never be "doing damage". I was raised in a loving household that engaged in lying as a favorite past time. It drove me insane to know the truth, but be expected to lie. The truth will set you free.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 05:41 PM
4

Also, stop going to parties. They sound bad for your health. Again, 12 years ago I was a young buck. I beleive I learned my lesson that very night.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 03:06 PM
3

It's always time to do something like that man! Having fully functional legs helps too. Good thing this was like 12 years ago. Just adding to your point about gaining respect versus being a little bitch.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 02:58 PM
6

I was jumped by 10 guys when I was recovering from two broken ankles. One had healed enough to walk on, the other was still in a boot. I wanted to kill every single one of those bitch ass mother fuckers, but I couldn't even stand to fight. I changed a song at a party and the 23 year old wife came out talking shit saying, "can you not read?" as she flipped a sign back down over the computer screen that read, "don't touch the computer." I told her it was already flipped up and I hadn't seen it. Th…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 02:36 PM
28

Yep. I was on an elevator at work with 5 coworkers. Three of them were male friends and one was an unknown woman. We got off the elevator in the order we got on. One of my friends waited for the woman to get off first and she said, "at least there's one gentleman here." Please lady... you aren't sucking my dick, we work in the same building. I owe you nothing.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 11:20 AM
1

I love making deep connections. Women don't connect the same way men do. You think they are feeling the same thing you are, but it's not even close.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:57 PM
1

Emotional manipulation. She's fucking with your head to activate your protector tendencies.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 08:17 PM
2

"It hurts me when you K me" Bullshit. No it doesn't. If it's bullSHIT it must be a..... shit test. "my heart hurts a little bit right now" Bullshit. She's a plate. She fucks other dudes. It's bullshit. Shit test.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:50 PM
2

Good. Just stay strong when you pull the trigger and it will work out great
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:13 PM
1

So I was negging this girl by text Go on.... Actually i'm not, i'm only texting her for logostics actually.... Which one is it? Actually, don't sound so butt hurt actually...actually
/r/askTRP12/03/18 04:15 PM
1

Yeah what the fuck are you looking for. Maybe you wouldn't get the "best friend" shit test (girlfriend) if you weren't texting her for things other than logistics and acting like her girlfriend.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 03:58 PM
3

Good job man. Proud of ya. Just tell her things aren't working out and go bang other girls. Become one of these guys: saying "I miss you, I miss you in my bed, I miss your D" to guys who would never commit to her All you have to do is smoothly back away. Ghost. And a few months from now you've got yourself a nice slutty plate to allow back into your bedroom from time to time.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 03:53 PM
3

Glad you enjoyed the read. I gave her a chance at being my girrlfriend or my "main girl". It gives more intimacy, and more of my time, my emotional touch. My understanding of the mechanism at play in the Bitch Management Hierarchy is that certain bitches function properly at different levels. More importantly, they malfunction at a higher level than they deserve. At the plate level, where she is trying to get your commitment, this bitch is giving you amazing sex, massages without asking, and mak…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 03:09 PM
4

This family was ruined way before I ever entered the picture man. This is the main point these guys are missing. The cheating is the outcome of the situation, not the catalyst.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 02:52 AM
1

You're having a 50 person pregame party? Perfect. Just have fun and be social. Try to meet as many new people as you can. Then, make sure you have an after party back at your flat with some of those girls.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:56 AM
5

the 6/10 decided to give me the talk again, and she has been behaving quite deserving of it. Amazing sex, massages without asking, making art for me She's working for it. Good job. Now, the 6/10 had a lot of red flags. Yep, I hear ya. There are very few women out there that don't have a bunch. But, I wasnt looking for a wife or anything, in fact Ill never get married No need to explain your decision making bro. plus she was on her best behavior Right now. so I said fuck it and gave her a chance …
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 01:34 AM
1

You just didn't make her tingle
/r/askTRP12/03/18 12:33 AM
1

BPD crazy fest. It's just unreasonable to expect any man of value would want anything to do with committing to someone they've never met, so the girls are clearly looking for something.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 11:24 PM
1

Because there are billions of other women and this one in particular might try any number of things to fuck with your head. There's no reason to expose yourself to it.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 10:52 PM
1

Be the fucking man. Fuck all the girls.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 06:47 PM
1

How are you cutting?
/r/askTRP10/03/18 06:14 PM
3

What in the fuck did I just read?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 05:46 PM
2

I agree. That's not the point I'm making, or the point of this post. Either way, have a good one man. I'm pretty sure we actually agree with each other.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 05:27 PM
3

I'm all of those things too. Does that mean I shouldn't fuck a girl who throws the "I have a boyfriend" line at me. Who knows what she's thinking in the moment when she says that? Who cares?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 05:25 PM
2

You're running around in circles there.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 05:18 PM
2

Do you know what a shit test is?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 05:12 PM
9

I hear ya bro. Just pointing it out. You sound like you'll be just fine very soon. I'm looking forward to a little sunshine and warm weather myself.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 04:21 PM
1

the same energy pushed into improving your personality, finance, body and be a great person to be around, guess what? you wont have to expend much energy to get to get a lot of pussy. Nobody is expending any energy recognizing the "I have a boyfriend" shit test for what it is, then isolating and escalating as usual.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 04:18 PM
39

but I call her bullshit out and said "why? It's not like you'd commit to me." That seems like a beta comment as well if I'm being honest.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 04:15 PM
3

I've had three LTRs. One was 6 years. The other two were roughly a year and a half. Plenty of STRs. I had "girlfriends" in middle school and high school that usually lasted around 6 months. The main difference to me is, the things that make us (bros) close, are irreplaceable. None of them are ever going to find a better college or childhood friend and leave me for them. And they are free to pursue other new friendships at their leisure. It is just a different dynamic when dealing with the opposi…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/18 03:55 PM
3

For reference, I have quite a few "best bros." We have such a rich shared history that contributes to elevating them in importance to me. Childhood best bros Two I've known for 30 years One I've known for 25 years Two I've known for 23 years (one I lived with in college) My little brother who I've known for 28 years One I've known for 18 years College best bros Seven I've known for 15 years (three I lived with) Two I've known for 12 years Work best bros One I've known for 6 years One I've known …
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/18 03:40 PM
1

Not that you know the answer to this, but why do you think you do it?
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/18 02:48 PM
1

Me: "I had a pet goldfish that died." Her: "huh?" Me: "Oh, I thought we were talking about things that didn't matter." Can confirm, as dumb as it sounds, it works.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 02:30 PM
5

Wrong. You're missing out man.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 02:28 PM
8

So you are completely disagreeing that love and indifference are the actual opposites. No. They are. If love and indifference are opposites. Then so is hate and indifference. But opposite connotes duality so that is a contradiction. Passion and indifference are opposites. Love and hate are just passion from different perspectives.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 11:55 AM
2

Bro I'm halfway through your post. I have to stop for now. Entertaining to say the least.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 10:32 PM
1

Honestly, it's not "pua advice." You need to read it all.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 08:57 PM
1

Have you read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP08/03/18 08:54 PM
1

You will receive conflicting advice on everything for the rest of your life. Red pill vs blue pill.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 08:48 PM
1

Dude you are making this more difficult than it is
/r/askTRP08/03/18 08:44 PM
1

You're wrong. Did you come here to get answers or give them? Women are social proof. Women give you pre-selection with other women. It's a snowball effect. I also make music. Women love that. Why do you think you're a fuckin loser ???????
/r/askTRP08/03/18 08:42 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter