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How do you continue gaming LTRs?

thehedonistvagabond

March 28, 2018
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Title How do you continue gaming LTRs?
Author

thehedonistvagabond

Upvotes 21
Comments 10
Date March 28, 2018 1:11 AM UTC
(8 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/87nwuw/how_do_you_continue_gaming_ltrs/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/how-do-you-continue-gaming-ltrs.126642
https://theredarchive.com/post/126642
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long term relationship
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Lost frame, got really angry, smashed some stuff and yelled insults because she cheated. Did I fuck up? She begged for mercy for 2 days until I insulted her and lost frame. Now shes rather more calm and careless.

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Comments

[–]_the_shape_77 points78 points79 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

  • See each other at least once a week, but beyond three times is asking for trouble (you want to stay interesting, don't you?)

  • Stay focused on making money/side-hustles, getting/staying fit, non-negotiable alone time for yourself to do as you please, preferably some sort of hobby, time to hang out with your friends/family without having to always bring her along

  • fuck her like it's the last time you'll ever fuck her, every.single.time.

  • remind yourself continuously that she's never yours; it's only your turn, and that the LTR will come to an end someday, and you will not melt into a pathetic puddle of BP tears when that day comes

  • keep working on yourself in order to keep yourself 100% convinced that it's an honor for her (or any other chick for that matter) to have you in an LTR

  • you know how you never display weakness in prison? Well, the same rules apply in an LTR, for the most part. She may not literally shank you (for being a little bitch), but she'll figuratively do it if she starts to smell a vagina on you (only she can have the vagina, never you)

  • oh, and don't forget to give her a dose of comfort every now and then

  • read the sidebar

  • read the sidebar (again)

  • have fun

[–]Self-honest2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Killer points.

but she'll figuratively do it if she starts to smell a vagina on you

Unless it's another girl's vagina. In which case you will be fine.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev16 points17 points18 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You never stop competing.

[–]nomyconcept 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

never stop improving for your own sake, she is not the prize to be won.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev13 points14 points15 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Guys get into LTRs and marriages, think they've "won" and then anesthetize themselves with sporstball and beer, get bleary-eyed and corpulent, and never see the divorce rape coming. That was my point. You never stop competing in life.

[–]Ou-tis0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This,they think that relationship are like rocks and that women can't change their mind in 5 minutes.

[–]Aggressive_Beta16 points17 points18 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Dread is THE name of the game. Read the 12 Levels of Dread. Personally, I maintain my LTR at a constant level 8 - if you're incapable of doing that too, you're not ready for an LTR.

"Fuck me or fuck you" has been the frame of our relationship since Day 1, when I straight up told her that sex will not be a currency or commodity, it is a non-negotiable requirement for my commitment to her, and that if it ever starts running dry, I will not hesitate to immediately replace her.

[–]Primary__Account 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Flirt, tease, touch, new ideas, little games, escalate.

[–]moontripper12461 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Make her cum harder than you did last week.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Agree with The Shape above about not overdoing it with time spent together. I sometimes only see my LTR once a week but sometimes invite her to do something midweek too. Trying to get together more than that will work against you. Dread game works especially when it becomes a natural part of the relationship

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