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[–]Aaren_Augustine3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You aren't being comfort tested. She sees you are being butt hurt all the time and it's a soft spot she's going to jab at.
Most of the time I maintain frame, but I have been known to break it, and respond by yelling or cursing when provoked.
Then your frame is a façade. And she can talk angry words at it until it crumbles. Thus not frame. You must be congruent.
If you can't deal with her shit, how you going to keep her safe from Big Bad Chad when he rolls into the village to rape and pillage.
[–]redaftrp points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
You say that she sees me as butt hurt, is it possible she's trying to get a response as she feels I don't show enough emotion to her, a.k.a. not making her feel enough emotions? I say this because I don't think I act butt hurt, as much as I simply do not fucking care about what she has to say. I see her as more of a warm hole than a human being.
[–]Aaren_Augustine5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
shame-redaftrp-fest
Butt hurt. Easily manipulating your emotions
I refuse to listen after she starts whining about my apparent lack of care
Butt hurt
I do not want the relationship, nor do I care about her
Butt hurt. If you didn't care you would have dropped her already.
I will get to a point where I want to leave
in an attempt to extort an answer from me
Butt hurt victim words
I repeatedly tell her I'm done with the conversation and want to leave
Butt hurt words demanding mommy to let you leave
respond by yelling or cursing when provoked.
Butt hurt ego killing frame
I simply do not fucking care about what she has to say.
If this were true, you'd be teasing the shit out of her due to boredom. You'd be fucking amused that this little girl is calling you a big meanie. But you're not.
See, she's flopping out her big drama cock, isolating, escalating and shoving that throbbing fucker right into your pink moist beta brain. Now it's all aggravated and wet with emotions, then she pumps and dumps a giant wad of emotional jizz right inside you. No protection or anything.
So, what you're saying is ignore her tantrum and treat her like the child she is, using amused mastery, or Fogging (admit only what you did, not apologizing).
[–]Aaren_Augustine0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Among other things, yes. Don't be beckoned. You know what she is going to do.
I'm indifferent to temper tantrums. Learn to center yourself when they happen.
Ugh, okay. When you guys have sex, does she star fish and barely participate? You shutting the fuck up and not reacting is basically starfish while she's ejaculating emotions all over you. She'll fucking hate it. This is your version of starfishing.
It will solidify in her head she's got to change if she's wants your attention.
[–]redaftrp1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Thanks for the insight, sex is close to starfish, although when is it never not? No woman really does anything except open her legs and get fucked, She might be enthusiastic, but she's allowing you inside.
[–]RPShitlord0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Dump her. If you did it, you would be charged with kidnapping.
That's why you don't live together.
Absolutely right, been working on an exit plan for a while, maybe I'll just mimic a beta for the slow fade, don't want to hurt my kid in the process.
[–]abdada0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Learn fogging. It's half of A&A and it works great to shut this noise down.
[–]Apexk90 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My rule is when the women makes my life hard I find a new women
[–]stephcurrythrowaway0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bruh just be slick if you're trying to leave. Just be like ok. Let's sit down and talk and as she walks just dip. Fuck her
[–]TheDisillusionist 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If you know she askes you into the other room to bitch and block your exit why the fuck do you go in there in the first place?
Good question, she lives with me and my son. I do not want to expose him to our arguments and so I prefer that we argue or talk in private. There's no telling how an argument will start, some days she's willing to say her peace and leave, other days she wants a full out war. I stand my ground for the most part, and do not concede what she wants, except when I know I am in the wrong.
[–]LordThunderbolt0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why are u still with her? Why is she in your apartment? You're an idiot.
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