I was at an event last night and tried to escalate with this girl (girl 1) that I had previously gotten with, but she then friend zoned me back in my mega beta days. Honestly, it took me a while, but I moved on. I decided to escalate with her again last night because she's been showing IOIs recently (I have no choice but to see her - same classes etc). She kept touching me, putting her hand on my shoulder and the usual, but whenever I tried to dance with her, hold her hand or touch her thigh she'd tell me to stop or would simply show no interest and resist entirely.

I start making out with a HB8 girl right in front of her (she approached me), and then girl 1 is all over me again. Touching me, grabbing me..but as soon as I put a hand on her she tells me to get off. Not in a shit testy way either, I could tell she genuinely didn't want to.

Then I approach another girl - I'd say HB7 - and start making out with her too, in front of girl 1. Yet again girl 1 starts grabbing me and shows loads of interest as soon as I'm done, but when I try to escalate tells me to stop.

This weird behavior was on top of other stuff, like telling me how she got railed by a random guy the other day (just about held frame here).

I've decided I'm going to completely block her out of my life as much as is possible, but I'd like to understand this behavior for the future. Why does she keep touching me, but then resist any kino I attempt?

Thanks guys.