So, I just got out of a 6 year deal with my now ex-fiancee. She was cheating on me. Prior to that I was fed up feeling like an ATM and the past year I kinda went trp on my own without all the resources here :D. When I stopped being a cuckold provider she filed a false DV order. I did get that dismissed. However, the restraining order stands. I can't see my son. I basically have the clothes on my back (I have a few pairs of clothes) and some small possessions. I'm not going back for my property without my attorney working it out specifically. I know she will try to file some false ass charge again.

Currently, I still have my job thankfully but as you can imagine I have significant legal costs. They gave her the car and house in the order. I purchased a car and paid to get the criminal charges handled. That blew through my emergency funds.

I need help prioritizing what I need to accomplish and some direction. I am 100% getting the protective order reopened since I was in custody when it was put in effect. I wasn't allowed to represent myself or have a say.

I'm staying with family and at the hotel for work. I want to take this situation and use it to make me better instead of bitter. But, it's such a cluster I am overwhelmed where I need to start. Obviously, I need to buy more clothing and I need to get a place to stay. I need some sort of exercise regiment that doesn't require a lot of equipment. I'm going to building everything from scratch. What would you do if you were me?