I look and act fairly aggressive naturally (look middle eastern, tall, muscular, loud and a lot of curse words in conversation). Constantly playing the cocky and funny vibe too as its my natural state.

I find I get a lot of girls looking at me but rarely will I ever get approached.

I also find that women get slightly insecure around me.

I try and mitigate a bit of the ultra aggressive vibe by dressing really well.

Is there any benefit to turning it down a notch?

I see a lot of young beautiful women with more feminine men which is why I ask.

Quick example from last night:

Bumped into some Uni friends at a concert. I was introduced to a HB7. I mentioned her shoe laces were undone to which she replied "can you tie them for me". I replied back with :"you've got two hands don't you" with a smirk. My mate then took it upon himself to get down on his knee and tie her laces. I started making fun of him while he was doing this and she said "maybe you could learn to be a gentlemen from him". I replied with "whats that going to do for me" while staring straight in her eyes. She kind of put her head down and ignored me after that. My mate was dancing with her for the rest of the night.