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| 1 | How to save faceI suppose but if she tries to talk to me (there's always alcohol involved when she shows up) i cant just ignore her so i need to hold frame without it breaking which I'm sure she will atempt to do by making justifications for her actions or even blaming me for removing her off social media. I just don't know how to go about doing this effectively without coming off as a butthurt beta | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 02:21 AM |
| 1 | How to save faceWell her friend isn't really my type but my buddies were saying she was pretty hot, all i know is that she's def not ugly. I don't think she saw me making out with her friend but she might have told her. The funny thing about the guy she walked off with is scrawny and as far as i know he's a bit of a type that tries to be the class clown type. I just don't understand the whole point of thse mental games and such as she basically self-sabotaged a potential good thing? My issue isn't the fact that… | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 11:40 PM |
| 2 | How to save faceThis is the plan i came up with however im not sure how to do it in a way that doesn't come off as me being salty. I mean dont get me wrong i pissed me the hell off at first but now im just like ehh. Whatever life is a constant disappointment, i need to get used to it haha. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 08:44 PM |
| 2 | How to save faceIm going to just ignore her unless she comes up to me and starts conversation. What should i do if I she comes up to me and starts asking stuff such as why i deleted her and why ive been ignoring? Can i deflect her questions or just be blunt and honest and tell her that her behavior turned me off so i just left her alone. What about her friends since they seem to enjoy prying into my business? | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Was orbiting girls Snapchat and I deleted her and now she requested follow on instaBro what | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 03:24 AM |
| -1 | Why is she being a massive tease?Being coy is a social convention used by women to keep her possible suitors at bay while she explores her best one (Chad). At the moment chad is probably fucking up so youre up bat next kid! | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Fucked up with a girl.Girls have boyfriends and girlfriends. If youre not her boyfriend then.... | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Im losing my mind with this girl (update)You need to continue escalating only this will give you the answer you seek | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 03:34 PM |
| 1 | So I got LJBF, but I really don't think it's typical, advice appreciatedWomen resort to overt communication when they have exhausted their methods of covert communication to a point of exhaustion. Im not sure what drove this chick to communicate overtly with you but i believe she is trying to re negotiate the relationship by saying you guys should just be friends. The removal of sex could be due to her reserving it for new dick or its possible she's using it to get you to commit. Its up to you to figure it out. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Got flaked onYour right thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 05:49 AM |
| 2 | How to react when disrespected by a potential LTRShe's expecting/wanting the girlfriend treatment (beta supplication), you acting alpha goes against her efforts to betazise you. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Got flaked onThis was the first attempt and i wouldn't be mad if she were upfront to be honest. It saves time and effort so i like bluntness but sadly women don't work like that which kinda makes you feel fustrated you know? I know its up to me to take that step from which you decide to walk away but sometimes i don't know when to take it. I feel as if I don't know if im being too rash or if im actually justified in walking away and completely withdrawing. I feel bad because i mean after all we're human righ… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Got flaked onI was trying to be stoic and not let her actions faze me but i suppose you can't really do this over text. The whole thing hit my ego a bit since i assumed this was in the bag since she showed a lot of interest in me at the beginning and now she wasn't. It was hard not to internalize it as something being wrong with me. What should my next course of action be? | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Got flaked onIve managed to lift my smv a bit by losing weight and gaining some muscle so sometimes its hard to adjust to this new smv level if that makes sense. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 05:01 PM |
| 0 | Seeing former crush tonightNo | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain this girls logic to me,Ive been in a similar situation. I basically blew this chick off because i thought she was ltr material but was definitely not. She proceeds to make out w my friend and meanwhile i go off and make out with her female friend. The next day she spams me with messages explaining how im making her go crazy. I did all this by not giving her attention..... Women man..... | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Girl rearranged dateWait is this chick a plate? | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 03:43 AM |
| 8 | Girl rearranged dateSoft next | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 02:47 AM |
| 11 | The “I’m not seeing you” shit testHard next | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 05:22 AM |
| 7 | Is it only ever worth involving yourself with women who show enthusiastic interest?I do the same thing as you and also get numbers and such. I try and set up a meetup and if they decline or fail to reschedule then ill hard next. I often end up bumping into them later on and remain civil but otherwise I invest no attention/time into them. Often they comeback or sometimes they end up buthurt that i wouldn't orbit them. I think its wise to go about this way. There's plenty of women out there honestly and its not exactly worth having one live rent free in your head especially if y… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Over invested?(possible red flag)Yeah i suppose i kinda forgot that is possible haha I will try and remember this fact more often | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 02:36 PM |
| 6 | Gaming girls at parties where you know almost anybodyPlausible deniability man. I usually flirt with them all, and whoever isnt receptive to escalation i usually move past them. I try and pass it off as friendlyness but of course a few drinks on everyone's hands makes the whole thing smother. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Keep your friends close but keep your enemies closerForgive your enemies but always remember their names. It basically means its okay to let go of anger, resentment, or even a pettty grudge but always remember who caused it in the first place in case they turn out to be a "repeat offender". | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 04:48 PM |
| 2 | when girls are ridiculuously unreasonable can you flip it and be mock-ridiculously unreasonable to them back (either then or at a later date)?Your supposed to say something even more "outrageous". I would say something like," I left it on for the roaches in the offfice so they can get together and sing koombaya under my warm lamp light". The point is to not enter a woman's frame ever | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 04:45 PM |
| 4 | What actually is masculinity?It is order in the face of chaos. The opposite of femininity. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 04:37 PM |
| 5 | She opened the friend zone door. I closed it.You came off as desperate which gave her the BB vibes but good on you for knowing when to walk away from a bad situation | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Realistically how long does it take to be free from the anxiety of oneitis?Never really goes away, just learn to get used to it. Use it as a reminder of the dangers of slipping into the fantasy of the BP oneitis illusion. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 06:40 PM |
| 2 | What do you say if you next someone and they ask “why aren’t you talking to me”"my bad i forgot to reply last time lol" - girl talk for "your not important enough for me to invest into" | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Girl declined invite, called me, now really wants me to go to party with herHave you hit it yet? | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Girl declined invite, called me, now really wants me to go to party with herI think she's just trying to use you to dread her ex | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 01:22 AM |
| 1 | I’m starting to fall for my friend. I don’t want to come off as needy so I’ve been trying to get my mind off of her with another girl but it’s not working.Ive been through the same boat and i was stillBP so i thought a confession would work. Long story short all i got was a bunch of hamstering followed by a ljbf rejection lmao. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 08:49 PM |
| 5 | Should I allow this?This guy gets it. Next OP | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Best ways to get her flowing like the Niagara falls?Just anything in general. A link to the pdf will be appreciated brother. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Best ways to get her flowing like the Niagara falls?You aren't genuinely being serious, are you? | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 04:55 AM |
| 8 | Best ways to get her flowing like the Niagara falls?This sounds like something out of Cosmo.... | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 04:49 AM |
| 7 | Help getting past the boss in shit-test-simulator 9000?The shit tests will stop once you stop going through the nice guy friends route and proceed to go through the passionate "throw onto bed and ravage" route. The shit tests are kinda like negs encouraging you to pick up the pace and go for the f close imo. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 04:32 AM |
| 2 | Ok so I’m in a new LTR it’s been going on for a few weeks... and I feel like I’m putting in way more work.Step 1. Stop giving her free validation, make her earn it Step 2. Less talk, more action (always escalate) Step 3. Create some distance so that SHE is the one to reach out and initite( scarcity creates value) Step 4. Stop seeking validation from women. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 04:12 AM |
| 1 | GF suggests taking a break, the immediately wants me to take her backYou can tell alot about someone by the type of company they keep around. You said she hangs out with alot of rich bratty club whores? My friend i think you have snagged a young club whore who is just now starting to flex her manipulation tactics on you, a young BB who she sees as a viable BB while she rides the CC w her bratty friends. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Don't know if a girl still likes me after we kissedYou should reward women with intimacy (cuddling) after sex not before. you have effective friendzoned yourself | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 11:58 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else get this feeling that they can tell whether or not a woman is interested by even a second of eye contact?In my experience strong eye contact means the person finds me attractive and the chances of seduction are favorable. Of course one must properly seduce said woman by following protocol unless you happen to be her type of Chad to where you can skip certain steps. The eye sparkle usually means your doing a good job so far but remember that its easy for her feelings towards you to change in a blink of an eye.... | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Self esteem boosts makes gf push you away?She knows your her future beta bucks so her attention has shifted towards attracting Chad | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 12:51 AM |
| 3 | Does every girl behave like a slut at a club?I frequent clubs often and let me tell you yes the nice innocent ones (lol) act out after 2 beers. The 9-10s go home w Chad. The whole i was drunk excuse serves as perfect plausible deniability even if they weren't exactly intoxicated. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 10:07 PM |
| 1 | The 1 to 10 Attraction Scale (Attempting to Quantify Human Hotness)Jennifer Anniston isnt a 7-8 lol | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 09:57 PM |
| 5 | She Refused Kiss TWICE - I "PULL" and then "SHE WAS HURT" - Did I act butthurt?She got upset that you weren't playing the ol' "im going to orbit you until you come back to me from riding the CC game" | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 09:53 PM |
| 2 | How to handle this shit test at clubs/partiesWhat i do is just look into her eyes and smile or you can just bop her nose too I suppose. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Called me by her ex’s nameIts possible that you might've LTR an alpha widow | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 04:34 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with dominant girls?Could be a shit test or just a dominant high T girl hard to tell without more context | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 02:31 PM |
| -7 | How do you deal with dominant girls?Hard next | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 01:31 PM |
| 7 | What do women think of makeouts?How is a man seeking a kiss a sign of emotional vulnerability? | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 02:26 AM |
| 2 | TRP, falling in love and personal developmentIf you as a man are not willing to go after what you truly desire then can you call yourself a man? I say go for it just beware of the consequences of staying in Disneyland too long..... | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 01:19 AM |
| 21 | Ex stared calling me names and saying how much she regrets meeting me after I went no-contact and blocked her on everything. Trying to understand what's in her head right now?Women try to reframe reality into a version where YOU are the cause of her negative emotions. The fact that she currently cant bring you into this frame makes her lash out in frustration in hopes that you will walk into her frame for her, hence the nasty name calling. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Meeting with girl who friendzoned me in high schoolHow exactly is choosing not to give someone your most precious resource, which is your time, butthurt behavior? | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Meeting with girl who friendzoned me in high schoolI cant be angry at someone for treating me this way when i was the one who enabled that behavior | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 05:14 PM |
| 0 | Meeting with girl who friendzoned me in high schoolWhy would you give more time than you already did to someone who wouldn't even consider you an option? Have some self respect and blow her off mate. I had a recent encounter w an old oneitis of mine and the whole time she tried to put me into her frame of being a little beta bitch. It was honestly funny watching her try but part of me realized that she was only behaving this way because I USED TO ALLOW IT. This realization really hit me and I then realized that this chick who i would always make… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Got denied sexIsn't me taking her on a date going to make me come across BB? Im only looking for something casual w her. Should i tell her that im not looking for anything right now? | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 12:53 AM |
| 3 | Sleeping with his wife. Okay or not okay?If you didn't do it then im sure someone else would've anyways. The whole getting pregnant part is a whole other rollercoaster which I feel has no real benefit to you. You probably arent even hurting the guy anyways since he isn't aware. You could actually argue that you making her happy allows her to remain w her BB husband which keeps him happy thus you arenot causing any harm to anyone. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Started dating a girl, and now she's being distant, how do I stop this pattern?If you close your eyes and read what you just wrote to yourself and switch the word "girl" with "guy" it sounds like a woman wrote it. Do you see where im going w this? | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Girl declines invitation to come along. Immediately next her?Not offering an alternative means she isn't too keen on seeing you. If she's hot enough you can always change her feelings towards you and try again. You could also just next and move on to the next one. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Should you progress your Kino with each meetup?I agree 100 | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 04:57 PM |
| 1 | First date went well with K-close, who texts first?Honestly just text after 2 days no need to compare yourself to Brad Pitt. If she decline any offer or fails to provide an alternative to yours then next. On to the next one. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 04:50 PM |
| 1 | How to reject womenTell em your a gay | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 02:49 AM |
| 1 | High energy and/or dominant girls repulsive?I get the same way so i completely disregard them however sometimes the lack of attention from me gets their hamster spinning and makes them curious. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 10:11 PM |
| 1 | "Big Dick Energy" - Female's own theory that confirms RP truths19yr old here, can confirm as "Big Dick Energy" is used sparingly now almost as a meme sometimes among various female friends on Twitter. The phrase can sometimes also translate into "masculine energy" as i originally defined it in my head. I've read various tweets about how their "man has big dick energy" for doing something such as picking a place to eat out without asking, being able to handle their moods without supplication, and even seen it once from a guy that apparently pulled up to pick… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/18 04:49 PM |
| 6 | I’ve realized that I might be the beta maleMen aren't born they're made by the harsh battlefield that is life. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Did i fuck up?I have found this to be true unfortunately. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Did i fuck up?He tried to sell us coke at one point haha | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Did i fuck up?Yeah she was being a bit slutty to be considered anything serious so the plan was just to see where the night went and if anything get a quick lay. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Girl i nexted is pissedDamn thats so true it hurts to think about. I guess feeling resentment is pointless since all women would choose someone higher in smv if given the opportunity. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Girl i nexted is pissedYeah i feel as if im the same person but ever since swallowing the RP I've been more disciplined and motivated to achieve my goals, and ive learned to put women second to that. I suppose i am a better person but i cant help but still feel resentment sometimes for them not being able to see my potential back then or at least give me a chance. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 01:42 AM |
| 0 | Girl i nexted is pissedAmen brother i thought the same thing | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Are muscles really that useful?I've been called a "pretty boy" and was skinny all my life and yes I've had success w females but ever since lifting it's been getting easier to pull women from all walks of life. Im not jacked or anything but I act lift to improve myself not for the ladies and that in itself is rewarding | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 01:55 AM |
| 3 | is my friend a sigma male?Betas hang in packs, Alphas go solo. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do some women act like this?Getting a girls commitment does not guarantee her loyalty. If anything it makes you a potential cuck. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Matching on Tinder with Women 2 years later after ghosting me, which I followed up by Hard Nexting until Now.Been in a similar situation where i was effectively a backup. BP me always thought something was going to come out but it never did, well at least till the other guy she was chasing after told her to get lost. RP me had been lifting and gaming other girls so when she came back i also told her to get lost. Its not worth the effort because ex oneitis/partners tend to bring out BP tendencies if this was how you acted with them before getting RP. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 06:00 AM |
| 1 | How to handle complimentsThis is the real RP way to respond haha. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 05:13 PM |
| 3 | How to handle complimentsOhh ok i see. Its hard not to get a swell head sometimes you know? I normally just dismiss them because i get akward when i get complements in person. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Do girls really have "out of sight out of mind" more easily?I think it depends on the females smv and the guy in question. An alpha can potentially alpha widow a woman but in average they are always emotional so it might be easier for them to just replace one emotion for another. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Platonic female friends don’t like my beard.. reaction to becoming more Alpha?Maybe your beard actually looks scruffy and not well groomed. The best course of action is to do whatever you want. Its your hair after all... | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 02:48 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop caring about an ex ltr, it's been two weeks and I'm over the sadness and grief but I still care about what she's doingHonestly i find that keeping busy helps. You should focus on work, lifting, or even expanding your horizons a bit with some literature | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 02:46 AM |
| 3 | Best ways to make her hamster spin to your advantage?This is actually a useful bit of knowledge since ceasing contact with a "ttyl im about to go do x with x amount of friends" creates an artificial distance where she can be allowed to really feel and hamster your lack of contact in a way that doesn't make her feel like she's being punished. I think if you manage to push het hamster into overdrive she might also imagine you possibly hanging out w other females creating dread. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Best ways to make her hamster spin to your advantage?What's your best method of avoiding full disclosure? Is avoiding the query at hand good enough or should you reply with an outrageous answer sort of like A&A? | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Best ways to make her hamster spin to your advantage?Of course, it makes sense let her imagination fill in the blanks. No offense taken btw | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Best ways to make her hamster spin to your advantage?Sure | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Best ways to make her hamster spin to your advantage?Interesting, i suppose doing this makes her hamster rationalize that you have abundance which equates to you being desirable or high smv... | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Best ways to make her hamster spin to your advantage?Full disclosure of what exactly? | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 12:47 AM |
| 1 | LTR & Weed HabitWhat's wrong with cracking a cold one w the boys? | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 01:16 AM |
| 1 | LTR & Weed HabitI make fun of stoners and just smoking in general when she brings it up but she just ends up going quiet. If i demote whats the best way you recommend me doing so? Ghost? | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 10:04 PM |
| 1 | LTR & Weed HabitIts only been a month of her recently starting to smoke pot. She was good LTR material before that its just that i fear her new "hobby" might start encouraging more negative behavior. Yeah if i dump her it'll suck but hey if it need to be done then im all for it. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 10:01 PM |
| 1 | LTR & Weed HabitIf i withdraw attention won't she just smoke more since it'll give her comfort. I thought about doing that but wondered if I'll just be creating a negative feedback loop. thanks | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Women don't want their partner to be more physically attractive then herI think being highsmv brings out insecurity in females and the ones who cant handle it just decide to date down. (BB) | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 07:34 PM |
| -2 | what do you consider to be the most important factor in SMV?Money | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Is my friend out of line?Is this real life lmao I'm done | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 06:11 AM |
| 9 | Do you ever downplay aggressivenessWomen rarely approach thats not her job its yours. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Is there any academic literature/study on any sort of link between sexually submissive men & a poor relationship with their mom?Can you better explain your exact problem and how you think your past relationship w your mom is the contributing factor? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Did I hold frame with ex?If you agree to remain friends you effectively give up your frame in favor for adopting hers. Sure she might come around i mean you guys are having sex anyways so it could happen however I believe its easier for her to just fully betafy you once you fall into frame and we all know how that goes. If youre not in a place where you can plate her and only meet for sex then i believe the best course of action is to go no contact untill she reaches out again. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Anyone notice a difference in their strength/size when starting using creatine?Its supposed to bring in more water into your cells which makes your muscles APPEAR larger but really all it does is help give you that extra strength to for the extra mile provided that you actually go for it of course. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 03:22 AM |
| 2 | She feeds off attention... what’s the move?The best way to attract someone whos is an attention whore is by not giving her any attention at all. Yeah i know its sounds ironic but usually you not being like the others peaks their interest and places you on her radar. You can then move from there and proceed accordingly to your smv | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Best way to next this girl?Is she a gf? Just demote to plate and keep her around for future lays, if you feel like you might catch oneitis then i suggest you just ghost since she seems to have alot of red flags and the last thing you want is to become her BB | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 03:13 AM |
| -1 | ex LTR texts me before bed now I can sleepSounds like she is considering branch swinging/cheating but isn't sure so is keeping you on ice for future use... | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 03:11 AM |
| 6 | Did I hold frame with ex?Just wants to be friends = I want to ride the CC and use my smv to get as much AF as possible but hey you seem to be a good BB candidate who knows maybe i might be willing to develop feelings for you once I reach the wall/ get knocked up by chad and need a BB cuck to take care of me. Im not trying to be harsh dude but lets be real. People are willing to take back their oneitits after so much shit because of attraction/emotional attachment. She doesn't have any attraction to you which is why she … | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Did i do well or was i too dominant?You know what that makes sense actually. What are other sure fire ways to assert dominance w a girl other than the obvious like during conversation or even shit tests? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Did i do well or was i too dominant?Yeah at first i just felt compelled to do so but it was genuinely funny to me after i did it. I felt she was just trying to fake dominance (shit test) and it seemed cute and adorable to me so i bust out laughing at the realization of it | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Did i do well or was i too dominant?Yeah my bad i meant that I Paid for both drinks. I basically paid for her drink since it was cheap anyways and money isnt an issue for me atm | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 10:24 PM |
| 1 | What does is mean when a woman calls you a psycho? Psychopathy is one of the dark triad traits after all.I can too can confirm. I have had this happened to me before when a chick got mad at me for not calling her after a ons. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 09:41 PM |
| 6 | I’ll let you knowAnything that isn't yes is a no. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Should I go to see my oneitis that dumped me?No absolutely not, best to accept the truth that you will die alone as you are born into this world alone. The truth hurts but it will ultimately set you free. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 06:56 PM |
| 99 | Extended Hypergamy means women are never happy no matter how much life improves.We're all really just abunch of dumb monkeys pretending to be smart. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/18 06:00 PM |
| 1 | What interesting stuff and items to keep in your apartment / bedroom to intrigue female guests?I keep a record player in my room w some vinyls. I always give plausible deniability by saying," hey want to go in and see my record collection?" I play some Al Green or Marvin Gaye and we both sit on my waterbed and then I go to town | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 05:40 PM |
| 7 | Possibly the most fucked up frame control I've ever had in my lifeWhy don't you try and get custody of the kid and leave the mom and your dad in the dust | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 05:27 PM |
| 1 | how to be dominant?Strong eye contact + dominant body language = AF | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 05:24 PM |
| 4 | I wanna drop the facts on her, but is that BP?Nahh it makes you sound like a whiny little girl who complains about how her daddy didn't buy her the barbie doll that SHE wanted. You most likely have no chance at getting this girl anyways so if you do feel like letting some things off your chest then go for it if you feel it makes you feel better. Its best to just hard next this chick sounds like oneitis tbh and judging by her actions she probably wants you to get lost anyways | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 02:41 AM |
| -1 | Thoughts on YouTuber Coach Red Pill?RSDMax is pretty good | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Fucked my Best friends gf. He found out and cut me out of his life. I need help and direction?You exchanged a possible lifelong friendship for a quick sesh with a girl who probably takes advantage of the fact that she is an hb9 to fuck anyone she wants. You made your choice so now own up to it. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Why is it whenever im aloof or put off an innocent clueless vibe to chicks they chase me, but when i pursue them they run away?Well you know what they say, satisfaction is the death of all desire. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Why is it whenever im aloof or put off an innocent clueless vibe to chicks they chase me, but when i pursue them they run away?Maybe they think youre gay and are being friendly and as soon as you flip the script on them they panic and run | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 05:01 AM |
| 5 | Girls initiating but still getting maybesYour most likely being used for validation buddy | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 04:06 AM |
| 3 | Why do women over-value themselves so much?Who knows but the movies, romcoms, even social media encourages men to behave like a beta to get the girl and meanwhile women are encouraged to ride the CC since they dont "need no man" | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 03:56 AM |
| 9 | Why do women over-value themselves so much?Social media provides instant likes from hungry betas. Western society has also encouraged beta traits so a large portion of the population believe orbiting the girl of their dreams will win them over when really it only serves to further fluff her ego, hence why women overvalue themselves now a days. The beta to alpha ratio is heavily unbalanced with alphas being more rare which also serves to further tip the scales | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Old oneitis reached outI doubt that work since i think she simply wants attention/validation from me. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Old oneitis reached outBack then I would've been happy to get a response from her like that but seeing everything from a RP lens made me come to a similar conclusion as yours. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 01:57 PM |
| 3 | Don't touch me, I beg youIs this a joke? | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Models and real life applicationI don't think it was full blown beta if not something more of an ego boost for her. I think you have firmly placed yourself in her frame so the dynamic of the relationship is one where you must initiate and occasionally chase. The only problem that arises from this is that there are more opportunities to appear beta rather than alpha in this dynamic. Are you attempting to LTR or are you trying to plate her? | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 05:48 PM |
| 4 | Why is this woman still around?Maybe your in her top BB list. As soon as she finishes riding the CC expect her to reach out and have a sudden epiphany as to why your the one for her and whatnot. You can try and escalate but i think youll face rejection and a formal ljbf response. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's ok to reinitiate contact with a girl I was too shy to have a relationship with years ago?Well for starters you contacting her puts you directly into her frame which means you essentially have to play your cards right before she decides if you are BB or AF. It seems hard/ complex to revive a past relationships and is usually in my experience easier when they do it but then again thats because they enter my frame and not vice versa. Should you do it? No. Will you do it? Probably. Best advice I can give is tread wisely... | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 01:17 AM |
| 1 | I've been getting gamed, help.Man honestly just be indifferent to her games and fuck her good like real good. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 01:11 AM |
| 7 | I have a date with a feminist in a few days. What nuances do I need to know?If she starts throwing feminazi prop at you tell her to clean her room first. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 01:02 AM |
| -3 | Bad at oralJust imagine yourself outlining each letter of the alphabet with your tongue starting with the letter A , B ,C and so on | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 12:59 AM |
| 5 | How to react to lewdsDinner at my place at 9. If you play nice ill let you model those briefs in my living room and just maybe you'll even earn a prize. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 11:54 PM |
| 1 | How to blank slate with this girlYou failed to escalate and are acting like a BB towards her. She has a kid so most likely she already has a BB on call. You were supposed to be AF by continuing to escalate and eventually go for the lay. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Turning off the charmNo wtf girls do it too. There is this girl who hangs in our group she's an hb8 but she's also a total slut. She's dragging on of her orbiters around who has major oneitis for her and she exploits the shit out of him. Free car rides, dinner, the dude even buys her stuff and meanwhile she goes around having having trains run on her and shit. Im sure youve read about scenarios such as this on RP but trust me once you see it in person, man i tell you it makes you sick to the stomach. Don't feel bad … | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Really need help.Nahh man i once I had oneitis like you she was what led me to swallow the pill. Realize that the longer she stays in your life the longer she will be harder to get out of your head. I cut off my oneitis even after she would reach out to me we've all been there before bro. Time truly does help clear her out your system so it is imperative that you cut all contact, delete, block, whatever you have to do. Think about all the quality gals out there you could potentially be missing out of just becaus… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/18 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Turning off the charmAbsolutely not. Being socially graceful is a skill that will wear off if not practiced enough. Keep flexing that muscle or risk losing it | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 09:01 PM |
| 4 | Really need help.I really hope this is a troll if not then all i can say is hope you get better buddy. You have advanced terminal stage 5 oneitis. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/18 08:58 PM |
| 12 | Girl blames her parents for not being able to go on dateYeah she wants you to stick around and orbit so that she can harvest validation and attention outta you while you end up with nothing but blue balls. Hard Next | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 02:39 AM |
| 1 | So this chick who I didnt make a move on cause i didnt feel much tension with plus I was being a pussy asked me to go to the beach at night with her.This is equivalent to the whole why didn't he call me back after we banged dynamic. The ball is clearly in your court so you should go Ronaldo on that bitch and score. If it doesn't work out for what ever reason then no problem just Next. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 01:07 AM |
| 2 | After conquering a girl totally sexually, what tactics and psychology can be used to conquer her soul / heart?Interesting, so how were you able to get such a comprehensive understanding of her inner psyche like that. Did you come to the conclusion based on what she divulged to you or did you rely more on a traditional psycho analytical approach? | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 09:11 AM |
| 2 | Pt 2 : Mental Simulation and YouPhilosophy does sound like something I would enjoy reading up on again thanks for the suggestion mate. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/18 09:04 AM |
| 3 | Pt 2 : Mental Simulation and YouIs there any good books that you guys recommend? It doesn't have to be RP related literature btw although I wouldn't mind if it was. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/18 02:23 AM |
| 1 | After conquering a girl totally sexually, what tactics and psychology can be used to conquer her soul / heart?Yeah i suppose that is the gist of it however i find it hard for a woman to get addicted to a particular dick seeing as they usually have more access to many especially in western society now a days. I think to fully get the effect you must give something that no one else has given her before, something perhaps that her subconscious craves. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 07:27 PM |
| 0 | Conflicted about being in a relationshipOneitis isn't really a conscious choice but more of a subconscious one when youre subconscious mind feels a certain person is meeting the requirements in place. RP mentality has probably trained you to rely more on your conscious mind in regards to decisions making which is why youre rationalizing the idea of leaving to procure your freedom. You still have freedom really i mean alot of people frown on seeing other women when you're in monogamous relationship but then again I love both my mother … | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 10:01 PM |
| 4 | After conquering a girl totally sexually, what tactics and psychology can be used to conquer her soul / heart?Its pretty easy i reckon. Have her get addicted to you like a drug. You should figure out what she needs the most (ex, sex, intimacy, acceptance,etc). Once you figure that out completely flip the script on her and give the opposite of what they need. You can then eventually ration small bits of what you used to give her to keep her hooked then poof ghost. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Conflicted about being in a relationshipI believe you are feeling this way because you are contracting oneitis. You are failing to see the flaws that she has which im sure that just like youre flawed (ex. you want to cheat on a girl who's giving 100%) you are also just as flawed. This girl sounds very fond of you as well since she obviously isnt picking up on the facts which you have just divulged to us, one could even say she has oneitis currently. I think you know that continuing the relationship w this girl will further develop you… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 09:41 PM |
| 6 | What's up with girls saying "I love you" before anything real has happened?Elons going to be pissed. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 08:19 PM |
| 0 | How should I proceedHer sending nudes is a way to fish validation outta you | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Quick FP: Did I get intercepted or is she being honest?Women don't speak overtly. You cant talk her into fucking you and not some other guy especially if the other guy is gaming her which in this case he was since he was making her laugh and have a good time vs you being commanding and authoritarian. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | LISS Cardio everyday while wanting to gain muscle mass?Drink a post workout beer | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone else feel weak mentally and physically when they have low body fat?You should try intermittent fasting. Research shows that consecutive intermittent fasting can raise HGH levels as well as testosterone levels by 180% in non obese men. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 08:41 AM |
| 1 | How to unplug the subconscious mind? Can't stop dreaming of former Oneitis. Help!I had the same problem OP. I tried meditation and it really helped. The thoughts about your oneitis that float around your head probably give you a negative reaction since she is a source of misery at this point so I bet when you think about her you get a bad feeling in your gut. The way to overcome this is to realize that there is no good or bad feelings attached to your thoughts only the meaning that you assign to them yourself. Its hard to explain in words so i hope you understand what im get… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Asked girl out—how do I respond to this text?Im sure she's not interested and at this point you're orbiting but go ahead and wait 10 days then ask her out to something FUN. If she says yes then take it as an invitation to escalate, if she says no well then you got your answer. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 08:32 AM |
| 0 | Question from single dad.Just don't mention anything about your personal life. Focus on just getting laid and once you got a favorite plate you want to ltr then at that point hopefully youve got her wrapped around your finger so bad that having a kid doesn't matter to her anymore. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 08:28 AM |
| 2 | New to TRP. Do I maintain no contact to move on? Story in description.If she has no problem staying out of contact for more than a month then youre not her priority mate. It sounds harsh but if she is at least decent looking then the reality is that she has guys hitting her up while youre not there. If you go nc she will reach out after a while due to her backups being unfulfilling or even just to make sure youre still on the backburner. It's best if you go FULL NC which means dont respond after she initiates contact with you which im sure she will. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 08:23 AM |
| 2 | How much of TRP comes down to your word choice?I get the whole aura thing but is it possible that the aura you are referring to is simply hormones such as testosterone, pheromones, etc | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 02:43 AM |
| 2 | My ex is gunna sneak out late to see me. But she wants to know what we would "even do" when we hung out.Get a sixpack of beer and crack open a cold one w her in a secluded area like the park. Escalate and bang in your car. I did this back in the day and it worked like a charm;) | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Helping ex bad idea ?Well everyone makes their own choices in life including her. She fucked up. Her quality of life is a byproduct of her poor decisions not yours. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Do girls ever text first?As in she's trying to make me into her beta orbiter? I don't come off as beta well at least i try not too. The girls that I do have on Snapchat i never really look at their stories just to deprive them from validation if anything they look at mine. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 12:27 AM |
| 0 | Helping ex bad idea ?If you think about it she kinda did you a favor by cheating on you. I mean why would you want someone like that in your life anyways. If you feel like you must help then go for it but be careful, its ok to feel bad for a rabbid dog but that doesn't mean you go on to let him inside your home. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Do girls ever text first?Hey hair has no impact on smv. Mr.Clean is a solid 10 on the smv chart that dude is famous and ripped lol. I suppose having high smv kinda correlates with having your shit in order or at least being a man who strives to do better in all aspects of life. I can see why youre smv is labeled as an 8 mate good post. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Why am I so afraid to ask out a girl who is clearly into me?Perhaps you have a fear of failure or even rejection. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Do girls ever text first?Im not extremely high smv but i would consider myself a slight bit above average. It makes sense however because i have seen girls willingly put themselves near me at times. Is this the same thing as when a girl tries to add you on social media for example on Snapchat? I only keep numbers so that they wont spam me with constant texts but sometimes they get really adamant that I add them on social media(ex snapchat) is this basically the same thing? | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Do girls ever text first?Whats the three day rule? I personally rarely contact girls since im usually busy or have plans with the boys but occasionally I do have girls that reach out but its usually after a while has passed and it seems more like a lame feeler text to gauge my interest level in them. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Do girls ever text first?That actually makes alot of sense. I would not consider myself extremely high smv as i got a lot to improve on but im no chump lol. These days though its rare to find a girl who doesn't do drugs, have low self-esteem, or even one that is in perfect mental health. It seems as though western society is obsessed now a days with drugs and degrading oneself to the extreme. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Do girls ever text first?Chad is that you? | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Do girls ever text first?One of my favorite plates has been throwing comfort tests/ trying to make me jealous for who knows what reason. I think it might be because I never reach out and lately ive been going through longer time periods without seeing her since ive been busy and such. The plate is a hb9 so I don't know why she's trying to milk comfort outta me when she can get it from any one of her other orbiters. This girl like the others never reaches out however if i reach out to her she will respond fast and be dow… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Do girls ever text first?What would you consider yourself to be on the SMV chart and how did you reach that conclusion? Im not hating im simply trying to understand what you consider to be high smv | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Do girls ever text first?That's interesting, you see most of my plates never reach out to me and its almost like I don't exist. If i text them they respond fast and are down to meet up for a quick lay. I've never had any of them flake and make excuses and usually when i meet them they always ask what im up to and such almost as if theyre eager to know what ive been up to this whole time which strikes me as strange since they never bother to text to check in lol. It should be noted that when i reach out to them its only … | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Do girls ever text first?I read your post it was very informative, however when a girl reaches out because youre her number 1 is it more of a constant barrage of texts every now and then or do they just send one text a month. I read that girls will also reach out towards guys they have on the backburner but they will do this not as frequently as if you were her priority just to keep dangling the carrot in front of you, correct? | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Text "numbers" opener ?A good rule is to use an opener that elicits emotion in them . Hey doesn't really elicit any feeling unless the girl already knows you and is surprised at you reaching out. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 10:34 PM |
| 0 | Any cool red-pilled songs?Stay with me - Faces (it sounds bp but its not lol it kicks ass) | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 10:07 PM |
| 3 | Best way to respond to "let's just be friends"?I got a ljbf response in my BP days and i told her that she was cool and all but that i wasn't interested in that. She got annoyed but said alright and tried texting me the week after that. I stayed nc for my own sake until she ended calling me telling me about how she wanted to give it another try. We went out on a date but suddenly something inside me changed. I felt worthless but not because i got rejected but because i willingly came back into a relationship w someone who only saw me as a ba… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Help me.Cut her off | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Help me.Cut her off | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 08:12 PM |
| 5 | How do I wean myself off of social media?Disabled notifications. It helped me. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Girl I had a falling out with making excuses to meet, friend told me to tell her i have plans anyways.It sounds like she was trying to get you to orbit or to just use you to harvest validation from you every now and then. I would next the chick but i suppose creating some dread could bring her around but i doubt it. I don't have know the extent of yalls relationship so i cant provide more insight mate. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 05:58 AM |
| 3 | Tips on making the first moveWell i like to think of it as more of a making THE moves versus making a move. Its like driving a stick. You have to gradually shift up before you can just start speeding along the highway. Its best if you read the sidebar in detail as it will help you better understand what im trying to convey here. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 08:39 AM |
| 5 | After asking a girl that I've liked for years if she wants to hangout multiple times and finally demanding a real answer said she doesn't "know what to say" because she doesn't "know how she feels about hanging out" with me. How can I stop this from becoming "the one that got away"?Well let's step back a minute a think about this from a logical perspective shall we? You obviously really dig this girl right? Imagine if she asked you out one day to go hang out w her. Im sure you would say hell yes right? I mean this is a girl you like after all im sure you'll move mountains for her just to clear your day just to hang out w her. She is obviously not too sure which means her interest level in you is small or even non existent. You seem to be projecting your own interest level … | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 08:33 AM |
| 4 | Tips on making the first moveEscalate slowly but steadily in an increasing fashion. Rejection stings but its something you should ultimately want since it lets you know where you stand and thus helping you move on to the next one. It helps give you peace also knowing that you explored a possible outcome and that even though you failed and got rejected you at least get the satisfaction of knowing you tried and went for it. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Not really sure what i should say next to hang out/go to this girls house..?At that moment yes but feelings change all the time for women. I know there's probably a logical reason why you didn't smash after dry humping but remember women will hamster anything towards it being your fault for not being alpha enough. As far as responses go it doesn't matter. Never listen to what a woman says, watch her actions. Her words are meant to discourage betas which you are not. If you kiss her neck for example and afterwards she tells you how much of a nice guy you are versus her g… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 08:12 AM |
| 7 | Advice for old high school crushListen man as someone who's gone down this road let me tell you dont do it. Sure i get it youre confident because you have RP knowledge now and youve probably been banging a bunch of girls lately. Your smv is probably higher now if youve been lifting and improving yourself like we suggest. You might be thinking hmm well what if I try again surely I can't fail right? Well the odds are certainly in your favor but once you try and game your crush all your feels will come back and thus the BP tenden… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 07:59 AM |
| 3 | Really need advice on how to deal with this situationI had a sorta similar situation w a plate where she tried to shit test me about some other guy trying to see her tits and whatnot. I just A&A and she went ballistic. She started talking about how I got lucky w her saying that I wasn't her type and all which was right after i was 7 inches deep in her lol. The point is women get angry when you dont orbit just like everyone else does, especially if she's a hb8 and above. Soft next her since she is trying to apply dread and only hit her up for sex m… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Not really sure what i should say next to hang out/go to this girls house..?Yep, remember women are repulsed by sexual behavior from a beta. If she gets any of these reactions then she sees you as a beta which is game over for you bud. If she is not repulsed or disgusted then it shows you at least have a chance outta the beta net as long as you dont fuck up. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Not really sure what i should say next to hang out/go to this girls house..?If she pulls away slowly and maybe gives you a sly look then just laugh it off and keep escalating again w some push pull. If on the other hand she looks like she just saw a ghost then playfully apologize and say something like "sorry thought i saw a green light or something." At that point it doesn't matter what you say because you already lost anyways and know where you stand with her. End the date drop her off and be polite and then hard next the chick. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Not really sure what i should say next to hang out/go to this girls house..?Well it depends on the situation. If you were both outside face to face lets say and she gives you the check, then i would place my hands on her face and say something like "its okay we can start off with your good side" and just proceed to give her some good pecks on the cheek and start going down to her neck and be playful. Obviously if you hear her breathing harder and such you can start moving you hands down to her waist and pull her in. If she starts pulling back then just apply some push p… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Paying for first date or any date for that matter.Ive seen women get freaked out over the guy paying but i always believed its because it breaks the frame of her being strong and independent as feminism would have her believe. Its interesting that you believe they also freak out because they have no interest, it makes sense from a certain point of view. Would you be willing to elaborate more on your thought process behind it? | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Not really sure what i should say next to hang out/go to this girls house..?Well from what understand i think she'll continue to shit test and give lmr. Your job is to act indifferent to her tests (A&A, AM) because if you act butthurt you'll be demoted to beta orbiter. If you hang out w this chick again you must escalate all the way home and be prepared for a blockade of lmr along the way. Its better to just next and find new plates but if you really insist then go ahead. I think your chances are slim but either way it'll be a good learning experience. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 03:12 AM |
| 4 | Not really sure what i should say next to hang out/go to this girls house..?True but you also dont do that with betas. I think you were perceived as beta by this chick and now she is trying to lmr her way outt of any possible situation were you are inside her because she subconsciously still isnt convinced that youre alpha. Keep giving her the tingles and remove all beta traits and try not to come off as needy by asking her out constantly also. She will use anything you give her to place you as a beta so don't give her any ammunition to use against you. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 01:54 AM |
| 7 | Not really sure what i should say next to hang out/go to this girls house..?You say yall have gotten sexual but she refused your kiss? How does that work | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Girl is sad all the time. What to do about this?Women are almost always emotional about anything. I get that you want to provide comfort because its a natural instict for us males to "fix" things however in this situation i suggest that you become more of an emotional rock for her. Im not very good myself at providing comfort not because of RP but just because im not socialy adept at it. My past ltr had a week where she started getting depressed about something and i backed off until she came back to me. She eventually told me what was bother… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 10:19 PM |
| 2 | About to apply a soft next, want advice on how/when to resume text conversation (if I choose to resume at all)It seems like she wants to meet up but it could also be an attempt to fish for validation. Invite her out on a definite time nd date and she what she says. If she flakes or makes an excuse then ghost dont ever bother to reply back. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Did i get shot down or was it a test?Its kinda of like an inside joke between us she knows im not being serious with it | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Did i get shot down or was it a test?Yeah i only rejected her because i assumed she was blowing me off initially. I didn't realize the fact that she might have interpreted it as me challenging/unqualifying her. I suppose I am running asshole game which does go well for me in person however through text sometimes things get misinterpreted so how can i better use texting to keep the same vibe. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Did i get shot down or was it a test?Yeah i agreed mate and i didn't ask her to kiss my ass although I do want to ask her for bj though but same thing I guess. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 10:04 PM |
| -1 | Did i get shot down or was it a test?Alright mr 900 year old vampire ill take your word for it. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Did i get shot down or was it a test?Thanks for your input willowhawk and i can't help but agree w you. Your logic makes sense and I can see how i might of come off as challenging. I did oversee the fact that she reached out when i should've seen it as her investing thanks mate. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 09:40 PM |
| -3 | Did i get shot down or was it a test?Funny that sounds like a typical white knight response lol in all seriousness though I see your point of view but personally I don't carry myself this way to be attractive i do it because i find it helps me cultivate a true idgaf mentality. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Did i get shot down or was it a test?Im sure i did. I don't see anything wrong with being upfront instead of beating around the bush you know? I didn't contact her sooner since i had a busy schedule and im currently seeing other women. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 09:24 PM |
| -1 | Did i get shot down or was it a test?Calm down white knight, its not like i slapped her w my cock-a-doodle do or sumn'. I really was going to treat myself to a good time that day I was simply giving her the opportunity to tag along and when she gave me her initial response i assumed she was rejecting my offer this is why I playfully rejected her back, however looking back i could see it as her wanting a more direct invite whoops. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Did i get shot down or was it a test?Yes that's true but it could also be that she's fishing for orbiters right? | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Why is oneitis bad, but not meaning in life? Why is TRP not fully red pill?The red pill is a community of collective knowledge with notable figures but no actual leader that speaks for all. There is alot of red pill members who have been hurt in life with their own relationships with women that has left them filled with bitterness and hate towards the opposite sex. That is the one flaw in the redpill that I see because it helps spread more of what no one wants in this world which is hate, anger, resentment between the sexes which just adds to the current toxic dating c… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Do second chances work?Of course I agree but even investing a small amount of time and effort is still considered an investment is it not? One should always strive to be the best but in the real world you won't always be the best. I would not place my trust on a woman whose always being tempted by her hypergamous instict even though I wish i could, the reality is that you can't. Trust but verify is not meant to be an excuse for being insecure, it is meant to be used as a tool of self-awarement that should help you und… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 08:35 AM |
| 2 | Rich, Tall, Good-Looking, Successful, Retired, 35 yo -- I want to have a large familyDrive wherever you want. You want to go check out some southern bells then go for it man. As far as meeting girls goes you can go the old fashioned route and socialize at bars, music events, or even the super marker if you want to test your daygame. If you prefer the modern way then tinder or whatever apps are used nowadays should work. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Do second chances work?I agree with your message however i feel one should always trust but verify. If i was investing time and money in an ltr i would at least want to secure my investment for as long as possible you know? | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 12:40 AM |
| 5 | Rich, Tall, Good-Looking, Successful, Retired, 35 yo -- I want to have a large familyBro come on your rich use your imagination. You can easily buy a durable car and drive across the country and have fun. You can stay in local towns for the night and tell people youre a drifter and who knows maybe youll find a quality girl in your travels. If you vet her properly and decide to ltr her then you can show her your big mansion lol | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 12:34 AM |
| 3 | Ex/oneitis contacted me out of the blue. Continue ghosting?She got married bro. She might be down for some lay but considering you got oneitis and youre inner white knight is coming out I think you know what to do man. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Validation whore or I fucked up?Thats a perfect way to display high smv to her. Flirt with other girls and hang with the broskies and watch her reaction. When she starts giving you the look approach her and strike while the iron is hot. Guaranteed lay as long as you keep frame. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Can you lose minor man breasts through diet & exercise or do they always need cosmetic surgery?Bench press and low body fat. (Ive been there before not anymore) | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Ex LTR told me i was not jealous enoughYou were possibly too alpha and did not provide enough comfort(you failed comfort tests). Personally i think showing jealousy is bad and should never be done however i know some girls require more confort than others usually because theyre more insecure. The hamster of an insecure girl usually spins to where the aren't good enough or the best etc. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 09:31 PM |
| 2 | What does the alpha do when the girl this him shitYou wouldn't be fazed if a child got upset w you because you wouldnt take him to Disneyland because you got grown shit to do right? | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Why is oneitis bad, but not meaning in life? Why is TRP not fully red pill?The red pill does not advocate anything it simply reveals the true dynamics between masculine and feminine energy. The knowledge gained from this can be used as you see fit (keeping ltr, spinning plates, etc). The problem with oneitis is that it makes you believe that youre value is based on one individual when in reality value is based on your own self worth and merit attained throught life. Im not sure if there is an official redpill meaning to life but i believe life has no meaning other than… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Validation whore or I fucked up?She seems flirty mate. I would contact her at a later time and try to set up a date again. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl I've been talking to sends me a picture with another guy in it?Yeah kid youre in the friendzone i had a similar situation back in highschool during my bp days. Start escalating but be warned you will be rejected and given the Ljbf talk. Tell her you don't want that and if she still turns you down then walk away and never look back. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Are friends who are flirty with you still more unattainable than strangers?I had a female friend like this who i didn't really feel attracted to but would hang out w her since we were in the same friends circle. One night she insisted I go see her new parrot which she kept in her room( yea right). I was drunk so i escalated and got a shit ton of lmr but me being drunk and totally comfortable w her continued to escalate until she eventually got on top of me and proceeded to pull down my pants. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 08:38 PM |
| 1 | What is to best response to “Are you mad at me?” Shit test from a flirt.Mad? I don't think about you at all. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Moving on, need some helpAsk her out to a fun time. If she agrees just keep things casual but always escalate WHEN YOU CAN. Escalating is an art it must be done properly so that she won't freak out and run. Women take a little longer than us men to warm up. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Your rules for plates?Nope just wrap it up and make sure she isn't crazy although crazies are the best in bed ;) | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Upon agreeing to be an LTR, girl tells me she saw her ex earlier todayAgreed. We should only feed the hamster Alpha flakes none of that beta mulch garbo. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Girl flakes on us when she hears I'll be there,plus some unsure thoughtsYou will never know the answer to your question. Attempting to figure out why a girl does a certain thing is useless. She can easily hamster a million reasons on why doing the seemingly irrational thing (avoiding you) is actually rational. Her current emotions also play a part in this and as we all know girls emotions change with the flick of a switch. TLDR: who cares women are crazy | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Texting Advice (how to respond)An hb9 probably has options bro. You missed the train on this one. I say you re engage in a later time but this time try not to be so cocky over text, its best to save it for when you see her face to face as it doesn't always translate well over text w girls. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 07:51 AM |
| 4 | What’s your response if a girl tells you she was raped?My ex gf who was an hb9 was abused by her dad and told me this after sex one night and caught me by surprise. She would sometimes call me at night telling me about how she would have nightmares of it oddly enough after us having sex. I remember I would comfort her a little just to balance things out. I ended up dumping her due to other red flags that started poping out later on inthe relationship. I suggest you steer clear of this one OP don't let your inner White Knight out its leash. Remember … | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 06:05 AM |
| 1 | How do I deal with a girl you know you're going to run into who rejected you? Feeling like a moron right now.Well at first she put herself in your orbit because she perceived you as alpha and a possible AF. You failed to escalate because you were afraid of the repurcusions which is a valid excuse but remember her hamster will rationalize as you not being alpha. Game over next this girl and if she reaches out then set a date and escalate slowly. I believe you'll still get rejected so when it happens just shrug it off and pretend its no big deal. A true alpha does not fear rejection, he actively seeks it… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Girl i wanna see and hang out with today giving mixed signals sorta good though?Your her free source of attention and validation bro game over. Next this chick, it sounds like she's trying to turn you into her beta orbiter. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Too much boyfriend vibes or shit test?Failure is the best teacher but it doesn't mean you have to subject yourself through torture. Read the sidebar and study it. Observe and watch how the dynamics of masculine and feminine energy play out and influence interactions around you. Do this and you'll be fine, I guarantee it. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Too much boyfriend vibes or shit test?Well the good luck text basically shows that you were thinking about her and is a little beta which is good for ltrs but not required for plates and honestly the fact that she didn't even said thanks is kinda a sign in itself that she doesn't really care to get much comfort from you. I once told a girl I friendzoned good luck on her first day of her new job and she replied back saying thanks and how i made her day and whatnot complete w a bunch of emojis. Anal is usually reserved for alphas whic… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 04:54 AM |
| 3 | Too much boyfriend vibes or shit test?I think YOU were the plate here bro and as soon as you started sending commitment vibes she ran as fast as she could. She sounds like a CCR. I mean anal w a guy she randomly meet on a dating app. NEXT ( or well in this case it seems like you just got nexed) | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Girl i wanna see and hang out with today giving mixed signals sorta good though?Usually women will try and showcase their best version of themselves to potential mates ex: puting on makeup, flashing a little cleavage, etc. Think about it us men do it to when we see an attractive female that is perceived to be within reach. Back in my BP days i was gaming a Hb6 who was super into me and would always ask to FaceTime. At first she would look all dolled up and pretty for me but eventually as we starting get friendlier( keyword: friendlier) she would then FaceTime me looking lik… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Girl i wanna see and hang out with today giving mixed signals sorta good though?Translation: Her bf is beta and doesn't give her the tingles so is reengaging w you to see if your alpha enough to give her what her current bf cant. Your move but i suggest soft next and when she reaches out suggest that you both hangout and escalate slowly | /r/askTRP | 19/06/18 04:07 AM |
| 0 | Girl i wanna see and hang out with today giving mixed signals sorta good though?If a girl is into you I don't think she wouldnt be sending you selfies of herself without makeup or pjs on | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 11:31 PM |
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