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Believe it or not, that may have been the sexiest thing you did. She must Ben going crazy over there, I was in his bed and he didn't make a move?? What's his game?. She's literally just ready for the taking. So set up a date at your place or wherever you guys can get comfortable in 5 minutes, look her in the eye and go for it
/r/askTRP27/09/18 12:56 PM
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Never, ever, ever in public be a TRP-er. I am the highest scoring student in feminism in a university where it is a pervasive area of study. Stick to the reasonable. Study feminism, study power. Understand, in a sense, the enemy. Keep your mouth shut, ride the reasonable and the centre, and form your own cult. Self-improve. Get buff, get high SMV, make female friends. Get ready to drown in pussy.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:58 AM
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Just don't mate guard. It's just that simple. Nothing screams high value like not even acknowledging that your girl is interested or talking to another man. So what? She can make up her own mind and fuck who she wants, you don't care because you have pussy on tap. If she wants to keep you, she'll have to work for it, otherwise, there's always a new one around the corner. After all the valuable posts on this, let's not return to a beta mate guarding world. You just expended energy in talking and …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 08:30 AM
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The community is coming full circle. As the incels invade, there is greater nostalgia for PUA methods and its interdeterminacy to escape from the Red Pill was developed.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 11:24 PM
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What do you play?
/r/askTRP31/07/18 10:37 AM
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Board games
/r/askTRP31/07/18 05:27 AM
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Catfishhhhh
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:50 AM
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Can you go be an incel somewhere else please? We're trying to do something here than worrying about reality show contestants and women who go on them
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 08:02 PM
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Not a single person there, cares, or has thought about that interaction, since then, and if they have, they have certainly not thought about it, as much as you. Keep going out. Make it so that any social interaction you have becomes so easy and fun and so commonplace that you never think about it again, even in memory, because your life is getting so great in the present you don't have time for reminiscing and nostalgia for time gone by. Practice makes perfect.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 12:46 AM
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I thought about this. But then I was like, what's the point? What value add is there? It's just another group that will meet up. It'll become another hive mind. If I have a question or want to discuss TRP theory, I have entire sections of the internet to do it with. Because it's such a large pool and strangers, it's impersonal and the chances of being misguided are lesser. However, there is value to getting to know other TRP-ers in your area, mostly to wing and game with, to show you the ropes a…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 07:55 PM
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Ohhhh will you enjoy my other comment my friend
/r/askTRP28/07/18 05:27 PM
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Have you heard of board games? It's time for some blood rage my friend Edit: Kinda relevant. Great way to meet nerdy chicks to friendzone or fuck!
/r/askTRP28/07/18 05:25 PM
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You don't understand how taxation works.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 02:56 PM
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You don't understand how deductibles work. You're the one getting a deductible for donating.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 06:08 AM
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Good for you man. It can be so easy to fall into the trap of thinking of life like a checklist-great job-check; look good-check; friends-check; financial security and education-check; and apparently most importantly a good woman, or sometimes just a woman-check. Yet why do you see so many 40 year old BPs going through midlife crisis, anger issues, substance abuse, unhappiness and suicide. Glad you're striving to fin your happiness for yourself. Btw I'm not saying don't be fit and hot and be succ…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 06:03 AM
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Yeah, tell her to fuck off sometimes. You need your space. If she doesn't take it well after the first 5 mins of childishness, you have a real problem on your hands. Yesterday a woman thanked me when I told her I'm too busy to make it. Nothing simultaneously damages the female ego and stimulates interest as the knowledge that you're off having fun somewhere else, without her, or that she does not have unfettered and cannot demand access to your time and attention.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 03:02 AM
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This isn't even remotely about gaming. This is about having your life in order. There is much more to life than gaming. OP's question isn't even gaming related, it's dating related. It's pathetic and insecure that you see this as a high horse, when this is genuine advice. I have been in OP's position. It genuinely doesn't matter how he plays this. There will be women and there will be other women. He needs to get his life in order first, and for right now, he doesn't need to game as much as just…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 01:39 AM
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I get why people ask people to read the sidebar now. Read the sidebar. The Iron Rules are right there.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:41 PM
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You have girls saying they'd like to look like you? Sounds like you're the gay best friend
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:39 PM
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That kind of aggressive acting is usually the result of some kind of insecurity. Those feminine guys know themselves enough to be comfortable being "feminine". Look man, at the end of the day it's you, some girls will dig it, some girls won't, just be comfortable as you.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:39 PM
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Who cares, do what you find comfortable. Make mistakes. TRP is only theory. You have to decide how to apply it to your life in practice.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:36 PM
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God knows, ask them
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:34 PM
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Yeah. hate to say it, but TRP isn't for you bud. TRP was born out of PUA guys who fundamentally had their life in order but fundamentally dissatisfied with a lack of a greater over-arching purpose. You need to first figure your shit out, TRP can wait and will be there waiting for you. Play it however you like. You need more general dating tips than TRP. So for right now I'd say relax, be yourself, enjoy. Worry about alpha beta etc later.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:32 PM
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How is her being a model in any way relevant? You've already lost the battle Tell her the truth. Bitches love the truth. Whatever you think is the truth. "Yeah, sometimes, it can be really annoying" "No, not at all, what the fuck are you talking about"
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:27 PM
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Smile, touch her shoulder, tell her you gotta be somewhere else, walk away
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:22 PM
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Nope. HARD NEXT if there ever was one. Your time is more valuable than games
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:20 PM
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Yes and no You're looking for a playbook, a "guaranteed recipe for success" Don't Be yourself, even if it means texting more Do what you would do if you had the greatest life in the world, no insecurities and no desperate desire Till then, this works
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:19 PM
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Let me ask you this: if you had a great life, a life where you were truly happy, and a life you were truly happy with, and with yourself, no matter what, would you be asking this question?
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:04 PM
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Assuming you're keeping it natural and following your male instincts, this a) ideally shouldn't be a problem, because they're so in your frame that they just want to be with you, physically and time wise and your SMV should be high enough; assuming a), b) logistics may not be working out, you may be in public etc. plausible deniability is king, don't only think of it physically, think of it socially, as in, have you given her an excuse to continue; c) most importantly, even if a) and b) are abse…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 06:18 AM
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Yup, I got to experience this today in a club and can't thank trp enough for not making me a mate guarding prick like I would have earlier and just enjoying my time.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:24 PM
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There is a fundamental flaw I'd like to point out as a Red Pill man. You're asking me to define the strategy for an average looking woman when, as a Red Pill man, I'm more interested in my own strategy and can only see things from a 'male' perspective. Any advice I give you will be from the male perspective and will either be superficial, wrong or inapplicable. This is the converse of the rule that when women give me dating advice they just don't get it, that our sexual and mating instincts are …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 07:19 PM
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I did the same thing with an air hostess but when I made it clear I'm not interested in giving her online validation (not in so many words) and asked her to message me when she was back in town (in so many words) she blocked me a while later when she realised I was serious about not giving her validation. So I agree with others when they say she only wanted the attention. Nobody is harder to get than you. Never think about "the bag" because if you're worried about getting it you won't get it and…
/r/askTRP22/07/18 07:07 PM
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Personally I've found the women who end up choosing such partners recognise themselves as radical feminists, with much scholarly reading and work on it. You may have even come across it. My personal theory is that feminists choose patriarchal partners because in an ironic twist because of their learning, they internalise patriarchal hierarchy and limited choices, and respond in ways they know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 08:16 PM
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Don't tell her your past. Keep being mysterious. Lie if you have to (although don't really because if you're living the red pill life you should be spending your time in interesting and effective ways). Thanos wiped out half the population to get laid with death, women regularly fall in love with their effective rapists. The history of human cruelty really puts into perspective how little we matter or how little people will actually think of our transgressions. When I stress about not texting a …
/r/askTRP16/07/18 08:11 PM
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This is going to be hard for you to understand because you're in high school, and your brain in literally developing, but 5 years from now, you will not be giving a shit about any of these people AT ALL. You should not worry about what they think or which category they put you in, but think for yourself and carve your own path. You decide who you spend time with and who you invite into your world. You don't need to be a raging asshole, but don't be afraid of confrontation just because-that demon…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 08:05 PM
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I just want to point out that this is also a factor of age, that as people grow older they tend towards more conservative views. Like TRP, growing older is about being responsible for yourself and experiencing more of life and the knowledge that you can deal with anything since you've been through so much. It's going from child to adult. Of course, you can do the same and still be what in America would be called a liberal, since it's reasonable to be responsible as well as support large governme…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 11:04 AM
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Not me personally, but seen it happen. I was just like "woah" and moved away
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 03:12 AM
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Women will fuck you anywhere if they want to fuck you. Park where there are ten people are watching? I need my breasts bit. Dad at home but I NEED cock? Literally pulled me to the terrace and begged me for cock, not even penetration, just to see it and hold it and feel it against her pussy. Movie theatres. Cemeteries. If she wants to fuck, she will always find a way. Life, uh, finds a way. You have your own ROOM, and a BED, and a PLACE, and are financially self-sufficient. For your age, you are …
/r/askTRP13/07/18 06:02 AM
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I noticed the same thing while sarging. The 9s were the most approachable, whereas the 6s shit-tested the hardest, when I couldn't care less. Confused me. Heath cliff in one of his posts has a great explanation for this. When you're low SMV, 9s and 10s treat you really nicely, like a kid or friend, because to them you're not on their sexual radar. For all intents and purposes, as a man, you don't exist. 6s and 7s shit test you because you're "in their league" and they're interested. Remember, sh…
/r/askTRP10/07/18 05:53 PM
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Thanks! Learnt a new word and concept today
/r/askTRP04/07/18 07:53 AM
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The problem with days like this is you can get addicted, and then you're a guy living at a beach shack, no phone, no internet, no responsibilities, party all night at hostels nearby with Russian and English tourists. But a week later you're still a guy living at beach shack, only showering once in 3 days, making less than minimum wage, no plan or progress in life. It feels great but remember to keep it in moderation, otherwise the concept of life as a whole may start to lose meaning. Apart from …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 09:22 PM
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Good for you, but did you really start with "trigger warning"?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 06:12 PM
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All I can think about is-are you Indian? For using the word chode
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 06:04 PM
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You don't keep her interested till 25th June. Two options: If you're ok with just having workouts together and just chilling, plan to work out together a couple of times before 25th and just chill, and give her a "study break" of a couple of hours with you (You're her holiday away from studying). (study break=making out and more after working out) If you want to take her on a proper date, wait till after 25th. Then set up something low investment and have a good time. I would recommend the first…
/r/askTRP08/06/18 04:59 PM
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Like a week after I turned 18 by this post-graduate in our drama club I had been flirting with after I got drunk. Before RP. It was only a hookup but I tried to make it into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 02:07 PM
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Won't that result in busting early? I sometimes masturbate prior so that that part of me is literally and figuratively out of my system
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 08:58 PM
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That's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 04:32 AM
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Yes and no. Women (and beta men) still seek to control women's sexuality. Plausible deniability is king.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 03:29 AM
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Exactly. This doesn't work in a vaccum. If you're ignoring a model who's never talked to you, she won't be blowing up your phone any time soon.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 03:16 AM
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From a fellow TRP noob Nice man. Don't let the hard days get you down. Been there. What I do is say fuck it, and head to a bar alone if necessary and have a good time, and game if I feel like it. I highly recommend it.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 03:11 AM
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Keeping your head up always would be terrible advice in boxing-you'd just get punched so much more. Learn when to duck. 🦆
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 03:10 AM
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I literally said I'm Indian living in India. But that's pretty convenient. I won't waste my time responding to someone who can seem to read, but refuses to. Or engage substantively me with me. Damn, that's the one thing radical feminists have to their credit. What a waste of a flair you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:29 PM
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It's ironic that you ask anyone to oppose to state reasons but do not state yours. What a smorgasbord of unstated assumptions, flagged but not fleshed out arguments and generalisations. I honestly can't even figure out what you're talking about. And to your basic point, no. Also this should be flagged Question to RP and not CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 12:50 PM
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Dude, I'm Indian. In India. Women of all socio-economic and socio-political strata (and I use those terms very specifically) have access to higher education and are part of the workforce, thanks to feminism, the welfare state and just labour economics. If you bothered to read the rest of my post, you'd see that I say while they have equal access and are part of the educated workforce, there are still a number of problems, but if this trend continues, which it should, over the next 100 years wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 11:20 AM
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Check out Joe Girard. He practically invented "people buy from people they like". Prospecting God.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 05:55 PM
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Hmmm yes I haven't dealt into it but I have heard of these problems in Scandanavian countries with traditionally large welfare safety nets as well for single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:46 PM
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But what if you can't get the 9? While you may only have eyes for him ideally, sexual association is also based on the woman's own capability to attract the best possible (highest possible) partner, which is why women branch swing when they find someone who is higher up and they discover they can land them, even if they have to share them. So I'm curious to know what would be your action once you've decided you want the 9 and supposing after that you fail to.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/18 12:41 PM
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Ok. Let me say something I think will help. I'd be lying if I said I haven't been in your position at different times of my life. I may easily be again. It's an easy mentality to slip back into, a beta mentality where your existence is defined by female attention. Through reading up and applying TRP, I now practice abundance mentality. This is not easy an takes work, but it is very very helpful and makes me feel great too. The female attention, like the tide, wanes and goes. Just a minute back I…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 08:28 AM
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The interpretation of my "half-awakeness" as relating to only being half awake as an RP-er from the blue pilled world. That was a pretty random but deep interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 05:37 AM
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Wow, that's deeper than I was going for. It was because I really only got 3hrs of sleep last night, but feel free to think of it whichever man, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 05:34 AM
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To attract women using resources i.e. rich, stable job, good home, and aim at finding "the one" or something similar
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 05:31 AM
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Thank you for your response but perhaps it's because I'm not fully awake yet, but I'm having a hard time understanding why the first part is relevant and how the last sentence relates.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 05:29 AM
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I'd be lying if I said I didn't initially, as I was in the "anger phase". The way I see it if you've been shown one version of reality all your life, and you were shown it as all effectively a lie, it's a rude awakening, like the Truman show, and it can be hard to recalibrate at first and let go of bad habits initially. However, once you get over it, you realise, TRP explains gender relations of the world and social relations as is, that is, without judgement. It's positive, describing what is, …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 05:24 AM
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This post from Red Pill Women might help. Helped me. Honestly had no idea women literally thought this way. https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/8mylsd/i_just_realized_how_different_men_and_women_are/?st=JHTMWM9R&sh=c00e7cc4
/r/askTRP30/05/18 09:36 PM
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Cool
/r/askTRP30/05/18 09:30 PM
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Cool, will do
/r/askTRP30/05/18 09:12 PM
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Really? That's very interesting. Could you link some literature on the latter concept? I have felt some very small bicep gains, and I've noticed that even eating at a major deficit, when I'm lifting, my protein needs in the apps go up 30gms or so
/r/askTRP30/05/18 09:12 PM
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Cool, I'll do that. Yup, diet is top priority rn and in control. That is true. Even at this weight, I have a couple of abs with good posture. I'm assuming as I cut my abs are pretty much almost naturally come out.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 09:10 PM
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This is very good advice. Thanks man. Is there any particular regimen of weight training you recommend for my current situation within the framework of your advice?
/r/askTRP30/05/18 09:09 PM
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86kgs is the borderline for "normal" I need. I was going for 76 to give me the room to bulk up from there on. Yup, that's why I'm doing basic lifting right now. Should I do more, follow a lifting plan? Currently focused on the latter
/r/askTRP30/05/18 09:07 PM
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You're 16. You don't know anything right now. Keep an open mind, and think for yourself.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 04:29 PM
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Ok. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 04:03 PM
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Ok. I'm 6'2 btw, so always look 20kgs slimmer to people. Yup, following the weight loss subs, fixed my diet, cardio.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 04:01 PM
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Yes. But your question has me in a philosophic quandary. I tell you to be your own mentor, and you ask me if that's what I do, making me your mentor, according me a superior position, exactly what I told you not to do. Think for yourself. Be your own mentor.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 03:57 PM
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Be your own me mentor.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 03:50 PM
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I too have been the victim of sexual abuse but from a man who was a servant to us and around the same age as you. I too repressed the shit out of it until it came out in therapy, and still do tbh. I'd be lying if I said it hasn't shaped my life and negatively so. If you're not already in therapy I would recommend it. Don't be too hard on yourself. Best of luck man.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 03:41 PM
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This is my favourite situation to be in. As a college student who dates older woman, when I go out I usually make them pay for shit, buy me gifts, pay debts or bills sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 10:40 AM
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Take my friend's IP address not mine 😂😂😂
/r/PussyPassDenied25/05/18 06:44 AM
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Maybe it is passive aggressive, but from a trp perspective, it's the most effective. Let her ride her hamster, experience all emotions, and figure it out. She can decide what to do then based on your frame, but you have to set it. You do communicate you were uncomfortable with it, but only after the act. In the ideal frame, if she's worth LTR-ing, she should have known better when it comes to you. But if she's willing to learn and is sorry, then that's good, but that'll happen through non-verbal…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:29 AM
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I'm in your exact same position. I viewed it the same way. So text her, you still need to practice. And don't take yourself too seriously.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:18 AM
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I would say this is an ego protection mechanism. If you really were such a stud all of a sudden, your natural male instinct would kick in and you'd just follow it to sex. You're trying to protect yourself from rejection because it would mean if you are then you'd have to change your self-view as Chad now. Stop caring. Get drunk.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:16 AM
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What country is this where economists are paid more than doctors? That's Bizzaroworld to me
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:47 PM
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Would you rather have 100$ now or 1000$ in one year's time? Assuming stable/low existent inflation. It's a common fallacy. Bet on yourself for the long term. Don't be caught into the desire for immediate money.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:24 PM
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Firstly nice man! I lost 8kgs as off today, so good one you. Focusing on fitness when you're young is great, save you problems later, keep at it Secondly, game the friend Best case scenario: Oneitis notices you, gets jealous, blows you in the locker room Worst case scenario: Friend blows you in the locker room
/r/askTRP23/05/18 05:10 PM
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I disagree. It's all non-verbally. You want your actions, not words, to speak for you. The ranking system is for you, internal. Instead of saying "Don't do x' cause then you're a mate guarding beta boy, if she does x, tell her you weren't comfortable with it and then keep communication and affection to the minimum, she'll understand automatically. If she continues or doesn't respond, downgrade to below plate and move on, it was just your turn.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 05:08 PM
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I would say go for the safe choice. I've learnt the very hard way that college is not about your passions, it's insurance for future financial stability. You can always be passionate about something without needing to make it your profession, learn and practice it on the side, go back to it. You want your professional degree to be something you can always fall back on no matter what. No one's ever said is there an economist on the plane.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 05:04 PM
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I'll pm you a conversation I had which is fairly textbook application of Agree and Amplify
/r/askTRP23/05/18 04:39 PM
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Shouldn't have broken up, just downgraded about 2 levels
/r/askTRP23/05/18 04:38 PM
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And maybe they're enjoying themselves. Do you think they've spent as much time thinking about you tonight as you have worrying about them? Probably not. Live your life, knock them down a peg, fuck them if you want to otherwise move on.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 06:32 PM
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How you got from what I said to what you responded tells me all I need to know.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 06:29 PM
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I've been in clubs where I've spent hours talking to a girl, and then she just left and I never saw her again. I spent the whole night screaming my head off, centre of (annoyed) attention. I've been clubs where I'm having a fucking good time dancing all by myself practically, I go upto a girl and say 'kiss me' and we make out and I go home with her. I was quiet as fuck in a corner, chilling. Making out in the middle of the room. Centre of awed attention. The right kind of quiet gets you all the …
/r/askTRP21/05/18 06:27 PM
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I didn't tell you to be fucking autistic. I told you to control. Control the centre of gravity of the room. That's frame. You can do it quite, you can do it loud. I was correcting your idea that frame is about being loud. Being loud for the sake of being loud is insecure. Being loud cause you're having a fucking good time is great. You can almost always tell the difference. Be loud or be quiet, you do you. Be comfortable in being you and know that you'll always win. That's frame.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 06:23 PM
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So you're the masses.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 06:19 PM
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Wut
/r/askTRP21/05/18 06:09 PM
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Read my comment.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 06:09 PM
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Alright man, let me give you some advice, because I have been down this road too many times, specifically 10 minutes ago and need to keep reminding myself of this. I dropped out of college to follow my passions, now I'm back in law school. Was life bad outside of college? No, I was making money, following my passion, doing well. Would I ever make as much money as I did if I completed with my degree? No way. I go to pretty much one of the best schools in the world btw. Don't think about what you …
/r/askTRP21/05/18 06:02 PM
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You're not acting like someone worth paying attention to. Think about this: would you pay attention to you right now?
/r/askTRP21/05/18 05:56 PM
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Your response was fine. She keeps asking if you hate her because she wants you to hate her. In her mind, she wants you to hate her for not giving her what she wants you to want most-her pussy. She wants you to be angry with her, show desperation, act like a nice guy frustrated at not going all the way. She wants to ride that emotional hamster and bragplain to her friends about this guy who won't stop messaging her about hooking up after this one time she gave him head, implying she's a hot lay. …
/r/askTRP21/05/18 05:55 PM
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That is not a woman with a large frame. That is a woman with a small frame, a woman who won't fucking shut up. Tell them to shut up, pass a few shit tests, share a bottle of beer, proceed. The women with large frames are the ones who don't need to shout to get your attention. Edit: I realise you think frame is about noise or attention. It's not. It's about control. If you can control a room sitting quietly in a corner, you're the real king. Everyone turning to you to try to get and find out what…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 05:47 PM
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Objective indifference. Pick a movie you like and if shit happens, shit happens. She's down, don't worry about it. Don't give her a reason to flake by acting as if you give a shit either way though.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 05:45 PM
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I know it sucks, but it's time to move on. There's a reason TRP works. There's nothing good to be gained for either of you, especially not you.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 05:43 PM
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As a law student who's worked on this, I can tell you definitively it's complicated.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 03:14 PM
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I find Rule 8 to be the one that really opened my mind. When you're approaching or communicating with a woman, you have this image in your head of yourself, and you see only the flaws. She may not. You just be you. She'll figure out for herself whether or not she wants to fuck you. You don't need to know or make that decision for her.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:24 PM
1

OkC girls are wild. ONS and move on.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 04:47 PM
5

Yes, and? The sidebar is the basis. It's only the starting point. Every person has to take from the sidebar what they need and make their life from there.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 04:46 PM
21

Brings back memories of when I was 18. Don't get dewey-eyed, this won't last, and that's a good thing.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 04:44 PM
1

I think you need to figure out why not getting those responses mattered to you so much
/r/askTRP20/05/18 03:17 PM
1

Your problem isn't Dominance, your problem is Emotion. You're making it feel special for her. The book is just a guide, not specific actions or acts. It's meant to demonstrate the different levers you need to pull. Right now, you're pulling too heavy on the Dominance. That's great. But are you making her feel sexy about doing it? Are you raising her emotions to that level where when you push her down she does it without a thought, like a loyal soldier? Also, consider Variation and Immersion, for…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 02:03 PM
2

Make sure she can't come after you about the lease. As a law student, I would recommend you wait out the lease, but you do you.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 10:34 AM
1

Hmm. Well, you've got to figure out if she's just using you. If that's not the case, go for it.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 10:32 AM
16

Then why the fuck would you dance? Don't dance with her, grab her to a corner and start making out. Play your own game.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 10:30 AM
2

Do you think you're settling now?
/r/askTRP20/05/18 10:27 AM
1

If you can pull it off, sure man. Btw, why are you leaving? Isn't this your house?
/r/askTRP20/05/18 10:26 AM
1

You're so fucking beta. If you're so sure of where your life is going and you're enjoying it so much, why are you asking us? For re-assurance? Yeah, sure, life will always be easy and good. Is that what you want to hear? Do things that you want to do man, you don't need our approval.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 10:25 AM
2

Nope. No relation between alpha and virginity. Check out Sex God Method. It should give you some guidance and a framework. That's a really shitty way to do it, no wonder she doesn't enjoy it. Stop qualifying yourself.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 10:21 AM
6

She was not flirting, at all. Stop this fantasy bs. Live in reality. If you're the company CTO, why aren't you opening up your rolodex to her? Instead of just giving it to her, take charge and find the investment. You're CTO, this is your career too. Although check out the discussion thread on the 1st law of power about not being under a female boss for more than 2 years.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 10:19 AM
2

First text, then call, Check out the Online dating reading on asktrp sidebar, it gives a good guide on when to call and why
/r/askTRP20/05/18 10:16 AM
2

I experienced the same thing. It always cracks me up. The 4s and 5s are the ones acting pricey while the 9s and 10s are usually pretty nice, atleast to begin with. It always confuses me, because they're always shit-testing me when I have 0 interest in the product. Mostly because they're so low value, sex is the only thing they really have to offer, and they know it. And it's not even good sex either.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 09:46 AM
1

Go up to them, completely chilled out, strike up a conversation, touch her elbow/arm, touch her waist, touch her lower back, pull her close, move close and kiss her. You're at a club. Fuck, I remember the first time I was at a club, beginner's luck and smashed, but there was this African chick doing a Beyonce karaoke that was getting me going. She comes my way and I put my arm around her waist and ask if I can kiss her. She says no. I clarify that I meant on the cheek, which I did lol. She said …
/r/askTRP20/05/18 09:05 AM
1

Dude, why did you even respond? She's in your lap. You just have to go "that's something you're going to have to figure out" and if she presses you claim to be a dildo model. Who gives a fuck? 4 7/8th inches...it's not the dick on the outside, it's the dick on the inside that counts. She already likes you a lot, just jump in the sack, blow her mind, and she wouldn't care if it's 3 inches.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 09:03 AM
2

I can't watch any romances in the "The Office" anymore without cringing. It's like watching a horror movie in slow-mo. You want to shout at the screen at the characters. Although, there are some Red Pill characters and I enjoy the contrast and writing.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 08:54 AM
1

We all make mistakes, but you have to own up to them. You took that terrible advice. That's on you. That other poster didn't make you. You're a man. You do things you want to do. You are responsible for all your actions, always. You're in control. For now, I'd say dont acknowledge her reply, have a random conversatio about whatever for about 10 minutes, then ghost her for atleast a day.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 07:22 AM
1

That they don't care about you, or atleast not in the way you want them to. That they are fickle, selfish creatures. And that's not a bad thing. Men in Love really fucked me up.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 07:01 AM
2

By, in your mind, breaking up with her. She can't be your girlfriend in this scenario.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:57 AM
0

It is shitting where you eat, and given the specifics of this case it could end up going badly for you, because it clearly looks like this will not end happily ever after. Clearly you are not into her. Look man, I've dated a lot of girls just because they liked me or just for the experience who I wasn't attracted to, so I don't know what to tell you. It's a waste of your time, honestly. She'll respect you and your frame for rejecting her, as it shows abundance, as will other females in class. St…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:56 AM
3

He's probably an orbiter. Don't mate guard and don't bring it up. Also, dude, don't live by her words, live by her actions. She'll say whatever needs to be said whenever. Focus on her actions. If you think she's cheating, down grade her and move on.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:47 AM
21

You're thinking of it as a "way to get with girls" instead of "I feel the beat I'm going to fucking enjoy myself!" or even "nice! that's my jam" and trust me, the girls will be thinking of ways to get with you
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:43 AM
1

I'd say you're not MGTOW, you're Incel. These may seem like arbitrary internet terms, but the implication for you is important: MGTOW is a choice. Incel is not. If you're a virgin still holding out hope and find this girl cute etc. you're not making a choice but a choice is being made for you. There's a lot to discuss and a lot to think about, but for right now my only advice would be get out of your head and get laid. I think you need to get it out of your system first. I know it's not importan…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 06:15 PM
6

How would you feel if a complete random stranger, even if you're attracted to them, began by going to their place. Show some objective indifference, abundance mentality and plausible deniability. Enjoy yourself, be chill. How do you know you want to fuck this girl anyway? Your time and your fucks, both literally and figuratively, are valuable. Are you just going to fuck a girl just because she matched with you, one of the 1000s? Build some comfort, see if you want to meet up, and if she's cool, …
/r/askTRP19/05/18 06:09 PM
2

Nope. Pre-selection. She's all the way across the room, still not laid, while her friend is on her way. Her hamster will take over. Overtly, she may call you 'creep', but internally, she wishes she was her friend. How do you test this? Approach her later, pass her shit tests, be a Red Pill man and next morning she's texting her friend that she hooked up with you.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 06:05 PM
2

I know unfortunately way too amazing looking guys who have pretty much zero game. Some have worked hard at the gym for it, some were really just born with it. Life is, to be fair, easier for them-to begin with. If they're a good looking guy with no game or skills, they'll get approached more but they won't get the girl. The guy with game will get the girl. Also, you've got to understand, for men, the difference between 'good looks'and 'bad looks'is very fixable with the right haircut, wardrobe a…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 06:02 PM
51

If you're worried about it, get out. Can't get laid all alone in your room.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 05:58 PM
3

Been there. Done that. Annoyed constantly by it. Live your life and reply in your own time. You have nothing to lose here. Responding now would actually be the worst thing you can do, rewarding her behaviour with attention. Leave her on read. Let her ride her own hamsters roller coaster of emotions she's making herself feel and wants to. This is not a bad thing.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 07:47 AM
1

Could you elaborate? Like I said, I tried Todd's method of I like your look with much less success
/r/askTRP17/05/18 12:21 AM
1

You just read the title and not the actual post, didn't you? And you proceeded to give advice based on that? Pathetic
/r/askTRP17/05/18 12:20 AM
1

You just read the title and not the actual post, didn't you? And you proceeded to give advice based on that? Pathetic
/r/askTRP17/05/18 12:19 AM
1

You just read the title and not the actual post, didn't you? And you proceeded to give advice based on that? Pathetic
/r/askTRP17/05/18 12:18 AM
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You just read the title and not the actual post, didn't you? And you proceeded to give advice based on that? Pathetic
/r/askTRP17/05/18 12:18 AM
3

Point well taken. Fair enough. I was thinking of going straight ma after that. "The real reason is I want to take you out sometime and see where it goes". Is this what you're suggesting? And then text with mostly only logistics to meet at x at y
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:25 AM
1

No.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 06:47 AM
6

I go for and attempt to maintain a 1% total success rate, as in, getting laid. I come from a sales management background so let me break it down. You want a funnel. And you want prospects in that funnel. Getting laid doesn't happen if you only have one girl in that funnel. And you need to keep moving prospects from one part of the funnel to the next. The stages I have are talk, number, meetup/date, makeout/basic sexual interaction, sex About 8/10 girls I approach talk to me. So that's 20% alread…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:28 PM
1

You bang her and plate her if you want to, and then you move on and never talk to her again. You don't want to emotionally invest in someone you don't want to be with. Your time and emotional investment is your currency, and you want to make sure you give it to the right person.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 10:56 PM
1

Just kiss her man and take it from there. You don't TRP material for everything. That's a guide, not a how-to. Just relax, enjoy yourself and let your sexuality take over. Clearly she's interested so it should work out. Even if it doesn't, there are enough women out there for you. Your answer is in your question. You're approaching it from a "how do I not screw up" mentality, pedestalizing her and being very blue pill. Instead, worry about how whether she's a woman you want to be with. You are t…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 02:24 PM
1

Thanks man! I appreciate it. I'm glad it gave you some ideas. I'm 22, and have OCD which really cripples me sometimes, so I can totally relate. You just gotta go out there and get it!
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 08:06 PM
2

I disagree, which is why I made this post. It has a few important points, and the most important central takeaway is no matter how bad you things are looking for you right now sexually, all you need to do is go out there and start approaching women. You control your own SMV, and can build your put it into action by approaching. In its most simple form, it's not a mystical form that requires a manifesto, but a guy having a good time. Instead of swiping on Tinder, get out there and take control. A…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 07:53 PM
1

Definitely agree. It shouldn't be a fake smile or a smile out of compliance. The smile I gave her was very much on my own terms, when I was in the zone and having fun, very relaxed and easy going, yet sly and with a hint of smirk. It really hits you. For my exes and other women in my life, me smiling is a real treat for them, getting that full on smile really can make their mood for the day.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 05:14 PM
1

Yup. I'm trying to make a career as a comedy writer and stand up. Sure.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 03:52 PM
2

Thanks. One of the reasons I ended a relationship recently
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 01:36 PM
4

Positives: Officially went out sarging and now going to the field will be part of my weekly schedule. Lost 2 more kgs! Got very, very appreciated and paid high compliments and marks for my project (college paper). Ironically on feminist legal history. Getting back to the gym after my leg injury. Realised that smoking, while harmful and should be controlled, is not central to my mission, and as long as I keep it under control (no more than 2-3 a day, never before working out), I'm ok with it Gett…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 01:28 PM
6

Why would you go back to this gym? I'm a law student, so that threat to call the police or her actions I would have laughed my ass off and threatened a very real suit to the gym and that woman for tortious liability, causing me annoyance. Don't let her, or the gym, get away with their actions.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 12:13 PM
1

Hey I got laid by solving string theory Love the guy though, he is alpha in the sense of focusing on problems and crushing the shit out of them ("alpha at work" as you put it) but not from a sexual standpoint at all, he's pretty autistic. That distinction never occurred to me, thanks for outlining that.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 09:56 AM
2

Thank for this post. Should be on the sidebar or stickied or generally the first thing people read after "Sexual strategy is amoral" or even "Women in love" and "Schedules of mating". Being beta isn't wrong, but it is a choice. Being alpha isn't an identity, it's a set of behaviours and traits. Morality has nothing to do with this. Neither is good or bad. It's strategy. You define your outcome and you choose your path and you pick the tools necessary to ensure success.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 09:47 AM
1

This is not how I usually think. This would be a paradigm shift for me. I usually care about investing a lot of energy for relatively lower results. In the context of gaming, I'm afraid I'll come across disinterested or cold instead of flirty.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 10:27 AM
1

An alpha should always look to invest as little energy as possible. I never thought of it like that. What do you mean? And lol yup guess I'll have to do that. Time to rejoin MMA, boxing classes.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:56 AM
1

And acting I hope?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 07:10 AM
1

That's a good one
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:59 AM
2

Nice man! Level 2! Did you perform at the sketch club? Do you write? Which city and which programme is this?
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 07:50 AM
0

Yeah, I fucked up this week. Ended my nofap and no poem streak at 22 days, which is my average. Started smoking after 31 days off. Haven't been to the gym in a week because I've injured my foot randomly. I shouldn't have let that stop me from exercising or fixing it though, and then getting back up. Instead of solving the problem, I'm letting the problem define me. Eating above my calorie count. Spending more time sleeping and eating junk food. Fapping 3 times a day plus. Just on social media, n…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 07:48 AM
1

Ok. Thanks.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 12:41 PM
1

Right. Any suggestions on how? Personal experience?
/r/askTRP25/04/18 12:39 PM
1

Good advice
/r/askTRP25/04/18 12:39 PM
1

Thank you everyone for getting hung up on the terminology and ignoring the basic question. I appreciate your fetishisation of Chad and your inability to look past the defence of this, primarily fictional, character, to answer the actual question posed. Those even mildly observant may notice at no point do I call myself Chad. Nor do I say I want to be Chad. But who needs to read a post before replying, amirite guys? You certainly don't, you clairvoyant you. Why respond with an answer when you can…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 11:51 PM
3

Continue to be a non-smoker. Continue to be a nofapper, no porn, no nothing. Continue to go to the gym, have now run 50kms over 15 days, lost 3 kgs and lifting 12.5kgs in bicep front lifts. Focusing on my work and getting it done. Getting enough sleep. Approaching women more easily, getting matches on Tinder. Just generally in social control. Tbh tired and entitled though. Need to start meditating to refresh and refocus. Wrote what I think are good bits, really think they're good and want to per…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/18 05:34 PM
1

As some on who is below average in these departments, this was a very welcome post and necessary and I've saved it. Building that discipline to begin with is key. The only part I disagree with is "then lift". While I'm not lifting now, I am working out, reading the sidebar, and building a better life for yourself can be a simultaneous process. Just don't expect it to be a magic bullet or work immediately; make yourself better. An year of dedication later you'll be surprised where you are, and tw…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 05:22 PM
1

I'll keep that in mind, expert
/r/askTRP17/04/18 10:36 PM
1

I used to think like that too but I'd get burned out I'm far from down but recognising that I'm on the track would feel great and would motivate me onwards
/r/askTRP17/04/18 09:08 PM
1

Haha good call. Didn't even think of that
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:43 PM
5

I'd rather finger you
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:00 PM
1

Give monies. And license.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 07:21 PM
5

Well, that elevates the discussion. Now that I think about it, the most objectively alpha man I know, my old boss and friend and founder of a thriving startup, took up two hobbies to maintain his sanity on a day to day basis: growing plants and cooking elaborate meals. The first was something he'd do daily, watering and taking care of a handful of plants that he eventually used in his recipes. He said he enjoyed the slow, deliberate process of growing plants. It required a little bit of daily ef…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 06:34 PM
1

Yeah, that's what I'm going to do.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 05:38 PM
3

Love going off path if I have the time
/r/askTRP17/04/18 05:16 PM
2

You know, I don't have a car
/r/askTRP17/04/18 04:29 PM
3

I had a really great shit couple of hours back. Since quitting smoking that's a real treat.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 04:20 PM
2

Haha nah, I had such a hard time getting away from college work to meet my usual board room group that it became a "treat". I'm 22. Maybe if I finish work enough I can go again this weekend.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 04:13 PM
4

Looks like I'm going hiking
/r/askTRP17/04/18 04:12 PM
3

You have screens at your place? I'm mostly just staring at myself in the mirror, which I do enjoy but doesn't have that live sports action element
/r/askTRP17/04/18 03:26 PM
1

I can imagine. Is that common?
/r/askTRP17/04/18 03:23 PM
6

The image looks great, it's pretty much what I've described in another post Yeah, that's a real celebration, for a bigger milestone For what it's worth, not a steak guy and cigars are the opposite of what I'm going for, but that's just me and I get what you were trying to say
/r/askTRP17/04/18 03:22 PM
6

Sure. But I used that think that way and eventually burn out or reward myself improperly (smoking, jacking off) I'm proud of the work I'm doing and really looking forward to what comes up ahead. There's no point in me denying that it's a dopamine fix, although seratonine may better describe it, since I'm not looking for a quick fix or like a sugar high. Imagine me in a lounge with a glass of wine as a jazz band plays in the background. I want a couple of hours of a good time.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 03:20 PM
2

Haha I can't get Dominican barbers where I live. This is always a good idea. I got this done about a week ago, so don't need it now. But a good one to have in the back pocket.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 03:14 PM
3

If I had the monies.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 02:34 PM
4

That sounds really relaxing but I've never had one. How does it work? Plus, that kind of thing is too expensive to be reasonable for a student like me in my city
/r/askTRP17/04/18 02:34 PM
2

No
/r/askTRP17/04/18 02:33 PM
9

Meditation is definitely an activity I'm starting now. I could use the mental calmness and focus. I wouldn't consider it a reward though.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 02:33 PM
21

That's a really good idea. I do enjoy hiking, it's been a long time and there are a lot of great hills and mountains for hikers around my city/state. I'll make it happen. That's a great thought. I'll keep that in mind.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 02:31 PM
3

Haha that's a decent idea, I'll look into that once I get home
/r/askTRP17/04/18 02:05 PM
1

Bro tu chill kar
/r/askTRP16/04/18 06:41 PM
2

Continued working out and controlling diet, have lost 1 kg since last week. Now comfortably lift 7.5kgs bicep front raise, moving on to 10kgs, taking it slow so as to not injure myself unnecessarily. Continue to abstain from smoking. Continue to abstain from porn and fapping. Realised at the beginning at this week that I don't know where the money my father gives me for everyday expenses is going, and that I am surprisingly short surprisingly quickly. I've never had great money management skills…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 06:08 PM
2

Thanks for the resource! I'm usually able to comfortably quit for 2-3 weeks at a time. My resolve is strong. If I ever feel the need, I will definitely explore this resource further
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 09:47 PM
4

I weigh 125kgs. Goal is to lose 50kgs in 1-1.5 years so that I'm 75kgs. And then to bulk up. I know cutting and gaining don't have to be mutually exclusive processes, and the focus of the sub is towards lifting and not weight loss, but I've been overweight pretty much since I was 9, so I just want to focus on losing weight for now and enjoy having a BMI in the "normal" range. Plus I'm tall (6'2) and barrel chested with broad shoulders, so I know that if I cut well, my natural structure and work …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 08:12 AM
3

Oh no one of the incels has escaped
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/18 07:15 PM
1

Have worked in sales. Have noticed the similarities.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 03:28 AM
2

Thanks!
/r/askTRP19/01/18 03:26 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/askTRP19/01/18 02:02 AM
1

Hmmm the celebrities thing is interesting. I'll look into that.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 06:00 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/askTRP18/01/18 03:48 PM
1

This is food for thought. Clearly subjective to me, but any thoughts or examples?
/r/askTRP18/01/18 03:44 PM
1

It's hard to find and is shit for these weather conditions.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 02:56 PM
1

Ok. Thanks.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 02:54 PM
1

I'm Indian, plaid shirts aren't a thing here. But full sleeves? On the rest...got it.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 02:53 PM
-3

Please explain further.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 02:44 PM
-3

What's the wall?
/r/askTRP18/01/18 02:34 PM
2

Wait, text for logistics only? What do you mean? So much of my flirting happens via text now
/r/askTRP18/01/18 02:29 PM
1

It was very random, but she was hot
/r/askTRP17/01/18 09:28 PM
1

OK. Lot to think about. And use in action. Right now, just taking it in.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 08:12 PM
1

OK. This will take some getting used to. I mean, when you say entertainment, I get what you mean. But since I'm.new to this, in action, it may end up looking like creepy leering/stalking kind of behaviour in practice.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 08:06 PM
1

Got it. My experience with doing that has been with her replying "what makes you say that?" I'm getting more practice on doing this and thinking on my feet, but this reply traditionally stumped me and I give a stupid and long answer about her. Should I go with, "you seem like the type" or something like that then?
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:59 PM
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/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:47 PM
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