I'm in LTR with this girl (we both 19) for 5 months now, everything started best way possible she was absolutely dazzled by my character, fuck she cried tears of joy because of me and fact how amazing I'm. Then after about 2 months since the begging of whole thing she kinda lost interest sexually.We didn't make out so often anymore but sometimes we had still really long sessions.Then again she kinda distanced herself a bit physically (mentally being more and more investing into me, telling me her story,fears etc.) Then after this time (3 months) we finally had sex (she was not quite ready earlier) and that day was really wonderful it was like we first started our relationship
Another month passed since that and she lost her libido completely she dont want to be touched or kissed, we talked about it and she said she felt like that for a long time but still was forcing herself to do all that anyway, but now she just cant stand it.I asked her about her feeling towards me she said she is still attracted but just dont have her libido.She said she dont want to end it and wants to see if she'll get better over some time.
Normally I would treat it as bad excuses and left her long time age but I think its not necessary like that. She comes from divorced family her dad was not around very often (lives abroad) she has older brother who is alcoholic (aggressive one like they all) her mother has cancer (things get worse recently dont know any details as she dont wanna talk about it but, I assume she's dying) Her previous serious relationship was with abusive manipulative boyfriend who forced her to sex (he was 1st person she had sex with I am second one).All that made her quite pessimist.
Besides that she is absolutely wonderful person and she is worth me trying at least a bit more, If she wouldn't I would have already dumped her long time ago, also she is not exploiting me in any way I dont buy her things etc
As for my mistakes I could say I had moments when I was a bit to clingy and a bit to available (told her I loved her after 3 months, meant it 100%) and I was highly depressed for past month (getting out of it right now)
So redpill what is your opinion on all that? Whats yours advice?
TL:DR GF lost her libido reasons might be psychological not sure what to do
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