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[–]Senior ContributorSkorchZang5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
It's one of those things. This is why women should never tell the truth about the N-count or what they do.
Most men will feel the same instinctive aversion you feel. Can tell yourself the story about how it's normal, that's what women do, you weren't "even dating" back then, etc. etc. But the feeling still stays.
In a way, it's good for you. It's good for your red pill evolution. Looking at your adorable GF and knowing those same lips sucked some asshole's dick not too long back, and loved it too. It teaches you deeply. You're not special. You're not going to special no matter what you do, not to any woman (excepting perhaps, Mom). They will all say it. But it's only a sham, to keep you in orbit where she wants you. Can't blame them, a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do. In the end, any man in her life is only an interchangeable prop, she is the center of the universe always.
If she's not sucking yours, she's sucking someone else's. Nothing special, to her. Just the way it is.
This is showing you some typical blue pill errors in some stark contrast, a lesson to be thankful for if you ask me. It's not really about what she did or didn't do, it's about how it's incompatible with a man's default blue pill vision of "the girlfriend". It's a false vision through and through, but we want to believe. Going to save you a shitload of unnecessary stress down the road if you internalize it now. We're not special to them. She's not yours, it's just your turn. They always, always have backups.
[–]El_Serpiente_Roja0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Op ...this is the answer
Shes not yours its just your turn...a cold red pill truth that will burn your blue pill soul forever. I know this feeling all too well and you gotta understand there is no "fix" for it the way you may be thinking, no blog you could read or question you can ask. Its just you and the facts.
[–]Retspihi 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmao she told you that she sucked some dudes cock?
That's the most submissive act a woman can do for a man and she admitted to doing it with a mutual acquaintance.
You're a cuck for even wanting to know/being ok with it now lol
[–]TheDisillusionist 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You either have to let it go or let her go. As you said, you fucked his current. It is what it is, people know people.
[–]Nyquil-Junkie-3 points-2 points-1 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Seems a little obsessive to me. Maybe you'd be better off buying a virgin from an Amish family.
People have lives before they meet you. Get over it.
[–]aurelius_shrugs 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Blue pill answer OP. They shame before addressing the issue.
You instinctively are unhappy about her fucking other dudes. She instinctively will field other options for your entire relationship. The only option is for you to do you.
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