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awakenedspirit1/r/TheRedPill16/04/20 08:57 PM
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Red Pill Theoryawakenedspirit1/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 07:01 AM
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Field Reportawakenedspirit1/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 07:28 AM
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Red Pill Theoryawakenedspirit1/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 06:42 AM
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Metaawakenedspirit1/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 07:27 PM
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Rant/Ventingawakenedspirit1/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 06:44 PM
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Rant/Ventingawakenedspirit1/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 06:58 AM
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Field Reportawakenedspirit1/r/TheRedPill01/02/19 07:39 PM
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Blue Pill Exampleawakenedspirit1/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 08:25 PM
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awakenedspirit1/r/MGTOW23/06/20 06:21 PM
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awakenedspirit1/r/ThankTRP16/03/18 05:31 PM
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Field Reportawakenedspirit1/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 12:08 AM
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Building Powerawakenedspirit1/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 07:16 PM
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Rant/Ventingawakenedspirit1/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 01:32 AM
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awakenedspirit1/r/askTRP23/06/18 11:53 PM
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awakenedspirit1/r/askTRP26/03/18 04:57 PM
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awakenedspirit1/r/askTRP05/09/19 04:47 AM
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Metaawakenedspirit1/r/TheRedPill26/07/20 03:01 AM
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Important to keep things in perspective. This would be what most would call a "typical marriage". You're obviously better off than most men in terms of stats. No easy answer here but things are definitely not broken beyond repair. It is not "her fault" she's not attracted to you. It's just how they are. Female attraction is based on many things, the most powerful one being lady competition. The best advice I can give is to game another woman. I know that sounds incorrect but it's really the best…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/25 10:02 PM
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"Myth"
/r/TheRedPill24/05/25 06:51 PM
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We do not choose it. It is given to us. Most of the time very unpleasantly.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/25 06:50 PM
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Very well broken down
/r/TheRedPill07/04/25 08:38 PM
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I'm so sorry man. Painful all around. You can of course continue, but the ending is "predestined". She cannot help herself. It's not "her fault." It's not "your fault". Is what it is. "Light switch effect" is guaranteed. We all must make our choices.
/r/RPChristians25/03/25 03:35 PM
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Great to see you cite the Bible even as a Muslim! Respect my man.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/24 07:37 PM
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+1. Those Iron rules are there for a reason. No need to solve problems that have already been solved.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/24 04:54 PM
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This is actually a really helpful. In my blue pill days, I didn't really think total N count for women was a big deal. Guys and girls can both sleep with lots of people and still settle down right? Turns out, that's not true. We would LIKE it to be true. But because of the biological differences between men and women, women become UNABLE to be faithful. "But hoes gon be hoes so I can't blame Tammy" as philosopher Lil Wayne notes. That's abundance. Where you understand because of her nature that …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/24 03:13 PM
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No hate from me sir. You do what you gotta do.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/24 05:47 PM
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Couldn’t agree more sir. Gigantic waste of time. Like playing slots in the Casino. Love the hate you’re getting for this too.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/24 12:49 PM
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I failed at linking to the article from /u/sadomasochrist but it’s protectors vs providers, killing the blue pill dream. Rich hardworking men. Who women “should” be attracted to.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/24 11:22 PM
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I see you’re a veteran. This is from older times. Rich guys who play by the rules. Frankly the most productive men in society. Good article from Sado here. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/7ptnb5/protectors_vs_providers_afbb_killing_the_blue/
/r/TheRedPill31/05/24 11:18 PM
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Tinder has made this so much easier too. Fuck the hot guys. String along “high betas”. It’s really ideal for women right now which is why they fought so hard for it. Gonna be rough on the other side (old maid society). Do not simp. Do not over pursue. These girls always have you in a rotation. Know it in your soul. It’s a cold world. We make lemonade.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/24 10:41 PM
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IRL > online. You can "match" online. Christian Mingle is cool. But LDRs aren't really worth anything
/r/RPChristians30/04/24 07:47 PM
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https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/20/letting-go-of-invisible-friend/ - I agree with Rollo on this
/r/RPChristians30/04/24 07:19 PM
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Still reads great today.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/24 11:07 AM
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Appreciate it my man. Interesting way of looking at it.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/23 02:45 PM
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Girlfriend is TRP on hard mode. Is what it is. Having sex with a new woman is by far the easiest, quickest, and most effective way to have your current woman be more attracted to you. Obviously there are drama risks involved. That's kind of the name of the game. Good luck sir
/r/TheRedPill20/07/23 02:32 AM
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I'm in the same boat as you sir, only based in Los Angeles. BP Alpha. Didn't cheat in my marriage. Now on the other side. Eventually I want to have children though. How are you thinking of solving for that one? Passport bros looks increasingly likley for me.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/23 04:26 PM
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All true. Women, while annoying, are only a small silver of the problems facing the "average" man in the US. This is why brother GLO advocates leaving, something that I still might do. MGTOW will be increasingly common. One thing is for sure, it is going to get worse from here.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/23 04:45 PM
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This is actually an amazing comment. I just lived that other life....
/r/TheRedPill16/05/23 07:45 PM
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I am not insulting you. Many men consider having children and a wife a win. Totally understand. Trust me, I sympathize. Life has a way of teaching us all lessons. Good luck on your journey.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/23 08:48 PM
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? What are you talking about? I am not “bitching”. This forum is supposed to be for adults. Get married 100 times “bro”. Super alpha.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/23 08:33 PM
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I’m not sure you know what “winning” is
/r/TheRedPill28/03/23 03:58 PM
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This is the definition of the blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/23 02:22 PM
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I’m not sure you know what the red pill is…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/23 01:07 PM
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I think every man struggles with “what to do” after understanding the red pill. Since long term exclusive sexual monogamous relationships are no longer an option, I think many men struggle with what to do. I for one always wanted to have a family. Understanding that this is a risk laden adventure without any benefits is pretty humbling. Alpha or beta, the girl is going to cheat / leave at some point. Way too much time in my life has been spent having meaningless sex. “It makes the limbic system …
/r/TheRedPill27/03/23 03:34 PM
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Not everyone is ready to hear this. I think it’s only a matter of time until they start paying us.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/22 01:33 PM
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GLO still doing his part to save those who want to be saved. Great stuff.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 02:58 PM
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Totally agree. Listen, “the game” is fucked up. But I do not see any point in pouring gasoline on the fire. OP - grow up.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/22 07:59 PM
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Again, why are you talking about men at all? We talking about women in this forum. Women initiate 80%+ of the divorces in the US. Lesbian marriages have the highest divorce rate of any pairing. Women cannot be loyal. I appreciate that you are trying to be loyal or think you can be (trust me when I say we appreciate the effort!). Maybe men can be loyal. Maybe men cheat on sick partners. These are not for me to figure out as I do not date men. This is why these other forums might be a better fit f…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/22 10:34 PM
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Women cannot be loyal. This has nothing to do with men, and I have no idea why you are bringing up men at all. This statement is entirely independent of male behavior. This statement is not up for debate in this forum because it has been settled. We call this “AWALT”. There’s a sidebar to the right which has the core pillars of the philosophy here. There are extraordinarily rare exceptions to this (which I think is what you’re trying to say) but it is unhelpful to look at the exceptions. Much mo…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/22 10:04 PM
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What is your “question” that you think needs an answer?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/22 09:44 PM
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There are no questions that need to be “answered” in this interaction. This is not a debate. Purple pill forum might be better suited for you.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/22 09:21 PM
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I hope you have a great rest of your day Miss.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/22 09:14 PM
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Hi there, This is not “an attack”, or even meant as criticism. This is a forum for men to help men understand female behavior. Looking at female promiscuity as the rule rather than the exception is a much more accurate way to look at reality. Men also do bad things. This has been fairly well documented. We are trying to help men see the “bad things” that women do, at the expense and exploitation of men. What we call “blue pill” men are actually not able to see this, which hurts them rather drama…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/22 08:38 PM
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No one is stopping you from converting to orthodox judiasm sir….
/r/TheRedPill10/09/22 01:47 PM
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OP - I strongly suggest you read https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8746br/stacys_credo_death_of_the_plow_horse/
/r/TheRedPill08/09/22 03:43 AM
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I can’t tell if this is a joke….
/r/TheRedPill07/09/22 09:55 PM
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This is good enough to be it’s own post. This is so important to understand. The blue pill delusion is so strong. I had this debate with a friend the other day. Is it the 60s with birth control? Relaxed divorce laws? What about the 19th amendment? Maybe we shouldn’t have taught them to read? Their role is to add chaos. Our role is to add order. It is not “their fault.” You got problems with how women are? Take it up with the man upstairs. Fish can’t climb trees. Women can’t be loyal. Shaking you…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 10:30 PM
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I have to say I disagree. At some point “the red pill” goes from fringe ideology to the default. That “loving” women in the way we were taught is just silly. Clown world has to turn back upside down at some point. And I honestly believe Mr Tate is a part of that. He isn’t really that similar to Dr Peterson. Leaders emerge in times of crises. I think he’s here to stay. And I’m listening to what he has to say.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/22 04:03 AM
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+1 in most cultures in history being his “help meet” was a virtue. Being a “dick wallet” is what women want (only temporarily, and NEVER from just one dick and wallet). Clown world is expected to break some more. Sad times.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/22 11:47 PM
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“Certain women” look at you w the jokes!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/22 11:43 PM
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I’m 38. Game is all there is. Don’t hate the player…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 01:38 AM
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Woujo still spittin with new content. That’s my favorite part of TRP. Struggles w the other side are expected. Get bitter, or get better.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/22 05:14 AM
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Cohabitation IS marriage. Even if you’re not married. Bringing the state in doesn’t make much of a difference after you live together. My “advice” would be don’t live with a woman you aren’t marrying within the next 6 months. There aren’t many benefits of living with them, and there are a ton of drawbacks. Furthermore, why date if you don’t intend to marry them anyway? Waste of time and money. I don’t play slots in Vegas or the lottery for the same reason.
/r/RPChristians25/05/22 02:12 AM
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But for the vast majority of people, therapy is inappropriate. We highly over use it (to our detriment) in the US. It’s just because we have a lot of money and life is difficult. It serves as an outlet that says it’s ok to be weak. It’s monetized confession. Gym is much better, on average, for men. It’s much more important to learn what it takes to “get jacked” and then apply that to other parts of life. It’s just comically more important than therapy. It’s not ok to be fat. Life is hard. It’s n…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/22 05:27 AM
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Never the answer. Gym and steak is way better for the vast majority people. Therapy is a trap.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/22 03:48 PM
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This is really fantastic advice OP.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/22 03:50 AM
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Legal marriage is ill advised. There are no exceptions to this. The “system” is designed for your divorce. It’s expensive. And soul destroying. You have one life. We all make choices.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/22 10:42 PM
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Cannot turn a hoe into a housewife. Will never be “alpha” enough. These [classy American gals] do NOT want to be saved.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/22 10:39 PM
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English speakers are so arrogant in the US they push “Latinx” onto the Hispanic community. Embarrassing. This is my general “red pill”. Women in the US have no idea how embarrassing they look to the rest of the world. Men across the world are laughing at US women (and men based on their behavior).
/r/TheRedPill16/04/22 11:17 PM
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It’s hard to describe a cult from the outside. The mythology in the US about female “oppression”. English is also a gender neutral language. So things that are obvious in Spanish are not as obvious in English. Language creates reality.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/22 10:28 PM
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You’re an interesting guy bro. Good stuff.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/22 08:22 AM
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Yay! It’s internet insult guy!
/r/TheRedPill03/03/22 05:55 PM
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Yes. Dalrock post about it https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2011/10/11/why-wont-these-peter-pan-manboys-man-up-and-marry-aging-flighty-selfish-career-gal-sluts-already/
/r/askRPC25/02/22 01:34 AM
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https://youtu.be/7FPELc1wEvk
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/22 04:06 AM
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Dude this was great. Appreciate it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 05:47 PM
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Just makes the game not that fun. I don’t play slots for the same reason.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre22/01/22 02:23 AM
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It’s not much. But it’s enough.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre22/01/22 02:22 AM
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I like Columbia or Mexico. But respect
/r/TheRedPill18/01/22 05:10 AM
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Since women can’t maintain long term monogamous attraction, why should men “date” at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:05 PM
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Here here
/r/RPChristians17/01/22 05:31 AM
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Totally agree. It’s 2022. Trans women are women too. Nawalt!
/r/TheRedPill17/01/22 12:53 AM
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OYS 1/10/22 PHYSICAL: I'm 5'11", 195 lbs. Probably the best shape of my life. Working towards 5x5 225 incline (did 5x5 205 last week). Want to do 4 plate deadlift, and working on my flexibility. Work out 5x per week, but would love to make that every day. Finances: Not great. Most of my capital is tied up in my start up. I still have a regular person job at my tech company, which pays very well. But all of the $ goes into feeding the machine. Hopeful that the economics can work a little bit bett…
/r/RPChristians10/01/22 09:36 PM
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Basically whatever happens, is a great option. I can't lose. Spoken like a man who hasn't been through the divorce process.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 06:56 PM
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Thank you man. I want to emphasize we are on the same team. Work out like your life depends on it. Every. Single. Day. Light days if you are super sore, but no “days off”. Sex is ridiculous. I’ve had a lot. Never makes any sense so don’t worry about it. Certainly don’t think “you’re neurotic” about it. Life is a long game and I promise you’ll have lots of sex sometimes, and zero other times. Tis the nature of the beast. Muscles fix your mind. You’ve got this.
/r/RPChristians03/01/22 01:45 AM
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I am taking the time to reply to you. Therapy is poison. Honestly. If you have OCD they are keeping you this way. Getting jacked will solve “mental problems” (as if your body and mind are not connected). If you went to the gym today, drink some coffee and go again. Eat brown rice and meat to end the day. Pray every night to have Him speak within you. He will help, I promise. Our culture is sick. Having “mental health problems” is a good indicator you’ve got some hope. You’ve got this brother.
/r/RPChristians03/01/22 01:34 AM
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I unfortunately have a very strong opinion on this. Keep in mind I’ve run marathons and lifted heavy. So I know both. Lifting heavy is 1000x better than running. Doesn’t matter what. 5x5 is usually safest. Just do 5x5 at your max. Write it down. Beat that. It’s like Mario kart ghost racing. I promise this works. Let’s get jacked.
/r/RPChristians03/01/22 01:31 AM
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Dude this text is massive. Tl;dr. No body owes you anything. Your victim mentality does not help. Question, have you been to the gym today?
/r/RPChristians03/01/22 01:17 AM
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Yeah man. Nawalt! Monogamous LTRs are the best! Don’t even need the gym. Let’s all fall in love!
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 09:25 PM
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I’m years in. It’s funny, I never think about my ex wife. But I do think about the girl that shoved the red pill up my ass all the time. I used to think that “the point” of dating was to find an LTR. Like Neil at the end of The Game. Now I just plan to buy a virgin from overseas when it’s time to make babies. Unromantic for sure. But there is no room for romance in the US. The thing is, I don’t really miss her, even though I miss the feelings. She blew up my entire world view. There is no peace.…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 07:45 AM
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Respect. All true. I think the not alone part is important. Especially for the early stage of “betrayal”. Part of the game. Learn. Move.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/21 07:06 PM
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All true. Let’s get jacked.
/r/RPChristians29/12/21 04:49 PM
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Big idea - no one can tell you what to do with your life. It kinda stinks, but is also amazing when you find it. Every path is the right path, but you do look at the paths you did not take. How to find your mission? Depends on the person. Prayer is really helpful IMHO. Journaling, signing up for new activities- those are popular. Coed soccer is what I’ve done. I also have a bible study group I enjoy quite a bit through my church. I shopped around churches in LA for maybe 6 months before picking …
/r/RPChristians25/12/21 04:48 AM
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When is the last time you "caught feels" for a [classy lady]? So rare, I've found it hard to resist the indulgence. I know where the road ends of course....
/r/TheRedPill15/12/21 04:50 PM
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Appreciate it. Well said. Obviously you’re still sorting out “why” (I am too). Understanding it intellectually and trying to explain it is helpful. I constantly think about how to “convince” my old self, but I’m not sure it can be done with words
/r/TheRedPill05/12/21 03:48 AM
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You’re just thinking of the main sub
/r/askRPC02/12/21 02:02 PM
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Holy smokes. Dropping heat.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 05:53 PM
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Weights are better than running. It’s not even close. I’ve lived it. Getting jacked is a longer process than even marathon training. The fundamental difference between the two is how people react to you. You can’t tell who can run a marathon. You can tell who is jacked. Both push your body and mind. I would argue your mind works better when jacked, but this is just based on my experience.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/21 03:04 PM
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Wow! Blast from the past! Arch, you changed my life bro. Appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/21 01:34 AM
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I don't know man, I used to think I would rather know the truth and be miserable than believe in lies and be happy. But even if what you said was true, I think it might be better to not know This is actually quite amazing for me to read. This is about as literal as we can get between the red pill and the blue pill. Sado is 100% correct. This is what we call "an inconvenient truth". Women "like" Dads. They "like like" Cads. "I love you but I'm not in love with you" as many a red piller knows. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:28 AM
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It's like the majority of men are literally invisible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 03:15 PM
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Your patience is remarkable man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 02:51 PM
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+1 we call it "cause and effect" but that's only because that's how we experience it. It's all one thing.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/21 02:31 PM
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Uncle Vaz throwin heat. Appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/21 12:52 AM
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Ok, I'm going to try and be patient here. In your heart, do you think complaining brings different results? This is a shared community (of which you are a part). Be the change right? This is true in both online and offline worlds
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 04:48 PM
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Your posts have been helpful at least. Appreciate it!
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 02:17 PM
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Appreciate it man. Been meaning to do this research. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 07:54 PM
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It's why I came back to the church. I was a feminist / atheist / PUA previously. Deep regret. Very thankful to be here.
/r/RPChristians24/08/21 07:30 PM
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Low tolerance for bullshit, while also saying "I talk bullshit"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 12:38 AM
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... I'm not sure I follow. The vast majority of things "don't work". But emotions / beliefs / social structures make that hard to see sometimes. So, very clearly, not anything is red pill. I can't tell if you're a person or a bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:45 PM
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that's actually what the red pill is.... If it works, it's red pill. This is about as clear a definition as is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 09:39 PM
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Understand that the Sun is our father. Every day he gets up. Inspiring us to do the same. Consistency and discipline.
/r/askRPC14/08/21 10:02 PM
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Warlock out of the blue with an absolute zinger. Awesome stuff man.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 04:52 PM
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dumbfounded Perfect word. Much nicer way of saying "the red pill was shoved up my ass".
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 08:58 PM
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I don't know how much we still want to invest in reddit still, but I think this article should be sidebar
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 08:55 PM
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Why are you here? What is wrong with you?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/21 11:14 AM
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You're a great man. Much appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/21 02:38 AM
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I'm 37. Better late than never for real. Plus now I don't have the "goal" of getting married.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/21 06:13 PM
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What do you mean by "do well with women"? Plenty of feminine men can pick up, get girlfriends, and feel comfortable with women. Some fuck bois fit this description (I'd argue that Cassanova would be considered a bit of a feminine man). But they have trouble maintaining attraction beyond the honeymoon phase, and their "partners" cheat on them with more masculine men. Feminine men are not able to maintain attraction in long term relationships (they do not have regular sex in long term relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 09:29 PM
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Good one! That'll show him.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 02:07 AM
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The special event is the red pill shoved up your ass
/r/TheRedPill17/04/21 01:32 AM
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Thanks for your posts man! They've been helpful at least
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 01:20 PM
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For real. Your posts have been great tho. Appreciate it!
/r/TheRedPill30/03/21 07:21 PM
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Appreciate it man. Exactly right. These tribes will be the ones who emerge from the upcoming chaos
/r/TheRedPill03/03/21 12:29 AM
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This lie has had a tremendous negative impact on my life
/r/PussyPassDenied20/02/21 06:17 PM
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The dim age is upon us
/r/TheRedPill10/02/21 07:41 PM
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It's right in the name. "Birth control". It needs to come back to men. I have a vasectomy with my boys in the bank, but a pill or gel would be better. Time for the pendulum to come back
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre10/02/21 01:10 AM
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Not for me....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/21 05:00 PM
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Good luck
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/21 02:29 AM
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Well, I was a male feminist for a long time. Just how I was raised. Every day I try to undo the damage from reading what I was given. I just don't think it's helpful to read about the psychology of the other side. I'm sure it's interesting, but might impact your social interactions in a negative way. At least, that's what happened to me
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/21 01:52 AM
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So interesting that you lurk here
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/21 01:36 AM
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Holy shit. This a much better version of "hard times create good men"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/21 09:30 PM
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You've been spot on the whole time. This is 100% true. I'm "pot committed" to the US. People will look back at this post, just like the one a year ago, and see this is a spot on take. Appreciate you sharing.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 07:02 PM
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This is the greatest red pill comment ever
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 05:39 AM
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Read everything from u/sadomasochrist. Obviously sidebar. Multiple times. It's cool. Your upbringing has taught you a strategy to "win". That strategy is not accurate. You can still lean "good", but you have to understand what being "evil" even means. Best thing you can do is start your own business so that you're in charge of your time. Women will always come and go. "Sad" in a sense, but it's just how things are. Acceptance awaits. Also, fuck porn. Shit is poison.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 01:50 AM
1

For real! I appreciate your posts and insights my man
/r/TheRedPill25/12/20 05:24 PM
10

People are people!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/20 12:43 AM
1

Well no. On the internet they call me "Chad". But the reality is always more complicated. Relationships unfortunately are designed to fail (we call that evolution). We're all doing our best. This is just men swapping notes in a locker room. But seriously, dont stress yourself about what we write on the stall wall.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/20 07:13 PM
3

Women call it that. Unfortunately, it's not the case. Honestly, don't even worry about it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/20 12:49 AM
7

Don't even worry about it. It's not even hate. It's just so hard to describe what the world looks like from the other side. Venus vs Mars is real. I wouldn't stress. Get dating advice from other women. That's the best plan
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/20 12:16 AM
2

That's...not what this post is about. Yes, there are worse countries. There are also better countries! One of my goals career wise is to "go where the tide is rising". I work in tech. More users show up every day. If I just keep showing up, I win. The tide is going out in the US. That's all this post is about.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/20 02:29 AM
1

Yes, I think GLO's perspective from outside the US is helpful. We are past the peak of the US. Why not go somewhere that is growing and expanding? I would encourage you to do the same, not just geopolitically, but in every aspect of your life. Why not put yourself in the best position possible?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/20 02:27 AM
1

This is one of the best posts I've ever seen. This is just straight facts. It is heartbreaking. But mega real. I'm struggling with staying or leaving the US every day. The objectively correct strategy is to move, but subjectively I've got family and a business here. Thanks at least for keeping it real. And if I end up staying I will have to deal with the obviously negative consequences.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/20 10:38 PM
5

I can't tell if this is a joke....
/r/TheRedPill22/11/20 01:33 PM
1

Laughing at disrespect works when younger, but not when older. Saying "haha" is a protective reflex. Part of you does not want to laugh. That's the part that recognizes "Hey, this kind of sucks. Fuck that guy." This is the part of you that also happens to be helpful with women. Embrace it. Fuck that guy. As for your big big question, I'm not sure it can be done honestly. People long before us put together a system that tried to keep women virgins. This was our "best shot." Now, we deal with slut…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 07:58 AM
2

This is like seeing a bizarro mirror. So glad I got out
/r/MGTOW09/11/20 10:30 PM
174

Just glad this place exists
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/20 09:33 PM
4

Apologies as I know this is the internet. I was kidding. You sir are a great man and are awesome. Thank you so much. Sluts are horrible. Horrible horrible.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/20 10:13 PM
-3

Totally agree. These women haters are ridiculous. She brings her experience to the table. Knows what she wants and it confident asking for it. The ideal partner really. What could go wrong?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/20 05:37 PM
1

Nice
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/20 03:19 AM
2

This would be what I would call a "typical marriage"
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre22/10/20 05:31 AM
3

Sadly this information could've helped me...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/20 05:33 PM
12

+1 jealousy is telling you something
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/20 03:33 PM
1

More government is better! Just get it. Pssh. Such a man. Thinking you should to keep the money you earn. So entitled.
/r/MGTOW17/10/20 12:44 AM
2

We all die alone
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/20 12:24 AM
4

For me that's the biggest thing. "the game" is rigged
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre15/10/20 09:17 PM
3

Like what is that? Is that gynocentrism? Feminism? Brain washing? I honestly don't understand. I don't know how this version of reality ends. We're so far off.
/r/MGTOW09/10/20 02:46 AM
1

Facts
/r/MGTOW07/10/20 02:31 AM
22

Me too. But it also prevented me from reaching out. Small victory
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 01:34 AM
1

The divide in knowledge I think is getting larger. Blue pilled PUAs who get success exaggerate the difference too (guiltily raises hand)
/r/TheRedPill06/10/20 05:33 PM
13

Appreciate the call out. Blue pill in me must be leaking. Didn't lift today.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 08:29 AM
10

It's not a lie if you believe it -Costanza
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 08:27 AM
59

Great post. Part of my "anger phase" was the rage from cheating. Expecting honesty and fidelity from Western women will doom you to misery. Cheating is part of the game. Expect it. Next em. Red pillers laugh and move on.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 10:26 PM
11

Woah
/r/MGTOW01/10/20 08:15 PM
1

Come for the knowledge. Stay for the burns.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 12:37 PM
2

I dislike you intensely
/r/MGTOW25/09/20 07:39 PM
1

+1 the pill is bitter
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre23/09/20 08:48 AM
12

I have money. Drama of the low life wins every time. I'm so boring! ;)
/r/MGTOW20/09/20 12:56 AM
2

Pssh. Bet you don't even wear your face shield and gloves
/r/MGTOW18/09/20 02:23 PM
20

Honestly I think she's just a woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/20 06:07 AM
3

Seriously. Men and women are the same! Everything else is a social construct. (Jokes jokes)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/20 07:13 PM
1

+1 to this. I was also sore for about 6 weeks.
/r/MGTOW11/09/20 11:01 PM
1

True. I'm in LA
/r/MGTOW10/09/20 11:16 PM
2

Red pilling of America has begun. It cannot be stopped.
/r/MGTOW10/09/20 03:48 PM
1

That has not been true for the women I know on the site. Very easy to make several thousand a month even without nudes
/r/MGTOW10/09/20 03:40 PM
3

It's disgusting
/r/MGTOW10/09/20 03:37 PM
2

37 here. A couple years in. Red pill is mega real. Even when inconvenient. I still get tripped out by all the blue pill marketing. Reading is cool. Getting jacked is better. Focus on overall size rather than asthetics. 5x5 heavy as you can. Lots of brown rice. Cut out porn if you haven't already (took me a couple years too long on that one). There is no escape. You'll never be perfect. All you can do is be the best version of you. Time is the most valuable asset you have, especially if you're go…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/20 09:20 PM
5

So woke
/r/MGTOW27/08/20 01:15 AM
-1

How do you get a point for this?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/20 03:20 AM
1

If it was about equality they would've called it "equalism" and not "feminism"
/r/MGTOW20/08/20 11:57 PM
2

This is awesome. For people who are "confused" - Wake. The. Fuck. Up.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/20 09:47 PM
1

Wait til you see what happens next...
/r/MGTOW11/08/20 07:53 AM
2

You got this!
/r/TheRedPill09/08/20 08:06 PM
0

Seriously! What a loser this guy max is. If anything more sex helps women understand their bodies, enabling them to communicate with their partners what they like and dislike. Gotta have experience!
/r/TheRedPill09/08/20 06:44 PM
1

Sweet. Keep it up. Gotta learn somehow!
/r/MGTOW07/08/20 04:05 AM
1

Sadly this information would've helped me.... "She literally can not tell the difference between "supporting her" and not caring about her at all. Because she was raised to believe that the most amount of autonomy and men agreeing with her, rather than guiding her, is what "caring" is." This is exactly what I was taught. In my last break up I told the girl "Maximum autonomy". Thinking that this was the most attractive that I could be.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 06:42 PM
3

Blue pill seems hard to understand once you're out of it. I didn't have the language to describe what was happening to me. She can't be abusive to me. That's impossible. I'm the man...
/r/MGTOW01/08/20 02:37 PM
1

This is what the blue pill is. I remember.
/r/MGTOW01/08/20 02:29 PM
2

🤡🌍
/r/MGTOW30/07/20 02:28 PM
1

Wow. Straight facts
/r/MGTOW27/07/20 10:42 PM
9

Amen
/r/MGTOW26/07/20 06:05 PM
1

How many black male talks are there?
/r/MGTOW25/07/20 07:29 PM
2

I don't understand what "redpill/incel" is. How can they possibly conflate the two? I'm here because I dated women. Lots. Redpill/incel to me reads top tier and bottom tier men. So, what they really mean is, no men.
/r/MGTOW25/07/20 07:22 PM
2

Respect bro
/r/MGTOW25/07/20 07:18 PM
2

Makes me sick
/r/MGTOW24/07/20 12:26 AM
2

My mom. Still working on adjusting my reality. Gym is 10x better
/r/MGTOW24/07/20 12:24 AM
4

Ha reminds me of this
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 10:58 PM
1

Great stuff. Subscribe to r/thebluepill for relationship advice. Best way to create a long term healthy relationship is there!
/r/ExRedPill14/07/20 07:56 PM
3

i put some in the bank and got snipped. NEVER let a woman be in charge of the birth control
/r/MGTOW14/07/20 07:11 PM
66

Me too man
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 05:30 PM
1

Very hard to tell spergs this kind of nuance. Way to thin. While this is generally true, getting your shit together (in every way) is needed as a good baseline for life. That way when a bitch fucks you over (obvi), you're on solid ground
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 12:42 AM
4

That's exactly what I'm saying. If numbers aren't "real" we're in trouble...
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 10:41 PM
9

I saw a post on Twitter today that said "2+2=4 is only that way because of our Western way of thinking. We think of it as the only way of knowing." Literally a month a go I would've said there is an objective truth. That power is not the only thing. I believe at list in counting! And sadly, that is already gone. Only power is real. Let's get jacked and get this money.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 01:14 AM
1

It's the only road we got. You could bail and move international and start over (remains a back up option for me if my business doesn't work out). At least a plan for finances (income - expenses - plan to pay down debt). Know that women only cost time and money. just how it is.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:35 PM
1

I found it late too. Way better to find it without a wife and kid. I'm 36 (soon to be 37). I have lots of regrets. But we play the ball as it lies. Your LTR isn't ideal? Ditch. We only have a short amount of time here. Getting jacked is a must. I've got my own business. I think getting your finances aggressively in order is a must. Women are cool and all, but if you've got multiple LTRs it doesn't sound like pick up is an issue. Listen, there's some nihlism about the pill. Is what is is. And if …
/r/askTRP06/07/20 02:58 PM
5

Just watched! Iceberg slim would be proud
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/20 05:20 PM
1

This is awesome. Appreciate you taking the time on this one man.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 12:23 AM
1

Ha ok. Guess I better learn about these mgtow levels!
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 05:42 PM
1

In what way? I would've said the red pill is mgtows anthem.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 04:48 PM
2

Death of the plow horse captures this nicely.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 03:38 PM
15

Uncomfortable truth over comfortable lies my man. You can try to reframe, but we are all alone in our consciousness. Candle goes out alone in the end.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 09:03 AM
15

For real! There are dozens of unicorns out there. Dozens!
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 05:40 PM
1

This is probably the greatest red pill introduction ever. Playfully welcoming him into the tribe. Leave us alone over here. Let us turn boys into men.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 03:26 AM
1

Ohh I wish I saved the username and comment. Didn't figure out the best way to win a reddit debate. Delete your username. Never even happened!
/r/TheRedPill18/06/20 10:33 PM
1

I used to think the same thing...
/r/MGTOW18/06/20 02:04 PM
3

Spent time, money, and effort in therapy. Gym is quicker, cheaper, and easier to get the EXACT same results. Therapy is for women. Gym is for men.
/r/MGTOW17/06/20 07:55 PM
1

I've been broken by women. Black men have helped me rebuild. I don't really know what the scam is.
/r/MGTOW16/06/20 04:18 AM
3

Thanks for sharing my man. Yep, totally get it. Blue pill "feels" like it gives life a meaning. That's why it's so hard to lose. I have some good news, you will be able to create better relationships in the future. But unfortunately, the sad truth that they never love us like we love them never goes away. Listen, TRP is 100% correct. But it still sucks. I still dislike it when I "punish" my plates by removing time and attention. I would literally hate it if girls did this to me. Permanently over…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/20 03:47 AM
2

Gym is way better than therapy. Heavy as you can
/r/MGTOW12/06/20 04:12 PM
1

Blessed to be here. Thank you
/r/MGTOW12/06/20 08:21 AM
1

Absolutely. "Whore" is such a derogatory (and innaccurate) term. She's a sex positive person. Those "agreements" with partners about sexual exclusivity, those are oppressive reminants of the Patriarchy. No one owes anyone exclusive sexual access. Only insecure men would ask for that. Women can fuck whomever they want, and we men need to never emotionally invest in them or give them any money. Clearly this is the system that works for everyone. Here here!
/r/askTRP10/06/20 05:49 PM
8

facts. While the owners of the technocracy make comical amounts of money, and abandon responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 05:29 PM
13

Many reasons people reject it (including myself originally). I think the main reason that men find it so hard to believe is because it is so counter intuitive to our logical brains. Many of us use "The Golden Rule", and try to attract women in ways that we think would work. I would like to receive flowers and positive "good morning" texts. That SEEMS like it would work. I think Sado captures this nicely in True Alpha.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 09:06 PM
41

It's funny. I don't think of the red pill as "getting stronger." More and more people are waking up to the nature of women. I was as blue as a Smurf, but my "Chad" status had me blind to the truth of the nature of the beast. Couple wake up calls later, and I'm here. I'd heard of TRP, and even read some of the sidebar. But as a blue Piller, it seemed so negative. Why cant we just do positive game? And the answer is because they're women. If you only have carrots and no sticks, you lose. "Punching…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 07:25 PM
3

I got married
/r/MGTOW31/05/20 08:58 PM
2

What is wrong with people
/r/MGTOW30/05/20 07:44 PM
1

this is so offensive its crazy
/r/MGTOW26/05/20 05:56 AM
3

this is the difference between experience and knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 02:35 AM
2

Damn bro. Dirty. The levity is awesome though.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 07:16 PM
3

This is fantastic. Thanks for writing. Totally agree. Up there with u/runawaygrain
/r/MGTOW20/05/20 06:15 AM
1

slowly but steadily waking up
/r/MGTOW20/05/20 12:39 AM
5

amazing
/r/MGTOW20/05/20 12:36 AM
2

this is the new reality. Not going away.
/r/MGTOW19/05/20 02:25 PM
-1

there are many red pills (not just 2). And yes, he’s inclusive. Knowledge of uncomfortable truths is something he believes in.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/20 01:44 AM
–

he's aware of this place for sure. He knows what is included in that statement.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/20 01:24 AM
2

for your own mental health id avoid reading it. Recovering femenist here. That shit will fuck up your brain and your life
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 07:49 PM
3

and then divorce is for varsity status
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 07:36 PM
10

Here here! Pros for bros. New healthcare plan
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 07:30 PM
3

who will tell these stories of the .5%? What are they going to do now? Focus on education and government? Terrible
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 07:24 PM
3

bleh
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 07:23 PM
2

saw this too. Clown world...
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 04:32 AM
1

same. 1 to 1 once i had the info. Blue pill is an illusion. I wasnt a simp. Neither are my friends. I just see things a little..different
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 03:39 AM
1

exactly! This is why there are no monks anymore. Or priests. Same gender groups always die out. That's why the Masters started accepting female membership. That way the country club could finally live on. Well put!
/r/MGTOW14/05/20 03:33 PM
6

Damn...this is pretty legit my man. Hadn't looked at it this way. Respect.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/20 01:24 AM
2

Wow. Btw, where we are is pretty awesome. Currently the lowest percentage of men at war ever. I don't know what he's looking for. More transgender bathrooms?
/r/MGTOW08/05/20 09:07 PM
3

Ah. I suppose it's harder to add value to a community and it's easier to sit back and throw rocks. Stay awesome.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 08:26 PM
7

Your posts have been great though. Appreciate it!
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 07:38 PM
6

She's unhaaaapppy. Grounds for divorce! Just like in the Bible
/r/MGTOW07/05/20 11:04 PM
3

Hey man, I'm sorry to hear it. After my last oneitis left, I thought about ending it all. Many times. I was spinning 4-5 plates at a time for years, caught feelings for one, and went all in. After all, I'm an "expert!" Cheating. Gaslighting. She was a "good girl" from a small town. You're under emotional pain and duress right now. Feeling like you lost something. You will have other emotional pain in your life (loss of parents, hard core disease, loss of employment, betrayal by a friend). Dying …
/r/MGTOW05/05/20 02:07 AM
14

Great comment. Speaks to the cPTSD we feel when washing up on the Red Pill shores. Choose how you react...
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 01:31 AM
4

I was told women were "oppressed". How could I not want to help the oppressed? Church family taught me to help the less fortunate (would've appreciated it if we had more lessons about women from the Bible). I wasn't trying to get pussy, I got pussy. But when in an LTR somehow sharing all my feelings kept not working... I did it to try and help. Helping people makes me feel good. Selfish really. You have to see that women today are not oppressed, but empowered. Changing the language used within y…
/r/MGTOW23/04/20 09:29 PM
7

Exactly right. Great post. I always tried to be "the perfect boyfriend". Works for shit. Because the perfect boyfriend necessarily is beta.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 01:15 AM
3

I hadn't seen this picture of Patton. (shakes head) such a bummer.
/r/MGTOW22/04/20 12:21 AM
7

I consider myself a libertarian. The most powerful thing I can do is choose for myself what I do with my time. My gave the same power to my girlfriends. Turns out what they do with their time is not as...productive
/r/MGTOW19/04/20 02:38 AM
1

Simps are folks who don't know the nature of women. Believing what we say, not watching what they do. Believing in reciprocity (I love you and show you every day, believing this behavior endears you). Simps are folks who believe generic dating advice - that kindness and vulnerability are attractive. Those stupid men, listening... Source: former simp!
/r/MGTOW18/04/20 05:46 AM
3

How about "above" and "below". Are you acting like you work for her or she works for you?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/20 06:02 AM
2

Tell that to cypher Well, he did want to go back in. Exredpill would be happy to have him.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/20 06:01 AM
6

+1 I'm pretty big now. Being nice is much better received as a big person.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/20 06:00 AM
19

+1 I like that... Society promotes what is useful, especially in terms of behaviors
/r/TheRedPill16/04/20 11:13 PM
1

Embarrassing
/r/MGTOW16/04/20 01:50 AM
1

There are always "warning signs" when looking backwards. I assumed my partners we're always "telling me the truth." Men are frustrated when women won't be direct. Women are frustrated when men can't interpret sub communication (speaking with actions), I have always given ample warning verbally when breaking up. This has not been reciprocal. Is what It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:08 PM
1

Wow. That's amazing
/r/MGTOW15/04/20 02:55 AM
1

Hvm here. Can confirm lack of sex in relationships! Hope he bails before marriage....
/r/MGTOW12/04/20 06:13 PM
1

Mmm mmm. Hatorate must taste great.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 08:16 PM
2

super relevant post. Blue pill world is really a different place once youve been red for a bit. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 04:38 AM
2

can't wait for the next trp post “i wasted too much time lifting instead of reading/painting in my room”
/r/TheRedPill05/04/20 12:46 AM
1

perfect. Continue onwards and strike that balance between masculine and vulnerable. Thats where the good stuff is. And remember dont cheat when its super serious!
/r/TheRedPill04/04/20 10:45 PM
2

Dude you don't understand. He's in love!
/r/TheRedPill04/04/20 09:49 PM
3

Spinning plates is for suckers. Beta is alpha! Finkle is Einhorn! Let's all get married!
/r/TheRedPill04/04/20 09:48 PM
1

I don't understand. LTRs are beta, right? Isn't that the point of this sub? I'm assuming you're a little younger. A peek into the future: You're gradually becoming more vulnerable. Striking this balance, but still emotionally investing. Sex naturally decreases. It's not even her, you just don't want it as much You're not some "animal" that requires sex every day. Eventually you're just kind of friends. You're attractive enough / rich enough so there's no "problems" in the relationship. She doesn…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/20 09:43 PM
2

6 months max
/r/MGTOW03/04/20 06:36 PM
1

Wow. This is actually amazing. SW vs Civis - never heard of that.
/r/MGTOW02/04/20 05:17 PM
1

I'm 35, so mayybe 10-12 partners a year. But many young women have high numbers. Certainly i dont remember the girls at my college putting up similar numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 03:41 AM
1

I personally find female promiscuity unattractive. A bit like eating too much at the buffet i suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 03:40 AM
1

You must not live in a large American city. Girls who are “single” for multiple years in their 20s in NY and LA hit this number easily. I agree, it is gross. But it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 11:18 PM
1

Do you really believe that women are not incredibly promiscuous today vs previous generations?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 04:44 PM
1

honestly I wish it was that explicit.
/r/MGTOW01/04/20 12:03 AM
14

this is a great one
/r/TheRedPill24/03/20 12:23 AM
1

I find this so interesting. Props to GLO on his consistency. I hadnt seen writing like this til i got here. But isnt it kind of hilarious? Punching people with words is what he does. Its his method to remind you our “social norms” are part of the matrix. It is perfectly reasonable to talk like this. Calling people “stupid” shouldnt even register with an adult man (“alpha”). It would not impact me because it isnt true. And then id look at the rest of his message. We’re here to learn. He is withou…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/20 01:45 AM
1

It’s clear you don’t have what I’m looking for. I'd have to +1 Sado here. Hopefully he's only 2-3 years ahead of me. I also have "no problem" getting girls into bed, fall in love with me, etc. The roofer analogy is perfect. Reading 50 shades of grey is probably a good way to try and see what things are like on the other side of the table. And with the understanding that this book was a best seller while women were making egalitarian gains in the workplace. No need to reinvent the wheel here. Wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 09:57 PM
1

This post is appearing prophetic....
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 07:45 AM
3

totally agree. Im just trying to say the same thing in a different way. Experience is the best (even if painful) teacher
/r/TheRedPill15/03/20 04:16 AM
3

SK pumping out original content during these trying times. Nice.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/20 03:15 AM
1

What your talking about here IS feminism vs “the patriarchy”. The female happiness paradox suggests that your theory is not correct. Naivety is the result of sexual restrictions. Naivety and happiness are positively coorelated. Opening “pandoras box” is bad. You would say opening it is unavoidable. So what should we aim for?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 11:57 PM
2

politics reflect world views. i hate the fact that American politics are becoming men vs women. But look at team blue. Chris matthews was just fired for BEING BETA. Sad times.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/20 05:02 PM
1

FOR REAL
/r/MGTOW07/03/20 05:23 AM
3

+1 Indifference vs control...why you don't want to be Chad
/r/TheRedPill05/03/20 03:39 PM
1

Definitely real. Hi friend!
/r/MGTOW23/02/20 04:47 PM
1

You must be good looking (so am I). Just be yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:25 PM
3

Purdue chicken is widely available at affordable prices. My local supermarket carries organic and regular
/r/TheRedPill16/02/20 10:59 PM
4

It's like looking into a bizarre mirror. Hope he finds the red pill before marriage
/r/MGTOW16/02/20 10:32 PM
3

I viewed myself as a leader. Proudly wearing the male feminist badge as a code of honor. We can change the world and be on the same team! After a series of betrayals...hmmm...maybe I'm not picking the wrong one. Maybe it's me....
/r/MensRights15/02/20 06:10 PM
21

I can't tell if this is a joke...
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 02:36 AM
1

I think about Sodom and Gomorrah as folks casually mention "enjoy the decline." I agree that this is the direction, but after destruction there's a rebirth. That's what these old stories are trying to say anyway. The death of God might be followed by a rebirth.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/20 02:30 AM
6

😂😂😂
/r/askTRP18/01/20 04:57 AM
2

Wow - thanks for sharing Red Pike. This was pretty awesome. The game is alive - and is changing in real time. And very quickly. Wild.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/20 06:14 PM
36

Dude - respect. I can totally relate. At some point it's just like - I can sleep with girls I find attractive whenever I want, if I make that choice. . . Having said that, the reason I hesitate to write something similar is that younger folks might use an excuse to take monk mode too far. How do you think you can differentiate relaxed abundance vs laziness?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/19 04:20 AM
1

Exactly! That's why the tone of the article is so bizarre. If we start normalizing pedophilia.... I mean, how far is clown world going to take this?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 04:24 PM
2

So, the tone of the article is fascinating to me. Blue or red - I think that lifestyle sounds so gross. But, the implication of the article is that feeling of grossness I have is incorrect. No rules!
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 03:58 AM
1

Re-read this today. Great stuff. The blue pill is straight up hurting America.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 06:07 AM
8

Honestly, it kind of is magic. For real.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 02:37 AM
1

Such an extreme response. So interesting. What are you afraid of?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:19 PM
3

I like this guy! [Edit] wow. The hate is amazing. This shit IS the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/19 03:20 AM
2

Wow. Full Reddit medal here. That was awesome.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 05:58 AM
1

Sado - you are crushing it. I appreciate you taking the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:37 PM
2

Hilarious comments here. I live in LA and enjoy it quite a bit. Spun plates for several years in Santa Monica. It is competitive. But if you've got your own place with a real job and aren't terrible socially, it's pretty fun. Join a co-ed soccer team in Santa Monica (or zogsports in general). I like trivia nights too. 30s btw in LA is not "older." 20s in LA dating sucks, but 30s has been pretty fun for me. Obviously don't get oneitis (learned my lesson!). But lots of fun girls to go around. Tind…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 10:58 PM
1

Ha well this whole sub is an elaboration! The "debate" part is interesting to me conceptually. I remember reading the red pill before and thinking "those guys are so manipulative". I referred to it as "the dark side of the force". Effective, but what I viewed as unethical at the time. It's very difficult to "debate" life experience. And the longer the internet is around, the more people will share their experiences. The red pill is growing not because members are going out and recruiting. Women …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 04:51 PM
1

Blue pill is an emotional indulgence. Red pill is the truth. There was never really a "debate" to begin with. Only the horrible impact it has on men who discover the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 09:07 PM
1

Who knows how many even asked...
/r/TheRedPill28/10/19 07:27 PM
2

Dude - really appreciate you taking the time here. So glad to have washed up on these shores.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 09:58 PM
3

Fantastic post. And great anecdote for younger red pillers. Blue Pill is literally a dream. Symbolic blue pill success is not success. Wake up.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 08:09 PM
2

Listen, I'm not here to convert you. If your mental model for how the world works is working, power to you! But, when you really look at it objectively - has listening to the advice from a woman (or women in general) improved your personal position? When I first saw this Roosh quote - it bothered me that I couldn't think of exceptions in my own life. Surely this must be wrong. Even a blind squirrel gets an acorn sometimes, right? And yet...I don't have any. From my entire life... Obviously you w…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 07:35 PM
2

Thanks for sharing man. So sorry to hear about it. Hope you're doing ok.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 04:09 PM
1

Appreciate it bro. I'm still in probably stage 2 or 3 of becoming a "red pill alpha." Still unlearning / relearning. Redoing the pieces and sharing as things become more clear for me. My next post will be about learning about life from "the book of lies" - also known as the blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 03:07 AM
4

Certainly companies like Google are working as hard as they can to get more women to take CS classes. So far - the results remain where 70% of engineers are men. Is what it is.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 09:15 PM
3

Fair enough. Unfortunately, turns out women aren't so good at STEM, and wages remain high.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 03:31 PM
8

"I’ve observed almost no cases where a man’s status or position has been increased from following a woman’s advice or opinions, and it’s much more likely for him to be harmed from it." -Roosh This has been my experience as well.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 03:29 PM
2

This is actually incredible! And just an amazing display of how serious blue pill programming is. If you don't see it, you literally don't see it...You can dance around all you want, but reality exists. You HAVE to get fucked over in order to re-learn it.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/19 11:34 PM
1

RPS - amazing job steering the ship my man
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 01:43 PM
4

Back again. And still a great post. I know we sometimes use the terms blue pill and beta interchangeably. This is a great elucidation of why blue pill behavior is a turn off
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 06:29 PM
15

Heroic masculinity. Fantastic.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 05:01 PM
12

Same. Revenge is totally a reasonable thing to want, but difficult to get. The advice here (which is correct) is to ghost her. If she comes back, you can decide how to interact. If she doesn't, you keep doing your thing. The only way she would feel regret is if she lost something. Best thing you can do is find a much better girl. In girl world, that's really the only thing that matters. Girls are difficult to "confront" since they use plausible deniability and indirect communication. Keep silent…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 07:56 PM
1

This. Super this. Married my first adult girlfriend and I just didn't have a point of comparison.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 08:54 PM
1

Ha this place is awesome
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:18 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:17 PM
3

+1 this. Making a ton of money staring at a computer. All if/thens all day. Financially amazing, but women don't need this anymore. Providers? Nahhh. Thanks butt sluts!
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 01:25 AM
1

This makes me want to vomit
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 05:39 PM
1

For real. What's interesting is the battle between my "blue pill" understanding of how I thought things would be and "red pill" understanding of how things are. Still trying to be ruthless with the sidebar rules.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 09:55 PM
13

Took 36 years to learn this one...
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 09:48 PM
1

Honestly I wish every day that the red pill wasn't real. My "ego" is still invested in the old books, even though I know it isn't true. Women also say explicitly that the red pill is not true. And yet, despite my ego. Despite my wanting it not to be true. Every single interaction I have shows me the red pill is true. I feel bad for them. It's hard to change. I struggle every day. But I know I'm walking on the right path. This is why the sidebar is so helpful, I can see where I am in the 5 stages…
/r/askTRP01/08/19 01:17 AM
3

It's funny, I can still remember my old thinking. He thinks he's being supportive. Lifting changes your brain. Helps wake you up. I considered myself liberal, enlightened, and a leader who had the courage to empower women. Lifting helped me see that this was all a trick. Natural testosterone.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 02:39 PM
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I saw this thread. I still remember my blue pill programming. I know he's doing this to "support her". He loves her, and wants her to pursue her dreams. She will OBVIOUSLY support him the same way. Only to discover, huh, she just was super selfish. It's almost like she was using a different set of rules than him... Prescription is still the same - gym.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 02:19 AM
1

I keep re-reading this. This is awesome. Since we're all in the matrix, you might as well aim for the top of the matrix. We're OBVIOUSLY all selling our time for money, at least with our brain we make a ton of cash (which I was told was important). Good at learning means I'm good at absorbing ideas too. You need a submissive or accepting frame to be good at learning, you're literally absorbing other people's ideas. So when feminism is introduced, I have no intellectual counter points. Nor, do I …
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 08:04 AM
1

Dude, this is great. Really appreciate you taking the time to write it up. It's another way to emphasize how important control game is. Thanks again.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 07:55 AM
5

Does HB matter? I get more skeptical every day
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 12:21 AM
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Love it. They call this conflict "feminine mystique". Why is it she also says one thing and yet does another? This is why behavior is the only reliable indicator of intent. Don't listen to what she says...watch what she does
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 04:51 PM
1

+1 this has been my exact experience. I've only started using tinder in the last 6 months, but it's basically the biggest sexual marketplace. I just swipe left on all the gross girls. Top two main plates are from tinder right now. Just as good as I'd pick up, but with less time. Very efficient.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/19 04:31 AM
6

Never done this one. I always wonder how my ex's "feel" about stringing me along for time and money tho. I have this "guilt" thing I'm doing my best to get rid of
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 10:32 PM
22

I am now going to refer to feminist groups as "x and other female surpremicist groups"
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 02:07 AM
2

This. Feminism reinforces it too
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 07:28 PM
2

Appreciate it man. I'm working on my non verbal communication. Definitely seems like the way to go to show whether I'm happy or not. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 04:19 AM
1

This may seem like a silly question, but do you tell her to do certain things to do every day? And do you lead saying something like "most girls I'm with long term are able to do x"?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 08:53 AM
4

Respect. I'm divorced which is where I learned to spin plates. I really want to have a good LTR (never had one). I was taught specifically that women to not want to be led. To not put my needs on them. Yay feminism!
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 12:38 AM
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Chore play! Definitely the way to get equality in marriage. I wonder how often they're having sex.... Poor Bill. He could just travel around and hook up with the hottest models in the world. Kim Dotcom did it right...
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 08:51 PM
2

I'm 35. Just took the pill last year.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 09:00 AM
4

People are so closed minded! ;)
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 09:37 PM
1

Respect. At the end of the day men are straight up losing to women in the US. Our rights are being infringed upon. I'll never get back that time from my blue pill days. Makes me fucking pissed just thinking about it. Rollo has been helpful for red pill 1.0. But I agree we need to fight harder to help save men's lives. That is not an exaggeration. All your points are valid. Women these days are fucking ruthless. It's time we start fighting with an equal effort. They are not playing nice. We sure …
/r/TheRedPill01/06/19 09:19 PM
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Rollo has often referred to himself as a "lesser alpha". Indeed, he aims low by most of the metrics many men would have for themselves (rich, jacked, lots of women, etc). However, I find his material largely beneficial. Even though he personally has some idiosyncrasies, his writing is accurate. "Please break up with me", "Just Get It" "Schedules of Mating" were radical articles when I first read them, and provided a good baseline for someone just waking up. So, he's got a good floor but a low ce…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 09:11 PM
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This is amazing. And I dont even blame him. Seeing the things he's seen... At some point our society will move towards religion again, but it'll require some more break downs ("enjoy the decline"). What a journey he's on
/r/TheRedPill25/05/19 09:48 PM
2

You can also do the marriage ceremony too. You can get married in a church. But bring the government into your personal relationship? Madness.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 10:29 PM
7

I really wish there was a way around the "getting fucked" part. But it's the only way, IMO, to rebuild with the right operating system.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 07:46 PM
1

Fantastic description of the blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 06:10 PM
1

Capitalism is pretty awesome
/r/TheRedPill02/05/19 06:36 PM
0

Recovering feminist pick up artist here, I'm pretty new to this community. What I love about this particular forum is the directness. No drama, no ego. Let the ideas stand on their own merits. Honestly seems like a great marketing opportunity for the 21 convention, which obviously in spirit I support. Drive bys really just show a lack of understanding of what this community is. It's too bad.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/19 06:34 PM
5

I used to believe this. And yes, coming from an internal place of abundance is important. I used to be "generous" with my gifts, love, and time. I have abundance and am happy to share with others. In fact, it's my favorite thing to do. Maybe it's my Christian upbringing or whatever. The issue arises on the other side of the table, where she is not able to tell which place the gift is from (abundance or neediness). Shit tests are designed to make sure it's from abundance. So, even if you give fro…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 04:51 PM
11

There are a lot of actions and behaviors that are the opposite of neediness. All of them are what women call "attractive".
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 04:46 PM
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Hey, you can do it with your girl too! Just making a withdrawal from that "attractive" credit line you have. Which, btw, dwindles every day as comfort makes a withdrawal from the same bank. Ca-ching, ca-ching. What's fucked up to me is that the Blue Pill says that "Nice" behaviors are a deposit. That's why after oneitis, you end up bankrupt.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 07:38 AM
3

Hey I'm no EC. Maybe I assumed incorrectly. If you're fucking a lot, good. Maybe she needs boosting per HSPs control guide. "More attractive" is good general advice. But maybe her self esteem needs a boost
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 03:35 PM
10

Don't listen to what she says. It's not a logical argument. She wants to feel differently. She's not attracted to you and is picking fights. In an LTR, dread is the only way. This is really a question for asktrp. But I highly recommend the sixteen commandments of poon. This is number 4 and number 6. If you're taking her this seriously you're in trouble my man.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 07:31 AM
5

Hi! I had a dead bedroom! I was literally the "perfect" husband. I did everything "right." My mom is a therapist, and I was wide open. I have a high paying job. Extraordinarily responsible. Do community service. Keep up my appearance. Tease and flirt. However, I never said "no". Believed in an egalitarian relationship. And tried to negotiate attraction after she lost it. I did not deserve it. I hope you never find yourself in my situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 03:03 AM
4

no chance. I'll bet the incumbent takes 40 of the 50 states.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/19 06:57 PM
14

These are the tactics that the red pill is criticized for, but they are demonstrably effective. Communication is validation seeking behavior :)
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 05:40 PM
1

I feel the same way. Same with the stats too. I know it has something to do with not seeking external validation and understanding that you are enough...right now. However, that intellectualizes the "feeling" of not having enough. It's come and gone throughout my time. Maybe it's just part of the video game of life. It's ok to sit with it and know that it's just a feeling and it too will pass.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 03:49 AM
12

Finally, some great advice on the only true choice! puts on robe and wizards cap
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 04:51 AM
0

100%. This is a fantastic elucidation of a red pill LTR
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 12:22 AM
1

I was taught the opposite of this. By pretty much everyone. Learned this the hard way...
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 08:57 PM
0

Control game is tough for some (raises hand). But clearly the way to go. Mostly because a well trained woman is a happy woman. Sluts? Not so happy
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 05:23 AM
3

Hilariously true way to look at it
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 05:20 AM
3

+1 I went to an elite private high school in the US. "Gender is a social construct" was emphasized heavily. I was big into community service, where they gave us the latest materials reflecting this. I was surrounded by really bright girls, so it seemed reasonable to me. It's only as an adult in my romantic relationships with women has this proven a giant liability. The "obvious" truth that men and women are different, if I were to be transparent, it still difficult for me to see. Many years of f…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 09:33 PM
7

+1 I'm 35. Had a blue pill marriage (thankfully I escaped without losing all my finances). Red Pill is obviously correct, but still it's somehow hard for me to see. Radically different way to look at the world vs where I came from
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 01:07 AM
4

This post changed my life. One of his best.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 12:30 AM
1

Hilariously true. I have no exceptions in my life. Wild.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 11:15 PM
5

Wow. Varsity ideas man. Great description of "the blue pill", which for me is always hard to define. The opposite of oppression? That's what women call a doormat... Hahaha jokes on me? Thanks feminism.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/19 06:32 AM
2

+1
/r/TheRedPill10/02/19 01:03 AM
10

In the US, 70% is the often cited number. Of the men filing, a certain percentage did not initiate. Men often need to be the ones acting to follow through with the divorce. It's a very complicated process. My divorce is part of this, where technically my wife "broke up" with me and I filed and saw it through. To be fair, I had checked out of the marriage, but I did not initiate. 80% of divorces being caused in some way by women seems conservative. But 70% is typically the official number cited.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/19 12:03 AM
1

Ha, I'd be the first to tell you I'm not red pill by choice. I think I might want kids, but I REALLY don't want one by accident. So far, no recovery issues.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 03:07 AM
3

There are some examples of girls saying "I'm preggo and it's yours". I think there is some benefit I'm denying that. One time fee for 10 years, you can do less of course. Yes, about half the sperm die when freezing.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 05:27 AM
2

Could be. I don't know what insurance will cover from this. But I paid using my HSA.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 01:02 AM
2

Wow. Well sorry for the trouble man. The rec from the doc was to get tested after 12-15 ejacs. And then get tested again after 3-6 months. Hopefully these guys can stay separated!
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 01:00 AM
16

Excellent. Sounds like a plan to me!
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 12:55 AM
9

I REALLY wish this information was common knowledge. I sometimes still can't believe it. Fantastic post man
/r/TheRedPill25/01/19 12:15 AM
1

Blow up the old system for one that benefits me. See you in the gym.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 01:53 AM
1

I was a pretty massive extrovert before. I'm "personality" is changing. And yes, not saying everything as I think it is part of that. Still working on saying less actually. And being more careful with my words.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 03:24 AM
21

This is my favorite part of the red pill. How to walk and talk like the top. Never saw it before. I'm swinging.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/18 05:31 AM
5

This is a surprising. Liberalism has strengths and weaknesses just like other ideologies. Read what you wrote here. Nothing is THAT one sided. No ideology "saved us" or delivered us from anything. It's a combination of ideas and events that leads to certain results. It's ok to identify as liberal, and believe the tenets. But saying that the other side is "dark ages" essentially minimizes those ideas. Everyone is trying to get the best outcome. The reason I'm reacting this way is because it sound…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 06:32 PM
3

Recovering sperg checking in. Can confirm.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 05:10 PM
3

Is this your real opinion? Or are you being playful?
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 05:07 PM
1

"LOL". That's a very positive way to describe the rude awakening for finding red pill :). Doing more, making time, vulnerability - the worst part is that seems like the rational approach. That even makes sense to me. But, we're not rational beings. Appreciate you taking the time to translate some womanese my man.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 04:50 PM
10

This is the healthiest perspective. This is the kind of honest look at a relationship we should teach young men.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 03:56 AM
1

Appreciate the time you (and counterparts) took to create this community. I'm sure you hear this all the time, but thank you.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 02:18 AM
5

.You can complain that women love jerks or you can be the jerk they love. At times this can seem difficult. My current personality allowed me to get pretty far in life. Any advice on how to transition to more of a "jerk"? I've been experimenting with being more dismissive and uninterested. When I was first learning pick up, I would purposefully approach and be direct. Once I learned how to be "creepy" I could dial it back to be more mildly subversive. Part of me seems hesitant to do the same and…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 11:40 PM
2

Much appreciated. Officially back with 3 plates. Going to start practicing control game a bit as they get a bit more invested. We'll see!
/r/TheRedPill30/11/18 03:00 AM
1

Respect man. Congrats on getting clean too!
/r/TheRedPill29/11/18 02:51 AM
3

Really just trying to re-program my brain. I'm coming from DEEP blue, where I'd seen a lot of 'success' in that I'd been able to connect with a lot of women. Good at pick up, zero frame. Trying to reprogram my thoughts in a new way is tough. Just sharing the current status. I'm hopeful that as it gets more internalized it'll be more natural.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 11:26 PM
1

I did a LONG monk mode. Still am not going out as much as I start my business. I've got a couple plates in rotation again, which is nice. But yes, not as fun, as I'm not 'relaxed'. Potentially it'll improve over time. My theory is if your status is high enough you have much wider room for beta errors. I'm trying to go that route currently. We'll see.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 11:23 PM
2

Totally agree. What's wild to me is how wrong I was about "the rules". Now at least I can be a good teammate.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 05:27 PM
5

Yeah. This is pre-TRP. Wasn't looking for qualities to promote. Never again
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 05:26 PM
11

I used to think the same thing. "Progressive" ideas. Women have worked so hard to be heard. They've been "oppressed" for so long, it's time we (men) listened. Even had a "this is what a feminist looks like t-shirt" I would wear. On purpose. My last LTR said "You're the most open to feedback of any guy I've dated". I was so proud! Right up until the cheat & ghost. Next guy? Dive bar bouncer. Red Pill; it's delicious.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/18 01:11 AM
1

I really enjoy the way you phrase things. +1
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:20 PM
2

Inspiring. Working to get there myself brother. Let's do it.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 01:50 AM
5

Great post. Lucky you to make it to the other side without the anger. Sounds like this one lasted the right amount of time. Welcome.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 05:34 AM
4

This information would've been so helpful. IMO, this is the Crux of blue pill thinking. An ocean of love and support.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/18 12:37 AM
1

This is fantastic. Much appreciated my man. Probably the best guide to managing an LTR I've ever seen. Training with punishments and rewards does seem very abstract when you've never done it before. Time to test it out.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/18 08:28 PM
6

+1 It's well known that Barry Diller is a homosexual. And this marriage is like the marriages of old - a power couple.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/18 02:03 AM
5

It's honestly difficult for me to understand how this is an interpretation of this material. I personally don't "critique" anyone. Even though there is some negative energy from folks who have been hurt, the overall message here is how to inspire and receive love. And honestly, it's pretty fun. I'm a better partner now because I can showcase the best version of myself. You can of course use the material here for "evil." That's the case with all knowledge. Choose to be good. It's more fun anyway.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/18 05:37 AM
17

Saved my life. I moved in with my first GF at 23 years old, and we eventually got married. Dead bedroom, but at least I didn't have a cheating maniac. I spun plates for 3 years, simply because I knew I didn't want to get locked in again. Something I was taught was wrong. Spinning plates makes a blue pill/beta guy feel pretty powerful. Coupled up after I caught feels for a plate and went all in. This time I know what I'm doing. This time I know how to be a supportive partner....ended predicably. …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 11:53 PM
1

RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 06:59 PM
67

This place literally saved my life. Thank you and all the mods for working so hard. This is true community service. I'm grateful. Will do everything I can to support this community in whatever form til I'm out. Much love bros. And love to all the women we care about too.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 01:14 AM
1

What's so interesting is the flipping of this dynamic. As a quasi natural, I thought the same thing when seeing my friends do "control game." My college roommate would pull a "fake mad" on his girlfriend. We would call this dread. I thought it was immature and manipulative. Earnestly communicate man! Meanwhile his girlfriends would be addicted to him for years... Appreciate the outline here!
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 07:41 PM
1

I definitely did not put myself first. Gotta put the relationship first, right? ;) (Shakes head)
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 06:22 PM
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Thanks so much for writing this up. Honestly I think this is the best explanation of "how to be a boyfriend.". There is no guidebook for life. We kind of learn as we go. BP me thought I was "being a good boyfriend." But RP is really the best way to be a boyfriend. My goal was always to make my partner feel happy. Girls are happiest when there's some uneasiness. Not intuitive to me at all. Appreciate it my man.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 05:57 PM
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Honestly I cannot believe I never thought of this. This is a fantastic idea. It's so funny, as a BP I worked super hard to not set boundaries (I actually said you have 'maximun autonomy'). This is a great way to intro boundaries. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 06:17 AM
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I heard it was 90% in the first year! I'm 8 months in...
/r/askTRP26/08/18 06:46 AM
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It's why I started my own business (still in progress). I'm tired of making money for someone else
/r/askTRP26/08/18 03:34 AM
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I've been reading this comment a lot. Great elucidation between alpha and beta. Much appreciated my man.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 02:53 AM
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Great point. As Migos would say - big on big
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 11:16 PM
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+1. He'll admit he's "not that attracted to her." Staying with her due to comfort.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 07:32 PM
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Oh, I'm not trying to debate him. I didn't even think this was "an argument." Truthfully I thought this was valuable feedback. I thought it was worth sharing because I'd seen this trope pointed out before on the sub. To see it happen to me IRL was surreal.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 05:40 PM
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I was definitely blind to his perception of my change. And this is likely due to the fact that when I first discovered TRP, I was so excited to share my knowledge. Felt like discovering plutonium. I dialed it back a lot since the beginning as I know lots of these are inconvienient truths.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 05:38 PM
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100%. And I'm not going to say that part of me isn't still healing from the oneitis psychological experience. But, once you see the red pill, it is "obvious." It's kind of like evolution. It just clicks.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 05:35 PM
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It's also just the ego investment into Blue Pill thinking. The way life "should be". I still remember...
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 05:32 PM
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Ever since I found TRP I've been trying to think of the other major lies in my life. The government is helping people Humans are monogamous Humans are special and different from other animals Good tends to win over "evil" A higher power cares about my me (my ego) Universities prepare students for adulthood / jobs The rules protect you In fact The government requires you to work for them We are not naturally monogamous We are A LOT like the other animals. Way more similar than not. There is only …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 06:32 AM
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This is fantastic. I have a similar background (good at picking up but struggled with LTRs). Great to see the change. I'm hoping to follow a similar path. Congrats!
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 06:03 AM
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Here's a question - do you want her to be attracted to you at some point in the future? If so - it's important you behave like an attractive person. An attractive person is someone who has sex with a lot of different girls. This person probably wouldn't care about saying "goodbye." It's ok if you want to - and just know that you're seen as not an attractive person in her eyes. You'll gain affection - but lose attraction. Being young / new to love doesn't change this fact. This is where your own …
/r/askTRP22/07/18 06:57 PM
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So sorry my man. Awful shit. No contact is super difficult - but definitely the best move. It's going to be tough - but stay strong. You're emotionally invested still so you're not looking at her objectively yet. It's easier for them to move on. Just the way the video game of life is designed. You will get through this. Lifting is the best thing you can do. 5x5 as heavy as you can. Eat enough food including brown rice. You're gonna make it my man.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 07:26 PM
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I considered myself a feminist for a long time. Naturally this aligned with "team blue" values. I've always hated the government - so didn't feel particularly drawn to either side. I always had the idea that "team red" was a bit racist. Post red pill I am more sympathetic to team red's stated values. But the government is still terrible. Paying half my money to build weapons to blow up people I don't know seems bizarre to me.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 03:50 AM
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Spot on. This guy has seen the other side of what you're trying to see.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 04:10 PM
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I went to a testosterone specific doctor. It was $150 - which would count towards treatment. Sometimes insurance can cover too.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 03:55 AM
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+1 feels take over for sure
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 04:23 PM
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Appreciate it man. Thanks. I'm really just trying to practice "boss" frame. Outcome independent
/r/askTRP24/06/18 01:20 AM
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Well - I did that. So that part is taken care of!
/r/askTRP24/06/18 01:07 AM
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I agree. It seemed disrespectful to me. I text her for instance if she wants a booty call and I'm not able to make it. Maybe I care too much
/r/askTRP24/06/18 12:58 AM
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I'm so sorry bro. It is truly horrible - and I know exactly what you're going through. I like reading Rollo's notes about oneitis. Helps remind me to look at it objectively. You're suffering from the dopamine withdrawal. It is EXACTLY like rehab. It will take time - but you will get over her. Fucking other girls helps too. Alcohol is dangerous (look at Mac Miller fucking his life up over Arianna). Self improvement is the way to go. If you're jacked - other girls will worship you in the same way …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 02:55 AM
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Great post man. From pain comes growth.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 02:34 AM
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I'm not knocking it. Maybe I should ask - how do you identify a good therapist? I'm certainly not 100% against - I just didn't see any tangible mental changes vs the gains I saw with lifting and reading
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 11:33 PM
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Yeah man. I feel you. Similar thing happened to me. It SUCKS. But that's the game. Brought me here. And I'm glad I know it now
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 03:41 AM
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Man - you're already doing amazing. Losing 100 pounds? That's extrodinarily difficult. Props my brother. You sound very introspective and reflective - essential for continous improvement. Keep it up man!
/r/askTRP12/06/18 05:34 PM
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Guess I was due! Allowed me to get here - so that part is awesome
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 03:35 PM
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Lol well I'm also getting my first six pack. Alcohol apparently is poison (who knew?)
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 07:52 PM
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Sorry man. I have to say though - I'd avoid the message next week. TRP advice is correct on this one. "Every friend" telling you to message is being nice - but ineffective. TRP has some harsh truths. Every piece of data I have read and personally seen conforms with these tenets though. And, if you're like me, I find comfort in the data.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 05:45 PM
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Appreciate it man. I've read that thread (and I'll re-read a couple times). It'll be a bit before I dive back into that madness. And, of course, I won't be asking for the relationship :) [Edit: and why would I need to regulate my emotional investment? I was just being myself!]
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 07:32 AM
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The wall is super real. Honestly Im happy this is starting to get documented. But "old woman" rationality is likely to go unheard...
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 04:03 AM
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This is really a fantastic post. Very clear, helpful, and informative. Control game (LTR game) is really an entirely different game.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 06:15 PM
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Dude - I feel the same way (my last GF was basically begging to be led). I was taught "equality" bullshit. I always was (and am) ambitious. I simply never put together that it is attractive to lead them the whole time. It would be so annoying if I was in her shoes (golden rule - right?). I think I'll get married again - even with all the risks. Since I'll always follow the 16 commandments, I really think this helps mitigate issues. Prenup is a no brainer. And you have to be ruthless the whole ti…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 06:05 PM
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We've had some good times the last 30/40 years in the US...
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 05:41 AM
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Pretty awesome man. Great stuff!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/18 04:42 PM
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I know it seems crazy - but when you're taught that men and women are the "same" you can believe a lot of weird things. People are people (implying the human experience is universal). The idea of equality is very attractive to a logical person. After all - racism is made up, wouldn't it stand to reason that "sexism" is made up as well? Furthermore - he might be surrounded by the best women have to offer. Let's say he's at a top tier university, or a leading tech firm. The women who get hired in …
/r/askTRP25/05/18 12:29 AM
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I totally agree. The informed way would be to objectively watch female decision making, rather than looking at it the way it "should" be. It's the opposite of the programmed thinking.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 08:22 PM
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/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:08 PM
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Text and call ratio is a good barometer. Make sure it's always 2 to 3. And she's writing more than you too. Kind of like a report card. I've fallen victim to this too (thinking a girl was more invested). Text ratio helps. But sometimes that's just how it goes.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 05:17 AM
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I'm recovering after a 10 month relationship with my oneitis (ended early March - so one month ahead of you). I still think about her every day - and the fuck ups I made. But it hurts less. Time will heal it. Focus on yourself each day and you'll be a new person soon.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 12:17 AM
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Seems like a lot of hate from guys....not in fraternities :)
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 05:47 AM
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I'm actually shocked at all the anti Frat down votes here. Frat guys get girls right? Isn't that why we're here? Like - in revenge of the nerds- those Frat guys have hot girlfriends they don't treat that well. Seems a lot like that side bar...
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 05:41 AM
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Gosh that rich frat guy kinda sounds like Chad...
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 05:38 AM
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I cannot agree with this more. My roommate was in a fraternity and it's fantastic. Same red pill ideas. Fraternities are the last bastion of male thought leadership
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 05:35 AM
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+1 I have to agree. Gotta have them reach out first. Stick a fork in this one. There are so many fish. And ones that haven't broken your heart. Abundance!
/r/askTRP03/05/18 11:35 PM
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Didn't use protection on the first hook up. Not LTR material.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 11:32 PM
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Thanks man. Just finishing rational male. I've got em all cued up. Love that sidebar. I am angry - but I am glad. Get her to chase you. I'm the prize. Seems way easier this way. Going out tonight for the first time post break up. Good to get some reps in.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 10:19 PM
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Feeing the same way right now. My personality is changing. So I'm almost observing myself.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:48 AM
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No disagreements. I was indeed trying to "play it safe" and have an "easy" life. Call it mother/son love or whatever - but I bought into it for sure. So yes - I'm mad at myself as well. I've got enough anger to go around :)
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 07:58 PM
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Well - now that I'll be keeping two in the kitty myself - I'm not as bothered. Best defense is a good offense!
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 05:02 AM
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Great points actually. Especially after reading the manipulated man. Love that sidebar
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 05:01 AM
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Will do man. Im 7 weeks post break up. Haven't really lurked (though now when I go out 4s are literally throwing themselves at me which is new). Using the anger on my business and to get out of my regular job. I want full unplugging.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 09:25 PM
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This is awesome. And btw it makes dating so much easier. I was spinning plates as a BP (investing in all of them). It was exhausting. That's part of the reason I coupled up. Just selecting girls who fit into your life seems much better.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 09:24 PM
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MUST learn the hard way I wish it was not this way (BP thought). But its clear, for me at least, that this kind of betrayal was the only way I was going to learn it. I'm mad at that too
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 08:47 PM
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Oh - thankfully I love Ws my man. I got a start up on the side that looks real hot. I'm in Monk Mode for a bit while this takes off, but things are about to get real interesting... Appreciate the support!
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 07:55 PM
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can Wish there was a way to identify RP counselors. But I'm gonna be pretty ruthless with the rules/boundaries for a while
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 07:54 PM
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Thanks. And I'm glad to be here. Time to create some new memories
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 07:53 PM
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The fact that women and society in general tells us that they want a nice guy who follows the rules is the first and biggest shit test you will ever encounter. You just passed. Thanks man. Feels like it took a long time to pass. I'll pick up and spin plate for a bit again. It'll be interesting to see the difference now that I know that "I'm the prize"
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 07:52 PM
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Well said. My BP mindset basically told the anger part of me to "shut up." I "shouldn't" show it. I hadn't been taught the skills to show it in a healthy way. Dread, freeze out, paternal scolding - all great options to express your displeasure.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 07:43 PM
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Agreed. The mother/son love vs father/daughter love is so different. The former seems good because you can "relax." You don't have to watch the kids. The latter seems like "more work" since you have to be vigilant. Wouldn't it be nice...
/r/TheRedPill21/04/18 10:08 PM
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This is fantastic. As someone who developed oneitis recently - I wasn't sure what caused it. Fawn response for sure. Having it articulated so clearly is very helpful (I knew I wanted more boundaries - but wasn't sure why). Thank you for posting!
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 06:02 PM
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I wish it was not this way. But now I don't see how I could've learned without
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 02:30 AM
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Preach
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 05:48 AM
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Respect man. #3 is why I didn't either.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/18 05:59 PM
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Maybe give a book like no more Mr nice guy to see how open he is to the ideas there
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:23 PM
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Awesome man. Congrats. Glad you're on the upswing. Hopefully you consider getting your sexual needs met as well! (Even if that requires stepping outside 'the lines'). It's an option I didn't consider in my first marriage that I wish I had been more open to. Can't get those years back...
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/18 03:22 PM
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This is fantastic. Well said.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 11:22 PM
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I'm not sure what indicates "all women are horrible." Certainly I didn't have "relationship game". Another way to say it is that I had been taught a strategy that put my partner in the driver seat, rather than myself. TRP is about putting yourself first - which I intend to do now. I love women (including my ex honestly). Just part of the learning process.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 04:39 PM
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The marketing that team "equality" does is really quite effective. It's such a noble idea (shakes head). The worst part of actually following "the rules" is that I cut off my stable. So now I start anew. But I'm confident quality of girls I'm going to date is going to be much higher. After all - I am the PRIZE - right? :)
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 05:09 PM
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It really is the best comparison to the brain-washing I received from my blue pill life. The craziest part is I thought that I was behaving in a way that was attractive "Hey beautiful - why don't you tell me what you'd like to do tonight?" Isn't that what BF's are supposed to do? ISN'T IT? Oh my goodness....
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 05:04 PM
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I'm going to say that explicitly in next LTR. I actually enjoyed the BF experience - so I'll do it again. But the foundation will be built fundamentally differently. I asked her to be my GF and be monogamous. I viewed this as confidence. As her hampster started working this was viewed as weakness. LTR game and pick up require the same frame. Once I switched over I started acting basically as beta as possible (isn't that the right way to be a BF?). Part of it was because oneitis mentally poisoned…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 02:00 PM
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For sure. I didn't realize that men and women love differently (aren't we the same except for our genitals?). So mad at my BP indoctrination. Makes me cringe just thinking about how I was acting...
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 01:54 PM
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Well said. And this was something I was previously unaware of. If I kept a girl or two on the side, we would've lasted longer (though I was acting so 'beta' the knife was always coming). Great rule to live by
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 01:51 PM
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I don't really lie. I dated non monogamously (what's called spinning plates here) for several years. I would tell my partners explicitly that this was my intention. Guess how many girls said no when I said it authentically? Zero. It was amazing to watch. I actually think truth is very helpful. I was being "truthful" with my oneitis - I did love her. But for the next LTR I'll be more selective with the truth I reveal. Tease, be indirect, but I don't lie
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 10:03 PM
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I'm reading it every day right now. Love it.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 09:59 PM
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Ha - well - probably because we own beds.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 05:19 PM
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