So for some stupid reason I'm catching feelings for an hb6 at work. Dumb as hell. She's chill and is nice enough but it's not like she's not as branch swinging and hypergamous as any other woman. I've got no illusions to break—this just came out of nowhere. I see no visions of a unicorn. I guess she displayed some signs of attraction and my gut jumped on it (even though I know what actual attraction looks like, and it's not this please-become-an-orbiter bs)

I can feel early-stage oneitis setting in. My dgaf is slowly turning into does-gaf towards her and I hate it. I'm trying to just buckle down and focus on myself and frankly I don't need it.

I know the cure is abundance, of which I have none. My efforts at creating some have been unfruitful so I quit after two months of attempted nightgaming to focus on lifting, making money, and improving my smv.

Asktrp, how do I tell my head to sit down and shut up?