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[–]Frenchy10041 points42 points43 points 9 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
She isn't right on the money. Girls think about sex more often than guys. Girls will go to extreme lengths to keep a source of really good sex
[–]throw162534 18 points19 points20 points 9 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
This is why dread works so well. If you deny a horny woman (that you've already fucked good) sex, they'll freak out, get angry, say crazy shit and escalate with their own dread. Go silent on them when they do this and they'll start thinking they're losing you and act 10x more desperate than the most beta guy.
[–]beachbbqlover2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I absolutely love this reaction by the way. I fall for it every time.
[–]lsarcreator points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yeah usually I start becoming the one that's desperate after she shows that she is. Scares them off every time
[–]haitiano-quebecois points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Trop vrai ça. Tu peux les manipuler avec du sexe au fait.
[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon27 points28 points29 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So she talked nonstop about sex while trying to persuade you girls don't care about sex?
A lot of what she said makes sense. Like girls can't get into sex. I've noticed that with some of the girls I lay. They'll get into it the first few times but later on I can tell they're mentally checked out.
You need to excite them more. If they're not into sex they're not into YOU. next.
It doesn't matter if you have a high SMV, really good looks, or tons of cash flow. If a guy has weak game or doesn't know how girls think, he will get taken advantaged of.
You don't need strong game. You just nee to constantly evaluate "am I getting as much out of this as I'm putting in.... what's she putting in.... what am I putting in here". Evaluate that HONESTLY, ditch any bad deals, and you'll be fine. You can do this as an ugly hopeless beta with no game.
What do you guys think about these ideas she had?
She's lying.... she believes it, but she's engaging in social engineering and wishful thinking.
Women are hot as fuck for alpha dick - and don't let one girl tell you otherwise.
[–]PoorlyTimedPun19 points20 points21 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why she trying so hard to convince you that women hate sex? Overcompensating.
[–]beachbbqlover7 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
She's setting him up to pay rent, food and utilities for one night a month.
[–]TRP VanguardArchwinger16 points17 points18 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Girls aren't very sexual in general
Girls are very sexual, in general, if and only if the man they are interacting with is sexually attractive.
They can't really feel/get into the sex. Even when I watch porn I can tell they can't feel/get into it
Girls very strongly get into the sex, even moreso than men, if and only if the man is sexually attractive. If the man they really really have the hots for is into porn, suddenly they're into porn, even if they wouldn't go near porn and thought it was disgusting the last time their beta boyfriend of six years brought it up.
They never really think about sex
Girls think about sex all the time, but only with a man they're sexually attracted to.
They are fake/manipulative and don't care what guys want
Totally true. It's the guy's responsibility to get what he wants, not her responsibility to help him. If a guy wants something but doesn't have it, he's weak and pathetic and probably not worth fucking.
They don't care how horny/lonely/depressed guys are
Also totally true. If a guy is horny, lonely, or depressed, this is pretty much the opposite of pre-selection. Men who are worth fucking aren't horny, lonely, or depressed, because they have options to fuck lots of women.
Girls lead guys on. It probably happened to you many times back in school. It happens to every guy many times in their lifetime and they never notice it
Girls definitely lead guys on. But most guys do notice it. That's why girls do it. Because it gets guys tripping over themselves trying to please them. However, the guys they are sexually attracted to who have options with lots of women never seem to notice, because they get girls flirting with them all the time so it's no big deal. So a girl will tell you that guys never notice because the 80% of men she's not attracted to are completely invisible to her. She only notices the hot 20% not biting when she tries to lead them on.
Girls enjoy manipulating/using men WAY MORE than they enjoy having sex
These are equal needs. Girls enjoy fucking an attractive man quite a bit, then basking in the attention of less attractive guys when the attractive man won't stick around and shower her with attention.
It's laughable that guys think ANY GIRL enjoys having sex more than they enjoy manipulating men
They're equal needs. Women feel very validated when an awesome man is willing to fuck them. Women also feel very validated when hoards of annoying men she doesn't want to fuck still do shit for her.
Girls are exploiting your drive for validation/sex
Duh.
Guys were bred to be easily manipulated by women
Men have an inborn protective instinct.
Girls don't have passionate sexuality like guys do
Wrong. If the guy is sexually attractive, girls are, if anything, more passionate than the guy.
All of these things affect men so they might as well be aware of it
The ones that are true do. But the girl you were talking to doesn't actually want men to be aware of things based on her explanation. She doesn't even get it herself. Girls want a guy who just naturally gets it without having to have shit explained to him. Those are the guys worth fucking.
[–]coolasice0072 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Archwinger on point...the second point I especially relate to...I had a girl really into me that told me tag teaming is degrading but got her to fuck me and a male friend bc I convinced her thats what I'm into
[–]throw1745310 points11 points12 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Some part of me feels this might just be an elaborate shit test on her part - which you failed by taking seriously.
I'll have you scream that out at climax ;)
Of course you don't! I'm sure a good girl like you never thinks about.... (go on to talk about all of the things she DEFINITELY DOES think about)
You should have taken nothing she says seriously, play with her silly ideas - which is not to say some of her points do not have merit, they do... although they have merit in context.
Girls are less sexual than guys, with a lower sex drive.
Girls do manipulate guys - some even do it consciously and enjoy it (which would disqualify them from being a decent human being in my view)
One interesting point I came across here - can't remember who by, is that girls have diminished empathy for guys. Hence the ease with which they can lie, manipulate, and in the extreme seek to destroy or harm.
Conversely guys that do very well with girls will have (or will act like they have) diminished empathy for girls. Nothing drowns desire quite like a guy who cares too much...
[–]Pozac12 points13 points14 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
TL;DR You failed her shit test
[–]Hillarysdilddo_201611 points12 points13 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's tinder. You were probably talking with a dude.
[–]Ri8Order7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Let's start from basics. Men are polygamous- Fuck any girl and every girl- spread the seeds. Women are hypergamous- get best genes and resources. So when she says girls don't think as much about sex as men do, or the girls don't have that polygamous passionate sexuality, she is not lying according to her hypergamous world view. She would only think of best man to fuck rather than fucking a bunch of them (unless she is crazy). She is 1) Shit-testing 2) Displaying her SMV 3) Using Anti Slut defence/ hamstering her hypergamous nature.
[–]Eastuss7 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Women don't know how women work, even themselves.
If you want informations from a woman, ask for her feelings, and even then....
[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
in her words
I found your mistake.
This is complete bullshit. The difference is that men can live in a state of nearly constant arousal, but in the absence of access to sex will focus on the missions at hand. Women on the other hand will live in a state of nearly constant unarousal, UNTIL they are sexualized by a man they find attractive and then they are non-stop horny. Time and again studies have shown that having sex makes women want sex more. As another poster has shown, women go absolutely nuts when access to quality sex is shut off.
[–]bznj 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
she's probably one of the low T equivalents of males and believe her case is the absolute universal truth in female libido.
I mean she could be on BC pills and have destroyed progesterone/estrogens/testosterone even. I don't advise doing this Shoot that girl a couple mg of test and she'll want to suck you off till her jaw breaks.
Major BS from a frustrated ho
[–]BasebornLion3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Post the screenshots you troll.
[–]Bambam22bam 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wrong on the first 3 points. TRP does not endorse that either.
[–]askmrcia0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I learned a long time ago to take whatever comes out of a woman's mouth with a grain of salt. Girls from tinder equals x1000
Also this sounds like it came from a dude or it came from some tumblr chick that browses men online forums. And I have no idea why you were having a discussion like this from some chick on tinder
[–]TelemachusRising 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This list is manipulation in and of itself. She's setting you up for beta bux and a sex-for-favors dynamic by acting like sex is something she'd do for you...but only as recompense for something you do for/give to her. If she admits women enjoy sex as much as men, then she can't monetize it. Remember, don't believe what they say--actions not words.
[–]Mckallidon0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women project so HAM. Don't even listen to them lol. Wtf.
[–]itsawomensworld0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's more that girls like the idea of sex more than sex and men like sex more than the idea. In short, woman buy lingerie and read magazines on sex positions while men just like having sex. Women don't like the physical act as often.
It's hard to say they don't like it as much but what I would say is girls are.more often how you feel right after sex. They feel fairly satisfied. But when they are in the mood then it's the same as men.
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