Manliness

Redbeam100 · 2016-10-26T14:59:36+00:00

You're currently a victim of bullying. The best answer in the middle east? Fight back. Not necessarily a fair fight either. If you have a specific person that targets you constantly, I'll give you my personal advice: fuck him up. Make an example. Make yourself respected. If this guy which you have already picked out from the bunch is your target, beat his ass any way you can however pathetic it sounds. Hit him from behind. Punch his throat. Do something. Taking humiliation without any rebuttal is the source of the very humiliation itself. Start standing up for yourself. If the above advice is too violent for you use your wit then. When they make fun of you make fun of them back. "He uses condoms to fuck prostitutes" - your answer: "I fucked your mother with one of these". Answer when they fuck with you. Stop being a pussy it's not gonna get you anywhere. You're a fucking man and you got balls. If there's nobody else to tell you how to stand up for yoursel, teach yourself. Don't be afraid to be violent sometimes. Nobody is capable of judging you because when you asked for help and advice nobody gave it to you. Nobody even paid attention. Beat someone's ass. Turn into an asshole. Go from prey to predator. A easy target for a physical attack is the throat. Punch it and the person is easily disabled momentarily. Show that you aren't harmless. I don't think they will expel you for one fight.

_LoneWolf37 · 2016-10-26T15:15:28+00:00

Lift. Well you are 15 and may have some growing to do and lifting may have bad effects if done too early (Do give it some research) but what you can do is bodyweight exercises. Pushups, Pullups, Running, Squats, Planks and maybe Situps. Get bigger.

Focus on your studies, HOWEVER, do lift your head high. Gain proper posture. Even when you are bullied do not slouch. Accept it silently for now if you have to but do so with a mission on your life. Do so with confidence in yourself. Build reasons to be confident in yourself.

Proper grooming. You say you were ugly, I cannot judge that but maybe grooming will help. Almost gauranteed you do not look the best you can at the moment because you never cared. Make sure you do not stink though. Try to keep facial hair on check too. You can grow facial hair but it has to be neat. I personally hate mustaches though.

If you can do these things, odds are they will bully you less. Or it will not change but then their reason will be jealousy. Regardless, your goal is improvement and confidence. When you are better than most of your bullies, you can shrug it off that it is the noise children make. Whatever happens, your end goal should be getting into college in a field that pays nice.

yazen_ · 2016-10-26T18:39:36+00:00

I'm also from the same background as you. I can relate. Even though, I come from a very functional family, I had a similar experience in middle-school. I was living next to a ghetto area, and many of these thugs were in the same school, as me. When I was 7th grade, I was like 11 years old (I got early to school) and they were around 14-17 y.o. I was a good pupil, and didn't have much trouble, except from one guy ( The tallest one in the class),and he was like the ultimate douche. Once, we crossed paths in class, he bullied me. So, I told him I'll make him pay in the break. He was like 1m80 and I was around 1m50. So, again, we met in the break and he said some vulgar stuff to me. I didn't think twice, went directly for his cheeks and gave him a very strong clap that made my hands hurt, he kicked me, throwing me 2 meters behind. I went back foranother slap. I gave him like 5 slaps and he swept the earth with me. I didn't back down until others intervened. I knew, that I couldn't beat him by brute force, so I slapped him, which is a big humiliation in the middle east for a man. Guess what, even though I lost the battle, he never messed with me again.

If you need some guidance, you can PM me .

puzzleddaily · 2016-10-26T15:40:47+00:00

Find something you're good at, anything, and focus on it. Also try to learn to roll with the punches. Like, "yeah, I was staring at the teacher's ass." Agreeing with people trying to get a rise out of you drives them crazy and makes them look stupid.

The worst thing you can do is be super self-concious. Figure out your armor. What clothes, sneakers, hair style will you be least embarrassed to wear? Every day you go into battle. Be ready. Pay attention to yourself. What's your vibe and disposition at rest? A sneer, a smirk? Comfortable, awkward?

But honestly the best thing you can do is keep coming to this sub and follow the advice of the men here. You're only 15. If you start this stuff now you're way ahead of the game.

Also, what other people think of you is none of your business.

favours_of_the_moon · 2016-10-26T19:15:45+00:00

You're smarter than they are. Use that.

If someone accuses you of staring at you're teachers ass, just go with it. I LIKE A TIGHT ASS. Something like that. Or if it's huge be like THE MORE THE CUSHION THE BETTER THE PUSHIN'.

If it comes down to fisticuffs, you don't have to WIN. Call them out if it's more than one against you. They'll have to single up one dude against you. Just get in enough hits so that he won't wanna have to get into it with you again. You don't have to knock the dude out.

If you get a shot in on his nose, his eyes will water. You can accuse him of crying. YOU WANT ME TO GET YOUR MOM DUDE? lol. Go for the solar plexus to get him to lower his hands. Also, don't be afraid to get him with an upper cut if it's open, on the bottom of his jaw. That will daze him, then hit the nose.

2016-10-26T23:36:23+00:00

Listen, being a man isn't that simple. We are born children, and men are made of us. Some guys here are asking the same questions you are asking but in an adult context (workplace, relationships, physicality). They do not have the advantage you have of being 15 years old, some are well into their 30s.

Also, shitty childhoods and families and self confidence are much more common than you believe to be at this age because you believe everything your peers present as truth.

If I can give you one piece of advice, from reading your post its this: You will never become what you want to become as long as you take the stance of a victim. Victim of your parents, siblings, debt, bullies, locale, even your weight. The true definition of a man is taking responsibility for yourself. Dont speak in a tone which you truly believe to be powerless over these things. Its with gradual self reassurance and testing of your boundaries that you will find your strengths and then be able to refine them.

There will always be people that have more or less than you in life. But real self respect and confidence are not derived or dependent on these things.

Decide how you want to feel, and live, and do everything you have the courage to do that falls in line with these ideals. Eventually you will discover your frame.

Good luck, a lot of us have been where you are as a child. And remember your parents are just people and they have no better idea what the fuck they are doing than the next person.

Glassland · 2016-10-27T09:52:31+00:00

You know why bullies pick on people? Because they are weak and don't retaliate. Punch the fucker as strong as you can and suddenly everyone will see you in a new light. No one will bully you again.

goldnhorde · 2016-10-28T20:06:27+00:00

First, be comfortable in getting hit ... it sounds like you have had some practice with this. Also what I mean by this is to be able to keep your hands in a good defensive position.

Second, learn to be calm when being confronted, and calm enough to return strikes if needed. most people are not ready to be hit. so wait for them to swing. when they do .... use that same sides leg and kick the inside of their knee as hard as you can. keep doing this until they drop their hands and then stop kicking and start punching their head. I know you said you were "weak", so try to go for weak spots .... throat ... nose ... ears ... knees .... I would say nuts, but never hit someone in the nuts unless they come at you in numbers. Drop back to kicks when they put their hands up.

three, once you have that, try to learn some pressure point techniques: BJJ, Dim Mak .... I am not so familiar with the styles as much as a few holds I was lucky enough to be taught. the first time you throw a wristlock on someone ..... that will be the last time you have to with anyone watching.

the most important thing is to never "take it" or "lay down". everything said in your post is bullying. and a bully will go at the easiest target. once you let him know that he might be able to beat you up, but that it will cost him a knee and an ear to do it ... he will move on to someone else who will just lay down and let him beat them up.

Title	Manliness
Author	_LoneWolf37
Upvotes	5
Comments	31
Date	October 26, 2016 1:45 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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