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[–]ho-li-fuk 5 points6 points7 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If I can translate...
You have a girlfriend, you want to marry her. She has lost interest in you since you spoke about this with her.
You're 22.
My advice. You have at least 15 to 20 years before you should consider marriage. When I say consider, I mean actually think about the shit you would give up to be married to one girl.
Here is something I can promise you. In 20 years, when you are 42, you will still be able to date women who are 22. The girl you are worrying about right now will have lost ALL of her shine.
It's actually sad. Like you, I've mourned the love I could never get from a woman. But then I was done mourning, and woke up to have a profound relationship with reality.
Postpone your thoughts about marriage. Spend time with this girl, but don't marry her. When you get tired of each other in a year or two, go get another one, the same age she is right now. Then do that again. You'll find that your capacity to love does not change, but that the women who are worthy of it do.
All I can say is this... my good man, you are 22. By the time you are 32 you will have lived and experienced many things. One of the things you should experience is that they (women) are very much interchangeable. You'll meet a unicorn during the next 10 years, but when you keep growing as a man, you'll find that your unicorn is really a donkey.... and then you'll find your next unicorn... and then go through the same realization.
Like I said, your capacity to love doesn't change, only the women who deserve that love.
Watch yourself young man... You've got one-itis. Don't make any legally binding decisions based on your emotions for a donkey.
Much love my non-english speaking bro!
[–]enemyz0r 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Damn dude...this is some great insight. I am still mourning my first love, who broke up with me 8 months ago. Well, not exactly mourn but rather miss her. Sometimesm. Rarely, but it happens. Sometimes i even dream about her. Fuck me i sound pathetic. Thanks for such an awesome comment
[–]ponkyol0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because women hate being trapped in a marriage. And with trapped I mean having to commit.
[–]ClimbingTehLadder 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What the fuck did I just read.
[–]Il128-1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Rather than get married. Just find a used up cum dumpster and buy her a house and a new car and give her half your income and half your retirement.
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