Background:

I am in my 30s, got married in my 20s to my high school sweetheart. She is the only girl I dated before we got married, so I had no experience in picking up girls.

I am an average looking non-white guy in New York, I immigrated to the US a few years ago. I'm probably 6 in terms of looks and have started to get a little out of shape, I looked like 7 when I used to work out last year.

I became a millionaire at 25, and make $300k-$400k/yr, my wife is also equally successful in her career.

I am big-time into the house music scene, and I've been going to raves and music festivals since I was 18. I did not start drinking until 21 and didn't do drugs. At some point, I got to know A-list DJs, clubs, music festival owners, etc. and hung out with them backstage or at private events.

In my 20s:

I traveled the world to go to the dance music events and music festivals in my early 20s before getting married. These parties were full of hot rave chicks, but I did not approach any girls. Occasionally, I was approached by girls at the parties but I didn't pursue them for three reasons:

  1. I did not understand their accent well in loud music since English is not my first language.

  2. I wasn't interested since I was in a committed relationship.

  3. I'm not good at small talk, even with men. I don't talk much with strangers, but I won't shut up if you get to know me.

When I hit 30:

I was a new immigrant in the US, I was focussed on making a life here, buying a big house, nice cars, etc. I almost stopped going to the parties.

I had a nice happy life with my wife but had a boring sex life. I figured life is too short for boring sex life, other than that I had a perfect life.

Sugar Dating:

Since I was married and had no game, I ventured into sugar dating. I signed up on an arrangement site, and it seemed like a discreet way to hook up with HB 9s & 10s.

Over the last three years, I've probably hooked up with more than 20 HB 9s & 10s and had multiple threesomes. I've even had threesomes with two smoking hot models who were taller than me (6 ft) and HB 10+

Yes, I gave them an "allowance" but it was a small price for me for the discretion this lifestyle offered and the girls were 9s & 10s. I don't have to spend time picking up girls and playing games, I can invest that time to grow my business and make much more money.

I also met some girls who didn't care for money and enjoyed hanging out with me. We enjoyed nice experiences together and they turned into FWBs. I haven't given an allowance to any girl in more than a year.

Some of them were in it for the lifestyle, but some just wanted me for sex.

Since I've been fucking super hot models and Instagram girls, I no longer put hot girls on a pedestal. Since getting hot girls for me became as easy as getting an Uber, I stopped giving much importance to hot girls. That greatly improved my confidence with women in my normal life as well.

Girls often get flirty with me in my day to day life like at work, friends of friends, social events, etc. But as a rule, I won't have sex with any girl who knows my real name. I want discretion.

Back into the party scene:

Over the last year, I got active again in the house music scene and started going to some amazing parties.

This is my natural habitat, unlike many guys, I don't go there to pick up girls. I'm there to enjoy the music and have a blast!

You'll see me on the dance floor very happy, great vibe, and enjoying myself. I dance in a very fun way, people (mostly girls) often come towards me and start mimicking me. They try to talk to me, but I still suck at small talk with strangers and especially in loud music.

I read on this forum on how to approach girls at the clubs, but that made it even more difficult for me. I can approach girls, but can't make small talk.

Molly changed the game:

I recently started doing molly at the parties, I do it occasionally, once in 3-4 months.

I didn't need MDMA to have fun, I was having a lot of fun already! But it turned me into a social butterfly.

On molly, I'm on fire! I am like the life of the party! A lot of people (mostly girls or groups of girls & guys) come up to me, chat, dance and take pictures with me.

I also go talk to a lot of girls. I'm not even trying to pick them up, I'm just having fun. I don't even think, when a girl makes eye contact, I just flirt automatically. I don't even think of what to say, it flows smoothly, and rejection is not even a thing. If I'm not trying to pick her up, I can't be rejected 💁‍♂️ I don't even pay attention to what she is saying and escalate it to dancing, touching and kissing.

One night I said to a girl who was dancing next to me, "You're fucking hot!". She responded in awe, "WHAT???". I said again, "YOU'RE FUCKING HOT!". Then she said, "nobody ever says like that". Two minutes later, we were making out.

I don't even care if they're with a guy, I just go for it!

Some guy randomly high fived me and then introduced me to his crew. One of the girls was taking more interest in me than the rest of the group, I flirted with her a little and then asked for her number saying "let's hang out sometime!". She refused by pointing to her boyfriend next to her, I laughed out and said: "okay.. you can hang out with him 😝". Then she took my phone, put in her number and said: "we can all hang out...". A few days later, I texted and hooked up with her.

Last time I went to a rave on molly, I must have interacted with at least 30 girls. I made out with 7 of them and ended up with many selfies with the girls and their phone numbers on my phone. All of them at least HB 8+, I don't take interest in girls less than that.

The bad part? You can't get hard while on molly, so I gotta text them back after a day or two and go from there.

I don't want to use molly often, but it showed me a different side of my personality. My social game has gotten much better, even when I'm not doing molly.