So yesterday I met up with this chick I met off a dating app. We chit chatted a bit on Instagram and I threw out the idea of hanging out and watching a movie but she said she had work and needs to check her schedule so she will let me know. At that point I just stopped messaging cause there is nothing further to talk about if she wants to hang out she will lmk.

I ended up getting a message from her like 2 days later with the basic hey what are you doing crap and I asked her if she checked her schedule she said yes and that she was free the next day.

So these are where the shit test begin and I was prepared. Some ive never seen some that ive experienced in the past and failed.

  1. We parked at this lake and essentially opened my hatch and laid down while watching a movie on my laptop. But when we got at the lake she said, "its kind of sad that you have all this free time and drove over to see me" she said something along these lines I dont remember word by word. Essentially when I checked google the day she gave me her address it said that she was 30 mins away, but on the day there was a shit ton of traffic so I ended up having to drive like an hour and 30 mins. But I did still do it cause I did not want to be a dick and flake.

I simply responded didn't you say this was your only day off for the next 2 weeks. That's cute and laughed playfully and she shut up after that.

  1. While cuddling and watching the movie I start my sexual advances like squeezing her thighs putting my hands on her boobs etc. At one point I was essentially fingering her through her pajamas and when I started to go to put my hand inside she pushes it away and say "I thought you weren't one of those type of dudes" Or something along those lines I don't remember exactly what she said but I just laughed and put my hand on her ass and watched her body language. Remember guys if a girl doesn't want to fuck she not going to push her ass into your crotch area after she rejects a advance LMAO. This same thing happened to me in my virgin days when I was cuddling with a girl but after she rejected my advance I thought she wasn't into me and I went to sleep LOL now that I look back at it that was a stupid way of thinking but you live and you learn. Essentially some time went on and this time i started playing with her nipples and then put my hand under her bra and after that point it was smooth sailing and we don't need to get into specifics.

  2. While having sex she brings up multiple times that "your not good at this" tbh we were in a hot car and I didnt have water so I will admit it was not my best performance hahah but after the 2nd time I go in deeper and ask then why are you shaking. She smirks, not brought up anymore.

  3. This was the final shit test or at least I think it was one. We got back to her place so I could drop her off. I say bring your ass over here and give me a kiss. She said "nope im good" in a serious voice All i reply is aight with a light laugh. She gets out my car we say bye but then instead of leaving she walks over to the driver side window she giggles i roll down my window and make out. Im not sure if this was to test if i was needy or something I have no clue but thought it was worth mentioning.

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Overall shit went good. Personally I would not date this girl shes is one of them "independent bad bitches". She has a cool vibe and is easy to have a convo with so FWB is def a option. Any thoughts or opinions would be greatly appreciated you can always improve so if you see something that could have been done better lmk.

Also when driving home she messaged me "I hope you get home safe, night and a heart". I replied "I did thanks ;)". I am now going to let the hamster wheel spin for like 3 days and then reinitiate contact But have her meet me closer this time cause I aint driving 1 hour again lmao.

Also up vote this please this took me 3 long shits on the toilet to write this up.