Monday Field Report Thread 9/8/14

TheLife_ · 2014-09-09T02:48:40+00:00

No major successes this past weekend. Just a nice taste of my increasing SMV and a peppering of passing small shit tests and what my frame can do to strangers.

I've stopped the whole "avert your gaze" when the cute girl looks your way. I try to catch her eye now. Has universally returned results.
Growing some facial hair, I have left the "creepy invisible" and entered the noticably attractive. My social media has blown up with likes and follows.
I've been talking and joking with everybody. The top job in my building carries the label of secretary to the minister. I said the wrong good morning to her and she spun on her heel to address me. "You will call me Madame Secretary." Probably a dangerous game, but I hit her straight back with a quote. "Message received, Madame Secretary. It's a long way to the top if you wanna rock n roll." I made her smile and nothing has yet come of it.
Made a couple new mates at my new gym (I moved house.) I joined their conversation when they were talking about their conquests.

It hasn't been much, but it's highlighting the little tells that make me want to try larger stuff. Cold approach and Vitaly's "Can you put your number in my phone?" gag. Just for kicks.

BlackbeardsSon · Tue Sep 9 12:07:57 2014 UTC

Oh, this thread is just what i needed.

On friday me and my friend had a kind of debate about TRP, he doesn't believe it at all, even though he's been on here more than a couple of times. He keeps telling me that i just seem like a douche instead of being the regular, nice, old me. "You'll get so many women if you keep being YOU! They love when you are nice!"

I have not had physical contact with a woman for more than a year, despite "being me".

I basically told him "No, You'll see."

Saturday. I went to a local club/bar, which recently opened after a summer break, with my close friends (including the friend from friday). I was really drunk, which i think both helped me and halted me in some ways. We were just sitting around, drinking our beer, when i spot a table of 4 ladies. I told my friend "Watch this!" and walked over to them. I held my head high and started talking to them, they all seemed to enjoy themselves.

I ended up with one of them in my lap and got 3 of their numbers. One of them added me on facebook.

At one moment one of them asked me "This is all a game to you, isn't it?" which i responded with "Oh yes, of course it is!" THEN she gave me her number. ~~Oh shit i just realized while typing this that this was a shit test~~

My blue pill friend was pretty stunned and hasn't said a thing about it since.

The next question is; what the fuck do i do with these numbers and facebook requests? I've never gotten numbers off of girls before so i have no fucking idea how to make them my plates.

ilovemyself101 · 2014-09-09T02:51:29+00:00

I was at a frat party with a few friends saturday night, somewhat of a rave theme in the basement. Drunk girl H stumbles up to me and is all over me and in my face (in a good way), but I was hesitant to hookup because I was almost sober (very frowned upon in my friend group). Instead, I talked and chatted and reciprocated all of her kino. She brought up my long time best friend who I introduced the other day, and she called him ugly and started talking shit. I turn it around and simply say "Yeah, and who are you to talk?", she responds with "Well I'm cute, everyone knows that" (she's a 6-7). "I didn't know that...". She has a mini meltdown and starts with "I can't believe you just called me ugly" etc.... An hour later I've had 10 more beers and she's sobering up. Comes up to me and starts hamstering, trying to prove her worth. I walk away and continue to party with my friends.

Very happy with how this worked out, as I wasn't set on getting with her that night, but definitely showed her my dominance of the situation.

dazerzooz · 2014-09-09T04:28:36+00:00

An ex that I had a case of oneitis with reached out to me this past weekend and spilled her guts about how she made a huge mistake and has thought about me everyday for the past year. She's basically the reason I discovered the red pill to begin with. Once discovered I stopped trying to reconcile things with her and shifted my life focus on self improvement. After I stopped contacting her she started contacting me out of the blue every few months. I'd stick to casual chit chat but basically gave her the cold shoulder cause I was busy with my own life. It seems that this aloofness has culminated into what transpired this past weekend. I have no interest in seeing her. If I can get some casual sex out of it, I might entertain that, but I really don't even think I'll bother. It just felt real good to have her come crawling back like that and for me not to give a shit.

Meknes88 · 2014-09-09T06:07:12+00:00

Had a date with a girl from tinder. First date after taking RP (still a bit angry). Did not want to travel to her city so said "lets meet in my city". Beta me would not have taken that risk. She came to my city. Took her to get some drinks and movie afterwards. Constantly applying agree amplify/amused mastery on her shit tests. She constantly leaned in to me and I went in for the kiss eventually. Did not have the guts yet to take her home afterwards. She now texts me about our delicious kiss and when our next meeting is.

fuckwithpurpose · 2014-09-09T16:47:28+00:00

I met a girl like 8 years ago. She's gotten in touch with me a number of times over the years, but I've never been able to do more than meet up at coffee shops or occasionally go hiking/cycling together. I think she's always found me at least marginally attractive overall, but probably dries up after getting to know me each time. I've consistently been a mega pussy about dating/sex, except this time. Still working on it, but I'm closer to functional these days. This time though, she came to visit my new city and asked if I wanted to meet up. Sure, why not, I said she could come up and we'd get dinner and hang out around my place. She went on to say she was worried about walking back to the train after dark, I said she could stay, no problem. I have a sleeping bag and shit in case she resisted, and it was on a Friday night, so no biggie letting her sleep over even if I didn't get laid.

So a couple days later after flaking once, she comes over on a Friday and drops her bag in my room, and she didn't even ask where she was going to sleep. So we hung out, went to dinner and walked around for a while looking at the architecture of my neighborhood, I love that shit. She made a couple comments like "it's so strange seeing you in a different city, it feels so different"--I interpreted that as, "in that my vagina tingles," so I was at ease and I got her to punch my arm and qualify herself about a few things, the latter being conscious "game". On the walk, she started getting a bit chilly and closing up her body language and walking ahead. I wasn't leading like I wanted to fuck, and the cat was uncomfortable so I took her back home and sat her in-front of the fireplace to warm up. After a while I turned off the fire and said we're going to my room, so we did and again she didn't ask where she could sleep. Former-me would have made it clear she had a place, but since she didn't ask I didn't offer. Her place was on my bed, and she made herself comfortable unprompted.

I pretty much followed what I've learned about women over the past year and seduced her. We made out and fingered and stroked, but I blue-balled her on accident. How? Premature ejaculation in my pants, before even taking them off. FUUUU. I only wank a couple times a month and don't get laid much yet, so I had a lot of back pressure. And of course we all know that a huge cause of PME is anxiety, which I was riddled with. I played it off and told her that "we don't need to fuck, but playing is fun"--it was 1am and we had to wake up so she could catch a 7am train. I went on for a while not fucking her and carrying on with fantasy play like in response to her saying "I feel like a rebellious high schooler" and I ran with the fantasy, saying she's such a nasty little slut. I had fun treating her like that, and she loved it! Eventually I went to sleep and we kissed good night a little bit, then went to sleep.

She gave me an opportunity to fuck her in the morning after I woke her up with tickling... but I think the post-ejaculate beta mode was activated, so I didn't try for the fuck. Also though, I rationalized it as remaining congruent with my "decision" to not fuck her the night before. She went home with a nice hug farewell and we haven't spoken again... I've seen new pictures of her with her 5+ year boyfriend on Facebook and it's like nothing happened. Jesus fuck, this is real life.

So the opportunities for growth are: a) don't pussy-foot around all night if I can tell they are DTF, b) don't say more than I have to, I could have PME'd and not said shit, c) work on breathing or something to fight anxiety induced PME. I have no issues when I'm with somebody I've been with, but this isn't the first time it's happened with somebody new.

EDIT 9/12: Talked with her today because she moved back home, felt like a good time to say hi. A little uphill at first, but I just played it smooth and brought up familiar conversation about positivity, running, etc. She eventually confessed she "kinda" wishes she'd gone all the way, doesn't feel anything about cheating, realizes life is too short to worry about shit, etc etc... a number of messages in a row. I stopped herhamster by telling her we're adults and both had fun and nobody got hurt. She may somewhat see me as BB so I'm not falling in love, but I will keep playing it cool and fuck her if I get another chance. I enjoy her company and I imagine it would be nice having a lifelong long distance side piece like her around, to be honest. Key take away from edit, is I didn't speculate on the future or past. I just stated things and kept the kitty in a pleasant mood.

2014-09-09T11:03:24+00:00

Broke things off with a cute russian girl a few days ago. She wanted to do the whole long term thing, and I didn't want to spend the time and effort. Still sucks though, especially when I don't have a whole lot of options at the moment. (one crazy nymphomaniac plate who honestly kind of scares me)

I moved to a different continent a few months ago, and am still sort of in flux about where I'm going to be come 2015, which makes setting up social networks difficult.

Note: being american in another country is good for two reasons. 1) Some women want to be taken back to north america, and will be interested for that reason alone; 2) I can be an asshole and people will accept it.

CrazyForYouToo · 2014-09-09T11:49:37+00:00

Landed in bed with a 10/10 (so far) Thai high school teacher this week. Quickly turned into a goddamn relationship. Man, I'm in a tough fight with oneitis now. I'll snap out of it. She'll fuck up somehow and I'll use that to hit that 9/10 hairstylist who thinks I'm great. The sooner, the better.

HS-Thompson · 2014-09-09T12:24:03+00:00

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Title	Monday Field Report Thread 9/8/14
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Date	September 9, 2014 2:25 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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