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| 1 | Your Brain on Scarcity: Why Betas Make Bad DecisionsI climbed out and did well and fell back in--got rid of everything and spent all money on a STEM degree from a good engineering school, after having young success as a programmer. Working myself out again and can see how limited the scope of my thinking is in comparison to more prosperous times. I know what it's like above the bottom so I'm motivated to get there again, but it's easy to fall back into despair/melancholy, esp. with the new RP awareness that's caused me to cut many toxic social ti… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/15 02:49 AM |
| 1 | About Premature EjaculationSelect > right click > define--not being a dick, really helped my vocabulary. A person who does yoga, I generally mean it toward girls getting out of the party vortex and into BB fishing mode, around 25-30. No shit, 4 years of wrecking yourself and you need more than a juice cleanse and short haircut ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/15 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Mastering Change 1/4: TriggersYou dislike lifting? How long you been at it? I like it in large part because I know what my days feel like without it. I've also recently de-loaded and it's nice to work on form and feeling the muscles as opposed to maxing numbers beyond what's comfortable. I had a psychological fear of hurting myself, but ego is in the locker room and I focus on doing everything clean and it's satisfying. I was recently told details of my deadlift are textbook by a guy who form checked me, only time I can imag… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/15 08:11 AM |
| 4 | The Empress is NakedAgreed, women spend all day thinking about guys but I doubt it's only horniness as we know it. Think about being needy and anxious and lacking self-awareness, incessantly pestering one guy (top of the latter), while dodging or shrugging off the rest. All commitment, all day... I would venture to bet that we as men are unable to fathom certain forces that act on women. I think this from my limited post-RP experience being on the top of the latter a few times, probably for the first time. Past rel… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/15 07:26 AM |
| 1 | When life drags you back to red pills. & Cultural difference between different countryTo build on what this guy says... I am average. 4/10, if i we're a girl, I wouldnt bang me. LMAO, I'm 5'5" and a fucking pussy office worker who's proud to deadlift a plate and 20, and I'm more than a 4/10. You must be really down on yourself, in a shitty location, or something bro. I call myself a 5/10 at worst, I can pull at least a girl a month if I put in any effort. I dress pretty decent, and even that is me being my own hardest critic, if you ask the guys on my team. And I know, a girl a m… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/15 05:48 AM |
| 1 | About Premature EjaculationThat sucks bro. Not an intense sufferer of PE or RE generally, though sometimes they come about if I'm with a super hot or less than fuckable chick, respectively. Chiming in because I did NoFap for like a year and still only do it once every few weeks to remember how things work, minus the exercises this guy described which I've started doing a few times a week. I derived the same routine myself from knowledge of meditation/presence and anxiety. In my case at least, all performance issues are ps… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/15 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Cycles and TechnologySchooled myself on all the technical details of it this weekend. It's interesting and a lot of smart people are on board, one thing that's interesting is that all transactions are traceable to the beginning of time. Coin mining will be exhausted eventually, but future-proofness is added with a transaction cost field in the ledger that is not used in practice yet. But it's no silver bullet of freedom or anything like that, considering all transactions are public. So you can stash it just like cas… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/15 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Approaching as a noviceAgreed. There are plenty of girls there who are young and like new music and dancing. Sometimes even there alone and show up weekly, just into the vibes. I've been going for the music for 10+ years and ignored/was annoyed by pickup until the last few years. Now I go to vibe and find plenty of people who are fun and sometimes DTF. Club is for fun and self sexpression, fun often leads to sex if you vibe with a person. Game helps with logistics. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Waited for marriage, now issuesAre you attracted to her? Are you a Mommy Issue Boy? You might be too programmed to comprehend that she loves being YOUR little slut. Try the Sex God Method; you can read it and try it within a few hours, life changing. The dick should want to reproduce, if it's going soft it's something saying "fuck this shit." Sex God explains what should be there. If she wants to be a rag doll, start lifting. Girls love that shit, I've been scrawny most of my life and sex is way different now. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 08:35 PM |
| 3 | The Difference Between Alpha and BetaThe metaphysics of The Red Pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 08:13 PM |
| 1 | It doesn't get mentioned that much but location is one of the most important things in all of this.Hahaha, these are the two demographics I get bites from. FOBs and wall hitters. I am completely dismissive of the latter and know exactly how to spot them. The former are harder because in their cultures people keep to themselves, so you have to get in with people who are in with them. Not much room for fucking up in those circles, but that's where the pleasant, educated 9+s are plentiful. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 05:48 PM |
| 1 | It doesn't get mentioned that much but location is one of the most important things in all of this.I love former NYCers, and they seem to love me. I've gotten the same comments in those circles. Never been there, this is by far the biggest/realist place I've ever been. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 05:44 PM |
| 3 | It doesn't get mentioned that much but location is one of the most important things in all of this.No offense, but if you are short, a minority, or not good looking, you better be alpha AF or you should never get close to the Bay Area if you want a robust sex life. I'm well under 5'8" and not great looking, and in the city as well... my sex life is more robust than it's ever been, though not "easy". I invested in a wardrobe when I first got here, lift and am active/fit, and take all-in risk with my professional life regularly. When I put myself out there, I get at least one interested buyer a… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 05:36 PM |
| 2 | The 2015 refugee crisis: a Thanksgiving thinkers analogyThere is no us vs them. There is literally nothing that binds people together in the US besides the country they share. Interesting perspective. I agree, except I think that the problem is once you get to rural / tier 3 cities people only see white Christians and probably never have their horizons expanded beyond that, making it seem as though there is a cultural identity to defend. I'm from the Midwest and related to a few nutjobs, now living in a tier 1 coastal city. The day to day experience … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 03:56 PM |
| 0 | In the future, men will decide to became women just for practical reasonsPer my previous comment, I can't fault dudes who've been pushed beyond that point, I certainly was. I'm all the more compassionate toward these people because of it. I thought masculinity was disgusting and wrong, and had no idea how a perfectly feminine little boy could be living in the body of a man. Now that I embrace it I'm on your page; it's really a sad sorry state of things for those who aren't. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/15 05:36 PM |
| 6 | In the future, men will decide to became women just for practical reasonsI was at a point right before my awakening where I confided in a friend that I thought maybe I was a chick in a guy's body, because it was the only thing that made sense. Obviously we all joked about "being Lesbians" when we were younger; even as kids going to a liberal school in the 90's we could see the privilege. I knew guys who started identifying as pre-op females, never wanted to go that far but I identified with their issues and mind state. Systemic fucking emasculation is what it is. Suc… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/15 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Treat workplace women like they are invisibleThe reason the women hated him was because he didn't treat them with kid gloves. They were faced with accountability. He set standards and held them to them. At one point, after I got to know him, they were botching about him and I flat out asked them: I made this mistake. I've generally worked with guys in my career as an engineer, so when I moved to a big city and was working with women I'd debate etc. and treat them as guys. Then I was fired for sexual harassment, that shit made the pill dige… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 06:16 PM |
| 3 | An experience based approach to first dates: Part 2I never give a first kiss until we're in my room / location of fuck. I'll escalate and have her rub my crotch in the back of the cab or something, but never kiss... I read once that if you don't give her that satisfaction she'll cream hard when she finally gets it, and it's worked so I've kept at it. It's also so fun to tease and never give, light breaths on the neck/ear and nose rubs while out dancing for example. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Want to know how alone you are...?Rule of thumb for me is if they don't try to make alternate plans/reciprocate twice then I soft next (guy or girl). | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 03:31 AM |
| 10 | Marriage destroys small businessesCould you free yourself by cutting back the income for a few years and letting her amicably lose feelz and divorce? My few-years-ago blue pill self would be throwing up in my mouth asking that suggestion, but I have a former good friend who's in his second marriage and so I've thought of a lot of ways out while watching what he goes through... if you can mitigate damage it might be worth an early exit, IMO. Bonus: if she's young enough, she'll have no trouble finding a new bux. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Unless you're in a coma, there is no excuse to for you to not be meditatingHahaha, I've recently been doing this a lot. I live in a new city, but it feels like I never in my life had a calm enough mind to do this. I feel kind of kid-like. I also go further and have no notifications enabled and am kind of a dick to people who whip out their phones while we hang out. Seems like progress, other days I wonder if I'm the crazy one for not drinking the distraction koolaid. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/15 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Woman describes types of Alpha, she and her friends have encountered.AMALT - A malt. A frozen dairy recipe that brings all men to the yard. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/15 09:42 PM |
| 2 | What do I do as an awakened manDoes it affect your life directly? I tell people I'm waiting a few days to read some more developed pieces about it and let them say what they want to say about it and move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/15 09:04 PM |
| 3 | I realized I am the biggest blue pill betaDon't even sweat a girl dude, you found the pill years before your real life even starts. Literally no reason to sweat over this chick. Sweat at the gym as others have said, you gotta live with your body forever while chicks come and go. Never be chasing. A girl who likes you will chase you and you'll get your turn with her. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/15 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Bachelor in his 30s with a fun life, cool friends, and lots of options when it comes to women; red pill fantasy or attainable reality in the western world.I've been coding for about 16/30 of my years, I've reached the top of my game as far as independent and unfunded projects go. I "got bored of small projects" and moved to CO to work on a Cannabis project. Could have done that, but after watching Mad Men + reading Gervais etc and smoking copious cheap OZs of weed, I decided to go all-in at what I'm great at and still love doing... but at a bigger scale. In retrospect, I was very blue pill and depressed; running away and burned out defeated, tired… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/15 04:52 PM |
| 7 | Bachelor in his 30s with a fun life, cool friends, and lots of options when it comes to women; red pill fantasy or attainable reality in the western world.There is room to enjoy corporate life if you suspect you may be a sociopath. I don't know if I have the stomach for it long term, but it's been stimulating to dabble in. I have this drive that's taken me to the top few % of my industry in the central city for innovation, and I tried to leave and live in sunny CO for about a year but returned to the hustle. To each their own. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/15 10:06 AM |
| 0 | Bachelor in his 30s with a fun life, cool friends, and lots of options when it comes to women; red pill fantasy or attainable reality in the western world.Location, location, location; and concealed effort. Live downtown or a cab ride away, like to party, vibe with the interns and other new grads. I'm new to big cities, this shit was unfathomable before living it. Have taste and a personality. Develop hobbies that grant status by association. Ruthlessly weed out losers. Source: 30 year old, 2 years into the pill and about 5 into self-improvement binge. The world keeps getting more interesting. I'm also a fucking shrimp at 5'5", but my fashion and … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/15 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Analysis of Aesthetics (for skinny people)If you like wearing dress shirts, just wear them. Tuck them in for fuck sake, that's my only qualm. It's hard to disrespect a person in a pressed and tucked button up. Protip: pressing them costs <2 bucks, consider it a small tax for saving time and not needing a wifey. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 11:05 AM |
| 3 | Analysis of Aesthetics (for skinny people)Career? I'm getting a bit frustrated by that after moving to the coast, at 5'5"... feels like no matter how competent I am, people only listen to me when I'm on a call remotely. Deep voice win. Never noticed that I was short back in the Midwest. In person I often feel I'm treated like a pipsqueak where my reputation doesn't precede me. Edit: My body language could be shit too. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Analysis of Aesthetics (for skinny people)If you find your working weights in the first week and don't stress making gainz right away, you'll be solid and love them on week 2. The pain is called DOMS and will go away quick (google it, delayed onset muscular soreness). Watch lots of videos and use mirrors/cellphone cam to get form right. Fear of injury was my mental hurdle with them. Once you hit the 135lb mark (45 plates) it feels like beast mode. I weighed less than that when I started and it only took a few weeks to get there by addin… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Rational Choice TheoryI was self made and debt free until 23, one of the few things the old man drilled in. At that point I decided to put myself through University and spent all my savings + took student loans to fill the gap, I've been enslaved in mounting debt since; early 30s now and paying it down... fucking sucks and is slavery, once this is paid off, never again. Thankfully it's STEM and I make 6 figures and thought of it as an investment and am <30k, but it's still shit. Never a-fucking-gain (with debt, heyo)… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/15 04:28 PM |
| 8 | Meeting People 101Do this, I do ALL of these things as part of my routine. I have a circuit that lasts about a month, with some places on a weekly or even daily rotation. About 3 spots per day. I'm broke as a result, but I'm not too worried because I am where I am geographically to network like a madman and build social capital. The seven habits of highly effective people talks about the P/PC balance, and the eisenhower matrix (priority = important/not important + urgent/not urgent). You need to do some of all fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/15 01:37 AM |
| 4 | You can say anything to a girl, and she really wont give a shit.Disagree, I think you have to give them somewhere to go. Saying simply "hi" is a tiny step above an IoI. You flap your meat and make some noise that says "notice me." "Hi, word word something word something else word." She will reply to something or something else if she's interested. But if you're a lean, mean, energy efficient machine, you're also screening her responses ready to write her off if she fails, because you have other biddies on hot standby waiting for you to return after your trip… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/15 06:46 PM |
| 1 | The "half night stand" for the modern millennial woman: Just when you thought the CC wasn't enough!This is so common in my city that I really wonder how many of the chicks I've banged have been going home to a boyfriend/husband. Many are just career girls. I never see rings or ask, or go to their house or involve either of our friends. But these chicks will come over for 2 hours, bang, and leave by like 11-12 o'clock and we don't even have drinks or anything. But that millennial are doing it, weird. I've mostly dated 25-29, but recently got my first 22 year old and she did the same thing, was… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/15 04:01 PM |
| 10 | Mommy Meets Online DatingTruth. I encounter these chicks everywhere as I push into my 30s in a Metropolitan city, many probably Alpha widows (smart enough to hide it). Have dated enough to where I just turn all my settings down to 18-24 and call it a day. The only "sane" 30-something women are about 35 with a BB (man and/or powerful job) and happy with the idea of not having kids or being a mother. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/15 03:43 PM |
| 2 | VICE Magizine's Answer to her N CountSex God Method, the right balance of Dominance, Emotion, Variety, Immersion. It's a few page PDF, definitely a worthwhile view of the factors that keep girls warm. Less on actionable advice IIRC, more a description of keeping the balance. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Derek Jeter (41) with his 25 y/o model female: Hollywood/Sports Players confirm TRP despite pretending to be FEMINISTThe famous people who are savvy are building brands around themselves and investing in startups, starting curated lines of high fashion or high margin goods. The rich are getting richer and want better shit that costs more, the middle are becoming poor and want to feel rich without a logo that lets them ignore 'made by slave labor'. If you have the platform of an Athlete and don't invest in life beyond 30 you're a fool. I understand it, but it's no different than a slut coming up on the wall. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 10:02 AM |
| 2 | VICE Magizine's Answer to her N CountGlad there is a voice of reason here. If you've DEVI'd her right, she'll cum the second you stick it in. If you're in the right mindset, you stay hard and tell her when you're going to come and she takes that as 'what do you want me to do when you squirt it?' There is a never an 'I didn't get mine' conversation, going down on her is never a thing. Fuck yes or no. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 09:48 AM |
| 4 | VICE Magizine's Answer to her N CountIt's only going to be so long before RP data scientists at social media companies start doing more reports like OKC. There are mountains of data sitting frozen in warm storage waiting to have the right queries run, more capability off the shelf by the day. Better yet, this will all be usage data which is observational. We're moving toward append-only event driven systems have an audit log of every action, as opposed to the current state as previous generation systems have. So the reports will on… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 09:43 AM |
| 1 | VICE Magizine's Answer to her N CountAgreed! Only wall nearing feminists seem to want it in my experience. No girl I've dated has ever wanted me to do it, and in fact the most raw RP girl I dated have actively discouraged it. If you're better than them, you got no reason to be eating that snatch and she knows it. I know some guys like it, fine, but I'm more curious about the attractive girls who want it (esp. from AF) because I've yet to meet one. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 09:38 AM |
| 9 | VICE Magizine's Answer to her N CountThere are indicators of sluts. Red: smokes, drugs, clubs, over 25 and no recent LTRs, history of getting into new guy hobbies and then changing (orbiting an alpha), travel bug. Yellow: spotty online presence. Green: has recently read something substantial (can put down vibrating validation toy), female friends with the right flags. Risk factors vary by their interests, etc. Lack of impulse control, average of 5 loser friends. Super subjective, but there are many ways to sniff out sluts. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 08:55 AM |
| 1 | What is the fucking point of existing now anymore as a man? Are any of you actually happy?I've been in the rave scene for a decade. Normally not a drug user, but I've rolled that way for a stretches. I'm into music as an appreciator. I've fucked very few chicks out of the scene but normally not, but since I've started getting swole people approach me frequently and are much more receptive. Was uber-skinny, then fat, now fit and gaining. I don't have much interest in rave girls sexually, and jesus fuck the number of orbiters they command. Sometimes I talk with regular girls who are th… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 05:41 AM |
| 1 | You won't know when she cheats.As cynical as that view is, there is more evidence in favor of that view than any kind of counter movement. We don't need AI to create a self-sustaining economy. We just need to automate all the things we know and reduce humans to service economy to service the machines. I am literally an architect of this future. The one balancing factor is foreign invaders with raw physical force, but I guess drones and/or a cleansing initiated by female leadership over disarmed constituents could take care of… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 05:11 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Keep your feelings to yourself, and especially away from women.I like this. I've been grieving about shit, but generally in 1-2 conversations with people who can fix things over a few days, when we have an attempt at a resolution. Thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 04:40 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Keep your feelings to yourself, and especially away from women.I've been sharing feelings with my all-male team recently. Not blowing up sofar. I bottled them up for a long time and it caused problems, to the point where I stopped giving a fuck so much that I just started expressing them to see what would happen. Trust TRP but verify, right? I've flipped out a few times, not to the point of throwing insults or talking shit about individuals. Just saying that procedures and decisions etc are total shit, straight to senior management's faces. After more gentl… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Anatomy of the Alpha WidowNice connection, thanks. One comment and a few of my own shorter dopamine stories. I think an important aspect that you didn't touch on is decreasing utility. As experiences stop being novel, AFAI-understand dopamine will stop being released/responded to as experiences become less novel. I could see an evolutionary backing there as a driver to reinforce new pathways and lay off when they've solidified, but I don't actually know anything. Maybe I should re-read the Dopamine posts. Coding gives a … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 03:58 AM |
| 9 | Her n-count is just the top of the icebergThat's a huge confounding factor IMO: humans have to work for food somewhere in the food chain, the mice had it supplied. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Even your family will try to convince you not to become redpillI take it you've not listened to The Black Phillip Show--CultOfBlackPhillip. Hours and hours, you'll be on your way to playerhood by the time Sunday is over. The clip, because I wanted context myself. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/15 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Social Experiment: I tried to confirm to myself that women look for money and success.Same. Usually very few approaches ever as I might be 6/10, but IoIs and increased flirtiness and helpfulness from service people on the days I dress for work. Totally invisible the other days. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Social Experiment: I tried to confirm to myself that women look for money and success.Definitely situational. I spent most of my career NGAF how I presented myself and doing great on the merit of my work, could keep going that way. But since I've started wearing pressed button up shirts I notice how much easier it is to get my foot in the door. First impressions are the hardest thing to break, and on days when everyone doesn't know who you are it pays to conform a little IMO. I'm short too, so I conclude that I have to compensate more and this may be one--95% of fortune 500 CEO's… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 06:40 AM |
| 2 | Lifting with low testosterone?Worth a try, actually I guess I've been doing this a little bit by doing faster supersets. 5x5 with lower load from 3x5 increases time a lot so I've started doing some semi-complementary sets of things and going faster--eye balled based on what's available/nearby, eg. squats, cable machine, kettle bells, dumbells, a bench are close. Thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Lifting with low testosterone?My new GP is constantly asking if I need anything, impressed that I'm crushing at the gym instead of requesting meds to drug out the stress. (He knows I smoke weed; nbd, med, I get the impression he does too). Maybe I should have him run my numbers, curious now... he'd write me one in a second if I were that low. I never had a good insurance plan before so I under utilize doctors now that I have access. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Lifting with low testosterone?Solid list. Drier sheets? Shit. Broccoli and cauliflower, had no idea. The sex hormone is the first thing to go if you're living unhealthily I think this is a universal in the animal kingdom, and it makes the most elementary sense through the economic lens on animal behavior. Fitness and ability to fuck are a direct function of fitness to survive and pass on your genes, IMO. Beef and eggs, yo. Side note: first dude I've ever see reply to his own comment instead of edit, the semantically right wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Lifting with low testosterone?Agreed. Anyone can squat 225 given time and I hope I can make those other numbers at that time; currently working working at 135 sq, 155 dl, 100 bench and upping reps + perfecting form. Slow and steady wins the race, can't wait for the next (iron) plate. I'm <5'6 / 145 / ~18%. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Lifting with low testosterone?My understanding is that indirectly yes, please somebody correct me if I'm wrong. If T is a positive function of muscle mass then increasing muscle mass should do it. To what extent, I don't know. Anecdotally, I've been lifting hard for the past few months, early 30's. Active as a kid, sedentary about ages 18-27. In the past month I wake up with wood and get uncontrollable boners in situations where I should get boners, whereas before and all through my 20s I almost never got them. Is that more … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 01:41 AM |
| 1 | The Men of Reddit(And America) are terrified to admit women have ruined their favorite activities.As the post the other day said, don't consume shit that's not made for you. Start producing shit that is made for the niche of men who like patriarchy but not terrorism. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 12:49 AM |
| 1 | 28 year old woman on TwoX gets a cold hard slap of reality - high value men are avoiding her. Commenters furiously rationalize it away and tell her everything will be alright.Fucking legit description, saving it wholesale to my journal! I love the playful (edit: playful when alone) bit too. I'm adopting that mindset more, and fall easily back into it when I realize I've strayed. This was a very visual explanation that can always be remembered, having grown up loving dogs and knowing a fews' personalities particularly well but never having one at home. All I did was play with them. bump | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 12:43 AM |
| 1 | 28 year old woman on TwoX gets a cold hard slap of reality - high value men are avoiding her. Commenters furiously rationalize it away and tell her everything will be alright.Every single one starts calling me a piece of shit (untrustworthy, flaky, a cheater, etc) and finding the most public avenue possible to throw me under the bus when I dump them. Stupid fucking bitches dude, not even worth it. Next time I'll just pretend to fall in love with them. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 12:35 AM |
| 1 | 28 year old woman on TwoX gets a cold hard slap of reality - high value men are avoiding her. Commenters furiously rationalize it away and tell her everything will be alright.HAHAHA, I'm doing this left and right. I'm getting tired of even spending effort spinning them though, not even that thirsty. They never think it's cute and probably don't see the irony, and I am being authentic, so it's cool. >25 are only good as "ports" now, IMO. (TIL ports = plates in remote cities). | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 12:11 AM |
| 1 | I called my Mother out today on her bullshit.Dude, end this madness before it goes too far. My brother is almost 30 years old and has effectively been a lazy sack of shit shut-in video game addict for the last 10 years. Jobless for the last several, after rage quitting a shitty convenience store job. I don't know what you can do, I was busy as fuck making something of myself and left home ASAP. I tried weekly visits for a while, but there was no unprogramming the kid. N-Mom just brainwashes him (see r-raisedbynarcissists for more info). I … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Why You're AngryIndeed, taking part in the current one, happy somebody is making that effort | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 06:46 AM |
| 3 | Why You're AngryWe almost need something like -r-progresspics for TRP. Books read, weight/bf%/lifting graphs, notch count, etc. That subreddit was incredibly motivating for me while I was losing weight and had almost nobody on my side (fucking crabs). Seeing other people's bodies completely morph in 6 months, same people checking in, positive attitudes, etc. were great. I didn't participate myself, but the normalcy of people turning their lives around was established and maintained. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/15 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Why You're AngryFuck dude, that sucks and I remember how much that sucks. Past life. 3 years is unimaginable, 3 months is a dry spell now. Learning body language was the most helpful thing, because I could start to read non-verbal responses and make actual progress... people usually don't/can't give actionable feedback anyway, might as well just read it from the situations. Being able to read situations + practicing daily = I'm learning how to market myself. That's all sex is. GL! Edit / Addendum: I could also … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/15 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Looks are everythingAgree and amplify yourself and people will take it as a joke, if you're good looking. Hilarious, I've noticed this to a small degree as I've transformed from a short 3 to a short 6ish. I'll have to remember that, "agree and amplify yourself bro... on weed". | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/15 04:19 AM |
| 2 | You Saved MeEasiest way to be consistent is to do it every day, like brushing your teeth. Excuses about time/feeling tired/etc start sounding silly. People don't tell me their excuses for not going to the gym anymore, though I occasionally invite people to work out together still (employer pays for everyone's membership at a gym near the office, best perk ever). I pay extra for a locker and 2x+ daily laundry service. Overall I'd be paying about 150/mo, but any cheap gym barbells will do... highly recommend … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 06:55 PM |
| 6 | You Saved MeI literally catch my reflection in mirrors at the gym, like 'who is this threatening dude looking at me... oh, just me'. I also feel myself up a little more than I should while I rest between sets in the squat rack... lol. I can't fucking believe what I see. I'm not massive, but holy shit my posture, style, and everything is unrecognizable. Worth the slog for sure. Haven't been back to my home city in 2+ years, nobody will recognize me. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 06:47 PM |
| 2 | You Saved MeI suggest reading: Seven Habits of Highly Effective People + Workbook. Starting Strength by Mark Rippetoe, with access to bars and mirrors/cellphone video to practice mechanics and form. Search for TRP posts about 'Dopamine' (and all required reading + top all time, of course)... people do what they are rewarded to do; hate the game, not the players. Spend time NOT READING also. Those will give you months of enjoyment and train you to enjoy systematically making yourself better (Habit 7), and yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 06:39 PM |
| 0 | Got a girls number, now what?Try offering Tue/Wed. Background: Fucked up my last potential plate (ONS with chemistry) by texting too soon/too much. She was warm but I was too accommodating, because I'm generally pretty spontaneous on the weekend by design. Not the time to try to hang with chicks, apparently. I have a theory that she might text me again when she ovulates and I serviced her DEVI needs pretty well before I fucked up the texting. It's little enough she might be able to hamster it away if she remembers the end a… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/15 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Future of the Human Race.One possible confounding factor is that humans have to work to acquire resources. If we switch to guaranteed income though, I guess we're on track. All the more motivation to stay on the ball. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/15 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Women cheating vs Men cheatingAgree fully, and my motto is "it's not cheating if it's not breaking the rules." In my uber-liberal city, there is no initial assumption of monogamy so the key is never making it a rule. I find it pretty easy to trickle truth them into acceptance that you're seeing others. I never say I'm seeing only them or that I'm seeing others explicitly, and the better I fuck them the more they resign themselves to the 'fact' that there are others. Even if it's not true, I let their hamster go with it becau… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/15 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Marriage for a guy is a big farewell party.nerd! | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/15 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Mark Rippetoe drops some old school Red Pill thoughtsSecond edition had it, I was sold right away. Plus using bar bells looks fucking cool, like playing the guitar. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Mark Rippetoe drops some old school Red Pill thoughtsSo worth it. I read it end-to-end once, constantly going back into it. Sadly my hard copy is in storage, but 3rd ed. came out so I bought another copy for the Kindle... it's that worth it. I'm an engineer so it resonates extremely well with me. I can see how others without the training of an engaged engineer(ing student) wouldn't slurp it down as easily, where 8-12 hour textbook jams have happened 100s of times. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 03:53 PM |
| 4 | Mark Rippetoe drops some old school Red Pill thoughts"We weren’t going to rape anyway, but that’s apparently beside the point." -Mark Rippetoe Fucking love this guy, Starting Strength was the first thing that let me see gainz. Still do those core exercises. His videos are great too, the way he coaches is entertaining to watch. Firm, not gentle, clearly caring and precise, well informed mechanics. Never had a coach like that, would love one. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 03:49 PM |
| 1 | The Great List of Non-Negotiables.Interestingly enough, the same advice applies to starting running as I've been finding. I did 5x my personal record much above my normal speed by breathing a certain way (2.5mi @ 5-7.5mph, over 0.5mi @ 5mph a few weeks prior). When I feel my heart pounding, I can meditatively think about what's distracting me to the point of messing up my breath. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 05:09 AM |
| 1 | The Great List of Non-Negotiables.Creatine eh? Does it feel sandy? That's my issue with the few mixes I've tried. Now I just drop a scoop in my mouth and wash it down with water. But it's been suggested that I start juicing recently, might have to try that esp. if you don't notice sandiness. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 05:03 AM |
| 1 | The Great List of Non-Negotiables.Agreed. Kale is a gateway green. It leads to things like butter lettuce and spring green blends or some shit. A kale salad with meat and cheese >> McDonalds burger >> iceberg lettuce salad. Living in a state with fucking amazing produce has opened my eyes, coming from a place with still-weak seasonal produce. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 04:59 AM |
| 1 | The Great List of Non-Negotiables.Lessons Learned: That it's this fucking simple. Stop making it so difficult. Stop making it more complicated than it needs to be. I told one of my co-workers something similar earlier this week when we were talking shit and it turned into lifestyle stuff and he used the phrase 'just how I am' or similar. I said to him something like 'you aren't just like anything. You can be however you want, you can make that choice and I don't judge you, but it's a choice...' and he said 'this is why I love ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Not to beat a dead horse, but more evidence that due process is no longer a part of American culture.Let's swallow the blue pill and pretend we have justice in polite company? I have been though the system once and it sucked, but it was... I am still alive and thriving. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Are you Sub 15% body fat? No? First things first.I've noticed it a function of having mass more than bf% so-far. Perspective of a shorty, 5'6" with thick soles. Over the past few months I've made a pretty big change, and am getting flirted with by many more people than before. 6-7's are my new 5 who were my old 8-unattainable, type thing. As I've added mass I've also been dirty with my eating and drinking (33% beer, 67% gin and soda) and would put myself at probably 18%, now being 150 after being around 130 and 13%. Previous point was from a c… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 11:23 PM |
| 8 | On body image, lifting goals, and the Red PillTruth. Went from scrawny to fat to skinny fat to fit... you are absolutely right. I have pretty solid evidence that I am better off than where I see myself, yet I still feel pretty worthless and often assume people will treat me like shit; especially when I'm tired or stressed. Self-fulfilling prophecies are the biggest problem now. Fake it until you make it is useful and relevant also, because when people see you act like others treat you like shit, then they assume that others do treat you lik… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 06:55 PM |
| 4 | Women are getting fatter because no one calls them out on itThe good news is that many many blue pillers think healthy girls are "too skinny" so there might not be much impact if the masses keep getting fatter. I laugh my ass off because I used to somehow claim the same thing while I was 50lbs over weight and had mostly overweight SJW/white-knight friends. In reality I was hamstering about what I knew I couldn't have. I hang out with mostly sporty and fitness minded people now and the tubby beta bears aren't on the chicks' radar, at all. Video games etc,… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/15 03:53 AM |
| 3 | Women are getting fatter because no one calls them out on itThat's funny, I told this Chinese girl that she's getting too fat for me to get it up and she didn't get offended (about being called fat). She legit thinks she's not fat and tried to argue that my junk was broken. Told her if she wants to get fucked she needs to get me hard, wasn't happening from looks alone. The beej got sloppy as fuck after I put her in check. I am going to tell her straight up that she needs to lose some weight and start yoga if she wants to meet up again, can't have that sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/15 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Thread at 2x provides a good lesson about accidentally building pressure cookers and exposing you to false rape claims.It's not like I want a harem of HB10 sex slaves and to make a million dollars a year. Why not? That's the dream we're left with. I mostly pursue girls I'd be willing to invest in, but they also want nothing to do with a relationship. Cosmopolitan, educated, incredibly expensive city. I am pursued with vigilance by wall hitters in ways that even superior meal-ticket betas I know aren't, so I must have at least some alpha fux markers. Yet nothing in the way of young healthy chicks wanting to LTR, … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/15 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Having doubts about The Red Pill and not sure it's worth it? Having doubts? Thinking of plugging back in? Read on for why your thoughts are bullshitLife's better on the pill I was a crab bitch loser. Relearning trust's hard. Sweet slit, up in it Stand tall, dead lift, every day It like just happens | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 05:35 AM |
| 1 | 30 Day Challenge #3: HIT THE GYMCheck out my post in this thread, I've been doing essentially this with increasing weight for 2 months. If you split your muscle groups you will be fine. Initially top-bottom, top-bottom... then you get into various groups. Really don't think too much about programming initially, establish your habit and learn how your body feels. Bonus: you just use whatever is free, no waiting; in and out of gym Study form on everything, look up any body part/muscle you don't know while you do. You'll be swole… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 04:57 AM |
| 15 | The Push for "Gender Fluidity" is Literally Driving Men and Women Batshit CrazyI need to write an article on this and how TRP saved me from it. I was at the edge of thinking maybe I was a chick. Fucking brainwashed, bottom of the barrel... I could sense the shitty treatment and was mostly friends with girls; nice guy orbiter with skin too thin to hang out with guys. Now that I've taken ownership of myself and people validate my existence as a sexual man, I'm so totally a sexual man. People aren't quite dishing me shit or including me all the time, but I'm learning as I get… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Nutrition, basically.This is true. I did Keto for 4 months and lost over 40 lbs, the benefits as I view them are that starving your body of sugar does indeed kill all pangs of hunger, as you no longer have blood sugar spikes. It was also fun, kind of like a game. Necessary for weight loss? No... but it was fun eating non-stop bacon while I lost weight, kind of like the ultimate troll against the crabs who are still fat while I'm past skinny and getting into built territory several years later. </child-ego-state> | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 03:03 PM |
| 3 | 30 Day Challenge #3: HIT THE GYMI've been doing 5x/wk for over 2 months now. Only the first week sucked. By week 4 I was dreading my 2 week vacation. By week 2 of my vacation I was sneaking into the gym. By week 2 back at my job I hated my life because I was getting shit sleep and shat on by my boss and couldn't stop leaving the office to lift. Now I'm making new friends who are into fitness and working out/sports/competition is social and small talk material. You can do it man, there's a niiiice carrot. 4 days ago, hope you'r… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Time spent with women you aren't going to bed with is time wasted.Inflammatory title, but overall I agree with the message. The key is knowing the intangibles of the time investment you're making. I enjoy all kinds of dance music and dancing itself; it's lots more fun with a girl or 3 in your group, especially if nobody is fucking each other, such as colleagues. I hang out with some chicks in my industry, we flirt a little which sounds stupid but it's just having fun and not sexual and they seem to know that I do well outside the office, so I'm not coming on t… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/15 10:36 PM |
| 2 | 30 Day Challenge #3: HIT THE GYMStarted logging recently, this'll keep me honest. Currently establishing a routine of going 5x/wk for about an hour after work. Always alternating between core, chest, arms, legs, and working in light cardio... pretty willy nilly still, but I'm getting big and familiar with my muscle groups. Early 30s computer guy, inactive and became increasingly fat from about 15-28, at which point I threw my old BP life in the dumpster with the help of keto/trees/fitness/trp after it came crashing down. (slas… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/15 03:14 PM |
| 1 | The Alpha mindset: How to integrate a Red Pill approach towards life to bring purpose to your existence.Rings enough bells in my head to say I'm probably a fucking asshole in recovery. In my old life I was infinitely altruistic but got taken advantage of a number of times before stumbling onto TRP after losing all hope, quitting my career, etc... swung too far in the anger phase, moved to a new city in the middle of it, have done damage to the point of almost no social mobility in my initial circles. Mobility is invaluable, in comparing my past life with it to my current life without it. Altruism … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/15 03:59 AM |
| 3 | This is the War of The WordsGotta put out George Orwell's Politics of the English Language (1946), excellent background reading. I need to re-read it myself, a professor assigned it around 2005. There's also an appendix at the end of 1984 with related theory, (sparknotes). This is related to Chomsky's linguistic determinism. Thanks for the writeup OP. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/15 03:11 AM |
| 0 | Co-worker winds up as the beta provider of a single mother with four different children.Laughing my ass off, this story could so easily be fiction. Kudos, OP. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/15 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Surprise: Most women on OKCupid are fat sassy momsMust depend on market / guys they are looking for. I'm 30 in one of the most expensive cities in a trendy neighborhood, and my dick is covered in 19/23 year old girls new to the city on big daddy government student grants (latina/asian, not so much rich white). They know what they are here for. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Alcohol: Why it's good to drink and how to drink intelligentlyThanks for this. I've recently been turned on to gin, and am fortunate enough to live in a city with many mixologists and access to many of the gins in the world, yuppies love that shit. I enojy and will drink beers without limit still; but I love gin+soda more than I love beer, so I tend to start with unlimited g+s and finish with 1 to 2 local or mm.can beers 4-5x a week. I know. Never hung over, emerging tits made of muscle. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/15 06:41 AM |
| 7 | The Tragedy of the Pussy Commons and why I apply the camping rule to relationshipsNot even. Wherever you meet this girls and whatever she's into is infected if you do that (you date fit/smart/socialite girls, right?). I learned the hard way in a new city and it's fucking me over a little bit right now. Done with PnD. ONS with friends still okay, esp. as start of FWB/fling. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/15 05:35 AM |
| 3 | Buddy moves into house he built, invites me to spend the evening with his family.Meh, dudes like this seek these types of arrangements out Yep. If you say anything to him he will just tell the woman and then she will turn everyone against you. Yep. 100% of the time, guys like this tells their "lady" everything. If you say shit against her she'll find out and neutralize you at best--at worst you'll be ostracized by all common connections when she poisons the social well. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/15 07:14 AM |
| 1 | [FR]: "It's not creepy if you're not ugly": from the belly of the beast itselfIt's funny how many girls I've connected with over them shaming my cousins tactics with women. Why are you cock blocking your cousin? No chick is ever going to talk positively to you about getting hit on, basic ASD (anti-slut defense). No matter how creepy your cousin may be, you are a dick for entertaining these conversations behind his back. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 03:28 AM |
| 14 | [Rant]My current friends and my family are disrespecting my use of time being put more with studying and practice than socializing with them.Crabs in a bucket. From what I've een, every single person from a lower socio-economic rung who upgrades their gray matter gets clawed at mercilessly by the losers. I went/am going through it, shedding old "friends" and family left and right... at least a couple other people from my past and I who are doing shit with themselves have reconnected and had the same issues. Hang in there, you're doing something right to the point that their insecurities are coming to the surface. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 03:20 AM |
| 2 | You need to read "Date-onomics" by Jon Birger, because it explains why sex ratios affect (and effect) mating markets and discusses some of the great cities for sexually active menI'm in a city which is supposedly pretty horrendous, but I get what I put in to be honest. I think this article is agreeing with that? it's is a great place to be a guy because the other nerds are so fucking pussy, but there are also some fucking wolves. If I'm lifting and not letting my job get under my skin, being proactive about going out and doing stuff, legitimately making progress in life, pussy just lands on me with some frequency. And I'm 5 and a half tall, but white with blue eyes which… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/15 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Set requirements for women, don't just go with the windTrue this. I kind of like "ignoring" the 6's advances, problem is they turn into bitches before too long, esp. if I strike out with somebody else. There was a nice thread about it quite a while back, around a year ago I think, that talked about how to handle friend-zoned women who want your D... I believe there were 3 paths/outcomes. Anyone happen to have the name / link handy? I've tried to find it a couple times since, no luck. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/15 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Get off your phone. Master the art of conversation.All great things to do. Like I said, I'm the anti-phone guy so I do most of the stuff you mentioned. Sometimes I need to check my social medial (a chore) and only have time to do it while I wait for wings to come out, and I've noticed all the IoI's because I spend so much time off my phone learning them in the last few years. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/15 01:55 AM |
| 7 | Get off your phone. Master the art of conversation.Exactly, I've picked up on this and it's an easy tell that a person is uncomfortable that can be leveraged. I think the converse is also true, that one also projects confidence subconsciously to others by not whipping out their phone in tense situations. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/15 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Get off your phone. Master the art of conversation.I'm the anti-phone asshole in my circles, people know I hate that shit. They also know I have an iPhone that I use in private, so it's not like I'm a 'sperg. But sometimes when I fly solo on week nights at the corner pub where I eat wings and burgers after lifting I sit on my phone and fuck around while I drink a beer at the bar, and it seems I get more looks and flirtation than normal. My hypothesis is that drinking a beer alone and sitting on phone while being not unattractive projects DGAF an… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/15 07:51 PM |
| 15 | Your Attraction Cannot Be Negotiated, Either. Raise Your Standards.Women are that way out of abundance, not any personality problem. If a guy has abundance he will have a similar mindset. That same mindset also puts attractive people into a more compatible position with each other, for understanding the world (and jokes, etc). So by all means be entitled, just don't be an entitled bastard (Gronk!). | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/15 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Post-wall woman on r/okcupid has wild threesomes and multiple fuckbuddies, then wonders why men won't commit to her. Commenters put together their heads to figure out this perplexing mystery.Your life may feel miserable now, but you can make it as awesome as you are willing to work for. You're gifted with a rational mind and incentive to change your mindset to something more constructive, unlike women. Women of course have the mind and are capable of amounting to something; building a life that leaks excess value to those around them; but 1/2 way thought that though Chad texts them and they forget about it. As dudes we can say no to Jenna more easily because we derive our strength f… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/15 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Men who leave relationships are respected, Men who stay to try and 'fix' things have their reputation trashed.This is the only reasonable response. A text / tweet / IG / snap could fuck anybody anywhere. There's no possible way to cover your ass from every direction. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/15 02:10 AM |
| 2 | The "girls are dumb" negHAHAHA, truedatness. And of course by "all", I mean... all 4 or 5. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 04:56 PM |
| 3 | SMP evaluation and reality check.I would agree that having a PhD probably raises your SMV... being a student working on it though, I'd still venture to guess nadda. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 09:36 PM |
| 1 | SMP evaluation and reality check.PhD student, sorry to bust your bubble but that isn't going to make any pussycat wet outside your department; and only there if you're a known and validated prodigy. BUT, that has nothing to do with the problem. You're probably just shitty at selling yourself--in any number of ways. What do you offer their life? (Do you smell good?) That narrative post from a few days ago comes to mind... thinking of my own narrative while I'm on holiday right now. In my case, women don't get anything out of a b… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 07:35 PM |
| 2 | SMP evaluation and reality check.Huge high five here. I commute through the financial district of my city, and I am a fucking ugly shrimp of a man with shitty teeth and poor clothing compared to many of these guys... but I've gotten an order of magnitude better, myself, because of that commute. I can compete with some of them, more by the week it seems. I am a boss in some environments now. I have so many layers of detail left to learn, and I can do it just by watching these people walk for a few 10s of minutes per day. Keep bo… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 07:02 PM |
| 3 | The "girls are dumb" negBut still has vague plans to get a master's degree. Just a possible flag, based on the comment about "maybe grad school": I am seeing a lot of girls decide on a whim to get grad degrees because the financial aid package is good. Perverse incentive being, in my view, that it's easier and offers more security than finding a job in most fields. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 06:47 PM |
| 5 | The "girls are dumb" negThis only works if you're actually better than they are. You need to say it from a place of authority so that they take it to heart. Most women suck at everything and she subconsciously knows this you're just pointing it out. I went to do my Computer Science degree in my early 20's as an experienced guy, so I was a magnet for all the girls. I was BP as fuck, but filtered out the girls overtly trying to use me for answers due to my sense of academic ethics (same principle white knights operate on… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 06:32 PM |
| 3 | The "girls are dumb" negINTJ... just took the test again the other day: Introvert(3%) iNtuitive(31%) Thinking(6%) Judging(1%) I've always been pretty close to center, getting closer to it with age. Eg. I have scored as INTP for a long time, and have sometimes registered as ENTP (NT typically stronger than this score, I do it about yearly). I also notice recently that I have a lot of sociopathic capability. I may have always employed it unconsciously, I feel now I'm getting a better handle on it through learning differe… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 06:18 PM |
| 9 | Ashley MadisonUpvote because you made an interesting observation: Internet dating, in general, is a wiener-fest. If a website is geared towards casual sex, the penile predominance with be magnified 7-fold. I've had the most online success with the most traditional dating sites (eg. OkCupid and my own trove of non-dating boards). Your comment made me come up with the ASDt coefficient: the overtness of a site for hooking up vs. traditional dating like AM=7, Tinder=4, POF=2, OKC=1.5, IRL=1 multipliers of ASD-tri… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Ashley MadisonSometimes Instacart doesn't deliver the kind of sausage they're looking for. If you think in terms of 'sites', you are thinking they go sit on a computer. Girls love apps, yo. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Beating Infatuation (the most common form of Oneitis)The idea is that you shouldn't be afraid of losing her, I elaborated without knowing much about your circumstances. I heard that you fear not finding a new girl again, so I took it to mean either lack of opportunity or skill. I had similar fear, in my case it was both lack of skill and opportunity so I had to create the latter first and am now practicing on these new girls I meet every week and getting better. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 03:07 PM |
| 1 | A Single Universal Truth of Sexual Desire. An Improved and Simplified Model of AWALT.Popped the cherry of one of these. She wanted it raw in her MIT dorm room, should have busted inside. With my family's swimmers, we'd have gotten one (I wrapped). I don't know what she's up to now, married and still in very high level academia, must be hitting the wall about now. Looks great in the FB photos I see, though. Will be interesting to see if she goes divorced spinster or mother, she's wanted to do the work she's doing now since HS when we met, even against her father's wish (he suppor… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/15 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Gay men rule the world.Confirmed. I live in a house with some gay men and straight + attractive chicks, these girls with gay harems are the worst. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/15 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Beating Infatuation (the most common form of Oneitis)Sounds like a lack of abundance mindset. Do you get to meet new girls every week? If no, ask yourself how you can fix that. Fuck fear. If you are letting anxiety cloud your thinking with thoughts about the future: stop, that shit doesn't exist. The future you create while lost in your head is less effective than the one you create while responding to and acting upon the present. Reading body language, for example, is far more efficient than trying to think about where a girl might be coming from… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/15 05:02 PM |
| 3 | "Are you done yet?" vs "Sex God"The body busts higher quality nuts with new girls, it knows. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/15 01:05 AM |
| 2 | GF breaking up with me in the morning, need some help fastSounds like you got this despite a lot of the bullshit advice above (edit: outside this thread), good man. I swallowed the pill about 2.5 years ago, and I've been adding a lot of girls who I orbited and ex's to my list of travel plates. One quality of my former BP life is I always made breakups amicable, even if there was nastiness like cheating. IDGAF for real, despite BP. This ties into a recent post of the narrative... their narrative when they contact you a year later, is things just didn't … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/15 10:20 AM |
| 2 | The rich minority and the poor minority.I thought it was a great post, too bad to see it at 0 points. I was simultaneously reading it as tall guy, short guy. I'm a short guy who's getting more girls as I up my swole and game. Mindset, mindset, mindset; and play to your strengths. Not all women want all dudes in all situations, so find the ones that work and have the right mindset. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/15 07:07 AM |
| 2 | 15 Reasons To NOT Date A Single MomAre you talking about common law marriage? Most states have abolished that. Common-law marriage can still be contracted in nine states (Alabama, Colorado, Kansas, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Iowa, Montana, Utah and Texas) and the District of Columbia. New Hampshire recognizes common-law marriage for purposes of probate only, and Utah recognizes common-law marriages only if they have been validated by a court or administrative order. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Common-law_marriage_in_the_Unit… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/15 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.Good on you bro. As others say, this shit is norm. I've had about 6 full time jobs and done freelance for a decent spread. You'll find the same stuff but in a more evolved form at your new job. And you nailed it, rule 0 is set boundaries from the get go. Then you're congruent when you continue to hold them, and we love us some frame. I'm fairly unpopular with a lot of people at my job in my department (engineering) because I set hard boundaries and sometimes passively resist my [manipulative as … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/15 09:51 PM |
| 6 | On the Feminist #ILookLikeAnEngineer HashtagI'm a short and somewhat effeminate man, dudes talk down to me all the time. Guess how many fucks anyone gives? Negative fucks, they actively bucket me in with the complainers if I say shit. How do you overcome? Meritocracy, the worst word you can say in Silicon Valley under the new guard. Do shit, get results, and people will bump it when you say good night. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/15 03:51 AM |
| 5 | On the Feminist #ILookLikeAnEngineer HashtagThis shit makes me livid. I work in an office where we discriminately prefer to hire women. We pretty openly prefer women over men for technical positions, and create positions if a hot enough one applies. We create positions for women who apply. Let that sink in. We're helping women, yet our newly minted SJW employees still talk about equality. I've never broached the subject with any of them for obvious reasons, but it must feel like shit if they ever find out (assuming self awareness). I have… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/15 03:44 AM |
| 2 | PSA: Beware the "suicide grip" on bench pressAlso locale. I'm making mid-six figures and in my city you need a million dollars for anything bigger than a 1BR condo, which most don't have at 30. I wouldn't put a squat rack in my place if I had one, no space. I hear you though, coming from a place where I used to own a house with a 2 car garage before I was into fitness, it would have been a no brainer. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/15 03:35 AM |
| 2 | PSA: Beware the "suicide grip" on bench pressI just set my coworker straight on this grip today, a few hours ago. I asked him to spot after we randomly bumped into each other at the gym, and he asked if I'd spot him a few sets. He grabbed it like that and I told him there was no way he was going to pick up the bar like that; and that's the main way people get hurt. Not obvious for some reason! Thanks for the PSA, I wouldn't have made the post for sure. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/15 03:24 AM |
| 2 | 3 Reasons Why You Will Never Make GainsI've seen a few hipsters drinking lamb blood from their blender bottles. Guessing they mixed in an anticoagulant (dried mosquito?). Watch out quinoa. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/15 03:09 PM |
| 1 | The real reason why white men do the best in the sexual market place.I'll ask you guys this question, how many minorities do you personally know who are tall, in great shape, have some degree of social charm, AND are financially well off? The correct answer would be, it's rare and for the few that do exist, the game is just as easy. I've known some guys like this back in college and they did not struggle at all compared to their white counterparts. Exactly. Of the guys I know who are social enough to talk to girls, color makes no difference. Brown guys out of sch… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/15 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Need advice...I feel like I can't compete at all with other males no matter how hard I try.Yes, I consistently get girls I approach stolen/blocked without the other person trying, to the point that I basically expect to be the assist. I used to get pissed and try to explain, but at least now I understand the mechanics of it and have made peace. I don't count on getting laid if I go out with certain dudes. Success has come from flying solo, but with more self aware bros it might be okay. I've had some faithful girls for periods, some girls fall completely in love but I think that's mor… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/15 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Need advice...I feel like I can't compete at all with other males no matter how hard I try.Women need security, status, escape. As a short guy, you're almost never going to offer the former... the best you can do is to earn respect and a reputation that carry bitches successfully onto your dick in due time, via status and escape. Source: 5'5 and moved from a small city where I had status to a coastal city where I'm a short nobody (and improving). | /r/askTRP | 05/07/15 07:23 AM |
| 7 | An interesting thread on the front page with regard to divorce inequality.I know at least one woman who is paying alimony to an ex-husband. The original order was for over $3k/mo... reduced to $2k/mo for some reason. The guy didn't have a job, and she was a highly paid tech worker. So I imagine whichever partner is making significantly more at the time of divorce will get shafted. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/15 04:13 PM |
| 4 | Interesting conversation with my 87 year old grandfather about working women, and why they will never be satisfied.And think about the children... the children who would be raised with healthy male and female role models and an example of a strong family. And finally, consider the taxes the government could collect beyond next fiscal year. Think of the taxes of the children. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 04:35 AM |
| 2 | How can some women be so messed up?You have to find your game, and you can then say it's "easy". For example, my current game is girls from my past who visit my cool and expensive tourist destination city, and hit me up on FB to stay a night or two. I give them my new cell number blah blah, am Stoic as shit to their advances. I give them Sex God while they're here. First thing we do every time is fuck, and life goes on with occasional IG/FB likes and no drama. I have sleeping bags and everything, but not one has ever asked. I alw… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/15 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Italian hedge fund manager: 'Never, ever marry an American woman'I'm in a highly educated/professional city and I know a couple of women who are getting the shit end of divorces. I don't press because we're colleagues, but they've offered various pieces of information at offsite events. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/15 03:51 AM |
| 2 | How To Talk To Everyone You See.4 hours of fascinated clicking later... | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/15 08:52 AM |
| 6 | How I learned to see things from the woman's point of view: the "nice girl"Does this chick happen to be Korean? I knew a couple of "nice" girls in college and dated a less timid girl from their Korean circle. I also know exactly what you mean about wanting to eat a chick out being a mark of attraction... shit's nasty unless she's hot in which case chubby is popped. Cheers bro. Hope you don't fuck her over too hard if her N count is low (white knight instinct, I know). | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Dating Difficulties for Men Might be related to Breathing Problems. From a little-known 1987 Research Study.Timely. I've been putting some cash aside and just got on a dental plan that helps out with orthodontics, planning to explore the options as soon as the plan goes into effect. As a kid my dentist highly recommended correction to my parents, and I'm now having hints of impending jaw/dental problems at 30. Glad to know it was a good investment. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 04:18 PM |
| 2 | I came from a childhood spent mostly on video games and pornAs Napoleon Dynamite says, "women only want guys with great skills." Perceived power and status are relative. The girls I've gotten who have been the most devoted to me have seen me at the peak of what I do, which boringly enough is build software systems that I think are useful, interesting, and well constructed (beautiful at inspired times). | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 06:18 AM |
| 8 | Chad Thundercock succeeds at online dating.Oddly enough, the first OKC date I ever went on was after I said "fuck it" and threw up one picture of my abs, to see what would happen. 5'10" Asian chick while I'm 5'5" and listed it on there. Didn't get that lay, was in way over my head (disbelief that it was happening). Online dating forever changed. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Basic Shit Test MnemonicI know a couple dudes named Vicas so I'll remember it like that. Thanks, very useful. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/15 07:20 AM |
| 9 | [FR] Coworkers wives tried to throw a grenade at meI tell my family I've not found anybody worth committing to when they ask. They understand and nobody has asked again. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/15 04:16 AM |
| 2 | 15 year-old gets falsely accused of rape, prooves his innocence but instead gets charged with slander and has to pay the "victim" $4000 in damagesI see feminazis in my old liberal circles calling for Dems other than Hilary... that's hope I can believe in. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 03:16 AM |
| 5 | With perfect condom use, 20 in 100 women will get pregnant over a ten year period. With normal use, the number is 86 in 100. Vasectomy: 2 in 100.RISUG and Vasalgel work slightly differently. RISUG tears sperm apart while Vasalgel plugs the passage way. Both are very similar in that they are an injection of polymer that are reversed with another injection. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/15 08:41 AM |
| 8 | With perfect condom use, 20 in 100 women will get pregnant over a ten year period. With normal use, the number is 86 in 100. Vasectomy: 2 in 100.Sometimes they just break. Best to combine condom + withdrawl (ie. bust your nut outside even though you're wrapped). It's happened where I blew my load inside only to find the condom broken at the base of my dick (she thankfully took Plan B without any fuss). | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/15 08:31 AM |
| 10 | Doesn't matter where they are from or race...AWALTGood and true advice, but I think the key is to not establish yourself as a father figure. Concretely, don't participate in the kid's events or at holidays or give gifts, don't babysit, avoid spending time at her place, don't do things where the kid will be welcome/able to attend, don't help out with money or rides. I'd not prefer a single mother, but if you are clearly not a father figure I think it's okay. Am I wrong? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/15 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Fewer Sex Partners Masks 20 / 80 RuleYou've created all these rules. I've never heard of these rules. The great thing about NYC or any big city is you can just go do stuff and there are hotties everywhere. Make yourself a tour of the shit you want to do and roll with it; from underground rap to Central Park or wherever. Get a private hotel room in case you meet a chick, if you want. Or stay in an International hostel and bang a foreigner in a club bathroom. In big cities there are tons of places to meet women where you legitimately… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/15 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Fewer Sex Partners Masks 20 / 80 RuleI want to get out and meet better women but my friends always convince me to just chill at their house and play some video games or smoke and have a few beers and just chill. And I always do because I don't want to seem like that lone desperate guy at some bar in the city who has no friends. Bro, just go by yourself. Traveling solo is way better than traveling with crabs anyway. I'd suggest looking into hostels/hotels in a walkable part of the city and set up camp every now and then. I go to a f… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/15 03:07 AM |
| 2 | A quick word on frame.I don't know if it was LSD day per-se that changed me, but I remember looking up at a large flat in the town where I dropped my first and only time. I bent down a little bit to look up at that mountain over the kitchen sink window and thinking "that's fucking frame, nobody has that mountain fucked up." I told my homie I was about to do something weird but it'd be cool, so he said okay. I opened a can of Pringles and threw them on the kitchen floor that we'd cleaned up that day. I thought back to… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 10:01 AM |
| 2 | My sister was Alpha-widowed now faces 3 felonies because of him, claims to "still love him."I'd bet she creeped by and saw the ex-GF's car and keyed it, and the ex-GF called the cops. I even question the laptop story personally. Q. Why the fuck would a grower be so eager to call the cops? A. She's fucking lying. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 09:44 AM |
| 4 | My sister was Alpha-widowed now faces 3 felonies because of him, claims to "still love him."Live in the Midwest or something dude. I don't know if it's changed since cell phones, but I dated some wholesome ass girls until I got out of high school and the smart ones went off to big name schools. They're now married to BBers after grad school, who they met in undergrad. I don't know if they get side dick, but they seem to have successful and fulfilling lives. The ones who stayed in the Midwest are shit shows. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 09:39 AM |
| 14 | Women rage against "body-shaming" Protein World ad campaign.People ask me how I'm in such good shape all the time and I don't even lift. I tell them I have a pull-up bar on my closet door, do a few pushups and walk 1-3 miles per day, which is true. It's not hard to have a pretty legit body. I drive in the message that it's insulting to think that you'll get huge if you lift; I've done SS and know that you gotta progress and eat big to gain any kind of size (ie. work hard for it, it's not an accident). | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Your biggest obstacles to LTR success include laziness and apathy. Lessons from an older man.I'd estimate 15% to 20%--but none of them want an equal! Most of them either want a leader/mentor or, for those with daddy issues, a substitute daddy. Interesting hypothesis. I'm way younger, early 30s, but I've had a handful of LTRs and a plate where I've been the mentor. I like those relationships, and they've always ended 100% clean (same industry, so it makes sense). | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/15 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Vasalgel and the Sexual MarketplaceSex robots still don't meet our need for human contact. Orgasm is Dopamine, touch is Oxytocin. Sex robots could perhaps have oxytocin laced membranes I suppose... I'll be fucking human women for as long as possible. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/15 05:55 AM |
| 0 | Pussy pass example at my jobThat's naive, not in a pussy-pass kind of way. HBR: "What Great Managers Do.", an article which I think agrees with what /u/Meglomaniac says. Excellent read if you want to gain some management perspective, search for Walgreens for a relevant idea. I agree they assume good intent on the part of the manager, many would just as soon fire and replace with somebody more compliant... but there are costs to replacing an employee to weigh against, so there might be room for an answer you haven't thought… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/15 12:24 AM |
| -1 | Should you ever punish a girl for showing too much affection for you? How I dread-gamed myself.I've done this to a couple plates. I'd rather they be gone than bothering me all the time. I've had girls who've been on board with it and when they contacted me it's because they had some reason to and I responded positively. My dick is dry more often than not, but I live a pretty stress free life with no phone/text nonsense. I could re-plate at least one of the girls, another reached out to me after 6-8 months... if you want her around you can probably get her back, but if you don't then ignor… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Force Majeure (2014) : An excellent movie wherein actual realistic sexual and gender dynamics are represented.It's bad enough that he had a MOMENT of weakness, but she has to humiliate and degrade him in front of third parties. I've had multiple chicks do this before the end of our days. When she thinks you're a pussy it seems she wants to make sure everyone knows it. From an evolutionary perspective that could be beneficial to the species, but I don't have a source/confirmation. She abandons her family when she gets off the bus. She acts completely irrationally. I suppose the theme of the movie is the … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 12:53 AM |
| 6 | The ring is back on my fingerI'm not married but this is just childish. He made an agreement to put it back on when she did. He got swole and yes she finally became anxious, because she realized there was something to be anxious about. AWALT, he became relatively more alpha and her tingles started coming again. Also /u/green49's comments seem spot on--OP set the stage for his wife to "love" him as a function of AWALT, now she does, so probably best to just move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/15 04:09 AM |
| 8 | BP Example: Adults that pay $1,000s to go back to pre-school and "play"Feels like it, but it's a time vs. money thing. It's in the same building as my office in an expensive financial district, and I commute everywhere with the bus or Uber (parking also is time consuming or expensive, rush hour traffic is terrible). So my option is pay or spend an extra hour+ per workout day riding busses around to a cheaper gym. I prefer to relax for 15 minutes on the bus and pay. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 04:15 PM |
| 4 | BP Example: Adults that pay $1,000s to go back to pre-school and "play"Truth. $750 for 10 hours with a personal trainer to see twice a week, $250 for 2-3+ mo at the gym. I've had some good sex and ass grabs already. Source: what I am doing with $1000 at the moment. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Live Action Cinderella remake, has critics raving...but feminists are up in arms call the movie sexist...Recently I've been considering Indian/Chinese engineer chicks more seriously. In our industry these girls are pretty high quality. Plain janes in their culture and many even in ours, but I'm starting to think they'd be a pretty good investment and I appreciate the work they've had to put in to make their way to a competitive US city. Even the shittiest people in my industry here have to be pretty good, so no matter how much family wealth (a qualifier) and white knighting brought them here, they … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out for the very first time in my lifeFuck yea bro. To be quite honest, the first time I legit asked a girl "out" AF style and got a tingly response was in the past year. That smile was story girl imagining the fux for a few pounds. I can't say if you could have done anything or not, obviously only you and her were there. I said "cute." once and the conversion rolled on. Depends what you want... sometimes I talk to people without wanting anything more than to talk; impossible logistics or something, like being 50 miles from home via… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 08:53 AM |
| 3 | DatingEach time I throw them a bone they get more demanding and ungrateful. It's conflicting me. I've only had a few examples, but they start falling as soon as I do anything with/for them. My theory is that they hate themselves and are disgusted by people doing nice things for the undeserving whore they view themselves as. Solution, looking for girls from higher rungs... I know AWALT, but I've dated non-broken chicks in the past, I just don't know where they hang out other than married and at home. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Ego is your greatest advantageI agree. I made the mistake of entertaining a conversation the other night, female room mate came to speak with me just after I'd gotten home from a stressful as fuck day. I had the opportunity to tell her I'd talk with her about it later, but instead I just interleaved responses with "I'm tired, can't really focus now, but.... running mouth without thinking". Of course I realized instantly and now had my relaxation time that I was about to take to think about how I should have responded instead… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Starting to take the Hypergamy PersonallyThe girls all leave the same way...vague, little to no explanation as to why, and dodging any attempts to talk about where we went wrong. I'm starting to take this personally. The opposite happened when the 'pill actually kicked in. You know asking never gets you anywhere, and in fact only makes you lose face, but you still do it. Just ask enough times, I did it with my first couple post-RP plates too. Brick walls will share more details and give equally as many fucks. But I've found it's worse:… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Kind of a Rant: On the death of the male mentorWhy is this down voted? It sounds like good advice to me as an intermediate 'piller. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Breaking Down the Negative aspects of FeminismUntil men automate these jobs, that is. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Parasitic Nesting-Mode activated: Buddy's GF starts competing with me, as soon as he buys his own place.I get where you're coming from, but you are clearly experiencing some butthurt as well. Why do you care that your bro doesn't come over and lift and or throw BBQs? Have your own BBQs and invite him if you want BBQs. Maybe he'll get the bright idea to have it at his place, maybe not. Lift by yourself, when his gainz start disappearing and you guys hang out maybe he'll be reminded. If not, oh well, don't waste energy saving him anymore or get caught into the sunk costs fallacy of your past investm… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Simulated Sex - Will It Spell The End of Beta Bux for Post Wall Women?I don't buy it. I'm in tune with my body and know that jacking off makes me groggy and low energy while sexual conquest and fucking leaves me pretty full of energy. My theory is hormones. I've used all the latest and greatest VR technology and I still know that I'm in a simulation. I might use it for bi-monthly pressure relief but can't imagine substituting the real thing. I am around top grade immigrant feminine STEM women on a daily basis, so that may be part of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Lost job because female employee demand things be done "her way"Night fill position for retail chain ... choosing between dumping university or becoming an unskilled laborer You working toward an economically smart career in uni? Do NOT follow the latter option. I mean this as constructively as possible: you are in for a life of bullshit if you don't get a skill that isn't easily replaced. STEM was my path, obviously there are others. You have to at least tolerate grinding yourself into shape for 5-10+ years at 8-12+ hr/day, but listen to this from a guy who… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 03:05 PM |
| 3 | The role of Betas and OrbitersMatching experience here. I've started off AF with a few girls this year, and it goes fine and steady for a few months (steps 1-5) but I've gradually given more BB time like bike rides/tequila flights/walks in the park, especially if the weather gets nice after being cold/gray for a while. I do that stuff alone on the weekend but always enjoy a girl by my side. I meet these girls out having fun and we insta-date and usually have some connection (taste in music, science/art/museums, etc), so I in… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 11:23 AM |
| 0 | Violence in lesbian relationships is higher than heterosexual relationships.You ever been through the legal system? Try waiting a year just to get the chance to sit infront of a judge, while the prosecutor is offering you deals that are still shitty but are better than what they're stacking against you. That can break a person in itself, if not financially then spiritually/mentally. Yes, I've been through the system (not for domestic, but I imagine the experience is similar or far worse than my plight). | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/15 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Violence in lesbian relationships is higher than heterosexual relationships.I called the cops on an ex once, after her attacking and eventually locking herself in the bathroom threatening to cut herself. Girl had baggage, wasn't the first time she'd done it. They took her away, granted it was to a hospital and not jail. We were both drunk as it was after a celebration (her favorite time to throw shit storms). It might have not been interpreted as 'domestic violence' so much as a suicide attempt? Clearly she had the most potential to do harm in that situation though, and… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/15 04:33 PM |
| 3 | As a man you can never 'own' someone else's accomplishments or wealth. Thats what separates the sex's, we only get what we earn.I wasn't RP last time I had a LTR, pretty bought into the Disney narrative. I could tell something was off when she started letting herself go though. She was comparable SMV and maybe a point up when she wore nice dresses and made herself up. I was a dumbass and discouraged it. But I could tell she liked doing it while she was attracted to me, and didn't really try as I was pussified. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 07:55 PM |
| 4 | As a man you can never 'own' someone else's accomplishments or wealth. Thats what separates the sex's, we only get what we earn.Women can save cash, stop with that nonsense. AWALT yes, but they aren't dumb asses if they have their shit together. Most of the women in my professional life have their stuff together, as they make enough to have incentive to be smart with it. Now when I think back to the service industry girls I grew up with, it seems like none of them have their shit together relative to the few guys who do. That life is just fucking hard for anyone. But given proper conditions, women can be rational if they… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Coding like a girlI've mentored a couple ex girlfriends who were software engineers. They are capable, no doubt, especially in the academic setting. I went to school with one and always made her do her own work, I don't think anyone in our lab/project teams ever questioned that. We went on to live together and work at different software companies, and I still made her do all her own work, but I trained her as long as she needed. She didn't ask for help much in the last year, as she'd learned enough to do her job … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 06:40 PM |
| 0 | The growth of /r/TheRedPill from 0 to 100,000 subscribersFrom the comments: "Almost a hundred subscribers! Welcome newcomers." 6 points submitted 2 years ago by pk_atheist[M] r/TheRedPill/comments/12v1hf/almost_a_hundred_subscribers_welcome_newcomers/ https://archive.today/NlLgx | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Best use of spare money to increase SMV?See various specialists like orthodontist, personal trainer, dermatologist, finishing school, etc and mine them for information (but also do your own research). Fix shit, prevent other shit. Set the foundation of good health, looks, posture, habits, mannerisms now. I'm starting to fix it in my 30's and it's going to take a lot more work than if I'd done it right away. Regrettable because I've been independently very well off myself ($60k/yr+ out of high school programming, almost 15 years ago). … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 05:19 AM |
| 11 | Suddenly, most of my friends are betasI've dumped/downgraded most of my pussy starved and plain loser former friends to acquaintance status/radio silence and am holding out for alpha friends who have compatible values to myself. I no longer expect ho's to be loyal, but any bros I take into my life for the long haul will be; men are capable of it, in my view. Men can build kingdoms and populate them with other men of their choosing (just himself in the beginning). | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 04:34 PM |
| 42 | Suddenly, most of my friends are betas2) He’s my friend, but also my competition. Maybe this is selfish. But do I really want guys to start playing the alpha game in my surroundings? Hell no. If you plan to have your girls meet your friends, your friends should be "alpha". First, if you're hanging out with sexual losers, that itself will put a dent in your SMV. Second, thirsty dudes are going to be trouble as they are susceptible to back stabbing for the chance at pussy if she starts sending them any interest, real or fake (weaponiz… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 04:17 PM |
| 1 | "I'm a strong, independent woman"!You don't mention the solipsistic aspect of this, but that is probably the biggest factor at play. Women want strong independent men, and men want soft feminine women; so women act like men because that's what they think is attractive, and men act like women because that's what they think is attractive, and nobody taught them better. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 09:57 AM |
| 7 | Stay stoic in the worst of situations always pays off.Great lesson, best wishes to you and your family. This sounds like the way my dad would behave actually, as little credit as I give him. The more I digest the pill, the more I realize how much damage my 7 feminist aunts and mom did to me (actually just feminism to our family, they mean well). Dad was never around, fucking weak but I at least somewhat sympathize now. I've been weak my whole life, and before the pill and lessons like this I would have continued to embrace the weakness and never be… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Disney and TRPThe Lion King remains one Disney movie I would be happy to rewatch. I think 1967 The Jungle Book might be legit as well, anyone seen it recently? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/15 10:37 AM |
| 1 | The Real SecretI think you're on the right track, but calling it "gender science" is where you went wrong. I see the quotes, not those fucking downvoting pedants. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/15 10:30 AM |
| 1 | TRP as a Butterfly EffectThis comic is funny, through my meditations I've been exploring something I call "turtle nature" in the past few weeks. It's basically frames 15-16 in my mind, but I've drawn no conclusions like the end of the comic. The experience was first induced by getting very high on Purple Kush (Indica cannabis), but I can use that memory as an entry point to start seeing the "turtles" while sober. The idea is that below our outer brains we have a lizard (turtle) brain that gets first dibs on most of our … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/15 09:37 AM |
| 2 | TRP as a Butterfly EffectFeminism can't survive without funding That's a solid statement on its own, gonna have to think on that one for a while and probably adopt it. Cheers | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/15 09:11 AM |
| 13 | Why techno-game renders you powerless.I refuse to text with chicks especially and people generally. Some are extremely receptive to it; some of the traditional gender girls I meet like it while no sluts do. I get my bros to call me too. Sometimes we text a few times, but they know my limit is 2-3 short ones before a phone call is faster and easier. They accept my logic when they try it. My dick goes dry sometimes because some women won't play and they fall, but overall my life is pretty bullshit free in part because of insisting on … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 10:29 PM |
| 2 | A Tale of Training Butts and Crabby Bucket SlutsI say like and complement stuff that you would like or complement a guy doing the same thing for. I know I lost a lot of friends/gained a lot of enemies when I start posting progress pics and shit (ie. boyfriends/orbiters of girls who liked my posts). Either way, I know a couple builder chicks and they are sweet and worth giving some validation. I'd not considered crabby bitches pinching at their legs before, I'm now inclined to go even out of my way a little for girls who do shit that involves … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Mental illnesses are misunderstoodI believe it was in The Way of Men by Jack Donovan or What Every Body Is Saying by Joe Navarro. Repeating from my comment above so you get the inbox notice. Both are great reads. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Mental illnesses are misunderstoodI believe I've read that depression is your brain's way of warning you that something about your survival or reproduction strategy is off. I subscribe to this more and more each day and appreciate your approach here. Since finding TRP I use depression/lethargy as an indicator that I'm doing something wrong, and can formulate a plan and work toward fixing it. Shit gets fixed, albeit sometimes slower than I like and with other things now broken (or visible). In my old life I'd just go out and get … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 08:58 PM |
| 0 | The Art of Being GenuineIn other words, a man should never get married (or the quote is misattributed): http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2988645/ (Mis)Perceptions About the Present When Aristotle was alive in the 4th century BC, life expectancy for humans was, like it was for the vast majority of our species' history, below the age of 30. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/15 02:35 AM |
| 1 | A forth-coming legal article being published by my Law School about prostitution.it sounds like they want to push decriminalization for the seller. similar to possession vs. intent/sale with drug laws in decriminalized states; the former is a simple civil penalty, the latter is a criminal offense. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/15 10:03 AM |
| 2 | In a rare moment of drunken honesty, a poster in r/TwoXChromosomes admits she prefers assholes to nice guysTruth. I get shamed for "hating women" a lot these days, but truth is that the frumpy bitches who try it are just getting old and jealous of the tight little pieces that I fuck (and talk about, which I shouldn't). Going through some drama with a newly BB married post-wall former hot girl house mate. I've also been fired because a chick wanted to suck my dick and it blew my white knight coworkers' minds. And yet, bitches I meet LOVE FUCKING and text me to fuck. And when they try to punish me by n… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/15 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Loyalty & Hypergamyhos ain't loyal, but bitches are | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/15 08:07 PM |
| 4 | I find TRP reading compelling, and so I'd like to read the most elegant arguments attempting to refute it. Can anyone point me in that direction?For example, what man isn't hypergamous by nature? Hypergamy is an understood mating strategy that men don't follow: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypergamy by default a man will be a beta and will have a scarcity mentality. What little boy do you know that is naturally beta and has a scarcity mindset? Men come out 'alpha' as fuck and learn to be beta and insecure. Weak/non-existent families are to blame in my opinion. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/15 05:06 PM |
| 16 | Female coworkers laugh at me because my wife gave me a sponge bath for being sick.Keep conversations with female colleagues strictly professional. FTFY. White knights are at least as vicious, yet thirsty as hell and even more eager to get some pussy by white knighting. If you find a friend or two in there that's cool, but filter carefully and remember that there is no bro code. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Advancing your personal attributes with deliberate actionThanks. It's kind of sad to me, truth be told. I pictured in my mind a '5' guy for each of these categories and I didn't hit almost any of them naturally. The ones I'm high on are because I'm OCD and my high school passion became my career. Nor did almost anyone I grew up with, many of whom had few-if-any 5's. Transcending from rags to riches (blue to white collar personally) is proving to be a lonely road, glad this place is here with others making the journey. Cheers | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Advancing your personal attributes with deliberate actionFrame: 3/10 Boundaries: 3/10 Abundance: 5/10 Social savvy: 3/10 Stoicism: 5/10 Non betabux: 5/10 Physical aesthetics: 5/10 Career: 6/10 Finances: 3/10 Academics: 5/10 Grooming: 8/10 Approaching: 1/10 Plates (spinning ability): 3/10 Overall: 4.6/10 I've considered myself a 4-5 overall, so that sounds pretty reasonable. Since starting TRP I've probably improved plate spinning all 3 points, grooming 3-4 points, frame and boundaries 1-2 points each, social savvy at least 2 points. Not a bad start...… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 02:48 AM |
| 3 | [Laugh of the Day] Feminists rejoice as doomed-to-fail female remake of Ghostbusters reveals its cast. As expected, two fatties, one post-wall hottie, & one young average.the only way to save this movie is ghosts like Johnny Depp | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 02:31 AM |
| 0 | "Why are you so afraid of marriage?"There's nothing wrong with having conversations with your girls no matter what some of these monocle wearing fellows will have you think. I dated a foreign exchange student in college and we spent a lot of time talking about such things. Girls want to be absorbed into your world, you need to use inclusion as a reward in some sense, just like you would any schlub you just met. Inclusion can come in many forms, including conversations about life if she's down. Treating women like children is absol… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 01:35 PM |
| 10 | Indonesia is about to start producing a male birth control pill.In addition to wrapping, pull out before you come. The other weekend I came and kept fucking until she came again, and when I pulled it out I realized the condom had blown up and was wrapped around the base of my shaft. FUCK... Next lesson is that as a man you are allowed to buy Plan B over the counter. Get one and keep it on hand, because if she wants to leave ASAP in the morning you have no control over whether she takes it or not. Worst 36 hours in recent memory. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 01:28 AM |
| 1 | How easy would it be for a high SMV guy in his 30s to sleep with a lot of different women if he wanted to?I don't even know why I'm explaining this to you , you're clearly the same dude that just keeps making new accounts. That's funny, I sensed this was the guy just from the title. Then there was a lack of the word college for like 2/3 of the article and I thought maybe it was somebody new with a similar question. NOPE, his game is evolving. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Good news everyone, I am NOT the Father.Peace be with that child. Fuck man, paternity entrapment is terrifying. Related but not directly applicable PSA: use a condom AND pull out before you cum. I almost got baby daddied last weekend when the condom popped and I didn't notice till ~5 minutes after I came and finally pulled it out. I gave her way too much pot cookie the night before so she was still quite stoned in the morning and being stubborn, in retrospect I should have suggested she just keep sleeping in my bed after I got up and … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 08:43 PM |
| 2 | FR: 19-year-old college freshman from Tinder. Blondie likes older men…a lot.Okay Dorothy. If you don't like it don't hang out, easy. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Protein needs, in a Red Pill dietYou're right about carbs pre-workout/activity for sure, thanks for the clarification. Carbs are good cheap fast burning fuel so they're great if you're going to burn them all off right away. What I should add is that describes about <1% of the average person's eating times. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/15 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Protein needs, in a Red Pill dietA good diet is expensive. Chicken and pork tend to be the cheapest sources of protein. Milk can be cheap depending on location [...] You didn't even mention eggs, the bread and butter of protein (plus bonus source of T building blocks). If you want convenience, high quality protein bars from Quest Nutrition can be had for about $2 per bar for 20g of whey isolate (about a chicken breast worth). They've also got about 18g of prebiotic fiber and <5g carb per bar and come in like 25 flavors. Not the… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 05:34 PM |
| 1 | A small compendium of concrete manipulation techniquesI agreed with you at first, but here's another perspective: what purpose do you, senior employee who is not in HR, have to ask to see theirs? The junior employee had a purpose, whereas you are simply curious. I wouldn't be surprised if junior employee also felt uncomfortable about saying no to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 07:44 AM |
| 2 | In a rare moment of honesty, AskWomen admits they are disgusted/insulted by beta guys asking them out.On top of everything else, the 60/40 principle still applies: peoples' reaction to you is 60% them, 40% you. I think I learned about it from an RSD video, but it's written about here: http://www.thesocialman.com/why-your-conversations-are-falling-flat/ In Fearless I coined the 60/40 Principle of Human Reaction which states that when interacting with a woman (or anyone, really), 60% of her actions (or reactions) are based on factors that were present before you ever walked into her life and facto… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 04:38 AM |
| 2 | Am I the only one around here not attracted to sluts and easy-lays?I wish I could get Marriage 1.0 and I'm not that turned on by going out to meet sluts to get my rocks off with, though I do enjoy finally being capable of doing it. I don't like the normalcy of regular STD testing and having to get Plan B (that post-break/slip talk is never fun), destroying condoms to prevent sperm-jacking, etc. In the hierarchy of women per the other day's thread, I mainly keep "cum-dumpsters" around because I haven't been able to attract hot enough women to put in effort yet. … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/15 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Smurfettes and BetasI believe that engineering workplaces and unbalanced coed housing situations can easily give birth to a smurfette, who was not and did not plan to become one. When a smurfette is born she immediately starts collecting all the orbiters into her own beta harem and excommunicating those who do not live up to the standards of her matrix (see female social matrix, or FSM). | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/15 09:24 PM |
| 4 | What is an "Alpha Widow," and why does it matter?Very true, it needs alpha pilots and I'm not arguing with that. I'm somewhat just venting my shitty experience since I can't talk about it with many people. But the whole experience made me reflect on what 'being alpha' means and I, like many red pillers, probably over emphasized the dominance aspect a little bit in the beginning. I now emphasize not standing out at work as somebody who people would personally envy, which means not appearing too excellent in any way except as directly related to… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/15 06:35 PM |
| 7 | What is an "Alpha Widow," and why does it matter?Yea, and you shouldn't be able to get a DUI riding a bike or sleeping in your car, but you can and it happens all the time. The world can be fucking dangerous for anyone who steps out of line even a little bit. I imagine the rigid legal and HR system (driven by legal) combined with the increasingly draconian laws on everything will cause people who rock the boat to do so closer and closer to the edge of acceptable legal risk, which shrinks as laws expand. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/15 06:24 PM |
| 12 | What is an "Alpha Widow," and why does it matter?The video game boys generation that never wakes up, although sad, will only make fit, learned, fashionable guy all the more valuable. I feel like I have a mark on my back walking around fit and fashionable in my workplace, and have started dressing down and having shittier posture sometimes to blend in with the other engineers. I was fired from a job recently when some beta male coworkers threw me under the bus after I showed them texts from a plate begging me to come fuck her while we were out … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/15 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Reading TRP makes me depressed, if it's the truth then it makes me hate everyone.Quite the opposite for me, for a reason that nobody else has mentioned yet. As many others have said already, it's brought me a new sense of empathy and increased my happiness in many of the same ways, so I'll skip that. But what it has given me is a logic to which I can apply my well tuned reasoning abilities. If you think about the brain as a symbolic execution machine, it has certain thought patterns that apply to symbols with certain relationships. We're conditioned and play back patterns th… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/15 08:22 PM |
| 1 | I'm laughing so hard right now. This shit actually works!By quantity you didn't text much, but I think what he's saying is you set yourself up as a texter by being conversational. Now if she texts with friendly banter the stage is set for you to reply or have her get a twinge that you're gaming or losing interest. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 05:35 AM |
| 2 | FR: My first experience in the SMP as a high-SMV RP-noviceHidden moral of the story: if you look like a fat sweaty loser and won't lift, get a room back stage so you can pull. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/15 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Why do you care about spreading the "gospel" of TRP so much? It's because you're not Dark Triad.I care about being surrounded with winners, not spreading any gospel. The world is plugged in and winners with RP outlooks are made more than born, at least in my current social rung. I want to climb the latter. I need a team of specialists to win big at life with, and I can't fucking stand pussy men anymore day-to-day no matter how skilled they are. I want to spend my days interacting with masculine men, so I'll try to build people I see value investing in. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/15 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Is Shit Testing Really Inherent in Human Nature?Recently I caught myself shit testing the fuck out of my buddy's buddy, this guy was drenched in beta. To the point where the waitresses were being friendly and got a sick look as soon as he opened his mouth about girl problems and started talking about taking time to finally level up in some MMORPG. I ignored the waitresses from then on and just creamed this guy all night, caught myself doing it because it was so hard. Anyway, he proved to be a really cool (yes, extremely NICE) guy and we got a… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/15 01:40 PM |
| 1 | The Cult of Feminism & It's Fabrication of HistoryShit. I've been using using a VPN to obscure my TRP traffic for a while, scary to think that in 100 years the Nazi party rose and fell and became a flicker in the collective psyche... just 14 years from founding to Hitler taking office in 1933 and shit going down from there. The VPN covers my ass from whatever network I may be on when I browse, but with the rise of big data and cheap storage and the Snowden NSA leaks, imagine what could be 20 years over the horizon of the next big 'scare' or thr… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/15 01:10 PM |
| 3 | Are Feminized Socialites Headed For Ruin?This is a significant ROI loss, not only in the women who leave but in the men who have a harder time entering and lacking early advancement in their fields of work. This never convinced me fully, the point that caught me was that we waste space in vital professions where there is a limited admittance due to limited instructor availability--namely medicine. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 05:16 AM |
| 3 | RPers in LTRs - What made you settle?But then she said that she fell in love with me because she saw right through my games. And behind the asshole role I like to portray myself in, she was actually in love because deep down she likes how non materialistic I'm am, how I like simple things, how I'm down to earth and human and the fact that I volunteer a lot. Stop for a second. Of course she says she loves beta bear. How do you think the programming starts? Now you're going to be seeking more pats on the head for being such a nice gu… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 04:15 AM |
| 3 | Women live in the momentClear post, thanks. I'd like some more info about the amygdala and sensory circuitry if you have it on hand, that sounds pretty fascinating. From an evolutionary standpoint this fits perfectly with the idea that women would have to adapt quickly and learn to "love" (ie. be attracted to) the men who pillaged and killed all the men in the village they lived in, and took them as bounty. If they resisted too much or tried to escape they'd not have lived to carry the baby to term, so adapting quickly… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 02:28 AM |
| 1 | "Social Skills" as feminist brainwashingYes, to the same extent I hold myself hostage. If I hear a text I finish what I am doing and go check it rather than letting the phone have top priority. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 01:19 AM |
| 1 | "Social Skills" as feminist brainwashingSometimes, I start texting mid conversation to put the pressure on and make the woman try harder to impress me. This is just being a dick to anyone. The eye contact part is probably what's helping. But as far as my breaking social norms for success, I do the opposite and make girls put their phones by my door and lead by example by never touching it while I'm out. They know that it's because I value presence and are into it. When they start touching it or forgetting to put it down when they come… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 12:47 AM |
| -3 | I Think Women Sharing You the Painful Story of Their Sexual-Romantic Past is a Shit Test, No Matter How Intimate Your Ambiance IsA plate mentioned the death of one of her parents to me recently. I said I was sorry to hear it, basically responded in an HR-approved way to somebody offering too much personal information. Didn't ask about if she's OK or anything, figured she'd offer anything she wanted to offer. I felt shitty for not getting personally involved in comforting her, but TBH I would respond that way to anyone except a close friend or family member who I know well these days. Past "nice" me would have tried to hel… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 12:23 AM |
| 6 | Flake Prevention TipsIs first base making out? You shouldn't do that 'till logistics are right to get her home and you're going to get the lay OR it was a very good date from both ends. She probably needs to see you as boyfriend material, or she will wonder why you didn't just fuck her. If she's not invested enough, the logic goes that she'll have gotten the bulk of the validation she needs early enough that she doesn't need a second date; what might be described as "the mystery is gone." | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/14 03:35 AM |
| 11 | FR Choking Wife During SexSimilar, I have 100% overwhelming success rate with choking. I basically now take it for granted that all women are turned on by it outside duty sex. I say this because I know that even an LTR ex during my beta period admitted to it and was the first to ask me to choke her a couple years ago--not that I admitted to liking it back then, I was programmed to think it was pretty sick. I don't strangle the shit out of them or anything, but even ONS lays are immediately into light choking. I go the si… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/14 03:18 AM |
| 3 | How to get with your "type" when it comes to women.Just giving examples, but generally applying outside the box thinking. What types of staff does it take to make sporting and music events happen? Photographers, limo drivers, high class event caterers and bartenders, security, etc. Some jobs might lend themselves to the interactions you're after more than others. The same thought processes should apply to attaining whatever you're after, even beyond women. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 08:19 PM |
| 16 | How to get with your "type" when it comes to women.Perhaps you've put the blonde pussy is on the pedestal and they sense it? What is it about blondes that you like? I found my taste for first generation asian and suburban republicans' daughters while I was in school are what I would now call being attracted to RPW traits or gender polarity. "A girl in a sun dress and a flower in her hair" has been my iconic description of what triggers me into suave seduction mode since high school. Over time I've identified with "east end boys, west end girls" … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 08:00 PM |
| 12 | What would you do if you were to get gaslighted? (Devil's Daughter)A little Google, dick, but here's what I found: How do you deal with gaslighting? lead to The Gray Rock method of dealing with psychopaths. The latter would be a quality top level post. I realize that some members are either still in relationships with psychopaths, or they cannot cut off contact completely because they have children with Ps, are dealing with legal issues, or are in danger of running into them accidentally. I read the following article from Lovefraud a few months ago. It's quite … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/14 07:51 PM |
| 3 | I have a female roomateThe problem sounds to me like you gossip too much. It sounds like you kill a lot of time together, and she's become familiar with you. Scarcity is a tool. Yes you're at home and need to unwind, understood. But if you're chatting that much, it sounds like you could stand to gain a hobby. Even if it's in common space that's fair (eg. drawing or sketching business plans at the kitchen table), and kids can make do-not-disturb-me-while agreements so she should be able to. If she can't that is a roomm… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/14 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Book recommendation for learning strategy?I just started reading HBR's 10 Must-read essays "On Strategy". I am only on the first, but it seems like a pretty technical discussion of strategy at a business level with examples. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/14 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Redditor's wife of 16 years has emotional affair with coworker, skips their anniversary dinner to spend time with said coworkerWhat kind of loser was OP when she took him in? What kind of loser was daddy? History tends to repeat itself, we follow the demons we know. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Need Advice on prevention of Onetities and attactmentI've recently landed I know it's a figure of speech, but think about what this is saying. You landed a relationship. You want her in your frame, but the metaphor says you went and entered some other frame. It's like "half empty" vs "half full"; minor difference but a reflection of the underlying outlook. Get her to fly to your island by having the best one in sight, and think of things more in that direction. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 04:35 PM |
| 3 | Why would anyone take advice about women from Kurt Cobain? He married Courtney Love!"If you think like this, you're going to end up getting manipulated, abused, and exploited by women who are beneath you, just like he did." Or worse yet, you'll end up totally neglected by women altogether, and dying alone, because no one gives a shit about how altruistic and egalitarian you are Male disposability right here. Perhaps this is part of the uphill battle of SMV lifting as well. As a shitty value-less beta male you don't have anything worth even punking you for so people leave you al… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 03:45 PM |
| 3 | How is life like in the USA for a high SMV man in his 30s?As a 5'6" guy about to hit thirty in a major US city, it's aiight. Similar situation as OP describes, six figure club, car, well dressed, well groomed, moderately outgoing at times. Started from negative game ability (feminist raised), somewhere in the positive now. This is the best I've ever done, I can pull about a girl a month when I am going out a lot. I get lots of interest but I'm awkward as fuck when I open my mouth, upping my game will improve things for quite a while to come. I still te… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 03:26 PM |
| 1 | [RANT STORY] What is wrong with me? Am i that hopeless..."damn, are you hungry or what?" is all I could think to say as I was reading that softcore IoI-fest... instadate to a steak house or what? Smash her in the car and eat a big steak afterward, even complies with Briffault's Law. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 06:13 AM |
| 51 | FR: I am too tired for SexDon't fear the shit tests dude. They are hard as fuck and I get twisted as often as not, but it's satisfying getting better at them. At least one or two books have even referred to them as a gift from women, keeping us sharp for the world that doesn't want us to pass like they do. Chicks don't shit test you if they don't want you to pass, though they might still punk you. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 05:50 AM |
| 50 | To women, compromise = lack of resolve = failed shit test = she goneStanding ovation dude. Thanks for the commentary about her coming around too, it's still shocking to me how well NOT giving them what they "want" can make them do a 180. Lesson between the lines: she wants what you want, despite what she "wants." Happy holidays, indeed! | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/14 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Do we have any female equivalent to Chivalry? It would be nice to have a counter to this article: "21 Lost Gentleman Traditions That Still Apply Today"Men and women are related symbiotically. They have different strengths and weaknesses that are both important for rearing a child. A stable separation of concerns has evolved though natural selection, as reflected by the survival and reproduction of offspring of successful breeders with those traits. So what does this have to do with chivalry? Men have some instinct to protect people in their tribe who are weaker, because tribes with men with that attribute and other like it succeeded while othe… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/14 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Do we have any female equivalent to Chivalry? It would be nice to have a counter to this article: "21 Lost Gentleman Traditions That Still Apply Today"Boom, headshot. I do nice things for lady-like girls who I come across without thinking or expectations. There is a male instinct that drives it, and if you are a lady that instinct is triggered pretty easily. The problem with feminists is they are vile and disgusting and don't trigger that instinct, half of what makes them disgusting is their complaining about being unattractive and not getting special treatment (the other half is just the being unattractive part). If instead of bitching these … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/14 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Every Player Has A Hating Women StageThanks for the reading list, very insightful post. I can tell just by reading my journals and stuff that unplugging is very much a periodic endeavor. This morning while I was walking back from the coffee shop I was thinking about how much "harder" life as an unplugged beta is than a plugged-in beta. Some weeks I can smash a couple chicks into my mattress and my erection never goes away, others I don't even feel confident enough to make plans and hit a girl up because my week has been going so ba… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/14 06:03 PM |
| 2 | why is red pill pua? why do you want western women?Label it what you want, but the red pill is most certainly useful in the art of seduction. Canned lines and the Mystery Method are stupid despite possibly working by playing numbers, but it's a consequence of what the red pill is. In software we have in order from fundamentals to application: principles, techniques, methodologies, and tools. RP is principles, "PUA" is everything built above it. It's hard to discuss principles without concrete discussions from the "field," so we do it here. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/14 05:40 PM |
| 3 | why is red pill pua? why do you want western women?Sometimes life gives you women you just won't or know you shouldn't mess around with for various reasons, but they're in your life. Room mates, lab partners, co-workers, cousins, SOs of friends, whoever; so you make lemonade. Don't do nice things for them more than you would for a guy friend, let them know you're choosing to not fuck them (flimsy reasons work, but true ones are better). American chick friends are good for catching glimpses of the game, and learning what sluts chicks are. I don't… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/14 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Stop being afraid of offending people.The message is lost with the response edit though, is my point. Instead of the natural progression which was very good, the reader (solipsistic me) is left hung up on a plea. I can make the decision to not read edits, but their actual purpose which is often also used is in describing what the edit was rather than as an addendum. That would be an "addendum:". | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/14 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Stop being afraid of offending people.Lol, you had to edit to appease the pussies? I enjoyed your post and was going to correlate some things, but then the edit crashed my thought train with comical irony on the tracks. Response edits and disclaimers come from the same position of weakness. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/14 06:21 PM |
| 1 | /r/science suddenly becomes aware of Dread game and is amazed and wants to explore moreAnyone tried this for getting plates in and out? Seems to kill two birds with one stone: dread, shelf life. When I had live-in LTR she always emptied me out first, but now that I am living single and in terms of plates and attempting fwbs I want that kind of short window where she knows exactly what it is. Starbucks for coffee and a bathroom break during lunch for example. I'd like that kind of device for use on Fridays where I just want to see some DJs, get fucked up, maybe catch some strange b… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 07:58 AM |
| 1 | How does one self-actualize?There is some merit to the front-loading approach, I use it as a matter of routine in my work (computer programming). I'll read 100s of pages of documentation, articles, and examples, and then just do something else for a few days and a coherent design will appear on my whiteboard one late night. I've done it since I was a teenager, but recently the creator of a relatively new programming language called it Hammock Driven Development. I think the idea can apply to anything that requires building… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/14 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Do NOT settle for monogamy with a chick who has willfully, happily been someone else's plate. You are getting a raw dealThen the argument in that case would be: "Most women are pieces of shit, they are not worth the time and effort." Fair enough. I'm glad I can agree with comments like this and not send angry tweets about myself these days. I'm happy that this phrase is MOST women though, while AWALT in their sexual strategy some of them actually come out of vagina side and are sweet, while trained. A man will never find a unicorn. The best he will get is a thoroughbred. That part alone is solid. The training par… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Redpill ideas for possibly activity indoors? Read on.Any kind of arts or crafts, cooking food, you could build a snow fort if everyone has proper clothing... come in to hot cocoa and take those wet clothes off, bonus if you have a fireplace or even a warm radiator you can sit around and listen to music after coming in. Cards Against Humanity, I'm not a gamer but this game can get anyone in the right mood. Careful with neighbors, they can be great social network enhancers because it's really easy to casually hang out and combine parties. You also c… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 06:53 AM |
| 1 | The Critical Importance of Legal Free-Market ProstitutionWhat motivation a prostitute would have to do that? And I can't imagine her keeping it if somehow she gets pregnant by mistake, and of course she'd have to be an idiot to not have and IUD and/or hormonal BC in addition to mandatory use of condoms. Maybe those scenarios have happened, but I can't buy this as an argument against prostitution. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 06:22 AM |
| 3 | Discipline eludes me, endeavour feels futile, I feel brokenm how do I escape this?I read a book once called The Six-Pillars of Self-Esteem and another called The Power of Now, I was going to suggest them for some ideas. Ultimately I still go through the same shit having read them though, but the vocabulary and ideas help me recognize things and ask questions. I was googling just now for quick summaries and came across this site that has some light criticism for Six-Pillars but it seems generally useful, here are some pages that seem to reflect things in your post: five primar… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/14 04:58 PM |
| 1 | The Critical Importance of Legal Free-Market ProstitutionI don't follow. If the prostitute decides to have her customer's baby it will make his wife upset? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/14 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Americans on TRP: How was your love/sex life in college like vs after it?I've experienced a gradient in life, I'm almost back to where I was in high school thanks to TRP... I'll start there: Very High-value Beta + 25% Alpha in high school - girls lined up to talk on the phone with me, 6-8s. I got handjobs when I wasn't such a pussy that I turned them down, and I turned down sex with two girls, I'd call them 4 and 5. The 4 is the nastist chick I've touched to date. I did serial monogamy with girls from the suburbs, never my city schools: 7, 6, 8, 8, then another 8 and… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/14 04:15 AM |
| 0 | Small successes, and they're all thanks to the red pill."Why are you being such a bitch?" And I hit the send button, I was half expecting her to get mad and half curious what the outcome would be. Her response was "I'm not." ... "Why are you ignoring me? Is it because I want you deep inside my ass? Is it because I want you so fucking badly right now" Holy shit, was she actually saying that? It pisses me off that this predictably works. I still have trouble believing shit like this and executing this type of plan, much less being natural at it. But I … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/14 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Plate feeling insecure when I send her home, critique and advise?2x per week is far too much and sends the wrong message. 1x per week is the max Noted. Like post-coital weakness, I also gave more because it was a 4 day weekend and I was legitimately relaxing 3 of 4 days with no set plans. So I wouldn't be surprised if this is also confusing her. Thankfully she'll be out of town for x-mas so I will get a natural break there. I'm not going to go extra silent on her, but I'll hold off seeing her 'till late next week and only once before she leaves. Thanks man ed… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/14 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Plate feeling insecure when I send her home, critique and advise?post coital laid back attitude, Nothing is sacred, is it? Thanks again for the spot checks man. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/14 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Plate feeling insecure when I send her home, critique and advise?Thanks, this seems sensible. You picked up on my endearments, have you successfully used such language? That more laid back tone seems unpopular in the world of TRP uber alphaz, but actually my logic is that I'm talking to her similar to how I would a little girl. She's been happy with it sofar, treats me like a king in bed as I treat her like my pet. I love doing it, even though it feels a bit weird still, she's the first one I've done it to. She's trying her best to girl-game you into somethin… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/14 10:45 AM |
| -1 | Plate feeling insecure when I send her home, critique and advise?I greatly appreciate your cynical and machiavellian thinking, but I hope you're wrong about at least some of it. I'm going to say I'm not worried about my tone or texting usage here (I address why in OP), OTOH I'm not too thick to cease and desist if she falls. The hour of extra time that she extracted, I see your logic absolutely and she has fished for free time before and failed every time, but I don't believe it was the case this time... that or I just learned a harder new tactic. In any case… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/14 10:04 AM |
| 2 | TIFU but not sure exactly how. I'd like some insights so I can analyze.Yes, beta trait overload. If you had a kick ass life with abundance you would have sent one text and moved on, I'd say some combo of #1 + 2. You'd then do something useful instead of write this Reddit post, like working on your career... or at least reading posting guidelines and posting situational questions to /r/asktrp. Pressing her about her partner count would normally be fucked up, but it sounds like she brought it up as a selling point and you righteously disputed it on principle--even th… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/14 12:29 AM |
| 1 | game changes as you ageA close friend of mine recently moved to China in part to catch a feminine woman there. I'm watching closely, I'm afraid of what you say because I had a nice homely midwestern girl and brought her to a liberal coastal and she took the shape of her new container. If mormons bring them back to UT or somewhere that is actually pretty RP they might have a chance; my boy just happens to be from UT actually, so it will be interesting if he bags one and brings her home. OTOH I wouldn't be surprised if … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/14 08:53 PM |
| 4 | You can never really win in life and love - which is why even guys that are successful with women are depressedNow why can't you ever be truly happy with a woman? Because you can never trust her the way that you want. The obvious answer here seems to be change what you want to be in line with the true nature of women, then you can be happy with a woman. I am actually MORE happy with the realization that AWALT because I get to spend less time thinking about it and worrying about harmless shit. I can't get mad or annoyed with bitches any more either, because all their dumb shit is actually their discoverin… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/14 08:11 PM |
| 11 | How to find out a girls real sexual history.Don't even ask, and lose interest if she starts telling you. Every lie she tells makes the next one easier, because it's easier to lie to people the less you respect them. Do you respect a person more or less after they buy a lie? No need to ask about things they will lie about if you believe AWALT. Actions mean more than words, so observe. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/14 11:41 PM |
| 4 | The most important resource you can give: TimeI am stingy as fuck about time, even to my boss... eg. I firmly suggest buy over build any day of the week, if the buy solution looks legit. Kind of unusual for a startup/open source minded software engineer from what I've seen. My rational is that my coworkers and I all cost the business at least $500/day to keep on staff and run these projects for them, why even squabble about a $200/mo license? This translates into dating as well, I straight up tell chicks I'm not going to waste time on flake… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/14 05:23 PM |
| 5 | Future of workforce and hypergamyThe reason why most men on TRP are against a woman making more money then them I believe you are mistaken here, the men of TRP aren't against women making more money than them but rather we accept that hypergamy prevents a woman from being attracted to a guy with lower sexual market value--eg. salary, prestige. So a high power woman will not be attracted to a lower power man in the normal case, whereas a lower power man will be attracted to a high power women if she is simply good looking; her p… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Without social status, no amount of 'redpill' will work for you.Still figuring it out, but starting to gain traction in month 7. Fake it, dress nice, put yourself out there a lot. Figure out what you like that involves other people, go and say hi to them. One of my recent replies has a list of stuff that's been working for me. Living with others has helped with social proof, even though I wasn't initially optimistic about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 06:06 AM |
| 1 | How the blue pill turned me into a misogynistDude, your post is almost me spot on, so let me just say persist in your endeavors and get used to feeling uncomfortable, it will get better. just over 2 years ago I broke up with last gf of 2 years we moved cross country together, after graduating uni together she did crazy red flag shit that I knew I should have run from before we even graduated, but was too thirsty and un-confident interesting guy with cool hobbies, but social anxiety lost a ton of weight (1/3 body weight), after gaining it w… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/14 06:06 PM |
| 1 | An ESPN Rant with too much truth...http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2014/08/21/bill-clinton-cigars/ | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/14 11:03 AM |
| 1 | The Colbert Report interviews Anita Sarkeesian on how women are victimised in video games. Gamergate has become a feminist rallying cry.demanding not how the fucking market works. demand -> supply? in any case, they can demand all they want, but they aren't entitled to a supply... if they open their wallets it might materialize. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 05:22 PM |
| 1 | American MothersThis is how I was raised, and how I ate until like two years ago (late twenties now). It was the norm among some of my friends, but others' parents wouldn't let them come over a second time. Fucking garbage. I have no anger phase with women, but if I had to be pissed I'd be fucking pissed at my family. But it's cultural so I can't really be that pissed at them either, they did "the best they could" given the expectations set for them--nowhere to be found. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/14 05:09 PM |
| 2 | My friend's a total beta and he's frustrated because he's not successful with girls - how do I help him?In his mind, how can you possibly give advice about dating? A gay guy isn't necessarily any more insightful about attracting women to date than a woman. Motives may be different, but think from his perspective. That's not to say you can't offer him things that significantly improve his chances with women or perhaps even real insight, but he has no reason to listen to dating advice from you. Life advice when he asks for it and leading by example are what I'd focus on. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/14 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Some tips to help you feel naturally goodGrass fed butter, holy yuppie fuck I need to try this. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/14 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Where do you normally take girls out for dates and how do you ask them?Studying sounds stupid from outside, but it is an amazing chance to show off your value. Don't do any work for them, but tutor them to whatever degree you feel your time is being invested well. Also keep in mind that too much time together will dry her up, so use it strategically (ie. when post study logistics are good, and you don't have to actually get much real work done). Teaching is a great way to learn also, so it benefits you as well. Girls love being taught shit and feeling smart, it ext… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/14 04:46 PM |
| 30 | "I'm 41, single and pregnant. Welcome to the new normal"Beta Bux will still be a necessary financing option until the bachelor tax is implemented. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/14 04:27 PM |
| 1 | It's Finally Happening: Japanese Company To Sell "Solo Weddings" For Post-Wall WomenI think is it or at least a quoted section, I remember the ending remark clearly "there's no competition from the father." Thanks man | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/14 02:40 AM |
| -6 | It's Finally Happening: Japanese Company To Sell "Solo Weddings" For Post-Wall WomenI read something recently that laid out the case that a lot of these guys are probably fucking / getting sucked off by their mothers. Father is away at work, kid is at home, both kid and mother have needs; mother may have started in high school at testing time, continues due to guilt/fear of blackmail/having become accustomed... I can't find it now, anyone know what I'm talking about? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/14 04:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you overcome poisonous/limiting beliefs that are affecting your happiness and success in life?It's all in the mind dude. Try having gratitude sessions to think about what you have going for you in life, and stretch your body out to full size. Then dive into situations in that positive mindset and experience rejection or more likely acceptance that way. If there is rejection it will never be about your race, it will be about a) 60% chance they are having a shitty day, or b) 40% chance it's something that you can improve upon the next time. Pretty soon your brain will have rewritten and be… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/14 12:55 PM |
| 1 | If you can control your need for sex, you win.For guys just starting out, my best recommendation is to completely let go of getting laid. For the next three months, you're voluntarily celibate. If you go to a bar, don't go out of your way to hit on women. This is shitty advice. Stop jacking off instead, make pussies and mouths and tits and ass holes and tramp stamps the target of your ejaculations. It might be 12-18+ mo of dry dick, but believe me, you will come out a fucking sex god when you finally start seeing some success. Keep trying t… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Where is the best place to meet women, in your opinion?Bro if you're talking about anything but bullshit on first dates you're doing it wrong. Why aren't YOU setting the conversation? Twist that bitch into your frame. "Red pilling"? What the fuck is that? Define for glossary, please. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 10:40 AM |
| 2 | The most unattractive trait of all: trying to attract a womanFWIW I have an anecdote from tonight. I was talking to a dude at my local brewpub after we both showed up and ate. I said "bon apetite" to him when both of our food showed up simultaneously (he was hunched over his phone previously). A bit later after we'd both finished eating, we got to chatting and I saw some reflection of my past self in him. He was excitable. The conversation with him was very interesting, but I could tell a less sympathetic or ecstatic person would have written him off quic… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 09:40 AM |
| 7 | The most unattractive trait of all: trying to attract a womanOP said everything he needed to say: And by the way, women fuck guys like that without them having to do much more than just walking up and saying hi It really is that easy. Beyond hi, just let nature take over. It knows what to do, don't listen to your brain at all. Recovering incel, never would have imagined. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 09:23 AM |
| 8 | The most unattractive trait of all: trying to attract a womanThey don't want to be your life, they want to be another goo filled hole quivering on you mattress. Or for you to be their ATM, but hopefully the former. But between that they are like kittens and like to be in a happy mood, which is accomplished by basically treating them like cats. Pet them, talk softly to them, tease them, kiss them in funny places, and then leave them alone with their iPhone while you go set up a date with your housemate's friend outside. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Take the Edge off the Anger Phase with Hanlon's RazorThanks dude, funny that this applies here. I read about this in software engineering years ago and it chilled me the fuck out about 'bad code', but I never caught its application to all the stuff in The Manipulated Man. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 04:15 PM |
| 1 | FR: Failed badly on second dateI wonder about this, I've fucked 2/2 girls after a particular process... both girls were new to the city so I gave them a pass and didn't raise issue, just played it cool: We plan to meet up / They bring a friend / The friend hangs out and interviews and shit tests a little bit / Friend steps away for a while giving isolation with date / I pass everything / The friend gets tired and leaves or falls asleep on my couch / I find a reason to go to my room / We fuck. That is 100% of my hookup culture… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 04:03 PM |
| 2 | FR: Failed badly on second date2 Don't bring along your taller, better looking, suaver, more charming friend when you're going out with a hot girl. I can hardly reconcile this in my head, because it seems insecure like covert mate guarding. I've not been in an LTR in my new city, but for dating sofar I shelter them from BP friends and my one certain BP but taller/suaver/better dressed/richer friend, because they do tend to take an instant liking to him as well. Do naturals worry about this, or is it just something for the tra… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 03:42 PM |
| 5 | [FR] I didn't have to be validated to have funSounds like you took your best option at the time, you saying you'd never fuck this bitch? Everything you say is true about going monk for a while, no doubt there. But you'd fuck her, don't give us this shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 07:20 AM |
| 3 | Testosterone and the decline of masculinityI ironically was out and ended up chatting with a porn actress last night after an adult haunted house. Said hello to her randomly, didn't know who she was at first but she revealed it a few min in. We talked about how I stopped watching porn and it made me get out in real life and interact with people. That is some meta nofap vindication right there. To brag, I'm 95% sure she was into me, or a good actress, but I didn't attempt a close since we mainly talked while her date was up getting her a … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 06:29 AM |
| 1 | MateguardingI'm uncharacteristically old and successful compared to the normal demographics of a few events I go to, dubstep isn't out of the question. As I get better dressed and improve my strength and body language, this kind of thing has happened to me a couple of times. Last night for example I was vibing with this girl for about 5 minutes and some guy comes up to me from behind like 'do you have the hots for the girl in white?' I looked him straight in the eyes with silence for about 5 seconds and wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 01:56 AM |
| 5 | [FR] First night out since taking TRPThis was the saddest realization for me about my BP friends. They're good people, but if I want to get my dick wet it just won't happen with them. They're /worse/ than useless most of the time, bumbling around and interfering with things that any RP newbie would not even fuck up. The tipping point was when a plate and I got two randos home, and the single BP guy we were with still fucked it up. In-celibacy is more contagious than Ebola, poor guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/14 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Sleeping over after sex ?Girls I want to spend the night with sometimes are nice. I don't want to spend the night with most chicks, in the same way as I generally don't want dudes crashing at my place. But a good friend, "come stay the weekend bro!" A drink too many? "fuck yea you can crash on my couch, let's get breakfast in the morning" That's how I see spending the night with women, just like spending the night with any other person. We might fuck and flirt instead of talk about cool shit, but the idea of giving time… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/14 05:48 PM |
| 6 | TRP and Mastering the Separation of Orgasm and EjaculationThis is very true, and I think the explanation is that the majority of us lack and need to cultivate our Dominance more than anything else. We're taught to be emotional and immersive, and most of us can offer reasonable variety in encounters (DEVI). All this is useful once you have a girl to build a relationship with, but to get women in the first place you basically need to dial up the dominance a few notches before you can start becoming aware of the others. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/14 05:13 PM |
| 1 | People do not want you to become AlphaI'm starting to be very quiet about all the self improvement I am doing, and I believe I am getting along far better with people as a result. I know part of it is I've already cut out a lot of the cancer so the average is better, but new people seem to enjoy the mystery and actionable trickle truth of self improvement more than just progress updates and factual explanations. I don't know what you're talking about with people, but try going stoic if you're not and see how their reactions change. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/14 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Handle sh*t tests from women the same way parents are advised to handle boundary testing from a bratty childThe approach I'm adopting is treating her like she's a bro-ski who is too drunk and might have a little chip on his shoulder. Probably won't make sense, definitely won't kick my ass, might be a bitch, probably just needs to go home and take a nap; act accordingly. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/14 08:30 PM |
| 5 | Finally took a chance, and I'm high off of the results.This is all you need, with good posture. I'm about 5'6" with shoes on and regularly attract girls who claim to be between 5'8" and 5'11". Funny thing is, a chick I met recently claims to be 5'8" but she feels like the tallest girl I've ever been out with. Why? Her grandma told her the best way to lose 5 pounds is to stand up straight, and she does. Posture. Nice work man. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/14 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you care if a plate is hooking up with other men?Another perspective is that in certain circumstances you are saving yourself trouble and time, like the case where she sleeps with one other guy who is a BB (my comment above says more). It might be the exception, but I was solely AF in my previous plate situation and it felt great. I heard their 3 minute duty sex through the walls sometimes... I chuckled and referred to him as chump when she mentioned him. Sounds sick as fuck, but that's a case where her sleeping with another dude doesn't imply… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/14 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Do you care if a plate is hooking up with other men?This was my last plate, it was awesome. She'd blow me up with texts and I ignored everything unless I was horny. She begged to suck my dick every day. Then she got a boyfriend who did all the boyfriend things and kept fucking me, but scaled back the texting except for dirty stuff. And would come over after dinner with him and fuck me. She was a 6/10 tops though, so it ended in nuclear option after ~4mo and her attempting to poison my well. Something about dicks and crazy, screen them hos. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/14 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Seeking comfort through discomfort (for new guise)when asked I just say the truth, "I wanted to come out and none of my friends were down"... maybe I didn't ask everyone I know, but I ask anyone I think will enjoy the evening, sometimes that's nobody. People, especially guys, seem to think it's pretty cool and we move on and and often exchange contact info (tho I usually don't follow up, I should more). | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/14 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Weekend Game Tip: Best Responses To “I Have A Boyfriend” | The Real Christian McQueenIn my recent experience, nothing turns a girl on MORE than thinking I might be seeing other girls, as long as I haven't lied to her. Cheating isn't what turns girls off, it's lying or breaking frame. Assure her she's not the only one but don't rub it in her face. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/14 09:59 AM |
| 1 | The number of partners before she's no longer considered LTR material.If you're considering a woman for marriage, the data says one or fewer for >50% chance of being together after 10 years: http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html Beyond that, I don't ask or judge. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/14 04:28 PM |
| 4 | Be A Closed BookBy asking she has revealed that she's evaluating you as a provider. Your goal is to not be put into that category. I tend to say something like "what would be your guess?" and take a hook from her answer to carry the conversation elsewhere. I've only done it a few times so I wing it beyond there. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/14 02:58 PM |
| 15 | A Red Pill take on "Why is men feeling entitled to sex is being discussed while women feeling entitled to friendship is not?"I think the proper response is to pretend she never said it or trivialize it, my personal favorite is "cute." Eg, I went out with a girl last week, met her when my housemate brought home for like 10 min a few weeks ago. I'd asked her out the previous two weekends via text (no small talk, pure request and logistics), called her this time but no answer so I sent a text: Me: "Just called to see what you're up to, getting dinner around 9... would like to meet up and chat more this week, thought you … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 02:51 PM |
| 2 | 8 reasons why New York women can't get married should be applied everywhere"I used to hook up with a lot of guys, a lot of casual sex, nothing serious, but now I want to take things slow and get to know a guy first." It's more fucked up that until now that logic would have resonated with me. I've heard it in the past and bought it, because "waiting gives you more time to get to know each other, which makes the sex better"... LOL. One more big limiting belief in the garbage can. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 03:42 AM |
| 78 | Why are hot girls more pleasant than ugly chick?Fat girls are insecure, it's the same reason a nasty slut doesn't like your commitment... they don't feel they deserve it, and believe any man who offers it is broken. Their low self esteem pisses the hamster off when it tries to reconcile somebody enjoying something they believe is ugly with intense passion (narcissism). | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/14 05:05 PM |
| 1 | A woman's capacity for orgasm depends not on her partner's sexual skill but on her subconscious evaluation of his genetic merits.What do you love about him? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/14 01:42 PM |
| 5 | Lost sixty pounds, went back to my college town to hang out with my friends, and bitches, bitches, bitches . . .I went through the same shit. Lost a bunch of weight, went full monk for almost a year while traveling and doing freelance work. Confidence was probably 2-3 notches too high, and lots of women started complaining like I creeped them out when I came back to civilization in a new city. I hate to say it, but dial it back a notch in public / at work, and around all but your closest bros... if you feel like you're saying too much, you are. It's a little stoic, but until your attitude and exterior mat… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/14 05:36 AM |
| 3 | Need First Date AdviceI do this basically to the T and notice the same boost. I'm not getting laid much, so I clean the pipes strategically every 2-3 weeks, usually on a Monday night... I notice a slump after masturbation that I don't seem to get after sex, so the idea is I release back pressure and still start my week with mojo and should have some built back up by the next weekend. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/14 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Beware the newest male liberation shame tactic: The Peter Plan ComplexIt's not reasonable to assume people can acquire a new skill and find a job using it over the course of a few weeks or even months. If it's a terminal thing, then yea absolutely, but not over the relatively short time frame of most recovery (but too much for many jobs). The time might be well spent acquiring those skills if possible, sure; but it's unreasonable to assume somebody can become temporarily ill/injured and decide to learn web development to sustain themselves in the short term. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/14 08:39 PM |
| 1 | The Sex God Method: Sexual Denial, Sexual Satisfaction, and the meaning of "Rape"I discovered this when I tried a stimulant a couple times... pretty much the perfect storm for sex god at the time. Full immersion, fair level of emotional connection, plenty of variety throughout the weeks, and the added dominance I don't naturally exert. Coming home from parties late a few nights a month jacked up added that vitamin D to the EVI. I won't be doing that again, but adding dominance to my encounters since then has been well received. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/14 07:56 PM |
| 2 | The Sex God Method: Sexual Denial, Sexual Satisfaction, and the meaning of "Rape"Thanks for the refresher. Met a girl last night, all I can picture is her spraying cum all over me, and that is what I will be picturing when I call her this afternoon >:]... DEVI is a useful thing to remember. I came up with a mindset a few days ago that's been pretty useful: "I don't have to appreciate her tits while I'm fucking her, plenty of time for that after." I want plates who are fun to spend a couple hours with in bed once every couple weeks, so it should polarize me for the right type… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/14 06:24 PM |
| 0 | What do you consider to be the hallmark of a healthy LTR?Things that have worked are in the vein of making her know she's 3rd priority. Self, career, women. I'm finding that in my life friends and hobbies fall into self and career. I'm an artistic engineering guy, most of my friendships come from spending time working on something together. I wasn't consciously doing it at the time, it was true. I realize it now because Patrice O'Neil talks about it explicitly. I've had some girls completely whipped even back in my BP days, and they've known that if I… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/14 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Your Posture helps (or degrades) your confidence, and hence, masculinity.1000% true. I'm a 5'6" guy, so my invisible suit activates automatically if I slouch. But when I stand up straight I get plenty of smiles from girls and deference from guys. I also use the reverse hack of standing in a power pose for a couple of minutes if I notice myself closed and feeling anxious... amazing the mood-body connection there. Things that can work against good posture are ill-fitting clothes and not getting enough sleep, fix those too. Guys who stand in the guarded poses are betray… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/14 02:32 PM |
| 1 | My Greatest MotivationThis is a good initial source of motivation, but after a year and a half of major transformations you may start to plateau and lose motivation. It really should be from an internal source, proving others wrong is an external factor that you don't have control over. Source: my social circle is almost completely new, and nobody knows that I haven't always been like I am now. They're shocked when I show them my transformation photo albums, I've only showed a few actually. The vast majority of girls… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/14 03:00 PM |
| 18 | Female Progressive Ideals are Breaking my GirlfriendPro. I'm going to remember it like this: "marriage, kids, career: each partner pick two." | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 10:22 PM |
| 1 | An Indiana University Southeast student is getting attention for her advocacy of an International Castration Day to reduce the male population to 10%I've seen a cheese movie version of Atlas Shrugged and enjoyed it, despite it getting horrid reviews. I'm currently reading the Fountain Head and it is beautiful and poetic, yet the world is RP. Highly recommended, and I shall go for Atlas Shrugged as my next fiction book (1-2 per year, so not for a while). | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 08:04 AM |
| 1 | An Indiana University Southeast student is getting attention for her advocacy of an International Castration Day to reduce the male population to 10%Why should she apologize for what she's written? freedom of speech, let's not go playing like feminist tone police social justice warriors. Considering the truth of AF/BB, we should either go back to patriarchy or eliminate the miserable bottom 90% of men who spend their miserable life in their crab bucket with a dry dick anyway. Everyone would be better off. To be frank and politically incorrect, as I approach the 10% threshold I see a world with 10% males as somewhat utopian rather than dystop… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Apart from the The Red Pill were there any other areas in your life where you tried anti-herd, sacrilegious advice and it worked?I have been ahead of so many curves and succumbed to the crab bucketing and cock sure ignorance of others, only to watch others realize (and capitalize on) the vision years later. I'm dirt broke and have done almost nothing of note in my life, except being discouraged from doing all those successful things and quitting. TRP brought my spirit back, and I intend to make this life count. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Monday Field Report Thread 9/8/14I met a girl like 8 years ago. She's gotten in touch with me a number of times over the years, but I've never been able to do more than meet up at coffee shops or occasionally go hiking/cycling together. I think she's always found me at least marginally attractive overall, but probably dries up after getting to know me each time. I've consistently been a mega pussy about dating/sex, except this time. Still working on it, but I'm closer to functional these days. This time though, she came to visi… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/14 04:47 PM |
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